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Speaker 1: All right, So guys, this question was on Baller Alert

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Speaker 1: earlier this month, and it caused a stir in the

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Speaker 1: comment This also was a topic on your show, Tommy

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Speaker 1: Ready to Love Philly, where one of the men admitted

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Speaker 1: that he was not financially stable. Okay, he didn't own

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Speaker 1: a car, he didn't have a home, he didn't have

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Speaker 1: an apartment, but by the same token, he was ready

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Speaker 1: to love. The female that he connected with on the

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Speaker 1: show was honest with him and said she was starting

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Speaker 1: to really like him, but she had to reconsider based

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Speaker 1: on what he told her. So here's the thing, what

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Speaker 1: are your thoughts? Can love really exist without that financial stability?

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Speaker 2: Can it? Well? I know the name of the show

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Speaker 2: is Ready to Love.

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Speaker 3: But if you don't have a car, you don't have

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Speaker 3: a job, and you don't have an apartment, what happens?

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Speaker 3: Will we ready to go Somewhere?

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Speaker 1: That's another show, another show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's gonna be a new show.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna come up with Ready what if we ready

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Speaker 3: to go Somewhere?

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Speaker 1: But wait a minute, Steve Tommy was transparent on this show.

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Speaker 1: He shared with them that when he and his wife

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Speaker 1: Jack Eats first got together, he didn't have anything. He

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Speaker 1: didn't have anything. So Tommy, that was a raw moment

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Speaker 1: for that was really well, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 4: I read something. I read some of the comments, and

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Speaker 4: you know, I was, what in my late twenties then,

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Speaker 4: or maybe late twenties. These these ladies are commenting saying,

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Speaker 4: this brother forty something years old. So Tommy, it's a

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Speaker 4: little different one from where you were, and you're no.

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Speaker 3: I saw that, Cliff, Tommy, was that the guy with

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Speaker 3: the short salt and pepper hat. Yeah, kind of muscular dude,

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Speaker 3: this goes muscular.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, man, he ain't got nothing.

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Speaker 4: Well, he done on hard time, but he is he

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Speaker 4: done on hard time? He was honest, he was I mean,

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Speaker 4: he could have lied through the whole show, through the

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Speaker 4: whole journey.

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Speaker 3: He could have lied, but he didn't. Well what did

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Speaker 3: he put on y'all's application though?

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Speaker 2: How did take nerves?

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Speaker 4: I like Cisco. I'm sorry, I'm not going with Donna Rabbits.

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Speaker 2: Well, everybody likes him.

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Speaker 1: He's a likable guy.

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Speaker 2: He really I looked.

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Speaker 4: At him too.

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Speaker 3: Man, he got emotional because something I saw that clip.

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Speaker 3: You actually talked about how you got and you said something.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 3: Then the girl got him went over there and hooked him.

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Speaker 3: But that was a good bye hood though.

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Speaker 1: That was he chose her, she chose him.

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Speaker 4: Alert. Yeah, I was Cisco.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have nothing. I ain't. I stayed with the woman.

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Speaker 4: And I can tell you right now it be a

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Speaker 4: lot of questions when you come in.

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Speaker 2: You're right today. Hell now, okay, a't talk no more.

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Speaker 4: Does finance really block romance? Does it love?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: In five.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, I'm gonna say this right here.

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Speaker 3: You can love a person that don't have a lot

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Speaker 3: going on in hopes of loving them into motivating them.

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Speaker 3: And you could get with somebody. You can build a

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Speaker 3: man up. You could be the missing part. But but

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Speaker 3: if it continues, you're not gonna like them. You're not

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Speaker 3: gonna like them though.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so is there a limit to that then?

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you give them a time? Okay, six months,

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Speaker 1: a job or we're breaking up?

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Speaker 4: Let's started like yeah, I like that, sugar, But Steve,

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Speaker 4: look at it like this, no car, no place to stay,

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Speaker 4: no job, gotta have all three yet to understand what

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Speaker 4: we're looking at, all three of them?

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 4: That's what you want to know. Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna look, I mean, look, bro, because we had

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Speaker 3: to make some decisions.

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Speaker 2: Cannot you know what?

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Speaker 3: You know what, I'm tired of going to work. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna go down here and quit my job.

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Speaker 1: Can you be serious for one second?

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Speaker 2: I'm dead serious.

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Speaker 1: We're trying to figure this out.

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Speaker 3: But if you and your forties and you had all

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Speaker 3: that stuff and you fell on hard times, what was

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Speaker 3: the decision you made that got you here?

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Speaker 2: And then a woman can work with.

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Speaker 1: That sometime, you know, divorced s sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if the voice wipes you out, then say that

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Speaker 3: I can help you build it back up. But now

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Speaker 3: if you just gonna sit over here and cry, well,

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Speaker 3: when when I'm not finna do?

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Speaker 1: Is?

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Speaker 2: Hold your thing?

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Speaker 1: The Nephew with Today's Frank Phone Call.

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Speaker 2: Right after this second, somebody's sleeping.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show