1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Ex girlfriend broke up with me after she caused me 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: to lose my leg in an accident, but now she 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: wants to get back together after I got a prosthetic leg. 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 2: Okay o P. This is okay o P. I'm saying, 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: ol Donner. Now I'm John Fry, and we tell the 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 2: funniest stories on the internet. And and and and and 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 2: and and and and and and and and and and 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: and the freaking. 9 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 3: Baby sweet sweet getting story ready because here we go. 10 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 2: All right, we got a story that we're gonna be cruising, 11 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: and we're gonna be catching those pearly waves, those beautiful blues. 12 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: And I got a store you, John, I am ready. 13 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: Ex girlfriend broke up with me after she caused me 14 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: to lose my leg in an accident, but now she 15 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: wants to get back together after I got a prosthetic leg. 16 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 3: You know, just just two reasonable people doing reasonable things. 17 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 2: Yes, isn't that reddit? Just reasonable people interacting? 18 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 3: Like picking up an apple at the grocery store. You know, 19 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: you lose a leg, she hates you. You get a leg, 20 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 3: and she wants you back. You know, it's it's par 21 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 3: for the courses. 22 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 2: They now wondering what kind of leg that is. I 23 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 2: must have been some fancy leg to bring that lady 24 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 2: back into something we di leggy, Oh what you're doing 25 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: that third leg baby. In twenty nineteen, I got into 26 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 2: a car accident and injured my left leg severely. My 27 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend was the one driving and was the one 28 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: responsible for the accident because she was fighting with me 29 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: and yelling at me in the car over a minor issue. 30 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I advise her to either stop fighting 31 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 2: or stop driving, but she was reckless and didn't care 32 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: that she was risking not only my life but hers 33 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: as well. I suffered for months because of my leg. 34 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: I had a severe infection resulting in amputation and had 35 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: to use assistant tools to be able to move. My 36 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend became distant and my parents were my main careers. 37 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: Her treatment towards me took one hundred and eighty degree turn. 38 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 2: Suddenly I wasn't good enough for her anymore, and at 39 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: some point she started comparing me to other fully functional guys, 40 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: claiming I wasn't the problem, It's just her low self esteem, 41 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 2: and so she was required to look for a partner 42 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: that was better looking and had financial stability and more 43 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: than one leg to stand on. H like what I know. 44 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: She made my trauma all about her and how being 45 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: with a guy with one leg affected her self esteem. 46 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: And imagine the pain that she'd have to go through 47 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: being in front of someone like that. 48 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 3: Imagine having won freaking leg. 49 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,679 Speaker 2: She broke things off with me and her relationship was 50 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: supposed to end that day, but I foolishly spent months 51 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: and months begging and convincing her that we were meant 52 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: to be together. I even promised her that I do 53 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: all I can to be able to walk again and 54 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: reminded her of the plans we had together. And I 55 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: hated myself for it. My self esteem was almost non existent. Ope, 56 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 2: you gotta let her go, let her fly, let it go. 57 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 3: And now poor oh pe self esteem is Yeah. 58 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: I was dealing with PTSD on top of that. I 59 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 2: afked up and resorted to medication to ease the pain. 60 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 2: Therapy was on and off for me because I get 61 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 2: extremely agitated at the mention of my ex girlfriend. It 62 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: took time for me to be able to talk things 63 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: out properly. I was so stupid thinking she was the one, 64 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: and it only got worse when I became convinced that 65 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: no one would accept me and my disability, since it's 66 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: the reason my relationship with my ex girlfriend ended. My 67 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: parents luckily helped so much. They and a few of 68 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: my friends supported me to get through this tough time. 69 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: After seeing my overall health decline in the past six months, 70 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: I was given the opportunity to be able to walk 71 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: again after getting a prosthetic lake. It's long overdue, but 72 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: money was the main problem. And now that I'm better, 73 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: my health is getting better. My mental health has improved. 74 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: It was long overdue, but money was the main problem then. 75 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: But now that situation is better and I'm better. Now 76 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: my health is getting better, my mental health has improved, 77 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: and I've gained more self confidence. 78 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 3: It's good to hear. 79 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's good. O Pie's on the up and up. 80 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 2: O Pie's on the up and up. My ex girlfriend 81 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: reached out to one of my friends wanting to talk 82 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 2: to me about getting the prosthetic and bettering my health. 83 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: My friend was like a messenger between us, but I 84 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 2: kept her in the dark, so she knows nothing more 85 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 2: than my friend knows. M I add I made it 86 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 2: clear that I have no intentions to speak to her 87 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: or discuss my health with her. My friend was respectful 88 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: and stopped speaking to her about me. She visited my 89 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: mom last week and left her number with her, expecting 90 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: me to call. I was stunned that she was talking 91 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: to my mom, and my mom told me that my 92 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: ex with out of town, it was low contact with 93 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: everyone and couldn't check in on me despite wanting to. 94 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 2: My mom told me the reason my ex never visited 95 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: me was because she was out of town, in low 96 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 2: contact with everyone, and couldn't check in on me despite 97 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: wanting to out of town. Out of town, where are 98 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: you going? She said? I've never left her mind, and 99 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: she was feeling happy and excited for my experience with 100 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 2: my new prosthetic right now. She was waiting for me 101 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: to call so we can get together and talk. But 102 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 2: I didn't feel comfortable with that idea. Yeah, I gotta say. 103 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 2: I felt nostalgic and wanted to call her number a 104 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: few times, but some part of me said that it 105 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 2: wasn't a good idea to do. So it's been a 106 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: week and I didn't call her. I'm not sure if 107 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 2: I still have feelings for her. My family thinks I 108 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 2: should talk to her, after all, we've known each other 109 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 2: for seven years. It's clear she wants to connect, but 110 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 2: I don't think this is what I want. Should I 111 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: talk to her? What do you think? John? 112 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: No, don't talk to her. 113 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 2: She broke up with you about. 114 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 3: Your leg, dude. She's clear, like something is wrong with her, 115 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,559 Speaker 3: and for god knows what reason. Now that he's back 116 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 3: with a leg, she's like wanting to run back there. 117 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, if you can't take me with one leg, 118 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 2: you don't deserve me at two mm. Yeah take that, 119 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: But you know what you should always take with you 120 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: your pals. 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