1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: At all at all. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Soon given them a million bus buss boozy. 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: Yeah listening to to. 6 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 3: I don't joy? Yah yeah, joy. 7 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 4: You know you. 8 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 5: Love turn you gotta turn. 9 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: To turn the mouth turn. 10 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 5: You probably got to turn mouth tut. 11 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: Turn the water of the moat up. 12 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 6: Look, come. 13 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Come out you think that. 14 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 7: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are 15 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 7: listening to the voice, Come on now, digney if you will. 16 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 7: One and only, Steve Harvey got a radio show, you know, 17 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 7: one of the things about being successful. And I was 18 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 7: sharing this just the other day with a young man 19 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 7: and he asked me. He said, hey, man, I just 20 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 7: don't see how you get up that early in the morning. 21 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 7: I just don't see how, man, it would kill me 22 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 7: to get up. 23 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: This early in the morning. 24 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 7: Well, I sat down and I'm listening to it because 25 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 7: it's just a thousand times I've heard it, you know, 26 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 7: And my life is, you know, not too different from 27 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 7: a lot of people's lives. 28 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: There's a lot of people out there that rise early. 29 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 7: And I just sit there, man, because I mean, first 30 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,679 Speaker 7: of all, I'm grateful to be able to have a job. 31 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 7: I'm so grateful to be able to do one and 32 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 7: several that I happened to enjoy doing. I mean, you 33 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 7: know it's work and it's difficult at times, but I mean, 34 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 7: you know I wanted this. You know you got it. 35 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 7: You know you can't ask God for nothing any give 36 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 7: it to you then be mad that you got it. 37 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 7: Don't make no sense. You know the problem with asking 38 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 7: God for stuff is a lot of times we asking 39 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 7: for stuff, we don't really know what all it encompasses, 40 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 7: what all it really is. And I ask for this, 41 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 7: now along the way, I've gotten far more than I 42 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 7: asked for. I want you to do. Understand that, and 43 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 7: you know that's His grace at work in my life. 44 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 7: But I get up early and I go to work 45 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 7: because I do understand something that it is not walking 46 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 7: up to you. Nobody walks up to people normally and 47 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 7: just hand them checks all the time, and enough checks 48 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 7: to sustain your life, and not only sustain it, but 49 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 7: to have a life that where you could enjoy and 50 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 7: do some of the things you want to do. I 51 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 7: don't know the person that walks out hands out that 52 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 7: money just to be doing it and then with a 53 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 7: lifestyle though, where you can you know, give your kids 54 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 7: a Christmas, you know, take your family on vacation, you know, 55 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 7: a year once a year. I don't know nobody passing 56 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 7: out to kind of money. So I get up early 57 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 7: in the morning and I get at it. I was 58 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 7: taught to get up early in the morning by my 59 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 7: father because my father says, ain't nothing gonna come to 60 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 7: you while you lay in there. And you know what, 61 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 7: It's just true, man, It's just a little common sense. Look, 62 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 7: old people smart, man, they've been around long time. You 63 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 7: don't get old. You know, some old foods out there, 64 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 7: but you know you don't have to deal with them. 65 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 7: But old people are pretty smart, man. They've learned a 66 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 7: lot along the way. And waking up early and getting 67 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 7: out it is one of them things. And I ask 68 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 7: everybody man to think about this scenario of your life. 69 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 7: If a day has twenty four hours in it, and 70 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 7: let's just say you choose to sleep eight of those 71 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 7: hours because they tell you you need eight hours sleep, 72 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 7: So you sleep eight hours, that's a third of your 73 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 7: life asleep already, just a third of your life is 74 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 7: spent asleep. 75 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: If you gonna do eight hours a day. 76 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 7: Now, let's say you have a job that you work 77 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 7: eight hours, and it is not the job of your dreams. 78 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 7: It's not your dream career, your dream profession. It's just 79 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 7: the one you took, like all of us, to get 80 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 7: it started. And then, like all of us, some of 81 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 7: us end up having to state that because we've created 82 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 7: these bills because we checked and checked, So we can't 83 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 7: leave it because we'll lose what. 84 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: We've worked for. So let's just say you got a 85 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: job that you go to work to for eight hours. 86 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 7: That's another third of your life. That's two thirds of 87 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 7: your life. Feel how you want to feel about your 88 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 7: two thirds? Well, I like sleep. Okay, cool, there's a 89 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 7: scripture about that too. But now you spent two thirds 90 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 7: of your life one on a job you don't care 91 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 7: for if you're not happy that, or one that just 92 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,159 Speaker 7: pays the bills, and it's not your dream job or career. 93 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 7: Another third of your life is sleep. Oh now, let's 94 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 7: hold on. Let's talk about the one hour of preparation 95 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 7: that it may take to get to the job. That's 96 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 7: seventeen hours. Let's say your drive time. Let's say getting 97 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 7: to your job for the average person is anywhere between 98 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 7: thirty to an hour. That's an average of what it 99 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,119 Speaker 7: takes to average person. Now, some people out there hustling 100 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 7: way harder than that. But let's just say your average 101 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 7: is an hour getting to work. You add another hour 102 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 7: to that going to work. You've now spent eighteen hours 103 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 7: out of the twenty four doing something that's either nonproductive, 104 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 7: you're not happy with, you're not pleased about. It is 105 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 7: not your dream job, it's not your dream profession. And 106 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 7: rest of the time you sleep. Eighteen hours. Now you 107 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 7: got to come from the job, so let's just say 108 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 7: it's another hour to get back home. That's nineteen hours. 109 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 7: Nineteen hours out of a twenty four hour day. You 110 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 7: now have five hours left in your day. Oh, you 111 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 7: watch TV two hours a day. Okay, excuse me. Let's 112 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 7: put now you put two hours of TV on that 113 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 7: you've just spent twenty one. 114 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 1: You now have three. 115 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 7: Hours in the day to do something super productive for 116 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 7: the development of yourself and the future of your family 117 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 7: and your future as a person and what you can 118 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 7: provide for your family. Oh, I need to chill. I 119 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 7: need to smoke one. Oh I need it some time 120 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 7: at happy I'll seem like all I do is dry 121 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 7: to work and go to work. I'm gonna go out 122 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 7: with the fellas drink one. Okay, Let's say you spend 123 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 7: two hours at Happy Ill nobody go to a Happy 124 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 7: Hours yet for a hour. Let's say you spend two 125 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 7: hours at Happy I'll all smoke in all some video games. 126 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 7: Let's throw that in it. Two hours of smoking, chilling 127 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 7: video games. That's twenty three hours of your day gone. 128 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 7: Don't you see how your day slips away from you? 129 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 7: So why would you get up early? You get up 130 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 7: early to get a jump. You get up early to produce, 131 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 7: to plan, to become productive. You get up early in 132 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 7: the morning to care about every single minute of your day. 133 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 7: You wake up early in the morning because you have 134 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 7: a plan, a mission, You have something you want to accomplish. 135 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 7: The earlier you get up, the more time you have 136 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 7: just for you to devote to your plan. You map 137 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 7: it out, you make them, send some emails, whatever it 138 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 7: is you need to do to get your dream on 139 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 7: the way. Then you go get ready. Then you get 140 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 7: in your car and go to work. Then you go 141 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 7: to your job, but on your job, instead of sitting 142 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 7: at your lunch break messing around with a bunch of 143 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 7: people laughing and talking about nothing, playing dominoes. Why don't 144 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 7: you take that hour to do some more research, to 145 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 7: send out some more emails, to put some feelers out 146 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 7: there to see what can get you in the place 147 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 7: that you want to be. Then when you get off, 148 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 7: instead of driving straight home, why don't you go somewhere 149 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 7: in a meeting, you take in a session with some 150 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 7: people in a positive mental state, group of people that 151 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 7: get together. Network for business, not drink at happy hour. 152 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 7: I set network for business. So after you've done that 153 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 7: eight that you don't really care for on a job, 154 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 7: you spend some more time pursuing, looking into researching, working 155 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 7: towards sending out some more applications, putting in some more 156 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 7: time to build your new app discussing some more network ideas. Okay, 157 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 7: that's your happy hour. Then when you go home, instead 158 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 7: of chilling drinking one, having a cold, one, smoking one, 159 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 7: playing a video game, why don't you take that two 160 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 7: hours and devote that to that business idea. You got 161 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 7: to that family that you talk about, You really want 162 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 7: spend some time with your children, put something into them. 163 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: Do something. 164 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 7: Man, with all these precious hours that God gives all 165 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 7: of us in the course of a day, take advantage 166 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 7: of every minute of that. No human being has more 167 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 7: than twenty four hours a day, including myself. 168 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: But if you care about every single minute. 169 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 7: Of that day, you'll be amazed at how much you 170 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 7: could get accomplished in a twenty four hour day. But 171 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 7: you can't get none of that happening because you sleep, 172 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:52,440 Speaker 7: and you chilling and you smoking. Okay, what has that 173 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 7: done for you, your family or your future? Care about 174 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 7: every minute of your day. 175 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning. 176 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 7: Show, Ladies and gentlemen. In his Opponents to Steve Harvery 177 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 7: Morning Show is here. It starts with gratitude, which affects 178 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 7: your attitude, which determines your altitude. If you get those 179 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 7: three toudes and uh see if you straighten out your two, 180 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 7: if you just get your tood straight, sky's the live 181 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 7: it gratitude attitude altitude. You got to head the right 182 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 7: toude man. We started our day off with the three 183 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 7: tea's gratitude Altitude Attitude. Now Steve Hart Motor Show with 184 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 7: Shirley Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Monica Junior, Better Owners, Kiss Fates. 185 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: The Legend of nephew Tommy and. 186 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 7: Yours too, little got a little salty with Mississippi, this mortor, 187 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 7: so I didn't want to call her by her lovely 188 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 7: name with Mississippi and see Monica today. 189 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Jui, you want someone your mind? 190 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 8: You know this man, they ask this, Okay, so you 191 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:09,199 Speaker 8: know you see a girl's beautiful, find all these things, 192 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 8: all these great qualities, you know, eyes, right, everything. Yeah, 193 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 8: but then you find out she's snowing. 194 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: Is that still a turn on? Yeah? Well, don't don't 195 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: sleep with her. 196 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 7: Don't stay, don't stay, don't stay, not walk away from 197 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 7: all this fineness because of this one flow, because you 198 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 7: have flaws. 199 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: You just don't stand with these perfect. 200 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 7: Find another reason to go in there and get on 201 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 7: the couch, go watch TV, do anything, but just God, 202 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 7: the God, away from the flow because we have flaws. 203 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 7: I'm not walking away from the finess you just described here. 204 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: Because she snowed. 205 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 7: I'll be over there the next day with them band 206 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 7: aids that go over the top of your nose. Come 207 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 7: back with help, come back the next night with one 208 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 7: of their mouth. 209 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: Gods, you sleep in looked like a dental plate. 210 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 2: Nothing that's gonna stop you. 211 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 7: Yes, for fineness, especially snowing. It only occurred when you sleep. 212 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 7: You mean your flaw ain't when you up old? I'm 213 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 7: dealing with her. 214 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,359 Speaker 1: Ohoh matter of fact, Oh she mind. 215 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 7: Flawless. Yeah, she do a couple of things at night 216 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 7: I don't care for. But for the most part, and 217 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 7: all the way up to that night, though, she's excellent. 218 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 7: She talks well around people. She's beautiful, She's gone to 219 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 7: walk on the looking her eyes, she's pleasant's talk. What's 220 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 7: wrong with them? Well, she's snowing? How bad is it? 221 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 7: I really don't know. I'm never them. I heard it 222 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 7: in the other room and sound ferocious, but I won't 223 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 7: never open the door to see how serious it is. 224 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 1: Well, how bad is it? 225 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 4: Well? 226 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 7: She sucked the bath tile down her throat one night 227 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 7: and little choked and I had to pull it out there. 228 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,479 Speaker 1: Other than that, she find. 229 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 2: It hell, deal with it, so. 230 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: Dog, How bad is it? Well? 231 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 7: I bought some sheets that wasn't fitted and she knit 232 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 7: choked on them one night too, So and to make 233 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 7: sure we buy feet of sheets. 234 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 2: Other than that, we're moving on. 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Actual range will vary based 247 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 4: on several factors. 248 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 9: All right, it's time now to start your morning off 249 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 9: with the nephew and run that brank back. What you 250 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 9: got for is nef. 251 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 7: Child support is late? Get it in all right, here 252 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 7: we go, cat dog, child support is late? 253 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 10: Hello? Hello, card? Yeah, what's up? 254 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: What was this? 255 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 10: Chris Prescer? Man? Me and me and me, your ex man, 256 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 10: me and we are we've been kicking it for the 257 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 10: last three months. 258 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 11: I'm man, I don't care about you were not together them. 259 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 11: We're not together. So why do you call the lease? 260 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 10: Okay here, No, that's correct. To understand all. 261 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 11: That you called me to tell me the child together 262 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 11: or something with. I don't care about what you do 263 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 11: mean not together, I don't I don't get. 264 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 10: What nobody what you okay, okay, no, no, no play. 265 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 10: I understand that. What I was calling you, boy, was 266 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 10: you know you kind of behind like two three months 267 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 10: on the child support man, and I told her I 268 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 10: was gonna handle this well. I told her I was 269 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 10: gonna handle the situation, you know. So I don't need 270 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 10: you to handle nothing. 271 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 11: You don't need be worried about about how many months 272 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 11: I'm behind? Who the hell telling you all this? 273 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 10: Anyway? When when? When can we expect another payment? That's 274 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 10: what I'm asking you. 275 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 11: First of all, don't whoever call my phone with that. 276 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 11: You understand me. Don't call my phone man because my 277 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 11: daughter man. 278 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 10: I ain't trying to I ain't trying to handle. 279 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 11: I don't need you on my back and I don't 280 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 11: need see on my back and by no child for 281 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 11: it because I do for my daughter, man, So don't 282 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 11: call my phone with that. 283 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, Well, looking, is you working right now? 284 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 12: Man? 285 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 11: You man say listen it what you ain't punstant prayer presser. 286 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 11: What I'm saying, is you working right now? And I 287 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 11: do whatever it takes to take care of my daughter. Man, 288 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 11: So don't you worry about my job security and what 289 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 11: I'm doing. 290 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 10: Okay, well today, can I just come when I just 291 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 10: come but here whenever you get paid next time so 292 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 10: I can pick up you know, the child. 293 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 11: Man, you don't need to come by nowhere. I tell 294 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 11: you what here you bring y'all around? You come, I'm 295 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 11: give you directions right now. You bring your phone over 296 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 11: here because I want I want to see your calling 297 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 11: my phone talking about my daughter. 298 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 10: And man, we're looking out for the well being of 299 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 10: the baby. 300 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 11: Man, that's what what you think I've been doing ever 301 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 11: since she came in as well. That's what I've been 302 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 11: doing ever since she got here, been looking out for 303 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 11: her well being. And come just getting a pitch. You 304 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 11: want to tell me about my daughter? Well in inquit? 305 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 10: Why is you three months behind then? Man? 306 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 11: Matter fact, I do everything I can for my daughter. 307 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 11: So for you to sit up here and call me 308 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 11: talk about it, I'm three months behind. I don't even 309 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 11: keep up with that. I send money when I can. 310 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 11: I do for my daughter. I do for my daughter 311 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 11: for I do for myself. So if I ain't got 312 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 11: it to seeing that means I ain't got it at all. 313 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 11: But give me a second and I'll go get it. 314 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 11: But don't be calling me about my daughter. Man, talk 315 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 11: about I'm three months behind. 316 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 10: Okay, Well look your first of all, I ain't. You know, 317 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 10: I ain't working right now, so we really need you 318 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 10: to go on and get the money. 319 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 11: Over what hold on? Hold on, hold on, you ain't working, 320 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 11: but I'm out here hustling you calling me about some money. 321 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 11: But you over there laying up with most of y'all. 322 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 11: Need to get off y'all and do what the hell 323 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 11: I'm doing. That's what I can't understand. It's true of you, 324 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 11: but it's one of me, and you want to come 325 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 11: to me with that. 326 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 10: Man, I told I was gonna handle this situation by 327 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 10: being behind on this, you know, this little child for 328 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 10: pull situation. That's all I'm saying. I need you to 329 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 10: going on and give me a date man on when 330 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 10: we can expect a payment. 331 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 11: Okay, I'm getting you a date right now. Bring your 332 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 11: over here right now and come pick up the payton. 333 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 11: I got it for you right now. You just tell 334 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 11: me what kind of car you drive so I know 335 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 11: because I want to. I don't want to bust the 336 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 11: wrong to pull up to my driveway by mistake. I 337 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,679 Speaker 11: do everything for my daughter. My daughter don't have no 338 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 11: walt on nor knees. I put shoes on her feet, 339 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 11: clothes on her back, food in or something. I do 340 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 11: everything for her. I don't need you, and I don't. 341 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 11: My daughter don't need you with ut. I pick up 342 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 11: from school every day and take her to her grandmother's house. 343 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 11: So I want to heal by no two or three 344 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 11: months behind because she ain't with I. I can see 345 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 11: if I want two or three months and she with I. 346 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 10: Okay, man, that's another thing with me. And there ain't 347 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 10: talk to the back. We're not gonna need you to 348 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 10: be checking up from the school no more. I'm gonna 349 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 10: be getting her from the school. 350 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 11: Alf I wish I would catch her stuff in my 351 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 11: daughter school. 352 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 10: He ain't picking up my daughter. 353 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 11: Man, I don't even know who the hell you are. 354 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 10: I told you my name is Preston. 355 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 11: Man, don't why no, Preston, I'm telling you what, man, 356 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 11: I don't want you no where near my daughter. That 357 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 11: I'm gonna talk right now because I don't want you 358 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 11: no where near my daughter. Man, you understand me. I 359 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 11: don't want you nowhere live my daughter. 360 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:56,959 Speaker 10: Man. 361 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 11: If I came here and there my daughter, I'm gonna 362 00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 11: whoop your I'm gonna let my. 363 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 10: Daughter to know. 364 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 11: Me. 365 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 10: He and the baby is getting a long fine. Man. 366 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 10: All I'm saying is we just need you to send 367 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 10: the money. 368 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: Man. 369 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 11: You Hey, Hughie, y'all. I'm glad y'all doing good cause 370 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 11: she anyway, but don't put my daughter in the middle 371 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 11: of man. 372 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 10: Man, I'm just happen to be in between jobs, that's all. Man. 373 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 11: Well, you need to get off yo, look in between 374 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 11: your sheet and go find you something. Find you a 375 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 11: manhood sitting up there, probably on the couch eating up 376 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 11: all the pop. 377 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 10: Torch and I've only had two of them pop torch man, 378 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 10: that's all. 379 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 11: You ain't supposed to be having another of them because 380 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 11: I bought that for my daughter. Man, and I appreciate 381 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 11: you eating none of that over there. You need to 382 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 11: get off here and feed yourself like I do. I 383 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 11: feed myself and my daughter and probably. 384 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 10: Still let me say this here man, I just want 385 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 10: to talk to you about our child. 386 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: Man. 387 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 11: Our child that ain't your child, that's mine. 388 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 10: I'm taking. 389 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 11: You ain't got say, man, don't you ever say that. Man. 390 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 11: Don't you ever say that to me? 391 00:19:59,160 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 13: Man. 392 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 11: That is our child, man, my child. Let me tell 393 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 11: you something, man, let me tell you something. Put your 394 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 11: head to this, fall real close. 395 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 10: Man. 396 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 11: I'm about my daughter. 397 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 10: I'm trying to live like me, and that's what I'm 398 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 10: trying to do. 399 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 11: You ain't been here the whole time. You trying to 400 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 11: walk up in here and talk about an hour. I'm 401 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:16,479 Speaker 11: her daddy. 402 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 10: Man, I'm just trying to be a good stuff for 403 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 10: the man and get them their child. Report that for me. 404 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 11: Y'all got to get married, sir. You ain't no man say, 405 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 11: man say, I'm gonna talk to and hell this I 406 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 11: guarante no, no, no, no, no, no no. 407 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 10: You don't talk to you no more. You understand what 408 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 10: I'm saying. You talk to me. You're dealing with me. 409 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 10: I told you I was gonna handle it, so you're 410 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 10: gonna make me mad? No, like I have told you, know, 411 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 10: you don't talk no more. 412 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 11: I'm talking whenever I want to. We got a child together. 413 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 11: You just got in the pittore. Don't you call. No, 414 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 11: you don't talking emp you. 415 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 10: Talk to me from now you talk to Preston. 416 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 11: I don't want to hear nothing else. You got the 417 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 11: same player, I didn't hear everything you had to say. 418 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 10: I got one more thing I need to say to you. 419 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 11: You listening, man, say what the hell you gotta say? 420 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 10: Man? No, his nephew time me from the Steve Harvey 421 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 10: Morning sh Oh you just got pranked by your cousin Kendrick. 422 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: Man. 423 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 11: Oh oh Man, I'm gonna kill it all right? Oh no, man, 424 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 11: because I don't play by my daughter like that. Man, don't. 425 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 11: That's my world, Man, that's my heart. 426 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 10: Man, I don't ye Man, all right, let me ask 427 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 10: you this here, man, what is the bands? I'm talking about? 428 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 10: The bandest radio show in the land? 429 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,120 Speaker 11: Man, Steve's Harvey Morning Show? 430 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: Who again? 431 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: Thinking of you coming up next to his? 432 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 9: Ask the COLO or chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in 433 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 9: the building. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 434 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. 435 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: Everybody, that's your favorite plate. 436 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 8: Cousin Junior, you know what, I love having cookouts in 437 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 8: the summertime, but it is so expensive. But have you 438 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 8: heard about what Sam's Club is doing? Though were locked 439 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 8: in summer value until July twenty second. 440 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 1: Prices are held over on one thousand items. 441 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 8: From paper plates to trash bags, the sunscreen, to ice cream, 442 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 8: even apple pie. It's no brainer to join SAMs Club 443 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 8: because locked in Summer Veluer can help you save on 444 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 8: all the things you need to have a great summer. 445 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: I plan on joining. I think you should too. 446 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 8: Go sign up for a membership and join SAMs Club 447 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 8: today at samsclub dot com slash join. 448 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,479 Speaker 9: It is time for us, the CLO Chief Love Officer 449 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey, ready for your love questions. 450 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 2: The less in Laurel. 451 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 9: Right, my husband is studying to be a pastor, and 452 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 9: he uses profanity at home when he's stressed, he will 453 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 9: smoke weed. You shouldn't pursue this profession if he's going 454 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 9: to be a hypocrite. Should I tell our senior pastor 455 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 9: about his behavior or not? 456 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 10: What? 457 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 7: Why are you the wife that's crazy? You and he 458 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 7: might have to testify in court on your husband? So 459 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,199 Speaker 7: he didn't man a snitch? 460 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? Basically, well, you know he's studying to be a pastor. 461 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 7: That's the difference between a lot of people studying to 462 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 7: be a pastor and call to be a pastor. Two 463 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 7: different things. To my understanding and the way I grew 464 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 7: up and was raised, so he's studying to be something 465 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 7: he may not be qualified for. I had a My 466 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 7: degree in college was advertiser. I have no business sitting 467 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 7: up in the advertising office. One of the many wrong 468 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 7: decisions I made as a young man. 469 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: And so you know, it's just. 470 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 7: Another bad decision. You ain't got to tell nobody it 471 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:34,640 Speaker 7: ain't gonna work out. 472 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: Go to run, you discoul be on this course right here, 473 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 1: he's too far over there. Oh come mahine him trying 474 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: to come back. 475 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 7: I tell you what's really making him because them theological tests. 476 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 2: All right. Moving on to Benita in Tampa. 477 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 9: Benita says, I'm in love with the man that owns 478 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 9: two car washes and he hands out complimentary mimosas to 479 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 9: women on Saturday and Sunday. He claims it's marketing, but 480 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 9: I think he does it so uh he and the 481 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 9: guys can meet women. 482 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 2: Is this marketing or making? 483 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: Sounds like marketing to me? Oh yeah, yeah, house, well 484 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 1: it's marketing. It works. Look how look what it did 485 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: to you. 486 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 7: You probably got handed one of them mimosas. And now 487 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 7: look at your You're fitting married the man. Great marketing 488 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 7: mac marketing, Yeah, I call it marketing. Yeah, free mimosas, Yeah, 489 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 7: I'm all for it. Sounds like great marketing. You will 490 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 7: on the Steve Harvey National radio show talking about it. 491 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 7: Marketing outstanding by this guy's brilliant. 492 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 9: I hope they're drinking responsibly, all right, Wanda and Mapleton 493 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 9: says my daughters. 494 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 2: I know, I know, still has champagne in it. 495 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 1: Just go ahead. Everybody ain't affected by it like you? Sure? 496 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 2: This one's from Wanda and Mapleton. 497 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 9: Wanda says, my daughter is seventeen, and she hit her 498 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 9: boyfriend in the eye after catching him next door in 499 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 9: the pool with the sixteen. 500 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: Year old girl that lives there. 501 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 9: I told my daughter that she shouldn't hit him, she 502 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 9: shouldn't have hit him, But now the boy is flaunting 503 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 9: the new girl in my daughter's face, and she's so hurt. 504 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 2: I want to pop them. How do I console her? 505 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 2: You can't. 506 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: This is life. 507 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 7: This is what happens along the way. Boy meets girl, girl, 508 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:41,640 Speaker 7: me's boy, boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Boy looks 509 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 7: across the fence, see another girl. Boy like her too. 510 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 7: He ain't committed. This boy's seventeen. You don't even understand 511 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 7: what's driving him right now. He's not driven by his mind. 512 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 7: In his brain, he's driven by hormones. He in the 513 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 7: pool with the sixteen year old girl splashing around as 514 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 7: of water on his face. 515 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 1: What did that do that got him aroused? What are 516 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: they doing now? Now? 517 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 7: They walking around town? It don't take much. He's seventeen. 518 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 7: You couldn't do nothing to me. 519 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:17,719 Speaker 1: Nothing. If I saw a girl pulling her pants up, 520 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: not even because they was down, just you know, just walking, 521 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: just trying to make sure. 522 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 2: They sailed herself. I was heated. 523 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: Oh my god, she won't me. She doing that in 524 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 1: front of my face, she see me standing at her. 525 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: The girl they got eyes in the back of her head. Lady, 526 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 1: you got to relax your daughter. This ain't the first. 527 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 7: This ain't her last time getting hurt either. It's okay 528 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 7: that boy didn't hit her or nothing like that. He 529 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 7: just changed his mind. Yeah, yeah, gonna he gonna get 530 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 7: another one. 531 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 532 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 9: And she shouldn't be hitting him anyway. You told her, right, Wanda, 533 00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 9: not to hit anybody. 534 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,159 Speaker 7: She should don't hit these dudes they raised right. No, 535 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 7: these doake women back. Keep your hands to yourself, late, 536 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 7: because these cats out here, they're not raised like this. 537 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 9: They will hit you back. Yeah, all right, Last one, Steve. 538 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 9: This one's from Dina in North Carolina. Dina says, my 539 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 9: boyfriend had a barbecue so his parents could meet me. 540 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 9: I made beans, potato salad, greens, a pound cake, and 541 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 9: banana pudding. His mother said, my food tasted like hospital food, 542 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 9: and I got defensive. 543 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 1: I know what that tastes like. I can tell you. 544 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 9: Any Seves, she said. I got defensive and said, well, 545 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 9: don't eat it. My boyfriend said it was unnecessary and rude. 546 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 9: But what his mama said wasn't. 547 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: His mama told the truth. 548 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 7: Let me tell you something, girl, You ain't got enough 549 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 7: experience to make barbecu classics for the family barbequ The 550 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 7: baked beans, the potato salad, the pound cake. Are you crazy? 551 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 7: This is black folk classic? The hell you making potato salad? 552 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: Fork? You know how hard it is to get that right. 553 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: You then opened up a. 554 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 7: Can of Cammel's poking beans and heating them up and 555 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 7: gave them to them black people hospital food. You went 556 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 7: down there to the grocery store and bought a Sarah 557 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 7: Lee pound cake hospital food. It bought the bought the 558 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 7: potato salad from public hospital food sent up here and 559 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 7: try to make these black people eat this. And you young, 560 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 7: he said, it tastes like hospital food because it did. 561 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 7: What color? 562 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: What did she put in them? 563 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 10: Green? Oh? 564 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: And them green? Are forgot left that off? The green? Nothing? 565 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: You just falling greens. 566 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 7: They wasn't even cooked all the way through there and 567 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 7: there chewing stalk. 568 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: You didn't throw the stalks out, you just. 569 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 7: Chopped them up small, your college greens in there looking 570 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 7: like koe. 571 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: You just in here, just wrong. 572 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 7: They in there chewing them like it's kaleide. 573 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 2: His mama told my. 574 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 7: Ship man, you shut up, Shirley. This is one nine 575 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 7: cooking person talking to it. 576 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 1: Nothing. 577 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 7: Don't listen to Shirley about nothing with cooking because he 578 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:35,959 Speaker 7: can't cookie. 579 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: And Shirley no rule when she hear because she didne 580 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: heard all of that. It's been hospital food. 581 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 7: It's been clinic staver, she said her, sir, somebody told 582 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 7: Shirley her food tastes like emergency room medicine. 583 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: Mister Steve Harbin, Marty show Man. 584 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 7: It might be two birds in that for but if 585 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 7: you let this bird go to reach in there for 586 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 7: the two in the bush and they fly out the bush, 587 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 7: you ain't got nothing a bird in the hand is 588 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 7: worth two in the bush. 589 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: But if it's two and that are having to catch both, 590 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't that be better? 591 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 7: See key word in there was a small word with 592 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 7: the one of the smallest words with the biggest consequences. 593 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 7: If if I rob this bank and if they don't 594 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 7: catch me, I'm gonna be rich man. 595 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: Okay, a whole lot of ifs sitting in prison today 596 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: coming up right after that. All right, Steve, we need 597 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: you again. 598 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 2: It's time for right or wrong with your nephew and 599 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 2: junior or so you need to be the judge. 600 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. This is right or wrong. 601 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 7: This is where decisions get made, things that will discussed, 602 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 7: Debatable issues come to the forefront, and I make a 603 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 7: decision as to who's right or wrong. Tommy is always 604 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 7: the one who wants to know whether he's right or wrong. 605 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 7: So go ahead, turkey. 606 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: See okay, see now check this out. 607 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 7: So now me and him, actually, for a split second, 608 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 7: he agreed with me last night, for a split on 609 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 7: the first thing I said. I said, Amber is a 610 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 7: little girl that got lost a long time ago, and 611 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 7: that's where Amber alert came from. 612 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: He agreed with me on that. I did not agree 613 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: with you on that. 614 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 10: You did not? 615 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: I said, Okay, what did you say? 616 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 8: I said, they named it that just because let people 617 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 8: know that people miss it. 618 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 1: That's all I said. I said nothing about this being 619 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: no Amber Alert. First of all, what made you even 620 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: think of that? Okay, first of all, I'll let you know. 621 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 4: It was a little girl named Amber, and that's what 622 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 4: that's where Amber Alert came from. Then I told you, 623 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 4: I said, Foster is a little boy who didn't have 624 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 4: his mama or his. 625 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 1: Daddy, and that's where Foster Home came from. Oh no, 626 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: right there, But Foster and Amber don't know each other. 627 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 1: Do you know what? Well, he's correct on Amber? 628 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, give him that? 629 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: Am I right about Foster? Though Amber is actually a color. 630 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: Amber is also a young young girl's name? Right? My 631 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: name is his name? Am right? So that led you 632 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 1: to say, what. 633 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 2: Now, Foster? 634 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 7: It was a little boy who didn't have no mama, 635 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 7: no daddy, and they were trying to find. 636 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: A home for him. That can't be right, and that's 637 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: where Foster Home comfort. Well, I thought that was a 638 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: Cyril Foster flake. You're right or wrong? 639 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 2: Worst than what is. 640 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 11: That? 641 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: I had a call fl I love me it's a 642 00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: foster flake. I know that. You know we're just gonna 643 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: be ignorant. 644 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, f take it there. 645 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 1: I thought it was a seal of foster flakes. We 646 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: called it though. That's that's how he said it. 647 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 7: Foster means wronged, to develop, yes to ring about, to nurture, Yeah, falter, 648 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 7: to nurture a situation. 649 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: Foster is a definition. It's not a little boy. There's 650 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 1: people named Foster. Most of them end up in care. 651 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 6: Foster was what you said was the lead singer the 652 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,479 Speaker 6: Silvers one. He wasn't the lead saying the singers. Now 653 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 6: he played Edie, I mean in the King of scott Forest. 654 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 1: You see where he gets from. 655 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 7: And then Forrest Griffin was fighting in the UFCU. Stephan 656 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 7: and Bonner had some epic Okay, here go the next 657 00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 7: one up till Junior. That people in China call they 658 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 7: good dishes. They dishes, you know what I'm saying. 659 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 2: I like it. 660 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: They don't call them China. They just call them they dishes. 661 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: They don't say you know what I'm. 662 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 2: Saying, We have a winner right there, that were right 663 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: there last off on that one like that, we have 664 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 2: a winner. 665 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: I've never been to China. 666 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 2: I don't know what, Tommy. 667 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 4: They call people in China call they good dishes. They 668 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 4: dishes they put over here. 669 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,280 Speaker 2: China's good chin China. 670 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:56,359 Speaker 1: Oh maybe they call them us a dishes. Yeah, seeing there. 671 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 7: When they want some neat, they just go food said, 672 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,800 Speaker 7: because it's already in Chinese. They say Chinese food. Okay, 673 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 7: they're just gonna food. Not everybody go. This is what 674 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 7: everybody's just starting now. 675 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 1: They ain't no names for it, all of us food. 676 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 1: Now listen this way you hung up on them. 677 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 7: I told him, If two vegetarians is arguing, they beefing. 678 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love it. There's some meat in there somewhere. 679 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 11: Yeah. 680 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: If two vegetarians is arguing, they beefing, yeah, yep, that's true. 681 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 9: Yeah time two out of three, Tommy, Yeah. 682 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: And I and Tommy. If two meat eaters his argan, 683 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 1: then they just juice it. See we're from the same Wow. 684 00:35:54,600 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: But I think Chinese people say us are food. Stop 685 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: bringing this up to you last night, But I just 686 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 1: want you to have this. I just asked a question. 687 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry, do it U trying to fix this? 688 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: You have been, but I'm just saying us a food. 689 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 2: I know I heard you we heard you the first 690 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 2: three times. 691 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 1: That's just how you say US. Ay, there you go. 692 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 7: That's what I would people instead of saying the check 693 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 7: when they eat our food, they go, USA, yeah you. 694 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 14: Want some ulcer, which is us A yeah, okay, Junior, 695 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 14: I can tell you. I can tell you this because 696 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 14: you ain't gonna be able to hang up on if 697 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 14: you're listening. Yeah, I'm listening, Junior. If you job backwards, 698 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 14: you gain weight. Where you get that from, Well, you 699 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 14: only lose when you're running forward right. Where you get 700 00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 14: that from? 701 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 2: Well, you jump. 702 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 7: This day. 703 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 1: Tell me we're gonna go with that theory. You jog 704 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,280 Speaker 1: for it every day, stiff. 705 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So what have we learned? What have we learned? 706 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,399 Speaker 2: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 707 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,879 Speaker 12: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. I got to put 708 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 12: you onto something I just learned about PayPal. 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Would you rather 718 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 2: have no legs or no arms? 719 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 1: Can you just take one apiece? 720 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 2: No, no legs, no arms. 721 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,959 Speaker 15: The moms thought, man, I got to have them to Okay, 722 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 15: I'm gonna let you take them legs. I'm gonna have 723 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 15: them on. 724 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 2: Come on, Steve, no legs, no arms. 725 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna need them. I can't grab nothing, I 726 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 1: can't beat up there. At least you got on. You 727 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: can go somewhere. I can drive them. 728 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 2: Okay, you know you know. 729 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: How to be in wheelchairs and stuff and all. I 730 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 1: get them. 731 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 7: But cats are strong and hey them dudes, way you out, 732 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 7: many wear you out. But I'm just going with I like, 733 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 7: what the way I am? I'm gonna pass. 734 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 9: For you. 735 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 7: Yeah, this is the heyg And I'm sitting up here 736 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,359 Speaker 7: with my leg up on the desk right now thinking 737 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 7: if you wouldn't now, I'll be just slumped down beat 738 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 7: and fell out his chin. 739 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: I slide out on the floor, all right. 740 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 2: So would you rather walk barefoot in a public restroom? Restroom? 741 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 2: Or would you rather get food poisoning? 742 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 7: I gonna take that food poison I'd have been food 743 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 7: poisoned before. Yeah, let me go and start throwing up 744 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 7: because I'm not walking barefoot in that public restro. 745 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:37,879 Speaker 1: German Poles say, I know I'm throwing up either way. 746 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 10: I just. 747 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I got to blow torch the bottom of 748 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 1: my feet with my cigar lighter. 749 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 16: Try to fanize your feet. Hell, no, I need to 750 00:39:51,840 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 16: cross the burning sayings age. All right, I think we 751 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 16: have three for food poisoning on that one. 752 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 2: If you're keeping score, all right? 753 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 9: Would you rather save the world but die as a 754 00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 9: hero in the process, or save the world but no 755 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 9: one knows? 756 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 1: Man blank this world? What is you talking about? I'm 757 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 1: to save it and then die? Why would I do that? 758 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 7: I'd rather just be and see where the hell gonna 759 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:25,879 Speaker 7: have me, y'all. 760 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 1: I ain't never ask be no hero, no way. I 761 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: just want to be the survival. 762 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 10: Then die. 763 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 2: Last one. 764 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 9: Would you rather scream at each other? Or would you 765 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 9: rather give each other the silent treatment? 766 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: Give each other? 767 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 2: What the silent treatment? 768 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:50,920 Speaker 8: Oh? 769 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 1: Really, I take the side of the treatmentcause I want 770 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 1: you to be quiet anymore. 771 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 2: All right, all right, we're coming up at forty nine. 772 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, this is Monica, this is Spike Leader Hey, 773 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 1: this is Mary J. 774 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 2: Blood. 775 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 17: Yo. 776 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 1: This is Stephen A. Smith. 777 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 2: Hey, this is Saka Kahan. 778 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 1: You have no idea what it is. This is Carlos 779 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 1: Miller and this may or may not be the Steve 780 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Shows. 781 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. With a return of summer, 782 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 9: many singles often put aside their search for true love 783 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,760 Speaker 9: to enjoy some just fun, you know, some fun summer flings. 784 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 9: But a new survey suggests that such flings don't look 785 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,240 Speaker 9: so appealing to many. A new dating dot Com survey 786 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 9: finds that fifty two percent of singles would prefer to 787 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 9: find a serious relationship this summer, as opposed to just 788 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 9: casual sex. While most admit summer flings, including one night 789 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 9: stands and friends with benefits, are enjoyable, the majority say 790 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 9: they want deeper personal intimacy. 791 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,160 Speaker 2: Okay, so they don't want just. 792 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,360 Speaker 1: That's a woman making that statement. 793 00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 9: It's a new dating dot Com survey, and it didn't 794 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:13,800 Speaker 9: say women. It's that singles. So that's guys to Steve. 795 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,240 Speaker 7: Well, but there are guys that want something more meaningful 796 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 7: to tell your truth, you know. But if, but if 797 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 7: everybody will quit playing this game and just tell the 798 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 7: truth about how you feel. That's one thing. Tell the 799 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 7: truth about how you feel. I didn't say, tell the 800 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 7: truth about what you did truth now that the record show. 801 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:42,600 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, tell the truth about how you feel. It's 802 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 7: different from you don't ever tell truth about what you 803 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 7: did feel it y'all don't even know live rules. 804 00:42:54,160 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: We don't one night. What's wrong with a one night fling? 805 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: One night? 806 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,800 Speaker 9: You know? That's what I was going to ask you. Guys, 807 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,760 Speaker 9: So have you had a fling that you were serious 808 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 9: about or or that was fun? 809 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 2: At summer fling? You know that maybe turned into a 810 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 2: real romance. 811 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 8: At that moment when I get in that bed, which 812 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 8: I am dead serious. Yeah, at that moment there's no 813 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:18,400 Speaker 8: games being played. 814 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 1: We are dead serious. 815 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:19,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. 816 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,240 Speaker 1: Everything. 817 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, there's nothing I can focus on after the summer, 818 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 8: after the summer over is over. 819 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll try to go into a. 820 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 2: Fall with a. 821 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: Summer after I get on the plane. Really want what 822 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:46,359 Speaker 1: did you call him fun? 823 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 2: What these flings turned into a real romance? 824 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 15: Wow? 825 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 1: Guys, no relationship at all? 826 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 9: Or or do you regret you you've ever did not 827 00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 9: turn a fling into something real fling? 828 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 11: No? 829 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,279 Speaker 7: I just I like to just I used to like 830 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 7: to just fling it around as long as you can 831 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:16,879 Speaker 7: fling it around, and then yeah, okay, okay. 832 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:19,000 Speaker 1: Much. 833 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 7: But but you know it wasn't that wasn't back then. 834 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 7: It wasn't no social media nothing. When you lost the 835 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:24,400 Speaker 7: person that. 836 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 2: No more, where were you gonna stay? 837 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 8: Junior was saying, to be fair, sure, you know I 838 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,359 Speaker 8: wasn't always everything in to fling either. 839 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: You know I wasn't always the best thing. Some people 840 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 1: didn't want to fling with me. No more, I wouldn't it. 841 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Yeah, I would not here just killing every fling. 842 00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 9: I was in. 843 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes your fling was just. 844 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 7: Wasn't. 845 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 1: No, he ain't in it, he ain't had. 846 00:44:56,840 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 2: Just two way street. 847 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: So what about the one that got away? Is there one? 848 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 1: Maybe problem? There's always one and it hurts you to 849 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 1: your cold when you think about it. 850 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 9: Yeah, And like Steve said, you can't find them anymore, 851 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 9: or if you do see them again, they're with someone else. 852 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 1: They don't won't you no, mom, won't you be? 853 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 7: After social media and stuff came out, I found them. 854 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 7: Oh really, they didn't look the same though they look 855 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 7: was in that fling. I believe that picture about twelve 856 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 7: different ways. 857 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 9: So I think what we should get out of this 858 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,960 Speaker 9: is that singles sometimes are looking for more than just flings. 859 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 2: Okay, this song, that's what you got out of that? Yeah, 860 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,279 Speaker 2: what did you get out of it? Tell me? 861 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: Would you fling until you can't fling? No more? Coming up, Carlo. 862 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 2: We're just working with a bunch of players. Sound girl 863 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 2: coming up? Not no move. Next the prankster with a 864 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,000 Speaker 2: prank phone call. Right after this. You're listening to the 865 00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes 866 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:27,719 Speaker 2: after the hour. 867 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 9: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is 868 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:36,320 Speaker 9: get this my man moves mysteriously. My man moves mysteriously. Okay, 869 00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 9: we'll get into that in just a bit. Right now, 870 00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 9: it is time for the nephew and today's prank phone call. 871 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:43,719 Speaker 2: What you got neft? 872 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 1: We are looking for? Drawl? 873 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 2: Are draw this moment? 874 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:49,000 Speaker 1: Yes? 875 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, drawl is the subject. Now we're gonna have 876 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 4: to make that thing a little bit more exciting. Draws 877 00:46:55,880 --> 00:47:02,279 Speaker 4: at the retirement home. Draw had to retirement? All right, 878 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 4: you ever been to a retirement home. There's a lot 879 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:09,760 Speaker 4: of drawls. Drawls at the retirement home. 880 00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: Got dog? If you Hello? Oh yeah, who's this? 881 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 10: Who's this? 882 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 1: This is attorney David uh huh, all right, this is 883 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,800 Speaker 1: Anthony Anthony. 884 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 4: I was giving you a call. You used to work 885 00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 4: at the UH Senior Center, Am I right? Yes, okay, 886 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 4: we got a bit of a problem here. Uh are 887 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:39,000 Speaker 4: you familiar with miss Yes, yes, older lady, that that 888 00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 4: Caucasian lady that's here at the center. Yes, okay, Now 889 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 4: we got a problem. I know you retired in uh 890 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:51,720 Speaker 4: in December, but uh, there's cleaning out her room, cleaning 891 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 4: up her room. There's been some uh men's underwear found here, 892 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,240 Speaker 4: and she's saying that it's yours. 893 00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 10: Well, then you've got a problem. 894 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 11: I don't know where the ladies live at. 895 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 1: No, here here at the center, sir. 896 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 7: They're claiming that then at the center you find the 897 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 7: ladies and men underwear. 898 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 10: City was man or whoever and whatever and whatever. 899 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 15: Now, I don't waste my time with that. 900 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 11: If you're gonna call somebody, call somebody jitter state now, 901 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 11: But don't. 902 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 5: Waste my time. 903 00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: But you have a nice day. 904 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 7: Wait just a minute, sir. I don't want to have 905 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 7: to I don't want to have to get officials to. 906 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:23,680 Speaker 1: Come down there. 907 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,360 Speaker 7: Well, yes, sir, mister listen, I don't want I want to. 908 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,919 Speaker 7: I want to try to do this without your wife 909 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 7: finding out. 910 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:36,759 Speaker 1: But we need you. I got a few questions I 911 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:37,400 Speaker 1: need to ask. 912 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,440 Speaker 10: You tell your wife and Puffy you man, don't mess 913 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:41,879 Speaker 10: with me. You're wasting my time. 914 00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,359 Speaker 1: Come on call it back though. 915 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 13: Hey this is sorry, soase enjoy the music until I 916 00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:57,200 Speaker 13: answer your call. 917 00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:06,840 Speaker 7: R Hello, doors is time poor? He didn't cuss up, 918 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,880 Speaker 7: but he keeps hanging up. So so I need I 919 00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:12,239 Speaker 7: need you to help me out. 920 00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:16,919 Speaker 4: I want you to call from your phone uh huh 921 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 4: and put us on three way and say, hey, you 922 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 4: need to talk to these people. 923 00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 13: Okay, Hello, Hello, this is Tony's right here. I told 924 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,359 Speaker 13: him about this situation with so I just want him 925 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 13: to clear it up so you can stop calling him. 926 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, this is an attorney, David. Is he available? 927 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: I can speak with him? 928 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,360 Speaker 13: Sure, hold on the second attorney David. 929 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 4: Hello, mister uh Tony Anthony, could you possibly tell me 930 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,400 Speaker 4: what's going on? Why we would find your your underwear 931 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 4: and miss. 932 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:52,919 Speaker 1: In her room? 933 00:49:54,960 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 4: On the worst, I'm sorry, sir, actually on the worst, So, sir, 934 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 4: I don't I didn't work here. The younger the lady 935 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 4: is saying that it's actually your underwear that's been in 936 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,000 Speaker 4: her room here at the retirement home. 937 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 13: Well, you got the wrong one. 938 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,239 Speaker 11: This is a bad time to be messing with me. 939 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 10: And where are you at anyway, sir? 940 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm down here at my office right now. 941 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:16,440 Speaker 10: Where are you off for that? 942 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: Do you need to come and see me? 943 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 11: Yeah? 944 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 7: I need to come see you. 945 00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:20,279 Speaker 1: What do you offer that? 946 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,399 Speaker 4: What seems to be the situation because I'm getting I'm 947 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,080 Speaker 4: getting a hostile situation. You're sounding very hostile right now, sir. 948 00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 11: Well, I'm a hostile individual. 949 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:29,960 Speaker 1: Okay. I want to call me something. 950 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 11: About some old lady. You gonna call me by somebody, 951 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 11: call me something about when you see a yo. 952 00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, sir, you're gonna watch your tone and you're gonna 953 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 7: talk to me like you got something. 954 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 11: Damn, I ain't got to watch nothing. I'm an old man. 955 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 4: I ain't got to do but die. 956 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 11: I don't even pay tax. What you want you want 957 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 11: to do something, you go ahead and only do it, 958 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 11: but don't be calling my normal. 959 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Well I want to tell you this, sir. 960 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 4: Yes, this is Nephew Timing from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. 961 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 4: You have been prank phone call by your girl that's 962 00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:58,479 Speaker 4: standing right there with your. 963 00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 10: Daughters both y'all. 964 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 1: Why you do that? 965 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 10: Tom? 966 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 11: What's wrong with you? 967 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 12: Man? 968 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 4: Man? 969 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,680 Speaker 1: Man, you know this ain't no good time for me. 970 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 5: Man, I don't have time. 971 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 10: Man, You messing with you? 972 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 5: A man? 973 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 1: Man, I'm I'm I'm, I'm in the studio. I'm in 974 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,799 Speaker 1: New York City, Man, old New York. 975 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 11: Well you get a chance when he going back to 976 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 11: the city. You stopped through treating. Let me all ask you. 977 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 10: Put your picture on. 978 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 11: You so she wouldn't know what you look like next 979 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,440 Speaker 11: time I see you. 980 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 10: Oh, man, you got you got, but you must don't 981 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 10: know this woman. 982 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 1: You got the wrong one day. 983 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 11: You should have had somebody else. It ain't gonna work. 984 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 11: She couldn't get that off because she's crazy, is hell? Hey, 985 00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:56,480 Speaker 11: but I got something, miss Darryus. 986 00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,760 Speaker 7: Hey, I gotta ask you one more thing, Miss d Anthony. 987 00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,240 Speaker 7: What is the baddest radio show in the land? 988 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,759 Speaker 10: Man? You know what it is? 989 00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 9: To some. 990 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, mister Anthony, I love him. I'm too old for this. 991 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,239 Speaker 1: I ain't got don't don't you do what you want 992 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,960 Speaker 1: to do. I'm old. I don't even pay taxis. 993 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:29,880 Speaker 2: What I'm just saying, I don't even pay taxes. 994 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,680 Speaker 1: What this ain't what you won't many. 995 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:39,839 Speaker 2: I don't have time for this. Tell me about an 996 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 2: old woman. Tell me about a young woman. 997 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:47,239 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, we have found your drawls over here, Edward 998 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:47,839 Speaker 7: time at home. 999 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, how you know they weren't your jaws? He wouldn't. 1000 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 7: This is this is what it sounds like if you're 1001 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 7: prank Steve Harpy about five years from its gonna go. 1002 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 2: That's right to do that. Speaking of that, you got 1003 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 2: to prank him again? 1004 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,839 Speaker 1: Speaking of that, Oh my god, no, that last one. 1005 00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,640 Speaker 1: You know a lot of people almost got the poop 1006 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:19,000 Speaker 1: on the last He really really wasn't. Yeah, that was 1007 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: a very revealing prank. 1008 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 12: It was. 1009 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 1: Who are you talking about? 1010 00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:29,280 Speaker 16: Here we go, here we go behind You don't remember 1011 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,960 Speaker 16: behind the scenes or the prime a. 1012 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that. 1013 00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,279 Speaker 2: Yes, those are outtakes. 1014 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,880 Speaker 1: Yes, it is stupid. Keeps on moving, stupid. 1015 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:46,360 Speaker 4: July eleven, twelve thirteen, Helium Helium Comedy Club. That's in Atlanta. 1016 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,759 Speaker 4: That's Alpharetta. Baby the nephew was coming to town. Come 1017 00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,520 Speaker 4: see what the fuss is all about. I think it's 1018 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,600 Speaker 4: been about five six years and since I actually been 1019 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,719 Speaker 4: in the at L performing, so y'all come holler at 1020 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 4: your boy. 1021 00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,759 Speaker 1: The Nephew will be there all weekend long. 1022 00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 4: July eleven, twelve thirteen, Helium Comedy Club, Alpharetta at L. 1023 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,960 Speaker 4: You know where it is, Uhlo, Mississippi. I did and 1024 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 4: told y'all told yah, didn't I tell you didn't? 1025 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:11,840 Speaker 1: I tell you how was coming? And I'm coming? 1026 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 11: What? 1027 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:13,000 Speaker 9: What? 1028 00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:14,960 Speaker 11: What? What? What? This is? 1029 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 4: This is dukes and boots. Girl, You understand what I'm saying. 1030 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:22,280 Speaker 4: This is dukes and boots. So get ready for dukes 1031 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,480 Speaker 4: and boots. This is blues, blues and comedy, Dukes and 1032 00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 4: boots comedy. You don't want to miss this as an 1033 00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,640 Speaker 4: all white party hosted by yours truly enough youw time 1034 00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,640 Speaker 4: me farewell to it, the Sir Charles Jones, Saturday, July 1035 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:38,319 Speaker 4: twenty sixth Cayden's Bank Arena two below, Mississippi. Gonna hang 1036 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 4: out with my line brother when I get down there. 1037 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 4: Doctor Eric Lewis you understand that that boy's a bad 1038 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,880 Speaker 4: boy down there. He's a he's a real doctor. I 1039 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,399 Speaker 4: mean he's a he's he's a real, real, real, real 1040 00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,040 Speaker 4: real doctor. That's my lb all right, Greeks and grapes 1041 00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,520 Speaker 4: line up, get ready, Greeks and great music in comedy, fessial. 1042 00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:58,560 Speaker 4: We got George Clinton, we got your bond Ois, and 1043 00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 4: you got an Iphew tire me Johnathan Yolanda Adams. The 1044 00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,399 Speaker 4: list goes on and on and own August seventh through 1045 00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,360 Speaker 4: the ten napp of valley, Greeks and grapes. 1046 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 1: All vines lead to the apple. 1047 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 9: All right, Nowhew, thank you, congratulations on all of that, 1048 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 9: and coming up it is a strawberry letter for today. 1049 00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 2: The subject is my. 1050 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,360 Speaker 9: Man moves mysteriously. We'll get into that find out what 1051 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 9: that's all about right after this. This broadcast is sponsored 1052 00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,800 Speaker 9: by PayPal. I got to put you onto something I 1053 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:38,600 Speaker 9: just learned about PayPal. PayPal offers people more flexibility. 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We could 1071 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:36,879 Speaker 9: be reading your letter live on the air. 1072 00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 2: Try to help you out. 1073 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 1: Try to help you. 1074 00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 2: That's what we do around here. And you never know 1075 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,440 Speaker 2: what letter we read. It could be yours. 1076 00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 7: Okay, you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1077 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 7: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 1078 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 9: Subject my man moves mysteriously. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a 1079 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:56,600 Speaker 9: forty two year old woman and I've been in a 1080 00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,880 Speaker 9: relationship with a forty five year old man for three years. 1081 00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,840 Speaker 9: For the past two years, he's been living with me 1082 00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 9: because he needed some house repairs done around Christmas time 1083 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:08,000 Speaker 9: last year. 1084 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,200 Speaker 2: I caught him at his. 1085 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 9: Own house one Saturday when he was supposed to be 1086 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 9: visiting his parents in South Carolina. I pulled up in 1087 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,480 Speaker 9: his driveway and he met me at the door, and 1088 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 9: he told me that it was a dusty mess inside, 1089 00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 9: like a construction site, and I didn't need to come in. 1090 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:28,360 Speaker 9: He also didn't hug or kiss me and said he 1091 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,680 Speaker 9: was too dirty from working all day. I never questioned 1092 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,160 Speaker 9: him about not telling me he was still in town, 1093 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:36,760 Speaker 9: because I never want to be a nagger like his 1094 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 9: ex wife. 1095 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:39,680 Speaker 2: He did not come home that night. 1096 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,960 Speaker 9: The next morning, he came home and he had shaved 1097 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,680 Speaker 9: and he had on dress pants. He said he went 1098 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,280 Speaker 9: to church because his coworker got baptized. This man threw 1099 00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:52,320 Speaker 9: me into a lot within into a lot within twenty 1100 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 9: four hours, and I still didn't nag or ask him 1101 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 9: any questions. 1102 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 2: For the next few months, he would leave the house 1103 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,320 Speaker 2: and wouldn't say where he was going. 1104 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:03,160 Speaker 9: I would ride by his house, but the garage was 1105 00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:07,160 Speaker 9: always down, so if he was in there, I couldn't tell. 1106 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,439 Speaker 9: Last month, he said he was finished with his house 1107 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 9: and he was selling it. He said he felt like 1108 00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,240 Speaker 9: he was wearing out his welcome with me, and he 1109 00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,560 Speaker 9: might go stay with his parents until he finds a 1110 00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,560 Speaker 9: new house. I told him I wanted to see how 1111 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 9: he renovated his house, and he said that there's a 1112 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 9: tenant renting it now. I had a look of confusion, 1113 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,360 Speaker 9: and he went off on me for not believing him. 1114 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:32,840 Speaker 9: So much is going on with him, and I don't 1115 00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 9: know if I should believe him. He still says he 1116 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,480 Speaker 9: loves me and we still have sex, So why is 1117 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 9: he keeping me in the dark? 1118 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:40,560 Speaker 1: What's he up to? 1119 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 9: Well, there's nothing too mysterious about him, there really is, 1120 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:51,480 Speaker 9: and it's just a lot of lies. He's up to something, 1121 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 9: for sure, and everything that comes out of his mouth 1122 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,920 Speaker 9: is a lie. I mean, I'll admit that house repairs 1123 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,640 Speaker 9: can take a very long time, but he's been living 1124 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,560 Speaker 9: with you for the last two years, so please don't 1125 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 9: believe anything he says. He could have had a whole 1126 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:10,080 Speaker 9: house built in two years or less. Okay, anyway, all 1127 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,640 Speaker 9: the clues are there. First, not telling you he was 1128 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 9: still in town when he was, then preventing you from 1129 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 9: going in the house when you were in the driveway, 1130 00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 9: not hugging, not kissing you when he saw you, because 1131 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 9: I'm sure that's what he normally does. Who do you 1132 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 9: think is in that house that he's supposedly selling right now. 1133 00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 2: Is it a wife in there? Is it his kids? 1134 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:30,880 Speaker 1: Think? 1135 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 9: Think? Think you're worried about not being a nag, but 1136 00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,720 Speaker 9: you're worried about the wrong things. You still have to 1137 00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:40,320 Speaker 9: ask questions. You obviously can't take his word for anything, 1138 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 9: and you're feeling it. You know something isn't quite right. 1139 00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,800 Speaker 9: You definitely need receipts when he tells you things. 1140 00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:47,160 Speaker 1: Okay. 1141 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,920 Speaker 9: Now he's moving out because he thinks he's worn out. 1142 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,520 Speaker 9: He's welcome with you. No, you didn't tell him that. 1143 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,520 Speaker 2: He thinks that you may be on to him, and 1144 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 2: he knows he's wrong. That's why he's leaving. 1145 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 9: I know you think he loves you and you're confused, 1146 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 9: but please, love has nothing to do with this relationship. 1147 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:10,320 Speaker 2: Nothing. There's really no mystery at all about him. 1148 01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 9: Like I said earlier, I think you should break up 1149 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 9: with this loser and please stop having sex with him 1150 01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 9: until he comes clean. 1151 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 2: And that's not going to happen. 1152 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: Steve, Wow, where are these women who write these letters? 1153 01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:25,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know. 1154 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,480 Speaker 7: That you could be this gullible. I just really didn't. Man, 1155 01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,520 Speaker 7: it doesn't It just almost doesn't make any sense. You know, 1156 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:39,360 Speaker 7: I'm starting to think that women women would rather be 1157 01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:45,040 Speaker 7: in a relationship of some kind than to be in 1158 01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:47,680 Speaker 7: a real relationship. 1159 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:50,720 Speaker 1: Of some kind. You're right. 1160 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:54,360 Speaker 7: I think it's you keep holding on to these relationships 1161 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 7: that aren't rewarding and are not fulfilling to you, just 1162 01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 7: so you could say you in one. Because this don't 1163 01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:04,200 Speaker 7: make no deciense you forty two, he forty five. You've 1164 01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,919 Speaker 7: been in a relationship for three years. Past two years. 1165 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,040 Speaker 1: He's been living with you because he needed some house 1166 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:11,960 Speaker 1: repass done. Two years. 1167 01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:19,400 Speaker 7: Okay, Around Christmas time last year, I caught him at 1168 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:22,640 Speaker 7: his own house one Saturday when he was supposed to 1169 01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 7: be visiting his parents in South Carolina. 1170 01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,360 Speaker 1: I pulled up in his driveway. He met me at 1171 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 1: the door and told me it was dusty, messing side 1172 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 1: and construction site. 1173 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 7: I ain't need to come in. He also didn't hug 1174 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,200 Speaker 7: or kiss me. He said it was too dirty from 1175 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:40,040 Speaker 7: working all day. And that's all he had to tell. 1176 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:42,360 Speaker 11: You. 1177 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:43,439 Speaker 1: Go up to the house. 1178 01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:46,160 Speaker 7: It's two dirty here now, but it's too dirty for you. 1179 01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:50,760 Speaker 7: He don't hug or kiss you because he too dirty. 1180 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,000 Speaker 7: That's all he had to tell you, and you went 1181 01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 7: for that. 1182 01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 1183 01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,600 Speaker 7: I never questioned him about telling me, oh he was 1184 01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 7: still in town because I want to be a nagger 1185 01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 7: like his ex wife. Okay, so now you're being pleased, 1186 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:13,840 Speaker 7: you're getting played. You're actually creating the perfect scenario and 1187 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 7: excuse that he needs to do whatever he needs to do, 1188 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 7: and that's all you do it. So now you've created 1189 01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 7: the atmosphere for him to thrive in and tell you 1190 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:33,160 Speaker 7: anything he wants to tell you, and you just going 1191 01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 7: along with it. I don't want to be a nagger 1192 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:41,800 Speaker 7: like his ex wife. Well why was she nagging? Hell, 1193 01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:45,320 Speaker 7: you got to understand something. Now, most women don't nag 1194 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,120 Speaker 7: for no reason. They've been given a reason. That are 1195 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:51,320 Speaker 7: some women who do. But most women that nag you 1196 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:53,360 Speaker 7: about something is because you gave him a reason to. 1197 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:58,280 Speaker 1: And I think he gave the ex a reason. Yeah. 1198 01:02:58,360 --> 01:02:59,880 Speaker 2: Hold that, well that part two. 1199 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 9: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 1200 01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 9: Today's Strawberry letter subject is my man moves mysteriously. We'll 1201 01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,480 Speaker 9: get right back into it right after this. You're listening 1202 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 9: to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1203 01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 1: No one likes having to choose. 1204 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 7: That's why with the a Miraca's best lineup of hybrids 1205 01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,880 Speaker 7: from Hyundai. 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You've been dating this man three years. 1221 01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,040 Speaker 7: Two years ago, he moved in your house because he 1222 01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,960 Speaker 7: was doing some house repairs for two years. You went 1223 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,200 Speaker 7: over his house one Saturday when he said he was 1224 01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 7: going to see his mama in South Carolina. You go 1225 01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:31,280 Speaker 7: over his house and he supposed to be empty. He's 1226 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,880 Speaker 7: standing in there working. He meets you at the door, 1227 01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 7: don't let you in because he says it's a construction 1228 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,400 Speaker 7: site and is messing his dirty He don't hug and 1229 01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,479 Speaker 7: kiss you at the door. And he said the reason 1230 01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,480 Speaker 7: he hug and kiss you because he been working in 1231 01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:46,680 Speaker 7: there all day. You stupid, So you let him tell 1232 01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 7: you that. Then you said, I never questioned him about 1233 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,680 Speaker 7: telling me he was still in town because I never 1234 01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:55,440 Speaker 7: want to be a nagger like his ex wife. His 1235 01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 7: ex wife was nagging for something. Yes, she naggedim. And 1236 01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:02,080 Speaker 7: now you're starting see why I'm telling you right now. 1237 01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,320 Speaker 7: Most women don't nag for no reason. Some of them do, 1238 01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 7: but the majority of women, you give them a reason 1239 01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:13,040 Speaker 7: to turn into this nagic Okay, ready for this. He 1240 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 7: did not come home that night. He didn't come home. 1241 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,240 Speaker 7: He told you he was at his mama's house in 1242 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 7: South Carolina. You go over to his house and he 1243 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:26,960 Speaker 7: at that house. He don't let you in. 1244 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: You drive off here. The best one I've ever heard 1245 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 1: in my life. He did not come home that night. 1246 01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 7: The next morning he came home and said, and he 1247 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 7: was shaved, and he had on dress pants. He said 1248 01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 7: he went to church because his coworker got baptized. 1249 01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:46,080 Speaker 1: Or the best one I ever heard. 1250 01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 2: That's a good one. 1251 01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:55,480 Speaker 1: That boy boy, you're proud. I got my chest out 1252 01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:55,760 Speaker 1: on this. 1253 01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, got shaved and got on dress pants because I 1254 01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:06,640 Speaker 7: went to church because my coworker got baptized. Here's something 1255 01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 7: you can't find out if it's true or not. I 1256 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:10,320 Speaker 7: don't get what type research you do? 1257 01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:16,840 Speaker 1: What church? What coworker? What job was he referred to? 1258 01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:20,560 Speaker 7: You ain't gonna be able to research his best lie 1259 01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 7: I've ever heard. Co worker got baptized. Then she say, 1260 01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,000 Speaker 7: this man threw me into a lot the last twenty 1261 01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 7: four hours. That lie right there, my coworker got baptized. 1262 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,920 Speaker 7: That's the best live I've ever heard. It's so rare, 1263 01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 7: it has to be a lot. 1264 01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,920 Speaker 1: It ain't freedom enough. I'm gonna have to write a 1265 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 1: book called creative Lies. It just killed me up. 1266 01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:46,400 Speaker 7: And so this man threw me into a lot the 1267 01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,840 Speaker 7: last twenty four hours. I still don't nag or ask 1268 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:53,200 Speaker 7: him any questions. Lady, Okay, so now you're just gullable. 1269 01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 1: You just going along with it. 1270 01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 7: If you don't question your relationship on him, you just 1271 01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,760 Speaker 7: going along with whatever he says the next few months, 1272 01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:02,480 Speaker 7: he would leave a house and wouldn't say where he 1273 01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:02,919 Speaker 7: was going. 1274 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: Who can do that? 1275 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,920 Speaker 7: Who in a relationship has the freedom to come and 1276 01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 7: go and never say where you're going or when you're 1277 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 7: coming back. Now, I would ride by his house, but 1278 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,800 Speaker 7: the garage was always down, so if he was there, 1279 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 7: I couldn't tell. Last month, he said he was finished 1280 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:23,720 Speaker 7: with his house and he's selling. 1281 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:26,280 Speaker 1: All right. 1282 01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:27,000 Speaker 2: Now here we go. 1283 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 7: He said he felt like he was wearing out his 1284 01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,840 Speaker 7: welcome with me, and he might go stay with his 1285 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:34,880 Speaker 7: parents until he finds a new house. 1286 01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: What wait a minute, you leaving me? You're gonna go 1287 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,200 Speaker 1: live with your mama and nim. 1288 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,440 Speaker 7: Because you're wearing out your wealth and you're gonna go 1289 01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 7: stay with your parents to you find a new house. 1290 01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:48,400 Speaker 1: I told him, mom, I. 1291 01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:51,360 Speaker 7: Wanted to see how it renovated. His house Ready for this, 1292 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,720 Speaker 7: He said, there's a tenant rent it right now. 1293 01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:57,120 Speaker 2: Another good life. 1294 01:07:57,600 --> 01:07:58,880 Speaker 1: You gotta be proud. 1295 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:02,920 Speaker 7: This boy right here, So I can't let you in 1296 01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:06,960 Speaker 7: it because the tenant rented it right now. I had 1297 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 7: a look of confusion. Yeah, and he went off on 1298 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:16,360 Speaker 7: me for not believing him. Remember this best defense is 1299 01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:21,080 Speaker 7: a good offense. Yeah, so when you look confused, Oh, 1300 01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:27,720 Speaker 7: I'm lying now, Yeah, dog, she living there, has she 1301 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,600 Speaker 7: been living there? And you're not finn to go to 1302 01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,720 Speaker 7: your mama's house. You're finn to go over there. So 1303 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 7: telling you that there's a renter in the house and 1304 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 7: say you don't have to go by there looking for 1305 01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,760 Speaker 7: him no more. And right after he told you he 1306 01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 7: was gonna put it on the market and sell it. 1307 01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:43,479 Speaker 7: If you're gonna put the market on the selling, why 1308 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,720 Speaker 7: you got a tenant in that right now? Already so 1309 01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:48,720 Speaker 7: much is going on with him. I don't know if 1310 01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:52,000 Speaker 7: I should believe him. He still says he loves me 1311 01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:56,719 Speaker 7: and we still have sex. That's cause you let him. Yeah, 1312 01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,400 Speaker 7: so why is he keeping me in the dog? 1313 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:00,720 Speaker 1: What is he up to? 1314 01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:03,200 Speaker 7: So you want to know why he's keeping you in 1315 01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:07,599 Speaker 7: the dark because you don't seem to have a problem 1316 01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:11,479 Speaker 7: being in the dark. This is why he don't bring 1317 01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,919 Speaker 7: you into the light, because you don't have a problem 1318 01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:18,559 Speaker 7: being in the dark. You don't question him about nothing, 1319 01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 7: You don't ask him where going, what his worry about? 1320 01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 1: You like being in the dark. 1321 01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:24,720 Speaker 7: So now that you in the dog, but I'm lighting 1322 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,800 Speaker 7: it up for you there's a woman living in the 1323 01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 7: house that he's seeing. He gonna go live over there, 1324 01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:31,400 Speaker 7: and he ain't moving in with his mama. Why would 1325 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:32,639 Speaker 7: he move in in with a mama when he can 1326 01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:33,760 Speaker 7: sleep with you all with her? 1327 01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,639 Speaker 1: Lady? Shut up? By all right, Thanks Steve. 1328 01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:40,840 Speaker 9: Please leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Instagram 1329 01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:43,760 Speaker 9: at Steve Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter 1330 01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,080 Speaker 9: podcast on demand. 1331 01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,599 Speaker 1: Thus, people, this is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this is Shakka Kahan. 1332 01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 1: What's going on? This is your boy keV Hart. 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Let 1344 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 9: me tell you it couldn't have come at a better time. 1345 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:25,640 Speaker 9: I'm owe some furniture around last weekend in my new 1346 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,160 Speaker 9: place It turns out that was a really bad idea 1347 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,400 Speaker 9: because all that bending and lifting and pretending I'm still 1348 01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 9: twenty five didn't agree with my knees. So I grabbed 1349 01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,760 Speaker 9: a lead because when my body pain shows up, I 1350 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:40,920 Speaker 9: need something that lasts. With just one pill, a lead 1351 01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:43,360 Speaker 9: last up to twelve hours. Don't let those aches and 1352 01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,680 Speaker 9: pain hold you back from doing what's important to you. 1353 01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:50,599 Speaker 9: Use as directed. An Arizona woman who was the birthing 1354 01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:54,759 Speaker 9: partner for her best friend discovered that her own husband 1355 01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:59,960 Speaker 9: was the father of her friend's baby after she noticed 1356 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:03,479 Speaker 9: a rare hereditary birthmark on the baby girl's neck. It 1357 01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:06,800 Speaker 9: was identical to the one her husband had. Okay, her 1358 01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 9: husband has the exact same birthmark. 1359 01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:11,800 Speaker 2: This is crazy right here. 1360 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:17,120 Speaker 1: Okay, get at this with Dolky the same birthmark. So 1361 01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:20,600 Speaker 1: now Sureley, I'm not understanding though. Did she had a 1362 01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:21,800 Speaker 1: baby for this woman? 1363 01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, well she You know how when you well, you 1364 01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:28,600 Speaker 9: don't know because you've never had kids, but sometimes you know, 1365 01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,880 Speaker 9: you have what's called birthing partners. They're with you, they 1366 01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:35,439 Speaker 9: stand beside you, they're your friends, they're with you in 1367 01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:36,800 Speaker 9: the delivery all of the. 1368 01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:43,639 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, not a midwife, but just somebody there. 1369 01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:44,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, someone there. 1370 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 7: So at the birth of the baby, the baby come 1371 01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:50,479 Speaker 7: out and the baby got their birthmark on her neck, 1372 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,440 Speaker 7: just like just like your husband. 1373 01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 2: My husband. 1374 01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:57,519 Speaker 1: God, that's right, right. 1375 01:11:58,240 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 8: Uh. 1376 01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:03,560 Speaker 9: The mother was twenty eight years old, mother of four, heartbroken, 1377 01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:07,600 Speaker 9: just heartbroken the birth and friend, I should say, and 1378 01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:10,280 Speaker 9: she found out that her bestie had slept with her husband. 1379 01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:16,719 Speaker 9: She was in shop, needless to say, and she said, 1380 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,920 Speaker 9: when I found out, my friend was standing next to me. 1381 01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,920 Speaker 9: I looked at her and you could just tell she 1382 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:25,479 Speaker 9: couldn't say anything. She just dropped her head and looked 1383 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,360 Speaker 9: to the floor, and I just knew I couldn't even 1384 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:29,639 Speaker 9: process what had happened. 1385 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,040 Speaker 2: It was almost like a stage of grief. 1386 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:37,400 Speaker 9: When the shop were off, though, she forgave her friend, 1387 01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 9: who she called her sneaky friend, and they're still friends 1388 01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:48,000 Speaker 9: still this day. White people, they're still friends. She divorced usband. 1389 01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: Let's not be racist. These are let's just say these 1390 01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:51,160 Speaker 1: are not black. 1391 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:52,760 Speaker 2: Let's see what. 1392 01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:54,439 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. 1393 01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:59,799 Speaker 7: Black people out these white people. Yes, now, what's racist 1394 01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:00,479 Speaker 7: about that? 1395 01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:04,639 Speaker 2: So but the woman they. 1396 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,600 Speaker 1: Explained the birthmark, I would a black man would have 1397 01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:08,360 Speaker 1: something to say. 1398 01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:08,519 Speaker 7: That. 1399 01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:09,559 Speaker 1: Don't mean that something. 1400 01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:10,960 Speaker 2: That mean nothing. 1401 01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 1: They pitched my deck the same weight when I came here. Yeah, 1402 01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:17,800 Speaker 1: oh you're gonna go with that. That doesn't mean nothing? 1403 01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:19,439 Speaker 2: That what that means nothing? 1404 01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:26,720 Speaker 1: But that could be flurd in the neck when when 1405 01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 1: they being born. 1406 01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:33,320 Speaker 2: Going a live But she didn't divorcing her husband. 1407 01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:38,479 Speaker 9: Nothing, and she just found out that her husband had 1408 01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,719 Speaker 9: been with at least thirty women, he fathered two outside children. 1409 01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:44,360 Speaker 2: They were only married three years. But you know he 1410 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,719 Speaker 2: did a lot of damage in those three years. Yeah, 1411 01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 2: that's irrelevant to this case. 1412 01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:58,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, still would beat her behind. Yeah, come on whatever. 1413 01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:01,920 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1414 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:09,920 Speaker 9: So here's a question for you, guys, how attractive or 1415 01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:14,800 Speaker 9: handsome are you really? A new survey from super Drug 1416 01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:19,639 Speaker 9: Online Doctor found on average, men rate themselves a five 1417 01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:25,040 Speaker 9: point nine on an overall attractiveness scale of one to ten. Okay, 1418 01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:28,920 Speaker 9: only forty two percent of men are happy with their looks. 1419 01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:33,720 Speaker 9: Some other interesting findings of the survey are this, men 1420 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:38,400 Speaker 9: think The men think the ideal height is six feet 1421 01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 9: and the perfect weight is around one hundred and sixty 1422 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:42,840 Speaker 9: eight pounds. 1423 01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:45,599 Speaker 1: One hundred and sixty eight six Great. 1424 01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:46,880 Speaker 17: What. 1425 01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:49,280 Speaker 1: You went to wait? 1426 01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 2: Tommy went to hide. 1427 01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:51,639 Speaker 1: Okay, and none, it is right. 1428 01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:56,560 Speaker 7: See six feet, one hundred and sixty eight pounds. That 1429 01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:59,320 Speaker 7: sink guinea us all get out. That's the perfect one 1430 01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 7: about want to you know? One sixty eight. 1431 01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:07,960 Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's that's hungry, that's what that is. You know, 1432 01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 1: if I weighed one hundred and sixty eight pounds, how 1433 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:16,559 Speaker 1: tall are you? See? Six two one sixty eight ain't long? 1434 01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,680 Speaker 1: I'd actually try to whoop you out one sixty eight. 1435 01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:20,920 Speaker 1: I would to actually try, and you probably could. 1436 01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 2: I have to run, be weak, I have to run. 1437 01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,360 Speaker 7: But let's get out of this this number out of 1438 01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:33,840 Speaker 7: like I would. On the scale of one to ten, 1439 01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:37,040 Speaker 7: I think I'm riding by like a six or six point. 1440 01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:41,360 Speaker 2: Two, okay, writing that average five. That's why I think, 1441 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,759 Speaker 2: you know, junior, what about you? On a scale? 1442 01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:46,479 Speaker 8: I just want to thank the study for the point last, 1443 01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:50,599 Speaker 8: because I was a fast. Oh okay about a fast. 1444 01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:55,599 Speaker 7: What's on the scale of one to ten where most 1445 01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:58,720 Speaker 7: men find themselves the average man says five point nine? 1446 01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, there about six sixteen. 1447 01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:04,080 Speaker 7: I'm six two all the way around six two in 1448 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:06,479 Speaker 7: high six two in looks on the scale of one 1449 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:07,000 Speaker 7: to ten. 1450 01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 2: Okay, what about your junior. 1451 01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:11,479 Speaker 8: I'm a I thought i'd just about a five, you know, 1452 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,160 Speaker 8: but they gave me point nine, just the average I'll take. 1453 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,000 Speaker 1: They gave you. Don't have to take that point nine. 1454 01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:20,360 Speaker 1: All right, on back to that side when you feel all. 1455 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 9: Right, let's get to it. Let's get to the nephew 1456 01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:24,719 Speaker 9: scale of one to ten. How do you rate yourself? 1457 01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:27,679 Speaker 1: Nine point eight? 1458 01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:33,520 Speaker 7: Who the hell, mate, Jesus, you got all the hoogliness 1459 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,639 Speaker 7: out the wait shirl, I'm nine point and you've got 1460 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:37,840 Speaker 7: to be kidding me. 1461 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,640 Speaker 2: The last time I know who I am? 1462 01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:44,000 Speaker 1: What it hat or nine points? 1463 01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:47,120 Speaker 2: You're confident I'm comfortable with me. 1464 01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:50,599 Speaker 1: I'm nine point eight. I'll be all the way time. 1465 01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:56,759 Speaker 1: You probably about like a two. I ain't no two boy, okay, 1466 01:16:56,920 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: Charley calling, where where I'm at? Not nine at eight? 1467 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:02,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're with the other guys. 1468 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:07,240 Speaker 1: I think, yes, I ain't with them, these two people 1469 01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:10,479 Speaker 1: that think they know they are No. No, no, we're 1470 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:15,719 Speaker 1: not thinking. I think really our number is our height. 1471 01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:18,759 Speaker 7: Five? 1472 01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:25,560 Speaker 1: So five te wow, five four. I'm not I'm not 1473 01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:31,800 Speaker 1: ill about it. 1474 01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:35,680 Speaker 8: Be honest, okay, honest, you're looking at right now, what 1475 01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,800 Speaker 8: you're looking at and I'm. 1476 01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:41,240 Speaker 1: Just gonna do this because he's my nephew. We family. Oh, 1477 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:42,280 Speaker 1: I'm getting the current. 1478 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 2: Of the package. 1479 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:45,559 Speaker 1: Look at me, the whole package. 1480 01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,880 Speaker 7: Well, he lose something in height because the daverage man 1481 01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:52,040 Speaker 7: think the idea of height at six, So he lose 1482 01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 7: two inches off that. 1483 01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,080 Speaker 1: So he gotta be under five. And the scale of 1484 01:17:56,200 --> 01:17:58,000 Speaker 1: come on the scale of one to ten. In terms 1485 01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:03,639 Speaker 1: of looks. He about a six. I'm talking about broke. 1486 01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:04,080 Speaker 2: It's hot. 1487 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:07,200 Speaker 7: I'm talking about a hard six. I'm talking about creeping in. 1488 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,360 Speaker 7: I'm talking about like somebody said five eight, That would 1489 01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:11,240 Speaker 7: be a debate. 1490 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:16,439 Speaker 2: Sixty percent. 1491 01:18:16,640 --> 01:18:19,759 Speaker 9: Steve of the men say that I'm having great abs 1492 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:23,400 Speaker 9: make them attractive and having a great butt makes them attract. 1493 01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 7: Well, most men don't have abs, so let's start there. 1494 01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:32,840 Speaker 7: But I got I got a butt, Tommy, Tommy got 1495 01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:34,160 Speaker 7: plenty of is high to. 1496 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:41,880 Speaker 12: The time is up. 1497 01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 9: We'll be back with more of a Steve Hardy Morning 1498 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:49,640 Speaker 9: Show twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to 1499 01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:56,559 Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys, summer is one 1500 01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:59,519 Speaker 9: month away, and it's that time of year when arguments 1501 01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:02,519 Speaker 9: over the thermostead in the house heat up. 1502 01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:03,599 Speaker 1: So to speak. 1503 01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,000 Speaker 9: Couples notoriously argue over it being too hot or too 1504 01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:09,840 Speaker 9: cold in the house. So the US Department of Energy 1505 01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:13,479 Speaker 9: weighed in on what the ideal household temperature should be 1506 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:17,360 Speaker 9: this summer. According to the report, the ideal temperature to 1507 01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:21,840 Speaker 9: set your AC is seventy eight degrees seventy eight. 1508 01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 2: They're saying, what what what what? 1509 01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:29,080 Speaker 1: What department? 1510 01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:29,599 Speaker 10: Is this your? 1511 01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:32,679 Speaker 2: The US Department of Energy stee yes. 1512 01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:36,840 Speaker 1: A lot married to Mardrie. 1513 01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:40,559 Speaker 2: Cold Tom. 1514 01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:42,519 Speaker 1: It wouldn't bother me. 1515 01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:45,920 Speaker 7: We live and most I think, all three of me, 1516 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 7: and I think we all live in the meat lock 1517 01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:54,240 Speaker 7: them got a cold now I do, and all of 1518 01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,160 Speaker 7: us in ball hit it yea all the wait a minute, 1519 01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:01,720 Speaker 7: wait If you look at Zoom right now, and I 1520 01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:04,519 Speaker 7: asked you all this right here, ladies, ladies, look at 1521 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,360 Speaker 7: Joe Zoom right now, Look up at Jozoom. 1522 01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,880 Speaker 1: Can you tell which one ain't ball hitting? And the 1523 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:20,200 Speaker 1: answer is no, call me? Can you tell who is 1524 01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:21,559 Speaker 1: not ball hitting? 1525 01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:32,280 Speaker 9: Ju take your hand, ball all the way all right? 1526 01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:37,840 Speaker 9: Coming up next we'll play around this. You're listening to 1527 01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1528 01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:46,800 Speaker 1: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 1529 01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:51,559 Speaker 7: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. Until 1530 01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:55,599 Speaker 7: now introduce it the Hondai Ionic nine, a three row 1531 01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:59,320 Speaker 7: electric s u V with over three hundred miles of rage, 1532 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:03,000 Speaker 7: ultra as charging capability and lots of space. 1533 01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:06,000 Speaker 4: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face and an EV 1534 01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:08,840 Speaker 4: Visit Hondai USA dot com for more details. E b 1535 01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:11,400 Speaker 4: A estimated rings for ising nine based on fully charged 1536 01:21:11,439 --> 01:21:14,479 Speaker 4: batteries for comparison purpose only. Actual rings will vary based 1537 01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:15,360 Speaker 4: on several factors. 1538 01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:19,639 Speaker 2: Time out, guys were around it. Would you rather? Would 1539 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:25,280 Speaker 2: you rather have no legs or no arms? 1540 01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:27,479 Speaker 1: Can you just take one apiece? 1541 01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:33,719 Speaker 2: I no, no legs, no arms, man. 1542 01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:34,400 Speaker 1: I got to have them. 1543 01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 15: Okay, I'm gonna let you take them legs. I'm gonna 1544 01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:40,400 Speaker 15: have them all. 1545 01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:44,720 Speaker 2: Come on, Steve, no legs, no arms. 1546 01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:47,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna need them. Mom, I can't grab nothing. 1547 01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:49,360 Speaker 1: I can't beat up there. At least you got on. 1548 01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:52,479 Speaker 1: You can get it. You can go somewhere. I can 1549 01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:53,479 Speaker 1: drive them. 1550 01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 2: Okay. 1551 01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:57,080 Speaker 1: You know you know how to be at wheelchairs and 1552 01:21:57,120 --> 01:22:01,400 Speaker 1: stuff and all. I can you catch it? Strong man? 1553 01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:01,679 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1554 01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:03,760 Speaker 1: Hey them dudes? Way you out? 1555 01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:07,519 Speaker 7: Man? Yeah, wear you out. But I'm I'm just going 1556 01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:10,120 Speaker 7: with I like what the way I am. I'm gonna 1557 01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:14,560 Speaker 7: pass you. 1558 01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1559 01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:19,640 Speaker 7: And I'm sitting up here with my leg up on 1560 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:24,240 Speaker 7: the desk right now thinking if you wouldn't now, I 1561 01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:26,160 Speaker 7: could just slumped down beat and fell out this. 1562 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:30,120 Speaker 1: Chain, I slide out on the floor. 1563 01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:31,519 Speaker 4: All right. 1564 01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:37,280 Speaker 2: So would you rather walk barefoot in a public restroom restroom? 1565 01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:40,160 Speaker 2: Or would you rather get food poisoning? 1566 01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:43,559 Speaker 1: I gonna take that food poison I don't get food 1567 01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:45,519 Speaker 1: poisoned here for yeah. 1568 01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:47,719 Speaker 7: Let me gonna start throwing up because I'm not walking 1569 01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:49,200 Speaker 7: barefoot in that public restroom. 1570 01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:51,880 Speaker 1: The German. 1571 01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:55,680 Speaker 7: I'm throwing up either way. 1572 01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:56,120 Speaker 11: I just. 1573 01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:00,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I got to bloat, torch the bottom of 1574 01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:04,439 Speaker 7: myth feet with my cigar lighter, try. 1575 01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:10,519 Speaker 1: To sanitize your feet. I need to cross the burn 1576 01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:11,639 Speaker 1: and sayings again. 1577 01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:21,360 Speaker 9: All right, I think we have three for food poisoning 1578 01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:24,800 Speaker 9: on that one, if you're keeping score, all right? Would 1579 01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:27,479 Speaker 9: you rather save the world but die as a hero 1580 01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:32,080 Speaker 9: in the process, or save the world but no one knows? 1581 01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,479 Speaker 7: Man blank this world? What is you talking about? I'm 1582 01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:38,360 Speaker 7: finninga save it and then die? Why would I do that? 1583 01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:43,400 Speaker 7: I'd rather just be here and see where the hell 1584 01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:44,240 Speaker 7: gonna have me y'all. 1585 01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:51,680 Speaker 1: I ain't the mask be no hero, no way. I 1586 01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:53,760 Speaker 1: just want to be the survival. 1587 01:23:56,000 --> 01:24:01,280 Speaker 2: Wind it in die last one. Would you rather scream 1588 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:03,840 Speaker 2: at each other? Or would you rather give each other 1589 01:24:03,960 --> 01:24:05,000 Speaker 2: the silent treatment? 1590 01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 1: Give each other? 1591 01:24:06,040 --> 01:24:08,080 Speaker 2: What show the silent treatment? 1592 01:24:09,400 --> 01:24:09,559 Speaker 10: Oh? 1593 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:11,880 Speaker 1: Oh, I really I take the side of the treaty 1594 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:15,639 Speaker 1: because I want you to be quiet anyway. 1595 01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:19,400 Speaker 17: All right, all right, we're coming up at forty nine, 1596 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:29,120 Speaker 17: coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour. It's 1597 01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:30,960 Speaker 17: our last break of the day, and we'll close out 1598 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,160 Speaker 17: the show with Steve Harvey right after this. 1599 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,800 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1600 01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:42,240 Speaker 1: Hey, this is John Legend. 1601 01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:44,000 Speaker 2: Hi, this is Felicious Sean. 1602 01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:47,160 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Motown recording artist camp. Hey, I'm here. 1603 01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:49,439 Speaker 1: What's up. This is Chris Rock. Hey, guys, what's up? 1604 01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:50,919 Speaker 2: Good morning? This is Tony Braxton. 1605 01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:52,000 Speaker 1: You already know what time in. 1606 01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:54,599 Speaker 2: It's boy DC, Young Flag. 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Learn more at PayPal dot com, 1615 01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:26,160 Speaker 12: slash by now pay later. 1616 01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:29,880 Speaker 2: All right, here we are, Steve, last break of the day. 1617 01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:30,760 Speaker 2: It's been a good day. 1618 01:25:31,640 --> 01:25:33,479 Speaker 7: I guess a lot of things have been on my 1619 01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 7: mind in terms of closing remarks because I try to 1620 01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:41,679 Speaker 7: really really cheap people, especially good people who are trying 1621 01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,600 Speaker 7: to stay on the straight and arrow and the positive, 1622 01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:48,000 Speaker 7: and it gets difficult at times. I had a young 1623 01:25:48,120 --> 01:25:52,439 Speaker 7: man text me the other day and said, big dog, 1624 01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:54,200 Speaker 7: I just need some of your wisdom. 1625 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:54,479 Speaker 1: Man. 1626 01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:58,840 Speaker 7: I've been doing everything, man, I've been praying. My girl 1627 01:25:59,040 --> 01:26:02,519 Speaker 7: is tripping. I don't know how to handle it. It 1628 01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:05,400 Speaker 7: just seems like, man, that God ain't letting this thing 1629 01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,360 Speaker 7: happen quick enough for me. 1630 01:26:07,479 --> 01:26:07,679 Speaker 13: Man. 1631 01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:11,400 Speaker 7: And I'm thinking about going back to my old ways, man, 1632 01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:14,560 Speaker 7: but I don't want to. And so I was just 1633 01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:17,720 Speaker 7: talking to him about a way to handle it. I 1634 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:20,120 Speaker 7: sent him, send him a couple of things, you know, 1635 01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:23,720 Speaker 7: and he was talking about how hard it was, and 1636 01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:25,920 Speaker 7: I just told him I said, look, man, being successful 1637 01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:29,640 Speaker 7: is very, very difficult. If being successful were easy, come on, 1638 01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:32,360 Speaker 7: how many times have you heard that? I don't even 1639 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 7: have to say it again, everybody would be it. But 1640 01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:38,160 Speaker 7: when you're going through something, folks, you have to understand 1641 01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:44,559 Speaker 7: that you're being tested. You're being processed and tested, You're 1642 01:26:44,600 --> 01:26:51,120 Speaker 7: being pushed through the furnace, you're being molded shaped. Sometime 1643 01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:53,960 Speaker 7: you get real hot in that furnace and you turn liquid, 1644 01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:55,719 Speaker 7: and it looked like you ain't gonna be nothing. 1645 01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:59,360 Speaker 1: But he just pouring you into this mold. That's all 1646 01:26:59,439 --> 01:26:59,800 Speaker 1: he doing. 1647 01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:03,240 Speaker 7: All the trials and tribulations and hard times and difficulties 1648 01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:06,160 Speaker 7: that you find yourself facing, he just molding you. 1649 01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:06,519 Speaker 1: Man. 1650 01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:10,160 Speaker 7: He just getting you ready to receive it, because when 1651 01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:12,640 Speaker 7: you get it, people are gonna come after it. 1652 01:27:13,040 --> 01:27:15,320 Speaker 1: When you get it, people are gonna want it. 1653 01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:18,720 Speaker 7: When you get it, you're gonna draw attention all these 1654 01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:20,200 Speaker 7: things you asking God for. 1655 01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:21,479 Speaker 1: When he give it to you. 1656 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:25,040 Speaker 7: You gotta be ready to receive it, and you got 1657 01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:27,639 Speaker 7: to know how to appreciate it and handle it when 1658 01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:29,200 Speaker 7: you get it, and you got to be able to 1659 01:27:29,240 --> 01:27:31,880 Speaker 7: stay in all the storms that come with it. Because 1660 01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:34,960 Speaker 7: to whom much is given, much is required. So guess 1661 01:27:35,040 --> 01:27:38,040 Speaker 7: what He requires a lot of you before he give. 1662 01:27:37,960 --> 01:27:38,320 Speaker 1: It to you. 1663 01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:43,240 Speaker 7: It ain't just to whom much is given, much is required, 1664 01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:46,400 Speaker 7: Meaning after those of you who get something that you 1665 01:27:46,560 --> 01:27:48,680 Speaker 7: owe it to a bunch of people, you ain't got 1666 01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:50,000 Speaker 7: to look at it just like that. 1667 01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:53,439 Speaker 1: To whom much is given, much is required. That great 1668 01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:55,160 Speaker 1: thing that you're asking God. 1669 01:27:55,120 --> 01:27:57,840 Speaker 7: For, that incredible thing that you want him to see 1670 01:27:57,960 --> 01:28:00,360 Speaker 7: you through, Well, when he give it to you and 1671 01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:03,560 Speaker 7: he see you through it, he gonna require something of 1672 01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:04,800 Speaker 7: you to get through it. 1673 01:28:05,120 --> 01:28:05,800 Speaker 1: Now when he. 1674 01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:10,439 Speaker 7: Get through it, Now, guess what. You've been tested. You've 1675 01:28:10,439 --> 01:28:13,920 Speaker 7: been five baptized, you've been ran through the meal. 1676 01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:18,479 Speaker 1: You can handle it. Now, you appreciate it. Now, you 1677 01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:19,360 Speaker 1: worked for it. 1678 01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:22,439 Speaker 7: Now you earned it, and you're gonna respect it a 1679 01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:25,400 Speaker 7: little bit more than somebody who was just giving something. 1680 01:28:27,439 --> 01:28:30,840 Speaker 7: So when you're going through something, you're being tested. You've 1681 01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:34,120 Speaker 7: been pushed through the furnace. You come out on the 1682 01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,360 Speaker 7: other side, you're gonna be fine, but you can't quit 1683 01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:40,360 Speaker 7: for you get to the other side. One of the 1684 01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:42,479 Speaker 7: things I set this young man was a plaque that 1685 01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:44,240 Speaker 7: a guy sit in me when I was going through 1686 01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:47,679 Speaker 7: some really dark moments in my life. The plaque said, 1687 01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:54,360 Speaker 7: if you're going through hell, don't stop, keep going. If 1688 01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:59,960 Speaker 7: you going through hell, don't stop keep going. Why would 1689 01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:04,080 Speaker 7: you stop in hell? Let's think about that. And you 1690 01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:07,240 Speaker 7: gotta watch the people in your life, man, because you 1691 01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:11,240 Speaker 7: got If you're gonna allow people to make more withdraws 1692 01:29:11,320 --> 01:29:14,280 Speaker 7: than deposits into your life, you gonna soon be in 1693 01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:14,919 Speaker 7: the negative. 1694 01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:18,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to know when to close the accounts. 1695 01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:23,000 Speaker 7: You got some people in your life where you need 1696 01:29:23,120 --> 01:29:27,599 Speaker 7: to close the accounts. No, no, no, no, No more 1697 01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:31,720 Speaker 7: accounts receivable, no more accounts, pay a boat, no more 1698 01:29:31,840 --> 01:29:34,200 Speaker 7: calling me every time it get dark in your life. 1699 01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:35,280 Speaker 1: And then when something. 1700 01:29:35,160 --> 01:29:38,400 Speaker 7: Happened in mind, I can't find you nowhere. No more 1701 01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:42,599 Speaker 7: one sided friendships, no more. I'm giving and you taking, 1702 01:29:42,720 --> 01:29:46,080 Speaker 7: And when I need something, you ain't there. Oh excuse 1703 01:29:46,439 --> 01:29:48,760 Speaker 7: I read something on snows page and I copied it, 1704 01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:51,080 Speaker 7: and I'd have sent it to a couple of people already. 1705 01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:56,240 Speaker 7: Excuse me for bothering you, my bad. I'm sorry. I 1706 01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,879 Speaker 7: forgot you. Only fool with me when you need something. 1707 01:30:01,080 --> 01:30:05,120 Speaker 7: Oh excuse me, I'm sorry, my bad. I don't mean 1708 01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:08,840 Speaker 7: to bother you. I forgot you only fool with me 1709 01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:12,720 Speaker 7: when you need something. If you allow people to make 1710 01:30:12,800 --> 01:30:16,479 Speaker 7: more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you gonna soon 1711 01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:19,120 Speaker 7: be in the negative. You got to know when the 1712 01:30:19,200 --> 01:30:22,720 Speaker 7: close did, it counts everybody in your life right now. 1713 01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:27,240 Speaker 7: You don't need them. You don't need them, not everybody. 1714 01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:30,920 Speaker 7: Some people just ain't good for you. I don't know 1715 01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:33,439 Speaker 7: if you notice it or not. You keep trying to 1716 01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:35,840 Speaker 7: hang on in there and believe that they gonna be better. 1717 01:30:35,920 --> 01:30:40,439 Speaker 7: You can pray for them too, But some people just 1718 01:30:40,520 --> 01:30:43,880 Speaker 7: who they are now. Prayer changes thing. But if they 1719 01:30:43,880 --> 01:30:46,120 Speaker 7: ain't praying for theirself, I don't really know how they work. 1720 01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:49,080 Speaker 7: There are some people that can explain that I can't. 1721 01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:51,439 Speaker 1: I just know. 1722 01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:54,280 Speaker 7: Man, when you keep on telling somebody something, they ain't listening, 1723 01:30:54,800 --> 01:30:58,280 Speaker 7: and they keep bringing your bad news, and they always 1724 01:30:58,360 --> 01:31:00,120 Speaker 7: the one man that you hear what they said it 1725 01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:03,120 Speaker 7: about you? Man, you know what I need? Man, You 1726 01:31:03,160 --> 01:31:05,360 Speaker 7: ain't gonna believe what happened to me. Oh man, I 1727 01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:07,640 Speaker 7: can't get around there today. I'm tied up. 1728 01:31:08,479 --> 01:31:12,200 Speaker 1: You're done. If you allow people to make more withdraws 1729 01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:15,680 Speaker 1: than deposits in your life, you're gonna soon be in 1730 01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:20,320 Speaker 1: the negative. You have to know when to close the accounts. 1731 01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:23,639 Speaker 1: Just close the accounts. You'll be better for it. Those 1732 01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:28,719 Speaker 1: are my closing remarks, big up, all right now wow. 1733 01:31:30,280 --> 01:31:32,400 Speaker 2: And uh huh yeah. 1734 01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:33,760 Speaker 9: You can go ahead and drop it. 1735 01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:35,600 Speaker 2: You can go ahead because some. 1736 01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:40,000 Speaker 1: People need to hear it. I don't know a person 1737 01:31:40,560 --> 01:31:43,800 Speaker 1: that's trying to be anything that don't need to hear that. 1738 01:31:46,040 --> 01:31:46,519 Speaker 1: I tell y'all. 1739 01:31:46,560 --> 01:31:47,080 Speaker 2: One more thing. 1740 01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:58,160 Speaker 9: Yes, for all Steve Harvery contacts, no purchase necessary, void 1741 01:31:58,240 --> 01:32:01,479 Speaker 9: We're prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least 1742 01:32:01,600 --> 01:32:05,360 Speaker 9: eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1743 01:32:05,479 --> 01:32:09,920 Speaker 9: visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 1744 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:10,599 Speaker 9: Morning Show.