Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible decisions. Yes, that's right,
Speaker 1: you hear me, bitches, it's your girl Mandy be a
Speaker 1: k A full cor pumps a K fac to sound
Speaker 1: a k A boot chamily. Hey, horror Hive, it's wheezy
Speaker 1: and we are in a foursome today we show are
Speaker 1: I love giving casting couch? Actually, I'm your alpit is giving? Like?
Speaker 1: Is this an audition? I mean I'll take it. Take
Speaker 1: it like you look like a hoe in a good way.
Speaker 1: That was my goal? She literally, should I wear fully
Speaker 1: hold this up? Yeah? I'm excited guys. Today I am
Speaker 1: joined actually by some friends of mine that I met
Speaker 1: in the at a party. Um so we are joined
Speaker 1: today by Holly and her boyfriend Dolla. And it's even
Speaker 1: more than boyfriend. But we'll get into how you, guys
Speaker 1: identify your relationship because that's why I asked you guys
Speaker 1: to come. You have a very good like male sex
Speaker 1: operator voice. Right, let's practice really quick with that. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me try, okay, let me turn around. See on
Speaker 1: getting nervous? Oh yeah, is this the black mail from
Speaker 1: New York. Wow, what do I call you? I mean,
Speaker 1: I thought Jamal would be fun. You know, you just
Speaker 1: you just went real tipical. You say Dick. I was like,
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna get more interesting than Jamal.
Speaker 1: So I gave us some room if they paying for it,
Speaker 1: I feel like one of the names. So I guess
Speaker 1: before we get into y'all's relationship dynamic, which is what
Speaker 1: this is going to be about, I guess we can
Speaker 1: talk about a little bit how we met. Okay, So
Speaker 1: we were at a party. So and I thought I
Speaker 1: had game, by the way, but you thought I had.
Speaker 1: I thought I had game, Like I was about to
Speaker 1: give you my best, Like, hey girl, you want some gummies?
Speaker 1: Ain't you flipped it on me? Okay? Really? Okay? So
Speaker 1: y'all know I've been into drugs lately, um, pretty much
Speaker 1: all of them except for the white people. When like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah white not in Atlanta. I think, like,
Speaker 1: like you know, but like any kind of like ecstasy,
Speaker 1: m D m A was definitely white people drying when
Speaker 1: Molly sweat, and I think they made it very when
Speaker 1: rappers started doing Molly. I think that's when everybody was like,
Speaker 1: oh well, now we can also tell people we are well. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was another thing about molly too. It's one of
Speaker 1: those drugs that got out of your system really quickly.
Speaker 1: So I remember back when I was working athletes and
Speaker 1: ship dem niggas was popping molly during the reason because
Speaker 1: like it was if they got tested, their test was
Speaker 1: really for marijuana. Of course, I mean still now, but
Speaker 1: because they knew how quickly got out of their system,
Speaker 1: like they was popping that ship all when they came
Speaker 1: and played the heat baby. Um. But yeah, we were
Speaker 1: at a party and this this party was actually I
Speaker 1: thought it was a sex party, like that's funny. I went.
Speaker 1: So I was invited by other friends in the lifestyle
Speaker 1: that actually throw parties. Yeah, mutual friends of ours. So
Speaker 1: they was like, yeah, we got this party on Sunday,
Speaker 1: and I said cool. So me and my man we
Speaker 1: pulled up and we were just drinking. It was outside,
Speaker 1: it was good vibes, it was sucking. It was a
Speaker 1: wonderful party. So of course I got I started getting
Speaker 1: drunk because that's what I do. When I got out,
Speaker 1: and were you just sitting by me like I think
Speaker 1: we just feel I feel like we just started conversation
Speaker 1: and you were, like she met my energy, like y'all
Speaker 1: see I'm talking like that. This is. I was like, well, hey,
Speaker 1: like you did you think you were going to a
Speaker 1: sex party? Like no, no, no, So I knew it
Speaker 1: was kind of like I had been. So I see
Speaker 1: why you thought it was a sex party because they usually,
Speaker 1: like that particular venue, actually throw the host play parties.
Speaker 1: So that night we actually knew it was just kind
Speaker 1: of like a chill party. But we still like, don't
Speaker 1: get like, we still did like sex party things like
Speaker 1: b y O B. And we were the only ones
Speaker 1: who bought a bottle so and so shot like a
Speaker 1: full bottle, like not only small pocket type of bottle.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't a sex party, but um, you met
Speaker 1: people in the lifestyle that night. Yeah, and then like
Speaker 1: she said they were, there were friends of ours who
Speaker 1: were and still regular crazy about it is they throw
Speaker 1: this party on Sundays almost as a way to find
Speaker 1: new people to come to the sex night. So so
Speaker 1: they really curate. They wanted to be a really good
Speaker 1: looking night with a lot of mix. So any guys, Yeah,
Speaker 1: why are you guys here? Why are you guys on? Horrible?
Speaker 1: I want to finish because I started that was how
Speaker 1: I promise I will wrap this story up like like
Speaker 1: I said. I was like, oh yeah, like she's you,
Speaker 1: i'mbout have some gummis, you know, some gummies like I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about the like you know, there's some gummies and
Speaker 1: we're gonna chop it up. And she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't want like a whole gummy. You're gonna
Speaker 1: have to like split it with me. I said, just
Speaker 1: give me the ear right right right. It was like
Speaker 1: a sour patch kid, and She's like, I just want
Speaker 1: the ear and I'm thinking, like where is the ear?
Speaker 1: It's gotta be like I was like, it's not gonna
Speaker 1: be anything in it, but so and I told you,
Speaker 1: like when I go out, my man is really big
Speaker 1: on like watching how much drugg and take drink and
Speaker 1: take I do. So I said, come here, come split
Speaker 1: this gummy with us, and we split the gummy in
Speaker 1: a three way. Kids like, well, that's cute, adorable and
Speaker 1: sexy and raunchy and so cute like all at the
Speaker 1: same time, like O the thing. And then she was
Speaker 1: like quick, quick, like give me a number for like
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's genius. I exchanged numbers with
Speaker 1: her and we just started talking. But I guess as
Speaker 1: we like kept talking. We've hung out a few times,
Speaker 1: we eat, they joined me at the beach like had
Speaker 1: just bomb mass times. But y'all explained to Wheezy, how
Speaker 1: you guys explained your relationship because me, but you got
Speaker 1: a bunch of people watch wok out and we want
Speaker 1: to know because your man is next to you and
Speaker 1: you had a three way kids so we were assuming lasting, right,
Speaker 1: She thought I was alone. He was chilling so hard,
Speaker 1: like like she was like, I didn't even know you're
Speaker 1: here with someone because he was just like, oh yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I was chilling, where's my gummy? And I was like
Speaker 1: I want one? I wanted three way kiss? And then
Speaker 1: him and my man started talking to became friends to talking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what brings you guys to horrible? Okay? So um our
Speaker 1: our relationship? Right? I guess like you want to know
Speaker 1: how we classify funny enough? Like the one word I
Speaker 1: would use to classify our relationship is customized. Customized relationship.
Speaker 1: How long have you been together? Um? Six years, six
Speaker 1: going on seven? Do kids together? No? No, we don't
Speaker 1: have any kids. We um, we're sucking too much now
Speaker 1: we're really we're probably traveling too much for kids, but
Speaker 1: and like we have a few businesses together, so we're
Speaker 1: doing a lot kids. Yeah, they don't pay their own bills, right,
Speaker 1: so we've got to really be able to afford them.
Speaker 1: So it's not polly, it's not open, it's not swinging.
Speaker 1: What is the name that y'all used though? Okay, So
Speaker 1: I mean some of some of those things do encompass,
Speaker 1: like our relationships. So I say lifestyle or like lifestyles
Speaker 1: who are open. And the reason why I'll say that
Speaker 1: or we say that is because like lifestyles are usually
Speaker 1: like you know, like swingers that like either date together
Speaker 1: as a couple or have like you know, a unicorn
Speaker 1: or like you know, a third or even a fourth
Speaker 1: sometimes um. And that's kind of usually where it starts
Speaker 1: and stops. And then for us, we're like, we're lifestyle
Speaker 1: is like we date together, but we're also open because
Speaker 1: we date separately, open in what way? Like what is
Speaker 1: we have open relationship as well in addition in the lifestyle,
Speaker 1: but we also date separately as far as like romantically,
Speaker 1: emotionally or just sex. Yeah, no, I guess all of
Speaker 1: those things if you Yeah, I mean we don't have
Speaker 1: like tons of other relationships because we really don't. How
Speaker 1: far into the six years did you get to that point?
Speaker 1: Oh that was from gate really, so you started your
Speaker 1: relationship open Yeah, definitely a lot of people don't. That
Speaker 1: takes time for like trust and yeah, I mean we've
Speaker 1: known each other adult life. We met at Howard like
Speaker 1: so open right, and it's going on six years, so
Speaker 1: obviously it's going well. Yeah when it's pretty cool initially,
Speaker 1: Like Doll, I want to know, have you ever done
Speaker 1: this before? Because people are always curious, not so much
Speaker 1: with the women. I mean even on our show they're
Speaker 1: listening to two women that are open right, But like men,
Speaker 1: we're always confused how you let your girl sucking other niked?
Speaker 1: And how do you deal with it? Like? Had you
Speaker 1: done it before? Was it something I hadn't um? It
Speaker 1: was something that was interested in but I had never experienced. UM.
Speaker 1: Holly was the first person that I had a three somewhere,
Speaker 1: and it was like something I had wanted to do,
Speaker 1: But honestly, none of the girls that were before I
Speaker 1: wanted to ship me. So it was like one of
Speaker 1: those things where it was like just it was I
Speaker 1: was interested but never could find the avenue of the lane.
Speaker 1: So um, it was it was something that she was
Speaker 1: interested in. So it was you know, it was it was.
Speaker 1: It worked for us and then um, you know, it
Speaker 1: actually blossom beyond that and just we we were both
Speaker 1: interested in their lifestyle. So it was something that we
Speaker 1: We're gonna piggyback off of that, just to kind of
Speaker 1: like backtrack a little bit. We started out as like friends,
Speaker 1: like buddies in college, right, so like that was always
Speaker 1: the dynamic between the two of us for ten years.
Speaker 1: It was like, you know, we had our own like
Speaker 1: separate relationships. Oh yeah, we were six It is so good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so um, so again we were always friends. And then
Speaker 1: like six some of seven years ago, we found ourselves
Speaker 1: like both both single at the same time, and instead
Speaker 1: of being like, let's lock each other down, we're like,
Speaker 1: can't we just still be like friends that are like together.
Speaker 1: But like, as your feelings grew, had you ever and
Speaker 1: I'm curious with you dollar, had you ever had moments
Speaker 1: of jealousy the more like in love you felt of
Speaker 1: Holly where you were like I don't know if I
Speaker 1: can handle it. No, not a not not really a
Speaker 1: jealousy thing because, um, I like I like to see
Speaker 1: her have fun. Um Man, it's always been in like
Speaker 1: you know, in a in a fun atmosphere outside of us,
Speaker 1: playing in the lifestyle atmosphere. You know, the people she
Speaker 1: sees outside of me is you know, on her own.
Speaker 1: So I'm not really a jealous person. That's not really
Speaker 1: you know, really one of those things in my very
Speaker 1: big dig thing to say, you know what I mean
Speaker 1: without saying like table you're gonna come back? Not right, yes,
Speaker 1: in the way that what you're saying, Like you know,
Speaker 1: we've been in a long time, right, so like somebody
Speaker 1: she could suck somebody, they could give us some great
Speaker 1: Dicky can't outfunck me like you know, not not with her.
Speaker 1: I know her body too well, Like you know, I
Speaker 1: could enjoy your road lap. Well, the last time we
Speaker 1: had a couple on again shout out to Jared and Shambooty,
Speaker 1: we played an icebreaker. So I do want to ask
Speaker 1: some questions although we've kind of broken quite the ice already.
Speaker 1: UM I wanted to ask some relationship questions to you guys.
Speaker 1: So the first question is, what is one fantasy you
Speaker 1: want to try that you haven't really told your partner
Speaker 1: about and if not, if you have already shared your fantasies,
Speaker 1: how do you share them with him? Can I answer
Speaker 1: both of those? Oh yes, look look water look He's like, yes, Um,
Speaker 1: I have a like I have this like director of
Speaker 1: fantasy like where I'm like, you know, directing like this
Speaker 1: like dough fast, like the video of him and like
Speaker 1: ten chicks, right, and I'm telling everybody what to do
Speaker 1: and like and in the video like I'm in the
Speaker 1: video directing too, because a bit of a narcissist, so
Speaker 1: I want to be in it too. But I'm really
Speaker 1: just kind of like right, I'm just really kind of
Speaker 1: like you know, telling like her used like a thick
Speaker 1: and like use it on his face, like I kind
Speaker 1: of just want to like you said ten ten women, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's like you could actually do this. The reason why?
Speaker 1: So this is how I got to ten, because like
Speaker 1: that's the number. We haven't really gotten to the most
Speaker 1: y'all have gotten to? Ah, have you counted before? How
Speaker 1: many women at one? Not in a day? Yeah? A night?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and a day like eight or ten? It
Speaker 1: depends like at a party. I mean you know, I
Speaker 1: ain't been any of them like that. Now, explain what
Speaker 1: you mean by a party can be intense? Like just
Speaker 1: assuming that someone who's listening to this like has no
Speaker 1: deal with these parties are like what is intense? Because
Speaker 1: anybody might be like, if I walk into a sex club,
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, this ship intense. Out the gate
Speaker 1: is the fact that I was at the bar just
Speaker 1: ordering a drink with the bottle that I brought in
Speaker 1: and I looked to the right stool and someone was
Speaker 1: getting head. As that as being my first experience, I
Speaker 1: thought that I was like, oh, ship, this is intense.
Speaker 1: So yeah, what do you mean As a lifestyler who
Speaker 1: goes quite often, how do you feel like something would
Speaker 1: be considering the party I was talking about with more
Speaker 1: like private parties that can you know that that will
Speaker 1: get intense because people more so know each other and
Speaker 1: more comfortable. But he means all the dick he ends
Speaker 1: up having it throw at a party like that. That's
Speaker 1: when when he said intense, that's what he met. But
Speaker 1: like you get talking about but for the sex clubs,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know it really it really depends on
Speaker 1: the layout. Um, certain places, you know, it's we typically
Speaker 1: don't play at most at most places. You know, we
Speaker 1: live in the city, so most of the parties we
Speaker 1: go to we can, we go to how people that's
Speaker 1: kind of right. Um, nothing, we don't or haven't ever,
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, we do. Usually the vibe is like
Speaker 1: we're just chilling, drinking, like meeting people and then like
Speaker 1: and then it later. What about you? Have you shared
Speaker 1: your fantasies with Holly? Do you have any that you
Speaker 1: haven't played out with her yet? No? I don't think so.
Speaker 1: It's funny that she said her fantasy is kind of
Speaker 1: one of my fantasies because I haven't been with that
Speaker 1: many women at month, so you would you would not
Speaker 1: be intimidated by ten women? No, alright, alright, big dick niggah.
Speaker 1: Next question, how does your partner? What does your partner
Speaker 1: do that turns you on that they don't know about?
Speaker 1: H m hm, that we don't know about. That's the
Speaker 1: hard y'all. Y'all pretty much know each other. I mean,
Speaker 1: we know each other so well, but um, one thing
Speaker 1: Holly probably doesn't. She might not know as well as
Speaker 1: I like, I love watching home work room when we're
Speaker 1: in in the social atmosphere, because you know, she's a
Speaker 1: social butterfly. So I mean she might know that with hair.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I know she. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's something she knows as much. But like I like,
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting back and watching her do her thing
Speaker 1: because like I don't really have to, you know, I
Speaker 1: can be in the corner, rolling up, chilling, you know,
Speaker 1: doing nothing, and I might speak to you know, people
Speaker 1: that I know, but Hollywood like working room meet meet people.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, this person does this and like introduced
Speaker 1: me to people. So she's definitely like, I enjoyed that.
Speaker 1: I love that. You pretty much just wanted to what
Speaker 1: my third question was gonna be. It was gonna be about, clearly,
Speaker 1: you're the extrovert, you're the chill person. What is the
Speaker 1: best scenario you would suggest for a couple to be
Speaker 1: in a sex club if they're going with their partner.
Speaker 1: Do you suggest the woman be more outspoken or do
Speaker 1: you do feel like sometimes it's better for the man
Speaker 1: to take the lead. Um, I'm gonna I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: this one. Um, Honestly, in my experience, it's like, like
Speaker 1: you pointed out, I'm the extrovert, he's the he's more
Speaker 1: like the chill reserved one. I think the best advice
Speaker 1: I could get two couples is like have that balance,
Speaker 1: like if someone you know, if you're both shy, like
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna have to rochambo that ship. You're gonna have
Speaker 1: to like someone's got to step it up because, like
Speaker 1: you know, it's a very social environment and like women
Speaker 1: run it. To be honest with you, So to answer
Speaker 1: the other part of your question, if you know, ladies,
Speaker 1: if you can be the one to be like hey,
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm interested or we're interested, or you
Speaker 1: know whatever, it's best in that environment because you know,
Speaker 1: women kind of make all the rules. And like clubs, though,
Speaker 1: where do you think, um, it's the best place for
Speaker 1: someone that may not have access to a sex club
Speaker 1: or they may not be into sex clubs. Like have
Speaker 1: you guys had situations where you've met people outside of
Speaker 1: that and like where does that happen? Absolutely, like a
Speaker 1: lot of like a lot of folks who are you know,
Speaker 1: not necessarily lie sise, but friends of ours are very
Speaker 1: curious and they're just like, you know, can we come
Speaker 1: with you to to a party or like you know,
Speaker 1: like if it's kind of asking the question you just asked, like,
Speaker 1: if I wanted to go to like a play party,
Speaker 1: like which one should we go to? Are you guys
Speaker 1: are going to one? We're coming like you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So and if anything, if they're interesting, they're
Speaker 1: more likely to probably play with than strangers. Funny enough,
Speaker 1: Um no, no, actually, wait no, now that I think
Speaker 1: I've got so many friends that ye know, you are
Speaker 1: more out to be like I want to play with
Speaker 1: with other people, mainly because those folks tend to be like,
Speaker 1: oh that's so crazy. You guys are so wow to
Speaker 1: your Tuesdays, your Sundays are nuts. So I guess I
Speaker 1: don't know if it makes them so more comfortable to like,
Speaker 1: you know, have their wild moments with like someone who
Speaker 1: isn't as to be able to come back and be like, girl, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I mean, I didn't even
Speaker 1: have the name exactly. We didn't even know the names
Speaker 1: of people most of the time that we played with,
Speaker 1: so like you could go back and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: so having beat before, I wouldn't even know. But I
Speaker 1: do want to get into our vanilla ship. Guys. Are
Speaker 1: vanilla ship for this week? Is quite funny considering we've
Speaker 1: been talking about swollen balls for probably the last three
Speaker 1: episodes because of Nicki minaj Um, but this one actually
Speaker 1: refers to a single man aged thirty eight, who had
Speaker 1: his swollen penis freed by doctors two weeks after he
Speaker 1: locked it inside of a small padlock. That is right, guys.
Speaker 1: A boardman stuck at home during the pandemic was rushed
Speaker 1: to the hospital after getting a padlock stuck around his
Speaker 1: penis and a bizarre sex at gone wrong. The bachelor
Speaker 1: thirty eight clamped the metal device around the base of
Speaker 1: his manhood for a thrill around two weeks ago, but
Speaker 1: he lost the key and his limbs started to swell.
Speaker 1: He tried, he tried, unsixed. He triedfully to remove the
Speaker 1: small lock um so left it on his penis for
Speaker 1: more than fourteen days until it became infected and the
Speaker 1: pain was unbearable. The embars man's mother, who tried to
Speaker 1: help him, called the emergency services and firemen to his home. Um.
Speaker 1: This took place last month, and of course you guessed
Speaker 1: it not Florida, Bangkok, Thailand. I was gonna say, can
Speaker 1: we play guests this raceman? You thought it was white.
Speaker 1: You thought I was like, you know, you know, but
Speaker 1: why a white guy in Thailand? Right? She could be.
Speaker 1: She told the medics that her son did not have
Speaker 1: a girlfriend and was simply bored because he had been
Speaker 1: staying home during the COVID nineteen Oh I've never looked
Speaker 1: out a lot. Okay, let me ask you though, because
Speaker 1: we've talked about women using cucumbers. If you're just around
Speaker 1: your house, your board and haven't gotten sex, has there
Speaker 1: been any object you've just been like, let me put
Speaker 1: my dick inside of this? Oh you two edding? No?
Speaker 1: Never American never even after American pie. I wish that.
Speaker 1: It's so funny, that's all I mean. I'm not, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're not. But when you were a kid, I mean
Speaker 1: we also an American pot, but you never were Like
Speaker 1: what would that be like? It'd be hot, like just
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, a pie is warm, I
Speaker 1: get it, but it's not not burn your dick. What
Speaker 1: about like what about like a jar of vesseline? Wouldn't
Speaker 1: that be like a cool feeling because it's kind of room?
Speaker 1: Can we don't have? You just don't know what? Just
Speaker 1: have some words? Can't pussy? What would you use around
Speaker 1: the house to put your dick in I just use
Speaker 1: my hand, your hand, Yeah, maybe you could just stick
Speaker 1: a bunch of Yeah, I guess. Okay. Well, so after
Speaker 1: I was I was thinking of this like toothpaste, like
Speaker 1: lotion to you, just keeping about singing and yeah, if
Speaker 1: you had what fruit would you put your brands? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I heard that's too much acid you don't want and
Speaker 1: the easiest right, Oh you're good, you're smart. Is that
Speaker 1: wet wet you know? You know, okay, the seedless watermelons,
Speaker 1: you know, even though that has to be man made.
Speaker 1: But anyway, y'all always wonder why how five years later
Speaker 1: we're still talking about ship that we just don't understand.
Speaker 1: So I actually ended up was like, damn a lot,
Speaker 1: and I know you're seeing here like not ain't nothing
Speaker 1: I could think of. So I went digging, digging and looking.
Speaker 1: I said, well, what are other alternatives for cop cages?
Speaker 1: And I came across actually locked in lust dot com. Um,
Speaker 1: this is not an AD, but they just had alternatives
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, ship, one of which is
Speaker 1: actually a spiked anti pull out. And I wanted to
Speaker 1: bring this up because I was just like, who the
Speaker 1: funk they do? Like when you reverse? Yeah, they do
Speaker 1: also have padlocks. Surprisingly, so I don't think this man
Speaker 1: was far off. They do have padlocks for men. They
Speaker 1: have crotch rocket strap ons and all these other things.
Speaker 1: But I wanted to read about the anti spike pull
Speaker 1: out because it's actually something that as you get hard,
Speaker 1: it forces you to go back soft. So it says, um,
Speaker 1: but sohment b d SM. So these spikes, uh. It
Speaker 1: says that these devilish little spikes will ensure that your
Speaker 1: slave will get a painful reminder for any unauthorized directions.
Speaker 1: So this is something. It's a real thing. Like Reay
Speaker 1: and I have talked about this even at some of
Speaker 1: our live shows. It's the perfect accessory to give you
Speaker 1: more control and remind your slave that you can deliver
Speaker 1: pleasure or pain to their penis anytime you wish. But basically,
Speaker 1: the spikes are added pleasure only. Please, This is a
Speaker 1: pleasure only please. Yeah, Like what about there is a
Speaker 1: fettle things like maybe biting right, like snibbling on a dick.
Speaker 1: Do you like your bite? Don't? Don't? Don't step on
Speaker 1: what I mean, whatever you would like a little bit
Speaker 1: For example, like women mate like they're like they're clips
Speaker 1: spring or something. Like that is there, I like a
Speaker 1: good choking, like a like a good yeah, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about the genitals. Yeah, oh yeah, but I'm so like,
Speaker 1: there's nothing. There's nothing. Just listen. I mean, I mean
Speaker 1: you could slap it on your face. By the way,
Speaker 1: does that feel good or is it more so just
Speaker 1: within your head? It does feel okay, So there is
Speaker 1: there is a bit of a sensation, right, because you
Speaker 1: figure you have like that if you get a good slap, right,
Speaker 1: you're getting under part of the head, on the head,
Speaker 1: you know, you get that that good you know, then
Speaker 1: you get that sensation on the on the under part
Speaker 1: of your especially if she was sucking it. Now it's wet.
Speaker 1: Always thought it was like a dude's just ego, just
Speaker 1: like slapping the ship out of it. Do you actually
Speaker 1: like the feeling? Interesting? There is there is a feeling
Speaker 1: and then you figure if you if she's holding it,
Speaker 1: if she slaps herself with it, then you know, you
Speaker 1: get that the the rush from the rush of the blood. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: come on, slave. She was like, I don't know what's Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're just like, I am not mad, well I wanted
Speaker 1: to I'm definitely going to end up passing the horr
Speaker 1: dirve to the two of you. So our horr derve
Speaker 1: segment is a sex tip. I would love not only
Speaker 1: each of you to share a sex tip, but you
Speaker 1: are one of the very few couples that I know
Speaker 1: has kind of been able to juggle successfully a unicorn.
Speaker 1: So a lot of people ask how to get third,
Speaker 1: So I also want to ask you all that. But
Speaker 1: let's start off with sex tips. I feel like you
Speaker 1: just gave us one, So Holly, give us a sex tip,
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna get into, uh, sex tips with unicorns.
Speaker 1: It could be um for women, men women and women,
Speaker 1: dick second tips something you want people to know what
Speaker 1: you and pussy whatever? Oh okay, um. I think the
Speaker 1: only tip I would give is, like, you know, keep
Speaker 1: it fun, like do do something like interesting how often?
Speaker 1: Like all the time, like fine, like something super random
Speaker 1: like baby fits you're like over here and like you know,
Speaker 1: like find different ways for him to go deeper, like
Speaker 1: such his dick upside down like a bridge. What's the
Speaker 1: last different ship Holly did that? You were like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, because I'm sixty years well sixteen years of sucking, right,
Speaker 1: is there still ship that are that is new for
Speaker 1: both of y'all. Yeah, it's still and we're always like
Speaker 1: we're ridiculous. We're like, oh, ship, what was that like?
Speaker 1: And we're like just like random places, you know, the
Speaker 1: whole way, Like Holly really likes sucking on the hallway,
Speaker 1: really your apartment on it no, like in the crib,
Speaker 1: like just like I'm sorry, I can't tell you what
Speaker 1: that's about. But like he'll just like if we're passing
Speaker 1: each other in the hallway, like we're going to do
Speaker 1: different things, like he may be going it's really into
Speaker 1: the kitchen, right and then if he's just like if
Speaker 1: we can't pass each other and he can't, like you know,
Speaker 1: Pasco and just has to grab me and slamming against
Speaker 1: the wall in the hallway, like you just have to
Speaker 1: have me right now? That ship not fu me to
Speaker 1: past go? Does she collect two as well? I collect
Speaker 1: a lie to each other in the life? What are
Speaker 1: you telling me? Y'all? Fus so much and it's so
Speaker 1: intense still all these years later that you can pass
Speaker 1: each other in the hallway and I think that's so
Speaker 1: interesting and I'd love to hear that that's okay. Uh,
Speaker 1: Like the sex could get boring after having sex with
Speaker 1: the same person for for so long, you guys also
Speaker 1: have sex with other people. Does that you think affect
Speaker 1: keeping y'all sex life so spicy? The fact that you
Speaker 1: can go out and have sex with others and come
Speaker 1: back to each other. I mean it's definitely futual, Like
Speaker 1: do you know what type of sex you have after
Speaker 1: like kind of doing like a replay of like what
Speaker 1: kind of sex you just had? Like oh, yeah, I
Speaker 1: remember when you were back like make you guys want
Speaker 1: to suck each other more like when you Yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: And it's usually happens like separately because if I'm having
Speaker 1: bad sex and he's around, I'm like, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: like come come take care of this. Definitely, I've definitely
Speaker 1: seen that in a place situation and it's like I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh damn, she's not having that much fun about I
Speaker 1: got to wrap this up really mean that, you know,
Speaker 1: that's the main thing. Now You're this is a scenario
Speaker 1: where you're looking, but I'm curious to know if you
Speaker 1: guys do mmf three somes? Do you enjoy that too?
Speaker 1: With that? Was that funny enough? That was our intro
Speaker 1: to the lifestyle, which is so different from how it
Speaker 1: usually happens. It's usually like the girl who's like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let me bring in another girl. So like when I
Speaker 1: realized I could, I could like be in the Laft
Speaker 1: style with Dollar, was like, um, one day we pulled
Speaker 1: up on a friend of his that I didn't I
Speaker 1: hadn't met yet. This is like six years ago. Um,
Speaker 1: and this friend like he was just like you know,
Speaker 1: like speaking to his homie like and this friend was fine,
Speaker 1: like fine fine, Like I'm like like what yes, he
Speaker 1: was so hot and like he like he knows me.
Speaker 1: This is my boy, like right, and he like he
Speaker 1: knows me, like we're best friends. So like I didn't
Speaker 1: have to say a word. He's like checking out the brawl,
Speaker 1: like you interested. He's like he's because I'm looking at
Speaker 1: like both of them looking back and forth like d him,
Speaker 1: you know, because we're always taught you gotta choose right,
Speaker 1: and he like right, like menny, damn, I want them
Speaker 1: both right. So so he hit me with the like whit,
Speaker 1: like why choose white? Pick? And how I was supposed
Speaker 1: And I was like come again and if you yes black? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have a black sitting here saying black wet gave
Speaker 1: it away, but Holly did not. I'm not very good
Speaker 1: at giving away the black via recordings. Hi i am
Speaker 1: I'm black black. Did your friend Had you and your
Speaker 1: friend ever done something like that before? Oh yeah, not
Speaker 1: not at the same time, but you figured, like we
Speaker 1: grew up together, so we grew up in the same neighborhood.
Speaker 1: There were girls that you know, we had, Like you
Speaker 1: had that too, Like so I knew, Like I wasn't
Speaker 1: surprised that she was into him because it was like
Speaker 1: we cond you and him, right, So y'all hadn't done that,
Speaker 1: but you kind of set that up and like I'm
Speaker 1: assuming you and him didn't even talk about it. You
Speaker 1: just know your girlfriend, so you like whatever, and since
Speaker 1: she was your girl right at the time, so we
Speaker 1: were we were kind of just friends. We all reconnected.
Speaker 1: We were like, we're working again. It was like, like,
Speaker 1: so he you know, was there a conversation that you
Speaker 1: had after? So the thing is a lot of women
Speaker 1: even are scared to ask for it because they automatically
Speaker 1: think that their partner is going to look at them
Speaker 1: different or disrespect them. Was that a conversation that y'all
Speaker 1: have to have before or after? Like did you have
Speaker 1: that conversation before after? So both both we have that
Speaker 1: conversation like beforehand, because again I wasn't gonna ask and
Speaker 1: I'm bold, like I've always been very very like you know, straightforward,
Speaker 1: like this is what I wanted them to go get it.
Speaker 1: But I was still kind of like, I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, proball talk to him later, Like I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh, give me your boy's number, but
Speaker 1: he legit was like, you know, like I guess set
Speaker 1: that up for you. You don't have to choose, like
Speaker 1: you know, you could chill, which I had never ever
Speaker 1: like heard of before seeing I've always seen us be
Speaker 1: in that position, you know, where it's like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let me bring my friends through, but never had I like,
Speaker 1: you know, this is best friends, right, come on, but
Speaker 1: this is Mark. So the other part of that is
Speaker 1: like we we never really like we weren't seeking out
Speaker 1: a relationship when when he and I like reconnected, and
Speaker 1: I think that's what made us kind of accidentally on
Speaker 1: purpose form some kind of like relationship because it was
Speaker 1: just like it naturally like organically happened because we're friends.
Speaker 1: We're friends who were really close and we just kept
Speaker 1: getting closer and closer. We we we were always friends. So um,
Speaker 1: I was concerned about like there being like a lack
Speaker 1: of respect loss like this is his best friend, right
Speaker 1: what I mean, So aside from being worried about what
Speaker 1: he would think, I'm like, Yo, this is your boy,
Speaker 1: you know, rags are like, oh yeah, no, I hit
Speaker 1: that that so like that never happened, Like he never
Speaker 1: ever ever like treated me differently. It was never like that, Shorty,
Speaker 1: We both smacked none of that. Like he to this
Speaker 1: day like has always had like the utmost respect for
Speaker 1: me and kept me like you know, like family, like
Speaker 1: you know, like just very very close like he has
Speaker 1: of him, but like never ever try to like play
Speaker 1: me or sledge amy or anything like that. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about the I need to know how that ship was.
Speaker 1: So you guys had a conversation and you guys end
Speaker 1: up looking like did you feel like since that was
Speaker 1: your first time doing that together, were you like I
Speaker 1: gotta give him more attention? Like yeah, then I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I need a few more friends, Like I just want
Speaker 1: to like one like they were both really great. But
Speaker 1: then too, I was just like, I mean I wanna
Speaker 1: like I want to share. How how did the Knights
Speaker 1: start off? Like when you did you planning, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie night. You guys spoke about Molly. That was
Speaker 1: like the last back when we were ya got it
Speaker 1: up for you, right, you need to mom Molly? And
Speaker 1: then eight ten years ago days, Oh yeah, that's why,
Speaker 1: that's why, that's why I pay. That's exactly why we
Speaker 1: doubt it's because it was different now and anybody listening
Speaker 1: they may not know what we're talking about. So like, um,
Speaker 1: you know, Molly is a form of n D M A,
Speaker 1: which has been known as ecstasy, but ecstasy now is
Speaker 1: a form of who knows what you're gonna get. There's
Speaker 1: some m d m A but it's just a pressed
Speaker 1: bill and molly is little crystals. They could be yellow,
Speaker 1: they could be brown, they could be clear, and people
Speaker 1: always say they know it's good depending on the color,
Speaker 1: and we all don't really know. They washed, they changed
Speaker 1: the color. It's like all mixed up. We really don't
Speaker 1: know what you're gonna get. But what we do know
Speaker 1: is that uh, ten years ago when they started making
Speaker 1: crystallized m d m A and taking it and extracting
Speaker 1: and not having it be ecstasy anymore, and it was
Speaker 1: this new thing. That's when people were getting a different
Speaker 1: version of what they are now. However, something I was
Speaker 1: also reading similarly is like you did Molly ten years ago.
Speaker 1: I did it ten years ago. You did it ten
Speaker 1: years ago. There's also people will chase that high. It's
Speaker 1: like a crack thing. You may never feel that first
Speaker 1: one again. So whereas you might be like this ship
Speaker 1: is trashed, someone who never had is like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like three months ago there was a was amazing and
Speaker 1: all both got enough ship. So you guys, where were
Speaker 1: you when you were at his house? Where you not
Speaker 1: the So you're like, how do I start this? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I'm to this day. I don't care how
Speaker 1: much of a like a zet or a like, I
Speaker 1: don't give a damn. You're always like, Okay, how do
Speaker 1: I start? How is this going to start? It's it's
Speaker 1: always like the junior high, like dance, like do I
Speaker 1: get out there first? Do I wait for someone else
Speaker 1: to start dancing? Like that ship? So um, I'm sitting
Speaker 1: in the middle of them. I do I do? I do?
Speaker 1: That's what that's your party party check, like you just
Speaker 1: pull the I wish I had gone in that easy anyway. Um,
Speaker 1: that's why I go to Um. So I'm sitting in
Speaker 1: the middle of the two of them were like watching TV.
Speaker 1: Nobody's watching this TV, but we all know why we're here.
Speaker 1: I'm why we're here now, so um I think um
Speaker 1: I started making out like Dollar was to my to
Speaker 1: my right, and I started making out with Dollar and
Speaker 1: I kind of like start like choking my homies right
Speaker 1: and like we like and then I'm then I started
Speaker 1: because that that was the fantasy. I was like, I
Speaker 1: just want to stroke two dicks so quick. If this
Speaker 1: all doesn't work out tonight, at least I got to
Speaker 1: do this thing out that does look like like a workout,
Speaker 1: right definitely shake weights like m not really but you know,
Speaker 1: I'm but I was just like, yeah, I can read
Speaker 1: my name, Like I'm like I can, Yeah, I can
Speaker 1: do it, baby. Yeah that was more that's my night.
Speaker 1: Um um okay, so I um, I'm like I'm making
Speaker 1: out with and the holmie starts like kissing me on
Speaker 1: my neck and then like it just kind of really
Speaker 1: spoted from there and then I'm giving him head and
Speaker 1: then I'm giving him head and like well, like I'm
Speaker 1: getting the honeyhead like that was fingering me or eating
Speaker 1: me out, and then like when I switched, like when
Speaker 1: for the rest of the night it was just kind
Speaker 1: of like a yeah, like a seesaw, like, oh, that's true,
Speaker 1: it was to see okay. So for the rest of
Speaker 1: the night, it's kind of like that. And there they
Speaker 1: shared so well, you know, everyone waited their turn and
Speaker 1: like you know, got in where they fit in, and
Speaker 1: it was really good. I think about with like um three,
Speaker 1: but I always think about the weird ship, Like when
Speaker 1: I think about a sex fret, I'm like, what do
Speaker 1: they eat there? When I think about I want to know,
Speaker 1: I think about a nigga talking to me right, and
Speaker 1: then I think about another nigga. They gotta like say
Speaker 1: something better, And then like are they talking to each other?
Speaker 1: Are they talking about how good my pussy is? And
Speaker 1: if they don't have a conversation about it, is my
Speaker 1: pussy whack? What's going on? What are y'all just thinking
Speaker 1: the one nigga is just talking about how good my
Speaker 1: pussy is? Oh, it ain't for you. Then we're like,
Speaker 1: what's going on? That's a good question. I be thinking,
Speaker 1: can you think of something that happened, And did you
Speaker 1: all talk to me? Did you compare the dick sizes
Speaker 1: we all do all we always do okay with like
Speaker 1: no matter what we all do. I guess you know,
Speaker 1: it's fun. You know, it was really fun. It wasn't
Speaker 1: like a one was bigger than the other. It was
Speaker 1: like different, like one was like and I was like, okay, awesome,
Speaker 1: like everybody went, you know, and so we're because that's
Speaker 1: been my conversation. Like it's not like I'm also not
Speaker 1: only super shallow with like the look like like it
Speaker 1: has no I don't want a skinny curby dick. I
Speaker 1: don't want a short one like and so literally, yeah,
Speaker 1: well literally when I went to I just went to
Speaker 1: a sex club in Atlanta, and like I was making
Speaker 1: out with this girl. She was beautiful, but she was
Speaker 1: a don but her man looked like a spartan. He
Speaker 1: was gorgeous, like six seven had it up a whole
Speaker 1: like tribal thing. I was like, oh my god, Jakeson
Speaker 1: MoMA was here and but he was a black version
Speaker 1: and so I was like I knew I had to
Speaker 1: go to her to get to him. And so we
Speaker 1: all started playing together and went so what I knew
Speaker 1: I had to go to her to get to him.
Speaker 1: I did. That's how it kind of works in fun position.
Speaker 1: I'm the her that usually you got to go, and
Speaker 1: so I can tell that they for sure wanted to
Speaker 1: play together. So I was like, okay, but when we
Speaker 1: started all playing, we both went to jack his dick
Speaker 1: off at the same time, and I swear to god,
Speaker 1: I saw it going like this, and I just dropped
Speaker 1: my hand. I said, I ain't even gonna jack this
Speaker 1: little kind of thing. And it was hard, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: just like I'm tired. No, I was just like, as
Speaker 1: soon as yeah, I dropped my hand, continued making out
Speaker 1: with her, which I was just like, girl, you were realistic.
Speaker 1: So my whole thing you do a real quick if
Speaker 1: you were going to a sex club, I know it
Speaker 1: looks slutty and beautiful, and just think you look like
Speaker 1: Jessica Rabbit. Please do not wear red or maroon or
Speaker 1: dark colored lipstick to the fucking sex clubs. Girl I
Speaker 1: was leaving, I looked like my whole mouth had a rash,
Speaker 1: but it was just her lipstick all over and I
Speaker 1: was just like read you know, saying, and I'll tell
Speaker 1: you people will buy Matt thinking it's better for making out.
Speaker 1: It's harder to get out of skin. Not do Matt
Speaker 1: if you're going out with your home girl, I mean, well,
Speaker 1: hopefully you get to go home with someone too, But
Speaker 1: if you're going out and you don't expect to me
Speaker 1: making out, Matt is better for long or laster stay
Speaker 1: or like if you're whatever, you're at work, if you're
Speaker 1: about to make out, do not just buy the regular ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just bitch, especially because I go up even even
Speaker 1: gloss glitter. There's certain things you just want to stay
Speaker 1: away from at the sex club. I think glitter is
Speaker 1: a very big one. But yeah, even uh, lip gloss. Yes,
Speaker 1: it looks good. It might glisten under the fucking galaxy lights,
Speaker 1: but now when you kiss, it's sucking sticky. And do
Speaker 1: you know any girls on a kiss? And I'm just
Speaker 1: been like, we gotta get from the first kiss and
Speaker 1: then we gotta wipe it off and then go back
Speaker 1: to kissing. I'm like, bitch, what was the purpose of this?
Speaker 1: You look good without need just like a squeege funny
Speaker 1: the night I met you, that happened to you and
Speaker 1: I was like wiping it off. Yeah, I had gloss. Well,
Speaker 1: once I found out it wasn't a sex party, I
Speaker 1: wanted to look cute. I went down there and I said,
Speaker 1: why is no one Why is no one naked? And
Speaker 1: they were like, oh, it's not that type of party tonight.
Speaker 1: I said, Oh, I'm just here for a party. I
Speaker 1: got so mad, and you guys have a party party. No.
Speaker 1: I got so mad. But then by the time I
Speaker 1: was so drunk I didn't even know. I like molested
Speaker 1: my man in the corner and like wait, she's like,
Speaker 1: it's not really We'll be here much longer. You guys
Speaker 1: enjoy the rest of the party. Outside of sex parties,
Speaker 1: you guys have the open relationship. Um, what's your piece
Speaker 1: of advice for couples listening that have been curious about
Speaker 1: it that are watching you and relationship? Yeah, just for
Speaker 1: like a new Definitely have the open communications. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta talk to each other because if you want to
Speaker 1: have things outside of yourselves, you have to have that
Speaker 1: comfortability with each other first. If you don't have that foundation,
Speaker 1: it's going to be really hard because it's always going
Speaker 1: to be that doubt. Like the thing that I think
Speaker 1: makes it easy for the two of us is that
Speaker 1: we don't have the doubt because we have the time
Speaker 1: proven to we have that trust. We have that I know,
Speaker 1: I know she has my back, she knows I have
Speaker 1: a back. Do you think and this is a controversial question,
Speaker 1: but some people say they're open, but the woman won't
Speaker 1: sleep with other men. Do you believe that's an actual
Speaker 1: open relationship, because to me, that's a boundary set You
Speaker 1: can't fun out the niggers, you can suck out the bitch.
Speaker 1: So I mean, I think that would Sorry, I think
Speaker 1: that would depend on who that boundary is set by. Yeah,
Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, And that's like, that's exactly like what
Speaker 1: I would say about that. Remember I told you guys earlier,
Speaker 1: like our relationship is customized. I think every relationship should be.
Speaker 1: And one thing we noticed when we joined the lifestyle
Speaker 1: is that everything we did was so different from how
Speaker 1: everyone did, like their version of the lifestyle. Like every
Speaker 1: single relationship had like, you know, different like boundaries and
Speaker 1: different like you know, some were like, oh, we don't kiss,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, or like, oh, we don't
Speaker 1: play unless we're in the same room together. There were
Speaker 1: a lot of things that we were like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean I think a few times we've gone to
Speaker 1: the beach, it's like become a class with them. Like
Speaker 1: I've sat there with my man and we we just
Speaker 1: asked them questions, Like we've sat and asked both of
Speaker 1: them questions. And you guys, uh, I want to get
Speaker 1: into this as well, because I think this is major
Speaker 1: outside of just threesomes. Um, you guys have successfully achieved
Speaker 1: a unicorn to to an aspected I want to know
Speaker 1: that betty process will look like, like, how do you
Speaker 1: get a unicorn again? For the people listening, take out
Speaker 1: your pens and papers, guys, this is home mail for everybody.
Speaker 1: Put your applications in there. Kidding. Um, well, okay, and
Speaker 1: the unicorn refresher is a single person joining in with
Speaker 1: a couple. Yeah. Um, First things first, all pointed this
Speaker 1: out earlier, but I just want to reiterate because it's
Speaker 1: really important. We've seen situations fall apart due to this.
Speaker 1: Before you bring someone else into your relationship, please make
Speaker 1: sure your ship is solid, because it is going to
Speaker 1: be catastrophic when you like bring another person into a
Speaker 1: big old bottle of mess, and it's going to expose
Speaker 1: the ship out of your mess to each other and
Speaker 1: it's ugly visible to that person exactly. You want to
Speaker 1: have that coesive Definitely. When I had a unicorn guy, yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember. Um. The first thing that I didn't realize
Speaker 1: I was doing was we were both venting to him
Speaker 1: about why we were mad at each other. And it
Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily like we are and our good day to day,
Speaker 1: but those little things we never really fixed. Always like
Speaker 1: we're both calling the damn nigga. Why you ain't answering
Speaker 1: the phone? You on the phone with her because I'm
Speaker 1: mad at a bit, you know what I mean? And
Speaker 1: it wasn't smart, Like you can't do that to your unicorn.
Speaker 1: It's not fair. That's a lot of stress for them
Speaker 1: to take. Yeah, I remember, this is a friend of
Speaker 1: yours that's like coming over and like you know, either
Speaker 1: coming over to your house or coming inside of your bedroom,
Speaker 1: and like, you know what I mean, it's not your therapist,
Speaker 1: you know, it's not your your couple's counselor it's not
Speaker 1: fair to put them in that position, like don't like
Speaker 1: get someone and then cause them to like choose between
Speaker 1: the two of you because I could just date you separately.
Speaker 1: Like we we've had situations where like that where it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, we could just there are certain situations where
Speaker 1: oh yeah, like we can see this person together or
Speaker 1: you know that's you know, that's your bit um, Like
Speaker 1: you know, I keep over there, okay two where you
Speaker 1: felt like maybe a unicorn was coming in only being
Speaker 1: nice to you to be with him. Um. So I've
Speaker 1: seen that happen to other couples a lot of times.
Speaker 1: What ends up happening with us is like I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, like remember the term like chick Dickley. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I was just kind of like mostly Dickley, but
Speaker 1: I like, I like women, like I love women so like,
Speaker 1: but like when it comes to women, I'm just kind
Speaker 1: of like really chilling cash And like he's like the
Speaker 1: ultimate boyfriend, Like he's such a good boyfriend, like he
Speaker 1: can like if you spend like twenty four hours with him,
Speaker 1: you will swear like you know, we got together and
Speaker 1: he loved me right. And I've seen him like just
Speaker 1: like the dig at a chicken, she's just looking at
Speaker 1: him like, oh my gosh. That. I really do think
Speaker 1: men should be doing for unicorns as long as that
Speaker 1: boundary set, because a lot of unicorns are attracted to
Speaker 1: the couple's relationship, not just like I think you're pretty,
Speaker 1: I think he's cute. I like what y'all are doing exactly.
Speaker 1: So if you start treating me differently, which is another
Speaker 1: reason why I don't like when women put too many
Speaker 1: stipulations on it, because if I'm attracted to the essence
Speaker 1: of this, and then nigga can't do certain things, like
Speaker 1: it's like I'm getting pieces of the things that I'm
Speaker 1: actually attracted to, which I agree with. Um. Funny enough,
Speaker 1: our unicorn um taught us this term the other day,
Speaker 1: and I promised I wouldn't forget what it was. Um,
Speaker 1: it's a compulsion. Yeah, yeah, we talked about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I think it's so dope because pleasure and your
Speaker 1: partner having p yeah, and like one thing, okay, so everyone,
Speaker 1: I was like, if you have like a shitty situation,
Speaker 1: like bringing someone else in, we'll e suppose that you
Speaker 1: have a beautiful situation bring someone else, and we'll suppose
Speaker 1: that too. And for us, like in our experience, we've
Speaker 1: been noticing like we already adore each other, like we
Speaker 1: like you see it, like we have a secret language.
Speaker 1: Were ridiculous, it's Chris Um but they even have matching tattoos. Guys,
Speaker 1: And I know we talked about tattoos. Can you what
Speaker 1: the name of your tattoo? That's so it's it's andinamony,
Speaker 1: just like how many we love each other? Girl? Yeah? Right,
Speaker 1: like thank you now. But it's so cute that like
Speaker 1: I want to throw up in a good way. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I hey you guys, what are you doing later? No, fullshit,
Speaker 1: that's a real thing. Like I saw a couple of
Speaker 1: the airport recently, and I remember thinking they were so
Speaker 1: cute about little things, like he was attracted to me,
Speaker 1: she was cool with it. It was very obvious, and
Speaker 1: U she refilled his drink while he was talking to
Speaker 1: me a little things. I was like, oh, ye'all are
Speaker 1: making me sick. But also right, like that ship is
Speaker 1: very sexy to people, and it's infectious, like it makes
Speaker 1: you not necessarily in the way of like oh I
Speaker 1: want exactly what they have, but like I want something
Speaker 1: like that for myself, like I want, you know, and
Speaker 1: being around that type of environment, being around people who
Speaker 1: are like that like helps you kind of you know.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure we get out of here. How messy
Speaker 1: has it gotten though? Um, who's been like I need
Speaker 1: this nigga. Oh you know, it's wild it It hasn't
Speaker 1: gotten messy like for us, like which is like high five,
Speaker 1: like we always because we're so close. We just know
Speaker 1: like when some ship's gonna get weird. And it's never
Speaker 1: really gotten messy in the lifestyle or with like you
Speaker 1: know a third it's usually the outside like relationship. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm glad you brought that up, like said that,
Speaker 1: like go like again going on double dates and talking
Speaker 1: to just people that are in this, like there's the
Speaker 1: least amount of judgment. Like our said, I felt like
Speaker 1: I was asking you how to take me to school
Speaker 1: when we was at the beach. I was like, and so,
Speaker 1: how do I do this if this happens? How do
Speaker 1: I communicate about this what I like and what I
Speaker 1: don't like? And one of the the craziest things is,
Speaker 1: although yes, there's so many people involved in your relationship, um,
Speaker 1: it is one of those while people think immediately, oh,
Speaker 1: someone's gonna come in and steal you away from someone,
Speaker 1: it is really the complete opposite with so many people
Speaker 1: that are pure lifestyle And I think that's again, you
Speaker 1: guys are able to focus on just each other, loving
Speaker 1: each other, and communicating about the things you don't like
Speaker 1: that you like and don't like as far as and
Speaker 1: again this is not to monogamy shame, but in monogamy,
Speaker 1: in monogamous relationships, a lot of time you're constantly trying
Speaker 1: to catch your partner doing something you said they can't do,
Speaker 1: oftentimes with other people. And so I love that. I
Speaker 1: guess before we get out here, I want you to
Speaker 1: both explain a lot of people have the notion that
Speaker 1: if you can have sex with someone else, maybe y'all
Speaker 1: don't love each other. A lot of people associate sex
Speaker 1: with love. And I want to know just where your
Speaker 1: mindsets have went to where you know Dollar fucking loves
Speaker 1: you to death, it doesn't matter how many other women
Speaker 1: he plays with or has relationships with, and vice versa. Like,
Speaker 1: what are y'all like, what would you have to say
Speaker 1: to that? So? And I'm promised not take this whole
Speaker 1: piece because then it's one of our favorite questions we
Speaker 1: ever get asked. Um, you know how like the family
Speaker 1: dynamic is and you love your mom, love your dad,
Speaker 1: and like you love your sisters and your cousins and
Speaker 1: your brothers and everyone and no one ever feels like, oh,
Speaker 1: because you love your mom, you don't love your dad.
Speaker 1: Like have you ever noticed that never actually happens? But right,
Speaker 1: that is the case in life and people and humanity
Speaker 1: and love period. Like loving its purest form can be
Speaker 1: given like to multiple people without having any effects or
Speaker 1: impact negatively. I'll tell you what I think that the
Speaker 1: different and says for me, I do believe that. But
Speaker 1: no matter what anyone says, I don't believe it's equal
Speaker 1: to believe that we generally reserve one separate type. There's
Speaker 1: someone there that's more of our quote unquote main obviously
Speaker 1: a case for yours. Now, some people will argue that
Speaker 1: and be like, no, I can love them the same.
Speaker 1: I don't really believe that over the years watching even
Speaker 1: just small reality shows, right with sister wives or big
Speaker 1: love or different ships, there's someone even if it changes.
Speaker 1: I hear you, you're kind of shifting to one word
Speaker 1: person is kind of your main. I really think that's
Speaker 1: a real thing. But like, just to be clear, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that, like, no, I know you're not love
Speaker 1: people the same because hell now I don't know it.
Speaker 1: But you can spread the love, yes, But I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And the main part of that is it's just not
Speaker 1: having an effect or impact on like yours. That's why
Speaker 1: the poor person has got to be the strong relationship there.
Speaker 1: You're not going to give your all to a bunch
Speaker 1: of people, like let me be clear, like us being
Speaker 1: open and us like you know, being in the lesstyle.
Speaker 1: We're not like giving equal parts of ourselves to all
Speaker 1: these people in our lives, like know, And that's not
Speaker 1: not the expectation of anyone, like not our friends, not
Speaker 1: you know, our unicorns, or like thirds, or guys that
Speaker 1: I'm seeing, girls that he's seeing. No one's expecting to
Speaker 1: get like the dollar treatment from me or like But
Speaker 1: I was also going to say, I hate the idea
Speaker 1: of this hierarchy of love, like do you love me
Speaker 1: as much as you love x y Z? And I
Speaker 1: think that that's also one of those unrealistic expectations that
Speaker 1: we set on ourselves in lives and relationships, like the
Speaker 1: idea that like, I know, even getting a new relationships
Speaker 1: asking your partner, well do you still love her? Referencing
Speaker 1: the a like a lot of people don't just lose
Speaker 1: love because they're no longer with someone. I think that's
Speaker 1: tough because, like I to what Holly was saying, it's
Speaker 1: it's hard to uh put one form on love, right
Speaker 1: because love love is you can love people in in
Speaker 1: the friendship capacity, right, And I think when you think
Speaker 1: of love in the friendship capacity, then it's more of
Speaker 1: a broad spectrum. You're able to look at it and
Speaker 1: it's more all encompassing. But when it's like in a
Speaker 1: relationship for him, then people try and put more parameters
Speaker 1: to it. So with what you were saying, right, you
Speaker 1: can have friends where say we're we're all friends right now.
Speaker 1: I know you say I've known you for five years.
Speaker 1: I've only known you for two years. I love you both, right,
Speaker 1: But because I've known her for five years, I might
Speaker 1: have been through some things with her that I love
Speaker 1: her differently. Not that I don't love you, But if
Speaker 1: we get arrested together, I don't know that you're gonna
Speaker 1: hold it down the city because this episode we were
Speaker 1: doing so good, Like you you put it in my head,
Speaker 1: I want to I want to see back to something
Speaker 1: that man he said, Like to go back to what
Speaker 1: you're saying to them, um, like being careful about like
Speaker 1: putting those measures on things. Like do you love me
Speaker 1: as much as or blah blah blah. It kind of
Speaker 1: brings me back to our word that we came up with,
Speaker 1: like infini many. It's it isn't measurable, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like it's something that's just beyond like
Speaker 1: you know, an amount or you know, like the metric
Speaker 1: system or you know numbers. It's just something like our
Speaker 1: love is that Like, that's that's our love. It's it's
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, the rest of the world's on tender
Speaker 1: right now. So I was about to say I love it.
Speaker 1: Are you guys? Are y'all on multiple dating apps together? Also?
Speaker 1: Do you guys need not guess that actually believe we've
Speaker 1: been on like like lifestyle like websites together. But like
Speaker 1: he's got a tender profile. I've got a tender profile.
Speaker 1: I like picked the pictures for him. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: now I'll do this one. I like not to have
Speaker 1: his dating app, haven't. They're gonna be like, are you
Speaker 1: horribly what are y'all Instagram handles? If anyone was interested
Speaker 1: in maybe slotting in them d m s, could they
Speaker 1: like totally drop your Instagram handles? Um? By the way,
Speaker 1: I'm miss Holly Dollas like, damn, not you playing his
Speaker 1: name in your name's actually m mine is Dollar Jones
Speaker 1: Underscore seven one Night Okay, not you with a New
Speaker 1: York area. UM well, I'm so glad that you guys
Speaker 1: are finally able to come on here and share again.
Speaker 1: Just how you guys again have this customizable relationship that
Speaker 1: I hope for anyone listening has taken some of the
Speaker 1: pressures off some of our followers looking to place labels
Speaker 1: on their relationship again. I think that you should customize
Speaker 1: your own and what works for for you guys. What
Speaker 1: works for me, what works for Wheezy may not work
Speaker 1: for you. Um. Ed and I don't know if are
Speaker 1: you dating? Okay, I'm sorry, um, but there's out here
Speaker 1: trying to fuck. Thank you edd In if you want
Speaker 1: to go out inside in his MS as well, But no,
Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for joining us. Y'all. Their
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Speaker 1: We're going to be on the road in a few weeks.
Speaker 1: Show always coming to the New Yard, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying or whatever. It's so crazy because we
Speaker 1: were wanting to make New York like finish all for
Speaker 1: the bank, but instead, because we just had to wait
Speaker 1: a whole fucking year and a half, we're actually kicking
Speaker 1: off our horrible decisions live show. We're taking you guys
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Speaker 1: yet another episode of Horrible Decisions fights. It's bonus bitchen.
Speaker 1: Many just took like a huge yawn and stretch. We
Speaker 1: just had a live show last night. Oh we did,
Speaker 1: we did, and I ain't gonna hold you. I did
Speaker 1: not want to motherfucking record today. My voice it's raspy.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I have a weekend off. Never
Speaker 1: do I ever, though, um, I did want to shout
Speaker 1: out to all of the patrons real quick who came
Speaker 1: out and pulled up to the live show at Sony
Speaker 1: Hall last night in New York City. It's so crazy, though,
Speaker 1: if you're a patron and came to a live show
Speaker 1: for the first time, please leave a comment under this episode.
Speaker 1: I was so shocked at how many people said that
Speaker 1: was the first time going to a live show. Me too,
Speaker 1: like that. I think was the most first time I
Speaker 1: was I've ever heard in one room I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: And I also for the first time, I got a
Speaker 1: lot of feedback from friends, like immediately after the show,
Speaker 1: which normally like I need some time before I can
Speaker 1: hear some ship and this was probably the best feedback
Speaker 1: I ever got. And two things I found interesting. Um,
Speaker 1: and this is not me trying to sell v IP tickets,
Speaker 1: by the way, I'm sure maybe it could be a
Speaker 1: venue thing. So Brianda and Alex both told me or
Speaker 1: Brianda said she sat um in the back and it's
Speaker 1: not even that much of a back for the beginning
Speaker 1: of the show, and sat in the front towards the end.
Speaker 1: She's like, wheezy, I had a totally different experience. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because the fans are in
Speaker 1: the front, like crazy fans, or if people get distracted
Speaker 1: in the back. She's like, but I felt like I
Speaker 1: was like really in the show in the front. And
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the front for Vennye show is good,
Speaker 1: but this year, just so you guys know, Mandy and
Speaker 1: if you've ever been to a show, we go, well,
Speaker 1: I go out into the audience a lot, but we
Speaker 1: pick a lot of people from the audience and we
Speaker 1: generally will go upstairs, downstairs wherever. And this time, being
Speaker 1: that we can't meet all of you, we are choosing
Speaker 1: from our V I P section. That is one of
Speaker 1: our UM ways to you know, throw an incentive in
Speaker 1: there along with like the obviously the better seating, and
Speaker 1: we give you some merch as well. But yeah, like
Speaker 1: I did find that interesting and I was like, I
Speaker 1: wonder and I think that's my biggest thing for myself,
Speaker 1: was like how to make sure the back is always included,
Speaker 1: because I'm sure it must be difficult, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like on your a room of hundreds and
Speaker 1: hundreds of people, and I even think about, like Howard,
Speaker 1: you know we're going next week and it's two floors,
Speaker 1: but I went up there last year or two years
Speaker 1: Howard Theater. I literally said this to Bridget last night.
Speaker 1: Sony Hall is my second favorite venue. Howard Theater. Of
Speaker 1: all the venues that we've done, UM is by far
Speaker 1: my favorite venue. Like I love the DC crowd, I
Speaker 1: love that upstairs downstairs vibe. I also like the venues
Speaker 1: that allow our wore Hive members to kind of. It's
Speaker 1: like a dinner on a show, like I like when
Speaker 1: they can eat and drink and um do those type
Speaker 1: of things. How well, speaking of drinking, however, about I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say it. I wasn't gonna say, Okay, you could
Speaker 1: say you could. I need to make sure it wasn't
Speaker 1: this person. Yeah, so don't don't call out that person,
Speaker 1: just call out the table. Well, then let me not
Speaker 1: say nothing someone that got on stage. Fine, someone that
Speaker 1: got on stage, but it might not be so know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Someone that got on stage was sitting
Speaker 1: at a table that ran out in the bill. And
Speaker 1: when I tell you also real quick, we know it's
Speaker 1: been wait, we know that it's been a pandemic. We
Speaker 1: know our tickets. You know. That's why we go above
Speaker 1: and beyond with really trying to give a really good show.
Speaker 1: But the first time ever that Weezy and I have
Speaker 1: been doing live shows, we've been doing live shows since.
Speaker 1: By the way, I wasn't I wasn't baras. So thenn
Speaker 1: he comes down and he's like, girl, like five tables
Speaker 1: walked out on their bill, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: to be fair too. The server was new, so he
Speaker 1: probably wasn't. I was gonna say, maybe everybody else seemed
Speaker 1: to have closed out before him. Yeah, But at the
Speaker 1: same time, I'll wait and be mad that somebody's taking
Speaker 1: so long with my bill before. So I did feel
Speaker 1: really bad for him in that instance. But here's the thing, y'all,
Speaker 1: I don't know when y'all stopped sneaking liquor into places.
Speaker 1: Did I implore you to do so if you think
Speaker 1: there could be a moment that you will run out
Speaker 1: on your tab. The last time I remember seeing some
Speaker 1: ship like this happened, I was at a fucking steak
Speaker 1: and shake prom night. Nigga, I'm not used to this sheet.
Speaker 1: I am not used to this ghetto sheet. And we
Speaker 1: all ready to black shop.