1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Welcome back to she Pivots. I'm Carla Hall. 2 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: Welcome back to she Pivots, the podcast where women share 3 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 2: bold career moves and personal turning points that changed everything. 4 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: I'm your host, Emily Tish Sussman. Some people tiptoe into reinvention, 5 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: but some people, like today's guest, burst through the door 6 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: with a who do who. In this episode, we're hearing 7 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: from the incomparable Carla Hall. Chef, entrepreneur, author, performer, Emmy 8 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: Award winning TV host, and a pure force of joy. 9 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: Carla had an unconventional path to culinary stardom. Before Top Chef, 10 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: before the Chew, before the many successful cookbooks, Carla was 11 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: a CPA at Price Waterhouse who very quickly realized that 12 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: spreadsheets were not her destiny. So she pivoted. She moved 13 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: to Europe to model where Sunday Suppers sparked inspiration. At thirty, 14 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: she enrolled in culinary school and started a career in 15 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: cooking with love. Now, at sixty one, she's launching a 16 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 2: platform for women fifty plus and taking the stage with 17 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: her one woman show, Please Underestimate Me. This conversation is joyful, honest, 18 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: and deeply empowering and It's proof that sometimes the boldest 19 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 2: pivot starts with trusting your gut. This is Carla Hall, 20 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: and this is how she pivots. Okay, so we're going 21 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 2: to go in chronological order. Okay, I love it, which 22 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: means that we're going back. We're going way back. Okay, 23 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: Little Carla, I'm going way way back, Little Carla. 24 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: Oh, I got little Carlo's over there. 25 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, paint a picture of little Carla for us. Like, 26 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 2: where did you grow up? What was your family? Like? 27 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: What were you into? 28 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: I grew up in Nashville, Tennessee. I was into art. 29 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: Like I was the kid who helped the teacher do 30 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: the bulletin board, you know, with that corrugated boarder stuff. 31 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:26,279 Speaker 1: I mean, I was all into art. I was a 32 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: brownie girl, Scouts, the camp, that kind of thing. I 33 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: played basketball, but I was not good. I had buddies, 34 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: but you know, for whatever reason, they were like, it's 35 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: a team sport. They let me play. And I was 36 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: actually really shy. I was. I was shy. I was 37 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: the kid that the more confident girls took care of. 38 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: Nobody would let people tease me. People are surprised about that, 39 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: but I'm borderline introvert, extrovert, but I was really shy. 40 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: And then, you know, like around twelve, I started, you know, 41 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,040 Speaker 1: my mother put me into theater because I'm out. It 42 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: was like, helped that child put her into theater. And 43 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: you know, that's when I sort of came out of 44 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: my shell. But I was still okay with being the 45 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: weird kid. 46 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: Did it kind of click right away for you in 47 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 2: theater or did you start more in the background. 48 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: It clicked right away. I was like, this is my space. 49 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: I mean, it was amazing. It was honestly like a 50 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: light switch. It's funny you use the term did it click. 51 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: I felt like those were my people. And even now 52 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: I think when something doesn't click, I'm like, oh, I'm 53 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: just not supposed to be here, So that's that it's wrong. 54 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: You know. 55 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: That's a difference between not clicking or having to learn 56 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: something you don't know it, but you're still there, you know. 57 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 2: But anyway, No, I love that I did theater too, 58 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 2: so I really get it. 59 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: Theater's everything, can I tell you? 60 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: It's everything. 61 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: Everybody needs to do. Theater everybody needs to do, like 62 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: theater or speaking or improv It is the best training 63 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: for life. 64 00:03:55,840 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: My middle daughter loves theater and she's pretty shy at 65 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: school especially, she's super shy. And then she gets on 66 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 2: the stage and she comes alive. But she only likes 67 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 2: to be in the back. She likes to be in 68 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: the chorus. Oh okay, she doesn't want to name, she 69 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: doesn't want any lines. Well right now, right now, right now, 70 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: but she like acts her face off in that in 71 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: that ensemble. 72 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 1: See, I love it. I love that for her. And 73 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: then your first child, I mean, your your last child. 74 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: My little one is in the other play. She's too 75 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 2: young to be in the school play, so she's in 76 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: like the little baby play that'll be next week. But 77 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: she is a real she's a real ballbuster. She's like 78 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: a little ceuched five year old. See today in kindergarten 79 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 2: is pajama day and she's wearing a pants suit. That 80 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: is real. She has many many pantsuits. Oh my god, 81 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: I love this. 82 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: Also, you know what when when parents have three souls, 83 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: three humans, and you recognize their differences and you recognize 84 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: that they all have different paths, that they can't all 85 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: be parented the same. I find it's fascinating to hear 86 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: about these little so it's so amazing to me. I 87 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: feel that very deeply. I have to parent my three 88 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: kids very differently. They're just they're totally different people, they're 89 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: totally different souls. To your point, yeah, as I should be. 90 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely. Carla's love of food started at a young age, 91 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 2: where Sunday suppers at her grandmother's house in Tennessee introduced 92 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 2: to her the impact of communal meals made with love. 93 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: And it sounds truly delicious. Okay, So what were Sunday 94 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 2: suppers like at your grandmother's house? 95 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh. So we would go to church and 96 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: my grandmother lived in Lebanon and we were in Nashville. 97 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: We would go to church and it would be about 98 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: a thirty to forty minute drive and every Sunday, and 99 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, Mama, can we stop until Randon? We're on 100 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: our way. Granted would assume that we were coming at 101 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: a particular time, but if we called her when we 102 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: get there, the corn bread would be ready. Said no, 103 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: it's fine, no, but actually it's not. And so I 104 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: was born in nineteen sixty four, so I figured nineteen 105 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: seventy four, we're driving I forty or is it twenty four? 106 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: I can't remember now to Levett and Tennessee, and I 107 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: see these limousines with the wires going out and over, 108 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like, that car has a phone. What would 109 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: our car look like if we had a phone, because 110 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: we would be calling Granny right now and saying we 111 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: are so many exits away. Like I was fascinated with, 112 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: like all of the hardware to show that you have 113 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: a phone so you could call Granny and tell you're 114 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: on your way. Because Granny would not make the corn 115 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: bread until we were on the inside of the door, 116 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: and I knew that it was twenty three minutes until 117 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: that corn bread was ready and then we could eat. 118 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: And I was already starving when we were at church, 119 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: but she would have so the corn bread was amazing. 120 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: Now it's like a skillet corn bread. The skillet would 121 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: be in the stove heating up when we got there. 122 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: She would put the oil in the pan and she 123 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: would then put the the cornmeal, the buttermilk and all 124 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: of that, and then watching that batter go into that 125 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: hot cast iron skillet and then rolling up the sides 126 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: because of the fat and the oil and those are 127 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: going to be the crunchy bits. And then she would 128 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: take this big mit and then just put it into 129 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: her oven, and I'm like, okay, we're going to be 130 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: eating in twenty three minutes. And when that corn bread 131 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: came out, I didn't slice it like in the middle. 132 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: I would get a wedge. I would turn it on 133 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: the webside and put my butter on the cut side. 134 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: So the butter is going into the corn bread. And 135 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: that first bite like that corner biite, the cake bite, 136 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: the wit make a wish point. That was my favorite 137 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: bite of the dinner. And with it, she would have 138 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: like smothered pork chops, so she had that they had 139 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: been cooking like since her breakfast and so they were 140 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: just falling apart. Or she would do a roast chicken. 141 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: She might do a pot rose. There were always pickles 142 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: in the fridge. There were always like cucumbers, white onions, 143 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: homegrown tomatoes if it was summertime. And I thought that 144 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: was the name of them, homegrown tomatoes. When I go 145 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: to the store, like wear the homegrown tomatoes. I literally 146 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: thought that was the name. And so we would have 147 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: macaroni and cheese. We would have like all these sides. 148 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: She would do at least three or four sides. We 149 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: never had rice. She would make rice for my grandfather 150 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: who was from South Carolina, but she never really made 151 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: rice for us. Once be passed and green beans or 152 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: greens like mixed greens. Oh, I loved her food. I 153 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: just loved her food. Sweet tea, sweet tea with a 154 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 1: little bit of lemon and almond extract. And I did 155 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: not know that it was almond extract until I did 156 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: Paula Deine show and she was making sweet tea and 157 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: I was like, you said, oh yeah, I'm making this 158 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: lemonade sweet tea, and then she put almond extract in it. 159 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: And that was the ingredient that no one knew that 160 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: my grandmother used to make her tea. So it was 161 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: just a loose until that moment. I cried. I cried 162 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: in politics, I was say, oh my god, oh my god. 163 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 2: And you tried it and you had this incredible sense 164 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 2: memory bringing you back instrog grandmother's house. H incredible. Carla's 165 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: career path didn't start with cooking, though, it started in accounting. 166 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 2: Let's talk about how you went to Howard University for accounting, yes, 167 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: and then graduated and became a CPA at Price Waterhouse. 168 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 2: What drew you to that path? 169 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: Initially, the only reason I went to Howard and majored 170 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: in accounting is because I was rejected. I felt rejected 171 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: from Boston University, and that's where I wanted to go 172 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: to major in theater. And then I liked my accounting 173 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: teacher in high school, so I was like, Okay, my 174 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: sister was going to Howard. I said, okay, well, I 175 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: guess if major in the county. I mean, I didn't 176 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: really put much thought into it. I think if i'd 177 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: put thought into it, I would have still gone to 178 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 1: Howard and majored in theater because they have a great 179 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: fine arts program. But I couldn't take another piece of rejection. 180 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: So then accounting here. Accounting here, I call it, and 181 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: I love studying it. 182 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: You know. 183 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 1: I got me through school in high school and in 184 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: college being competitive. Hm, the friend who is probably one 185 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: of the smartest people in the class, that would be 186 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: my friend. That person got me through school because I'm like, wait, 187 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: you got a what? Oh no, next time, it's mine. 188 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,239 Speaker 1: That's how I got through school because I'm competitive. 189 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,599 Speaker 2: I was going to say that accounting at a collegiate 190 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: level is serious business, Like it's more than just like, oh, 191 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just show up a little bit like you 192 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 2: must have really something got you through. 193 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have. I mean that right brain, left brain. 194 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: I love structure. I love like spreadsheets. I mean, the 195 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: only thing left of my accounting stint is that I 196 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: love a spreadsheet, like I still love a spreadsheet. I 197 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: like the order of things. I loved. Accounting isn't necessarily math, 198 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: but it's problems. I loved word problem. I was that 199 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 1: sick person even in that. I loved word problems because 200 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: it just they end up nice and tidy. My brain 201 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: thinks like that. I mean, it was still it was hard. 202 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. 203 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to say I sailed through everything. It 204 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: was hard, but that didn't last long. The actual CPA 205 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 2: career at Price Waterhouse. You said that you were terrified 206 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: of being forty and hating your job. So now you 207 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 2: take us back to that moment when you realized accounting. 208 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 2: You're like, I gotta get out, like this is not it. 209 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: I don't tell you exactly the moment. I mean, here 210 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: I am. I worked in Tampa, Florida, and we were 211 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: in o'calla, Florida, doing an audit of a company manufacturing 212 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: company that was ibeam, and I'm out there in the sun, 213 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: like in the summer, and that I being, that sun 214 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: is hitting that I beam and I'm feeling nauseous. And 215 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: I look over and I see this accountant. And maybe 216 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: I made this up, but I swear I remember him 217 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: folding a piece of paper and spending too much time 218 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: lining up the corners. And I was like, oh my god, 219 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: they can't be me at forty. I mean, I two 220 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: weeks later, I attended my resignation. I was so afraid 221 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: of just being unhappy and in a dead end job 222 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: that I didn't enjoy, and mainly because my grandmother said 223 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: it is your job to be happy, not to be rich, 224 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: and so I'm like, this job may make me rich, 225 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: but it is definitely not going to make me happy. 226 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: And and so I just I just quit. 227 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 2: You just up and quit. I mean, was that scary 228 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: to walk away from such a stable career after just 229 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 2: two years. 230 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: No, It's funny. I was more afraid of being unhappy 231 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,079 Speaker 1: than I was broke and happy. I don't, I mean 232 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: that's me now. I think just being or settling for 233 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: a life that does not feel like it's mine, it's 234 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: almost paralyzing to me to like get out, like, you know, 235 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: get out. I can't. I can't do it. 236 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 2: How did the people in your life react to this? 237 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: Oh? You know how? 238 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: They were like, why, I can't believe it. 239 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: You got this good job and it's so competitive and 240 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: everybody wants this job, and you're taking a cp ex 241 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you're making so much money and you have 242 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: your own place, and wait, you're gonna quit and what 243 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: are you gonna do next? Like, my mother was so 244 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: worried about me. My mother would tell my friends and 245 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: they I was so upset with my friends talking to 246 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: my mother about how they were worried about me too. 247 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: But I'm like, whose side are you on? I had 248 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: this overwhelming sense of like I just knew it wasn't right, 249 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: and I am one to follow my gut. I didn't 250 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: know where I was going to go. I don't know 251 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 1: what I was going to do. But my mother one 252 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: thing that she did once she knew that I like, 253 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: I just I said, by the way, I quit that job. 254 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: And you know when I got the CPA, and then 255 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: I hadn't even passed the CPA exam yet I quit. 256 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: I continued to take the exam so that I could 257 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: give my mother that certificate to hang in her house. 258 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, you paid for this, this is yours. I studied, 259 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: you paid for it. It's yours. But my mother called 260 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 1: around and I said, I think I'll just go to Paris. 261 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: I think I'll model. Just try that, because when I 262 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: was in Tampa, Florida, I was doing a little bit 263 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: of modeling. I did a little bit of modeling at 264 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: Howard University. So she called a bunch of people and 265 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: somebody gave her the name of a woman who was 266 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 1: from New Jersey. It was literally five people removed. She 267 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: didn't even know this person. I had one telephone number 268 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: when I went to France. That was my mother's contribution 269 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: to say, okay, I'm going to support you. Here's one 270 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: telephone number. You didn't go to France. 271 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 272 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she was supportive, but that's not her jam. My 273 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: mother's very She knew she wanted to be a nurse 274 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: when she was a kid. You know, she retired that. 275 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: You know, she didn't understand this creative not knowing what 276 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: you're going to do next thing. She understand it. 277 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 2: So Carla moved to Paris to be a model. When 278 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: we come back, Carla will tell us. How even though 279 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 2: she got to be more creative as a model than 280 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 2: she was as an accountant, she still knew there was 281 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 2: something else out there for her to pursue. Stay tuned, 282 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 2: and did modeling feel creative in the way that it 283 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: was filling that gap for you? 284 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: Modeling I knew going into it was a bridge. There 285 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: was a bridge between what I knew I didn't want 286 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: to do and what I eventually wanted to do, and 287 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know what that was. Now. Modeling did allow 288 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: me to exercise a part of myself that was more 289 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: like an actor. So when you're on stage, you are 290 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: the runway as I did more runway I am performing, 291 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 1: and I had that in space. I mean I'd done 292 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: I'd gone the acting camp for years, so that was 293 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: sort of like the form of acting to me. 294 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 2: Did you find peers among the models? I imagine you 295 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: had a bit of a different educational background than Manute. 296 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: You know. 297 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: Interestingly enough, a lot of the models that I met 298 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: they had left school. I mean, they had gone to college, 299 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: some of them, I have fifty percent of them. But 300 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: I think I was different in that I didn't have 301 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: the desire to make I knew it wasn't the thing 302 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: that I was going to do, so I wasn't going 303 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: to die on this heel. You know, there are girls 304 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: who are very competitive. They were like, Yeah, this is 305 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: my job and I need this by any means necessary. Yeah, yeah, y'all, 306 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: this is a pass through for me. I'm literally like 307 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: at the airport going from the secured area to your baggage. 308 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: I'm just going through that clear door this. Yeah, this 309 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: is a pass through. 310 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: So did that mean that you think that you had 311 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 2: like different boundaries than they did, or like accepted different 312 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 2: things Like I've interviewed other models in the show who 313 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: have said the conditions were really tough, and the hours 314 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 2: were really tough, and the not eating was really tough, 315 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: Like did you have a different approach to it? You 316 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: kind of went along with that? 317 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: You know. I remember being told, and I was thin 318 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: all my life, being told that I needed to lose 319 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: and I didn't take that so seriously. I mean, obviously 320 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to lose weight. Obviously I wanted to get 321 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: Obviously I wanted to get a job, and I wanted 322 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: to be have the physique to get a job. But 323 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: when I was in Paris, they kept telling me, oh, 324 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 1: you're just so your look is just not classic. So 325 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: eventually they told me that I should go to London 326 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: because that's where the sort of avant garde designers were. 327 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: My look was more at the time my book, I 328 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: had like a nineteen thirty style, very angular, not classic 329 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: at all, so different that they kept telling me I'm different. 330 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: I did pay attention to, like I didn't work out, 331 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,719 Speaker 1: but like we did a lot of walking. Things that 332 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: I was eating. You know, I had one friend she 333 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 1: would eat two big vacs in a sitting and she 334 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: was the thinnest girl ever. That was never my jam. 335 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: But you know, I did think about food that I 336 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: would eat. But I think it did get really competitive 337 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: if I think with some models, you know, people taking 338 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 1: people's shoes, you know, a little sabotage that never happened 339 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,479 Speaker 1: to me. I don't think I was a threat. In 340 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: addition to during runway, I also did showroom modeling, so 341 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 1: it's less competitive. I knew that I was never going 342 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 1: to be that big mainstream model. I saw them, but 343 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: I knew that was never going to be me. 344 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 2: It was a pass through, and there you came back 345 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 2: to Sunday dinners again. There were the Sunday suppers at 346 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 2: the other models apartments in Paris. 347 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: Yes, so this woman named Lane, she was from Memphis, Tennessee. 348 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: She would have this big Sunday supper, Sunday brunches. She 349 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: would invite the models over, and that was a time 350 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: to sort of come together, you know, mostly Americans. And 351 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, this feels like I know this, 352 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: I know this vibe. This feels like my grandmother's house. 353 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 1: Girls would be standing around, like my mother makes macaroni 354 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: and she's like this. When my mother makes it like this, 355 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, I have no idea. And 356 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 1: because I'm competitive, I'm like, oh, I can't not know. 357 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 1: So I started going to the American bookstore buying books, 358 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: you know, figuring things out. And then that's how I 359 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: started cooking. And then clicking became an act of gratitude 360 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: where I was making soups and really simple things for 361 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: the people who allowed me to sleep on their couches. 362 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: And at this point I've moved out of the pensione. 363 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, we kind of study with you, you know, 364 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: because I would only be there three months at a time, 365 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: and then I would come back home. I would go 366 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:30,959 Speaker 1: back and so food really became and clicking became an 367 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 1: active gratitude. 368 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: So Carla returned to the US with a fresh perspective 369 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: and started a lunch delivery service after bringing leftover sandwiches 370 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 2: to a friend's office. I asked Carla about the origins 371 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: of what would become her first foray into her culinary career, 372 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: the lunch Bunch. So then you came back to the 373 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 2: US and you started lunch Bunch, a lunch delivery service, 374 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 2: by bringing leftover sandwiches to your friend's office. This, yes, 375 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 2: So how did you build a business? And did you say, Okay, 376 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: I've found my thing, Like the modeling chapter is closed, 377 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 2: and now I found what It was a bridge too. 378 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,719 Speaker 1: So when I took her the leftovers, I thought I 379 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: was just sharing them, and she's like, oh, this is 380 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: my friend, Carla. She has a business. And they're like, 381 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 1: what's the name of your business? And I looked at 382 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: this lunch basket and I was like, the lunch basket. 383 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: And then I later I'll change it to the lunch Bunch. 384 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: But then a week so I was like, okay, this 385 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: seems viable that they don't have anything to eat. I mean, 386 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: if other people don't have anything to eat. So I 387 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: went door to door a hair salon's, doctor's offices, barbershops, 388 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: and I was the lunch lady. And the first week 389 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 1: I had eight clients the first Then the first two 390 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: weeks I had like fourteen and sixteen. And I just 391 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 1: kept doing it. And then I didn't even realize it 392 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: was my thing until somebody said, you work so hard. 393 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: And I knew it was hard work, but I would 394 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: just get up and want to do it. You know. 395 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 1: That's I mean. I just wanted to continue it. I 396 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: just wanted I just kept doing it. And I did 397 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: that for five years. I mean when I tell you, 398 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: I worked every day for five years. If I wasn't 399 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 1: preparing the food, I was delivering the food. I had 400 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: people working with me from like seniors, jobs for the homeless, 401 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 1: I was. I was working all the time. I had 402 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: a two hundred dollars mail truck, no insurance. Yeah, you know, 403 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: it was working out of my sister's house. Like we 404 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: had converted the garage to like a kitchen. So I 405 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: was living with my sister and my brother in law 406 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: when I came back. And then you went to culinary 407 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: school at thirty were you still running the lunch bunch. 408 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: When you did it, like, what made you say it's 409 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: time to go back to school. It was I was 410 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: delivering to this barber shop and one of the guys like, 411 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: you're such a hustler, and I think that's a compliment. Now, 412 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: at the time, I thought it was a huge insult, 413 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: and so I said, Okay, I've done this, I've gotten 414 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 1: the experience. At that point, I wanted to get the theory. 415 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: And so I was like, okay, let me go to 416 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: culinary school. Let me put something on this. I mean, 417 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to be respected, you know, the same way 418 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: that I went for accounting. You know, I turned that 419 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: mentality and then into an actual business. So now I've 420 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: done this for five years, so now I'm like, this 421 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: is a thing. So now let me get the theory. 422 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: And that's why I decided to go to culinary school. 423 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: Why not stick with the lunch business and grow it 424 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 2: and turn that into like a big business where you're 425 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 2: no longer in the weeds. 426 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: Girl, I needed the paper, I mean seriously, I needed that. 427 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: You're also talking to someone whose mom was like, what 428 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: are you going to do? And I was in this 429 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: thing of Carlo, what are you going to do with 430 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: your life? Everybody's asking me that, right. So by going 431 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 1: to culinary school at the time, it legitimized this path 432 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: that I was taking, And so I did not set 433 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: out to be an entrepreneur. I know I had been one, 434 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: that I did not set out to do that. So 435 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: by going to culinary school, the thought was I would 436 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 1: get out, I'd work at a restaurant or whatever, you know, 437 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: and I would see where I would go. That was 438 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: the reasoning for that. I didn't I didn't think twice 439 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 1: about sticking out that business. 440 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 2: Wow, okay, Nat, you just said something I thought was 441 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 2: really interesting. You said that, he said, girl, you're a hustler. 442 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 2: At the time, you took it negatively. Now you see 443 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,959 Speaker 2: it as positively. How do you think he meant it? 444 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: How did you take it then? And how is your 445 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: perception changed now? 446 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: So I thought he was like, yeah, you're just out here, 447 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, coming to the barbershop somebody. You know what 448 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: when you get at a hairsan, a barbershop, I don't 449 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: know if it's in the black neighborhood. People are coming in. 450 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: They sell socks, they sell jewelry. The girl they're like, huh, 451 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: here get a thing, and I thought he was talking 452 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 1: about me in that way, like I am just like 453 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: another salesperson coming to the barbershop, which I found. I 454 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: think somebody who had gone to college and now at 455 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 1: this point, you know, I've worked at an accounting firm 456 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: and pass the CPA, and is this my life? So 457 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: I was I was probably being really hard on myself. 458 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,399 Speaker 1: When I think about it now, I think about especially 459 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: during the pandemic when people lost their jobs in eight 460 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: I think about a hush or somebody who create a job, 461 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: like what, You're not going to hire me, no worries. 462 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 1: I'm going to create my own thing. And I have 463 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: created my own thing repeatedly. I've gone out to find 464 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: that job. So now I see it as a mindset, 465 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: a skill set, something that makes me not afraid when 466 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: there is change. 467 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: Well, this leads us to the next phase. Is that 468 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 2: you started Alchemy Caterers in two thousand and one, so 469 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 2: you actually came back to the cooking and the catering. 470 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 2: You're like, all right, so what made you say I'm 471 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 2: ready now as opposed to before. 472 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: So now I have worked in restaurants, I have worked 473 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: with other caterers at this point, I felt like I 474 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 1: have the skill set, I have the theory, I have 475 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: tools that I didn't have before. And then I also 476 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: had potential clients. I was doing a little bit of catering. 477 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: There were clients that I had They're like, hey, can 478 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 1: you cater this event? Can you? And that was happening 479 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: more and more and more. So by making that transition, 480 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 1: it really felt supported by people who were supporting me 481 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: throughout my day to day and now I'm reconnecting with 482 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: them after going to culinary school, after working in a restaurant. 483 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 1: Now I can go back to them like, hey, this 484 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: is where I am. Now do you need catering? And 485 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 1: I had people to help me, you know, set this up. 486 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 1: So that's how I ended up doing it everything which 487 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: seems willing nilly, It's a calculated risk. I've already assessed 488 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 1: my risks. I've already assessed the situation, and there is 489 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: some method to the madness, even though from the outside, 490 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: even to my friends, it felt willy nilly. 491 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 2: Can you talk us through what that risk analysis was? Like? 492 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: Who were the people around you to support you this 493 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 2: time to make it successful? 494 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 1: So I had a really good friend who was as 495 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 1: she was working as a caterer. She had a big 496 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 1: catering company, and I would sometimes go to her and 497 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: get staffing when I had jobs. So I had people 498 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: who also were other chefs who were working in the 499 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: restaurants that I could call on and say, hey, if 500 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: I need help, can you help? Right, So I had 501 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: the foundation I had because I couldn't afford a regular staff, 502 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: so I had people that I would call on that 503 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: would be transitional labor, so to speak. Then I had 504 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: somebody an accountant, who helped set my business up. Now, 505 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: mind you, yes I was an accountant, but the last 506 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 1: thing you want to do is to be your own accountant. 507 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: I knew, yes, I already knew that I didn't want 508 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: that job. I didn't want it then, I don't want 509 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: it now at that point. Right. But the thing about 510 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: me is I understand what an accountant needs. So when 511 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: you're telling me, I need all of these things, I 512 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: need these receipts, I need these things organized, I need 513 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: the spreadsheet, Oh I got it. I got you. I 514 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: know why you need it, and I can put it 515 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: together for you and deliver it to you in a package. 516 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: So when I look back all my life, I can 517 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: see why I needed that little blip that seems sort 518 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: of an outlier, but really it wasn't. But it took 519 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: looking back that it wasn't an outlier. 520 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 2: I think that's often the case that it takes looking back. 521 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 2: So to bring in the personal life into this. That 522 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 2: you met your husband on match dot com at age 523 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 2: forty two using the username scrabble girl. Yes, can you? 524 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 2: Can you give us your meet cute with your husband? 525 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 1: I'm such a nerd first of all. Okay, if I'm 526 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: going to do and you know, right now, I'm forty two, 527 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: I've already passed that stage of oh my gosh, am 528 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: I going to get married? I'm probably not going to 529 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: get married. You may as well just be who you are, right, 530 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 1: I mean at this point, I think when you when 531 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 1: you passed that forty your your bucket starts. Your bucket 532 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,199 Speaker 1: a fuck. It starts to develop, right, Yeah, it's not 533 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: as big as it is now, but it starts to develop. 534 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: You care a lot less about what people think. Also, 535 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:27,919 Speaker 1: I remember thinking I want to be so much myself 536 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: that what is the name that's going to tell people. 537 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 2: I'm a nerd? 538 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 1: Blurred whatever? I love scrabble scrabble Girl. So I sat 539 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: down with a friend to write my profile. She was like, girl, 540 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,959 Speaker 1: are you sure you want to do that name? And 541 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, I kind of do because I think it 542 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 1: will weed out a bunch of people. And so I 543 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: went on and I talked about how communication was really important. 544 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: You know, I wanted somebody I could take to square 545 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 1: dancing a whole down and also black tie, somebody who 546 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: could conjugate verbs, you know, all the things, all the 547 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: things that are important, especially that verb conjugation. Okay, come on. 548 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: My friend was and I'm working in a restaurant at 549 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 1: this point. I'm going back and forth, so I'm still catering, 550 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 1: also working back. I went back and forth, restaurant and catering. 551 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: So she said, oh, I would have her check my 552 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: match dot com and she was checking. She said, oh, girl, 553 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: I think this is your husband. And the subject line 554 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: was Ken Lives run Parallel and dude had written a 555 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: whole single space two pages, so that's a girl. Just 556 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: read it to me. I don't have time to sit 557 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: down to read it. So the verb conjugation excellent. So 558 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: all of these things. Also, I was getting people who 559 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: were like, why did you put this picture on the 560 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: front with your hair all over your head when you 561 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: have a much prettier picture, like a subsequent picture with 562 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: straight hair. You know, I'm like, that's exactly why that 563 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: pictures they are you out because why right? So my 564 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 1: whole thing was I didn't have a glamour picture. I 565 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: had my glasses on, I had my hair thrown up 566 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: on my head. As my profile picture, I'm scrabble girl. 567 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: I've already set it up. And so to weed out 568 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: the people who were just shallow and they just weren't 569 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: the they weren't the ones, but Matthew. It turned out 570 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: that Matthew had changed his whole profile because he had 571 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: been doing Match for a month. He changed it that 572 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: he did the George Costanza. They charged him. He was like, shoot, 573 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: I thought I had canceled it, but we don't give refunds, 574 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: so they were like okay. He was like, okay, let 575 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: me just do I was doing five four. I'm gonna 576 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: do five ten taller. I was like, you know you've 577 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: been married now, you know you haven't been married before. 578 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 1: He was like, okay, you have kids, Like okay, no kids, 579 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 1: And I popped up. I was the only person within 580 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 1: a two hundred mile right. So yeah, and then that 581 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 1: was our whole thing. And when we met the tail. 582 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: For me, he held my hand, my fingertips across the 583 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: and I didn't want to pull back. That was the 584 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 1: tell for me because I remember a guy had kissed 585 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: me once. I'm like, why are you trying to kiss me? 586 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 1: You know, so I just you know, it's an energy thing. 587 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 2: After the break, we'll hear about how Carla's husband, Matthew, 588 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 2: encouraged her to audition for Top Chef, setting the stage 589 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 2: for yet another pivot Carla's move into television be right back. 590 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: And he encouraged you to audition for Top Chef. 591 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: He dude, he watched Top Chef. Had never even watched 592 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 1: Top Chef, so he encouraged me. No, I didn't watch it. 593 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: I was working, Carl, I was working. I was like, 594 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: that was the last thing, honestly, I wanted to say 595 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: with somebody. 596 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 2: Killing more cooking. 597 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, no, I don't want to do it. So, yeah, 598 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: he encouraged me, and I remember watching I started watching 599 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: it season I want to say three, because I auditioned 600 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: during season four. Yeah, and I had my catering company 601 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,959 Speaker 1: and yeah that was wild. 602 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, what made you say yes? To it, like why 603 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 2: did you want to why did you want to go 604 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: through with that? Okay, between me and you and the 605 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: and the lamp post, I said yes to the experience 606 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: of auditioning. I really didn't think they would choose me. 607 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I'll do this, I'll audition. 608 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is cool. When I was in my kitchen, 609 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: my catering kitchen, and they called me and they were like, 610 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 1: are you alone, I'm not to looked at everybody in 611 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: the kitchen. I went to a corner. I turned into 612 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: the corner and I'm like, yes, You've been chosen for 613 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: Top Steff. I'm like what. I was as shocked as anybody. 614 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. So I was like, oh, I 615 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: guess I have to do this. I didn't prep I 616 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: didn't prepare. I didn't think about what this show is. 617 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 2: Going to do for me. 618 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 1: I had, I think, three days to get my stuff 619 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: together because I'd been working and catering. And I even 620 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: told my team y'all, I have to go and work 621 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: in the Bahamas. So I'm leaving my company, y'all. 622 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 2: Good luck. 623 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I I didn't even tell them, I didn't 624 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: tell anybody. Wow. And I just left my business and yeah, 625 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: and then it became I mean spiritually. The first time 626 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: I did it, I was like, I focused on being 627 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: And I know this probably sounds strange, like a lot 628 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: of people will go through they'll start clicking stuff and 629 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: all of this and going through recipes and I did 630 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,239 Speaker 1: a little No, No, I didn't. I didn't do any 631 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: of that. I wanted to be spiritually strong enough, Like 632 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: that's what I focused on. 633 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 2: Do you remember what your first day on set was like? 634 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: So I remember all of us sitting there and they 635 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: were bringing us in. They were like, don't talk to 636 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 1: anybody because they wanted everything, everything to be organic. And 637 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: they brought us in and then we saw Tom and 638 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, all Tom. I thought it 639 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: was a meet and greet. I literally thought, oh Tom, 640 00:33:59,280 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 1: is it? 641 00:33:59,600 --> 00:33:59,719 Speaker 2: Oh? 642 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: And then was Paedma and they were like, okay, here 643 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: comes your first challenge. I'm like, what, I had no idea. 644 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: I had no idea that a show doesn't have the 645 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 1: money to just do a meet and greet of a 646 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: people they brought to do the show. And they were like, Okay, 647 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: we have to We're going to do these cutting. We 648 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: did the Apple and all this stuff, and I was 649 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: so far removed from thinking of it as a competition, 650 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, we're competing. So when you 651 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: see me cut this apple, I just went into like 652 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,880 Speaker 1: production mode. I was like yeah. And then when I finished, 653 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: like and so the release of everybody's like I always like, 654 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 1: was so overjoyed and like the big win. It wasn't 655 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: that I wasn't gloating. It was like, oh my gosh, 656 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 1: I made it through. Yay. Because I love a game. 657 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 2: I got you. 658 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 1: I'm competitive, so if I'm on the winning side, I'm 659 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,879 Speaker 1: like yes. But that was my first time, my first day. 660 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 1: I remember it like it was yesterday. 661 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 2: Did you make genuine connections there? 662 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: Top Chef was like the Peace Corps. You know, when 663 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 1: you do something hard and you're working with people, you 664 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: will have those relationships that those are the people who understand, 665 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: unlike anybody else, what you went through and what that 666 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 1: experience is. Like Arian d'orte, which we were really close. 667 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: She was the next oldest person. She was called Cougar. 668 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: She works with me today, so she's on my team. 669 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 1: Stefan Richter, which was so crazy. I talked to him. 670 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: I think throughout the seasons. You tend to talk to 671 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: people people who just called, like, oh, they were on 672 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: Top Chef, and you connect with them because you understand 673 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: what they went through. 674 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 2: That totally makes sense. Carla quickly became a fan favorite 675 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 2: on Top Chef, beloved for her personality, poise and catch 676 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 2: phrase who do Who? In addition to her personal approach 677 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 2: to cooking. 678 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: Who do Who do? 679 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:54,800 Speaker 2: Who do Who? 680 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 1: Is something that my husband and I say when we 681 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,360 Speaker 1: go out and we can't find each other. One of 682 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: us were saying and the other one say, who Hi. 683 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 2: Hi. 684 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 1: It's a two part call. 685 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 2: Even though she didn't win, her success on Top Chef 686 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,920 Speaker 2: opened up many doors for her. She eventually landed a 687 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 2: spot as co host on ABC lifestyle series The Chew, 688 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,919 Speaker 2: where she was able to incorporate her love of performance 689 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 2: with her love of cooking with Carla Hall. 690 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 1: She's co host of ABC's The Chew. 691 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 2: Well, we've got celebrity chef and TV host Carla Hall 692 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 2: joining you sort of like brought in your theatrical sense. Yes, 693 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 2: maybe not on Top Chef, but certainly when you were 694 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 2: hosting The Chew. Like now you can decide. So, what 695 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,839 Speaker 2: was it like to merge your love of food and performance. 696 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 1: So interestingly enough, when I did, when I got the shoe, 697 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: I think the producers didn't realize that it was different 698 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: from Top Chef. On Top Chef, you're just cooking in 699 00:36:55,040 --> 00:37:00,040 Speaker 1: their cameras capturing you. On a talk show where you 700 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: you have timed segments, you have to host, you have 701 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: to interact with others, you have to do your recipe, 702 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 1: you have to teach. It is a ten ring circus. 703 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 1: I did not know how to do that. I did 704 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:19,400 Speaker 1: not understand it. It was probably one of the steepest 705 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: learning curves of my career. For the first three years, 706 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 1: I thought I was going to get fired, and I 707 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,959 Speaker 1: felt like I wasn't prepped. We even had a lead 708 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,239 Speaker 1: up to the two and they were running you know 709 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 1: scenarios where we would be sitting there with topics, it 710 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: be talking, but there was no media trainer for me 711 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: or Daphne. The people, like the guys, they had already 712 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: done media training on either with Clinton on his network 713 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: or you know, food network, but we didn't have that, 714 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 1: and so I didn't get a media trainer. I don't 715 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:59,840 Speaker 1: think it's so season two and that's when somebody said, oh, 716 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,280 Speaker 1: maybe they would benefit from this really it was really 717 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: steep learning curve. I mean it was a little I 718 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: have a little I use I'm okay now, but up 719 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: until like two years ago, so I had PTSD about it. 720 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 2: But how did you end up on the show in 721 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 2: the first place if you hadn't, it feels like you 722 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,320 Speaker 2: were really surprised by the experience. 723 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,279 Speaker 1: Yes, I was so a new shows like The View. 724 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,840 Speaker 1: They needed five people in food they were They just 725 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 1: threw through everything at the at the kitchen, in the 726 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 1: kitchen seek, you know, they brought in everybody. I was 727 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 1: on like a massive call whatever audition. Marcus Samuelson was there, 728 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 1: there were a bunch of other people. We were just 729 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 1: sitting around a table and there was one of the 730 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: execs throwing out things to talk about and I was 731 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 1: not chosen. So that was the first round. I was 732 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 1: not chosen. And then they did a year of all 733 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 1: these five other people, and daphne Os was one of 734 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 1: those five people. She was the only one from their 735 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 1: original group. And that's when they were doing all of 736 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,839 Speaker 1: these pilots and stuff. Once I did Top Chef again, 737 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 1: I one fan favorite. I think that's why they brought 738 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: me back in. So at this point they're taking off 739 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,720 Speaker 1: a beloved show to all my children. Now they're having 740 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: to bring people on that people know, that people are 741 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 1: invested in. And I think I was considered somebody because 742 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 1: I won fan favorite to be on this show. So 743 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,880 Speaker 1: I came back and we did a chemistry test. My 744 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 1: chemistry test was twenty minutes. I think three days later 745 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 1: they named us as the cast. 746 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,760 Speaker 2: Oh so fast. 747 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: It was really fast. And I remember my attorney trying 748 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: to work out this deal and they were really trying 749 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: to push it through because I think they were trying 750 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 1: to push it through because there was a very small 751 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 1: window that one of the cast members had to sign 752 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: before his other deal with another network was done. 753 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 754 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, So they were just trying to through and so 755 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: my deal was not as favorable to me because they 756 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 1: would focus on somebody else's deal. Let's just say that. 757 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 1: But the experience was good in the end, in the area, 758 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: in the very end, in the very end, it was good. 759 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 2: Right as of two years ago. This good? 760 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,360 Speaker 1: No, I mean I loved it. I really I really 761 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,479 Speaker 1: loved it. I feel like years five, six, and seven 762 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 1: were really great. You know, I felt like I had 763 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: a handle on it. I felt like and then I 764 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,799 Speaker 1: was doing more things outside of the studio. Right, That's 765 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: why I had more packages, because I just needed to 766 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: find my footing. So again that there is an issue 767 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: where I'm like really uncomfortable. Now, I'm like, okay, where 768 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: can I go to be comfortable? They were like, hey, 769 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,839 Speaker 1: who wants to do a filming segment? And blah blah 770 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 1: blah blah. I do. I just I just kept raising 771 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: my hand. So I did more than anybody. And that's 772 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 1: where I held That's that's where I gained my confidence. 773 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 2: While she was hosting on the Chew, Carla also opened 774 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 2: a restaurant, but things didn't exactly go as planned. And 775 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 2: so line up the timing for us with your restaurant, 776 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 2: Carla Hall's Southern Kitchen in Brooklyn. 777 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,360 Speaker 1: So we started talking about that restaurant. I think in 778 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: twenty fifteen. My partner was asking me about that restaurant 779 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: for three years. I'm like, child, did not I tell 780 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 1: you I didnt want a restaurant? So finally he talked 781 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 1: me into it. I said okay, And it opened in 782 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen and it closed in twenty seventeen. 783 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,840 Speaker 2: So you already alluded to this earlier in the conversation, 784 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 2: But you considered this one of the great traumas of 785 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 2: your life. 786 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And it's interesting because I look at trauma 787 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 1: sometimes as a crash course in life, saying this is 788 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 1: what you have to learn. So I did the restaurant. 789 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 1: We had to close it after a year, and it 790 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,440 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with the food. The food was amazing. 791 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,879 Speaker 1: It was the location, you know. And then I ended 792 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: up holding it for another five years because I didn't 793 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 1: want to file bankruptcy and I held it solely just 794 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:07,120 Speaker 1: to pay off loans, pay off everything. And during that 795 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:10,719 Speaker 1: time I was trying to reopen it, but it had 796 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:14,319 Speaker 1: been closed by the city. But those five years, I 797 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 1: said yes to so many different things in order to 798 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 1: pay for this restaurant that that was the blessing, I mean, 799 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 1: and that's what I had to see in hindsight. So 800 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: I would say yes to so many various things, hosting shows, 801 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: being the auctioneer, working with brands, TV spots, and I 802 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 1: could not afford to be singlely focused on food TV, 803 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,439 Speaker 1: so I had a variety of things that I did 804 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: and it was a blessing. 805 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,319 Speaker 2: What were some of the wildest or craziest things that 806 00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,439 Speaker 2: you did during that time, so. 807 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:53,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to host, and I felt like hosting big 808 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: fundraisers I could shine because personality, you know, you're working 809 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: with the audience. I taught myself how to be an 810 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,399 Speaker 1: auctioneer in a funny way, not in a professional way. 811 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,359 Speaker 1: So at first I was saying, I will do this 812 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 1: for free. Then I then I slowly increased my rates. 813 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 1: But I would get up there and I was like, 814 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 1: we're going to do the auction, and they would they 815 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 1: would have an auction, they would have an auctioneer, and 816 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 1: I was like, can I please just do one item. 817 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: I will donate my time, I'll do a dinner. Let 818 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,720 Speaker 1: me auction off my one item. And that's how it started. 819 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 1: And I would get up there, I'm like, however, we 820 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,200 Speaker 1: got a hundred right here, we got a hundred, get 821 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,120 Speaker 1: one here, kind of get one, fit on, kind of 822 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 1: get one two hundred. And I started doing that, and 823 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 1: I know that's not how an auction is supposed to go, 824 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 1: but for me, it was the caenence and the and 825 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: it became a thing, and it became something that people 826 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 1: were seeking me out to do this, and so the 827 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 1: fees grew. I did a lot of speaking engagements, I 828 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: talked a lot about my restaurant failing. It was just 829 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: it was just super fun. I did a lot of voiceovers. 830 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: I was on BoJack Horseman. I just said yes to 831 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 1: a lot of different things. I did stuff with the Muppets. 832 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,000 Speaker 2: All of these experiences have culminated in Carla's next venture, 833 00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:24,200 Speaker 2: moving from the screen to the stage. You've said that 834 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 2: you want to be the black Carol Vernett when you 835 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 2: were young, and now at sixty, you're launching a one 836 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 2: woman show called Please Underestimate Me. Now. I love the 837 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 2: way this came to be. You said it in a 838 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 2: news article. It's like you manifested it. 839 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 1: I sure did. I manifested it. I said it in 840 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,799 Speaker 1: the New York Times article prior to that. I am 841 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 1: a big believer that manifestation is doing the work. So 842 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 1: I'd break down the thing. I'm like, Okay, I told 843 00:44:55,160 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 1: my agent voiceovers more cameo roles. I got an acting coach. 844 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 1: I was acting as if. I kept asking people, how 845 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 1: do I do a one mom show? How do I 846 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,320 Speaker 1: do it? How do I do it? I found a 847 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 1: writer and then I said, you know what, I'm going 848 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 1: to mention it in this article The Times. Kim Severson 849 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: did that article. 850 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 2: What was the article about? 851 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,840 Speaker 1: It was about my life. Kim Severson was the writer 852 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,879 Speaker 1: and she came to DC. It's so funny because Kim 853 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,840 Speaker 1: talks about how I didn't cook. I didn't cook for 854 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: her when she came here. I was like, tell, I'm busy. 855 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 1: I mean, let me get some stuff that I just 856 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: got from the Whole Foods. But I mentioned that that 857 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,280 Speaker 1: I wanted to do a play. All in the theater 858 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 1: saw that article reached out and said, hey, we have 859 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 1: we do workshops for new works. Are you interested? And 860 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 1: in the meantime, I've been working with these two writers, 861 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: Laurie k and Les Thomas, and so we've been working 862 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: on this since February of twenty twenty three, and we 863 00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,360 Speaker 1: were just doing vignettes and we were writing up something 864 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:05,319 Speaker 1: for the Oh my God, the Apollo. This person told 865 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: us to write up something for the Apollo. They never 866 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,879 Speaker 1: even asked for it. They ghosted us afterwards. But as 867 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: soon as only came to us, we had it written already. 868 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 1: So I'm like, that was the reason I needed, that 869 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,839 Speaker 1: we needed that thing. And so only we did this one. 870 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,959 Speaker 1: We did a week workshop. It was two years ago 871 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: and at the end of it, they were like, we 872 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,399 Speaker 1: loved it, people responded to it. Would you consider being 873 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: a part of our twenty twenty five to twenty six season. Yes, 874 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 1: And then the rest is sort of history. And I 875 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,520 Speaker 1: keep saying even this year, I'm like, oh, yeah, next year, 876 00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing this one moment show. They're like, oh, in 877 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: twenty twenty seven. I'm like, no, in twenty twenty six, 878 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, shoot, we're in twenty twenty six. So yeah, 879 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,839 Speaker 1: I'm excited. It's about my life. It's called Carla Hall, 880 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,359 Speaker 1: Please Underrestimate Me, which I think says a lot about 881 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: my life. You know, there's a path. I'm like, yeah, 882 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 1: I can do that. I can absolutely do that. I 883 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 1: can figure that out. I want to try that. But 884 00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:59,360 Speaker 1: I talk a lot about, you know, my love of theater, 885 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:03,440 Speaker 1: being shy, my time at the two, and what I 886 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 1: think it will make this show special. There is audience participation, 887 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 1: there is a little bit of improv. It's scripted, but 888 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,840 Speaker 1: there are other interesting facets to this show. 889 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 2: What does it feel like to be winding up at 890 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 2: sixty instead of winding down? Girl? Come on? 891 00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:24,000 Speaker 1: First of all, again, have I mentioned how competitive I am? 892 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,839 Speaker 1: My great grandmother was one hundred and three. 893 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 2: Oh, so we're not We're not even We're barely at 894 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 2: midlife dude. 895 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:38,600 Speaker 1: Okay. So I decided that I want to be if 896 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm in of sound mind and body, that I want 897 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,359 Speaker 1: to be here until one hundred and four. I live 898 00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 1: my life with that intention. When people like, what do 899 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 1: you do, I live like, I need to be here 900 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 1: forty something more years. 901 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 2: Great. 902 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 1: Do you think you'll pivot again? Of course I will. Yes, 903 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm all already working on something. I mean, so, I 904 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 1: have this a self coaching program called the Meme Menu. 905 00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: So we're doing that and that is online. It's with AI, 906 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 1: it's with my partner, Dev Brayson Regal. We're working on that. 907 00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 1: That launched. I also do art, so I really would 908 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 1: love to have a show. I do paper quilting. I 909 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,880 Speaker 1: would love to have a show there. I would also 910 00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: love to be a game show host. I've already planned 911 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,839 Speaker 1: it out. I've planned my stuff. I put it out there. 912 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: We'll see when it comes. But I'm constantly challenging myself. 913 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:37,879 Speaker 1: And if people say, oh, we put you in food, 914 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,719 Speaker 1: and I said, that's okay, I don't I've already moved 915 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 1: on to the next thing. Yeah, you know exactly. 916 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,960 Speaker 2: What is something that It could be something we've talked about, 917 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 2: or it could be something different. What is something that 918 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 2: at the time you saw as a negative or a 919 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 2: low point, and now in hindsight you see it as 920 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 2: having really launched you to the success you are. 921 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 1: I think losing when people say losing Top Chef and 922 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,440 Speaker 1: doing it again, I never thought I was doing it. 923 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,240 Speaker 1: I did not want to do it again. I think 924 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 1: they're learning to be comfortable with the uncomfortable and then 925 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: doing that show with intention, you know, it was everything. 926 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 1: If people ask me if I want to compete now, 927 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,920 Speaker 1: absolutely not. I do not. But betting on myself and 928 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 1: doing it again was I think the right thing to do. 929 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 2: I love that. Well. Thank you so much, Carla, thank 930 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,160 Speaker 2: you for coming on. It's been so I love all 931 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,359 Speaker 2: of your acts. You are in every category. I can't 932 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 2: wait to see the next act, literally the show or 933 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 2: the next act. 934 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 1: Carl oscar I have an any I would not have 935 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: an Oscar for something. 936 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:55,400 Speaker 2: Let's manifest it. I love it. Thank you, thank you 937 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,879 Speaker 2: so much, Thank you for coming on. What I love 938 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 2: about Carla's story is that every new chapter builds on 939 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 2: the last, accounting modeling, culinary school, television performance. Every pivot 940 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,720 Speaker 2: helped her build a life rooted in love, flavor, connection, 941 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 2: and joy. Today, Carla is based in Washington, d C, 942 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,880 Speaker 2: where she lives with her husband, Matthew, and beginning on 943 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 2: June third, you can see her take the stage at 944 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 2: the Only Theater in Maryland and her one woman show 945 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:29,760 Speaker 2: Please Underestimate Me, a title that feels very on brand 946 00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 2: for a woman who has spent her life exceeding expectations. 947 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 2: Carla also recently announced that she is pivoting back into 948 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 2: the restaurant business. Soon She'll be opening a southern restaurant 949 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,279 Speaker 2: called Bumble Birds in partnership with DC's Sunnyside Restaurant Group 950 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,640 Speaker 2: in DC's Capitol Hill neighborhood, and I'm sure it'll be delicious. 951 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 2: You can keep up with Carla at Carla p Hall. 952 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 2: That's it for today, see us soon. Thanks for listening 953 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 2: to She Pivots. If you like this episode, follow the 954 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 2: show so you never miss a pivot story and share 955 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,920 Speaker 2: it with one woman in your life who might need 956 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 2: to hear it. 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