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Speaker 4: Hey everybody, it's Joe Gatto, one of your favorite two

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Speaker 4: cool moms, and I'm here with.

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Speaker 1: Steve Burn, the other cool mom. Yes, here he is. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to be here. Stevie, sleepy Steve, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Steve's got it tough. Tell him why what happened on

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Speaker 4: your travel day today? We woke up your travel day?

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Speaker 4: Tellhim why it was so tough this morning? We all

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Speaker 4: out of bed at what time?

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Speaker 1: Four am? Two days in a row.

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Speaker 3: I always take their first flight out, Yes always, they

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Speaker 3: said that about Nicole Stevie first flights.

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Speaker 1: So my flights at six.

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Speaker 3: I get up at four and then I got home

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Speaker 3: and you know, went right to my daughter's soccer game

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Speaker 3: my son's birthday party, and then watched the Steelers crush.

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Speaker 1: There you go. They beat the the goals the Russian

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Speaker 1: the Russian Bears. Russian Bears beat Chicago favorites. They beat

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Speaker 1: the Chicago Bears.

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Speaker 4: Yes, known for Ditka, also known for being from Chicago.

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Speaker 1: There we go to Chicago. Please.

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Speaker 4: Three things I know about the Chicago Bears. One Dica

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Speaker 4: two Chicago. Three colors are gold and black. No, wow,

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Speaker 4: is that right?

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Speaker 1: Wow? You are an athlete? Is right? Black and gold

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Speaker 1: is Pittsburgh Chicago? It's orange and blue, orange and blue. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The the Chicago Bears, their guy, their main guy who

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Speaker 4: throws the ball, quarterback.

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Speaker 1: Yep, that's him.

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Speaker 3: His name is I have no idea who they Who's

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Speaker 3: the Chicago Bear guy right now?

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Speaker 1: No, the Pittsburgh Steeler guy who throws a football Major

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Speaker 1: Wilson Rod. Justin Field, No, justin quarterback. Justin Fields played.

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Speaker 3: At Chicago, played in Chicago, and now he's with Pittsburgh.

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Speaker 1: That's not how I'm thinking it was.

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Speaker 5: I think you're trying to talk about a guy who

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Speaker 5: I think got cut last year.

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Speaker 1: Kenny Pickett.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joe Kenny Piggy got cut.

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Speaker 1: He's out isn't he. Yeah, yeah, do you have any idea?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I know Kenny Pickett. How

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Speaker 1: do you know Kenny Pickett?

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Speaker 4: He went to high school in Long in Jersey, Ocean

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Speaker 4: Township High School, and then he went on to play football. Now,

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Speaker 4: he went on to play football, and then we befriended him.

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Speaker 4: He went to the University of Go fuck yourself. I

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Speaker 4: don't know where you went to pitt He went to

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Speaker 4: pitt and that's why I ended up at Pittsburgh.

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Speaker 3: And then and they got drafted him and now he's

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Speaker 1: That's how I know.

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Speaker 4: I know because he went to Philly and he plays

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Speaker 4: in Philly. Now he's at Philly quarterback. Yes, currently the

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Speaker 4: other one with the computer first.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the second second year. Is that what we said? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he had a great ten minutes yesterdays when you met

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Speaker 4: I know him because he went through uh the school

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Speaker 4: system in Ocean Township where my cousin is a teacher. Okay,

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Speaker 4: Mike Plano was his teacher, and then we used to

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Speaker 4: talk to each other. Me and Michael I used to

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Speaker 4: talk to his classes.

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Speaker 1: About young boys. He remember that.

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Speaker 4: No, he does TV. He does a film production. That's

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Speaker 4: the teacher the class. He teaches TV production.

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Speaker 1: So we most guys that are in this rings work

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Speaker 1: in the industry. Yes, so I was in. You know what,

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Speaker 1: let's start the whole episode over. I don't like it

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Speaker 1: any I don't like any of this energy you bring

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Speaker 1: it at me. You're clearly tired. Come on, t play

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Speaker 1: for the Miami Donalans. He's with the Eagles. He's with

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Speaker 1: the Eagles, with the Eagles, Eagles, Philadelphia. There you go,

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Speaker 1: born and raised. We figured it out. He's not born.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about.

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Speaker 6: In the playgrounds where he spent most of his days?

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Speaker 6: Hid a Philadelphia Eagles are They're green and white. I

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Speaker 6: know this, and I played the Giants yesterday and famously

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Speaker 6: they lost twenty eight thirty eight.

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Speaker 1: There you go. Twenty to three is even worse. What.

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Speaker 1: I don't know much about sports, but I do know this.

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Speaker 1: Oh please an Eagles a bird.

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Speaker 3: What is your greatest sporting event that you've ever been to?

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Speaker 3: Because I know you don't like you don't follow sports,

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Speaker 4: The Garden Game seven New York Rangers first, the Houston Astros.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know that. I do know this was

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Speaker 1: about this is ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: This year year two maybe of jokers. I went and

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Speaker 4: I went to the game seven. The Rangers were playing

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Speaker 4: and the applause were thunderous, and I was like, it

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Speaker 1: A Arrangers You just tying it?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, all right, No, I do remember that was

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Speaker 4: one of the biggest games and biggest moments I've ever

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Speaker 4: I was like, this place feels like it was gonna explode.

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Speaker 4: That was one of the biggest moments in a sporting

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Speaker 3: She never been any Yankee game I've been in yank game. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Nicks nixt they played basketball. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was on the sideline at the Next wanted a

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Speaker 4: charity event. Me and my nephew went okay, and I sat.

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Speaker 4: That wasn't That was the Barclays. That wasn't that Giants

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Speaker 1: Had a New York gear. Yeah, you never been. I've

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Speaker 4: Been to a Next game, been to a Giants game,

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Speaker 1: I've been to a Ranger game. Islander. I haven't Islanders.

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Speaker 3: I haven't all those sporting events. What was your favorite

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Speaker 1: I would say the football games?

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Speaker 3: Really yeah, why you're outside, that's it.

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Speaker 4: It's nice out, nice fall day. See the Pigs game

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Speaker 4: getting thrown back and forth. The fellows are hitting each other.

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Speaker 4: I will say my best football experience, hands down, my best.

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Speaker 1: I would say it was I got what I went

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Speaker 1: to Sofi Field. Yeah, that's why, that's right.

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Speaker 4: The Chargers, you idiot, I can't believe you know nothing

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Speaker 4: about sports, The Chargers, the.

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Speaker 1: Los Angeles you guys, yeah on Monday night football.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, watching Mark did fake talking to each other as

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Speaker 3: Night I honestly look like you guys are doing an

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Speaker 3: undercar undercover drug deal because you were both looking down

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Speaker 3: for some reason talking to each other, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: are they good?

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Speaker 1: Because the guy.

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Speaker 4: Said to us, he goes, hey, you're gonna be on camera,

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Speaker 1: So we marked like, hey, let's just fake talk, and

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Speaker 1: we're like, why wouldn't you look at the camera. That's

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Speaker 1: what everybody does. Look, you go crazy. The guy said,

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Speaker 5: He was like an old like Monday night football. You know,

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Speaker 5: it was like eighty years old. He's filming us and

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Speaker 5: then after he's done, he goes, congratulations, you were just

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Speaker 1: Yes, Like I was like, I finally made it on TV.

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Speaker 3: Out, I did uh, I did the uh the Vegas

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Speaker 3: Golden Knights, Oh, yes, they have the airhorn.

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Speaker 1: The siren siren. They do the siren.

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Speaker 3: Before the periods, and UH like, all right, she just

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Speaker 1: You crank it the ladder it gets I go okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm a comedian. Do I do I take this seriously?

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Speaker 3: Or do I kind of goo for whatever? And so

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Speaker 3: I got on it and I started doing it and

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Speaker 3: you know, TV production whatever. He's like, I never saw

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Speaker 3: They cut away from you the quickest I've ever seen.

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Speaker 3: But he gave me the raw thing, so I have it,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like, because you're climax too quickly, it's

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Speaker 1: So did you enjoy Pittsburgh is your city?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 4: You like the Pittsburgh Pirates, you like the Pittsburgh Penguins,

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Speaker 4: and you like the Steelers, so you're all Pittsburgh all

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Speaker 4: the time pretty much.

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Speaker 1: So, but I mean, you look, you travel, But I

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Speaker 4: So if the Raptors are playing, who the Toronto Raptors

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Speaker 1: They're not even in this country.

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Speaker 4: Yes, the Raptors aren't even in this country. Are you

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Speaker 4: sure about that? It's in Nashville. W Penguins. No, Nashville,

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Speaker 4: don't tell me. Nashville Knights. That's what it should be.

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Speaker 1: It's not. But it's called the Nashville Predators. Predators. That's weird. Okay.

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Speaker 4: I'm not in a sports guy, but to name your

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Speaker 4: team to predators.

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Speaker 1: Twenty years ago, twenty years ago, no, twenty years ago.

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Speaker 1: You have to get rid of the Indians.

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Speaker 4: They can keep the predators. They can keep they have

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Speaker 4: to lose the Indians, but they keep the Predators.

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Speaker 1: And that's the problem with sports. Well, they're renaming it

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Speaker 1: to the Nashville Kevin Spaces. Oh, here it goes. What

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Speaker 1: this episode is gonna be? Four minutes long?

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Speaker 4: That was a very funny joke. Actually, I like that. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we'll keep that one. We'll give you that one.

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Speaker 1: I get one. Ye, we should do it.

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Speaker 3: We should do a super cut episode where it's all

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Speaker 3: the things you take out that are we can't.

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Speaker 1: We're on iHeart now, we can't do that. We'll put

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Speaker 1: on YouTube.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but just all the jokes I put in that

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Speaker 3: can cut out the good.

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Speaker 1: Ones or yeah, all of them. Okay, so there's some

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Speaker 1: I think we could sparse it together from eighty.

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Speaker 3: Every time I say joke like that, I just see

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Speaker 3: you rub your temples like like like I spilled my

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Speaker 3: milk at the dinner table.

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Speaker 1: Well we have we have to have brands protection. Oh

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Speaker 1: who mine a brand? You don't have a brand out

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Speaker 4: So you go on this retreat and the teacher, unbeknownst

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Speaker 1: Dumb card tricks. It's in a letter. Yeah, it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: You cann't help. But that's where you get it from.

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Speaker 4: That's it for sure, for sure. But I was an

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Speaker 4: I think that's why he died.

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Speaker 4: Gina, my oldest sister, crushed it and then gave up

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Speaker 4: She wanted to concentrate on her She wanted to concentrate

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Speaker 4: She went to Hofstra out on Long Island College in college,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where she met the love of her life, Vinnie

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Speaker 3: And then little Joe Joseph was just a small town

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Speaker 1: Good at slight of hand. No, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: He was a welder by day, but dancer by night

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Speaker 1: I wasn't dancer by night.

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Speaker 4: I on a dance floor. That's where I shined. And

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Speaker 1: Called fat Dance. And if you haven't seen any check

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Speaker 1: it out on Netflix. Yeah. I guess that's right. I

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Speaker 3: Well, it sounds every everything you've told me in the

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Speaker 3: You don't believe the sweep Ouiji board talked to him today.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you Does your son know you love him?

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Speaker 1: Oh beyond more than your daughter? God, you can go

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Speaker 3: No, that's that's always I mean, look your father, that's yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she's always like she used to be like

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Speaker 4: And to watch my two kids to see what they

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Speaker 3: Your kids are too very I think your son is

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Speaker 3: I was like, wow, And he's really you could just tell,

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Speaker 1: He's taking it all in.

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Speaker 4: What do you do to crazy talks to strangers it's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So I have both of them, and yours are

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Speaker 1: Your daughter is very outgoing like her father. Right. As

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Speaker 4: Say that's what I would say, smart like my wife,

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Speaker 1: You know your your wife is smarter than you. My

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Speaker 4: You have a confidence to say that, right yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I'm not saying anything you haven't said out loud.

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Speaker 4: All the world knows.

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Speaker 1: By meaning the two of you, and she still picked you.

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Speaker 1: She's very smart and she picked you. She's the best. Guys. See,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I'm a shithead. I'm dumb as fu.

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Speaker 1: You know, I see that your but your son does

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Speaker 3: He is the other day where this is just yesterday.

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Speaker 3: We're driving and I always I always have my son

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Speaker 1: Because there's gonna be the time they can't Well, it's true,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, and my daughter is dance. Sorry, god,

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Speaker 1: I got so funny.

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Speaker 3: My my my uh, my son, my son.

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Speaker 1: He facetimes your grandmother. He goes because my dad's bald.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And my son is just being a kid. He's like,

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Speaker 3: that's great.

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Speaker 1: And I lost that dying laugh.

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Speaker 3: And my father's got a great sense of humor, dying laugh,

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Speaker 3: just all the time with music and everything. But we

441
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Speaker 3: went to David Buster's one time. He got all these

442
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Speaker 3: tickets and he got this huge teddy bear walks out.

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Speaker 3: My daughter goes, my god, can't it's the biggest teddy

444
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Speaker 3: bear I've ever seen. He goes, I'm a dangerous man

445
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Speaker 3: with some money in my pocket. I was like, wow,

446
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Speaker 3: that's a great pole, that's a great poll.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, great kid, both of them. I

448
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Speaker 1: think we both did well with our offspring.

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Speaker 4: Yes, the fountains they came from are definitely rusty, but the.

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Speaker 3: Children were very lucky guys to have the wives we

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Speaker 3: do because we travel as much as we do.

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Speaker 4: They brought some stuff to the gene Pool too. Let's

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Speaker 4: talk about it, right, Thank goodness, thank god. My daughter

454
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Speaker 4: looks like a mother. Could you imagine that Schnile's on that.

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Speaker 4: I'm so brave and funny.

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Speaker 3: When you like that, when you lie down in Central Park,

457
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Speaker 3: I can tell what time it is.

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Speaker 1: You know. The little guy, you know, like it's smoke

459
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Speaker 1: in the shower because he's got a big nose.

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Speaker 3: But your nose, it goes to my face, it goes

461
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Speaker 3: with her face. It's not it's not like there was

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Speaker 3: a girl. I remember I dated this girl once and

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Speaker 3: she was she had her she always had her hair

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Speaker 3: down right over nose.

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Speaker 1: There's a cousin it. He's a girl from the ring

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Speaker 1: and she just got a nose coaster the curtains just

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Speaker 1: her hair and partner just feed her.

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Speaker 3: But this girl I dated, I can't say her name,

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Speaker 3: but she had a Remember one time she pulled her

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Speaker 3: her hair back behind her and this fucking satellite radio

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Speaker 3: huge ears and just went bull of bag.

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Speaker 1: Was like, let's draw the curtains again. I never I

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Speaker 1: dated it, like for such a great listener. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: can't hear you. What do you mean? What do you mean?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 1: Your hairbat? Why you're picking up the traffic on forty

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Speaker 1: second Street? Okay, let's get let's get it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So it's and we try to help

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Speaker 3: people because they're a great listener.

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Speaker 1: Great listen. We're great listeners.

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Speaker 3: Like we're great listeners, and we're here to help you. Obviously,

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Speaker 3: send us your queries your issues to cool Mom's Pod

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Speaker 3: at gmail dot com or at too cool Mom's podcast

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Speaker 3: at pogle Mom's Pod at Instagram. And now because you

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Speaker 3: could use the iHeart app. Yeah, and you can send

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Speaker 3: us your questions with use a talkback feature on the

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Speaker 3: iHeart that's right radio app and.

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Speaker 1: You can send it in and those will hear you.

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Speaker 1: We'll hear you in your mouth to be able to

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Speaker 1: talk to us, and we'll hear you and we'll have

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Speaker 1: you on the show. There you go, great, you did

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Speaker 1: great with that, and I'll also be looking for great job.

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Speaker 1: So we've just hit a button and the like wet you.

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Speaker 5: I listen. Suzanne hits us up. She goes, hey mom,

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Speaker 5: this is hit us up on the Instagram. My friends,

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Speaker 5: this is not Suzanne. So she says, my friend has

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Speaker 5: been with her, well, you never know. My friend has

498
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Speaker 5: been with her partner for almost twenty five years and

499
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Speaker 5: the relationship is for the most part a good one.

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Speaker 5: She follows a male dance team online. I was gonna

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Speaker 5: stay serious.

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Speaker 1: But okay, okay slows a male dance tea.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what you know what that means?

504
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Speaker 1: The magic mics.

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Speaker 5: She follows a male dance team online, and her boyfriend

506
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Speaker 5: is very jealous of them. He doesn't like her doing

507
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Speaker 5: it and would like her to stop. Now, you got me,

508
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Speaker 5: But she should have the right to do whatever she wants, right,

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Speaker 5: I think he I think he regards them as some

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Speaker 5: sort of way, as if she is cheating on him.

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Speaker 5: A little motherly advice would be most helpful.

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Speaker 3: I think I have no problem with this whatsoever. I

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Speaker 3: have no problem with with it whatsoever. I think she's

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Speaker 3: a human being. No, She's gonna see things that are

515
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Speaker 3: appealing to her, sure, and I think it's healthy.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a healthy dynamic. She doesn't react on.

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Speaker 3: It, right, you know, as long as she's not the

518
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Speaker 3: videos with the whipped cream and the sheet or whatever.

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Speaker 3: As long as she's not going there and going crazy,

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Speaker 3: which I don't assume she would.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your feed is your feed. I think that just

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Speaker 1: stems from insecurity.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't be insecure about what people who guess

524
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Speaker 4: what people follow on social media? You think that's cheating,

525
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Speaker 4: that's not that's that stuff is if you if there's

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Speaker 4: an issue that's that's just watering a seed of insecurity

527
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Speaker 4: you have, then you need to talk about that.

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Speaker 1: It's not about why you following them. It's like, why

529
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Speaker 1: do you feel insecure? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Are they doing something else that's making you feel that way?

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Speaker 4: So that's what you need to get down to.

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Speaker 1: The root of.

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Speaker 3: It's funny this like comes up because my wife literally

534
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Speaker 3: we're at lunch and she goes, can I tell you something?

535
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Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, of course, you told me anything

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Speaker 3: you want. It's like I I was sent a picture

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Speaker 3: by somebod I don't even know. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 3: and she described it was it.

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Speaker 1: Was I'm sorry. I didn't want to say it was

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Speaker 1: an accident. They're right next to the phone on the phone.

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Speaker 3: But it was a it was a dick pic right

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Speaker 3: is my black dude and sent it to her and she, uh,

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Speaker 3: She's like, you know, I just felt uncomfortable. Obviously I

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Speaker 3: didn't know the number. I don't know who this is,

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Speaker 3: but I I just wanted to tell you. And I

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Speaker 3: was like, I was like, no, Jess, I really appreciate

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Speaker 3: that you like would be honest with me and open

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Speaker 3: and tell that to me. But next time, please just

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Speaker 3: send it to me, because I was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: let's of course you're gonna make a joke about it.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, I just think like stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: It's just like even if you know who knows, just

553
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Speaker 3: I just think it's it's someone healthy, and you know,

554
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Speaker 3: like everybody's got their feeds whatever. But it was interesting

555
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Speaker 3: because I think a while back my wife and I

556
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Speaker 3: were discussing each other's feeds and what you're looking at whatever.

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Speaker 3: I was like, take my phone and just go to

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Speaker 3: my Instagram and and you know where you do the

559
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Speaker 3: search bar, just.

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Speaker 1: Type in anything. See what you see.

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Speaker 3: What pops up my algorithm and my algorithm Superman an oasis.

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Speaker 1: There you go. That's it.

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Speaker 3: Nothing to words, Superman, Christopher Reeve like all these like

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Speaker 3: behind the scenes and then it's all oasis clips.

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Speaker 4: I'll I'll say that there was a very funny SNL

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Speaker 4: sketch about that where they they wanted to look at

567
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Speaker 4: each other things, and then the reason why they want

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Speaker 4: to is they want they were all following this weird character,

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Speaker 4: which was funny, right, but they weren't worried about the

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Speaker 4: girl thing. You know it all, But I wouldn't even

571
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Speaker 4: say like the to worry to If your significant other

572
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Speaker 4: is finding it disrespectful that you follow other people or

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Speaker 4: is that, then that's something that you need to take consideration.

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Speaker 4: What's more important following this male dance team or or

575
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Speaker 4: upsetting your.

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Speaker 1: What what's the big deal?

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Speaker 3: The sparkle motions and they're really talented crust this landing.

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Speaker 4: I would say, I would say, that's that's what you

579
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Speaker 4: need to take consideration. So if your friend air quotes,

580
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Speaker 4: if your friend is upsetting their partner by following this person, right,

581
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Speaker 4: what's more important to follow the dance team or to not.

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Speaker 1: Have all male dancing?

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Speaker 3: I look, I also understand it from the other This

584
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Speaker 3: is a guy though, right. But I had a friend

585
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Speaker 3: who was dating a girl and she had an issue

586
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Speaker 3: with a past relationship with a guy looked at a

587
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Speaker 3: lot of porn and it be and it became a

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Speaker 3: hindrance to them being intimate and physical with each other

589
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Speaker 3: so much so that she's like, look, we should see somebody.

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Speaker 3: So they went and saw somebody, and this guy like

591
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Speaker 3: had to get professional help to like wean himself away

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Speaker 3: from it. So so one day, this girl is now

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Speaker 3: in a new relationship with my friend, and she goes,

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Speaker 3: she goes, Hey, we're going to this new place or

595
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Speaker 3: this restaurant, you know, let me put the directions in

596
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Speaker 3: on your phone. So she goes to put the directions in,

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Speaker 3: she screw flips up and he's.

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Speaker 1: Some girl just like she's like, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: So she literally tells me, She's like, look, I was

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Speaker 3: in a prior relationship and look, just for me personally,

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Speaker 3: i'd appreciate it if you would abstain from looking at

602
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Speaker 3: that stuff because it kind of damaged me and I

603
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Speaker 3: felt insecure about it. And I would just appreciate if

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Speaker 3: you didn't do it. And he's like, oh, yeah, of

605
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 3: course yes. So they had a serious conversation.

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Speaker 1: He broke at two days later. Two days later, like

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Speaker 1: a week later, we went. She's like, hey, my phone's charge.

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Speaker 3: Can take something on your phone's like yeah, She's like,

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Speaker 3: oh god.

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Speaker 1: And it didn't last long at all.

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Speaker 3: But even that, like, I think there's there's a health

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Speaker 3: dynamic to that.

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Speaker 1: There's a healthy dynamic to all those things. But at

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Speaker 1: the same time, I think it's just scrolls and the

615
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Speaker 1: thing and it's just videos of you ringing the siren

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Speaker 1: just a meme.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I look, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 4: you're gonna have to decide what's more important, something that's

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Speaker 4: important to you versus something that's upset in your partner,

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Speaker 4: And that's what relationships are about. So I think you

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Speaker 4: just have to look at it from that perspective. Is

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Speaker 4: it more important to you? You know, because we always

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Speaker 4: go to the defensive. I know I'm this too, it's like, oh,

624
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Speaker 4: why is this upsetting you? Well it doesn't the why,

625
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter as much as that they are upset.

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Speaker 4: And I think that's a big growth part in a

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Speaker 4: relationship is to be able to be like, this is

628
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Speaker 4: upsetting my partner. I shouldn't get defensive on why it is.

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Speaker 4: I should figure out what's more important here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, you know, and then talking out.

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Speaker 4: Look, if you want standing ground about something, talk it out, sure,

632
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Speaker 4: talk it out, but it shouldn't be like, well, this

633
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Speaker 4: is what you know.

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Speaker 1: I think you need to come to it from a

635
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Speaker 1: healthy angle. Yeah, what what does the male dance team?

636
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Speaker 4: You need that male dance team in your feed as

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Speaker 4: much as you need to keep your boyfriend, uh, you know,

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Speaker 4: happy and secure.

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Speaker 1: That's up to you to decide.

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Speaker 3: But it's also like, you know, how how great is

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Speaker 3: your relationship right and are you willing to like let

642
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Speaker 3: that slide?

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Speaker 1: Is that worth the fight? Yes? Or is that worth

644
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Speaker 1: the argument?

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Speaker 3: Or is your relationship that fractured that that's actually a

646
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Speaker 3: pretty big issue.

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Speaker 4: That's very true, and it just might be something that's

648
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Speaker 4: it might be nice that this male dance team is

649
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Speaker 4: not only bringing rhythm into your life, but it'll brings

650
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Speaker 4: some balance.

651
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Speaker 1: So let's you know, what do you call it? Sparkle crotch?

652
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Speaker 1: Would sparkle motion? I would?

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Speaker 3: I would, honestly, I've never been to obviously one of

654
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Speaker 3: those things. I would go for the funnies to see to.

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Speaker 1: Just go, well, it's an all male dance team.

656
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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're going to differ in direction than it's not.

657
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Speaker 1: It's not the fucking thunder. I would go to laugh

658
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: at that stuff. No, they would laugh at you, but

659
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: they would, they would hysterical laugh.

660
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 3: But anytime, guys. But on all male dance team, what

661
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 3: do you mean like a dance squad?

662
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: Like a dance squad. I'm imagining like agic dance.

663
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 3: I'm thinking she's going I'm thinking she's falling thunder from

664
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 3: down Under.

665
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: That's they're not.

666
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 5: They're not on the team. Though very individualistic in their play.

667
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 3: They play individually, no, but they all come out together

668
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 3: like the lightning bolt.

669
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: I've seen the commercials, Yeah comes Upsidency in Vegas. I'm

670
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: sure it's the commercial. It's always on the yeah but yeah,

671
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: but the yeah.

672
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 4: Steve stems at the Jimmy Kimble Comedy Club being like,

673
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 4: I gotta rub this up, guys, I gotta go catch

674
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 4: a show down the road.

675
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: Excuse me?

676
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: Does anybody think it's getting overcast in town?

677
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think we. I think we answered that one.

678
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: That's great.

679
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: I hope I think it's I think I honestly think

680
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 3: it's it's an exotic male dance. I don't think she's

681
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 3: who's who's following a male I've never even heard of

682
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 3: a dance crew, but he could have.

683
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: A male dance.

684
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 5: Maybe they're like, name.

685
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: One male dance crew. Besides, like a boy band. Tell

686
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: me just took out the biggest thing. That's like saying

687
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: somebody who's Chinese. She'd say saying stupid.

688
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: No, she'd say a boy band. She'd say a boy band. No,

689
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 3: I agree, but this one, this is did you ever

690
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 3: see Step Up? Back to the streets? Stepping Up to

691
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 3: the streets?

692
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: What was the one? What are you talking? What was

693
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: that big dance movie?

694
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 3: No?

695
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 4: That step Up that's got that's got magic mic and

696
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 4: that's got Charlie's tyron.

697
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: What's his name? What's the guy's name?

698
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 4: That's a guy's name. Who's a big chanting Tatum? That's

699
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 4: got no step up is chatting Tatum. But who's what's

700
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 4: the big dance movie?

701
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: Uh? Battle the battle dance movie, guys, the big one.

702
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: It's called step Up. No, it's not. They have Step

703
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: Up and Tatum. You're thinking of the I am You're.

704
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, step Up is a film franchise about dance.

705
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 5: It's a dance franchise.

706
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: Okay, here's here. Step Up is what I'm taking off.

707
00:32:58,800 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: Here's my point.

708
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 3: If she's following the Jabbowaukees, that's a dance crew.

709
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: But nobody else, nobody else knew it.

710
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 3: I had to think for like, I'm like, what's a

711
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 3: what's a dude dance crew? Okay, Well, if she's following that, okay,

712
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 3: she likes one of the wakies, but this dude's jealous. No,

713
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 3: I think it's more like it's one of the dance crews.

714
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: Who is it?

715
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 4: And all male dance crews like America's Got Talent has

716
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: like four hundred of them.

717
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: I doubt I think it's I think it's under from

718
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: down under guarantee something like that.

719
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: That's why he's getting jealous.

720
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 4: I didn't even think of it that way. And if

721
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 4: that is, then I think he's got a foot. I

722
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 4: think he's got a thunder.

723
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: To stand on too. I think he does, because that

724
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: is different. That is sexually charged. That's a sexually charged thing.

725
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't she's watching clips name.

726
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: Clips.

727
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 5: It says she follows a male dance team, so like

728
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 5: I don't know if she's like going to shows like no.

729
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: But she follows all like Instagram. Yeah, yeah, she's just

730
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: or she follows them to the house. No follows.

731
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 5: But like if you're like I follow a band that

732
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 5: you might go to their shows, maybe it's a little

733
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 5: bit more more.

734
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I clarification, but I think I think either way

735
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: it's I don't think it's that big of a deal.

736
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 4: But yeah, you do agree it's all on the phone anyway. Yeah, Yeah,

737
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 4: she's she's turned them, she's getting turned up.

738
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: With them. It's a different study. U's the phone on

739
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: vibrate Guys.

740
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 5: Here we go, next question. This one's a little turn here.

741
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 5: But Garrett asked, what's the rudest audience.

742
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: Member that you have?

743
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 5: Do you have a story about the rudest audience member encounter?

744
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 3: Oh? I mean you take it away instantly? When my

745
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 3: head got split open? Can I tell her how we did?

746
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: We told the one.

747
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, my head got split open. I've had a lot.

748
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 3: Did I tell you about the fight at the comedy store?

749
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: The guy is not ringing a bell? Yeah, the Asians outside?

750
00:34:54,920 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 9: That is that a horror movie? I knew it more

751
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 9: harm the Asians outside. Well, they get in the houses

752
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 9: to Asians within.

753
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: It's called house keeping. No, no, I was.

754
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 3: I was at the comedy store and set the table.

755
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 3: At the comedy store, there's like maybe thirty people there,

756
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 3: and as I'm walking up to the stage being introduced,

757
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 3: a group of Asian kids walk out.

758
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so there's w okay.

759
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 3: Before before I can even say a thing, this guy

760
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 3: is sitting by himself and there's another guy by himself.

761
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: Another guy. Okay, so he's.

762
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 3: Hitting by himself and he uh, he goes, hey, your

763
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: friends just left you.

764
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: I go what he goes?

765
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 3: Your friends just left you and you told the story

766
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 3: I did, okay, So we had some great jokes.

767
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: In this, so we'll keep all that stuff in.

768
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: Wall.

769
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: Come on, you gotta have another one. Uh I good? Please, No,

770
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 1: I'm only think of medical emergencies. Well that's not rude.

771
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: Depends what your as. This woman had to have. This

772
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: woman had to have her you know, her fits and

773
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: my dorm, my set. She had a seizure, seizure, Oh

774
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 1: my god. Well we got her assistant. We did a

775
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: seizure and assistant she got no, she passed out. She

776
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: was trying to get out.

777
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 4: This is the worst part was it was very funny

778
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 4: from my ankle, and I'll tell you why.

779
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, you talked to me about protecting the brand.

780
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 4: No, no, no, this the seizure wasn't as funny. But

781
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 4: the problem was Joe. The problem was she's fine, so

782
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 4: it's all okay. But she got up to excuse herself.

783
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 4: Had had the seizure and then fell into the aisle.

784
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 9: So half a body was out into the So I

785
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 9: just saw half a body out.

786
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: You just see feet.

787
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 4: I just said, no head. The top part the thing.

788
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 4: So she did that, and then she's laying out that

789
00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 4: it was post seizure. Before it turned the lights on,

790
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 4: she she had seized and she was undeceased.

791
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: Steven's a galdt. And then they saw the half of body.

792
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: So I just saw everybody like, she needs help and

793
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: I just saw a half. They got a help and

794
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: she was fine.

795
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 4: But it was a very weird angle for only I

796
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,959
Speaker 4: could see from the stage, so it was very bizarre.

797
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: But she was fine. But I had to sit on

798
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: stage door in that which what do you do? Do

799
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: you leave? So you think that's rude. I think it's

800
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: rude to leave. Oh no, I think it was rude

801
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:31,479
Speaker 1: that the only woman did it this. She could have waited.

802
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: She could the door Jiggy set.

803
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 3: But the good thing is when when they come to you, right,

804
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: they see a comedy show. When Jiggy's on, it becomes

805
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 3: an escape room. All the doors are locked behind you.

806
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: You have to weep this out. It's a saw episode.

807
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 4: Now, that was that. That's always weird for me when

808
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 4: you see that. I didn't call that rude. I just

809
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 4: it's a thing I thought of when I was prompted

810
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 4: with the question. But it could be labeled rude.

811
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 3: I think like rude for me is like when you're

812
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 3: what happened? It just can never be labeled, right, That's

813
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,479
Speaker 3: why I said. I was like, you think that's rude?

814
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, to everybody around you think everybody in that place

815
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 4: is like all that poor woman.

816
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: Some people are like, oh, this bitch had that just

817
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: getting building story. Why I think.

818
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 3: Rude is just people that get too drunk and think

819
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 3: they're helping, and it's not heckling. Heckling is different. Heckling

820
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 3: is like I'm being a jerky, but when you're too

821
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: drunk to understand, like the social cues, you're actually ruining

822
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 3: the show. But you're too drunk to know. That's what

823
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 3: I don't like because then it's almost like the audience turns.

824
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 3: I don't have to do anything as a comic. It's

825
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 3: like I don't even have to say a word because

826
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 3: the audience hate you.

827
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: They pick up on it.

828
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 4: So we had we had people get thrown out of

829
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 4: a show for having sex at a joker show.

830
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 3: No, I swear to go, Who's who's banging at your show?

831
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 1: Who's who?

832
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: It's very impractical that somebody somebody did. They were in

833
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: the barn up.

834
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: They were, well, I mean we're four, We're four fucking

835
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 1: heart throps.

836
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: We just ooze Middle America sex. So we were talking

837
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: about a dance squad. If you're following us, Oh will

838
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 2: you guys.

839
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 3: Talking about Arby's for ten minutes And they're like, ah,

840
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 3: we did so.

841
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was we heard a ruckus. We saw the

842
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 4: flashlights going up in the balcony. And then later we

843
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 4: found out Jeff Johnson Game had told us that they

844
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 4: got pulled out because he got pulled because got it

845
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 4: got pulled out. So they got pulled on the God,

846
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 4: yeah they were. They were having sex in the middle

847
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 4: of the show.

848
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: That's rude. That's rude. I had.

849
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 3: I was in Columbus and a couple left.

850
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: I'm just playing a part of you in today in

851
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: this episode. Oh you want to okay, I'll let it myself.

852
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 3: I was in Columbus, Ohio at the Funny Bone and

853
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 3: there was a couple that got up and left during

854
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 3: my show. And then there was a guy that came

855
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,720
Speaker 3: into the guy's bathroom and.

856
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: Blumpkin. Oh in the bathroom, they get it on. But

857
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: that's not that's not the theater. You can't hold them

858
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: accountable for that. At least they took it out, and

859
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 1: they took it.

860
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 3: They took it to the streets, took to the streets.

861
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 3: But a blumkin, you know what blunkin is?

862
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: Right?

863
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought I'd be going like this three times.

864
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 4: I understood that he was getting head while he was

865
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:36,959
Speaker 4: taking his ship.

866
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: But if you want me to explain it to America,

867
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and do that.

868
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 4: I will be the guy my children listen to this podcast.

869
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: Okay, so hey, kids, just sitting out with toilet and

870
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: dropping a deuce and a lady kneels in front of

871
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: you and starts to gobble dobble is what we call

872
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: a plumpkin?

873
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 7: Next question, Mark, don't that would keep it in?

874
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: That's great?

875
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 4: A right, We're gonna name this episode blumpkin pot.

876
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 1: Do you think the people at iHeart are like.

877
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 9: The didn't we think when we signed these two?

878
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry, all right, all right, you get a

879
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 1: question here's in the talk back app on the iHeart

880
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: media app. Well, this wasn't subtle enough that I knew

881
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: you were talking about. I was like a bomb. Go ahead, sorry, okay, great, okay.

882
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Speaker 5: Last question, Please John send us an email.

883
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: I love Mark's setups. He's got to tell you how

884
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: we got the question. I want people to know about it.

885
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 5: Any advice on how to come to terms mentally with

886
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 5: the patients required to land that first job and deal

887
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 5: with the insecurity of not feeling as mature or financially

888
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 5: stable as your peers that.

889
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,399
Speaker 1: Is, that's a tough that's a tough goal.

890
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 4: After I graduated college, I didn't have a job for

891
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 4: quite a while.

892
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: Quite a while I didn't have a job, and I

893
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: was living in mom's basement.

894
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 4: And because I knew I didn't want to be an

895
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 4: account I had an accounting degree and I didn't have

896
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 4: and I was like, okay what.

897
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: I was in a space where I'm like, all right,

898
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: what am I going.

899
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 4: To do with my life at all? I had no idea.

900
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 4: I ended up with the consulting gig by going to

901
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 4: a job fair. And I will say this about the

902
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 4: job fair. The job fair was the Marriott Marque. This

903
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 4: is nineteen ninety eight, maybe nine, And I.

904
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: Was like, okay, what do I want to do with

905
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: my life? I don't know what I want to do.

906
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 4: And I went to a job fair and it made

907
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 4: me realize all the jobs I didn't want, right. I

908
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 4: think that's a huge thing by process of elimination. So

909
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 4: I would highly recommend going to a big job fair

910
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 4: and just walking around and just it'll help you steer

911
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 4: you in a way. Now, the rejection part of it,

912
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 4: that's part of the game, right, you're not gonna get

913
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 4: I mean, I can't even tell you how many things

914
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 4: I got rejected from my life. Not even jobs, just

915
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 4: things that you get rejected from. So that's part of life.

916
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 4: You've got to be strong enough to do that. You

917
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 4: just gotta get through rejection. Rejections are part of life,

918
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 4: so you can't.

919
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also he sounds young. Yeah, he's getting his

920
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,280
Speaker 3: first job. You have plenty of time to find your job,

921
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 3: and there's so much road ahead of you. It's like

922
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 3: you can't judge your success by others at twenty two,

923
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 3: twenty three, twenty four, it's like that's not going to

924
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 3: happen for another twenty five thirty years for you.

925
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 4: So one thing to John I didn't like in his

926
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 4: email where he's saying, because he's looking at he's comparing himself.

927
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, comparison does nothing for you. Yeah, comparison is the

928
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: worst thing you could do.

929
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 4: Because everybody's got their own story, their own sure, and

930
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 4: you know, if you just look at our different careers even, right.

931
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: You you're a brand, I'm not right? Yes, well no,

932
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: you're a no frills brand. Yeah.

933
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 3: People bang at your shows and people get Blumkins.

934
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: The Blubkin tour.

935
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 10: But Steve Birds, sorry, that's so funny.

936
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: You can't compare. You can't compare the two of us,

937
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: but our stories.

938
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 4: I mean, seriously, you when you started this whole thing,

939
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 4: you moved chase a dream, right, I didn't get famous.

940
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: I was thirty four.

941
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 4: You were doing these things that you were twenty one, right, right,

942
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 4: so like you were in the game a lot longer

943
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 4: than I was, and I would if you can, Yeah,

944
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 4: I passed right by you.

945
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 1: Is you know what I'm saying?

946
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 4: No, I mean, I'm making internet sketch videos when you're

947
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 4: doing comedy tours, right, look at it, like seriously you

948
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 4: think about but the later life, I mean, I blow

949
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 4: you out of the water. I mean, but before at

950
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 4: the beginning, No, I'm just kidding, but at the beginning,

951
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 4: I mean, like it's literally if I was looking I

952
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 4: wanted to be a comic, right I was doing versus

953
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 4: what you were doing completely different.

954
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: You're on the stand up comedy tour.

955
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 4: You're on the bus with everybody, you know Sebastian and

956
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 4: you know you're doing that whole tour while I'm the

957
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 4: four of us are trying to make the next Internet

958
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 4: sketch right from MySpace.

959
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: So like it really you can't compare.

960
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 3: No, But also like we're at least in the same field,

961
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: Like I mean, who knows what his friends are involved in?

962
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 3: Ones in finance, ones in real estate, ones, you know

963
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 3: who knows it? Just like right, you got plenty of

964
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 3: time to figure it out. You got so much life

965
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 3: in front of you. And I think, if anything, if

966
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: you're twenty two to twenty three trying to figure out

967
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 3: what your job is, all this free time you have

968
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 3: enjoy it because at some point you're not going to

969
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: have that free time. Like when COVID hit and I

970
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 3: was home for like two months, I was like, I'm

971
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 3: going to enjoy every second of this because this is

972
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 3: a moment in time that will never happen again in

973
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 3: my lifetime ever. And I think when you're in your

974
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 3: twenties early twenties, it's like all that free time you have,

975
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 3: soak it up, go to the park, go out, get bombed,

976
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: have fun, wake up with a hang. You know, just

977
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 3: all the experiences you can have. Get on a road,

978
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 3: get take a road trip, go do things. Just experience

979
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 3: as much as you can, because at some point you're

980
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 3: gonna have to buckle down and you don't get that

981
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 3: freedom anymore, for sure, for sure.

982
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 1: So he's asking for advice on how to have the patience.

983
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 4: Well, you have to have patients, right you just I

984
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 4: think the things that you can do is avoid pitfalls,

985
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 4: which are comparing yourself to other friends, taking a look

986
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 4: at where other people are, because guess what, in five

987
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 4: years they might be unemployed and you might be five

988
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 4: years in your new career.

989
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: You never know how that's going to pan out.

990
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,760
Speaker 4: I would also say, do things that make you feel

991
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:47,240
Speaker 4: good about your position, you know, keep applying for different jobs,

992
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 4: even if the nose come in. Keep researching different ways

993
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 4: that you could do things. Go to different networking events.

994
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 4: I love those kinds of things. Networking events, job fairs,

995
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 4: that kind of stuff get you in the mix. It

996
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 4: makes you feel like you're doing something. Yeah, the biggest

997
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 4: problem is feeling staff anything in life. So if you

998
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 4: feel stagnant, you feel stuck. Get unstuck by doing things.

999
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 4: Take steps. Go to job fares, go to networking events,

1000
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 4: go to you can find so many bullshit networking events

1001
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 4: by Google searching anything.

1002
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: Everybody's start. All these events you.

1003
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 4: Write Facebook, all these groups that you could find, you

1004
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 4: could you could join.

1005
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: So I would say do that kind of stuff. That's

1006
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: gonna help you.

1007
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 3: But so much in business, as I've gotten older, I

1008
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 3: try to analogize those things. Much like a relationship, right,

1009
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 3: It's like you're in PA I have to have the

1010
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 3: patience to get a job. It's like if you like

1011
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 3: a girl, you're not gonna tell her you love her

1012
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 3: within the first three, like two or three dates. It's like, relax,

1013
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: take your time, ease into it, like get to get

1014
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 3: to know the situation, get to know yourself. Like I

1015
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 3: try to a lot of dynamics. Treat it as though

1016
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 3: I'm courting a girl, you know, and just like be cool,

1017
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: Just be cool, binde your time, play your cards when

1018
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: you want, but have security within yourself. And don't you know,

1019
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 3: I think to rush things again, It's just like if

1020
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 3: you were to rush things in a relationship, it's not

1021
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 3: gonna work out. It's the same thing in life. It's

1022
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 3: the same thing in business. It's like you just take

1023
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 3: your time, relax, be cool.

1024
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 4: There's a good way to think about it. Yeah, you're

1025
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 4: gonna find yourself with the love of the love of

1026
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 4: your life, right being married?

1027
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: Whatnot? Or you're getting a blumpkin another show. That's all

1028
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: the time we have everybody. Thank you so much for

1029
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: joining us on two Cool Moms.

1030
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: You can find us on tour obviously Joe Gatto dot com.

1031
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 4: Joe Gattoofficial dot com official, and then Steve Burn you

1032
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,439
Speaker 4: can find that Punch Up Lives Unofficial Joe Ghetto dot

1033
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 4: com dot com.

1034
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: Your website would be hysterical. That would be the best

1035
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 1: thing you ever pulled off. You should go right now,

1036
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: find your own to pay.

1037
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 4: Them the millions of dollars they want for it, just

1038
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 4: so you could be Joe Gatto dot com. My tour dates, yeah, yeah,

1039
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 4: your to my picture so people show up.

1040
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: Think it's gonna be big. Hey, this is a this

1041
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: is a strange case of y what's going on here? Yeah?

1042
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 1: So subscribe like share. You guys are the best. Thank

1043
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: you for tuning in. I don't know why you do it,

1044
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: but we love you for it. And I love you Steve,

1045
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: love you buddy,