WEBVTT - Mellow Yellowstone with Robyn Lively and Bart Johnson 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.320 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm heart Radio podcast. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:10.920 So I'm really excited for this episode because we're kind 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.920 of on a tailor's Sheridan kick right now. I had 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:19.120 never I had never watched Yellowstone. You watched the first 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:20.520 season of Yellowstone. 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:21.520 Right, eighteen eighty three? 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:23.439 Oh, you watch eighteen eighty three. 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:27.480 I watched eighteen eighty three first and Foremost, and then 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:28.960 I watched I thought. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:30.639 I had to watch they called first and foremost? Or 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.720 is that just I watched the first and foremost. 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:35.839 That's the smartest. 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:38.280 Wouldn't it be like I watched eighteen eight three first. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:41.280 Worst and foremost. I watched eighteen. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:42.959 Ac three, So I used in a sentence, but I'm 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:45.680 also not the smartest tool in the chef. 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:50.040 Which then led me to Yellowstone. 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:52.560 And I had thought i'd watched more of Yellowstone because 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.360 when we thought, okay, let's watch it, I thought I 0:00:55.360 --> 0:01:00.400 had watched up until season all of five. Yeah, And 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.120 then when I watched that, I was like, wow, I've 0:01:02.160 --> 0:01:04.680 only watched season one, But I didn't realize there was 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:08.520 so many episodes, yes, which was a pleasant surprise because 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:11.600 it meant me got to love the Yellowstone. 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.280 Johny we have watched. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:17.000 Yes, we've I mean started from one. You watched season 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:20.240 one with me and we are almost caught up to 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:20.959 season five. 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:22.559 You were on episode ten. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:24.639 Yeah, we're real close. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:28.000 I beg John is now out of which is a shame. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:28.480 I know. 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:30.520 We both looked at each other and we're like, this 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.440 kind of just takes the is it the luster? 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:34.559 Is that the word? 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:34.920 Like the. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:37.760 Can I use that one thing? 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:42.280 It's just kind of it's like not as exciting, but 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.000 I still love. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.520 I want to see how they wrap it up. 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:49.760 I heard that there's talk of maybe rip and best 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:54.200 character spin off kind of eye, but I don't haven't. 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:55.160 For me is the show. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:57.600 I don't care what. They just need to take Jamie 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:58.400 out of it. 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:03.000 Like, yeah, I'm not a big fan of jam No, I. 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.320 Just don't mean his character is not a likable character, 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:11.040 but I just I just don't like the whole Jamie. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:12.519 Well. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.560 It's interesting because our guests today are on the new 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.600 Taylor Sheridan show, which is Landman, which we are going 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:19.560 to start watching. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.560 Absolutely it is. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:28.200 So Robin Lively. She's been acting forever, but she's also 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:30.720 Blake Lively's sister. And then Bart Johnson they've been married 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:34.839 for gosh. They just celebrate their twenty fifth wedding anniversary. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.200 And there was a scene that we watched last night 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:45.000 in Yellowstone where James Funny Jamie's character was going down on. 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:53.919 What's the only parties played the way in my eyes tightly, Jamie, 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:54.680 you're not annoying. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.600 He was going down on that girl who was the 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:03.560 the hit woman that's that started then she wasn't the 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:07.880 hit woman, but she was women. Yeah, and you looked 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.200 at me and you said you will never what'd you say? 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:10.639 Go ahead? 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:14.040 Well, he wasn't just going down on the head. There 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:15.079 was things before that. 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:19.840 She's no brand parties and he starts to I was 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:24.360 just like, there's no part of me ever ever ever 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:31.120 allow that ever for a man to be that close 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:31.799 to you like that. 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:33.079 Yeah? 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:33.440 Never. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.800 What if Taylor Sheridan. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:45.000 Has me audition and I book a role where that 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.920 I have to have that scene and. 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:51.080 I will go is it Tommy lee on everyone remember 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:54.880 a real like phoning the producers and threatening the producers. 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:58.360 You need to change this scene. Well, this is really 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.480 good of your health. You need to change this scene. 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:01.360 Is that? 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.400 I just don't think it's healthy for any relationship, Babe, 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.440 I really don't. And it'll be interesting to see if 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.480 our next guest being married for twenty five years, both 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:14.040 being actors, and granted, it'll be different because they're both 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:14.760 in that space. 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:15.920 I'm not in that space. 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:20.520 You imagine I'm an actor, right, we're both actors, and 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.920 I am in a situation where I've stripped this woman 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:26.359 naked and I start to go down on. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:27.800 A How do you like that? 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.360 They're not actually going down like he's just head. 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:34.920 It's just you can smell. He can smell of skin. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:42.240 They can is that close to? No? No, that happening. 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:44.839 So you wouldn't let me do that role? 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:49.840 I wouldn't let you do that scene? Would you let 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:50.800 me do it? 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:51.480 It's different? 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:52.320 Would you let me? 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:54.559 You're not an actor if you were an actor. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:58.960 I'm getting I'm getting into acting, right, I'm going to attact. Yeah, 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.560 I don't want to be James Bond when I'm fifty. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:08.640 No, I'm like, I'm in like serious talk. Would you 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:09.560 would you let me do it? 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:10.520 No? 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:11.800 Serious talk? Would you? 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:15.520 Would you let me do that type of role? If 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.320 the if the role called for nudity like that? 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:22.360 So let's take that women's role in the TV show. 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:24.400 Yeah, a very pivotal role, A. 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:28.800 Very pivotal role which she get pumped in every episode. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:34.000 No, so if I booked it, you would say, no. 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.440 That's not good for a marriage. That type of role. 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:44.120 It's not especially a man who's not in the acting world. 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:48.839 It's difficult because so therefore that's my opinion based on 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:52.480 I'm not in that world. You can keep smiling and 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.359 laughing if you want, but let's flip it. Let's flip 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:57.839 it because we always do that. Let's flip it. Yeah, okay, 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:01.920 I'm I'm Jamie and those scenes are you all right 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:02.159 with me? 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.719 Then that they have I've dated actors before that have 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:11.520 had to do sex scenes, and because it's it's literally 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:16.200 the most uncomfortable thing ever. Like when I'm giving Turtle 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:22.000 a hand job on Entourage, it's so uncomfortable. I'm literally 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:26.280 taking my hand and rubbing his like like you know, 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:31.280 his leg, the motion of it. It's the most uncomfortable. 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:32.960 It's not sexy. 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:33.920 There's no. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:37.920 Like even when I did the kissing scenes and rolling 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:41.039 around in bed with Stephen KLETTI like there's two seconds 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.039 later it's like, are you gonna have the Caesar for lunch, 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:46.640 like there's there's people or even okay, take for the 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.960 the kissing scene that Austin and I had, or that 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.920 that you know where he had to do the aggressive 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:53.400 thing for gas Lit. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:54.200 Movie that we did. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:56.520 Yeah, it's. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:02.320 So uncomfortable because when they take everybody out of the room, 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:03.920 the people that don't have to be there, they take 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:07.359 you know, normally there's the lighting, this person, there's so 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.039 many other people in the room. When they do those 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:12.960 intimate scenes, it is it is just the sound guy 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:16.720 and and that's that's pretty much it. Everyone else that 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.880 doesn't look at the monitor because it's so uncomfortable for 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:21.800 the people that are doing it. And it's not a 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:22.480 sexy thing. 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:28.040 You know, I don't care. I don't care if you're 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.880 locking eyes with another man and you're naked. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.640 You're never fully naked though, well she's she's. 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.520 She's just a bit naked, like you can see everything. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:38.480 Yeah, like I was in my lingerie for the gas 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:38.920 Lit one. 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:45.960 Yeah, may stop bringing these things up. Get that close 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:47.800 up Pana with those eyes. 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:54.040 But it's it's hard because it's like I want you 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:57.960 to know that that's not I empathize that it could 0:07:57.960 --> 0:07:59.960 be tough, right, but it's. 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:04.360 Not Jim could be I need just to flip the scenario, baby, 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.000 but I just wait. 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.040 TI wait. Time an acting and I'm like, Bay, let's 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:09.120 not been off of this role. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:11.880 But you're not an actor, sweetheart. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:12.720 I'm dry humping this woman. 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:19.760 You're not an actor. Yeah, you're not an actor. So 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:20.880 it's different. 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:24.840 When I am okay. 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:26.600 But you're not. So it's it's just different. 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.640 But I also I could see how it could be 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:31.360 tough for someone that's not an actor, but you're coming in. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:32.400 And that's the thing too. 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:35.000 I mean, you ask any man, babe, and they'll be 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.559 like me, well, well we'll ask. 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:41.240 Well, that's. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.200 Scenes. What he's had to do. 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:47.920 It is why he's beading scenes. Well, she's had to 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:53.040 receive it or sorry that it is different, it's kind 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:54.640 of it's not apples to apples. 0:08:55.559 --> 0:09:01.400 Yeah, I'm just I'm thinking about that's because. 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:05.160 If that's last night's scene, right, and I'm there on 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.200 set with you, you would not come on set. 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:08.200 The one thing I wanted to. 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:11.480 Do would bounce has head off a desk as soon 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:12.439 as the scene is finished. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.240 But I would never you would never come on babe. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:17.600 Remember that kissing scene I had the kissing scene in 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:22.680 the Christmas movie You. I was like, you don't come, 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:26.520 don't come to set that day, and I don't wreck, 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.120 don't wreck it. Ralph like, don't please, don't come to 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:35.480 set that day. Yeah, and again it's not there's no 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:36.480 there's no feelings. 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:37.200 What I what do? 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:40.040 I always say it's about and this is this is. 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:43.199 Where it happens in the right but this is where, yes, exactly, 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:45.600 but this is where it also. Like my next movie 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:49.920 that I got that I'm filming in January. Even when 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:51.760 I told you there was no kid, I'm like, babe, 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.760 there's no kissing scenes. And I thought for once you'd 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:55.520 be like, yay, your first thing was, well, it's what 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:56.640 happens in the trailers. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:58.160 I'm like, oh, I can't win. 0:09:58.640 --> 0:09:59.680 I literally can't win. 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:06.360 Oh you can't win. To the track, what do I 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:06.800 do for. 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:11.760 The I mean, okay, what happens if a Martin Scorsese came. 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:15.400 It's Oscar winning role and I have to strip down 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.720 and have a full blown sex scene. 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:22.080 And I could win an. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:25.120 Oscar or a sex scene. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.199 No, I mean like that's part of. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.640 That name, that's an Oscar. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.720 No, like no, no, but like it's it's a huge show, 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.680 like if Landman calls or it's a really big show 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:38.560 and to be really big for my career. It's just 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:45.040 you know, a few scenes of of that. No, you 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.320 would you would say I have to turn down? 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:53.000 Oh I would. I would say you can in the babe, 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:55.920 But I don't know. I don't know how I would 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:58.760 handle it. I don't want to our guests so. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:03.360 Here, all right, Well let's sake. 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.480 And let's take a break and then we'll get Robin 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:12.000 Lively and Bart Johnson on Easton. We got to get 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:13.840 our guests out and then we can we'll come back. 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:29.560 Hey guys, Hi, how are you. I'm Jana, This is 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:34.680 Alan my husband Chris. Give us a couples here, I know, 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:35.680 a couple show. 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:37.400 And we're so excited to talk to you guys. But 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.640 we just have a very hot topic that we want 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:43.040 to bring you guys in on. Okay, Oh yeah, okay. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:49.360 Because so I'm an actress. He is a professional. He 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.480 was a professional soccer player, coach, all the things, right, 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:56.920 So different backgrounds. Okay, So we were talking about when 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:59.720 we just started watching Yellowstone and we're very excited to 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.680 now start watching Landman because we're big Taylor Sheridan fans. 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:06.280 But you know, and we've had a I wouldn't say 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.600 we've had conflict, but he doesn't love the scenes where 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:14.120 I have to kiss people in the movies. And so, 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:17.560 you know, it's been it's been difficult, but lately they've 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.679 it's just been like, you know, the real sweet lifetime. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:22.040 Some have been a little bit more. 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:25.120 My first experience of you on a movie was you 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:33.679 getting dry humped on a hebew okay, can. 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:34.520 We just go back to this? 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.600 It was it was It wasn't a dry hump. It 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:40.520 was he took his shirt off. He took my shirt 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.160 off late. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.240 And then they and then they yell. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.360 Cut and mind you, I'm pregnant during this movie. Okay. 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:50.360 So like it is like. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:51.480 It's even. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:55.679 With our child. Okay. 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.240 So then okay, so we're you know, we're watching ellistone 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.360 last night and there was a scene where you know, 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:04.840 Jamie's character has you know, she he undresses the woman 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:09.120 and she's naked and he's about to go down on her, 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:12.360 but like, really he's not, obviously right, So and he 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.360 looked at me and he was like, you will never 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:14.760 do that. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:17.400 And then so that kind of now started our. 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.960 Conversation like, well, what if I do get like, what 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:23.120 if Taylor calls for land Man and I've got this 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:26.560 really sexy role or and so you know he's he 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.960 obviously knows it's different for actors and actors, but I'm 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:32.000 also like, is it and and but I think, I mean, 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:33.880 I think it is. I'm like, babe, it's not sexy, 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:37.319 it's not fun, and it's or there's no feelings. 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:39.560 But I get that, and you understand that, and you 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.120 guys will understand that, but I don't. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.079 I coach wells. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:47.880 So when if you haven't to be close enough to 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:50.760 that guy where he can smell what you smell like 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:53.800 and and I'm like, no, no, good done. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:14:01.000 Yeah, yeah, no, I totally understand that. I also think 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:06.600 that women are wired very differently. It is, there's nothing 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:10.280 sexy about it. It's uncomfortable, it's embarrassing, it's like you 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:12.720 want to die. Not that we I mean, we haven't 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:16.319 had many, thankfully, experiences like that since we've been married. 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:16.679 But like. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:19.040 I get to tell. 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:21.680 You, those scenes are horrible. 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:25.640 It's a different time too, because when we were I 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:29.640 mean the majority of our careers, like as actors, we 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:31.280 usually work in television. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.560 Like there's just more jobs in television. And it used 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.280 to be like like people say like how do you 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:36.080 guys navigate that? 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:39.000 And we're like, you know what on Friends, like there's nothing, 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.520 you know, there's nothing that puts you in that situation. 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:45.120 But point of time's changed now these streamers like, yeah, 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:47.120 jeez man, you never know it matter of fact. 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:50.480 So funny enough, I'm gonna be on Yellowstone on Sunday. 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.520 Oh yeah, yeah, thank you. I'm so excited about it. 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:56.560 But are your humping someone? 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:58.440 Here's what's funny about it. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:01.240 So we did land Man, and everybody said like, oh, 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.840 if Taylor likes you on a show, he's just going 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.960 to throw you in another show. And so we're actually 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.760 in Japan with our family this summer and got a 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.040 message and said, hey, Taylor wants you to shoot Yellowstone. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:13.720 He's got a part feel on Yellowstone. I was like, 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.400 oh sick, send me the script. I'm like there is 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:18.720 no script. I'm like, oh, okay, tell me about the part. 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:21.120 They're like, we can't tell you about the part. I'm like, okay, 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.120 so what am I doing? So now now that I 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.520 mean to your you know your point, you're. 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:29.560 Making it like it wasn't that, that wasn't the scene. 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.800 But these days like who knows what you're signing up for? 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:32.920 Ye? 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.400 Well, and that's the thing too, They're they're pushing the 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:37.680 envelope so much where I'm like, okay, guys, like this 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:39.440 is this is a little much, you know what I mean, 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:40.880 Like do we have to go this far? 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:43.600 Yeah? Yeah, And they're like proud of pushing an envelope. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:44.840 Don't be proud of that. 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:48.480 Yeah, And to his point, like I do, I can 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:51.560 see how that would affect a marriage and not be 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.440 good and be good for the marriage. So I mean, like, 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.120 do you guys have like if there was something to 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.640 come up, is like where is your line for certain 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.360 roles that call for pushing the envelope like these shows do. 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.360 Now this is a good question. 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:04.600 We really haven't discussed it. 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:08.480 But well now we can on air we were. 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:12.440 To start fighting now, I mean, I mean, would. 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:14.480 You let her do these roles where it's like they're 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.080 really like because. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:20.560 They're going at it, see me sick, Like no, no, yeah, 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.040 it's it's it is a weird thing. 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:25.320 And it's also like as an actor, you know what 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:27.720 it's like on set and it's like so like I 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.840 don't know how much time you guys have spent on set, 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:34.680 like together while you're shooting, but like to know that 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.000 when those scenes are going you watch on TV and 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:38.680 it's like, wow, this is pretty steamy, is pretty hot, 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:42.280 this is like wow, this is I don't feel comfortable 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:44.840 with this watching this. But like when you're on the 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.000 set and there's like one hundred people like staring you 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:49.320 and the guy with the microphone and like, you know, it's. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:53.360 Like it's so weird, it's so awkward. It's like okay, 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:54.640 it's it kind. 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:55.920 Of reminds me like what you know, what when when 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.400 you watch a horror movie and like something really scary happens, 0:16:58.400 --> 0:16:59.960 but if you're on the set, it's like, that's not 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:01.560 scary at all. There was a guy with a puppet 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:03.160 and like and a lot you know what. It's like 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:07.879 you're creating the illusion of this really sexy, crazy moment, 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:10.120 but like in reality, it's not like that at all. 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:12.520 Well, I will say this was years and years and 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:15.639 years ago. There was a show and they really pushed. 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.920 The envelope and I was like they were like, oh, 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:18.760 there's the scene. 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:20.879 I read it and I was like, oh my gosh 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:22.280 that I was doing and. 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.159 I was like, guys, I'm really not comfortable that, like 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:26.480 can you get a body double? And I was risking 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:28.679 I was just recurring on the role on the on 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:29.119 the show. 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:33.360 By the way, if this is an interesting situation she's 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:36.119 bringing up, because it was. It was a hit TV show, 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:39.439 a critically a Craney TV show, I know exactly. So 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:45.480 she's already she already accepted the role, her character she was, 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.800 she'd already shot some episodes. Also, it's like the characters 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:50.840 are You're already on the show, so it's not like 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.480 an audition where they send you the script you're like 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:53.680 do you want to do this and you're like, I 0:17:53.720 --> 0:17:54.760 think I'm a pass on this one. 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:55.760 It's like you'relready him. 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.920 They're like, and this is what you're doing this episode 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:01.360 and you get that script and you're like, oh, crowd. 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:03.879 It's like, I'm not gonna do nudity and you know 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.439 I'm not doing any of that, Like I like, can 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:07.560 we just get a body double? 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.080 So they did. They did, but I definitely. 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:13.800 Ran the risk of them saying like, yeah, sorry, you're out. 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:15.560 We're gonna like replace you. 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:19.800 But I mean still like it's so uncomfortable, Like it's 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:24.200 just but again, we've been really fortunate that we haven't 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:26.920 had to deal with much of that. You know, that 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:29.160 doesn't mean it's going to happen, but like, man. 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:33.520 Well it's for some reason. She's always kissing guys. 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.959 I like, I don't, I don't ever do that, Like 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.280 for whatever reason, Well, I mean. 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:43.960 You have and I have it literally that one time. 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:50.480 Well John has done full movies since we've been together, 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.040 and she's a kissing scene and everyone. 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.280 Yeah, but here's the thing. I have one coming up 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.120 in January. I was like, babe, there's no kissing scenes. 0:18:57.160 --> 0:18:58.360 Like I thought it was going to be a celebration. 0:18:58.480 --> 0:19:00.760 He's like, you told me, it's what happened in the trailers. 0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:02.160 I'm like, oh my god, I can't win. 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:05.680 I literally can't win. 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:10.040 It's just awful. Let's just be serious, like, let's be honest. 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:14.080 No matter what it's, it's awful for everybody, for the spouse. 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:17.000 For the person doing it. Yeah, it's just terrible. 0:19:17.840 --> 0:19:20.199 So you guys have been married for you celebrated with 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:25.920 twenty five years. Yeah, yeah, congratulations, that's amazing. We well 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:27.000 we're newlyweds. 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:28.640 Yeah. 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:30.639 So we just got married. We have a we have 0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:33.720 a one year old baby. Got married in July, which 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:37.520 did things a little backwards, but amazing, thank you. But 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:40.920