1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Sabbing a gang. Welcome to Unbreakable, a mental health podcast 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: with Jay Glazer. I'm Jay Glazer, and today the messages 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: make the choice to get help, But real quick before 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: we hit that. If you're like many people, you may 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: be surprised to learn that one in five adults in 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: this country experienced mental illness last year. Get far. Too 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: many fail to receive the support they need. Carolyn Behavioral 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: Health is doing something about it. They understand that behavioral 9 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: health is a key part of Hello Health, delivering compassionate 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: care that treats physical, mental, emotional, and social needs. Intend 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: Carolyn behavioral health raising the quality of life through empathy 12 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: and action. I'm getting so many messages from people who 13 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: listen to this podcast have read my book I'm Breakable, 14 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: and they're like, what do I do? Like, Madam, I'm 15 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: really depressed. I'm living in the gray. I'm living in 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: the gray. And I always tell people make the choice 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: to get help today, not tomorrow, not a week from now, 18 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: not a month from now. Today, And that means, hey, 19 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: there's several places on line you can go for therapy, 20 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: tell him medicine, let's go there. This place is online 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: you could look to learn breathwork place it online for meditation, 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: so I learned. So there's different things you could do. 23 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: But my point is, get help today. And have a 24 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: lot of people I'm saying get help today. They keep 25 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: coming back to me a month later. Oh my gosh, 26 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: my Gray is still there. What have you done? Help yourself? 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: You gotta get help today. Right If we're in the 28 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: sports world, which is where the world I come from, 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: If a wide receiver has the drops, he don't just 30 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: keep doing the same thing. He goes out there with 31 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: the junt machine and goes out there with his coaches, 32 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: and he's, ma'am, how are we gonna get over this? 33 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: How are we gonna get through these? He doesn't just 34 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: sit there and wait for it to change, because it's not. 35 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: So you got to really take the initiative. And it 36 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: takes you less than a second to make that decision 37 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: to say I'm gonna get help. And when you do 38 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: make that choice, oh my god, it feels still liberating, 39 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: feels great because you're not just at the mercy of 40 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: this anymore. You're taking to control of it. So take control, 41 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: make the choice to get help. Whatever that looks like. Right. 42 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: That means talking to your friends or your family about it. 43 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: Let them know means trying to get a therapist immediately. 44 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: And that's the first and foremost thing we should do, 45 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: is try and get a therapist to help us. That 46 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: means learning these other things. Writing gratitude lists go on 47 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 1: in lineigure, figuring out ways other people have gotten through 48 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: their gray Some of the things you learn from this 49 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: and act them not tomorrow, today and knack them today. 50 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: We've done enough on this where we could get We've 51 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 1: given you the tools to start getting through it today. 52 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: So let's not wait anymore. Let's make that choice. Life 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: is about our choices. Decide to make the choice today 54 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: to get help and change your life. Let's keep walking 55 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 1: this walk together.