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Speaker 2: But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff. Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.
Speaker 4: I know in the past we've talked about how going
Speaker 4: to a movie for a first date isn't necessarily the
Speaker 4: best idea.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it sounds good, but following through universally
Speaker 3: agreed upon.
Speaker 4: You could end up spending a couple hours next to
Speaker 4: this person and still know nothing about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, unless they're like Jose and talk to the entire thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, personally, that's kind of how I like to date.
Speaker 2: Oh, just not knowing the person.
Speaker 4: Ever, you don't need to know about me, I don't
Speaker 4: need to know about you. As long as you have
Speaker 4: a big enough popcorn bucket that you will. Maybe I'm
Speaker 4: an outlier, okay, but our listener Sienna said she had
Speaker 4: her first date at the Talking Pictures and thought it
Speaker 4: went swell. Maybe there was a little necking going on
Speaker 4: in the back round, Siena, what gives?
Speaker 1: I mean necking is a really gross term.
Speaker 3: Okay, I think it ends up with a hickey, starts
Speaker 3: with that big popcorn bucket.
Speaker 4: But let's get into it. Sienna, tell us about this
Speaker 4: guy you met and the whole experience. Yeah, I'm bringing
Speaker 4: it down. I'm bringing it down now.
Speaker 1: So I met Evan on a you know, dating website,
Speaker 1: and I whites because both of us really into like
Speaker 1: sci fi fantasy book clubs.
Speaker 2: That's very specific.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I mean usually when I see that, they're
Speaker 1: usually a good egg.
Speaker 2: So what makes them?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, what makes them a good egg?
Speaker 4: If they like does it float in water?
Speaker 1: About it?
Speaker 2: Like, I'm just curious what it says about a person?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I mean, like sci fi fantasy has like
Speaker 1: a lot of like political commentary and a lot of
Speaker 1: sci fi and fantasy. There's a lot more to it
Speaker 1: than just dragons and like futuristic stuff like Theyle big
Speaker 1: moral and ethical issues and stuff like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, subtle political commentary, hot got it?
Speaker 3: Nice, very intelligence, right, deeper thinking.
Speaker 2: Okay, he can read.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean, like, I mean, if you just
Speaker 1: like at like how popular Project Hill Mary was.
Speaker 4: The more you talk, Sienna, the more I'm realizing you
Speaker 4: called into the wrong show.
Speaker 2: What thing I can guarantee is when we call this guy,
Speaker 2: he's not going to know who we are.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So, aside from what made him such a great egg,
Speaker 4: let's move on to the dates. Tell us about that
Speaker 4: you went to the movies.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we did because we were talking about how
Speaker 1: hard it is to like adapt a movie from a book,
Speaker 1: and there's not really anything out right now that adapts.
Speaker 1: But we both like horror, so we decided to go,
Speaker 1: like to a horror movie together.
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean.
Speaker 3: I think if you're going to pick any movie for
Speaker 3: a date, horror is probably your best bet because at
Speaker 3: least you can trauma bond.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can cry into each other's It's like.
Speaker 2: A fun movie to watch with people.
Speaker 4: Yeah, why did you think horror would be a good choice?
Speaker 1: I don't know, because it's like, if it's really scary.
Speaker 1: Then you can talk about how good it was and
Speaker 1: like how did they make it scary? Did they make
Speaker 1: it through like jump scares or did they make it
Speaker 1: like just really chilling and like creepy or is it
Speaker 1: really yeah? Or is it really camp? And you can
Speaker 1: like just make fun of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, really camp? Yeah, like campy?
Speaker 1: Yeah really?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I don't camp.
Speaker 4: That's also a big thing.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like over the top cheesy.
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you everybody for stopping us all. Now, somebody
Speaker 4: get Jose's Color by Numbers book. He's got overwhelmed. Don't
Speaker 4: kill me. Let's get back to the date. How was it?
Speaker 1: The movie was like great, it was really scary. I
Speaker 1: was totally creeped out. Afterwards he talked about it and like, so.
Speaker 3: Wait, can I ask where did you guys talk about it?
Speaker 3: Did you go to do something else?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So what we did was like we talked about
Speaker 1: it in the car for a little bit, and then
Speaker 1: like I was a little creeped out, so I was like,
Speaker 1: let's go grab ice cream or something, and we started
Speaker 1: talking about books again.
Speaker 2: Right, something more wholesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, And then like he took me home, walked
Speaker 1: me to my door. He seemed like he wanted to
Speaker 1: lean in, so I just kind of said, you know,
Speaker 1: it's okay, you want to kiss me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really cute. And did he He did.
Speaker 1: End the date.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you're a woman who watched movies and
Speaker 2: you let a guy you met online pick you up
Speaker 2: at your house kind of scared to be with them
Speaker 2: alone after the movie.
Speaker 1: Well, I always tell my friends where I'm at one
Speaker 1: and two. Like, I did some digging, you know, about
Speaker 1: him and like udeas and stuff and like jobs, all
Speaker 1: that stuff that like makes you feel a little bit
Speaker 1: more comfortable about who you're going out with.
Speaker 4: You went to his LinkedIn page his jobs.
Speaker 1: It does help you know that, Like if they're active
Speaker 1: on their LinkedIn, they're at least, like I don't know,
Speaker 1: they're not like hiding, they're not creeping in their parents' basement.
Speaker 1: If they haven't active LinkedIn, I.
Speaker 5: Want to I know.
Speaker 4: All right, So what's happened since the post ice cream makeup? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well I didn't get like any kind of texts over
Speaker 1: the next like a couple of.
Speaker 4: Days, son of sorry.
Speaker 1: Thank you. So I texted him and I was just like, hey,
Speaker 1: I had a really great time, you know, and I'd
Speaker 1: love to hang out again and did respond, but it
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, it was great, and he didn't
Speaker 1: like respond to this want to hang out again part
Speaker 1: or anything like that. And I feel like something went wrong,
Speaker 1: but I just don't know what it was.
Speaker 4: I mean, alexis this has happened to you countless times?
Speaker 4: What has it been in the past for you?
Speaker 2: What's my problems? Yeah, She's like, we don't have time
Speaker 2: for Yeah, I don't have time.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you did anything wrong.
Speaker 4: I feel like there's the kiss of death, Alexa. Since
Speaker 4: it's great, you must have messed up horribly. Let's find
Speaker 4: out what really happened when we come back. Call Evan
Speaker 4: and do your second date update.
Speaker 2: Right after this Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second.
Speaker 4: Date updates if you're just joining us. We've been talking
Speaker 4: to our listener Siena about her intoxicating first date with
Speaker 4: a guy named Devin really because they went and saw
Speaker 4: a scary movie then shared a waffle cone, and after
Speaker 4: that she said something along the lines of, hey, daddy, O,
Speaker 4: if you want to go lip to lip like two plunges,
Speaker 4: I wouldn't fight you off.
Speaker 2: Actually the quote since I think exactly what she said
Speaker 2: pretty close and.
Speaker 4: That led to a makeout so passionate, so intense that
Speaker 4: Ed will barely respond to her texts anymore.
Speaker 2: A single kisl like you out of a lot of
Speaker 2: juicy details.
Speaker 4: You, I'm picturing it a lot more differently than my brain.
Speaker 2: I don't know that Sienna wants you to picture anything.
Speaker 4: Jeff Siena, What was I off on my description?
Speaker 1: You might have embellished a tiny bit.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's just because there was so much love
Speaker 4: and passion happening. Leah, Yeah, hot, plunge your action in
Speaker 4: my mind. But I mean, usually when things go wrong
Speaker 4: during a date, we don't hear about kisses like the
Speaker 4: one that you just described.
Speaker 2: I mean, but does a man ever turn down a kiss?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I was gonna I feel like every date gets a
Speaker 2: kiss in it is on show.
Speaker 3: You know, like if the girl proposes it, he is
Speaker 3: a guy, even if he's having a terrible time going
Speaker 3: to say no.
Speaker 4: Maybe it's a good question, Sienna. Do you feel like
Speaker 4: it was possibly a pity kiss?
Speaker 1: I don't know, I hope not.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gonna be sad. I didn't mean to set
Speaker 2: you up with that in your mind. Let's just get
Speaker 2: to it now.
Speaker 4: I have a good question to ask him. But I'm
Speaker 4: gonna dial his number right now and let's see if
Speaker 4: he picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this seven?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Hey, man, I know this is weird, but we're a
Speaker 4: radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: What's up man, Good morning, Evan.
Speaker 2: We kind of had guessed that maybe you were a listener.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you probably.
Speaker 5: I'm not a listener. Is this real?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I asked myself that question every day when I
Speaker 4: come to work.
Speaker 2: Am I actually doing this again?
Speaker 4: Yeah? But this is real. It's a segment we do.
Speaker 4: It's called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 5: What does Second Date Update mean?
Speaker 4: It's basically a segment where listeners can come to us
Speaker 4: if they're having trouble getting a hold of a person
Speaker 4: after they go out with them. Once we can reach
Speaker 4: out and see if there's a reason.
Speaker 5: Why would why would anyone do that?
Speaker 2: Great question?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 3: I do, feel, like you know, Evan, like dating is
Speaker 3: frustrating right now.
Speaker 4: So, and it's so frustrating that a woman named Sienna
Speaker 4: reached out for our help.
Speaker 2: I was really excited about you.
Speaker 5: Okay, so what's like, I mean, what's the question?
Speaker 4: All right, Well, Sienna actually told us about the date
Speaker 4: you two have. That's what people do when they're on
Speaker 4: this show. We hear about the date and we try
Speaker 4: to figure out if there's a reason why afterwards you're
Speaker 4: not calling her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we know like you went to a horror
Speaker 3: movie and that you like sci fi fantasy and you
Speaker 3: got ice cream.
Speaker 5: Wow, she really kind of laid most of it out
Speaker 5: for you. But like, look, those.
Speaker 2: Were real personal details.
Speaker 4: That's a recap of your date.
Speaker 5: Yeah. But like Sienna is beautiful.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good way to start.
Speaker 5: And I mean she's just she seems to be a
Speaker 5: really great person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't call her back either.
Speaker 2: She's beaut compassionate.
Speaker 5: Hang on to what she showed up to the movie
Speaker 5: theater with a stuffed animal And I'm not I'm not
Speaker 5: talking about like a little key ring size stuffed animal.
Speaker 5: We're talking like the size of a toddler.
Speaker 4: What a large like a fair animal?
Speaker 3: Was it one of those like yeah, ones that are
Speaker 3: actually like more comfortable than your actual pillow. You gotta
Speaker 3: cover your eyes during scary movies with something true.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, But.
Speaker 5: I mean, first off, we are adults, and she's a
Speaker 5: grown woman that has stuffed animals, which is a little
Speaker 5: red flag for me.
Speaker 3: Okay, hey, my panda would not be happy to hear
Speaker 3: that I've got a puppy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I also argue, I'm.
Speaker 5: Just telling you that is that's that's a red flag.
Speaker 2: Why why is it a red flag? What does it
Speaker 2: say about a person if they have a stuffed animal?
Speaker 5: If you were a grown adult, you gotta get rid
Speaker 5: of kids stuff. Like, if it's something you had since
Speaker 5: you were a kid, that's great. If it's something new,
Speaker 5: that's an issue.
Speaker 2: But play and make believe in your sci fi world.
Speaker 4: It's okay, Okay, I'm.
Speaker 5: Just watching movies and reading books. I'm not LARPing.
Speaker 3: So right at the very beginning of the date, you're
Speaker 3: like red flag and had you already written her off.
Speaker 5: I didn't write her off at the start because I
Speaker 5: didn't know if she was bringing it to give it
Speaker 5: away to a kid, if there was a charity drive
Speaker 5: drop off or something we were going to. But she
Speaker 5: didn't explain it to me. There was no introduction for anything.
Speaker 5: The end of the night. Okay, look, I wanted to
Speaker 5: try to salvage the night. And we went and we
Speaker 5: had ice cream.
Speaker 2: Did the stuff he come to ice cream too? Or
Speaker 2: did she drop it off at the car?
Speaker 5: She brought it into ice cream, And then at the
Speaker 5: very end of the night, she asked me if I
Speaker 5: wanted to kiss, and we had a sweet little kiss.
Speaker 2: I told you guys, never say no.
Speaker 3: I mean, this guy's like red flag all the way
Speaker 3: turned off and he's still kissing her.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, I'm gonna give this one
Speaker 5: more shot. But then she's like, I think you should
Speaker 5: kiss Pebbles because eel be jealous.
Speaker 2: He will be jealous. Was she joking? That had to
Speaker 2: have been a joke.
Speaker 5: No, she was serious as all get out. And I
Speaker 5: kissed Pebbles on the nose and I got out of
Speaker 5: there as fast as I could.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, I will say, I mean my stuff. Animals
Speaker 3: don't ask for kisses from other people, just from me.
Speaker 4: So now you kissed Pebbles and you have feelings for
Speaker 4: both of them, and you don't know is that what
Speaker 4: you're fighting yourself?
Speaker 5: I don't know who I want to date at this point,
Speaker 5: heart torn, I get it.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that could have been an
Speaker 3: easy text, like, hey, so pebbles was a little much
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: I don't think anything about that text is easy.
Speaker 1: Brook.
Speaker 4: Well, you don't have to have it over text anymore,
Speaker 4: because actually Siena is on the phone right now listening
Speaker 4: to this conversation and waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I just think that he's reacting, okay,
Speaker 1: like it's a horror movie. I brought my stuffed animal.
Speaker 1: Obviously he's still with me when I go to ice cream.
Speaker 1: But I just don't see it as like a huge
Speaker 1: red flag. At that point at the beginning of the movie,
Speaker 1: before we went talk and went for ice cream, I
Speaker 1: barely knew you. I didn't want to cuddle you.
Speaker 5: You say you don't know me, but you had me
Speaker 5: kiss your best shreds.
Speaker 1: I don't didn't expect you to say that you would,
Speaker 1: but then you did, and it was adorable.
Speaker 5: You're grown woman carrying around the stuffed animal. You suggested
Speaker 5: a horror movie. We went.
Speaker 1: Figures. What's the different.
Speaker 5: I do collect action figures, but they stood on my shelf.
Speaker 5: I don't take them with me to the movies or
Speaker 5: to ice cream or ask you to kiss them different.
Speaker 3: Maybe you should have more of an emotional attachment and
Speaker 3: you would feel more secure to.
Speaker 5: An action figure. It becomes wrong with you. There's absolutely
Speaker 5: no reason, and I should be going on a date
Speaker 5: with a woman and a stuffed animal.
Speaker 4: Okay, the stuffed animal has a name. It's Pebbles. So
Speaker 4: let's show Pebbles a little respect and address them appropriate.
Speaker 4: And you kissed Pebbles before, so don't get all snippy
Speaker 4: with everybody. Just on the nose, just on the Okay.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's interesting that you can't look past it,
Speaker 3: because she does sound like she's a very put together person,
Speaker 3: and it does feel a little hypocritical that you have
Speaker 3: action figures.
Speaker 5: That that I don't take with me to the movie.
Speaker 3: Sure, I mean that's your line, though, Like that's just
Speaker 3: a it feels like a line that maybe you could
Speaker 3: get past.
Speaker 4: You still both care about these things.
Speaker 5: She she's not the bad guy in this, but I'm
Speaker 5: not the bad guy either.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: It's you told me that you go to the rent fair.
Speaker 1: Like what's the difference between that and like dressing up
Speaker 1: for the rent fair.
Speaker 5: I go to the rent fair. I don't dress up
Speaker 5: for the rent fair.
Speaker 2: You can't go on dressed up.
Speaker 4: He's the only guy.
Speaker 2: He judges other.
Speaker 4: People for this guy wearing a suit of armor.
Speaker 5: E look cool?
Speaker 4: All right, Evan, I think we've all heard enough of
Speaker 4: you picking up wenches at the ren Fair. We just
Speaker 4: have to ask.
Speaker 5: Why you go Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: Well I have to ask you this question, even though
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure I know the answer, because we would
Speaker 4: pay if you would go out on one more date
Speaker 4: with Sienna.
Speaker 2: If even wants it.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I don't know Sienna.
Speaker 5: Only if Peple stayed home.
Speaker 2: Wait, oh wait you.
Speaker 1: There, no, because he already because he already said that
Speaker 1: he has a problem with stuffed animals. Pebbles is not
Speaker 1: my only like duft animal in my house.
Speaker 2: How many do you have?
Speaker 1: I probably have like three or four on my bad Oh.
Speaker 1: I mean I probably have like one hundred and a
Speaker 1: storage locker that I would bring out just for him.
Speaker 5: Oh oh damn, you're both collectors for ejail.
Speaker 4: That's a lot not weird. Do you kiss all of them?
Speaker 2: Pubbles would be jealous? Yeah, so I guess that's a no.
Speaker 4: I mean, it sounds like it's not a match between
Speaker 4: Evan and Siena. But who's going to break the news
Speaker 4: to Pebbles or Pebbles awkward Tuesday phone call next week.
Speaker 4: I don't want to break his heart.
Speaker 1: He was a terrible kisser.
Speaker 4: Oh kiss he's ever gotten? Jeffrey in the morning textan
Speaker 4: seventy five nine too. What do you think is it
Speaker 4: okay to bring stuffed animals with you on a date?
Speaker 2: I mean, if you call it a la bubuo and
Speaker 2: you spent a lot of money, that he's good.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, Brooke, you came to the defense of her
Speaker 4: for having a stuffed animal really quickly. But I didn't
Speaker 4: hear you say bringing it to a movie or out
Speaker 4: to ice cream was okay. Where do you stand on that?
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. She sounded put together. Then
Speaker 2: the line about the hundred and the story, I don't
Speaker 2: know each their own. Obviously it was not his thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously Pebbles is very important to her, So I'm.
Speaker 2: Not going to judge.
Speaker 4: What about what the kiss at the end of the
Speaker 4: stuffed animal? Not enough room?
Speaker 2: I'm stucking my thumb right now that he did it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you were if you were single right now
Speaker 4: and you and I went out, would you have me
Speaker 4: kiss your glow worm.
Speaker 2: No, she only kisses me. Yeah, I do not let
Speaker 2: we don't share.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Gloria is mine, not Gloria anyway.
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely was not a match today. It doesn't mean
Speaker 4: it can't be a match for you. Email the show.
Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and go.
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