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Speaker 1: Buckle up. We gotta little subject. I already know this

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Speaker 1: is wrong, but dear Steve, you're like the doctor Phil

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Speaker 1: of radio, and sometimes people just need to hear the

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Speaker 1: raw truth about themselves in order to understand. With that

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Speaker 1: being said, here is my little story. I'm in a

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Speaker 1: relationship with a good man, you know, the kind women

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Speaker 1: always are talking about wishing they could meet. However, he

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Speaker 1: is insecure, and he has good reason to be, because

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Speaker 1: I have cheated on him several occasions. On several occasions.

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Speaker 1: Now we are in a serious relationship and plan to

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Speaker 1: get married next winter, and I have sworn off most

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Speaker 1: mischievous behavior, mainly because we moved in together and he's

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Speaker 1: a cop with a gun, but also because the other

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Speaker 1: man was out of the country. Now he's back, and

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Speaker 1: I've been thinking, since I'm not married yet, I am

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Speaker 1: sidering having a fling for the last time with this

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Speaker 1: other man. In case you're wondering, this other man is

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Speaker 1: younger and firmer, and much more aggressive and exciting in

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Speaker 1: a lusty and animal intensified, passionate kind of way, right,

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Speaker 1: And that's how he makes me feel just by looking

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Speaker 1: at him. I've been avoiding contact with him because I

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Speaker 1: am torn between my loyalty for my significant other and

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Speaker 1: desire for this young man, Steve, what do you think

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Speaker 1: I should or shouldn't do? You know this is one

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Speaker 1: of those real hot, juicy letters. You know. You start

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Speaker 1: off by saying, I already know this is wrong, But okay,

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Speaker 1: I got that. You know, sometimes we get caught up

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Speaker 1: and it's real hard to get out of a situation.

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Speaker 1: I got that. I got that. You know you're getting

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Speaker 1: your freak on with this young, firm, aggressive man. I

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Speaker 1: got that too. But have you thought about your real

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Speaker 1: man at all? Have you given him any kind of thought?

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Speaker 1: Never once mentioned love in your letter. You never once

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Speaker 1: mentioned if he was abusive, or on atentive or anything.

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Speaker 1: I think, though I know why you didn't mention love. Simple.

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Speaker 1: You don't love him. You're cheating on him, even though

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Speaker 1: you've set a wedding date. You say he's a good man,

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Speaker 1: but he's insecure. Well have you thought about that? Maybe

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Speaker 1: you're cheating is the reason he's insecure. I just think

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Speaker 1: that's you're out right there. If you need one, I

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Speaker 1: think you really need to check yourself because you are

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Speaker 1: definitely not ready for marriage. That's a good man, you

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Speaker 1: want the Koala bear thing, come back. I got it

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Speaker 1: for you. I got it for you when we come back.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on,

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Speaker 1: Steve with part two of your response to today's strawberry

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Speaker 1: letter subject. Already know this is wrong, but dear Steve,

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Speaker 1: you are like the doctor Field of radio, and sometimes

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Speaker 1: people just need to hear the raw truth about themselves

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Speaker 1: in order to understand that. With that being said, here

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Speaker 1: is my little story. Okay. Cool. Now, with that being said,

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Speaker 1: right there, please understand that's how I dressed these letters anyhow.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just I just appreciate the woman doing like that. Now,

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Speaker 1: she didn't put her name on it, but that's cool.

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Speaker 1: I am in a relationship with a good man, you know,

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Speaker 1: the kind women are always talking about wishing they could meet. However,

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Speaker 1: he is insecure, and he has good reason to be,

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Speaker 1: because I have cheated on him on several occasions. Now

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Speaker 1: we are in a serious relationship and planning to get

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Speaker 1: married next winter, and I've sworn off most mischievous behavior,

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Speaker 1: mainly because we moved in together and he's a cop

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Speaker 1: with a gun, but also because the other man was

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Speaker 1: out of the country. Now he's back, and I've been thinking,

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Speaker 1: since I'm not married yet, I'm considering having a fleeing

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Speaker 1: for the last time with this other man. In case

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Speaker 1: you're wondering, this other man is younger and firmer and

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Speaker 1: much more aggressive and exciting in a lusty and animal intensified,

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Speaker 1: heated and passionate kind of way. And that's how he

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Speaker 1: makes me feel just by looking at him. I have

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Speaker 1: been avoiding contact with him because I am torn between

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Speaker 1: young man, Steve. Here we go. What do you think

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Speaker 1: I should or shouldn't do? Here we go. First of all,

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Speaker 1: let's get to the crux of the matter right here.

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Speaker 1: All right. You say you got a good man, the

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Speaker 1: kind women always won't talk about. But he is insecure. No, no, no, lady,

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Speaker 1: See he's insecure. Now, he wasn't an insecure He's not

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Speaker 1: an insecure person. You've created the insecurity because you've cheated

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Speaker 1: on him several times. Now since we're talking about he insecure,

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Speaker 1: Now what that makes you? You cheated on this man

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Speaker 1: on seven occasions. I'm assoon by another line in this letter,

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Speaker 1: and let me find it. Yet, right here. You said,

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Speaker 1: I have sworn off most mischievous behavior, mainly because we

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Speaker 1: moved in together and he's a cop with a gun. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so what that makes me think is you've sworn off

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Speaker 1: most mischievous. That means you're still tripping. You've not only

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Speaker 1: cheated on him several times, you're still tripping. Come on,

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Speaker 1: because a woman who would tell you I've sworn off

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Speaker 1: most in capital letters mischief's behavior me and she's still

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Speaker 1: doing something mischiefs the other the one you're choosing to

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Speaker 1: tell us about is to do list out of the

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Speaker 1: country and just came back. But it's some other stuff

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Speaker 1: since you've been dating the police officer that you ain't

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Speaker 1: put in your little stink letter. So now let me

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Speaker 1: tell you about yourself. Since you're asking me. You said

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Speaker 1: some stuff in hitting in this letter. Since you ain't married,

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Speaker 1: you're concert said it in another fleeing for the last time.

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Speaker 1: He's firm and more aggressive and exciting, with a lusty

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Speaker 1: and animal intensified and heat, a passionate accounting with you

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Speaker 1: got a call, you can put some excitement in your relationship.

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Speaker 1: He got handcuffs, he got maze, he got sticks, he

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Speaker 1: got all kinds of stuff. You're looking the spruce upper relationship.

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Speaker 1: You got a police officer. Hell, you can get that

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Speaker 1: bulletproof vest that they are mazing. You can work wonders

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Speaker 1: in the bedroom, get that mask on. You won't even

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Speaker 1: know who you're with. You could act like he the

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Speaker 1: young boy if you wanted to. But see, do you

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Speaker 1: know how many women you would have caught me with? See,

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Speaker 1: I'd have turned it back around on you. But you

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Speaker 1: got a good man, the kind of women are always

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Speaker 1: talking about. The problem is you don't deserve this man's

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Speaker 1: love because you trifle it. And then you say the

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Speaker 1: line in the line that just lyning in here really

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Speaker 1: messed me up. I am torn between my loyalty for

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Speaker 1: my significant other and design for this young man. Let's

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Speaker 1: take the word loyalty out of them, because see, loyalty

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Speaker 1: is never up for questions. And the reason you're torn

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Speaker 1: with your loyalty is because you ain't a loyal type person.

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Speaker 1: You don't have loyal qualities. You've already cheated on the

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Speaker 1: man several times, and you ain't sworn off but most

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Speaker 1: of your mischievous behavior and not a big boy back

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Speaker 1: in town. You're thinking about hooking up with him. So

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Speaker 1: let's take loyalty out the letter. Because you ain't got

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Speaker 1: loyalty tendency. You're not. You don't have to make up

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Speaker 1: of a loyal person. See, I'm a loyal friend to

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Speaker 1: my friends. That means I never betrayed him under no circumstances.

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Speaker 1: If your girl come to me, she can't step to

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Speaker 1: me because you're my boy and I love you and

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Speaker 1: I'm loyal to you. You don't have loyal tendency. That's

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Speaker 1: your problem. And the other reason you consider because you're weak.

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Speaker 1: Weakness in a relationship can be miskewed for triflingness. You

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Speaker 1: is a trifling woman who don't deserve this type of

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Speaker 1: good man's Women like you who get good men and

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Speaker 1: throw them away. Not let me ask you this here.

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Speaker 1: Men when they do this, they call dogs. So the

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Speaker 1: only thing I have left for you is, as a

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Speaker 1: female doing this, you must be a dog too. But

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Speaker 1: if a man does this, here a dog. So now

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Speaker 1: let me square you up on this last thing. Do

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Speaker 1: you dissect his life? Because this is and not only

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Speaker 1: you are a stakeman. See, because you meet what every

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Speaker 1: woman is looking for, a good man. Then when you

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Speaker 1: get him, you tripping with him all right, Steve, we

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Speaker 1: gotta go. Email us or instagram us your thoughts on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at My Girl Shirley and don't forget

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Speaker 1: Okay