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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it is La La Cant Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the Give Them Laala podcast. I'm so excited because I

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Speaker 1: have a freaking icon on.

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Speaker 2: The pod today, Teresa Judaices. Do you still go by

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Speaker 2: Judas too?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes I do.

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Speaker 2: Well, welcome to my pod. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited to be on on your podcast. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: So a lot of people said they wrote in questions

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Speaker 1: which I'll ask you on the bonus, but some people

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Speaker 1: were like, how did you guys become good after what

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Speaker 1: you said? X, Y and Z. And I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you're a very I call you a gangster, Teresa, because

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Speaker 1: not many women could go through what you've gone through

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Speaker 1: and truly come out on top.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not just saying that.

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Speaker 1: I've had these conversations with people, whether I'm sitting in

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Speaker 1: front of you or behind your back, no mic, no camera.

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Speaker 1: I really really admire the person that you are, and

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Speaker 1: I think watching your girls the true testament to who

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Speaker 1: you are as a person. So I want to first

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Speaker 1: say thank you for hearing me out when I when

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Speaker 1: I wrote you that DM, I say things and they

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Speaker 1: come across in a way that that was never my intent,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like you and I bonded over that

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Speaker 1: DM and you were so gracious and kind, so I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to say thank you for Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, and then I mean, I think and then we

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Speaker 3: have we use the same hairdresser, Lena, like she yes, Lena, yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then and then I think Lena said, I think,

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Speaker 3: you know, you maybe misunderstood Teresa or whatever. She's like,

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Speaker 3: I think you guys would get along. And then so

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you listened to her. And yeah, I mean, listen.

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Speaker 3: We all have our perception like when we you know,

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Speaker 3: when we see someone, we think the person's this way,

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Speaker 3: but they're really not that way, or you hear things

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Speaker 3: from other people, or maybe if you watched the show,

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Speaker 3: then you think of, oh, that person's this way. But

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Speaker 3: I always say never Judge always like, open up the book,

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Speaker 3: read the book first, get to know the person, and

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Speaker 3: then your decision, you know.

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Speaker 1: So yes, there was a comment that someone had written

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Speaker 1: in and they said, I would like to know because

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Speaker 1: you know, for the outside world, they feel that they

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Speaker 1: know you the ins and outs, Like it's almost like

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Speaker 1: they think you're a robot who you only come to

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Speaker 1: when a camera turns on and then you don't exist

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Speaker 1: after that, Right, you're here strictly to entertain. They were wondering,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're one way on Housewives and then a

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Speaker 1: different way on House of Villains, which, by the way,

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Speaker 1: people are loving House of Villains this season, so congratulations

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Speaker 1: on that.

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Speaker 2: What do you what do you.

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Speaker 1: Attribute that to? Would you say it's production? Do you

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Speaker 1: think it's your around a different group of people? Maybe

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Speaker 1: a combo?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, obviously if they watch season one and

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Speaker 3: season two, I think if everybody, you know, somebody made

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Speaker 3: a good point. This is what they said to me.

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Speaker 3: If everybody would watch Housewives, like all of the seasons

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Speaker 3: been on TV seventeen years now. Yeah, so if everybody

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Speaker 3: would watch the show now and watch it really about

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Speaker 3: what actually happened. I mean, I did season one, Season two,

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Speaker 3: it's Teresa from House of Villains. Then you get season

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Speaker 3: three that all of a sudden, my family comes on

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Speaker 3: the show like Lalla behind my back, like this was

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Speaker 3: sister's on a TV show, not putting us on it,

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Speaker 3: and it's like it wasn't about them, it was about me.

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Speaker 3: It was like that was my job at the time,

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Speaker 3: and she kept being in my brother's ear, like saying,

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Speaker 3: your sister's not putting us on TV. It wasn't about

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Speaker 3: on that show first, I would have never done what

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Speaker 3: the wars that would have happened in our family. I

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Speaker 3: think Bravo should thank you for not watching it, because

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Speaker 3: if I would have watched it, we would have never continued.

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Speaker 3: So it was like better I didn't watch it because

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Speaker 3: if I would have watched it, we would have never

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Speaker 3: continued it. Like what happened now? Like we're not speaking,

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Speaker 3: like that's it, it's done. Look we're on and now

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Speaker 3: we're on pause.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about being on pause? Has it

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Speaker 1: been a nice break?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: We needed a change because obviously it couldn't continue the

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Speaker 3: way it was going. And the reason why I'm different

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Speaker 3: is because everyone's always coming for Teresa Judice. That that's

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Speaker 3: why I'm always on the defense trying to defend myself

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Speaker 1: That would be extremely hard, and I haven't. I haven't

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Speaker 1: gone through. I mean, I've been through my fair share

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Speaker 1: on reality TV. But I think Teresa, from my perspective,

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Speaker 1: you are truly a household name now. And I think

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Speaker 1: when people come onto the show and it's your house,

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Speaker 1: they think if they try to dethrone you, it can

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Speaker 1: then become their house. And if they come for you,

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Speaker 1: they they they have a chance in their mind of

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Speaker 1: making it their own house. But I think they also

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Speaker 1: they're written about you know, people people like attention, whether

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Speaker 1: it's negative or positive, and you're the key to the attention.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and everybody knows that. So you comfort Terisa.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you comfort Terisa. You get a storyline and listen,

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Speaker 3: I have no like I'm still standing, you know, That's

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Speaker 3: that was my my second memoir is standing strong, like so, yeah,

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Speaker 3: everyone tries to dethrone me, and like they keep trying,

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Speaker 3: but thank god, I'm still standing. So and like, obviously

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Speaker 3: they played the game all wrong because now we are

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Speaker 3: Margaret's speaking to someone from Louis past, even my brother.

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Speaker 3: It's like they it's like crazy. If you would know,

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Speaker 1: And and I'm not gonna share your your story, but

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Speaker 1: I have heard from other people who you know, no

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Speaker 1: one has ever shared exactly, but they've said similar things

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Speaker 1: to that, like if you only knew, And I'm just wondering,

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Speaker 1: is there any version if if Melissa and Joe came

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Speaker 2: That ship has sailed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, la la, because it's been over

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Speaker 3: ten years and come on, it's like been so long.

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Speaker 3: It's like like I just feel at peace now without

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Speaker 3: them in my life. And it's like, listen, I'd rather

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Speaker 3: forgive a stranger, because a stranger they're not your family.

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Speaker 3: But when your own family fucks you so hard that

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Speaker 3: I am so happy I meet this guy that he knew.

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Speaker 3: I was so happy when I met Louie. And it's

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Speaker 3: didn't know my brother was going to do the same

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Speaker 3: same day with Louie. Like I did not expect that.

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Speaker 3: And but Louis didn't. I mean, he said he watched

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Speaker 3: he really didn't go into it like that. He didn't

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a guy thing to do, because

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Speaker 3: And he did because he was my brother, you know,

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Speaker 3: But I'm like, my brother's not like you. I see

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Speaker 1: So and it's can I ask you, do you think

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I think if my parents were still here,

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Speaker 3: like I know my dad would have loved Louis. They

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe my brothers would have kept his mouth

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I think because you know, I think I

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Speaker 3: ruined his own son's christening. He started screaming at his

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Speaker 3: to our whole family when he Yeah, I went up

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Speaker 3: I was like, what, Like why do you invite me?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 3: So you did that for camera? You did that, Like

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Speaker 3: why did you invite me?

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Speaker 1: Then you know, well that I mean that that would

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Speaker 1: make sense. We get Teresa there, it's one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: being covered if you know everyone knows.

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Speaker 3: But imagine that's your brother, Like like I said.

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Speaker 1: Well that, by the way, I can't imagine Teresa, because

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Speaker 1: I think of me and Easton, my brother, who is

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Speaker 1: always wonder how it can get so bad, because I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you didn't think it would ever be like this

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Speaker 1: when you're like kicking it with your brother.

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Speaker 2: You're single, he's single, you know.

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Speaker 3: Together, of course we were so close. Everybody was like

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Speaker 3: Everyone was great.

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Speaker 2: Did you leave with friendships? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I got along with everyone.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh guys, well, I remember New York was on

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Speaker 1: I think Flavor Flavor something.

435
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

436
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Speaker 1: She she really made a name for herself and I

437
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 1: I love loving hip hop, so of course I knew

438
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 1: Safari because you know, he likes to put his ding

439
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: dong everywhere and it gets them into trouble.

440
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Speaker 3: I know, we got along really great. I love Safari

441
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 3: because we got We liked for coats together, you know,

442
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 3: like the Fox for coats. Yeah, he walked in and

443
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I love your coat. He's like,

444
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 3: I love your coat. You know, yes, I were on

445
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 3: point with the fashion, so we had we got. I

446
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,919
Speaker 3: got along, I have to say with everyone, you know.

447
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 3: And I mean, of course, when Tiffany came from me,

448
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 3: I was like what I was like, I thought that

449
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 3: was like I just laughed at her. And then she

450
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 3: apologized to Louie at the premiere party, which I was happy,

451
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 3: and I'm like, poor Louis. He always like everyone's always

452
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 3: coming for Louie. And it's like, because I guess they

453
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 3: have nothing on me, so I guess they're trying to

454
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 3: hurt me instead. And I guess they know to hurt me,

455
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 3: it's of course hurt someone that you know she loves,

456
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Speaker 3: you know.

457
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Speaker 1: Of course, that's like he's just taking hits for his wife,

458
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 1: hits for his wife.

459
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 3: Hair.

460
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Speaker 1: I know, did you ever did you always want You know,

461
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Speaker 1: I'm the type where I always thought I was going

462
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Speaker 1: to have boys only because a psychic told me that

463
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: I was going to have all boys. So it did

464
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 1: come as a shock when I'm here with two girls,

465
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,360
Speaker 1: and it did all something psychic.

466
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 3: A bad psychic.

467
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Speaker 2: Multiple. I'm like, our psychic's real. I don't know. Did

468
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Speaker 2: you ever want a boy? You're such a fantastic girl, mom.

469
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 3: Yes, I did want a boy because I just wanted to.

470
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Speaker 3: I used to always say to Joe, I want to

471
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Speaker 3: see what a boy looks like. You know, you know,

472
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Speaker 3: you know I did want a boy. But now I

473
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Speaker 3: have two step sons.

474
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Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask you, is it

475
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Speaker 1: is it difficult stepping in as like I don't want

476
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Speaker 1: to say mother figure because they're old?

477
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Speaker 2: How old? I mean?

478
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Speaker 3: We have Louis. We call him Little Lois because you know,

479
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 3: you know, his father's Louie too, so we call him

480
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 3: little Lowie. So Louis Is he just turned twenty one.

481
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 3: We just celebrated his twenty first birthday this past weekend

482
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Speaker 3: in Vegas. Oh had so much fun. Let Dom Dollar.

483
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 3: We saw John Summit and Calvin Harris and in Las Vegas.

484
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 3: We had the best time.

485
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Speaker 1: I just think it would be so fucking wild to

486
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Speaker 1: like have a totally normal life. You're like kicking it

487
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: with your dad and all of this sudden Teresa Judas

488
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 1: is now your stepmom.

489
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Speaker 2: Yeah, like it would be fucking wild. You couldn't even

490
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Speaker 2: wish for.

491
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we get along so good. And he like,

492
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Speaker 3: I know, he always tells me he loves me. He

493
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 3: writes me the nicest cards and and and he's the

494
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Speaker 3: sweetest like boy, I mean young man. He is like

495
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Speaker 3: I like, he's I adore him. He's like, I couldn't

496
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Speaker 3: ask for a better step son.

497
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Speaker 2: I'm so happy you would have been.

498
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Speaker 4: I feel like I see you cheering at like little

499
00:23:58,720 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 4: league games?

500
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Speaker 2: You who would have been the best mom. I feel

501
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 2: like like I would have been, like, that's my mom

502
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: cheering for me over there. She did that with her girl.

503
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, now she's notinning a Michigan football games,

504
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: which I'm so jealous.

505
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Speaker 3: Yeah. When I first met him, he was playing soccer

506
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: and he played for He was a senior so when

507
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 3: I first yeah, so I watched I watched his games. Yeah,

508
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 3: he was really good.

509
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 1: And how many who of the kids are still in

510
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Speaker 1: the house.

511
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Speaker 3: Well, little Louis lives here, Gia lives here, okay, and

512
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 3: Gabriella just got home. She's at the University of Michigan,

513
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 3: and Milania is at the University of Tampa and she's

514
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 3: not coming home for thanksgiv and she's going she's in

515
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 3: the Bahamas with her dad, so okay, Yeah, she's spending

516
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 3: Thanksgiving with him. So he only has one and I

517
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Speaker 3: have the rest. And Adriana lives here and she's fifteen.

518
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 3: And then I mean that Louis has another son, Nicholas,

519
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 3: that's twenty three GA's age, and he has autism and

520
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 3: he lives with his mom. And we see him every

521
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Speaker 3: other weekend or you know, if he's busy, you know,

522
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 3: or every other you know, like we try to do

523
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 3: every other weekend or every every two weekends. It depends

524
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 3: are on our schedules because we're really you know, he's busy,

525
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 3: he has things going on, We have things going on.

526
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 3: But like he loves coming here. He loves the girls.

527
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 3: They get along so good.

528
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Speaker 1: And yeah, it's like a party house. It's like like

529
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Speaker 1: that was my dream growing up. I always hated the

530
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Speaker 1: fact that there were only two of us because my

531
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Speaker 1: half brother, who I only call my brother, I don't

532
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Speaker 1: throw the half in, but he's he's fifteen years older,

533
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: so he had his own thing going on. And I

534
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: always wanted just like a house full of kids or

535
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 1: I guess grown adult children, and I wonder, like, what

536
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: is Christmas going to look like at your house now?

537
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: Because you have older kids, they you know, the parents

538
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: are not together, so they got to bop around. What

539
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: is your what is the tradition that you're going to

540
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Speaker 1: try to keep?

541
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Speaker 3: Well, I to Christmas Eve, so the kids are always

542
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 3: Christmas Eve and then we stay, you know, we eat dinner,

543
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 3: have dessert, and then twelve o'clock we open gifts. So

544
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 3: they stay with me the whole Christmas Eve. So we

545
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 3: start eating like I would say, I don't know, like

546
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,959
Speaker 3: we start a little early, like we start having appetizer

547
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 3: maybe like seven, and then maybe eat dinner around eight

548
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: or nine like that, you know, and then we just

549
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 3: hang around talk, you know, play music, and then that's

550
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 3: it and then have dessert and then twelve o'clock we

551
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 3: open gifts and that's it. And then the next day,

552
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 3: Christmas Day, we bed and the kids, like he goes

553
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: to her boyfriends, they go see they all they're very

554
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: close to Joe's family, So all the girls go see

555
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 3: Joe's family and little Louis. I'm sure Christmas Day he

556
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 3: goes to you know, he's going to go see his mom.

557
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 3: Yeah like that.

558
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: I do you guys draw names? I know this is

559
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: a silly question. Do you draw names? Because since there's

560
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: like five hundred of you, does each person or do

561
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: you guys go all all week?

562
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Speaker 3: You see, we still buy gifts for all of us.

563
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 3: But and the girls they pick out of a hat,

564
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 3: because there's eleven girls on Joe's side, like we have

565
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 3: four girls. Joe's sister has four girls, and Joe's brother

566
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 3: has three girls. So there's eleven girls.

567
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: Any boys in the midst by oh my god, it's

568
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: just like my dream.

569
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 3: So they dream pick out of a name, and they

570
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 3: buy one gift for each other, and there's like, you know,

571
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 3: take of whatever over one hundred, get out a limit

572
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 3: or whatever like that. So that's what they do, which

573
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 3: is good because I like you. I used to buy.

574
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: I had to buy for all the kids. It was

575
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 3: like a lot.

576
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: You know, No, that is a lot, and it gets

577
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: expensive and I don't care if you're freaking balling, you're

578
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: also taking you You're taking my time away where I

579
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: have to. Like, I'm not big on gifts, Teresa, Like,

580
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: I don't care if I receive them.

581
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm the worst at giving them.

582
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: I'm the same way. It's just a lot, Like it's

583
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 3: a lot of work for one day. You know, it's

584
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: just a lot of work, you know.

585
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: I like the day.

586
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: I love that you guys vege during the day and

587
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: just enjoy each other, because that, for me is what

588
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: it's what it's all about.

589
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 2: And I also don't like the cooking part.

590
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: Which is why I I dismiss myself every time. Are

591
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: you cooking for the family or are you having a

592
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: catered Thanksgiving?

593
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: We're gonna I'm gonna We're gonna cook. Louis and I

594
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 3: are gonna cook together, and then Christmas.

595
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: Eve.

596
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 3: I used to cook with my parents. It's just too

597
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 3: much with cooking all the fish. I'm not you know,

598
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: I don't like cooking all the fish.

599
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 2: What fish?

600
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 3: What we the seven fishes? Do you ever hear the

601
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 3: seven fishes? Okay? So I just we just Italians eat

602
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 3: all fish, like fry calamari, I like shrimp abiada. This

603
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 3: is what I do. I ordered, I ordered the food,

604
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 3: so like, yeah, now I order from a great Italian restaurant,

605
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 3: and I, you know, whatever we feel like even like

606
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 3: like or Chilian sea bass or bronzino. So it's like

607
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 3: we're big on fish and like, but Louis doesn't like fish,

608
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: so I get he. He just likes shrimp and okay, shrimp.

609
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: He likes fry calamari, but he doesn't like the sea bass,

610
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: and I like, so I'll get him either like a

611
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: like a meat or a chicken.

612
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 2: So like, is Louis Italian?

613
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 3: He's Spanish? Hispanic?

614
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 2: What's his last name?

615
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 3: Rue Ellis? Okay, his mom is Dominican and his father

616
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: is half Mexican half Puerto Rican.

617
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you guys have that combination with the

618
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: Italian is like all the culture in the world.

619
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 3: And I'm so and I love my Hispanic husband.

620
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: I do.

621
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: Like he's very spicy, yes, I like, yeah.

622
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, remind what was like the point in time

623
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: where you were like, this person's gonna be my husband?

624
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: Like what about him just changed it all? I mean

625
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: he's the most psych When.

626
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 3: I first met him, he just was such a gentleman,

627
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: just really sweet, like, you know, like I met him.

628
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 3: We're walking literally walking, you know, walking by I was

629
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 3: with my two girlfriends. He's packing up his house, his

630
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 3: shore house. He's first time at the shore. He was

631
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 3: leaving the shore and that was it. And then I

632
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 3: was pointing at his car and I go, he think

633
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: I thought I waved, so he waved back, and my

634
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 3: married friends like, I'm gonna go talk to him. So

635
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: my ma, because I was with me and my other

636
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 3: friend was single and my and then I had a

637
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 3: married friend. So my married friends like, I'm going to

638
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 3: go talk to him. So she went to go talk

639
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 3: to him, and she yes.

640
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: Always count on the marriage and I have nothing to live.

641
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 3: And then she was like start. And then her husband's like, oh, Dane,

642
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 3: I want to go talk to him. I'm like yeah,

643
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 3: but it was just she obviously did it for me.

644
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: You know, it's called a wing woman, exactly, a wing woman.

645
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: So like she went to go talk to him, and

646
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 3: then I sit to my other friend. I'm like, well,

647
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 3: let's go, like we can't leave her by herself. Let's

648
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: just go say his And we went to go say

649
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 3: hamick and then we all introduced ourselves. We shook hands

650
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 3: or whatever, and that was it. And then yeah, I mean,

651
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 3: that was it. And then we walked we left, and

652
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: then he came driving up in his car and when

653
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 3: his son was there when I met him, and and

654
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 3: then I guess his son said, Daddy, did you know

655
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: who that was? And he didn't know at first. Yeah,

656
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 3: so louis like, that's Teresa. So then he came rolling

657
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 3: driving up to us, because then we said bye and

658
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 3: we left, and I don't even remember his son there

659
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: la because I guess I was like a little nervous,

660
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 3: you know, and he yeah, he was handsome and he

661
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 3: was handed, and I was just like but then also

662
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 3: he comes driving up to us as we're walking and

663
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 3: he's like, my son wanted to know why didn't ask

664
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 3: for your number, Teresa? And then like and that's and

665
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 3: then I got embarrassed. I got because his son and

666
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 3: his girlfriend were in the vack seat, and I was

667
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 3: like and I was like, I got embarrassed. So I

668
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 3: was like, well, before we left, he gave me his

669
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 3: business card, so I said, well, I have your business card,

670
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 3: I'll text you. And then because he gave me one,

671
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 3: and he gave Dana one, the married friend, because he

672
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 3: only had only had two of them ons and then

673
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 3: he left and then I and then after that, my

674
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 3: girlfriend took my phone Dana and she texted him and.

675
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: I love Dana.

676
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 3: So she was a good wing woman. Yeah, and then

677
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 3: that was it.

678
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: Wait, and then we talked if I come, if I

679
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: come out your way, can we bring Dana out and

680
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: she can be my wing woman? So, because twenty twenty five, Teresa,

681
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: it's freaking on.

682
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna get all.

683
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: You wouldn't have a problem, trust you're.

684
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: You're so kind.

685
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: I want to know, because Jersey is on pause, if

686
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: you could put together Jersey casts with with Ogi's, who

687
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: would you pluck and put back into the mix for

688
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: the next season of Jersey?

689
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 3: I think, well, I think it would be obviously me,

690
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: Jennifer Aiden, Dolores, Jackie Goldschneider. Really yeah, oh we're good. Yeah. Listen,

691
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 3: she said sorry to me. I already knew she was talking,

692
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 3: you know, I already knew she was doing what she

693
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 3: was doing. I already knew it because right because I

694
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: hurt her. So I get it. See see Lala, If

695
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 3: I if I throw the first punch and you come

696
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: from me, I get it. Girl, I'm like, all right,

697
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: my hands are up. You're right. I came for you first.

698
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. So I knew that Jackie was her hands

699
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 3: were dirty somehow, I already knew. And Okay, with Margaret,

700
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 3: like she came to my wedding and I thought she

701
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 3: was my friend, and she was in that whole thing

702
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: the whole time too, and it's like, really, you're supposed

703
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 3: to be my friend. Why are you doing that? You know?

704
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 3: So that's why with Mark and even my sister in

705
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: law she tries to play clean too. It's like they

706
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 3: were all in it, you know, and I already knew.

707
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 3: So it's like that's why it's just so funny to me.

708
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: Do you still talk to Danielle stop?

709
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 3: No? No, because you know what I tried with her

710
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 3: and she's just like all over the place, you know,

711
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 3: it's just like little ko. Yeah, I just can't know more.

712
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 3: I'm like done with that. Yeah, she just yeah, it's

713
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: just she's like wishy washedy, like a yo yo. It's

714
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 3: like I can't you know. It's just like I don't

715
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 3: know if if like everything she's been through, I don't know.

716
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: It's just I can't.

717
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: It's like yeah, and I get that.

718
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: I feel like you've reached a point in your life

719
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: where you have peace and there are moments and I

720
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: and I've had this as well where people say, would

721
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: you ever make up with so and so? And it's

722
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: like you kind of have to look at your life

723
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,359
Speaker 1: and go, do I feel peace right now?

724
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 2: Yes? So what would be the point?

725
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 3: I mean, you don't even see if you really watched

726
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 3: my show. Remember when I pushed Andy Cohen, did you

727
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 3: ever guess it was like, Okay, she said to me

728
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 3: that I didn't go see my nephew when he was

729
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 3: born in the hospital.

730
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: Trea, I have watched every single you know where she

731
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: got that from?

732
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 3: Do you know where Danielle got that from?

733
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: Melissa tweeted her right, Messa called hering each other?

734
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be very hurtful.

735
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 3: I did not know that. Like see, this is how

736
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 3: clueless I was back then, because I never thought that

737
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 3: my sister in law would do that, Like so here

738
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: I am was so mad at Danielle. Meanwhile, it did

739
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: never dawned on me that Melissa and her were emailing

740
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 3: each other, and that's where Danielle got that from. Like

741
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 3: I never am I'm telling you, I would have took

742
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 3: a bullet that day and be like, no way did

743
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 3: my sister in law do Like I didn't believe it.

744
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 3: I really blamed. I thought Danielle was coming for me

745
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,919
Speaker 3: just to and then to find out that my sister

746
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 3: in law told her that. That's why she said that.

747
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 3: And and Danielle never said that on the show, right,

748
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,280
Speaker 3: she told me that personally, she never outed my sister

749
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,959
Speaker 3: in law. You know what she said to me because

750
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 3: I never wanted you in her to fight because of me.

751
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: And I'm like, we were on a TV show. You

752
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 3: should have just said the truth, you know what I mean.

753
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 3: I was like exactly while she came from me and

754
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 3: said stuff that I said, Meanwhile, you the person that

755
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 3: really did all that to you that really hurt you,

756
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 3: and you never outed her, you know, like they were

757
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 3: emailing the whole time. I guess because she didn't want

758
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 3: to look like the bad person because they're like they

759
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 3: were doing it, you know off camera. You know, I

760
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 3: don't have right, I can't tell you.

761
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 2: You never know which way.

762
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: I mean, the level of stamina you have to have

763
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: to continue this shit when cameras are down. When cameras

764
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: go down, I go live a good fucking life.

765
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 3: No, I know, well, I mean that was happening before,

766
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 3: that was happening before my sister in law even came on.

767
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: You know, That's what That's how, That's what got her

768
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 3: on because then Bravo saw how angry I got when

769
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 3: she mentioned my nephew, and they're like, oh my god,

770
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 3: this is gonna make great TV.

771
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 1: And then the body checking of Andy Cohen, the strength

772
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: on you, betch is fucking next level. I mean, you

773
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: freaking it was like he was like a little hackey sack,

774
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: like you could have punted his ass to fucking where

775
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: did you film? Were you in Jersey when you film that?

776
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: His ass would have been all the way to Los Angeles.

777
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 3: I was shook. I mean that in the table flipping.

778
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: I know, I used to be crazy. I used to

779
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 3: be like I would go from zero to one hundred

780
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 3: so quick. Yeah, I really would like I relate. I

781
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 3: relate down now, which I'm so glad I have.

782
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: You know, it's exhausting when newbies come on because you're

783
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: like the og of iconic moments from the Andy Cohen too,

784
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,240
Speaker 1: the table flipping, just like who you are? You show

785
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: up and you have these like effortless iconic moments when

786
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: people come on, do you watch other housewives or do

787
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: you stir clear?

788
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, now that like I have more time, I do

789
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 3: like when I have time, Like right now, I'm watching

790
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 3: so like City, I'm watching I'm so good, like a

791
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 3: little bit of Potomac. Yeah whatever, Potomac is so good.

792
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 3: I watched you do you you know?

793
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, I'm I'm a heavy hitter when it comes

794
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,359
Speaker 1: to all of the housewives. But like I'll go back

795
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: and watch og rony og Jersey.

796
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 2: But do you watch newbies?

797
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: Come on and you're like, girl, you've clearly watched too

798
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: much Housewives. You are really trying to have that moment

799
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: and it's not hitting because it's not authentic, Like you

800
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 1: can tell that this you're trying to be you're trying

801
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 1: to create the moment.

802
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yeah, that's been on our season like this year.

803
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: Ooh, can you tell me what moment that sticks out

804
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: in your mind?

805
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: On me?

806
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 3: Come on, we're in twenty twenty, We're in twenty twenty five. Now,

807
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 3: we'll no twenty twenty four and we're going I mean,

808
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 3: you can't put your hands on anyone, you know, No,

809
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 3: Like I'm just you just can't or you shouldn't get

810
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 3: into someone's personal space, Like you can't get into someone's

811
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 3: face so close and expect someone not to do because

812
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, if somebody got into my face that close, too,

813
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: I think I would push them. And I always like,

814
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 3: if somebody talks so close to me, I move back.

815
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 3: I do move that because I don't, like, I don't

816
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 3: want to smell your breath. Sorry, oh my god, I

817
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 3: don't want to smell your breath. Like we should have

818
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 3: a lot of distance between us and speak that way.

819
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 3: I don't want don't don't get so close into my face.

820
00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: And that's what I love about Dolores.

821
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: She's like, oh yeah, if if someone got that closed,

822
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: I'd fucking hit them.

823
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you can't, like yeah, like if you feel

824
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 3: like you're being like like you know, like your your

825
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 3: space is being invaded. Yeah, I mean I don't like that.

826
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 3: Like you can't like scream and spit into someone's face

827
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: as you're talking to that, I'm like, you can't do that.

828
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 3: You know, have a normal it's called housewives. Yeah, have

829
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 3: a normal conversation, like you know, like keep distance between us,

830
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 3: not don't get into somebody's face.

831
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: Like that, you know, right, My last question before we

832
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: sign off when season one happened and you you know,

833
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: and when I say just, I don't mean that in

834
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: a derogatory or demeaning way. But you were you were

835
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: a mom and you were a wife. Did you ever

836
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: in a million years think that this was going to

837
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,760
Speaker 1: catapult you into such fame?

838
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: No?

839
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 2: No, what were your hopes and dreams did you?

840
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 1: Do? You have like hopes and dreams of other things

841
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 1: besides housewives and mom?

842
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: I mean I did the show because I wanted to.

843
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 3: Just I was like bored doing the same thing every

844
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 3: single day. So I'm like, God, this will be fun.

845
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 3: Like they're just gonna, you know, do They're gonna film

846
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 3: us what we're actually doing, you know. And it's because

847
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 3: sometimes in mom life, like if you're doing the same

848
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 3: thing like you, like you I work out every day,

849
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,800
Speaker 3: so like you stay in your workout clothes, but like filming,

850
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 3: it's like you get more dressed up. So to me

851
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 3: was like fun, you know, getting more dressed up. But no,

852
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 3: I didn't think it was going to ever become what

853
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 3: it was never you know, it's absolutely insane to me. Well,

854
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,399
Speaker 3: just like you, I'm sure when you started, you didn't

855
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: think the same, right, did you think it was gonna

856
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 3: be well?

857
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: I think that's I think that's the difference between Housewives

858
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: back when you first started and with the show that

859
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: I was on, because our show was based on a

860
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: group of people working at a restaurant who we.

861
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 2: Were really hoping for a big break.

862
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: When we weren't working at the restaurant, we were going

863
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: on auditions.

864
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: We moved to LA with a purpose.

865
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 1: So for me, it was like I certainly didn't think

866
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: that this was going to be the end all be all.

867
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: I never thought i'd be on reality TV. But when

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Speaker 1: you started Housewives, it was just unknown.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very new.

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Speaker 1: I think you guys were what the second or third

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00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: Housewives franchise to exist.

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Speaker 3: I think New York was on an oat and Orange

873
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 3: County and it was us. So like I really didn't

874
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 3: even and I didn't even watch the other show, so

875
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,399
Speaker 3: I didn't know to even and I didn't even go

876
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 3: watch it before I signed the contract because I was

877
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 3: so busy with the three kids, so I didn't even,

878
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 3: Like I didn't watch any TV like always Barney, you

879
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 3: know Elmo, Dora, that's on my TV. That's what I

880
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 3: used to watch, so I never watched any TV. Yeah,

881
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 3: and then by the time I then at that time

882
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: when I went to bed, I would like pass out.

883
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 3: I'm sure that's how you are now, right.

884
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: Oh if pure exhaustion, And I too only get ready

885
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: for a camera unless it's my own podcast.

886
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 2: And then I look like this every single.

887
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: Day because I'm just I'm doing well to not be

888
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: covered and spit up at this point, now, I know

889
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: that to me is a win. I had the best

890
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: time with you on the pod. I'm so excited to

891
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: do yours. What do you have going on? Is how

892
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: the Villains wrapped? What are what are we doing?

893
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 2: What are we on?

894
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 3: Hows the Villains still is still going? So yes, okay,

895
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 3: you know that's every Thursday night at ten pm. But yeah,

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00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 3: it's still going. I think it's gonna be on a

897
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Speaker 3: few more.

898
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 2: Weeks, so state love it.

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00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: And then what else do I have going on? That's it?

901
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm you know, I'm doing appearances. You know here,

902
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 3: I've been doing drag shows, which I've never been to

903
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 3: a drag show before, and I love it, have so

904
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 3: much fun. You're good. Yeah, And then I have a

905
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 3: lip collection that just came out. I collaborated with Christian Audet.

906
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,919
Speaker 3: So okay, like Teresa's.

907
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: I've been seeing this on your on your Instagram.

908
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 3: So it's a lipsa so it's like three three lipstick colors.

909
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 3: It's called best One's Best, so it's like a red.

910
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,840
Speaker 3: And then there's I Do it's like a Newdy beige.

911
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 3: And then there's three six, three six, three sixty five,

912
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 3: like three hundred, like you wear three hundred and sixty

913
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Speaker 3: five days. It's like a mauve nude.

914
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

915
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 3: And then I have the slip gloss called love bomb.

916
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: Oh oh, I love that name.

917
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 3: So yeah, so did you see like you see all

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Speaker 3: of the names like love bomb, like three sixty You

919
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,720
Speaker 3: know that movie three sixty five, three hundred and sixty

920
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 3: five days, Yes, yes, so yes, I'm obsessed with that movie.

921
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 3: I love that movie. So three hundreds.

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Speaker 2: I love how you named it.

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Speaker 3: It's like a lipstick that you were three hundred and

924
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 3: sixty five days love bomb, and it's about like, you know,

925
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 3: like I want to put the love out there because

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Speaker 3: I wish, like I I want everybody to have like

927
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 3: the love that me and Louie have. So it's like

928
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Speaker 3: I want to, you know, like I want.

929
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Speaker 2: You to find We'll send that my way. That's what

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00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 2: I want it.

931
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so like the I do and then what else?

932
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 3: And what's the other one? I do? Love it best?

933
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Speaker 3: So I picked get kissed. Okay, like kiss means Spanish.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you so much for being on

935
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Speaker 1: the Give Them Lalla podcast.

936
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Speaker 2: Tree. You really are man, Thank you.

937
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 3: This is so much fun. We gotta do we gotta

938
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Speaker 3: do it more often.

939
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Speaker 1: Yeah, please, I would love it and I'm gonna come

940
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: when I like my mommy brother.

941
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 3: I love that you do with your brother.

942
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: We keep it in the pod, always stay closed.

943
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: I love that. That makes me really happy.

944
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: Well he's never getting a wife. That's what I've learned

945
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: from from this. You know what I've learned from this

946
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 1: podcast episode is no new fronts.

947
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Speaker 3: The only thing is I know when new blood comes in,

948
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 3: that's when that's when things change. But you know you

949
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 3: have to tell whoever on both your sides. Listen, my sibling.

950
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 3: Can you please make it work with my sibling?

951
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: Please?

952
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 3: Don't you know? Take you know? Is it all used to?

953
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 1: And our other our older brother who's forty eight, but

954
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: he's got an amazing wife.

955
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 2: And we're all very that's nice.

956
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 3: See that's the thing you don't want to like. You know,

957
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 3: you have each other, so you want you want to

958
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: keep that family. You know, it's exact because I only

959
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 3: have one brother and now I'm like, I feel like

960
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 3: i'm and I lost my parents, so I feel like

961
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Speaker 3: I'm an orphan. But it's okay because I have my

962
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 3: four daughters, and I have my you know, husband, and

963
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 3: I have my stepson. So I'm blessed. I'm really blessed.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I love that word blessed. That is the word that

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Speaker 1: I live and die by. So thank you so much again, Teresa,

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00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: and thank you guys for listening to another episode of

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00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 1: the Give Them La La Podcast.

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00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 2: I hope that you stay blessed.

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00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: I hope that it's just love, love, love, and I

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Speaker 1: will catch you next week.

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Speaker 3: I love that