WEBVTT - Ep 242: To Infinity and Beyond (Ft. Holly & Dolla) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:09.440 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:14.840 welcome to another episode of horrible decisions. Yes, that's right, 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.919 you hear me, bitches, it's your girl Mandy be a 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:19.960 k A full cor pumps a K fac to sound 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:25.040 a k A boot chamily. Hey, horror Hive, it's wheezy 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:28.480 and we are in a foursome today we show are 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:34.720 I love giving casting couch? Actually, I'm your alpit is giving? Like? 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:37.639 Is this an audition? I mean I'll take it. Take 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:42.440 it like you look like a hoe in a good way. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:46.920 That was my goal? She literally, should I wear fully 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.640 hold this up? Yeah? I'm excited guys. Today I am 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.640 joined actually by some friends of mine that I met 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:56.720 in the at a party. Um so we are joined 0:00:56.760 --> 0:01:00.840 today by Holly and her boyfriend Dolla. And it's even 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.160 more than boyfriend. But we'll get into how you, guys 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.399 identify your relationship because that's why I asked you guys 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:08.119 to come. You have a very good like male sex 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:12.800 operator voice. Right, let's practice really quick with that. Okay, 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:15.480 let me try, okay, let me turn around. See on 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:20.240 getting nervous? Oh yeah, is this the black mail from 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:24.880 New York. Wow, what do I call you? I mean, 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:33.039 I thought Jamal would be fun. You know, you just 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:42.480 you just went real tipical. You say Dick. I was like, 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:44.880 I thought she was gonna get more interesting than Jamal. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:51.560 So I gave us some room if they paying for it, 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:56.080 I feel like one of the names. So I guess 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:59.480 before we get into y'all's relationship dynamic, which is what 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:00.720 this is going to be about, I guess we can 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:04.080 talk about a little bit how we met. Okay, So 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.840 we were at a party. So and I thought I 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.600 had game, by the way, but you thought I had. 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:10.920 I thought I had game, Like I was about to 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:13.240 give you my best, Like, hey girl, you want some gummies? 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.440 Ain't you flipped it on me? Okay? Really? Okay? So 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:19.040 y'all know I've been into drugs lately, um, pretty much 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.440 all of them except for the white people. When like, 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:31.880 I don't know, yeah white not in Atlanta. I think, like, 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.359 like you know, but like any kind of like ecstasy, 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:37.680 m D m A was definitely white people drying when 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.839 Molly sweat, and I think they made it very when 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:44.240 rappers started doing Molly. I think that's when everybody was like, 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:50.960 oh well, now we can also tell people we are well. Yeah. 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:53.000 I was another thing about molly too. It's one of 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.000 those drugs that got out of your system really quickly. 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:57.400 So I remember back when I was working athletes and 0:02:57.400 --> 0:03:00.720 ship dem niggas was popping molly during the reason because 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.600 like it was if they got tested, their test was 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:07.280 really for marijuana. Of course, I mean still now, but 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.160 because they knew how quickly got out of their system, 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.639 like they was popping that ship all when they came 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:15.520 and played the heat baby. Um. But yeah, we were 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:18.120 at a party and this this party was actually I 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:22.200 thought it was a sex party, like that's funny. I went. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.840 So I was invited by other friends in the lifestyle 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:28.359 that actually throw parties. Yeah, mutual friends of ours. So 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.040 they was like, yeah, we got this party on Sunday, 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:32.000 and I said cool. So me and my man we 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.400 pulled up and we were just drinking. It was outside, 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:38.200 it was good vibes, it was sucking. It was a 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:41.520 wonderful party. So of course I got I started getting 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.320 drunk because that's what I do. When I got out, 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.520 and were you just sitting by me like I think 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:48.960 we just feel I feel like we just started conversation 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.840 and you were, like she met my energy, like y'all 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:55.160 see I'm talking like that. This is. I was like, well, hey, 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:56.920 like you did you think you were going to a 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.480 sex party? Like no, no, no, So I knew it 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.680 was kind of like I had been. So I see 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:04.880 why you thought it was a sex party because they usually, 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:09.240 like that particular venue, actually throw the host play parties. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:12.000 So that night we actually knew it was just kind 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.040 of like a chill party. But we still like, don't 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:16.800 get like, we still did like sex party things like 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.240 b y O B. And we were the only ones 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:23.520 who bought a bottle so and so shot like a 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:26.640 full bottle, like not only small pocket type of bottle. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:32.440 So it wasn't a sex party, but um, you met 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.600 people in the lifestyle that night. Yeah, and then like 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:36.240 she said they were, there were friends of ours who 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:38.920 were and still regular crazy about it is they throw 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:42.400 this party on Sundays almost as a way to find 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.120 new people to come to the sex night. So so 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.200 they really curate. They wanted to be a really good 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.520 looking night with a lot of mix. So any guys, Yeah, 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.600 why are you guys here? Why are you guys on? Horrible? 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:54.760 I want to finish because I started that was how 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.000 I promise I will wrap this story up like like 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.080 I said. I was like, oh yeah, like she's you, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.920 i'mbout have some gummis, you know, some gummies like I'm 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.920 thinking about the like you know, there's some gummies and 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.919 we're gonna chop it up. And she was like, yeah, 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.000 but I don't want like a whole gummy. You're gonna 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:09.880 have to like split it with me. I said, just 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.000 give me the ear right right right. It was like 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.320 a sour patch kid, and She's like, I just want 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.920 the ear and I'm thinking, like where is the ear? 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:18.680 It's gotta be like I was like, it's not gonna 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.560 be anything in it, but so and I told you, 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:22.160 like when I go out, my man is really big 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:24.719 on like watching how much drugg and take drink and 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:27.400 take I do. So I said, come here, come split 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.720 this gummy with us, and we split the gummy in 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.760 a three way. Kids like, well, that's cute, adorable and 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.000 sexy and raunchy and so cute like all at the 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:38.080 same time, like O the thing. And then she was 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.039 like quick, quick, like give me a number for like 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.040 and I was like, that's genius. I exchanged numbers with 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:47.279 her and we just started talking. But I guess as 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.160 we like kept talking. We've hung out a few times, 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:51.800 we eat, they joined me at the beach like had 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:55.880 just bomb mass times. But y'all explained to Wheezy, how 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:58.720 you guys explained your relationship because me, but you got 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.520 a bunch of people watch wok out and we want 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:03.440 to know because your man is next to you and 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:07.480 you had a three way kids so we were assuming lasting, right, 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.200 She thought I was alone. He was chilling so hard, 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:13.200 like like she was like, I didn't even know you're 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:14.760 here with someone because he was just like, oh yeah, no, 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.400 I was chilling, where's my gummy? And I was like 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:23.400 I want one? I wanted three way kiss? And then 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:27.560 him and my man started talking to became friends to talking. Yeah, 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:31.320 what brings you guys to horrible? Okay? So um our 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:34.240 our relationship? Right? I guess like you want to know 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.159 how we classify funny enough? Like the one word I 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:42.160 would use to classify our relationship is customized. Customized relationship. 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.880 How long have you been together? Um? Six years, six 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:48.000 going on seven? Do kids together? No? No, we don't 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:55.280 have any kids. We um, we're sucking too much now 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:58.000 we're really we're probably traveling too much for kids, but 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.080 and like we have a few businesses together, so we're 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:06.200 doing a lot kids. Yeah, they don't pay their own bills, right, 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:07.840 so we've got to really be able to afford them. 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:12.680 So it's not polly, it's not open, it's not swinging. 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:15.160 What is the name that y'all used though? Okay, So 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:19.560 I mean some of some of those things do encompass, 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:23.760 like our relationships. So I say lifestyle or like lifestyles 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.000 who are open. And the reason why I'll say that 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.520 or we say that is because like lifestyles are usually 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:31.520 like you know, like swingers that like either date together 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.360 as a couple or have like you know, a unicorn 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.040 or like you know, a third or even a fourth 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.880 sometimes um. And that's kind of usually where it starts 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:44.280 and stops. And then for us, we're like, we're lifestyle 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.200 is like we date together, but we're also open because 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.840 we date separately, open in what way? Like what is 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:53.520 we have open relationship as well in addition in the lifestyle, 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:56.600 but we also date separately as far as like romantically, 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.160 emotionally or just sex. Yeah, no, I guess all of 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.240 those things if you Yeah, I mean we don't have 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.800 like tons of other relationships because we really don't. How 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:05.880 far into the six years did you get to that point? 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.880 Oh that was from gate really, so you started your 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:12.920 relationship open Yeah, definitely a lot of people don't. That 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:15.600 takes time for like trust and yeah, I mean we've 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:19.600 known each other adult life. We met at Howard like 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:27.520 so open right, and it's going on six years, so 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:31.760 obviously it's going well. Yeah when it's pretty cool initially, 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.240 Like Doll, I want to know, have you ever done 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.720 this before? Because people are always curious, not so much 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:38.520 with the women. I mean even on our show they're 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:40.720 listening to two women that are open right, But like men, 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.600 we're always confused how you let your girl sucking other niked? 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:45.560 And how do you deal with it? Like? Had you 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:48.240 done it before? Was it something I hadn't um? It 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:52.720 was something that was interested in but I had never experienced. UM. 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.200 Holly was the first person that I had a three somewhere, 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:57.640 and it was like something I had wanted to do, 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.640 But honestly, none of the girls that were before I 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:02.280 wanted to ship me. So it was like one of 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.240 those things where it was like just it was I 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:07.319 was interested but never could find the avenue of the lane. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:10.720 So um, it was it was something that she was 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.920 interested in. So it was you know, it was it was. 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.520 It worked for us and then um, you know, it 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:20.480 actually blossom beyond that and just we we were both 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.400 interested in their lifestyle. So it was something that we 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:26.080 We're gonna piggyback off of that, just to kind of 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:28.559 like backtrack a little bit. We started out as like friends, 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:32.560 like buddies in college, right, so like that was always 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.600 the dynamic between the two of us for ten years. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:36.800 It was like, you know, we had our own like 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:50.680 separate relationships. Oh yeah, we were six It is so good. Yeah, 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.720 so um, so again we were always friends. And then 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.800 like six some of seven years ago, we found ourselves 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:59.600 like both both single at the same time, and instead 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:01.240 of being like, let's lock each other down, we're like, 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:03.640 can't we just still be like friends that are like together. 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:08.160 But like, as your feelings grew, had you ever and 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:10.360 I'm curious with you dollar, had you ever had moments 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.439 of jealousy the more like in love you felt of 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:13.680 Holly where you were like I don't know if I 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.480 can handle it. No, not a not not really a 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:21.840 jealousy thing because, um, I like I like to see 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:24.600 her have fun. Um Man, it's always been in like 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:29.040 you know, in a in a fun atmosphere outside of us, 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.600 playing in the lifestyle atmosphere. You know, the people she 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:35.200 sees outside of me is you know, on her own. 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:38.280 So I'm not really a jealous person. That's not really 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.360 you know, really one of those things in my very 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:42.319 big dig thing to say, you know what I mean 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:55.319 without saying like table you're gonna come back? Not right, yes, 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:59.200 in the way that what you're saying, Like you know, 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:02.480 we've been in a long time, right, so like somebody 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.360 she could suck somebody, they could give us some great 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:07.120 Dicky can't outfunck me like you know, not not with her. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:09.120 I know her body too well, Like you know, I 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:16.160 could enjoy your road lap. Well, the last time we 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:19.800 had a couple on again shout out to Jared and Shambooty, 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.000 we played an icebreaker. So I do want to ask 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.200 some questions although we've kind of broken quite the ice already. 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:29.400 UM I wanted to ask some relationship questions to you guys. 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:33.640 So the first question is, what is one fantasy you 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:36.160 want to try that you haven't really told your partner 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:40.559 about and if not, if you have already shared your fantasies, 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:44.800 how do you share them with him? Can I answer 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:53.600 both of those? Oh yes, look look water look He's like, yes, Um, 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.240 I have a like I have this like director of 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:59.840 fantasy like where I'm like, you know, directing like this 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:03.080 like dough fast, like the video of him and like 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.320 ten chicks, right, and I'm telling everybody what to do 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:08.040 and like and in the video like I'm in the 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:10.439 video directing too, because a bit of a narcissist, so 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.839 I want to be in it too. But I'm really 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.400 just kind of like right, I'm just really kind of 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:17.640 like you know, telling like her used like a thick 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.559 and like use it on his face, like I kind 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.439 of just want to like you said ten ten women, Okay, 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:26.319 it's like you could actually do this. The reason why? 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.400 So this is how I got to ten, because like 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.160 that's the number. We haven't really gotten to the most 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:37.160 y'all have gotten to? Ah, have you counted before? How 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:40.480 many women at one? Not in a day? Yeah? A night? 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:45.480 Oh yeah, and a day like eight or ten? It 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:51.520 depends like at a party. I mean you know, I 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:54.600 ain't been any of them like that. Now, explain what 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:56.800 you mean by a party can be intense? Like just 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.760 assuming that someone who's listening to this like has no 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.079 deal with these parties are like what is intense? Because 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.320 anybody might be like, if I walk into a sex club, 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:05.920 I'll be like, oh, this ship intense. Out the gate 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:10.200 is the fact that I was at the bar just 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:12.439 ordering a drink with the bottle that I brought in 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.520 and I looked to the right stool and someone was 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:19.120 getting head. As that as being my first experience, I 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.160 thought that I was like, oh, ship, this is intense. 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:24.000 So yeah, what do you mean As a lifestyler who 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.800 goes quite often, how do you feel like something would 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.400 be considering the party I was talking about with more 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.839 like private parties that can you know that that will 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.400 get intense because people more so know each other and 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:38.400 more comfortable. But he means all the dick he ends 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.360 up having it throw at a party like that. That's 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:42.480 when when he said intense, that's what he met. But 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:45.840 like you get talking about but for the sex clubs, 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:48.680 I mean, you know it really it really depends on 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:53.959 the layout. Um, certain places, you know, it's we typically 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.800 don't play at most at most places. You know, we 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.640 live in the city, so most of the parties we 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.959 go to we can, we go to how people that's 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.280 kind of right. Um, nothing, we don't or haven't ever, 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.440 but like, yeah, we do. Usually the vibe is like 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.920 we're just chilling, drinking, like meeting people and then like 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.880 and then it later. What about you? Have you shared 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:17.360 your fantasies with Holly? Do you have any that you 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.880 haven't played out with her yet? No? I don't think so. 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:24.840 It's funny that she said her fantasy is kind of 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:28.360 one of my fantasies because I haven't been with that 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:31.240 many women at month, so you would you would not 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:35.880 be intimidated by ten women? No, alright, alright, big dick niggah. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:40.640 Next question, how does your partner? What does your partner 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:43.400 do that turns you on that they don't know about? 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:50.320 H m hm, that we don't know about. That's the 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.000 hard y'all. Y'all pretty much know each other. I mean, 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.560 we know each other so well, but um, one thing 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:58.440 Holly probably doesn't. She might not know as well as 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.600 I like, I love watching home work room when we're 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.960 in in the social atmosphere, because you know, she's a 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:09.080 social butterfly. So I mean she might know that with hair. 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.200 I don't know how I know she. I don't know 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.320 if that's something she knows as much. But like I like, 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:16.840 I'm just sitting back and watching her do her thing 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.920 because like I don't really have to, you know, I 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.560 can be in the corner, rolling up, chilling, you know, 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:25.520 doing nothing, and I might speak to you know, people 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.720 that I know, but Hollywood like working room meet meet people. 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:31.120 She's like, oh, this person does this and like introduced 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.360 me to people. So she's definitely like, I enjoyed that. 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:36.200 I love that. You pretty much just wanted to what 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.200 my third question was gonna be. It was gonna be about, clearly, 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:40.760 you're the extrovert, you're the chill person. What is the 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:44.480 best scenario you would suggest for a couple to be 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:47.360 in a sex club if they're going with their partner. 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:50.440 Do you suggest the woman be more outspoken or do 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:52.640 you do feel like sometimes it's better for the man 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.680 to take the lead. Um, I'm gonna I'm gonna take 0:15:55.720 --> 0:16:00.840 this one. Um, Honestly, in my experience, it's like, like 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.520 you pointed out, I'm the extrovert, he's the he's more 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:07.160 like the chill reserved one. I think the best advice 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.640 I could get two couples is like have that balance, 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.320 like if someone you know, if you're both shy, like 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.600 somebody's gonna have to rochambo that ship. You're gonna have 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.800 to like someone's got to step it up because, like 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:20.160 you know, it's a very social environment and like women 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.640 run it. To be honest with you, So to answer 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.160 the other part of your question, if you know, ladies, 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:27.000 if you can be the one to be like hey, 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:29.880 like you know, I'm interested or we're interested, or you 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:33.400 know whatever, it's best in that environment because you know, 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:36.800 women kind of make all the rules. And like clubs, though, 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:40.320 where do you think, um, it's the best place for 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.640 someone that may not have access to a sex club 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:46.080 or they may not be into sex clubs. Like have 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.280 you guys had situations where you've met people outside of 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.440 that and like where does that happen? Absolutely, like a 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:55.240 lot of like a lot of folks who are you know, 0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:58.360 not necessarily lie sise, but friends of ours are very 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.000 curious and they're just like, you know, can we come 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:03.080 with you to to a party or like you know, 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:06.000 like if it's kind of asking the question you just asked, like, 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.280 if I wanted to go to like a play party, 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:09.880 like which one should we go to? Are you guys 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:11.879 are going to one? We're coming like you know what 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:15.960 I mean? So and if anything, if they're interesting, they're 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.920 more likely to probably play with than strangers. Funny enough, 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:22.240 Um no, no, actually, wait no, now that I think 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:25.120 I've got so many friends that ye know, you are 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:27.760 more out to be like I want to play with 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:30.719 with other people, mainly because those folks tend to be like, 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:32.560 oh that's so crazy. You guys are so wow to 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:35.960 your Tuesdays, your Sundays are nuts. So I guess I 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.320 don't know if it makes them so more comfortable to like, 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:40.600 you know, have their wild moments with like someone who 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:43.160 isn't as to be able to come back and be like, girl, yeah, 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:45.639 you know what I mean. I mean, I didn't even 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:49.040 have the name exactly. We didn't even know the names 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:50.760 of people most of the time that we played with, 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:53.000 so like you could go back and be like, hey, 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:56.280 so having beat before, I wouldn't even know. But I 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:58.280 do want to get into our vanilla ship. Guys. Are 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:01.879 vanilla ship for this week? Is quite funny considering we've 0:18:01.920 --> 0:18:04.400 been talking about swollen balls for probably the last three 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:08.000 episodes because of Nicki minaj Um, but this one actually 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:11.600 refers to a single man aged thirty eight, who had 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:17.080 his swollen penis freed by doctors two weeks after he 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:20.639 locked it inside of a small padlock. That is right, guys. 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:24.119 A boardman stuck at home during the pandemic was rushed 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.879 to the hospital after getting a padlock stuck around his 0:18:26.920 --> 0:18:30.600 penis and a bizarre sex at gone wrong. The bachelor 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:33.800 thirty eight clamped the metal device around the base of 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:37.159 his manhood for a thrill around two weeks ago, but 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:40.200 he lost the key and his limbs started to swell. 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:50.080 He tried, he tried, unsixed. He triedfully to remove the 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:54.000 small lock um so left it on his penis for 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:57.760 more than fourteen days until it became infected and the 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:01.800 pain was unbearable. The embars man's mother, who tried to 0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:07.000 help him, called the emergency services and firemen to his home. Um. 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.600 This took place last month, and of course you guessed 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:13.520 it not Florida, Bangkok, Thailand. I was gonna say, can 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:17.639 we play guests this raceman? You thought it was white. 0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:24.840 You thought I was like, you know, you know, but 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:30.200 why a white guy in Thailand? Right? She could be. 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:32.359 She told the medics that her son did not have 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:34.760 a girlfriend and was simply bored because he had been 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:41.160 staying home during the COVID nineteen Oh I've never looked 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:49.040 out a lot. Okay, let me ask you though, because 0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:52.000 we've talked about women using cucumbers. If you're just around 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:54.640 your house, your board and haven't gotten sex, has there 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:57.360 been any object you've just been like, let me put 0:19:57.400 --> 0:20:01.600 my dick inside of this? Oh you two edding? No? 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:05.520 Never American never even after American pie. I wish that. 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:10.440 It's so funny, that's all I mean. I'm not, Yeah, 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:13.840 you're not. But when you were a kid, I mean 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:16.679 we also an American pot, but you never were Like 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:19.280 what would that be like? It'd be hot, like just 0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:22.119 I don't know. I mean, a pie is warm, I 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:25.000 get it, but it's not not burn your dick. What 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:30.440 about like what about like a jar of vesseline? Wouldn't 0:20:30.440 --> 0:20:33.200 that be like a cool feeling because it's kind of room? 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:38.879 Can we don't have? You just don't know what? Just 0:20:38.920 --> 0:20:44.840 have some words? Can't pussy? What would you use around 0:20:44.840 --> 0:20:47.280 the house to put your dick in I just use 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:50.120 my hand, your hand, Yeah, maybe you could just stick 0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:54.200 a bunch of Yeah, I guess. Okay. Well, so after 0:20:54.320 --> 0:20:57.280 I was I was thinking of this like toothpaste, like 0:20:57.400 --> 0:21:02.520 lotion to you, just keeping about singing and yeah, if 0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:08.040 you had what fruit would you put your brands? Yeah? 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:12.159 I heard that's too much acid you don't want and 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:21.600 the easiest right, Oh you're good, you're smart. Is that 0:21:21.640 --> 0:21:28.920 wet wet you know? You know, okay, the seedless watermelons, 0:21:29.720 --> 0:21:31.720 you know, even though that has to be man made. 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:41.040 But anyway, y'all always wonder why how five years later 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:43.640 we're still talking about ship that we just don't understand. 0:21:43.720 --> 0:21:47.200 So I actually ended up was like, damn a lot, 0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:49.360 and I know you're seeing here like not ain't nothing 0:21:49.400 --> 0:21:51.960 I could think of. So I went digging, digging and looking. 0:21:52.040 --> 0:21:55.480 I said, well, what are other alternatives for cop cages? 0:21:55.960 --> 0:22:00.159 And I came across actually locked in lust dot com. Um, 0:22:00.320 --> 0:22:03.080 this is not an AD, but they just had alternatives 0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:05.480 and I was like, oh, ship, one of which is 0:22:05.520 --> 0:22:09.600 actually a spiked anti pull out. And I wanted to 0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:12.320