WEBVTT - Second Date update PODCAST: Reunited and it Feels So Weird

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jules second d up date. Sometimes in your life

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<v Speaker 1>you wish you could go back and right a wrong. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we all have that. Like for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>used to bully this kid named Bootros when I was

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<v Speaker 1>in elementary school. Sometimes I wish I could go back

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<v Speaker 1>in time and see him again and just give it

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<v Speaker 1>to him a little harder, you know, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>that I missed some opportunities, and if I knew then

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<v Speaker 1>what I know now, I could have really made a

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<v Speaker 1>lasting impression for him. Right. But sometimes you just don't

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<v Speaker 1>get a second chance. That's really too bad. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the case with James, though, who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today. He actually got a chance

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<v Speaker 1>to write a wrong with a girl who's now not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back for a date. Yeah, so it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he didn't write the wrong correctly. What's up, James?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? So your email said you got the chance

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with a girl who you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with before but like lost touch with for a while. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. It was pretty awesome. So how did that work? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we didd a couple of times, like a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it just didn't really work. I mean It's

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<v Speaker 1>probably because I wasn't looking for anything serious at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I had my eye on a couple of girls. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I love your band, chuckle like. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>was such a stud back then that I had so

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<v Speaker 1>many options. I was playing the field a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, years have gone by, I packed

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<v Speaker 1>on a few pounds, kind of losing some hair, not

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<v Speaker 1>as many options. So I wanted to see if I

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<v Speaker 1>can hit her up again. Well yeah, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys get it. You know, you reach your point into

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<v Speaker 1>life when you're you want that like emotional connection with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking about. Okay, Well, we were

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<v Speaker 1>saying it's because you've given up. But you know, what's

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<v Speaker 1>her name? Her name was Hannah. Hannah all right, And

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<v Speaker 1>how many years has it been since you've talked to

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<v Speaker 1>or seen Hannah. It's been about six years. Six years, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys hadn't talked at all in that six

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<v Speaker 1>year period. Uh nah, wow, okay, I've really thought about

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<v Speaker 1>her until I just bumped into her the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we were. I was in the grocery store,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, making the rounds, just coming down one of

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<v Speaker 1>the aisles, and I look up and there she is

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<v Speaker 1>at the other end of the aisle. Wow, like awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>You turned around real quick? Did she see you right away? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her first, but I was already like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of feet in the aisle, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to, like, you know, run and I'm like the

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<v Speaker 1>heavens open up and a light behind her, let doves

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<v Speaker 1>fly down around her, and the song dream Weaver came on.

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<v Speaker 1>No we now it was the freezer section. And that

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<v Speaker 1>was just really like this really like tense moment as

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<v Speaker 1>we like we were pushing our carts closer together, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, gay, what am I gonna say?

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<v Speaker 1>And panic? So I I said probably the lamest line

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<v Speaker 1>in the whole world. I said, oh, buying food? Huh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so what are you doing here at the grocery store

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<v Speaker 1>shopping for groceries? H you're hungry? Yeah? I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was not it was not good. That's good a buddy, though.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she recognize you immediately? Yeah? I got to talk

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, and uh, I thought she looked great.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was read the signals and everything, and I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to take a chance and ask her out again.

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<v Speaker 1>And they why not? Did you say, hey, hey, let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask you a question over the past few years.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your biggest regret me and would you like another shot? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was quite I probably should have said

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<v Speaker 1>that though, that would that would have been super smooth man.

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, hey, you know, maybe we could give

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<v Speaker 1>this another shot. Maybe we could you know, try it again. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it go? Well? I thought it would be

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<v Speaker 1>cute if we went back to like the same place

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<v Speaker 1>that we went on our very first date. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was the same coffee shop that we went to on

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<v Speaker 1>our first date six years before that. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that that's cute. I mean, you're talking about dates that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't work out six years ago, so why would you

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<v Speaker 1>want to rehash that. Well, you know, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was cute because you know, it shows like I remembered

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<v Speaker 1>right where we went. Okay, okay, and your first date

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<v Speaker 1>with her six years ago was not a horrible time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, no weird fun. Okay, I had fun. So

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<v Speaker 1>how was coffee shop for her state redone? How did

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<v Speaker 1>that go? I thought it went fine. It's a cute

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<v Speaker 1>little place. It's got like board games and stuff there.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did this thing where we were going to

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<v Speaker 1>play battleship, and like at one point she even like

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<v Speaker 1>put her hand on my leg and it got really flurry.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean I had a much better time

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<v Speaker 1>than the first time, and I thought she could tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that, like, Wow, you've changed a lot, You're so

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<v Speaker 1>much more fun to be around, because I remember six

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<v Speaker 1>years ago snooze fest with you, and now I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of enjoyed it. I mean, yeah, to be honest, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I did. But you know, I don't wait, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. You said it to her, You told her

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<v Speaker 1>basically what I didn't say that, But to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was having a much better time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, why are we even doing this? You know why? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that was a smart Oh no, why don't I

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<v Speaker 1>just tell her she's lost light or something? So why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think she's not calling you back then? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe going to the first coffee shop might not have

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<v Speaker 1>been the best idea. I mean, like, if I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>her to see me as a new guy, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>should have taken her someplace new, right totally, And how

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<v Speaker 1>did things end? Well? I mean I tried, I said

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<v Speaker 1>we should hang out again, and she said I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she took off. She was nice about it, wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like awkward or anything. But I've been texting her next

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days after that, and she just hasn't been responding,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what's going on. Okay, now you

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<v Speaker 1>said she looked better after six years? Do you look

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<v Speaker 1>better after six years? I look just as good. What

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about? All right? Okay, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>well play a song, come back caller, and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, okay, that's good, thank you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hanging five, rooking jubil in the morning. Second, Hey, James,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? I'm here? All right. Well, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to start off the second part of today's second Date

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<v Speaker 1>update by dedicating a song to you, James, Reunited and

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<v Speaker 1>it feels so good Reunited. Yeah, it's feeling really good,

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<v Speaker 1>so good in fact, that James not getting a call

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<v Speaker 1>back and now he's sitting home alone by himself. He

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<v Speaker 1>can't get a call back, and now he's bummed about it. James.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized the rhyme kind of fell apart at the

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<v Speaker 1>end there, but I think I was feeling it. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that song told a touching story of your romance.

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<v Speaker 1>Dedicate I didn't know he was going to serenade you,

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<v Speaker 1>either of James. But you're in the mood for this now, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so there. Well you better be if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in. James is on the phone to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. He wants to call a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah who we actually went on a date with like

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<v Speaker 1>six years ago, and then they ran into each other

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<v Speaker 1>recently at the grocery store and decided to give it

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<v Speaker 1>another shot. They went out to the same coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>that they went two years back, and he says they

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time, but she's not calling him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and she ended the date by just saying, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go. So he's wondering what happened. James, you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to call her? Yeah, let's do it. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to sing to her because it could happen? No, no, please,

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<v Speaker 1>just don't do that. Okay, all right, Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial her phone number right now, get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and see if we can figure out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. All right, Okay, thank you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Hannah? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>Did this? She? Hey, Hannah, how are you This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Who Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really listen to the radio. That line.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, we play all the hits all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of the things that we do. Another thing

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<v Speaker 1>we do is we try to reunite people. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>somebody recently emailed us about you and is wondering why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling them back? What really? Yeah? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is James. Oh m okay, so I think you might

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<v Speaker 1>know the James that I'm talking about. You two actually

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date or a few dates, like

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<v Speaker 1>six years ago, and then recently went out on another date. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we did, got it. So James listens to our show

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<v Speaker 1>and emailed us because he's wondering why you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back after your date. Oh he still hasn't figured

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Apparently not clueless is a good describ of James.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that? Look, I I do you think he's

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<v Speaker 1>really confused about everything? What do you mean he's confused

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<v Speaker 1>like what he wants in life? Or well maybe, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think like when we went on this date, he

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<v Speaker 1>was very confused about who I was. So, are you

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<v Speaker 1>not somebody that he used to date years ago? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we dated, but he but so, James had this

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<v Speaker 1>big surprise and he was gonna take me out to

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<v Speaker 1>where we went on our first date. Okay, yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us that, so I was really excited. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up at this coffee shop, the coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>where you had your first date six years ago. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he took me to a different coffee shop. Oh oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so he mistakenly took you to the wrong coffee shop. Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's enough reason not to call him back though,

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<v Speaker 1>because he doesn't remember six years ago the exact coffee

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<v Speaker 1>shop you went to. I can forgive him or getting

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<v Speaker 1>the place wrong, but he just continued to get worse. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you didn't you didn't call him out on it

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<v Speaker 1>right at the beginning. No, I didn't. I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't want to make him feel that bad. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it get worse? Well, he just kept bringing

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<v Speaker 1>up memories that we had from our first date, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just had I just didn't remember anything that he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying, and I just kept nodding my head. It's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty funny, do you think he remembered the first date

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't. No, I mean I have a really

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<v Speaker 1>good memory. And then the first I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, am I crazy? But then I just was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm right, he's confusing me with someone else. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>really liiving a first date that he went on with

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<v Speaker 1>another girl and putting new in her shoes. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to make it so romantic. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what he was saying. What was your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>memory that you guys didn't share. We were sharing all

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<v Speaker 1>of our passions and life together and how I liked hiking,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean I don't hiking. I think hiking. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's remembering everything from another date that he went on,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe multiple dates. I don't know, but he thinks

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<v Speaker 1>it's all you. Yes, I'm like allergic to nature. I

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<v Speaker 1>think i'd do what he was saying. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't believe you didn't take the opportunity to call

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<v Speaker 1>him out on it, just for the sole fact that

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<v Speaker 1>the embarrassment is kind of funny. No, I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to be so romantic. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>think his eyes were welling up and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't just break his heart there. Well, he obviously

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<v Speaker 1>had a really good time with somebody at that coffee

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<v Speaker 1>shop at some point in his life. Yeah, you should

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<v Speaker 1>find that someone, Canna. I bet you he'd be surprised

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<v Speaker 1>to know that he got it wrong, because he told

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<v Speaker 1>us that he was sure that he went to this

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop with you and you guys played games and

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. Well, yeah, sure, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>think he thought he was doing a romantic thing, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was just it was far from it. Speaking of romance.

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<v Speaker 1>He is on the other line and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you right now. Yeah, James, are you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Oh god, Hey, what's up, James? A little

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<v Speaker 1>barrass buddy, Uh yeah, a little. Um. I'm confused. We

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<v Speaker 1>were at that same coffee shop, I remember distinctly. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>we were not at that coffee shop. We were at

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<v Speaker 1>another coffee shop. That's my first state coffee shop. I

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<v Speaker 1>take all my first dates for that coffee shop. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Well, obviously I was an exception. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I thought you were special. Maybe I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>should treat you better or something like that. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh night, try James. Yeah, the one we went to

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have board games, but I distinctly remember playing battleship

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<v Speaker 1>with you on our first date. Remember, No, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>played Battleship with all the rest of the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I remember because, like you said, you

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<v Speaker 1>just finished training for that marathon marathon. I'll never run

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<v Speaker 1>a marathon in my life, I don't know. And that

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<v Speaker 1>was something I really liked about you, that you were

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<v Speaker 1>so active about Torsie. It wasn't me. No, okay, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. So like, well, which one were you? Then? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Which one were you? Wh How am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>know which one I am? I'm Hannah? Well what day

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<v Speaker 1>did we go out? Was it like a Tuesday or

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<v Speaker 1>a Wednesday? Do you only have two days where you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with people? James and you take him to

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<v Speaker 1>the same coffee shop except for the one time you

0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.440
<v Speaker 1>took Hannah somewhere else. I don't know what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I was this is this is blowing my

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<v Speaker 1>mind a little bit. James. You obviously remember that we

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<v Speaker 1>went out, but you don't remember me. So that just

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feel weird. It's awkward. Well it's not easy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, it was six years ago. It's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to remember. I mean, you don't probably remember anything

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<v Speaker 1>about me. I remember that you like running and your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite director is Quentin Tarantino. Okay, maybe you do remember

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff about me. I look, I'm sure i'd remember

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<v Speaker 1>it about you. You just gotta refresh my memory about

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<v Speaker 1>which one memory? Hannah? Which one? Are you? Oh? My god, Hannah.

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<v Speaker 1>In James's defense, right like during during the date, he

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<v Speaker 1>said that you touched his leg and that you seem

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<v Speaker 1>to be enjoying yourself touched his leg. No, I never

0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:22.200
<v Speaker 1>touched his leg. Your leg? Team you did? I remember you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you did. No, I would not have touched your leg.

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<v Speaker 1>I are you sure that wasn't getting it confused with

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<v Speaker 1>another date that's happened. Yeah, maybe there was a different

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<v Speaker 1>date where somebody touched your leg. James, James, are you

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<v Speaker 1>just firming we look bad? Right now? You're just going

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<v Speaker 1>to know everything I bring up and remember, because I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that was you. That was definitely you know. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling the truth. I'm not putting anybody out there. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe this is happening right now. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry if I can't remember something that happened six

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, but you know I had a good date

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<v Speaker 1>with you this time. Well, in that case, Hannah, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with James again on another date?

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<v Speaker 1>See if he can remember your last date fully by

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<v Speaker 1>the time you actually got We will pay for a

0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.720
<v Speaker 1>second date if you'll go out with James again. I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't. It was just it was awkward for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you were just like reminiscing about these things

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<v Speaker 1>that happen with someone else on another date, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just I can't come back from that all, Hannah. But

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<v Speaker 1>just please, I mean I really, I really did have

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time with you. I think, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if this other woman made an impression on you, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that you should just try to find her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, find the girl that likes hiking and battleship

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<v Speaker 1>and go and seek and find her. I mean, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's the one for you. I'm not I could be

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<v Speaker 1>like six different people. Well, James, it sounds like you've

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<v Speaker 1>got some work to do then, yeah, well, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so. I am sorry that I forgot who

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<v Speaker 1>you were, Hannah, but you seem like a very special person.

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<v Speaker 1>It is it's almost sweet. Well, Hannah, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your time. I appreciate you telling us about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're welcome. And James, I'm sorry you did

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<v Speaker 1>not get a second date a sor right. At least

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<v Speaker 1>you'll remember this one for sure. The text in at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight five nine two says that guy could not

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<v Speaker 1>get him out of the get himself out of the hole,

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<v Speaker 1>that he died and just kept digging that hole deeper

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<v Speaker 1>if he missed today's second date updates. Guy named James

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call Hannah. They actually went out for coffee

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<v Speaker 1>after six years. Yeah, they had a date six years

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<v Speaker 1>prior to the one that he's calling about. He took

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<v Speaker 1>out to coffee, took it to a coffee shop that

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<v Speaker 1>they went to on their first date. Only problem, they

0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't go to that coffee shop on their first date.

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<v Speaker 1>And every single memory that he had from their first

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<v Speaker 1>date was wrong and it must have been memories from

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<v Speaker 1>another girl. It'd be fine if it was like one

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<v Speaker 1>time he brought it up. Yeah, but over and over, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>kept harping on it, like remember when we played battleship together? No,

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<v Speaker 1>No we didn't. And I like how he was arguing

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<v Speaker 1>with her. No, that was you. I swear with you

0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:07.879
<v Speaker 1>she's like, seriously, it was not me. In the end,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she didn't want to go out with him again,

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<v Speaker 1>but gave him permission to go find the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he really wants to go out with again, whoever it

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<v Speaker 1>was six years ago. Then he went to that coffee

0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:19.280
<v Speaker 1>shop and played battleship with Yeah, he's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>remember who that was. No, No, not at all. Remember.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to do a second eight update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back.