Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Ivy is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Travis for two
Speaker 1: years now, but she thinks something might be going on,
Speaker 1: so let me see if we can help her out. Ivy,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, but what's going on? Why
Speaker 1: do you think Travis is cheating?
Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, So I've just been like, so, I
Speaker 3: live with Travis and we don't share everything, but we
Speaker 3: do share some like bills and things. And one of
Speaker 3: the things that he gave me was the pin for
Speaker 3: his credit card account for emergencies and that kind of thing.
Speaker 3: So I ordered some stuff to the house and it
Speaker 3: hadn't turn up yet. So he was like, you know,
Speaker 3: check my account to see if it's been charged. And
Speaker 3: when I did, there were like other charges that I
Speaker 3: didn't recognize or understand that we're on there.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: So he's got like these department stores and like stores
Speaker 3: that he and I never go to. They were like
Speaker 3: cash withdrawals and like your cash advances and just all
Speaker 3: of these different places that we never shot at and
Speaker 3: I've never seen this stuff. So he's buying all this
Speaker 3: stuff and it's not in our house. I don't know,
Speaker 3: Like I just feel like if he was loaning people money,
Speaker 3: he would say something to me about it, right, Is that.
Speaker 2: What he said that he was doing. When did you
Speaker 2: ask him about this?
Speaker 3: So I haven't asked in about it? Right? So I
Speaker 3: just because part of it is like I was sort
Speaker 3: of snooping in it, you know, you know, like because
Speaker 3: he just he gave me that for emergencies, and so
Speaker 3: I happened to look across it while I was checking
Speaker 3: the one purchase, and so I didn't want to like
Speaker 3: bring that off. But I kind of think that it
Speaker 3: is a cheating thing because he's also got this girl
Speaker 3: at the office that is bothering me.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, why is she bothering you?
Speaker 3: First of all, like any time that I go to
Speaker 3: any company function or if I stop by and see
Speaker 3: him at work or whatever, like she always is looking
Speaker 3: at him some kind of way, Like she's always like
Speaker 3: laughing at his jokes. She's always like, you know, just
Speaker 3: right in his presence, and I just feel like she's
Speaker 3: using any excuse she can to get around him. And
Speaker 3: then there was a time that I went to see
Speaker 3: him at his office and his door was closed, and
Speaker 3: when I went in, it was just him and her
Speaker 3: alone in there. Oh yeah, and she just takes off
Speaker 3: and she doesn't say a word to me. She just leaves,
Speaker 3: like she said, excuse me to grow up the door.
Speaker 3: And that's it.
Speaker 2: That's shady.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, clearly she's got a thing for your man.
Speaker 4: But how does he react when she's around closed doors?
Speaker 4: We don't love that, but how does he act around her?
Speaker 3: So, like he hasn't said much about it, and I
Speaker 3: haven't like done a lot in terms of accusing it
Speaker 3: because I'm kind of just starting to suspect a number
Speaker 3: of these things, but like mostly it's the bank account, right, So,
Speaker 3: like I'm worried about saying something. I'm worried that this
Speaker 3: is going to turn into like this is not the
Speaker 3: first time that I have been cheated on, and I'm
Speaker 3: just worried it's going to turn into this whole other thing.
Speaker 3: Like I was divorced before I met him, and that
Speaker 3: was from cheating.
Speaker 2: And does he know that?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: He does, yeah, yeah, And if he knows that, he should,
Speaker 1: you know, be understanding of concerns that you have and
Speaker 1: hear you out at least and not like make you
Speaker 1: feel bad for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just I guess I'm just afraid to
Speaker 3: like find out exactly what it is. And it's like
Speaker 3: I was cheated on for years before and it was
Speaker 3: like I just don't want that to go on and
Speaker 3: on and on for years again this time around. So
Speaker 3: I'm trying to like build my case to confront it
Speaker 3: early as opposed to just mentioned a suspicion. He's like,
Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, and then I believe him for
Speaker 3: another year. Prepare do that?
Speaker 1: Okay, well, you already told us what grocery store he's
Speaker 1: a rewards card member at. So we'll play a song
Speaker 1: come Back, and then call him and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's
Speaker 1: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our Florida department,
Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those to you or
Speaker 1: somebody else. Okay, Okay, all right, we'll play a song
Speaker 1: come back, get your to Catch a Cheeter next if
Speaker 1: you're just joining us for Today's to Catch a Teeter.
Speaker 1: Ivy is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 1: boyfriend Travis of two years might be messing around. So
Speaker 1: we're about to call him and pretend to be from
Speaker 1: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at
Speaker 1: and say that every single month, we choose one lucky
Speaker 1: rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department,
Speaker 1: and will seev sends those to Ivy or to somebody else.
Speaker 1: Before we do that, Ivy, why don't you catch us
Speaker 1: up on your situation?
Speaker 3: Basically, Travis gave me the pin for his credit card account,
Speaker 3: and when I went to check a purchase, I saw
Speaker 3: that he it purchased a whole bunch of things that
Speaker 3: aren't in our house and that I've never seen in
Speaker 3: our stores. We never go to and cash advances, and
Speaker 3: just like a lot of money with coming out of
Speaker 3: discount and I don't know where it's going or who
Speaker 3: it's going to. And I'm suspecting this girl that's at
Speaker 3: his office who is like clearly into him.
Speaker 2: What's the girl at his office's name? Patricia? Okay, hell,
Speaker 2: I hope it's not. It's not that, but let's see here.
Speaker 2: Are you ready?
Speaker 3: I'm ready?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling for so I was
Speaker 1: looking for a rewards card member named Travis.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah's see.
Speaker 1: Travis, how you doing? Please don't hang up. This is
Speaker 1: not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling you with
Speaker 1: good news. Congratulations. Here this month's big winner. Thank you
Speaker 1: very much for shopping with us. We're all happy and
Speaker 1: clap before you overhear. I was informing you that you're
Speaker 1: this month's big winner of free flowers deliver from a
Speaker 1: floor department. Every single month we choose one Lucky Rewards
Speaker 1: card member, and it's you this month. And you've just
Speaker 1: won thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy,
Speaker 1: your chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that you want within the fifty United States of America.
Speaker 1: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Congratulations.
Speaker 5: Wow, okay, thanks well.
Speaker 2: Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 5: I had no idea this is the thing you guys did.
Speaker 5: But all right, awesome.
Speaker 1: So, first thing, I will need to be the first
Speaker 1: and last name of the person you'd like to send
Speaker 1: them to. Yeah, Gen, Gen, And is there anything you'd
Speaker 1: like to put on a card to?
Speaker 2: Gen?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 5: Hey, kid, really proud of the how far you've gotten.
Speaker 1: Keep it up and the ending on that una. Is
Speaker 1: it a love regards.
Speaker 3: Love Travis?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 1: And now I'll just let you know that this is
Speaker 1: not the grocery store. This is actually the Jewbill Show.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show.
Speaker 2: My name is Yeah.
Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: And this is a segment we do call to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might
Speaker 1: be messing around, you see who they send flowers to,
Speaker 1: and your girlfriend Ivy is actually on the phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Hi, So, like, what's up? What's your sister?
Speaker 3: Can you? Can you talk to me about that?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: Why are you buying your sister flowers? Why are you
Speaker 3: not getting money flowers? What's going on?
Speaker 2: Wait? So Jenna's is your sister?
Speaker 5: Yeah, i'd be wait a second, what's happening?
Speaker 3: Why?
Speaker 5: Why are you calling a radio station? And what would
Speaker 5: be wrong with me giving Jen flowers?
Speaker 3: I'm calling them because I look. I looked on the
Speaker 3: bank statement and the charges on your card makes no sense.
Speaker 3: There's large, large charges on your card and there's something
Speaker 3: up and you're not telling me. And I need to
Speaker 3: know what's going on because it makes no sense where
Speaker 3: you're spending money, It makes no sense. How much you're
Speaker 3: spending money and something is up and you're not telling me.
Speaker 3: And this is how I'm finding out. I gave you
Speaker 3: that card for immersions.
Speaker 5: He purchases IVY like stuff for us and stuff that
Speaker 5: you might need. Why are you looking through the statements?
Speaker 5: That's not your business.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're making yourself look worse right now.
Speaker 5: You're just immitted myself what you called a radio station
Speaker 5: because you're like, I'm cheating on you.
Speaker 4: What do you want?
Speaker 3: Are you giving me evidence to that effect? What are
Speaker 3: you like? You've not given me any evidence to the opposite.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, says where Why aren't you spending
Speaker 3: so much in like all these places last week the
Speaker 3: week before? Like what's been going on? Wow?
Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to get uh interrogated
Speaker 5: for things that I did with my own money. Not
Speaker 5: that this is public information. But Jen's been having a
Speaker 5: hard time. She lost her job and she needed a
Speaker 5: little help, okay, and I'm a brother and I helped
Speaker 5: her out. Samantha also needed some school supplies and she's
Speaker 5: my niece. What am I going to do?
Speaker 3: Say? No?
Speaker 4: Okay, well you probably could have told iv that. I mean,
Speaker 4: you know her history So you did the right thing
Speaker 4: by taking care of your family, no doubt. But your girlfriend,
Speaker 4: who you love right has a history of cheating, and
Speaker 4: that for her to feel concerned right now.
Speaker 5: So she also has a history of like looking up
Speaker 5: a credit card statement.
Speaker 3: Oh I get that.
Speaker 2: She don't love that.
Speaker 4: But that's the conversation for another day.
Speaker 3: Right now.
Speaker 4: Right now, we're just trying to find out if you're cheating,
Speaker 4: and it's looking like you're not.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 5: I you know, it's really messed up because you know,
Speaker 5: she didn't even come to me. My mother came to
Speaker 5: me and was like, you need to help your sister,
Speaker 5: and she I had to like beg her to take
Speaker 5: the money because she wouldn't take it.
Speaker 3: Why the hell are you even helping here? Though, Like,
Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. She anything, but she never knew
Speaker 3: anything for you. She has She never talks about you,
Speaker 3: She never mentioned you, she never spent time with you.
Speaker 3: You guys don't hang out. She's done nothing for you. Like,
Speaker 3: why are you helping her? It makes no sense.
Speaker 5: She's blood, we grew up together, she's my younger sister.
Speaker 5: We don't hang in the same crowds, but don't.
Speaker 3: I don't love her.
Speaker 2: So are you upset that he's helping a sister? I
Speaker 2: don't care.
Speaker 3: I'm upset because he helps people who just take stuff
Speaker 3: from him and freeload off of him, And he just
Speaker 3: lets people roll over him and use his money instead
Speaker 3: of getting off their apps and getting a job. And
Speaker 3: all they do is ask him for handouts and he's
Speaker 3: like more than happy to give away his money to
Speaker 3: those people.
Speaker 2: And should have.
Speaker 5: She had two jobs, she got fired from one of them.
Speaker 5: What am I supposed to do?
Speaker 4: Why are we supposed to just be happy that he's
Speaker 4: not cheating? Like I thought that was what we were
Speaker 4: worried about right now, not the fact that he's seeing
Speaker 4: care of us.
Speaker 5: He's trying to manage my money, Like what is this?
Speaker 3: This is my money?
Speaker 5: Like I.
Speaker 3: Like, I'm still not sold on that. Okay, maybe he's
Speaker 3: helping a sister, which he shouldn't fund without talking to
Speaker 3: me about without a proven that he's lying, which makes
Speaker 3: no sense. So we've already got that, So what is
Speaker 3: what else is he lying about? Because I still think
Speaker 3: that Patricia's in the mix? But Tricia, what are you
Speaker 3: talking about?
Speaker 5: Ivy?
Speaker 3: But is married, which has two children and I'm friends
Speaker 3: with her husband.
Speaker 5: What are you doing?
Speaker 3: You know you do not you have a single woman
Speaker 3: to wreck your home like you can be wrecking her
Speaker 3: home and are okay you don't need her to be single?
Speaker 3: Larry how.
Speaker 1: Ivey, I've realized you've got some trust issues, but you
Speaker 1: also if you're gonna be in a relationship, have to
Speaker 1: be able to trust the person you're with. If nothing, like,
Speaker 1: you need to look at the situation. Is it is
Speaker 1: it really shady or is it you making up understandable
Speaker 1: stories about things that could be happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the one that is lying, spending his money
Speaker 3: and going after what with him any credit? Tell you
Speaker 3: you can table conversation about I think you guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys definitely need to have a much bigger conversation.
Speaker 1: And Ivy and Travis sorry to say this, but Ivy,
Speaker 1: I honestly straight up feel like you may not be
Speaker 1: ready to be in a relationship yet.
Speaker 2: I know you've been in one for two years.
Speaker 3: But no, like because fine Prince, No, he's the one
Speaker 3: that's trying to like things behind my back.
Speaker 4: I really hope you guys talk before you really decide
Speaker 4: on what you're gonna do Yeah, good luck.
Speaker 5: Good luck finding someone who takes all.
Speaker 1: Of your sh and they both hung up.
Speaker 4: So that turned into a lot more than cheating. Yeah,
Speaker 4: maybe almost worse. Jubill had a really good point though,
Speaker 4: that she.
Speaker 2: Needs to be able to trust.
Speaker 1: If she's got trust issues, you gotta work through that,
Speaker 1: fairst And also, if you're with someone will trust issues over,
Speaker 1: communication is key. So if you didn't want that to happen,
Speaker 1: maybe just share with her the thing about the sister
Speaker 1: so that she doesn't have to find out about it
Speaker 1: after the fact, because that's always worse with someone will trust.
Speaker 2: Issues absolutely either way.
Speaker 1: Uh well, I hope they figure out something that's better
Speaker 1: for them, and communication is everything
Speaker 3: The Jewel shows to catch a cheater.