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Speaker 1: Welcome back, ladies and gentlemen of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: Here we are again, Kathy and I am your service.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 3: We're Susan, I do a lot of laughing, but today

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Speaker 3: At Okay, before we get into today's episode, Susan, let's

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Speaker 3: talk about the women's tell all. Are you ready to

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Speaker 3: talk about grants?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Baby? Well, first of all, all I could think

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Speaker 2: about was ours. How much fun that day was?

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Speaker 3: I was thinking, I was looking at the clothes going Yep,

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Speaker 3: they got.

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Speaker 2: The pretty way way way less drama? What ours was?

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Speaker 2: Way ours? Wait?

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Speaker 3: Can we just talk about we got it? There's so

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Speaker 3: much to talk about here. I want to talk about, well,

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Speaker 3: I want to talk about Carolina's outfit to start with.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you didn't have drama, if you didn't

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Speaker 3: want to call attention to yourself, which you apparently did,

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Speaker 3: did you catch that outfit? I think it said spread

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Speaker 3: no evil on the back.

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Speaker 2: I can't even believe they were allowed to wear writing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that was a no no. But it looked

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Speaker 2: good on her. I'll tell you that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she's got gorgeous hair, she's a beautiful face.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I don't size zero.

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Speaker 3: I know, but didn't you think I just thought though that,

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Speaker 3: you know it. My whole thing on this episode is

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Speaker 3: much the way I feel about the entire season. I

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Speaker 3: love the people, I love Grant, I love the women,

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Speaker 3: I love the producers. I love everything about this show.

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Speaker 3: But I just there's a butt here it comes. I

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Speaker 3: feel like this entire season it's it's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: playing a dark game and just like just throw it

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Speaker 3: at Dart and see, Oh, let's talk about that this

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Speaker 3: week or I just can I've had a.

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Speaker 2: Gay Let me ask you. Let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel this way because we've done this and

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Speaker 2: we kind of understand how it works. Do you think

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Speaker 2: that has anything to do with it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe it has something to do with it,

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Speaker 3: But my thing is, I keep looking going. I told

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Speaker 3: you last week, I was like, where did it come from?

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Speaker 3: From my hometown? Girl? Like she wasn't in it to

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Speaker 3: begin with, And I just feel like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like some of it is just I think

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Speaker 3: there's a whole lot more, you know, to the story

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Speaker 3: and to what happened than what we saw. And you

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Speaker 3: gotta remember, it was a shorter season, so I kind

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Speaker 3: of felt like ours, you know, things condensed a little bit.

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Speaker 3: What did you think about the whole thing about Carolina

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Speaker 3: taking responsibility?

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Speaker 2: I mean, she doesn't understand what that means, just like

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Speaker 2: Gina said or not Dina, Dina, Dina and Serafina and Serafina.

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Speaker 2: I love to watch her face, yes, because she doesn't

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Speaker 2: have a good poker face. Right.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, I feel that. I mean, I just I

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Speaker 3: think you're right, Carolina either doesn't understand or doesn't want

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Speaker 3: she wish Grant could be out there.

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Speaker 2: And also that she felt attacked all the time. I

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Speaker 2: get that, but was her attitude, like Dina pointed out

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Speaker 2: to start with, where she was MOPy and pudy and

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Speaker 2: you know the rest of the people feel that energy.

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Speaker 2: Negative energy goes really far, and I tried to run

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Speaker 3: I don't and that's your nation. Susan has taught me

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Speaker 3: that put a smile on your face and look for

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Speaker 3: the best, because if you're not, you're not okay. But

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Speaker 3: there's so much like little things. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: doing the same thing the show is. I'm darting from thing.

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Speaker 2: To think because there's so much to cover in a

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Speaker 3: Okay, what about Dina saying, Carolina, I bought you another week?

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Speaker 2: I mean big, that was huge.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we own that ship well.

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Speaker 3: And then did she though by her I mean maybe

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Speaker 2: But was her biggest supporter for a while until she

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Speaker 2: was affected by it the negativity once again, and then

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Speaker 2: she fired out. But they did the hug and makeup

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Speaker 3: Wedd a second? Do you remember me saying last week

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Speaker 3: or whenever it was last week, the week before. Clearly

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Speaker 3: they're not good friends. Clearly I'm too talking that. So

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Speaker 3: I think that was fake. I think that was fake

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Speaker 3: when they it out.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't because I could see me doing something

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Speaker 3: So then why were they so so.

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Speaker 2: She was still not taking blame for anything, and she

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Speaker 2: got pissed. Yeah, she was like, hello.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what did you think of because you know we

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Speaker 3: can agree to disagree. I don't think that was a

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Speaker 3: real HU hugging out episode, but the social media think

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Speaker 3: that's the now. I may be wrong, and I'm sure

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Speaker 3: you know people writing correct the social media aspect of it.

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Speaker 3: Where they showed the text, I was like, whoa, and.

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Speaker 2: She said, I'll show you the text. But Dina Lawyer

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Speaker 2: is not taking ship.

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Speaker 3: Really, but Dina's saying that she put that up to

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Speaker 3: advertise the show. It's like, come on, Dina, you're a lawyer.

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Speaker 3: Is anybody buying that? I don't think so she put

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Speaker 3: it up just to say screw you to Carolina, which,

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Speaker 3: you know, okay, whatever. Don't you feel like this season

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Speaker 3: it was like a little more digging.

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Speaker 2: For drama fell off to me.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you so you do agree with me?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it almost felt I don't know if maybe the

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Speaker 2: scene wasn't long enough or showed enough of one thing.

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Speaker 2: It was more jumping all over the place.

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Speaker 3: But that's how I feel, jumping all over That's I

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Speaker 3: mean that I just keep saying that thing. I think

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Speaker 3: that Alex was so cute bringing in the Lama and

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Speaker 3: you know, the no drama. I mean, that was so sweet,

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Speaker 3: and I felt badly. First, she said it was hard

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Speaker 3: to watch back because that brought back to me how

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Speaker 3: hard it was to watch back. You know, we've talked

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Speaker 3: about this stuff with Teresa. With me, it was hard

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Speaker 2: So it's hard hard for me to watch back that

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Speaker 2: stupid ice cream games.

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Speaker 3: When I answered, pay, attentions and pay, and I felt

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Speaker 3: badly for Alce when she said there was no clear

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Speaker 3: reasons she went home, although I got to say I

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Speaker 3: didn't see him. I mean they were the ones that

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Speaker 3: went to the Beverly Center, remember that first one. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but I never saw much of a connection after that,

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Speaker 3: did you not?

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Speaker 2: Afterwards? No? She kept He kept her around for a

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Speaker 2: little bit because he had to try everybody.

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Speaker 3: Right, I know, but she was so excited. Just you know,

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Speaker 3: I feel sorry. Here's the thing as a mom and

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Speaker 3: you're a mom, and you know we both have daughters.

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Speaker 3: I just keep watching that saying, how would I feel,

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Speaker 3: you know, my daughter with a broken heart. It's like

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Speaker 3: you and I talk about we're so glad we went

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Speaker 3: home earlier. I mean we still stayed pretty long time,

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Speaker 3: but we weren't.

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Speaker 2: We didn't do hometowns.

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Speaker 3: We didn't do hometowns, and I mean I just kept

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Speaker 3: thinking no. But even Alex, she really thought they had

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Speaker 3: a connection. You know, you just feel sorry for them.

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Speaker 2: Well because he's saying, you know, I see potential in us,

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Speaker 2: and you want to believe the person talking to you.

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Speaker 3: That's right. What do you think about Sara Fina? I

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Speaker 3: love her.

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Speaker 2: I just can't not look at her face. I mean

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Speaker 2: she tellything without speaking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think with her to the point you

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Speaker 3: were just making I think, oh, Grant, I disagree. She

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Speaker 3: said she felt validated. He validated her when you know,

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Speaker 3: when they were talking, everybody so no at the whims

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Speaker 3: till all. So you know, he said he wanted to

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Speaker 3: meet her family. She said, I literally jumped off a

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Speaker 3: bridge for him. You know, her mother wants to her happy.

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Speaker 3: All those things she felt like he had. I don't

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Speaker 3: say committed permanently, but.

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Speaker 2: Again, it doesn't every woman that he keeps around. Wouldn't

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Speaker 2: you look at Leslie? Remember Leslie? She thought? She well,

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Speaker 2: I think that's the nature of the show.

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Speaker 3: But that's down to the end. I'm just saying, when

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Speaker 3: you it's dangerous territory. I think, especially when you're young

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Speaker 3: and you're telling women that are you know at this

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Speaker 3: age that you love them or you're fall in love

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Speaker 3: with them. And I think that's where Sarah, you.

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Speaker 2: Want to believe it because they're falling for him. But

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Speaker 2: that's the chance you take on.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but and that's part of being on the show.

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Speaker 3: But when he says and he did, you know he's

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Speaker 3: validating her feelings. Then you don't think, hey, I'm a

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Speaker 3: crazy person. You know, you think this is really going somewhere.

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Speaker 3: So to be the bluepers of the blue person, Jesus,

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Speaker 3: I loved it. What what the bluepers were? What really

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Speaker 3: was that?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Literally literally every one of them said, literally and let

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Speaker 3: me just say, let me just say, literally, literally, Susan,

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Speaker 3: I can literally not wait for the finale. Literally I can.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm waiting for the hometowns that I get excited,

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Speaker 2: not the hometowns, the overnights. I get excited about that

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Speaker 2: love that real like he wants to hear them. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the thing about the show. They hold back. I

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Speaker 2: mean he didn't hold back, but either holding back. Are

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Speaker 2: you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: He was telling them all you think, what who's holding

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Speaker 3: back the old women.

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Speaker 2: When they they want He wants to hear the woman

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Speaker 2: say I'm in love with you, I'm falling in love with.

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Speaker 3: They've all said that the ones that are at hometowns, well, yes,

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Speaker 3: that point well you know, well, well what's your point?

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Speaker 2: Three women are going to be in love and two

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Speaker 2: are going to go home crying.

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Speaker 3: You know what, Let's find some single guys for him.

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Speaker 3: You know that they said they're doing paradise. Maybe they'll

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Speaker 3: bring those three to paradise.

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Speaker 2: Wait, did you hear Jesse? I heard announcements.

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Speaker 3: But let's get back. We know this, dude, because no

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Speaker 3: one cares about us, Susan, because they're afraid we talk

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Speaker 3: about No, they're afraid will show up uninvited. That's what

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Speaker 3: they're afraid of. Okay, Diana, I just want to say

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Speaker 3: quick thing about her. I think she is lovely, clearly,

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Speaker 3: smart girl, a lawyer. I I think it took a lot. Again,

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Speaker 3: I think of people, women, my daughter, people, I know you,

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Speaker 3: The Disney deal. I mean they did a few cute

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Speaker 3: I really cannot. So it's going to be good.

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Speaker 2: Let's see where it goes, Okay, Kathy I want to

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's do it. Let's do it. Now here we go. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Do you notice any distinct differences between young men today

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Speaker 2: You do young men today know what romance is?

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Speaker 2: Don't think they're romantic, but I don't date young men,

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Speaker 3: But in high school, I'm talking about high school, you know,

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Speaker 3: I mean I had a guy in high school write

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Speaker 2: And in high school.

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Speaker 2: Everybody thought he was a weirdough and now you wish

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Speaker 3: Now but I think guys today are Do you think

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Speaker 2: I don't see it. I don't. Everything's so nonch lot today.

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Speaker 2: You know, they don't title anything. They hook up if

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Speaker 2: I mean, it cross all shi, But.

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Speaker 3: I believe trust me when she tells you this guy

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Speaker 2: The word romance.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I think, but you know what I

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Speaker 3: think the difference is, Susan, I really do. It's social media.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's.

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Speaker 3: Social media, social media, you know, it's the quick text,

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Speaker 3: It's there's women everywhere that there's you don't have to

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Speaker 2: So but when we also, I think that men our

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Speaker 3: Nobody tries well, but that's what I'm saying. It's it's

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Speaker 3: it's too much work. They can go on Facebook dating

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Speaker 3: They can go on and have a date. Oh this

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's maybe I'm being you know.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say better or worse. I would say different. Yeah, different,

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Speaker 3: I think social media and dating apps and just a

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Speaker 2: You know they have like robots now for men, of course,

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about robots.

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Speaker 2: To come in their house that they could do it too.

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Speaker 2: And you know there used to be like blow up dolls.

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Speaker 3: But where did you read this? What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Girlfriend? Yeah, it's the times here. Come on looking

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Speaker 3: Wait, you're telling me, you're telling me.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's coming, it's coming. Yes, there's a big thing

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Speaker 3: I'm just thinking about a man having sex sticking it

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Speaker 2: I think they make him a flushmail. It's probably got

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Speaker 2: Oh jeez, I we won't even go there all right,

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Speaker 2: let's get into our fan questions. Go. This one's from anonymous. Hi,

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Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan. I love your thoughts. I've been seeing

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing. He doesn't do the guy things

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Speaker 2: fill my glass when it's empty at dinner, the little things.

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Speaker 2: I never really thought I was someone that cared about

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Speaker 2: that stuff like that, but it all came to a

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Speaker 2: weird that all these things are starting to make me

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Speaker 2: but it's starting to give me the dick. Please help me. Well.

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Speaker 2: First of all, when I walked into the restaurant a

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Speaker 2: probably would have embarrassed him, like are you kidding me

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Speaker 2: right now? Yeah? But you know what, woman you get up?

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Speaker 2: Does he have no manners? Sometimes you have to teach

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Speaker 3: And you know what, I hate to say this. This

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Speaker 3: and I hate saying this, and I'm sure I'm going

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Speaker 2: And he might just educate him.

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Speaker 3: You might you might have to teach him, because that's

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Speaker 3: you know, what, do I say something? I thought, no,

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Speaker 3: But anonymous, you're dating this guy, so you know you

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Speaker 3: for telling me. If he if he's rude, and you know,

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00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 3: and you might want to, you know, trying to.

439
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 2: Picture her walking in and he's still sitting and she's standing.

440
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 2: I can't.

441
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 3: I hate to say it. I've seen it, but I

442
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: will tell you my children, and I know your children.

443
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 3: My children were brought up with manners and yes ma'am,

444
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 3: no sir and all that and holding doors and and

445
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 3: people take note of that. So the fact that she's

446
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 3: getting the ick, I get it. I understand it, but

447
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 3: I'd give him the benef for the doubt for a

448
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 3: few minutes.

449
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: Don't you feel like a little bit it's a lack

450
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 2: of respect.

451
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 3: Not if you haven't been taught, like.

452
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 2: Be in the world for a minute. People do nice

453
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 2: things for others.

454
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. Again, how long have they been dating?

455
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 3: You know, how old are they? I just I'd hate

456
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 3: it's not but anonymous, I can tell you what it

457
00:23:55,720 --> 00:24:00,719
Speaker 3: isn't You said it's a silly expectation. You don't want

458
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 3: to run over silly expectations. It's not a silly expectation.

459
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 3: You should, absolutely, girlfriend, have the expectation that your partner,

460
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 3: your boyfriend, your date, any man that you are with

461
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 3: will hold the door for you every time.

462
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 2: You give up with somebody. The right thing to do.

463
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know, write a letter to his mother,

464
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 3: tell her have a conversation with him, though I said,

465
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 3: for you end it. Yeah, that's what I said. I'd

466
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 3: have the conversation and say, hey, you know, is this

467
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 3: just an oversight or you know, what's the deal because

468
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 3: it bothered me the other night when you didn't get up,

469
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 3: And he might look at her and say, I am

470
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 3: so sorry, I didn't know. I didn't think of it,

471
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 3: and then they could have a bigger conversation about manners and.

472
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: You know, or she could present it in a way

473
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 2: where did you see the people look that you didn't

474
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 2: get up. I was embarrassed for you because you're much

475
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 2: better than that.

476
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: Yeah you know, make it? Or what's dancing? Or do

477
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 3: you know what? Yeah, dance around it? Be kind or

478
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 3: I just was thinking Christmas, buy him the Emily Post

479
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 3: Book of Etiquette and tell to read it from comfort.

480
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 3: I gave that to my children.

481
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 2: Bok.

482
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 3: I know it's a very big book. Let us know

483
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: how it goes, okay. Question The next question is from

484
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 3: anonymous high ladies. I really need your help. I went

485
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 3: on a third date with this guy that I really like,

486
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 3: and everything was going great until we got to the bill.

487
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 2: Oh, the dreaded bill.

488
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: I oh, I had third date, Susan, you were going

489
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 3: to go to task on this one. I had secretly

490
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: given my card to the waitress so I could treat

491
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 3: He has never voiced to me that anything like that

492
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 3: makes him uncomfortable or offends him, so I thought it

493
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 3: would be a nice surprise. He did not like it.

494
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 3: He was so cold to me and continues to be now.

495
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: When I asked what was wrong, he finally told me

496
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 3: he was embarrassed. What do I do? Is this something

497
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: I should be concerned about? I don't get what the

498
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 3: big deal is, and I just feel so lost.

499
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 2: Oh thought, I'm so sorry because I think that was

500
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 2: the sweetest thing to do. I've done it. My guys

501
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 2: didn't get mad. They thanked me.

502
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know there's reasons for that. I would

503
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 3: I don't think I would do that on a third day.

504
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: I would have.

505
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 3: Again, I'm saying I wouldn't have done.

506
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 2: It, but she did it. So what do we tell her?

507
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 3: You tell her that I would apologize and say I

508
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: want I was trying to do something sweet. I never

509
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 3: meant to embarrass you. Now I realized I should again

510
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 3: know what she should say is now I realize, and

511
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 3: I'll talk to you about it. If I want to

512
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 3: treat and say, can I get this one and give

513
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 3: you a voice? I'm sorry, I would apologize. I would

514
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 3: never do that.

515
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: I've done it and the exact same way. And they

516
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 2: were third date.

517
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: You hardly know the person.

518
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 2: If he took me out twice, I wouldn't mind.

519
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 3: I would wait till the bill came and said, hey,

520
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 3: you took me. You know you've paid the last two bills.

521
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 3: How about I get this one? And it says absolutely not.

522
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 2: I would.

523
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 3: I just I think you blindsided him.

524
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I like that he's upset because, however, you

525
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 2: know what bothers me? What is it a control thing?

526
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 3: I don't know. But he said he's been cold to

527
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 3: me and continues to be right. That's that is a

528
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 3: could be a red team. We see red red right?

529
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 2: Yellow?

530
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know it could be light pink.

531
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: He should say thank you, but there's no need for that.

532
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: I no, you're being a dickhead, are you?

533
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: Why are you saying the word dick so many times?

534
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just coming out today. I made

535
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: lemonade out of my lemon, so we're lucky. That's all

536
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

537
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, anyway, that's what I think.

538
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: I will swollowed the something as well. I shouldn't be allowed.

539
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 3: To help, not today, No, anyway, just anonymous. I really

540
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 3: would have the conversation with him and apologize and say

541
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 3: you didn't mean to offend him. Quite to the contrary,

542
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 3: you are trying to do something sweet. But you know what,

543
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 3: if he continues to be an asshole and cold, then

544
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 3: you got a bigger problem on your hand.

545
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 2: Than those who hell Kathy today assholes? She said it.

546
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: I love it.

547
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 3: I don't like men who are mean.

548
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 2: I don't like the mean people. And you know what,

549
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: if he cheaps the cold shoulder, you're the one that's

550
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 2: going to get upset and let him know you are listen.

551
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: If he's trying to do something nice and you're going

552
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 2: to treat me like this, over it, I apologize. I

553
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: thought I was doing something sweet. I wanted to make

554
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 2: you smile. Let's get past this, or let's know fat

555
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: he gives over. If he can't get past it, you

556
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 2: know what she should do. Here's your hat? What's your hurry? Audios?

557
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: Bye bye? All right? Give me the money for the

558
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: bill that I just paid.

559
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to be that You want to be

560
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: that ass you're saying, asshole, you want to be that guy?

561
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 2: Pay me for the We don't hear things like that.

562
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 2: Usually that's really something that we don't hear often. Good

563
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: for you, Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're sweet. Anonymous Okay, another

564
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: anonymous nobody wants to give their names today. Hey, ladies,

565
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: I have a big dilemma. I need your help. How

566
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 2: do I make my best friend realize that her boyfriend

567
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: is a major all caps mooch. He hasn't paid for

568
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: anything for her and over a year, including gifts for

569
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: her birthday, et cetera. They've been together for a year

570
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: and three months. The math isn't mething. He always eats

571
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: her food, needs her to drive him places. Is just

572
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: so exhausting. I can tell I don't want to hurt

573
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 2: her feelings or make her unhappy, but there's no way

574
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: he's good for her. How do I have this conversation?

575
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: Can I just give us the cancers? She noticed?

576
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 3: Who asked you, Anonymous? If she's happy? What's it to you?

577
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 2: Kathy? I cannot believe those words came out of here. Man. Oh,

578
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: if it were me and you saw me doing this

579
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: for somebody, you'd be beating my ear until I got it.

580
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 2: Come on, they're friends, Tell that you're would you or

581
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 2: would you not? Now that I said it that way?

582
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: Wait a minute? Has fair enough? I think fair enough?

583
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 3: Fair enough? However, I'm going out on a limb. I

584
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 3: don't think that Anonymous has not voiced her opinion already.

585
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 3: I don't think she's been sitting back quietly as I

586
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 3: would not for a year and a half. And after

587
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 3: they've been together for a year and three months, Anonymous

588
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: decides to write us because she just popped popped it

589
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: and can't control herself any longer. I think Anonymous has

590
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 3: probably spoken to her friend about this, and her friend

591
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: is continuing the pavior And that's why I jumped to

592
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 3: it and said, what's it to you? If she's happy?

593
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 3: And Susan, you know, haven't I not gotten to a

594
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: point where I said, well, find if that's what you want.

595
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: Susan not absolutely, but you're going to beat it that

596
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 2: horse until she hears you, though you would cheap saying it,

597
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 2: until I get it, and then I can make my

598
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: own no.

599
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, until no, until you say to me

600
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 3: what you've done not about this.

601
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: I hear you.

602
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 3: I hear you, and I don't care. I want to

603
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 3: do a b and say I'm like, okay, great, you

604
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 3: need to help me here, okay, because Anonymous didn't help me,

605
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 3: now I need to. I always will help you.

606
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: He hasn't paid for anything for her an over year,

607
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 2: including gifts for her birthday. Who's paying for them?

608
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 3: I think? No? I think what Anonymous means is she

609
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: didn't articulate her thoughts. Clearly, he just didn't get her one.

610
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 3: That would be my take.

611
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 2: Okay, is your girlfriend desperate that she wants a man

612
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 2: so bad that she's going to do I mean, I

613
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: used to be a big giver, like I'll let you

614
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: walk over from me, give you a give. But she

615
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: has needs something in return.

616
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 3: Well, maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. Maybe she's too young. Again,

617
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,719
Speaker 3: we don't know their ages. We don't know, you know,

618
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 3: is this her first boyfriend?

619
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 2: We don't know, have this conversation. She doesn't.

620
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: Well, she said that one time. You say it one time, Anonymous,

621
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 3: you say, let me let let's role play here, Susan,

622
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 3: you've been dating Jerry. No, you've been dating Dick. We're

623
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 3: going to keep with that name today. You've been dating

624
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: Dick for a year and three months and he's never

625
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 3: bought you a birthday present. He comes to your house,

626
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 3: he fills his face out of your refrigerator, He never

627
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: takes you for dinner. And when we you do car

628
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 3: for dinner, you pay for it. What do you see

629
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 3: in this guy?

630
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: He must be really satisfied. I'm asking you, I'm asking you.

631
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: We're role playing.

632
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you guys could do it though I

633
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: couldn't do that.

634
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 3: So there's some reason why I's wrong with this picture. Yeah,

635
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: there's there's something we're not getting out of this story. Yeah, so,

636
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: I mean, but I don't do her best friend?

637
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: You could, if you haven't already, just say that you

638
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: can't help, but notice and ask her does she notice?

639
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 2: How do you feel about it? And then whatever the

640
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 2: answer is, accept it, yep, and stay her best friend.

641
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: You'll pick up the pieces after. Yes, that's right, but

642
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: don't let her do anything major.

643
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 3: And and and you know what, anonymous, you're you're probably right.

644
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: He's probably not good for her because ultimately, ultimately that

645
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 3: kind of behavior gets really old, really fast, and.

646
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: Obviously not fast enough if she still does, not fast enough.

647
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 2: But you know, she here again the girlfriend, not the

648
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 2: friend that's talking to us. But what kind of childhood

649
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 2: shod she have? What are you attracting? Like? All that

650
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 2: comes into play, That's what I'm saying.

651
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 3: We don't know, but being a.

652
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,879
Speaker 2: Friend would bring her light to it.

653
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 3: Like, but she's not going to change her, No, she's not.

654
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 3: You're not going to change her. But anonymously, you know what,

655
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: You're lucky, she's lucky to have a great friend in you.

656
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 3: You're a good friend, and you know, just be there. Hopefully,

657
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 3: hopefully she'll come to her senses and you can pick

658
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 3: up the pieces and hopefully I know what's wrong with

659
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 3: men that do that? What do you?

660
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 2: I don't know? You know, you know, sometimes they're really

661
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 2: good men. Once again, I'm going to give them a

662
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: benefit of the doubt. They don't even know any better.

663
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 2: They're spoiled, rotten, you know, they're just stupid and they

664
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: got to be taught. And sometimes it takes losing somebody, yeah,

665
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 2: to learn.

666
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 3: I don't I don't. I mean at my age or

667
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 3: our age. I don't want to teach her man the door.

668
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 3: I can't teach old dogs new tricks. I mean, yeah,

669
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: I have another funny thing, but I'm not going to

670
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 3: say it. Yes, Anonymous, let us know, let us know. Please,

671
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 3: you know, we've had several questions where we need more information.

672
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 2: And we've got a few responses.

673
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 3: Write so please, Anonymous, write us an update. That's where

674
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 3: I always tell you about a Bachelor nation dot com

675
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 3: slash Golden hour. That's where you will write us an update.

676
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 2: Please do it, or even have her write it. Really,

677
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: she realizes what the hell's going on? All right? We

678
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 2: got icky or picky? What a day? Okay, we're going

679
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: to do another round of icky or picky. Kathy. I'm

680
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 2: going to have you.

681
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 3: Start with the first one today, he says, my lady

682
00:35:53,600 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 3: un ironically, which means that's how he referred a lady milady.

683
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 3: I dated a guy who said mulady, and I went,

684
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: you're who like what? No, my name is Kathy, get it,

685
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 3: learn it, learn it now? Just I mean if he

686
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 3: gets you know what it is for men they date

687
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 3: so many women they call him all milady. You know,

688
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 3: I think it's I think it's I don't think it's icky.

689
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 3: I think it's picky, but yeah, it's pretty. He always

690
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: talks with his mouthful.

691
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 2: Icky beyond picky and ooh this is an oo no way.

692
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 3: Okay, he's a massive sore loser during board games. That's

693
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: ikey to me.

694
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 2: So it can't be like you baby, grow a pair

695
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 2: really icky. Okay, he has really long fingernails. First I

696
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 2: would be vomiting, and then I first think the manicured

697
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 2: and very clean. No, it wouldn't be so icky.

698
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,479
Speaker 3: No, it would for me a man with really long

699
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 3: fingers mine long, like long like long long? Can you

700
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: spell it? L O N G?

701
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: My rugged, dude, that's gonna hold my hand. I don't

702
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 2: want his nails longer than mine. Ikey, you know what.

703
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,720
Speaker 3: I swear to God. We just took a tour guide,

704
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 3: a tour boat around the as he had it. What

705
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 3: I can't even talk. We just went around the world

706
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 3: for you to say it was Ikey, Really he's transitioning.

707
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: What you got any other an open mind? You know,

708
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:46,359
Speaker 2: be open? It didn't say what guy was he? It's

709
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 2: just as he has well is he r he? You

710
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: know what I mean? We don't know.

711
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 3: He's not gonna be my heat for long. And he's

712
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 3: got really long fingernails. I don't care if he's transitioning

713
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 3: or not.

714
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: Okay, he always wears ripped basketball shorts and a T

715
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: shirt that never matches.

716
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: Let me just tell you wait, wait, let me just say,

717
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 3: do you hear Susan? She wants to know exactly, Like,

718
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 3: if you're gardening, mowing the yard, it's okay, Susan the

719
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 3: fashion Queen, Yeah that's okay. But if you are you know,

720
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 3: if you're taking out for dinner, your toast, your you've

721
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 3: been kicked. Look at she's making a face. You're kicked

722
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 3: to the street. I mean, you are done. If you

723
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 3: sharpen that.

724
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 2: If he but a basketball shorts kind of girl.

725
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 3: He always wears basketball shorts, So that tells me it's

726
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: like you need an excuse.

727
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: That want to help him? Yeah, that's icky, that's ticky.

728
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: All right?

729
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 3: Where are we? He over explains a joke every time

730
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 3: you don't laugh?

731
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: It's pathetic.

732
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: It's pathetic, but it's picky.

733
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 2: But you know what, it is picky because I sit

734
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: through them and pre time make myself laugh and I

735
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: want to kill myself sometimes.

736
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: No, but he's always explaining a joke, like, you know what.

737
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 3: I've known people who do that, and it's like I

738
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 3: got it.

739
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 2: I got it the first time. It just wasn't funny.

740
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 2: Please don't repeat it.

741
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 3: Really.

742
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: He posts really sad lyrics but refuses to talk about

743
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 2: his feelings when asked.

744
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 3: Well, to me, that's that's a cry for help. That's

745
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 3: a cry for help. That's that might be a deal

746
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 3: break around the relationship. I mean, if he can't talk

747
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 3: about his feelings, that doesn't.

748
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: Postman don't really open up that easily. But if you're

749
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 2: going to post sad lyrics, that's cry for help.

750
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 3: I think I think he needs prozac, all right, fist

751
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 3: or all the above. He refuses to try new foods.

752
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 3: Oh god, you know for me, that's an ick. I

753
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 3: gotta be.

754
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: I dated a guy I'll tell you.

755
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: You know the guy I'm talking about it d'ing for

756
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 3: like ten months and the whole thing was icky. But

757
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: he ate the same thing for lunch every day and

758
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 3: the same thing for breakfast. It's like OCD. And I

759
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 3: would say to him, how about you.

760
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 2: Know, try this yeah, yeah croissant. No.

761
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: But you know what when he refused that to me

762
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 3: was what do I want to say? It spoke more

763
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 3: about who he was a person. Yeah. In other words,

764
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 3: it had broader implications than just trying.

765
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he still uses Snapchat, so what Okay, I never

766
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 2: even knew what that was. My kids. If I want

767
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: to see anything, I got a look on Snapchat. What

768
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 2: I don't like is it disappears you post it for

769
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: a minute. I go back to show somebody my.

770
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 3: Grand stories on instagram Susan, They're there for twenty four

771
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 3: hours and then they're gone. Learn your social media.

772
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 2: Well, my kids know now. If you're going to do

773
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: that shit, take a copy and send me my own.

774
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: If it's about my grandchildren, I want the picture. Don't

775
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 2: make me look on Snapchat. It's a whole nother thing.

776
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 2: I got it.

777
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 3: I can. I just tell you, I don't know anyone

778
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,919
Speaker 3: who uses Snapchat except your children. I really don't.

779
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,919
Speaker 2: There's one hundred million people that use.

780
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 3: Oh I'm sure there are. I just don't know that

781
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 3: many people.

782
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: All the young ones in Bachelor World they do. Oh yeah,

783
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 2: because I remember taking pose in with the four pick

784
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 2: I thought they used TikTok Bachelor Nation. No, because Snapchat

785
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 2: they do. They could share it, but only for a minute,

786
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 2: or you can save it to a story like and

787
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 2: I go, oh, you're using Snapchat? Something about the camera?

788
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,399
Speaker 2: You got to ask the young one. But a lot

789
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: of them do still use it?

790
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 3: Wow?

791
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: All right, all right.

792
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: He asks you to do everything because you do it better.

793
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: He's a lazy boy cop belt. Yeah, I do do

794
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 2: it better, but I'm not doing it. That's right.

795
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 3: That is icky.

796
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's lazy. He takes forever to respond to

797
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 2: text messages but responds to you a sap on Instagram.

798
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 2: Problem why I know my next question exactly? Why?

799
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 3: No?

800
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 2: Why live on Instagram?

801
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

802
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 2: How could you not see a text? Man?

803
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 3: Maybe he's an influencer, miss misgiving them benefit of the doubt.

804
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 3: Maybe he's an influence.

805
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 2: So what you'd still get a text. He'll respond to

806
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 2: you on Instagram, but he won't respond because he's probably

807
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:30,240
Speaker 2: on Instagram. Maybe that's your phone. The phone is still

808
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: in your hand, could be an ipadic comm anything. Maybe

809
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 2: he's got his message of silence.

810
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 3: How does it feel taking the trip around the world

811
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 3: to answer a simple question? You enjoying it? How's it

812
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 3: working for you?

813
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 2: Look, don't make me wait for a response for my

814
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 2: text message, because that's the only way I talk to people.

815
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 2: I don't really answer the phone much.

816
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 3: No, No, let me just tell you, Susan, especially if

817
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 3: she's dating someone, the guy that the dots are still

818
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 3: blinking is he's texting. She's already writing back. She's already

819
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 3: writing back. You don't have to wait long for Susan.

820
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 3: Am I right?

821
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: Right?

822
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 3: Yes?

823
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 2: But if I'm in a situation where I can't respond,

824
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:12,240
Speaker 2: here's the bad part. I want to and then I forget,

825
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: and then I'm accused of just ignoring, like, oh my god,

826
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so sorry. It was two days

827
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: ago I never responded to So.

828
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 3: So do you check your text message? There's so many yes,

829
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 3: text messages, not Instagram messages. I get a lot of texts.

830
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: All day every day from home. Tell me, oh my god,

831
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: So I'm on a couple groups from the new show

832
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 2: that's coming. Yeah, and you're on a family chap and

833
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,399
Speaker 2: then my family and then my girlfriends. How many times

834
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 2: do we text to day?

835
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: Ka? Mm hmmmm.

836
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 2: I got Nancy, I got my cousin, I got Lottie,

837
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: I got girlfriends, guy friends. Can I tell you today?

838
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 2: I must have had six hundred because it was my birthday? Unbelievable.

839
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 2: Do you got to.

840
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 3: Respond when you text your family? Your children? Do they

841
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: respond right away?

842
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: Yes? Except for Nick.

843
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 3: My kids. My kids don't, but you know what.

844
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 2: Right away?

845
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

846
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: And if Chris he'll do it for work. And if

847
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: you don't respond to Chris right away, yo, ma yo

848
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 2: yo ma. Did you even read it? Like?

849
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have so. I don't know if you have this,

850
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 3: but I have emergency phones with my two of my

851
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: kids that live here, so if I call them, even

852
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 3: if they're like in a meeting, it'll ring, even if

853
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: their phone is silenced. That's what emergency contact is. And

854
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 3: so they both looked at me and said, don't abuse it.

855
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 3: I just be itching sometimes I've never done it. Actually,

856
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 3: you know what's no wait, let me tell you why

857
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 3: this happened. Less I sound ridiculous because I broke my

858
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 3: leg a couple of years ago. Answer I the one

859
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,919
Speaker 3: answered I called. I had to call nine one one

860
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 3: because I could not get up. It was awful. My

861
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,479
Speaker 3: leg was turned funny. I couldn't get up off the floor.

862
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 3: I had to call nine one one, which was very

863
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 3: traumatic for me because I don't like ami hearing sirens,

864
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 3: and so my kids after that, they they called. Actually, no,

865
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 3: that was when I broke my wrist. I take it

866
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 3: back and own my leg, my wrist and I couldn't

867
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 3: drive because my hand was turned very I definitely yes,

868
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 3: and so it was bad. But they felt so badly

869
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 3: that now they put me on this emergency thing. So

870
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 3: you know, they'll answer that if it.

871
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 2: Is it time that we have to wear the thing

872
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 2: around our neck life alert.

873
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 3: Oh god, oh no, no no no.

874
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 2: If I go down, go down and stay down, I fallen?

875
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: What is that happen? And I couldn't get up or

876
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 2: something like my cell phone's not here.

877
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,479
Speaker 3: I'll tell you It's why I tell Nancy all the time,

878
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 3: my dear friend Nancy.

879
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 2: I don't think Nancy pays attention to her phone too

880
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 2: much because when we call, she goes, I'm sorry.

881
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 3: She's so sweet about it.

882
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 2: She did in here or she didn't say it like you.

883
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 3: Good to her though she's not married to her phone.

884
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 3: She's not married to her. I don't know this was

885
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 3: this was a barrel of laugh.

886
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 2: And so let's talk about your hair for a second

887
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 2: before we go. Okay, So, Kathy, Yeah, spring is in

888
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 2: the air, and I think you're thinking of a new look.

889
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 3: I just I just feel like my hair. I feel

890
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 3: like I look like the Dutch boy pink. Can you

891
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 3: know my hair is straight and it's brown. All I

892
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 3: need is bangs to finish off the look.

893
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: I send a curtain bang would change it up a

894
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 2: little bit, gets a movement in it. I don't ye

895
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: you're thinking about changing the color.

896
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 3: I just like my hair is so dark. This is

897
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 3: just slightly darker than my original color, than my natural color. Yeah,

898
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 3: and so I just thought, you know, I don't I

899
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 3: never want to be a blonde. I've never wanted to

900
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 3: be a blonde. But I'm just thinking like a light

901
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 3: or might might not make me look because I have

902
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,280
Speaker 3: I'm skipped so pale. I feel like it's such a stark.

903
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 2: That's what he's striking about. Dark hair and pale skin.

904
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 2: They say blondes having more fun. I'd like you to

905
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 2: try and let me know.

906
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: Well, what about half blondes? Does that mean I have

907
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 3: half as much fun? No, seriously, I would love it.

908
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 3: People write in should I lighten my hair? Not not

909
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 3: helmet blonde, like not platinum blonde, but just like chunks

910
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 3: of blonde, so I could I could look like.

911
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 2: Much lighter, much much lighter, with some highlights.

912
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 3: Highlights, And then what do you think should I do it?

913
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: What do you Susan? What do you think? I want

914
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: to know what people think I really do.

915
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,280
Speaker 3: But you're a hairdresser, you don't.

916
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 2: I know what I think, but it takes what I'm

917
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 2: trying to explain to Kathy. It doesn't happen overnight. So

918
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 2: you're going to go through phases that you're not going

919
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,439
Speaker 2: to like. And I know you, patience is not one

920
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 2: of the things that either one of us are good at.

921
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: And you're gonna go, oh my god, oh my god, no,

922
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: I don't like this and destroy and bring it right back.

923
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: But you have to get through.

924
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 3: Me and I have to move. Wait, does this mean

925
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 3: I get to move to Philly? My husband loved blonde.

926
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 3: I was the first. I mean, if he were sitting

927
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 3: here right now, he would tell me to go blonde.

928
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 3: I promise he would. Men love blonde.

929
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: We'll try it.

930
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 3: Well, well, my husband's not here anymore, so we're not.

931
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 2: Doing it for him, doing it for you? All right?

932
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 3: This was so much.

933
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: I don't do it in one condition. What you don't

934
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 2: give up midway? You gotta give me three months? Oh

935
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 2: I would be married in three months. Well for you,

936
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 2: you get to touch up every three weeks, so three, six, nine, twelve, yeah,

937
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 2: three months.

938
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 3: I can't afford it. I can't afford it, all right?

939
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 3: This we well, seriously, people, if you have an opinion.

940
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 2: Talk about it. Well, stay timber. We want to know

941
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 2: what you guys think.

942
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 3: So please, if.

943
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm going to do all this work, I want your

944
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 2: input before I do it. And she starts reading, don't

945
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: do it, cat, don't do it, cat, She's gonna go No.

946
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 3: Wait. Also, you may send donations to pay Susan to

947
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 3: do all this to bachelornation dot com because I can't

948
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 3: afford it, all right, all right, let's go here, time

949
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: to go.

950
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 2: I guess that's it for today.

951
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 3: What do you think of Well? I hope people are

952
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 3: still going to fall on Bachelor Happy Hour, So make

953
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 3: sure you follow us because we do have all those

954
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 3: new episodes coming out every week. And if you're a

955
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 3: new listener, please weigh in on my hair and keep

956
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 3: us and welcome, welcome, aboard and submit some questions to us.

957
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 2: Everybody, keep them coming because you can go to bachelornation

958
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 2: dot com, slash Golden Hour, or just dm us on

959
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 2: Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. We're here to listen. We're

960
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 2: here to talk about it.

961
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 3: And we love hearing from you.

962
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 2: Guys here disagree and agree and agree, and we want

963
00:49:58,400 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 2: you and we.

964
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 3: Want to figure out my hair. But until we figure

965
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 3: out my hair, listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour

966
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 3: on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts.

967
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 3: Until next time. You have a great day.

968
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 2: And if she looks good blonde, I might consider it now.

969
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 2: Thanks for joining us,