Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second day. Remember, if you want a second
Speaker 1: date up date, all you have to do is email
Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.
Speaker 1: We will call the person that didn't call you back.
Speaker 1: Our second data today is named Joe. His email said
Speaker 1: simply that he's very confused. Joe. Hey, what's up? Joe? Hey? Guys, le'
Speaker 1: going good man? How are you? Dude? Okay? Doing okay?
Speaker 1: Before we get into your confused date? I want to
Speaker 1: get to know Joe right now. We can worry about
Speaker 1: Lisa later. Why don't you tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about yourself? Joe Well, I am thirty four years old.
Speaker 1: I sell life insurance. I lay the drums cool. I
Speaker 1: like to go to karaoke bar sometimes. I like to
Speaker 1: see the Journey cash that's one of my favorite nice choice.
Speaker 1: And uh I'm not that religious. Okay, let's about it.
Speaker 1: I feel like I just read your match dot com
Speaker 1: profile and you know what sending you a message? Interested
Speaker 1: in going out? He just got loud. Now. Your email
Speaker 1: said that you went out on kind of a blind
Speaker 1: date with a girl named Lisa for drinks and you're
Speaker 1: very confused. Why are you confused? Joe? Well? It went,
Speaker 1: it went well, and she's not returned my phone calls
Speaker 1: or my text messages. Okay, can you give us a
Speaker 1: little more information, Joe? What is this girl like? She
Speaker 1: into you? She was very nice, she was very pretty.
Speaker 1: We made eye contact a lot when she was talking
Speaker 1: to me and when she was listening to me, which
Speaker 1: is very refreshing. It's a good sign when people look
Speaker 1: you in the eye. Joe, do you do you tend
Speaker 1: to be maybe a little uncomfortable in social situations. Ever.
Speaker 1: I don't like really large crowds, but I think in
Speaker 1: small social setting them I'm okay. So what did you
Speaker 1: do on the date? Um? Well, we just kind of
Speaker 1: talked and had drinks. Was there any awkward moments during
Speaker 1: the date? Rolls and the conversation? You know, I found
Speaker 1: myself trying to think of a couple of things to say.
Speaker 1: But then she randomly mentioned that she played pac Man
Speaker 1: when she was a little and she thought the video
Speaker 1: games were really easy. Yeah, and we just kind of
Speaker 1: got to talk about that, and I said, you know,
Speaker 1: if you want to, we could go play some, you know,
Speaker 1: right now. So we went to game Work. She's never
Speaker 1: been there, and Sunday we played video games for a
Speaker 1: little bit. That's cool, that's fun. It was a lot
Speaker 1: of fun. Did you guys get pretty competitive? Not really? No,
Speaker 1: you know we played the pac Man game and she
Speaker 1: she was okay at it. She wasn't you know, any
Speaker 1: kind of like what a turn off? Right? So why
Speaker 1: do you even want to call this girl back? So
Speaker 1: that sounds like an awesome day? Um, I think that
Speaker 1: she was just rusty, but um, but yeah, they probably
Speaker 1: We had a lot of fun. And then when I
Speaker 1: took her back to her car after that, I tried
Speaker 1: kind of going in for a kiss and she kind
Speaker 1: of let me know that it was too soon. Did
Speaker 1: she do that? She said it was true soon. She
Speaker 1: actually said that. Okay, I like a girl that's direct.
Speaker 1: And then she got out of the car and what
Speaker 1: did you say to each other? Hey, you know it
Speaker 1: was great, Maybe we should do this again. Well, in
Speaker 1: that awkward moment, I was like, okay, that's totally okay.
Speaker 1: And then I asked if if she'd want to hang
Speaker 1: out again next weekend and she said, oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: would love to. Uh. Then on Wednesday I called her
Speaker 1: around five thirty or so and then, uh, and I
Speaker 1: just I've never heard back from her. All right, it's
Speaker 1: an interesting one, especially because the date kept continuing. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like she tried to get out of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm confused. Oh sad, confused, Joe. Okay, Joe, give us
Speaker 1: about three and a half minutes to play a song.
Speaker 1: Come right back, call her and get your second date
Speaker 1: up date. Okay, okay, so good, all right, hang on
Speaker 1: man brooking jubile in the morning, seate. Okay, Joe, you're
Speaker 1: ready to give Lisa a call? Shadows if you weren't
Speaker 1: listening to the first part of the second day update.
Speaker 1: Joe went on sort of a blind date with Lisa
Speaker 1: and Kirkland. They had some drinks then went to game works.
Speaker 1: When Joe tried to kiss her at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, she said it was too soon. And Joe
Speaker 1: hasn't heard from her, sins. What's the worst thing she
Speaker 1: could say to you? I guess she said she didn't
Speaker 1: really have a good time and she was maybe acting
Speaker 1: or something. I guess that would not feel good. Okay,
Speaker 1: you tried to kiss her and she said hmm, yeah,
Speaker 1: but she didn't say never. She is said too soon.
Speaker 1: Sometimes that's a nice way of saying wait to look
Speaker 1: at the bright side though, Joe, Right, all right, We're
Speaker 1: gonna call Lisa right now. I'll get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and find out why she didn't get back to you. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: this should be very interesting. You're right, Joe. Hello? All right?
Speaker 1: Is Lisa there? Yeah? Speak Hey Lisa? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning
Speaker 1: on Moving ninety two point five. What's going on? Why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? Because I wanted to talk. I
Speaker 1: didn't expect I was going to be met with such rudeness, Lisa, Lisa,
Speaker 1: He's kidding, Lisa. I'm calling you because we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Do
Speaker 1: you know what that is? No, It's where let's say
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 1: after the date, you don't call them back, and they
Speaker 1: want to know what they did wrong. That's where we
Speaker 1: come in. We call you to find out why. Okay,
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a guy
Speaker 1: named Joe oh Man. Oh Man. Now you know I'm
Speaker 1: talking about right, Yeah. He seemed like a nice guy.
Speaker 1: He emailed us, and he just wants to know what
Speaker 1: he did on the date to make you not want
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with him. Um,
Speaker 1: you can just tell him that it wasn't really a match,
Speaker 1: that it wasn't a match. You just you just feel
Speaker 1: like you guys didn't click. Well, I mean, you meet
Speaker 1: people you know that you want to see again, and
Speaker 1: you meet people you don't want to see again, And
Speaker 1: I guess I don't want to see him again. So
Speaker 1: is there anything in particular that makes you not want
Speaker 1: to see him again? I mean, have you talk see him?
Speaker 1: We have. He seems like a nice enough guy. He's
Speaker 1: kind of boring, you know, but you continued the date.
Speaker 1: I mean he told us he went from drinks onto
Speaker 1: playing games at game works. Why would you continue the
Speaker 1: date longer if you were bored when we were at drinks.
Speaker 1: I mean I wanted to have my eye with a fork.
Speaker 1: It was bored. When he's like, oh, do you want
Speaker 1: to go play video games? I just thought yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean anything but sitting here for another twenty minutes long?
Speaker 1: So why not just like go, hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: maybe next time and then take off? I don't know,
Speaker 1: I thought maybe, you know, if we were doing something else,
Speaker 1: he might kind of come out of his shell or something.
Speaker 1: But the stuff he was talking about, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it was so boring. Can we hear an example, like
Speaker 1: we're talking about work and stuff and he goes on
Speaker 1: and on and on about insurance or something like how
Speaker 1: long do you want to talk about insurance? It was
Speaker 1: it was just an awful date. I was so bored awful.
Speaker 1: It was an awful date. I want to give her
Speaker 1: a fork to staborone I out talking about insurance. Guy, Well,
Speaker 1: I mean you could go out with him that. You
Speaker 1: also said it was too soon when he went in
Speaker 1: for a kiss after we went to the gaming place.
Speaker 1: He actually at the end of the day asked me
Speaker 1: to go to a wedding with him. What. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: our first day. At the end, she says, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I have this wedding coming up, but I don't know
Speaker 1: it was like in a week or two. And then
Speaker 1: he's like leaning in and I'm like, whoa too soon?
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Hey, Joe oh Man. Yeah, Lisa, I
Speaker 1: probably should have mentioned this to you before, but Joe's
Speaker 1: been on the phone the whole time listening to this conversation.
Speaker 1: What I would have never suggested video games had you
Speaker 1: not talked about them. And when I asked you if
Speaker 1: you've been to that place, you said, oh, no, I've
Speaker 1: never been there. With that interested eye, I would have
Speaker 1: never said, oh, hey, that's that's the video games. Joe
Speaker 1: had so much anger and I got to stop playing
Speaker 1: Vito games when I was seven. This because I did
Speaker 1: something when I was seven doesn't mean I want to
Speaker 1: go spend all night doing it out. I mean, how
Speaker 1: about next time you take a girl out, maybe try
Speaker 1: going somewhere that like grown up hang out, like go dancing,
Speaker 1: go to a club, do something you know grown up
Speaker 1: people do. Yeah, yeah, I know going to a clumb
Speaker 1: sounds really mature. You're right, yes, Joe. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know who's Lissa. They should call people back and just
Speaker 1: explain to them so they don't call a radio show
Speaker 1: to get information. Maybe you can just be honest with them,
Speaker 1: and maybe that would be my n for you who
Speaker 1: called the radio show to get the date back. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's the reasons I didn't call you back is because
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go with you. That is the
Speaker 1: message up, Hey, Lisa Violet, so quickly please. This is
Speaker 1: the point in the second day update where I want
Speaker 1: to ask Lisa if she'd be interested in going out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Joe, Lisa, we will pay
Speaker 1: for it. You can go out, learn about whole life insurance,
Speaker 1: whatever you want one more time if you go out
Speaker 1: with Joe again. Do you want to go out with
Speaker 1: Joe again? No? I mean I date men. You know
Speaker 1: I'm not sixteen. I don't want to go play video
Speaker 1: games with some guys. No, there's some fire between those two.
Speaker 1: I think that they're missing out in an opportunity. Hey, Joe,
Speaker 1: you got your answer. Man, she just thought you were boring.
Speaker 1: I got it. Anything in the future that you're going
Speaker 1: to do differently, Uh, well, I think that probably go
Speaker 1: up on Joe. He was boring me. I am We