WEBVTT - Second Date Update: I Went Full Robbins 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.760 Ooh, I think we need a little recap. 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:03.520 Hey, it's Brooke and Jeffrey and we do have a 0:00:03.520 --> 0:00:06.200 brand new Second Date episode for you coming up in 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:06.800 just a second. 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:10.440 But yesterday was the we called her the monster in law. 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:14.560 Yeah appropriate? Yeah, yeah, that. 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:18.520 Mother in law who was wanting her daughter in law 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:21.760 to move in with her to what the day she came. 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:23.880 Home from the hospital. Yeah wild. 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.400 What were people saying in the comments, I'm sure just 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:28.840 lovely glowing things about this mother in law. 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:30.280 I mean, we got a comp but we got people 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.280 someone who said, just texted my mother in law that 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:33.959 I love her for not being anything like. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.800 This, and then someone else who said, I'm not married 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:39.000 and don't have kids, and this was still triggering for 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:42.320 me a lot saying Josh needs to man up and 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:43.680 set boundaries with his mom. 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:45.239 Yeah, yeah, a lot of that. 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.040 Yeah, Josh was nowhere to be found on that call. Yeah, 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.519 that was very much, for sure, But I can see 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:51.360 why he would be scared. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:55.160 Yeah, that's truly. He probably tried to give him some credit. 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:57.240 All Right, here we go. Let's get your brand new 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.200 episode started right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:01.560 Second Date updates. 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.080 It's time for your second date update. Its Brooke and 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:07.840 Jeffrey in the morning. And today we have a listener 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:10.960 named Eugene who wrote into the show and I want 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:14.200 to read his email because he said, quote, I'm usually 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:20.080 pretty shy with the ladies, but not during my last meetup. Okay, 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:24.920 he says, I was confident and brave all because I 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:28.840 watched a Tony Robbins video to psych myself up. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:31.520 But now she's not calling me back. 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:33.840 Tony Robbins is like the original self help guy. 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:37.200 Right, let's ask you, Gene, Eugene. 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:39.839 For all of our listeners who don't know Tony Robbins, 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.840 who is he because he's not the creator of Red. 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:48.440 Robin right, Yeah, No, Tony Robbins is this really inspirational, 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:52.000 motivational speaker that helps everyone. 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:55.680 Is he like a. 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:58.880 Podcast guy or like a Ted Okay to. 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:01.560 Stand up on a stage tell your life. 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:03.520 I feel like he started at the same time as 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:04.440 the Oxy Clean guy. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:09.440 You didn't mention how handsome he was either, Eugene. But yeah, 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:12.519 he helps people get their lives on track. 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:12.920 Yeah. 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:15.600 I love that. And who was it? I'm sorry, what 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:17.160 was the person you were going out with? 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:17.200 What? 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:19.120 Who cares let's talk about Tony Robbins. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.840 Yeah, it's fright day with Grace. But before that date, 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:26.080 I watched this Tony Robinson video and he kept talking 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:29.120 about how you know life isn't forever and what's the 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:32.520 worst that could happen? Just go for it. Yeah, and 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:36.160 I'm worried that I kind of took it to heart 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.000 too much and just maybe overdid it. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.240 Oh too pumped? He went for too much? 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.399 Yeah, why did you say that you went full Robins 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:45.200 or half. 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:47.240 Robins too much Robins? 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:48.519 How Robins did you go? 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:51.560 I don't know, And that's what maybe you can help me. 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:53.440 To see if I actually did it might just be 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:53.640 in my. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.160 Hat about the whole thing, and it could be fine. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.440 Okay, can we start at the beginning with Grace? Like, 0:02:58.560 --> 0:02:59.680 how did you even meet her? 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:00.800 Yeah? 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:03.560 So I matched this girl named Grace and I. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.639 Thought she was really cute. 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:07.840 Her profile said she was new and that she hadn't 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:11.040 been on any years because of a really bad breakup. Okay, 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.520 I'm not new, but I don't go out a lot 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:15.360 just because I wanted to be the right person and 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:17.120 get a good vibe. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.600 So what I mean, what were you planning on doing? 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:20.560 Yeah? 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.680 I wanted to make it a nice night for us, 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.640 just get to know hehere not seeing too crazy. Yeah, 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:28.400 an hour before the date, I watched this Tony Robbins 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:31.040 video to just really get pumped. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.800 Up, okay, to take life by the horns message one. 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:38.320 Right right, And it really did work. Like I felt empowered, 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:41.000 like I felt pumped up. I was, I was ready. 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:43.040 So she gets. 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.360 There after me, and she, I mean, she looks. 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.480 Amazing, she dressed up, and so I thought of Tony 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:50.320 Robbins and I started to, you know, compliment her just 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:51.160 right off the bat. 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.400 Yeah, it's the right way to start things off. 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:54.720 Everyone likes to compliment. 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.400 I mean it seems to start well. But you're saying 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:00.360 you think this video backfired on you. Did that happened 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.680 in the middle of the date towards the end. 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:06.040 Yeah, kind of during the date. And it was a 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:09.200 new restaurant. I had never been there before, and maybe 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:13.440 I just shouldn't have talked quite as much to the waitress. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.640 To the waitress, what mean, what'd you say to the waitress? 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.080 Yeah, so Tony said I should talk to everyone, not 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:24.279 just you know, in a dating situation, but in life, 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:25.920 to you know, scope out the room. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.400 See what's up and just start. 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:32.120 Talking to people. So I asked the waitress how her 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.320 day was going to show Grace that I could be 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:36.040 more outgoing. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:37.880 Okay, that's an innocent question. 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.080 Why would that be bad? 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:41.680 So I asked the waitress, you know, how her day 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.960 was going, and she when she said she went to 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:47.680 the beach, And I said, that's amazing. Did you wear 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.760 like a one piece a swimsuit. 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:50.960 With a cold? 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:51.240 Like? 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:54.000 Okay? 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.600 Was that just your awkwardness coming out? 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:58.880 Like you didn't know what the next best question for 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:00.640 beach was normally like. 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.320 A normal thing. I think that's what Tony Robbins would ask. 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:04.359 What were you wearing? 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:09.320 Yeah, just like ask a question, ask the question, ask 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:09.799 a question. 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:12.839 Okay, how much skin were you showing? 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:13.760 Yeah? 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:15.080 Are you sunburned? 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:15.520 Anyway? 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.279 That's nice, that's nice. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.159 What did the waitress say to that question? 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.599 Yea, was she wearing a two piece? 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:22.960 She kind of just said it was a good day 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.080 and then like kind of walked away, like I feel 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:25.560 like that's when. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.240 You dropped, like I was with my boyfriend at the beach. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:33.440 And what did Grace say? Did she mention that interaction 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:34.040 at all? 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:35.880 I'm sure she wanted to know about the two piece too. 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.800 Well, I think it was more so me calling the 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:44.360 waitress back over and over again. But well, it's because I. 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.200 Had never been there before and I was confused on. 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:49.119 What to order, and I just think maybe she thought 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:50.560 I was trying to hit on her. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.320 Yes, if you're yeah, because you could have. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.000 Sorry, you just asked the waitress if she was wearing 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.520 a bikini at the beach, and then you called her 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:02.320 back over and have multiple more questions. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:03.760 Of course that's what was assumed. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:06.480 Well, sure it was fact finding, though it wasn't flirty. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.320 I understand that wasn't his intention. 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.159 I wasn't even thinking about that and the whole bathing 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:13.680 suit thing. I was really just trying to make conversation, 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.960 and that was the next thing. You know, there might 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:20.200 have been more before that, Like what did it like 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:24.400 a beach? I don't know, okay, okay about the bathing seat, 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.520 and like what's your favorite part about the beach. 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:30.400 And the conversation? How fun? So glad you had a 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.240 great day at the beach. I would like to order 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:34.039 a glass of wine. 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.560 Sure, okay, but we'll just call that a little hiccup 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.239 that you had during your there's. 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:41.120 More because I don't. I don't wear a bathing stage 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.240 of the beach like I I like to cover up. 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:50.000 So alright, you wore something. 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:53.440 Was there any good interaction between you and Gray? Yeah? 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:58.520 Yeah, I loved our conversations. Actually, I mean we talked 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:01.760 a lot good and we both liked the zoo, and 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.440 so we talked about the zoo a lot. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:04.320 Zoo. 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:05.960 Yeah, I thought it might be like a good next 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:06.799 date situation. 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:12.200 That's very Robin's move of you. 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:15.600 Okay, yeah, that's what Tony said to do, so nice. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:19.000 A zoo the apprentice becomes the master. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:22.280 Okay, so since we're running out of time here, let's 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:23.880 get to the end of the day. How did you 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:24.840 and Grace leave it? 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.960 I thought we may go in for a kiss or 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:30.160 at least a hug, but. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:34.600 She just kind of went in for a side hug passively, 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:37.080 and then I texted her to see if she got 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:40.120 home and she just kind of thumbs it up. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:44.640 Okay, Oh, so no zoo date has happened. Yeah. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.640 Well I proposed it over text to go to the zoo, 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:49.840 but she just left me on red. She didn't respond 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:50.600 to it, not. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:51.960 Even a zebra emoji back. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.800 Huh, what does that mean. 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.800 All I can think of is that maybe the Tony 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:59.120 video just got me too pumped and two outgoing, or 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:00.920 maybe I just talked the way just way too much, 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:03.640 and so I just called you guys to see. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.080 I mean, it's good to get out of your comfort zone, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:07.720 but you got to be careful about not trying to 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:08.600 be someone you're not. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.040 You know what, Broke, I think everybody's sick of all 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:13.960 your life lessons that you're trying to deliver on in 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:16.000 a show. Yeah, that's valid. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:21.080 Start your own seminar by the airport at the Hilton. 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.040 Okay, I was waiting for you to wrap up this 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:26.480 segment so we can call this girl finally time. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.600 Let's do what Tony would do and just plow ahead 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.240 and get the answers that we've been searching for. 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:34.680 That's what Tony would do. 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:37.199 When we come back and do your second Date update, 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:38.920 not taken no for an answer. 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:43.760 Right after Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.160 Tony Robbins says, quote, if you do what you've always done, 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:50.679 you'll get what you've always gotten. 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.280 What okay? Is that actually a quote? 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:56.520 That is and that's why Eugene listened to his mentor 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:59.600 and decided to mix it up for his first date 0:08:59.600 --> 0:08:59.920 with Gray. 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.280 Even though he's normally a shy. 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:05.480 Reserved guy, he cracked out of his own shell and 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:09.360 went bold, asking lots and lots of questions. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.040 Yeah, not just to his date. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:13.640 No, Fortunately, a bunch of them were directed to the waitress, 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.160 asking what kind of bathing suit. 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:18.840 She wore to the beach earlier. But he wasn't trying 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:19.560 to be flirty. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.959 He was just trying to sound out going and conversational. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:26.160 Someone who doesn't make conversation a lot tried to make conversation. 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:28.800 Yeah, exactly, which is why Eugene is worried. Maybe he 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:32.200 channeled Tony Robbins too hard and it could be why 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:33.800 Grace is backing off Brook. 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:34.920 What do you think I mean? 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:38.320 I think it's an easy fix because you're innocent here. 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:40.760 Even if the is she was assuming that you were 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:42.800 hitting on the waitress, it shows so much a we're 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:44.560 calling right, like. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.959 Obviously you're going to be interested if you got us. 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.080 Involved, right, Eugene, innocent till proven guilty. 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:55.520 No, No, that's oh Jason. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:59.679 Yeah, he got off innocent. So I like this. This 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:00.400 is a good. 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.839 Headspace making me think he's less innocent than he originally. 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:05.160 Like that. 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:07.920 Either way, let's build off of this and make the call. 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:09.960 We'll see if Grace can fill in some of the 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:10.719 blanks for us. 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:23.079 Here we go. Hello, Hi is this Grace? 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.200 Yeah? This is Grace, Hey Grace. 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.200 This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:28.640 the Morning. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.240 Hey Grace, by Grace, Good morning. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:32.040 That's the show. 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:36.360 Uh, okay, tell her who? 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:37.679 Why? 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.720 I said who? But why is a good question. While 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:42.880 we are doing this segment right now called a second 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:46.800 date update, I've heard of you. 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:49.920 Yeah, thank god, So now I don't have to explain 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:50.240 it to you. 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:51.680 We are always so surprised. 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:55.000 Okay, but that means one of our listeners is trying 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.800 to get a hold of you because they really liked 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.000 hanging out with you recently, a guy named Eugene. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:05.400 Oh oh, I know who Eugene is. 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:07.360 All right, okay, there's a good start. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.800 So if you know how this segment works, you understand 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:14.960 Eugene is confused why you're not super eager to hang 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:15.400 out with him? 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:16.640 At least that's how it seems. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:20.080 After your day she left him on read He responded. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:26.440 That is not super eager, So we would like to 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:29.840 know what you thought about Eugene and your date. I 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.840 will mention he did tell us a little bit about it, 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:32.600 but we'd like. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:33.319 To hear your side. 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.880 So then I'm sure he told you about like the 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:40.640 conversation with the waitress and the beach and all that stuff. 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:42.160 We did hear. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:44.200 Fortunately, questions were asked. 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:48.679 For me, that wasn't really even the deal breaker, because 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.320 he did apologize and he said he was nervous, which, 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:55.280 like I understood because I was nervous too. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:12:00.080 If you were nervous, that means you were also excited. 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.079 To right, Yeah, I mean it was my first day 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.280 in a long time, so I was nervous too. 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:06.120 Right, So you understood that. 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:08.560 Like asking the waitress what she was wearing to the 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:11.200 beach was just an awkward question. 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:12.199 Yeah. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.600 The thing that I didn't love, though, like the deal 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:18.280 breaker for me, was he kept calling the waitress back 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:21.160 over because he didn't know what to order, and like 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.160 I eventually was like, why don't we just order a 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.800 bunch of apps? And he was like, oh, that sounds 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:30.040 so great, and so we ordered the apps. The waitress 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.480 is like so relieved, Yeah, finally. 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:37.719 Okay, you agreed on it, then, yeah, why is that bad? 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:43.080 So afterwards he looked at me and he said, hey, 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:46.800 I really appreciate that suggestion, but it's really hard for 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:48.840 me to commit to just one dish. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.840 Okay, I mean I agree with him. I love to 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.960 try everything on the menu. I like to know what 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:55.960 everyone I go with is ordering so that I can 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:56.640 have a bite of it. 0:12:56.679 --> 0:13:00.440 All All right, why why is that flag? 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.839 You know, I'm a person who is like dating for 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.360 a commitment, and if you can't even pick what dish 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:10.240 you're going to order at a restaurant, what how are 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:11.880 you gonna commit to me? 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:12.840 Wait? 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:13.560 Hold on, hold on. 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.680 You're saying that he was indecisive about the menu, which 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:21.239 means that he's not good at being in a monogamous relationship. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:24.400 I don't think you understand, like how indecisive he was, 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.920 Like this went on and on and on and on 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.240 and so like, yeah, it's put a red flag in 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:30.640 my head. 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:32.880 How many options do you think you Jeet's got off? 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:40.520 I mean, if that's how you feel, grace like you're 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:43.840 worried that he's not a safe person to commit to 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:47.200 because he's going to be considering all his other female options. 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.840 Yeah, I'm just looking for someone like a little more decisive. 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.200 Interesting, was there any okay? 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.440 Was he decisive? Is any other way? I mean he 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.280 picked the restaurant, Oh, he picked the zoo for the 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:00.920 next day decisive? 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:04.440 Well, actually there were three different views and he wasn't 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:05.520 sure which ones to go to. 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:09.240 So okay, Well, I can't speak to what's going on 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:12.520 in Eugene's mind. Only he can do that. And the 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:15.120 good news is he's on the phone with us right now, 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:18.640 listening in on this conversation, waiting to talk to you. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:19.680 Now that's decisive. 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:22.080 Yeah, it feels pretty decisive to me unless he's on 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:23.720 hold with a bunch of other radio shows. 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.280 But Eugene, are you there? 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:35.480 Yeah, I'm here. I'm just thinking what Yeah, I guess 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:40.000 I can see where you get confused about me not 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:43.160 being able to decide on a food. But there's just 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:44.320 so many foods. 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:49.160 Okay, Hell, you could say hi to Grace. She's there 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:50.040 waiting to talk to you. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:56.840 Oh hey, Grace, Yeah, Hi, I mean I like kind 0:14:56.840 --> 0:14:57.440 of have to go. 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:02.040 So is this like I don't know what else to say? Yeah, 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:03.800 I just need to tell you that I know I 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:09.040 have a hard time committing to food or what zoo 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:11.480 because there's a lot of different zoos and know what 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:16.320 you like. But I will and can commit to relationships. Wow, 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:20.040 there's something you don't know about me actually, but my 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:27.040 mentor and inspiration Tony Robbins. He says, true commitment bridges 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:29.200 the gap between goals and reality. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:30.000 Wow. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.400 Wowiful, that didn't sound like you read it at all. 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:36.240 Yeah, okay, Well, and I don't know. I don't actually 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:40.320 know what that really means. But he said there's always 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:42.560 a way if you're committed, and I'm committed to going 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:43.560 out with you again. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:49.720 That you Grace, How does that feel to hear that? 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:54.480 Unfortunately I am not committed to seeing him again, so 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.080 it doesn't really feel like anything. 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:58.880 Wait wait, Grace, I mean you said the one thing 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.720 that you were worried about it he wouldn't be interested 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:02.440 in just seeing you. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.720 And that's what he's saying. He's he's saying, yes, I. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:09.040 Am, I'm okay. I would like someone who can make 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:12.160 a decision. I don't need to be the deciding person 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:13.640 and every single thing in my life. 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:16.000 Well, he just decided, he decided you were the one. 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:17.560 That's nice for him. 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:21.600 It sounds like maybe you just were you just maybe 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:25.280 not as attracted to him as well, or something like, I'm. 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:26.720 Just not attracted to that behavior. 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:30.320 Like I said, Oh wait, I'm committed. 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.800 I do have to go now, so I'm going to pass. 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:37.520 Thank you guys. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:42.800 Oh okay, he's committed to something. I think we lost her. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.520 Yeah that went. That was more quick than I expect you. 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:49.920 Yeah, Eugene, I'm sorry that happened. Man, Does Tony Robbins 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:52.040 have a good quote about what to do after you 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:52.760 get rejected. 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:54.560 I've got to look one up. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.440 But like the other one, I don't know if I 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:58.200 understand it. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:01.760 All you need to do before your next date is 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:05.359 look at the menu online and choose before you get there. 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:07.800 Or hire Tony Robbinson go on your dates with you 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:11.840 or Brookie Robbins, who's gonna be at the airport this 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:12.680 Sunday night? 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:16.679 Maybe so okay, I don't know. 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.640 You can't even commit to go into that, And then 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.800 I actually can kind of see what she was saying. 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:25.359 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:30.720 You know what, if that conversation about commitment had come 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:34.679 up during dinner, maybe it could have been saved. 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:37.240 I don't know if I've ever been shut down so quickly. 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.280 That's the thing. It was just it was too late 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:40.600 once she wrote him off. 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.960 Huh, and she decided that he's yelling I'll commit to 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:47.160 you now. It's there's no saving it. It's like catching 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:49.080 a falling knife. You've already lost it. 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:53.360 You don't want to catch a falling life. That's that's 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:55.520 I feel like Alexis actually needs that life pack. 0:17:55.680 --> 0:17:59.920 Yes, not to do that lose lose situation at the handle. 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:05.160 That's not gonna happen, zero chance that turns out. 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:10.720 Well, God, that's the point I lost. The bottom line 0:18:10.760 --> 0:18:13.800