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Speaker 5: To I don't joy, Yeah, Joy.

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Speaker 2: You know you know.

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Speaker 6: Come come on you think, huh? I sure will? Good

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Speaker 6: morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on dig

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Speaker 6: me now.

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Speaker 7: One and only Steve Harvein got a radio show, keep

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Speaker 7: saying it can't stop. Man, oh man, oh man, what

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Speaker 7: a journey it has been. I thank God for every

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Speaker 7: single step of the way. I learned to thank him

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Speaker 7: for the bad times too, because it taught me something.

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Speaker 7: All the bad times, all the failures, they became valuable

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Speaker 7: experiences in my life. Every time I failed, I learned

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Speaker 7: a little bit more about getting up. Every time I

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Speaker 7: was told no, it moved me one step closer to yes.

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Speaker 7: It made me stronger, It toughened my skin. It made

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Speaker 7: me learn how to deal with haters. It made me

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Speaker 7: learn how to deal with people who don't have your

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Speaker 7: best interest at heart. Man, ain't y'all all out there

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Speaker 7: feeling me on this one right here. It teaches you

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Speaker 7: you can depend on and who you came. And at

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Speaker 7: the end of the day, what has taught me most

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Speaker 7: of all my hardships in my life?

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Speaker 8: And it's really about me and God.

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Speaker 7: That is the one factor that has been never changed

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Speaker 7: in my life. God has always been the same for

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Speaker 7: me and for you and for all of us. His

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Speaker 7: word is true. It don't waiver, it don't shake. You

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Speaker 7: can shape it. Readjust it if you want to. It

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Speaker 7: is really the way it's written. It really is. You

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Speaker 7: have your version of it if you want to. But

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Speaker 7: if you just read it the way it is, it's

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Speaker 7: real clear. Ain't no loopholes in it. Every time you

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Speaker 7: jump through a loophole, there's something over there written that

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Speaker 7: counters that. So is what I want to get to today.

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Speaker 7: Listen to me. You got it within you? Oh it's there,

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Speaker 7: Just use it. Listen to me close. You got it

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Speaker 7: within you, Oh it's there, Just use it. If you

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Speaker 7: this morning. Got it within you?

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Speaker 8: Oh it's that.

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Speaker 7: Just use it. Steve, what you're talking about see, here's

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Speaker 7: what's wrong with a lot of people. Here's what's stopping

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Speaker 7: so many people. You keep looking. We keep looking for

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Speaker 7: others to save us.

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Speaker 8: We keep looking.

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Speaker 7: For someone else to rescue us. We always looking for

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Speaker 7: some group of people or somebody to accept us. We

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Speaker 7: of people who says we matter. We spend so much

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Speaker 7: And hey, you don't get accepted, and don't nobody really

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Speaker 7: and giving you credibility and throw you into something? Nah,

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Speaker 7: Oh it's there, Just use it. You want to know

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Speaker 7: and it's the God in you. Man. I wish I

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Speaker 7: All of this. Man that promised that somebody told you

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Speaker 7: The check ain't there? Oh man? How many disappointments in

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Speaker 7: Look at the disappointment in my life right now. But

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Speaker 7: let me explain something to you. When you get rid

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Speaker 7: of all of that, guess what you really got. You

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Speaker 7: got God, that's the whole enchilada. Baby, that's the ball

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Speaker 8: Listen to me.

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Speaker 7: If you got God, do you understand that that's sufficient?

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Speaker 7: That that say all you need? Can you feel me?

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Speaker 8: Now?

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Speaker 7: You and God and the God in you, it's really

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Speaker 7: for approval, to gain acceptance, to get credibility, somebody to

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Speaker 7: save you, the calvary coming over the hill. Why won't

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Speaker 7: they recognize me? Why won't they give me closure? Why

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Speaker 7: Don't they know I'm laid off. When you get through it,

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Speaker 7: all of that whining, it's gonna come down to you

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Speaker 7: and God and the God in you. If God created

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Speaker 7: man in his own image, God is a part of you,

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Speaker 7: that is a piece of you that's godly. I don't

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Speaker 7: care who you are. I don't care what mistake you made.

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Speaker 7: The murderer that's sitting in jail today because of a

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Speaker 7: God in him. The biggest criminal. When he gets through

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Speaker 7: there by his self. That is a piece of God

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Speaker 7: in him that lets him know this ain't the way.

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Speaker 7: It's wrong. You can love his money if you want

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Speaker 7: to put you out of line, and you gonna pay.

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Speaker 8: At the end of the day.

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Speaker 7: When I get through on this microphone, on this TV,

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Speaker 7: all these articles, when I get through it all of that,

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Speaker 7: you know what it comes down to.

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Speaker 8: Because see, it ain't always been this way for me.

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Speaker 8: You know, I've been trying to get here, trying to

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Speaker 7: It's been me and God and it's been to God

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Speaker 8: It changed my whole life.

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Speaker 7: Your whole life can get changed when you realize that

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Speaker 7: it's really you and God and the God in you,

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Speaker 7: really man. People disappoint you. You argue with people, You

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Speaker 7: All of a sudden you find out they talking about

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Speaker 7: it's crazy out of here. You be going, what's going on?

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Speaker 7: What's really going on? But that's cause guess what you

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Speaker 7: got all yours banked on them? When you going to

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Speaker 7: bank it on the one thing that you can count

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Speaker 7: on God's word ain't changed since we got here.

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Speaker 8: It's solid.

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Speaker 7: If you pray, believe, work hard, don't doubt you'll get

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Speaker 7: whatever you ask for. That's a fact that ain't no rumor.

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Speaker 7: Speakle out here doing it every day. Now, if you

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Speaker 7: ain't trying that, listen to me. You got it within you.

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Speaker 7: Oh it's there. You just gotta use it. There is

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Speaker 7: a weapon available to man called prayer. Use that.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 7: I look at my life, man, whenever I get a

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Speaker 7: little shaky, I look back. Oh hey man, I ain't

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Speaker 7: really talking with him too much yesterday. Oh, tighten up.

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Speaker 7: I'm just telling you real. You got a better answer.

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Speaker 7: Oh oh oh I know what. Oh my bad, Steve. Now, Steve,

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Speaker 7: I ain't winning costs. They ain't get me the loan

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Speaker 7: all now, Steve, I ain't winning costs.

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Speaker 8: She left me. He left me.

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Speaker 7: I ain't winning, Steve, because I got stuck with these kids.

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Speaker 7: I got a divorce. They fired me. They foreclothes on

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Speaker 7: my own. That's why I ain't winning. You ain't winning

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Speaker 7: because you ain't praying. You got to pray and believe

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Speaker 7: in work. That's the key. Come on, man, you got

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Speaker 7: it within you. Oh it's there. You just got to

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Speaker 7: use it. It's just you and God, and it's to

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Speaker 7: God in you. And what y'all gonna do about that?

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show.

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Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, Let's have it.

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm talking about, your undivided attention, Steve

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Speaker 7: Harvey Morty showing live. When I say live, I mean

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Speaker 7: L I V E live. L is for living, because

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Speaker 7: that's what we are. Is for ignorant, it's what we

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Speaker 7: gonna be. V is for victory is what we want

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Speaker 7: to win. Is E is for everybody. Put that again.

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Speaker 7: That that's what's called a acnal. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: That's a that's an acamyl. That that's that's a word

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Speaker 7: you say, but it acts like it's so mel That's

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Speaker 7: why they call it an acony. Yes, sir, Yes, sir.

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Speaker 7: Let the world be told and let what you're told

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Speaker 7: be the word. Huh, How that's better? You better man?

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Speaker 7: Been to a church where the preacher and the deacon

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Speaker 7: be jacking him up, but he don't really be saying nothing.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you about goodness.

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Speaker 7: You want to hear about goodness.

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Speaker 1: Chocolate is good.

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Speaker 7: Two words good means yummy and nests means it's all

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Speaker 7: in a group. In the words of my favorite poet

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Speaker 7: of all time. Oh no, no, no, not Angela Mike. Oh,

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Speaker 7: I ain't talking about Jamie Brown. Oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 7: who is I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: Come on, Pastor Tupac.

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Speaker 7: In the words of Tupac, I get a rhyme. You

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Speaker 7: know you know what I say? You know? Tell me

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Speaker 7: how do you want it?

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Speaker 1: Come on, I'm preaching now, preaching now.

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Speaker 7: In the words of another great poet, Uh, Deacon q

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Speaker 7: Ice to be exact, phone you love. Yes, the words

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Speaker 7: Jane Brown talking loud and saying nothing.

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Speaker 9: Amen.

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Speaker 7: The church said, yeah, a man again, what is the correction?

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Speaker 7: You wont sister of calor on you earlier on announcement?

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Speaker 7: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Good? Cali Forni your love.

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Speaker 2: That's the book of doctor Dre and Tupac, not ice Cube.

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Speaker 9: Amen?

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Speaker 1: Amen?

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Speaker 7: Oh really man? Yeah, well, let the church say this

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Speaker 7: right here. In the words of Roscoe Wallace. You don't

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Speaker 7: know that you weren't there, straw.

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Speaker 1: Berry, Good morning to you, pastor calling for reial, Good morning.

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Speaker 7: We got the best job in the world.

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Speaker 2: Morning, everybody, Yes, we do. Nephew Tommy pastor Pastor, Good morning,

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Speaker 2: I'm on fire today.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, good day, good day.

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Speaker 1: All right, listen, uh coming up next, nephew, run that

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Speaker 1: prank back right after this. You're listening hardy Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, and it's time now to start your morning

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Speaker 1: off with the nephew and run that prank back? What

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Speaker 1: you got for his neph Mister Reggie, that's my name,

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Speaker 1: mister Reggie.

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Speaker 7: Let's go get.

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Speaker 9: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hello, I'm trying to reach beyond. How you doing, man,

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Speaker 2: This is mister Reggie.

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Speaker 7: Have you heard of me before?

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Speaker 9: No, you don't crack the bring of bel And I'm.

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Speaker 2: A friend of your of your mother's. I'm a friend

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Speaker 2: of Irlanda's.

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Speaker 9: You're a friend of my mother's.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, mister Reggie. She's never mentioned me before.

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Speaker 9: No, is she okay? Everything cool?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, your mom is good. Let me

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Speaker 2: let me tell you what's happening. So you you're getting

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Speaker 2: ready to graduate. You're gonna get your master's.

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Speaker 9: Right, yeah, I'm getting my NBA.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 2: First of all, let me just say congratulations to you.

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Speaker 2: I'm proud of you. Your mom been telling me about

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Speaker 2: the whole journey, you know, from from undergrad to getting

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Speaker 2: your uh you know, you're getting your master's in business.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to come in you and say congratulations.

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Speaker 9: All right, thank you brother. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: But your mom ain't never she ain't never mentioned mister

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Speaker 2: Reggie to you.

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Speaker 9: Huh No, sorry, bro, Okay, I got.

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Speaker 2: A little of a situation that we got here.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 2: You know, I've been seeing your mom for probably you know,

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Speaker 2: five six.

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Speaker 7: Years now, and I just that yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it kind of puzzles me that that she

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Speaker 2: never brought up mister Reggie to you.

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Speaker 9: No. No, she never brought up the name mister Reggie.

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Speaker 9: You know, I didn't even know she had to be

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Speaker 2: You, Okay, So when you started undergrad, I'm the person

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Speaker 2: that you you know, stepped up and gave your mom

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Speaker 7: You know, I knew she needed some money to get you.

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Speaker 2: Through school and started out, you know, like I guess,

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Speaker 7: So I stepped up and you know, helped your mom out.

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Speaker 9: Man. This is bugged out, bro, because hold on, you're

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Speaker 9: telling me you gave my mother the money, because she

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Speaker 2: I'm the person that stepped up and through your undergrad

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Speaker 2: I'm the one gave your mom the money is for

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Speaker 2: graduated from undergrad. And then she came back, told me

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Speaker 2: up some old Here's what I'm getting at, man, I'm

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Speaker 2: not even calling mister Reggie.

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Speaker 7: Ms Reggie.

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Speaker 9: Ain't called You want me to give you some money

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Speaker 9: when I get a job.

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Speaker 7: No, nothing like that.

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Speaker 2: So here's the deal, man, I didn't give your mom

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Speaker 2: all this money for six years.

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Speaker 8: Now here it is now you finish graduate.

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Speaker 2: And now that you're finish graduate, she called herself wanting

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Speaker 2: to break up with me.

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Speaker 9: So but I mean, I don't know nothing about that.

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Speaker 9: That's between y'all. B I mean, what do you want

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Speaker 7: What I want?

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Speaker 9: I have you heard your name before?

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Speaker 7: So I mean, and I understand that.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying, what I'm getting that is just

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Speaker 2: right here. I would like for you to at least

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Speaker 2: call your mama and say something to it on my behalf,

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Speaker 2: because you know, come on, man, I needn't put six

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Speaker 9: And now your behalf. I really don't. I mean, I

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Speaker 9: don't know you. I mean, like, what do you want

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Speaker 9: me to stay on your behalf?

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Speaker 2: But you don't understand what I'm trying to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Dave mister Reggie and stuck his neck out for you

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Speaker 2: for the last six years. You see what I'm saying this.

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Speaker 9: Man, I don't even know you. You calling me out

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Speaker 9: the blue, talking about you gave my mama some money

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Speaker 9: and then went up for five years. I don't know you.

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Speaker 9: I never heard your name, never heard of mister Reggie.

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Speaker 9: You just called me out the blue. It's some trippy

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Speaker 9: right now.

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Speaker 7: Man, Okay, okay, understand.

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Speaker 9: Talkers. You call your your ex girl son like, come on,

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Speaker 9: man to see hold on, hold on, this ain't no

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Speaker 9: ex girl.

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Speaker 2: We we've been cup up. I mean up up to

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Speaker 2: up to last week. Up to last week. I didne

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Speaker 2: pay for you to go to school six years now

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Speaker 2: here it is she want.

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Speaker 7: To break up with me.

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Speaker 9: I know nothing about that, man, Like I don't know

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Speaker 9: where y'all broke up. I don't know nothing about that.

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Speaker 9: Maybe and then you called me out the blue and

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Speaker 9: I don't even know you. She never mentioned you.

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Speaker 2: At least at least you can do what's call on

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Speaker 2: my behalf and say, hey, what's going on with you?

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Speaker 9: Nobody? I don't know who you are.

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Speaker 2: I'm the person. I'm the person that puts your little

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Speaker 9: Hey, the check that went to the school have my

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Speaker 9: mama's name on them. Not no, damn, mister Wreshy. So hey, bro,

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: It is it is no, it ain't no, he is

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Speaker 2: I have to put your little lands through school. Now,

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Speaker 2: your mama want to run out on me?

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Speaker 7: Now? Don't want to date me no more.

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Speaker 2: That's some boys right there, man, And you need to

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Speaker 2: have a little respect for somebody that then took care

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Speaker 2: of your little lass.

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Speaker 9: I don't even know you. What are you talking about

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Speaker 9: to chair me? I don't even know who are you?

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Speaker 9: Mister Redkie. What kind of name is that? You usually

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Speaker 9: go by your last name Reggie, people go by my

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Speaker 9: first name.

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Speaker 2: My first name is. My first name is Reginald. People

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Speaker 2: call me mister Reggie, and you gonna do the same.

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Speaker 9: I just called you red man. Come on, Red, I'm

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Speaker 9: good like I don't know what.

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Speaker 7: Okay, let me say this this.

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Speaker 9: But you need to call her and take care of

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Speaker 9: this yourself. Leave me out this sorry.

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Speaker 3: Brother.

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Speaker 2: Now, look here, you owe me a little respect, and

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Speaker 2: you owe me at least you know whatever I'm asking

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Speaker 2: you to do.

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Speaker 9: I know what you are you calling me talking about

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Speaker 9: called my mama you used to date. I don't know

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Speaker 9: what you are you're talking about. I owe you some respects.

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Speaker 9: Are you crazy? Okay, you get my number anyway.

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Speaker 7: I've been had your number.

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Speaker 2: I've been had your number, and I spend I didn't

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Speaker 2: spent thousands of thousands of dollars on your little lands.

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Speaker 7: I've been had your money.

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Speaker 9: Come you ain't come to the undergrad graduation?

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Speaker 7: What I need to come to that for?

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Speaker 2: I did my job.

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Speaker 7: I took care of your little lads.

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Speaker 9: Man. You ain't take care of man. You need to

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Speaker 9: get on off my phone.

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Speaker 7: Bro Okay, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go by your mama house. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: by there, and you know what, I'm gonna deal with

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Speaker 2: her ass today, my damnself.

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Speaker 9: Look, I'm trying to be as respectful as I can,

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Speaker 9: but if I hear about you going about my mother house,

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna whoop your ass. I'm gonna whoop your mother ass.

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Speaker 9: You're gonna get your ass wood by somebody with the

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Speaker 9: NBA must be asked. I'm gonna you up if I

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Speaker 9: hear you went by my mother house.

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Speaker 3: Mister Red.

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Speaker 9: Now, I ain't listening to you. I don't know nothing

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Speaker 9: about you. Once I get off this phone, I'm a

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Speaker 9: caller and ask about them, mister Reggie. But if there,

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna you up.

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Speaker 2: I'm going by your mama house because you ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: just break up me out of six years. I got

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Speaker 2: to put the little boy through schools.

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Speaker 9: Well that's what you get for being a sucker to

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Speaker 9: sounds like you a victim of Why.

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Speaker 2: Know you ain't sitting here calling me, No sucker, you sound.

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Speaker 9: Like a sucker. God, let me hear you win by there.

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Speaker 9: It's gonna be a problem. It's gonna be some smoke

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Speaker 9: in the city.

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Speaker 7: What about Uh? What about Jovis?

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Speaker 9: Gods Jovis gotta do with this? Godless you up to

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Speaker 9: you go by there? He grew up with my mother.

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Speaker 9: How do you know Jarvis? Anyway?

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Speaker 2: Because Javis called me, He told me to call you.

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Speaker 2: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: You just got prank by your boy, Jarvis.

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Speaker 3: What oh what?

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Speaker 9: Hold on?

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Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on?

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Speaker 9: Jarvis told you and called to say you need to

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Speaker 9: do my mother and college man, my grandmother always here.

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Speaker 9: Don't be friends with Jarvis.

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Speaker 2: Hey man, you gotta give it to me, baby, give

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Speaker 2: it to me right. What is the baddest and I

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Speaker 2: mean the baddest radio show.

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Speaker 9: In the land, Steve Harvey in the morning show?

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show Time now for us

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Speaker 1: the c l O Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in

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Speaker 1: the building. This one's from Sinclair CLO Sinclair and Cago says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty seven year old single man and i

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Speaker 1: need your advice on my balding head. I know you

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Speaker 1: make jokes, but this is not funny to me because

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Speaker 1: I'm not even thirty years old yet. I've started to

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Speaker 1: wear baseball caps a lot more, and I barely brush

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Speaker 1: my hair because I'm scared of brushing more out of it.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend is saying to just let it go and

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Speaker 1: go bald. But what do you do if you don't

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Speaker 1: have a nice shaped head. I have been called water

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Speaker 1: boy all of my life because my head is bigger

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Speaker 1: than most and should I just bite the bullet and

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Speaker 1: shave it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, man, you can have a big ass ball here.

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Speaker 2: What what was that?

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Speaker 7: You're gonna have a big ass ball here.

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Speaker 2: You just break it down the facts.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, hein no, ain't no, ain't no, ain't no way

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Speaker 7: around this, dog dad. You know, look, I did all

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Speaker 7: of it. You can get some rogaine, you can get

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Speaker 7: you some black stuff. You can hide JT. You know.

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Speaker 1: JT my formal ball.

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Speaker 7: Hey, listen to you get a flocking gun. You gonna

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Speaker 7: go to work. Man, you can spray your hair. They

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Speaker 7: got everything right now. But at the end of the day, Doug,

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Speaker 7: you twenty seven and is going it's because it's gonna go. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: And they have not found a cure for ball this yet.

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Speaker 7: In men, that dude gonna make a million dollars.

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Speaker 9: Now.

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Speaker 7: They got them things out there now, them lace fronts

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Speaker 7: and all that for men and all that stuff. You

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Speaker 7: can go get one of them, man, But I don't know, man, huh,

442
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 7: I'm expensive.

443
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 2: Man, you don't want to keep paying for that?

444
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 8: Well, you know, if you don't, well, okay, then we come.

445
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 2: On, come on outside, come on, walk over.

446
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 8: You know it's all right over here.

447
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 1: But Steve, you have to say, though, when you first

448
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: went bald, you weren't sure about the shape of your head, right,

449
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: you were real happy once you shaved it up. I

450
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 1: remember that morning you called, all.

451
00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 7: Yeah, you were cool with it. Yeah, but like, here's

452
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 7: the deal though, Now you don't even have to do that.

453
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 7: You can get a computer rendering of your head. Oh yeah,

454
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 7: they got that. Now they take a picture, they give

455
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 7: you a computer rendering of it. You can see what

456
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 7: you would look like with no hair.

457
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes, yeah they got that.

458
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 8: Now they got everything.

459
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 7: You got options, Yeah, you got but now he already no,

460
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 7: he got a big head. He's yeah, so he just

461
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 7: got to come on.

462
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, don't be all right, Yes, already has

463
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. All right, we're moving on. Caylin and Saint

464
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: Louis says. I'm thirty three, and I have four older

465
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: brothers that think they can control me. I've always been

466
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 1: attracted to older guys, so I've secretly dated guys that

467
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: my brothers know. For the past few months, I've been

468
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: dating my second to the oldest brother's best friend, and

469
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 1: he's keeping me a secret. Now I'm trying to figure

470
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 1: out if he's using my brother as an excuse to

471
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: keep our relationship on the low, or if he's got

472
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,439
Speaker 1: something else going on. I'm old enough to do what

473
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: I want. So what's the worst that can happen If

474
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 1: I tell my brother.

475
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 7: His brother gonna beat his friend's hand.

476
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 8: That's what the deal is.

477
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:22,239
Speaker 7: That's what the deal is, because brothers, men have a

478
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 7: man cold law. Don't do my little sister dog, don't

479
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 7: come over here with your mess. And then your older

480
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 7: brother knows him really, really well, so now he know

481
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,120
Speaker 7: where the skeletons is buried.

482
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 8: You know, he know all the other.

483
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 7: Chicks and how recent these other chicks were and any

484
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,719
Speaker 7: other thing. So that's what he worried about. But you

485
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 7: can talk to him about it and say, hey, man,

486
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 7: you're gonna go sit with my brothers and explain to

487
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 7: him that we love each other.

488
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 8: But I don't hear love in him. Y'all just seeing

489
00:24:59,560 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 8: each other.

490
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: Just keep there dating. They're just dating right now.

491
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 7: And you have to keep asking yourself to all these

492
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 7: older men that you keep dating. They want to keep

493
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 7: you a secret, and you want to keep them a secret.

494
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 7: Why is it such a big secret?

495
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Miriam and San Diego. My husband and

496
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: I are in our early sixties, and my husband likes

497
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: takes our four year old grandson to soccer three days

498
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 1: a week. After practice the other day, my grandson asked

499
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: if Joshua and Miss Kelsey could come over. He said,

500
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: Joshua is his friend and Miss Kelsey is his granddad's friend.

501
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: Ask if Joshua played soccer like him, and he said no,

502
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,679
Speaker 1: Joshua plays karate. He said that Joshua comes to soccer

503
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: practice and they get pizza afterwards. Do I need to

504
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: find out who Miss Kelsey is? Or do I ignore this

505
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: four year old?

506
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 8: So you're gonna break up your family over folio?

507
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 9: May? Oh?

508
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: Wow, that's much. That's a man answer right there. See,

509
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 1: because I'm a man, answer this kiss.

510
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 7: So you go sit up here unless some four yo

511
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 7: old would imaginary freeing names all a bit of what

512
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 7: we got.

513
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 1: Oh that's the lie.

514
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 7: You got to be kidding me. Don't talk to me

515
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 7: no more like that. And I'm not taking this boy

516
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 7: to soccer practice no more.

517
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, if if you do, I'm going with you.

518
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: How about that, I'll take them the soccer pressure. Don't

519
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: meet missus Kelsey?

520
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 5: All right?

521
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: Moving on? Your men stick together, don't you here? We

522
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: go Ye, Foxy, and Toledo says. I am a thirty

523
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: eight year old single woman and I need to get things.

524
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: Something's off my chest down at my job. I'm almost

525
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 1: six feet tall and I sit in a cubicle all

526
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 1: day trying to be a happy camper. But every hour

527
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: I need to relieve myself, stretch my legs and have

528
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: a cigarette. I sit across from Darren, the male Karen,

529
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: and he has always got something to say about the

530
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: time I spend away from my little desk. He said,

531
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: I smell like a smokestack and my music is too loud.

532
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 1: If I catch Darren out away from work, can I

533
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: curse him out?

534
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 7: Yes? Yes, As a matter of fact, Listen to me,

535
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 7: there's a way you can do it at work.

536
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 8: I've done it before, which is.

537
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 7: Probably one of the reasons I don't have no jobs.

538
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 7: Listen to me, lean over in Darren's ear when ain't

539
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 7: nobody looking, lick your lips and put your lips up

540
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 7: against his ear, because he gonna think it's about something else.

541
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 7: As soon as you put your wet lips up against

542
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 7: his ear, say, if you keep blanking with me. I

543
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 7: almost slapped the sugar honey Ice temped your face.

544
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, Celo. You're listening hard Morning show. All right, Steve,

545
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: here we go, Jaye, Junior, Tommy, it's none of your business.

546
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 7: Lets go.

547
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: You want to explain it.

548
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,400
Speaker 10: I was plaining you see things shirley from time to time,

549
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 10: and if you see it and it's happening, don't care

550
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 10: what it is.

551
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 7: It ain't your damn business.

552
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: It's not.

553
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 7: It's not at all.

554
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: It's not all.

555
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 10: For instance, you in check, you go to church, right,

556
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 10: somebody puts in a five, Yeah, they put a five,

557
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 10: and next plate put a five in, yeah, and they

558
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 10: they got a twenty.

559
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 7: That got to do with you.

560
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know how that hurts you. That is my business.

561
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 7: Business that it could have been from last week. Probably

562
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 7: could have got it, James last week. The only world

563
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 7: is because if I'm sitting next to you and I

564
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 7: just put the twiny.

565
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 11: That's the only you get that twenty. Yeah, you get

566
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 11: another twenty. Yeah, But if you touch the twenty I

567
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 11: put it in there around against another twenty, and then.

568
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 8: You gonna be in the past. Is all that you

569
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 8: got it?

570
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 12: Absolutely absolutely all right, Junior got one man. I'll tell

571
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 12: you what wouldn't the baby come out white and he

572
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 12: pitched black.

573
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 7: That ain't nothing nobody.

574
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 3: That's another your dad.

575
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say anything.

576
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: I ain't saying that.

577
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 4: Just go along with it. Just go along with it.

578
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: That's what you're going That ain't none of your nobody.

579
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 8: As a matter of fact, just say what you know.

580
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 8: I'm gonna say that boy looked like that beautiful baby.

581
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: That's a beautiful.

582
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 8: You got a cold work.

583
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 7: That looks hair?

584
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: Why?

585
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 8: Exactly like amble rope.

586
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: Okay?

587
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 7: But the next day, yeah, she beyond. I agree with that.

588
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: Well I have come from.

589
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 7: Don't worry about it, however it putting on, stay out

590
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 7: of it.

591
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: I like that, all right.

592
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 8: I got one on that one.

593
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 10: You know from fact your neighbors lights are.

594
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 7: Out, you know they out?

595
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, you know they out because he ain't watching TV

596
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 10: nothing his dog over there around eight o'clock. But the

597
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 10: next day you see him climbing that pole to try

598
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 10: to get his.

599
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 4: Lights back on.

600
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 9: Ye is that you.

601
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 7: Why you're talking?

602
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 3: What for? What?

603
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 4: What you bring that over?

604
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: They ain't got nothing to do with the wow?

605
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 7: All right?

606
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 12: Well then what if you walk outside and see a

607
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 12: cop put a boot on your neighbor's car?

608
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: Is that.

609
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 12: That ain't none of your b that's none of your bit.

610
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 7: As long as it's not, you just gotta keep walking,

611
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 7: keep walking.

612
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 8: I'll tell you something else close to that.

613
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 7: If I'm out in the parking lot and a cowork

614
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 7: of mine that I do not care for, and I

615
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 7: see somebody stealing his car, that immediately be comes none

616
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 7: of my Yeah, that transaction is completed. I probably ain't

617
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 7: gonna saying. It'll give me more pleasure to go back

618
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 7: in there and go, man, what I just saw somebody

619
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 7: drive off the little car.

620
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 8: I actually saw him bust the one.

621
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 7: That's the pleasure. It took five minutes of how when

622
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:55,479
Speaker 7: I set through the whole thing.

623
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 2: If you don't like to do you actually kill a sister?

624
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 2: Got to rush down.

625
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 8: Taken. I got one, forgot one, you got one.

626
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 7: I think we all have seen this one.

627
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 2: I have seen somebody run through the parking lot at

628
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: the airport, get to the airport, to the ticketing and

629
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: then get in a wheelchair and roll right through with

630
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: somebody pushing them.

631
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 7: It ain't my bus. But I really won't say something.

632
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 7: I confessional you did that. We was in Vegas one time.

633
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 7: We gambled all night and we was missing the flight.

634
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 7: So when we pulled about the carriers, I told them

635
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 7: I needed a wheelchair. They gave me a wheelchair. You

636
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 7: know in Vegas, man, that airport line is it took

637
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 7: me to the front of security, the front of TSA.

638
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 7: I stood up real ginger, hut my stuff on the

639
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 7: conveyor belt. They walked that wheelchair through. I went right

640
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 7: on through that. The lady came back with the wheelchair.

641
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 7: I see the trains now, I'm good. I got hear

642
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 7: right right.

643
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 10: Well, don't know nobody is business.

644
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 2: You got here when you saw the tray, I got one.

645
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 10: I got one one. You're in the grow snow shuttering.

646
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 10: You see a lady, You see a lady. You see

647
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 10: a lady, take a hand.

648
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes you take a hand. I'm in there ahead.

649
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 10: He takes a ham, Yeah, some chips, some sodas, a

650
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 10: pound of grapes, put them in her crouch and walk

651
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 10: right out.

652
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 1: Not in the bathroom.

653
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 7: Is that your business? Does that bother you?

654
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 9: No?

655
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: No, that's a that's a strong crash, a lot of

656
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 2: stuff that.

657
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 8: As a matter of fact, I have to respect that.

658
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 8: You put a hand, you.

659
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 7: Put her hand, walk.

660
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: And hold their hand.

661
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 7: Pound the great a bottle of wine.

662
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, that's wrong.

663
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 7: You have a number.

664
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: That's like when you go.

665
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 12: I'm kind of like when you see people go to

666
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 12: the dressing room, just they take five shirt and they

667
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Speaker 12: go back.

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Speaker 1: Then, but did they come back with one?

669
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Speaker 7: I got your damn but they look heavy.

670
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Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning show all right time? Now for

671
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather take care of your

672
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: friend's baby or your friend's dog?

673
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 7: Give me that dog?

674
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 8: Give me that dog?

675
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 2: Man, I got the dog, I ain't got I ain't

676
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 2: got the rock that No, I ain't got the hurt

677
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 2: that dog.

678
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, and your dog can't tell on me, So give

679
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 7: me the dog. Because I'm studying your damn dog. I'm

680
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 7: gonna let his ass go.

681
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: Little baby, I beat it, forgot your baby. You'll be

682
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 2: looking for your both the dog. At least I can

683
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 2: feed the dog and then the dog go.

684
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 7: Do what you gotta do.

685
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 8: Well, I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm not going

686
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 8: I'm going to forget your dog.

687
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 13: Yeah, but you will you at least will you at

688
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 13: least feed the dog? Will you at least do that?

689
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: Oh?

690
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't abuse animals, you know at all?

691
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 7: Get to feed that baby. I don't know.

692
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 9: I am.

693
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 8: Okay, dog and you fall in the swimming pool. You

694
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 8: need to get dog pedal.

695
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: You're gonna they don't know they can pedal till they

696
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: get in there. They don't know they can they get

697
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 2: in it.

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00:35:55,600 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: We're moving on. Would you rather the painful true truth?

699
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: The painful truth? Or would you rather a comforting lie?

700
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 7: God?

701
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna take that, lie be I'm always for

702
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 2: the comforting line.

703
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 7: When you need it.

704
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 3: You don't want to know the truth.

705
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 7: Lie me man, Yeah, a good comforting lie. I appreciate

706
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 7: the effort.

707
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 8: What do you want to know?

708
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: All three comedians on this show we cool with lie.

709
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 7: We cool with I'm know the truth?

710
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: Wow, the truth? If you can really lie to me

711
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,439
Speaker 2: and make me feel good about it, I won't to lie.

712
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 8: Oh I'm gonna figure something now. Don't worry about that.

713
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 2: Wow. But the fact that you tried, see lied, lets

714
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: me know you tried.

715
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 3: You know.

716
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 7: The painful truth.

717
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 8: Let's let's delay that pain as long as Poli can't.

718
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: Hear it and get it over with all right?

719
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 3: All right?

720
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: Would you rather a dirty kitchen or a dirty bathroom?

721
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

722
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 7: God, I don't want.

723
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 8: I take it.

724
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 1: Dirty kitchen, Yes, dirty bathroom.

725
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 2: Because the kitchen, let me know, you put your effort in.

726
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 2: But that bathroom, your ass is nasty.

727
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 7: You is nasty.

728
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 14: I'm so funny about bathroom. Yes, Junior, I'm yeah, yeah,

729
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 14: go with the.

730
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 7: All right.

731
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 1: Would you rather have massive success by accident or modest

732
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: success on purpose?

733
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 15: A massive accidental success, massive massive?

734
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Speaker 7: We want to I want abundance.

735
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Speaker 1: Coming more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

736
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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it

737
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 1: is time for comedy roulette. Jay, please do the honors

738
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: and explain. Go ahead, we are right priceless, I know, right.

739
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 10: You gotta do it though, anything if you take four subjects,

740
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 10: because we're all comedians, we can do this. You put

741
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 10: those four subjects, one at a time on a wheel

742
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 10: that goes around and around. When that wheel spins round

743
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 10: and around and around, where that wheel stops. Because we're

744
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 10: all comedians, will do the damn thing.

745
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: All right, Here we go with the topics. Things you

746
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 1: hide in the fridge from other people? All right? Lies

747
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: you tell yourself when you're running out of gas, What

748
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: you say to yourself when you get dumped, and what

749
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: you say when you're oversleep, spin the wheelcat.

750
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 8: Spun it, spun the wheel.

751
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: I like what you're saying yourself when you're over steep. Ah,

752
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: But it's what you say to yourself when you get dumped.

753
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: I want to end this one. Let's go, guys, let

754
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 1: me start it out.

755
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,760
Speaker 10: Come on, Hey, I was gonna go into service anyway,

756
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 10: so this relationship wasn't gonna work at you anyway.

757
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 7: I don't really like I didn't really want her in

758
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 7: no way. It was her best friend. I really want

759
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 7: to be honest with you.

760
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: Work it out for yourself. Yes, what you say to

761
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumped, Steve, you do all crazy?

762
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 7: I ain't crazy, Jay, What you said yourself?

763
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 10: You say to yourself when you freak up? Trust me,

764
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 10: your breakfast gonna break us up?

765
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't really care for you making me

766
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: wear all that leather in the bedroom anyway.

767
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 7: So I'm glad we ain't doing this no more. This left.

768
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 8: I'm chaped.

769
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 1: Now, Come on, Steve, what you say to yourself when

770
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: you get dumped?

771
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 8: I was just about to text her anyway, right after breakfast?

772
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 10: You say to yourself when you break up. I don't

773
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 10: know how to tell you this, but I never did

774
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 10: like your dogs.

775
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 8: How about that?

776
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 7: You know true?

777
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: Be told true, be tall. My baby mama won't be

778
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: back anyway. I ain't worry about this right here.

779
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: What you say to yourself when you get jumped?

780
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 7: I bet you I can find some.

781
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 10: Come on, shay, you say to yourself when you're dump

782
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 10: And just in case you get ready to call me,

783
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 10: I have blocked all your.

784
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: Know he's hurt. Oh, he's hurt, he's hurt.

785
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 3: He you know what?

786
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 7: You know what?

787
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 3: What?

788
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 9: You know what?

789
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 2: Tommy, she'll be back because don't nobody do that little

790
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: thing that I do. Don't nobody else do that.

791
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 7: She'll be back.

792
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: The third person tell me right there, he's hurt. Yeah,

793
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get jumped, Steve, you.

794
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 8: Ain't the first person to leave me. You think you

795
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 8: doing something? Thank you doing something that ain't nothing. I've

796
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 8: been left, so it being like you to doing something.

797
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 10: You say something. I don't know how to tell you this,

798
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,280
Speaker 10: but the white girl was checking me out anyway.

799
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 9: You know what?

800
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: What?

801
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 8: You know what time?

802
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna we're gonna get our life together. We're gonna sart,

803
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: going to church and we're gonna just let the lawd

804
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: ask somebody. We're gonna let the Lord ask somebody.

805
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, she cut him.

806
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 3: She cut him.

807
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: One more, Steve closing out.

808
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 13: See huh.

809
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 8: He my lips.

810
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,919
Speaker 1: That be I'm next to next.

811
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 7: Then it cust him out on the right.

812
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: Great job, guys, you're listening Hard Morning show coming up

813
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour right about four minutes

814
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: after today's Strawberry letter. My subject for today my wife

815
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: keeps leaving me and coming back. But right now we'll

816
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: talk about that. But right now we're talking about this.

817
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: The nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What

818
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: you got for his nep I need a reference. I

819
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: need a ref like, I'll give you one. Tell him

820
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: to call me.

821
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm calling for a reference. Let's go cat watch this.

822
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,439
Speaker 3: Hello. Yeah, I'm trying to I'm trying to read Scotty please. Yeah. Yeah,

823
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 3: what's up, hey, Scotty? How you doing? Man? I'm trying

824
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 3: to actually get a reference for for Monica. Monica. You're

825
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 3: talking about Monica my ex wife. Yeah, I'm trying to

826
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 3: get a reference on her if possible. Oh okay, So

827
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 3: what's he applying for jobs. He trying to go to

828
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 3: work there, No, just actually for like a relationship, a relationship,

829
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 3: stay the whole. Hold up on, boy, wait a minute,

830
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 3: a relationship with you? You're talking about a job relationship? No, no, no, no.

831
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 3: See what this here is is that I'm finna actually

832
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 3: start dating Monica on the regular, and I'm calling you

833
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 3: for a reference to whoa.

834
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 16: Whoa whoa whoa boy? Hold up?

835
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 3: Wait mane, who did you say this is? And how

836
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 3: you get my my name? Philip? Man my name, Philip?

837
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 3: I got your number out of Monica phone. Check this.

838
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 3: I feel you don't need to call me with whatever

839
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 3: you and Monica got going on. Y'all need it gone

840
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 3: to deal with that? No? No, no, no, no, no,

841
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 3: I got that.

842
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 16: Brother.

843
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 3: May y'all throw hear me out. What I'm trying to

844
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 3: say is is that I figured if I get a

845
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 3: reference and figure out what kind of person she is

846
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 3: and get to get a you know, kind of get

847
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 3: a background, so you can kind of tell me what

848
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 3: kind of person, her good points, her bad qualities, the whole.

849
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 3: Not see, it might save me sometime from being in

850
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 3: a long relationship. If I know what to look for.

851
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 3: What's good one man say say, oh boy, boy, I know,

852
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 3: I know I'm not listening to this. I was mad

853
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 3: for ain't nobody give me no rest? So don't call

854
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 3: me asking for no like that. If you got number

855
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 3: for monkey, you and Monica need to forget my okay

856
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 3: for hold on? Hold on bro?

857
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 16: Like I say, Man, I'm just trying.

858
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 3: To figure out hold up. I'm trying to figure out

859
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: the good qualities and bad quite like you know, do

860
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 3: she want to cook? You know? Is she good in

861
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 3: the bedroom? You know what I'm saying. I'm trying to know.

862
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 3: I'm trying to just know what to look for. Dog,

863
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 3: That's all, man. I ain't trying to come to your main.

864
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 3: But I just can't believe calling enough about some I

865
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 3: don't have it no more. Only thing I have to

866
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 3: deal with is my child.

867
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 16: You know what I'm saying.

868
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 3: And you most definitely don't need to be a rapped out.

869
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 3: Say dude, I got to go okay, okay, okay, but

870
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 3: can you give me a good reference owner? That's all

871
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get out. Man. The reference is don't

872
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 3: die number ever again. And when I talked to Monica,

873
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 3: me and her, but hey, you ain't gonna have to

874
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: worry about the relationship with Monica. You know what I'm saying. Okay, okay,

875
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: hold on, man, let me gonna break this to you.

876
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 3: First of all, me and Bonica then dated for the

877
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 3: last year, off and on. We just finished. Get hold on,

878
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 3: hould up, dude, the last year. Man, This woman just

879
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 3: got divorced a few months ago. Oh so you that

880
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 3: who must have messed up money? Hold on, I ain't

881
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 3: look look, I ain't calm nothing. The reason why y'all

882
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: broke up. I don't have nothing to do with that.

883
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 3: I ain't look here. Oh so you that slick, Say, mate,

884
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 3: why don't you slide your little slick back under that

885
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 3: rock that you slipped from monthy? He a dog, I

886
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 3: can slide right on back under the rock you talking about.

887
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 3: But what I'm trying to ask you is this right here? Man? Hey,

888
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 3: can you just give her brother some references? Man, somebody

889
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 3: can look out for some signs this year. Reference I'm

890
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 3: gonna give you is when you don't have enough money

891
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 3: when she wants that twelve hundred dollars bag, don't call

892
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 3: me for that. When she needs some more money for this,

893
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 3: Oh well, baby, I just gave you my check? What

894
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 3: don't mean nothing? And are you pull up your finger account?

895
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 3: Ain't no money in that? That's the reference yore? Need? Hey,

896
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 3: I need to hear from you, especially if you who

897
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 3: was around with my why while we was married? Telling

898
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 3: about married? Hold up the reference here, I'm gonna find yo.

899
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call Monica and I'm gonna track down nig

900
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 3: yes in your reference. Then yeah, yeah, I give your reference.

901
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 3: Then face to face. Hey, dog, I ain't trying to

902
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 3: have no altercation with you.

903
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 16: Man, an boy, you must have been trying to have

904
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 16: something you dialing my okay, dog, let me okay, one

905
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,399
Speaker 16: more question, man, and then I'm gonna be out your air.

906
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 3: I just like I said, I just wanted a few

907
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 3: things and know some background on them. Man. You you

908
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,879
Speaker 3: out of questions on boy, you out of questions. Okay,

909
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 3: but this I just need to know this because I

910
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 3: want everything he man, I want everything to run smooth, dog.

911
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 3: But I want us to have a good understanding. Do

912
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 3: you have a problem man, with with your little girl

913
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 3: calling me daddy? What did you just as you asked

914
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 3: me about my daughter? Hey, Hey, hey, calm down, dude,

915
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 3: come coming. I'm gonna Pete.

916
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 16: You ask about mine, This is about mine.

917
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 3: Hey, I'm just here. You around me time. I won't

918
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 3: come in. Oh boy, look I'm gonna find because you

919
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 3: are bad. You missed the bad. You down number. Not

920
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 3: only you got that, but man, you're talking about time.

921
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 3: I'm just asking. Do you matter?

922
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 16: She called me?

923
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 3: Oh boy, look here man, that child there. They cannot

924
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 3: come at your You know what I'm saying. Say man

925
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 3: this man, I don't have time, but I'm gonna call

926
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 3: that Monica and I'm gonna get your Yeah, I'm gonna

927
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 3: get you. I'm out here. You want Why are you

928
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 3: calling me back? Gott it, Scotty, Gotty.

929
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,439
Speaker 16: I'm here, man, look at why are you down?

930
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 3: I just try to man you something. Boy, you don't

931
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 3: have nothing to take on me home. I want to say, Scotty,

932
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 3: just listen to me. Man. I want to say this.

933
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 3: This is Nephew tire me from the Steve Harby Morning Yo.

934
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 3: Your brother Brian got me the prank phone call you. Hey, man,

935
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 3: it's who who Scotty, Scotty. This is Tommy Man left you.

936
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 3: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your brother Brian

937
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 3: got me the prank phone call you say man, Man, Oh,

938
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 3: I'm about to go.

939
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 16: Man.

940
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 3: Hey, dude, I'm about to go ballistic over here. Man. Hey,

941
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 3: Brian got one coming though.

942
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 16: Oh Man, you all right?

943
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 4: Man?

944
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, they man Man, Tommy Man. Well, hey, I'm

945
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 3: glad you were playing man because talk about my little girl.

946
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 3: Oh boy, Brian, No, it's gonna be on in his world.

947
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,240
Speaker 16: Man, I'll go, dude, Brian got you Man, he got.

948
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 3: You good jog Hey Man, one more thing? Man, what

949
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 3: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show

950
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 3: in the land? Man and Steve Harvey? More thing?

951
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 8: So come on, man, did answer question?

952
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: Now?

953
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 9: He did?

954
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: Jay didn't get the reference.

955
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: Calling daddy that it was too much.

956
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 7: Let me tell you something. From the moment he picked

957
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 7: up the phone, he was not the he was not

958
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 7: the dude to call.

959
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 8: Nothing. Dog. He didn't want to.

960
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 10: Just didn't know. It's okay.

961
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 7: He said, I'm about to go.

962
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:40,280
Speaker 1: I was about to go, like, were you already there?

963
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 3: No?

964
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 7: No, no, no, ladies, ladies, he got another level. That

965
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 7: dude got you right, dog, That dude right there. As

966
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 7: soon as he find out where you at, he got

967
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 7: a whole nother level because there's some stuff on him

968
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 7: oh oh dah.

969
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 10: Everything took him up to a different level, every level,

970
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 10: level level.

971
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 7: East my pace right today when you capped it off,

972
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 7: you talking about his daughter, your little girl called me that.

973
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: All the big.

974
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 2: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Not only am I shooting my TV show

975
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 2: Ready to Love in your city, the City of Brotherly Love,

976
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: but I'm also telling them jokes. That's right Helium Comedy Club.

977
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 2: That is July twenty sixth, twenty seven, twenty eight. The

978
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: nephew is in town. Tickets and own sale right now.

979
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: I said it, Ay, Shirly, it.

980
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 3: Is on you.

981
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 2: Thank you.

982
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 1: That was a good one. Coming up next my Strawberry

983
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: Letter subject my wife keeps leaving me and coming back.

984
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Hardy

985
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

986
00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships, dating, work, second parenting and more.

987
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: Play Submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

988
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: and click on where it says submit Strawberry Letter. We

989
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

990
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now.

991
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 2: Be you smuggle up and hold on time. We got

992
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 2: it for you.

993
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 7: Here it is Strawberry letter.

994
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: Thank you the nephew subject. My wife keeps leaving me

995
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: and coming back. She keeps leaving me and coming back.

996
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: To Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty five year old man

997
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: with two kids and a step daughter by my wife.

998
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 1: I love my family, but I have come to a

999
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: breaking point with my wife. For the second time in

1000
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 1: four years, she has left the home and cut off

1001
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: all contact with me and the kids. The first time

1002
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,840
Speaker 1: she left, she ran off with a man that she

1003
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: met online. She bought a bus ticket and wrote, rode

1004
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: out west and didn't contact us for a month. Eventually,

1005
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: the guy dumped her and she reached out to me.

1006
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: I ended up sending her four hundred dollars for her

1007
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: to get back home. Earlier this summer, I was grilling

1008
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: and the kids were in the pool. My wife said

1009
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: she had to run to Walmart to get a few things.

1010
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: We have not seen her since then. The kids and

1011
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: I rode all around town looking for her that night

1012
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: and the next day. I kind of figured she'd left

1013
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: us again, but I didn't want to upset the kids.

1014
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: I filed a missing person's report with the police, and

1015
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: the police told me since she'd left before, they wouldn't

1016
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 1: open an investigation right away. I posted pictures on Facebook,

1017
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 1: and instantly I got all kinds of messages saying that

1018
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: she'd been seen around our city and a few cities

1019
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: close by. I wasn't surprised, and I waited for her

1020
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: to call home. After forty five days, she called, saying

1021
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: she needs to come back home and she is ashamed

1022
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: of what she keeps doing to the family. I told

1023
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: the kids she called and is ready to come home.

1024
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 1: They said I shouldn't let her come back, and we'd

1025
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: be just fine without her. We've been married fourteen years,

1026
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: and I've kept the marriage together for the kids. But

1027
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 1: now they're saying to throw her and the whole marriage away.

1028
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: Do you think I should take their advice or give

1029
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: my wife one more chance? Please advise? Well, I mean,

1030
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: you know, the decision, of course, is ultimately up to you.

1031
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 4: What you do.

1032
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: Should you take the kid's advice or give your wife

1033
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: one more chance? Is that what you want to do? Well,

1034
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: it's certainly not what the kids want you to do,

1035
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: because they're sick of her, they really are, and they

1036
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: let you know so you can let yourself off the hook.

1037
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: They want you to stop feeling guilty about all this.

1038
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: Your wife leaving and coming back and running off with

1039
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: some man she met online, and you know, just not

1040
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: hearing from her, no contact for forty days and a

1041
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 1: month forty five days. What is all of this? And

1042
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: then you have two kids, and one of them is

1043
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: her daughter. She's sick of her mom too. They want

1044
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: a divorce from her, and really, so should you at

1045
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: this point. Your wife doesn't care about you, she doesn't

1046
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: care about the kids. And your kids, I don't know

1047
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: how old they are. You said they were in the

1048
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,479
Speaker 1: pool while you were grilling, but I mean they're cool

1049
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: just with being with you, dad. I just say, I'm

1050
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: saying sorry here, but your wife is trifling and she's

1051
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: a horrible mom. I mean, is she on drugs or something?

1052
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: What is going on with her? Who just walks out

1053
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: on her family and comes back like nothing ever happened.

1054
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: I'm sure this is devastating for your children, I'm sure

1055
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: it is. Who does this? Why should they have to

1056
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: continue to go through this time and time again? They

1057
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: can't be secure, they can't, you know, they're unsure of themselves.

1058
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: And why should you have to continually go through this?

1059
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: Who can live like this. I just you know, you

1060
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 1: never know from one day to the next if you'll

1061
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,800
Speaker 1: have a mom or if you're a wife or not.

1062
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: I say, pack her bags, put yourself and your kids

1063
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:07,799
Speaker 1: out of this revolving door of a marriage, and tell

1064
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: your wife that you and the guys will be just

1065
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,919
Speaker 1: fine without her. She's selfish and that's what the kids

1066
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: want you to do anyway, But unless you really want

1067
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: to do it, and I don't see why you wouldn't,

1068
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, don't let her back. Okay, she's a

1069
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:23,800
Speaker 1: source of misery for you, guys.

1070
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 8: Steve, Well, let me start by saying this to you.

1071
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 7: It ain't a good look when your kids is smarter

1072
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 7: than you, right, you know, it just ain't a good look.

1073
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 7: Let me just start there. Okay, all right, here we go.

1074
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 7: You a thirty five year old man, got two kids

1075
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 7: and a stepdaughter. I love my family, but you had

1076
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 7: a break in point. For the second time in four years,

1077
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 7: she'd have left home, cut off all contact with me

1078
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 7: and the kids. The first time she first time she left,

1079
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 7: she ran off with a man she met online. She

1080
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 7: bought a bus ticket and rolled out west. What a

1081
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 7: trifling this badass decision. Who buys a bus ticket to

1082
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 7: ride out west? You know, like she in a Western

1083
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 7: or something. Go west, young man, fortune out there. And

1084
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 7: she left you for a dude that sent her a

1085
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 7: bus ticket, from a man that has a house with

1086
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 7: a swimming pool in it in the backyard, grilling.

1087
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 8: She left you for a man that sent her a

1088
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 8: bus ticket.

1089
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 7: Your wife is not a bright person. The kids are,

1090
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 7: the wife is not. So let's try to make some

1091
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 7: sense of it. And she bought a bus ticket rode out.

1092
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 7: She didn't contact us for a month. Damn man, that's

1093
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 7: hard it's hartful. Eventually the god dumped her. She reached

1094
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 7: out to me. I ended up spending four hundred dollars

1095
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 7: for her to get back home.

1096
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 8: Now you obviously bought a plane ticket.

1097
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: Hold on, We'll hold on, Steve, hold that up, God,

1098
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 1: just hold it, hold it. We'll have part two of

1099
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,959
Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's subject my wife keeps leaving me and coming back.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Hardy

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Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject my wife keeps leaving me and

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Speaker 1: coming back.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, she been doing it. Second time in four years.

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Speaker 7: She done left. The first time she left with a

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Speaker 7: man she met online. She bought a bus ticket and

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Speaker 7: rolled out west. I knew this relationship was doomed. You

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Speaker 7: meet a dude online, he's buy you a bus ticket,

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Speaker 7: all right? Eventually got dumptor. You ended up sending four

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Speaker 7: hundred dollars for her way to get back home. Yost

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Speaker 7: it that bought the airline ticket. Clearly you care more

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Speaker 7: about her than the dude online. Now hit a good

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Speaker 7: one right here. Earlier this summer, I was grilly, kids

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Speaker 7: was outside in the pool. My wife said she had

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Speaker 7: to run to Walmart to get a few things. We

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Speaker 7: ain't seen her.

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Speaker 1: Ass s horrible?

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Speaker 7: What did she What happened at the walmart? This is bad?

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Speaker 7: The kids and I rode around town looking for her

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Speaker 7: that night and the next day what.

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Speaker 8: And the next day.

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Speaker 7: Then the dude said, because he got tuition, I kind

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Speaker 7: of figured she left us again. I ain't want to

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Speaker 7: upset the kids, so I filed a missing person report.

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Speaker 7: Police told me, since she left before, they wouldn't open

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Speaker 7: then investigation right away. Then you put some pictures on Facebook,

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Speaker 7: and everybody started calling you telling you I saw that

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Speaker 7: helper doll, that Earl Turner's right, Well, I saw up

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Speaker 7: at Abigail's. She was at the Speak Easy Too, that

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Speaker 7: she came into tab on Friday. They just saw her everywhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: you know, she old bro that go do country stuff.

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Speaker 7: You know this ain't no big city chick.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, because of the bus.

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Speaker 7: So I wasn't surprised. And I waited for her to

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Speaker 7: call home after forty fat days so crazy. This help

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Speaker 7: of call back home says she's ashamed of what she

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Speaker 7: keeps doing to the family. Shirley says something right. Is

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Speaker 7: she on drugs because this guy crackhead rolled all over it? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, matter of fact, let me let me let me,

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Speaker 8: let me let me back it down a little bit.

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Speaker 7: Is she on meth? Let me tell you what when

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Speaker 7: you see her look at her teeth real good? Why

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Speaker 7: because if you won't, matthe your teeth is shot. Oh

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Speaker 7: you ain't see the Tiger king?

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Speaker 1: Yeah I saw, yeah his man.

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Speaker 7: Did you see his mouth?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 7: I don't care what your sexual preference is. You they

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Speaker 7: want somebody with some better looking.

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Speaker 8: Teeth than that. Damn, you got to have your mouth right.

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Speaker 1: You have to, you have to.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Now I told the kids she called and ready to

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Speaker 7: come home. The kids said, don't let her come back.

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Speaker 7: We just fine without it. You know, you messed up

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Speaker 7: when your kids don't want their mama.

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Speaker 1: No more, your blood daughter, your blood daughter.

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Speaker 7: We've been married fourteen years, and I've kept the marriage

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Speaker 7: together for the kids. Now this is interesting because now

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Speaker 7: they're saying to throw her in the whole marriage away.

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Speaker 7: So if she had a stepdaughter, the stepdaughter got to

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Speaker 7: be at least fifteen, because y'all only been together for

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Speaker 7: fourteen years. Unless she had the baby while she was

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Speaker 7: on the bus.

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Speaker 1: Trip, she could have.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Crazy right here she is.

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Speaker 7: Do you think I should take their advice or give

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Speaker 7: my wife one more chance? Let me ask you something, bro,

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Speaker 7: give your wife one more chance to.

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Speaker 8: Do what to leave a third time?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Please advise, brother. I don't even know why you struggling

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Speaker 7: with her. This is not a sign of a person

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Speaker 7: that's no longer any in love with you or her family.

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Speaker 7: She loves something else.

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Speaker 9: Now.

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Speaker 7: I ain't saying she owned drugs. It do sound like

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Speaker 7: drugs to me because she go on these benches. I

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Speaker 7: don't know what's wrong with her, but if the kids

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Speaker 7: deserve better, you seem like a good man, you probably

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Speaker 7: get you a good woman.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Me personally, I'm just this just Steve Harvey talker.

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Speaker 7: Please don't tweet and facebook me about my responses because

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Speaker 7: you know I don't really care no more. I really don't.

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Speaker 7: I done got sixty three. I don't got real comfortable

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Speaker 7: with what I'm saying on this show. I divorce, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm divorcing her.

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Speaker 1: Thinking has real choice.

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Speaker 8: I'm divorcing her. I'm not living like this is clear.

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Speaker 8: You don't want me and these kids.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to see sending the kids through it,

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Speaker 7: and I want somebody to agree with me and the

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Speaker 7: kids and be in the pool.

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Speaker 1: You could leave your husband and your kids.

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Speaker 7: You will leave me or somebody that bought a bus ticket. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: that's what I'm throwd off that I could see if

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Speaker 7: you came up. You didn't even go lateral. You just

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Speaker 7: took a step down. You rode a bus out west.

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Speaker 1: We don't even know where that is. I mean y

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Speaker 1: out west, just west.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, probably just went western Mississippi, ended up ended

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Speaker 7: up in Mississippi.

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Speaker 1: Just wherever.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is she's a she's.

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Speaker 8: A bad woman. She's not a good person. I'm dealing

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Speaker 8: with them. You can do what you want to do.

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Speaker 1: But he thank you, Steve. Post your comments on Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening

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Speaker 1: hard morning show. All right, Steve, your nephew is here

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Speaker 1: with things you whisper. You have to come on now.

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Speaker 2: You gotta know, there are some things that you just whisper.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, when you're in the middle of

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Speaker 2: something it's going down and it ain't going right. That's

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Speaker 2: some things that you just whisper all the time. You

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Speaker 2: under what I'm saying, Verily, you hear me, get that? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he said, I know a lot of them. Okay, when

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Speaker 2: you whisper, But there are some things that you whisp. Okay,

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Speaker 2: now I'm just gonna ask. I'm just gonna ask you.

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Speaker 7: Shut up.

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Speaker 2: J I'm just.

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Speaker 7: Thank I'm just gonna ask you on though.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been in that moment where there's things

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Speaker 2: that you just whisper?

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Speaker 8: How you said?

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Speaker 7: Okay, but if you have been, I'm not. I'm not

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Speaker 7: going to do this, man, But tell me the things.

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Speaker 2: Tell me when you've been in the heat of the

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Speaker 2: moment that you just knew you needed to whistle.

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Speaker 7: Well, all of mine ain't been in the heat of

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Speaker 7: the moment. Mine has been other times.

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Speaker 8: Like what like here on your.

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Speaker 1: God, that's a good whisper, that's a good ques.

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Speaker 8: That's a good question. That's a good question.

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Speaker 7: What else? What else? Uh hm?

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Speaker 8: I my wife just walked in.

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Speaker 7: One God.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's.

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Speaker 1: The dance floor. Yeah, you're just having a good time.

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Speaker 7: Yeah you Yeah, you're at the Saucer club with your boy.

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Speaker 7: The girl tripped and showed up at the same club

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Speaker 7: you at.

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Speaker 8: That's good, y'all got on? Okay, things you need to

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Speaker 8: whisper your daddy.

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Speaker 7: We're talking about Malcolm.

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Speaker 2: Malcolm, Yeah, Malcolm, my daddy.

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Speaker 7: I got one for you. The police in here?

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Speaker 1: What what did you say?

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Speaker 7: The police in here? Which one? Ignorant?

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Speaker 8: Ignorant show boy?

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. I think we get the point.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, Harvey Morning Show. Here's a question for you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Is your partner your best friend? Were you friends before

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Speaker 1: you came romantic? You know it seems, despite the popularity

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Speaker 1: of dating apps, most relationships start the old fashioned way.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Most of them do with people who are

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Speaker 1: friends first. In fact, researchers have found that sixty six

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Speaker 1: sixty six percent of people were platonic friends with their

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Speaker 1: partner before starting a romantic relationship. So, Steve, I gotta

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Speaker 1: go to you. Do you believe there are benefits to

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Speaker 1: being friends with someone before you date them?

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Speaker 7: I mean, it is, It's not necessary, but it is,

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Speaker 7: But it's not necessary. And a lot of relationships start

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Speaker 7: the other way first, they get physical before they're good friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and I'm right right now, I'm married to my best

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Speaker 7: friend because I ain't got nothing. You ain't got no what.

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Speaker 8: I ain't got no real friends.

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Speaker 9: Though you know I ain't.

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Speaker 7: I don't really have no dudes I share everything with.

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Speaker 8: I just don't. I've grown out of that space.

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Speaker 1: I want to ask you this because this always puzzled me.

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Speaker 1: What about people who are friends? They're really, really good friends.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of strawberry letters about this. They're

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Speaker 1: really good friends, and then they try to be romantic

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Speaker 1: and it doesn't work out and the friendship gets all

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Speaker 1: weird after that. Thanks you know.

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Speaker 7: Look, look, look, look, look I said one hundred time,

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Speaker 7: so I'm not gonna stop saying if a man is

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Speaker 7: attracted to you, it's hard for him to stay your friend.

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Speaker 1: Right, we said that all about.

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Speaker 7: I don't know how, I don't and I don't know

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Speaker 7: why we keep debating this thing. If a man is

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Speaker 7: attracted to you, it's gonna be really hard for him

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Speaker 7: to stay your friend.

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Speaker 8: It's really hard. So let's just notice.

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Speaker 7: If you know that you're attractive to this guy, and

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Speaker 7: y'all just friends, it's just until you see a crack

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Speaker 7: in the door.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a physical friends friend? What a physical like a

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Speaker 1: friend with benefits about.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be physical, but we're gonna be friends.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 1: That's not a physical friend. That's a kind of relations

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Speaker 1: that's a friends with benefit type.

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Speaker 8: That's a sexual relationship.

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Speaker 7: Call it what you want to call it. It's a

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Speaker 7: sexual relationship and eventually feelings on one one of the

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Speaker 7: parts it's gonna.

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Speaker 1: Get in there, usually the woman, Usually the woman exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I love you in love?

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Speaker 7: Man't nobody sign up for love. It's sposed to be

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Speaker 7: just a nice physical says the host. Are ready to love.

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Speaker 1: Radio Tommy and Stevie, Tommy, I got you, I got you.

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Speaker 2: You ain't all the way crazy, Tommy.

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Speaker 7: Far from it, Steve.

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Speaker 1: It is still your contention that men and women it's

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Speaker 1: hard for them to be friends without being physical.

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Speaker 7: That is that what you're saying if the man is

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Speaker 7: attracted to you, I've never seen what?

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Speaker 9: How?

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Speaker 1: What that's that?

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Speaker 17: So then the question is what we just brought up,

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Speaker 17: Shirley with this with the segment to be friends? Can

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Speaker 17: you first and then date? And you're saying that if

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Speaker 17: you are friends and that man is a try the woman.

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Speaker 17: But you said what we're trying to say, if you're

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Speaker 17: gonna be friends first and then you're gonna date, how

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Speaker 17: does that work if you say men and women can't

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Speaker 17: be friends.

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Speaker 7: If a man is attracted to you, eventually, when there's

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Speaker 7: a crack in the door, he's going to annoy if

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Speaker 7: he can put his foot into the door.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and be more than friends.

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Speaker 7: With these relationships that turn start out that way, you

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Speaker 7: can turn out and blossom into wonderful and beautiful relationships.

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Speaker 1: It can happen then sometimes.

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Speaker 7: And that's a great way for it to start because

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Speaker 7: you started as friend. It's a great thing to happen.

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Speaker 7: Now here's a sad part attracted to you.

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Speaker 1: Yea, we got to go, Steve, hold on, we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of this Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, we're back, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Let's try to clear this up once and for all

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Speaker 1: if we can, because there's so much debate about this.

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Speaker 1: Can men and women be friends? And once they cross

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Speaker 1: that physical line, can they still be friends? Because sometimes

1341
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Speaker 1: that gets weird. So so let's let's try to clear

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Speaker 1: this up because it is a debate, ongoing debate between

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Speaker 1: men and women. All the time. You say what.

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Speaker 7: Man did you.

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01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 8: Then?

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Speaker 1: And every time this way I'll be telling them you

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Speaker 1: say the same you say it.

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Speaker 7: Men and women can be friends only if the man

1349
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Speaker 7: does not find the woman attracted or is not attracted

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Speaker 7: to her for.

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Speaker 8: Whatever the reason.

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Speaker 7: If a man finds you, ave and is attracted to

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01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:04,959
Speaker 7: you and is your friend, I want you to understand

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01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 7: that the moment there is a crack in the door,

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01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 7: a chink in the armor, and he see a way

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01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 7: he can fit in and be more than your friend more.

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Speaker 7: You'll do that, absolutely, he will unequivocally. Now, can you

1358
01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 7: start a friendship that way and it blossom into a relationship? Yes?

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01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 7: And you know why the blossom into a relationship because

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Speaker 7: he's been attracted to.

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Speaker 8: You the whole time.

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Speaker 7: Period.

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01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Now here's the sad part that.

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01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 8: You don't want to hear.

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Speaker 7: Okay, if the man is not attracted to you or

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01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,719
Speaker 7: find you unattracted, you can be his friend.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we'll be debating this for centuries to come.

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Speaker 1: All Right, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this, you're

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01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, time Now for

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01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather take care of your

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01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:02,679
Speaker 1: friend baby or your friend's dog?

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Speaker 2: Give me that dog? Give me that dog? Man, Yeah, now,

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Speaker 2: I got that dog. I ain't got I ain't got

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Speaker 2: this rock that dog. I ain't got the birth that dog.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, your dog can't tell on you, So give me

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01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 7: the dog because I'm gonna study your damn dog. I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna let his ass goby.

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Speaker 8: I beat him.

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Speaker 2: Forgot your baby? You be looking for your We both

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01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:30,680
Speaker 2: do the dog. At least I can feed the dog,

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Speaker 2: and the dog will do what he got to do.

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm not I'm

1385
01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 7: going to forget your dog.

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01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:43,439
Speaker 13: Yeah, but you will you at least will you at

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01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 13: least feed the dog? Will you at least do that?

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01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I don't abuse that at all.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to feed that baby.

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Speaker 7: I don't I know.

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Speaker 9: I am.

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Speaker 8: Okay, dog and you fall in the swimming pool. You

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01:15:59,200 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 8: need to your dog.

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01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 2: They don't know they competital til they get in there.

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01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 7: They don't know they can do it that they get

1397
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:06,400
Speaker 7: in it.

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01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 9: We're moving on.

1399
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: Would you rather the painful truth? The painful truth? Or

1400
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:15,679
Speaker 1: would you rather a comforting lie?

1401
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:18,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna take that lie.

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01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 7: Because I'm always for the comforting line. Unique.

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01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: You don't want another truth?

1404
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:27,559
Speaker 3: Lie me? Man?

1405
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, a good comforting lie. I appreciate the effort. What

1406
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 8: do you want to know?

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01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 2: All three comedians on this show we cool with line.

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01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 4: We cool with it.

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Speaker 1: Another truth? Wow?

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01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 2: Truth, If you can really lie to me and make

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Speaker 2: me feel good about.

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01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 4: It, I won't lie.

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna figure something out. Don't worry about that.

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01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 3: Wow.

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01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 2: But the fact that you tried, see lied, lets me

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01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:57,559
Speaker 2: know you.

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01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 8: Tried the pain for truth. Let's let's delay that pain

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01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:05,720
Speaker 8: as long as probably.

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01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 1: Hear it and get it over with. All right, all right?

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01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:15,440
Speaker 1: Would you rather a dirty kitchen or a dirty bathroom?

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01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 7: Oh god, one of you girls.

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01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 9: I take it.

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01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 1: Dirty kitchen, yees, a dirty bathroom me too.

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01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 9: Let me know.

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Speaker 2: You put your effort in, but that bathroom, your ass

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01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 2: is nasty.

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01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 1: You is nasty.

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01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 14: I'm so funny about bathroom, Yes, Junior, Yeah, yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather have massive success by accident for modest

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01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 1: success on purpose?

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01:17:56,160 --> 01:18:04,800
Speaker 15: A massive accidental success? Massive, massive, lucky?

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Speaker 7: We want to I want abundance. All right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from Steve Harvey, and it's our

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Speaker 1: last break of the day. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.

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01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 4: All right, Steve, here.

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Speaker 1: We are our last break of the day. It's been

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Speaker 1: a good Thursday, unt. It's been an ignorant Thursday.

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Speaker 8: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: You made good on your promise.

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01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:33,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, I told you what I was gonna dos.

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01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: Yes you did.

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01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:36,599
Speaker 7: It's been a good Thursday though.

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Speaker 1: Good to be back in all of that, and time

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01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:41,560
Speaker 1: for you to get us out of here with some

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01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: closing remarks and inspiring words like you always do.

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Speaker 7: I want to encourage people, but I got to tell

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01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:54,599
Speaker 7: you the truth about it. You know, it's sort of all.

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01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 7: I've decided to go forward with the truth as I've

1451
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 7: learned it, and I've decided to ignore naysayers and people

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01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 7: who don't want to hear the factual part of how

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01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:13,599
Speaker 7: difficult success is. But if you explain it to people

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01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 7: and they understand that you've gone through the hardships of

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01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:20,800
Speaker 7: trying to become successful yourself, when they face hardships, I

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01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,960
Speaker 7: think they can see it better for themselves. And Dion

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01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 7: Sanders told me one time. He says, Steve, stop throwing

1458
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 7: the life raft to people swimming away from the boat.

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01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,120
Speaker 7: He said, just throw your life raft to them people

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01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 7: that want to be saved. So and that's saved in

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01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:45,960
Speaker 7: just a and an analytical sense or an analogy that

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01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 7: he was using in terms of people who want to

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01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 7: be motivated or encouraged or given the tools for success.

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Speaker 7: So in light of that, here's something else I want

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01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 7: to remind people love because people don't like to hear

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01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 7: about the uncomfortable side of it. You know, they want

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01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 7: to just go. You know, I want to sleep long

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01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 7: as I want. You got to get this much sleeping. Okay, Fine, Fine, fine.

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Speaker 7: I had to come to that resolution after speaking the

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Speaker 7: truth about sleep as I know it. As I know it,

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Speaker 7: I can't tell you anything I don't know. I don't

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01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 7: know how to be successful sleeping a third of your life.

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01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:28,799
Speaker 7: I don't know anyone that made it to success sleeping

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01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 7: a third of their life. I just don't know anybody. Now,

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01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 7: if you're wealthy, you can sleep eight hours, but if

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01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 7: you're trying to get there, I just don't know anybody

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01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:43,439
Speaker 7: that's done it that way. And that's all I was

1478
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 7: trying to speak about. So what I'm about to share

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01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 7: with you now is another thing. See, and I want

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01:20:50,320 --> 01:20:53,040
Speaker 7: you to understand something about when you see people with

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Speaker 7: what you considered convenient lives, Convenience is built by inconvenience.

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01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 7: It's just the way it is. Convenience is built by inconvenience.

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01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:12,880
Speaker 7: If you want to have a convenient life, you are

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Speaker 7: going to have to inconvenience yourself on many, many occasions,

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01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:21,920
Speaker 7: and it won't be just some every now and then.

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Speaker 7: In order to have a convenient life, you are going

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Speaker 7: to have to spend a great deal of your current

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01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:35,600
Speaker 7: life being inconvenient. It's the only way it's done. For

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Speaker 7: every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. That's a

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01:21:41,479 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 7: scientific law, but it's also a spiritual law. If you

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01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 7: do good to everybody, good will come to you. If

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01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:54,040
Speaker 7: you do evil to everybody, evil gon't come your way.

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Speaker 7: So convenience is built through inconvenient. For every action, there's

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Speaker 7: an equal and opposite reaction. So if you put out evil,

1495
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 7: the equal and opposite reaction will be the equal is

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01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:16,400
Speaker 7: you gonna get evil to The opposite is is you

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01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 7: won't be putting it out, It'll be coming back to you.

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Speaker 8: So do you understand what I'm trying to say?

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Speaker 7: So if you want a life of convenience, it is

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Speaker 7: built through inconvenience. Another way to look at it is

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Speaker 7: and what I just had to come to terms with

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Speaker 7: on my journey to success. And this is not a negative, y'all.

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Speaker 7: It's okay, because success is very, very hard.

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Speaker 9: It just is.

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Speaker 7: Man. I wish I could tell people it's not hard,

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Speaker 7: but it is. You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable.

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Speaker 7: If you're trying to be comfortable, you're going to have

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Speaker 7: to get okay with being uncomfortable for stretches at a time.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I'm sorry if that doesn't sound right to you.

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Speaker 7: But if you talk to successful people, they will share

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Speaker 7: that information with you that you have to be comfortable.

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01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:19,680
Speaker 7: You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable because it's uncomfortable

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01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 7: to become successful. It's inconvenient to become successful, it really

1514
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 7: really is. But these are things that you have to

1515
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:31,519
Speaker 7: be willing to cope with to get the equal and

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01:23:31,960 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 7: opposite reaction. The equal part is this inco the opposite

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Speaker 7: part is this inconvenience will become convenient.

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Speaker 2: That's It's just.

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Speaker 7: That's the way it works.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 7: I wish I could. I don't know if I'm saying

1522
01:23:49,760 --> 01:23:51,799
Speaker 7: it to you the way I want to deliver a message,

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01:23:52,320 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 7: But I'm just trying to get you to understand that

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01:23:54,640 --> 01:24:01,920
Speaker 7: it's okay. But in your moments of uncomfortableness, moments of inconvenience,

1525
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Speaker 7: you can rest assured that God is with you all

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Speaker 7: the way that God didn't say your life would be easy.

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Speaker 7: Faith doesn't make it easy. Faith makes it possible. And

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Speaker 7: all you want to know is that what I'm going

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Speaker 7: through will create the possibility of me becoming successful, then

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Speaker 7: I'm willing to go through the necessary pains and gross

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01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:36,599
Speaker 7: and everything to become successful. And if you got God

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Speaker 7: in your life, he can give you the strength, the power,

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Speaker 7: the will to endure anything. With Christ, all things are possible.

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Speaker 7: Faith doesn't make it easy. Faith makes it possible. You've

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