1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Ivy is on the phone today for to Catch a 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 1: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Travis for two 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: years now, but she thinks something might be going on, 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: so let me see if we can help her out. Ivy, 7 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, but what's going on? Why 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: do you think Travis is cheating? 9 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, So I've just been like, so, I 10 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: live with Travis and we don't share everything, but we 11 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: do share some like bills and things. And one of 12 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 3: the things that he gave me was the pin for 13 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 3: his credit card account for emergencies and that kind of thing. 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 3: So I ordered some stuff to the house and it 15 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 3: hadn't turn up yet. So he was like, you know, 16 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 3: check my account to see if it's been charged. And 17 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: when I did, there were like other charges that I 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 3: didn't recognize or understand that we're on there. 19 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: Okay. 20 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: So he's got like these department stores and like stores 21 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: that he and I never go to. They were like 22 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: cash withdrawals and like your cash advances and just all 23 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: of these different places that we never shot at and 24 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 3: I've never seen this stuff. So he's buying all this 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 3: stuff and it's not in our house. I don't know, 26 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: Like I just feel like if he was loaning people money, 27 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:25,119 Speaker 3: he would say something to me about it, right, Is that. 28 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: What he said that he was doing. When did you 29 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 2: ask him about this? 30 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: So I haven't asked in about it? Right? So I 31 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 3: just because part of it is like I was sort 32 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 3: of snooping in it, you know, you know, like because 33 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 3: he just he gave me that for emergencies, and so 34 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 3: I happened to look across it while I was checking 35 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 3: the one purchase, and so I didn't want to like 36 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 3: bring that off. But I kind of think that it 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: is a cheating thing because he's also got this girl 38 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: at the office that is bothering me. 39 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: Oh okay, why is she bothering you? 40 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: First of all, like any time that I go to 41 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 3: any company function or if I stop by and see 42 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: him at work or whatever, like she always is looking 43 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 3: at him some kind of way, Like she's always like 44 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 3: laughing at his jokes. She's always like, you know, just 45 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 3: right in his presence, and I just feel like she's 46 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: using any excuse she can to get around him. And 47 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 3: then there was a time that I went to see 48 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 3: him at his office and his door was closed, and 49 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 3: when I went in, it was just him and her 50 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 3: alone in there. Oh yeah, and she just takes off 51 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: and she doesn't say a word to me. She just leaves, 52 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 3: like she said, excuse me to grow up the door. 53 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: And that's it. 54 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: That's shady. 55 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, clearly she's got a thing for your man. 56 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 4: But how does he react when she's around closed doors? 57 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 4: We don't love that, but how does he act around her? 58 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 3: So, like he hasn't said much about it, and I 59 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 3: haven't like done a lot in terms of accusing it 60 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 3: because I'm kind of just starting to suspect a number 61 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 3: of these things, but like mostly it's the bank account, right, So, 62 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 3: like I'm worried about saying something. I'm worried that this 63 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 3: is going to turn into like this is not the 64 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: first time that I have been cheated on, and I'm 65 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: just worried it's going to turn into this whole other thing. 66 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: Like I was divorced before I met him, and that 67 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: was from cheating. 68 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 2: And does he know that? 69 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 70 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: He does, yeah, yeah, And if he knows that, he should, 71 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: you know, be understanding of concerns that you have and 72 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: hear you out at least and not like make you 73 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: feel bad for it. 74 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just I guess I'm just afraid to 75 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 3: like find out exactly what it is. And it's like 76 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: I was cheated on for years before and it was 77 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 3: like I just don't want that to go on and 78 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: on and on for years again this time around. So 79 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to like build my case to confront it 80 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: early as opposed to just mentioned a suspicion. He's like, 81 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, and then I believe him for 82 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 3: another year. Prepare do that? 83 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: Okay, well, you already told us what grocery store he's 84 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: a rewards card member at. So we'll play a song 85 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: come Back, and then call him and pretend to be 86 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's 87 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our Florida department, 88 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those to you or 89 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: somebody else. Okay, Okay, all right, we'll play a song 90 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: come back, get your to Catch a Cheeter next if 91 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 1: you're just joining us for Today's to Catch a Teeter. 92 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: Ivy is on the phone and she thinks that her 93 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: boyfriend Travis of two years might be messing around. So 94 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: we're about to call him and pretend to be from 95 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at 96 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: and say that every single month, we choose one lucky 97 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department, 98 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: and will seev sends those to Ivy or to somebody else. 99 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: Before we do that, Ivy, why don't you catch us 100 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: up on your situation? 101 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 3: Basically, Travis gave me the pin for his credit card account, 102 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 3: and when I went to check a purchase, I saw 103 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 3: that he it purchased a whole bunch of things that 104 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 3: aren't in our house and that I've never seen in 105 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: our stores. We never go to and cash advances, and 106 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 3: just like a lot of money with coming out of 107 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: discount and I don't know where it's going or who 108 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 3: it's going to. And I'm suspecting this girl that's at 109 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 3: his office who is like clearly into him. 110 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: What's the girl at his office's name? Patricia? Okay, hell, 111 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 2: I hope it's not. It's not that, but let's see here. 112 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 2: Are you ready? 113 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 3: I'm ready? 114 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. 115 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling for so I was 116 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: looking for a rewards card member named Travis. 117 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 3: Uh yeah's see. 118 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: Travis, how you doing? Please don't hang up. This is 119 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling you with 120 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 1: good news. Congratulations. Here this month's big winner. Thank you 121 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: very much for shopping with us. We're all happy and 122 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: clap before you overhear. I was informing you that you're 123 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: this month's big winner of free flowers deliver from a 124 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 1: floor department. Every single month we choose one Lucky Rewards 125 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: card member, and it's you this month. And you've just 126 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: won thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy, 127 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: your chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody 128 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: that you want within the fifty United States of America. 129 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 1: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Congratulations. 130 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 5: Wow, okay, thanks well. 131 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: Thank you for shopping with us. 132 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 5: I had no idea this is the thing you guys did. 133 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 5: But all right, awesome. 134 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: So, first thing, I will need to be the first 135 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: and last name of the person you'd like to send 136 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: them to. Yeah, Gen, Gen, And is there anything you'd 137 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: like to put on a card to? 138 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: Gen? 139 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: Sure? 140 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 5: Hey, kid, really proud of the how far you've gotten. 141 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: Keep it up and the ending on that una. Is 142 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: it a love regards. 143 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 3: Love Travis? 144 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 2: Sure? 145 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: And now I'll just let you know that this is 146 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: not the grocery store. This is actually the Jewbill Show. 147 00:06:58,920 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: It's a radio show. 148 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 2: My name is Yeah. 149 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Nina. 150 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria. 151 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: And this is a segment we do call to Catch 152 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might 153 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: be messing around, you see who they send flowers to, 154 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,239 Speaker 1: and your girlfriend Ivy is actually on the phone. 155 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Hi, So, like, what's up? What's your sister? 156 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 3: Can you? Can you talk to me about that? 157 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 5: Like? 158 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 3: Why are you buying your sister flowers? Why are you 159 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 3: not getting money flowers? What's going on? 160 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: Wait? So Jenna's is your sister? 161 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, i'd be wait a second, what's happening? 162 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: Why? 163 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 5: Why are you calling a radio station? And what would 164 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 5: be wrong with me giving Jen flowers? 165 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: I'm calling them because I look. I looked on the 166 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 3: bank statement and the charges on your card makes no sense. 167 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 3: There's large, large charges on your card and there's something 168 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 3: up and you're not telling me. And I need to 169 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: know what's going on because it makes no sense where 170 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 3: you're spending money, It makes no sense. How much you're 171 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 3: spending money and something is up and you're not telling me. 172 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 3: And this is how I'm finding out. I gave you 173 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 3: that card for immersions. 174 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 5: He purchases IVY like stuff for us and stuff that 175 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 5: you might need. Why are you looking through the statements? 176 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 5: That's not your business. 177 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 3: Okay, you're making yourself look worse right now. 178 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 5: You're just immitted myself what you called a radio station 179 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 5: because you're like, I'm cheating on you. 180 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 4: What do you want? 181 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 3: Are you giving me evidence to that effect? What are 182 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: you like? You've not given me any evidence to the opposite. 183 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, says where Why aren't you spending 184 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 3: so much in like all these places last week the 185 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 3: week before? Like what's been going on? Wow? 186 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to get uh interrogated 187 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 5: for things that I did with my own money. Not 188 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 5: that this is public information. But Jen's been having a 189 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 5: hard time. She lost her job and she needed a 190 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 5: little help, okay, and I'm a brother and I helped 191 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 5: her out. Samantha also needed some school supplies and she's 192 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 5: my niece. What am I going to do? 193 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 3: Say? No? 194 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 4: Okay, well you probably could have told iv that. I mean, 195 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 4: you know her history So you did the right thing 196 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 4: by taking care of your family, no doubt. But your girlfriend, 197 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 4: who you love right has a history of cheating, and 198 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 4: that for her to feel concerned right now. 199 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 5: So she also has a history of like looking up 200 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 5: a credit card statement. 201 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 3: Oh I get that. 202 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: She don't love that. 203 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 4: But that's the conversation for another day. 204 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 3: Right now. 205 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 4: Right now, we're just trying to find out if you're cheating, 206 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 4: and it's looking like you're not. 207 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 5: No, I'm not cheating. 208 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 4: No. 209 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 5: I you know, it's really messed up because you know, 210 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 5: she didn't even come to me. My mother came to 211 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 5: me and was like, you need to help your sister, 212 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 5: and she I had to like beg her to take 213 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 5: the money because she wouldn't take it. 214 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 3: Why the hell are you even helping here? Though, Like, 215 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. She anything, but she never knew 216 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 3: anything for you. She has She never talks about you, 217 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 3: She never mentioned you, she never spent time with you. 218 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: You guys don't hang out. She's done nothing for you. Like, 219 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 3: why are you helping her? It makes no sense. 220 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 5: She's blood, we grew up together, she's my younger sister. 221 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 5: We don't hang in the same crowds, but don't. 222 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 3: I don't love her. 223 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: So are you upset that he's helping a sister? I 224 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 2: don't care. 225 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: I'm upset because he helps people who just take stuff 226 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 3: from him and freeload off of him, And he just 227 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 3: lets people roll over him and use his money instead 228 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: of getting off their apps and getting a job. And 229 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 3: all they do is ask him for handouts and he's 230 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 3: like more than happy to give away his money to 231 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 3: those people. 232 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 2: And should have. 233 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 5: She had two jobs, she got fired from one of them. 234 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 5: What am I supposed to do? 235 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 4: Why are we supposed to just be happy that he's 236 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 4: not cheating? Like I thought that was what we were 237 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: worried about right now, not the fact that he's seeing 238 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 4: care of us. 239 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 5: He's trying to manage my money, Like what is this? 240 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: This is my money? 241 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 5: Like I. 242 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 3: Like, I'm still not sold on that. Okay, maybe he's 243 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 3: helping a sister, which he shouldn't fund without talking to 244 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 3: me about without a proven that he's lying, which makes 245 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: no sense. So we've already got that, So what is 246 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 3: what else is he lying about? Because I still think 247 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 3: that Patricia's in the mix? But Tricia, what are you 248 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 3: talking about? 249 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 5: Ivy? 250 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 3: But is married, which has two children and I'm friends 251 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: with her husband. 252 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 5: What are you doing? 253 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 3: You know you do not you have a single woman 254 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 3: to wreck your home like you can be wrecking her 255 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 3: home and are okay you don't need her to be single? 256 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: Larry how. 257 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: Ivey, I've realized you've got some trust issues, but you 258 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: also if you're gonna be in a relationship, have to 259 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: be able to trust the person you're with. If nothing, like, 260 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: you need to look at the situation. Is it is 261 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 1: it really shady or is it you making up understandable 262 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: stories about things that could be happening. 263 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the one that is lying, spending his money 264 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 3: and going after what with him any credit? Tell you 265 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 3: you can table conversation about I think you guys. 266 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys definitely need to have a much bigger conversation. 267 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: And Ivy and Travis sorry to say this, but Ivy, 268 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: I honestly straight up feel like you may not be 269 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: ready to be in a relationship yet. 270 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 2: I know you've been in one for two years. 271 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 3: But no, like because fine Prince, No, he's the one 272 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 3: that's trying to like things behind my back. 273 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 4: I really hope you guys talk before you really decide 274 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 4: on what you're gonna do Yeah, good luck. 275 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 5: Good luck finding someone who takes all. 276 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: Of your sh and they both hung up. 277 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 4: So that turned into a lot more than cheating. Yeah, 278 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 4: maybe almost worse. Jubill had a really good point though, 279 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 4: that she. 280 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 2: Needs to be able to trust. 281 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: If she's got trust issues, you gotta work through that, 282 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: fairst And also, if you're with someone will trust issues over, 283 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: communication is key. So if you didn't want that to happen, 284 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: maybe just share with her the thing about the sister 285 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: so that she doesn't have to find out about it 286 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: after the fact, because that's always worse with someone will trust. 287 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: Issues absolutely either way. 288 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: Uh well, I hope they figure out something that's better 289 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,359 Speaker 1: for them, and communication is everything 290 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 3: The Jewel shows to catch a cheater.