WEBVTT - Apparently, This Ralph Lauren Rule Will Change How You Get Dressed

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<v Speaker 1>Good.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, break it down.

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<v Speaker 3>If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy

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<v Speaker 3>and Cat gotcha cove and locking.

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<v Speaker 2>No, brother, ladies and folks, do you.

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<v Speaker 3>Just follow an the spirit where it's all the front

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<v Speaker 3>or real stuff to the chill stuff and the m

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<v Speaker 3>but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it

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<v Speaker 3>just you feel things. This is feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Things with Amy and Cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Cat,

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<v Speaker 2>and Cat's gonna kick us off with the feeling of

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<v Speaker 2>the day. We both have them today, lots of feelings flowing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm adding an extra feeling. We'll get to my

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<v Speaker 1>real feeling. Well, they're both real feelings, but my extra

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<v Speaker 1>feeling is excited.

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<v Speaker 2>This is where we validate for everybody all your feelings, Matt, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>do we use the word real because your feelings are real?

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<v Speaker 2>But also they're.

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<v Speaker 1>All valid, They're not always justified, okay, and feelings do

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<v Speaker 1>not justify hurtful behavior.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm just excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you going to describe some herbal behavior that you

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<v Speaker 2>did know?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling excited because something big is happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, So make sure to follow us on socials. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that's the easy way. And then if you're

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<v Speaker 2>not on Socials, then in the show notes, we will

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<v Speaker 2>have a link where you can find everything. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know that it'll be up yet, it's well, well, the

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<v Speaker 2>show's coming out or this episode's coming out on Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>The link you can sign up for the newsletter that

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<v Speaker 1>will let you know exactly when everything goes live.

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<v Speaker 2>Boom, and it'll show it in your email inbox, and

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<v Speaker 2>then that makes it easy PC. Yeah, so we have

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<v Speaker 2>a sweat set. Yeah, I'm very excited about the sweat set.

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<v Speaker 2>Kat does have on the T shirt that's the one

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<v Speaker 2>we've been.

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<v Speaker 1>Wearing for feeling for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>We've gone through a lot of other options of things,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we have a hat with something that we've

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<v Speaker 2>been saying a lot. So we hope that you'll enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>it because it'll sort of be our little inside secret.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, you guys should message us and say what you

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<v Speaker 1>think the hat's going to say? Yeah, it's not what

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<v Speaker 1>you think. It's not the same as what I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the same as the shirt. Every piece, the hat,

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<v Speaker 2>the shirt, and the sweat set all have a different vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>So hopefully there's something for every type of style or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever you're into. Okay, that's a good feeling. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know where you're going with that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I said that you get us there. It's exciting extra.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, of course, it's exciting to've been working on it

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<v Speaker 2>for months. And it's good timing too, because maybe you're

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<v Speaker 2>starting to shop for gifts and guys, I know we

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<v Speaker 2>have some husbands that are listening so they can better

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<v Speaker 2>understand their wives because their wives listen to so now

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<v Speaker 2>Bam easy Charristmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Gift Easy Easy, Lemon Squeezy. Now my other feeling. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited to share this feeling too, because Cryocat just asked

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<v Speaker 1>about my hair before we started recording, and I'd already

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<v Speaker 1>planned to say this, so she asked, if I got

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<v Speaker 1>my haircut, does it look.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I got my haircut like a little layer? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, guys, I got my first blowout on Saturday. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you gotten a blow out? You're looking at me like that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think that everyone has experienced a blowout.

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<v Speaker 2>I just didn't know that's where you were going with

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<v Speaker 2>what happened, Like, so you didn't cut your hair. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just the magic of a blowout.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so I got a blowout on Saturday because my

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<v Speaker 1>mom has a membership somewhere and she had extra credits.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a blowout membership.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom wants to get her hair done, so she

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't used all her credits because I guess she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>getting her hair blown out in the summer because she

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<v Speaker 1>would always be like going to the pool or the leg.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. So she asked me my sister wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get her hair blown out. I never would have just

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<v Speaker 1>gone and gotten a blowout. That's just I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can gurl my hair, and I wanted the real experience

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<v Speaker 1>because they can do whatever you want. I guess they

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<v Speaker 1>could just curl it, they can wave it. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I want a real blowout. She did like the bru

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the brush and then the rollers. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt pampered and I felt like I could have

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<v Speaker 1>fallen asleep in that chair. But I also thought I

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<v Speaker 1>would hate it. I thought I would look like I

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<v Speaker 1>was from.

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<v Speaker 2>The eighties, like just too much hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I didn't take a picture after it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was taller, the hair, the closer to Jesus, this is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>It still looks great today even days later.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so I got inspired.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I know what you're gonna say. What

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<v Speaker 2>did you buy like a blowout kit to do your

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<v Speaker 2>own and you're gonna set up with your nail salon

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<v Speaker 2>in your kitchen. Now, this is one thing I will

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<v Speaker 2>take you up on. You can blow dry my hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I will take a blowout. I'm feeling seen and known

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<v Speaker 1>right now. So I took a baby step because I

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<v Speaker 1>know what I can do is like I can get

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<v Speaker 1>the whole shebang going too soon, So I baby sept it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get like the air wrap that's like six hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got a heated brush like a curling iron,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a brushka, you know. And I got some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of spray. They sprayed so many things in my

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<v Speaker 1>hair that I was like, how do I make it

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<v Speaker 1>look like this? I need all those products, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to buy them all. So I got some spray.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a blowout brush like the iron. So today

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't wash my hair. I just used the brush

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<v Speaker 1>to redo it. And it looks not as good now.

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<v Speaker 1>It looked really good this morning, So I have to

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<v Speaker 1>perfect how to keep it looking that way. But have

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<v Speaker 1>you watched Nobody Wants This Is That?

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<v Speaker 2>With Kristinn watched This Is It with Kristin Bell? Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even answer no.

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to make sure that it was the

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<v Speaker 2>right show with Adam Brody and Kristen Bell. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the sister I don't know the actress name, but

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<v Speaker 1>the sister's name is Morgan. She is the best hair

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<v Speaker 1>and that's my goal. So I want my hair to

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<v Speaker 1>look like Morgan from Nobody Wants This? And I rewatched

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<v Speaker 1>that season this weekend. The second season's coming out on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh yeah, okay, So once I get good at this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do your hair. Okay, that is relaxing, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right guys, that's my next business.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can't wait for the blowout. You have to be

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<v Speaker 2>careful with those heated why brush tool thingies though. I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to make sure it doesn't like break your hair.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was getting too many blowouts at one point,

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<v Speaker 2>my hair person is like, why is your hair breaking?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? And they sometimes will use just when

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<v Speaker 2>you go or when you're using it, just don't keep

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<v Speaker 2>it on the highest hottest setting. But if they're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to turn over and get as many people in as

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<v Speaker 2>possible to hire the heat, the quicker they can move,

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<v Speaker 2>and so you just have to request medium heat just

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<v Speaker 2>so that it's not I had it on three ninety damaging.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that three nineties bad. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it's when you get to four hundred four ten.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes to four ten.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. I would back it down just so that you

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<v Speaker 2>don't end up with a lot of breakage. And it

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<v Speaker 2>was a thing because I was going to get I

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<v Speaker 2>guess it was probably like your mom. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a membership. But I justified it because I would take

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<v Speaker 2>my computer and I would work the entire time. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm multitasking getting my hair washed. I'm working.

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<v Speaker 1>How often were you doing it?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean sometimes once a week.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could do this once a week.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I realized, okay, how much I was spending

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<v Speaker 2>to me. I definitely was trying to justify it because

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<v Speaker 2>I was working, like I said, but the math wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>really mathing if I really took a look at it,

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<v Speaker 2>so I stopped. But also the hair was.

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<v Speaker 1>Very king Okay, well maybe I'll just do this on

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<v Speaker 1>special occasions, but I curled my hair every day. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just making sure with your tools, like keep it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It's just so a little warning because

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<v Speaker 2>I had tons and tons of short baby hairs and

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that that was the reason. And then

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<v Speaker 2>when I cut back on them, my hair got better.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this is our pact. You're gonna tell me

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<v Speaker 1>in a nice, non sib way if my hair starts

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<v Speaker 1>to look broken, okay, damaged, I shall Everybody in this room,

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<v Speaker 1>I shall tell you because I don't want to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>my I feel like I have healthy hair right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you said you'd been sib to Patrick lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this weekend. I noticed multiple times. It's when he

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<v Speaker 1>will ask I'll have just said something and he'll ask,

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<v Speaker 1>like what I just said, and I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I just said this. And maybe it's because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he's not paying it. Yeah, I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just figured it out in my head. It's football.

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<v Speaker 1>It's football. It's football season. We're in the middle. It's Saturday, Sunday, Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>is it Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's lots of football it's not Tuesday. I think

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<v Speaker 2>Tuesday night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not working for me. That's probably what it is

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<v Speaker 1>because we were out, I know this weekend. We were

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<v Speaker 1>out going to different stores and he was being such

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<v Speaker 1>a trooper. We were like chopping and stuff for my hotbrush,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's glued to his phone the whole time, and

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<v Speaker 1>so he's not listening to what I'm the story I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling myself. He's not listening to me because he's watching football.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I snap at him and then he's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so sweet back. Like he doesn't snap back at me.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I talk to him like that, or if

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<v Speaker 1>he talked to me like that, I would be double

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<v Speaker 1>SIB all over him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that would be a problem. Well, I think we

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<v Speaker 2>both have ended up with guys that are just way

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<v Speaker 2>more laid back than we are. Like we have you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you said Sib earlier, which if anybody is new.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sorry epitchy, because.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't mean to be. Yeah, but just sometimes we

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<v Speaker 2>can be. And I purposefully chose to go on an

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<v Speaker 2>eight hour road trip with my boyfriend and his kids.

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<v Speaker 2>So I met them in Virginia a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>They were there for fall break and we were going

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<v Speaker 2>to a Virginia football game. They drove up because they

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<v Speaker 2>were there for several days. I was there for less

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<v Speaker 2>than forty eight hours, so I flew in after work

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<v Speaker 2>on Friday, and then they were driving back on that Sunday,

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<v Speaker 2>and I thought, well, I'm not going to book a

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<v Speaker 2>round trip. I'm just going to book a one way

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<v Speaker 2>and then I'm gonna ride in the car with y'all

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<v Speaker 2>because I want to see what it's like eight hours

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<v Speaker 2>in the car with these people.

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<v Speaker 1>Was anybody like I'll take Amy's plane ticket?

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<v Speaker 2>No? They no, I mean they were. They were good

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<v Speaker 2>road trippers, and I think that was what was so appealing. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there was some bickering because their siblings a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit, but everybody handled it well and there wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>drama like it was eight hours in the car and

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<v Speaker 2>with bathroom breaks and food breaks, like everything was smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>One what time did you get up and leave?

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<v Speaker 2>We left at eight am because everybody wanted to get

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<v Speaker 2>back at a reasonable time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of a late start.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight am.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up.

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<v Speaker 2>We had been out, we'd been out till like one

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You wild kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it was a night game.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are crazy. What kind of pits said you make?

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<v Speaker 2>Just bathroom and food. We stopped for bagels on our

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<v Speaker 2>way out of town at Bobo's Bagels, which is apparently

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<v Speaker 2>it's notoriously famous in Charlottesville.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to rate it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, ten out of ten? It was so good, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would compare it to Leon's Bagels out of

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<v Speaker 2>New York, the one I brought you that one time.

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<v Speaker 1>You literally brought from New York, dropped it off at

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<v Speaker 1>my office. Yeah, the next that's amazing. That's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>And then whenever I posted about that Bobos that I

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<v Speaker 2>was eating on my way back, you were like, did

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<v Speaker 2>you bring me a bagel? And then I felt bad

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<v Speaker 2>because I did think about it. I was I thought

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<v Speaker 2>I should get cat one. But we divided and conquered

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<v Speaker 2>because some people went and picked up the bagels while

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<v Speaker 2>Alex and I picked up like these juice things and

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<v Speaker 2>some coffee at the place next door. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>all hopped in the car like, yeah, divided, conquered, got

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<v Speaker 2>the stuff, hopped in the car, and then we were

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<v Speaker 2>head out of town and we did. It was one

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<v Speaker 2>gas stop, two bathrooms, and then Chipotle for lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we had some snacks, but interesting road trip

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<v Speaker 2>lunch Chipotle. There wasn't very many other options. It was unanimous.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's not maybe it's not that interesting. What would

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<v Speaker 1>you choose? Okay, it's a Sunday Chick fil A. But

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<v Speaker 1>then also, which is such a bummer because Sunday is

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<v Speaker 1>such a travel day. But we grew up stopping. But

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you had breakfast already. We always stopped at

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<v Speaker 1>Cracker Barrel every road trip.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like miserable because you've you've just no Cracker

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<v Speaker 2>Barrel is amazing, But you're trying to get out on

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<v Speaker 2>the road and within the first part of your trip

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<v Speaker 2>you're already stopping for a long sit down breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because my dad would make us leave at like

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<v Speaker 1>six am, if not before.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we were out early, so it was a deserved break.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it would be like three hours later. And I

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<v Speaker 1>loved Cracker Rail because then you got to get a prize,

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<v Speaker 1>got your meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Day store, get you something like your parents would get

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<v Speaker 2>you a little treat, like you know the store, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know the country store.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We would all get like a piece of candy

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I would always get those dots that were

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<v Speaker 1>on the tape.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're calling it a price. I guess I just

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<v Speaker 2>went clarification, like your parents would get you a treat,

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<v Speaker 2>or you would like you would have to play a

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<v Speaker 2>game and then you get.

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<v Speaker 1>If you won the little game with the table, then

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<v Speaker 1>you got to know they're in a good mood. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you got to get something there. Probably didn't make us

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<v Speaker 1>be quiet because there was four kids in the back

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<v Speaker 1>of a car, but I would get those you know,

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<v Speaker 1>those sugar dots that are on the yes paper from

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<v Speaker 1>the paper which are discoloring. I always got those memories.

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<v Speaker 2>Memories.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry mam. Anyway, I want to hear about yours

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<v Speaker 1>went well.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm thinking like, okay, this was my test, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to test out, you know, check road trip, check.

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<v Speaker 2>You know there's like things like we've never like we've

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<v Speaker 2>been together for a year, we've never gone to the movies.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know what that's like. What if going

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<v Speaker 2>to the movies with him as a horrible experience. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I need to check that box. But I've done an

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<v Speaker 2>eight hour road trip and I've done a football game.

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<v Speaker 2>Check like I've gone back to his college, met all

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<v Speaker 2>his college friends, good reviews, check like reviews on Alex's friends, reputation, personality.

0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.000
<v Speaker 2>They all love him. They think he's great, stand up

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<v Speaker 2>quality guy, has been for however many years.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I want to come back to this, but

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<v Speaker 1>my brain is stuck on movies. We have ever been

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<v Speaker 1>to the movie theater? No.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's because well, five kids between the two

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<v Speaker 2>of us, and like weekends are just we're tired. If

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<v Speaker 2>we want to watch a movie, we rent it or

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<v Speaker 2>watch a show or something and lay on the couch

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<v Speaker 2>instead of going to the movies. Or there's like sports, And.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to have to go to the movies

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<v Speaker 1>before you get married? You can't marry somebody you've never

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<v Speaker 1>been to the movie theater. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we're not getting married yet, but yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>that has to be Okay, I need to make like

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<v Speaker 2>a check to make sure you're not going to jump

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<v Speaker 2>the gun and not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So back to the trip you met his friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I did see that you spilt something on his friends. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to see so?

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<v Speaker 2>And that I only had the video part of it

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<v Speaker 2>because that was a live photo. So like when you

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<v Speaker 2>play the live and it loops. You see the drink

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<v Speaker 2>flying out of my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it like ten times. How did it? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it?

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<v Speaker 2>I've decided to either cross my leg or uncross my leg.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell. You have to look at it again.

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<v Speaker 2>But and then my drink just flew out of my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Looks like you like threw.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, it like just flew like. I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 2>explain it. And yes, there's a husband and wife sitting

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<v Speaker 2>in front of us that Alex has known since college.

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<v Speaker 2>We were using their tickets. We were sitting with them.

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<v Speaker 2>I had just met her and the husband. But the

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<v Speaker 2>drink only spilled on the wife just hours before first

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<v Speaker 2>time meeting, and my drink went all over her denim

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<v Speaker 2>dress and.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a Darner liquid.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't no okay, No, it was a high noon.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I thought it was like a coke. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little better.

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<v Speaker 2>But she had dark dinnum. So I think we would

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<v Speaker 2>have been fine. But I was mortified.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it cold? Like the weather wasn't as cold.

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<v Speaker 2>As I thought it was going to be. So no,

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<v Speaker 2>I think we were fine. Okay, maybe she found it

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<v Speaker 2>frushing She's like sticky, like what they Everybody was like

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<v Speaker 2>what just happened? I was like, I don't know, and

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<v Speaker 2>I am so sorry. And then I was like, no

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<v Speaker 2>more high noons for me. But even though it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>drink really like alcohol, like I hadn't had too much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she was kind okay, no, s ib okay, totally kind.

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<v Speaker 2>And your girlfriend's so funny, like, oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good story because what if you guys become

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<v Speaker 1>my good friends now and that's like a story of

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<v Speaker 1>how you met.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I think we just will be because

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<v Speaker 2>that's some of the people he's closest to. So I

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<v Speaker 2>really enjoyed spending time with them. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was testing her and she passed. She don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait. Also you post about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wall, Oh the whisper wall. Oh the whisper wall. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a UVA. I guess they that's a thing. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not just a uva.

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<v Speaker 1>They have them other places build that.

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<v Speaker 2>Curved marble wall that you can google it. But because

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<v Speaker 2>of the way it's designed, the echo travels through the

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<v Speaker 2>marble and you can hear it on the other side.

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<v Speaker 2>That blew my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in my mind and I couldn't give him.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Alex is telling me about all these secret

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<v Speaker 2>societies at UVA, and I did. I thought he was

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<v Speaker 2>messing with me. And then I google that after I

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<v Speaker 2>google whisper Wall, and sure enough, there are these secret societies.

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<v Speaker 2>One in particular I found really intriguing called the Sevens

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<v Speaker 2>and the seven Society. There's only seven members and nobody

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<v Speaker 2>knows who they are. You find out when they die.

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<v Speaker 2>So like Alex could be a seven, he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, because you don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was reading through some of the way it would

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<v Speaker 2>play out. I don't think he's a seven. But you

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<v Speaker 2>can't at their funeral. A black thing a thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how to say this because I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if they spray paint them black, because they're not black Magnolia's,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. But maybe they paint Magnolia's black and they're

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<v Speaker 2>in the shape of a seven, and it's at the

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<v Speaker 2>grape site.

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<v Speaker 1>Some nobody says anything about it. They just well know.

0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:13.520
<v Speaker 2>That's when people there, that's when family learns, oh my gosh,

0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:15.240
<v Speaker 2>uncle Bob was a seven.

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<v Speaker 1>So then nobody can become a new member until somebody dies.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, so because there's only seven at a time,

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<v Speaker 2>and they make these crazy donations to the university that

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<v Speaker 2>are like seven hundred and seventy seven thousand dollars and

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<v Speaker 2>seventy seven cents.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have to be really wealthy to be a seven. Probably,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that I would want to be in

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<v Speaker 1>a secret society with only seven people. Theold I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll never know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know their age. Someone DMed me a listener

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<v Speaker 2>actually DMed me after I posted about the seven and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, yeah, I went to a funeral once

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<v Speaker 2>where someone was a seven and we found out at

0:18:45.920 --> 0:18:48.240
<v Speaker 2>the funeral. But like, no sevens can show up and

0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:49.679
<v Speaker 2>be like, oh, they were a seven, because then they

0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:52.600
<v Speaker 2>would be outing themselves. So the flower just shows up,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a seven.

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<v Speaker 1>But who brings the flower?

0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.960
<v Speaker 2>You probably order it from a flower shop anonymously, of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you want to communicate with the sevens, you

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<v Speaker 2>like drop off a piece of paper or some statue

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<v Speaker 2>on campus.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to communicate them with.

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<v Speaker 2>What societies at a lot of campuses, not mine, which

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<v Speaker 2>at UVA they don't call it a campus, to call

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<v Speaker 2>it the grounds. So on the grounds this is very

0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:21.280
<v Speaker 2>prestigious Thomas Jefferson found in it. Edgar Allan Poe went there.

0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 2>I saw his bedroom. They have it preserved. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot of raven decor in his room. They

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<v Speaker 2>put it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was cute. I was like, was this this bead?

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<v Speaker 1>I like it? Wait, so the sevens are part of

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<v Speaker 1>the school, like the students.

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<v Speaker 2>Sir Society that is at UVA. There might be sevens

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<v Speaker 2>at other universities.

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<v Speaker 1>But oh, and there's seven at each university.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that university has a seven, they

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<v Speaker 2>may have the eights. Okay, because the imps and the z's.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what's getting the way is. I thought this

0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:58.760
<v Speaker 1>would be like students who are in the Secret Society.

0:19:58.800 --> 0:20:01.080
<v Speaker 2>They might be I don't know if they're a lumber,

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<v Speaker 2>but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Could be like one young student yep, and then like

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<v Speaker 1>six old guys. Okay, and it's only for women. No, okay,

0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:08.840
<v Speaker 1>there could be women.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the sevens okay, and the IMP's like I

0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:15.840
<v Speaker 2>was reading about them, and they like dress up with

0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:18.640
<v Speaker 2>and put horns on. The MP's freaked me out quite

0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 2>honestly when I was reading about them. But then it

0:20:20.560 --> 0:20:23.399
<v Speaker 2>made me think about Illuminati and other secret societies that

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<v Speaker 2>are out there, just worldwide, like not exclusive to a campus, yeah,

0:20:29.320 --> 0:20:32.800
<v Speaker 2>or university, and just these traditions that have been around

0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:35.200
<v Speaker 2>like hundreds of years of these people meeting with capes

0:20:35.200 --> 0:20:36.280
<v Speaker 2>and horns and being.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, hey, it feels very coltish, but apparently they do good.

0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:43.240
<v Speaker 2>At least the sevens. They have lots of that's what

0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:45.800
<v Speaker 2>they want you to donations, but they probably have a

0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:47.920
<v Speaker 2>lot of money and connection.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if you can say no, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>or if it's like we're going to kill you if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't accept this, Oh, that would be bad. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Some secret societies I think are bad,

0:20:56.600 --> 0:20:59.720
<v Speaker 1>like colts are bad. Yeah, well, I guess I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say as I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Nobody's ever asked me to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a secret society.

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<v Speaker 1>So well, if you couldn't, that's yet. Well no, no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could be bluffing if you were asked to be

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<v Speaker 1>in secret society you couldn't tell us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I just come on here and act like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just now learning you're in profit at seven? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe a seventh. Look what I learned about seven from

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<v Speaker 2>Texas A and M yeah, yeah, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>if we had secret societies there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well maybe what were you going to say about cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, Well, so this was my feeling, my feeling

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<v Speaker 2>of the day, sort of like conflicted. So I've taken

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<v Speaker 2>a trip with my boyfriend's family before, but my kids

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<v Speaker 2>were there as well, So this is the first time

0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:42.359
<v Speaker 2>we're all on a trip and having fun and doing

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<v Speaker 2>something and my kids are with their dad, so they're

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<v Speaker 2>not with me, and we all took a pic and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like me, Alex and the kids and it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh hey, and it felt weird, like whenever I was

0:21:54.800 --> 0:21:58.760
<v Speaker 2>posting the pic later, I felt like I was cheating

0:21:58.760 --> 0:22:03.320
<v Speaker 2>all my kids, which I had not had that feeling before.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is new because we've hung out in town,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, but something about being out of town on

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<v Speaker 2>a trip doing something and I don't know if other

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<v Speaker 2>people that are dating and you've got kids or they've

0:22:15.480 --> 0:22:18.879
<v Speaker 2>got kids, and then this whole blending of families that

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<v Speaker 2>was just a new feeling that I hadn't had before,

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<v Speaker 2>where I felt weird even posting a.

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<v Speaker 1>Family pic without part of your family.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like something in me felt like I needed to explain,

0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:33.760
<v Speaker 2>like I still love my kids, but they're just not here.

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<v Speaker 2>So I didn't end up explaining anything because I know

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<v Speaker 2>how I feel. But also I thought, if my kids

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<v Speaker 2>see this, I don't want them to think, oh, look

0:22:43.880 --> 0:22:47.840
<v Speaker 2>at mom with them, you know, And I missed them

0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:49.240
<v Speaker 2>and I wanted them to be there. So it felt

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<v Speaker 2>like this weird and the best way for me to

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<v Speaker 2>describe it. And that's why I mentioned that word cheating

0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:54.960
<v Speaker 2>to you and then you were like, wait about what,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, save it for the podcast. So I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like I was cheating on my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds hard.

0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:03.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm not trying to be dramatic about it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>as torn up about it as maybe it seems, but

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<v Speaker 2>I am conflicted.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it just feels like something is missing.

0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Or they were missing. I wanted been there. Yeah, But

0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:15.360
<v Speaker 2>the thing is they're not always going to be there.

0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:17.399
<v Speaker 2>The reality is I only have them fifty percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the time, and the reality is everybody is getting older

0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:22.520
<v Speaker 2>and they have their own stuff going on. So even

0:23:22.560 --> 0:23:25.280
<v Speaker 2>if I did have them, they may not be at

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<v Speaker 2>a certain event that the rest of us are at

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<v Speaker 2>and they may just not be there. And the more

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<v Speaker 2>we do that, the more we'll get used to it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure it'll be fine. This just happened to be

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<v Speaker 2>the first time, and that was the feeling that I had,

0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:36.200
<v Speaker 2>and I had to really pay attention to it. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I had to pay attention of like why I

0:23:38.080 --> 0:23:40.440
<v Speaker 2>felt this desire to explain it? Who was that four?

0:23:40.520 --> 0:23:42.879
<v Speaker 2>And then I realized, like, oh, I don't need to

0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:47.320
<v Speaker 2>explain anything. And also, if my kids ask anything, I'll

0:23:47.359 --> 0:23:51.120
<v Speaker 2>say the same thing to them, like this is another

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<v Speaker 2>part of my life. But we're all we're all in

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<v Speaker 2>this together.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, even if you had them on

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent of the time, maybe they didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to that kind of thing exactly. They're like, go,

0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't care about UVA and the imps.

0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:11.360
<v Speaker 2>And they would choose to stay back and go with friends, Yeah, somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Else when you get older, like, yeah, you'd rather do

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<v Speaker 1>stuff with your friends and go to like a raning

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:18.920
<v Speaker 1>depending Yeah, but there's plenty of times around like mom,

0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 1>can I do fall break with so and so?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I was thinking. It ended up like,

0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:26.919
<v Speaker 2>worked through it, feel fine, but that until we have

0:24:27.040 --> 0:24:30.280
<v Speaker 2>more experiences with it, I'll likely feel just a little

0:24:30.280 --> 0:24:31.639
<v Speaker 2>conflicted when I've.

0:24:31.480 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Got it going on.

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<v Speaker 2>But speaking of the social posts, I also feel happy

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:40.960
<v Speaker 2>because I know social media is not everything, but for kids,

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:45.160
<v Speaker 2>snapchat is a really big thing. And my boyfriend's daughter

0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:49.600
<v Speaker 2>who's seventeen, and their mom passed away several years ago

0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:53.000
<v Speaker 2>from cancer, so she was the oldest and closest to

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<v Speaker 2>her mom. I mean they were all close to her,

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 2>but you know, she was the oldest, so her relationship

0:24:56.960 --> 0:24:59.040
<v Speaker 2>and her age when it happened is a little different

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 2>than like the youngest per se, so it's been more

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:06.520
<v Speaker 2>of a challenge. And she posted me on her Snapchat.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw she posted to you on her Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, right, but I feel like snapchat, Oh I got snapped?

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:15.320
<v Speaker 1>How did you know? Did she say?

0:25:15.320 --> 0:25:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Like somebody told me? Another person that saw it told me.

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<v Speaker 1>Later, were they like amy you guys?

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I made the snapchat.

0:25:23.440 --> 0:25:25.919
<v Speaker 1>It snapchat is like a story, right, Okay?

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:29.240
<v Speaker 2>So I got snapped and I felt like that was

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 2>a bit that's a big deal, like it's just information,

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 2>and it made me smile inside. I even texted Alex

0:25:36.600 --> 0:25:38.200
<v Speaker 2>about it and he was like, does that make you happy?

0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:38.720
<v Speaker 2>And I was like.

0:25:38.720 --> 0:25:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah.

0:25:41.880 --> 0:25:43.840
<v Speaker 2>So I tried to like spend time and savor that

0:25:43.880 --> 0:25:46.240
<v Speaker 2>and soak it up and be like, oh wow, because

0:25:46.440 --> 0:25:49.880
<v Speaker 2>this time a year ago, I was terrified of how

0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:53.680
<v Speaker 2>it was going to how our relationship would unfold. So

0:25:53.720 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 2>that was cool.

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 1>So you had a big weekend. You learned a lot,

0:25:58.080 --> 0:26:00.960
<v Speaker 1>you experienced a lot, and I feel like you grew

0:26:01.359 --> 0:26:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Like that trip was like a big growth point for

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:08.480
<v Speaker 1>your relationship in general. Okay, and you had fun. Also.

0:26:08.800 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I read your story where you said like whoh hoo,

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<v Speaker 1>woho uh, But.

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't know Hudson his daughter types that for me.

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought you were just typing like woo hoo oh.

0:26:20.680 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what they say at Uba.

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 1>All these people commenting on your posts that, and I

0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:27.159
<v Speaker 1>was like, that must be like their battle cry or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But I thought you were just being like silly and

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<v Speaker 1>fun and like typing like a fun way to say

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<v Speaker 1>woo who did you learn any cheers?

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<v Speaker 2>We sang the song whenever they would cheer, like they

0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 2>sway back and forth. We do that at Texas A

0:26:38.840 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 2>and M. Do you do that? Is that like every

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<v Speaker 2>college thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? I went to one, maybe two football games my

0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 1>whole college career, so I don't know what they do there. Okay.

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:50.439
<v Speaker 2>Well, at A and M we crossed legs and grab

0:26:50.640 --> 0:26:53.120
<v Speaker 2>arms and like sway back and forth and sing our song.

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:55.040
<v Speaker 2>And at UVA they kind of do the same thing,

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:57.880
<v Speaker 2>different song, two different songs. Yeah, but so I would

0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 2>sway back and forth. My thing was I want to

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:03.399
<v Speaker 2>go all in, so I had never been before. I

0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:05.720
<v Speaker 2>don't really care much about football. I went to A

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:08.399
<v Speaker 2>and M. I'm what they call a two percenter. I mean,

0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I love the Aggis and I love an M, but

0:27:10.119 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I care about two percent because a lot of Aggi's

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:14.399
<v Speaker 2>are very, very, very hardcore.

0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:15.959
<v Speaker 1>They still wear their rings.

0:27:16.280 --> 0:27:17.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would wear my ring, but it got stolen.

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh right, sorry, Yeah, I loved.

0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:23.000
<v Speaker 2>My Aggie ring. I'm still I haven't hard replaced it

0:27:23.080 --> 0:27:25.360
<v Speaker 2>because I did work really hard to get that ring,

0:27:25.400 --> 0:27:28.880
<v Speaker 2>and I haven't replaced it because I still have hope

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 2>that one day somebody's going to call me and be like,

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 2>are you a dot E dot? Like my initials class

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 2>of three, And I'm gonna be like, that's me because

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 2>my initials are engraved on the inside.

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I always have hope.

0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I have hope. So I decided to go all in,

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm going to just embrace everything. We tailgated, we

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:51.920
<v Speaker 2>went to the game. I tried to pay attention. I cheered,

0:27:52.640 --> 0:27:54.920
<v Speaker 2>and I think that I had a really good experience

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:55.960
<v Speaker 2>because I went all in.

0:27:56.400 --> 0:27:58.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, that's why you had the good experience.

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:00.880
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Okay, I'm like, I'm an act, like I really

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 2>care about the school and I go here and I did,

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:05.240
<v Speaker 2>and it was so fun because like, I don't really

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:07.160
<v Speaker 2>care when they had the ball, Like I don't care.

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not like, oh my gosh.

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:10.520
<v Speaker 1>We have the ball, We're gonna win, So what do

0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 1>you do?

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:14.280
<v Speaker 2>I would celebrate when they celebrated. I would do all

0:28:14.280 --> 0:28:17.400
<v Speaker 2>the things like I was just really Yes, I would

0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:19.480
<v Speaker 2>get excited because they would get pumped.

0:28:19.800 --> 0:28:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we've talked about this, Like I think we talked

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:24.960
<v Speaker 1>about this as annoying as sometimes it is, how much

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Patrick loves football. It is cute to see somebody so

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:30.399
<v Speaker 1>excite with when he's watching like a ut game. It

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:33.600
<v Speaker 1>is endearing to watch them be so excited about something.

0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 1>So did you have a little bit of that with Alex?

0:28:36.760 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I have some cute pictures of him and videos

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 2>that I didn't you here, like freaking out and cheering

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 2>because they it was a close game. And I thought

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 2>we were going to lose.

0:28:45.720 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I thought they did lose.

0:28:46.760 --> 0:28:48.480
<v Speaker 2>They were about too and then we won because of

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 2>a safety, which is to only two points. They played

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Washington State University.

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 1>You know it all? Okay, so you learned a lot.

0:28:56.760 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Beauty lost Tennessee. Yeah, yes, sorry, yeah there's two

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:05.600
<v Speaker 2>you're t Austin or Texas. And then yeah, well anyway,

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:07.360
<v Speaker 2>this was just a couple of weeks ago.

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:13.640
<v Speaker 1>So you like cool. Hey, Sports Up Day Day. We

0:29:13.680 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 1>love sports Sports podcast, and we know you know what

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:18.640
<v Speaker 1>we can help you do is we can help you

0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:20.480
<v Speaker 1>have a good time at a sporting event when you

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 1>don't care about the sport.

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:25.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes, just get your hat off it. Like I was.

0:29:25.720 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 2>I went to the bookstore.

0:29:27.560 --> 0:29:29.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you threw out your original outfit.

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't end up wearing the shirt that I

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 2>was gonna wear. And I got a uva hat and

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 2>I got an orange and blue and white scarf, and

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.760
<v Speaker 2>I tied around my clear bag, you know, to like

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 2>a little to accessorize it a little bit. And then

0:29:41.160 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 2>I got a Virginia sweatshirt and tied it around my shoulders.

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, speaking of I was watching some tiktoks and

0:29:52.120 --> 0:29:53.680
<v Speaker 1>you always do look really cute when you have a

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you do the little sweater thing. So I saw

0:29:56.680 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 1>some girl post that if you do two of three

0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:04.440
<v Speaker 1>of these things, you will look expensive. I don't buy it.

0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 1>It's hair, makeup, outfit. Well, I have my hair and

0:30:08.600 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>makeup done. I have a makeup half done. I don't

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>think I look expensive. So what do you mean by

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 1>look expensive? Like chic? Yeah? It was like her like,

0:30:18.320 --> 0:30:20.320
<v Speaker 1>look like you or she was like if this is

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 1>how you, this is the what you do, look rich

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 1>if you do. But I'm like, that's just getting right.

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 2>I guess I've just never heard someone described like I

0:30:28.320 --> 0:30:34.479
<v Speaker 2>look expensive, well except for cry okay, but like, what

0:30:34.520 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 2>does that mean?

0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I think is that I like the clean girl aesthetic

0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:42.720
<v Speaker 1>girl clean girl aesthetic like looks like old money.

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know this. Oh my gosh, okay, I don't

0:30:45.320 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 2>know this this part of TikTok.

0:30:47.240 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get back to the sweater.

0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:50.560
<v Speaker 2>Wait. Clean girl is a thing.

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Clean girl asthetic is like slick back but minimal, like

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>dewey skin, like like makeup, no makeup makeup.

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh I love a good no maup and like

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:01.920
<v Speaker 2>a makeup makeup.

0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>For an Oxford, like very clean clothes.

0:31:04.600 --> 0:31:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh like clean aesthetic, like ironed, steamed.

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you have a steamer the opposite of what we're wearing. Okay,

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 1>but clean girl sthetic is supposed to look expensive.

0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.000
<v Speaker 1>People were listening, probably like you're getting it wrong.

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 2>I used drag chamber this morning. I'm dirty girl, wash

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 2>my hair.

0:31:21.880 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Since I got to blow out dirty girls. We're dirty girl, Okay. Okay,

0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>So if we want to look like rich, it doesn't work.

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Chic polished is a better term, because I'm like, I

0:31:34.720 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 1>don't like saying like I want to either.

0:31:36.400 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 2>That's why I was like, what how does what's our

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:38.880
<v Speaker 2>real value?

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're all expensive in our own way. So I

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 1>was looking at that because I was watching these reels

0:31:47.080 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 1>because or tiktoks, because I was like, I don't buy this.

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I need somebody to explain this to me because this

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 1>this equation doesn't work well. Then, because I was just

0:31:56.560 --> 0:31:59.840
<v Speaker 1>watching videos about numbers, this other video came up and

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>it was the Ralph Lauren rule of three. Do you

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.360
<v Speaker 1>say Ralph Lauren or Ralph Lauren both?

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:10.480
<v Speaker 2>I'd say Ralph Lauren mostly, but I feel like on

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 2>friends that they say that was this an episode of

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 2>Friends where they're like, Ralph, Lauren.

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 1>You know that I've never seen Friends.

0:32:15.960 --> 0:32:17.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, well, I don't even know if it's really

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:19.480
<v Speaker 2>a Friend's episode just popped into my head.

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of I'll get back to the story. Do you

0:32:22.040 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 1>say kobosh or kai bosh?

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't say that word? Where what is that?

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Like they put the kobosh on it?

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't say that.

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't you ever heard somebody say it. You're acting

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 1>like you're better than this word.

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I say like a kabob, like that you

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 2>stick meat on a stick.

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's ever said kobosh.

0:32:43.080 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well to all the listeners out there, I want

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>to know people say kai bosh or kobosh because I've

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.320
<v Speaker 1>always said kabash and Patrick says kai bosh and it

0:32:53.400 --> 0:33:08.120
<v Speaker 1>sounds weird. Okay, back to my story rule of threes.

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I actually really like this role because I struggle, you

0:33:11.360 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>know how I struggle getting dressed these days, making something

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>look like an outfit and not like I just like

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 1>put on a shirt and pants, Like I'm always like,

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>how come this person looks like they're wearing an outfit?

0:33:21.800 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>And when I put it on I just kind of look.

0:33:25.640 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 2>So it's like that's like the difference between wearing and styling.

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and so, she said when she worked at Raf Lauren,

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 1>they had to always wear three pieces. So if you

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 1>wore pants, shirt, sweater, or if you wear a dress,

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 1>you'd do like belt sweater or like belt scarf around

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>your neck or something like that, and it helps your

0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:50.240
<v Speaker 1>look look more polished. Polish is a great word, Shannon.

0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:55.760
<v Speaker 1>And she had on like a Oxford shirt, just regular,

0:33:55.840 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 1>regular jeans and a regular I don't know why I've

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:04.200
<v Speaker 1>been saying that a lot regular degular.

0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 2>It's just fun fun, I mean fun done.

0:34:10.400 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay. Anyway, this just made me think of you with

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:16.319
<v Speaker 1>the sweater because she just had She just put this

0:34:16.360 --> 0:34:19.360
<v Speaker 1>little sweater over her and it took it looked crazy.

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 1>She looked like took her from zero to hero. Yes, rich.

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:28.760
<v Speaker 2>Took her from cheap too extensive. Yes, it really did.

0:34:29.840 --> 0:34:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that I can pull off the sweater

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:32.240
<v Speaker 1>around my shoulder.

0:34:32.800 --> 0:34:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes you could.

0:34:33.840 --> 0:34:37.080
<v Speaker 1>You're saying that you've never seen it, Yeah, but it is. Yeah,

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:40.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe I can do it now. Oh my gosh. Okay,

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 1>try to remind me next time we record. I'll see

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:46.319
<v Speaker 1>if I can whip something up. Yeah, okay, so rule

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:49.400
<v Speaker 1>of threes. Try it and see if it helps. Okay.

0:34:50.480 --> 0:34:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Have you seen the thing about the order in which

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:53.080
<v Speaker 2>you get.

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Ready, Like when you do your like, do you do

0:34:57.440 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 1>make up?

0:34:57.800 --> 0:35:01.879
<v Speaker 2>Outfit? Hair outfit, makeup, hair, hair makeup outfit makeup, hair

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:04.240
<v Speaker 2>outfit outfit, hair makeup or hair outfit makeup?

0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Okay? What am I getting ready for?

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:12.759
<v Speaker 2>It depends? It depends. I guess it depends what you're

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 2>getting ready for.

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Because if I'm getting ready for a big event, I

0:35:16.760 --> 0:35:18.440
<v Speaker 1>need to know my outfit before I figure out what

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:20.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing with my hair and what my makeup is

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna look like. But every day I do skincare, hair

0:35:27.840 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 1>out makeup. Skincare is make makeup, makeup. There's only three

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:39.239
<v Speaker 1>options makeup outkay, hair, Sorry sorry sorry? Makeup? Say no,

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:42.560
<v Speaker 1>what do you do? I really think it depends. I'm

0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.879
<v Speaker 1>not even kidding. I think it's either hair, it's how

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:48.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling. And then my outfits always last. If it's

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 1>just a regular, regular day, Yeah.

0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:53.720
<v Speaker 2>I would say my outfit this lasts mostly too.

0:35:53.840 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you think people get dressed first.

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:58.319
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know. I mean maybe if they pick

0:35:58.320 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 2>out their outfit. They already know that it's good. But

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 2>I need my hair my makeup to be done because

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 2>then my outfit will look better. Yeah, for sure, And

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 2>then I need my hair. I can do less with

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:10.239
<v Speaker 2>my hair if my makeup is already done, and I

0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:12.839
<v Speaker 2>kind of see what we're working with. I may mess

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 2>with my hair longer if my makeup isn't done, because

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:17.279
<v Speaker 2>I'll be trying to like that is a good point

0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:19.600
<v Speaker 2>make myself look better.

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>But now you know rule of three, you want to

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:21.839
<v Speaker 1>do two?

0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you need clothes and hair? And well, I guess

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:26.000
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to.

0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:29.359
<v Speaker 1>Have They're saying, like you could have, Like like I'm

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:33.279
<v Speaker 1>wearing sweatpants, so I don't have outfit. Okay, for no,

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I consider this is a great outfit. But I have

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>makeup and hair.

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:42.560
<v Speaker 1>So you're wearing clothes, so I'm polished, but.

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Polished, Okay, I gotcha. I see what you're saying.

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe in it, but I'm going to adopt that.

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna try you when I get ready for work tomorrow,

0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:53.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna try the the rule of three. I need

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:55.440
<v Speaker 2>to make sure I have like a blazer or sweater

0:36:56.239 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 2>or a belt or scarf.

0:36:58.160 --> 0:37:02.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and yes, send me your what third accessory? No,

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 1>it can't be an accessory. It's like an item.

0:37:04.400 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, which Clark accessory? Do you say accessory or accessory?

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Speaking of how to.

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Say things, I don't think anybody says assessor.

0:37:14.080 --> 0:37:15.400
<v Speaker 2>They do. I hear them.

0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I hear them.

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:21.359
<v Speaker 2>Cat you say it accessories, accessories, accessory.

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:22.359
<v Speaker 1>Nobody says yes.

0:37:22.400 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 2>I swear now that I'm telling you, you're going to

0:37:24.320 --> 0:37:29.719
<v Speaker 2>hear people say accessory. No poem. I've got the only

0:37:29.760 --> 0:37:31.160
<v Speaker 2>one that says poem.

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Poem.

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:36.239
<v Speaker 2>Matthew McConaughey does it, and so does Kelly Clarkson. We've

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 2>confirmed this because they posted about it. It's a Texas thing.

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh really yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:48.800
<v Speaker 2>You're hating on my heritage, origin, origin, Okay, state of birth,

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 2>my birthplace.

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Yeah, I take it back. Accessory No, I.

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:56.319
<v Speaker 2>Don't say, I say accessory. I don't know what part

0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, how fine, if we want to assign poem to

0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:02.200
<v Speaker 2>like some Texans, there is a part of the country

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 2>that says accessory.

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know where or why.

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 2>But now that I've told you, sort of like this

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:11.640
<v Speaker 2>blue car and then you start seeing blue car. Now

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna hear accessory.

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Start laughing, you're gonna hear what So I say accessory,

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:23.880
<v Speaker 1>And I do think scarf is an accessory. However, for

0:38:24.040 --> 0:38:26.880
<v Speaker 1>this it's not because it can't be. You add jewelry,

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.960
<v Speaker 1>that's not one of the threes, right, Okay, I mean

0:38:30.080 --> 0:38:33.800
<v Speaker 1>unless you do like some crazy neck thing like necklace

0:38:33.920 --> 0:38:34.920
<v Speaker 1>that's like big.

0:38:35.400 --> 0:38:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Like a statement piece.

0:38:37.800 --> 0:38:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Can't be like one of these little necklaces.

0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:44.399
<v Speaker 2>Nothing dainty, Yes, to be like in your face kind

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:46.880
<v Speaker 2>a necklace. What about a hat?

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:49.799
<v Speaker 1>That would be an item? That's an item. I feel like.

0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Now I'm just saying it that way.

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 1>But I think for that, I think it just is

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.760
<v Speaker 1>not not jewelry. And shoes don't count because you're obviously

0:38:58.760 --> 0:39:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna wear shoes. I only watched one video. I

0:39:01.680 --> 0:39:03.160
<v Speaker 1>could be doing it wrong. We should ask something that

0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:06.040
<v Speaker 1>worked out, Ralph Lauren, Yeah, there's the rules.

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 2>We'll look it up. This makes me think of you know,

0:39:09.160 --> 0:39:12.359
<v Speaker 2>we were talking about your hair, Like some stylist out

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:16.239
<v Speaker 2>of Paris or something or somewhere has this measurement rule

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:19.080
<v Speaker 2>for if you're supposed to have short hair or long hair.

0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:23.360
<v Speaker 2>And I watched so many different videos on it, and

0:39:23.400 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 2>I could never really decipher where the exact measurement in

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:29.839
<v Speaker 2>the ear was coming from, Like are you measuring it

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.200
<v Speaker 2>from like the hole where the middle of the ear

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.560
<v Speaker 2>or the bottom of the ear lobe, And depending on

0:39:34.600 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 2>if you do that, you could be off by an inch.

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:39.799
<v Speaker 2>And then I get confused, Am I supposed to chop

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:40.360
<v Speaker 2>my hair or not?

0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 1>Wait, she's saying, depending on where your ear is. He

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:47.560
<v Speaker 1>he's saying, is sexist of you? Okay, I'm so sorry

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:51.240
<v Speaker 1>doing on where your ear is? Yeah, you should have short.

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:54.360
<v Speaker 2>Line depending on Now I don't know the measurements, but

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.439
<v Speaker 2>it's like if you take the ear to your neck,

0:39:57.520 --> 0:40:00.600
<v Speaker 2>like there's a there's a measurement somewhere between here and

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.920
<v Speaker 2>here that if it's a certain amount, then you should

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:06.480
<v Speaker 2>have a bob or you should have long hair. And

0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:09.520
<v Speaker 2>then if you're right on it, then lucky you, you

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 2>get to wear a bob or long and you'll look good.

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 2>But then they showed all these examples of people that

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.640
<v Speaker 2>have it, and yes, the bob does look better on

0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:20.879
<v Speaker 2>them because it's like the length that they're Yes, And

0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:25.239
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't even on when I went to his page,

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:28.279
<v Speaker 2>which I don't even know what hairstylist this is, but

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:32.200
<v Speaker 2>he must be world renowned. I couldn't figure out exactly

0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 2>where he started measuring because then I started seeing conflicting

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 2>videos and people were doing it wrong. And then I'm like,

0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:39.439
<v Speaker 2>I needed to be accurate, Like who can just give

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 2>me the one accurate video? Because I googled and I

0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:44.520
<v Speaker 2>started reading different measurements, and that's how I feel. Maybe

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:46.640
<v Speaker 2>now about the three Ralph Lauren, like, is there going

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:49.200
<v Speaker 2>to be conflicting reports on what's an accessory and what's not?

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:50.879
<v Speaker 2>And we need to know the.

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Real rule to breathe? You took a breath.

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:02.440
<v Speaker 2>I just you need for people you're getting hot. Because

0:41:02.480 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 2>here's the deal. I rely heavily on advice from other people,

0:41:06.440 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 2>and when it's not exactly and I can't figure it out,

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 2>I get overwhelmed and I'm like, well, now I don't

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 2>know what to do.

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Well, listen, I'm gonna give you something that's gonna be

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 1>really helpful. I think, don't cut your hair into a bob.

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't do it because because because because.

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:25.359
<v Speaker 2>But what if I measure it and it tells me I.

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:29.239
<v Speaker 1>Have every time you cut your hair, you then are like,

0:41:29.680 --> 0:41:32.359
<v Speaker 1>why I cut my hair. I want my long hair back,

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>which you've had short hair like that. I think you

0:41:35.680 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 1>look great with it, but you get tired of it

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>really quickly. So that brings me to my next point.

0:41:44.160 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>We talked about this in our newsletter, but you have

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:51.719
<v Speaker 1>not talked about them. Your newest purchase from Amazon that

0:41:51.800 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 1>goes on your head?

0:41:52.760 --> 0:42:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my bangs, my hot clip and bangs? Are they

0:42:01.560 --> 0:42:03.360
<v Speaker 2>on my counter? Maybe we should have Shane and go

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 2>grab them because they might be on my Are they

0:42:05.160 --> 0:42:08.080
<v Speaker 2>on the counter? They're in my dresser at my room.

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 2>Should I Cat's gonna go get We're gonna go get

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:12.839
<v Speaker 2>the bangs.

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen these. Have you put them in?

0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:18.359
<v Speaker 1>And what drove you to get these?

0:42:18.840 --> 0:42:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Kidman?

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:21.359
<v Speaker 1>Did she tell you to get them?

0:42:22.880 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 2>I've been thinking about bangs for a while because it's

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:26.520
<v Speaker 2>sort of one of those things, just like getting a

0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:30.120
<v Speaker 2>bob like you just they're in a pink box. When

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:34.279
<v Speaker 2>you don't have it, you want it, yeah, and when

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:35.000
<v Speaker 2>you have it.

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>You don't want it. It's like all the girls growing

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:39.439
<v Speaker 1>up wanted curly hair, and then all girls with curly

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:40.360
<v Speaker 1>hair wanted straight.

0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:42.120
<v Speaker 2>Hair, and then with bangs and I got a perm

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:44.840
<v Speaker 2>It's dangerous because you cut them and then you have

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:46.319
<v Speaker 2>to wait for them to grow out or.

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<v Speaker 1>You why don't you start with like a curtain bang?

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<v Speaker 2>These had good reviews and how did it happens?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't. It's not the same color as your hair?

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<v Speaker 1>That why why?

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's not I tried to order it, like exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't really know how to get them in.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I help you?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Nicole Gindman got bangs and she looks so cute. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what I get the mirror, Yes, let me see the mirror. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so they need to be brushed a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 2>like you you you put your hair. Look see how

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<v Speaker 2>it's giving like wait but like okay, look okay, hold on,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you take my hair, you know, and tuck this.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just I don't can't get on my look, but

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<v Speaker 2>it gives you the agence. It's like the general idea

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<v Speaker 2>of what they would look like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you actually would be cute with bangs, but

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<v Speaker 1>like those aren't the ones I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But this do you see how just giving you the

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<v Speaker 2>general idea.

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<v Speaker 1>You look like.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it matches my hair, hair color.

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<v Speaker 1>You look like you're from the the eighties. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>look like you're from Saved by the Bell, like Kelly.

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<v Speaker 2>If I take them back a little bit, look, how's that? Yes, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean probably not this much of it. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think i'll wear them in public, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>help filling that need to figure it out. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to cut my bangs to see.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what you bought them for, not to wear them,

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<v Speaker 1>but to just like scratch.

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<v Speaker 2>The I thought if I could figure out how to

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<v Speaker 2>apply them or put them on, what's the word applicate them?

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<v Speaker 1>Is what I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>If I could install the hair piece correctly, I would

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<v Speaker 2>maybe wear them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, this is not hair, yes his hair, yes it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It is human hair. Okay, and they have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of reviews on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe we just need to style it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like but see this is like you know how

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<v Speaker 2>there's no makeup, makeup? This is what? No style? Style?

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<v Speaker 2>You're just like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is like like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I woke up like this casual are the.

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<v Speaker 1>Like kind of a granny right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Granny?

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<v Speaker 1>See I think I feel like, oh my gosh, you

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<v Speaker 1>just like reminded me of a grandma. From the eighties. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you look like you're about to go bake a

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<v Speaker 1>pie or something.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not giving you a little bit of what my

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<v Speaker 2>hair would look like with bangs. You can't take me

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<v Speaker 2>seriously right now, I feel like you look really pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to tell me that part. But just

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<v Speaker 2>think if you're thinking about chopping your banks and then

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<v Speaker 2>you get to put these in, you spare yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're not going to do it right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You can either decide okay, yes, I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>could pull this off and I should cut my banks,

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<v Speaker 2>or you can be like, this looks terrible on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Anytime I get the urge to have bangs, I just

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<v Speaker 2>put in my hair system and then I'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to cut my banks anymore, okay, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I remove it and it's simple, and then you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to normal, and then you look so different. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you could do curtain banks, so if you did

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<v Speaker 1>want banks, because those if you don't want them, that

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<v Speaker 1>they're easier to like style into your hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, if anybody wants to scratch that itch. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Links in the newsletter set up for our newsletter.

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<v Speaker 2>And also our favorite socks and my favorite Q tips

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<v Speaker 2>well this is us. If people think this is lame,

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<v Speaker 2>well then we're lame. Like it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We like socks and Q tips. Also, I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>put those Q tips in your ear?

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<v Speaker 2>Well you can, I guess if you want. But that

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<v Speaker 2>point day tip is like I just feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>good for like makeup and removing, Like if you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>your nails, like that pointy tip you could dip in

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<v Speaker 2>nail remover and like clean up like good for like

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<v Speaker 2>inner eye and nose. But the point in the ear

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<v Speaker 2>might hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Good. But so if you want that, sign up for

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, Well, I guess before we go, then we

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<v Speaker 2>also need to remind people again about the merch in

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<v Speaker 2>case they forgot, because a lot's happened.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gotten bangs, got rid of your bangs. November seventh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a Friday, mark your calendars. And I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>most excited about the sweat set because I'm just like

0:47:48.440 --> 0:47:54.040
<v Speaker 2>living for sweats this time of year. That we dropped

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<v Speaker 2>a hat hint in the episode, So.

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<v Speaker 1>We did it, did Okay, so guess what the hat's

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<v Speaker 1>going to say. We'll give you a shout out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess right.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone will probably guess because we've also kind of posted

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<v Speaker 2>about it before. But that's another too many hands, too

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<v Speaker 2>many hands, okay, okay, all right, well, we hope you

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<v Speaker 2>have the day you need to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye,