WEBVTT - “I WAS LOST AT SEA”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, we're going good. How are you good?

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<v Speaker 2>Enjoined my night off?

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<v Speaker 1>So, Matt, what's going on? How can I get you today?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Oh nothing, I just wanted to call and share

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<v Speaker 2>a story. I'm not a little fishing trip I had

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<v Speaker 2>eight years ago hit us, So yeah, I'm sorry. It

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<v Speaker 2>was ten years ago. I went out fishing with my

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<v Speaker 2>boss and his boss from work and we ended up

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<v Speaker 2>sinking the boat and got lost at sea for twenty

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<v Speaker 2>one hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, you were lost at sea for twenty one hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, coast guard searching for us and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you all piss and shit into the water out

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<v Speaker 1>of fear and swim in each other's piss and shit?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's kind of the funny thing is the way

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<v Speaker 2>the boat sank. Eventually we were able to climb on

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<v Speaker 2>top of it and it floated for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>And so the way we were postured was my boss

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<v Speaker 2>was up top, I was in the middle, and then

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<v Speaker 2>his boss was below me and actually pissed on him.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's that.

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<v Speaker 1>Was your guys' formation on the boat, similar to how

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<v Speaker 1>you were ranked in the company.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, he was uh so the guy on

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<v Speaker 2>the top was the middleman and the guy below me

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<v Speaker 2>was actually the senior.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, so the senior on the bottom and the middle

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<v Speaker 1>man on the top.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, actually, after it was all said and done,

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<v Speaker 2>we found out why he was and he was actually

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<v Speaker 2>a good leader for taking that position. Basically, the way

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<v Speaker 2>he was situated down at the bottom was he was

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<v Speaker 2>holding onto a rope and basically doing like a curl

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<v Speaker 2>up for you know, twenty plus hours, and he ended

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<v Speaker 2>up getting the what's it called that rapdo myalysis, that

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<v Speaker 2>thing that like ultra runners and super athletes get where

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<v Speaker 2>when they're doing extreme exercise, their muscles actually produce a

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<v Speaker 2>poison that starts like breaking down everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're telling me that this guy was doing an

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<v Speaker 1>uh got a disease, trying to save your life and

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<v Speaker 1>you pissed on.

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<v Speaker 2>Him, Well, got a disease, just trying to be comfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I pissed on him.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, look, Matt, I don't know you too well,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's just a dick move.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey it was, but he he gave me the go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I gave him a warning and said it was almost

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<v Speaker 2>like that dumb and dumb move man. I said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I got a piss and he's like, just let it go, brother,

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<v Speaker 2>let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, man, that guy is so fucking he did he

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<v Speaker 1>get a medal for that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, he didn't get a medal, but we still

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<v Speaker 2>love him.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you have to pay? Where there's ocean everywhere?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you have to piss on him? That's like

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<v Speaker 1>the like of all the infinite places you could have pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have avoided him.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we were surrounded by sharks, so no one wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to get in the water.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, as you could pee in the water, so there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, at that point, our muscles were too weak to

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<v Speaker 2>stand up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, okay, So you were surrounded by sharks

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<v Speaker 1>this whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah. So the whole thing was we had gone

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<v Speaker 2>out fishing and it was our first time like landing

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<v Speaker 2>some big fish. We we ended up hooking up with

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<v Speaker 2>like two really big tunas and we fought them for

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<v Speaker 2>probably about like forty five minutes to an hour. We've

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<v Speaker 2>lost one once we got it to the side of

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<v Speaker 2>the boat. But the one we did land and get

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<v Speaker 2>on the boat was about six feet and we think

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<v Speaker 2>it was six We know it was six feet, but

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<v Speaker 2>we imagine it's like two hundred something pounds. So anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>once you catch the fish, once you catch the tuna,

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<v Speaker 2>is you got to bleed them out and do everything

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and then you store them in a giant

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<v Speaker 2>bag full of ice so that way it stays fresh

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<v Speaker 2>till you get to the shore. Well, the problem is

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<v Speaker 2>is that ice is tied to the boat, so you

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<v Speaker 2>don't ever lose it, or I'm sorry, the bag is

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<v Speaker 2>tied to the boat, so you don't ever lose it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you've got a bag with a bleeding tuna inside

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<v Speaker 2>of it, So when the boat flipped over, we've basically

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<v Speaker 2>just got a big piece of chum attached to the

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<v Speaker 2>boat hanging in the water. So they're attracting some shirts.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, did you think you were going to die at

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<v Speaker 1>any point during this.

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<v Speaker 2>When the sun rise? When the sun rose on the

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<v Speaker 2>next day, I thought there might be a chance, because

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<v Speaker 2>like at that point, we were probably at like sixteen

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<v Speaker 2>or eighteen hours in. So you started getting those you

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<v Speaker 2>start getting those thoughts, but they're not very helpful, so

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<v Speaker 2>you try to push him out.

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<v Speaker 1>Did any of you guys freak out?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, Luckily, the guys I had with me were

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<v Speaker 2>really good dudes, and it was kind of funny because

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<v Speaker 2>that day on the boat we were talking about it

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<v Speaker 2>happened there was a an NFL star who had actually

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<v Speaker 2>died from He had gone out on a fishing charter.

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<v Speaker 2>The boat capsized and he tried to swim to shore

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<v Speaker 2>and he ended up drowning. And for some reason that

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<v Speaker 2>day when we went out fishing, my boss brought it up.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a big football fan. He brought it up

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<v Speaker 2>and he was talking about it, and he's like, if

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<v Speaker 2>anything ever happens, do not leave the boat. Stay as

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<v Speaker 2>close to the boat as you can. And so that's

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<v Speaker 2>what we did. And yeah, everyone stayed pretty calm. We

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of joked around, try to keep it while

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<v Speaker 2>we were out there.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he sunk the boat on purpose because

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<v Speaker 1>he likes getting pissed on.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, he didn't. He didn't because he didn't even

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<v Speaker 2>have an insurance on it and it was a brand

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<v Speaker 2>new boat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so I guess that one is wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>M man, you guys are very manly dudes. So fucking

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<v Speaker 1>killing fish and uh doing that exercise thing and not

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<v Speaker 1>freaking out. I mean, I couldn't say the same about

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<v Speaker 1>myself in that situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I freaked out at one point. The other two

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<v Speaker 2>dudes were manly. There was a point after the boat

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<v Speaker 2>had first capsized where the basically the engines were just

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<v Speaker 2>like leaking gasoline into the water and we were holding

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<v Speaker 2>onto the side of the boat, but the fumes were

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<v Speaker 2>getting to us, so we tied off a rope and

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<v Speaker 2>just decided to like float away from the boat and

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<v Speaker 2>hold onto the ropes. That way we can get away

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<v Speaker 2>from the fumes. Well during that time. During that time,

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<v Speaker 2>my boss noticed that there was sharks in the water,

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<v Speaker 2>and one had actually come up and tapped his nose

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<v Speaker 2>on his leg, and my boss kicked him in the

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<v Speaker 2>head and he's like hey. He's like, hey, a fucking

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<v Speaker 2>shark just tried to come at me. And I remember

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<v Speaker 2>telling him. I was like, hey, man, I can't do sharks.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to get the fuck out of the water.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I swan back to the boat as quick

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<v Speaker 2>as I could.

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<v Speaker 1>Fucking guy takes the worst position on the formation, gets

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<v Speaker 1>a disease, exerting his body to keep you guys safe,

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<v Speaker 1>lets you piss on his head, takes you out on

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<v Speaker 1>his boat, and kicks a shark in the face.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was the manly guy. So we

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<v Speaker 2>followed suit on.

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<v Speaker 1>That what's he doing now?

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<v Speaker 2>He's retired now still fishing. We're supposed to be doing

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<v Speaker 2>a trip. I think this year will be the senior anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, the motherfucker is still fishing. No, and nothing's

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<v Speaker 1>going to keep that guy from doing what he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to do. That's cool, man, Oh yeah, that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you learn from the experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Surround yourself with good people?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Do do not hang out with people who are going

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<v Speaker 2>to freak out and cause you more problems? Well, I

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<v Speaker 2>had older, wiser guys with me.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it like getting getting rescued?

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<v Speaker 2>I was it was pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very relieving, of course, but uh yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of crazy. The coast guard, we saw them

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<v Speaker 2>circling around us. Well, we finally were able to get

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<v Speaker 2>their attention. I had a little mirror and I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 2>that's what got them, but we don't know. But they

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<v Speaker 2>eventually saw us and uh yeah, fricking badass swimmer dude

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<v Speaker 2>jumps out start swimming over towards us. But we noticed,

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<v Speaker 2>like every couple of feet he's swimming, he's like looking

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<v Speaker 2>underwater and We talked to him later and yeah, they said,

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<v Speaker 2>from up above, we were just completely surrounded by sharks.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was checking his whole way coming in and

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<v Speaker 2>then yeah, just he called us off one by one,

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<v Speaker 2>rescue swam us to their little basket, pulled us up,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they gave us oranges and snickers once we

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<v Speaker 2>got in the helicopter.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm why did they get out? Look, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to run the fucking coastguard, but why did they

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<v Speaker 1>not just bring the boats. Why did he like jump

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<v Speaker 1>off the poets and start swimming in the water.

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<v Speaker 2>Because at this point they had already been searching for

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<v Speaker 2>us for a while, and the helicopter was actually coming

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<v Speaker 2>back in to refuel. He was the only one. He

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<v Speaker 2>was the closest one available. I don't know if they

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<v Speaker 2>actually send boats out for it that night, but he

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<v Speaker 2>was the closest one available. So of course they stopped

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<v Speaker 2>and got us as quick as they could. But the

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<v Speaker 2>night before we could see them searching for us, but

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<v Speaker 2>they were searching for us in the wrong spots. They

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<v Speaker 2>had like U C one thirties and helicopters trying to

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<v Speaker 2>big old lights trying to find us. But they were

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<v Speaker 2>looking where we weren't we where we weren't at mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, this is Did this give you any perspective on

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<v Speaker 1>life at all? Or the fuck it?

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<v Speaker 2>It may have given me. It may have given me

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<v Speaker 2>a complex actually kind of because I don't know. Mother

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<v Speaker 2>has tried to take us down and we said no.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that you know what, you know what, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what you bring you bring up a good point,

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<v Speaker 1>because you could, you bring up a very good point,

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<v Speaker 1>because you could come away from a near death experience

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<v Speaker 1>one of two ways. Okay, you could have come back thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, life is so fragile. I could have

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<v Speaker 1>almost died. I'm going to be more careful. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be so grateful for every moment I have to breathe

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<v Speaker 1>on this earth. I can't believe it, or the total opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>Mother Nature tried to take me, and Mother Nature turns

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<v Speaker 1>out is a weak bitch. Can't do shit. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go out and fight another shark and jump off of

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<v Speaker 1>buildings and go crazy because I can't die.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, a little bit like that. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I packed a little more safely. I make sure

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<v Speaker 2>I always have my safety gear on me when I

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<v Speaker 2>go out fishing. But but yeah, yeah, she can't do nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good on you. I hope you. I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>continue to not die.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll keep trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else want to say to the people

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<v Speaker 1>of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 2>No, just yeah, Always surround yourself with good people, don't

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<v Speaker 2>don't always surround me.

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<v Speaker 1>Always surround yourself with good people. Never surround yourself with sharks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we got that.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care. Thanks. Hello.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hi, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your name?

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<v Speaker 5>Emma?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Emma? How are you?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm doing all right?

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<v Speaker 4>How about you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing good. Is there anything that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about today?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yes, but we don't have to talk about it

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<v Speaker 5>if you don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, we don't actually have to do any of

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<v Speaker 1>what we're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, valid?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 5>I have a list of about thirty two people that

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<v Speaker 5>I have slept with, and they each kind of have

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<v Speaker 5>a weird story attached to them. I did a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of like Tinder hookups, and I just kept a list

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<v Speaker 5>for my records. Uh, And I don't know. If you

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<v Speaker 5>want to give me a random number, I can tell

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<v Speaker 5>you a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it says here, it says here. You want me

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<v Speaker 1>to pick a number between one and thirty and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you'll give.

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<v Speaker 5>The story, yeah, if you want, obviously, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's what I'm thinking. I'm thinking, let's let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>do let's start, Let's do one of these stories and

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<v Speaker 1>then see how we feel. Nineteen, I see nineteen?

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<v Speaker 4>Fuck what?

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<v Speaker 1>All right now? Because now you got to tell us nineteen.

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<v Speaker 5>So nineteen is Sam's.

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<v Speaker 1>Boyfriend, Sam's boyfriend? All right, I want let's hear the

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<v Speaker 1>story of Sam's boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>So I had a threesome with Sam and her boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>I was not expecting that. Whenever I went over to

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<v Speaker 5>Sam's place, I thought it was just going to be

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<v Speaker 5>Sam and it was going to be my first experience

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<v Speaker 5>with a girl, like it was going to be a

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<v Speaker 5>cool time. And then a dude is in the driver's

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<v Speaker 5>seat whenever he comes to pick me up from a dorm.

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<v Speaker 5>So it was very uncomfortable. The girl was absolutely amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>Sam was amazing. Also, I'm reading chat.

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<v Speaker 4>I know I shouldn't be, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Sam, can you not read chat? Emma?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. So there was a guy in the driver's seat.

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<v Speaker 6>And he was just really creepy, like he kept on

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<v Speaker 6>trying to I think he was trying to hit on

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<v Speaker 6>me more than the girlfriend was.

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<v Speaker 5>And I just I wasn't vibing with him. He was

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<v Speaker 5>missing some of his front teeth. He was on the

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<v Speaker 5>hockey team, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's why he was missed.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you you thought that you were just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be having sex with Sam, and then her boyfriend was

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<v Speaker 1>How did he How did he get involved?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>I guess he was always involved.

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<v Speaker 5>I just wasn't aware of it.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? That does not make any sense

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<v Speaker 1>at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, whenever I was talking to Sam, she never mentioned

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<v Speaker 5>a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, all right. So you were talking with Sam

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<v Speaker 1>about like, oh hey, we're gonna meet, we're gonna hook up,

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff, and she was under the impression that

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<v Speaker 1>you were under the impression that her boyfriend would also

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<v Speaker 1>be involved. Yes, that you would be that you would

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<v Speaker 1>be their unicorn, as they.

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<v Speaker 5>Say, Yes, okay exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, look when you showed up and the

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend was there, were you like I'm not into this

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<v Speaker 1>or were you just like, ah, fuck it, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I was kind of like fuck it, let's

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<v Speaker 3>do it, okay, And how did the experience prove like

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<v Speaker 3>as you look back on it now, do you look

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<v Speaker 3>back on it fondly or no?

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<v Speaker 5>So none of us had a threesome before, and it

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<v Speaker 5>was just awkward, so like none of us really knew

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<v Speaker 5>what to do. So it was a lot of me

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<v Speaker 5>and Sam having a moment and homeboy in the corner,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, honestly being homeboy, you know what, being homeboy in

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<v Speaker 1>the corner while your girlfriend another girl having a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a bad corner to be in. Not a bad gig,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just couldn't tell us like he was actually

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<v Speaker 5>enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he was. I'm sure he was. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's uh all right, let me look at the chat.

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<v Speaker 1>Well but don't look. Don't don't look at chat. But

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<v Speaker 1>let's do one more.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm not walking at chat.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll take off my glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, I wouldn't feel bad for that guy. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's I think he's gonna be okay. Twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, oh god, this is another story. Okay, I probably

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<v Speaker 5>shouldn't say his real name. Let's call him Dan.

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<v Speaker 4>Dan.

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<v Speaker 5>I I had a fabulous of Valentine's Day weekend my

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<v Speaker 5>freshman year college, I hooked up with three guys. That's

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<v Speaker 5>like Valentine's Night, separate guy, three guys that night. Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>that was something I've never done before. It's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>What so wait, so is this fuck? What number do

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<v Speaker 1>we pick? I forgot twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>Three, twenty four, twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, twenty three Dan? Okay, so tell me, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me about me about tell me first one, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>tell us, yes, do you tell us about the nights?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So Dan was the first one I hooked up with.

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<v Speaker 5>He was a president of a frats. Sorry not already.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't remember which one. I'll be honest, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>really care about frats, but I had the ego boost

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<v Speaker 5>of oh, I'm sleeping with a frat president.

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<v Speaker 7>And he was really cool.

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<v Speaker 5>We played video games afterwards after sex. He was a

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<v Speaker 5>little disappointed because I accidentally scratched his shoulder during sex,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was a little bit butt hurt about it.

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<v Speaker 5>But it happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very like the legit. Here's the thing is having

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<v Speaker 1>sex with three guys in one night. I'm just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of curious about, like the logistics of it, like, so

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<v Speaker 1>he was number one and then how do you like

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<v Speaker 1>do you? How did you then go from Brad to

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<v Speaker 1>the next guy?

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<v Speaker 5>So then I went to back. After we had sex,

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<v Speaker 5>we played video games for a little bit. I laughed

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<v Speaker 5>because I didn't want to spend the night with him.

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<v Speaker 5>I walked back to my dorm. I got in my dorm,

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<v Speaker 5>I was scrolling through like Bumble or Tinder or whatever,

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<v Speaker 5>and then another guy messaged me and was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>do you want to hang out tonight? And I'm like okay,

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<v Speaker 5>And I think the next one that night ended up

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<v Speaker 5>being a theater guy. I was a theater major in college,

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<v Speaker 5>so I knew of him and I'm like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>this is going to be easy.

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<v Speaker 3>So he ended up being amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Which one of the three guys? What did that? Did it?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>As the evening progressed, did it get better or worse?

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<v Speaker 5>It started off mid then it was really good and

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<v Speaker 5>then it was like mah, like the dam yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me about like I mean nowadays, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you still as as adventurous or are you have you

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<v Speaker 1>calmed down?

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<v Speaker 5>What's I've been dating my partner for the past three years.

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<v Speaker 5>It's going to be three years on Valentine's Day, So

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<v Speaker 5>it's just been kind of me and him for a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day has some special meaning to you. Yeah, oh said,

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be three years what tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Nice? Nicey? Have you so have you and him ever

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<v Speaker 1>like played this game together with this with this list?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, he's also his.

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<v Speaker 4>What which benefits?

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<v Speaker 5>Before we started reading?

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<v Speaker 1>Which story is his favorite?

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<v Speaker 5>There was another theater guy that I hooked up with,

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<v Speaker 5>that Pete in the Closet. I think that's probably his

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<v Speaker 5>favorite story.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did he in the closet?

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<v Speaker 5>That was his first ever college party that we met at,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think he had won too many drinks and

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<v Speaker 5>he just woke up in the middle of the night

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't realize what was going on.

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<v Speaker 3>So we started.

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<v Speaker 5>I like kind of sat up in the bed, and

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<v Speaker 5>I realized that he was facing his closet, just standing there,

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<v Speaker 5>and I heard kind of like sound and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh fuck. So I like felt try to pretend to

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<v Speaker 5>uh like fall back asleep, and then he stumbled and fell,

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<v Speaker 5>like he tripped on his dresser and he fell, and I.

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<v Speaker 7>Thought he died.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was trying to shake him the lake, but

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<v Speaker 5>he wouldn't yeah, because he wasn't like responding, but he

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<v Speaker 5>was just like really drunk, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh my god, fuck, I can't say me. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>this person like wake up. Uh. And then he was

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<v Speaker 5>like oh and then I just threw a blanket over

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<v Speaker 5>him and.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I then left.

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<v Speaker 1>Well ship, Emma, uh, this is this is this was

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<v Speaker 1>quite a game. It sounds like you had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. Glad to hear that your your your h

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<v Speaker 1>you know, with with somebody that you're excited to bounce.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, great, Well you'll have.

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<v Speaker 1>To call back in and then we can talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the list.

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<v Speaker 5>Also to the person who said my lap was annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I told you not to read the chat. Emma, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>your band, I know, I know. Okay, Biamma, is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything else you want to say to the wait? Is

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<v Speaker 1>the anything else you gonna say to the people of the

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<v Speaker 1>computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 5>Always wear a condom or wear safe shit while having

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<v Speaker 5>sex or doing sexy stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>By Emma, Hi, Hello, Hi, what's up? How can I

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<v Speaker 1>get you today?

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<v Speaker 4>I just need some relationship advice get.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean I don't know, Yeah, what's up? Ask me.

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<v Speaker 4>So, I've been dating this girl for about a year

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<v Speaker 4>and a half now, right, uh huh? And so she

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<v Speaker 4>whenever it all started, right, I was like dating her

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<v Speaker 4>friend and then I hung out with her one night

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, I kind of I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>The girl was cheating on me, the first girl out

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<v Speaker 4>with her friends, and then I realized she was cool. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>So we start getting to know each other blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 4>and I find out that her home life is like

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<v Speaker 4>really bad, like they would shit in their baptub okay,

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<v Speaker 4>so I would just be like, I was just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you can stay here for a few days, and then

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<v Speaker 4>a few days turned into a few months and then

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<v Speaker 4>a year. So like he's never gotten a job, paid

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<v Speaker 4>rent or anything like that, and like all we do

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<v Speaker 4>is fight now, and I just don't don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>to do because I still love her, but like some

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<v Speaker 4>days I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me, there's certain elements of your story that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get straight here, which is, uh, okay,

0:24:45.920 --> 0:24:50.200
<v Speaker 1>poor girlfriend was cheating on you, and.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, so.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 4>So what happened was so I was dating her friends,

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<v Speaker 4>I was dating her friend, and then the girl I

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<v Speaker 4>was now told me that the girl I was with

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<v Speaker 4>was cheating on me. So I was like, okay, then

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just gonna get with her friends.

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, the girl you're dating now was friends

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<v Speaker 1>with the girl you were dating, and the girl you're

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<v Speaker 1>dating now told you that her friend your girlfriend was

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on you, and then you guys started to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that correct?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's correct. So the girl was now never cheated

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<v Speaker 4>on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so what is your problem again?

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<v Speaker 4>We just we constantly fight and we're like, also, we're

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<v Speaker 4>also about to move into a house that has substantially

0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 4>higher rent with one of my friends, okay, and she's

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<v Speaker 4>not gonna have any means of paying that rent, just

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<v Speaker 4>like because her parents like don't have any of her

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<v Speaker 4>like credentials like nose, birth certificates, social Security number, nothing,

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<v Speaker 4>So she's basically just an alien at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this girl does not have a social Security number.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And so is she putting her name on a lease?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's it's it's under my dad's name, but he's

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<v Speaker 4>just gonna make us pay him rent.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So your dad put his name on a lease,

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<v Speaker 1>and your girlfriend who does not have a job or

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<v Speaker 1>any sort of income, and you, nothing, and your friend

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<v Speaker 1>are all going to move into this place. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>How many bedrooms is it?

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<v Speaker 4>It's two bedroom, well, three bedrooms with a basement.

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<v Speaker 1>Three bedrooms. Okay, so each of you get your own

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>get their own bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So and I assume you're gonna pay for both your

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<v Speaker 1>and your girlfriend's rent, and then your roommate is going

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for his.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm, and then my friend's gonna face effort.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you doing this?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the place that we live at right now is

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<v Speaker 4>like really really shitty, Like there's structural damage, the roof

0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 4>is rotting.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's just a really bad place. So your girl,

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<v Speaker 1>your current girlfriend, financially depends upon you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, in every sense.

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.119
<v Speaker 1>And you guys are constantly fighting. What are you fighting

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<v Speaker 1>about it?

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<v Speaker 4>It could literally just be about straightening up, right. So

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I like I kind of tell her that,

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<v Speaker 4>like she should help me around the house because you know,

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 4>she doesn't have a job, She doesn't do anything all

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<v Speaker 4>day but sit on TikTok or do makeup, right, so

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm like, hey, you should maybe straighten up.

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:54.119
<v Speaker 4>And then she mean I get she and I get

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<v Speaker 4>into this like huge like argument about shit from the

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<v Speaker 4>past and all this other is like nonsense that has

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<v Speaker 4>nothing to relate with the issue at hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you have a job.

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<v Speaker 4>Currently? No, but I'm sitting on a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you get this money that you're sitting on?

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 4>Commercial real estate?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it says that you're only eighteen years old. How

0:28:26.000 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 1>did you make a bunch of money in commercial real estate?

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:33.879
<v Speaker 4>I have shared from my grandfather who passed.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you have money from your family that you're

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 1>sitting on and you are using it to pay for

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<v Speaker 1>both you and your girlfriends who live in an apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't have a job and neither ye are

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<v Speaker 1>you looking into getting a job?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean yeah, We're about to move like forty minutes

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<v Speaker 4>away from where we're at right now, so I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>trying to get a job in the area that I'm

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<v Speaker 4>trying to live at. But I had to quit my

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:07.800
<v Speaker 4>job because my manager threatened to shoot me.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, Uh, what kind of job you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for now?

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<v Speaker 4>Just probably something in retail?

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<v Speaker 1>Kay? Is your girlfriend looking for a job?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean she has no way of getting one until

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<v Speaker 4>she decides to get her shit together, all right, which

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<v Speaker 4>I've been pleading for.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, tell me why you're why are you? What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What every day is compelling you to want to stay

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<v Speaker 1>in this relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the fact that I've seen, like through videos of

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 4>how like horrible her house is, Okay, I would feel

0:29:54.000 --> 0:29:57.960
<v Speaker 4>way too guilty at conscious to even send probably my

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<v Speaker 4>worst enemy back to there.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So sympathy and guilt h yeah, Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is tough, because dude, you're on the eighteen. You

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<v Speaker 1>are also not You're just like, you're just not even

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<v Speaker 1>remotely in a position where you can reliably support another

0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 1>person you're trying to support. You're trying to support another

0:30:44.360 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>person on top, you're trying to support and develop another

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 1>person all of their emotions, all of their physical, logistical problems,

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 1>their entire life on top of yours. Because you're eighteen

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>and you don't even have a job, and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have your shit together, So you are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get both of your guys shit together. And from what

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you've told me, it sounds as though she's not putting

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of effort into getting her own shit together,

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 1>not at all. Okay, And you can sit there and

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you can beg and you complete, and you can try

0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 1>as hard as you can, but there is nothing in

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 1>the universe that can get you to control the actions

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<v Speaker 1>of other people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, not at all. It's all up to her

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<v Speaker 4>at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So do you reckon so everything I just told you?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you recognize that and understand that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I understand it completely.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So, Garrett, I want to say, I think it

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<v Speaker 1>is an admirable thing to care about other people, to

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:16.320
<v Speaker 1>want to help other people, And that sounds like it's

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<v Speaker 1>where your intentions are.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Because like I've been in a really bad place

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<v Speaker 4>in my life whenever I was like younger, I got

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<v Speaker 4>kicked out of my house and sent to rehabin Wisconsin

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<v Speaker 4>and got left up there. So like I just felt

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<v Speaker 4>like I needed to be the person that I never had. Mh.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to tell you what to do, but

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<v Speaker 1>while you have admirable intentions, I think there was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to be said about putting uh you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>they say on the airplanes, to put your mask on

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<v Speaker 1>before helping somebody else, because you have you don't, like, dude,

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:14.800
<v Speaker 1>what do you have to give? You don't have anything

0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>to give? You don't have your own ship together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I again, I think it's admirable that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to help people, that you want to help this girl,

0:33:29.120 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 1>and you want to be this thing that you didn't have.

0:33:37.680 --> 0:33:39.640
<v Speaker 1>But you're you're just an empty cup. I mean, you

0:33:39.680 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 1>have this money from your family, which is a nice

0:33:43.560 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 1>start for you to, you know, get your feet planted

0:33:46.680 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 1>on the ground. But dude like you gotta you gotta

0:33:56.720 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>fill up your own cup before you try to of

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<v Speaker 1>it to help other people.

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<v Speaker 4>And yah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, look, you that philosophy is up for debate,

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:15.799
<v Speaker 1>reasonably so, but I think it's something for you to

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 1>think about.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So if you were me, GEK, what would you do?

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<v Speaker 1>If I were you? You're asking me if what I

0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:39.160
<v Speaker 1>would do? Yeah, I'd set my boundaries with this person

0:34:40.360 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>and I would tell them you need to do this

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>or else I cannot help you any longer.

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<v Speaker 4>But what if you said that countless times and nothing

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<v Speaker 4>ever changed.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to go and focus on my own life. Okay, Garrett,

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<v Speaker 1>is is there anything else you want to say to

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<v Speaker 1>the people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I just want to say I love your love

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:29.760
<v Speaker 4>your videos.

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<v Speaker 2>GEG.

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<v Speaker 4>My first time ever being on here. I've been trying

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 4>for like a year, and I hope everyone else is

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:37.800
<v Speaker 4>in a situation like this. And if you are, just

0:35:37.880 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 4>kick the bitch out, do what I can't do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll talk to you soon, Garrett.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, all right, thank you. Gek.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm thinking that he's like, so, you know,

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>intoxicated with this girl and you know, so deeply, deeply caring,

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and then he's says, kick the bitch out. That's actually

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:07.280
<v Speaker 1>a really tough situation. It's actually a really tough situation

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:12.840
<v Speaker 1>because I think he comes from, you know, this place

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:17.280
<v Speaker 1>of empathy for this girl who probably has a lot.

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:20.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's you know, she's a she's young too,

0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:24.800
<v Speaker 1>she has to figure her own shit out. She probably

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:29.280
<v Speaker 1>has a lot to figure out and probably is going

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:35.160
<v Speaker 1>up against a lot. But he's not. His head's not

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>screwed on either. And I don't think I'm you know,

0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:46.000
<v Speaker 1>even from her perspective, like she is gonna have to

0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:52.520
<v Speaker 1>within herself figure out what's going on. And you know,

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 1>this eighteen year old guy with no job and no

0:36:57.120 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>idea what he's doing is not going to be an

0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 1>approbate brit Guardian angel for her. But that's a that's

0:37:05.120 --> 0:37:07.400
<v Speaker 1>a tough that's a tough situation. I hope he figures

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:09.799
<v Speaker 1>it out. Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi is it Lyle?

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:14.120
<v Speaker 1>It is? Who is this?

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 7>My name is Alessa. How's it going?

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Uh? It's going okay. I'm hanging out. I'm being a gecko.

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:32.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying my best. What's happening?

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<v Speaker 7>So I called in to get your vibes on a situation.

0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 7>I'm having a familial situation. So I'm not sure what

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 7>the cal screener types you, but basically, I am the

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:52.880
<v Speaker 7>eldest of four and my my three other siblings are triplets.

0:37:53.800 --> 0:37:56.840
<v Speaker 7>I'm I'm close with all of them, which is super cool.

0:37:57.480 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 7>We're only about two years apart. So our parents divorced

0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:06.759
<v Speaker 7>and have been since about two thousand and Basically, my

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 7>sister has been taking on a project at my dad's house,

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:14.000
<v Speaker 7>which has basically been to remodel my dad's house, which

0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:17.280
<v Speaker 7>she's not kept up with, and I feel like she's

0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 7>kind of bulldozing the project. And also I feel like

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 7>she's kind of like, I'm not sure that my dad

0:38:23.280 --> 0:38:26.200
<v Speaker 7>has a will in place, and not that I like,

0:38:26.239 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 7>our dad's not gonna die anytime soon, but she's kind

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:33.880
<v Speaker 7>of like remodeling this house under the guys that like,

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:35.800
<v Speaker 7>like she thinks she's going to get the house basically

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.799
<v Speaker 7>when he dies. And it's it's kind of a whole

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 7>thing because I have a good relationship with my sister,

0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:43.680
<v Speaker 7>a good relationship with my dad, but like I don't

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 7>I'm afraid of it turning into litigation when he does pass.

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 7>But it's it's kind of.

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 3>A whole thing.

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<v Speaker 7>So I was kind of trying to get your take on,

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 7>you know, your experience with things like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Your sister has been remodeling your dad's house for him

0:39:03.000 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>with the secret intention that he will die and she

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:10.640
<v Speaker 1>will get the house that she is remodeling.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, fortunately, I mean I don't think I mean that

0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:18.520
<v Speaker 7>makes it sound a little like mischievous, like she's.

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Plased, sounds incredibly the way you are describing it sounds

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 1>very mischievous.

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:26.520
<v Speaker 7>I don't think she's trying to kill our father, which

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:30.439
<v Speaker 7>is super cool and I love that. But he's he's

0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:34.120
<v Speaker 7>seventy one, but he's a healthy seventy one. And so like,

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:38.840
<v Speaker 7>her whole thing is that like her lease ends in September, and.

0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:44.880
<v Speaker 8>Neighborhood, I don't even know that it's quite that, but

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 8>I mean I think she's kind of minimizing the whole thing,

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 8>where like she's gonna have to live with her seventy

0:39:51.000 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 8>one year.

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:53.960
<v Speaker 7>Old father and and I don't know that he's completely

0:39:54.000 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 7>okay with it also, but I don't know that he's

0:39:57.200 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 7>like gonna like stand up to her in that way

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 7>because he's fixing up her house or she's fixing up

0:40:02.400 --> 0:40:08.480
<v Speaker 7>his house. So Okay, it's weird because I feel like, yeah, yeah,

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:08.839
<v Speaker 7>tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>About I guess I still don't fully understand what is

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:17.479
<v Speaker 1>happening here. Her lease ends in September, and so she's

0:40:17.520 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 1>remodeling her dad, your guys dad's house so that her

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:26.480
<v Speaker 1>dad will maybe let her live with him.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, basically, yeah, I mean I think her intent is

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:35.120
<v Speaker 7>to try to live with him, presumably like rent free,

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:37.719
<v Speaker 7>but like, but she's spent money on his house so

0:40:37.719 --> 0:40:40.880
<v Speaker 7>it'll be chilled, and.

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.319
<v Speaker 1>That makes that makes no sense? Why why does it?

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<v Speaker 2>Has?

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<v Speaker 1>Has she told him that she wants to live with him,

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:52.760
<v Speaker 1>so yes, they've had.

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:56.239
<v Speaker 7>That conversation, but then it's like more recently she's been like, yes,

0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:58.520
<v Speaker 7>me and also my friend are going to live there,

0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:01.080
<v Speaker 7>and like I feel like she's keeps like creeping up

0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 7>on the boundaries. And also like she's she's like had

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 7>conversations with me about like yeah, and then all airbnb

0:41:06.719 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 7>the house, and I'm like, her dad is not like

0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 7>on death's door.

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just there's totally going to try to kill

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:18.840
<v Speaker 1>your dad. That's every that's that's everything you're telling me.

0:41:19.560 --> 0:41:24.800
<v Speaker 1>It makes me really feel like planning to kill your dad.

0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:28.720
<v Speaker 1>And she told her friend that if her friend helps

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>her bury the body, that the friend could also live there.

0:41:35.000 --> 0:41:36.279
<v Speaker 1>That's the that's my vie.

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 7>But perhaps re butt or negate that my dad is

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:45.279
<v Speaker 7>a big gun guy, So I mean you could take that,

0:41:45.520 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 7>you know, either way, from from either perspective of I mean,

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:51.359
<v Speaker 7>I don't think that's the case, Lyle.

0:41:51.480 --> 0:41:52.319
<v Speaker 4>But it's just.

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<v Speaker 9>The part that concerns me the most is that they're

0:41:55.480 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 9>both kind of hard headed folks and my dad is

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:02.879
<v Speaker 9>just let this house get into disrepair. And and I

0:42:02.920 --> 0:42:05.439
<v Speaker 9>feel like my sister when my dad does pass, which

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:06.600
<v Speaker 9>I don't think is going to.

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.799
<v Speaker 7>Be very soon, by the way, like I don't I

0:42:08.800 --> 0:42:12.040
<v Speaker 7>don't want it to end in you know, my dad

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 7>not having a will or something, because I don't know

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:18.360
<v Speaker 7>that he does. And then me it impacting my relationship

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 7>with my sister who who the current time.

0:42:21.960 --> 0:42:23.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I wanted to I did want to bring this

0:42:24.040 --> 0:42:28.240
<v Speaker 1>back to you because I am curious what your role

0:42:28.400 --> 0:42:30.279
<v Speaker 1>in all of this is.

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 7>Uh here, Here's the other part too, is that I'm

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 7>a I'm a very handy person, and so she she's

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:39.360
<v Speaker 7>called upon me to help with you know, replacing lighting

0:42:39.400 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 7>fixtures and tearing things bah blah blah blah whatever. Like

0:42:41.880 --> 0:42:44.479
<v Speaker 7>I I'm very handy, So she's been like, hey, I'll.

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 4>Pay you to come help.

0:42:45.400 --> 0:42:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Listen, Listen, if your sister asks if she can borrow

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>some tools, don't lend them to her.

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<v Speaker 7>But should I still go help?

0:42:57.640 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 4>Because don't.

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:05.240
<v Speaker 7>House, no axes, no ice picks, no nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Look, this is right now from the way that,

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:18.000
<v Speaker 1>at least you're telling me this story out of I

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:21.399
<v Speaker 1>got no fucking idea what your sister is doing here.

0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:25.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't your sister. It doesn't sound like she's talked

0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:28.960
<v Speaker 1>to your dad about any of this stuff. It doesn't

0:43:28.960 --> 0:43:30.520
<v Speaker 1>sound like you've talked to your dad about any of

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:33.719
<v Speaker 1>this stuff. But it also sounds like it. But it

0:43:33.760 --> 0:43:38.400
<v Speaker 1>sounds like it is concerned you enough that you're calling

0:43:38.440 --> 0:43:40.640
<v Speaker 1>me to talk about it, which means it is concerning

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:43.520
<v Speaker 1>to you. So why don't you talk to your dad

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:49.320
<v Speaker 1>and tell him that you guys should he should fucking

0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:50.839
<v Speaker 1>make a will. I mean, he's seventy one, he should

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:52.920
<v Speaker 1>have a thing, he should have a piece of How

0:43:52.960 --> 0:43:53.600
<v Speaker 1>do you coach?

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:56.319
<v Speaker 7>How do you coach a grown man that doesn't know

0:43:56.360 --> 0:43:57.879
<v Speaker 7>how to set boundaries like that?

0:43:59.000 --> 0:43:59.440
<v Speaker 1>You don't?

0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:03.160
<v Speaker 8>Then what the fuck do I do?

0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:05.400
<v Speaker 7>I mean I think that, yes, I agree he should

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:12.759
<v Speaker 7>have I mean because because I guess, perhaps from my perspective,

0:44:12.960 --> 0:44:18.160
<v Speaker 7>I like, I think getting his house repaired and remodeled

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:19.839
<v Speaker 7>or whatever he is.

0:44:19.800 --> 0:44:22.879
<v Speaker 1>He at least is he is he like, is he

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:27.160
<v Speaker 1>of sound mind and body?

0:44:27.320 --> 0:44:27.600
<v Speaker 4>Yes?

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:28.279
<v Speaker 3>And that.

0:44:30.239 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 1>Family legally must be taken care of kind of position.

0:44:35.160 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 7>But the thing is that he's let this house get

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:40.920
<v Speaker 7>into disrepair. And also he had a hoarder mother, so

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:43.520
<v Speaker 7>he's got kind of some like horderous tendencies to like

0:44:44.600 --> 0:44:48.239
<v Speaker 7>he's he's and he's also adhd undiagnosed saying he's he's

0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:50.440
<v Speaker 7>like let the house get really fucking crazy. So I

0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:53.239
<v Speaker 7>do think it's a good effort to repair the house, right,

0:44:53.880 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 7>But I'm like, I feel like you know the motivations

0:44:57.520 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 7>are a little skewed from my sister's.

0:44:59.239 --> 0:44:59.719
<v Speaker 2>Point of view.

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I know it's it's weird.

0:45:10.440 --> 0:45:10.759
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:13.880
<v Speaker 7>Do you have it's very weird?

0:45:13.480 --> 0:45:15.880
<v Speaker 1>Or do I have any friends you can do? I

0:45:15.920 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>have any friends whose sisters are remodeling their father's houses

0:45:21.960 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>so that when their father dies they could have the

0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:28.040
<v Speaker 1>remodeled house for their air to air to be out. No,

0:45:28.080 --> 0:45:29.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any friends that that has happened to

0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:34.799
<v Speaker 1>and that has never happened to me. But I mean, look,

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>all you can really do is talk to your dad

0:45:41.040 --> 0:45:44.400
<v Speaker 1>and be like, hey, look, I mean, don't get into

0:45:44.400 --> 0:45:49.239
<v Speaker 1>some Shakespearean macave whatever thing with it, because you don't

0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:52.719
<v Speaker 1>have time for that. You're an adult of your own life.

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 7>Who does.

0:45:56.320 --> 0:45:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Talk to Just talk to your dad. I don't know this.

0:45:59.200 --> 0:46:01.879
<v Speaker 1>The reason this is making no sense to me is

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:05.759
<v Speaker 1>because you could. You should just talk to your dad

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:10.400
<v Speaker 1>about this, and if he's unresponsive to your talking about it,

0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:15.360
<v Speaker 1>then congratulations, you have done the best that you can.

0:46:16.880 --> 0:46:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Sure and if he's not in a feeble minded state,

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:24.680
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have dementia or any of these kind of

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 1>things that would that would make him legally unable to

0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:33.919
<v Speaker 1>make decisions for himself. Then unfortunately, you cannot make decisions

0:46:34.480 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 1>for him. You could talk to your sister. You could

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:42.400
<v Speaker 1>talk to your sister and have these conversations and whatnot.

0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:48.480
<v Speaker 1>But again, if your sister wants to connive and you

0:46:48.520 --> 0:46:52.319
<v Speaker 1>want to warn your father of her conniving and chastise

0:46:52.400 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 1>her for her conniving, those are your options. But outside

0:46:56.600 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>of that, there's you know, I mean, what are you

0:46:59.360 --> 0:46:59.799
<v Speaker 1>gonna do?

0:47:02.200 --> 0:47:02.359
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I think I think the three of

0:47:06.160 --> 0:47:08.719
<v Speaker 7>us have had kind of some surface level conversations, and

0:47:08.760 --> 0:47:10.160
<v Speaker 7>I think you're right, I need to like talk to

0:47:10.200 --> 0:47:12.759
<v Speaker 7>him one on one. I just it's it's it's kind

0:47:12.760 --> 0:47:16.920
<v Speaker 7>of this, you know, being the children of divorced parents

0:47:16.960 --> 0:47:19.239
<v Speaker 7>who had kind of a tumultuous divorce, and then like

0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:21.799
<v Speaker 7>her and I are very close, and it's like this

0:47:21.880 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 7>weird thing where like her and I have not really

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:28.239
<v Speaker 7>had this kind of you know, disagreement in our relationship before,

0:47:28.280 --> 0:47:30.719
<v Speaker 7>so it feels kind of different and new to even like.

0:47:30.800 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you know, have conflict with her.

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I guess so, okay, well you don't have Well, if

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:37.800
<v Speaker 1>it makes you feel any better, I'm going to tell you.

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to tell you this and then before we

0:47:39.160 --> 0:47:40.840
<v Speaker 1>go it makes you feel any better, You don't have

0:47:40.880 --> 0:47:42.759
<v Speaker 1>to deal with any of this you don't have. If

0:47:42.760 --> 0:47:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to, you can ignore it completely.

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:49.000
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, for sure. No, you're totally right.

0:47:49.480 --> 0:47:51.640
<v Speaker 1>But you're choosing to. You know why are choosing to?

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you care about your family.

0:47:54.360 --> 0:47:56.360
<v Speaker 7>I care and I love them.

0:47:56.400 --> 0:48:00.760
<v Speaker 1>That's a good thing. Don't let it drive you insane, Alisa,

0:48:00.840 --> 0:48:01.880
<v Speaker 1>is there anything else you want to say to the

0:48:01.880 --> 0:48:03.200
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go?

0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:08.080
<v Speaker 7>Lyle, thank you for taking my call. I want to

0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:10.279
<v Speaker 7>give a shout out to my dog Doug, who's sitting

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 7>on the couch and I remained a call, and also

0:48:12.120 --> 0:48:14.719
<v Speaker 7>my BFF Katie, and I just I appreciate the chat.

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:17.200
<v Speaker 7>I appreciate you, Lyle, and I appreciate your very kind call.

0:48:17.280 --> 0:48:21.360
<v Speaker 1>Screamers, God bless you. Alisa. Have a good rest of

0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:26.720
<v Speaker 1>the night and to you nine nights. If only dogs

0:48:26.840 --> 0:48:34.480
<v Speaker 1>understood shout outs, I'd shout out them all. Hello, Hello, Hi, Hi,

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:37.600
<v Speaker 1>what's up is this?

0:48:37.680 --> 0:48:37.919
<v Speaker 6>Gag?

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:39.280
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:46.840
<v Speaker 5>Hello?

0:48:50.360 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 3>Sorry?

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:51.279
<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

0:48:51.560 --> 0:48:55.360
<v Speaker 3>My giggles out? Haley?

0:48:56.400 --> 0:48:58.560
<v Speaker 1>How's it going? Haley? How can I get you today?

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:07.560
<v Speaker 3>It's fantastic, It's fantastic. I'm living my life. How you've been, How.

0:49:07.480 --> 0:49:16.959
<v Speaker 1>Have I been? Mm hmm a, I'm okay. But what's

0:49:17.040 --> 0:49:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what's going on with you? Haley?

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:21.799
<v Speaker 4>Well?

0:49:23.280 --> 0:49:27.839
<v Speaker 10>Uh, you know, just uh god done celebrating my birthday week.

0:49:27.920 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 10>And the reason I called in was part of my

0:49:30.239 --> 0:49:33.799
<v Speaker 10>birthday week. So I decided to just share a.

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:36.760
<v Speaker 3>Very intimate secret that I've been holding for a while.

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, and what is that?

0:49:41.440 --> 0:49:46.719
<v Speaker 3>I I prefer to have my alone time in uh,

0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:54.000
<v Speaker 3>sensory deprivation tanks. Do you know what those are?

0:49:55.800 --> 0:49:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm familiar.

0:49:58.360 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 7>Have you been in?

0:49:58.920 --> 0:49:58.960
<v Speaker 3>What?

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:00.279
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:50:00.440 --> 0:50:06.759
<v Speaker 1>I haven't. Okay, you prefer to have your alone time

0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:15.840
<v Speaker 1>and sensory deprivation tanks? Okay, yes, sir? What do you

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:16.959
<v Speaker 1>do when you're in the tank?

0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:23.200
<v Speaker 3>So it's the whole, the whole thing. Some of the

0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 3>tanks are like an open, like big like hot tub,

0:50:27.920 --> 0:50:31.440
<v Speaker 3>and in some you actually have to like get inside

0:50:31.520 --> 0:50:35.279
<v Speaker 3>like a tomb and like close the door. And I

0:50:35.360 --> 0:50:38.720
<v Speaker 3>know that can bother some people who have like claustrophobia.

0:50:39.360 --> 0:50:41.680
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't bother me because I'm kind of small, so

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:44.520
<v Speaker 3>it doesn't matter which tank I'm in or which tub

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:49.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm in. But the first time I ever did one.

0:50:49.560 --> 0:50:53.400
<v Speaker 3>It was actually like a gift from my boss and

0:50:53.480 --> 0:50:57.320
<v Speaker 3>people at work because I had been like super stressed

0:50:57.320 --> 0:50:59.799
<v Speaker 3>out and they bought me one as a gift. So

0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:02.319
<v Speaker 3>I went in and I was like, wow, the last

0:51:02.360 --> 0:51:04.560
<v Speaker 3>thing I want after being stressed out is to be

0:51:04.680 --> 0:51:07.360
<v Speaker 3>alone in the dark with my thoughts for an hour.

0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:11.799
<v Speaker 3>But however, once like get in and like, the water

0:51:11.880 --> 0:51:14.319
<v Speaker 3>is really nice. It's the same temperature as the air

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:18.000
<v Speaker 3>above you, and it's like salt water and you're floating

0:51:18.040 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 3>and like you can't tell like when the air begins

0:51:20.520 --> 0:51:24.719
<v Speaker 3>in the water, and like ten minutes in, I was like.

0:51:24.800 --> 0:51:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Listen, Haley, I wasn't gonna say it, but it says

0:51:26.680 --> 0:51:28.640
<v Speaker 1>here that you like to masturbate in the tanks.

0:51:29.120 --> 0:51:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mass very excite now I was getting there.

0:51:33.040 --> 0:51:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I said alone time, and I was like

0:51:36.239 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I was done moment to let her say it herself.

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:41.920
<v Speaker 3>But sorry, I'm sorry.

0:51:41.880 --> 0:51:46.319
<v Speaker 10>I went on, Yeah, you did like you really as

0:51:46.360 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 10>sune with like your body and your first your mind

0:51:49.200 --> 0:51:50.480
<v Speaker 10>and then your body, and like, oh, I.

0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:53.840
<v Speaker 3>Feel really in tune with my body. This is nice.

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Okay, why do you like to masturbate in the tanks?

0:52:02.280 --> 0:52:05.120
<v Speaker 3>I just feel like the first time. I don't know.

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:07.680
<v Speaker 3>Its just I feel like I can really just focus

0:52:07.760 --> 0:52:10.399
<v Speaker 3>on what I'm feeling physically. I feel like when I'm

0:52:10.560 --> 0:52:13.239
<v Speaker 3>like with a partner, I can't and I have I

0:52:13.280 --> 0:52:16.000
<v Speaker 3>have a lot of trouble climaxing with a partner physically,

0:52:16.800 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 3>But when I'm in like one of these tanks, it

0:52:18.640 --> 0:52:22.640
<v Speaker 3>takes me like a minute. It's just so different than

0:52:22.680 --> 0:52:26.839
<v Speaker 3>being like, I don't I have no idea. It's I'm

0:52:26.880 --> 0:52:27.920
<v Speaker 3>still trying to figure it out.

0:52:28.000 --> 0:52:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I was gonna. Well do you like,

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:37.640
<v Speaker 1>do you come yes? Where does the come go?

0:52:39.800 --> 0:52:43.360
<v Speaker 3>Okay? There's a difference between a female like oh okay,

0:52:43.400 --> 0:52:44.840
<v Speaker 3>like oh do I squirt?

0:52:45.320 --> 0:52:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, no, I don't.

0:52:48.200 --> 0:52:50.400
<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, I get wet, but like that doesn't go

0:52:50.640 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 3>like I don't think, like I don't seem like enough

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:55.680
<v Speaker 3>comes out to like ruin the tank because it does

0:52:55.760 --> 0:52:59.320
<v Speaker 3>say in like the rules, don't get any bodily fluids

0:52:59.320 --> 0:53:01.520
<v Speaker 3>in here. But I'm like, I don't think, just come around,

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:02.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm not squirting.

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Do they are they testing the.

0:53:06.160 --> 0:53:08.400
<v Speaker 3>Hey, I've been to the same place three times and

0:53:08.440 --> 0:53:10.680
<v Speaker 3>they haven't kicked me out yet, So I think I'm

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:11.160
<v Speaker 3>doing good.

0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you, I mean, do you feel as though

0:53:16.840 --> 0:53:22.800
<v Speaker 1>you're at risk of of potentially getting caught.

0:53:25.680 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 3>No, I've looked around. I've like looked at like I

0:53:28.640 --> 0:53:30.799
<v Speaker 3>keep going into the same room and I'm like, Okay,

0:53:30.800 --> 0:53:32.680
<v Speaker 3>they're gonna set up a camera this time and try

0:53:32.719 --> 0:53:36.880
<v Speaker 3>to catch me. And No, to this day, like nothing's happened,

0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:39.799
<v Speaker 3>So I'm just going to keep I'm just gonna keep

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:40.200
<v Speaker 3>doing it.

0:53:41.160 --> 0:53:50.280
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm hmm. Okay, do you anticipate like has okay,

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:53.040
<v Speaker 1>have it? Tell me this has has masturbating in these

0:53:53.040 --> 0:53:56.600
<v Speaker 1>tanks ruined masturbation outside of.

0:53:56.560 --> 0:54:00.960
<v Speaker 3>The tank for you, it hasn't ruined it, but it

0:54:01.080 --> 0:54:03.799
<v Speaker 3>makes If I know I'm going to do a like

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 3>a tank, I will build it up for weeks. I

0:54:08.640 --> 0:54:11.160
<v Speaker 3>will be like, I will not touch myself for like

0:54:11.320 --> 0:54:15.520
<v Speaker 3>weeks until the tank happens. Hm hmmmm.

0:54:17.239 --> 0:54:21.000
<v Speaker 1>And that generally, you know, increases the sensation.

0:54:20.680 --> 0:54:26.000
<v Speaker 3>For you, absolutely, okay. And it's not a super like

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<v Speaker 3>it's salt water, so it's not super like you know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not super comfortable, but if you haven't like touched

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<v Speaker 3>yourself in a while, it's it's still nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this public masturbation or I guess because you're alone.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't like legally speaking, where are we at with this.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't, I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you would where this would fall

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<v Speaker 3>in the guideline. I'm in a private room. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on private prop I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>No one can see me unless they put up camera.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do you masturbate in other questionable places?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. By the way, I just want you to know.

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<v Speaker 1>This makes perfect sense to me because all your senses

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<v Speaker 1>are deprived, so you just focus entirely on the orgasm.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes perfect sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and it's intense and it comes quickly, no pun intended,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll do it. Maybe I'll check off on one

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<v Speaker 1>of these things. But I feel like if I did,

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<v Speaker 1>it's stuff, because then if I did it, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be all jizzy. I could edge in the sensory deprivation

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<v Speaker 1>tank and it wouldn't be that bad.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I think you should try and just see

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<v Speaker 3>if they say anything and just never do it again

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<v Speaker 3>after that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's because if they do say something, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm going to jail.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like, actually, you can get away with this

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<v Speaker 3>where Okay, when you when you do, if you're laying

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<v Speaker 3>down your back and you jerk off, yeah, come on, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>can you come on your stomach, because when you're floating,

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<v Speaker 3>your stomach stays above the water the whole time. So

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<v Speaker 3>if you can like come on your stomach and like

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<v Speaker 3>save it and then get out of the water without

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<v Speaker 3>it getting into like the salt water, your guilt, your gold, baby,

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<v Speaker 3>you could totally do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand why that's much worse, right, Why because when

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<v Speaker 1>I get out of the tank and stand up, whoever's

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<v Speaker 1>there is going to see that I have a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of calm on my stomach.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, when you get out of the tank, you you

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<v Speaker 3>still have the whole room to yourself. It's a private room.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever kind of tank you have, you have it for

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<v Speaker 3>the whole hour, and you have to shower before and after,

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<v Speaker 3>so the evidence will be gone. You should just just

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<v Speaker 3>try it out, and I think you could do this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the people who work there, they've got to

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<v Speaker 1>know that people are checking off of these things. They've

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<v Speaker 1>got it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, Hey, let me tell you something. It's worth it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's one of the best It's one of the best

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<v Speaker 3>feelings ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Haley. Is there anything else you want to say to

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<v Speaker 1>the people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I wrote it down. Hold on if it feels good,

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<v Speaker 3>do it if it feels bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop debateable, lease, debatable, debatable, it's very it's highly debatable conjecture.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm glad you came prepared to say something. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>think of you calling Hayley.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, hav a good night.

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<v Speaker 5>Get Never be kedges on the line taking your phone

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<v Speaker 5>calls every night.

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<v Speaker 4>Never be Ked goes doing his hide.

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<v Speaker 1>He's teaching you cloud and your life, but he's not ready.

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<v Speaker 2>An expert