WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Confused Gamer

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels second day. Remember, if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date, all you have to do is email

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<v Speaker 1>us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call the person that didn't call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Our second data today is named Joe. His email said

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<v Speaker 1>simply that he's very confused. Joe. Hey, what's up? Joe? Hey? Guys, le'

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<v Speaker 1>going good man? How are you? Dude? Okay? Doing okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get into your confused date? I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know Joe right now. We can worry about

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa later. Why don't you tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself? Joe Well, I am thirty four years old.

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<v Speaker 1>I sell life insurance. I lay the drums cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>like to go to karaoke bar sometimes. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>see the Journey cash that's one of my favorite nice choice.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh I'm not that religious. Okay, let's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I just read your match dot com

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<v Speaker 1>profile and you know what sending you a message? Interested

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<v Speaker 1>in going out? He just got loud. Now. Your email

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<v Speaker 1>said that you went out on kind of a blind

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<v Speaker 1>date with a girl named Lisa for drinks and you're

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<v Speaker 1>very confused. Why are you confused? Joe? Well? It went,

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<v Speaker 1>it went well, and she's not returned my phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>or my text messages. Okay, can you give us a

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<v Speaker 1>little more information, Joe? What is this girl like? She

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<v Speaker 1>into you? She was very nice, she was very pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>We made eye contact a lot when she was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me and when she was listening to me, which

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<v Speaker 1>is very refreshing. It's a good sign when people look

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<v Speaker 1>you in the eye. Joe, do you do you tend

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<v Speaker 1>to be maybe a little uncomfortable in social situations. Ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like really large crowds, but I think in

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<v Speaker 1>small social setting them I'm okay. So what did you

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<v Speaker 1>do on the date? Um? Well, we just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talked and had drinks. Was there any awkward moments during

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<v Speaker 1>the date? Rolls and the conversation? You know, I found

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<v Speaker 1>myself trying to think of a couple of things to say.

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<v Speaker 1>But then she randomly mentioned that she played pac Man

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<v Speaker 1>when she was a little and she thought the video

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<v Speaker 1>games were really easy. Yeah, and we just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got to talk about that, and I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to, we could go play some, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>right now. So we went to game Work. She's never

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<v Speaker 1>been there, and Sunday we played video games for a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. That's cool, that's fun. It was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. Did you guys get pretty competitive? Not really? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we played the pac Man game and she

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<v Speaker 1>she was okay at it. She wasn't you know, any

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like what a turn off? Right? So why

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<v Speaker 1>do you even want to call this girl back? So

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like an awesome day? Um, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>she was just rusty, but um, but yeah, they probably

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<v Speaker 1>We had a lot of fun. And then when I

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<v Speaker 1>took her back to her car after that, I tried

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<v Speaker 1>kind of going in for a kiss and she kind

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<v Speaker 1>of let me know that it was too soon. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she do that? She said it was true soon. She

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<v Speaker 1>actually said that. Okay, I like a girl that's direct.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she got out of the car and what

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<v Speaker 1>did you say to each other? Hey, you know it

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<v Speaker 1>was great, Maybe we should do this again. Well, in

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<v Speaker 1>that awkward moment, I was like, okay, that's totally okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I asked if if she'd want to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again next weekend and she said, oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to. Uh. Then on Wednesday I called her

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<v Speaker 1>around five thirty or so and then, uh, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just I've never heard back from her. All right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting one, especially because the date kept continuing. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like she tried to get out of it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. Oh sad, confused, Joe. Okay, Joe, give us

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<v Speaker 1>about three and a half minutes to play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>Come right back, call her and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, okay, so good, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>man brooking jubile in the morning, seate. Okay, Joe, you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to give Lisa a call? Shadows if you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>listening to the first part of the second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe went on sort of a blind date with Lisa

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<v Speaker 1>and Kirkland. They had some drinks then went to game works.

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<v Speaker 1>When Joe tried to kiss her at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, she said it was too soon. And Joe

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't heard from her, sins. What's the worst thing she

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<v Speaker 1>could say to you? I guess she said she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really have a good time and she was maybe acting

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I guess that would not feel good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to kiss her and she said hmm, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't say never. She is said too soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes that's a nice way of saying wait to look

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<v Speaker 1>at the bright side though, Joe, Right, all right, We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call Lisa right now. I'll get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out why she didn't get back to you. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this should be very interesting. You're right, Joe. Hello? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Lisa there? Yeah? Speak Hey Lisa? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning

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<v Speaker 1>on Moving ninety two point five. What's going on? Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? Because I wanted to talk. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't expect I was going to be met with such rudeness, Lisa, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>He's kidding, Lisa. I'm calling you because we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what that is? No, It's where let's say

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with somebody and then

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, you don't call them back, and they

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what they did wrong. That's where we

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<v Speaker 1>come in. We call you to find out why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Joe oh Man. Oh Man. Now you know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about right, Yeah. He seemed like a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He emailed us, and he just wants to know what

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<v Speaker 1>he did on the date to make you not want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date with him. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you can just tell him that it wasn't really a match,

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<v Speaker 1>that it wasn't a match. You just you just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys didn't click. Well, I mean, you meet

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<v Speaker 1>people you know that you want to see again, and

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<v Speaker 1>you meet people you don't want to see again, And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't want to see him again. So

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything in particular that makes you not want

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<v Speaker 1>to see him again? I mean, have you talk see him?

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<v Speaker 1>We have. He seems like a nice enough guy. He's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of boring, you know, but you continued the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he told us he went from drinks onto

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<v Speaker 1>playing games at game works. Why would you continue the

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<v Speaker 1>date longer if you were bored when we were at drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wanted to have my eye with a fork.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bored. When he's like, oh, do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go play video games? I just thought yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean anything but sitting here for another twenty minutes long?

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<v Speaker 1>So why not just like go, hey, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe next time and then take off? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe, you know, if we were doing something else,

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<v Speaker 1>he might kind of come out of his shell or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But the stuff he was talking about, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so boring. Can we hear an example, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about work and stuff and he goes on

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<v Speaker 1>and on and on about insurance or something like how

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<v Speaker 1>long do you want to talk about insurance? It was

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<v Speaker 1>it was just an awful date. I was so bored awful.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an awful date. I want to give her

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<v Speaker 1>a fork to staborone I out talking about insurance. Guy, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could go out with him that. You

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<v Speaker 1>also said it was too soon when he went in

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<v Speaker 1>for a kiss after we went to the gaming place.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually at the end of the day asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a wedding with him. What. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>our first day. At the end, she says, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have this wedding coming up, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>it was like in a week or two. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he's like leaning in and I'm like, whoa too soon?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding? Hey, Joe oh Man. Yeah, Lisa, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably should have mentioned this to you before, but Joe's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the phone the whole time listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>What I would have never suggested video games had you

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<v Speaker 1>not talked about them. And when I asked you if

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<v Speaker 1>you've been to that place, you said, oh, no, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been there. With that interested eye, I would have

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<v Speaker 1>never said, oh, hey, that's that's the video games. Joe

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<v Speaker 1>had so much anger and I got to stop playing

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<v Speaker 1>Vito games when I was seven. This because I did

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<v Speaker 1>something when I was seven doesn't mean I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go spend all night doing it out. I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>about next time you take a girl out, maybe try

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<v Speaker 1>going somewhere that like grown up hang out, like go dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>go to a club, do something you know grown up

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<v Speaker 1>people do. Yeah, yeah, I know going to a clumb

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<v Speaker 1>sounds really mature. You're right, yes, Joe. Okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who's Lissa. They should call people back and just

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<v Speaker 1>explain to them so they don't call a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>to get information. Maybe you can just be honest with them,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe that would be my n for you who

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<v Speaker 1>called the radio show to get the date back. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reasons I didn't call you back is because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go with you. That is the

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<v Speaker 1>message up, Hey, Lisa Violet, so quickly please. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the point in the second day update where I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask Lisa if she'd be interested in going out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Joe, Lisa, we will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. You can go out, learn about whole life insurance,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want one more time if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Joe again. Do you want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Joe again? No? I mean I date men. You know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sixteen. I don't want to go play video

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<v Speaker 1>games with some guys. No, there's some fire between those two.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that they're missing out in an opportunity. Hey, Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>you got your answer. Man, she just thought you were boring.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. Anything in the future that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do differently, Uh, well, I think that probably go

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<v Speaker 1>up on Joe. He was boring me. I am We