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Speaker 1: My friend demands I become a stay at home mom.

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Speaker 1: I want to end our friendship. End it, end it.

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Speaker 1: It's get it over, Hi, everybody.

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Speaker 2: I've been watching a channel for a while and I thought,

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Speaker 2: even though it's not a typical marriagelash wedding time drama,

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Speaker 2: I share my story with the community.

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Speaker 1: We love that.

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Speaker 2: By the way, there's a Thoroway account that me and

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Speaker 2: my friends are using to get this off our chest.

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Speaker 2: And English is not my first language, so it might

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Speaker 2: be a bit tad had bad.

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Speaker 1: And explaining us.

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Speaker 2: But this comes from flaky commercials seven to one seven

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Speaker 2: but they are slash okay story tom channel sub Reddit.

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Speaker 1: Just kidd it. So I twenty seven app have been

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Speaker 1: friends with Alice fake named twenty eighth female for a

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Speaker 1: like Sophia. That's as long as you've had allergies.

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Speaker 2: Tragically, we basically met at our local park as children.

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Speaker 3: It is looking at the allergies.

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Speaker 2: What dude, This is actually a euphemism, Alice. It is

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Speaker 2: is the allergy in her allergy. I meane Alice allergies.

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Speaker 2: That works pretty well.

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Speaker 3: Alice short for ol.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Good job, Sophia. This is very poetic. Thank you to

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Speaker 1: put things into perspective. Me and Alice as are quite

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Speaker 1: literally the opposites.

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Speaker 2: She is the cute, gorgeous, sweet, social, all girly type

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Speaker 2: who always wanted a peaceful life with a lovely husband

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Speaker 2: to whom she could be the wife and children to

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Speaker 2: the perfection. I am kind of plain, shy, super academically

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Speaker 2: career for herself with no real focus at least pronounced

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Speaker 2: on the whole putting a family together thing. This difference

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Speaker 2: in goals has never been a problem, quite the opposite. Really,

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Speaker 2: we had different skills, and while she helped me learn

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Speaker 2: how to take care of myself, create more meaningful connections

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Speaker 2: with others, and be more comfortable in my femininity, I

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Speaker 2: helped her through school and encourage her to still invest

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Speaker 2: in education and personal growth outside of her role towards

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Speaker 2: other people.

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Speaker 5: Sounds great, It sounds like a does it sound like

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Speaker 5: me and win?

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Speaker 4: Waiting?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like a loose, loose scenario. Actually win for

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Speaker 2: the allergies. The allergies are oh, almost almost a year

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Speaker 2: and a half ago, my best friend's then boyfriend, thirty

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Speaker 2: one male, proposed to her, and she, of course happily accepted,

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Speaker 2: excitedly diving into a wedding prep as if being a

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Speaker 2: bride was what she was meant for her whole life.

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Speaker 5: Hey, John, can you get rid of the the text.

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Speaker 1: Thing on the bottom? Yes? Uh boom, thank gotcha, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Her wedding preparations went pretty smoothly, and in a record

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Speaker 2: time of six months, the couple tied the knot in

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Speaker 2: a wonderful ceremony that I was able to enjoy as

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Speaker 2: a bridesmaid.

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Speaker 1: We gotta love it.

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Speaker 3: Hep this. It's like everything's great at this friendship.

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Speaker 1: Nothing's gonna go wrong, nothing can go wrong, just like

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Speaker 1: you analergies. Everything is there's nothing.

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Speaker 3: Wrong in harmony, just like Alice in op.

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Speaker 2: Exactly after that milestone is reached, they started immediately trying

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Speaker 2: for children, which led to her finding out that she

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Speaker 2: was pregnant three months ago.

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Speaker 1: She is speed running this whole way.

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Speaker 3: She got married in six months.

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Speaker 2: So apparently the idea of becoming a mother made my

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Speaker 2: bff quote unquote rethink her priorities and reevaluate for relationships,

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Speaker 2: and then in turn led her to ask to talk

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Speaker 2: to me urgently for some very important matters.

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Speaker 5: In a surprise, big surprise, and she got twins that

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Speaker 5: would be a good spread.

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Speaker 2: When I got to her how she immediately started telling

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Speaker 2: me about how she always envisioned her future to be

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Speaker 2: a certain way, and now that motherhood is near, it

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Speaker 2: made her realize that in order to live the happy

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Speaker 2: life that she always wanted, she needs needs to surround herself.

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Speaker 1: With some other stay at home moms with.

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Speaker 5: Whom she can share her experience.

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Speaker 3: Well, she could just go to a mom in.

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Speaker 2: A neat boss, or she could convert everyone around her

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Speaker 2: to be single moms.

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Speaker 4: I guess that is also another thing that you can do, right.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's the best choice, but it

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Speaker 2: Sophia, do you think it's easier to convince a stranger

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Speaker 2: want to have a kid to have a kid?

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Speaker 3: Ooh, exactly, I guess those are a hard obses.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so now, up until this point, I saw no issue,

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Speaker 2: as I totally agree that having some people surrounding you

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Speaker 2: with them through the experiences of mother had seen nothing

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Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, you should wind more breadth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you should do that, which like just go

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Speaker 2: tom like a mommy group, make make momread.

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Speaker 5: No one will like you.

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Speaker 1: M yeah, maybe she just saw maybe Alice is already tried.

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Speaker 4: She went to the mommy mee groups and no one

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Speaker 1: The other moms are alerted to her call back.

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Speaker 2: The problem began when she started stating that because of

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Speaker 1: We was tod birch.

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Speaker 2: Because any other life lifestyle would be distracting for her. Obviously,

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Speaker 2: at this point, I uh and says I am not

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Speaker 2: wanting to beat herround the bush. I blowly asked her

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Speaker 2: if she was going to give me an ultimatum, basically.

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Speaker 3: Telling me, isn't even American or like, have no partner.

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming no, because she said I'm prioritizing my career

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Speaker 1: She's like, I don't want to have aim.

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Speaker 4: So Alice is like, you have to find a partner.

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Speaker 4: This is like how to lose it to guy in

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Speaker 4: ten days but it's how to get a husband and

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Speaker 4: also a child.

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Speaker 2: If you think about it, there the chances are high

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Speaker 2: that she could get pregnant that day.

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Speaker 1: It's true, it's it's totally possible.

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Speaker 3: It's entirely.

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Speaker 1: If you believe her.

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Speaker 3: I tried really hard, well, didn't try it all.

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Speaker 2: So basically telling me to give up on what I

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Speaker 3: But what's the timeframe here?

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Speaker 1: Immediately? As soon as possible, like today soon?

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Speaker 3: She like, I'm saying, like she has nine months, Well.

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Speaker 2: You need to get pregnant today, and then as long

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Speaker 2: as you get pregnant today, then I'll give you nine months.

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Speaker 1: But like, if that doesn't happen, I need to.

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Speaker 3: Know what Alice's timeline is. She like, catch up with

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Speaker 1: And it took it took my mom twelve months to

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Speaker 2: Infamously, and I still couldn't get out at.

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Speaker 1: A sea section had assuming that he was crawling sun there.

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Speaker 1: You hate the that's what she says. That's what she said, what.

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Speaker 3: You're doing in there?

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Speaker 1: It was warm and great. It was great.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, you want me to get down this

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Speaker 1: John's a johnsa late grower. Wait, what do you call that?

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Speaker 1: Late blue light bloomer head? Dude. I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: to ploty until he was like six, bro, like three

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Speaker 2: Anyways, So to say I was heard by what she

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Speaker 1: Scared it would be too hard to catch up with her.

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Speaker 2: At this point, I mean she is going pretty bad

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Speaker 2: I was not really interested.

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Speaker 1: That there was not a priority for me right now. Again,

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Speaker 2: Was just speaking out of the fear of the journey

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Speaker 2: I found the father of your child already.

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Speaker 3: She arranged a whole So she was like, I got

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Speaker 1: Why well through this whole?

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Speaker 1: Potential fathers about I didn't What are you doing here? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Why spend years wasting your tie? Like? Oh, are we compatible?

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Speaker 1: Can we build a good relationship incation together?

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Speaker 5: Streamline today today?

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Speaker 3: See that's what we're streamlining right now with the bone.

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Speaker 3: Why not streamline?

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Speaker 2: We haven't pregnant our live stream with So the peak

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Speaker 1: Goodness.

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Speaker 2: She went on rambling about her plans. I kept on

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Speaker 2: telling her that I wasn't interested, which she kept dismissing.

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Speaker 1: Over and over again.

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Speaker 3: You can give this guy a chance.

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Speaker 1: Now, that's what we're saying. Listen, have a ten minute conversation.

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Speaker 1: That's all the time you need.

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Speaker 4: Everyone knows winning can't be picky.

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Speaker 1: You settle immediately. You look at him.

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Speaker 2: Good, good, ago, done, done, going on about how I

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Speaker 2: Although disappointed and quite frankly pissed, I kept my composure

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Speaker 2: She had invited her husband's brother to basically force me

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Speaker 2: to have a date with him right.

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Speaker 1: Then and there.

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Speaker 3: Immediate blind day.

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Speaker 2: We were literally joking, but this woman is literally efficiency

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Speaker 2: trying to like, hey, you guys, just get like married tonight,

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Speaker 2: like I could totally. I just got my license to

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Speaker 1: With my life.

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Speaker 2: Admittedly I would a bit rogue, being very mean to

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Speaker 1: Crap about her life choices. Dam all the while I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, throw her down a hole to where she never returns.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine your friends saying that to you, jump

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Speaker 1: No, being like, oh, I have this perfect guy for you.

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Speaker 3: And then they're like, you need to be born again too.

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Speaker 4: My best friend didn't come to my wedding, so I

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Speaker 4: We'll call him Dennis. We All, the Dennis the Medas

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Speaker 4: no longer able to have our wedding as planned. We're distraught,

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Speaker 3: We came to terms with it just was infant to be.

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Speaker 4: As the years went by, Jane and I started thinking

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Speaker 4: We decided to help each other by being each other's donors.

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Speaker 3: Dennis is Dennis right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, eugh.

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Speaker 4: We war to each other. We will always be there

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Speaker 4: to invite James. We make it clear, although he'll be there,

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Speaker 4: do not abandon us. At least on the day of

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Speaker 4: abandon them for James. Dennis started talking to Jame's They

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Speaker 3: We had planned events.

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Speaker 4: He promised nothing like that would happen. It did, Dennis.

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Speaker 4: He was doing so well, Dennis. He didn't even spend

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Speaker 5: To do the do Why is he telling everyone about it?

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Speaker 4: Use the excuse of a belly ache, oh elidin and

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Speaker 4: we got back. He understood and apologized. Dennis starts flying

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Speaker 4: to Florida at least once, if not twice, a month

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Speaker 4: to visit James at a long distance. The world finally

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Speaker 4: started to open up again. Jane and I book a

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Speaker 4: submissions to be wed at one of the concerts be applied.

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Speaker 3: WHOA wait, they're gonna.

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Speaker 4: You you rid at the concert's. Oh no, okay, we

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Speaker 1: is great.

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Speaker 3: We were bummed.

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Speaker 4: We joked about getting married anyway. The joke then turned into, well,

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Speaker 3: Distance.

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Speaker 4: The world finally started to open up again, and Jane

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Speaker 3: The event gold submissions to be wet at one of

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Speaker 5: We didn't get it.

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Speaker 3: We were bummed.

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Speaker 4: We joked bout getting married anyway in Vegas, a little

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Speaker 4: just look into it. The numbers worked, We looked into logistics.

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Speaker 4: We asked Dennis what he thought. He encouraged I asked

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Speaker 3: Sounds like maybe James is his.

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Speaker 5: Thevers that part sound off.

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Speaker 4: So Jade and I get to put in everything together

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Speaker 4: Thursday evening.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what is he doing? Why does he

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Speaker 5: Well, look, look, I will just travel back. Your wedding

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be there.

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Speaker 1: I'll just take an over there.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be checking some luggage, but I'll be there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry. Like they're like the path of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have like like I.

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Speaker 2: Have like all these points, you know, I'm like platinum

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Speaker 2: status exactly.

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Speaker 3: What's that one of the things.

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Speaker 5: That has Oh he has a platinum card, like the

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Speaker 5: world trip.

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Speaker 1: We're down.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so Jane and only get to putting everything

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Speaker 4: together and finalized. Dennis tells us he booked a trip

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Speaker 4: Thursday evening. Do I say your joke again?

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Speaker 1: What was way dope?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, You're getting married Thursday at seven pm. My flight

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Speaker 1: lands at six pm.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm platinum, satus free.

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Speaker 1: I'm a CERTI byte free, a seven days a week.

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Speaker 1: I'll be able to make it.

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Speaker 2: I let my free flag fly on the plane and.

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Speaker 4: I to think it's still make it to be flying

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Speaker 4: for his next shift on Saturday. Due to the time change,

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00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,680
Speaker 4: he would make the wedding in time. We are getting

451
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 4: married until eight pm, Vegas time anyway, He says yes,

452
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 4: but he has to run it by James. Dennis doesn't

453
00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,720
Speaker 4: want to make Jane's upset. I keep asking Dennis for

454
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 4: an answer so I can buy.

455
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 5: His plane ticket.

456
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 3: He keeps assuring me it's a yes, but he needs

457
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 3: to clear it with James. It's the week of the wedding.

458
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,119
Speaker 3: He has yet to give me a hard yes. He leaves.

459
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 3: I asked to talk with James asap.

460
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, get James online.

461
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 4: Dennis knows he's the only person I asked to be there.

462
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,159
Speaker 4: One of Jane's best friends was going to be there

463
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 4: as they were attending the festival with us, so I

464
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 4: told Dennis it was the upmost importance for him to

465
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 4: be there so I can have someone there for me.

466
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 4: Families were going to watch me a live stream, but

467
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 4: I wanted at least one person for me there physically,

468
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 4: and he was the only one with availability. I scoured

469
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,720
Speaker 4: all the sites to find a fight with him that

470
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 4: works with both of our times. I found the best

471
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 4: option for more plus it's Wednesday. I called Dennis. I

472
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 4: called to till Dennis I found a flight. Instead of

473
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,200
Speaker 4: him leaving Jans at seven pm, he leaves at two pm,

474
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 4: gets to Vegas by five pm, and will make our

475
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 4: wedding by eight pm.

476
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 1: See with the old cart effects.

477
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Speaker 3: We had a hotel.

478
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Speaker 5: Can you give us a til dr whenever you have

479
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Speaker 5: a moment.

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00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm going to do it after this one. We

481
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 3: had a hotel.

482
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,919
Speaker 4: He said he didn't have money to pay for his

483
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 4: check bag on the way back home. I offered to

484
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,160
Speaker 4: cover all the cost. He said he would think about it.

485
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 4: Wednesday comes around, he texted saying he wouldn't be able

486
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 4: to make it. He never talked to James because he

487
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 4: felt it would be unjust for him to leave earlier

488
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 4: than they implanned. I told that you're still leaving the

489
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 4: same day, just five hours earlier. He didn't text me back.

490
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 4: I'm starting to second guess if he was just my

491
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 4: best friend and I was not his. He knew how

492
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 4: I don't make friends easy, let alone let anyone in

493
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 4: behind my walls and teal dr real quick, Op, he

494
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 4: has this best friend what oh I.

495
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: Said, perfect, hell, we need a teal dr.

496
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,440
Speaker 3: Teal dr.

497
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,880
Speaker 4: Op has his best friend or their wife, Ohki's wife

498
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 4: and hers best friend who is like, they're gonna be their.

499
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 3: Sperm dinner is lives with them.

500
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 4: And all that jazz, and OPI is about to get

501
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 4: married in Vegas and it was like, hey, I want

502
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 4: you there.

503
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: Can you be there? And this friend was like, yeah, yeah,

504
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 3: I'll be there. I'll be there, and.

505
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 4: Op kept like checking in saying like, hey, I'm gonna

506
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 4: buy the tickets. Thursday comes, I throw one last Hail

507
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 4: Mary to have him there. I offered to pay the flights,

508
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 4: the check bag the ubers to and from the airports.

509
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 4: Offered to take him to get a dress shirt when

510
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 4: he lands he said he didn't pack clothes for it.

511
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 4: Offered him to stay at the hotel the whole night

512
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 4: after we get married, since we'll be at concerts.

513
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 3: He's still said.

514
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 4: No, he's just not your friend at that point, right,

515
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 4: like he's bad I was straight up gone. I was shattered.

516
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 4: I felt disposable, tossed aside. After my sad, hurt feelings

517
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 4: stepped away, my anger and bitter feelings came through. I

518
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: told him I couldn't believe he would toss a seven

519
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 4: year friendship down the drain for some da You aren't

520
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 4: even leaving a day early. It's only four hours difference

521
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: from her fight. I told him, if he really was

522
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 4: not coming, then he could ignore me and never talk

523
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: to me again.

524
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 1: Damn guarding them.

525
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 3: We live with each other. He tried to say.

526
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 4: I cut him off and stated, you will be dead

527
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 4: to me even so, Oh my god. I guess he

528
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 4: thought I was kidding, as he really did not go

529
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 4: to Vegas, didn't even join molas stream.

530
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 3: When Jaye and I got back, company find to talk.

531
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 4: To me, and I simply ignored him, never acknowledged him,

532
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 4: spoke around him, and never to him. He was so

533
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 4: uncomfortable from it that he moved out.

534
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 3: Before elease was up.

535
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 4: Other way, you can George the Slave on YouTube every

536
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 4: weekday at three p episode of this Ended Time Just

537
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 4: dumber Bobo. I guess it all happened as it should,

538
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 4: because a couple months later, Jane and I got custody

539
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 4: of my nephew.

540
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 3: And he moved in. Oh my god, am I the

541
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 3: a hole.

542
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 4: It's been almost three years since this happened, and I

543
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 4: yet to talk to him again. He still talks to Jane.

544
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 4: Supposedly he misses me, but I wouldn't know. Some people

545
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 4: say I was.

546
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 3: Too harsh for him.

547
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 4: Healed your teal dr Opie's close opian, her now wife's

548
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 4: best friend Dennis slash roommate, who was going to be

549
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 4: like the sperm donor. They asked him to come to

550
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 4: the wedding and he was like, yeah, yeah, I'll be

551
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 4: there and then didn't come just because he was like

552
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 4: with his boyfriend.

553
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: Well he did come, but not there.

554
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 4: Not there, and so she cut him off. She was

555
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 4: like snapped out him, was like you you're dead to me,

556
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 4: and then got custody or for nephew, so she didn't

557
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 4: even need him to be sperm donor.

558
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: Can I drop a possibly controversial thought take, Yeah, I'm

559
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 2: getting some everyone's the lawyer.

560
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 5: I think it really sucks here is that?

561
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 3: I I think that was really really art.

562
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: You're dead to me.

563
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 5: You're dead, like I mean, I feel like you can.

564
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: Like hey, look, you know, this isn't what I run

565
00:24:58,440 --> 00:24:58,959
Speaker 1: in a friendship.

566
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 4: You're not You're like, yeah, that was That was harsh

567
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 4: instead of crazy.

568
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. I think.

569
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 4: I think absolutely you have the right to drop him

570
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 4: as a friend because he's not showing up for you.

571
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: But I angry, that's kind of banana.

572
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 3: It was a little bit harsh.

573
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I would ever say I.

574
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 3: Don't think I would ever say that to anyone.

575
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: Yeah,