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Speaker 4: I've not remember picture.

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Speaker 3: Remember one who is I'm on her dating profile? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hey, I don't yeah, I'm okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm on my way to work and I was listening

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Speaker 1: I mean, the last person I tried to date I

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Speaker 3: This is how it works every time, Yeah, Rufio, would.

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Speaker 3: I love you just the way you are.

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Speaker 1: But you're the one that wants to go to the

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Speaker 3: That's you. That's your life, Kiki, that's what you want

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Speaker 1: That is me. Someone said, do we have an illustration

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Speaker 2: Yes, and you are a superhero.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't generous enough in the growing area for

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Speaker 2: Deer blog, I need all the gas station war workers

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Speaker 2: attendant to the people who create them to listen up, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I really stretched that sing out. But luckily I made

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Speaker 3: Well, kidgie.

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Speaker 1: And another thing is why why is Maria Manuno is always

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Speaker 3: There's more stocks's got to make.

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Speaker 2: Well they need to take them questions out of my.

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Speaker 1: the star of my liquid dreams. I mean we were

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Speaker 1: all as young people singing songs. We had no idea

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Speaker 1: what they meant. But we'll get to that tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: Fun Factor more Fred's Show next right here, Fred Show

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Speaker 6: is on Friend's Fun Fact so much.

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Speaker 3: Guys, did you know?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that the blob of toothpaste on your

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Speaker 1: toothbrush has a name? Did you know that, taking guess

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Speaker 1: as to what it might be, the blob of toothpaste

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Speaker 1: on your toothbrush has a name, Jason.

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Speaker 3: Bob bloblet, A bloblet of toothpaste, a blob lit. I

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Speaker 3: like that.

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Speaker 1: It's actually called a nerdle. And there was once a

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Speaker 1: lawsuit over which toothpaste company had the right to portray it.

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Speaker 1: But you notice like it's perfect in the ads. It's

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Speaker 1: always got.

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Speaker 3: That like curving. Yeah exactly, I don't know how to

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Speaker 3: do that. But it's called a nerdle.

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Speaker 1: The blob of toothpaste on your toothbrush is called a nerdle.

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Speaker 3: Now you know? Use that today? Impress all your friends.

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Speaker 5: Ben if it's from the end of this tube or

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Speaker 5: the beginning of the tube, it doesn't specify.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter more. Fread show, next.

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Speaker 5: Show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they talk better than they.

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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show like

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Speaker 1: a grade school teacher. Can you put your phone down

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Speaker 1: for just a second, Like we're writing in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: except we say them alive. We call them blogs. Caitlin's

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Speaker 1: got one good your blog? Or are you on your phone?

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Speaker 4: I'm not right now.

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Speaker 1: I just I just wonder if you're paying attention. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you your focus.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: For sure.

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Speaker 7: Today I'm focused, but sometimes I'm not. The day same

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Speaker 7: you know, everybody days. So I was kind of fighting

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Speaker 7: for my life yesterday. So my eating schedule was like

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Speaker 7: a little bit off, like and I think ours is

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Speaker 7: probably because we wake up so early and we eat

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Speaker 7: at weird times. Happy hour starts sometimes right after the show.

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Speaker 7: You just never really know. And so I ate a

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Speaker 7: very early what I was hoping was going to be

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Speaker 7: my dinner, you know, And I felt like I was

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Speaker 7: like a fitness influencer. I'm like, I'm gonna eat early.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna feel like skinny tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: I want to digest for a while before you sleep,

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Speaker 1: because you're not supposed to eat, and then go to sleep,

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Speaker 1: which is what we typically do.

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Speaker 7: Literally, that's what I do all the time. I'm like,

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Speaker 7: you know, i'm skinny, I'm whatever. And I was feeling good, okay,

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Speaker 7: So then you know, eight o'clock rolled around, had already

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Speaker 7: brushed my teeth, put in my very adorable retainers because

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Speaker 7: I ground my teeth, and I was like, I'm going

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Speaker 7: to bed, I'm feeling good. Might have had a little

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Speaker 7: bit of the devil's life us, which might have been

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Speaker 7: the issue. And I started thinking about mac and cheese,

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Speaker 7: you know, and the thought just popped in and I said,

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Speaker 7: get out of there, Get out of there.

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Speaker 4: We're tired, We're going to bed.

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Speaker 1: We already brushed our teeth retainers.

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Speaker 4: Already, yet, we were already in our jammis. We were

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Speaker 4: going to bed.

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Speaker 7: I had my podcast queued up that I fall asleep too,

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Speaker 7: and then I just for a half hour laid there

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Speaker 7: and fought with myself. It was me versus me about

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Speaker 7: whether or not we were going to get up ruin

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Speaker 7: the teeth brushing, eat before bed and undo all the

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Speaker 7: good work we had done that day and who won

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Speaker 7: the mac and cheese. Yeah, the mac and cheese one.

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Speaker 7: I also ate a tortilla and some saltines.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is the Devil's lettuce. It's the least handed cigarette.

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Speaker 1: This student compelation was that, but because she was high.

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Speaker 1: That's why this is what I have the same issue

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Speaker 1: hypothetically if I were to utilize the Devil's lettuce. But

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Speaker 1: I'll do the same thing. Eat. I'm all set, I

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Speaker 1: was done, right, and then I brushed my teeth, get

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Speaker 1: in bed, like we're done eating now, Guinea legend, No, nope.

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Speaker 1: And it was just like Munchy's kick in and then

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Speaker 1: and then it's like Kalin, you just find whatever.

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Speaker 3: You got, Yeah, what what do you got? Not much?

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Speaker 3: Not much? If it's really desperate and I have to.

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Speaker 1: Go like outsource again, like I've had it happen where

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Speaker 1: I eated like five o'clock, six o'clock and then I'm

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Speaker 1: like going to bed at eight eight thirty and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: damn it, and there's no food in the house. Because

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Speaker 1: you know my attitude about food, I'll eat it then

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Speaker 1: before long, like get something else.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's bar I was just I was just

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Speaker 7: like a little sewer rat and you're just eating whatever

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Speaker 7: you could find.

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Speaker 3: I know the feeling.

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Speaker 7: But I laid there looking like an a hole, just

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Speaker 7: staring at the ceiling, just fighting with myself.

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Speaker 3: Did you eat all this in bed? Though?

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Speaker 4: No, I actually did it. You'd be proud of me.

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Speaker 7: Usually I bring it back to bed and just get

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Speaker 7: little crummies everywhere. But no, I went to the kitchen

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Speaker 7: stood up like like a person, like an rale. I

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Speaker 7: ate standing up, yeah, because I was like, you know,

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Speaker 7: we're gonna lose one battle. We're not losing two where

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Speaker 7: you're not eating in bed. And then I fell sleeping

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Speaker 7: out brushing my teeth.

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Speaker 3: Oh see, and I have.

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Speaker 4: One button unbuttoned and my jeans today.

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Speaker 2: Well, you had good intentions, though I tried. That's all

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Speaker 2: that matters.

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Speaker 3: That's all right, Yeah, that's all right. Was the mac

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Speaker 3: and cheese fire. It was free?

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Speaker 1: It right, It always is, Yeah, I can. I've never

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Speaker 1: related to anything you've ever said more than what you

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Speaker 1: just said. Nothing, not one thing, all of that that

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Speaker 1: touched me in a very special place.

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Speaker 3: I'll have you know. Waiting by the phone is next.