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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second day. Remember, if you want a second

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Speaker 1: date up date, all you have to do is email

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Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person that didn't call you back.

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Speaker 1: Our second data today is named Joe. His email said

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Speaker 1: simply that he's very confused. Joe. Hey, what's up? Joe? Hey? Guys, le'

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Speaker 1: going good man? How are you? Dude? Okay? Doing okay?

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Speaker 1: Before we get into your confused date? I want to

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Speaker 1: get to know Joe right now. We can worry about

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Speaker 1: Lisa later. Why don't you tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about yourself? Joe Well, I am thirty four years old.

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Speaker 1: I sell life insurance. I lay the drums cool. I

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Speaker 1: like to go to karaoke bar sometimes. I like to

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Speaker 1: see the Journey cash that's one of my favorite nice choice.

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Speaker 1: And uh I'm not that religious. Okay, let's about it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I just read your match dot com

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Speaker 1: profile and you know what sending you a message? Interested

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Speaker 1: in going out? He just got loud. Now. Your email

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Speaker 1: said that you went out on kind of a blind

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Speaker 1: date with a girl named Lisa for drinks and you're

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Speaker 1: very confused. Why are you confused? Joe? Well? It went,

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Speaker 1: it went well, and she's not returned my phone calls

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Speaker 1: or my text messages. Okay, can you give us a

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Speaker 1: little more information, Joe? What is this girl like? She

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Speaker 1: into you? She was very nice, she was very pretty.

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Speaker 1: We made eye contact a lot when she was talking

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Speaker 1: to me and when she was listening to me, which

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Speaker 1: is very refreshing. It's a good sign when people look

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Speaker 1: you in the eye. Joe, do you do you tend

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Speaker 1: to be maybe a little uncomfortable in social situations. Ever.

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Speaker 1: I don't like really large crowds, but I think in

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Speaker 1: small social setting them I'm okay. So what did you

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Speaker 1: do on the date? Um? Well, we just kind of

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Speaker 1: talked and had drinks. Was there any awkward moments during

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Speaker 1: myself trying to think of a couple of things to say.

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Speaker 1: But then she randomly mentioned that she played pac Man

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Speaker 1: games were really easy. Yeah, and we just kind of

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Speaker 1: got to talk about that, and I said, you know,

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Speaker 1: if you want to, we could go play some, you know,

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Speaker 1: right now. So we went to game Work. She's never

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Speaker 1: been there, and Sunday we played video games for a

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Speaker 1: little bit. That's cool, that's fun. It was a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun. Did you guys get pretty competitive? Not really? No,

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Speaker 1: you know we played the pac Man game and she

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Speaker 1: she was okay at it. She wasn't you know, any

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Speaker 1: kind of like what a turn off? Right? So why

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Speaker 1: do you even want to call this girl back? So

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Speaker 1: that sounds like an awesome day? Um, I think that

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Speaker 1: she was just rusty, but um, but yeah, they probably

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Speaker 1: We had a lot of fun. And then when I

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Speaker 1: of let me know that it was too soon. Did

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Speaker 1: she do that? She said it was true soon. She

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Speaker 1: And then she got out of the car and what

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Speaker 1: was great, Maybe we should do this again. Well, in

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Speaker 1: And then I asked if if she'd want to hang

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Speaker 1: an interesting one, especially because the date kept continuing. It

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Speaker 1: I'm confused. Oh sad, confused, Joe. Okay, Joe, give us

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Speaker 1: about three and a half minutes to play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come right back, call her and get your second date

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Speaker 1: up date. Okay, okay, so good, all right, hang on

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Speaker 1: man brooking jubile in the morning, seate. Okay, Joe, you're

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Speaker 1: ready to give Lisa a call? Shadows if you weren't

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Speaker 1: Joe went on sort of a blind date with Lisa

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Speaker 1: and Kirkland. They had some drinks then went to game works.

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Speaker 1: When Joe tried to kiss her at the end of

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Speaker 1: you tried to kiss her and she said hmm, yeah,

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Speaker 1: at the bright side though, Joe, Right, all right, We're

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Speaker 1: this should be very interesting. You're right, Joe. Hello? All right?

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Speaker 1: Is Lisa there? Yeah? Speak Hey Lisa? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning

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Speaker 1: on Moving ninety two point five. What's going on? Why

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Speaker 1: are you calling me? Because I wanted to talk. I

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Speaker 1: didn't expect I was going to be met with such rudeness, Lisa, Lisa,

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Speaker 1: He's kidding, Lisa. I'm calling you because we do a

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Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Do

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Speaker 1: you know what that is? No, It's where let's say

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Speaker 1: after the date, you don't call them back, and they

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Speaker 1: want to know what they did wrong. That's where we

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Speaker 1: come in. We call you to find out why. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a guy

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Speaker 1: named Joe oh Man. Oh Man. Now you know I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about right, Yeah. He seemed like a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: He emailed us, and he just wants to know what

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Speaker 1: he did on the date to make you not want

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Speaker 1: is there anything in particular that makes you not want

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Speaker 1: So why not just like go, hey, you know what,

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Speaker 1: But the stuff he was talking about, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it was just an awful date. I was so bored awful.

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Speaker 1: a fork to staborone I out talking about insurance. Guy, Well,

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Speaker 1: He actually at the end of the day asked me

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Hey, Joe oh Man. Yeah, Lisa, I

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Speaker 1: probably should have mentioned this to you before, but Joe's

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Speaker 1: What I would have never suggested video games had you

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Speaker 1: had so much anger and I got to stop playing

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Speaker 1: Vito games when I was seven. This because I did

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Speaker 1: something when I was seven doesn't mean I want to

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Speaker 1: about next time you take a girl out, maybe try

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Speaker 1: going somewhere that like grown up hang out, like go dancing,

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Speaker 1: sounds really mature. You're right, yes, Joe. Okay, I don't

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Speaker 1: know who's Lissa. They should call people back and just

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Speaker 1: message up, Hey, Lisa Violet, so quickly please. This is

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Speaker 1: to ask Lisa if she'd be interested in going out

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Speaker 1: on a second date with Joe, Lisa, we will pay

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Speaker 1: for it. You can go out, learn about whole life insurance,

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Speaker 1: whatever you want one more time if you go out

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Speaker 1: Joe again? No? I mean I date men. You know

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Speaker 1: I'm not sixteen. I don't want to go play video

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Speaker 1: games with some guys. No, there's some fire between those two.

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Speaker 1: I think that they're missing out in an opportunity. Hey, Joe,

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Speaker 1: you got your answer. Man, she just thought you were boring.

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Speaker 1: I got it. Anything in the future that you're going

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Speaker 1: to do differently, Uh, well, I think that probably go

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