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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, we're going good. How are you good?

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Speaker 2: Enjoined my night off?

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Speaker 1: So, Matt, what's going on? How can I get you today?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh nothing, I just wanted to call and share

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Speaker 2: a story. I'm not a little fishing trip I had

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Speaker 2: eight years ago hit us, So yeah, I'm sorry. It

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Speaker 2: was ten years ago. I went out fishing with my

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Speaker 2: boss and his boss from work and we ended up

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Speaker 2: sinking the boat and got lost at sea for twenty

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Speaker 2: one hours.

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Speaker 1: Really, you were lost at sea for twenty one hours?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, coast guard searching for us and everything.

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Speaker 1: Did you all piss and shit into the water out

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Speaker 1: of fear and swim in each other's piss and shit?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: No, that's kind of the funny thing is the way

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Speaker 2: the boat sank. Eventually we were able to climb on

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Speaker 2: top of it and it floated for a little bit.

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Speaker 2: And so the way we were postured was my boss

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Speaker 2: was up top, I was in the middle, and then

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Speaker 2: his boss was below me and actually pissed on him.

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Speaker 2: So there's that.

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Speaker 1: Was your guys' formation on the boat, similar to how

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Speaker 1: you were ranked in the company.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, he was uh so the guy on

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Speaker 2: the top was the middleman and the guy below me

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Speaker 2: was actually the senior.

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Speaker 1: Wow, so the senior on the bottom and the middle

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Speaker 1: man on the top.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, actually, after it was all said and done,

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Speaker 2: we found out why he was and he was actually

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Speaker 2: a good leader for taking that position. Basically, the way

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Speaker 2: he was situated down at the bottom was he was

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Speaker 2: holding onto a rope and basically doing like a curl

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Speaker 2: up for you know, twenty plus hours, and he ended

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Speaker 2: up getting the what's it called that rapdo myalysis, that

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Speaker 2: thing that like ultra runners and super athletes get where

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Speaker 2: when they're doing extreme exercise, their muscles actually produce a

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Speaker 2: poison that starts like breaking down everything.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling me that this guy was doing an

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Speaker 1: uh got a disease, trying to save your life and

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Speaker 1: you pissed on.

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Speaker 2: Him, Well, got a disease, just trying to be comfortable,

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I pissed on him.

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Speaker 1: I gotta say, look, Matt, I don't know you too well,

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Speaker 1: but that's just a dick move.

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Speaker 2: Hey it was, but he he gave me the go ahead.

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Speaker 2: I gave him a warning and said it was almost

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Speaker 2: like that dumb and dumb move man. I said, Hey,

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Speaker 2: I got a piss and he's like, just let it go, brother,

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Speaker 2: let it go.

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Speaker 1: Wow, man, that guy is so fucking he did he

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Speaker 1: get a medal for that?

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Speaker 2: No, No, he didn't get a medal, but we still

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Speaker 2: love him.

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Speaker 1: How did you have to pay? Where there's ocean everywhere?

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Speaker 1: Why did you have to piss on him? That's like

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Speaker 1: the like of all the infinite places you could have pissed.

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Speaker 1: You could have avoided him.

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Speaker 2: Well, we were surrounded by sharks, so no one wanted

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Speaker 2: to get in the water.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, as you could pee in the water, so there.

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Speaker 2: Well, at that point, our muscles were too weak to

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, okay, So you were surrounded by sharks

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Speaker 1: this whole time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. So the whole thing was we had gone

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Speaker 2: out fishing and it was our first time like landing

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Speaker 2: some big fish. We we ended up hooking up with

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Speaker 2: like two really big tunas and we fought them for

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Speaker 2: probably about like forty five minutes to an hour. We've

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Speaker 2: the boat. But the one we did land and get

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Speaker 2: on the boat was about six feet and we think

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Speaker 2: we imagine it's like two hundred something pounds. So anyways,

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Speaker 2: once you catch the fish, once you catch the tuna,

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Speaker 2: is you got to bleed them out and do everything

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Speaker 2: don't ever lose it, or I'm sorry, the bag is

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Speaker 2: But you've got a bag with a bleeding tuna inside

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Speaker 1: Wow, did you think you were going to die at

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Speaker 2: When the sun rise? When the sun rose on the

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Speaker 2: next day, I thought there might be a chance, because

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Speaker 2: like at that point, we were probably at like sixteen

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Speaker 2: start getting those thoughts, but they're not very helpful, so

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Speaker 2: you try to push him out.

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Speaker 1: Did any of you guys freak out?

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Speaker 2: No, no, Luckily, the guys I had with me were

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Speaker 2: really good dudes, and it was kind of funny because

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Speaker 2: that day on the boat we were talking about it

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Speaker 2: happened there was a an NFL star who had actually

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Speaker 2: The boat capsized and he tried to swim to shore

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Speaker 2: day when we went out fishing, my boss brought it up.

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Speaker 2: He was a big football fan. He brought it up

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Speaker 2: and he was talking about it, and he's like, if

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Speaker 2: anything ever happens, do not leave the boat. Stay as

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Speaker 2: close to the boat as you can. And so that's

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Speaker 2: what we did. And yeah, everyone stayed pretty calm. We

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Speaker 2: just kind of joked around, try to keep it while

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he sunk the boat on purpose because

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Speaker 1: he likes getting pissed on.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, he didn't. He didn't because he didn't even

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Speaker 2: have an insurance on it and it was a brand

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so I guess that one is wrong.

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Speaker 1: M man, you guys are very manly dudes. So fucking

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Speaker 2: Now, I freaked out at one point. The other two

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Speaker 2: dudes were manly. There was a point after the boat

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Speaker 2: from the fumes. Well during that time. During that time,

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Speaker 2: And so I swan back to the boat as quick

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Speaker 1: Fucking guy takes the worst position on the formation, gets

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Speaker 1: a disease, exerting his body to keep you guys safe,

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Speaker 1: lets you piss on his head, takes you out on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was the manly guy. So we

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Speaker 1: That what's he doing now?

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Speaker 2: He's retired now still fishing. We're supposed to be doing

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Speaker 2: a trip. I think this year will be the senior anniversary.

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Speaker 1: Of course, the motherfucker is still fishing. No, and nothing's

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Speaker 1: to do. That's cool, man, Oh yeah, that's really cool.

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Speaker 1: What did you learn from the experience.

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Speaker 2: Surround yourself with good people?

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Do do not hang out with people who are going

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Speaker 2: to freak out and cause you more problems? Well, I

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Speaker 1: What was it like getting getting rescued?

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Speaker 2: I was it was pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: It was very relieving, of course, but uh yeah, it

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Speaker 2: was kind of crazy. The coast guard, we saw them

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Speaker 2: that's what got them, but we don't know. But they

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Speaker 2: So he was checking his whole way coming in and

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Speaker 1: I'm why did they get out? Look, I don't know

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Speaker 2: Because at this point they had already been searching for

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Speaker 2: looking where we weren't we where we weren't at mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: Wow, this is Did this give you any perspective on

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Speaker 2: It may have given me. It may have given me

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Speaker 1: I thought that you know what, you know what, you

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Speaker 1: know what you bring you bring up a good point,

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Speaker 1: because you could, you bring up a very good point,

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Speaker 1: because you could come away from a near death experience

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Speaker 1: one of two ways. Okay, you could have come back thinking,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, life is so fragile. I could have

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Speaker 1: almost died. I'm going to be more careful. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be so grateful for every moment I have to breathe

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Speaker 1: Mother Nature tried to take me, and Mother Nature turns

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Speaker 1: out is a weak bitch. Can't do shit. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, a little bit like that. I

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Speaker 2: mean I packed a little more safely. I make sure

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Speaker 2: I always have my safety gear on me when I

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Speaker 2: go out fishing. But but yeah, yeah, she can't do nothing.

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Speaker 1: Well, good on you. I hope you. I hope you

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Speaker 2: I'll keep trying.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything else want to say to the people

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Speaker 2: No, just yeah, Always surround yourself with good people, don't

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Speaker 5: Emma?

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Speaker 5: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing good. Is there anything that you wanted to

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 5: I have a list of about thirty two people that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it says here, it says here. You want me

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Speaker 5: The story, yeah, if you want, obviously, Like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's what I'm thinking. I'm thinking, let's let's let's

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Speaker 4: Fuck what?

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Speaker 1: All right now? Because now you got to tell us nineteen.

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Speaker 5: So nineteen is Sam's.

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Speaker 5: So I had a threesome with Sam and her boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: I was not expecting that. Whenever I went over to

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Speaker 5: So it was very uncomfortable. The girl was absolutely amazing.

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Speaker 5: And I just I wasn't vibing with him. He was

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Speaker 5: I just wasn't aware of it.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? That does not make any sense

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Speaker 5: Like, whenever I was talking to Sam, she never mentioned

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Speaker 1: be involved. Yes, that you would be that you would

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Speaker 5: Say, Yes, okay exactly.

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Speaker 3: You know, I was kind of like fuck it, let's

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Speaker 5: So none of us had a threesome before, and it

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Speaker 5: was just awkward, so like none of us really knew

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Speaker 1: Know, honestly being homeboy, you know what, being homeboy in

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Speaker 1: Not a bad corner to be in. Not a bad gig,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 7: I guess.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just couldn't tell us like he was actually

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he was. I'm sure he was. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well but don't look. Don't don't look at chat. But

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not walking at chat.

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Speaker 4: I'll take off my glasses.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I wouldn't feel bad for that guy. I

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Speaker 5: Okay, oh god, this is another story. Okay, I probably

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Speaker 5: shouldn't say his real name. Let's call him Dan.

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Speaker 4: Dan.

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Speaker 5: I I had a fabulous of Valentine's Day weekend my

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Speaker 5: freshman year college, I hooked up with three guys. That's

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Speaker 5: like Valentine's Night, separate guy, three guys that night. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 5: that was something I've never done before. It's so amazing.

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Speaker 5: Three, twenty four, twenty three.

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Speaker 5: So Dan was the first one I hooked up with.

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Speaker 5: He was a president of a frats. Sorry not already.

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Speaker 7: And he was really cool.

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Speaker 5: We played video games afterwards after sex. He was a

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Speaker 5: So then I went to back. After we had sex,

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Speaker 3: So he ended up being amazing.

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 5: It started off mid then it was really good and

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Speaker 1: So tell me about like I mean nowadays, what are

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Speaker 5: What's I've been dating my partner for the past three years.

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Speaker 1: Nice? Nicey? Have you so have you and him ever

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Speaker 5: Yes, he's also his.

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Speaker 4: What which benefits?

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Speaker 5: Before we started reading?

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Speaker 1: Which story is his favorite?

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Speaker 5: There was another theater guy that I hooked up with,

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Speaker 1: Why did he in the closet?

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Speaker 5: That was his first ever college party that we met at,

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I then left.

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Speaker 1: Well ship, Emma, uh, this is this is this was

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Speaker 4: Sure, great, Well you'll have.

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Speaker 5: Also to the person who said my lap was annoying.

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Speaker 1: I know, I told you not to read the chat. Emma, okay,

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Speaker 1: your band, I know, I know. Okay, Biamma, is there

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Speaker 1: anything else you want to say to the wait? Is

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Speaker 5: Always wear a condom or wear safe shit while having

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Speaker 1: By Emma, Hi, Hello, Hi, what's up? How can I

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Speaker 4: I just need some relationship advice get.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I don't know, Yeah, what's up? Ask me.

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Speaker 4: So, I've been dating this girl for about a year

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Speaker 4: So we start getting to know each other blah blah blah,

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Speaker 4: rent or anything like that, and like all we do

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00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 4: is fight now, and I just don't don't know what

451
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 4: to do because I still love her, but like some

452
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 4: days I don't.

453
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: Okay, let me, there's certain elements of your story that

454
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: I want to get straight here, which is, uh, okay,

455
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 1: poor girlfriend was cheating on you, and.

456
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 4: No, no, so.

457
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: No.

458
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 4: So what happened was so I was dating her friends,

459
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 4: I was dating her friend, and then the girl I

460
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 4: was now told me that the girl I was with

461
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 4: was cheating on me. So I was like, okay, then

462
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna get with her friends.

463
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, the girl you're dating now was friends

464
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: with the girl you were dating, and the girl you're

465
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: dating now told you that her friend your girlfriend was

466
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 1: cheating on you, and then you guys started to date.

467
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: Is that correct?

468
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's correct. So the girl was now never cheated

469
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 4: on me.

470
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: Okay, so what is your problem again?

471
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 4: We just we constantly fight and we're like, also, we're

472
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 4: also about to move into a house that has substantially

473
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 4: higher rent with one of my friends, okay, and she's

474
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 4: not gonna have any means of paying that rent, just

475
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 4: like because her parents like don't have any of her

476
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 4: like credentials like nose, birth certificates, social Security number, nothing,

477
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 4: So she's basically just an alien at this point.

478
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 1: Okay, this girl does not have a social Security number.

479
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

480
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: Okay, And so is she putting her name on a lease?

481
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: Well, it's it's it's under my dad's name, but he's

482
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 4: just gonna make us pay him rent.

483
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: Okay, So your dad put his name on a lease,

484
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 1: and your girlfriend who does not have a job or

485
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: any sort of income, and you, nothing, and your friend

486
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: are all going to move into this place. Mm hmm.

487
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 1: How many bedrooms is it?

488
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 4: It's two bedroom, well, three bedrooms with a basement.

489
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,239
Speaker 1: Three bedrooms. Okay, so each of you get your own

490
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: get their own bedroom.

491
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.

492
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: So and I assume you're gonna pay for both your

493
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: and your girlfriend's rent, and then your roommate is going

494
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 1: to pay for his.

495
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 4: Mm hmm, and then my friend's gonna face effort.

496
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: Why are you doing this?

497
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 4: Well, the place that we live at right now is

498
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 4: like really really shitty, Like there's structural damage, the roof

499
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 4: is rotting.

500
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,160
Speaker 1: Okay, it's just a really bad place. So your girl,

501
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: your current girlfriend, financially depends upon you.

502
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, in every sense.

503
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: And you guys are constantly fighting. What are you fighting

504
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: about it?

505
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 4: It could literally just be about straightening up, right. So

506
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 4: you know, I like I kind of tell her that,

507
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 4: like she should help me around the house because you know,

508
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 4: she doesn't have a job, She doesn't do anything all

509
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 4: day but sit on TikTok or do makeup, right, so

510
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: you know, I'm like, hey, you should maybe straighten up.

511
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 4: And then she mean I get she and I get

512
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 4: into this like huge like argument about shit from the

513
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 4: past and all this other is like nonsense that has

514
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 4: nothing to relate with the issue at hand.

515
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: Okay, do you have a job.

516
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 4: Currently? No, but I'm sitting on a lot of money.

517
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: How did you get this money that you're sitting on?

518
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 4: Commercial real estate?

519
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: Okay, it says that you're only eighteen years old. How

520
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: did you make a bunch of money in commercial real estate?

521
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 4: I have shared from my grandfather who passed.

522
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: Okay, so you have money from your family that you're

523
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: sitting on and you are using it to pay for

524
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: both you and your girlfriends who live in an apartment,

525
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: and you don't have a job and neither ye are

526
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: you looking into getting a job?

527
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, We're about to move like forty minutes

528
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 4: away from where we're at right now, so I'm like

529
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 4: trying to get a job in the area that I'm

530
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 4: trying to live at. But I had to quit my

531
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 4: job because my manager threatened to shoot me.

532
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: So all right, Uh, what kind of job you're looking

533
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: for now?

534
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 4: Just probably something in retail?

535
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: Kay? Is your girlfriend looking for a job?

536
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 4: I mean she has no way of getting one until

537
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 4: she decides to get her shit together, all right, which

538
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 4: I've been pleading for.

539
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: All Right, tell me why you're why are you? What? What?

540
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: What every day is compelling you to want to stay

541
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: in this relationship?

542
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 4: Well, the fact that I've seen, like through videos of

543
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 4: how like horrible her house is, Okay, I would feel

544
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 4: way too guilty at conscious to even send probably my

545
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 4: worst enemy back to there.

546
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: All right, So sympathy and guilt h yeah, Okay, Okay,

547
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: this is tough, because dude, you're on the eighteen. You

548
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: are also not You're just like, you're just not even

549
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: remotely in a position where you can reliably support another

550
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: person you're trying to support. You're trying to support another

551
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: person on top, you're trying to support and develop another

552
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: person all of their emotions, all of their physical, logistical problems,

553
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: their entire life on top of yours. Because you're eighteen

554
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: and you don't even have a job, and you don't

555
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: even have your shit together, So you are trying to

556
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: get both of your guys shit together. And from what

557
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: you've told me, it sounds as though she's not putting

558
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: a lot of effort into getting her own shit together,

559
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: not at all. Okay, And you can sit there and

560
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: you can beg and you complete, and you can try

561
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: as hard as you can, but there is nothing in

562
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: the universe that can get you to control the actions

563
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: of other people.

564
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, not at all. It's all up to her

565
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 4: at this point.

566
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So do you reckon so everything I just told you?

567
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: Do you recognize that and understand that?

568
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

569
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 4: I understand it completely.

570
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: Okay. So, Garrett, I want to say, I think it

571
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: is an admirable thing to care about other people, to

572
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: want to help other people, And that sounds like it's

573
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: where your intentions are.

574
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Because like I've been in a really bad place

575
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 4: in my life whenever I was like younger, I got

576
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 4: kicked out of my house and sent to rehabin Wisconsin

577
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 4: and got left up there. So like I just felt

578
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: like I needed to be the person that I never had. Mh.

579
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you what to do, but

580
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: while you have admirable intentions, I think there was a

581
00:32:54,000 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: lot to be said about putting uh you know, as

582
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: they say on the airplanes, to put your mask on

583
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: before helping somebody else, because you have you don't, like, dude,

584
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: what do you have to give? You don't have anything

585
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: to give? You don't have your own ship together. Yeah,

586
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: and I again, I think it's admirable that you want

587
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: to help people, that you want to help this girl,

588
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: and you want to be this thing that you didn't have.

589
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: But you're you're just an empty cup. I mean, you

590
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: have this money from your family, which is a nice

591
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: start for you to, you know, get your feet planted

592
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: on the ground. But dude like you gotta you gotta

593
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: fill up your own cup before you try to of

594
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: it to help other people.

595
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 4: And yah, I.

596
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 1: You know, look, you that philosophy is up for debate,

597
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: reasonably so, but I think it's something for you to

598
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: think about.

599
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 4: Okay, So if you were me, GEK, what would you do?

600
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: If I were you? You're asking me if what I

601
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: would do? Yeah, I'd set my boundaries with this person

602
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: and I would tell them you need to do this

603
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: or else I cannot help you any longer.

604
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 4: But what if you said that countless times and nothing

605
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 4: ever changed.

606
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: I would have to go and focus on my own life. Okay, Garrett,

607
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: is is there anything else you want to say to

608
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: the people of the computer before we go?

609
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 4: Well, I just want to say I love your love

610
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 4: your videos.

611
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 2: GEG.

612
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 4: My first time ever being on here. I've been trying

613
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 4: for like a year, and I hope everyone else is

614
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 4: in a situation like this. And if you are, just

615
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 4: kick the bitch out, do what I can't do.

616
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you soon, Garrett.

617
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 4: Thank you, all right, thank you. Gek.

618
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm thinking that he's like, so, you know,

619
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: intoxicated with this girl and you know, so deeply, deeply caring,

620
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: and then he's says, kick the bitch out. That's actually

621
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 1: a really tough situation. It's actually a really tough situation

622
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 1: because I think he comes from, you know, this place

623
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 1: of empathy for this girl who probably has a lot.

624
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: I mean, she's you know, she's a she's young too,

625
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 1: she has to figure her own shit out. She probably

626
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 1: has a lot to figure out and probably is going

627
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: up against a lot. But he's not. His head's not

628
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: screwed on either. And I don't think I'm you know,

629
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: even from her perspective, like she is gonna have to

630
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: within herself figure out what's going on. And you know,

631
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: this eighteen year old guy with no job and no

632
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: idea what he's doing is not going to be an

633
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: approbate brit Guardian angel for her. But that's a that's

634
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 1: a tough that's a tough situation. I hope he figures

635
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 1: it out. Hi.

636
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 2: Hi is it Lyle?

637
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: It is? Who is this?

638
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 7: My name is Alessa. How's it going?

639
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 1: Uh? It's going okay. I'm hanging out. I'm being a gecko.

640
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying my best. What's happening?

641
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 7: So I called in to get your vibes on a situation.

642
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 7: I'm having a familial situation. So I'm not sure what

643
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 7: the cal screener types you, but basically, I am the

644
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 7: eldest of four and my my three other siblings are triplets.

645
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 7: I'm I'm close with all of them, which is super cool.

646
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 7: We're only about two years apart. So our parents divorced

647
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 7: and have been since about two thousand and Basically, my

648
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 7: sister has been taking on a project at my dad's house,

649
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 7: which has basically been to remodel my dad's house, which

650
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 7: she's not kept up with, and I feel like she's

651
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 7: kind of bulldozing the project. And also I feel like

652
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 7: she's kind of like, I'm not sure that my dad

653
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 7: has a will in place, and not that I like,

654
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 7: our dad's not gonna die anytime soon, but she's kind

655
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 7: of like remodeling this house under the guys that like,

656
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 7: like she thinks she's going to get the house basically

657
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 7: when he dies. And it's it's kind of a whole

658
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 7: thing because I have a good relationship with my sister,

659
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 7: a good relationship with my dad, but like I don't

660
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 7: I'm afraid of it turning into litigation when he does pass.

661
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 7: But it's it's kind of.

662
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Speaker 3: A whole thing.

663
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 7: So I was kind of trying to get your take on,

664
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 7: you know, your experience with things like this.

665
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: Your sister has been remodeling your dad's house for him

666
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: with the secret intention that he will die and she

667
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: will get the house that she is remodeling.

668
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 7: Well, fortunately, I mean I don't think I mean that

669
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 7: makes it sound a little like mischievous, like she's.

670
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: Plased, sounds incredibly the way you are describing it sounds

671
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: very mischievous.

672
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 7: I don't think she's trying to kill our father, which

673
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 7: is super cool and I love that. But he's he's

674
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 7: seventy one, but he's a healthy seventy one. And so like,

675
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 7: her whole thing is that like her lease ends in September, and.

676
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 8: Neighborhood, I don't even know that it's quite that, but

677
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 8: I mean I think she's kind of minimizing the whole thing,

678
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 8: where like she's gonna have to live with her seventy

679
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 8: one year.

680
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 7: Old father and and I don't know that he's completely

681
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 7: okay with it also, but I don't know that he's

682
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 7: like gonna like stand up to her in that way

683
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 7: because he's fixing up her house or she's fixing up

684
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 7: his house. So Okay, it's weird because I feel like, yeah, yeah,

685
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 7: tell me.

686
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: About I guess I still don't fully understand what is

687
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:17,479
Speaker 1: happening here. Her lease ends in September, and so she's

688
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: remodeling her dad, your guys dad's house so that her

689
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: dad will maybe let her live with him.

690
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, basically, yeah, I mean I think her intent is

691
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 7: to try to live with him, presumably like rent free,

692
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 7: but like, but she's spent money on his house so

693
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 7: it'll be chilled, and.

694
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 1: That makes that makes no sense? Why why does it?

695
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: Has?

696
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: Has she told him that she wants to live with him,

697
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 1: so yes, they've had.

698
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 7: That conversation, but then it's like more recently she's been like, yes,

699
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 7: me and also my friend are going to live there,

700
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 7: and like I feel like she's keeps like creeping up

701
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 7: on the boundaries. And also like she's she's like had

702
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 7: conversations with me about like yeah, and then all airbnb

703
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 7: the house, and I'm like, her dad is not like

704
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 7: on death's door.

705
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just there's totally going to try to kill

706
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: your dad. That's every that's that's everything you're telling me.

707
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: It makes me really feel like planning to kill your dad.

708
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 1: And she told her friend that if her friend helps

709
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: her bury the body, that the friend could also live there.

710
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: That's the that's my vie.

711
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 7: But perhaps re butt or negate that my dad is

712
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 7: a big gun guy, So I mean you could take that,

713
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 7: you know, either way, from from either perspective of I mean,

714
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 7: I don't think that's the case, Lyle.

715
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 4: But it's just.

716
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 9: The part that concerns me the most is that they're

717
00:41:55,480 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 9: both kind of hard headed folks and my dad is

718
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 9: just let this house get into disrepair. And and I

719
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 9: feel like my sister when my dad does pass, which

720
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 9: I don't think is going to.

721
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 7: Be very soon, by the way, like I don't I

722
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 7: don't want it to end in you know, my dad

723
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 7: not having a will or something, because I don't know

724
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 7: that he does. And then me it impacting my relationship

725
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 7: with my sister who who the current time.

726
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I wanted to I did want to bring this

727
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 1: back to you because I am curious what your role

728
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: in all of this is.

729
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 7: Uh here, Here's the other part too, is that I'm

730
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 7: a I'm a very handy person, and so she she's

731
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 7: called upon me to help with you know, replacing lighting

732
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 7: fixtures and tearing things bah blah blah blah whatever. Like

733
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,479
Speaker 7: I I'm very handy, So she's been like, hey, I'll.

734
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 4: Pay you to come help.

735
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: Listen, Listen, if your sister asks if she can borrow

736
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: some tools, don't lend them to her.

737
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 7: But should I still go help?

738
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: Because don't.

739
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 7: House, no axes, no ice picks, no nothing.

740
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Look, this is right now from the way that,

741
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: at least you're telling me this story out of I

742
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 1: got no fucking idea what your sister is doing here.

743
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,720
Speaker 1: I don't your sister. It doesn't sound like she's talked

744
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: to your dad about any of this stuff. It doesn't

745
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: sound like you've talked to your dad about any of

746
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: this stuff. But it also sounds like it. But it

747
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: sounds like it is concerned you enough that you're calling

748
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: me to talk about it, which means it is concerning

749
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: to you. So why don't you talk to your dad

750
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: and tell him that you guys should he should fucking

751
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 1: make a will. I mean, he's seventy one, he should

752
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: have a thing, he should have a piece of How

753
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: do you coach?

754
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 7: How do you coach a grown man that doesn't know

755
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 7: how to set boundaries like that?

756
00:43:59,000 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: You don't?

757
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 8: Then what the fuck do I do?

758
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 7: I mean I think that, yes, I agree he should

759
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 7: have I mean because because I guess, perhaps from my perspective,

760
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 7: I like, I think getting his house repaired and remodeled

761
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 7: or whatever he is.

762
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 1: He at least is he is he like, is he

763
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: of sound mind and body?

764
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 4: Yes?

765
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 3: And that.

766
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 1: Family legally must be taken care of kind of position.

767
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 4: No.

768
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 7: But the thing is that he's let this house get

769
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 7: into disrepair. And also he had a hoarder mother, so

770
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 7: he's got kind of some like horderous tendencies to like

771
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 7: he's he's and he's also adhd undiagnosed saying he's he's

772
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 7: like let the house get really fucking crazy. So I

773
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 7: do think it's a good effort to repair the house, right,

774
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 7: But I'm like, I feel like you know the motivations

775
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 7: are a little skewed from my sister's.

776
00:44:59,239 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 2: Point of view.

777
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I know it's it's weird.

778
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 3: I know.

779
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 7: Do you have it's very weird?

780
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 1: Or do I have any friends you can do? I

781
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: have any friends whose sisters are remodeling their father's houses

782
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: so that when their father dies they could have the

783
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: remodeled house for their air to air to be out. No,

784
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: I don't have any friends that that has happened to

785
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: and that has never happened to me. But I mean, look,

786
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: all you can really do is talk to your dad

787
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, look, I mean, don't get into

788
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: some Shakespearean macave whatever thing with it, because you don't

789
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: have time for that. You're an adult of your own life.

790
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 7: Who does.

791
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: Talk to Just talk to your dad. I don't know this.

792
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: The reason this is making no sense to me is

793
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 1: because you could. You should just talk to your dad

794
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: about this, and if he's unresponsive to your talking about it,

795
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: then congratulations, you have done the best that you can.

796
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: Sure and if he's not in a feeble minded state,

797
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: he doesn't have dementia or any of these kind of

798
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: things that would that would make him legally unable to

799
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:33,919
Speaker 1: make decisions for himself. Then unfortunately, you cannot make decisions

800
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: for him. You could talk to your sister. You could

801
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: talk to your sister and have these conversations and whatnot.

802
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: But again, if your sister wants to connive and you

803
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: want to warn your father of her conniving and chastise

804
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: her for her conniving, those are your options. But outside

805
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: of that, there's you know, I mean, what are you

806
00:46:59,360 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: gonna do?

807
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 3: Right?

808
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I think I think the three of

809
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 7: us have had kind of some surface level conversations, and

810
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 7: I think you're right, I need to like talk to

811
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 7: him one on one. I just it's it's it's kind

812
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 7: of this, you know, being the children of divorced parents

813
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 7: who had kind of a tumultuous divorce, and then like

814
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 7: her and I are very close, and it's like this

815
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 7: weird thing where like her and I have not really

816
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 7: had this kind of you know, disagreement in our relationship before,

817
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 7: so it feels kind of different and new to even like.

818
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 2: Okay, you know, have conflict with her.

819
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: I guess so, okay, well you don't have Well, if

820
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 1: it makes you feel any better, I'm going to tell you.

821
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you this and then before we

822
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 1: go it makes you feel any better, You don't have

823
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: to deal with any of this you don't have. If

824
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: you don't want to, you can ignore it completely.

825
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, for sure. No, you're totally right.

826
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: But you're choosing to. You know why are choosing to?

827
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: Because you care about your family.

828
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 7: I care and I love them.

829
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Don't let it drive you insane, Alisa,

830
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 1: is there anything else you want to say to the

831
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go?

832
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 7: Lyle, thank you for taking my call. I want to

833
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 7: give a shout out to my dog Doug, who's sitting

834
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 7: on the couch and I remained a call, and also

835
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 7: my BFF Katie, and I just I appreciate the chat.

836
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 7: I appreciate you, Lyle, and I appreciate your very kind call.

837
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: Screamers, God bless you. Alisa. Have a good rest of

838
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:26,720
Speaker 1: the night and to you nine nights. If only dogs

839
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 1: understood shout outs, I'd shout out them all. Hello, Hello, Hi, Hi,

840
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: what's up is this?

841
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 6: Gag?

842
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:39,280
Speaker 1: Yes?

843
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 5: Hello?

844
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 3: Sorry?

845
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: What's your name?

846
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 3: My giggles out? Haley?

847
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: How's it going? Haley? How can I get you today?

848
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 3: It's fantastic, It's fantastic. I'm living my life. How you've been, How.

849
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:16,959
Speaker 1: Have I been? Mm hmm a, I'm okay. But what's

850
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: I mean, what's going on with you? Haley?

851
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 4: Well?

852
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 10: Uh, you know, just uh god done celebrating my birthday week.

853
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 10: And the reason I called in was part of my

854
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 10: birthday week. So I decided to just share a.

855
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,760
Speaker 3: Very intimate secret that I've been holding for a while.

856
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: Okay, and what is that?

857
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 3: I I prefer to have my alone time in uh,

858
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 3: sensory deprivation tanks. Do you know what those are?

859
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm familiar.

860
00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 7: Have you been in?

861
00:49:58,920 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 3: What?

862
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 2: No?

863
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: I haven't. Okay, you prefer to have your alone time

864
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 1: and sensory deprivation tanks? Okay, yes, sir? What do you

865
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:16,959
Speaker 1: do when you're in the tank?

866
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 3: So it's the whole, the whole thing. Some of the

867
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 3: tanks are like an open, like big like hot tub,

868
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 3: and in some you actually have to like get inside

869
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 3: like a tomb and like close the door. And I

870
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 3: know that can bother some people who have like claustrophobia.

871
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 3: It doesn't bother me because I'm kind of small, so

872
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter which tank I'm in or which tub

873
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 3: I'm in. But the first time I ever did one.

874
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 3: It was actually like a gift from my boss and

875
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 3: people at work because I had been like super stressed

876
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 3: out and they bought me one as a gift. So

877
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 3: I went in and I was like, wow, the last

878
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 3: thing I want after being stressed out is to be

879
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 3: alone in the dark with my thoughts for an hour.

880
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 3: But however, once like get in and like, the water

881
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 3: is really nice. It's the same temperature as the air

882
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 3: above you, and it's like salt water and you're floating

883
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 3: and like you can't tell like when the air begins

884
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 3: in the water, and like ten minutes in, I was like.

885
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: Listen, Haley, I wasn't gonna say it, but it says

886
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 1: here that you like to masturbate in the tanks.

887
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I mass very excite now I was getting there.

888
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I said alone time, and I was like

889
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: I was done moment to let her say it herself.

890
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 3: But sorry, I'm sorry.

891
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:46,319
Speaker 10: I went on, Yeah, you did like you really as

892
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 10: sune with like your body and your first your mind

893
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 10: and then your body, and like, oh, I.

894
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 3: Feel really in tune with my body. This is nice.

895
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,720
Speaker 1: Okay, why do you like to masturbate in the tanks?

896
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 3: I just feel like the first time. I don't know.

897
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 3: Its just I feel like I can really just focus

898
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,399
Speaker 3: on what I'm feeling physically. I feel like when I'm

899
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: like with a partner, I can't and I have I

900
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 3: have a lot of trouble climaxing with a partner physically,

901
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 3: But when I'm in like one of these tanks, it

902
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 3: takes me like a minute. It's just so different than

903
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 3: being like, I don't I have no idea. It's I'm

904
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 3: still trying to figure it out.

905
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what I was gonna. Well do you like,

906
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: do you come yes? Where does the come go?

907
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 3: Okay? There's a difference between a female like oh okay,

908
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: like oh do I squirt?

909
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: Like yeah, no, I don't.

910
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I get wet, but like that doesn't go

911
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 3: like I don't think, like I don't seem like enough

912
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 3: comes out to like ruin the tank because it does

913
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 3: say in like the rules, don't get any bodily fluids

914
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 3: in here. But I'm like, I don't think, just come around,

915
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,240
Speaker 3: I'm not squirting.

916
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: Do they are they testing the.

917
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 3: Hey, I've been to the same place three times and

918
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 3: they haven't kicked me out yet, So I think I'm

919
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: doing good.

920
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: Okay, do you, I mean, do you feel as though

921
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 1: you're at risk of of potentially getting caught.

922
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 3: No, I've looked around. I've like looked at like I

923
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 3: keep going into the same room and I'm like, Okay,

924
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 3: they're gonna set up a camera this time and try

925
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 3: to catch me. And No, to this day, like nothing's happened,

926
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 3: So I'm just going to keep I'm just gonna keep

927
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 3: doing it.

928
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:50,280
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hmm. Okay, do you anticipate like has okay,

929
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: have it? Tell me this has has masturbating in these

930
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 1: tanks ruined masturbation outside of.

931
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 3: The tank for you, it hasn't ruined it, but it

932
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,799
Speaker 3: makes If I know I'm going to do a like

933
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 3: a tank, I will build it up for weeks. I

934
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: will be like, I will not touch myself for like

935
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 3: weeks until the tank happens. Hm hmmmm.

936
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: And that generally, you know, increases the sensation.

937
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: For you, absolutely, okay. And it's not a super like

938
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 3: it's salt water, so it's not super like you know, like,

939
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 3: it's not super comfortable, but if you haven't like touched

940
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 3: yourself in a while, it's it's still nice.

941
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:47,360
Speaker 1: Is this public masturbation or I guess because you're alone.

942
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: It doesn't like legally speaking, where are we at with this.

943
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:55,439
Speaker 4: I don't, I don't.

944
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 3: I don't know how you would where this would fall

945
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 3: in the guideline. I'm in a private room. I don't know.

946
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 3: I'm on private prop I don't know. I don't know.

947
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 3: No one can see me unless they put up camera.

948
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: Do you do you masturbate in other questionable places?

949
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 4: No?

950
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

951
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: You know. By the way, I just want you to know.

952
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:26,240
Speaker 1: This makes perfect sense to me because all your senses

953
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: are deprived, so you just focus entirely on the orgasm.

954
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: It makes perfect sense.

955
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's intense and it comes quickly, no pun intended,

956
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: but yeah, it's.

957
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll do it. Maybe I'll check off on one

958
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,879
Speaker 1: of these things. But I feel like if I did,

959
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: it's stuff, because then if I did it, it would

960
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: be all jizzy. I could edge in the sensory deprivation

961
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: tank and it wouldn't be that bad.

962
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 3: I think I think you should try and just see

963
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 3: if they say anything and just never do it again

964
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 3: after that.

965
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: No, that's because if they do say something, then I'm

966
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm going to jail.

967
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 3: It's not like, actually, you can get away with this

968
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 3: where Okay, when you when you do, if you're laying

969
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 3: down your back and you jerk off, yeah, come on, Like,

970
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 3: can you come on your stomach, because when you're floating,

971
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 3: your stomach stays above the water the whole time. So

972
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 3: if you can like come on your stomach and like

973
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 3: save it and then get out of the water without

974
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 3: it getting into like the salt water, your guilt, your gold, baby,

975
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 3: you could totally do it.

976
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: You understand why that's much worse, right, Why because when

977
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: I get out of the tank and stand up, whoever's

978
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: there is going to see that I have a bunch

979
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: of calm on my stomach.

980
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 7: No, no, no, no no.

981
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 3: Well, when you get out of the tank, you you

982
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 3: still have the whole room to yourself. It's a private room.

983
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 3: Whatever kind of tank you have, you have it for

984
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 3: the whole hour, and you have to shower before and after,

985
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 3: so the evidence will be gone. You should just just

986
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 3: try it out, and I think you could do this.

987
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: You know, the people who work there, they've got to

988
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: know that people are checking off of these things. They've

989
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: got it.

990
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 3: Now, Hey, let me tell you something. It's worth it.

991
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,479
Speaker 3: It's one of the best It's one of the best

992
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 3: feelings ever.

993
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: Haley. Is there anything else you want to say to

994
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: the people of the computer before we go?

995
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,439
Speaker 3: Yes, I wrote it down. Hold on if it feels good,

996
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 3: do it if it feels bad.

997
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: Stop debateable, lease, debatable, debatable, it's very it's highly debatable conjecture.

998
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: But I'm glad you came prepared to say something. Uh,

999
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: think of you calling Hayley.

1000
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 3: Thank you, hav a good night.

1001
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 5: Get Never be kedges on the line taking your phone

1002
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 5: calls every night.

1003
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 4: Never be Ked goes doing his hide.

1004
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: He's teaching you cloud and your life, but he's not ready.

1005
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 2: An expert