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Speaker 1: you know, we all have that. Like for me, I

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Speaker 1: used to bully this kid named Bootros when I was

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Speaker 1: lasting impression for him. Right. But sometimes you just don't

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Speaker 1: get a second chance. That's really too bad. It's not

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Speaker 1: the case with James, though, who's on the phone for

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Speaker 1: a second date update today. He actually got a chance

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Speaker 1: to write a wrong with a girl who's now not

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Speaker 1: like he didn't write the wrong correctly. What's up, James?

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Speaker 1: What's up? So your email said you got the chance

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Speaker 1: we didd a couple of times, like a few years ago.

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Speaker 1: I mean it just didn't really work. I mean It's

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Speaker 1: my god, I love your band, chuckle like. Because I

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Speaker 1: But you know what, years have gone by, I packed

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. Okay, Well, we were

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Speaker 1: her name? Her name was Hannah. Hannah all right, And

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Speaker 1: how many years has it been since you've talked to

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Speaker 1: or seen Hannah. It's been about six years. Six years, okay,

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Speaker 1: Did she recognize you immediately? Yeah? I got to talk

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Speaker 1: And they why not? Did you say, hey, hey, let

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Speaker 1: how did it go? Well? I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: hanging five, rooking jubil in the morning. Second, Hey, James,

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Speaker 1: update by dedicating a song to you, James, Reunited and

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Speaker 1: it feels so good Reunited. Yeah, it's feeling really good,

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Speaker 1: Dedicate I didn't know he was going to serenade you,

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Speaker 1: second date update. He wants to call a girl named

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Speaker 1: just don't do that. Okay, all right, Okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Did this? She? Hey, Hannah, how are you This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Who Jewil

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't really listen to the radio. That line.

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Speaker 1: him back after your date. Oh he still hasn't figured

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Speaker 1: mean we dated, but he but so, James had this

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Speaker 1: So that's enough reason not to call him back though,

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Speaker 1: how did it get worse? Well, he just kept bringing

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Speaker 1: Oh night, try James. Yeah, the one we went to

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Speaker 1: which one memory? Hannah? Which one? Are you? Oh? My god, Hannah.

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