WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Movie Mayhem 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you're here.

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<v Speaker 2>You found the Second Date podcast and we love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much. Thank you here.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, if you want us to invade more

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<v Speaker 3>of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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<v Speaker 2>to your house and give you hugs. You give me food,

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<v Speaker 2>uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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<v Speaker 3>content that apparently you like, which.

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<v Speaker 2>We're really grateful for.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go over the main feed for the full

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<v Speaker 3>show Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff. Brook

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>I know in the past we've talked about how going

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<v Speaker 4>to a movie for a first date isn't necessarily the

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<v Speaker 4>best idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it sounds good, but following through universally

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<v Speaker 3>agreed upon.

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<v Speaker 4>You could end up spending a couple hours next to

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<v Speaker 4>this person and still know nothing about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unless they're like Jose and talk to the entire thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, personally, that's kind of how I like to date.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, just not knowing the person.

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<v Speaker 4>Ever, you don't need to know about me, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>need to know about you. As long as you have

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<v Speaker 4>a big enough popcorn bucket that you will. Maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 4>an outlier, okay, but our listener Sienna said she had

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<v Speaker 4>her first date at the Talking Pictures and thought it

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<v Speaker 4>went swell. Maybe there was a little necking going on

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<v Speaker 4>in the back round, Siena, what gives?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean necking is a really gross term.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think it ends up with a hickey, starts

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<v Speaker 3>with that big popcorn bucket.

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<v Speaker 4>But let's get into it. Sienna, tell us about this

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<v Speaker 4>guy you met and the whole experience. Yeah, I'm bringing

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<v Speaker 4>it down. I'm bringing it down now.

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<v Speaker 1>So I met Evan on a you know, dating website,

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<v Speaker 1>and I whites because both of us really into like

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<v Speaker 1>sci fi fantasy book clubs.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I mean usually when I see that, they're

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<v Speaker 1>usually a good egg.

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<v Speaker 2>So what makes them?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, what makes them a good egg?

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<v Speaker 4>If they like does it float in water?

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<v Speaker 1>About it?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I'm just curious what it says about a person?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, I mean, like sci fi fantasy has like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like political commentary and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>sci fi and fantasy. There's a lot more to it

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<v Speaker 1>than just dragons and like futuristic stuff like Theyle big

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<v Speaker 1>moral and ethical issues and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, subtle political commentary, hot got it?

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<v Speaker 3>Nice, very intelligence, right, deeper thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he can read.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean, like, I mean, if you just

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<v Speaker 1>like at like how popular Project Hill Mary was.

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<v Speaker 4>The more you talk, Sienna, the more I'm realizing you

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<v Speaker 4>called into the wrong show.

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<v Speaker 2>What thing I can guarantee is when we call this guy,

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<v Speaker 2>he's not going to know who we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So, aside from what made him such a great egg,

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<v Speaker 4>let's move on to the dates. Tell us about that

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<v Speaker 4>you went to the movies.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, we did because we were talking about how

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<v Speaker 1>hard it is to like adapt a movie from a book,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's not really anything out right now that adapts.

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<v Speaker 1>But we both like horror, so we decided to go,

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<v Speaker 1>like to a horror movie together.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I think if you're going to pick any movie for

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<v Speaker 3>a date, horror is probably your best bet because at

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<v Speaker 3>least you can trauma bond.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you can cry into each other's It's like.

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<v Speaker 2>A fun movie to watch with people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, why did you think horror would be a good choice?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because it's like, if it's really scary.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you can talk about how good it was and

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<v Speaker 1>like how did they make it scary? Did they make

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<v Speaker 1>it through like jump scares or did they make it

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<v Speaker 1>like just really chilling and like creepy or is it

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<v Speaker 1>really yeah? Or is it really camp? And you can

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<v Speaker 1>like just make fun of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, really camp? Yeah, like campy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah really?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I don't camp.

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<v Speaker 4>That's also a big thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like over the top cheesy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thank you everybody for stopping us all. Now, somebody

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<v Speaker 4>get Jose's Color by Numbers book. He's got overwhelmed. Don't

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<v Speaker 4>kill me. Let's get back to the date. How was it?

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<v Speaker 1>The movie was like great, it was really scary. I

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<v Speaker 1>was totally creeped out. Afterwards he talked about it and like, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, can I ask where did you guys talk about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you go to do something else?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? So what we did was like we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>it in the car for a little bit, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like I was a little creeped out, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go grab ice cream or something, and we started

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<v Speaker 1>talking about books again.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, something more wholesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, And then like he took me home, walked

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<v Speaker 1>me to my door. He seemed like he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>lean in, so I just kind of said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, you want to kiss me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's really cute. And did he He did.

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<v Speaker 1>End the date.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe you're a woman who watched movies and

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<v Speaker 2>you let a guy you met online pick you up

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<v Speaker 2>at your house kind of scared to be with them

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<v Speaker 2>alone after the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I always tell my friends where I'm at one

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<v Speaker 1>and two. Like, I did some digging, you know, about

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<v Speaker 1>him and like udeas and stuff and like jobs, all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff that like makes you feel a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more comfortable about who you're going out with.

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<v Speaker 4>You went to his LinkedIn page his jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>It does help you know that, Like if they're active

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<v Speaker 1>on their LinkedIn, they're at least, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not like hiding, they're not creeping in their parents' basement.

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<v Speaker 1>If they haven't active LinkedIn, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Want to I know.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So what's happened since the post ice cream makeup? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I didn't get like any kind of texts over

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<v Speaker 1>the next like a couple of.

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<v Speaker 4>Days, son of sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. So I texted him and I was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a really great time, you know, and I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to hang out again and did respond, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, yeah, it was great, and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like respond to this want to hang out again part

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that. And I feel like something went wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just don't know what it was.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, alexis this has happened to you countless times?

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<v Speaker 4>What has it been in the past for you?

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<v Speaker 2>What's my problems? Yeah, She's like, we don't have time

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<v Speaker 2>for Yeah, I don't have time.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel like you did anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like there's the kiss of death, Alexa. Since

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<v Speaker 4>it's great, you must have messed up horribly. Let's find

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<v Speaker 4>out what really happened when we come back. Call Evan

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<v Speaker 4>and do your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second.

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<v Speaker 4>Date updates if you're just joining us. We've been talking

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<v Speaker 4>to our listener Siena about her intoxicating first date with

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<v Speaker 4>a guy named Devin really because they went and saw

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<v Speaker 4>a scary movie then shared a waffle cone, and after

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<v Speaker 4>that she said something along the lines of, hey, daddy, O,

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to go lip to lip like two plunges,

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't fight you off.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually the quote since I think exactly what she said

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<v Speaker 2>pretty close and.

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<v Speaker 4>That led to a makeout so passionate, so intense that

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<v Speaker 4>Ed will barely respond to her texts anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>A single kisl like you out of a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>juicy details.

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<v Speaker 4>You, I'm picturing it a lot more differently than my brain.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that Sienna wants you to picture anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff Siena, What was I off on my description?

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<v Speaker 1>You might have embellished a tiny bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, that's just because there was so much love

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<v Speaker 4>and passion happening. Leah, Yeah, hot, plunge your action in

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<v Speaker 4>my mind. But I mean, usually when things go wrong

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<v Speaker 4>during a date, we don't hear about kisses like the

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<v Speaker 4>one that you just described.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but does a man ever turn down a kiss?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna I feel like every date gets a

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<v Speaker 2>kiss in it is on show.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like if the girl proposes it, he is

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<v Speaker 3>a guy, even if he's having a terrible time going

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<v Speaker 3>to say no.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it's a good question, Sienna. Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 4>it was possibly a pity kiss?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I hope not.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's gonna be sad. I didn't mean to set

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<v Speaker 2>you up with that in your mind. Let's just get

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<v Speaker 2>to it now.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a good question to ask him. But I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna dial his number right now and let's see if

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<v Speaker 4>he picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this seven?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, man, I know this is weird, but we're a

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<v Speaker 4>radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>What's up man, Good morning, Evan.

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<v Speaker 2>We kind of had guessed that maybe you were a listener.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you probably.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not a listener. Is this real?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I asked myself that question every day when I

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<v Speaker 4>come to work.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I actually doing this again?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? But this is real. It's a segment we do.

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<v Speaker 4>It's called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>What does Second Date Update mean?

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<v Speaker 4>It's basically a segment where listeners can come to us

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<v Speaker 4>if they're having trouble getting a hold of a person

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<v Speaker 4>after they go out with them. Once we can reach

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<v Speaker 4>out and see if there's a reason.

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<v Speaker 5>Why would why would anyone do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Great question?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I do, feel, like you know, Evan, like dating is

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<v Speaker 3>frustrating right now.

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<v Speaker 4>So, and it's so frustrating that a woman named Sienna

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<v Speaker 4>reached out for our help.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really excited about you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so what's like, I mean, what's the question?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, Sienna actually told us about the date

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<v Speaker 4>you two have. That's what people do when they're on

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<v Speaker 4>this show. We hear about the date and we try

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<v Speaker 4>to figure out if there's a reason why afterwards you're

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<v Speaker 4>not calling her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we know like you went to a horror

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<v Speaker 3>movie and that you like sci fi fantasy and you

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<v Speaker 3>got ice cream.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, she really kind of laid most of it out

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<v Speaker 5>for you. But like, look, those.

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<v Speaker 2>Were real personal details.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a recap of your date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. But like Sienna is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's a good way to start.

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<v Speaker 5>And I mean she's just she seems to be a

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<v Speaker 5>really great person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wouldn't call her back either.

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<v Speaker 2>She's beaut compassionate.

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<v Speaker 5>Hang on to what she showed up to the movie

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<v Speaker 5>theater with a stuffed animal And I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>talking about like a little key ring size stuffed animal.

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<v Speaker 5>We're talking like the size of a toddler.

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<v Speaker 4>What a large like a fair animal?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it one of those like yeah, ones that are

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<v Speaker 3>actually like more comfortable than your actual pillow. You gotta

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<v Speaker 3>cover your eyes during scary movies with something true.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, But.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, first off, we are adults, and she's a

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<v Speaker 5>grown woman that has stuffed animals, which is a little

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<v Speaker 5>red flag for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hey, my panda would not be happy to hear

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<v Speaker 3>that I've got a puppy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I also argue, I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Just telling you that is that's that's a red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why is it a red flag? What does it

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<v Speaker 2>say about a person if they have a stuffed animal?

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<v Speaker 5>If you were a grown adult, you gotta get rid

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<v Speaker 5>of kids stuff. Like, if it's something you had since

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<v Speaker 5>you were a kid, that's great. If it's something new,

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<v Speaker 5>that's an issue.

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<v Speaker 2>But play and make believe in your sci fi world.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay, Okay, I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Just watching movies and reading books. I'm not LARPing.

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<v Speaker 3>So right at the very beginning of the date, you're

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<v Speaker 3>like red flag and had you already written her off.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't write her off at the start because I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't know if she was bringing it to give it

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<v Speaker 5>away to a kid, if there was a charity drive

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<v Speaker 5>drop off or something we were going to. But she

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<v Speaker 5>didn't explain it to me. There was no introduction for anything.

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<v Speaker 5>The end of the night. Okay, look, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>try to salvage the night. And we went and we

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<v Speaker 5>had ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>Did the stuff he come to ice cream too? Or

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<v Speaker 2>did she drop it off at the car?

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<v Speaker 5>She brought it into ice cream, And then at the

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<v Speaker 5>very end of the night, she asked me if I

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to kiss, and we had a sweet little kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>I told you guys, never say no.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, this guy's like red flag all the way

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<v Speaker 3>turned off and he's still kissing her.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, you know, I'm gonna give this one

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<v Speaker 5>more shot. But then she's like, I think you should

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<v Speaker 5>kiss Pebbles because eel be jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>He will be jealous. Was she joking? That had to

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<v Speaker 2>have been a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>No, she was serious as all get out. And I

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<v Speaker 5>kissed Pebbles on the nose and I got out of

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<v Speaker 5>there as fast as I could.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, I will say, I mean my stuff. Animals

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<v Speaker 3>don't ask for kisses from other people, just from me.

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<v Speaker 4>So now you kissed Pebbles and you have feelings for

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<v Speaker 4>both of them, and you don't know is that what

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<v Speaker 4>you're fighting yourself?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know who I want to date at this point,

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<v Speaker 5>heart torn, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I feel like that could have been an

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<v Speaker 3>easy text, like, hey, so pebbles was a little much

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<v Speaker 3>for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think anything about that text is easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you don't have to have it over text anymore,

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<v Speaker 4>because actually Siena is on the phone right now listening

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<v Speaker 4>to this conversation and waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean, I just think that he's reacting, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a horror movie. I brought my stuffed animal.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously he's still with me when I go to ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just don't see it as like a huge

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<v Speaker 1>red flag. At that point at the beginning of the movie,

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<v Speaker 1>before we went talk and went for ice cream, I

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<v Speaker 1>barely knew you. I didn't want to cuddle you.

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<v Speaker 5>You say you don't know me, but you had me

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<v Speaker 5>kiss your best shreds.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't didn't expect you to say that you would,

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<v Speaker 1>but then you did, and it was adorable.

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<v Speaker 5>You're grown woman carrying around the stuffed animal. You suggested

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<v Speaker 5>a horror movie. We went.

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<v Speaker 1>Figures. What's the different.

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<v Speaker 5>I do collect action figures, but they stood on my shelf.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't take them with me to the movies or

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<v Speaker 5>to ice cream or ask you to kiss them different.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you should have more of an emotional attachment and

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<v Speaker 3>you would feel more secure to.

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<v Speaker 5>An action figure. It becomes wrong with you. There's absolutely

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<v Speaker 5>no reason, and I should be going on a date

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<v Speaker 5>with a woman and a stuffed animal.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, the stuffed animal has a name. It's Pebbles. So

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<v Speaker 4>let's show Pebbles a little respect and address them appropriate.

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<v Speaker 4>And you kissed Pebbles before, so don't get all snippy

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<v Speaker 4>with everybody. Just on the nose, just on the Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean it's interesting that you can't look past it,

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<v Speaker 3>because she does sound like she's a very put together person,

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<v Speaker 3>and it does feel a little hypocritical that you have

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<v Speaker 3>action figures.

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<v Speaker 5>That that I don't take with me to the movie.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, I mean that's your line, though, Like that's just

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<v Speaker 3>a it feels like a line that maybe you could

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<v Speaker 3>get past.

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<v Speaker 4>You still both care about these things.

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<v Speaker 5>She she's not the bad guy in this, but I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not the bad guy either.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's you told me that you go to the rent fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's the difference between that and like dressing up

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<v Speaker 1>for the rent fair.

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<v Speaker 5>I go to the rent fair. I don't dress up

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<v Speaker 5>for the rent fair.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't go on dressed up.

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<v Speaker 4>He's the only guy.

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<v Speaker 2>He judges other.

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<v Speaker 4>People for this guy wearing a suit of armor.

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<v Speaker 5>E look cool?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Evan, I think we've all heard enough of

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<v Speaker 4>you picking up wenches at the ren Fair. We just

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<v Speaker 4>have to ask.

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<v Speaker 5>Why you go Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I have to ask you this question, even though

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty sure I know the answer, because we would

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<v Speaker 4>pay if you would go out on one more date

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<v Speaker 4>with Sienna.

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<v Speaker 2>If even wants it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, I don't know Sienna.

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<v Speaker 5>Only if Peple stayed home.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, oh wait you.

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<v Speaker 1>There, no, because he already because he already said that

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<v Speaker 1>he has a problem with stuffed animals. Pebbles is not

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<v Speaker 1>my only like duft animal in my house.

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<v Speaker 2>How many do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>I probably have like three or four on my bad Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I probably have like one hundred and a

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<v Speaker 1>storage locker that I would bring out just for him.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh damn, you're both collectors for ejail.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a lot not weird. Do you kiss all of them?

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<v Speaker 2>Pubbles would be jealous? Yeah, so I guess that's a no.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it sounds like it's not a match between

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<v Speaker 4>Evan and Siena. But who's going to break the news

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<v Speaker 4>to Pebbles or Pebbles awkward Tuesday phone call next week.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to break his heart.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a terrible kisser.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh kiss he's ever gotten? Jeffrey in the morning textan

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<v Speaker 4>seventy five nine too. What do you think is it

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<v Speaker 4>okay to bring stuffed animals with you on a date?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you call it a la bubuo and

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<v Speaker 2>you spent a lot of money, that he's good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, Brooke, you came to the defense of her

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<v Speaker 4>for having a stuffed animal really quickly. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>hear you say bringing it to a movie or out

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<v Speaker 4>to ice cream was okay. Where do you stand on that?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know. She sounded put together. Then

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<v Speaker 2>the line about the hundred and the story, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know each their own. Obviously it was not his thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, obviously Pebbles is very important to her, So I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not going to judge.

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<v Speaker 4>What about what the kiss at the end of the

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<v Speaker 4>stuffed animal? Not enough room?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm stucking my thumb right now that he did it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if you were if you were single right now

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<v Speaker 4>and you and I went out, would you have me

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<v Speaker 4>kiss your glow worm.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she only kisses me. Yeah, I do not let

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<v Speaker 2>we don't share.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Gloria is mine, not Gloria anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely was not a match today. It doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 4>it can't be a match for you. Email the show.

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