WEBVTT - "FIRST IMPRESSION VIBRATOR!" w/ Laci Mosley and Miles Gray 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.000 Welcome to Will You Accept This Rose? A production of 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:14.880 I Heart Radio. Oh thank God, thank god ABC. We 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:18.440 needed that James for you in the woods of Pennsylvania 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:21.919 at the Nemclinos or who knew that that is what 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:28.440 we needed as a world coming out of a holiday season. 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:33.159 That happened. That happened, That's what happened. I did not 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.640 know that I needed to see a seven foot nine 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:38.839 man towering over Chris Harrison to make everything okay in 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:43.440 my life. Hello, and welcome to the very first episode 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:47.040 of one of Will You Accept This Rose. My name 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.919 is Arta Marine, coming to you from my boogie garage 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:54.400 somewhere in California, and I am wearing my bachelor sweatshirt 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:56.959 that was sent to me last night, and I am 0:00:57.040 --> 0:01:01.440 feeling like, honestly, if the is the one moment of 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.280 my week where I am doing okay in honor of 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:06.840 our first guest, I might myself a little c B 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:09.360 d T h c T because I knew what was 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.080 gonna be happening on my bottom left corner. So I 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:15.600 was like, I'm stressed out. It's January five. I've never 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:19.320 had a CBDT. While I was recording, but I thought 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.800 today's the day I need it. I needed Let's just 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.640 ease into one like a warm bath with us as 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:31.360 a man who has really stolen our hearts. We definitely 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:34.920 accept his rose. He is the host of the Daily Zycheist. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:38.640 He is our newest addict. We hooked him entering the 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:42.200 Goat episodes and he was like okay, And then when 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:45.200 he became kind of he got hooked on Nick Vale 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:48.200 and had strong opinions on Nick Kaylee. Then he went 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:51.800 through Claire and Tatious season with us, then he broke 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.760 down his picks with us, and now he's fully addicted 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:58.640 and I like what I'm seeing, Ladies and gentlemen. Miles Gray, 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.920 thank you for having me act out out to all 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:04.040 the people who I have not spoken to the years, 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:05.800 who listened to your show and hit me up and 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:08.440 go are you all? Will you accept this Rose? And 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.839 I'm like, I'm fine, how are you? How have you been? 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:14.640 And yes that is me? But yeah, it's nice to 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.120 like really start like, you know, why did the picks 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:21.440 for Tassia and now this one? But like this, I'm 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:25.480 I'm I'm getting momentum as a rose rosehead. Well, I 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.480 thought of you last night. I thought okay, you and 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:30.560 our other guest is coming up. You guys started with 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.240 the Goat episodes, and then I know that you Binge 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:37.720 watched Tastias season and you watched it and that, like, 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:40.280 how now you're actually like, now you kind of know 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:42.760 the deal. Now you've never seen it all in Calabasas, 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.400 you've seen it out at the Quinta, and now you're 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.880 seeing it in the woods in Pennsylvania. And I have 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:52.040 to say it travels. It have Chris Harrison will travel. 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:55.359 I was thinking of you and wondering if you were like, oh, 0:02:55.440 --> 0:03:00.320 I know this now, like your feelings last night. Um, yeah, 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:03.080 like definitely. I mean I still have outstanding questions that 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:05.720 you are built on my lack of data that I've 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:09.160 collected from watching full seasons. But yeah, I'm definitely like 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:14.440 I'm starting to say ship audibly out loud. That's not okay, 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.160 you're doing Okay, You're doing that because I'm starting to 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.680 understand the dynamics a little bit more of what this 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:22.880 as a game rather than watching people before I was like, 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:26.400 this is a documentary about love the Oh, these are 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:29.560 people pursuing spawn. Con No, this is why we don't 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:32.840 do spoilers. Because it's like our super Bowl, so it's 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:35.960 both who's gonna win, who's going to win the most followers, 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:38.240 who's gonna maybe get married, who's going to be the 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:41.119 bat flarette, and who's gonna take over, and who's gonna 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.360 get to quit quit being a dental hygienis and just 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:45.840 like self fab fit fund boxes for the next five years. 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.520 Do you wait? Do you keep track of people's social 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:50.400 media follows, like at the start of the season, so 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.960 you can't quantify that by that. That's a really great question. 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.080 I feel like Katie checks in early on, but I 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:57.320 don't think she checks out the numbers. But maybe Katie, 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:58.840 I feel like she would be a good keeper of 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.440 the spawn con I I feel stolid about that. Let's 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.440 also introduce our other guests today. Now I knew I 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:06.760 had to get her in early, because again, this woman 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.000 has been a fan favorite on our show. She's come 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:11.720 on and you're like, we want more of her, But 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.160 I know that she wouldn't naturally be watching it, So 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.040 I'm like, let's just get her on the She'll watch 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.440 the first episode because she can't be behind. She just 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:22.800 needs to watch one and then maybe maybe she'll like it. 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:25.240 Enough that she'll keep watching and she'll want to come back. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.640 But I'm not putting that kind of pressure on It's 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.080 it's like it's easy here. We're just happy to get 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.960 you when we can get you. She um, she was. 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:35.480 She's the host of a podcast. I got like a 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:39.280 very large shout out from Vulture of like favorite podcast 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.560 of the year, and if your excuse me, excuse me. 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:46.799 She's a brilliant actress. She's an amazing comedian. We love 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:50.360 her on this podcast. She hosts Scam Goddess, Ladies and Gentlemen. 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:55.920 Lacey Mosley. Oh my goodness, what an introduction, and oh 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.000 my god, I'm bounding. I'm bound in my home, y'all. 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:01.760 Y'all hear me. I you are the true queen. Get 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:06.560 take that. Take take a Victoria's little crown away and 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.240 let's give it to you because you should be bowing you. 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:15.159 You're amazing. Victoria's a wow girl. Victoria, she came. She 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:17.680 she came to be both the thirstiest and the villain. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.279 Like I didn't realize that thirstiest end villain could be 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:26.839 all in one person. Somebody, Oh my god, Victoria, get 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:31.000 the gator rate overall, How is your feeling about last night, 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:33.200 how is it? Overall? Before we get deep into it, 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:36.680 I'll walk us through the episode overall, I'll just speak personally. 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:40.560 I thought out of the gate, I was like, Okay, 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:42.840 here's first of all, it's our first black bachelor. Let's 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:47.359 just start with that, and like, uh, for twenty five years. 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:52.680 In twenty five years in I think they had was 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:57.440 was one Pablo, the only non white male bachelor. So 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.440 the one dude they had was like such to fucking 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:04.360 creep too. He was the best until he was the worst. 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:06.760 He was what's he know? White? Because you know, like 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:09.920 in other races, like they're still or like nationalities, they're 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.359 still white people. Was he white? Whatever he was? Or 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:16.360 was he like Katie? Yeah, I know what you mean? 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:20.840 He was white? You mean like like how there's like 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:24.400 Mexican or yeah, like people going to like there's white 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.320 people in Spain they speak Spanish, but they still white, 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:31.520 you know what I mean? Caucasian? Right? Yeah? Yeah? What's 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:41.400 because she from Boston, she's a first generation Boston me. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.200 That would be like I wrote about in my book 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.360 that I am the dickhead that went with my mom 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.200 to England for like ten days and what I was 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:51.000 twenty one years old, and I came back and I 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.960 got hammered and I panicked, and I spoke with the 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:55.599 British accent one night and I wrote about what a 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:57.760 dick head. I was like, what a dude? Who does that? 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:02.600 Like what a total dog? You're fine? And I but 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:07.920 she she, this white girl from Boston, did it for 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:11.760 seven years, like with her husband. The Today Show clip 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:14.680 of her asking what the word in English is for cucumber? 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:21.040 I think, man, incredible, that was That was the hardest, 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:25.200 Like Peppino just learned that ship that was the holiday 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:28.800 Santa came late and it brought us a daddy. Okay, 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.960 so one problem. So here we are. We have Matt James, 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:35.040 I have to say. And he's never been on the show, 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:40.000 so he's not a known quantity. We don't fuck. I 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:46.040 well done, well cast, like hot, seven ft tall. I 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.240 think if you think he's actually six ft eight is 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:51.160 what I heard, which christ like a hobbit next to him. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:57.320 Somebody tweeted to us because he played he played he's groot. 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:04.480 He played um football at Wake Forest Um and I 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:09.760 found him to be like relaxed, and I mean even 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.520 though he was nervous, but I found him to be 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.880 like a nice guy and a present guy. Generally, their 0:08:15.040 --> 0:08:20.640 male leads are very neutered, milk toast white guys that 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:24.960 are super Christian. So this is similar, but not quite 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.640 as openly, like there's never never been an open prayer circle, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.080 which we'll get to, but like they're super Christian, like 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:33.240 white guys that are that your mom would not be 0:08:33.320 --> 0:08:35.240 afraid for you to go to the prom with. Like that, 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:37.640 they don't cast sexy leads, and I have to say, 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.520 I feel like Matt James, they cast a sexy lead. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.440 I feel like it's the most beautiful group of women 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:47.000 I've ever seen. I think the resort is stunning, and 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.600 I think it's gonna be a fun season. That was 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:54.760 my big overall Okay, Miles, what was your overall painted 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:59.960 picture of like the the Matt, the ladies, the setting 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.920 like in a pandemic. Great choice. The setting was beautiful, 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.840 I couldn't. I mean the Laquita was It felt like 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:11.000 a Lakina. It felt like some desert resort with a 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:14.520 golf course. It didn't feel there was no magisterial quality 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:18.200 to it. If I may say so, this felt like 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.080 it felt like it matched the occasion rather than like 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:24.400 adapting to the time. So I like that the diversity. 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:26.520 I'm loving it. Who would have thought that that renders 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:32.319 you a very good looking crop of contestants. Shout out 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:35.319 to my man's waves that were blowing in the wind 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.440 when he was in that open cockpit airplane. Really should 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:40.160 have put a hat on, but you know what, the 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.720 way it was wavy up there. But I love the outfit. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.120 I loved his outfit. I loved his turtleneck and I 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:49.120 loved it. Oh everybody loves the Mihrchela Ali turtleneck with this, 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.680 you know what I mean? I told you, like I 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:54.360 forget that that one men's tell all that one dude 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:58.800 hat was rocking. I was like, he googled Mihrchela Ali outfits. Yeah, 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.320 it would be in social Silicon Valley and I would 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:08.640 y yes, optimistic, Um, okay, lazy overall? What did you 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:13.000 think of the setting? The Bachelor of the Ladies overall? Takeaway? 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:15.520 So I do have to piggyback on miles with the 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:17.959 Majestic like it was getting cute, Like the little role 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:20.360 was cute that they pulled up on. Was that pop? 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.400 I don't know, They're like Cinderella. I felt like they 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:27.520 actually found like the Bridgerton Castle in Pennsylvania that we 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:32.280 did not know that even handle, cannot even handle. He 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:38.680 is giving the dude gid he horn horn. He is horny. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.080 He looked at everybody's booty as they went up the stairs, 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:44.760 and I loved well the sisters pressed their nose in 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:48.480 the fucking porthole on the seventy eighth floor watching down below. 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:51.720 I loved it. Okay, so horny Duke. Yes, Yes, he's 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.520 giving edges in my hand because I hate my dad, 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:58.440 you know, he's giving Briton. Yes, and he's also like 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:01.800 he's really cute. Um. I The women are like they 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.400 were just like, hey, um calling all bad bitches, this 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:09.440 is the Bachelor. Um Like they're all beautiversually beautiful different 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.960 And I really like that because I swear there's always 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:14.200 like six handers who looked the exact same on like 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.240 every season at The Bachelor. I'm like, which which handah 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:19.680 is that? And what they look the same? Um? So 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.640 at one point I was like maybe I was getting 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:23.800 into q Knochle space. I was like, maybe the Bachelor's 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:27.040 just manufacturing white women to come on the show, putting 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:31.800 them in wayfair boxes you you follow me to perpetuate whiteness. 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.560 They definitely I feel like they were getting more and 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:37.679 more pageant e like white women wait for about like 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:41.320 even like Hannah a B Hannah cy hannahdy like and 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:45.640 it's all. It was getting more and more like southern 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:49.720 white women pageant queens. Right, they all come up and 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:55.199 do it a weird tiny hand wave, professional smilers. Right. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:57.920 I will say the sit down that he had with 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:02.320 Chris Harrison for me with a little troubling Yeah. So 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:03.800 I don't know if you want to wait for it. 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:07.360 We'll get right, We'll get right. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:10.360 excited about this season though it looks very cute and 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.880 Chris Harrison was also like the worst actor in the world, 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.360 but he was like, oh, you want to talk to me? 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.760 And then it's like, let's go to this perfectly lit, 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:20.600 like pure one room with these like two chairs awkwardly 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:23.000 sitting in front of candles, like, oh, like you didn't 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.960 plan this out, okay, Katie? Overall, what was your overall? 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:31.120 Just before we dive in, thoughts on the setting, the season, 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:34.400 the guy, the gals, all of it. Well, the resort's amazing, 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.320 like I legitimately want to go there now. I looked 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.920 it up, but he was like, how do I get there? 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:43.120 And ouside of Pittsburgh. I guess like it just got 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:47.320 so beautiful. Matt was really great. He seemed nervous, but 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:50.319 he played it really well, like he let it get 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.840 to him. I felt like he actually already has like 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.880 a connection with a few of the girls. I really 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:58.360 liked a lot of the girls, Like I really liked 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:04.920 Abigail a lot. And I'm excited, I think, I'm I mean, yeah, 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:06.280 I'm excited for it. I think it's gonna be a 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:10.839 really fun season. So here we are. We're in Nemacola, Pennsylvania. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.400 Who would have ever thought that would sound sexy but 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:19.280 the Bridgerton of America Pennsylvania. Uh So, who would we meet? 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.920 Matt James? Who is He's twenty eight years old, he's skateboarding. 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.120 He's from North Carolina. He loves working with kids. He 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.400 works as a lot of kids that are homeless, a 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:31.000 lot of them, so they he loves working with them. 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.320 He's a he was a real estate agent. Um. He 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.240 shows up in his biplane. He's got the Hershela Ali 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:40.719 outfit on and we find out. He's he grew up 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.960 with his mom and his older brother. He has a 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.520 white mom, he's a black dad. His parents split up 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.000 when they were young. He grew up in a Christian household, 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.600 and his mom sacrificed a lot for them and like 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.280 supported him through football and stuff like that. And then 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:57.520 we see his mom coming in and somebody tweeted us, 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.520 which I loved. The tweet was like, who knew? His 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:03.400 mom looks like Celine Dion joined a biker gang and 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.439 I am here for it and it is sexy? Should 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:10.320 we take that out? Does that mean to me? It 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:14.480 looked like her vibes was like Ursula from Little Mermaid 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:17.880 if she went to Joel Osten's church. But I felt 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:21.040 like I loved her leather pants. I loved her like Rocket, 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.320 like he's got the cool mom showing up and like 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.680 I I loved her. And that was when the whole 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:31.840 sort of like overall narrative of the season is. And 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.040 I know when Anna comes here, she's obsessed with how 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.840 they say the world vulnerable, which I know I don't 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:40.160 intentionally enunciated it just now I know I don't naturally, 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:44.440 I don't say it properly, but we find out all night. 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:48.080 It was just the word unpacking and vulnerable. So it 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:50.080 was like, when was the last time you were vulnerable? 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:53.240 Has your mom ever asked? I mean, Miles, has your 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:54.880 mom ever said Myles, when was the last time you 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:56.800 were vulnerable? And what would you say if Mamma Grace 0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:00.800 said that to you. My mom grew up right after 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:04.760 World War two in Japan. She's not asking me shit 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:12.360 about vulnerability. That's just straight facts. Um, So that was jarring. 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:14.840 But I mean, you know, not that like we don't 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.480 have deeper conversations, but like that's definitely not a that's 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.440 not a sentence I've even heard, like maybe even from 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:22.040 a therapist like when was the last thing? It felt 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.760 so like like the producer was like, be sure to 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:26.960 ask this because we want to thread this word and 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.640 theme throughout everything. It definitely felt like we're learning that 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.040 he saw his parents break up. It was very hard 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:35.720 for him to be raised in a single parent household. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:38.960 And I don't know if his dad is still in 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:41.480 his life or not. I don't know anything about that, 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:46.160 but like that he is afraid of getting too involved, 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:48.840 that he doesn't want to recreate, he doesn't want to 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.200 hurt a woman maybe like his mom was hurt and 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:55.280 so there's a block there, Um, lazy, what did you 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.600 think of his interaction with his mom and all of that? 0:15:58.000 --> 0:15:59.760 So I was looking down because I had to go 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.040 google her again because she has she has a lot 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:05.160 of photos of that are very much like Dave black Men. Um, 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.480 she's giving me that haircut, she's giving me that. I'm 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:09.960 at the soccer game and you know, my baby daddy 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:14.560 here Yum. The vulnerable question was interesting to me because honestly, 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:18.080 it's all stage for like TV and stuff. Um, but 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:21.720 I just honestly, I feel like his mom came on 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:24.120 TV and was like, these actually a single too, so 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:30.400 let the girls know, let the girls know. I oh 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.000 my god, look who is here. I felt for her 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:37.160 because I love blush and I remember one time asking 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:38.760 my friend leaving the house. I was like, do I 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:40.560 have on too much blush? And she said to me, 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:42.800 not if you're not trying to look like a marionette, 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:49.960 like like two little Pinocchio circles Like I am very 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:52.560 I am a fully staw doll heavy hander with the 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:56.600 blush and I and I know without and I thought, 0:16:56.840 --> 0:16:58.680 oh my god, they couldn't have just gone her. I 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.200 know it's COVID, but they could have gotten her somebody 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:04.880 in like a shield at the monitor to be like, hey, 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.240 this is h D. Maybe in personal looks great. Let's 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:10.080 just blend it down a little bit, you know what 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:12.199 I mean? Like I felt for her that she didn't know. 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.199 I'm sure she's look great in person, she didn't know 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:17.280 to blend it down, Lacy, you disagree. She sat, she 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:19.600 sat in the makeup. She said, have y'all see you, Harman. 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:23.720 That's that's what I won't give me the harless. Have 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:32.120 y'all seen Queen. She'll be like I said, more blush. Hi, 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:38.240 dr Anna, Tanna Bananas here, Hi, doctor Banana. We were 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:42.439 staying overall that we are feeling, we're feeling Nemacola, that 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.679 it is the bridge retain of the pets of the 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:50.240 American Estates. Have you seen Bridgtain yet? Anna? I have not. 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:56.800 Oh you okay, you simply must just know when you watch, 0:17:56.920 --> 0:18:01.320 simply must Yes, he is the is that Matt James 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:05.600 is the duke, the horny duke who hates his dad. Right, 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:09.479 and uh, it's such a sexy show you're gonna love it. 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:12.119 Side note Britain I was curious about the casting of 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:14.639 the gal. I was like, like, he's the diamond of 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:18.440 the season in the in Britain. It was just weird 0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:21.240 because he was like such a just piece of man. 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:23.440 And then she had a little like a little girl 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:25.840 if she is in her mid twenties. But I was like, 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:27.680 I don't know if his baby should be having all 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:33.000 these sexuals. Yeah, she I know, watching her like put 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.320 her hand down to her another regions, I was like, 0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:37.959 I felt protective of the actress. Now, they handled it 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:40.520 really well and they were respectful, but I thought she 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:43.440 felt vulnerable doing it that day. I know she did 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:48.760 Anna horrible. How do people say how do they say? 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:51.760 They don't say the L. They say that's how I 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:58.800 do it. I say vulnerable, horrible. I don't say the L. 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:01.919 I only say it out because you and Lisa Delirious 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:04.560 on our Patreon have pointed it out. But I naturally 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:07.639 would say I'm feeling very vulnerable. Vulnerable, right you do 0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:10.240 you do say the elbow? If you hear I hear 0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:15.520 you say the vulnerable, It was vulnerable. You're got a 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:18.200 dance on your turnue a little bit. I'm just like, 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:22.320 I'm like the horny. Do I have one last point 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:24.640 for you analyoe about Bridgertin before you get back into 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:27.200 the Bachelor stuff. Just no, and for everybody listening, don't 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:29.560 watch specially with your parents or anybody, because it starts 0:19:29.560 --> 0:19:33.680 off like normal show. Yeah, and then one episode that 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:37.560 was like, oh girl, it's the cord and I was like, yeah, 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:43.119 don't watch it with your dad, Tanna, don't watch it 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.600 with your dad. Don't. Definitely don't do that. And because 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:47.880 kids start looking around the room and pretending you don't 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.080 know what a sexy. So I was like, this is crazy. 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.840 What did I doing with? Oh my god, were you? 0:19:52.960 --> 0:19:54.880 Did you watch that with your parents? Did you watch 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:57.000 you with your parts? I started it with my mom 0:19:57.040 --> 0:20:00.280 and I was like, Chad, this is this a damvil. No, 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.720 I can't, I can't. It's the laptop in my room. 0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:07.520 Show excuse me. Um. So then so then the mom 0:20:07.600 --> 0:20:11.359 there there, they start going there's no perfect family, and 0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:13.400 she's like, I'm worried that. He says, I'm worried someone 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:16.040 could break my heart and she was like, gotcha. So 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:18.520 that means you think that somebody could break your heart. 0:20:18.600 --> 0:20:20.560 So that means you are open to being vulnerable I 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:24.000 think that's really neat. Yes, you are ready, you are 0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:25.480 going to move on to your next chapter. And he 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:28.320 was like, I think you're right. Sexy mom who's bringing 0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:31.480 it and ready. She definitely was putting it out there 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:33.800 that mom was available and that mom could rock leather 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:37.680 leggings and still like hatt and leather leggings and still 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:41.960 like how she was built. It was there, you know 0:20:42.000 --> 0:20:45.959 what I mean? It was not there were no games 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:48.960 and not she was no. She said, sir, rand wrapped 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:52.400 me and all the BLUs you have. You're gonna count 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:57.840 all the change in my pocket. You go knees, okay 0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:02.280 me and keep me up, dude. If my mom, God 0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:05.359 blood God rest j J soul. If JJ had showed 0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:09.520 up in a shiny patent leather pants with like the 0:21:09.520 --> 0:21:12.520 oldsen booty that we all have, like it would and 0:21:12.680 --> 0:21:15.280 not in acute, it would have been like we all 0:21:15.320 --> 0:21:18.359 have very long torsos, super short legs. There'd be a 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:23.159 short legged bootylicious woman stuff just like bat mother leggings 0:21:23.359 --> 0:21:26.840 with all the blush. Batting her eyes at Matt James, 0:21:26.840 --> 0:21:32.119 which should have been amazing. She said, us, what are 0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:38.480 you talking about? Tell me that I got you Jan 0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:42.240 and I'm Lou. I played fat Jan in high school. 0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:49.160 I played fat Jam and that's what it was called. Anyway, 0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:52.280 here we go so um, so then we see the 0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:55.200 ladies are by the way. There was an ad now 0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.320 Lacy and Miles. I don't know if you watched Nick 0:21:59.400 --> 0:22:03.040 Fiel's full season, but there was. So they didn't add 0:22:03.040 --> 0:22:05.720 for orbit gum last night. They're like, in honor of 0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:08.960 the twenty five years of The Bachelor, we want to 0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:11.120 give a shout out to the most romantic date. They 0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:15.640 picked this singular date where Vanessa and Nick went. They 0:22:15.680 --> 0:22:18.840 did like zero gravity and then she threw up like 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.679 him like two seconds later. They picked that day to 0:22:22.760 --> 0:22:25.800 be the great gum orbit. Did she need gum because 0:22:25.800 --> 0:22:29.320 she's about to freaking throw up into a bag? Yeah? 0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:36.840 Get her kiss on orbit. And they should have just 0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:39.080 kept that in for orbit. I mean, that wouldn't a 0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:42.680