WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bidding On Brandy

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>We've heard of people going to extreme links on this

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<v Speaker 2>podcast to get another shot with somebody, But man, did

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<v Speaker 2>this guy take it too far?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>We were all yeah, yeah, yeah, So take it as

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<v Speaker 2>it is. Yeah, your brand new episode is about to start.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for finding the official Second Date Podcast. It's

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Before we get to it,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you see in comments? Lexis, Yeah, there's coming

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<v Speaker 2>to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone coming to another second date and said this one

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<v Speaker 2>was wild, but not as wild as Jeff's claim of

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<v Speaker 2>being with two women in his frat house.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, maybe the two women were together. Yeah, definitely not.

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<v Speaker 4>He's gonna hate me for saying this. I saw him

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<v Speaker 4>with two women. They were consoling him because he got

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<v Speaker 4>too drunk.

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<v Speaker 5>So.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds more accurate.

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<v Speaker 4>Night.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, hey, thank you so much for being here.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to start your brand new episode right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>In the eighties and nineties, persistence won the dating game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a young man standing outside your bedroom window holding up

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<v Speaker 1>a boom box in the rain while playing your favorite song.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah that got the girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>In today's day and age, he gets a taser from

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<v Speaker 1>both the front and the back for that type of move.

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<v Speaker 1>So can you be persistent without being creepy?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Well, can you respect boundaries? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's the fine line our listener, Noah, though, had

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<v Speaker 1>to walk and now even he's not getting a callback.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's find out more about it. Noah, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Noah, if persistence is the issue here, we should

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<v Speaker 2>not be on the phone with you. We are only

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<v Speaker 2>going to make matters worse. See what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe, but let's find out how persistent and what he

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<v Speaker 1>means by that. Tell us who you met and how

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<v Speaker 1>that happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I met this really beautiful girl off of Riyah.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Brandy O.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait is it Riyah? Remind me alexis Raya is the

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<v Speaker 2>one where you have to be. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>be a celebrity. You just have to be someone who's

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<v Speaker 2>qualified enough.

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<v Speaker 5>If you don't know about Riya, you don't deserve to

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<v Speaker 5>know about.

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<v Speaker 2>It like you used to.

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<v Speaker 3>But now it's like, okay, that's open to everyone. The

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<v Speaker 3>floodgates have opened on Ryah.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't make enough money on single time I saw

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<v Speaker 2>like two people from my high school. Yeah, I mean it's.

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<v Speaker 5>All gone to hell.

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<v Speaker 1>So I tell us more about this wonderful woman you

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<v Speaker 1>said Brandy was her name.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, her name is Brandy and it took me like

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<v Speaker 3>two months to get a date with her, Like whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>We would chat on the app like every day, and

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<v Speaker 3>she's busy, she says, she's like in and out of

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<v Speaker 3>town for business. And then finally she says, Okay, you've

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<v Speaker 3>asked me out like thirty times now or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 3>she agreed to a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So that's the persistence that paid off. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>were just patient on the apps. You didn't give up exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, See, alexis not you wear them down till

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<v Speaker 1>they have no choice but to say yes, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Could have walked me at any time or like on that.

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<v Speaker 5>But she didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>She agreed to meet up with you. So what did

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<v Speaker 5>you guys do?

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<v Speaker 3>So I booked a really nice restaurant for dinner and

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<v Speaker 3>we met there and she shows up and looks incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling in that moment, because this is

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<v Speaker 2>like two months of build up to this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in that moment, I was like, oh wow, I

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<v Speaker 3>really scored.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh good, that's cute. So the dates already off to

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<v Speaker 5>a good start.

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<v Speaker 1>But what about aside from her like physical beauty, what

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<v Speaker 1>was your connection?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I thought it was pretty strong. I mean there

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<v Speaker 3>were definitely some good and some not so good parts

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<v Speaker 3>of the day. Like okay, so she's.

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<v Speaker 5>A dreamer like me, Like she's a dreamer not so good? Nice?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, like for me, like, you know, I want

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<v Speaker 3>a water view, I want big feelings, I want big

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<v Speaker 3>closet's Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh you're dreaming about your dream house. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the gold things that came.

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<v Speaker 5>Up on your date.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, but that's fun to talk about.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But then the not so good was like she seemed distracted,

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<v Speaker 3>like she was checking her phone a lot, and like,

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's probably because her business has been going

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<v Speaker 3>really well lately. That's why she's like in and out

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<v Speaker 3>of town. So she like said she acquires fashion merchandising

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<v Speaker 3>or something like that. I don't really know, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It does sound like one of those jobs that you're like, cool,

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds amazing. I have no questions because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you're a drug dealer.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm kidding, Okay, okay, I mean it sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, in the two months leading up to this date,

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<v Speaker 2>she was in and out of town for work. She

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<v Speaker 2>may be one of those people that are just literally

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<v Speaker 2>on the job twenty four seven.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like those people on Disneyland that are still making

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<v Speaker 4>deals on this Yeah, because they have to totally.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, like I tried to asking a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>questions about her, you know, and the date ended with

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<v Speaker 3>a hug and she grabbed an uber and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but now she doesn't respond to text, so like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. I mean, it took two months for me

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<v Speaker 3>to like finally get a date with her, and now

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<v Speaker 3>I want I know what she actually thought.

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<v Speaker 4>It's weird because nothing stands out like this could be

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<v Speaker 4>a good or a bad date.

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<v Speaker 6>Like it was like a normal typical there were good things, there.

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<v Speaker 2>Were have you have you waited a week for her response,

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<v Speaker 2>because that seems like that was the that was the five.

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<v Speaker 1>To seven business days between text messages.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't wait a week, but I waited like two days.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's only been two days since your date?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, no, now it's been a week.

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<v Speaker 2>I see two days to text her and now you

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<v Speaker 2>have Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I see it was not a bad timeline.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever talk about future on your date? I

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<v Speaker 2>mean you were talking about dreams. Did any of them

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<v Speaker 2>include both of you?

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<v Speaker 5>Like marriage? Is that what you mean, broke?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like what you're doing on your next date

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<v Speaker 2>or what are you looking for on riot?

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<v Speaker 5>On a honeymoon sort of situation.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we're both interested in like a relationship. That

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<v Speaker 3>was That's the sense that I got, But like we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't got like really specific about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, but that's a sense you got.

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<v Speaker 6>You don't to spell everything out on date one.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you are planning a dream home together, that

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<v Speaker 1>does feel like you're planning for the future.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean you are thinking about your down payment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she was upset at the number of bathrooms you

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<v Speaker 2>had planned.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you are dreaming big enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I mean, yeah, we did talk about clauset.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, I hope you didn't say you wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>share one.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm not Alexis. I'm curious to hear your take.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about the date that he just described?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she's out of town a lot Riot is

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<v Speaker 2>like mostly DJs that live all over the world.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe did that ever crossed your mind?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait?

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<v Speaker 6>Is Paris Hilton?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe she's a DJ? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think whatever she meant Alexis meant she's dating DJs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh maybe, Well we'll figure it out. If she

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<v Speaker 1>answers the phone, we're gonna call this wonderful woman, Brandy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, we can't take very much time. She

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<v Speaker 2>sounds very busy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, well she is.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll just see which DJs she's been dating when we

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<v Speaker 1>come back and do your second date update right after

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<v Speaker 1>this than you hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting a new passport usually takes four to six weeks. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>closing on a house around thirty to forty days. But

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<v Speaker 1>getting one date with a girl named Brandy off Riah

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<v Speaker 1>took our listener two full months. That's right before she

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<v Speaker 1>finally caved and agreed to go out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 6>Dang harder than closing a house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and after all that effort, Noah is now not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a callback, waited an entire week, and has finally

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<v Speaker 1>come to us seeking help.

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<v Speaker 2>Which I mean in that timeline, it feels impatient.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, compared to the two months situation. Wait a year. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but before we do call Brook, what is your take?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think about this whole situation?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I know you say that she's interested in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship. It just sounds like she doesn't have time,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, honestly, like she's trying to make it happen.

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<v Speaker 2>But her freer is really important.

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<v Speaker 4>She may even say that and thinks she's ready for

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<v Speaker 4>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's hard to have at all.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think about getting her to quit her career?

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<v Speaker 3>No, oh, that's not.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm trying to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, her problems the job, then you I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 3>open to asking that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, she sounds highly successful. I think the

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<v Speaker 2>solution is you quit your job and just follow her around. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, I don't even know if she likes me,

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm not getting a call. I don't know about that. Yell.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is that very important that she likes you if

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<v Speaker 1>she's super rich and successful?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, well.

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<v Speaker 3>I have some self respect.

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<v Speaker 6>Most celebrity rich people they don't like each other.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I figured.

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<v Speaker 1>But hey, if you're into it for like the actual connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Good for you, man, Let's try and to make this happen.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if brand even answers. But I'm a dull

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<v Speaker 1>her number right now here we go? Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Brandy?

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<v Speaker 5>Brandy?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Brandy, thank you so much for answering. We or

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<v Speaker 1>you're a very busy woman and we don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>waste your time. But we are a radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 7>Why are you calling?

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<v Speaker 5>We're doing something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Here for the Brandy Ted Talk jeff.

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<v Speaker 6>Although, yees, Brandy the owner of Brandy the Liquor.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, we're not even one hundred percent sure what you do, Brandy,

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<v Speaker 1>if something in fashion, but yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Not really sure how that plays into the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It plays in because we heard about your job through

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<v Speaker 1>a guy you went on a date with named Noah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, you remember Noah, who took you to a

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<v Speaker 2>really nice restaurant that was cool, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I remember Noah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he would really like to see you more. But

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<v Speaker 1>he came to us seeking help because he's been having

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<v Speaker 1>trouble figuring out if there's going to be another date,

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<v Speaker 1>or if there's a reason why you're not talking to him.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, I don't really think he wants to

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<v Speaker 7>hear why.

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<v Speaker 5>Won't Actually he does.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he reached out to our show, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting the answers directly from you.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, sure, all right, all right?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think about Noah?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know how to put it. Well, okay, so

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<v Speaker 7>you ever hear that candy commercial that's like sometimes you

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<v Speaker 7>feel like or not and other times not really or

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<v Speaker 7>something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes sometimes are you talking about for almond joy?

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<v Speaker 7>And yeah, yeah, and then like he's the don't I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Under I don't understand the analogy.

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<v Speaker 7>What I mean is like I thought he was going

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<v Speaker 7>to be like a fun and playful guy, but he

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<v Speaker 7>just turned out to be like.

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<v Speaker 5>Blah, like blonde.

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<v Speaker 7>What way, He's just an overall boring person to be

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<v Speaker 7>it Like, have you ever heard somebody say that they'd

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<v Speaker 7>rather be like watching paint dry?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like that analogy works better than your candy bar

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<v Speaker 2>saying yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I think we get the sentiment you were bored, I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>and then we're there at dinner and it's like a

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<v Speaker 7>few questions. We would just eat in silence, and then questions,

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<v Speaker 7>have a sim of a drink, and then more questions.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'd rather have tonner with my parents than they're awful.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like my parents, so there is no like

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<v Speaker 2>fun back and for it there no.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, like, I don't know what else to say,

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<v Speaker 7>but just like I didn't really want to hurt his feeling,

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<v Speaker 7>but it's just like that was the most like boring

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<v Speaker 7>date I've been on in like the entire year.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I wish we could sugarcoat that for him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, very pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of have to tell him and you because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know this, Brandy, but uh here he is

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<v Speaker 1>mister boring America.

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<v Speaker 5>That's telling you that he's been on the line. Listen

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<v Speaker 5>to this.

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<v Speaker 3>What wait, what do you mean boring you? We talked

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<v Speaker 3>about closets, Randy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, exactly boring.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. Girls love closets. They like dream about big

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<v Speaker 3>shoe closets and walk in closets. That shouldn't be boring

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<v Speaker 3>to you. You work in fashion movies.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've ever had one closet discussion with

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriend either.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and I mean It's like we dream about the

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<v Speaker 7>stuff that goes inside the closet, not the closet space,

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<v Speaker 7>and you're literally giving me like dimensions and type of doors.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought it was fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's fun to dream and plan.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well my plan is like not to be with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, just like there's something else for men.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there was clearly two months of build up

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<v Speaker 1>before the two of them met. In Brandy's mind, it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be something really spectacular out of this

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<v Speaker 1>world and not just closet talk.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it has.

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<v Speaker 2>Been more than that. I mean, no, stand up for yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>Like there had to have been more on the date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was a four five minute dates, so,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we did talk about closets for a good

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<v Speaker 3>part of it, but we also talked about other things.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know, I just feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna ditch me after one short date because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>too boring and my personality sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>Those are your words.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you, But think about this. He's a guy who's

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<v Speaker 2>so exciting that he called radio station. I mean that's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 5>No, you're exciting, right show.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm exciting. I'm excited. Look, look I really like spending

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<v Speaker 3>time with you, and I appreciate you and your busy schedule,

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<v Speaker 3>and I really want to hang out again and not

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<v Speaker 3>talk about closets. And if you would, then I'd be

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<v Speaker 3>willing to pay you right now two dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>Why whoa would you pay her? It feels weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, look, look, she's obviously jumping to conclusions that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>boring after forty five minutes, and I'm not. I know

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<v Speaker 3>i'm not, and I'm confident that i'm not. And if

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<v Speaker 3>I have two hundred dollars, and look, she can get

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<v Speaker 3>compensated for her time, and I'll show her that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not born.

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<v Speaker 1>What has this ever happened on our show before where

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<v Speaker 1>the listener has offered to pay money to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date for the day. I know that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>our thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the legality on this one is.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we're not offering it. It's between the two

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<v Speaker 5>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like being in a drug deal and saying

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<v Speaker 2>that you're not taking the cash.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know, Brandy, what if where is your

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<v Speaker 5>head at?

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<v Speaker 7>That's so insulting? Two hundred dollars?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it insulting that he's trying to pay you to

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<v Speaker 1>go out or is it insulting the price?

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<v Speaker 6>Now?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean two hundred dollars, that's all he thinks I'm worth?

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<v Speaker 3>What I mean? Okay? Three well.

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<v Speaker 5>Brook, you started this I did.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that said show your value.

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<v Speaker 2>I meant show how exciting you were, Like, tell her

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<v Speaker 2>that you went I don't know, cliff jumping last week something.

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<v Speaker 1>This is exciting. It's like being in an auction. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's three hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>Where are you at, Brandy?

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<v Speaker 2>I see in the back three fifty Brandy?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I literally have liftliner that costs more than that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, oh wow, because that's a bad deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, okay, I just want to go on another day

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<v Speaker 3>with you. I'm not trying to upgrade your whole makeup kit.

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<v Speaker 6>He makes a point.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it just also sounds like you couldn't afford to

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<v Speaker 7>upgrade my makeup even if you wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, final, offer five hundred dollars to go on one

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<v Speaker 3>day with me. I mean that's a pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow show asking for your money.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother, this desperate?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, Brandy, you've heard him five hundred dollars on the.

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<v Speaker 7>Table, and you pay for my Uber.

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<v Speaker 5>What you're thinking about it?

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<v Speaker 2>You're negotiating this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fine, I'll pick you up an Uber and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow. Wow, I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 6>If this, this would be the worst rejection I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Noah's offering five hundred dollars and to pay for the

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<v Speaker 1>uber ride if you'll meet up with him again, Brandy, if.

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<v Speaker 7>You sit in the front and I get to sit

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<v Speaker 7>in the back, then okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>No you really want this?

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<v Speaker 6>You want to say yesterday?

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<v Speaker 5>It's not even a date at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Look like I said before, I need a second chance,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is what it takes. I'm doing it all right.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, just wanted a little more personality.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, well it's at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to toss in a twenty dollars gift card

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<v Speaker 1>to Chili's on top of the five hundred in the Uber.

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<v Speaker 1>The deal you can go for like a cookie after

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<v Speaker 1>after your real day, and we're going to take credit

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<v Speaker 1>for paying for the whole day.

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<v Speaker 5>Brandy, are you still in?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? Yeah, I'm in for five hundred bucks. She's willing

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<v Speaker 2>to be bored out of her mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, if she is a good business woman, I promise you, Brandy,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing is going to be boring about our next day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I feel like he's going to be so annoying.

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<v Speaker 6>To take us to the circuits.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's talk about crawl space.

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<v Speaker 2>So brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's no way that she's gonna milk this

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<v Speaker 1>for another five hundred dollars date for numbers three and

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<v Speaker 1>four afterwards.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, she wouldn't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I always wondered how these relationships started, and we got

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<v Speaker 4>to hear it, like she set the tone immediately, and

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<v Speaker 4>now he knows her words. It's like five dars minimum

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<v Speaker 4>to get her out.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think that she just didn't want to waste

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<v Speaker 2>her time and she's a business lady. I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>think it's about like the money, per se.

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<v Speaker 6>So that was no, and he just said yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's a win win for her.

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<v Speaker 2>What if what if because I was kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>n ace hair, what if he's actually fun?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And what if they actually hit it off and it

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<v Speaker 2>all started over five hundred bucks? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And what if it goes so well she's actually like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm going to give you back the

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars and I'm gonna pay for the uber myself.

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<v Speaker 2>That's negotiated a pretty good deal. I mean, that's bad business, jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, that's what a good woman would do, right Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never liked Okay, who side are you on? I

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<v Speaker 5>don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hoping that they'd get married.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, me too.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 5>I choose to believe in love.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think he'll pay for her to marry him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's gonna be a different bill.

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<v Speaker 1>That's That's a time for another segment, another way down

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