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Speaker 1: Am I the ahip for telling my brother in law

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Speaker 1: that I wouldn't sleep with him even if my life

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Speaker 1: depended on it in front of his family and friends.

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Speaker 2: The question is, why would you say that? Why do

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Speaker 2: you have to say this?

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Speaker 1: Why do you have to say it in front of

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Speaker 1: his family and friends? What did he do to make

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Speaker 1: this happen?

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Speaker 2: There's something below the surface here for sure.

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Speaker 1: I twenty four female and got proposed to two months ago.

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Speaker 1: My fiance, Jacks Jacks twenty eight male, has a younger

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Speaker 1: brother has a younger brother, Jacob twenty three male, who

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Speaker 1: I went to college with. When I was in college,

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Speaker 1: I slipt around a lot and was pretty well known

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Speaker 1: for that.

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Speaker 2: Let's it go there a. Yeah, I'm just like playing

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Speaker 2: out poutang owding it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I love it. My fiance knew this, and so

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Speaker 1: did his brother. Jacob was a bit of a jokester,

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Speaker 1: so he liked to bring it up frequently at family gatherings, birthdays, holidays,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. My fiance and his family often told him

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Speaker 1: to stop when they saw I was uncomfortable with it,

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Speaker 1: Which makes sense, bro?

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Speaker 3: Is it like that only makes the most sense in

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Speaker 3: the world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you don't just say like, oh haha, you

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Speaker 1: slept with a lot of people before my brother.

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Speaker 3: Imagine if literally your sister. It's like everyone at a

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Speaker 3: family gathering and you like, man, Sam was slaying in

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Speaker 3: that thing, and you sayla, like one of your parents crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty pretty bonkers. Last night, it was Jacob's

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Speaker 1: birthday dinner, Me and my fiance, A lot of his friends,

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Speaker 1: and a few younger family members were there. Jacob started

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Speaker 1: getting more drunk and started cracking some unfunny jokes. Some

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Speaker 1: included him saying how he was surprised I never took

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Speaker 1: the chance to sleep with him in college.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, bro.

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Speaker 1: Is this he? I think this guy's just trying to

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Speaker 1: get laid. Really, Gez, that's the one by his brother's wife. Terrible.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to get some sleeping with my brother's life.

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Speaker 2: God insane.

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Speaker 1: Being fed up and a little bit drunk, I told

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Speaker 1: him I wouldn't sleep with him if my life depended

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Speaker 1: on it. There we go, shut it down, Shut it down.

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Speaker 1: He got pissed and kept silent. The dinner was awkward

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Speaker 1: for the rest of the time. My fiance said, and

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Speaker 1: some of his family said, I didn't do anything wrong,

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Speaker 1: and they've even been waiting for me to tell him that.

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Speaker 1: This morning, I woke up to text from Jacob's friends

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Speaker 1: telling me I'm a whore and a bitch. Jesus, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I did anything wrong, but my friend requested

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Speaker 1: that I post this on here to get some outside opinions.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 3: So okay, So when you're a guy, or like you're

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Speaker 3: the person the brother or like his brother's friends or whatever,

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Speaker 3: and the brother's doing something as Laine is saying like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm surprised you didn't sleep with me, and constantly saying

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Speaker 3: how much you slept with other guys, and then she

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Speaker 3: says that and then used to call her a bit

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Speaker 3: or a horror. You're literally the whackiest, lamest dude on

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Speaker 3: planet Earth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's so in seally.

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Speaker 2: That is the lamest thing ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know, I just like to tell this

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Speaker 1: little brother right now, like that is not how you

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Speaker 1: get the ladies like you.

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Speaker 2: You know, dude, if you want to sleep with somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is not the way to do it.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: Step one, expand out of your brother. Yeah, your brother,

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Speaker 3: expand the circle beyond family.

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Speaker 1: Beyond your brother's wife, and then maybe you'll have a

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Speaker 1: little bit easier of a time, and then just don't

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Speaker 1: be a d bag. I think that's my second one.

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Speaker 2: Oh shude, big d bag energy