1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: My in laws treated me like a servant, but I 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: finally stood up for. 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 2: Myself about dawn time. I just gotta stand up. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am the fiance female thirty three, and I 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: visited my fiance male thirty and his family this past summer. 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: Let's call him Dan, and I will be Liz in 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: this story, all right, Dan and Liz. I was visiting 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: the USA to live with Dan and his family for 9 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: a month and attend Dan's sister's wedding. I'm from Sweden. 10 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: We have been together for five years and engaged for 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: one and a half. This was not the first time 12 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: I visited them, and I didn't think it would be 13 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: the last one. Ha. 14 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: By the way, this. 15 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: Comes from user beginning Sir twenty six forty three on 16 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So it all started 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: with me being jet lagged, stressed from traveling across half 18 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: the planet, along with some shark week troubles. I had 19 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: been there for about two days before crap hit the fan. 20 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: Is shark week troubles code word for being on your period? 21 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I just wanted to. 22 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: Clarify that don't go in the ocean. 23 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: She's not a I just wanted maybe she was a 24 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: big fan of Shark Week. I don't know. Okay. 25 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,839 Speaker 1: One day as I arrived and slept most of the time. 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: The second day, I was focused on greeting the family 27 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 1: and I baked scones for them all. As my sister 28 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: in law's wedding was a week away, A bunch of 29 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: Dan's relatives and family had already gathered and there were 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: about fifteen people that I baked for. 31 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 2: It's a lot of scones. Alongside this, I baked bread 32 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: for myself. 33 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: I have a severe food allergy that could end me 34 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: in the hospital with internal bleeding. 35 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 3: Oh wow. 36 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: Woof the whole family knows this, and I've told them before. 37 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: I've visited before and told them again. 38 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: I can make it clear that I know Dan's parents 39 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: and his sister, but not the entire extended family. This 40 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: was my first time meeting them actually. However, the core 41 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: family knows about my allergy. Even with this knowledge, the 42 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: family was careless and my food was contaminated a couple 43 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: of times, mixing my burger patties with theirs on their 44 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: plates and so on. I was left with half meals 45 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: without protein, or they made food I couldn't eat and 46 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: didn't have any alternatives for I ended up skipping meals 47 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: or having to go out to buy things to eat 48 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: without any notice. Along with all these things, I was 49 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: asked to make a dish that my mother had taught 50 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: me how to make, Chilean pirogy that takes about two 51 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: days to make if you make it alone. 52 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: Two days. For some pierogis, that's too long. 53 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 3: He gets one meal. 54 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: You're flying them in from Chili. 55 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a thousand year egg. 56 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: Damn it, kion, I want to know, don't you dare 57 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: put a thousand year egg in my brain right now? 58 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: My father in law wanted me to make them the 59 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: Chilean parogies so that his mother could try them. The 60 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,959 Speaker 1: family have tried these before and they loved them very much, 61 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: so everyone in the extended family wanted to try them too. 62 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: So I was prepared to make a large batch of these, 63 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: and Dan and I bought all the ingredients and even 64 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: doubled them so that everyone would get some again. The 65 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: family was aware that I was going to make this dish, 66 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: so the second day my food was sabotaged, and on 67 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: the third day I'm expected to cook for everyone. I 68 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: already baked for them and for myself and was and 69 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: I was prepared for the perogis. During breakfast, I made 70 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: a Swedish oven pancake for everyone. Sweet just came out 71 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: like that, Okay, what are we doing? 72 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: Where's Josephine? 73 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: After this, Dan drove me to town so we could 74 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: get extra ingredients for the chili sauce that was going 75 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: to go with the perogi. We came back home around 76 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: three pm and the kitchen was already full of people 77 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 1: working on other dishes. I thought I would be back 78 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: in about an hour to see if there was maybe 79 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: some more space to cook. I even asked them what 80 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: when I would I even asked them when I would 81 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: have space to do my part, and they told me 82 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: about an hour. But when I came back, the kitchen 83 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: was still occupied and they were making complex dishes. 84 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 2: Oh, they're making dishes that like do many. 85 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: More complex than a two day dish. This dish knows 86 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: ask complex. This is this is, this is too much. 87 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 2: It is, there's a lot, there's a lot, too many cooks. 88 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 2: Too many cooks in the kitchen. 89 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, too many cooks. 90 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: So I thought I would wait a bit more maybe uh. 91 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: But I was also told that it would be a while. 92 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: Maybe I could cook around six pm or so, is 93 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: what I was told. However, that would have been very late, 94 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: as it takes at least four hours to get the 95 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: filling made. It was going to be too late, and 96 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: not to mention that every single pot, pan and other 97 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: utensil was already dirty, used or filled up with food. 98 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: I got angry over the situation, rolled my eyes and 99 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: left to go to my and Dan's bedroom. 100 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 3: This is why I just make eggs because of that. 101 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 3: You whip that up fifteen minutes, whip up a couple 102 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 3: of eggs or cereal, babe, got it, and it has 103 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 3: everything you need. Yeah, yeah, unless you need to wait 104 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 3: like a thousand years for one yer while. 105 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: Sometimes from what I've heard, I don't know. 106 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: It hasn't been confirmed yet how long it takes for 107 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: the egg to be ready after it's been fermenting in 108 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: the ground. But we'll find me maybe you will hear 109 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: about that at some point. At this point, I am tired, hungry, overstimulated, 110 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: and have been shoved to the side, so I explode. 111 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: I felt used for all the food I had already done, 112 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 1: and how my own food had been contaminated because of 113 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: everyone's carelessness. I just wished that, since everyone knew I 114 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: was going to make this dish in advance, that they 115 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: had made something simpler for their dinner so that I 116 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: could do my work. So I got really pissed off 117 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: and I packed my bags to leave. WHOA leaving over 118 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: Chilean parogish? 119 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 3: Is that too much? 120 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, maybe, just like just let the 121 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 2: Chilean parogies go. 122 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 3: But also, you've been hangry because you haven't eaten anything, 123 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 3: because every time you try to eat something that put 124 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 3: this this thing that will kill you and your food. 125 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: You are in an altered state. 126 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 3: You are angry, but like the opposite, the opposite of 127 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: the full body. 128 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 2: Not in a good way, in a bad way. 129 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: Dan and the father in law were in the doorway 130 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: and talking to me while this was happening. 131 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 2: While she was packing her bags, she was being talked 132 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: to by Dan and the father. 133 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: They were trying to ask me what was happening. While 134 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: I was extremely angry and upset and trying to leave. 135 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: I asked them to move, first calmly, but increasingly more 136 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: stressed intense, as they wouldn't let me go past. So 137 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: I pushed through them rough with my bags, almost tossing 138 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: the bag down two steps at the other side of 139 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: the door. In the process, I ran over the father 140 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: in law's foot, which I didn't notice at the time, 141 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: which is which is itchy of me. I know, just 142 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: put a bea at the beginning of that, if you 143 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: want to know what I was saying. However, I was 144 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: stopped by everyone. My mother in law talked to me 145 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: and was guilt tripping me into stay. Father in law 146 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: was also talking to me, but it was Dan who 147 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: ultimately asked me to stay. And that didn't help me 148 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: see things a bit more rational and set and stay. 149 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 2: It didn't. 150 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: Oh, and that did oops, And once Dan asked me 151 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: to say, that did help me see things a bit 152 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: more rationally and stay. 153 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:50,239 Speaker 2: So Dan, Dan got her through the hangar. Dan said, 154 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: you're not you and you're hunger. 155 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 4: No free sponsors. 156 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: No, that's just a fact. That's not a sponsorship, that's 157 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: just a fact. 158 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 3: I mean, she's she's going through. She hasn't eaten, you know, Yeah, 159 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 3: she's she's on chuck. 160 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: Only has she's not eaten, but she's worried about eating 161 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: things that will poison her. 162 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like no one's really respecting her in the family. 163 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 3: She's not in her elements, you know, she's not like 164 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: like she's like surrounded by maybe unfamiliar, uncharted territory. 165 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: She's in international watersnational. 166 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: Uh So the next day Dan had to go to work, 167 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: so I was alone in his room and that way 168 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: I could decompress. Then the mother in law comes to 169 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: the door and demands that we talk. 170 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 3: Okay, that's not cool. She needs time to decompress. 171 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 2: How are you going to demand? 172 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 3: Should have happened? I think she should have said he like, 173 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 3: Dan and her have conversation and she goes alone into 174 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 3: her room to decompress, and Dan speaks on her behalf 175 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: to the family and said, like, don't talk to her. 176 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's the the Swedish emissary. 177 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the liaison. 178 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's the liaison. Don Okay, So mother in law 179 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 2: demands that we talk. 180 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: I told her no and that I needed to be 181 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: left alone, and she was not taking that as an answer. 182 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: She forced her way into the room and then she 183 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: started to trauma dump on me. Trauma dump on me 184 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: someone who has trauma of their own. She accused me 185 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: of being bipolar and would not leave me alone. Oh 186 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: that sounds like just a wonderful conversation to have with 187 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: your mother in law. This was also when I learned 188 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: that I had rolled over father in law's foot with 189 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: my bag, as she screamed at me that he was 190 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: hurt and could not walk and had a terrible limb, 191 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: which was an exaggeration. I learned later that a few 192 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: of the extended family had asked about my well being 193 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: during this time too. Dan got back home and I 194 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: told him everything, and he was an extreme shock as 195 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: to what happened, having originally thought that his mother would 196 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: be more reasonable than this. We tried to calm down 197 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: and relax the rest the day and avoided people for 198 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: a while. 199 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 2: We just needed time to decompress, that's all. 200 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: The next day we talked about how to go about things, 201 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: and we both agreed that I should at least apologize 202 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: for the accident that happened with. 203 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 2: Father in law. That's fair. He ran over his foot 204 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: and sorry, his. 205 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 3: Toes are basically cut off. Yeah, your freaking knife, knife wheels. 206 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: He crushed all the bones in his foot into powder, 207 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: apparently with your your suitcase, Yeah, suitcase full of Swedish bricks. 208 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: Dan left the room to go talk to his family 209 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: about me feeling better and being ready to talk. After 210 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: mere minutes, he comes rushing back, panicked and telling me 211 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: that I'm being kicked out of the house. 212 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: Dan, what did you do? What did you say? 213 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 3: Didn't they all want her to stay? Weren't they all 214 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 3: begging her to stay? And she was like, I'm trying 215 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 3: to leave, and then once she stays, they're like, we watched. 216 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. This stretch up needs to 217 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 2: be studied. 218 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 3: I'm not breaking up with you. You're not breaking up 219 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: with me. I'm breaking up with you. 220 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: Go back to Sweden now instead of yesterday. Okay. 221 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: My mother in law is threatening me that if I 222 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: don't figure things out on my end, I'll be thrown out. 223 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: Dan sits down with me, and my mother in law 224 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: storms in and shouts at me, along with calling me 225 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: a whole list of names. She accuses me of being 226 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: a liar and abusive, along with telling me that I'm 227 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: a manipulative narcissist. Because it turns out she's mad that 228 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: I took attention away from the bride as it's the 229 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: sister in law's wedding week. This was when I learned 230 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: that anyone had asked about my This was when I 231 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: learned that anyone had asked about my well being the 232 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: day before when I wanted to be by myself. Apparently 233 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: this was a huge problem. I need to make it 234 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: clear that I did not want attention. I did not 235 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: care for attention while I was upset. I did not 236 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: scream at anyone on All I wanted to do was 237 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: be alone in the bedroom. 238 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 2: Until Dan got back home from work. So it sounds 239 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: like the. 240 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: Mother in law is being like, yeah, you just locked 241 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: yourself in your room all day, wanting everybody to pay 242 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: attention to you. 243 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 3: And it's like I was locking myself in my room 244 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 3: shut like shutting myself from all attention, isn't it. It's 245 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 3: like I'm literally saying, no one talked to me. That's 246 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 3: like the opposite of looking for attention. 247 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, Oh, the mother in law is just 248 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: actually so toxic. She's forgotten what the concept of like 249 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: needing to take a nap is, and she's just like, well, 250 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: whenever I just spend time in my room alone, it's 251 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: because I'm upset and I want people to pay attention 252 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: to me, So you must be doing the same thing. 253 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 3: That's what it sounds like a little bit insufferable. 254 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all I wanted was to be alone in the 255 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: bedroom until Dan got back home from work. This is 256 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,319 Speaker 1: a culture clash thing. As in Sweden we usually take 257 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 1: some time away from a situation to cool down before 258 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: confronting it and talking. 259 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 2: But this is too offensive for America? 260 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 3: Is this? I don't know if this is a cultural thing. 261 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 3: I think I think universally people take time, yeah, away 262 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 3: from intense situations and people that are a little bit 263 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 3: ridiculous to calm down. Yeah, sometimes even like ten days 264 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: in the middle of the Mexican jungle. 265 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 2: I was about to say, did you learn that on 266 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: your meditation retreat? They drop that one on you. No, 267 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: this isn't a cultural thing. This is just Uh. 268 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 1: There's always those people who are like, we know, we 269 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: need to talk now, we need to talk now, and 270 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:32,719 Speaker 1: it's being like, no, I don't want to talk now. 271 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 2: But then they'll be like why not? Why? What was wrong? 272 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 2: What's going on? 273 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 3: You want to talk about? It might be spiraling internally, yeah, 274 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,599 Speaker 3: of just like what like trying to fix. 275 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: It and she's doing it as like you're you're trying 276 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 1: to sabotage my daughter's wedding. Yeah, anyway, anyway, mother in 277 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: law tells me that the bride is incredibly stressed out 278 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: and has a run out of the house and disappeared 279 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: into the neighborhood something. But when we heard it completely 280 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: derailed the situation because we ran out to go find 281 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: the sister in law. 282 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 2: We drove around the neighborhood looking for but it turns 283 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 2: out she was home. 284 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 3: Sounds like a lost time. She can't be alone in 285 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 3: the neighborhood. 286 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 2: Put my car exactly what happened to us today? 287 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, the dog got out. 288 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 2: He's okay though, he's fine. 289 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 290 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, turns out she was just at home the whole time. 291 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: When we heard that she was at home, we went back. 292 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: We walked into the house, and we had decided that 293 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: I should apologize to the bride. She didn't have anything 294 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: to do with this situation, and we didn't want to 295 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: stress her out any further. Though it seems like she 296 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: wasn't gone at all during that time. It was actually 297 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: something that the mother in law and father in law 298 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: had planned out. 299 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: Ahead of time. 300 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know that they had done that at the time. 301 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: I was worried about the bride at that moment. As 302 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: I knew that. 303 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,239 Speaker 2: She was stressed. 304 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 3: Wait, what did they plan? 305 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 2: Did they plan? Wait? 306 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: So they is the plan that they they planned on? 307 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: Being like, yeah, she ran out into the neighborhood. No, 308 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: and then being like, oh, we gotta go get her. 309 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 3: No, it can't be that. 310 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: That's the only thing I can think of. 311 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 3: Maybe we'll get more contacts in the story that's confusing. 312 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 2: Well, clearly English not the first language here. 313 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: But Dan went to his sister and told her that 314 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: we wanted to talk to her in private. 315 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 2: She did not want that. 316 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: She wanted to have a chat in front of the 317 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: whole extended family of which Moore had arrived during the 318 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: past few days. Sister in law asked me to come 319 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: along to talk, and I thought what we would do, 320 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: and I thought that we would do something about everything. 321 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: Sister in law told me that she wasn't stressed about 322 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: the situation, contrary to what mother in law had said. 323 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: As we stood there with the whole family around us, 324 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: which is twenty plus people at this point, sister in 325 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: law told me that I'm an abuser, She's afraid of 326 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: what I do behind closed doors, and that she thinks 327 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: that Dan should be the one that decide if I 328 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: should stay or not for the wedding. 329 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 3: And she's doing this in front of this whole audience 330 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 3: with Dan there. 331 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, where where is this coming from? 332 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 3: Bill? A situation because she's she's because she's the one 333 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 3: going like having the wedding, right, I guess maybe she's 334 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: like trying to spark up some trauma, or maybe she's 335 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: legitimately worried about her brother. 336 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: But to recap what has gone on here, she flew 337 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: in from Sweden. The first day she's there, she just 338 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: stays in her room because she's tired and recovering from traveling. 339 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: Second day she literally bakes scones for everybody. 340 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 2: I guess these scones are abusive. 341 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: And then the third day she's gonna make a forty 342 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: eight hour recipe Chilean parogi's, and the entire kitchen is 343 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: full of cooks all day and she can't do it, 344 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: so so then she just goes to her room. And 345 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: now she's an abuser because it's the sister in law's wedding. 346 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I I feel like it's a little bit of 347 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 3: a stretch. A little bit of a stretch. 348 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's stretched very thin. 349 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 4: She needs to do to more she do just way 350 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 4: more obviously, like she's not doing enough. 351 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 3: She isn't, she isn't. She should have gotten her own 352 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 3: kitchen where we've gone the neighbor's kitchen. Yeah, duh, PAROCHI, duh. 353 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: You could have uh. 354 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 4: Just silence. 355 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 2: I got nothing. 356 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 1: You could have made a century egg if you had 357 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: planned ahead, you could have had a whole batch of 358 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 1: Century eggs, or the whole family. Okay, because mother in 359 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: law and sister in law were convinced that I would 360 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: interrupt the ceremony with drama and they didn't trust me. 361 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 3: Is this not drama? 362 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? This whole thing is super dramatic. You're literally what 363 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 2: is going on here? 364 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 3: You're waiting to air out drama in front of your 365 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 3: entire family extended? 366 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:57,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, you are not. 367 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 3: You are the one who is trying to create drama. 368 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 4: Uh huh, I'm not kidding. 369 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 3: Like Linda's saying, unreliable narrator, I don't know, and I feel. 370 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 4: Like I would be being like at this point with 371 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 4: everything going on, I'm like, am I being punked right now? Like? 372 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 4: Is this real? 373 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 374 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: It's like she doesn't know most of these people either, 375 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: most of these people she's met for the first time. 376 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 2: No, those the core family, but not the extended family. 377 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: And now they're like all like, yeah, you're abusive and 378 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 1: we're gonna let your husband decide whether or not you 379 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: can stay. 380 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 4: It's very yeah. This is like it's like one thing 381 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 4: as like a domino effect where it's like one thing 382 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 4: after another. I'm like, what is going on? 383 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 3: Linda's got me, got me cooking on the unreliable narrator thing, 384 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 3: No cooking on that? 385 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: What's up with the the she ran out of the house. 386 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 2: Mother in law and father in law are like, yeah, 387 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 2: the sister in law ran. 388 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:52,120 Speaker 3: Out of the house because she's something isn't adding up here. 389 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 2: So they wanted her out. I think what they did 390 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 2: is they got them out of the house and then 391 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 2: game plan. They were like, all right, so what do 392 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 2: we do. I think we should. 393 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: All like get her in the living room and we 394 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 1: make her like we confront all of us. We confront 395 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: her so we can all gang up on her and 396 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: then tell her that she no longer has any agency 397 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 1: and it's just her husband and that she's terrible. 398 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 3: I want Francie in my in your pants, says A 399 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 3: France in your pants. Fancy France in your pants says 400 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 3: a lot of missing details. Courtney Trustcott says, nope, I'd 401 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 3: leave and break up with Dan one for not defending me. 402 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 3: In two. I wouldn't want to be part of that family. 403 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 3: Wingle says, I agree. Unreliable narrator, Yeah, I'm not. I 404 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 3: mean like I feel, Oh, maybe it's about the foot. 405 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 3: Maybe it's about the rolled over foot. I so something 406 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 3: I would say, and this is this is the only 407 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 3: this is this is the thing that is making me feel. 408 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 3: Unreliable narrator is she rolled over the foot and knows 409 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 3: she rolled over the foot and kind of like underplay 410 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 3: how bad it was almost immediately. 411 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: No, she didn't realize it at first. It wasn't until 412 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: the mother in law talked to her the next day 413 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: that she realized that she found out, Oh. 414 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,439 Speaker 3: I rolled over his foot, I thought, she said, like, 415 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 3: as she was going out, she pushed her way through. 416 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: Yes, she did that in the but in the in 417 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: the timeline of the story, she didn't know that she had. 418 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 2: Ran over it. 419 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 3: But she knows she pushed through. 420 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: She knew. When she was writing it. She was like, which, 421 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,679 Speaker 1: I ran over his foot. At the time, I didn't know. 422 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: Apparently I ran over it, and then it was when 423 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 1: the mother in law in front of it, so I 424 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: don't know, they're like, you're running over. 425 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: The dad's foot. Yeah, you're like you're screaming and yelling. 426 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: You're mad about progis. 427 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 3: If we're to play until Linda's unreliable narrator theory, which 428 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 3: I'm not convinced on. That was like the mo Like 429 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 3: that was a moment where I was like, maybe she 430 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 3: she's like underplaying this, like like this push and stuff. 431 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 3: Maybe a little bit. 432 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 2: Maybe that whole thing was maybe a little octane. 433 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 3: There was drama before that to be to be clear. 434 00:20:54,720 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 3: But yeah, let's let's keep going. Let's keep going. Also, wait, 435 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 3: I want from the audience right now, do you think 436 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 3: unreliable narrator or the family is crazy? Maybe we could 437 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 3: put up a pole. 438 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, true, true, unreliable. I'll just do you n. 439 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 3: Uh who's crazy? OPI or family? True? 440 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 4: Okay, I'll just do ope family for who's crazy? 441 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 442 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:24,479 Speaker 2: Cool, gover it. 443 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:29,360 Speaker 1: So then she tells me that I have harassed her 444 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: soon to be husband and that I treated him badly, 445 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: uh something. Both me and her then fiance now husband 446 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:43,479 Speaker 1: were equally as confused and perplexed about I said a 447 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: confused sorry, and he accepted that just as confused as 448 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: I was, and we moved on. The worst of it 449 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: was that she accused me of being abusive to Dan, 450 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: as in physically abusive. I was in such a shock 451 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: overhearing this. I could never. I would never. I'm a 452 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 1: victim of abuse and I have btsd over it from 453 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,719 Speaker 1: many years ago. One of Dan's cousins got upset and 454 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: wished to talk to me in private about this, so 455 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 1: she and I left and she asked about the accusations. 456 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: She didn't like how Dan and I like to banter 457 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 1: with each other. With my accent, I can come off 458 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 1: as harsher when I speak, and me and Dan have 459 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: a playful back and forth as we flirt, that can 460 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: come off as a little rough calling each other, you know, 461 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: dumb ass and cramphead. Well, they they do. They get 462 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: after it, they dish, they dish on each other a 463 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 1: little bit. 464 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 2: Hey. 465 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 4: I like the playful flirting, like the harsh flirting there. 466 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 3: I think it's all the tone right. 467 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 2: It's gotta be like German but Swedish. 468 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, with the Swedish accent in English, it could it 469 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: could come off a little dry. 470 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 4: Same thing with Filipinos. Filipinos, it's it's a little harsh 471 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 4: when you say like stuff like that. 472 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, Dan told me that when we were in the 473 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: other room, and his cousin Dan told me that. When 474 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: Dan told me that when we were in the other 475 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: room me and his cousin, the awkward silence the whole 476 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: family was sitting in was palpable. A while later that day, 477 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: ME and the father in law, along with Dan, sat 478 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: down to talk about the foot accident. I apologized and 479 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: he accepted. I had to prove myself that I was 480 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: a good person by hanging out with the whole family 481 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: right after everything that just happened, all to show that 482 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: I wasn't as bad as the sister in law had 483 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 1: just tried to prove to everyone that I was. 484 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,439 Speaker 2: Somehow I did that. 485 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: Somehow we pretended nothing was wrong and we were just gonna. 486 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: Hang out with everyone. 487 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: Then the wedding happened a day or two later. During 488 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: the day, I was left alone a lot. Dan was 489 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: one of the groomsmen, so he had those duties to 490 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: attend to, and the ceremony went well without any drama. 491 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 2: Go figure. 492 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 1: One major issue that did come up was that there 493 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: was no food for me to eat because of my 494 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: food allergy. So Dan and I left the wedding party 495 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 1: early so that way I could get to eat something. 496 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,159 Speaker 3: I feel dude, I see you, I see you. The 497 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 3: families gonna go nuts. Yeah, the family's gonna go nuts 498 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 3: over this. 499 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: They're like, oh, so our food's not good enough for you. Yeah, dude, 500 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: I see it's not. It's gonna literally kill me. 501 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 3: Also results in the poll, two people think that OPI 502 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:38,439 Speaker 3: is the unreliable narrator and everyone else with fifty three votes, 503 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 3: ninety six percent of you think the family is just crazy. 504 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 3: It's probably pretty accurate, Yeah, okay. And I also feel 505 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 3: like with more context in the story, it's pushing more 506 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 3: towards the family. 507 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, especially with like her own fiance, the 508 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 1: sister in law being like. 509 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,040 Speaker 2: I guess like he was like, I guess, I accept. 510 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: Your I didn't want or need from you because you 511 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 1: didn't do anything wrong to me, but whatever. So Dan 512 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: and I left the wedding party early that way I 513 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: could get something to eat. After we left the party, 514 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: along with the few days after, things were quiet and 515 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 1: peaceful for a little while, but Dan went to go 516 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: talk to his mother about what happened, which I assume 517 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: is like all of the nonsense leading. 518 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 3: Up to the wedding, wasn't his mom? Was his mom 519 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 3: like one of the instigators? Yeah, what happened? 520 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I think he's like, that's That's what 521 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: I think we're at right now, is he's he's a 522 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: dressing with his mom. 523 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: He's like, Okay, so what the heck was that? 524 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,239 Speaker 3: Okay? Cool, which is what needs to happen, And it 525 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 3: feels like, let's go Dan for finally doing something. 526 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 2: He's like, now the wedding's over, ma, what the he 527 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 2: hell's going on? 528 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: Although overdue, I feel like Dan should have stepped in more. 529 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you don't want to, but the 530 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 2: boat's already so rocky. 531 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 1: I can understand waiting until at least the wedding's over 532 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: to like try to press the issue, because then if 533 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: you do it before the wedding, it's like, now you're 534 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: trying to ruin the wedding. It's like you're gonna just 535 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 1: make the wedding so bad and awful, Like, can't we 536 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: all just be here for your sister? 537 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 3: No? I agreed on that. I guess it's like I 538 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 3: don't know. I felt like the whole family with attacking ope, 539 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 3: and I would have just wanted like Dan to be 540 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 3: like like shielding you know that one theme of like 541 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 3: the soldier shielding the kid, sleeping kid. I want Dan 542 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 3: to do that, you know. 543 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: Nice, nice, Okay. So when Dan returned, he looked extremely 544 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 1: stunned and was silent for a while. But after some 545 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: time he said that his mother has had these kinds 546 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,679 Speaker 1: of opinions in regard to the name calling for a 547 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: very long time, and it all came out when she 548 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: was very emotional during the wedding week. Hello, Chippy, I 549 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: had to get gummy worms off of the ground so 550 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: the our dog can't eat it. 551 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 2: So she. 552 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: His mother his mother had has had these kinds of 553 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: opinions in regards to the name calling for a very 554 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: long time, and it all came out when she was 555 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: very emotional during the wedding week. This left us both 556 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: in shock, and we realized that we needed to go 557 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 1: on our own little vacation sooner in order to get 558 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 1: some fresh air and discuss what was said back and 559 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 1: forth and figure out how things may end up looking 560 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: in the future. During this period of time, we both 561 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: had a lot of troubling realizations and a lot of 562 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 1: tears from both sides were shed. What's going on here? 563 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 1: Dan could not believe that his mother was doubling down 564 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: on her opinions instead of thinking about it all rationally 565 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 1: after a few days had passed. 566 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 3: So, what the mom's saying is like, yeah, and I 567 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 3: never liked her, basically. 568 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess she's being like, yeah, she's awful, and 569 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: she I don't like the way she talks to you. 570 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 2: And it's like she's a, oh, okay, what makes sense. 571 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 3: Thanks mom. 572 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 2: I don't know. I eat nothing. He's just being like, 573 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 2: this is how she thinks. 574 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 3: I guess. 575 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can change it. 576 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: After I left the country, he was forced into a 577 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: conversation with his family in regards to what happened, and 578 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: now we are left with the choice of him most 579 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: likely having to separate himself from his family entirely once 580 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,439 Speaker 1: he moves to Sweden. They even told Dan that they 581 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 1: would refuse to have any sort of relationship with me 582 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: or are potential future kids, that they would not be 583 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 1: part of our children's lives just because they shared my blood. 584 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 3: Okay, really quick, there's no way. It's like like that 585 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 3: locks it in for the family being crazy. Oh of 586 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 3: course that, Like I mean it was already really really bad. 587 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 3: But that in particular is the most egregious thing literally 588 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: because usually I mean your children in these stories will 589 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 3: have these because we've read a lot of you know, 590 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 3: these stories that have been crazy families. Right, yeah, but 591 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 3: then the grand kids coming and it's like all right, 592 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 3: like we'll deal with this person that we hate so 593 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 3: we can see the grand kids exactly. Yeah, to cut 594 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 3: off the grandkids is next level grandkids before they exist. Yeah, 595 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 3: just because there the blood they hate. They hate Sweden 596 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 3: so much now it runs. 597 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: In the blood. 598 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, is it? 599 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 2: Is it? 600 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 3: Someone in the chat was like, is this because she's 601 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 3: not American or something or maybe outside of the country. 602 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 3: I think it potentially could be. I don't know, maybe they're. 603 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 1: Just it could be like a thing where there it 604 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: is just a cultural difference, like they're not computing the 605 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: cultural difference of like Sweden. And because I have some 606 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: friends who had they have gotten married to Swedish people 607 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: and there are humors a little like there's a little different, 608 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: like they're humans a little different. They're a little drier, 609 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: and they can be a little more like it comes 610 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: across as like super blunt sometimes, but it's like they're 611 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 1: not being like mean. Yeah, I don't know, it's just 612 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: a difference in the way that they approach conversation. 613 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 3: Dead a friend from the Netherlands and like he'll if 614 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 3: he doesn't think a conversation is interesting, he'll just like 615 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 3: completely disregard it, turn away. I'll just turn away. And 616 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 3: my dad's like, oh, don't worry about it. He's just Dutch. 617 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 4: I was gonna say, wait, I've dated a Swede. 618 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah you did, didn't you not? 619 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 3: Just first, she wasn't like she wasn't she wasn't a 620 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 3: full blown she was mostly she was culturally Americed. 621 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 2: She was mostly her parents. 622 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really dry. 623 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 4: Her dad was a little dry. 624 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 3: Interesting he was. 625 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,959 Speaker 4: He was a cool guy. He was just like, oh man, 626 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 4: this is like I'm trying to make a crack like 627 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 4: a normal keyon joke. And it just like went on 628 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 4: land and I was. 629 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 3: Like, oh, dang, what she doing. I haven't seen it 630 00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 3: in a while. 631 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 4: You think, do you think I'm No, I don't know. 632 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 4: I'd rather talk about the thousand year egg. 633 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, please? Can we Okay, let's continue the story. 634 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: Just thinking about a future where I would have to 635 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: tell my children that their grandmother and aunt hates them 636 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: just because they hate me is already making me emotional 637 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: and upset. And by the way, it would make me 638 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: really emotional upset if you didn't join us every weekday 639 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 1: at three pm PSD when we go live on YouTube. 640 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 3: All you gotta do is tap our profile. If you 641 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 3: don't join us every single time, we will be angry. 642 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 2: It'll make me emotional and upset. 643 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, so make sure to join us every single time. 644 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: So there's a little bit more story here. Yeah, I 645 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: think we've kind of hit the nail on the head 646 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: of where we are at. 647 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 2: And this is what we think of the family. 648 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 3: I mean, they just they just get crazier and crazier, 649 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 3: like the going Noe contact with the unborn children. Yeah, 650 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 3: I have in all my years of reading Reddit stories, 651 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 3: I have never heard that. 652 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 2: That is the quickest cutoff I think I've read. Yeah, 653 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 2: that was like before. 654 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 3: We'll have not I won't speak a word. I remember 655 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 3: I remember reading this one story. There's one story of 656 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 3: these like racist parents that were like like they were 657 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 3: super racist and hated op's uh significant other because they 658 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 3: were racist. Even they wanted to see the grandkids, but 659 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 3: would just like say racist things about the grandkids, but 660 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 3: like they wanted to be there. 661 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 2: That was dirty, mad bloods. Yeah, exactly, it's wizard racism everybody. 662 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay for right now, because it's not real, right, 663 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 1: Real racism is bad always. 664 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 2: Any racism. 665 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, a racism is bad too. 666 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 2: I mean sure, but it didn't really happen, Okay, Wizard 667 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 2: racism is bad. Back to the story. Back to the story. 668 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 1: At this point, I just want Dan here with me, 669 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: far away from any accusatory and abusive situations. This whole 670 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: thing has revealed to him that his mother and sister 671 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: planned for him to stay in the house, in his 672 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: room and do his job without any self autonomy. They 673 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 1: have already made plans for mother in law and father 674 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 1: in law to move to a new house and for 675 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: the sister in law to take over the family home 676 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: with her new husband. In this plan, Dan was apparently 677 00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: going to come along as a good little dog. Because 678 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: he has a diagnosis of autism. They believe that he 679 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: cannot have a life of his own, and that's the 680 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: end of the story. You're gonna hit us with that 681 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: at the end of the story sentence or. 682 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 3: Like that's such a just as just like that's the 683 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 3: cliffhanger right there. 684 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, unfortunately, I feel like that explains why the 685 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: family's kind of trying to railroad him. 686 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 3: Like Mella six eight point fifteen hot take. They hate 687 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,239 Speaker 3: her because he's leaving the country for her. 688 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 2: That definitely could kind of thing. So it, Yeah, that 689 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 2: is so it. 690 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're taking the baby boy away, that's so it. 691 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: Why not just have a healthy discussion about that instead 692 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: of like plotting against her? 693 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 2: Why not just be like, Hi, we're gonna really miss 694 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 2: you a lot if you move all the way to Sweden. 695 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 2: That's a that's as a ways away. 696 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 1: Maybe could there be something else that we do at 697 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:13,239 Speaker 1: all possibilities? 698 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 3: No, I just cut them off. 699 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 2: Can we figure out maybe trips? Are you gonna be 700 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 2: could you be here? 701 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,760 Speaker 3: Maybe a couple months off before they had the chance even. 702 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: Like, no, you were going to tell you that you 703 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 1: have to chase after your sister in law because she's 704 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 1: barefoot running through the neighborhood because of you. That's the 705 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: weirdest thing too, that would they plan that? That was 706 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 1: we never got an update on what they planned. I 707 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: think it was to make them run out into the 708 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: street and chase after someone who didn't run away, which 709 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: is that's so. 710 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 3: Weird, dude. The whole family. The whole family's a little 711 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 3: nuts in the guts. Weird old family, weird old family. 712 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:46,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but we got more. 713 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: That's it. That's it. 714 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,839 Speaker 4: That's the end of the story. 715 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,720 Speaker 2: That is the end of that story. 716 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 3: Wow.