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Speaker 1: Come come on your baby, I shall will Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do. Man, what an amazing blessing. God has given

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Speaker 1: me my health, my strength, my will power, my dreams,

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Speaker 1: all of it. God gave it to me. I accept it.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I want to talk to you about today,

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Speaker 1: because God has gifted everyone, so I can't help but

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Speaker 1: It's special and unique. Now that means that doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: the only one but you. But you are a unique individual.

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Speaker 1: Nobody will travel the exact path that you are on.

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Speaker 1: you are unique. But now because you are gifted, you

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Speaker 1: know you have something you have to do. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's a scripture. It's in Proverbs, Proverbs eighteen and sixteen.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to be a little bit better at

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Speaker 1: your gift that will make room for you. Now, my

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Speaker 1: interpretation of this is this. Now I could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: Please go to your local church, Syner God, Temple, Mass,

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Speaker 1: whatever you do, and go get clarification. But what my

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Speaker 1: for me. That's what I take it as. It will

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Speaker 1: able to reach more people. That's what I'm saying in

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Speaker 1: may be another interpretation. I'm just telling you how I

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Speaker 1: to that understanding. But I'm pretty sure Bishop Jake's, Joel Oldstein,

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Speaker 1: And now you steady looking around trying to figure out, Man,

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Speaker 1: Hold up? I'm not ready to get hold up? Get ready,

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Speaker 1: What's up? And color Feller? What's up? Color Jay? Well

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Speaker 1: I'm ready, I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm ready. You didn't say enough, I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: You know? Point? Hey, what's up? Happy holiday? Happen holidays?

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Speaker 1: said them, it's not a happy song we have today

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Speaker 1: because there's too many, too many, too many happy songs

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Speaker 1: Do you put lights up? You decorate? Do you do

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Speaker 1: Do you at least have a tree? I don't have

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Speaker 1: Two trees, Ja, I got two? You got two trees? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: so nice. But Jake, when your grand babies come, you've

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Speaker 1: and Roll Hall of Fame inductees have been announced and Sierra,

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Speaker 1: We love Sierra. Sierra wants court ordered. I'll tell you

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Speaker 1: What what do you mean when you say you got fish?

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Speaker 1: This this tank? Oh fish tank? You have a fish tank? Okay, well, sir,

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Speaker 1: back on and we'll come back out here. And it's

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Speaker 1: a reconnect it for one hundred and fifty dollars. So

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Speaker 1: I got to come up with three hundred. Oh hell,

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Speaker 1: gonna be one hundred and fifty dollars reconnecting. No hell, no, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'll be had in ten minutes. Just okay, Well, sir,

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Speaker 1: and I've told you before you have five minutes to

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Speaker 1: get here. No, listen, listen, listen. Let me call my

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Speaker 1: let me call. I don't have time for you to

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Speaker 1: click over and call other people. Sir? Is there somebody

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Speaker 1: that can give me a money order right now? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: right now. I get your money order in five minutes. Okay,

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Speaker 1: now who's gonna do that. I don't know how I

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Speaker 1: called my wife. I told you your wife is the

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Speaker 1: reason why you're in this situation. I'm gonna report you

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Speaker 1: to your super Are you gonna mean when I'm out

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Speaker 1: doing my job, you should report your wife for not

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Speaker 1: doing what she was supposed Let's care what you say

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Speaker 1: if do you want your lights on or off when

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Speaker 1: you get here? I want my lights holding them. Your

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Speaker 1: lights are getting turned off in the next two minutes

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Speaker 1: because your wife didn't pay the damn bill. I don't

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Speaker 1: tell you, excuse me, I donna tell you. Listen, keep

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Speaker 1: my wife's name out your mouth. I'll tell you what

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Speaker 1: you know what my supervisor would tell you. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what about to tell me you that you have

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Speaker 1: been talking to nephew Tommy from the city of Harvey

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Speaker 1: more to show you just got bright. Man was on

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Speaker 1: my wedding. Your co worker got chosen, so you got you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into man. Don't do that no more

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Speaker 1: that man you had me. Hey, I got one more

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Speaker 1: thing to ask you, man, what is the baddest radio

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Speaker 1: show in the land? Come on, man, Steve Harvey Moran

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Speaker 1: show Tommy. Everybody get a little tense. Can you manage

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Speaker 1: getting your lights turning off? Christmas times happened? It has

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Speaker 1: the tree out, the lights on the house out, everything out.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine Christmas time you didn't got your poe

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Speaker 1: turned though? Well that's Jay's house because he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: any lights or anything. You know. The dumbest thing we

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Speaker 1: do when I don't know if you guys all experiences,

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Speaker 1: but I have you tried each room separately? Like they

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Speaker 1: may have left the moon in? Yeah? Yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: why you flip You got to chuck us up in

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Speaker 1: the mail. I hope the lights are on in Columbus,

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Speaker 1: Georgia because the nephew was coming to town. Baby December

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Speaker 1: twenty eight at the Columbia at the Columbus Georgia Civic Center,

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Speaker 1: ticke us on sale right now. And then Washington d C.

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Speaker 1: It's satur the December the twenty night. We got two shows,

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Speaker 1: seven and ten. It's Joe Claire, It's Country, Wayne red Grant,

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Speaker 1: Little Duval, Tony Roberts Earthquake and hosted by yours truly.

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Speaker 1: And then it is New Year's Eve, Houston, Texas Smart

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Speaker 1: Financial Center. All right, coming up entertainment news right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up at thirty four after the hour. You do

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Speaker 1: not want to miss it. Jay Anthony Brown will murder

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Speaker 1: yet another Christmas hit? What's up? Yes, I don't do

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Speaker 1: he's a holiday hater. I'm convinced he is, all right.

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Speaker 1: But first in entertainment news, we can't wait for that,

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Speaker 1: Jake and Entertainment news, rock and Roll Hall of Fame

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Speaker 1: has announced its class of twenty nineteen. Here are a

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Speaker 1: few of the nominations. The Cure, def Leppard, Janet Jackson,

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Speaker 1: and Stevie Nicks. Yes, yes, yes, Jane about time, Yes yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you know what she is. Stevie Nicks has been inducted

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Speaker 1: with back in the late nineties. This is her second

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Speaker 1: induction as a female. Oh I love that. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah right, yeah yeah. And we're really happy about Janet Jackson,

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Speaker 1: so well deserved. Yes, uh well, anyway, we're mad that

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Speaker 1: the Rock Roll Hall of Fame, though, did not induct L. L.

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Speaker 1: Cool J kind of salty about that. Yeah yeah, he

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Speaker 1: didn't make the class. He was nominated, nominated, Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: he didn't make the class. Ups didn't make it. And

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Speaker 1: I'm really really mad about this too. Rufus featuring Shaka Khan.

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, they should have been in there legends. Yeah, definitely,

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Speaker 1: but Rufus is sweet thing, right, come on, come on? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: something good. Absolutely, Yeah, it's amazing who makes it and

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Speaker 1: who gets left out? That's that's kind of weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean having another chance coming, you know, in the

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Speaker 1: coming years. But yeah, well I don't know why they

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Speaker 1: didn't make it. When you don't make it, though, create

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Speaker 1: your own, yeah, create your own. I am in the

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Speaker 1: prank called Hall of Fame. Yeah you should you are, man? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we you and I'm in the murder to Hit

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Speaker 1: Hall of Fame. I mean, I'm you and I voted

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Speaker 1: for you. Thank you. Are you gonna tell me I'm

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Speaker 1: not in the Strawberry Letter Hall of Fame? You are? Well,

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Speaker 1: what that's the case. I'm in the Reality Update, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you are. No nobody at Reality TV like me. We

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Speaker 1: had ourselves on the background there Rock and Roll Hall

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Speaker 1: of Fame. And when we later on this week, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna let everybody know who're in the big Booty Hall

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Speaker 1: of Fame because I'm voted for a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, can't you go first Friday when you laid

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Speaker 1: on and this show then, and I'm voting for people.

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Speaker 1: I'm voting for two people that's on this show. Then

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Speaker 1: it ain't Jake and it ain't me. So day, well,

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Speaker 1: you be in the hot Hall of Fame, baby myself

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Speaker 1: talking about my big eyes. Who anyway? All right? And

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Speaker 1: other news. Sierra is reaching out for help. She's trying

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Speaker 1: to work out a custody schedule with future and their son.

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Speaker 1: Sierra's legal team wants court ordered mediation so they can

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Speaker 1: figure out a rotation that works with both of their

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Speaker 1: busy schedules. Okay, so they're trying. The boy don't want

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Speaker 1: to miss football season. I mean we're missing the Sea Hall.

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Speaker 1: All right, Gary Wilson, We're moving on. Jay, It's time

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Speaker 1: for today's headlines. Here we go headlines and trip. Y'all

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Speaker 1: very very much, And unfortunately I'm starting out with sad news.

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Speaker 1: You're so late. Nancy Wilson, Free time Grammy Award winning

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Speaker 1: artist has passed away. Nancy Wilson was eighty one years old.

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Speaker 1: This is what her manager has announced this morning. Miss

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Speaker 1: Wilson passed away peacefully, they say, Thursday, at her home

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Speaker 1: after a long illness. Nancy Wilson was from Chillicothe, Ohio.

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Speaker 1: She initially focused on R and B music, would later

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Speaker 1: excel to jazz, ballots and torch songs. She made her

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Speaker 1: debut in her nineteen sixty one single guests Who I

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Speaker 1: Saw Today. Her biggest hit came in nineteen sixty four

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Speaker 1: with You Don't Know How Glad I Am, which rose

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Speaker 1: through the charts to number eleven spot on Billboard's Hot

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Speaker 1: one hundred Singles and earned her a Grammy Award for

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Speaker 1: Best R and B Recording. She's won so many and

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Speaker 1: so many beautiful performances. John Legend reacted to Wilson's passing

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Speaker 1: on Twitter with great sadness again, starting out with this

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Speaker 1: sad note, the great Nancy Wilson has passed away. She

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Speaker 1: was eighty one years old. As a nation's latest budget

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Speaker 1: deadline approaches, looks like the President's still sticking by his

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Speaker 1: demand for five billion more dollars to build a campaign

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Speaker 1: promise border wall and threatening to shut down the government

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Speaker 1: a few days from now if the Congress doesn't authorize

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Speaker 1: the money he wants. Trump's claiming again that Mexico is

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Speaker 1: going to end up paying forward with the savings he

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Speaker 1: says extracted by the former NAFTA deal, which is now

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Speaker 1: called USMCA. However, the expected incoming speaker of a House

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Speaker 1: in January, Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi, seems to feel Trump may

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Speaker 1: not really understand how trade agreement's work. Basically what he's

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Speaker 1: saying and he benefited our economy might have from a

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Speaker 1: trade agreement. A revised trade agreement would be spent on

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Speaker 1: the wall instead of growing our economy and increasing paychecks

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Speaker 1: for our workers. The American people are still paying the price,

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Speaker 1: and Pelosi says that a partial shutdown of the government

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Speaker 1: would actually cost the US billions of dollars. The deadline

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Speaker 1: for the Congress to agree in a budget to avoid

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Speaker 1: all of this. December twenty first fast Approaching right admitted

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Speaker 1: Russian operative Maria Boudinoff has become the first from her

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Speaker 1: country to acknowledge being part of Moscow's political influence campaign

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Speaker 1: during the twenty sixteen election. Botnoff entered a federal court

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Speaker 1: yesterday and pled guilty to mount to mounting a campaign

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Speaker 1: to influence top Republicans. She said she did buy a

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Speaker 1: using connection with the National Rifle Association and the National

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Speaker 1: Prayer Breakfast. Noof has agreed to cooperate with the US prosecutors.

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Speaker 1: She expected to spend less than six months in prison

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Speaker 1: if she's sent behind bars at all, and then she's

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Speaker 1: supposed to be deported back to Russia. Judge selected February twelfth,

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Speaker 1: if we're at a hearing to assess her value when

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Speaker 1: it comes to the ongoing investigation. Finally, the copyright lawsuit

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Speaker 1: filed over the song Blurred Lines has finally been settled.

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Speaker 1: A California federal judge has entered a five million dollar

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Speaker 1: judgment against Robin Thick and Farrell Williamson in favor of

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Speaker 1: the family of the late Great Marvin Gay. Back to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Boarding Show, everybody you're listening to show.

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Speaker 1: If you need health insurance, please listen up. Okay. Individuals

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Speaker 1: and families who buy their own insurance have until this

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Speaker 1: coming Saturday, December fifteenth in most states to sign up

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Speaker 1: for Obamacare. All right, it's a word we haven't heard

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Speaker 1: in a long time because they've been trying to destroy it.

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Speaker 1: Are you shocked that you didn't know about tomorrow's deadline? Well,

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Speaker 1: you are not alone. President Trump has cut funding for

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Speaker 1: the Affordable Care Act you know, we like to call

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Speaker 1: it Obamacare advertising, of course, an outreach media campaigns. The

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Speaker 1: Trump administration has cut advertising funding by ninety percent. He

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Speaker 1: did that in twenty seventeen. President Obama, if you recall

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Speaker 1: earlier this week, did a video reminding everyone about tomorrow's

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Speaker 1: urgent deadline on social media. All right, so you can

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Speaker 1: go to healthcare dot gov to sign up. Got it, guys,

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Speaker 1: healthcare dot gov to sign up. Yes, it's still available

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Speaker 1: for you. It's been tomorrow. A lot of people, a

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Speaker 1: lot of people. Absolutely, I got I got three children.

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Speaker 1: We have used so much in this past year. If

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Speaker 1: I didn't had that, oh my god, can you imagine?

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Speaker 1: But think about this, what if you had a pre

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Speaker 1: existing condition? What if you had a child, a loved

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Speaker 1: one with a pre existing condition and didn't have healthcare.

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Speaker 1: So this president, mister Trump, who's trying so hard to

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Speaker 1: cut funding and get the word out about the deadline,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't care about American citizens that need healthcare to

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Speaker 1: help their family members and children. Man, he is so

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Speaker 1: petty and the right you're still right, And they never

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Speaker 1: came up with a viable alternative. Okay, you want to

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Speaker 1: cut Obamacare and replace it with what Yeah. Right. So

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Speaker 1: in the video and in the video that the President

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Speaker 1: President Obama did, he said, spread the word. We can

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Speaker 1: help save people lives. So just like you just said, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: it's our obligation to let everybody know about this deadline.

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Speaker 1: It's tomorrow tomorrow. The saddest thing you ever want to

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Speaker 1: see is go and see people getting medication and they

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Speaker 1: don't have enough money, and so they vation out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and he said, well, I'll get six of these and

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Speaker 1: three because they don't have the money, Well, can you

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Speaker 1: get a pool bottle? Appeals? No, they don't have it. Ye,

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Speaker 1: elderly people go through that when I was young. Again. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's literally so again, go sign up, do it now

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Speaker 1: healthcare dot gov. Tomorrow is the deadline. If you don't

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Speaker 1: do it by tomorrow, healthcare dot gov. Okay, another petty

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Speaker 1: Trump news, Carla, the President. The President is canceled the

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Speaker 1: White House Press Christmas Party. It's long run. It's a

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Speaker 1: long running tradition and one of the perks is that

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Speaker 1: members of the press get to take pictures with the president.

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Speaker 1: But not this year. The White House will have another

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Speaker 1: Christmas party with more favorable members of the press invited.

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Speaker 1: So coming up next at thirty two after the hour,

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Speaker 1: j Anthony Brown is here to murder another Christmas. Let's Scrooge.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, Jay's here because we're so

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Speaker 1: in the Christmas spirit. Jay, and here you go. You

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Speaker 1: knew what I was when you hire. Let's try and exercise. Wait,

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Speaker 1: let's try and exercise. Let's try this. Shirley Huh, Merry Christmas,

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Speaker 1: Happy holidays, so sweet. Thank you, Carla, Merry Christmas and

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Speaker 1: happy holidays to you and your family. Please big hug

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Speaker 1: for me. You know that's the same with Charity. Thank you, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: Happy holidays, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Happy holidays, prosperous new year.

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Speaker 1: Tell Tash and and uh and Tasha, I said, big

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Speaker 1: Mirry Christmas from uncle Tommy over here. Okay tell them now?

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Speaker 1: Will you tell the Miles children the same thing? Jordan,

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Speaker 1: Sydney Trey, Why I tell everybody? Happy holiday? Yeah, we'll do.

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Speaker 1: Happy Holiday's Merry Christmas. Time. We've gotten through another year together.

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Speaker 1: Were family, were family, and and thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you've been such an inspiration to

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Speaker 1: us all this year. With your new TV show and everything.

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Speaker 1: What a blessing you know. I'm just so happy for

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Speaker 1: you and happy you know. New Year to you and

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Speaker 1: make it may be even more prosperous. Please give her

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Speaker 1: next to my love, please I will, and please you

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Speaker 1: do the same with Jackie with her beautiful self loving.

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Speaker 1: I'm so in the Christmas spirit, may be right back

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Speaker 1: to eating up. Jay's segment on the Son is dedicated

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Speaker 1: to out there. There's gotta be somebody somewhere who wishes

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Speaker 1: someone I love one, a friend, a relative, whatever, which

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Speaker 1: is leave their house for Christmas? Please be gone? But

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Speaker 1: Christmas es I black. I don't care when you go,

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Speaker 1: and I don't care, but so please be gone the

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Speaker 1: Chrismas this I beg I be you see it. You're

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Speaker 1: done my less I have my head age. Damn, James,

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Speaker 1: you sound so depressed. Why you were saying, there're a

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Speaker 1: mean one, mister Grench mean one, mister be gone? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the word somebody would ride with somebody's shell. And they

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Speaker 1: turn that up. They just make the words come turn

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Speaker 1: it up, come home for Christmas, not be gone gone?

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Speaker 1: Oh mar, can we hear it again? What my time? Time? Think?

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Speaker 1: We do? I think we have time. It's so good

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Speaker 1: a day. I don't care, don't I don't please, please

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Speaker 1: get out of steph. I beg you yell out my house.

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Speaker 1: But the sounds like somebody's going to jump off a clef,

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Speaker 1: evil doctor. What do you say to me? Damn, you

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Speaker 1: don't like? You don't like Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas Holiday? What's

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Speaker 1: what we got next? New Year's even is coming. I

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Speaker 1: hope you elite like that another year came. All right, listen,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go up next. It is the nephew in

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Speaker 1: the prank phone call. Right after this you're listening str

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Speaker 1: morning show coming up at the top of the hour, guys.

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Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after it is my strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: for today, subject love is not enough for me. That's right,

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Speaker 1: you heard me. But right now the nephew is here

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Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. You guys. Today, this right

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Speaker 1: here is called an invitation good a party. I gotta

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Speaker 1: see it one more time, an invitation to the party.

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Speaker 1: Half of it is, half of it is how you

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Speaker 1: say it, though it is it's how you see it.

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Speaker 1: An invitation to the poty sounds like a sermon, though

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Speaker 1: it's getting ready to be but you know what, I

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Speaker 1: wish I could say it like, ah, if I could,

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Speaker 1: I can't do his voice. I love Clarence Williams the third.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I look at Brothers, an actor,

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Speaker 1: an invitation to the party, the party, inventation, the party

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00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: here it is running. Hello. Uh, you know I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to reach Danny. Yeah, what's up this Danny? Hey, Danny,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? My name is Paul Man. How you

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Speaker 1: doing today? Rob? I'm good, Man, I'm good. What's up

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Speaker 1: hey man? I'm wanting to reach out to you man,

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Speaker 1: um about your wife? You you you married to Nicole? Right?

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Speaker 1: I want to make sure I got the right person. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah again. My name is Paul Man. I know Nicole,

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Speaker 1: Nicole my wife. My wife is Regina, and uh you know,

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Speaker 1: we know we know Nicole real well. Man. We was

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Speaker 1: trying to uh we trying to actually see about getting

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Speaker 1: getting you guys, uh come out and uh maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: go out on a double day. Man, we all go

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Speaker 1: out into town. So you know my wife Nicole? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean she she Um, I got your number out

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Speaker 1: of Nicole's fall and okay, hold on wait wait, wait

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Speaker 1: what you mean you got my number out of the

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Speaker 1: cold phone you you got you you you. I'm not

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Speaker 1: understanding what's going on though, Okay. Let me let me,

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Speaker 1: let me try to break this down to you man. Uh, myself,

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Speaker 1: my wife rout here and the cold. Uh we we've

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Speaker 1: all actually been hanging out lately, you know then the

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Speaker 1: last last six weeks to two months. You know you

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Speaker 1: ain't you now you ain't hanging up with my wife? Okay?

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Speaker 1: My my wife with me all the time, bro, So

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Speaker 1: you know you might want to you might have a

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Speaker 1: own number. No, no, you you you Danny right, I'm Danny, okay,

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Speaker 1: and the cold is your wife. The coal is like

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Speaker 1: about five foot four or five foot five light light

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Speaker 1: my wife, yes, my wife. But you ain't you ain't

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00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: hanging out would them? Okay? Man, I'm trying to explain

719
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Speaker 1: to you what's going on and now if you and

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Speaker 1: listen to me, school, I'm just trying. Okay, here, here's

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Speaker 1: what's up. Get to your point man. Me, Nicole and

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Speaker 1: my wife have been swinging. That's some buy. That's some buy,

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Speaker 1: you know what you walking up the wrong though? You

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Speaker 1: just some buys you you you know, just just just

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Speaker 1: some bully. Hey, man, I want to go. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to call you and tell you what was going on

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Speaker 1: and see if you wanted do you know my my

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Speaker 1: go the wrone number for show. Trust me, let's just

729
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Speaker 1: break this down. How many Danny is it? Dog? It

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Speaker 1: ain't that men? So I mean, dude, I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be in denial? Are you gonna go? And except

732
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: when I'm trying to tell you, I'm trying to comfort me.

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Speaker 1: What I'm trying to bude you to come hang out

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Speaker 1: with me and the girls? You know, do you wanna?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to? I mean this might be something

736
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Speaker 1: you might like if you tried, man, Because I mean,

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Speaker 1: we didn't have a lot of fun with the color

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Speaker 1: What what the you mean that far with you? Ain't

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Speaker 1: no guy the pole? So what you're trying to tell me?

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00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,240
Speaker 1: You're trying to tell me y'all we had fun with Nicole?

741
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Speaker 1: I explaining you. We we're gonna explain my No, that explained? Man,

742
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Speaker 1: This one buys Okay, Well, what I know my wife

743
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Speaker 1: and I know she's a boy like that, and I

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00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: never heard that. I had never heard of you, and

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00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 1: you're my wife and we've been to jump of a year.

746
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Speaker 1: So this some buys. Okay, Well he was something something

747
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: you need to understand. Man. You know your understand nothing.

748
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: You need to understand your wife. But I know what

749
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Speaker 1: to I know, I know, I know Nicolee. Now I

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00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:43,919
Speaker 1: bet you know what where you at? I'm I'm rolling

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00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 1: through the city right now. I got to work. I

752
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 1: gotta do. But I'm just trying to see. I need

753
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Speaker 1: to put my eyes on you. I need to put

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00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: my eyes on your mind. Okay, a man, do you

755
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: want to come do what we be doing? And so

756
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: you trying to tell me that my wife and been

757
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: with another woman? You man, Dog, I'm just trying to

758
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: keep it real with you. Dog. I was just trying

759
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: to let you man, let you know what was going on. See,

760
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to start nothing. You know what. More,

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00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: I don't know know them God, Paul, I don't know

762
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: him more, Keno. And I don't know why you called

763
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: him my phone. And I tell you what, when my

764
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Speaker 1: wife get home, I'm gonna fine. I'm for this. Some

765
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: boys this some boys, many problem. Okay, dog, calm down, though, man,

766
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Speaker 1: Now call mine. You don't call my mother number out

767
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: of here. You're gonna tell me to calm them down.

768
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: You tell them you getting my wife, your wife speaking

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Speaker 1: with my numb My wife was another one day man.

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Speaker 1: And Timmy is the one that told us that Nicole

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Speaker 1: was down. He who taught me, Hey, dog nephew, Timmy

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00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: from the Steve Barve me more this show. Hey nephew,

773
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: time me man from the Steve Baby Morning Show. Your

774
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: wife Nicole got me to bray phone call you dog man.

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00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: That ain't even funny. Wow, Wow, you're all right, You're

776
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: all right man, man, I'm pleased. I'm pleased. I'm glad.

777
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: This was just the morning show man. Y'all just met me.

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00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: But look here, man, somebody you know, boy, somebody gonna

779
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 1: get your I hope you gotta call little Shan policy

780
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 1: that I gotta ask you, man, what is the baddest

781
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land

782
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 1: ain't number one? Man. I'm gonna ask y'all. And I

783
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: don't know, only ask I think I do, though, did

784
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: I go to ye? I was hoping you would ask us. Yeah,

785
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 1: you don't know what you know what I noticed about

786
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: your phone call. They always want to find you because

787
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: they don't know where you are to fight you. But

788
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 1: the person that they know. They don't want to do nothing.

789
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 1: They just want to get their hands on your ass,

790
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: and that's what I want. Yeah, and then we just

791
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: trying to kill you. We've been hanging out with the cold,

792
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 1: and the cold likes it. Okay, Nicole, Like, now do

793
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: you want to join us? Do you want an invitation

794
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 1: to the party? Talking? Are you coming to the party

795
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: or not? What movie with somebody else that Welcome to

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00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 1: the party? Oh oh heart, welcome to the party. That's

797
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 1: what you said. Welcome to the party. Come on, I

798
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: was gonna say colored purple, but oh man, hey, I

799
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 1: got three cities left. I got three cities up Columbus, Georgia,

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00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: a Washington, d C. And in Houston, Texas. You can

801
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: go to my website get all the details Thomas Miles

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00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:07,359
Speaker 1: dot com, click on my tour and you will see

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00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: where I will be. You can get your tickets right there.

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00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna make it that simple for you, Thomas Miles

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00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: dot com. And get your laugh on with me. All right,

806
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 1: three cities left, Columbus, Georgia, Washington, DC, and Houston, Texas.

807
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 1: Oh all right, well good, and after that you're gonna

808
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: be uh celebrating, right And you know what I'm gonna do.

809
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna throw a party? Scary? I don't do scary.

810
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 1: I do scary. That's what you got from it. Scary,

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Speaker 1: Yes from his voice? Yeah, all right, thinking of you

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00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: up next. It is a Strawberry Letters subject love is

813
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: not Enough for Me. We'll get into it right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening show. It is time now, ladies and gentlemen,

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00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships,

816
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,359
Speaker 1: on dating, on work, on sex, on parenting, and more,

817
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and

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Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, and we could be reading

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00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air. Let's go buckle up,

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00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

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00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry let us. This could beat you and

822
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: your letter. Subject love is not enough for me. Dear

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00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend and I are not compatible at all.

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00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: I am not sure why I keep trying to make

825
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: our relationship work. He says he loves me. I love him,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not as in love with him as I

827
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: used to be. We've been together five years and we

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00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 1: have two children, but we argue so much We're completely

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Speaker 1: opposite of each other. He likes rap, I like R

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Speaker 1: and B. I'm educated, he's not. I'm a goal achiever.

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Speaker 1: He just creates goals and never follows through with them.

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Speaker 1: I cook, he eats. I have a car, he doesn't.

833
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 1: He likes hanging with his family. I would rather go

834
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: on dates with just him. He refuses to compromise on

835
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: what he likes to do, so we end up doing

836
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 1: whatever he wants to do. I can't stand his family

837
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 1: because they are not positive role models for my children,

838
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: but I let them go over there as much as possible.

839
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: I've been forced to do things that go against my morals,

840
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: but I've done it for this man. I feel like

841
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: I'm losing myself and turning into a whole different kind

842
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: of woman. I have told him that I'm not happy,

843
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: and I suggested counseling, but he says he says counseling

844
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 1: is for white people. Now I find myself yelling at

845
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 1: him more and more, and I can't find a nice

846
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: way to express myself anymore. Is it me or him

847
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: that's the problem. I wanted to work out so we

848
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,280
Speaker 1: can remain together for the children, but I also realize

849
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: that I don't really know this man. I didn't really

850
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: know this man before I fell in love with him.

851
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm feeling stuck and unhappy. Do you think this man

852
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: can change? Or should I move on and find happiness

853
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: with someone else i'm compatible with. Yes, move on and

854
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: find someone else you're compatible with if you want to

855
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,879
Speaker 1: be happy, because this isn't the guy. He's not that guy.

856
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: He's just not all right. You guys have nothing in

857
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: common but the children, and you have two children no

858
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: positive role models around them. You've changed as a woman

859
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 1: dealing with this man. You're just letting him bring you down. Okay,

860
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,320
Speaker 1: you're not. You've lost yourself in this guy. He's not

861
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,760
Speaker 1: the guy for you. You need to realize that before

862
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: you know it gets too late. You don't need to

863
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:49,879
Speaker 1: continue in this relationship with him. You find yourself yelling

864
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: at him more and more. You can you can't find

865
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: a nice way to express yourself anymore. Is it me

866
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: or him? That's the problem, you ask? It is you?

867
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: It's you because you keep allowing this and you won't

868
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: recognize that nothing is going to help this situation. You

869
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: want to go to counseling. He doesn't. He thinks it's

870
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: for white people. You know, I do suggest you go

871
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: to counseling on your own to figure some of this

872
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: stuff out. You say you're feeling stuck and unhappy. Why

873
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: continue to feel like that? Why he's not trying to

874
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: help you at all. You already said he doesn't compromise.

875
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: He likes to spend time with his family. He sounds

876
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: very immature to me. And you're raising two children, so

877
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to realize and decide what you're going

878
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: to do for your children. Your children are the most

879
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: important thing, you know, in this relationship. You got to

880
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: figure out what's the best thing to do for your children.

881
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: I think it's to separate from this guy. You're not

882
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: even married to him, but you know, do your own thing,

883
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: get your own apartment, you know, give the children some

884
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: stability in life. That's what they need. They don't want

885
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: to be sitting around with people that aren't role models

886
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: for them. To hear you guys arguing all the time, No,

887
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: don't compromise anymore. This meant can this man change? Yeah,

888
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: everybody can change, but you can't change him. That's what

889
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: you need to understand. You can't change him. Should you

890
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: move on and find happiness with someone else. Yes, please do,

891
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: please do, because you're not happy and you're feeling stuck. Jay. Finally, finally, finally, finally,

892
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: I found a friend. Someone who doesn't want to go anywhere,

893
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: don't want to do anything, A nice guy who just

894
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: wants to in the house and be alone. He don't

895
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: like Christmas, he don't like New Years, he don't like Thanksgiving.

896
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: He's my buddy. Man, Calm me up. We can do

897
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: nothing together. Come right here, man, call a dude. Calm

898
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: me up. Man, what you're doing nothing? What you're doing?

899
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: I ain't doing a damn thing. See later. I love

900
00:58:56,760 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: this guy you cameling to Jay. I love this guy.

901
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: And my first nominee inducted to the Grubby Hall of

902
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: Fame is this guy right here. Man, keep doing you.

903
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: That's what life is all about. You're not doing your

904
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: best life. I love it. Jay. Do you feel the

905
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: same way about counseling as your new buddy, No conseling

906
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: for black people? Yeah? Well that one I take back.

907
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: A lot of black people need to be in counseling

908
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: in that right. I get brother, and that my life. Yeah. Yeah,

909
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: it's for all people. If you need it, go get it.

910
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:50,919
Speaker 1: Please he's not on her side at all, absolutely not. Yeah,

911
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no, no, no, I was gonna bring Tommy

912
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: in this as well. Come on, Tommy. Well you know,

913
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: as though I have a ready to love show, I

914
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: have to give some device here. I have to How

915
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: much time do I have? Yeah, you have a little

916
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 1: over a minute. Okay, let me start, Let me at

917
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 1: least start. Everything that you have done is out of order.

918
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: You didn't do things in order. You fell for this man. Then,

919
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, y'all living together. Now, all of

920
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: a sudden, y'all got some kids. You didn't take time

921
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: to see if if y'all were compatible. You didn't take

922
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: time to hey, why don't we fall in love and

923
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: maybe getting married? Then have some children. Everything you have

924
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: done is out of order. Now you found out exactly

925
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: who this man is and realize you don't like him.

926
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: You didn't take time and at the beginning to see

927
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: if you all were compatible. Am I gonna fall in

928
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: love with this man? Do I just like him for this?

929
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: Or do I just like him for that? You didn't

930
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: give him. You gotta give everybody time to let the

931
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: real don't come out. Now you're seeing the real person

932
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 1: and now it's too late. Now you gotta figure out

933
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. And I'm with sure to move

934
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: somewhere on your own. And what you might want to

935
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: do is get on my next season. Are ready to love?

936
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: And let me find you somebody. Yeah, she's they've been

937
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: together for five years. They don't need to spend any

938
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: more time. Uh, you know, going down or yeah, yeah,

939
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: you're you're absolutely right. And with the two children, uh,

940
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: you know, you're arguing so much in front of the kids,

941
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: around the kids. Then you know, you let them go

942
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: with his family so much, and they're not good role models.

943
01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: You gotta get out of this situation. It's bad for you,

944
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: it's bad for your kids. It's just bad. Yeah. Well,

945
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: let for two of the Strawberry Letters, subject love is

946
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: not enough for Me? At twenty three after the hour

947
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

948
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: All right, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters, subject love is

949
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: not enough for Me. A young woman wrote this. Well,

950
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 1: I'm assuming she's a young woman. They did not give

951
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: their ages, but just based on what she wrote, I'm

952
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: assuming they're possibly in their twenties. She says she has

953
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. They've been together. They're not compatible at all,

954
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: and she's not sure why she keeps making wants to

955
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: make their relationship work. He says he loves her. She

956
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: loves him, but she's not as in love with him

957
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: as she used to be. Again. They've been together for

958
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: five years, but they have nothing in common except the

959
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 1: two children. They argue so much. They're completely opposite. He

960
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: likes raps, she likes R and B. She's educated, he's not.

961
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: She writes her goals down. She's an achiever. He just

962
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: creates goals and never follows through. He eats, she cooks.

963
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: She has a car, he does not have a car.

964
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: On and on and on. He likes hanging out with

965
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: his family, She likes hanging out with him, on and

966
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: on and on. She's been forced to do things that

967
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: go against her morals, she says, but she's done it

968
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: for this man. She's changed as a woman because of him.

969
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 1: She wants to go to counseling. This guy says counseling

970
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: is just for white people that line right there alone

971
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 1: or random saying yeah, uh, you know. She wants to

972
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: know is it her or him that's a problem. She

973
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: wants to work it out so they can remain together

974
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: for the children. But she realizes that she doesn't really

975
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: know this man, and she didn't know him before she

976
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: fell in love with him. So that's the gist of

977
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: the letter. All right, So let's get to it. Guys, Uh,

978
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: what are you? What are you gonna do? A reenact me?

979
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm talking. I'm talking to my baby right now. Baby.

980
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? What's up? What's you cook? The day?

981
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 1: You want? You want to do something to day? You

982
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: want to go out? I want you to cook something, baby,

983
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: that's all. You don't want something. You don't want to

984
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: go nowhere like I want to go into kitchen and

985
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: eat something after you cook something. Baby, there's a seminar

986
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: and positive thinking at your church. Would you like to

987
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: attend that? Would you like to go to that? I mean,

988
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: that's very nice. I got a paper. Could well go

989
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: the day? Ain't saying just to out the house. Don't

990
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: you get tired of stand in the house. You ain't

991
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: gotta how going to back yard? My boys in the

992
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 1: back yard. You went going to back y'all? I know

993
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: that they're back there doing stuff that I don't got

994
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: the kids here, we smell all that. What who wants

995
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: to do that all the time? And maybe back we

996
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: live in our best life. I'm going back and forth

997
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: with your girl. I'm living my best life. You live

998
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: in my life? That's what you Okay, okay, okay, okay, Queta, Queta,

999
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 1: what you're trying to say, I'm trying to what you're

1000
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 1: trying to say. Quit, But if you let me finish,

1001
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: say what I'm trying to say. What's like what you're saying, Queta,

1002
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, I'm listening. What you need to

1003
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: do is really gets your life together? Because this ain't

1004
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: my life? What what que quick? What you see wrong

1005
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: with me? Quet? What the thing? Everything a lot? Look like?

1006
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 1: What like? What? Let's look at the mere let's look

1007
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: at the mir together all right now? Look at okay, okay,

1008
01:04:54,280 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 1: right here, Look how dog your lips are from all

1009
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 1: that stuff you smoke. Look at your eyes. You look

1010
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: like you're not rested. And smell your clothes smelling what

1011
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: that smell that you smell? That? What is that? That?

1012
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: What I've been out side with the boys? What is what?

1013
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: Why you got why you that to go out there?

1014
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: Why you want me to do it? In here? I

1015
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: do it in here. I think you want me doing

1016
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: it that the kids in here. We don't want to

1017
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: smell lad. Nobody wants to smell lad. I got look,

1018
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: look what I'm gonna take it. We're gonna do something. Listen,

1019
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna do something. We're gonna do. I'm gonna take

1020
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: you to see the three of me go me go,

1021
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 1: damn three of me going. You got two of me

1022
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: goes here? You even do a damn Now you're gonna

1023
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 1: see three of meg Okay, do you want to go?

1024
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: Do you wanna not want to go? Take somewhere? Me go?

1025
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 1: You almost thirty five years old? Yet kids down You

1026
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be down there? And how do you get

1027
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: down that? Because I'm not taking it? You ain't got

1028
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 1: no I'm taking I'm taking the car. What's wrong with

1029
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: you taking my cart? And you know you're gonna leave

1030
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 1: your two amigos in the house? This little she three

1031
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: more damn amigos. Si Okay, okay, okay, okay. I'm trying

1032
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: to take you somewhere, you know, show you a good time,

1033
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: Let you enjoy nice cans. These boys you don't you

1034
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 1: don't you don't understand the costume. These boys gotta do

1035
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: you understand what you missing. I'm trying to take you somewhere,

1036
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 1: hold your hand, walk you down there, get you some tickets.

1037
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: You're sending up your time out. Who were leaving at

1038
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: the house. My boys outside, they're gonna watch these kids.

1039
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: You ain't got worried about that boy get hot and

1040
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:58,960
Speaker 1: its the megoes, yeah, okay, we'll cool. You know I

1041
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 1: ain't you know, I'm I'm in a different state right now,

1042
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: you know I'm saying. And why you gotta listen to

1043
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: all that rap music all the time? Anyway, that's what

1044
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 1: I like. Queen, Why are you trying to change me? M?

1045
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 1: Why are you trying to change me? Quick? You know what?

1046
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: You know what you see? This is what you're talking about. No, no, no, no,

1047
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 1: let me listen to me. Que I'm the man on

1048
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:33,479
Speaker 1: the house. I'm man. Damn it. Queen. Now, I'm told

1049
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: you now in order for this, you're the last one

1050
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 1: trying to make me go down and then talk to

1051
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 1: the white folk. Remember that, Remember that order for this

1052
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 1: to what we need, counseling, we need to go to

1053
01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 1: counsel I'm not talking to them white people. We got

1054
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 1: they got black counselors. What's wrong with I'm not talking

1055
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 1: to no black people with some white ideas. I'm not

1056
01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: doing well, he said. She said in the letter, he

1057
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 1: feels that counseling is for white people. That's what I

1058
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 1: told him. Now, what don't they okay, okay, okay, quick

1059
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 1: what they fence to say to what they fence to

1060
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 1: say too? Quick talk. We're gonna have an open conversation

1061
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 1: without you, and that's why we're having right now. Quen

1062
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,679
Speaker 1: and me. We haven't one right now. We just ain't

1063
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 1: got no white folk in how but we have white

1064
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: You got black counselors. Yeah, black woman span it want

1065
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 1: you want a Spanish counseling? That what you want? You

1066
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 1: go see the three megos. I'm gonna go to my

1067
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: mama house. When you get your life together, call me.

1068
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 1: Okay finally, Quita, finally, Yeah, your best life for you?

1069
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: What I'm what you're gonna do? What about the kid?

1070
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: All right, guys, we we we need to tell everybody

1071
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 1: if they want to comment on today's letter, they can

1072
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: email us or instagram us your thoughts at Steve Harvey

1073
01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:02,679
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey and coming up in ten minutes. Couples

1074
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: resolutions to start the new year off. Right right after

1075
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, well, everyone's starting to

1076
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 1: think about New Year's resolutions. Most of them are personal,

1077
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 1: and a lot are related to being healthier guys, But

1078
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship, you want it to be

1079
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: healthy too, right right, yeah, So this is according to

1080
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: Cosmopolitan magazine. And here are some suggestions. All right, be

1081
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: more grateful for each other. I like that one that yeah,

1082
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: I do too. Yeah. So it means take time to

1083
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: acknowledge your partner and things you might not notice in

1084
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 1: the hustle of everyday life that can help you appreciate

1085
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 1: them more. I like that a lot. You know, honey,

1086
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: thank you well, because we think it's normal. And then

1087
01:09:53,560 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 1: you come in all right, here's here's another one. Guys,

1088
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: actually listen to your partner. Listen. Yeah really, yeah, guys. Yeah,

1089
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: we've heard that. Communication is key, of course, but the

1090
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,679
Speaker 1: most important part of that isn't what you say. It's

1091
01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 1: hearing what your partner says. Okay, it's not what you say,

1092
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 1: it's hearing what your partner says, go ahead, go ahead. Time.

1093
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:30,639
Speaker 1: Hearing and listening, it's two different things. I would listen

1094
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 1: more if you would pick up tune times to talk. Okay,

1095
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 1: so you gotta have a special time to time to

1096
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:41,680
Speaker 1: talk to you. Yeah, this is the person that's in

1097
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:46,600
Speaker 1: his house about him. That's who it is. Y'all know

1098
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 1: who y'all time to? Right? When is it a good time? Jay?

1099
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: When is it a good time? I'll let you know.

1100
01:10:55,720 --> 01:11:00,920
Speaker 1: Just listen, right, Jay, just listen. You take the trash

1101
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: at there's some truth to that though. There is some

1102
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: truth to that about people. All Right, talk about your

1103
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: goals for the year ahead. I like that sit down.

1104
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 1: That's important, having an adult conversation. You know, what are

1105
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 1: some of your goals for your personal, professional, all of

1106
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 1: that as a family. So surely if I tell my

1107
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 1: wife that my goal this coming year is for us

1108
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 1: to get busy at least old times a week. If

1109
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 1: that's my goal, shouldn't she try to help me obtain

1110
01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: the goal? Well, I mean she could at least hear

1111
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: you out and if four and if four times, if

1112
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: she's cool with that, then yeah. But if she's not,

1113
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: then you guys got to work in a compromise. Maybe three,

1114
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,600
Speaker 1: maybe two and a half, you know, maybe five. I

1115
01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: want to go not if it's two and a half.

1116
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: Don't that leave me hanging somewhere if it's two and

1117
01:11:56,240 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: a half. But that's the compromise. Yeah, yeah, all of

1118
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: us right if she can't do the four, yeah, she

1119
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 1: mayn't surprise you. Go fine, go yeah her hanging how

1120
01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: about that? Wow? Hey hey, hey hey, hold on that.

1121
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: But then that goes back to when we were saying

1122
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 1: you gotta listen and talk and conversation and then you

1123
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 1: set your goals. Yeah, that's why you have the conversation

1124
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,479
Speaker 1: because I really wanted a calendar just so we kind

1125
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 1: of get meet vision boy, meet me here too, kids

1126
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: getting here at the out of school meet me right

1127
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: here at Yeah that's cool, you know, making date nights

1128
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 1: and things like that, but sometimes you want that's date,

1129
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 1: that's date, thirty minute, that's date date, that's thirty minute. Ye,

1130
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 1: just right there, thirty That's all I'm asking. I'm not

1131
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 1: trying to take about your time. I'm fine for go ahead,

1132
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 1: all right, I'll do something together. But we're doing together

1133
01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 1: at two, not just to drink at your neighborhood bar.

1134
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 1: Do something new, do something different. H and oh here's

1135
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: a big one. Here's a big one. And Jay, I

1136
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 1: want you in on this one. O forgive? Who are

1137
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 1: you talking of? Man who forgive? Talk about things that

1138
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: are bothering you and dig deep and try to forgive.

1139
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 1: Do not carry those things into the new year. Don't

1140
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: do it. Let it go. Many years we didn't care

1141
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 1: this into now. You want to pick twenty nineteen to

1142
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 1: be something different. Tommy, you knew you have a hard

1143
01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: time letting go. Oh yeah, yeah. Ever, I'm good to

1144
01:13:55,560 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: you cross mean, well, sometimes you gotta forgive those who

1145
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 1: crossed you. That's the whole point of forgiveness. Let him go.

1146
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: I had this conversation. I had this conversation last night

1147
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: one of my friends. I was like, wow, wow, yeah,

1148
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 1: you know what he was telling me about someone that

1149
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: owed him some money. This is a buddy, I mean,

1150
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:26,760
Speaker 1: he really, he really did the Christian thing. He's went

1151
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 1: to this person said you know what, you don't owe

1152
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 1: me no more. And the dude was like, huh. He said,

1153
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just wiping the slate clean. He said,

1154
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:37,240
Speaker 1: this is this is the year of the jubileegue and

1155
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 1: you don't ot And I was like, are you kidding me? You?

1156
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 1: And he was like, Toime, I had to let it go.

1157
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 1: He said, He's said, guess what, I got so much

1158
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: more money after that was tenfold. He said, I could

1159
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: not believe it. He said, now that person that I forgave,

1160
01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 1: he said, that person is sick and ill and need

1161
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:03,560
Speaker 1: all the help. And I was like wow there, and

1162
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 1: I had to just I had to take back and

1163
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 1: just listen. I had to take it in. Yeah. Yeah,

1164
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: So did you learn something I did? What? Don't be

1165
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 1: loaning the people out of this money. Don't get yourself called.

1166
01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: I tell like that man, you can't do that. So

1167
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: to answer your question, Carl, and he learned nothing. And

1168
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 1: then a lot of man need to get some insurance.

1169
01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:33,120
Speaker 1: And he got to get well, you got forgiven. This

1170
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: is powerful and it's not for them, it's right. Yeah, okay,

1171
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 1: here is a major one major All right before we go, quickly,

1172
01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 1: put those phones away. People put them away when you're together.

1173
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 1: When you're together, make a point to focus on being

1174
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,680
Speaker 1: with your partner and putting your phone away. But if

1175
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:56,719
Speaker 1: we together, like I want to be at two o'clock,

1176
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:58,600
Speaker 1: you can text me why are we doing it? And

1177
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 1: let me know how I'm doing. How about your FaceTime timming?

1178
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: That'd be real cool, man, coming up next, Jay and

1179
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: Tommy are gonna let us know what's on their minds

1180
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 1: during the holiday season. You're listening to Steve Morning Show.

1181
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 1: All right, Jay and Tommy, it's the holiday season. Guys,

1182
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:24,400
Speaker 1: just want to pick into your minds. What's on your

1183
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: mind about this holiday. I think it's time for Tommy

1184
01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: and I. Tommy and I together, I wrote a song

1185
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 1: about it. It's to talk to the side pieces over

1186
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 1: the holiday because we again stop that called Christmas. Zip

1187
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 1: it zip it zip what changes? It's thirty days? Do

1188
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: you know what? There are a lot of people who

1189
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: didn't hear what we did for Thanksgiving, So now we're

1190
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:00,639
Speaker 1: speaking to a new batch of people. Some people became

1191
01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:06,759
Speaker 1: side pieces, you see Christmas. Some people just picked up aside.

1192
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:13,599
Speaker 1: A couple of people picked up side all right, time,

1193
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 1: and you speak to the women, and I will speak

1194
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,559
Speaker 1: to the men, because there's some men who are side

1195
01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 1: pieces also and over there with them. Okay, my ladies,

1196
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 1: here we ladies. Let me talk to y'all. Alright, the

1197
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 1: twenty four Christmas, that's your Christmas? Okay, And let me

1198
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 1: tell you something. You your twenty four is really from

1199
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,880
Speaker 1: about eight a m. To about eight a m. To

1200
01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:50,760
Speaker 1: about one to two pm right in there. That's your Christmas. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1201
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:55,160
Speaker 1: whatever y'all, whatever you vision y'all doing on Christmas, that's

1202
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 1: your time right there. So if y'all want to walk

1203
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:00,920
Speaker 1: into the living room like y'all just woke up, walking

1204
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 1: down like y'all, dude, woke up, gifts under the tree,

1205
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:14,799
Speaker 1: pajamas on everything. Let's go on. Okay, have some lunch. Okay,

1206
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:20,799
Speaker 1: but now when one o'clock strikes hello, we have to go. Okay,

1207
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: he's gotta leave. Now, you's gotta go in the afternoon,

1208
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: and afternoon he's gotta go. Your Christmas is over. What

1209
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 1: is she supposed to do for the rest of the day.

1210
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 1: What is she playing on doing? Yeah? Good part about it?

1211
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: You know when it starts and you know when it ends.

1212
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 1: This is what we're here. We're just we're just laying

1213
01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 1: down brown work. Clarity. Clarity is another you men out

1214
01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:52,559
Speaker 1: there who are side pieces. Men. Men. Don't be getting

1215
01:18:52,600 --> 01:19:02,639
Speaker 1: all up in your feelings. Dude, dude, dude, you're sitting

1216
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: down with your with your legs crossing, you're holding a

1217
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: bottle of wine, all up in your feelings. That woman

1218
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 1: can't call you and tell him. Tell him this, Jake,

1219
01:19:16,840 --> 01:19:22,799
Speaker 1: tell him this to Jake. Ain't nobody fit a hole you? Okay, guys,

1220
01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:30,719
Speaker 1: men gett emotional too, your feelings? Dude, dude, you feeling

1221
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,280
Speaker 1: Why don't you have the comfortable? Why you got the

1222
01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:43,639
Speaker 1: spread up to your neck with you? Man? You emotionally? Okay, ladies, ladies,

1223
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm talking to the name. Listen, ladies, I want y'all

1224
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 1: notice now quit worn about what he got. Huh, Chris,

1225
01:19:54,479 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 1: enjoy yo gift. Enjoy what he bought. Fuck you okay,

1226
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:04,639
Speaker 1: r don't be asking what she gets what she gets

1227
01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 1: that I ain't get what she gets. Now you didn't

1228
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 1: get what she got? Okay, and enjoy what you got, Yeah,

1229
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 1: I don't. Don't sit there and be selfish now okay,

1230
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:22,759
Speaker 1: Oh it's not a time to be selfish. Okay, it's Christmas.

1231
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 1: Don't don't be selfish. Let me talk to the man.

1232
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: Come on, if you're a side piece in your ball

1233
01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 1: and you got it like that, you got it like

1234
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: you can give whatever you that lady can't dry that car?

1235
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:43,120
Speaker 1: Now what you buy the car? Fuck your stupid ass.

1236
01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 1: When I bought a car where she supposed to part

1237
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 1: this car? She? Oh, I figure out a way. Okay, okay, okay,

1238
01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking. I'm talking to the lady. I'm talking to

1239
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:05,120
Speaker 1: the ladies that if you are the side piece, that

1240
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: means he has somewhere in in his uh in his heart,

1241
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 1: he has a place for you. Okay, he's going to

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Speaker 1: give you a Christmas. Those are on side piece. Children them,

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01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:22,080
Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with him. Okay, ain't side

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01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 1: piece kids. Okay, ain't nobody buying your kids. Nothing. That's cold.

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01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:34,680
Speaker 1: I understand that caller, understand it's cold. But these are

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01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 1: the rules calling Christmas. It's for children anyway. But the

1247
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:46,560
Speaker 1: man got kids at hard all right. Now if you

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01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 1: now listen to if you would like ms now, if

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 1: you wouldn't like it, is his kids got some old

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01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:03,639
Speaker 1: tall from last year. Yes, and we can put them

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01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:09,559
Speaker 1: in a bag and bring them over for the kids again.

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01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. If it's a word regive,

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01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:17,839
Speaker 1: why can't we do it? Is if the word exists,

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01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:23,639
Speaker 1: somebody had been doing it? Wow? Just what I mean? Look, dude,

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01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: Look dude, dude, look at me when I'm talking to

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01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 1: look right at me. Ain't don't need you to get

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01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:32,439
Speaker 1: dressed up like you The ups man and go over

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01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 1: to them people house like you delivering packages on Christmas?

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01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: Don't nobody to deliver packages on stating people's He went

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01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:50,639
Speaker 1: over the delivery is delivering people. We don't go over

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01:22:50,720 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 1: there with that foolish look comfortable like that, and you

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01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:09,240
Speaker 1: delivering bagage with streets. You you all so wrong for

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01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:13,120
Speaker 1: these all right, Jack, here we go, ladies. After he

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01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 1: lead out on the twenty fourth at one o'clock, don't

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01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 1: you get up Sunday, yeah, sending all of these merry

1266
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: Christmas texts and stuff and expect him to respond to you.

1267
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:29,400
Speaker 1: Don't and especially don't be sending und about how you

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01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 1: enjoyed yesterday. Christmas is on a Tuesday. This year is out.

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01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:41,719
Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, okay, okay, cool, Monday is hers. Huh, don't

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01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:47,800
Speaker 1: call tuesday. You go from the twenty four to the

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01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:51,160
Speaker 1: twenty six. That's what you do now. I mean, we

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01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 1: see what's on you guys' mind. We'll be I mean,

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01:23:55,080 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 1: this is crazy. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: coming up right after this. I hate both of you.

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01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:10,600
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Jay, So happy holidays again. I

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01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 1: hope we helped someone. I think last break Yeah yet

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01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:21,240
Speaker 1: holiday male and female side piece. We talked to him.

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01:24:21,240 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 1: I think I think we helped him. I didn't did

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01:24:23,680 --> 01:24:28,640
Speaker 1: it for thanksgiving A quill through with it. We help me,

1280
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 1: help it and we can guess what we're gonna do

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01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 1: it for balantap that's coming around helpless. That's what we do,

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01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 1: all right. So you did that. Now, Jay, you've come

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01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:41,519
Speaker 1: up with something. I think I'm sure that was your

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01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: brain child, the side piece stuff, Tommy, because you we

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01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 1: talked on the phone, and yeah, we want to help people.

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01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:49,360
Speaker 1: We want to help that's what we want to do,

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01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:51,720
Speaker 1: all right. So now you guys have come up with

1288
01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 1: the segment called who said what? Who said what? I want?

1289
01:24:56,080 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 1: The ladies in on in the ship? You know, didn't

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01:24:57,840 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 1: yell it out? Okay, okay, go quick? Who said? Who

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01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 1: said she ready tippany? All right? All right? Who said

1292
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:18,080
Speaker 1: you need Jesus? M my mama? Everybody say that one?

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01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:21,880
Speaker 1: I mean this, Yeah, he says it all the time.

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01:25:21,920 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a hit. It's a mail dyell

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01:25:24,560 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 1: hugy y'all come on, okay, okay, okay, shout out at

1296
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: toughing right here. Really, I don't know if y'all gonna

1297
01:25:34,320 --> 01:25:48,200
Speaker 1: get this says, watch you you what? What again? Is

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01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:55,920
Speaker 1: it Tom? What's her name? Not on here? Steve Harvey? No, no, no,

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01:25:56,160 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 1: no way, we know what you all right, there's another man.

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01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:11,400
Speaker 1: It's another who said, all right, there's another who said

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01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 1: whack whack? What is that? Jacking? Nack whack w Yeah,

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01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:24,080
Speaker 1: he's still so that they want to hear it. They

1303
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 1: do you get married? Don't you say? Sucker? Doctor? Whack whack?

1304
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 1: Who said, Oh that's good, that's easy. John Weber's phone. Yeah,

1305
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm scared of you, you know, Jack, you say that?

1306
01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 1: But that who says? Who says? I'll be thinking George Waller.

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01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:02,720
Speaker 1: I didn't know who said. I don't even know I

1308
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 1: wrote this, but I forgot Who says, where whit whit? Well?

1309
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:13,080
Speaker 1: Is that Kevin Hart? Yeah, that's Kevin Hart? Is it

1310
01:27:13,240 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: was a guest? That was guest? Got it though? Last

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01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,599
Speaker 1: but not least, because Timmy's got a few of them.

1312
01:27:21,000 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 1: Who says, show your love? We all know that one. Steve,

1313
01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:31,320
Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey. Yeah, you can ask

1314
01:27:31,400 --> 01:27:37,920
Speaker 1: the Lord about me. That Steve Harvey, who said what

1315
01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:42,240
Speaker 1: that's what we're playing right now? Let me give you

1316
01:27:42,320 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 1: one more. Let me give you one okay, here one

1317
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:51,960
Speaker 1: Jake Okay who said damn don down Yeah, Florida? All right?

1318
01:27:53,800 --> 01:27:57,679
Speaker 1: All right? Uh more with the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1319
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 1: She says that right after this, you're listening to the

1320
01:28:05,080 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 1: Morning Show. If you need health insurance, please listen up. Okay.

1321
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:13,639
Speaker 1: Individuals and families who buy their own insurance have until

1322
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 1: this coming Saturday, December fifteenth, in most states to sign

1323
01:28:18,760 --> 01:28:22,240
Speaker 1: up for Obamacare. All right. It's a word we haven't

1324
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:24,360
Speaker 1: heard in a long time because they've been trying to

1325
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:27,920
Speaker 1: destroy it. Are you shocked that you didn't know about

1326
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:31,479
Speaker 1: tomorrow's deadline? Well, you are not alone. President Trump has

1327
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,720
Speaker 1: cut funding for the Affordable Care Act. You know, we

1328
01:28:34,880 --> 01:28:39,160
Speaker 1: like to call it Obamacare advertising, of course, and outreach

1329
01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:43,320
Speaker 1: media campaigns. The Trump administration has cut advertising funding by

1330
01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:47,920
Speaker 1: ninety percent. He did that in twenty seventeen. President Obama,

1331
01:28:48,240 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 1: if you recall earlier this week, did a video reminding

1332
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:55,519
Speaker 1: everyone about tomorrow's urgent deadline on social media. All right,

1333
01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:58,920
Speaker 1: so you can go to healthcare dot gov to sign

1334
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 1: up out of guys, healthcare dot design. Yes, it's still

1335
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:07,880
Speaker 1: available for you tomorrow. A lot of people, a lot

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01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:11,799
Speaker 1: of people, Yeah, absolutely, I got I got three children.

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01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:16,120
Speaker 1: We have used so much insurance this past year. If

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01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 1: I didn't had that, Oh my god, can you imagine?

1339
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:24,240
Speaker 1: I can but think about this, What if you had

1340
01:29:24,280 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: a pre existing condition? What if you had a child,

1341
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:29,880
Speaker 1: a loved one with a pre existing condition and didn't

1342
01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 1: have healthcare. So this president, mister Trump, who's trying so

1343
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:37,160
Speaker 1: hard to cut funding and get the word out about

1344
01:29:37,240 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 1: the deadline, he doesn't care about American citizens that need

1345
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:44,960
Speaker 1: healthcare to help their family members and children. Man, he

1346
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:48,200
Speaker 1: is so petty. And they right, you're still right. And

1347
01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 1: they never came up with a viable alternative. Okay, you

1348
01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:55,800
Speaker 1: want to cut Obamacare and replace it with what? Yeah? Right.

1349
01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:58,840
Speaker 1: So in the video and in the video that the

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01:29:58,920 --> 01:30:02,160
Speaker 1: president President of Mamma did, he said, spread the word.

1351
01:30:02,280 --> 01:30:04,720
Speaker 1: We can help save people lives. So, just like you

1352
01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:08,040
Speaker 1: just said, Tommy, it's our obligation to let everybody know

1353
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:12,240
Speaker 1: about this deadline. It's tomorrow. Tomorrow. The saddest thing you

1354
01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:14,800
Speaker 1: ever want to see is go and see people getting

1355
01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:16,920
Speaker 1: medication and they don't have enough money, and so they

1356
01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:19,280
Speaker 1: ration out, Yeah, and he said, well, I'll get six

1357
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:22,080
Speaker 1: of these three because they don't have the money. Can

1358
01:30:22,120 --> 01:30:24,960
Speaker 1: you get the full bottle appeals. No, they don't have it. Ye,

1359
01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:29,840
Speaker 1: elderly people go through that, through that when I was young. Yeah, yeah,

1360
01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:34,760
Speaker 1: it's literally so again, go sign up, do it now

1361
01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 1: healthcare dot gov. Tomorrow is the deadline if you don't

1362
01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:42,240
Speaker 1: do it by tomorrow healthcare dot gov. Okay, another petty

1363
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 1: Trump news, Carla, the President. The President is canceled the

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01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:53,439
Speaker 1: White House Press Christmas party. It's long run. It's a

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01:30:53,520 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 1: long running tradition, and one of the perks is that

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01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:58,559
Speaker 1: members of the press get to take pictures with the President,

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01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:04,559
Speaker 1: but not the White House. We'll have another Christmas party

1368
01:31:04,600 --> 01:31:07,680
Speaker 1: with more favorable members of the press invited. All right,

1369
01:31:07,720 --> 01:31:11,200
Speaker 1: So don't forget to sign up healthcare dot gov. Do

1370
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:14,280
Speaker 1: it today, all right? Coming up, our last break of

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01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:15,960
Speaker 1: the day, our last break of the day, and some

1372
01:31:16,080 --> 01:31:19,439
Speaker 1: closing remarks from Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening,

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01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:25,439
Speaker 1: all right, guys. Before we get to Steve's closing remarks,

1374
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:27,960
Speaker 1: let's send some love and some prayers out to our

1375
01:31:28,120 --> 01:31:32,519
Speaker 1: friend Donnie McClerkin, Pastor Donnie McClerkin, pastor. Donnie was in

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01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:36,439
Speaker 1: a serious accident. Uh he passed out while driving on

1377
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:39,799
Speaker 1: the highway. But the good news is he is okay.

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01:31:40,320 --> 01:31:42,840
Speaker 1: He is okay. Yeah, thank the Lord, he says, I

1379
01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:45,320
Speaker 1: am alive. He gives all the credit, of course, to

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01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:48,160
Speaker 1: God and two human angels that pulled him out of

1381
01:31:48,240 --> 01:31:53,479
Speaker 1: the car on the passenger side. He says, he remembers nothing. Um. Yeah,

1382
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:57,519
Speaker 1: he got some stitches on his left left um, sprained wrists,

1383
01:31:57,520 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 1: a hurt knee. But he's still here and he's thanking

1384
01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:04,800
Speaker 1: the angels and he's thanking the Lord. Thank you, so

1385
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:07,519
Speaker 1: Johnnie mcclerk in our prayers that you have a speedy

1386
01:32:07,600 --> 01:32:10,759
Speaker 1: recovery and that we're so thankful that you're okay, You're alive.

1387
01:32:12,920 --> 01:32:16,000
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, all right, guys, ready for Steve and

1388
01:32:16,080 --> 01:32:18,960
Speaker 1: his closing remarks. Let's do it. Let's do it, Let's

1389
01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:22,920
Speaker 1: do it. You know, I've always heard people say you

1390
01:32:23,080 --> 01:32:26,360
Speaker 1: gotta take the high road. But you know that's been

1391
01:32:26,680 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 1: difficult for me at times because sometimes that hasn't always

1392
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:34,840
Speaker 1: registered with me. I haven't I haven't received it the

1393
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 1: way I should have taking the high road. But Oprah

1394
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 1: put it a little bit differently, and I've received it differently.

1395
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 1: She said, She's always been taught never to meet negativity

1396
01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:51,320
Speaker 1: with negativity, because the only thing can him come out

1397
01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:54,479
Speaker 1: of that is more negativity, she said. The only way

1398
01:32:54,560 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 1: to come back darkness is with light, she said, and

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01:32:58,400 --> 01:33:02,360
Speaker 1: it only takes a little bit of light to affect darkness.

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01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:06,120
Speaker 1: And so I started thinking, if you're in a completely

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01:33:06,439 --> 01:33:11,240
Speaker 1: pitch black cave and you happen to have the smallest candle,

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01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:14,760
Speaker 1: let's just say a birthday candle, and you light a

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01:33:14,920 --> 01:33:20,240
Speaker 1: birthday candle in a pitch black cave, it has a

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01:33:20,400 --> 01:33:26,280
Speaker 1: profound effect on a very large area in which was

1405
01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:32,800
Speaker 1: normally a completely dark space. Just that one little piece

1406
01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:37,680
Speaker 1: of light from a candle has a profound effect on

1407
01:33:37,800 --> 01:33:44,160
Speaker 1: a pitch black dark cave. And she's absolutely correct. The

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01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:48,519
Speaker 1: only way to combat darkness is to be light. And

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01:33:48,720 --> 01:33:50,800
Speaker 1: I was talking to the girls and they were saying, Steve,

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01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:53,960
Speaker 1: that's taking the high road. And they're absolutely right. That's

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01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:56,479
Speaker 1: exactly what people mean when they say take the high road.

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01:33:56,760 --> 01:33:59,479
Speaker 1: But I just never really received it that way because

1413
01:33:59,520 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 1: it's been difficult for me sometimes to take the high road.

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01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:07,639
Speaker 1: I've done it many times, but it's been challenging because

1415
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:10,200
Speaker 1: I being the way I am, sometimes I go, okay,

1416
01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:13,519
Speaker 1: all right, so this the road we're riding towards each

1417
01:34:13,560 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 1: other own. Then let's dry these cars and pick up

1418
01:34:16,120 --> 01:34:20,439
Speaker 1: some speed and let's go. But that's not fruitful. That's

1419
01:34:20,520 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 1: that's not to a benefit of me. It never has been.

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01:34:24,760 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 1: I've had people to help me understand, Like when they

1421
01:34:27,479 --> 01:34:30,639
Speaker 1: blog about you. Now everybody's on social media some form

1422
01:34:30,760 --> 01:34:33,800
Speaker 1: or fashion or another, no matter how many followers are, Like,

1423
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:37,280
Speaker 1: you get on Facebook or something, you're gonna run into

1424
01:34:37,400 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: some hate. And what I was told being in this

1425
01:34:41,080 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 1: position was when bloggers blog about you, it's a blog.

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01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:50,080
Speaker 1: If you respond to them, Steve, it's a press conference.

1427
01:34:51,640 --> 01:34:56,360
Speaker 1: Because now you're gonna meet this negativity with more negativity.

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01:34:56,520 --> 01:35:00,200
Speaker 1: You're gonna you're gonna heighten a much more ne get

1429
01:35:00,280 --> 01:35:04,400
Speaker 1: a situation. So what open was saying, I wish everybody

1430
01:35:04,600 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 1: receive it the way I did. It's just light, man.

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01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 1: You can't you can't win like that. You've got to

1432
01:35:11,439 --> 01:35:14,120
Speaker 1: be light. I've always wanted to be a person that

1433
01:35:14,200 --> 01:35:17,000
Speaker 1: when you walk into a room, people be glad to

1434
01:35:17,120 --> 01:35:19,040
Speaker 1: see you. You know, I talk to my kids about

1435
01:35:19,120 --> 01:35:21,040
Speaker 1: that all the time too. You know, you want to

1436
01:35:21,040 --> 01:35:22,960
Speaker 1: be the person when they walk in the room everybody

1437
01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:26,400
Speaker 1: going okay, cool, my man, Oh that's what my dude,

1438
01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:30,519
Speaker 1: what's up? Boy? All of us know someone that walks

1439
01:35:30,600 --> 01:35:34,639
Speaker 1: into a room and they just take that air out

1440
01:35:34,680 --> 01:35:39,519
Speaker 1: the room. Everybody knows somebody like that. Man when they man,

1441
01:35:39,600 --> 01:35:41,680
Speaker 1: y'all be sitting around having a good time. Man, you

1442
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:44,160
Speaker 1: and your boys or your girls, y'all sitting around. Then

1443
01:35:44,240 --> 01:35:47,479
Speaker 1: this one person walk in and the whole attitude go.

1444
01:35:48,640 --> 01:35:51,000
Speaker 1: It's like they take the out the room because they

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Speaker 1: just darkness. Man, they just darkness. Y'all in there having

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Speaker 1: this light time. They here comes this black cloud that's

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Speaker 1: gonna cover over a fan and just start raining on it.

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Speaker 1: I never wanted to be that person. I've always wanted

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Speaker 1: to be a person. And when I walk in the room,

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Speaker 1: man that I could make a difference, But I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to be a bright spot up. You know, a

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Speaker 1: little more positivity. You can ask God to help make

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Speaker 1: you relevant, and I just I would rather be relative

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Speaker 1: on a positive level than to try to create relativity

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Speaker 1: by dragging other people down. These people who have shows

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Speaker 1: where all they do is talk about people, and they're

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Speaker 1: trying to be relevant by talking about people. Or you

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Speaker 1: got haters out there, who's a whole blog and whole

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Speaker 1: Instagram and whole social media's set up to draw hate

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Speaker 1: so they can draw viewers, so they can monetize and

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Speaker 1: and sell ads. Man, you know that ain't no good money.

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Speaker 1: You know how that's gonna last, because somebody gonna turn

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Speaker 1: around and say something about you, and then somebody gonna

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Speaker 1: stop viewing you. It's much better if you try to

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Speaker 1: make your living in a positive way. It lasts a

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Speaker 1: lot longer. I say this all the time. Hate is louder,

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Speaker 1: but love is stronger. You have even noticed that hate

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Speaker 1: is so loud when they got stuff on all these

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Speaker 1: blog sites. They're just talking about people. You go, oh,

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Speaker 1: but love is stronger. It's quieter, but it's stronger. And

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Speaker 1: if you just keep loving yourself, you keep loving your God,

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Speaker 1: and you keep loving the people back that love you

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