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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,

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Speaker 1: Kim is on the phone today for to catch a

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Speaker 1: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of four years

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Speaker 1: named Jack might be messing around. So let's see if

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Speaker 1: we can help her out. Kim, Hi, what's up? What

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Speaker 1: do you think is going on?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My husband?

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Speaker 2: We've been married for four years, we've been together for seven.

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Speaker 2: We met right out of high school, and I mean

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Speaker 2: I've trusted him with my whole heart. He's really been

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Speaker 2: lot of boyfriends or serious relationships up until him, so

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Speaker 2: like he's got my whole heart. I've trusted him completely.

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Speaker 2: We've had a really great relationship, like we do our

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Speaker 2: own things with friends, like on the same night. We're

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Speaker 2: you know, not super cleany or anything like. It's just

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Speaker 2: been a really cool relationship. He's hot, he's smart. I

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Speaker 2: love him. I'll always think he's hot, like I just

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Speaker 2: you know, so I really hope he's not. But recently,

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Speaker 2: on the nights when we go out with our friends,

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Speaker 2: he's been coming home later and later, and so that's

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Speaker 2: been sending off like major red flags for me because

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Speaker 2: normally we like, up until this past month, he would

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Speaker 2: And now he's coming down like at one am, two

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Speaker 2: and he'll offer up like, well you can call him,

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Speaker 2: It's like, I know his friends are going to have

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Speaker 2: And I'm just like giving a you know, I'm not

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Speaker 2: really nagging him, but he's like a little defensive right

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Speaker 2: ladies coming in. So that's the first red flag. So

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Speaker 2: the second kind of major ones is that. So we

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Speaker 2: have a group of friends, a bunch of girls that

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Speaker 2: we all hang out together. Most of us have known

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Speaker 2: each other since high school. There's a few that are

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Speaker 2: started hanging around more. This girl, Jazzmine. I have noticed, like,

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Speaker 2: first of all, she complimented Jack a lot, like she

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Speaker 2: thinks he's great, so I know she kind of has

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Speaker 2: that she, you know, feels bad because she has a

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Speaker 2: crush on him or whatever. Well, I've noticed, like on

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Speaker 2: the nights when I am going out with my friends

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Speaker 2: and he's going out with his friends, that Jasmine isn't there,

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Speaker 2: she's not doing girls night with us on the nights

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Speaker 2: that he's doing guys nights with his friends. So that

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Speaker 2: paranoid do you think? I don't know, I feel I

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Speaker 2: might be being paranoid, but I know she's seeing somebody

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Speaker 2: and stuff like that that she's excited about and kind

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Speaker 2: them around or like integrate and like a normal kind

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Speaker 3: Sure, So when you're going out for your girls' nights

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Speaker 3: and you notice that Jasmine's not there, do you say

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Speaker 3: anything to everybody else, like, oh, where's Jasmine? To kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And And that that's where I found out that

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Speaker 2: she was dating with somebody. And then one of my

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Speaker 2: friends who knows who knows her family and knows her

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Speaker 2: because I did confide that I was feeling a little

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Speaker 2: I don't know, my senses are going off, and they

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Speaker 2: but they did confirm that she can be shady, like

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Speaker 2: she's not above that.

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Speaker 1: Well, you told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 1: rewards card members at. So we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we'll play a song come back and get

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Speaker 1: your to Catch a Cheater next. Right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of to Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: Kim is on the phone and Kim thinks that her

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Speaker 1: husband of four years might be cheating. So in a second,

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Speaker 1: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at, and

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Speaker 1: We'll see if he sends those to Kim or to

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Speaker 1: somebody else. But before we do that, Kim, why don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, my husband of four years has been coming

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Speaker 2: at the same time I come home when we go

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Speaker 2: out with our friends separately, There's a new girl in

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Speaker 1: Okay, you ready for us to call him? Yes, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from I

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Speaker 1: was looking for a rewards card member named Jack speaking

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Speaker 1: Hi Jack. Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations, you're

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Speaker 1: this month's lucky winner. Why do not know what?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: The flowers? Maybe you haven't heard every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one rewards card member at random. We gets free

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Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our forward department. You've won thirty six

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Speaker 1: long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,

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Speaker 1: and a card to be sent to whoever you want. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: if you know you want to send them to, I

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Speaker 1: can take the information over the phone in just a

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I have someone in mind.

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Speaker 1: We'll start with the first and last name of the

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Speaker 2: Uh, Jasmine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, got that, Jasmine. And would you like to put

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Speaker 1: anything on a card to Jasmine? You can say what

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Speaker 1: happened last night?

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Speaker 2: Question mark, I love you?

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Speaker 1: Exclamation point? Got it?

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Speaker 2: It's okay, Well, so what happened last night? You want

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Speaker 2: to know what happened last night? You want to know

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Speaker 2: what hasn't been broke down? And finally to me, everything everything.

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Speaker 1: Jack, that's your wife on the phone. This is actually

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Speaker 1: the Doubal Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 3: My name is Jubal Hi, I am Nina Hi, I'm Victoria,

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Speaker 3: And we do a segment called to Catch a Teeter

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Speaker 3: and I'll just yeah.

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Speaker 2: So what is going a hot one?

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Speaker 1: What is going on here?

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Speaker 2: Hey? What's going on? What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 2: You're busted, dude, you are busted, and you guys I

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Speaker 2: am sorry. I lied to you about knowing. I didn't

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Speaker 2: know that she did. She just came clean to me.

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Speaker 2: She told me everything Jack, everything I needed to find

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Speaker 2: out from him, No doubt.

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Speaker 1: That's fair, and you all.

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Speaker 2: Help me do that. I appreciate it. She told me everything,

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Speaker 2: like every time that you have lied to me, every

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Speaker 2: time you came late. She Oh, Jmine, your flower girl?

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Speaker 2: Who do you think I think she is? You know

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Speaker 2: who I'm talking about that, Jasmine says?

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Speaker 1: Do you believe everything that Jasmine says?

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Speaker 2: I believe that you're a p and that you're a

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Speaker 2: liar and a cheater. I believe her? Does that because

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Speaker 1: You believe that what?

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Speaker 2: Jasmine says?

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Speaker 1: Crazy Jasmine, I do?

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Speaker 2: I do? You want to know why? Because she came

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Speaker 2: and she told me what was going on. She broke

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Speaker 2: you love her and that you're gonna leave me for

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Speaker 2: her is also a lie because you are a liar

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Speaker 2: and a cheat and a piece. So yeah, I do

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Speaker 3: You did also just send her flowers with and I

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Speaker 3: love you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not skip that you said it.

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Speaker 2: You just that I love you on there like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, we troble you only jokingly say love you,

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Speaker 2: love you, my god? Due to the friend group, do

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Speaker 2: you hardly know her?

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Speaker 1: Or actually I love them too? I almost send them

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Speaker 1: the flowers them too.

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Speaker 2: Well, then.

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Speaker 1: I might be according to your logic, I might be.

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Speaker 1: What about Jasmine's logic, the one who came to your

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Speaker 2: Did Mike and Ashley come and say that everything too

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Speaker 2: as well? Well? As a matter of fact, Ashley is here,

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Speaker 2: as are all of my friends, and we've done packed

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Speaker 2: send it to your mom's house. WHOA, why don't you

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Speaker 2: just move forward and get out of my life? Because

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Speaker 2: I am done. You're unnoticed here?

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Speaker 1: Yes, he hung up, He's gone cam. Oh sorry, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Pretty devastating. Yeah, uh, it's just like who does that?

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Speaker 2: Like just I'm just so surprised at how he Yeah,

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Speaker 2: the lying about it, like not taking any not feeling bad.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't even feel bad. You can tell he doesn't

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Well, I'm glad you're able to move on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's definitely going to be some healing involved,

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Speaker 2: but at least I'm not being played. I'll never be

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Speaker 2: played like this again. I gave him way too much trust.

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Speaker 1: Well, you'll find someone to give the right trust too.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you have a good support system too, Thankfully.

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Speaker 2: I do. I do have good friends except for Jasmine.

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Speaker 2: Desmin and I are going to ever be but I do.

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Speaker 2: I do respect that she told me, and I'm glad

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Speaker 2: that she realizes what she is getting involved with and

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Speaker 2: who she was getting involved with. But yeah, I don't

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Speaker 2: think we'll be really close friends ever. My friend group

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Speaker 1: Well that's good, and good luck with everything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, And again I'm sorry for kind of

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Speaker 2: studying it up weird for you guys as well.

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Speaker 1: You did what you had to do. I'm just glad you.

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Speaker 1: I'm just glad you got your answer. And because he

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Speaker 1: obviously would have continued to lie, made conversations a lot easier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he needed to be called out for sure. Good luck.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you? All the jewble shows to catch

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Speaker 2: a cheater,