1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Asian show. This is what's trending. Slow news day, Slow 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: news day. 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 2: I'm just alerting you to that the NBA regular season 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: tips off today. Why is that important because it might 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 2: be the first time that father and son play in 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: a regular season NBA game together, and it might be 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 2: the last time we see Ronnie James in the NBA. 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: So Max lebron and Bronnie will likely become the first 9 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: father son NBA teammates to play together in a regular 10 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: season game, as the Minnesota Timberwolves visit the Los Angeles Lakers. 11 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: So there's that. 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 3: Now. 13 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: He did score seventeen the other night, Bronnie did against 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: a bunch of JV guys. 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, a bunch of guys. He's gonna be playing the 16 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: G League Union. 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: So maybe he'll be prolific in the G League. So 18 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: it's wonderful. But yeah, there you go. That happens tonight. 19 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: There's a super thin skyscraper that's being planned for Dubai 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: that's gone viral, the Murraba I think I said they're right. 21 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 2: Miraba Vale will be twelve hundred feet high, but will 22 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: only be seventy four feet across. Okay, so think about 23 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: how skin long and skinny. That is, nobody wants long 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: and skinny. Okay, nobody, let's face it. Even the twenty 25 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: five year old with the seventy four year old doesn't 26 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: want it. 27 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: But like, can you imagine that thing's gonna move? 28 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 4: Ooh, it's an apartment build. 29 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: Twelve hundred feet tall. 30 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so that's I don't know how tall, like 31 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 2: a lot of the big I mean, twelve hundred feet tall, 32 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: seventy four feet across. It's gonna look like this. You know, 33 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: this is a great picture for the people at home. 34 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: It's gonna look like that. I mean, just it's crazy. 35 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 5: Well, the Sears tower is like a fifteen seventeen hundred 36 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 5: feet tall. It is fourteen to fifty minus a tower 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 5: minus the antennas. 38 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: Oh so it's fourteen to fifty not counting the antenna correct. Okay, 39 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 2: all right, so it's almost gonna be it's gonna be 40 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: almost as tall as that, but it's gonna be seventy 41 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: f four feet across, which I don't know. 42 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: That's just crazy to me. I can almost reach that far. 43 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 6: Look at this ARTISTU. 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: Well, you guys put a lot of thought in that. 45 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. It makes me uncomfortable. I don't like it. 46 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 4: But that you could get a five bedroom, I. 47 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: Guess it's gonna be on different floors. I guess every 48 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 2: room will be on a different floor, like one level 49 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: four feet across. 50 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: I mean the studio is probably twenty fifteen maybe. 51 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so not even really like the several of our 52 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: studios across. 53 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 6: So one floor is one apartment. 54 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 7: I don't want to live in anything that's like an 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 7: architectural wonder. 56 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 4: Like, I don't want to live in anything where you 57 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 4: try something new. 58 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: We're not sure about it. It's architectural stability, but it's 59 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: going to look really cool. 60 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 4: I don't want to be in the cusp of architecture 61 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 4: in that way. 62 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: I think I'm good, or at least be at the 63 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 2: bottom of it, towards the bottom, because it's going to 64 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 2: be the top that's gonna do this wave all around. 65 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: It's a little bit. While I'm good, we're not. 66 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, But unlike the studio, I think those apartments you'll 67 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: be able to lock from the inside, as opposed to 68 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: the way it is here where they lock us in 69 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 2: from the outside. I think the apartments are gonna be 70 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: different in them. Chick fil A, guys, you know how 71 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: we were talking about how we need as many possible 72 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 2: streaming services, you know, as main streaming services as bottle. 73 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: Now we've got to pay for each one individually, of course, 74 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: because you gotta have Hulu, and then you gotta have 75 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 2: Paramount Plus, and then you gotta have you gotta have Netflix, 76 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: and then well you might need YouTube TV if you 77 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: want to watch live TV, or I mean we can 78 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: keep going Disney plus. Yes, then plus and you gotta 79 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: have all that. So now I've spent three hundred bucks. Now, 80 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: Chick fil A is releasing its own entertainment app with 81 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: family friendly shows and podcasts. So it's going to be 82 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: called the Play App. It'll host content aimed at families 83 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: and kids under twelve. Oh so Rufio customers can pre 84 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: download the free Chick fil A Play app for their iPhones, iPads, 85 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: and Android devices ahead of the launch next month. They 86 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: are the third largest US restaurant chained by sales, trailing 87 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: only Starbucks, a McDonald's and growing rapidly. 88 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: Does it work on Sundays though I knew that was 89 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: stomach Yeah. 90 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: No, you don't get any programming on Sunday, so they 91 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 2: will not be carrying the NFL. Sorry, and finally, in 92 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: slow news day, what's trending? An AI tongue can taste 93 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: the difference between coke and pepsi. 94 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: That's where we are. 95 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: A fake tongue can taste the difference between coke and pepsi. Now, 96 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: real tongue can. I mean, I could do that easily, easily, easily, 97 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: But this is a fake tongue. Okay, So Lord knows 98 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: what other sorts of technology we're working on with this 99 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: fake tongue. 100 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: Get that look over your face. 101 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: Penn State researchers have created an electronic tongue that uses 102 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 2: AI to accurately tell the difference between sodas, coke, and pepsi. 103 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 2: The tongue was developed using a single layer of carbon 104 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: atoms in a honeycomb pattern that's connected to an AI network. 105 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 2: The device's sensors can detect various liquid compositions and can 106 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: differentiate between types of coke and pepsi such as diet 107 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: versus regular, as well as diluted milk, coffee blends, and 108 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: fruit juices. They claim eighty eight percent accuracy in the 109 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: tongue's findings, with fruit juice specifically, can identify them with 110 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: a ninety eight percent accuracy even pinpoint the fruits age. 111 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what we're gonna do with this. 112 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 2: The findings indicate that the creation could determine, Oh, it 113 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 2: can determine a products freshness and confirm where the risky 114 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 2: contaminants are present in food. 115 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 8: So that's what it would be for You got Bucheon 116 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 8: City that's still stuck up his space. But we got 117 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 8: a tongue. They can tell you, oh, that's diet for sure, 118 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 8: one percent diet, so you know, move along. Yeah, you 119 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 8: don't want that one diet. It's not full fat, not 120 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 8: for McDonald's either. As the AI. 121 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: Tongue, that would be. 122 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 9: That would be I would if the tongue can tell 123 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 9: me what fast food plates it's from, like the same 124 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 9: coke from different restaurants. 125 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: I did see a woman the other day. 126 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 2: They have these blind taste tests, but like people put 127 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 2: the different drinks like under a box or whatever. This woman, 128 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: this girl, I mean, she's probably in her twenties. She's 129 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,239 Speaker 2: probably dating the guy that you want to learn about 130 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 2: in the entertainment importance. The second she was able to 131 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 2: differentiate between five different types of doctor pepper and not 132 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 2: like flavors. This doctor regular doctor pepper. She was just 133 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 2: able to say where all five were from. Came from 134 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: A cane, was a can, a bottle she was able 135 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 2: to identify, and then where the other the other three 136 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: restaurants they came from. She knew the McDonald's one, she 137 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: knew another one, and then she knew like a Taco 138 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: Bell one because I guess some Taco bell have doctor pepper. Yeah, 139 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 2: but that's now that what do we eat ai tongue for? 140 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: We had this, lady. We have everything we need right there. 141 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: It's National Tavern Style Pizza Day. For anybody to wants 142 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: to argue about that, they have it. It has its 143 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: own day, National Make a Dog's Day, and National National 144 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: Nut Day today. I don't know why that's funny to me, 145 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 2: and probably probably because Kaelin had to put in parentheses. 146 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 6: The food shout out to court yesterday. 147 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 3: I know everybody with a peanut a yeah, But I 148 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 3: don't know why that was just fun National Nut Day. 149 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: The entertainment of Points next Joe's on its Stay or 150 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: Go Kyle, Good morning, Kyle, how you doing? Good morning guys? 151 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: How are you join? 152 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: Okay man, let's hear it group therapy and stay or 153 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 2: Go what's going on with you and your This is 154 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: your girlfriend? 155 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 10: Yeah, it is my girlfriend, Christa. 156 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 11: We've been together for about three years and I love 157 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 11: her a lot, and. 158 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 10: I just have some concerns because she's got kids and 159 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 10: she's never introduced me to her kids. 160 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: I've asked about. 161 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 11: This in three years. Yeah, we've never been introduced, you know. 162 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 11: So I've asked about this and she always has the 163 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 11: same kind of excuse that it's uh, you know, that 164 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 11: she's not ready and is you know, it's not time yet. 165 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 11: And I just I don't know what to do because 166 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 11: I was, like I said, three years and I really 167 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 11: do love her and I'd like to take it to 168 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 11: the next let but I just don't know if that's 169 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 11: the right thing to do because I've never met the kids, 170 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 11: and I would kind of like to have some sort 171 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 11: of even if it's a small relationship with them that 172 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 11: they would be open for me to, you know. 173 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: Enter their lives. At this point, where do they live? 174 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: These kids? 175 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 10: They live with her as far as I know, I mean, 176 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 10: unless she's lying, if I hope not. 177 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 2: But I have y Kyle, this woman doesn't want to 178 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 2: marry you. She don't want to marry you. Because how 179 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 2: can you be with somebody for three years and you're 180 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 2: both in the same page about a future, and after 181 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: three years you have not met her children. I mean, 182 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 2: I would imagine they're very important to her, they live 183 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: with her, and for three years, you guys have somehow 184 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: avoided that introduction. I mean, I don't I don't see 185 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 2: how she could possibly see a future. I'm starting to 186 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 2: be uh, you know, Debbie Downer over here, but like 187 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: I can see after weeks or months or maybe even 188 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 2: a year, I could see being protective over your kids. 189 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 2: We hear, We've talked about it on the show before. 190 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: We hear it all the time. I'm not going to 191 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 2: introduce my children to just anybody, but three years is 192 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: a long time. People have been married and divorced in 193 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: three years or last. 194 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 10: I understand that. 195 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 11: And you know, this is the first girl that I've 196 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 11: dated that's had any type of that's had kids, so 197 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 11: I don't and I don't have kids on my own, 198 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 11: so I don't know how I would feel or what 199 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 11: the you know, exact protocol is or you know how 200 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 11: long it takes. So I don't want to be pushy 201 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 11: or over you know, overstepping the boundaries. But like I said, 202 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 11: I'm kind of INA's place where three years where it's. 203 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: Kind of a marriage. 204 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 2: Because after three years, after three years, yeah, I mean, 205 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 2: if in fact you guys are both, if you're both 206 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 2: in the same page about a future, then I think 207 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 2: everything should be on the table after this period of time. 208 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: I mean, and I I'm not saying you have to 209 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 2: raise these children or that you have to be involved 210 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: day to day, but they should know that you exist 211 00:09:56,320 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: and you should have begun the process of version your 212 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 2: life with theirs, theirs with yours in some way if 213 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: in fact she intends to marry you. I don't think 214 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 2: she intends to marry you. I think you're a side 215 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 2: piece or something. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be mean. 216 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm really not trying to be mean. There's not there's 217 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 2: something very wrong about this. 218 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 11: I know I and I hate I hate to have 219 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 11: the end it because I put up so much time 220 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 11: on this. But I mean, do I think do I 221 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 11: give them an ultimatum or something like say, hey, do 222 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 11: I meet your kids? 223 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: They're you know, or let me mean your kids and 224 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: your husband around. I mean, I mean, have you met 225 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: any other family members? No? 226 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: I haven't. 227 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 1: Wrong Joan. 228 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 3: When I say this, you are a side piece and 229 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 3: that's okay. You know, everybody has a role in life, 230 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 3: and for three years you have been her side piece. 231 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 6: I don't mean to meet them kids, just enjoyed it. 232 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 6: You've seen pictures of these kids. These kids are real, like. 233 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: Or is it like j C. 234 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: Penny pictures? Did she leave the pictures in the frame 235 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 2: when she bought them at Target? 236 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: Took it home? Look at my kids? 237 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 2: Well these kids are And you're like, well, you ain't 238 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: seen my baby daddy, I mean my baby daddy, Kyle. 239 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 2: I gotta take some phone calls on this man. And 240 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, like I don't mean to. I don't mean to, 241 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 2: you know, dash your hopes here, but I mean you 242 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 2: did call us and and well we're gonna. 243 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 11: Tell you anything, and you guys are probably and you 244 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 11: guys are probably right. And I've been in kind of 245 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 11: denial denial for a while. I guess I just you know, 246 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 11: I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing if. 247 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: We do in depending it that there wasn't something more there. 248 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 11: But it sounds like that, uh, this. 249 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: May not be for me. 250 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 7: So when is an appropriate time because I feel like, 251 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 7: how do you put a timeline on when someone should 252 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 7: meet your three years? You know, I'm just asking the question. 253 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 7: I mean some people move slower than others. I guess 254 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 7: I don't know. 255 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: I mean I again, I could see months, I could 256 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: see a year, I could see you know, But if 257 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: if this is someone you're gonna be with for the 258 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 2: rest of your life, then I would think that you 259 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: would want to try and and you mesh those things 260 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 2: together as quickly as you possibly could, and as quickly 261 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 2: as is reasonable, not as not as quickly as you 262 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: possibly could, as quickly as is as reasonable as everyone's 263 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 2: comfortable with. And after three years at the very least, 264 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: I don't think she thinks he's going anywhere, So either 265 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 2: she's using him for something or what. But if after 266 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: three years as a future here, then he needs to 267 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: meet her children. And again he doesn't need to be 268 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 2: their father, but he needs They need to know exist, 269 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 2: They need to be comfortable with him unless there's something 270 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: to hide here, right? 271 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: What does she do for a living? Is she a doctor? 272 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: Is she is she in the entertainment industry? 273 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 11: Kyle? 274 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: Is she a pilot? 275 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 11: No? 276 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 10: No, she's she's got a good job. She's got a 277 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 10: good job. Well, I mean, I guess as far as 278 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 10: I know. I mean, if she's lying about this or whatever. 279 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 2: I don't know whatever her name is, that ain't her 280 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 2: name name? She's lying to you. You haven't met her 281 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 2: other family? 282 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: Have you met? How many of her friends have you met? 283 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 11: I have met a couple of her friends. Yeah, there 284 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 11: where I exist at least. 285 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Kyle, let me take some phone calls on this man. 286 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 2: Good luck. I'm sorry. This is tough love. I don't 287 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 2: mean to I'm not trying to be rude here, but like. 288 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: This is not right. 289 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: This, this does not past the smell test, and good luck. 290 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 11: All right, I appreciate it. 291 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: Guy, I'll be listening. Thank you. Eight five five five 292 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: three five, Hey, Jay, three years. 293 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 2: This guy has been with this woman and has not 294 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 2: met her kids or family. 295 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 12: Yeah. I am a single mom. My children's father passed away. 296 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 12: I am their gay keyboard, and I am their protective 297 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 12: So some there are some guys they're ready. Oh, let's 298 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 12: go to the next level. I just need to meet 299 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 12: your kids. We meet the kids. If it doesn't go 300 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 12: well with us, now, my children are heartbroken too. Now 301 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 12: my children are in pain too. Or maybe you get 302 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 12: along really well with the kids, but we have a conflict, said, 303 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 12: and I have contact with my children because of that. 304 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 12: Soon to go to the next level. Then go to 305 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 12: the next level, okay, and say here's a ring. I'm ready, 306 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 12: but please understand we need some more transisient times. 307 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 6: But because I need to meet. 308 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 2: The kids, Jay, three years is not the next level. 309 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: What is three years? That's a long time to be 310 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: with somebody to be playing around, And if he's calling 311 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: us it. 312 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: Does I'm sorry. 313 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 12: It assumes that she's playing around and not playing gatekeeper 314 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 12: for her children. If he's ready for the next level, 315 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 12: he can say I'm ready for the next level. I 316 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 12: want to marry you. Here's a ring, but I do 317 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 12: need to be in these kids life for a minute, 318 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 12: and that's going to delay that. So I would argue, 319 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 12: after three years, why is he playing? 320 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: What I would say to you, Jay, is I think 321 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 2: that he needs after three years if he wants to 322 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: marry her, he has every right to meet her kids 323 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: and her family and for them to know me exists 324 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: before he puts it right, I agree. And again, if 325 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: you think this has never been discussed, then she could 326 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 2: just say put a ring on it. You can meet 327 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: my kids. I don't think that that's the problem. I 328 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 2: really don't think that's what's going on here. 329 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 12: I don't think as a as a woman, if you're 330 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 12: not ready to marry me, that's a you decision. I 331 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 12: would not say to meet my children you have to 332 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 12: put a ring on it, because then that makes everything 333 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 12: all conditional about this, that and the other, and then 334 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 12: pushing you that's not it. She is not willing. It 335 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 12: could be exactly what you're saying, there's some secret whatever. 336 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 12: But as a woman, I promise you I dated for 337 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 12: a whole year and my children never knew I dated 338 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 12: because I did not want them attached. I did not 339 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 12: want them asking questions if. 340 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 6: It didn't work out. 341 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 12: It didn't work out, No hard feelings. My children are 342 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 12: not damaged. 343 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 2: You're exactly right, and I agree with everything you're saying. 344 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: But there's a huge difference between a year and three 345 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 2: and so that's that's what i'm that with. This is a 346 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: long time. But Jay and the fact that he's calling us, 347 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: he's usually a last resort, which means this has been 348 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: discussed and it's like getting anywhere and they're on two 349 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: separate peops. 350 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 12: This should be a waiting the phone. 351 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: Well, I think I think. 352 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 12: We to call her, okay and say this is how 353 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 12: serious he thinks this is and he just needs another context. 354 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 12: We see where that goes. 355 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jay, thank you, have a good day and thanks 356 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 2: for calling. Yeah, there's something stuff is very much not 357 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: right here. And she said she implied to put a 358 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: ring on it and then I'll introduce you to my kids. 359 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: She basically said that does she know her are like crazy? 360 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 3: No, she did, but then she switched it up. You know, 361 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 3: things happened when you were a city girl. 362 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: We got things. I just wanted to cliver our girl. 363 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 4: But I hear her though her feelings are valid. She's 364 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 4: protecting her kids. I get it. She absolutely protects your kids. 365 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're still protecting your kids from a man 366 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: after three years, and that's not the guy. 367 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 13: She's not sure about them, That's what it is. Yeah, 368 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 13: she's not sure. It's in their own time and that's okay. 369 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 13: But she's not sure about them, and I think that's 370 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 13: I don't think she's married or nothing like that, but 371 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 13: I do think that she's still I don't know. 372 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 4: We would need to ask her that. 373 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 6: You know, three years, she's not sure about them. 374 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 13: I think so so okay, I'm never going to say never, 375 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 13: but if I ever get divorced, Like my whole thing is, 376 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 13: I'm not getting married, like I just I don't want to. 377 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 13: I'm exhausted, Like marriage is exhausting. It's beautiful, but it's tiring. 378 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 13: So what that being sounds great? I can't wait. 379 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 4: No, no, it's so we're admiring. 380 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 13: It's beautiful, but I was by myself for twenty nine years, 381 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 13: so like it's just you know, I'm used to my 382 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 13: own way. 383 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 4: It's not just it. 384 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 13: And I love my partner because he puts up with me, 385 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 13: but no one else probably will. I'm not so okay, 386 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 13: I'm gonna be to me and my daughter are gonna 387 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 13: be great. 388 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 2: My point is, wow, I'm I'm glad you've planned out 389 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:25,719 Speaker 2: this entire life without Okay anyway, so yeah. 390 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 4: Oh this is this is a what if scenario. 391 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 13: But my point is, like I I know that I 392 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 13: don't want to introduce her, even if it's three years, 393 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 13: because I probably won't marry that person, you know what 394 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 13: I mean? 395 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 4: Like that to me doesn't seem crazy, but I. 396 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: But we're not. 397 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: We're not taking into consideration for one second, this man's 398 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 2: needs like we're all we're seen to be worried about 399 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 2: is well, what's what's in it? What is her comfort level? No, 400 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 2: this man wants to be married to her. He has 401 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 2: a right to say, I want to know everything about 402 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 2: your life. I want you to include me in all 403 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 2: aspects of your life, including that with your children, because 404 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 2: I would assume they're important to you and you won't. 405 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: So how is he supposed to make her? Seriously, I 406 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: very rarely advocate for the male side, but in this case, 407 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, if I don't think she's convinced, I don't 408 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,120 Speaker 2: think I don't think this is the guy. I think 409 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 2: she's wasting his time. I don't think they're on the 410 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: same page. 411 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 4: I think she'd find someone else. 412 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Hey Danny, good morning, Hey, good morning guys. 413 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 13: Love you guys. 414 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: What do you want to say? Say or go? 415 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 14: Yeah, she needs to go. I am a single mom 416 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 14: and I am a total mama bear, so I get 417 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 14: it a year completely correct, But three years she is 418 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 14: not into him. She is probably using him for when 419 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 14: she wants her needs mess and the poor guy is 420 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 14: wasted a lot of time on someone that has no 421 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 14: consideration for him. 422 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: This is very well, there's no way. 423 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 14: And on top of it, Kiki, he's never even met 424 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 14: anyone else from her side, right, this is not going anywhere. 425 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 14: And you do not have someone put a ring on 426 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 14: your finger before they meet your children, because what if 427 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 14: you're children hate them, you are not going to then 428 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 14: continue to marry them. 429 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 15: If you're what if there's a major disconnectward like the 430 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 15: kids don't get the vote, but like, what if there's 431 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 15: a okay, so you date a person for a period 432 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 15: of time, however long it is months, a year, a 433 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 15: year and a half, I don't know how long it 434 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 15: is a while, and then you determine, okay, this is 435 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 15: the guy I want to be with. 436 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 2: Then you introduce the kids, and you're exactly right. What 437 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: if there's a major disconnect. What if the kids really 438 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: don't like this guy, or he doesn't like them, or 439 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: they don't get along, or there's just well, then you're 440 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 2: not going to get married. 441 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 1: So then why is there Then there wouldn't even need 442 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: to be a ring. I just. 443 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 14: Not come before meeting the kids. Yeah, it never does. 444 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 14: And what if he's no good with the kids, then 445 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 14: I wouldn't want to marry him even if my kids liked. 446 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 15: Him like some people just kids. 447 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 2: Okay, thanks to appreciate you people have about was But 448 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 2: here's the other thing, so you can protect the kids. 449 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 2: Let's say this whole thing is about protecting her children. Okay, fine, 450 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 2: you don't have to protect your sister, your brother, your family, 451 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 2: your friends. Why don't they? Why are they not involved? 452 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 2: Because because she's hiding something? Yeah, where are you guys 453 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: be hanging out? If the kids live with her? Where 454 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: where do you guys go? 455 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 15: Right? 456 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 4: You haven't Christmas together? 457 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 2: You know? 458 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 11: New Year? 459 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: I I know, I'm very uncomfortable with this. Hey Monica, 460 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: how you doing? 461 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 3: Thank good? 462 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 9: Hi? 463 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: Great, thank you Sarah. 464 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: But by the way, just if you're just tuning in, 465 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 2: this dude's calling because he's been with a woman for 466 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 2: three years and she has yet to introduce him to 467 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 2: her children or her family. 468 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 1: This dude is toast right. No, that's where you tell 469 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: me what you think. 470 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 16: Well, so I'm sorry. So it took me a year 471 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 16: and a half when I started dating my boyfriend who 472 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 16: attend to my son, And the only reason I did 473 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 16: that was because I wanted to make sure that it 474 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 16: was going to go somewhere. 475 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 14: And after a year, you. 476 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:13,239 Speaker 16: Should already know where this is going and that you know, 477 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 16: your children should have some kind of relationship. And again, 478 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 16: if they don't agree or like you know, they don't 479 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 16: get along, then that's where you should know that you know, 480 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 16: like you can't marry somebody who doesn't get along with 481 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 16: your kids or you know, I wanted my son to 482 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 16: have a relationship with my boyfriends. Luckily for me, it 483 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,120 Speaker 16: went really well and they have a great relationship. 484 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: Now, hey, Monica, you can do what Christian Cavalari did, 485 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 2: and that's introduced the kids right off the bat to 486 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 2: the twenty five year old guy that you're skilled and 487 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: they can before he heads down the hall to service 488 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,360 Speaker 2: mom like it's and then break up with the guy. 489 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 2: It's totally normal to do it that way. Thank you, Monica. 490 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 2: I have a good day. The kids like what happened 491 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 2: to our what happened to our video game buddy? 492 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: Right devastated? You know, isn't that weird? Weird? Hey Rosa, 493 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: how you doing? Good morning? 494 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 17: My good morning, guys, how you doing? 495 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: Hey? Very well? Thanks for listening. What do you want 496 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 1: to say? 497 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 17: Well, actually, I believe that it's it's been three years 498 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 17: and she has not introduced the kids. I would assume somehow. 499 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 6: The kids and the baby daddy are still, like you. 500 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 17: Know, in somehow they're coming to visit or the kids 501 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 17: go to visit the father, and I feel like there's 502 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 17: a relationship still with the baby daddy because she doesn't 503 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 17: want them to spill the beans. And also, if she's 504 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 17: not interesting into the family, it is because she doesn't 505 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 17: want the family either to know, so they don't tell 506 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 17: the father that she's dating again. That's the only reason 507 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 17: I would think that she would actually isolate the kids 508 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 17: and her family at the same time. 509 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 4: So he's being played. 510 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree, Thank you, Rosa. I have a 511 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 1: good day. Okay, thank you. 512 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 18: If she's not married and she does have these kids 513 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 18: and she's she's gatekeeping the kids, like when she finally 514 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 18: tells he says, hey, guys, i've been dating this man 515 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 18: for three years. This man is gonna lose lose situation, 516 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 18: Like you've been hiding this man from your kids for 517 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 18: three years as well, Like he's never. 518 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 6: Gonna be like, oh, you're dating this man for three years? 519 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 6: Another bird tell us. 520 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: Getting played and the kids are gonna rat him out. 521 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 12: He's a piece. 522 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 2: The kids are gonna rite her out and be like, well, 523 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 2: I need another dad for I got I got main dad. 524 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 2: I got main dad. Every day you're talking about my 525 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: mom and dad will go up this morning together. But 526 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 2: what I need you? I'm not laughing at this day, 527 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: but i'd be due the entertainer reporting two minutes friend show. 528 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than the excite. 529 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like 530 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 2: for riding in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 531 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: We call him blogs kiky yes, go deer blog. 532 00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:01,439 Speaker 3: I would like to address America because this morning I 533 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 3: was doing my normal TikTok scroll, you know, just checking 534 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 3: out what's happening in the world, and I saw a 535 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 3: list of the top profession. 536 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 2: Wha of cheaters. That's the first thing I don't walked 537 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 2: in and I said, why why are you so focused 538 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 2: on who's cheating? 539 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: I just need to know. I just so worried about it. 540 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 3: I need to professionally he's a factory worker, okay, okay, 541 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 3: was that on the list? It was not on the However, 542 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 3: sitting top number one on the list was people in 543 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 3: the medical industry. Nurses, doctors, you know, all of them. 544 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,919 Speaker 3: So I just confool because y'all supposed to be at 545 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 3: work saving lives, not clapping cheeks. Because why are y'all 546 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 3: number one on the list? What is going on in 547 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 3: the medical world? Okay, I don't I don't understand now. 548 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 3: I thought maybe you know, people like personal trainers get 549 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 3: a bad rep, you know, I don't know, but nurses 550 00:24:59,359 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 3: you say. 551 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: That, like strippers get a bad rep. But I don't. 552 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 2: I don't know why that he is because I don't 553 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 2: think that strippers are really cheating. The highest cheaters per capita. 554 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,959 Speaker 6: Well they're not, clearly, Yeah, they're just working. 555 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 4: Oh that's just works where. 556 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, how much. 557 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 4: Can't apply those? 558 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So the medical so in general was all of 559 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: the medical profession. 560 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: It was all of them. 561 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 6: Does it say like if they're cheating with each other? 562 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 9: Or is it like the who's that Florence Nightingale effect 563 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 9: where patient falls in love with the nurse that takes 564 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 9: care of them and stuff. 565 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 6: Like, I don't know Florence, But it just doesn't make it. 566 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 2: It's just. 567 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 6: I just you know, why y'all doing that? 568 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: And I'm you know, who else was on the list. 569 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:52,639 Speaker 11: I don't know. 570 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 4: I got to go look at the list. 571 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 13: I think it's like first responders is a big one. 572 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 13: So firefighters and police are really big on there. I 573 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 13: think firefighters at one point was like number one. Yeah, 574 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 13: so I had to get my prenup ready, you find 575 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 13: a good firefighter. 576 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 4: But they're always on the list. Pilots are always on 577 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 4: the list. 578 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: I feel like no. 579 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 5: Teacher, teachers, freak I entrepreneurs, finance, hospitality and retail, entertainment 580 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 5: industry professionals. 581 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 1: Wait, this is this is very broad. This is the 582 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: newest livery industry. 583 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 3: But medical field, and it has dashed women the women 584 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 3: in the medical field. 585 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 6: Teachers at number three? 586 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 4: What makes yall never heard that? 587 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: Interesting? 588 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 11: Yes? 589 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 12: I don't. 590 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: I don't. 591 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can come up with that. 592 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 2: I don't if I have a theory on why, I. 593 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 11: Have no theory either. 594 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 3: You know, I'm out here dating and stuff. I just 595 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 3: got to be careful now about who what field? 596 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 11: You know? 597 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 2: Okay, well, Patrick, worker's not on there. Radio personality is 598 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,880 Speaker 2: not on there. Well, well, entertainment. That's very broad. These 599 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 2: are very broad category. These can incorporate a lot of 600 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 2: different things. 601 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, teachers in medical fields, priests. 602 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: It's interesting. There's a few categories. I'd like to end 603 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 2: but I'm not going to uh stay or go. We'll 604 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 2: do a thing more pred show next