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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beta Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 1: It's that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife stunning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah sounds good, it does. Yeah, it's fun. We are

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Speaker 3: back with the proposal story, my proposal to Haley. Can

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Speaker 3: I just tell you something?

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Speaker 1: Sure, I'm so happy that you did it before the

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Speaker 1: year ended. It just feels so nice that, like she

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Speaker 1: proposed in twenty twenty five, you proposed, Like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: there's something very like symmetrical about it. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how to explain, but like, I'm just so happy that

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Speaker 1: you did it before the year was over.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, I too, am happy I did it

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Speaker 3: before the year was over.

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Speaker 2: It was really fun and I the really part is

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Speaker 2: that when we went to Japan five years ago and

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Speaker 2: we had the moment of staying at the Four Seasons,

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Speaker 2: I it was the same week.

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Speaker 3: That we were there.

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Speaker 2: So it was really cool because it was like we

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Speaker 2: kind of went back to that time and place.

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Speaker 3: And so I called Tanya.

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Speaker 2: It's the day before I FaceTime her, and she anytime

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Speaker 2: I FaceTime Tanya.

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Speaker 3: She always answers the same. She goes hey, because I'm

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Speaker 3: like and I'm like, what are you doing? She's like,

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Speaker 3: what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just you know, we're just cooking dinner. We're in the kitchen,

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Speaker 1: like cooking some.

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Speaker 3: For those are Easton asked me to clarify this.

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Speaker 2: So I had talked about going to Japan on the

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Speaker 2: podcast because the plan was that I was gonna go

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Speaker 2: to London for my work trip and then I was

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Speaker 2: gonna leave and meet up with them on Sunday in Japan.

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Speaker 2: So I always talked about going to Japan, so that

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Speaker 2: I tried to make it feel like very no one

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Speaker 2: like suspicious of it, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, meaning Haley, Yeah, meaning like.

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Speaker 2: Haley wouldn't think anything of it, or like a lot

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Speaker 2: of the scrubbers were like, as soon as you said

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Speaker 2: you were going to Japan, I knew you were going

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Speaker 2: to propose.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, everybody the whole thing. After you call.

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Speaker 2: So I call her, they're cooking in the kitchen and

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Speaker 2: they're like, what are you doing? And I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: did I say I'm in Japan. I'm in Japan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I am in Japan.

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Speaker 4: And I'm going to propose to Haley tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what, like so nonchalant. Yeah, And then

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Speaker 1: I started putting the pieces together and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh. For some reason, I didn't think you

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Speaker 1: had the ring yet. So I was like totally thrown

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Speaker 1: off that you like were proposing because I didn't think

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Speaker 1: you had the ring.

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Speaker 3: By the way, I didn't tell this in the last part.

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Speaker 3: I got the ring the day I left, so I

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Speaker 3: left it.

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Speaker 2: I left at midnight or like eleven thirty pm on

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Speaker 3: I got the ring on Tuesday afternoon.

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Speaker 2: She met me in the park, like I found a

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Speaker 2: dolor spot. So I didn't plan that. I did not

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Speaker 2: plan that. But no, she was like, it's not going

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Speaker 2: to be ready until December second. And I was like,

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Speaker 3: What time do you leave?

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Speaker 2: And I was like at night. She's like, I'll get it.

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Speaker 2: I'll bring it to you in the afternoon. The reason

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Speaker 2: why I didn't have.

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Speaker 1: The ring till I love and I guess like, silly me,

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Speaker 1: I thought maybe you would like send me pictures of

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Speaker 1: the ring when you got it, Like I was so I.

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Speaker 4: Knew you were going to Japan, and I knew it.

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Speaker 1: Was like through this through SS Global to say global

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Speaker 1: like I just had ruled it out, like I just

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Speaker 1: didn't even think that you were going to be proposing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my gosh, her location,

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Speaker 1: she stopped sharing her location, like I'm such a dingling,

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Speaker 1: Like she couldn't have given me more signs as she

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Speaker 4: Tanya was like, did not put the pieces together.

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Speaker 3: Don't call yourself a dingling, but I felt very dingling.

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Speaker 2: But my so two days before I left, I was

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Speaker 2: over at Alley's and she straight up looked at me

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Speaker 2: and she goes, are you proposing in Japan? And that

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Speaker 2: was the first time where I was like I'm yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, I am, because she looked

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Speaker 2: was I was thinking, I'm so grateful and I would

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Speaker 2: have told you if you like straight up asked me

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Speaker 2: to my face, I will add you.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm happy you said that because I've been trying

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Speaker 1: to be like more respectful of boundaries. Yeah, and like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do think if you had thought you

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Speaker 3: would have asked me. I don't feel like that would

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Speaker 3: have been off the table if it had come to

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Speaker 5: But he did it and really did not And so yeah,

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Speaker 5: I called and she was like wait what, And the

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Speaker 5: whole everything about it just happened so sleep seamlessly that

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Speaker 5: it went as according to plan as possible.

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Speaker 2: So when I called Tanya and Robie, it's like, oh

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Speaker 2: my gosh, what And he's like, Babe, how did you

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Speaker 2: not know? I was like, Robbie, don't make her feel worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, ah, he was like, so pick

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Speaker 3: She's going to Japan.

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Speaker 2: She turned her location off, and you knew that, like

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Speaker 2: there was a chance she would at some point was

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Speaker 2: proposing to Haley.

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Speaker 1: I just assumed that you would tell me, And I

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Speaker 1: know you said you weren't, but I just really thought.

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Speaker 3: You would, silly me, literally.

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Speaker 1: So naive, Like I'm like, also with my own proposal,

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Speaker 1: there were so many things I should have picked up

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Speaker 3: Robbie did a really good job though how he said

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Speaker 1: Though in hindsight, I should have really like picked up

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Speaker 1: on some p's and q's.

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Speaker 3: But it's fine, y'all go to the four seat, like

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Speaker 3: y'all do I mean you go to the mayboard and

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Speaker 3: did your massage all the time. Like what he did

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Speaker 3: was very like casual and calm. Yeah, did not know

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Speaker 6: Okay, proposing is such a special part of like a

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Speaker 6: love story. But like it's so weird to like enter

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Speaker 6: this new phase of your life by like committing the

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Speaker 6: most wise yeah secrets you've ever had.

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Speaker 3: Truly, truly, it was.

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Speaker 6: Like so uncomfortable for me when I did.

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Speaker 2: It sucks, it's so true, and I was always I

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Speaker 2: was kind of like, well, we've already committed.

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Speaker 3: We're pretty locked in, you know, so I'm just putting

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Speaker 4: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 3: She knows it's all in good fun.

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Speaker 1: So Becca facetimes us and gives us like the thrill

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Speaker 1: of a lifetime, like we were like riding high after that,

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Speaker 1: like and then I was just like counting down the minutes,

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Speaker 1: like I was like, I don't know what time it

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Speaker 1: is that tomorrow tomorrow?

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Speaker 4: For us?

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Speaker 2: Like I just yeah, the timing was weird because I

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So then I called.

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Speaker 2: I had already called her parents and her sister and

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Speaker 2: her brother and then and by the way, I didn't

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Speaker 2: tell marlaw is with it and doing all.

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Speaker 4: She's smart though, that would be the worst person to tell.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just thought, I don't want her to feel

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Speaker 2: the burden of having to like lie, lie and keep

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Speaker 3: She'll be surprised too.

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Speaker 2: So the the morning of I pick my outfit and

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Speaker 2: I the photographer, and so that's it.

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Speaker 4: You just called her parents and me and that was it.

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Speaker 4: I called there's more people.

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Speaker 2: I called Taylor Banks, and I called Laura, and I

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Speaker 2: called my sister Henk and Caroline and my mom.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, so like a lengthy list. Yeah. I just

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Speaker 3: called to be like this is happening. Yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 3: honored to be on the top of that. Yeah, you

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think after heink it's nine. Placement doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, it was more about timing of

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Speaker 2: when you were going to answer, et cetera. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: the plan was that the photographer and videographer. Haley thought

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Speaker 3: So my idea was that the photographer morning time you

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Speaker 2: She was like, or the photographer and videographer came to

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Speaker 2: she was she was gonna be with them and tell Haley, hey,

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Speaker 2: we have this photographer and videographer. They're gonna basically capture

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Speaker 2: hotel in ess Gold.

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Speaker 3: So I'm smart because I.

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Speaker 2: Was like, there it was like three people with all

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Speaker 2: there was a little basically you can write these wishes

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Speaker 2: where I was waiting. So she was walking along the

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Speaker 2: So she's taking photos and she's like serving, like she

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Speaker 3: For her life.

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Speaker 2: And I walk up behind her and she said that

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Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, someone's in my shot,

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Speaker 2: Like they'll photoshop them out.

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Speaker 3: I'm a professional. So she like stayed just like posing,

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Speaker 3: and she was like, oh my gosh. She was like,

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Speaker 3: are you kidding? And she was like, I have my

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Speaker 2: She had these like cooler glasses that like were an

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Speaker 3: So she was like, let me take my glasses off.

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Speaker 2: I will say it proposing in front of people, because

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Speaker 3: I go from the hotel and Marla while I was

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Speaker 3: like trying to say myself.

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Speaker 2: And Hailey's like totally caught off guard, like she can't

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Speaker 3: So we're both like trying to be present and we're

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Speaker 2: Got on a knee, which the whole getting on a

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Speaker 6: Really, it's it comes from medieval times when knights would

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Speaker 3: Like I always expected when I got proposed to that

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Speaker 3: But I will say I felt like I loved getting

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Speaker 2: No, I was weirdly focused on her face because I

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Speaker 2: But the whole time leading up to this, when Haley

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Speaker 3: It was like one thing where she was like that

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Speaker 2: She was like, but she ran into someone, Like she

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Speaker 2: and she was like, I can't believe Becca is not

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Speaker 2: going to propose here, like this is my dream and

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Speaker 2: she's gonna miss the opportunity to do it, and and

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Speaker 2: Marla was like, you don't think maybe she's still gonna

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Speaker 3: Like in London because she ran into someone there. Damn smart,

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Speaker 2: I know, and that was just the last ditch attempt,

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Speaker 3: And you're not sick. And so the whole trip she

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Speaker 2: Like, I am sin, I yeah, the sponsorship, right, You're like,

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Speaker 8: Card, she said the night before the first night they

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Speaker 8: and they got there Friday morning, and then I proposed

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Speaker 8: on Saturday because I don't want to propose to her,

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Speaker 8: like right, and she got in and feel jet lagged

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Speaker 2: So I let her have a day really thinking it's

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Speaker 4: It's so freaking funny.

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Speaker 3: It's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I wish she was here to tell it, because, like her,

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Speaker 2: we should have her come back on and tell her perspective.

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Speaker 2: She actually did get sick at the end of the trip,

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Speaker 3: No, that's a bummer. So it was so much fun.

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Speaker 1: I was like, there was a point when you had

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Speaker 1: And I see Haley like posting ss goal, thank you this,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I like Robbie's like sending the story

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Speaker 2: Hell, Like it was so good and it was so

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Speaker 2: amazing because Sinnim would be like, they're wanting to get

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Speaker 2: her lawyer involved, like to sign the contracts, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, just do it.

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Speaker 3: It'll all be voided.

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Speaker 2: Wait what, like just for because it was a brand,

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Speaker 2: and like her lay like just making sure like contracts

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Speaker 3: And so Sinema would be like, they're asking for like

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Speaker 3: Let me ask d Like it was O kao, why

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Speaker 3: don't you ask Robbie? Oh because you didn't tell us?

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Speaker 3: Yeah no. So it was so much fun and it

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Speaker 3: was such a success. She was so so.

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Speaker 1: Like nerve wrecking for cinem too, like she's like signing

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Speaker 1: all these like leal documents when it's all a rude

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Speaker 1: it's so scary, literally total I'm not kidding, like cinem

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Speaker 3: The travel like she really planned.

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Speaker 2: She planned the we did like a kimono experience, We

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Speaker 2: and like all the travel, it was next level.

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Speaker 1: No, that's like the whole thing too, is like when

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Speaker 1: just don't have to think, and like there's so much

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Speaker 3: Yes, And she was like we in our room.

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Speaker 2: She had framed photos of us set up like it

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Speaker 2: was just everything was so thoughtful. And the girls from

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Speaker 2: four Seasons, like the IC sent me room service the

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Speaker 2: night before and she had chat gpted what I like

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Speaker 2: to eat and she was like I saw that you

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Speaker 2: like junk food, so she sent me like French fries

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Speaker 2: and chocolates and like sorry with the sweetest letter that

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Speaker 2: was like you've got this, like you are amazing, Like

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Speaker 3: It was just the most thoughtful, perfect experience.

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Speaker 2: And I had a moment like the night before where

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Speaker 2: to plan such a like elaborate proposal and travel and

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Speaker 2: that I get to do this, and like that I

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Speaker 2: just very overwhelmed of like, oh my gosh, I'm so

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Speaker 2: grateful I get to do this for Haley.

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Speaker 3: And it was so fun and worth it.

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Speaker 1: And wait, so you like left his hanging and you

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Speaker 3: And she said yes, I think going into it. Obviously,

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Speaker 3: if I had proposed first, I know that she would

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Speaker 4: What, No, even if you had gone first, it would

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Speaker 2: It just like really elimit, like I got to just

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Speaker 1: You know, So you propose and then I want to know,

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Speaker 1: like what you did after you with Hailey and Marla,

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Speaker 1: But we to talk about.

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Speaker 3: That when we come back.

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Speaker 9: Nice, We're back with some breaking.

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Speaker 2: News, Becca Well, breaking news in terms of a very

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Speaker 2: special guest who was willing to hop on zoom for

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Speaker 3: Please welcome my fiance two time. Do you want winning fiance?

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Speaker 7: Like, Hi, guys, I'm very long sick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah she got she went down.

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Speaker 4: Heyers, We're so sorry that you're sick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she got to ring Anna virus.

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Speaker 1: Ana virus such as life I know highs and lows.

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Speaker 3: Babe.

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Speaker 2: I basically told the story of like me planning it

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Speaker 2: and what happened, and we had just gotten to.

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Speaker 3: The proposal part. But I feel like we should go back.

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Speaker 2: And kind of talk about your experience of the all

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Speaker 2: the planning and what you thought going into it and everything.

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Speaker 7: Well, did you tell them like all the things like

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Speaker 7: that convinced me that you weren't going to propose? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, I told him that I said I wanted to

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Speaker 2: do it myself and plan my own proposal, not on

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Speaker 2: like a sponsored trip. And then I told him that

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Speaker 2: I had gardened and you had straight up asked me

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Speaker 2: like did you do this?

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Speaker 3: And ID lock it?

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Speaker 7: I got so mass manipulated.

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Speaker 6: It was crazy.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, it is so wild.

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Speaker 10: The amount still confused. How I'm sick and Becca's not

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Speaker 10: sick in London. Everything's confusing for me right now. I'm

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Speaker 10: an inception.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I told him about running into someone at

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Speaker 2: the airport.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that.

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Speaker 10: So I was telling Mecca, like so the night before,

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Speaker 10: with my best friend Marla, and I'm like, oh, if

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Speaker 10: only Becca was here, this is like my dream hotel.

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Speaker 10: And I like woke up and had my dream breakfast

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Speaker 10: buffet and I was just like, oh my god, if

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Speaker 10: only I was getting proposed to here, like what I

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Speaker 10: missed opportunity. And then I got dinner with Marla and

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Speaker 10: like I had negotiated a per diem, which was like

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Speaker 10: not real, and so Marlon I went to dinner and

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Speaker 10: I was like charging the car and we like had

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Speaker 10: steaks and lobsters who were just like it's free and

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Speaker 10: I'm looking outside the garden and the lights are all pretty,

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Speaker 10: and I was like I didn't cry to Marla, but

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Speaker 10: I was definitely like convincing myself that I wasn't going

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Speaker 10: to be upset that I wasn't getting proposed to at

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Speaker 10: the Japanese ID.

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Speaker 3: I know that feeling. It's really sad.

448
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 1: I've heard you know that, Yeah, spoiler alert didn't work

449
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:07,160
Speaker 1: out so well for me.

450
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 11: But so yeah, so like it was so surreal because

451
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 11: I was just so sad about it.

452
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,679
Speaker 7: Then I was like, whatever, it's fine, like it doesn't matter.

453
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 10: And then and then so Maril and I were getting

454
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 10: ready for the tea ceremony and we're She was being

455
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 10: like mart had no idea, but for some reason, she

456
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 10: felt inspired to curl my hair, so she like did

457
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 10: my hair.

458
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Speaker 7: And then I.

459
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Speaker 10: Know, and I was like rushing, and I was like,

460
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,439
Speaker 10: do I put my glasses on?

461
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 7: Joy not?

462
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 10: I put my contacts in And then and then Marla

463
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,399
Speaker 10: was like, it looks cuter with your glasses. So I

464
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 10: put on like my big prescription glasses. Run out and

465
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 10: I see the videoographer and photographer and they're like, you know,

466
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 10: we're going to capture this experience for you.

467
00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 7: And I'm thinking, like, gosh, Japan is so official. They

468
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,399
Speaker 7: just get it, like they've hired a team, they know

469
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Speaker 7: what it's like.

470
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 10: It's so stressful to get content and they just get it,

471
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 10: and so I think it's.

472
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Speaker 4: The same thing, though, like that seems believable.

473
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 3: I think twice, Yeah, I wouldn't.

474
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 7: And so I walk in the garden.

475
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 10: And you know, and then obviously Becca surprised us and

476
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 10: I had my big chunky glasses on and I was like,

477
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Speaker 10: oh my god, I had con like I was so

478
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 10: stressed and I had contacts in but then I had

479
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Speaker 10: put my glasses on. Anyways, it was I was so

480
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,439
Speaker 10: shocked and I looked at her and I was like,

481
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,479
Speaker 10: how are you not sick in London? And like throughout

482
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Speaker 10: the whole trip, I kept I kept being confused, like

483
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 10: I kept being like, wait, all of this was fake?

484
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 10: And I remember at that dinner with Marla, I had

485
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 10: to asked Marla. I was like, do you think Becca

486
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 10: would be crazy enough to fake being sick and being

487
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 10: in London? And like, do you think she's gonna because

488
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 10: I thought she if she was faking it, I thought

489
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 10: she was going to maybe propose to me at Ina,

490
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 10: like because this this like really cute fishing village I

491
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 10: wanted to go to. And then I just kept thinking

492
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 10: about that girl that Becca ran into at the airport,

493
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 10: and I was just like, it's not fake, Like she

494
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,719
Speaker 10: ran into a girl at the airport and she forgot

495
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 10: her name and it was uncomfortable for her, and like

496
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 10: that was real.

497
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 7: That was saying, I have so much mind perspective.

498
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 3: I have so much pride in that moment because I

499
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 3: thought it was like a last minute decision, one before

500
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Speaker 3: I get on the flight, and I'm just gonna try

501
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 3: and seal the deal to make sure she knows him

502
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Speaker 3: on this trip with Starbucks.

503
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Speaker 1: I don't know get when she uh like dis looked dislocated,

504
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 1: just disarmed her find my.

505
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 10: So you know what, she did a reverse psychology on

506
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Speaker 10: me again and again. You guys, I don't know if

507
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 10: I should be proud or terrified.

508
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: Right, It's like a combo bol like I'm locked in

509
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: no matter, you know, good or bad.

510
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 10: And but she so the location got turned off. I immediately

511
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 10: got suspicious. I was like, this girl is about to

512
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 10: surprise me. And then she told me that you had

513
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 10: texted her panicked and I was like, oh, so what

514
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 10: happened to everyone? So that kind of like disarmed me

515
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 10: a little bit. And then she was like, can you

516
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 10: go on my computer and try to fix it, and

517
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 10: so when she told me to go on her computer,

518
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 10: it immediately made me feel like I wasn't suspicious because

519
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 10: and then, you know what's so crazy, this reverse psychology.

520
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 10: She told me to go on her computer, so then

521
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 10: I didn't. I couldn't find her computer, and I was like,

522
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 10: you know what, whatever, and I just left it. Yeah,

523
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 10: Like that's how trusting I was. I just was like,

524
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 10: she told me to go on the computer, so she's

525
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 10: got nothing to hide like that, that's crazy.

526
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 6: The Scorpio final boss, Yeah scared.

527
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 3: I'm scared too. Yeah, you all should be glad you're

528
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 3: on my good side.

529
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 9: Stay there.

530
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 10: But I know, the most amazing thing ever was the

531
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Speaker 10: most amazing surprise because your.

532
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,959
Speaker 4: Dreaming proposal, Like you literally got your dream.

533
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 10: I like was able to eat all my favorite snacks, PM,

534
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 10: my favorite food. I was in Kyoto like it just like, oh,

535
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 10: I got it proposed to.

536
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 7: It was so cool. Yeah, it was so fun.

537
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 3: It was so fun.

538
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: And the kimono experience was actually not a real thing,

539
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: but Haley kept talking about it.

540
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 3: So I told Snim, I.

541
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 4: Was like, can you actually find I just want.

542
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: A kimono experience for real, because she's really excited about

543
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 2: that and it ended up being so cute.

544
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 4: It was the totos you guys say, yeah, okay, yeah.

545
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 6: Seeing you in the grocery store with did you get

546
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 6: to keep those?

547
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 3: No? I wish, but it's a.

548
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:56,199
Speaker 10: Whole like surprisingly come comfortable, like the socks and the

549
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 10: everything that was pretty cozy.

550
00:25:58,760 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 7: Yeah.

551
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 3: Theys like they had a team like come.

552
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 2: We thought we were going somewhere to do the experience

553
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 2: and we got that. We went to the lobby and

554
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: I was like, Hi, we were doing the kimono experience

555
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, yeah, the tea they're here.

556
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 3: And it was like a team of.

557
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 2: These women with suitcases and they're like, we're doing it

558
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: in your room. So we all went up to the

559
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: room and they like it was so fun.

560
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, they did our hair, were getting ready for the dala.

561
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 3: It was so cute. It was so cute.

562
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Speaker 1: I want to say, those photos are iconic, Like you

563
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: need to use that at Do you guys send holiday cards?

564
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 3: I don't know if we're doing that. I got to

565
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 3: decorate for Christmas. Maybe use those next year next year

566
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: because they're so good.

567
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 10: We haven't done holiday cards yet, but we were going

568
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 10: to eventually.

569
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

570
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we had like a full trip after and

571
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: leading up to it, Hailey had been really stressed about

572
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: planning the trip and because because she thought, Okay, Becka's proposing,

573
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 2: she's going to plan the whole trip. And so I

574
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 2: told Sanim that she said that, like Haley made a

575
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: cam about that, and and she was like, let her

576
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: plan it, Like don't even act like you're like gonna

577
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 2: help with anything. Because Haley was trying to figure out

578
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: where are we gonna go for our day trips, where

579
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: are we gonna eat? And I just kind of like

580
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 2: let her take it on.

581
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: Oh, like meaning when you got there, no before because because.

582
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 10: I had a Google doc, like I did a full itinerary,

583
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 10: like every day was planned out.

584
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 2: Because she always plans everything, and so if I took

585
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 2: over and started planning stuff, she would be.

586
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: Like why is she doing this right?

587
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 7: Right?

588
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: So she was like stressed, and I was like, babe,

589
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 2: it's fine. We're just gonna go, you know, fly by

590
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 2: the seat of our pants.

591
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 3: Oh I was like why are you?

592
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 10: I literally like we didn't get in a fight, but

593
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 10: I was like, babe, no one seems to be stepping

594
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 10: up here, and like I'm planning everything and like like

595
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 10: Japan is like it's not going to like Santa Barbara,

596
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 10: you know, like it's we gotta like make sure we're

597
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 10: going to all the good spots.

598
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 3: Fun.

599
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: So yeah, we had the best time, and I I

600
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 2: proposed and a lot of I know, a lot of

601
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: people were like, I don't get it. What's the point

602
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 2: You already like she proposed to you and you were engaged.

603
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: But I really think everyone should get a proposal.

604
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 3: I really want to see what.

605
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 10: Is the point I've always dreamed of being proposed to.

606
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 7: No, why is that being taken away? Because I proposed to.

607
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 6: You the same I would love to be proposed to.

608
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 3: I literally, like I feel.

609
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: So that's like my only regret from like my wedding

610
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: era of life, season of life was that I didn't

611
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: I mean at this point, like.

612
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:42,959
Speaker 3: I mean, it would be shocking. Not now, it wouldn't

613
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 3: be shocking. He would to see it coming, he would

614
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 3: not see it coming.

615
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: But it's so true, like why doesn't each party in

616
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: the partnership get to have that special moment, Like it

617
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: is so special.

618
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: And it was so fun getting to do it, Like

619
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 2: it was so fun being on the other side, And

620
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: it was funny because.

621
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 3: When Haley proposed to me.

622
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: She was like, you were so caught off guard that

623
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: the look on your face was just like confused the

624
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: whole time.

625
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: And then she did the same thing when I'm surprised.

626
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 10: Yes, I got so like like I think, I said, like,

627
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 10: And the answer is yet, I got like so.

628
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 7: Like, I don't even know.

629
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: Also, I just want to talk about the ring for

630
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: a second, because it is gorgeous, Like, you did such

631
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: a good job.

632
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 3: I've never seen a ring like that.

633
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 2: Well, I don't think I haven't talked about this on

634
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: the podcast, but I did I talk about this on

635
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: the podcast. Surprising her with the ring shopping, I don't

636
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: think so. I think I told.

637
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 3: You, Oh, just me personally.

638
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think many people knew about the ring shopping.

639
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 3: But I surprised Hailey.

640
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: By going on to try rings. She thought we were

641
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: going She thought we were going to the spa, and

642
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: I had the jeweler there with like rings for her

643
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: to try on. So I it was hard because she

644
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 2: was able to surprise me with everything, and I kind

645
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: of had to like be sneaky and figure out ways

646
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 2: to surprise her and still make it special.

647
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: But she was so specific about what kind of ring

648
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 3: she wanted because she didn't really know what she liked that.

649
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 3: I was like, we're gonna have to do this together. Yeah,

650
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 3: but yeah, baby, you can tell them about your ring.

651
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 7: Yeah.

652
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 10: I mean, I just again, like I didn't growing up.

653
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 10: I didn't know that I was ever going to get

654
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 10: like proposed to her get married. So I just had

655
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 10: no idea what kind of ring I dreamt of, and

656
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,239
Speaker 10: or like what kind of ring would look good on

657
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 10: my hand? Right, And so it was so cool to

658
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 10: get to like try on different shapes and like certain

659
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 10: shapes like compliment in my hand more than others or like,

660
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 10: and so the ring that I have, if you were

661
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 10: to be like what.

662
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 7: I would, I don't.

663
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 10: I couldn't tell you, like what ring I would have

664
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 10: picked out. Like I'm staring at.

665
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 7: It right now.

666
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 10: I'm sick on the couch and I'm just like, Wow,

667
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 10: I can't believe I have like this square diamond on

668
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 10: its side and this is like the one you know,

669
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 10: it's so cool, but it soaks my hands, Like I

670
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 10: don't have the skinniest, like longest finger. So I wanted

671
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 10: a ring that was gonna just be complimentary. So I'm

672
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 10: obsessed with it. I love it beca like I feel

673
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 10: like a princess.

674
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: You are a princess.

675
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 7: Princess, I'm a princess.

676
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

677
00:31:54,880 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 2: So it was It was really fun and everyone every

678
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 2: thing went a court. It made me feel also so

679
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 2: confident in knowing Haley because I just almost could predict

680
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: how she was going to react to every ring like

681
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: it was perfect.

682
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 10: It's so scary, like she literally she plans like this

683
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 10: New Zealand trip in January, and I'm over here like

684
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 10: having meetings with my team, Like, hey, like Becca's gonna

685
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 10: propose to be in January, so I need to take

686
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 10: I know I'm leaving for Japan, but I need to

687
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 10: take a couple more weeks off because like.

688
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 7: Like you know, this is happening and all of that

689
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 7: was fake.

690
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then we got home less and yesterday at

691
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: the airport, she goes, so did to nim get us

692
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: a car?

693
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 8: And I was like, I am again, it is me, right,

694
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 8: I am her?

695
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 3: She is me? Andem is done needs a break from us.

696
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, she doesn't want to hear from us for a

697
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 7: long time.

698
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 2: Tom would be like, Haley's back with more requests, Okay,

699
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 2: tell her, yes, I guess they are.

700
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 10: When you're going on a big trip like that. You know,

701
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 10: it's like there's a lot of pieces components to it. Yeah,

702
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 10: people plan trips to Japan and like for years.

703
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, it's a lot.

704
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: It made me realize how much of a planner I

705
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 2: am not, and that I just like go on these

706
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: trips like we'll figure.

707
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 4: Right, give me a fighting hotel and I am good to.

708
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 3: Go, and I'm good to go. It's not what I need.

709
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: Well, babe, I hope you're feeling better on the couch.

710
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: I'll be home to take care of you soon.

711
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 3: But we love you, Haley.

712
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 4: Congratulations, so so happy for you.

713
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 6: Thanks for letting us in on your love story. You guys,

714
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 6: that was such a beautiful thing. And I feel so

715
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 6: lucky that we get to like witness this happen.

716
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 10: Oh, I love you, I love you guys, have fun,

717
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 10: love you.

718
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 7: Okay, bye bye.

719
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 4: This really is like the best season of life.

720
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so fun.

721
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 2: And you know, for a long time it was the

722
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 2: question was like when we wedding plane, when youre in

723
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 2: a wedding plane, and I was like, well, I want

724
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: to propose to her first. So now I feel like

725
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: we can really like kind of start thinking about that now,

726
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 2: because for a long time I was.

727
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 3: That text out there. What I did throw that text

728
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:13,439
Speaker 3: out there?

729
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean everyone's like, okay, when's the wedding. One

730
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: thing at a time, people, but it does open. Now

731
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: that that's done, it feels like, Okay, now we can

732
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 2: start going into that process.

733
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 3: So it was so fun.

734
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: And unfortunately she did get sick at the end of

735
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 2: the trip, but you know, it was like at least

736
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: at the end and not the beginning.

737
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: And yeah, how many days, like the last day.

738
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: Last two days. I know she had a tough flight home.

739
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 4: I know, peaks and valleys, you know, hids and lows,

740
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 4: highs and lows.

741
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: Life keeps you humble. Yeah, So it was really amazing

742
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 3: and thank you all for all the love. I loved.

743
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: All the scrubbers were.

744
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 2: Like I knew it was going to happen, and it

745
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 2: was hard because we didn't get our photos for a minute.

746
00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 2: And our photographer, his name's Gilbert. He is incredible and.

747
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 4: The photos were stunning.

748
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: I like wanted it to look like a movie and

749
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: he absolutely delivered. His Instagram is Gilbert. I don't know

750
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: how you say his It's Gilbert R. H. E. Zap

751
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: and he was incredible. He's a destination photographer, so even

752
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 2: if you're not in Japan.

753
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: Oh, he goes anywhere. We'll go anywhere. I'll have the

754
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 3: right price.

755
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 2: But anyways, Yeah, it was just amazing and it was

756
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: so fun and and then it was so nice to

757
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: come home to our cozy new backyard and house and Phoebe.

758
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 3: Miss Phoebe so much.

759
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 2: But it just felt like, Okay, we're I just am

760
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: beaming with gratitude.

761
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it feels official now, even though it was

762
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: official before.

763
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, it was like we were locked in.

764
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: I just added a little extra security. Yeah, dead bolted.

765
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:57,919
Speaker 3: It wasn't even that though.

766
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: It was more like I knew how important it was

767
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: to Haley to have that, and like she as she

768
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: said before, like she didn't think she would ever get

769
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 2: to have like marriage or the potential to get married.

770
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: And I feel like being her partner and like getting

771
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: to be the one to plan that and propose and

772
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 2: buy her ring.

773
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 3: You know, it was just like how so.

774
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 4: Special that is a memory that you guys are gonna

775
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 4: have forever.

776
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just so and I'm so happy Marla

777
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 2: got to be there and be a part of it,

778
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: and it was just it was so fun.

779
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: It was such a Moore Marla, like if the shoe

780
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: it feels like reverse and like you and I Ron,

781
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: and then Haley proposed I would literally be like Homer

782
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: Simpson and just like the back into the No.

783
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: It was perfect because like we had separate rooms and

784
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: like she would go do her own thing and like

785
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 2: do what because I was like, listen, I want you.

786
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 2: This is your trip to Japan, so like I want

787
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 2: you to enjoy yourself and don't feel like you have

788
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 2: to be on our schedule. But it was so fun.

789
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 2: We did so much together but also thing and it

790
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: was it was perfect. So yeah, it was a dream

791
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 2: and it's so fun going into the holidays.

792
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 3: Now. Yeah, and now we start a wedding planning and

793
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 3: now wedding planning begins.

794
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 4: Which we'll get into in our next podcast.

795
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: Wow, have some questions.

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00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 4: Love you, Love you bye,