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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the celo. He said he'd

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Speaker 1: have to be stupid not to take it as a kip.

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Speaker 2: Come on, so all right, Colo. This is from Joanne

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Speaker 1: Joanne writes, on my birthday, my husband wasn't feeling well,

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Speaker 1: so I told him I go out with the girls

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Speaker 1: and he and I could go out another time. It's

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Speaker 1: been two weeks and he's fine, and he went back

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Speaker 1: to work. Should I remind him about my birthday or

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Speaker 1: wait until next year?

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Speaker 3: Oh well, you can remind him. But he sought it

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Speaker 3: out in the free past, and he took it. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna go out with my girls. It's your birthday now.

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Speaker 3: You're not a child. You do your birthday all month

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Speaker 3: long and all that. Anybody I don't anybody got time

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Speaker 3: for that. Your birthday is on your birthday all these

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Speaker 3: I'm doing my whole week and my whole month. I

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Speaker 3: don't like people like that. Your birthday today, I don't

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Speaker 3: like people like that.

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Speaker 2: That's all week. You've missed it.

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Speaker 1: But Steve, she just.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to spend her birthday with her husband.

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Speaker 3: She wanted to do we went without girls, She said,

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Speaker 3: is all right, I just go out with my girl,

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Speaker 3: and now he better birthday gone, see you next year.

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Speaker 2: Don't let him off the hook.

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Speaker 1: Get a gift, yeah something, all right, moving on to

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Speaker 1: that's it.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Simone in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Simone rites, I'm thirty nine and I've been with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for two years. I started working at night, and

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Speaker 1: when I get off in the morning, he thinks we

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Speaker 1: should have sex. I hate morning sex, but I also

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Speaker 1: don't want him to cheat on me. What's the best

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Speaker 1: solution to this issue?

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Speaker 2: Girl? Sometimes I wonder what you're want to do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, mm hmm, girl, you better get on board, get

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Speaker 4: up and brush your teeth and get on back in here.

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Speaker 2: That's the worst part.

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Speaker 3: But see, she started a new job and she gets

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Speaker 3: off in the.

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Speaker 2: Morning, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, works, It ain't morning.

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Speaker 3: It's your night lady.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's tired.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you're tired, but.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to mar It ain't gonna take that long.

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Speaker 2: Well you don't know that. Yeah, that's all we need

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Speaker 2: for you. I'm gonna let you go on, get you

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Speaker 2: some sleep. Man, I'm not gonna hold you up. She

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Speaker 2: is not married to you. Our boyfriend is boyd All right.

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Speaker 3: Well to Seelo was answering the question, I do we're

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Speaker 3: dealing with that attitude today. No, I'm just I mean,

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Speaker 3: it's over which you want me to Lady, it's nighttime

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Speaker 3: for you. You get off work, you all you know

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Speaker 3: not you can make go to bed quick. Thank you

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Speaker 3: this morning.

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Speaker 2: Change your way of thinking. Okay, gotcha?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: DeAndre and Columbia says, I got married a year ago

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Speaker 1: and my wife has a twenty four year old son

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Speaker 1: that asked if he could stay with us.

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Speaker 2: For a while.

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Speaker 1: I told him no, and my wife and I had

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Speaker 1: a cursing match. She stopped talking to me days ago.

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Speaker 1: How can I get her to stop babying him?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's gonna be a hard one, dog, because

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Speaker 3: she already cussed you out about it because you told

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Speaker 3: the boy no. He twenty four. A lot of that

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Speaker 3: depends on the circumstance, like what he lost his job,

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Speaker 3: He didn't have his money right, he tried to save

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Speaker 3: up get an apartment. Maybe you know, would you have

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Speaker 3: to consider that? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know, do you let your twenty four year old

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Speaker 2: son to stay there?

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Speaker 3: I have, I haven't had to, but I would have

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Speaker 3: you will. I mean I would have to consider there's

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Speaker 3: been an out of question than my daddy out. He

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Speaker 3: told me, Yeah, I left your house for college. You

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Speaker 2: That's why you were homeless for a while.

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Speaker 3: No, well, I knew not to call my daddy with dad,

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Speaker 3: and I was thirty years old. I can't call my

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Speaker 3: daddy tomorrow. I ain't got no harm. He said, you

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Speaker 3: chure don't.

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Speaker 2: So then this guy in this clo is not wrong.

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Speaker 2: You're not saying he's wrong.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying he's wrong because I understand you got

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Speaker 3: to make these young men, you know, be accountable and

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Speaker 3: and plus like some people, just is it really an

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Speaker 3: emergency or is it just do you have your mama's

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Speaker 3: number and it's gonna be your out? Have you used

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Speaker 3: all your resources? Have you gotten your money back off

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Speaker 3: your apartment? Did you blow your money when you got

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Speaker 3: your deposit back? Or did you tear the people's place

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Speaker 3: up and ain't no deposit. It's a lot of things

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Speaker 3: coming to play right here. So's I would find out

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Speaker 3: what the circumstances are mm hmm to me.

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Speaker 2: But you would let your son come back if.

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Speaker 3: It's extenuating circumstances. Yes, okay, but I don't. And then

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Speaker 3: all again, it depends on the relationship. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: has he ever gotten along with the boy?

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 3: The boy just needs something from him. Now here come

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Speaker 3: a lot. It's a lot in it that I don't know. Well,

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Speaker 3: I got a great relationship with my.

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Speaker 1: Son, so yeah, yeah, obviously he thinks she's been babying

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Speaker 1: him and he needs her to stop.

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Speaker 3: Well, my son's gonna go, you go stay with your brother.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna be first option. Where's daddy at.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's her husband. Yeah, a year, a year,

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Speaker 2: a year new Yeah, yeah, that's his.

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Speaker 3: Rule of my son, go stay with your brother. M hm.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well he wants her to stop babing

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Speaker 1: in him, okay. Last one Steve moving on to Siana

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Speaker 1: in Santa Monica. Tiana says, I was dating an older

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Speaker 1: man and I found out he's married, so I blocked him.

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Speaker 1: He got mad and said there's no way he'd ever

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Speaker 1: leave his wife for me. I want to seek revenge,

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Speaker 1: but I also don't want to hurt my reputation.

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Speaker 2: How should I handle him?

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Speaker 3: Well, then, seeking revenge is you got to put yourself

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Speaker 3: out there for revenge. You know, you found out he

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Speaker 3: was married, so you blocked it. He mad, and I

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Speaker 3: told you he would never leave his wife for you. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I guess that news upset you. Yes, that that probably

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Speaker 3: didn't set well, that I would never leave my wife

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Speaker 3: for you, which he won't. That's why I keep saying

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Speaker 3: about the truth, y'all. I always say you want it,

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Speaker 3: then when we tell it, now here we go. Now

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Speaker 3: it's revenge, we all on social media. No, that ain't

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Speaker 3: it revenge. Sureley, she wants revenge, so she wants to

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Speaker 3: expose him as a cheetah. But she don't want to

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Speaker 3: ruin her reputation as a home record because she's gonna

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Speaker 3: get choosed now well you know now she no, you know,

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Speaker 3: ain't look, we make mistakes, chalk it up, you know,

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Speaker 3: But how you didn't know? I don't look. It's too many.

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Speaker 3: It's too much technology for y'all to quit talking about.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't know these me and married Facebook, social media.

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't know.

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Speaker 2: We gotta take her out of word.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, you ain't see the uh you ain't see

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Speaker 3: when he pulled up in the winning bagona had to

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Speaker 3: swing set on.

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Speaker 4: You do your homework.

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Speaker 3: You can't say the real baby booty is hanging off

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Speaker 3: the rear of the mill. You didn't see, You ain't

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Speaker 3: never see that car seat in the best

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