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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, my loves, Welcome to the

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Speaker 2: bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: We have such good questions today, and I love it

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Speaker 2: because we're kind of like all over the place. This

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Speaker 2: is my first solo bonus episode.

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Speaker 1: A lot of cherries being popped this week. For real.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, whoa, it's a nice little feeling, little nervous.

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Speaker 2: It does feel like when I lost my virginity. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So the first question is what's your favorite part of

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Speaker 2: being a mom right now? Oh my gosh, that's so

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Speaker 2: hard to even pinpoint one thing. I think my most

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Speaker 2: favorite part about being a mom right now is watching

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Speaker 2: so so says only a year old. So like she's fun,

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Speaker 2: but like we're still learning. We're still learning a lot.

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Speaker 2: We're in a learning process. Not saying that Ocean isn't

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Speaker 2: but Ocean is very much like a little human being

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Speaker 2: who can go toes with me. She's opinionated, she's like

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Speaker 2: a little character and she just she is who she is.

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Speaker 2: And I can sit here and say like, oh, she

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Speaker 2: got that from me, she got that from him. But

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Speaker 2: I just think that they come how they are. So

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Speaker 2: my favorite part about being a mom right now is

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Speaker 2: watching my kids just turn into like the little humans

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Speaker 2: that they were born to be. Like, I can already

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Speaker 2: see how Ocean is going to be when she's older.

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Speaker 2: The girl has mad stamina. She does not take no

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Speaker 2: for an answer. It is completely exhausting, and I love

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Speaker 2: it because I'm like, girl, you are going to go places,

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Speaker 2: you know when she's such a character. And my mom

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Speaker 2: has said, like I really want you to set up

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Speaker 2: a YouTube channel for her, and you guys, this is

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Speaker 2: where I'm at with it. So Ocean has never been

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Speaker 2: able to be on TV except for when she was

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Speaker 2: like a brand new baby, because the other side won't

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Speaker 2: sign off on it, And like, that's a blessing and a.

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Speaker 1: Curse for me. It's a curse because she's getting older.

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Speaker 2: So if I film anything, I have to say to her,

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Speaker 2: like you have to go away, and she doesn't quite

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Speaker 1: But it's a blessing because being.

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Speaker 2: A mom is the most sacred thing that I have

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Speaker 2: and it's not for anyone to judge.

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Speaker 1: It's not for anyone to.

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Speaker 2: Weigh in on what I did wrong, how I could

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Speaker 2: have done it differently. It's just between myself, my kids,

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Speaker 2: my household, and I really like it that way. So

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Speaker 2: although Ocean is very funny and many people think like

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Speaker 2: you need to put her on TV, she needs to

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Speaker 2: be on YouTube. This is where my head's at. She's

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Speaker 2: going to get older, her body's going to change. People

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Speaker 2: who follow her are going to start experiencing life. Some

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Speaker 2: will become trolls, others will still stay kind. I just

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Speaker 2: don't want to put her out there like that. It's

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Speaker 2: one thing for me to post a twenty four hour

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Speaker 2: content that's just Ocean for people to weigh in on.

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Speaker 2: I just I want to incubate her mindset. Which homegirl

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Speaker 2: has hair down to her ass, lashes to the sky.

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Speaker 2: You cannot tell her anything, and I want to keep

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Speaker 2: it that way for as long as I possibly can.

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Speaker 2: The world is going to attempt to break her spirit.

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Speaker 2: Ocean talks about boys. We're getting into that stage of things,

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Speaker 2: which is very fucking wild. She had this boyfriend named

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Speaker 2: Cam at school and they would hold hands and he

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Speaker 2: posted about this. I think it was on TikTok, her

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Speaker 2: telling me how Cam is her boyfriend now, and I

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Speaker 2: comes home the next day and I was like, hey, girl,

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Speaker 1: She's He's not my boyfriend anymore. Mom. I go, already,

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Speaker 1: you already broke up? What happened?

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Speaker 2: And she goes, I just thought about it and I

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Speaker 1: Excellent, excellent.

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Speaker 2: You are allowed to change your mind in the Bravo universe.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you are not allowed to change your mind.

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Speaker 2: I can say something right now and people will be

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Speaker 2: like sea then for you said this now, bitch, you

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Speaker 2: can change your mind. You can feel one way right now,

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Speaker 1: You can feel a different way. And I'm cool with that.

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Speaker 2: About you people would be surprised to know? Oh, I

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Speaker 2: think the one thing people would be surprised to know.

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Speaker 2: And actually, this conversation came up with someone.

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Speaker 1: The other day who is on the valley.

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Speaker 2: I won't share more than that, but basically, I think

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Speaker 2: I like confrontation. I don't like confrontation. I'm very good

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Speaker 2: people think I come in, I go toes and I

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Speaker 2: feel great about myself. I go home and sleep like

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Speaker 2: a baby. I will beat myself up for days on end,

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Speaker 2: months on end when it comes to season eleven, years

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Speaker 2: on end. I left Season eleven of vander Pump Rules,

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Speaker 2: and although I felt how I felt in the moment

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Speaker 2: and for many months after, I was like, I stand

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Speaker 2: by what I said. It may not have been the

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Speaker 2: what it is. That's how I felt, and I stand

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Speaker 2: by that sentiment of like, say how you feel.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: My whole thing is when I'm facing foreign emotions, which

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Speaker 2: is very much what was happening all of season eleven,

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Speaker 2: I just react and then regret. So I'm trying to conquer.

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Speaker 2: And I've been working on this with my sponsor because

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Speaker 2: it was a few months ago where I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I just I can't get over and I'm

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Speaker 2: saying it as season eleven for you guys, because that's

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Speaker 2: the only way to pinpoint it for you guys.

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Speaker 1: At that point, in my life.

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Speaker 2: For me, what it was was I was finally the

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Speaker 2: adrenaline had gone. I was in the fight of my

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Speaker 2: life for you guys, Season ten and then season eleven

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Speaker 2: for me was when a time in my life where

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Speaker 2: I was coming to grips with the fact that this

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Speaker 2: The adrenaline had worn off. I was angry, and I

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Speaker 2: an angry person, and so we went the complete opposite way.

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Speaker 1: There was no balance.

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Speaker 2: Everything was so foreign to me, and I was doing

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Speaker 1: That was my life path.

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Speaker 2: But the aftermath of that and the anger that I felt,

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Speaker 2: and you know, for so long I could not stop

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Speaker 1: And I think that's.

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Speaker 2: What people would be most surprised by, is like, you

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Speaker 2: don't need to beat me up over anything, you guys,

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Speaker 2: Like I got that handled, like no one's gonna knock

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Speaker 2: amount of stress that I put on myself on a

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Speaker 1: When I was a vapor my mom was like, you

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Speaker 2: I'm like, the stress I feel is gonna kill me

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Speaker 2: way before this fucking vape.

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Speaker 1: Trust me.

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Speaker 2: That's what people would be surprised by. Also, I love

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Speaker 2: that's weird. It's the fucking best. Get on down there

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Speaker 2: to those knee cabs. Boy, if you could go back

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Speaker 2: to your first season on Vanner Pump Rules, what advice

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Speaker 2: would you give yourself?

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Speaker 1: Not a one fucking thing. Chef's kiss, no notes. I

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Speaker 2: Could go back and be that fucking cool again. She

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Speaker 2: did not give one shit. I watch it and I

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Speaker 1: You're committed to the bit.

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Speaker 2: However, that first season that I was on Vanner Pump Rules,

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Speaker 2: I was broken out, and I really I had to

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Speaker 2: Could collab with any celebrity on a project, who would

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Speaker 2: Larry David because there is no one like him. There

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Speaker 2: is no one funnier. He is completely effortless. He's uncancellable,

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Speaker 2: every season of Seinfeld and every season of Curved, you

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Speaker 2: I just find him to be a fucking genius. Also,

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Speaker 2: there's a new one though, you guys. It's called Bad

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Speaker 2: Friends with Andrew Santino and Bobby Lee Easton. My brother

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Speaker 2: introduced me to this comedian and the first one I

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Speaker 1: Hysterical I die.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday I listened to his Hulu stand up and it's

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Speaker 2: called Andrew Santino White Noise. Highly recommend. I would die

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Speaker 2: to work with him too, die. He's so fucking hysterical.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell his jokes on here because

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Speaker 2: watch I beg of you so we can all talk

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Speaker 2: about it. Do you ever still have moments where the

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Speaker 2: do you handle those feelings? They're not often, but yes,

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Speaker 2: there are moments where I will sit there and watch

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Speaker 2: someone like crack a hard Seltzer or have a glass

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Speaker 2: of rose. It's only during the day, though, you guys

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Speaker 2: like I used to love day drinking because then I

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Speaker 2: And in those moments, I can only count on one

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Speaker 2: That was probably in twenty twenty. I had that moment

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Speaker 2: in Puerto Rico, where I was like, I'm gonna drink

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Speaker 2: I said, I need someone to immediately come and clear

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