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Speaker 2: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy

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Speaker 3: and Cat gotcha cove and locking.

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Speaker 2: No, brother, ladies and folks, do you.

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Speaker 3: Just follow an the spirit where it's all the front

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Speaker 3: but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it

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Speaker 3: just you feel things. This is feeling.

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Speaker 1: Things with Amy and Cat.

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Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Cat,

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Speaker 2: and Cat's gonna kick us off with the feeling of

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Speaker 2: the day. We both have them today, lots of feelings flowing.

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Speaker 1: So I'm adding an extra feeling. We'll get to my

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Speaker 1: real feeling. Well, they're both real feelings, but my extra

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Speaker 1: feeling is excited.

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Speaker 2: This is where we validate for everybody all your feelings, Matt, Well,

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Speaker 2: do we use the word real because your feelings are real?

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Speaker 2: But also they're.

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Speaker 1: All valid, They're not always justified, okay, and feelings do

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Speaker 1: not justify hurtful behavior.

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Speaker 2: Amen.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just excited.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to describe some herbal behavior that you

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Speaker 2: did know?

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling excited because something big is happening.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So make sure to follow us on socials. I

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Speaker 2: feel like that's the easy way. And then if you're

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Speaker 2: not on Socials, then in the show notes, we will

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Speaker 2: have a link where you can find everything. I don't

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Speaker 2: know that it'll be up yet, it's well, well, the

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Speaker 2: show's coming out or this episode's coming out on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: The link you can sign up for the newsletter that

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Speaker 1: will let you know exactly when everything goes live.

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Speaker 2: Boom, and it'll show it in your email inbox, and

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Speaker 2: then that makes it easy PC. Yeah, so we have

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Speaker 2: a sweat set. Yeah, I'm very excited about the sweat set.

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Speaker 2: Kat does have on the T shirt that's the one

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Speaker 1: Wearing for feeling for a while.

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Speaker 2: We've gone through a lot of other options of things,

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Speaker 2: and then we have a hat with something that we've

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Speaker 1: Ooh, you guys should message us and say what you

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Speaker 1: think the hat's going to say? Yeah, it's not what

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Speaker 2: It's not the same as the shirt. Every piece, the hat,

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Speaker 2: whatever you're into. Okay, that's a good feeling. I didn't

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Speaker 1: But I said that you get us there. It's exciting extra.

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Speaker 2: starting to shop for gifts and guys, I know we

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Speaker 2: understand their wives because their wives listen to so now

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Speaker 2: Bam easy Charristmas.

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Speaker 1: Gift Easy Easy, Lemon Squeezy. Now my other feeling. I'm

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Speaker 2: And then whenever I posted about that Bobos that I

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Speaker 2: Okay, we were out early, so it was a deserved break.

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Speaker 2: Day store, get you something like your parents would get

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Speaker 2: You know there's like things like we've never like we've

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what that's like. What if going

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Speaker 2: I need to check that box. But I've done an

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Speaker 2: Check like I've gone back to his college, met all

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Speaker 2: They all love him. They think he's great, stand up

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Speaker 1: I can't. I want to come back to this, but

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Speaker 1: Are you going to have to go to the movies

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Speaker 2: I mean we're not getting married yet, but yes, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So back to the trip you met his friends.

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Speaker 1: I did see that you spilt something on his friends. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I watched it like ten times. How did it? I

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Speaker 2: I've decided to either cross my leg or uncross my leg.

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Speaker 2: I can't tell. You have to look at it again.

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Speaker 2: I know, it like just flew like. I couldn't even

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Speaker 2: We were using their tickets. We were sitting with them.

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Speaker 1: It was like a Darner liquid.

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Speaker 2: what just happened? I was like, I don't know, and

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Speaker 2: I am so sorry. And then I was like, no

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Speaker 2: And your girlfriend's so funny, like, oh, yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's a good story because what if you guys become

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think we just will be because

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Speaker 1: Wait. Also you post about that.

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Speaker 2: That blew my mind.

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Speaker 1: It was in my mind and I couldn't give him.

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Speaker 2: And then Alex is telling me about all these secret

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Speaker 2: So like Alex could be a seven, he's not.

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Speaker 1: You know, because you don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I was reading through some of the way it would

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Speaker 1: Some nobody says anything about it. They just well know.

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Speaker 2: That's when people there, that's when family learns, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: So then nobody can become a new member until somebody dies.

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Speaker 2: I guess, so because there's only seven at a time,

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Speaker 2: I don't know their age. Someone DMed me a listener

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Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I went to a funeral once

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Speaker 1: But who brings the flower?

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Speaker 2: And if you want to communicate with the sevens, you

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Speaker 1: We need to communicate them with.

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Speaker 2: What societies at a lot of campuses, not mine, which

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Speaker 2: I saw his bedroom. They have it preserved. Yeah, he

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Speaker 2: Sir Society that is at UVA. There might be sevens

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that university has a seven, they

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Speaker 1: This is what's getting the way is. I thought this

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Speaker 2: but I.

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00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 1: Could be like one young student yep, and then like

441
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:08,160
Speaker 1: six old guys. Okay, and it's only for women. No, okay,

442
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:08,840
Speaker 1: there could be women.

443
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:13,199
Speaker 2: I like the sevens okay, and the IMP's like I

444
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 2: was reading about them, and they like dress up with

445
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,640
Speaker 2: and put horns on. The MP's freaked me out quite

446
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 2: honestly when I was reading about them. But then it

447
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 2: made me think about Illuminati and other secret societies that

448
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:29,160
Speaker 2: are out there, just worldwide, like not exclusive to a campus, yeah,

449
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 2: or university, and just these traditions that have been around

450
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 2: like hundreds of years of these people meeting with capes

451
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 2: and horns and being.

452
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:40,440
Speaker 1: Like, hey, it feels very coltish, but apparently they do good.

453
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 2: At least the sevens. They have lots of that's what

454
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 2: they want you to donations, but they probably have a

455
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,920
Speaker 2: lot of money and connection.

456
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,199
Speaker 1: I wonder if you can say no, I don't know,

457
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 1: or if it's like we're going to kill you if

458
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 1: you don't accept this, Oh, that would be bad. Well,

459
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. Some secret societies I think are bad,

460
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 1: like colts are bad. Yeah, well, I guess I shouldn't

461
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 1: say as I don't know.

462
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. Nobody's ever asked me to be in

463
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,120
Speaker 2: a secret society.

464
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,360
Speaker 1: So well, if you couldn't, that's yet. Well no, no, yeah,

465
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,879
Speaker 1: you could be bluffing if you were asked to be

466
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: in secret society you couldn't tell us.

467
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I just come on here and act like

468
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: I'm just now learning you're in profit at seven? Yeah,

469
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: maybe a seventh. Look what I learned about seven from

470
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 2: Texas A and M yeah, yeah, I don't even know

471
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,719
Speaker 2: if we had secret societies there.

472
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 1: Well maybe what were you going to say about cheating?

473
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Well, so this was my feeling, my feeling

474
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 2: of the day, sort of like conflicted. So I've taken

475
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: a trip with my boyfriend's family before, but my kids

476
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 2: were there as well, So this is the first time

477
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 2: we're all on a trip and having fun and doing

478
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:47,120
Speaker 2: something and my kids are with their dad, so they're

479
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 2: not with me, and we all took a pic and

480
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 2: it's like me, Alex and the kids and it's like,

481
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 2: oh hey, and it felt weird, like whenever I was

482
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 2: posting the pic later, I felt like I was cheating

483
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 2: all my kids, which I had not had that feeling before.

484
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 2: So this is new because we've hung out in town,

485
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: of course, but something about being out of town on

486
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: a trip doing something and I don't know if other

487
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 2: people that are dating and you've got kids or they've

488
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 2: got kids, and then this whole blending of families that

489
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 2: was just a new feeling that I hadn't had before,

490
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: where I felt weird even posting a.

491
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: Family pic without part of your family.

492
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,400
Speaker 2: Yes, like something in me felt like I needed to explain,

493
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 2: like I still love my kids, but they're just not here.

494
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 2: So I didn't end up explaining anything because I know

495
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 2: how I feel. But also I thought, if my kids

496
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: see this, I don't want them to think, oh, look

497
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 2: at mom with them, you know, And I missed them

498
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 2: and I wanted them to be there. So it felt

499
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 2: like this weird and the best way for me to

500
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 2: describe it. And that's why I mentioned that word cheating

501
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 2: to you and then you were like, wait about what,

502
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,159
Speaker 2: and you're like, save it for the podcast. So I

503
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 2: felt like I was cheating on my kids.

504
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 1: That sounds hard.

505
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be dramatic about it. I'm not

506
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 2: as torn up about it as maybe it seems, but

507
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: I am conflicted.

508
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: Well, it just feels like something is missing.

509
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: Or they were missing. I wanted been there. Yeah, But

510
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,360
Speaker 2: the thing is they're not always going to be there.

511
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 2: The reality is I only have them fifty percent of

512
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: the time, and the reality is everybody is getting older

513
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 2: and they have their own stuff going on. So even

514
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 2: if I did have them, they may not be at

515
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: a certain event that the rest of us are at

516
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 2: and they may just not be there. And the more

517
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: we do that, the more we'll get used to it.

518
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: I'm sure it'll be fine. This just happened to be

519
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: the first time, and that was the feeling that I had,

520
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: and I had to really pay attention to it. And

521
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 2: then I had to pay attention of like why I

522
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 2: felt this desire to explain it? Who was that four?

523
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 2: And then I realized, like, oh, I don't need to

524
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 2: explain anything. And also, if my kids ask anything, I'll

525
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 2: say the same thing to them, like this is another

526
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 2: part of my life. But we're all we're all in

527
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: this together.

528
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, even if you had them on

529
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: hundred percent of the time, maybe they didn't want to

530
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: go to that kind of thing exactly. They're like, go,

531
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't care about UVA and the imps.

532
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 2: And they would choose to stay back and go with friends, Yeah, somewhere.

533
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: Else when you get older, like, yeah, you'd rather do

534
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 1: stuff with your friends and go to like a raning

535
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: depending Yeah, but there's plenty of times around like mom,

536
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 1: can I do fall break with so and so?

537
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. It ended up like,

538
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 2: worked through it, feel fine, but that until we have

539
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 2: more experiences with it, I'll likely feel just a little

540
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 2: conflicted when I've.

541
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: Got it going on.

542
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 2: But speaking of the social posts, I also feel happy

543
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 2: because I know social media is not everything, but for kids,

544
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 2: snapchat is a really big thing. And my boyfriend's daughter

545
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: who's seventeen, and their mom passed away several years ago

546
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: from cancer, so she was the oldest and closest to

547
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: her mom. I mean they were all close to her,

548
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: but you know, she was the oldest, so her relationship

549
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: and her age when it happened is a little different

550
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: than like the youngest per se, so it's been more

551
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: of a challenge. And she posted me on her Snapchat.

552
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,719
Speaker 1: I saw she posted to you on her Instagram.

553
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 2: Yes, right, but I feel like snapchat, Oh I got snapped?

554
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: How did you know? Did she say?

555
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,880
Speaker 2: Like somebody told me? Another person that saw it told me.

556
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: Later, were they like amy you guys?

557
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: I was like, I made the snapchat.

558
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 1: It snapchat is like a story, right, Okay?

559
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: So I got snapped and I felt like that was

560
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: a bit that's a big deal, like it's just information,

561
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 2: and it made me smile inside. I even texted Alex

562
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: about it and he was like, does that make you happy?

563
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 2: And I was like.

564
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.

565
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 2: So I tried to like spend time and savor that

566
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: and soak it up and be like, oh wow, because

567
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 2: this time a year ago, I was terrified of how

568
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 2: it was going to how our relationship would unfold. So

569
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: that was cool.

570
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: So you had a big weekend. You learned a lot,

571
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: you experienced a lot, and I feel like you grew

572
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: Like that trip was like a big growth point for

573
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: your relationship in general. Okay, and you had fun. Also.

574
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: I read your story where you said like whoh hoo,

575
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: woho uh, But.

576
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: I don't know Hudson his daughter types that for me.

577
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: I thought you were just typing like woo hoo oh.

578
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 2: That's what they say at Uba.

579
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: All these people commenting on your posts that, and I

580
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: was like, that must be like their battle cry or something.

581
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: But I thought you were just being like silly and

582
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 1: fun and like typing like a fun way to say

583
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: woo who did you learn any cheers?

584
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 2: We sang the song whenever they would cheer, like they

585
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: sway back and forth. We do that at Texas A

586
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: and M. Do you do that? Is that like every

587
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 2: college thing?

588
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: Well? I went to one, maybe two football games my

589
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: whole college career, so I don't know what they do there. Okay.

590
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 2: Well, at A and M we crossed legs and grab

591
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 2: arms and like sway back and forth and sing our song.

592
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: And at UVA they kind of do the same thing,

593
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,880
Speaker 2: different song, two different songs. Yeah, but so I would

594
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: sway back and forth. My thing was I want to

595
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 2: go all in, so I had never been before. I

596
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: don't really care much about football. I went to A

597
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 2: and M. I'm what they call a two percenter. I mean,

598
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: I love the Aggis and I love an M, but

599
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: I care about two percent because a lot of Aggi's

600
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 2: are very, very, very hardcore.

601
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,959
Speaker 1: They still wear their rings.

602
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would wear my ring, but it got stolen.

603
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: Oh right, sorry, Yeah, I loved.

604
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: My Aggie ring. I'm still I haven't hard replaced it

605
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 2: because I did work really hard to get that ring,

606
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 2: and I haven't replaced it because I still have hope

607
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 2: that one day somebody's going to call me and be like,

608
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 2: are you a dot E dot? Like my initials class

609
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: of three, And I'm gonna be like, that's me because

610
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: my initials are engraved on the inside.

611
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: I always have hope.

612
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 2: I have hope. So I decided to go all in,

613
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: Like I'm going to just embrace everything. We tailgated, we

614
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 2: went to the game. I tried to pay attention. I cheered,

615
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 2: and I think that I had a really good experience

616
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: because I went all in.

617
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's why you had the good experience.

618
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, I'm like, I'm an act, like I really

619
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: care about the school and I go here and I did,

620
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: and it was so fun because like, I don't really

621
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 2: care when they had the ball, Like I don't care.

622
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: I'm not like, oh my gosh.

623
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: We have the ball, We're gonna win, So what do

624
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: you do?

625
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: I would celebrate when they celebrated. I would do all

626
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 2: the things like I was just really Yes, I would

627
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 2: get excited because they would get pumped.

628
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 1: Okay, we've talked about this, Like I think we talked

629
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: about this as annoying as sometimes it is, how much

630
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: Patrick loves football. It is cute to see somebody so

631
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: excite with when he's watching like a ut game. It

632
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: is endearing to watch them be so excited about something.

633
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: So did you have a little bit of that with Alex?

634
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: Yes, I have some cute pictures of him and videos

635
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: that I didn't you here, like freaking out and cheering

636
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: because they it was a close game. And I thought

637
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: we were going to lose.

638
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: I thought they did lose.

639
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 2: They were about too and then we won because of

640
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: a safety, which is to only two points. They played

641
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 2: Washington State University.

642
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: You know it all? Okay, so you learned a lot.

643
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Beauty lost Tennessee. Yeah, yes, sorry, yeah there's two

644
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: you're t Austin or Texas. And then yeah, well anyway,

645
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 2: this was just a couple of weeks ago.

646
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: So you like cool. Hey, Sports Up Day Day. We

647
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: love sports Sports podcast, and we know you know what

648
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: we can help you do is we can help you

649
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: have a good time at a sporting event when you

650
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: don't care about the sport.

651
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 2: Yes, just get your hat off it. Like I was.

652
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: I went to the bookstore.

653
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: Because you threw out your original outfit.

654
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't end up wearing the shirt that I

655
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: was gonna wear. And I got a uva hat and

656
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: I got an orange and blue and white scarf, and

657
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: I tied around my clear bag, you know, to like

658
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: a little to accessorize it a little bit. And then

659
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: I got a Virginia sweatshirt and tied it around my shoulders.

660
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: Oh okay, speaking of I was watching some tiktoks and

661
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: you always do look really cute when you have a

662
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes you do the little sweater thing. So I saw

663
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: some girl post that if you do two of three

664
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: of these things, you will look expensive. I don't buy it.

665
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: It's hair, makeup, outfit. Well, I have my hair and

666
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: makeup done. I have a makeup half done. I don't

667
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: think I look expensive. So what do you mean by

668
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: look expensive? Like chic? Yeah? It was like her like,

669
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: look like you or she was like if this is

670
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: how you, this is the what you do, look rich

671
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: if you do. But I'm like, that's just getting right.

672
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 2: I guess I've just never heard someone described like I

673
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:34,479
Speaker 2: look expensive, well except for cry okay, but like, what

674
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: does that mean?

675
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: I think is that I like the clean girl aesthetic

676
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: girl clean girl aesthetic like looks like old money.

677
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 2: I don't know this. Oh my gosh, okay, I don't

678
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: know this this part of TikTok.

679
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get back to the sweater.

680
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: Wait. Clean girl is a thing.

681
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: Clean girl asthetic is like slick back but minimal, like

682
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: dewey skin, like like makeup, no makeup makeup.

683
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: Yes, oh I love a good no maup and like

684
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: a makeup makeup.

685
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: For an Oxford, like very clean clothes.

686
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: Oh like clean aesthetic, like ironed, steamed.

687
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: Do you have a steamer the opposite of what we're wearing. Okay,

688
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: but clean girl sthetic is supposed to look expensive.

689
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: Okay.

690
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: People were listening, probably like you're getting it wrong.

691
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 2: I used drag chamber this morning. I'm dirty girl, wash

692
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: my hair.

693
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: Since I got to blow out dirty girls. We're dirty girl, Okay. Okay,

694
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: So if we want to look like rich, it doesn't work.

695
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: Chic polished is a better term, because I'm like, I

696
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: don't like saying like I want to either.

697
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, what how does what's our

698
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: real value?

699
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: Okay, we're all expensive in our own way. So I

700
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: was looking at that because I was watching these reels

701
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: because or tiktoks, because I was like, I don't buy this.

702
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: I need somebody to explain this to me because this

703
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: this equation doesn't work well. Then, because I was just

704
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: watching videos about numbers, this other video came up and

705
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: it was the Ralph Lauren rule of three. Do you

706
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: say Ralph Lauren or Ralph Lauren both?

707
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: I'd say Ralph Lauren mostly, but I feel like on

708
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 2: friends that they say that was this an episode of

709
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: Friends where they're like, Ralph, Lauren.

710
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: You know that I've never seen Friends.

711
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well, I don't even know if it's really

712
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: a Friend's episode just popped into my head.

713
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: Speaking of I'll get back to the story. Do you

714
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: say kobosh or kai bosh?

715
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: I don't say that word? Where what is that?

716
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: Like they put the kobosh on it?

717
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 2: I don't say that.

718
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: I don't you ever heard somebody say it. You're acting

719
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: like you're better than this word.

720
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I say like a kabob, like that you

721
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: stick meat on a stick.

722
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: Nobody's ever said kobosh.

723
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

724
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Well to all the listeners out there, I want

725
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: to know people say kai bosh or kobosh because I've

726
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: always said kabash and Patrick says kai bosh and it

727
00:32:53,400 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: sounds weird. Okay, back to my story rule of threes.

728
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: I actually really like this role because I struggle, you

729
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: know how I struggle getting dressed these days, making something

730
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: look like an outfit and not like I just like

731
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: put on a shirt and pants, Like I'm always like,

732
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: how come this person looks like they're wearing an outfit?

733
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: And when I put it on I just kind of look.

734
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: So it's like that's like the difference between wearing and styling.

735
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: Yes, and so, she said when she worked at Raf Lauren,

736
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: they had to always wear three pieces. So if you

737
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: wore pants, shirt, sweater, or if you wear a dress,

738
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: you'd do like belt sweater or like belt scarf around

739
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: your neck or something like that, and it helps your

740
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: look look more polished. Polish is a great word, Shannon.

741
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: And she had on like a Oxford shirt, just regular,

742
00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: regular jeans and a regular I don't know why I've

743
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 1: been saying that a lot regular degular.

744
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: It's just fun fun, I mean fun done.

745
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, this just made me think of you with

746
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: the sweater because she just had She just put this

747
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: little sweater over her and it took it looked crazy.

748
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: She looked like took her from zero to hero. Yes, rich.

749
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 2: Took her from cheap too extensive. Yes, it really did.

750
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: I don't know that I can pull off the sweater

751
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:32,240
Speaker 1: around my shoulder.

752
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 2: Yes you could.

753
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: You're saying that you've never seen it, Yeah, but it is. Yeah,

754
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: maybe I can do it now. Oh my gosh. Okay,

755
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: try to remind me next time we record. I'll see

756
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: if I can whip something up. Yeah, okay, so rule

757
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: of threes. Try it and see if it helps. Okay.

758
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 2: Have you seen the thing about the order in which

759
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 2: you get.

760
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: Ready, Like when you do your like, do you do

761
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: make up?

762
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,879
Speaker 2: Outfit? Hair outfit, makeup, hair, hair makeup outfit makeup, hair

763
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 2: outfit outfit, hair makeup or hair outfit makeup?

764
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 1: Okay? What am I getting ready for?

765
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 2: It depends? It depends. I guess it depends what you're

766
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: getting ready for.

767
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: Because if I'm getting ready for a big event, I

768
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: need to know my outfit before I figure out what

769
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing with my hair and what my makeup is

770
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: gonna look like. But every day I do skincare, hair

771
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: out makeup. Skincare is make makeup, makeup. There's only three

772
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: options makeup outkay, hair, Sorry sorry sorry? Makeup? Say no,

773
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: what do you do? I really think it depends. I'm

774
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: not even kidding. I think it's either hair, it's how

775
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: I'm feeling. And then my outfits always last. If it's

776
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: just a regular, regular day, Yeah.

777
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,720
Speaker 2: I would say my outfit this lasts mostly too.

778
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: Do you think people get dressed first.

779
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I mean maybe if they pick

780
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 2: out their outfit. They already know that it's good. But

781
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: I need my hair my makeup to be done because

782
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 2: then my outfit will look better. Yeah, for sure, And

783
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 2: then I need my hair. I can do less with

784
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 2: my hair if my makeup is already done, and I

785
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 2: kind of see what we're working with. I may mess

786
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 2: with my hair longer if my makeup isn't done, because

787
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to like that is a good point

788
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: make myself look better.

789
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: But now you know rule of three, you want to

790
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: do two?

791
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 2: Do you need clothes and hair? And well, I guess

792
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: you don't have to.

793
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 1: Have They're saying, like you could have, Like like I'm

794
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: wearing sweatpants, so I don't have outfit. Okay, for no,

795
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 1: I consider this is a great outfit. But I have

796
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: makeup and hair.

797
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 2: Okay.

798
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: So you're wearing clothes, so I'm polished, but.

799
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 2: Polished, Okay, I gotcha. I see what you're saying.

800
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't believe in it, but I'm going to adopt that.

801
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try you when I get ready for work tomorrow,

802
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try the the rule of three. I need

803
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 2: to make sure I have like a blazer or sweater

804
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 2: or a belt or scarf.

805
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yes, send me your what third accessory? No,

806
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: it can't be an accessory. It's like an item.

807
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 2: Okay, which Clark accessory? Do you say accessory or accessory?

808
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: Speaking of how to.

809
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: Say things, I don't think anybody says assessor.

810
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 2: They do. I hear them.

811
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 1: I hear them.

812
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 2: Cat you say it accessories, accessories, accessory.

813
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 1: Nobody says yes.

814
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 2: I swear now that I'm telling you, you're going to

815
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: hear people say accessory. No poem. I've got the only

816
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 2: one that says poem.

817
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: Poem.

818
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 2: Matthew McConaughey does it, and so does Kelly Clarkson. We've

819
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 2: confirmed this because they posted about it. It's a Texas thing.

820
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.

821
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 2: You're hating on my heritage, origin, origin, Okay, state of birth,

822
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: my birthplace.

823
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, I take it back. Accessory No, I.

824
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 2: Don't say, I say accessory. I don't know what part

825
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 2: you know, how fine, if we want to assign poem to

826
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: like some Texans, there is a part of the country

827
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 2: that says accessory.

828
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: I don't know where or why.

829
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: But now that I've told you, sort of like this

830
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 2: blue car and then you start seeing blue car. Now

831
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna hear accessory.

832
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: Start laughing, you're gonna hear what So I say accessory,

833
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: And I do think scarf is an accessory. However, for

834
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: this it's not because it can't be. You add jewelry,

835
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: that's not one of the threes, right, Okay, I mean

836
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 1: unless you do like some crazy neck thing like necklace

837
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: that's like big.

838
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 2: Like a statement piece.

839
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 1: Can't be like one of these little necklaces.

840
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 2: Nothing dainty, Yes, to be like in your face kind

841
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: a necklace. What about a hat?

842
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: That would be an item? That's an item. I feel like.

843
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm just saying it that way.

844
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: But I think for that, I think it just is

845
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,760
Speaker 1: not not jewelry. And shoes don't count because you're obviously

846
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna wear shoes. I only watched one video. I

847
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: could be doing it wrong. We should ask something that

848
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: worked out, Ralph Lauren, Yeah, there's the rules.

849
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 2: We'll look it up. This makes me think of you know,

850
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 2: we were talking about your hair, Like some stylist out

851
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 2: of Paris or something or somewhere has this measurement rule

852
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: for if you're supposed to have short hair or long hair.

853
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 2: And I watched so many different videos on it, and

854
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: I could never really decipher where the exact measurement in

855
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 2: the ear was coming from, Like are you measuring it

856
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: from like the hole where the middle of the ear

857
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: or the bottom of the ear lobe, And depending on

858
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: if you do that, you could be off by an inch.

859
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 2: And then I get confused, Am I supposed to chop

860
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 2: my hair or not?

861
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 1: Wait, she's saying, depending on where your ear is. He

862
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: he's saying, is sexist of you? Okay, I'm so sorry

863
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,240
Speaker 1: doing on where your ear is? Yeah, you should have short.

864
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 2: Line depending on Now I don't know the measurements, but

865
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 2: it's like if you take the ear to your neck,

866
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 2: like there's a there's a measurement somewhere between here and

867
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 2: here that if it's a certain amount, then you should

868
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: have a bob or you should have long hair. And

869
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 2: then if you're right on it, then lucky you, you

870
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: get to wear a bob or long and you'll look good.

871
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: But then they showed all these examples of people that

872
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 2: have it, and yes, the bob does look better on

873
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 2: them because it's like the length that they're Yes, And

874
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 2: I couldn't even on when I went to his page,

875
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 2: which I don't even know what hairstylist this is, but

876
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 2: he must be world renowned. I couldn't figure out exactly

877
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 2: where he started measuring because then I started seeing conflicting

878
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 2: videos and people were doing it wrong. And then I'm like,

879
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 2: I needed to be accurate, Like who can just give

880
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 2: me the one accurate video? Because I googled and I

881
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: started reading different measurements, and that's how I feel. Maybe

882
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 2: now about the three Ralph Lauren, like, is there going

883
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 2: to be conflicting reports on what's an accessory and what's not?

884
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 2: And we need to know the.

885
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: Real rule to breathe? You took a breath.

886
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 2: I just you need for people you're getting hot. Because

887
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 2: here's the deal. I rely heavily on advice from other people,

888
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: and when it's not exactly and I can't figure it out,

889
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: I get overwhelmed and I'm like, well, now I don't

890
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: know what to do.

891
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: Well, listen, I'm gonna give you something that's gonna be

892
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: really helpful. I think, don't cut your hair into a bob.

893
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: You don't do it because because because because.

894
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 2: But what if I measure it and it tells me I.

895
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: Have every time you cut your hair, you then are like,

896
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 1: why I cut my hair. I want my long hair back,

897
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: which you've had short hair like that. I think you

898
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: look great with it, but you get tired of it

899
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: really quickly. So that brings me to my next point.

900
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: We talked about this in our newsletter, but you have

901
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: not talked about them. Your newest purchase from Amazon that

902
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: goes on your head?

903
00:41:52,760 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: Oh my bangs, my hot clip and bangs? Are they

904
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 2: on my counter? Maybe we should have Shane and go

905
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: grab them because they might be on my Are they

906
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: on the counter? They're in my dresser at my room.

907
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: Should I Cat's gonna go get We're gonna go get

908
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 2: the bangs.

909
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: I haven't seen these. Have you put them in?

910
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

911
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: And what drove you to get these?

912
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 2: Kidman?

913
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 1: Did she tell you to get them?

914
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about bangs for a while because it's

915
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: sort of one of those things, just like getting a

916
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: bob like you just they're in a pink box. When

917
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 2: you don't have it, you want it, yeah, and when

918
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 2: you have it.

919
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: You don't want it. It's like all the girls growing

920
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 1: up wanted curly hair, and then all girls with curly

921
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: hair wanted straight.

922
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 2: Hair, and then with bangs and I got a perm

923
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 2: It's dangerous because you cut them and then you have

924
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 2: to wait for them to grow out or.

925
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 1: You why don't you start with like a curtain bang?

926
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 2: These had good reviews and how did it happens?

927
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: They don't. It's not the same color as your hair?

928
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: That why why?

929
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 2: Because it's not I tried to order it, like exactly,

930
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 2: but I don't really know how to get them in.

931
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 1: Can I help you?

932
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: Because Nicole Gindman got bangs and she looks so cute. Okay, okay,

933
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 2: what I get the mirror, Yes, let me see the mirror. Okay,

934
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 2: so they need to be brushed a little bit. But

935
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: like you you you put your hair. Look see how

936
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 2: it's giving like wait but like okay, look okay, hold on,

937
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: and then you take my hair, you know, and tuck this.

938
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: They're just I don't can't get on my look, but

939
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 2: it gives you the agence. It's like the general idea

940
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 2: of what they would look like.

941
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so you actually would be cute with bangs, but

942
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: like those aren't the ones I know.

943
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: But this do you see how just giving you the

944
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 2: general idea.

945
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: You look like.

946
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it matches my hair, hair color.

947
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: You look like you're from the the eighties. Yeah, you

948
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: look like you're from Saved by the Bell, like Kelly.

949
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: If I take them back a little bit, look, how's that? Yes, well,

950
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: I mean probably not this much of it. But yeah,

951
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 2: I don't think i'll wear them in public, but it's

952
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: help filling that need to figure it out. Like I

953
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 2: don't have to cut my bangs to see.

954
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: So that's what you bought them for, not to wear them,

955
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: but to just like scratch.

956
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: The I thought if I could figure out how to

957
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 2: apply them or put them on, what's the word applicate them?

958
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: Is what I thought.

959
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: If I could install the hair piece correctly, I would

960
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 2: maybe wear them.

961
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: Yes, this is not hair, yes his hair, yes it is.

962
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 2: It is human hair. Okay, and they have a lot

963
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 2: of reviews on Amazon.

964
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe we just need to style it.

965
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like but see this is like you know how

966
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: there's no makeup, makeup? This is what? No style? Style?

967
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 2: You're just like this.

968
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: Is like like this.

969
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I woke up like this casual are the.

970
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: Like kind of a granny right now?

971
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,240
Speaker 2: Granny?

972
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: See I think I feel like, oh my gosh, you

973
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: just like reminded me of a grandma. From the eighties. Okay,

974
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: so you look like you're about to go bake a

975
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:37,280
Speaker 1: pie or something.

976
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 2: It's not giving you a little bit of what my

977
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 2: hair would look like with bangs. You can't take me

978
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: seriously right now, I feel like you look really pretty.

979
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell me that part. But just

980
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: think if you're thinking about chopping your banks and then

981
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: you get to put these in, you spare yourself.

982
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: Because you're not going to do it right. Yeah.

983
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: You can either decide okay, yes, I feel like I

984
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 2: could pull this off and I should cut my banks,

985
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: or you can be like, this looks terrible on me.

986
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: Now.

987
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: Anytime I get the urge to have bangs, I just

988
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 2: put in my hair system and then I'll be like, oh,

989
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 2: I don't need to cut my banks anymore, okay, and

990
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 2: then I remove it and it's simple, and then you're.

991
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: Back to normal, and then you look so different. I

992
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: think you could do curtain banks, so if you did

993
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 1: want banks, because those if you don't want them, that

994
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: they're easier to like style into your hair.

995
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

996
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: So okay, if anybody wants to scratch that itch. Yeah.

997
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 1: Links in the newsletter set up for our newsletter.

998
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 2: And also our favorite socks and my favorite Q tips

999
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 2: ever that have changed my life. I didn't know those existed.

1000
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: This is the riveting stuff that you're going to get

1001
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,760
Speaker 2: in our newsletters, which Kat and I were laughing about

1002
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 2: our content and what we linked, and we were like,

1003
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 2: well this is us. If people think this is lame,

1004
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 2: well then we're lame. Like it is what it is.

1005
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: We like socks and Q tips. Also, I thought you

1006
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: put those Q tips in your ear?

1007
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: Well you can, I guess if you want. But that

1008
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 2: point day tip is like I just feel like it's

1009
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 2: good for like makeup and removing, Like if you're doing

1010
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: your nails, like that pointy tip you could dip in

1011
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 2: nail remover and like clean up like good for like

1012
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 2: inner eye and nose. But the point in the ear

1013
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 2: might hurt.

1014
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: Good. But so if you want that, sign up for

1015
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: a newsletter. You never know it's gonna be the next one.

1016
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 2: That's right, Well, I guess before we go, then we

1017
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 2: also need to remind people again about the merch in

1018
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 2: case they forgot, because a lot's happened.

1019
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: You've gotten bangs, got rid of your bangs. November seventh,

1020
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:39,919
Speaker 1: that's the day.

1021
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 2: It's a Friday, mark your calendars. And I think I'm

1022
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 2: most excited about the sweat set because I'm just like

1023
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 2: living for sweats this time of year. That we dropped

1024
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 2: a hat hint in the episode, So.

1025
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: We did it, did Okay, so guess what the hat's

1026
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: going to say. We'll give you a shout out. Yeah,

1027
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: I guess right.

1028
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 2: Someone will probably guess because we've also kind of posted

1029
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 2: about it before. But that's another too many hands, too

1030
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 2: many hands, okay, okay, all right, well, we hope you

1031
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: have the day you need to have.

1032
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: Bye bye,