Speaker 1: Good.
Speaker 2: All right, break it down.
Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy
Speaker 3: and Cat gotcha cove and locking.
Speaker 2: No, brother, ladies and folks, do you.
Speaker 3: Just follow an the spirit where it's all the front
Speaker 3: or real stuff to the chill stuff and the m
Speaker 3: but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it
Speaker 3: just you feel things. This is feeling.
Speaker 1: Things with Amy and Cat.
Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Cat,
Speaker 2: and Cat's gonna kick us off with the feeling of
Speaker 2: the day. We both have them today, lots of feelings flowing.
Speaker 1: So I'm adding an extra feeling. We'll get to my
Speaker 1: real feeling. Well, they're both real feelings, but my extra
Speaker 1: feeling is excited.
Speaker 2: This is where we validate for everybody all your feelings, Matt, Well,
Speaker 2: do we use the word real because your feelings are real?
Speaker 2: But also they're.
Speaker 1: All valid, They're not always justified, okay, and feelings do
Speaker 1: not justify hurtful behavior.
Speaker 2: Amen.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just excited.
Speaker 2: Are you going to describe some herbal behavior that you
Speaker 2: did know?
Speaker 1: I'm feeling excited because something big is happening.
Speaker 2: Yes, So make sure to follow us on socials. I
Speaker 2: feel like that's the easy way. And then if you're
Speaker 2: not on Socials, then in the show notes, we will
Speaker 2: have a link where you can find everything. I don't
Speaker 2: know that it'll be up yet, it's well, well, the
Speaker 2: show's coming out or this episode's coming out on Tuesday.
Speaker 1: The link you can sign up for the newsletter that
Speaker 1: will let you know exactly when everything goes live.
Speaker 2: Boom, and it'll show it in your email inbox, and
Speaker 2: then that makes it easy PC. Yeah, so we have
Speaker 2: a sweat set. Yeah, I'm very excited about the sweat set.
Speaker 2: Kat does have on the T shirt that's the one
Speaker 2: we've been.
Speaker 1: Wearing for feeling for a while.
Speaker 2: We've gone through a lot of other options of things,
Speaker 2: and then we have a hat with something that we've
Speaker 2: been saying a lot. So we hope that you'll enjoy
Speaker 2: it because it'll sort of be our little inside secret.
Speaker 1: Ooh, you guys should message us and say what you
Speaker 1: think the hat's going to say? Yeah, it's not what
Speaker 1: you think. It's not the same as what I'm.
Speaker 2: It's not the same as the shirt. Every piece, the hat,
Speaker 2: the shirt, and the sweat set all have a different vibe.
Speaker 2: So hopefully there's something for every type of style or
Speaker 2: whatever you're into. Okay, that's a good feeling. I didn't
Speaker 2: know where you're going with that.
Speaker 1: But I said that you get us there. It's exciting extra.
Speaker 2: Yes, of course, it's exciting to've been working on it
Speaker 2: for months. And it's good timing too, because maybe you're
Speaker 2: starting to shop for gifts and guys, I know we
Speaker 2: have some husbands that are listening so they can better
Speaker 2: understand their wives because their wives listen to so now
Speaker 2: Bam easy Charristmas.
Speaker 1: Gift Easy Easy, Lemon Squeezy. Now my other feeling. I'm
Speaker 1: excited to share this feeling too, because Cryocat just asked
Speaker 1: about my hair before we started recording, and I'd already
Speaker 1: planned to say this, so she asked, if I got
Speaker 1: my haircut, does it look.
Speaker 2: Like I got my haircut like a little layer? Maybe?
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, I got my first blowout on Saturday. Have
Speaker 1: you gotten a blow out? You're looking at me like that.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think that everyone has experienced a blowout.
Speaker 2: I just didn't know that's where you were going with
Speaker 2: what happened, Like, so you didn't cut your hair. It's
Speaker 2: just the magic of a blowout.
Speaker 1: Yes, so I got a blowout on Saturday because my
Speaker 1: mom has a membership somewhere and she had extra credits.
Speaker 2: There's a blowout membership.
Speaker 1: My mom wants to get her hair done, so she
Speaker 1: hadn't used all her credits because I guess she wasn't
Speaker 1: getting her hair blown out in the summer because she
Speaker 1: would always be like going to the pool or the leg.
Speaker 1: I guess. So she asked me my sister wanted to
Speaker 1: get her hair blown out. I never would have just
Speaker 1: gone and gotten a blowout. That's just I'm like, I
Speaker 1: can gurl my hair, and I wanted the real experience
Speaker 1: because they can do whatever you want. I guess they
Speaker 1: could just curl it, they can wave it. I said,
Speaker 1: I want a real blowout. She did like the bru
Speaker 1: you know, the brush and then the rollers. It was fun.
Speaker 1: I felt pampered and I felt like I could have
Speaker 1: fallen asleep in that chair. But I also thought I
Speaker 1: would hate it. I thought I would look like I
Speaker 1: was from.
Speaker 2: The eighties, like just too much hair.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't take a picture after it.
Speaker 2: Was taller, the hair, the closer to Jesus, this is beautiful.
Speaker 2: Oh you loved it.
Speaker 1: Oh I loved it.
Speaker 2: It still looks great today even days later.
Speaker 1: Well, so I got inspired.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I know what you're gonna say. What
Speaker 2: did you buy like a blowout kit to do your
Speaker 2: own and you're gonna set up with your nail salon
Speaker 2: in your kitchen. Now, this is one thing I will
Speaker 2: take you up on. You can blow dry my hair.
Speaker 1: I will take a blowout. I'm feeling seen and known
Speaker 1: right now. So I took a baby step because I
Speaker 1: know what I can do is like I can get
Speaker 1: the whole shebang going too soon, So I baby sept it.
Speaker 1: I didn't get like the air wrap that's like six hundred.
Speaker 1: I just got a heated brush like a curling iron,
Speaker 1: but it's a brushka, you know. And I got some
Speaker 1: kind of spray. They sprayed so many things in my
Speaker 1: hair that I was like, how do I make it
Speaker 1: look like this? I need all those products, but I
Speaker 1: don't want to buy them all. So I got some spray.
Speaker 1: I got a blowout brush like the iron. So today
Speaker 1: I didn't wash my hair. I just used the brush
Speaker 1: to redo it. And it looks not as good now.
Speaker 1: It looked really good this morning, So I have to
Speaker 1: perfect how to keep it looking that way. But have
Speaker 1: you watched Nobody Wants This Is That?
Speaker 2: With Kristinn watched This Is It with Kristin Bell? Yeah, yes,
Speaker 2: I'll watched it.
Speaker 1: I didn't even answer no.
Speaker 2: I was trying to make sure that it was the
Speaker 2: right show with Adam Brody and Kristen Bell. Yes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the sister I don't know the actress name, but
Speaker 1: the sister's name is Morgan. She is the best hair
Speaker 1: and that's my goal. So I want my hair to
Speaker 1: look like Morgan from Nobody Wants This? And I rewatched
Speaker 1: that season this weekend. The second season's coming out on Thursday.
Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, okay, So once I get good at this,
Speaker 1: I'll do your hair. Okay, that is relaxing, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right guys, that's my next business.
Speaker 2: Okay, can't wait for the blowout. You have to be
Speaker 2: careful with those heated why brush tool thingies though. I
Speaker 2: just want to make sure it doesn't like break your hair.
Speaker 2: When I was getting too many blowouts at one point,
Speaker 2: my hair person is like, why is your hair breaking?
Speaker 2: What's going on? And they sometimes will use just when
Speaker 2: you go or when you're using it, just don't keep
Speaker 2: it on the highest hottest setting. But if they're trying
Speaker 2: to turn over and get as many people in as
Speaker 2: possible to hire the heat, the quicker they can move,
Speaker 2: and so you just have to request medium heat just
Speaker 2: so that it's not I had it on three ninety damaging.
Speaker 2: I don't know that three nineties bad. I feel like
Speaker 2: it's when you get to four hundred four ten.
Speaker 1: It goes to four ten.
Speaker 2: Okay. I would back it down just so that you
Speaker 2: don't end up with a lot of breakage. And it
Speaker 2: was a thing because I was going to get I
Speaker 2: guess it was probably like your mom. I didn't have
Speaker 2: a membership. But I justified it because I would take
Speaker 2: my computer and I would work the entire time. And
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm multitasking getting my hair washed. I'm working.
Speaker 1: How often were you doing it?
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes once a week.
Speaker 1: I wish I could do this once a week.
Speaker 2: And then I realized, okay, how much I was spending
Speaker 2: to me. I definitely was trying to justify it because
Speaker 2: I was working, like I said, but the math wasn't
Speaker 2: really mathing if I really took a look at it,
Speaker 2: so I stopped. But also the hair was.
Speaker 1: Very king Okay, well maybe I'll just do this on
Speaker 1: special occasions, but I curled my hair every day. I know.
Speaker 2: I'm just making sure with your tools, like keep it.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's just so a little warning because
Speaker 2: I had tons and tons of short baby hairs and
Speaker 2: I didn't know that that was the reason. And then
Speaker 2: when I cut back on them, my hair got better.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is our pact. You're gonna tell me
Speaker 1: in a nice, non sib way if my hair starts
Speaker 1: to look broken, okay, damaged, I shall Everybody in this room,
Speaker 1: I shall tell you because I don't want to hurt
Speaker 1: my I feel like I have healthy hair right now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you said you'd been sib to Patrick lately.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this weekend. I noticed multiple times. It's when he
Speaker 1: will ask I'll have just said something and he'll ask,
Speaker 1: like what I just said, and I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I just said this. And maybe it's because I feel
Speaker 1: like he's not paying it. Yeah, I know, I know.
Speaker 1: I just figured it out in my head. It's football.
Speaker 1: It's football. It's football season. We're in the middle. It's Saturday, Sunday, Monday,
Speaker 1: is it Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's lots of football it's not Tuesday. I think
Speaker 2: Tuesday night.
Speaker 1: It's not working for me. That's probably what it is
Speaker 1: because we were out, I know this weekend. We were
Speaker 1: out going to different stores and he was being such
Speaker 1: a trooper. We were like chopping and stuff for my hotbrush,
Speaker 1: and he's glued to his phone the whole time, and
Speaker 1: so he's not listening to what I'm the story I'm
Speaker 1: telling myself. He's not listening to me because he's watching football.
Speaker 1: And then I snap at him and then he's like, okay,
Speaker 1: so sweet back. Like he doesn't snap back at me.
Speaker 1: And if I talk to him like that, or if
Speaker 1: he talked to me like that, I would be double
Speaker 1: SIB all over him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be a problem. Well, I think we
Speaker 2: both have ended up with guys that are just way
Speaker 2: more laid back than we are. Like we have you know,
Speaker 2: you said Sib earlier, which if anybody is new.
Speaker 1: It's sorry epitchy, because.
Speaker 2: We don't mean to be. Yeah, but just sometimes we
Speaker 2: can be. And I purposefully chose to go on an
Speaker 2: eight hour road trip with my boyfriend and his kids.
Speaker 2: So I met them in Virginia a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 2: They were there for fall break and we were going
Speaker 2: to a Virginia football game. They drove up because they
Speaker 2: were there for several days. I was there for less
Speaker 2: than forty eight hours, so I flew in after work
Speaker 2: on Friday, and then they were driving back on that Sunday,
Speaker 2: and I thought, well, I'm not going to book a
Speaker 2: round trip. I'm just going to book a one way
Speaker 2: and then I'm gonna ride in the car with y'all
Speaker 2: because I want to see what it's like eight hours
Speaker 2: in the car with these people.
Speaker 1: Was anybody like I'll take Amy's plane ticket?
Speaker 2: No? They no, I mean they were. They were good
Speaker 2: road trippers, and I think that was what was so appealing. Like,
Speaker 2: I mean, there was some bickering because their siblings a
Speaker 2: little bit, but everybody handled it well and there wasn't
Speaker 2: drama like it was eight hours in the car and
Speaker 2: with bathroom breaks and food breaks, like everything was smooth.
Speaker 1: One what time did you get up and leave?
Speaker 2: We left at eight am because everybody wanted to get
Speaker 2: back at a reasonable time.
Speaker 1: That's kind of a late start.
Speaker 2: Eight am.
Speaker 1: I grew up.
Speaker 2: We had been out, we'd been out till like one
Speaker 2: in the morning.
Speaker 1: You wild kids.
Speaker 2: Well, it was a night game.
Speaker 1: You guys are crazy. What kind of pits said you make?
Speaker 2: Just bathroom and food. We stopped for bagels on our
Speaker 2: way out of town at Bobo's Bagels, which is apparently
Speaker 2: it's notoriously famous in Charlottesville.
Speaker 1: Do you want to rate it?
Speaker 2: Oh, ten out of ten? It was so good, Okay,
Speaker 2: Like I would compare it to Leon's Bagels out of
Speaker 2: New York, the one I brought you that one time.
Speaker 1: You literally brought from New York, dropped it off at
Speaker 1: my office. Yeah, the next that's amazing. That's one of
Speaker 1: the best gifts.
Speaker 2: And then whenever I posted about that Bobos that I
Speaker 2: was eating on my way back, you were like, did
Speaker 2: you bring me a bagel? And then I felt bad
Speaker 2: because I did think about it. I was I thought
Speaker 2: I should get cat one. But we divided and conquered
Speaker 2: because some people went and picked up the bagels while
Speaker 2: Alex and I picked up like these juice things and
Speaker 2: some coffee at the place next door. And then we
Speaker 2: all hopped in the car like, yeah, divided, conquered, got
Speaker 2: the stuff, hopped in the car, and then we were
Speaker 2: head out of town and we did. It was one
Speaker 2: gas stop, two bathrooms, and then Chipotle for lunch.
Speaker 1: Interesting, that's it.
Speaker 2: And then we had some snacks, but interesting road trip
Speaker 2: lunch Chipotle. There wasn't very many other options. It was unanimous.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not maybe it's not that interesting. What would
Speaker 1: you choose? Okay, it's a Sunday Chick fil A. But
Speaker 1: then also, which is such a bummer because Sunday is
Speaker 1: such a travel day. But we grew up stopping. But
Speaker 1: I guess you had breakfast already. We always stopped at
Speaker 1: Cracker Barrel every road trip.
Speaker 2: That sounds like miserable because you've you've just no Cracker
Speaker 2: Barrel is amazing, But you're trying to get out on
Speaker 2: the road and within the first part of your trip
Speaker 2: you're already stopping for a long sit down breakfast.
Speaker 1: No, because my dad would make us leave at like
Speaker 1: six am, if not before.
Speaker 2: Okay, we were out early, so it was a deserved break.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it would be like three hours later. And I
Speaker 1: loved Cracker Rail because then you got to get a prize,
Speaker 1: got your meal.
Speaker 2: Day store, get you something like your parents would get
Speaker 2: you a little treat, like you know the store, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I know the country store.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We would all get like a piece of candy
Speaker 1: or something. I would always get those dots that were
Speaker 1: on the tape.
Speaker 2: But you're calling it a price. I guess I just
Speaker 2: went clarification, like your parents would get you a treat,
Speaker 2: or you would like you would have to play a
Speaker 2: game and then you get.
Speaker 1: If you won the little game with the table, then
Speaker 1: you got to know they're in a good mood. Then
Speaker 1: you got to get something there. Probably didn't make us
Speaker 1: be quiet because there was four kids in the back
Speaker 1: of a car, but I would get those you know,
Speaker 1: those sugar dots that are on the yes paper from
Speaker 1: the paper which are discoloring. I always got those memories.
Speaker 2: Memories.
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry mam. Anyway, I want to hear about yours
Speaker 1: went well.
Speaker 2: And I'm thinking like, okay, this was my test, Like
Speaker 2: I wanted to test out, you know, check road trip, check.
Speaker 2: You know there's like things like we've never like we've
Speaker 2: been together for a year, we've never gone to the movies.
Speaker 2: So I don't know what that's like. What if going
Speaker 2: to the movies with him as a horrible experience. Now
Speaker 2: I need to check that box. But I've done an
Speaker 2: eight hour road trip and I've done a football game.
Speaker 2: Check like I've gone back to his college, met all
Speaker 2: his college friends, good reviews, check like reviews on Alex's friends, reputation, personality.
Speaker 2: They all love him. They think he's great, stand up
Speaker 2: quality guy, has been for however many years.
Speaker 1: I can't. I want to come back to this, but
Speaker 1: my brain is stuck on movies. We have ever been
Speaker 1: to the movie theater? No.
Speaker 2: I think it's because well, five kids between the two
Speaker 2: of us, and like weekends are just we're tired. If
Speaker 2: we want to watch a movie, we rent it or
Speaker 2: watch a show or something and lay on the couch
Speaker 2: instead of going to the movies. Or there's like sports, And.
Speaker 1: Are you going to have to go to the movies
Speaker 1: before you get married? You can't marry somebody you've never
Speaker 1: been to the movie theater. That's crazy.
Speaker 2: I mean we're not getting married yet, but yes, but
Speaker 2: that has to be Okay, I need to make like
Speaker 2: a check to make sure you're not going to jump
Speaker 2: the gun and not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So back to the trip you met his friends.
Speaker 1: I did see that you spilt something on his friends. Yes,
Speaker 1: would you like to see so?
Speaker 2: And that I only had the video part of it
Speaker 2: because that was a live photo. So like when you
Speaker 2: play the live and it loops. You see the drink
Speaker 2: flying out of my hands.
Speaker 1: I watched it like ten times. How did it? I
Speaker 1: thought it?
Speaker 2: I've decided to either cross my leg or uncross my leg.
Speaker 2: I can't tell. You have to look at it again.
Speaker 2: But and then my drink just flew out of my hand.
Speaker 1: Looks like you like threw.
Speaker 2: I know, it like just flew like. I couldn't even
Speaker 2: explain it. And yes, there's a husband and wife sitting
Speaker 2: in front of us that Alex has known since college.
Speaker 2: We were using their tickets. We were sitting with them.
Speaker 2: I had just met her and the husband. But the
Speaker 2: drink only spilled on the wife just hours before first
Speaker 2: time meeting, and my drink went all over her denim
Speaker 2: dress and.
Speaker 1: It was like a Darner liquid.
Speaker 2: It wasn't no okay, No, it was a high noon.
Speaker 1: Oh I thought it was like a coke. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: a little better.
Speaker 2: But she had dark dinnum. So I think we would
Speaker 2: have been fine. But I was mortified.
Speaker 1: Was it cold? Like the weather wasn't as cold.
Speaker 2: As I thought it was going to be. So no,
Speaker 2: I think we were fine. Okay, maybe she found it
Speaker 2: frushing She's like sticky, like what they Everybody was like
Speaker 2: what just happened? I was like, I don't know, and
Speaker 2: I am so sorry. And then I was like, no
Speaker 2: more high noons for me. But even though it wasn't
Speaker 2: drink really like alcohol, like I hadn't had too much. Yeah,
Speaker 2: she was kind okay, no, s ib okay, totally kind.
Speaker 2: And your girlfriend's so funny, like, oh, yeah.
Speaker 1: That's a good story because what if you guys become
Speaker 1: my good friends now and that's like a story of
Speaker 1: how you met.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think we just will be because
Speaker 2: that's some of the people he's closest to. So I
Speaker 2: really enjoyed spending time with them. And you know, I
Speaker 2: was testing her and she passed. She don't know.
Speaker 1: Wait. Also you post about that.
Speaker 2: Wall, Oh the whisper wall. Oh the whisper wall. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's a UVA. I guess they that's a thing. It's
Speaker 2: not just a uva.
Speaker 1: They have them other places build that.
Speaker 2: Curved marble wall that you can google it. But because
Speaker 2: of the way it's designed, the echo travels through the
Speaker 2: marble and you can hear it on the other side.
Speaker 2: That blew my mind.
Speaker 1: It was in my mind and I couldn't give him.
Speaker 2: And then Alex is telling me about all these secret
Speaker 2: societies at UVA, and I did. I thought he was
Speaker 2: messing with me. And then I google that after I
Speaker 2: google whisper Wall, and sure enough, there are these secret societies.
Speaker 2: One in particular I found really intriguing called the Sevens
Speaker 2: and the seven Society. There's only seven members and nobody
Speaker 2: knows who they are. You find out when they die.
Speaker 2: So like Alex could be a seven, he's not.
Speaker 1: You know, because you don't know that.
Speaker 2: I was reading through some of the way it would
Speaker 2: play out. I don't think he's a seven. But you
Speaker 2: can't at their funeral. A black thing a thing. I
Speaker 2: don't know how to say this because I don't know
Speaker 2: if they spray paint them black, because they're not black Magnolia's,
Speaker 2: you know. But maybe they paint Magnolia's black and they're
Speaker 2: in the shape of a seven, and it's at the
Speaker 2: grape site.
Speaker 1: Some nobody says anything about it. They just well know.
Speaker 2: That's when people there, that's when family learns, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: uncle Bob was a seven.
Speaker 1: So then nobody can become a new member until somebody dies.
Speaker 2: I guess, so because there's only seven at a time,
Speaker 2: and they make these crazy donations to the university that
Speaker 2: are like seven hundred and seventy seven thousand dollars and
Speaker 2: seventy seven cents.
Speaker 1: So you have to be really wealthy to be a seven. Probably,
Speaker 1: I don't know that I would want to be in
Speaker 1: a secret society with only seven people. Theold I don't know,
Speaker 1: we'll never know.
Speaker 2: I don't know their age. Someone DMed me a listener
Speaker 2: actually DMed me after I posted about the seven and
Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I went to a funeral once
Speaker 2: where someone was a seven and we found out at
Speaker 2: the funeral. But like, no sevens can show up and
Speaker 2: be like, oh, they were a seven, because then they
Speaker 2: would be outing themselves. So the flower just shows up,
Speaker 2: that's a seven.
Speaker 1: But who brings the flower?
Speaker 2: You probably order it from a flower shop anonymously, of course.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And if you want to communicate with the sevens, you
Speaker 2: like drop off a piece of paper or some statue
Speaker 2: on campus.
Speaker 1: We need to communicate them with.
Speaker 2: What societies at a lot of campuses, not mine, which
Speaker 2: at UVA they don't call it a campus, to call
Speaker 2: it the grounds. So on the grounds this is very
Speaker 2: prestigious Thomas Jefferson found in it. Edgar Allan Poe went there.
Speaker 2: I saw his bedroom. They have it preserved. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: had a lot of raven decor in his room. They
Speaker 2: put it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was cute. I was like, was this this bead?
Speaker 1: I like it? Wait, so the sevens are part of
Speaker 1: the school, like the students.
Speaker 2: Sir Society that is at UVA. There might be sevens
Speaker 2: at other universities.
Speaker 1: But oh, and there's seven at each university.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that university has a seven, they
Speaker 2: may have the eights. Okay, because the imps and the z's.
Speaker 1: This is what's getting the way is. I thought this
Speaker 1: would be like students who are in the Secret Society.
Speaker 2: They might be I don't know if they're a lumber,
Speaker 2: but I.
Speaker 1: Could be like one young student yep, and then like
Speaker 1: six old guys. Okay, and it's only for women. No, okay,
Speaker 1: there could be women.
Speaker 2: I like the sevens okay, and the IMP's like I
Speaker 2: was reading about them, and they like dress up with
Speaker 2: and put horns on. The MP's freaked me out quite
Speaker 2: honestly when I was reading about them. But then it
Speaker 2: made me think about Illuminati and other secret societies that
Speaker 2: are out there, just worldwide, like not exclusive to a campus, yeah,
Speaker 2: or university, and just these traditions that have been around
Speaker 2: like hundreds of years of these people meeting with capes
Speaker 2: and horns and being.
Speaker 1: Like, hey, it feels very coltish, but apparently they do good.
Speaker 2: At least the sevens. They have lots of that's what
Speaker 2: they want you to donations, but they probably have a
Speaker 2: lot of money and connection.
Speaker 1: I wonder if you can say no, I don't know,
Speaker 1: or if it's like we're going to kill you if
Speaker 1: you don't accept this, Oh, that would be bad. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Some secret societies I think are bad,
Speaker 1: like colts are bad. Yeah, well, I guess I shouldn't
Speaker 1: say as I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Nobody's ever asked me to be in
Speaker 2: a secret society.
Speaker 1: So well, if you couldn't, that's yet. Well no, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: you could be bluffing if you were asked to be
Speaker 1: in secret society you couldn't tell us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I just come on here and act like
Speaker 2: I'm just now learning you're in profit at seven? Yeah,
Speaker 2: maybe a seventh. Look what I learned about seven from
Speaker 2: Texas A and M yeah, yeah, I don't even know
Speaker 2: if we had secret societies there.
Speaker 1: Well maybe what were you going to say about cheating?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Well, so this was my feeling, my feeling
Speaker 2: of the day, sort of like conflicted. So I've taken
Speaker 2: a trip with my boyfriend's family before, but my kids
Speaker 2: were there as well, So this is the first time
Speaker 2: we're all on a trip and having fun and doing
Speaker 2: something and my kids are with their dad, so they're
Speaker 2: not with me, and we all took a pic and
Speaker 2: it's like me, Alex and the kids and it's like,
Speaker 2: oh hey, and it felt weird, like whenever I was
Speaker 2: posting the pic later, I felt like I was cheating
Speaker 2: all my kids, which I had not had that feeling before.
Speaker 2: So this is new because we've hung out in town,
Speaker 2: of course, but something about being out of town on
Speaker 2: a trip doing something and I don't know if other
Speaker 2: people that are dating and you've got kids or they've
Speaker 2: got kids, and then this whole blending of families that
Speaker 2: was just a new feeling that I hadn't had before,
Speaker 2: where I felt weird even posting a.
Speaker 1: Family pic without part of your family.
Speaker 2: Yes, like something in me felt like I needed to explain,
Speaker 2: like I still love my kids, but they're just not here.
Speaker 2: So I didn't end up explaining anything because I know
Speaker 2: how I feel. But also I thought, if my kids
Speaker 2: see this, I don't want them to think, oh, look
Speaker 2: at mom with them, you know, And I missed them
Speaker 2: and I wanted them to be there. So it felt
Speaker 2: like this weird and the best way for me to
Speaker 2: describe it. And that's why I mentioned that word cheating
Speaker 2: to you and then you were like, wait about what,
Speaker 2: and you're like, save it for the podcast. So I
Speaker 2: felt like I was cheating on my kids.
Speaker 1: That sounds hard.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be dramatic about it. I'm not
Speaker 2: as torn up about it as maybe it seems, but
Speaker 2: I am conflicted.
Speaker 1: Well, it just feels like something is missing.
Speaker 2: Or they were missing. I wanted been there. Yeah, But
Speaker 2: the thing is they're not always going to be there.
Speaker 2: The reality is I only have them fifty percent of
Speaker 2: the time, and the reality is everybody is getting older
Speaker 2: and they have their own stuff going on. So even
Speaker 2: if I did have them, they may not be at
Speaker 2: a certain event that the rest of us are at
Speaker 2: and they may just not be there. And the more
Speaker 2: we do that, the more we'll get used to it.
Speaker 2: I'm sure it'll be fine. This just happened to be
Speaker 2: the first time, and that was the feeling that I had,
Speaker 2: and I had to really pay attention to it. And
Speaker 2: then I had to pay attention of like why I
Speaker 2: felt this desire to explain it? Who was that four?
Speaker 2: And then I realized, like, oh, I don't need to
Speaker 2: explain anything. And also, if my kids ask anything, I'll
Speaker 2: say the same thing to them, like this is another
Speaker 2: part of my life. But we're all we're all in
Speaker 2: this together.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, even if you had them on
Speaker 1: hundred percent of the time, maybe they didn't want to
Speaker 1: go to that kind of thing exactly. They're like, go,
Speaker 1: I don't care about UVA and the imps.
Speaker 2: And they would choose to stay back and go with friends, Yeah, somewhere.
Speaker 1: Else when you get older, like, yeah, you'd rather do
Speaker 1: stuff with your friends and go to like a raning
Speaker 1: depending Yeah, but there's plenty of times around like mom,
Speaker 1: can I do fall break with so and so?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. It ended up like,
Speaker 2: worked through it, feel fine, but that until we have
Speaker 2: more experiences with it, I'll likely feel just a little
Speaker 2: conflicted when I've.
Speaker 1: Got it going on.
Speaker 2: But speaking of the social posts, I also feel happy
Speaker 2: because I know social media is not everything, but for kids,
Speaker 2: snapchat is a really big thing. And my boyfriend's daughter
Speaker 2: who's seventeen, and their mom passed away several years ago
Speaker 2: from cancer, so she was the oldest and closest to
Speaker 2: her mom. I mean they were all close to her,
Speaker 2: but you know, she was the oldest, so her relationship
Speaker 2: and her age when it happened is a little different
Speaker 2: than like the youngest per se, so it's been more
Speaker 2: of a challenge. And she posted me on her Snapchat.
Speaker 1: I saw she posted to you on her Instagram.
Speaker 2: Yes, right, but I feel like snapchat, Oh I got snapped?
Speaker 1: How did you know? Did she say?
Speaker 2: Like somebody told me? Another person that saw it told me.
Speaker 1: Later, were they like amy you guys?
Speaker 2: I was like, I made the snapchat.
Speaker 1: It snapchat is like a story, right, Okay?
Speaker 2: So I got snapped and I felt like that was
Speaker 2: a bit that's a big deal, like it's just information,
Speaker 2: and it made me smile inside. I even texted Alex
Speaker 2: about it and he was like, does that make you happy?
Speaker 2: And I was like.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.
Speaker 2: So I tried to like spend time and savor that
Speaker 2: and soak it up and be like, oh wow, because
Speaker 2: this time a year ago, I was terrified of how
Speaker 2: it was going to how our relationship would unfold. So
Speaker 2: that was cool.
Speaker 1: So you had a big weekend. You learned a lot,
Speaker 1: you experienced a lot, and I feel like you grew
Speaker 1: Like that trip was like a big growth point for
Speaker 1: your relationship in general. Okay, and you had fun. Also.
Speaker 1: I read your story where you said like whoh hoo,
Speaker 1: woho uh, But.
Speaker 2: I don't know Hudson his daughter types that for me.
Speaker 1: I thought you were just typing like woo hoo oh.
Speaker 2: That's what they say at Uba.
Speaker 1: All these people commenting on your posts that, and I
Speaker 1: was like, that must be like their battle cry or something.
Speaker 1: But I thought you were just being like silly and
Speaker 1: fun and like typing like a fun way to say
Speaker 1: woo who did you learn any cheers?
Speaker 2: We sang the song whenever they would cheer, like they
Speaker 2: sway back and forth. We do that at Texas A
Speaker 2: and M. Do you do that? Is that like every
Speaker 2: college thing?
Speaker 1: Well? I went to one, maybe two football games my
Speaker 1: whole college career, so I don't know what they do there. Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, at A and M we crossed legs and grab
Speaker 2: arms and like sway back and forth and sing our song.
Speaker 2: And at UVA they kind of do the same thing,
Speaker 2: different song, two different songs. Yeah, but so I would
Speaker 2: sway back and forth. My thing was I want to
Speaker 2: go all in, so I had never been before. I
Speaker 2: don't really care much about football. I went to A
Speaker 2: and M. I'm what they call a two percenter. I mean,
Speaker 2: I love the Aggis and I love an M, but
Speaker 2: I care about two percent because a lot of Aggi's
Speaker 2: are very, very, very hardcore.
Speaker 1: They still wear their rings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would wear my ring, but it got stolen.
Speaker 1: Oh right, sorry, Yeah, I loved.
Speaker 2: My Aggie ring. I'm still I haven't hard replaced it
Speaker 2: because I did work really hard to get that ring,
Speaker 2: and I haven't replaced it because I still have hope
Speaker 2: that one day somebody's going to call me and be like,
Speaker 2: are you a dot E dot? Like my initials class
Speaker 2: of three, And I'm gonna be like, that's me because
Speaker 2: my initials are engraved on the inside.
Speaker 1: I always have hope.
Speaker 2: I have hope. So I decided to go all in,
Speaker 2: Like I'm going to just embrace everything. We tailgated, we
Speaker 2: went to the game. I tried to pay attention. I cheered,
Speaker 2: and I think that I had a really good experience
Speaker 2: because I went all in.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's why you had the good experience.
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, I'm like, I'm an act, like I really
Speaker 2: care about the school and I go here and I did,
Speaker 2: and it was so fun because like, I don't really
Speaker 2: care when they had the ball, Like I don't care.
Speaker 2: I'm not like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: We have the ball, We're gonna win, So what do
Speaker 1: you do?
Speaker 2: I would celebrate when they celebrated. I would do all
Speaker 2: the things like I was just really Yes, I would
Speaker 2: get excited because they would get pumped.
Speaker 1: Okay, we've talked about this, Like I think we talked
Speaker 1: about this as annoying as sometimes it is, how much
Speaker 1: Patrick loves football. It is cute to see somebody so
Speaker 1: excite with when he's watching like a ut game. It
Speaker 1: is endearing to watch them be so excited about something.
Speaker 1: So did you have a little bit of that with Alex?
Speaker 2: Yes, I have some cute pictures of him and videos
Speaker 2: that I didn't you here, like freaking out and cheering
Speaker 2: because they it was a close game. And I thought
Speaker 2: we were going to lose.
Speaker 1: I thought they did lose.
Speaker 2: They were about too and then we won because of
Speaker 2: a safety, which is to only two points. They played
Speaker 2: Washington State University.
Speaker 1: You know it all? Okay, so you learned a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Beauty lost Tennessee. Yeah, yes, sorry, yeah there's two
Speaker 2: you're t Austin or Texas. And then yeah, well anyway,
Speaker 2: this was just a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So you like cool. Hey, Sports Up Day Day. We
Speaker 1: love sports Sports podcast, and we know you know what
Speaker 1: we can help you do is we can help you
Speaker 1: have a good time at a sporting event when you
Speaker 1: don't care about the sport.
Speaker 2: Yes, just get your hat off it. Like I was.
Speaker 2: I went to the bookstore.
Speaker 1: Because you threw out your original outfit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't end up wearing the shirt that I
Speaker 2: was gonna wear. And I got a uva hat and
Speaker 2: I got an orange and blue and white scarf, and
Speaker 2: I tied around my clear bag, you know, to like
Speaker 2: a little to accessorize it a little bit. And then
Speaker 2: I got a Virginia sweatshirt and tied it around my shoulders.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, speaking of I was watching some tiktoks and
Speaker 1: you always do look really cute when you have a
Speaker 1: Sometimes you do the little sweater thing. So I saw
Speaker 1: some girl post that if you do two of three
Speaker 1: of these things, you will look expensive. I don't buy it.
Speaker 1: It's hair, makeup, outfit. Well, I have my hair and
Speaker 1: makeup done. I have a makeup half done. I don't
Speaker 1: think I look expensive. So what do you mean by
Speaker 1: look expensive? Like chic? Yeah? It was like her like,
Speaker 1: look like you or she was like if this is
Speaker 1: how you, this is the what you do, look rich
Speaker 1: if you do. But I'm like, that's just getting right.
Speaker 2: I guess I've just never heard someone described like I
Speaker 2: look expensive, well except for cry okay, but like, what
Speaker 2: does that mean?
Speaker 1: I think is that I like the clean girl aesthetic
Speaker 1: girl clean girl aesthetic like looks like old money.
Speaker 2: I don't know this. Oh my gosh, okay, I don't
Speaker 2: know this this part of TikTok.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get back to the sweater.
Speaker 2: Wait. Clean girl is a thing.
Speaker 1: Clean girl asthetic is like slick back but minimal, like
Speaker 1: dewey skin, like like makeup, no makeup makeup.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh I love a good no maup and like
Speaker 2: a makeup makeup.
Speaker 1: For an Oxford, like very clean clothes.
Speaker 2: Oh like clean aesthetic, like ironed, steamed.
Speaker 1: Do you have a steamer the opposite of what we're wearing. Okay,
Speaker 1: but clean girl sthetic is supposed to look expensive.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: People were listening, probably like you're getting it wrong.
Speaker 2: I used drag chamber this morning. I'm dirty girl, wash
Speaker 2: my hair.
Speaker 1: Since I got to blow out dirty girls. We're dirty girl, Okay. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if we want to look like rich, it doesn't work.
Speaker 1: Chic polished is a better term, because I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't like saying like I want to either.
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, what how does what's our
Speaker 2: real value?
Speaker 1: Okay, we're all expensive in our own way. So I
Speaker 1: was looking at that because I was watching these reels
Speaker 1: because or tiktoks, because I was like, I don't buy this.
Speaker 1: I need somebody to explain this to me because this
Speaker 1: this equation doesn't work well. Then, because I was just
Speaker 1: watching videos about numbers, this other video came up and
Speaker 1: it was the Ralph Lauren rule of three. Do you
Speaker 1: say Ralph Lauren or Ralph Lauren both?
Speaker 2: I'd say Ralph Lauren mostly, but I feel like on
Speaker 2: friends that they say that was this an episode of
Speaker 2: Friends where they're like, Ralph, Lauren.
Speaker 1: You know that I've never seen Friends.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well, I don't even know if it's really
Speaker 2: a Friend's episode just popped into my head.
Speaker 1: Speaking of I'll get back to the story. Do you
Speaker 1: say kobosh or kai bosh?
Speaker 2: I don't say that word? Where what is that?
Speaker 1: Like they put the kobosh on it?
Speaker 2: I don't say that.
Speaker 1: I don't you ever heard somebody say it. You're acting
Speaker 1: like you're better than this word.
Speaker 2: I mean, I say like a kabob, like that you
Speaker 2: stick meat on a stick.
Speaker 1: Nobody's ever said kobosh.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well to all the listeners out there, I want
Speaker 1: to know people say kai bosh or kobosh because I've
Speaker 1: always said kabash and Patrick says kai bosh and it
Speaker 1: sounds weird. Okay, back to my story rule of threes.
Speaker 1: I actually really like this role because I struggle, you
Speaker 1: know how I struggle getting dressed these days, making something
Speaker 1: look like an outfit and not like I just like
Speaker 1: put on a shirt and pants, Like I'm always like,
Speaker 1: how come this person looks like they're wearing an outfit?
Speaker 1: And when I put it on I just kind of look.
Speaker 2: So it's like that's like the difference between wearing and styling.
Speaker 1: Yes, and so, she said when she worked at Raf Lauren,
Speaker 1: they had to always wear three pieces. So if you
Speaker 1: wore pants, shirt, sweater, or if you wear a dress,
Speaker 1: you'd do like belt sweater or like belt scarf around
Speaker 1: your neck or something like that, and it helps your
Speaker 1: look look more polished. Polish is a great word, Shannon.
Speaker 1: And she had on like a Oxford shirt, just regular,
Speaker 1: regular jeans and a regular I don't know why I've
Speaker 1: been saying that a lot regular degular.
Speaker 2: It's just fun fun, I mean fun done.
Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, this just made me think of you with
Speaker 1: the sweater because she just had She just put this
Speaker 1: little sweater over her and it took it looked crazy.
Speaker 1: She looked like took her from zero to hero. Yes, rich.
Speaker 2: Took her from cheap too extensive. Yes, it really did.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I can pull off the sweater
Speaker 1: around my shoulder.
Speaker 2: Yes you could.
Speaker 1: You're saying that you've never seen it, Yeah, but it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I can do it now. Oh my gosh. Okay,
Speaker 1: try to remind me next time we record. I'll see
Speaker 1: if I can whip something up. Yeah, okay, so rule
Speaker 1: of threes. Try it and see if it helps. Okay.
Speaker 2: Have you seen the thing about the order in which
Speaker 2: you get.
Speaker 1: Ready, Like when you do your like, do you do
Speaker 1: make up?
Speaker 2: Outfit? Hair outfit, makeup, hair, hair makeup outfit makeup, hair
Speaker 2: outfit outfit, hair makeup or hair outfit makeup?
Speaker 1: Okay? What am I getting ready for?
Speaker 2: It depends? It depends. I guess it depends what you're
Speaker 2: getting ready for.
Speaker 1: Because if I'm getting ready for a big event, I
Speaker 1: need to know my outfit before I figure out what
Speaker 1: I'm doing with my hair and what my makeup is
Speaker 1: gonna look like. But every day I do skincare, hair
Speaker 1: out makeup. Skincare is make makeup, makeup. There's only three
Speaker 1: options makeup outkay, hair, Sorry sorry sorry? Makeup? Say no,
Speaker 1: what do you do? I really think it depends. I'm
Speaker 1: not even kidding. I think it's either hair, it's how
Speaker 1: I'm feeling. And then my outfits always last. If it's
Speaker 1: just a regular, regular day, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I would say my outfit this lasts mostly too.
Speaker 1: Do you think people get dressed first.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I mean maybe if they pick
Speaker 2: out their outfit. They already know that it's good. But
Speaker 2: I need my hair my makeup to be done because
Speaker 2: then my outfit will look better. Yeah, for sure, And
Speaker 2: then I need my hair. I can do less with
Speaker 2: my hair if my makeup is already done, and I
Speaker 2: kind of see what we're working with. I may mess
Speaker 2: with my hair longer if my makeup isn't done, because
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to like that is a good point
Speaker 2: make myself look better.
Speaker 1: But now you know rule of three, you want to
Speaker 1: do two?
Speaker 2: Do you need clothes and hair? And well, I guess
Speaker 2: you don't have to.
Speaker 1: Have They're saying, like you could have, Like like I'm
Speaker 1: wearing sweatpants, so I don't have outfit. Okay, for no,
Speaker 1: I consider this is a great outfit. But I have
Speaker 1: makeup and hair.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So you're wearing clothes, so I'm polished, but.
Speaker 2: Polished, Okay, I gotcha. I see what you're saying.
Speaker 1: I don't believe in it, but I'm going to adopt that.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try you when I get ready for work tomorrow,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try the the rule of three. I need
Speaker 2: to make sure I have like a blazer or sweater
Speaker 2: or a belt or scarf.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yes, send me your what third accessory? No,
Speaker 1: it can't be an accessory. It's like an item.
Speaker 2: Okay, which Clark accessory? Do you say accessory or accessory?
Speaker 2: Speaking of how to.
Speaker 1: Say things, I don't think anybody says assessor.
Speaker 2: They do. I hear them.
Speaker 1: I hear them.
Speaker 2: Cat you say it accessories, accessories, accessory.
Speaker 1: Nobody says yes.
Speaker 2: I swear now that I'm telling you, you're going to
Speaker 2: hear people say accessory. No poem. I've got the only
Speaker 2: one that says poem.
Speaker 1: Poem.
Speaker 2: Matthew McConaughey does it, and so does Kelly Clarkson. We've
Speaker 2: confirmed this because they posted about it. It's a Texas thing.
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: You're hating on my heritage, origin, origin, Okay, state of birth,
Speaker 2: my birthplace.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, I take it back. Accessory No, I.
Speaker 2: Don't say, I say accessory. I don't know what part
Speaker 2: you know, how fine, if we want to assign poem to
Speaker 2: like some Texans, there is a part of the country
Speaker 2: that says accessory.
Speaker 1: I don't know where or why.
Speaker 2: But now that I've told you, sort of like this
Speaker 2: blue car and then you start seeing blue car. Now
Speaker 2: you're gonna hear accessory.
Speaker 1: Start laughing, you're gonna hear what So I say accessory,
Speaker 1: And I do think scarf is an accessory. However, for
Speaker 1: this it's not because it can't be. You add jewelry,
Speaker 1: that's not one of the threes, right, Okay, I mean
Speaker 1: unless you do like some crazy neck thing like necklace
Speaker 1: that's like big.
Speaker 2: Like a statement piece.
Speaker 1: Can't be like one of these little necklaces.
Speaker 2: Nothing dainty, Yes, to be like in your face kind
Speaker 2: a necklace. What about a hat?
Speaker 1: That would be an item? That's an item. I feel like.
Speaker 2: Now I'm just saying it that way.
Speaker 1: But I think for that, I think it just is
Speaker 1: not not jewelry. And shoes don't count because you're obviously
Speaker 1: you're gonna wear shoes. I only watched one video. I
Speaker 1: could be doing it wrong. We should ask something that
Speaker 1: worked out, Ralph Lauren, Yeah, there's the rules.
Speaker 2: We'll look it up. This makes me think of you know,
Speaker 2: we were talking about your hair, Like some stylist out
Speaker 2: of Paris or something or somewhere has this measurement rule
Speaker 2: for if you're supposed to have short hair or long hair.
Speaker 2: And I watched so many different videos on it, and
Speaker 2: I could never really decipher where the exact measurement in
Speaker 2: the ear was coming from, Like are you measuring it
Speaker 2: from like the hole where the middle of the ear
Speaker 2: or the bottom of the ear lobe, And depending on
Speaker 2: if you do that, you could be off by an inch.
Speaker 2: And then I get confused, Am I supposed to chop
Speaker 2: my hair or not?
Speaker 1: Wait, she's saying, depending on where your ear is. He
Speaker 1: he's saying, is sexist of you? Okay, I'm so sorry
Speaker 1: doing on where your ear is? Yeah, you should have short.
Speaker 2: Line depending on Now I don't know the measurements, but
Speaker 2: it's like if you take the ear to your neck,
Speaker 2: like there's a there's a measurement somewhere between here and
Speaker 2: here that if it's a certain amount, then you should
Speaker 2: have a bob or you should have long hair. And
Speaker 2: then if you're right on it, then lucky you, you
Speaker 2: get to wear a bob or long and you'll look good.
Speaker 2: But then they showed all these examples of people that
Speaker 2: have it, and yes, the bob does look better on
Speaker 2: them because it's like the length that they're Yes, And
Speaker 2: I couldn't even on when I went to his page,
Speaker 2: which I don't even know what hairstylist this is, but
Speaker 2: he must be world renowned. I couldn't figure out exactly
Speaker 2: where he started measuring because then I started seeing conflicting
Speaker 2: videos and people were doing it wrong. And then I'm like,
Speaker 2: I needed to be accurate, Like who can just give
Speaker 2: me the one accurate video? Because I googled and I
Speaker 2: started reading different measurements, and that's how I feel. Maybe
Speaker 2: now about the three Ralph Lauren, like, is there going
Speaker 2: to be conflicting reports on what's an accessory and what's not?
Speaker 2: And we need to know the.
Speaker 1: Real rule to breathe? You took a breath.
Speaker 2: I just you need for people you're getting hot. Because
Speaker 2: here's the deal. I rely heavily on advice from other people,
Speaker 2: and when it's not exactly and I can't figure it out,
Speaker 2: I get overwhelmed and I'm like, well, now I don't
Speaker 2: know what to do.
Speaker 1: Well, listen, I'm gonna give you something that's gonna be
Speaker 1: really helpful. I think, don't cut your hair into a bob.
Speaker 1: You don't do it because because because because.
Speaker 2: But what if I measure it and it tells me I.
Speaker 1: Have every time you cut your hair, you then are like,
Speaker 1: why I cut my hair. I want my long hair back,
Speaker 1: which you've had short hair like that. I think you
Speaker 1: look great with it, but you get tired of it
Speaker 1: really quickly. So that brings me to my next point.
Speaker 1: We talked about this in our newsletter, but you have
Speaker 1: not talked about them. Your newest purchase from Amazon that
Speaker 1: goes on your head?
Speaker 2: Oh my bangs, my hot clip and bangs? Are they
Speaker 2: on my counter? Maybe we should have Shane and go
Speaker 2: grab them because they might be on my Are they
Speaker 2: on the counter? They're in my dresser at my room.
Speaker 2: Should I Cat's gonna go get We're gonna go get
Speaker 2: the bangs.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen these. Have you put them in?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And what drove you to get these?
Speaker 2: Kidman?
Speaker 1: Did she tell you to get them?
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about bangs for a while because it's
Speaker 2: sort of one of those things, just like getting a
Speaker 2: bob like you just they're in a pink box. When
Speaker 2: you don't have it, you want it, yeah, and when
Speaker 2: you have it.
Speaker 1: You don't want it. It's like all the girls growing
Speaker 1: up wanted curly hair, and then all girls with curly
Speaker 1: hair wanted straight.
Speaker 2: Hair, and then with bangs and I got a perm
Speaker 2: It's dangerous because you cut them and then you have
Speaker 2: to wait for them to grow out or.
Speaker 1: You why don't you start with like a curtain bang?
Speaker 2: These had good reviews and how did it happens?
Speaker 1: They don't. It's not the same color as your hair?
Speaker 1: That why why?
Speaker 2: Because it's not I tried to order it, like exactly,
Speaker 2: but I don't really know how to get them in.
Speaker 1: Can I help you?
Speaker 2: Because Nicole Gindman got bangs and she looks so cute. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: what I get the mirror, Yes, let me see the mirror. Okay,
Speaker 2: so they need to be brushed a little bit. But
Speaker 2: like you you you put your hair. Look see how
Speaker 2: it's giving like wait but like okay, look okay, hold on,
Speaker 2: and then you take my hair, you know, and tuck this.
Speaker 2: They're just I don't can't get on my look, but
Speaker 2: it gives you the agence. It's like the general idea
Speaker 2: of what they would look like.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you actually would be cute with bangs, but
Speaker 1: like those aren't the ones I know.
Speaker 2: But this do you see how just giving you the
Speaker 2: general idea.
Speaker 1: You look like.
Speaker 2: I feel like it matches my hair, hair color.
Speaker 1: You look like you're from the the eighties. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: look like you're from Saved by the Bell, like Kelly.
Speaker 2: If I take them back a little bit, look, how's that? Yes, well,
Speaker 2: I mean probably not this much of it. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't think i'll wear them in public, but it's
Speaker 2: help filling that need to figure it out. Like I
Speaker 2: don't have to cut my bangs to see.
Speaker 1: So that's what you bought them for, not to wear them,
Speaker 1: but to just like scratch.
Speaker 2: The I thought if I could figure out how to
Speaker 2: apply them or put them on, what's the word applicate them?
Speaker 1: Is what I thought.
Speaker 2: If I could install the hair piece correctly, I would
Speaker 2: maybe wear them.
Speaker 1: Yes, this is not hair, yes his hair, yes it is.
Speaker 2: It is human hair. Okay, and they have a lot
Speaker 2: of reviews on Amazon.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe we just need to style it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like but see this is like you know how
Speaker 2: there's no makeup, makeup? This is what? No style? Style?
Speaker 2: You're just like this.
Speaker 1: Is like like this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I woke up like this casual are the.
Speaker 1: Like kind of a granny right now?
Speaker 2: Granny?
Speaker 1: See I think I feel like, oh my gosh, you
Speaker 1: just like reminded me of a grandma. From the eighties. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you look like you're about to go bake a
Speaker 1: pie or something.
Speaker 2: It's not giving you a little bit of what my
Speaker 2: hair would look like with bangs. You can't take me
Speaker 2: seriously right now, I feel like you look really pretty.
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell me that part. But just
Speaker 2: think if you're thinking about chopping your banks and then
Speaker 2: you get to put these in, you spare yourself.
Speaker 1: Because you're not going to do it right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: You can either decide okay, yes, I feel like I
Speaker 2: could pull this off and I should cut my banks,
Speaker 2: or you can be like, this looks terrible on me.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: Anytime I get the urge to have bangs, I just
Speaker 2: put in my hair system and then I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't need to cut my banks anymore, okay, and
Speaker 2: then I remove it and it's simple, and then you're.
Speaker 1: Back to normal, and then you look so different. I
Speaker 1: think you could do curtain banks, so if you did
Speaker 1: want banks, because those if you don't want them, that
Speaker 1: they're easier to like style into your hair.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So okay, if anybody wants to scratch that itch. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And also our favorite socks and my favorite Q tips
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Speaker 2: well this is us. If people think this is lame,
Speaker 2: well then we're lame. Like it is what it is.
Speaker 1: We like socks and Q tips. Also, I thought you
Speaker 1: put those Q tips in your ear?
Speaker 2: Well you can, I guess if you want. But that
Speaker 2: point day tip is like I just feel like it's
Speaker 2: good for like makeup and removing, Like if you're doing
Speaker 2: your nails, like that pointy tip you could dip in
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Speaker 2: inner eye and nose. But the point in the ear
Speaker 2: might hurt.
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Speaker 2: That's right, Well, I guess before we go, then we
Speaker 2: also need to remind people again about the merch in
Speaker 2: case they forgot, because a lot's happened.
Speaker 1: You've gotten bangs, got rid of your bangs. November seventh,
Speaker 1: that's the day.
Speaker 2: It's a Friday, mark your calendars. And I think I'm
Speaker 2: most excited about the sweat set because I'm just like
Speaker 2: living for sweats this time of year. That we dropped
Speaker 2: a hat hint in the episode, So.
Speaker 1: We did it, did Okay, so guess what the hat's
Speaker 1: going to say. We'll give you a shout out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess right.
Speaker 2: Someone will probably guess because we've also kind of posted
Speaker 2: about it before. But that's another too many hands, too
Speaker 2: many hands, okay, okay, all right, well, we hope you
Speaker 2: have the day you need to have.
Speaker 1: Bye bye,