1 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to the Sunday edition of Morning Run. 2 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: I'm Amy Robot and I'm TJ. Holmes. We tried it 3 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago. 4 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 3: You all seem to like us, who We're going to 5 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 3: keep doing it. We collect our quotes of the day 6 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 3: if anybody listen to Morning Run. Of course robes. We 7 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 3: love putting them at the end. It's one of our 8 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 3: favorite parts of Morning Run. But here's where we kind 9 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: of collect them and go through and tell more of 10 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 3: a deeper story of what's behind them. 11 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: That's right. We thought it would be fun to reflect 12 00:00:56,280 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: on all of the inspiration from the week before in 13 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: the past, so that in the week ahead we can 14 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: actually take that new perspective with us. So let's start 15 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,839 Speaker 1: with Monday, and our quote of the day was love 16 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: the life you live, Live the life you love, and 17 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: it was attributed to Bob Marley, which we were a 18 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: little like, huh, I did not know that a lyric 19 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: and his songs. So I actually tried to do a 20 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 1: little bit of a deep dive on this, and some 21 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: people say, hey, he wasn't the originator, but I haven't. 22 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: I wasn't able to find out who actually came up 23 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: with the phrase, but he certainly said it. 24 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 3: Well, did you tell is it? It is a song 25 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: lyric or? He this is a quote from an interview. 26 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: I believe it's it's it's in one of his songs. 27 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: But then they say it was kind of a mash 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 1: from another thing he said, So it was a little 29 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: there was a it was a gray area, but largely 30 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: if you if you go and google this, love the 31 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: life you live, live the life you love, Bob Marley's 32 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: name will come up. I just wanted to make it 33 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: clear that I can one hundred percent guarantee that he 34 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: said it. 35 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 3: But I love from days I know. 36 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: I just put this is transparency. So I just want 37 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: to say I can't confirm this information about to give you, 38 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: but the quote is still an amazing quote. So it 39 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: obviously is about making sure you remember to love the 40 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: life you live, to be grateful for it, and to 41 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: be excited about it because this is an amazing thing 42 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: we get to do, and then to live the life 43 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: you love. So you choose how you live by making 44 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: sure that you are doing the things you love. 45 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 3: What is this you have in here in the note? 46 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, yeah you all, I'm reading Robot the note 47 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: live here essentially because I'm saying it for the first time, 48 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 3: you have this second thing in here. Why there's another 49 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 3: quote that kind of is in line or it's been 50 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 3: sourced from. 51 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: Well, So when I started looking at Bob Marley quotes 52 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: because I was trying to figure out if he in 53 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: fact said this, and I found another quote that he 54 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: absolutely said okay, and I loved it. The truth is 55 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: everyone is going to hurt you. You just have to 56 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: find the ones worth suffering for. 57 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: Wait, why did you include those? One used that as you. 58 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: Know, it's a bonus. It's a quote bonus, and it 59 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: was basically just another Bob Marley quote. He actually if 60 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: you look to his lyrics, they're very simple, but so 61 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: inspirational and fun a lot of times as well. I 62 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: love the music. Anyway, I just thought there was a 63 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: little bonus quote. 64 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: We'll start doing that. 65 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 3: Then on Sundays, we'll give you all the quotes of 66 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 3: the day from the previous week and then a bonus 67 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 3: quote that's okay, fun. You just started a new thing here. 68 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 3: So that was on Monday. On Tuesday, you dug this 69 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 3: one up as well. Tuesday's quote was life is a 70 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them. That 71 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 3: only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality, Let things flow 72 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: naturally forward and whatever way they like. End quote This 73 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 3: was This. 74 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: Is from Laosu, a Chinese philosopher from five hundred and 75 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: seventy one b c. 76 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 2: It still all works today. That's amazing. 77 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: It blew my mind because you and I have really 78 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: leaned in on some of the quotes we know from 79 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: Michael Singer, from Eckhart Toole. But this is exactly what 80 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: they preach. And to think that a Chinese philosopher five 81 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: hundred plus years before Christ was born said the exact 82 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: same thing, right. 83 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: Maybe they stole it from him? 84 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: Well, they probably that was a foundation for this way 85 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: of thinking. And the cool thing is, I'm imagining, no 86 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: matter what changes we've had in this world and all 87 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: the developments and all the things we've learned and all 88 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: the things we can do, this still is appropriate and important. 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: And they knew it all the way back then. There 90 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: were different problems and different issues, and yet this remains 91 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: the same. 92 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 3: Should we have figured it out by now? Shouldn't we 93 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 3: all be living this way? They've been preaching this since 94 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 3: before Christ was born. It feels like we should have 95 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 3: adapted right now. 96 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: So somehow we all want to control things. We all 97 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: want to change things. We want things to be the 98 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: way we want them, and that is what causes suffering. 99 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: You have surrender on your arm, tattooed on your arm. 100 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: I was thinking about getting a tattoo about this. I 101 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: haven't done it yet, but that phrase come what may 102 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: it's all in the same line of thinking that you 103 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: just when you resist what is, when you resist reality, 104 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: you will suffer it or be. 105 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 2: Sorrow what what? Broadway shows that aio? 106 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: Oh, that's yes, that's from Moula Rouge and it's one 107 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: of my favorite songs, What May come what? 108 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: They change the music in that, but that one stays 109 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: that one. 110 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: Yes, they changed, they changed it up to make it 111 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: more popularized. They have a bunch of current music that 112 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: they put and weave through the storyline. I have to 113 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: take you say, yes, okay, it's always It was in 114 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: the movie Mula Rouge. It's in the Broadway play now 115 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: and my goodness, no one sings it quite like eron debate. 116 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: I want to see it. We have to. We have 117 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: to make that a date night. 118 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: Yes, that was Tuesday's quote. Life is a series of 119 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 3: natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them. That only creates sorrow. 120 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever. 121 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: Way they like. 122 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: And that takes us now to our quote that we 123 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 3: had on Wednesday, which is another simple one. It's a 124 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: doozy but soon as you hear it, it sounds so simple, 125 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: but it makes you stop and think quite a bit. 126 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: Yes, this is from the files of TJ. Holmes. It 127 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: takes considerable knowledge just to realize the extent of your 128 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: own ignorance. 129 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: I mean, what are the ways? I guess the most 130 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: popular way is you don't know what you don't know. 131 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: People like to say that, but I say that to 132 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: my daughters all the time. 133 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 3: Nobody likes to embrace that. The idea you don't know 134 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 3: what you don't know. That's a very powerful thing. It 135 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 3: makes you curious, it makes you more interested, it makes 136 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: you more engaged, and it makes you more capable of 137 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: actually learning something. You might be the smartest person in 138 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 3: the room because you were the one who was willing 139 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 3: to admit you didn't know everything, so you absorbed from 140 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 3: everybody else. 141 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 2: I just this is one. What's the way you put it? 142 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: Oftentimes the wisest man in the world is the man 143 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: who knows he knows nothing. That's often attributed to Socrates, 144 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: so again, an ancient philosopher, someone and something he said 145 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: that we still need to think about and put into 146 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: practice in our own lives all these years later. I 147 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: think it's remarkable. I will also say this, when you 148 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: acknowledge that you don't know what you don't know, that 149 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: there's still so much to learn, it's actually freeing. It's 150 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: I might it might seem powerful and important to be 151 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,679 Speaker 1: a know it all, and you might get a little 152 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: bit of an ego boost if you're that person. But 153 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: my god, it's a lot of work and people don't 154 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: like it. I used to always say this to my 155 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: kids as well. Nobody loves and know it all, or 156 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: nobody likes to know it all, and so it's actually 157 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: very freeing. It's very freeing to say, huh, who knew? 158 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: Or I don't know, and even if you think they're wrong, 159 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: let them say it and just listen. Have the perspective. 160 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: I love it. It takes considerable knowledge just to realize 161 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: the extent of your own ignorance. Awesome. 162 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 3: That takes us up to Thursday. Thursday again was in 163 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 3: the files. 164 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: That I have. 165 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: How many would you say I had stacked up? Again, 166 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: folks that don't know I, every single week at good morning, 167 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: I put up a new quote on Monday on my 168 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 3: door every single week, and we had folks come by 169 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 3: and they were inspired. They stopped this spark conversations. People 170 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 3: would take pictures of them and post them. It was 171 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: a fun thing that I got to do. But when 172 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 3: we left, I make sure I took all of those 173 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: with me. So we have a stack of Manila folder 174 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 3: full of quotes. 175 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: It's awesome that you did that. And so I would 176 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: say how long had you been doing it? For almost 177 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: two years? Because I would say there's okay, So I 178 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: would say there's a little There's probably over one hundred 179 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: of these quotes, so that would make sense every week 180 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: for about two years class, that's about how many we have. 181 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,479 Speaker 3: I loved it was a big part of my responsibility 182 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 3: and John took it very seriously and that took time 183 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 3: every morning to print those out. 184 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: It had different fonts and color. 185 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: You remember look forward to it. 186 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 2: But this was one of them. 187 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 3: It was classy is when you have a lot to say, 188 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 3: but you choose to stay silent in front of fools. Now, 189 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 3: I wasn't sure where I got that. I think during 190 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 3: the week I said, why do I think it was 191 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 3: a George Clooney croke cluote? 192 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: You did say that? 193 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it was. 194 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 3: I think it was simply that quote was put up, 195 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 3: his picture was attached to it or something, and that's 196 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 3: burned in my mind. 197 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: But that's funny. 198 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 3: I'm not sure where it came from, but it's difficult 199 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 3: to do. I told my daughter this recently. I think 200 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 3: I told you this recently when you were having an 201 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: argument with somebody, like you can't argue with the food 202 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 3: because from a distance, nobody knows who's who. That's something 203 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 3: your mama taught you. But it takes discipline to shut 204 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 3: up when you listen into somebody that you know is wrong. 205 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: It's I find it, and you know, it's very hard 206 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: for me to do that, and I have tried to 207 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: put that into practice because I have watched you do this. 208 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: You are very good at this. When someone is you 209 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: what you always say something that you're like the foundation 210 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 1: of what you're saying is not correct. So it's like 211 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: if someone starts from a place of untruth or falsity. 212 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 3: Everything else is out the window, so theres no reason 213 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 3: to listen past that. 214 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 1: And you've said that, you're like, I can shut this 215 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: down now, and I'm not even gonna respond because it's 216 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: not worth it because that is not based in truth. Yep. 217 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: And so if someone is saying something that's patently false 218 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: or it's pointless to argue with them, and it's hard 219 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: because it's also very. 220 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: I get ego is. 221 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: About to come into Yeah, exactly, that's what it is. Tempting, 222 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: that's the word I was looking for. Tempting. It is 223 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: tempting to try and say, uh ah, it's this way, 224 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 1: but that never goes anywhere. You're never going to convince anybody. 225 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: And I think trying to convince somebody they're wrong, or 226 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: trying to show them that they're wrong, it usually ends 227 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: up blowing up in your face. So I do love this. 228 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: Classy is when you have a lot to say, but 229 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 1: you choose to remain silent in front of fools. We 230 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: don't know if George Clooney said that. We think he didn't. 231 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: You know what, I feel like you could have even 232 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: said this, like if you told me you came up 233 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: with this quote. 234 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 2: I would believe that, and let's go with that. This 235 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: is attribute it to TJ. Holmes. 236 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: All right, that's what we'll go. 237 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: All right, Oh Friday, we had this when Robes pulled 238 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 3: out a quote from an athlete, from a baseball player. 239 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 3: Of all sports that you watch, the one I would 240 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 3: say you were leased into. 241 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: Would be baseball. 242 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: Yes. I find baseball to be kind of boring. You know, 243 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: it's just it drags on. I mean, the fact that 244 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: you even have to have a seventh inning stretch tells 245 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: you all you need to know about the pace of 246 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: the game. That's all. 247 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: Okay, So with. 248 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 3: That as the backdrop, I was very surprised when she 249 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 3: plucked out from Earl Wilson. 250 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 2: I don't know if everybody would know that name. I 251 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: don't know his backstory, but a baseball player you came 252 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 2: up with us. 253 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: Yes, he said this during a commencement speech. Because you 254 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: were even questioning whether or not he was the original 255 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: author of this, But he did say this in a 256 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: commencement speech. If you think nobody cares if you're alive, 257 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 1: try missing a couple of payments a humor filled way 258 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: to let you know that there's always someone who wants 259 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: to know where you are and what you're doing and 260 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: whether or not you're going to pay them back. 261 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: Somebody always cares. 262 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 3: You can take it as that, Yes, we're just talking 263 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 3: about maybe a tax collector or a bill collector, but 264 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: there's somebody somewhere. We have moments or we think nobody cares, 265 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 3: we think we're alone. 266 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 2: And you just want to know. We've talked about this before. 267 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 3: I've had had this conversation last week with someone who said, Yeah, 268 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: when I was going through hell, I didn't know to 269 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 3: reach out to you, TJ. I didn't know what to say. 270 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 3: I want to kind of leave you alone, give you 271 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 3: some space. But I told her, I said, I got 272 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 3: messages from people that I never responded to. But I'm 273 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 3: telling you now how much it meant to know that 274 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 3: person was thinking about me and cared. It's still mattered. 275 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: So I would encourage anybody always to let somebody know 276 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 3: when they're on your mind, because people can use it. 277 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: It's a good practice to put into your habits, and 278 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,439 Speaker 1: it can become a habit. Because I have tried to 279 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: start doing that. I'll think, Oh, I wonder how so 280 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: and so is doing or I didn't check on this person. 281 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: And instead of saying I'll do it when I get home, 282 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: or i'll do it later tonight, you're not going to 283 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: you were going to forget. Life gets busy, and so 284 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: it really is a practice to say, the moment that 285 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: comes into my head, I'm going to take thirty seconds, 286 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a minute, and I'm just gonna say hey. 287 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: And this is one of my favorite things to do, 288 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: especially if someone's going through hell. And we all have 289 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: had our moments when someone says do not respond or 290 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: you do not need to respond, but I just want 291 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: to let you know I'm thinking of you and someone 292 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: sending a hug your way, and yes, of course you 293 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: can respond, but that's actually awesome because when people are 294 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: trying to say something to you to get something back, 295 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: sometimes that can actually be heavier. So I always appreciate that. Also, 296 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: one of my favorite things to do is when you 297 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: give someone a gift, you say and you are not 298 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: allowed to write me a thank you note because it's 299 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: just one of those things where I have said that. 300 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 2: Oh no, I appreciate that thank you. 301 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: See it's overwhelming, you know. Sometimes the people are sending 302 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff, so I just I think that's 303 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: one of those ways to love people and to show 304 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: people you care about them. And it's not transactional, it 305 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be reciprocal. It's just you reaching out 306 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: and sharing love with someone. So I think that's pretty cool. 307 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: There's a collection of people in this country who have 308 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 3: gotten that message from me over the past couple of years. 309 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 3: Didn't want anything, you just cross my mind. So I 310 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 3: thought i'd say, hello, hope that exact thing and that 311 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 3: line I include. I said, I've learned anything over the 312 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 3: past couple of years is when somebody is on my mind, 313 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 3: don't hesitate to reach out. 314 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 2: A lot of people have gotten that exactly. 315 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: Ess for me because it's crazy. But when you're going 316 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: through it and you just get that one line, your 317 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: heart warms, your heart opens up, and it changes your day. 318 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: So I think that's pretty cool. And yeah, someone always cares, even. 319 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 3: If they are trying to get your money. So folks, 320 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 3: if you think nobody cares if you're alive, try missing 321 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 3: a couple of payments. Again contributed or attributed to Earl Wilson, 322 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: a baseball player. So, like we say on Sundays, people 323 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 3: always looking for a reset, an inspiration of some kind. 324 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: You've gotten your rest in I guess maybe a little 325 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 3: bit on Saturday, maybe party a little bit, but you 326 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 3: get around to Sunday, it's time to start thinking about 327 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 3: the week and to be recharged and re energize. Even 328 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 3: if it's not religious, everybody's looking for a little something 329 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 3: on Sunday to reset. So we hope these. 330 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 2: Work for you. 331 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe you'll even go on a Sunday morning run. 332 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: I know we're running this morning as well. We're actually 333 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: prepping for a ten k. We have never run a 334 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: ten k together, and so we're doing that next weekend. 335 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 1: So this is also fun to listen to while you're 336 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: going on maybe your morning run as you're getting ready 337 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: for the work week. But thank you for spending your 338 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: Sunday with us. We appreciate it. I'm Amy Roboch and 339 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm TJ. 340 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 2: Holmes. Have a good Sunday, folks. We'll see you for 341 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: the morning run on Monday as well.