Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm heart Radio podcast.
Speaker 2: So I'm really excited for this episode because we're kind
Speaker 2: of on a tailor's Sheridan kick right now. I had
Speaker 2: never I had never watched Yellowstone. You watched the first
Speaker 2: season of Yellowstone.
Speaker 3: Right, eighteen eighty three?
Speaker 4: Oh, you watch eighteen eighty three.
Speaker 1: I watched eighteen eighty three first and Foremost, and then
Speaker 1: I watched I thought.
Speaker 4: I had to watch they called first and foremost? Or
Speaker 4: is that just I watched the first and foremost.
Speaker 3: That's the smartest.
Speaker 4: Wouldn't it be like I watched eighteen eight three first.
Speaker 3: Worst and foremost. I watched eighteen.
Speaker 2: Ac three, So I used in a sentence, but I'm
Speaker 2: also not the smartest tool in the chef.
Speaker 3: Which then led me to Yellowstone.
Speaker 1: And I had thought i'd watched more of Yellowstone because
Speaker 1: when we thought, okay, let's watch it, I thought I
Speaker 1: had watched up until season all of five. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: then when I watched that, I was like, wow, I've
Speaker 1: only watched season one, But I didn't realize there was
Speaker 1: so many episodes, yes, which was a pleasant surprise because
Speaker 1: it meant me got to love the Yellowstone.
Speaker 3: Johny we have watched.
Speaker 2: Yes, we've I mean started from one. You watched season
Speaker 2: one with me and we are almost caught up to
Speaker 2: season five.
Speaker 3: You were on episode ten.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're real close.
Speaker 3: I beg John is now out of which is a shame.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 2: We both looked at each other and we're like, this
Speaker 2: kind of just takes the is it the luster?
Speaker 4: Is that the word?
Speaker 5: Like the.
Speaker 4: Can I use that one thing?
Speaker 2: It's just kind of it's like not as exciting, but
Speaker 2: I still love.
Speaker 4: I want to see how they wrap it up.
Speaker 2: I heard that there's talk of maybe rip and best
Speaker 2: character spin off kind of eye, but I don't haven't.
Speaker 4: For me is the show.
Speaker 3: I don't care what. They just need to take Jamie
Speaker 3: out of it.
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I'm not a big fan of jam No, I.
Speaker 1: Just don't mean his character is not a likable character,
Speaker 1: but I just I just don't like the whole Jamie.
Speaker 6: Well.
Speaker 2: It's interesting because our guests today are on the new
Speaker 2: Taylor Sheridan show, which is Landman, which we are going
Speaker 2: to start watching.
Speaker 3: Absolutely it is.
Speaker 2: So Robin Lively. She's been acting forever, but she's also
Speaker 2: Blake Lively's sister. And then Bart Johnson they've been married
Speaker 2: for gosh. They just celebrate their twenty fifth wedding anniversary.
Speaker 2: And there was a scene that we watched last night
Speaker 2: in Yellowstone where James Funny Jamie's character was going down on.
Speaker 3: What's the only parties played the way in my eyes tightly, Jamie,
Speaker 3: you're not annoying.
Speaker 2: He was going down on that girl who was the
Speaker 2: the hit woman that's that started then she wasn't the
Speaker 2: hit woman, but she was women. Yeah, and you looked
Speaker 2: at me and you said you will never what'd you say?
Speaker 4: Go ahead?
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't just going down on the head. There
Speaker 3: was things before that.
Speaker 1: She's no brand parties and he starts to I was
Speaker 1: just like, there's no part of me ever ever ever
Speaker 1: allow that ever for a man to be that close
Speaker 1: to you like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Never.
Speaker 4: What if Taylor Sheridan.
Speaker 2: Has me audition and I book a role where that
Speaker 2: I have to have that scene and.
Speaker 1: I will go is it Tommy lee on everyone remember
Speaker 1: a real like phoning the producers and threatening the producers.
Speaker 1: You need to change this scene. Well, this is really
Speaker 1: good of your health. You need to change this scene.
Speaker 6: Is that?
Speaker 1: I just don't think it's healthy for any relationship, Babe,
Speaker 1: I really don't. And it'll be interesting to see if
Speaker 1: our next guest being married for twenty five years, both
Speaker 1: being actors, and granted, it'll be different because they're both
Speaker 1: in that space.
Speaker 3: I'm not in that space.
Speaker 1: You imagine I'm an actor, right, we're both actors, and
Speaker 1: I am in a situation where I've stripped this woman
Speaker 1: naked and I start to go down on.
Speaker 3: A How do you like that?
Speaker 4: They're not actually going down like he's just head.
Speaker 3: It's just you can smell. He can smell of skin.
Speaker 3: They can is that close to? No? No, that happening.
Speaker 4: So you wouldn't let me do that role?
Speaker 3: I wouldn't let you do that scene? Would you let
Speaker 3: me do it?
Speaker 4: It's different?
Speaker 3: Would you let me?
Speaker 4: You're not an actor if you were an actor.
Speaker 1: I'm getting I'm getting into acting, right, I'm going to attact. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be James Bond when I'm fifty.
Speaker 4: No, I'm like, I'm in like serious talk. Would you
Speaker 4: would you let me do it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: Serious talk? Would you?
Speaker 2: Would you let me do that type of role? If
Speaker 2: the if the role called for nudity like that?
Speaker 3: So let's take that women's role in the TV show.
Speaker 4: Yeah, a very pivotal role, A.
Speaker 3: Very pivotal role which she get pumped in every episode.
Speaker 4: No, so if I booked it, you would say, no.
Speaker 3: That's not good for a marriage. That type of role.
Speaker 1: It's not especially a man who's not in the acting world.
Speaker 1: It's difficult because so therefore that's my opinion based on
Speaker 1: I'm not in that world. You can keep smiling and
Speaker 1: laughing if you want, but let's flip it. Let's flip
Speaker 1: it because we always do that. Let's flip it. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm Jamie and those scenes are you all right
Speaker 1: with me?
Speaker 2: Then that they have I've dated actors before that have
Speaker 2: had to do sex scenes, and because it's it's literally
Speaker 2: the most uncomfortable thing ever. Like when I'm giving Turtle
Speaker 2: a hand job on Entourage, it's so uncomfortable. I'm literally
Speaker 2: taking my hand and rubbing his like like you know,
Speaker 2: his leg, the motion of it. It's the most uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: It's not sexy.
Speaker 4: There's no.
Speaker 2: Like even when I did the kissing scenes and rolling
Speaker 2: around in bed with Stephen KLETTI like there's two seconds
Speaker 2: later it's like, are you gonna have the Caesar for lunch,
Speaker 2: like there's there's people or even okay, take for the
Speaker 2: the kissing scene that Austin and I had, or that
Speaker 2: that you know where he had to do the aggressive
Speaker 2: thing for gas Lit.
Speaker 4: Movie that we did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's.
Speaker 2: So uncomfortable because when they take everybody out of the room,
Speaker 2: the people that don't have to be there, they take
Speaker 2: you know, normally there's the lighting, this person, there's so
Speaker 2: many other people in the room. When they do those
Speaker 2: intimate scenes, it is it is just the sound guy
Speaker 2: and and that's that's pretty much it. Everyone else that
Speaker 2: doesn't look at the monitor because it's so uncomfortable for
Speaker 2: the people that are doing it. And it's not a
Speaker 2: sexy thing.
Speaker 3: You know, I don't care. I don't care if you're
Speaker 3: locking eyes with another man and you're naked.
Speaker 4: You're never fully naked though, well she's she's.
Speaker 3: She's just a bit naked, like you can see everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I was in my lingerie for the gas
Speaker 4: Lit one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, may stop bringing these things up. Get that close
Speaker 1: up Pana with those eyes.
Speaker 2: But it's it's hard because it's like I want you
Speaker 2: to know that that's not I empathize that it could
Speaker 2: be tough, right, but it's.
Speaker 1: Not Jim could be I need just to flip the scenario, baby,
Speaker 1: but I just wait.
Speaker 3: TI wait. Time an acting and I'm like, Bay, let's
Speaker 3: not been off of this role.
Speaker 4: But you're not an actor, sweetheart.
Speaker 3: I'm dry humping this woman.
Speaker 2: You're not an actor. Yeah, you're not an actor. So
Speaker 2: it's different.
Speaker 3: When I am okay.
Speaker 4: But you're not. So it's it's just different.
Speaker 2: But I also I could see how it could be
Speaker 2: tough for someone that's not an actor, but you're coming in.
Speaker 4: And that's the thing too.
Speaker 3: I mean, you ask any man, babe, and they'll be
Speaker 3: like me, well, well we'll ask.
Speaker 4: Well, that's.
Speaker 3: Scenes. What he's had to do.
Speaker 1: It is why he's beading scenes. Well, she's had to
Speaker 1: receive it or sorry that it is different, it's kind
Speaker 1: of it's not apples to apples.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just I'm thinking about that's because.
Speaker 1: If that's last night's scene, right, and I'm there on
Speaker 1: set with you, you would not come on set.
Speaker 3: The one thing I wanted to.
Speaker 1: Do would bounce has head off a desk as soon
Speaker 1: as the scene is finished.
Speaker 2: But I would never you would never come on babe.
Speaker 2: Remember that kissing scene I had the kissing scene in
Speaker 2: the Christmas movie You. I was like, you don't come,
Speaker 2: don't come to set that day, and I don't wreck,
Speaker 2: don't wreck it. Ralph like, don't please, don't come to
Speaker 2: set that day. Yeah, and again it's not there's no
Speaker 2: there's no feelings.
Speaker 6: What I what do?
Speaker 4: I always say it's about and this is this is.
Speaker 2: Where it happens in the right but this is where, yes, exactly,
Speaker 2: but this is where it also. Like my next movie
Speaker 2: that I got that I'm filming in January. Even when
Speaker 2: I told you there was no kid, I'm like, babe,
Speaker 2: there's no kissing scenes. And I thought for once you'd
Speaker 2: be like, yay, your first thing was, well, it's what
Speaker 2: happens in the trailers.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I can't win.
Speaker 4: I literally can't win.
Speaker 3: Oh you can't win. To the track, what do I
Speaker 3: do for.
Speaker 2: The I mean, okay, what happens if a Martin Scorsese came.
Speaker 2: It's Oscar winning role and I have to strip down
Speaker 2: and have a full blown sex scene.
Speaker 4: And I could win an.
Speaker 3: Oscar or a sex scene.
Speaker 4: No, I mean like that's part of.
Speaker 3: That name, that's an Oscar.
Speaker 2: No, like no, no, but like it's it's a huge show,
Speaker 2: like if Landman calls or it's a really big show
Speaker 2: and to be really big for my career. It's just
Speaker 2: you know, a few scenes of of that. No, you
Speaker 2: would you would say I have to turn down?
Speaker 1: Oh I would. I would say you can in the babe,
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I don't know how I would
Speaker 1: handle it. I don't want to our guests so.
Speaker 7: Here, all right, Well let's sake.
Speaker 2: And let's take a break and then we'll get Robin
Speaker 2: Lively and Bart Johnson on Easton. We got to get
Speaker 2: our guests out and then we can we'll come back.
Speaker 4: Hey guys, Hi, how are you. I'm Jana, This is
Speaker 4: Alan my husband Chris. Give us a couples here, I know,
Speaker 4: a couple show.
Speaker 2: And we're so excited to talk to you guys. But
Speaker 2: we just have a very hot topic that we want
Speaker 2: to bring you guys in on. Okay, Oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Because so I'm an actress. He is a professional. He
Speaker 2: was a professional soccer player, coach, all the things, right,
Speaker 2: So different backgrounds. Okay, So we were talking about when
Speaker 2: we just started watching Yellowstone and we're very excited to
Speaker 2: now start watching Landman because we're big Taylor Sheridan fans.
Speaker 2: But you know, and we've had a I wouldn't say
Speaker 2: we've had conflict, but he doesn't love the scenes where
Speaker 2: I have to kiss people in the movies. And so,
Speaker 2: you know, it's been it's been difficult, but lately they've
Speaker 2: it's just been like, you know, the real sweet lifetime.
Speaker 2: Some have been a little bit more.
Speaker 1: My first experience of you on a movie was you
Speaker 1: getting dry humped on a hebew okay, can.
Speaker 4: We just go back to this?
Speaker 2: It was it was It wasn't a dry hump. It
Speaker 2: was he took his shirt off. He took my shirt
Speaker 2: off late.
Speaker 5: And then they and then they yell.
Speaker 4: Cut and mind you, I'm pregnant during this movie. Okay.
Speaker 4: So like it is like.
Speaker 3: It's even.
Speaker 4: With our child. Okay.
Speaker 2: So then okay, so we're you know, we're watching ellistone
Speaker 2: last night and there was a scene where you know,
Speaker 2: Jamie's character has you know, she he undresses the woman
Speaker 2: and she's naked and he's about to go down on her,
Speaker 2: but like, really he's not, obviously right, So and he
Speaker 2: looked at me and he was like, you will never
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 4: And then so that kind of now started our.
Speaker 2: Conversation like, well, what if I do get like, what
Speaker 2: if Taylor calls for land Man and I've got this
Speaker 2: really sexy role or and so you know he's he
Speaker 2: obviously knows it's different for actors and actors, but I'm
Speaker 2: also like, is it and and but I think, I mean,
Speaker 2: I think it is. I'm like, babe, it's not sexy,
Speaker 2: it's not fun, and it's or there's no feelings.
Speaker 1: But I get that, and you understand that, and you
Speaker 1: guys will understand that, but I don't.
Speaker 3: I coach wells.
Speaker 1: So when if you haven't to be close enough to
Speaker 1: that guy where he can smell what you smell like
Speaker 1: and and I'm like, no, no, good done.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, no, I totally understand that. I also think
Speaker 6: that women are wired very differently. It is, there's nothing
Speaker 6: sexy about it. It's uncomfortable, it's embarrassing, it's like you
Speaker 6: want to die. Not that we I mean, we haven't
Speaker 6: had many, thankfully, experiences like that since we've been married.
Speaker 6: But like.
Speaker 5: I get to tell.
Speaker 4: You, those scenes are horrible.
Speaker 8: It's a different time too, because when we were I
Speaker 8: mean the majority of our careers, like as actors, we
Speaker 8: usually work in television.
Speaker 5: Like there's just more jobs in television. And it used
Speaker 5: to be like like people say like how do you
Speaker 5: guys navigate that?
Speaker 8: And we're like, you know what on Friends, like there's nothing,
Speaker 8: you know, there's nothing that puts you in that situation.
Speaker 8: But point of time's changed now these streamers like, yeah,
Speaker 8: jeez man, you never know it matter of fact.
Speaker 5: So funny enough, I'm gonna be on Yellowstone on Sunday.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, thank you. I'm so excited about it.
Speaker 4: But are your humping someone?
Speaker 5: Here's what's funny about it.
Speaker 8: So we did land Man, and everybody said like, oh,
Speaker 8: if Taylor likes you on a show, he's just going
Speaker 8: to throw you in another show. And so we're actually
Speaker 8: in Japan with our family this summer and got a
Speaker 8: message and said, hey, Taylor wants you to shoot Yellowstone.
Speaker 8: He's got a part feel on Yellowstone. I was like,
Speaker 8: oh sick, send me the script. I'm like there is
Speaker 8: no script. I'm like, oh, okay, tell me about the part.
Speaker 8: They're like, we can't tell you about the part. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 8: so what am I doing? So now now that I
Speaker 8: mean to your you know your point, you're.
Speaker 6: Making it like it wasn't that, that wasn't the scene.
Speaker 5: But these days like who knows what you're signing up for?
Speaker 6: Ye?
Speaker 2: Well, and that's the thing too, They're they're pushing the
Speaker 2: envelope so much where I'm like, okay, guys, like this
Speaker 2: is this is a little much, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: Like do we have to go this far?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, And they're like proud of pushing an envelope.
Speaker 5: Don't be proud of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And to his point, like I do, I can
Speaker 2: see how that would affect a marriage and not be
Speaker 2: good and be good for the marriage. So I mean, like,
Speaker 2: do you guys have like if there was something to
Speaker 2: come up, is like where is your line for certain
Speaker 2: roles that call for pushing the envelope like these shows do.
Speaker 5: Now this is a good question.
Speaker 7: We really haven't discussed it.
Speaker 4: But well now we can on air we were.
Speaker 6: To start fighting now, I mean, I mean, would.
Speaker 2: You let her do these roles where it's like they're
Speaker 2: really like because.
Speaker 1: They're going at it, see me sick, Like no, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's it is a weird thing.
Speaker 8: And it's also like as an actor, you know what
Speaker 8: it's like on set and it's like so like I
Speaker 8: don't know how much time you guys have spent on set,
Speaker 8: like together while you're shooting, but like to know that
Speaker 8: when those scenes are going you watch on TV and
Speaker 8: it's like, wow, this is pretty steamy, is pretty hot,
Speaker 8: this is like wow, this is I don't feel comfortable
Speaker 8: with this watching this. But like when you're on the
Speaker 8: set and there's like one hundred people like staring you
Speaker 8: and the guy with the microphone and like, you know, it's.
Speaker 5: Like it's so weird, it's so awkward. It's like okay,
Speaker 5: it's it kind.
Speaker 8: Of reminds me like what you know, what when when
Speaker 8: you watch a horror movie and like something really scary happens,
Speaker 8: but if you're on the set, it's like, that's not
Speaker 8: scary at all. There was a guy with a puppet
Speaker 8: and like and a lot you know what. It's like
Speaker 8: you're creating the illusion of this really sexy, crazy moment,
Speaker 8: but like in reality, it's not like that at all.
Speaker 7: Well, I will say this was years and years and
Speaker 7: years ago. There was a show and they really pushed.
Speaker 6: The envelope and I was like they were like, oh,
Speaker 6: there's the scene.
Speaker 7: I read it and I was like, oh my gosh
Speaker 7: that I was doing and.
Speaker 6: I was like, guys, I'm really not comfortable that, like
Speaker 6: can you get a body double? And I was risking
Speaker 6: I was just recurring on the role on the on
Speaker 6: the show.
Speaker 8: By the way, if this is an interesting situation she's
Speaker 8: bringing up, because it was. It was a hit TV show,
Speaker 8: a critically a Craney TV show, I know exactly. So
Speaker 8: she's already she already accepted the role, her character she was,
Speaker 8: she'd already shot some episodes. Also, it's like the characters
Speaker 8: are You're already on the show, so it's not like
Speaker 8: an audition where they send you the script you're like
Speaker 8: do you want to do this and you're like, I
Speaker 8: think I'm a pass on this one.
Speaker 5: It's like you'relready him.
Speaker 8: They're like, and this is what you're doing this episode
Speaker 8: and you get that script and you're like, oh, crowd.
Speaker 6: It's like, I'm not gonna do nudity and you know
Speaker 6: I'm not doing any of that, Like I like, can
Speaker 6: we just get a body double?
Speaker 4: So they did. They did, but I definitely.
Speaker 6: Ran the risk of them saying like, yeah, sorry, you're out.
Speaker 7: We're gonna like replace you.
Speaker 6: But I mean still like it's so uncomfortable, Like it's
Speaker 6: just but again, we've been really fortunate that we haven't
Speaker 6: had to deal with much of that. You know, that
Speaker 6: doesn't mean it's going to happen, but like, man.
Speaker 5: Well it's for some reason. She's always kissing guys.
Speaker 8: I like, I don't, I don't ever do that, Like
Speaker 8: for whatever reason, Well, I mean.
Speaker 5: You have and I have it literally that one time.
Speaker 1: Well John has done full movies since we've been together,
Speaker 1: and she's a kissing scene and everyone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but here's the thing. I have one coming up
Speaker 2: in January. I was like, babe, there's no kissing scenes.
Speaker 2: Like I thought it was going to be a celebration.
Speaker 2: He's like, you told me, it's what happened in the trailers.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, I can't win.
Speaker 4: I literally can't win.
Speaker 7: It's just awful. Let's just be serious, like, let's be honest.
Speaker 6: No matter what it's, it's awful for everybody, for the spouse.
Speaker 7: For the person doing it. Yeah, it's just terrible.
Speaker 2: So you guys have been married for you celebrated with
Speaker 2: twenty five years. Yeah, yeah, congratulations, that's amazing. We well
Speaker 2: we're newlyweds.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So we just got married. We have a we have
Speaker 2: a one year old baby. Got married in July, which
Speaker 2: did things a little backwards, but amazing, thank you. But
Speaker 2: obviously we're you know, new in our relationship and we
Speaker 2: know marriage takes work. But what has been the thing
Speaker 2: for you guys when you get in tough times, like,
Speaker 2: what has been the thing that has helped you the
Speaker 2: most to you know, to have this strong relationship and
Speaker 2: the thing, yeah, the thing that's helped you the most
Speaker 2: to be twenty five years strong.
Speaker 1: From apart from body double, yeah, apart from binding doubles.
Speaker 7: He's like, hey, that's a great idea.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, trust me, it's the best thing I've.
Speaker 5: Had this week.
Speaker 6: I don't know how that was why this was a
Speaker 6: long form you, but you know, I mean, I would
Speaker 6: say communication is.
Speaker 7: Is vital, like face to face communication.
Speaker 6: You know, we have these phones now that like a
Speaker 6: lot of times you can hide behind, you know, having
Speaker 6: tough conversations.
Speaker 5: We really enjoy each other's company. We like we tend,
Speaker 5: we tend to have a lot of shared experiences together.
Speaker 8: So and I think that's you know what I always
Speaker 8: I have a okay, I have a theory. There's like
Speaker 8: a lot of people say, like, how can you expect
Speaker 8: a marriage to lasts forever, especially when you're making decisions
Speaker 8: as like a in your twenties, you made decisions your twenties,
Speaker 8: you don't even you don't even know who you're be
Speaker 8: in your thirties and then let alone who being in
Speaker 8: your forties or fifties, And it's like you're making a
Speaker 8: commitment now and you expect to be the same person then.
Speaker 8: And it's like, well, no, but if you're going through
Speaker 8: life together and you're having only shared experiences in our experience,
Speaker 8: you are getting closer. Like the more time you're together
Speaker 8: and having these experiences together, and we're raising kids together,
Speaker 8: and we're buying houses together, or kind of going through
Speaker 8: work or going on trips or traveling or seeing the
Speaker 8: world or experiencing different things, sharing struggles together, I think
Speaker 8: it just brings you closer, Like I I feel closer,
Speaker 8: way closer now than I did twenty years ago.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, nice, I think that's important, Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: And I think you learn You learn so much too
Speaker 2: in the struggles, you know, like any of the thing
Speaker 2: that we've anything, we've gone through, it's like we learn
Speaker 2: so much more about us and then our marriage and
Speaker 2: you know, I know it's still very new and stuff,
Speaker 2: but you know it's I love. I think you can
Speaker 2: take so many things from from you know, all the things,
Speaker 2: the good and the bad.
Speaker 5: But because like what you put in is what you
Speaker 5: get at.
Speaker 8: It's just like anything in life, right, like it if
Speaker 8: you if you invest in it, because it's I think
Speaker 8: it's really easy to let your ego like cause a
Speaker 8: real problem in your life and you know, screw them,
Speaker 8: like hold onto resentment and things like that, and like
Speaker 8: instead of really communicating and hear their perspective and say, oh, well, okay,
Speaker 8: maybe I'm not really right about that perspective.
Speaker 5: And I like the you know, I heard this expression
Speaker 5: once a long time.
Speaker 8: Ago that we talk about is like the quality of
Speaker 8: your relationship is the quality of your communication. So if
Speaker 8: you can really communicate on a deep level, have a
Speaker 8: better quality relationship.
Speaker 4: I like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, Am I right in saying that you're both
Speaker 3: on land?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're both on.
Speaker 4: The shows on the show. How is that working together?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is that the first time you've worked together on the
Speaker 1: shore or have you done it before?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 8: We were okay twenty five years I met her dad
Speaker 8: working on a movie. That's how this whole thing started.
Speaker 8: That's a whole it's a great story. This is a
Speaker 8: long story. But we even we never worked together for
Speaker 8: the first like eighteen years or something like that.
Speaker 5: Like the longest time.
Speaker 8: And then Robin got off a series called Cordenberg Gibbon's
Speaker 8: Life on Normal Street on Amazon did forty episodes. I
Speaker 8: got on the show and did eight episodes, and we said,
Speaker 8: like one line to each other, like that was like
Speaker 8: we can't work We're on the same show and we
Speaker 8: still can't work together, Like what is it.
Speaker 7: We've actually seems like we've worked together a.
Speaker 5: Lot large lately.
Speaker 8: But there was like one movie where someone was like
Speaker 8: wait a minute, oh wait yeah, like everyone now everyone's
Speaker 8: all was like nine one one lone star, nine one
Speaker 8: lone star, like Robin was on nine one one lone Star.
Speaker 8: And they really liked her character a lot, and they said, hey,
Speaker 8: we want to see like what her world is like.
Speaker 8: Let's see what her like, who's her fiance, what is
Speaker 8: her life like? And the casting directors like, I know
Speaker 8: who her husband is. I bet we could get a
Speaker 8: So they had me auditioned for the show again. They
Speaker 8: wouldn't tell me what the part was. I had audition
Speaker 8: with sides from the previous year, and I was like, well,
Speaker 8: what's the part, and like you got to commit to
Speaker 8: the part for the audition.
Speaker 5: Once again, I'm like, well, no one am I committed here?
Speaker 8: And so once I got the part, they said, okay, well,
Speaker 8: now that you got the part, we could tell you.
Speaker 8: We didn't want this to be an awkward thing in
Speaker 8: case you didn't get it. And she was mad. So
Speaker 8: then we got it and we worked together and then.
Speaker 5: People saw that and they're like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 8: And then we started getting some offers and movies, and
Speaker 8: then we did a movie.
Speaker 7: Together together all the time.
Speaker 8: Now yeah, we got So we did this one movie.
Speaker 8: We are the two leads in this movie. And we
Speaker 8: were like, is that gonna be weird? Like everybody says, like,
Speaker 8: you know that, it's weird working with your spouse's awkward
Speaker 8: and it's weird.
Speaker 5: Energy You're like, you know this is a like are
Speaker 5: we know? Is that is that?
Speaker 6: Hell?
Speaker 7: We never said that.
Speaker 6: We we always see each other on tape and we're
Speaker 6: directing each other.
Speaker 5: Why does anybody say that? Well I did. I'll speak
Speaker 5: to myself.
Speaker 8: I was like, why is everybody I don't know what
Speaker 8: the yeah, I can't imagine what. Why does everybody say?
Speaker 8: I don't know why everybody says that? And then we
Speaker 8: got so we got on the set, we started working
Speaker 8: together and we're like it was like we're in our garage.
Speaker 8: We have this like studio in our garage, and it's
Speaker 8: it's great because like we're doing a scene together and
Speaker 8: Robin like directs me every time on the side auditioned
Speaker 8: so that if the directors like he doesn't like something
Speaker 8: that's going on or the scene doesn't work exactly, you know,
Speaker 8: and the director will come over and try to fix it,
Speaker 8: and the robber can just go, hey, I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 8: I know what that means.
Speaker 5: I know what that looked mean. So I could take
Speaker 5: her notes and it's great, Like we love we love it,
Speaker 5: absolutely love it.
Speaker 4: I love that. How is Billy Bob Billy?
Speaker 6: You know you listen, we had no idea what we
Speaker 6: were going to be stepping into. Like I don't know
Speaker 6: him personally. I thought, you know, he could be a
Speaker 6: wild card, right like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the best way possible or in the worst
Speaker 2: way possible.
Speaker 7: Right, yeah, Like you just have no idea. This guy
Speaker 7: is one of the most down to earth coolest.
Speaker 6: He'll sit in you know, past a holding and just
Speaker 6: there's a tornado watch and we're you know, we're stuck
Speaker 6: for like, you know, a long time.
Speaker 7: He won't it was trailer who sit there just chat
Speaker 7: tell stories and like.
Speaker 5: He's just the.
Speaker 2: I love because I'm such a fan. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: I love I love that so much counter Earth.
Speaker 8: So it's different way you're like a fan and you
Speaker 8: love his work. And we were when we were just
Speaker 8: started dating. The first movie I recommended to Robo as
Speaker 8: the sling Blade, I said, yeah, watched Moose sling Blade.
Speaker 8: I was like, oh, she's gonna think I'm so cool
Speaker 8: because I'm recommended. It was like really cool and I
Speaker 8: love them. But that, like so many movies season, we
Speaker 8: just we just love. We're just such big fans. So
Speaker 8: it's like, yeah, we're setting ourselves up for like real disappointment,
Speaker 8: you know, and hoping he was cool and he was
Speaker 8: the coolest.
Speaker 7: Even better than what we had.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I love that so much.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's hard because in this day and
Speaker 2: age too, I mean, and I know you guys deal
Speaker 2: with that people that you know, you guys are in
Speaker 2: the family with deal with it too. But there's so
Speaker 2: many headlines, and I think it's so hard because people
Speaker 2: just kind of believe what they see in a headline
Speaker 2: versus what the full story is and what the what
Speaker 2: the person's maybe intentions was but behind that. But then
Speaker 2: they're always going to pick out the worst possible thing.
Speaker 2: That's why, like I sometimes hate doing this podcast because
Speaker 2: they usually I'm like, that's not what I was actually
Speaker 2: trying to say, or so it's a you know, it's
Speaker 2: a it's a tough thing. And then when you meet
Speaker 2: someone that you know has been in the public eye
Speaker 2: so much, you're like, Okay, who is this because we've
Speaker 2: been pain in certain different version, you know, different versions
Speaker 2: of them. So I love to hear that, and I'm
Speaker 2: just curious to you, like, how do you guys deal
Speaker 2: with not taking negative things even from people that you
Speaker 2: love and that are close with And then you guys personally.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's tough. I mean we're human, you know.
Speaker 4: I I see.
Speaker 7: People have such an opinion now and they have a voice.
Speaker 7: Whereas before you'd go to a movie, you'd watch a show,
Speaker 7: you liked it, you didn't like it.
Speaker 6: It wasn't like a personal comment on the person, like
Speaker 6: I think, it's really scary at the times that we
Speaker 6: live in now and everyone has like this direct access
Speaker 6: to you almost and they can comment on you and
Speaker 6: about you, and at the end of the day, it's
Speaker 6: still hurts if it's not kind, if it's not accurate,
Speaker 6: if they misunderstood. And I haven't you know, we haven't
Speaker 6: really been thankfully, we haven't been.
Speaker 5: Very like you.
Speaker 8: So we've got family members, We've got like a lot
Speaker 8: of working actors in our family, and and uh, you know,
Speaker 8: they're more the more famous you are, the more critical
Speaker 8: people are.
Speaker 6: Of course, everybody has an opinion now and it's not
Speaker 6: always accurate, you know, but.
Speaker 5: People so they never say things best.
Speaker 2: But it's got to be hard though, you know, when
Speaker 2: you when it is people that are you know, it's
Speaker 2: about the you know, people that you love and care about,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 4: So I definitely can see that. And it's funny.
Speaker 2: I talked to my therapists about that about having opinions
Speaker 2: because there's things that I've said on here and the
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I wish I could have taken that back,
Speaker 2: because that was a bad headline or something, and she's like,
Speaker 2: you know, like to your point, everyone thinks they have
Speaker 2: an opinion, but you have to when you speak, it's
Speaker 2: what do you want, you know, your opinion to be,
Speaker 2: and how do you want your words to to be?
Speaker 2: And you know, what do you want people to hear?
Speaker 2: And so I think, you know, it's okay to have
Speaker 2: an opinion, but who is it affecting and what is
Speaker 2: the and why why do you need to have that
Speaker 2: opinion too? Like do you really need that opinion, you know,
Speaker 2: and do you have to vocalize that to everybody?
Speaker 7: Well, it's validating for people. It's validating, you know, for
Speaker 7: a lot of people. That makes them feel important.
Speaker 8: And yeah, yeah, there does seem to be like there's
Speaker 8: some enjoyment on ripping on someone.
Speaker 3: Yeah he gets attention.
Speaker 1: People people who wrap on all the people on social
Speaker 1: media and leave the collments, to leave the comments to
Speaker 1: get the attention.
Speaker 5: Yeah they Yeah, they don't necessarily mean it at all.
Speaker 5: And a lot of times I think they're just trying
Speaker 5: to be funny. And it was like I put a
Speaker 5: comment out there to be a reaction whatever.
Speaker 7: Is popular, you know, whatever everyone else is saying.
Speaker 6: They're going to jump on the bandwagon and they don't
Speaker 6: have their own opinion about something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we could talk to you guys forever, but
Speaker 2: we know you guys have to go. And we're so
Speaker 2: excited to watch land Man to see you both on there.
Speaker 2: It's airing now on Paramount.
Speaker 4: Plus.
Speaker 2: We can't wait for you know, the next stuff that
Speaker 2: you guys do, because and yeah, just thank you for
Speaker 2: coming on being authentic and vulnerable and we really appreciate it.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we're we're very happy to be in the cabor
Speaker 8: of sharing and go ahead in their universe. So after
Speaker 8: we did Layman, Taylor put Robin on Lioness Special offs
Speaker 8: Lines and so she's working with Nicole Kimman over there
Speaker 8: the last time.
Speaker 5: And then yeah, and then I get to the Yellowstone,
Speaker 5: which is cool. And then big fans of your guys
Speaker 5: love that. So great to meet you guys.
Speaker 4: And whenever you guys are in Nashville, let us know
Speaker 4: we will.
Speaker 7: We're a huge soccer family as well.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, good a soccer coach love.
Speaker 7: Go tonight is so similar?
Speaker 2: Crazy Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh, I love that.
Speaker 4: So yes, come to Nashville. Well we'll all.
Speaker 2: Go out and that'd be cool, let's do that discuss. Okay, awesome,
Speaker 2: Thanks y'all. I appreciate you guys. All right, bye, that
Speaker 2: was so sweet. They're so sweet. Great, all right, We'll
Speaker 2: see you next week, ye