Speaker 1: Second date date, Brook, Have you ever been on a
Speaker 1: double date before? Yeah? Lots of types. Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 1: What do you mean they're mostly for like older married
Speaker 1: couples voyers. So I went on double dates when I
Speaker 1: was like in the dating world in my twenties. Double
Speaker 1: dates are fun. Yeah, you avoid back then you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: go ahead, kiss again. I promise I won't know. Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys, but no, the girl on the phone today
Speaker 1: actually went out on a double date recently. Of her too,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, let's talk to her a little bit.
Speaker 1: Her name's Vicky. Vicky. Are you married a voyeur or
Speaker 1: none of the above? None of the aboves. Thank you
Speaker 1: for asking. Okay, you're welcome by. So tell us about
Speaker 1: the guy that you went out with. What's his name?
Speaker 1: His name is Adam. Okay, and you went on a
Speaker 1: double date on your first date with Adam? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: we met online and it's kind of a weird situation.
Speaker 1: He had asked me out. He seems like cute, normal,
Speaker 1: all of that stuff seems and yeah, right, Um, it
Speaker 1: was a couple of weeks ago and it was like
Speaker 1: a Friday night, and so my roommate and I we
Speaker 1: made this pack that we have a roommate night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like we just we didn't want to be just like
Speaker 1: strangers living together as important for us to know each
Speaker 1: other and be involved each other's life. Okay, wow, pretty much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's so. I told him that I would normally go
Speaker 1: out Friday night, but that's my roommate night. And he
Speaker 1: was like, what's that? So I told him and he's like,
Speaker 1: that sounds cool. I have a roommate who's also single.
Speaker 1: Would you be open to doing a double day? Feels
Speaker 1: like it falls in the pack. I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, let me ask my roommate. She was down.
Speaker 1: So it kind of became this like eighties montage thing.
Speaker 1: We're like, sure, let's beak this. That's kind of crazy though,
Speaker 1: like you're both experiencing the first date together. Absolutely, absolutely, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. So we got together. We totally had a
Speaker 1: pack that if they didn't look like the profile or
Speaker 1: they were like super creepy and weird, we'd cut out.
Speaker 1: You guys make a lot of packs. Yeah, you could
Speaker 1: just discussion I don't know, good night pack. So what
Speaker 1: happened the night of your double day? Did they look
Speaker 1: the way that you thought they would. Look they did,
Speaker 1: and it went like really well. I mean I thought
Speaker 1: it went really well, Like what did you guys? Do
Speaker 1: you just did drinks or did you dinner and drinks? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We did dinner and drinks, okay, And I mean we're
Speaker 1: just kind of like general getting to know you, nothing
Speaker 1: like really weird. I mean Adam like something I thought
Speaker 1: was really cool, like he actually spent time in Germany
Speaker 1: during college, and so I thought that was like really
Speaker 1: interesting and fun at right. Correct? Yeah, okay, so my
Speaker 1: roommate Maya ended up going out with Jacob. Okay, so
Speaker 1: everybody just had a good time, so we didn't have
Speaker 1: to do the like thirty minutes cut and run packed
Speaker 1: into the past. Yeah yeah, and they actually ended up
Speaker 1: covering the bill, which we had this something of like
Speaker 1: you guys cover your thing, we'll cover our thing, because
Speaker 1: you know, when you're first getting to know people, you
Speaker 1: don't want to be like you cover the whole bill.
Speaker 1: But they take care of us, which is great. You know,
Speaker 1: we ordered a couple of shots, so it was going
Speaker 1: really well. It sounds like it did you end up
Speaker 1: back at your apartment or their apartment? I mean, it
Speaker 1: just seems so easy, right, like the roommates, it's more
Speaker 1: of a party situation. Immediately part when did the clothes
Speaker 1: come off? Yeah, no clothes coming off, no hot covering,
Speaker 1: anything like weird or awkward happened during the date. Well okay,
Speaker 1: so this is the only thing that I can kind
Speaker 1: of attribute it to. So there was, you know, pool
Speaker 1: tables where we're at. So we started to kind of
Speaker 1: play pool, And the only awkward moment I can think
Speaker 1: of is the guys are kind of doing like weird
Speaker 1: intimate stuff with the pool. Cute yeah, stick battles you
Speaker 1: put in your legs and then you duel. No, don't
Speaker 1: tell me they did that. I mean you didn't like me.
Speaker 1: You're you're with guys, and when guys are around any
Speaker 1: like long objects, especially with like balls around, I mean,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go for the lowest things. That's why you're single.
Speaker 1: You don't do that. But I don't understand, like that's
Speaker 1: a joke what Jose is describing. You're saying they were
Speaker 1: doing intimate things. We need to say like intimate things
Speaker 1: I meant to say inappropriate and mature. Okay, yeah, thats right,
Speaker 1: but you can't fit this whole pool stick in your mouth.
Speaker 1: I was gonna put it somewhere else. Yeah, staring. I
Speaker 1: was nervous, you know, I didn't want to get kicked out,
Speaker 1: and so I kind of said something. I don't think
Speaker 1: I was rude, but I kind of said something, maybe
Speaker 1: in like a parental tone. What did you say? What'd
Speaker 1: you say? I mean? It was just like, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: come on, let's stop. Let's put it away now, it's
Speaker 1: not the time. She's like, Okay, I gave you a warning.
Speaker 1: I gave you. Yeah, how did I mean? That's kind
Speaker 1: of a weird thing to say to somebody on a
Speaker 1: first date. Like, how did the guys react to that? Well,
Speaker 1: they kind of lasted off, but you could tell the
Speaker 1: energy just kind of shifted. Yeah, suck the air right
Speaker 1: out of the room. Yeah, it's I think it's fine though,
Speaker 1: Like you know, you weren't like overstepping your bounds, like
Speaker 1: you just say, yeah, stop being so mature. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: should be flirting with you, not there pools. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: kind of a build up first, you like, you build
Speaker 1: up the confidence with your brow and then you m
Speaker 1: it's just all that energy work. I know, I get it.
Speaker 1: It's it's a tough situation being on a double date.
Speaker 1: How did it end? Yes, so we hadn't obviously arrived separately,
Speaker 1: and they're like, hey, we're going to go meet a
Speaker 1: couple of people afterwards, were like totally pool great, So
Speaker 1: they kind of left. They went off with their friends
Speaker 1: and I've got Maya's number. They exchange numbers. Adam and
Speaker 1: I have been trying to texting that. You can tell
Speaker 1: that it's not the same energy. Okay, And has your
Speaker 1: roommate gone out with his roommate again? No? No, okay,
Speaker 1: neither of you are getting really anything. Okay, Yeah, getosted.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, double ghosted man, yeah, double date, double ghost that.
Speaker 1: We're gonna try and find out what happened. We'll play
Speaker 1: a song, we'll come back, we'll call Adam for you,
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thank you. Hold on second. Two guys and two girls
Speaker 1: walk into a bar. It's not the start of a
Speaker 1: funny joke. It's the start of a real life first date.
Speaker 1: And I don't know is this the first time that
Speaker 1: we've ever done a double date on a second date?
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I feel like we should have a
Speaker 1: roommate on on speaker or something in the background. Yeah. Question,
Speaker 1: do we have to make another call after this to
Speaker 1: the other roommate or Vicky? Are you representing both parties here?
Speaker 1: I'm representing both parties. Okay, Okay, So you're interested in
Speaker 1: going out with Adam again. Your roommate is interested in
Speaker 1: going out with Adam's roommate again. That's what you're saying. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: Now if you don't know what I'm talking about, Vicky
Speaker 1: and her roommate went out with a guy named Adam
Speaker 1: and his roommate to a bar. Things were going well
Speaker 1: until they were playing pool and the guys started doing
Speaker 1: some inappropriate immature things with the pool sticks to each
Speaker 1: other like guys normally do. I don't know that I've
Speaker 1: ever witnessed that in a bar. I don't know why
Speaker 1: you keep saying this is so common. I have played
Speaker 1: a lot of pool, and never once have I seen
Speaker 1: them use it as a fallicon. Okay, Well, sorry, I
Speaker 1: was talking about an under sixty five bar, so maybe
Speaker 1: that stuff. But both hey, boys, you know what, cut
Speaker 1: out the funny business. This is a date, no fun allowed, Jeff. Afterwards,
Speaker 1: it changed the mood. But now she's hoping that we
Speaker 1: can get Adam on the line and maybe convinced him
Speaker 1: to give him another shot. Vicky, how you feeling. I'm
Speaker 1: feeling confident, but I'm also then with it and I
Speaker 1: forgot Have you guys not texted at all or you
Speaker 1: tried to reach out or no, we've texted. It just
Speaker 1: is not as enthusiastic as it was prior to the date. Okay,
Speaker 1: And I'm really thinking about what I said earlier about
Speaker 1: representing you parties, like we don't have to double date
Speaker 1: in the future. Like I'm just more concerned about my
Speaker 1: date with Adam. Okay, so much for a roommate pack.
Speaker 1: We don't only have to see each other Friday night. Okay, yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: Well let's get you yours. We're gonna dial Adam's phone
Speaker 1: number and we'll see what he has to say. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thank you. Ah, here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Adam? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Adam. Who is this? Sorry? My name is
Speaker 1: jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Sorry did we wake you up or something? Oh? Yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I have a weird day off today. I took a
Speaker 1: PI day. Nice all right, sounds like you're enjoyed it.
Speaker 1: My friend. Wait, sorry, you said this is a radio show.
Speaker 1: What's what's going on? Yeah, we're a radio show and
Speaker 1: we're doing a segment called a second Date Update where
Speaker 1: we help our listeners get in touch with people after
Speaker 1: they've gone out on a date with them and they're
Speaker 1: getting ghosted ghosted. All right, okay, well he's not really
Speaker 1: ghosting anyone. Yeah you're not. You're not fully ghosting someone.
Speaker 1: You're in the light. He's not quite fully Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you went out shake who has an extagrind? What's going on? No? No,
Speaker 1: but someone is curious what happened after they went out
Speaker 1: with you. Her name's Vicky. Vicky. Vicky is trying to
Speaker 1: figure out what happened to me. I mean we've been
Speaker 1: like texting kind of yeah, yeah she said that, but
Speaker 1: she said that it's been a little luke warm and
Speaker 1: just wondering if Um that's kind of weird that she asked,
Speaker 1: like a show. What did she say? I mean, I
Speaker 1: mean she said, overall she and her roommate had a
Speaker 1: really good time with you and your roommate. Oh they did. Interesting?
Speaker 1: Did you not feel that way? Uh? It was a weird.
Speaker 1: Oh it was Nah, not really, it was weird. No,
Speaker 1: it was kind of awkward. I mean we asked her
Speaker 1: about if there was anything awkward or weird that happened,
Speaker 1: and she mentioned something about the pool table. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. My brow and I were
Speaker 1: on like lacrosse together, so we were playing the pool
Speaker 1: like just kind of dining around casually. You know, we're drinking.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, you're you're forgetting you're on a date
Speaker 1: with other people and just hanging out together. Yeah, there's
Speaker 1: just really up tight and yeah we're playing pool, but
Speaker 1: it's my best friend, my roommate, and she just like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, she got really I grow frankly, she
Speaker 1: said she was pretty cool about it and just said, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: knock it off, let's play. Oh yes that she's going with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been too different. How was it from your perspective?
Speaker 1: I'm pleasant, agro and awkward. Okay, yeah, I mean we
Speaker 1: had a couple more drinks and got a buzz so
Speaker 1: maybe it was part of that, but I know for me,
Speaker 1: it was a buzz kill. My buddy agreed, and I'm
Speaker 1: not sure how much I say, but basically, the table
Speaker 1: next us was there chicks and they were I don't know,
Speaker 1: with some other friends or something, and they were like,
Speaker 1: did that girl just like chew you out for just
Speaker 1: like some other buddy? And I was like, pretty much,
Speaker 1: it was awkward. We're on a like a double first
Speaker 1: date and just kind of like winks. I was like,
Speaker 1: that's not very fun. We're fun. We're having fun here.
Speaker 1: And is that the part like she said you were
Speaker 1: going drinking with friends after the date or those of
Speaker 1: friends that you just met. I mean, yeah, we fished drinks,
Speaker 1: went around the corner, came back and hung out with
Speaker 1: our new better I mean the hot friends. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: because of what I mean, one joke she couldn't take.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't know. I don't have this problem.
Speaker 1: I turned water into wine. It was fun, Okay, the
Speaker 1: new girl, we don't I don't. Yeah, I don't think
Speaker 1: we want to know the answer to that single. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's the only thing. You're not dating any of those chicks,
Speaker 1: are you? Uh? Both of us plans again. I know
Speaker 1: you said that you turned water into wine that night,
Speaker 1: but I to let you know that Water is actually
Speaker 1: on the phone, and Water wants to talk to you
Speaker 1: because Vicky's actually here on the phone listening to all this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh you're not like reporting that. Hi, Vicky, water you there? Okay? Hey,
Speaker 1: I like you might need some water because you sound
Speaker 1: like you're still drunk. Wow. Okay, that's kind of like
Speaker 1: ragged on him again. I mean, I guess I need
Speaker 1: to be called agro again for having an opinion about something.
Speaker 1: But it looks like I avoided complete jerk store over here.
Speaker 1: I mean you literally because I called you and your
Speaker 1: friend like tamper it down a little bit because you're
Speaker 1: using pol cubs like stallic symbols on a date with
Speaker 1: two women and you're hitting on two other women behind you.
Speaker 1: It sounded like the women hit on to him. Jeff,
Speaker 1: why do you him? It was douchey like all of
Speaker 1: it was like, I mean, I'm with her. I'm also
Speaker 1: a woman who's been called aggro a lot, so you know,
Speaker 1: but I'm on your side. Yeah, let's go get some
Speaker 1: pool sticks. Yeah, bro, I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 1: you're angry, Vicky. I get I'm sorry my word church
Speaker 1: wasn't good, but maybe you're just angry and I don't
Speaker 1: need that in my life right now. You're a great person,
Speaker 1: but it just didn't feel right. I feel like you're
Speaker 1: talking out of both sides of your mouth right now.
Speaker 1: You're like, you're a great person, but I don't need
Speaker 1: that in my life. Yeah, I'm a great person. Then
Speaker 1: what you can say is stack up and be an
Speaker 1: adult and be like, hey, there wasn't chemistry. Thank you
Speaker 1: for your time, I'm not interested in go instead of
Speaker 1: these like weird text message I'm going back and forth.
Speaker 1: I thought we had a good time. You obviously didn't
Speaker 1: like being a man and say back and also clean
Speaker 1: your room. No, I'm with her. I'm with her. Why
Speaker 1: are you still texting with Vicky? I mean, like that's
Speaker 1: obviously leading her in the wrong direction. Yeah I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm still like an extent interview, but I met two
Speaker 1: harder kicks so were more fun and interesting and online
Speaker 1: level down. But I guess now I've said it like
Speaker 1: an adult, and I don't know how adults would say that,
Speaker 1: But okay, is that what you would want to hear Vicky?
Speaker 1: You would prefer him to text you and be like, actually,
Speaker 1: there were two hotter, funner chicks at the bar that night.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying at all you said be direct with
Speaker 1: me and tell me that you're not interested. To say
Speaker 1: it that way, Jeffrey, you can still be kind to people.
Speaker 1: You just say, hey, I'm not interested. Period. You don't
Speaker 1: have to add in the hot chip. It's are so ridiculous.
Speaker 1: So what's going on? Do I still have to participate
Speaker 1: in on this and talk to Vicky or oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's time. First I need to ask would you be
Speaker 1: interesting going out on another date with Vicky? Because we
Speaker 1: would send you out on that date and pay for
Speaker 1: it too. Dude, I feel like it's being a dead horse.
Speaker 1: I'm just not into it. She's like a mom already
Speaker 1: got mom. I'm guessing Vicky didn't want to go out
Speaker 1: on a date anyway, not at all. No, No, okay,
Speaker 1: that's kind of do But I mean I'm hunter. No.
Speaker 1: He sounds exactly like your tech exactly. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: if you guys want hang out. Sounds like there's two
Speaker 1: girls in the rooms and I won't double date with her.
Speaker 1: I'm actually a mother. Yeah, I've a few of those.
Speaker 1: It's called me. No ready broken Jeffrey in the morning,