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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Bob Guinea, it's been a while.

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Speaker 3: I know I've missed you.

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Speaker 2: You've been everywhere, family stuff, derby, you know, all the

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Speaker 2: fun things. I want to hear all about it. But

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Speaker 2: we do have our guest in the waiting room.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited, very excited. I was going to try

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Speaker 1: and put on my accent so that he feels comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna be like, he am night. But then

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Speaker 1: I thought that probably wouldn't work and I'd probably just

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Speaker 1: piss him off.

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Speaker 3: So I shouldn't try it.

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Speaker 1: But if I go to it at any point in

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Speaker 1: time in the conversation, it's just a nervous reflex, and

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Speaker 1: you know, make sure you correct me at any time.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I wonder how many times people do that to

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Speaker 2: people with accents, you know, throughout the day, if.

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Speaker 3: You know, because it's the first place I go.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll see my friends from Australia and I'll

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Speaker 1: be like, hello, shrimp on the barbie, and I don't

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Speaker 1: want my hands do this.

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Speaker 3: My arms go like this when I do. It just

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Speaker 3: makes zero sense. I don't know, kangaroo.

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Speaker 1: And now you know, and now you have our friend

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Speaker 1: who's coming in from London, and I'll be like, you

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Speaker 1: care for a spot and he's really what, I don't

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Speaker 1: even know why you're saying that.

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Speaker 2: What did they say? Look, look Dad, big.

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Speaker 1: Ben Big then Parliament, I can't get left.

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Speaker 3: We should throw out all of our jokes.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask him about I'm excited to talk about

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Speaker 1: Harry and Meghan with him so many.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure he wants to talk all about it.

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Speaker 3: Because you know, he knows these things. Matt knows, he.

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Speaker 1: Knows them, he knows, he knows them personally, he knows

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Speaker 1: everyone in England.

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Speaker 2: He's likening them in the castle for a while.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi, Matt, Matt Grant, everybody, Matt Grant is joining us.

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Speaker 3: He's connecting to audio as we speak, so give him

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Speaker 3: a hot second.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, Hey, how are you many? Good?

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 4: Nice to see you boy.

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Speaker 3: Pleasure you are.

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Speaker 2: You're being so efficient with your time and doing this

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Speaker 2: interview in a car. You're just like me.

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Speaker 4: I am.

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Speaker 5: I had to I had to take a friend to

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Speaker 5: the airport and the traffic the whole place was a

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Speaker 5: bit gridlocked, and there was a police car chase or.

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Speaker 4: Something going on. It was like Manhattan yesterday.

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Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, just like Harry and may.

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Speaker 3: See I told you that's just that's just like Harry.

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Speaker 4: Oh please please.

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Speaker 5: I thought Bob I liked you, But now I'm not

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Speaker 5: so sure as no time for either of those two.

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Speaker 2: Really, do you think it's because you are from England

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Speaker 2: and so you're even more like just annoyed or I.

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Speaker 5: Think I think I think probably it comes from the

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Speaker 5: fact that I think they were just both very disrespectful

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Speaker 5: to two very elderly people right at the end of

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Speaker 5: their lives. And you know that that Oprah Winfrey interview

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Speaker 5: was you know, they basically said that the royal family

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Speaker 5: were racist with no evidence, and and that was so

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Speaker 5: damaging and it was embarrassing for the country as well,

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Speaker 5: because you know, Britain is a progressive place. It's not

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Speaker 5: you know, but compared to a lot of countries in

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Speaker 5: the world, I think the UK and the US pretty

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Speaker 5: you know, at least trying to get there.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, anyway, I'm I'm with Matt on that one.

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Speaker 1: I have a bad taste in my mouth for those

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Speaker 1: two because I feel like it has been a lot

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Speaker 1: of like, you know, just you can say anything you

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Speaker 3: And it's like the think about the royal.

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Speaker 1: Family is they're kind of like, well, you know, we're

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Speaker 1: in the in the mund with the pigs.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like the mindset you have to say

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Speaker 1: that that's that's just a saying I'm not doing why

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Speaker 1: that I think that anyone's a pig. But I mean

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I wonder if I kind of step back now,

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Speaker 5: because I think that didn't particularly reflect well on her either.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what you guys think. But anyway, with

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Speaker 5: regards to with regards to to you guys, how are

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Speaker 5: you both?

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Speaker 1: Thank you Matt. Thank you nice much change for us.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't have any taste in my mouth about them.

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Speaker 2: I really don't even follow it. So thanks for the little,

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Speaker 2: the little information gathering this morning. But we we really

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Speaker 2: are here to talk to you, like all about you

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Speaker 2: and life, how it's been after the Bachelor, even like

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Speaker 2: how you got into it. Can you tell us a

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Speaker 2: little bit about how you actually got on the show,

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Speaker 2: that whole process?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, a Kain, and before I kick off on that, Trista,

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Speaker 5: congratulations on twenty years.

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Speaker 4: Of successful marriage. An incredible achievement.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I know it's a while back, but it was this year, right, I.

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Speaker 2: Think twenty years will be in December?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, thank you, thank you. Check me out my

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Speaker 5: Bachelor calendar.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know all the things.

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Speaker 5: So where do you want to start? So from the

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Speaker 5: get go? Right, so get go.

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Speaker 2: Just tell us how you got into the show. Were

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Speaker 2: you watching before? Did someone nominate you? How did you

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Speaker 4: No, so it didn't show in the UK.

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Speaker 5: So I'm working in finance in London and didn't know

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Speaker 5: anything about The Bachelor. I think I was twenty seven

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Speaker 5: and this rather attractive slightly few years older. But you know,

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Speaker 5: when you're when you're twenty eight, you know, five years

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Speaker 4: When you're a bit further down the road. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm digging a hole already. Anyway, can we just rewind that?

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Speaker 5: So very a very attractive American lady age is relevant,

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Speaker 5: came up to me and said, have you heard of

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Speaker 5: And then she said, it's this, this is this big

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Speaker 4: A few pints, yeah, maybe five, Maybe I had a

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Speaker 5: So and I'm sitting there, you know, going on Google

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Speaker 5: and of course a lot of my friends didn't believe it.

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Speaker 4: They thought I was whinding them up.

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Speaker 5: A few of them, I think, you know, I've got

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Speaker 4: So yeah, quite a few people didn't believe me.

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Speaker 5: So anyway, the next thing I know, I'm on a

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Speaker 3: And what year was it.

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Speaker 4: It was two thousand and eight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Brooke cars in and all of them at that time,

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Speaker 4: You, Yeah it was Brook. Yeah, yeah, it was Brooke.

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Speaker 5: And and I had archetypal British teeth at this point.

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Speaker 5: And I think the first thing they did was like, Matt,

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Speaker 5: we really like you much, Matt, Matt, we really like you,

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Speaker 5: but you're gonna.

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Speaker 4: Have to get your teeth done.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, if you pay for it, if

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Speaker 1: Both field to this day, perfect construction. I bet you

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Speaker 1: went to doctor Dormann.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh Billy boy.

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Speaker 3: Billy Doan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did he do yours as well?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: He he brought me in. I actually didn't meet him

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Speaker 1: he would tell you. He's like, and this is before

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Speaker 3: Who was just in here? And I'm like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: And it was long after the Bachelor for me because

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Speaker 1: I was a bachelor in two thousand and three, So

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I thought it was It was really funny.

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Speaker 3: I remember the story.

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Speaker 4: That is good guy.

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Speaker 2: I wonder how many bachelors he's done or bachelorettes. He's

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Speaker 2: the he's the dentist to the to the Bachelor, to Bachelor.

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Speaker 5: Nation, Bacheloration beyond there. I remember Paul Abdoll was in

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: I lived out there for yeah, for five years in total,

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Speaker 5: and some of the stories still blow my mind, you

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Speaker 5: know when I you know, just just fun stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: You just you know, you'll come up and someone will

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Speaker 5: like I just did there with Bob, like I was

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Speaker 5: in the weighting room with Paul Abdell. You know, it's

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Speaker 5: you couldn't make it up, you know, It's just all

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Speaker 5: those fun little stories of well being at CEA for

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Speaker 5: a meeting and realizing I'm in a in a lift

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Speaker 5: with Tom Cruise, you know, who's about five foot about

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Speaker 3: You know, you're tired than I am, so that I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So fun stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, lots of lots of happy memories, lots

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Speaker 5: So there's this combination of kind of you know, pride

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Speaker 4: Fear at times.

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Speaker 5: you're not You're not a global financier, And.

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Speaker 4: Had a fake in London.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And they rented this place for a huge amount

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 5: So that was the first and the owner, the owners

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Speaker 5: you're not a multimillionaire, Matthew, some of.

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Speaker 2: My mom to bring you down to the to earth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, way to go.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, How are you?

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Speaker 4: How are your home? How are your home? Time?

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Speaker 5: Because in a way it was easier for me because

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Speaker 4: How was that?

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Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't our homes, Like so the house that

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Speaker 2: I was sleeping in someone someone else's bed, Like we

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's really interesting that you say that. You

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Speaker 2: But I didn't feel like that, did you, Bob?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, you know, the when we did, like the

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Speaker 1: But I mean, I, you know, I much like Matt,

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Speaker 3: So I got, you know, just I don't know, it

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Speaker 1: And then they did come to my family's lake house

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Speaker 1: I'd lay in bed at night and I'd look up

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Speaker 1: don't know if you remember Trista, but Andrew Firestone has

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Speaker 3: Because it just he couldn't sleep in the place. You know.

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Speaker 4: He was literally coming out close it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he really was.

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Speaker 1: He said, his mattress and in the closet with his

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Speaker 1: I got in love that, yeah, because I was like,

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Speaker 4: That was off limits that place, you know, I saw

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Speaker 1: It was like slap shop.

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Speaker 5: These people just like tapping away your monitors and goods.

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Speaker 3: What are they doing?

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Speaker 4: It was weird to the Jim Carrey movie.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, closest to the treatment show.

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Speaker 1: We got, oh my gosh, so so Matt you're you're

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Speaker 1: I mean, had you had much experience with getting to

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Speaker 3: At that point or was this the first.

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Speaker 1: Time that you just and what was it like, Like

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Speaker 1: was there a difference between the you know, the women

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Speaker 4: I think I think that.

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Speaker 5: In retrospect, to answer your first question, No, I hadn't

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Speaker 5: really dated any America girls before this show. I think

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I know it was I mean it was.

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Speaker 5: It all happened so quickly, Bob, the whole, the whole,

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Speaker 5: that whole experience. You know, before you know it, you know,

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Speaker 5: you're on you know the fancy sweet stage. You know

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Speaker 5: and you just think, wow, that's just gone. So that

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Speaker 5: that time went so quickly, right, But yeah, no, so

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Speaker 5: so I hadn't dated any American women before and then

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Speaker 5: it very much.

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Speaker 2: Let's just leave it at that. Oh, I love the

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Speaker 2: fantasy suite, A fancy sweet. Is that what you said?

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Speaker 4: That sounds a bit like what's his name, the Mike

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Speaker 4: Anyway, you know who I mean. I'm showing my age,

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Speaker 4: But yes, I.

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Speaker 2: Love let's call it.

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Speaker 3: Let's call it the fantasy fancy sweet.

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Speaker 1: That's actually a nicer way to think of it.

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Speaker 2: It is amazing. Okay. I would love to hear about

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Speaker 2: the engagement. We know that you were engaged to Shane.

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Speaker 2: It's Shane, right.

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Speaker 3: Not just sh Shane, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Shane Shane Lamas. Yeah, so I would love to hear

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Speaker 2: kind of what happened with you guys. You know, obviously

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Speaker 2: you're caught up in the moment, not necessarily that it's

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Speaker 2: Like your emotions are all on the show, is what

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Speaker 2: I tell everyone. It's not. Your emotions are real. So

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Speaker 2: you're kind of caught up in it and you're feeling

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Speaker 5: I still to this day don't really know what happened there.

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Speaker 5: I would say I was. I think that maybe coming

445
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Speaker 5: from a foreign country, maybe going through all the pressure

446
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 5: that we've all spoken about, you know, a bit of

447
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 5: the imposter stuff. Can I do this the fear, the fun,

448
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,439
Speaker 5: but also doing it in a foreign country without your

449
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 5: support mechanism around you, with a time zone that made

450
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 5: it harder to communicate than your loved ones.

451
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 4: The crew were great, they really were. I made some

452
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 4: good friends, but yeah, there were times when, especially.

453
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 5: Towards the end of filming, where I really did feel

454
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 5: on my own and I didn't make the best decisions.

455
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 5: But also at that age as well, you know, as

456
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Speaker 5: I said earlier, I really feel looking back that I

457
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 5: was a young twenty seven.

458
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

459
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can only know that from hindsight, you know.

460
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 2: I feel like in the moment, you feel like, oh, yeah,

461
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 2: I'm mature.

462
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 3: I'm ready, I got this question.

463
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But I think hindsight shows you you know

464
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: a lot more than we know in the moment.

465
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 5: So so yeah, it didn't really last very long afterwards

466
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 5: with Shane because it just wasn't really there in the

467
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 5: first place. And you know, I look back, you know,

468
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 5: all these years later, and you know, I don't I

469
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 5: don't think I don't regret anything in life. But yeah,

470
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 5: it was you know, it was challenging towards the end,

471
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 5: but but yet just a great, overall, great experience.

472
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 3: Oh that's great. Yeah, I always look back at it

473
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 3: the same way.

474
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 1: I didn't end in an engagement or you know, ultimately

475
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: marriage or anything of that night nature either. But I

476
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: was saying to Trista when we kind of lost the

477
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: connection with you for a minute. I remember watching your

478
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: season and I primarily watched the tail end of it

479
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: and thinking that, you know, you just came off as

480
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 1: such a nice guy like you just came off with

481
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 1: as this guy that was you know, it was almost

482
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: like a fish out of water because you were from

483
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: another country and you were, you know, kind of inundated

484
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: with all this stuff, you know, all this American stuff

485
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 1: being thrown at you so much, and but you always

486
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: handled it, I thought, very gracefully. And I don't know

487
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: if you remember this, but we ran into each other

488
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: and Marina del Rey one day, both walking our dogs,

489
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: and yeah, I was and I remember I was like, hey,

490
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 1: you're the Bachelor, You're Matt Grant, and you're like, yeah,

491
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: how are I?

492
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 3: And like, you don't know me.

493
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 1: I like, but I was the Bacheler once too, and

494
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: I remember talking to you that day and ever since that,

495
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: I've always told everybody that, you know, I just thought

496
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: you were such a humble and nice guy. Especially you

497
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: were very h I mean, I don't think you had

498
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: been too far removed from the Bachelor at that point,

499
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: maybe a year or two when we crossed paths, and

500
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: I thought, you know, you just seem like such a

501
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 1: nice guy and go through an experience like that internationally,

502
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: I can only imagine how it might have messed with you.

503
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 4: You know, yeah, it was.

504
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 5: It was humbling afterwards as well, because I didn't have

505
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 5: you know, I wanted to capitalize from a selfish point

506
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 5: of view, I wanted to capitalize financially on on the

507
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 5: on this you know, magnificent opportunity given to me. And

508
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 5: I didn't have a visa so you know, work visa,

509
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 5: so I had to go and do that. And you know,

510
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 5: there were many times when it was, you know, it

511
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 5: was it was challenging to get that visa, and eventually

512
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 5: I you know, I wrote a show and sold it

513
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 5: to Warner Brothers.

514
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 4: And I'm really proud of.

515
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 5: How I dealt with that on my own out there,

516
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 5: just networking, and you know, and and and finally people going, look,

517
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,959
Speaker 5: I've got a show, idea, let's make the show. And

518
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 5: you know, getting that contract from Warner Brothers, from from Walper,

519
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 5: it was really cool.

520
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 2: What was the show?

521
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 4: It was called Pimp My Bride.

522
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: Pimps tell us about it please.

523
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 4: It never got made.

524
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 5: It never got made obviously, but it got me a contract,

525
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 5: right and got me my own one. So no, I

526
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 5: have such fond memories of my time in the US.

527
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 5: And it was the one, you know, the the the

528
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 5: actors visa that I had for foreigners aliens of extraordinary talent.

529
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 3: Oh nice.

530
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 4: It was.

531
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 5: It was coming up for a mule and I thought, hey,

532
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 5: you know, I just made a bud like TV commercial,

533
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 5: which was kind of it was either going to go

534
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 5: for the Super Bowl or or what it was. You know,

535
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 5: they make two commercials Budweiser for each Super Bowl and

536
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 5: then they pick at the last minute which one was

537
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,159
Speaker 5: going to be. So it was it was a high

538
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 5: I played kind of this food chef guy, you know,

539
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 5: this ponty British kind of Hello. My name is Nigel,

540
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 5: chef dude on this TV commercial anyway, paid out, paid

541
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 5: out a chunk of money, and I bought this old

542
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 5: jag and anyway, and I just I was drumming down

543
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 5: in Santa Monica. Do you guys know Montana Avenue in

544
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 5: Santa Monica, of course from my my favorite right just

545
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 5: coming out of that popped into the city bank and

546
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 5: I was just driving down and you've got the Pacific

547
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,239
Speaker 5: ahead of you in the palm trees either side. It's

548
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 5: kind of that archetypal Californian sunset, right, yeah. And I'm sure,

549
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 5: I'm sure the listeners can kind of picture it. And

550
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 5: I think maybe you can just maybe see a little

551
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 5: bit of Kathleen in the background. I don't know, but

552
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 5: I just looked in the mirror and I just went,

553
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 5: you lucky.

554
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 4: Get you.

555
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 5: You know, you've had five amazing years, and I thought,

556
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 5: you know, and I just went, it's never going to

557
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 5: get better than.

558
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 3: This, yeah, yeah, And it has.

559
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it has, just just a different chapter. Right,

560
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 4: that was the end.

561
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 5: That was the end of That was the end of

562
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 5: that chapter. And i'd you know, I'd gone and got

563
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 5: that visa on my own. I'd gone and sort of

564
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 5: got stable on my own in California, found work from

565
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 5: somewhere to live, built a friendship circle, and had you know,

566
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 5: those great years, and so I didn't want to leave,

567
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 5: but I kind of felt like I wanted to leave

568
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 5: l R l A on a on a high, because

569
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 5: so many people leave it on a loane.

570
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,719
Speaker 3: True, you are speaking the truth right there. I mean

571
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 3: that you went out on your own terms.

572
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 4: You know.

573
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: That's that's the dream, I think, to be able to

574
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: go out on your own terms. So where do you

575
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: live now? And what's going on now in your life?

576
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 4: So?

577
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 5: So I live in Cambridge, which I'm sure you guys

578
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 5: have heard of. It's just north of London. I'm married

579
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 5: to an amazing woman called Becks and we've been married

580
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 5: now for six years and that's just flown by.

581
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 4: That's flown flown by.

582
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 5: And I have a daughter from a previous relationship, Clementine.

583
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: I love that Clementine. God's a gorgeous.

584
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: Does she live there too?

585
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 4: She does? Yeah, that's like a book.

586
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:50,959
Speaker 2: I wish I would have heard about this like ten

587
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 2: years ago, and I would have written a children's book

588
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: Clementine and Cambridge, you know.

589
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 3: So cute.

590
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, sometimes I say Clementine sometimes as I say

591
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 5: it like in the French.

592
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 2: But do you speak French too?

593
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 5: No, not really no, oh but no, so so yes.

594
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 5: And then you know it's that it's getting into your

595
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 5: forties and then I'm forty three this year and it's

596
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 5: like wow, and you know, just trying to keep positive

597
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 5: and keep healthy and fit and grow, you know, growing

598
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 5: old gracefully.

599
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 3: That's all we can do.

600
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 4: That.

601
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: Well, we gotta try, that's right.

602
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 4: Rob and I have still got our hair.

603
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: We do, buddy, we still got it. I mean, come on,

604
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: how lucky are we? I mean I couldn't go that

605
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: mustache of my life dependent on it, though I can't

606
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: go the same in my life.

607
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 2: I was actually going to say that compared to the

608
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,959
Speaker 2: Bachelorettes before the show, like you were saying that teeth

609
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: and go into the gym. At least you guys didn't

610
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: have to worry about hair, because they literally put fake

611
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: hair on me, you know where you get extensions. At

612
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: least you didn't have to worry about that. And now

613
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 2: you can say that it's still your own.

614
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 3: That's true.

615
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: Heads of hair, boys.

616
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 5: Was the hair extensions part one of the most difficult

617
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 5: elements of kind of the that role, Trista.

618
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 2: I mean I don't definitely not one of the most difficult,

619
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 2: but kind of the most interesting for me, just because

620
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: I feel like, why don't you just go on there

621
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 2: and be yourself? You know, I wish that more these

622
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: days that I you know, I think I had fake nails,

623
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 2: I had fake hair. I you know, all women wear

624
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 2: tons of makeup and push up bras and you know,

625
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 2: all the things. So not to say that I'm not

626
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: open to having a little botox here there and filler

627
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 2: and you know whatever, but you know, I just I

628
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: wish that our culture just was more accepting of all

629
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 2: different kinds of people. However, you look, we love you, you know.

630
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope I'm hoping that's changing. I really am.

631
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 5: And also on on the on the male side as well,

632
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 5: that you know, men don't have to have six packs,

633
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 5: and I mean I certainly didn't.

634
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: I remember, yeah, neither.

635
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 4: I remember when they.

636
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 5: Were filming a topless bit and I could just see

637
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 5: one of the camera guy like, oh god, I mean

638
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 5: I thought they said that for his gym, So I

639
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 5: was no, I was no Brad Womack. I didn't have

640
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 5: the Brad Womack body.

641
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 3: No, not too many people did.

642
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: I didn't have the Ryan Sutter body on just the

643
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: season as a bachelor that are at That's why I

644
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: got kicked in the curb.

645
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure he's so. But you know it's funny.

646
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: I will tell you I'm made the six pack go

647
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: out of style a few years previous for you, so

648
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: set this, I set the pace for you.

649
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: But I will tell you this. Yeah, I.

650
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: Still say to this day because Ryan and I were

651
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: kind of roommates on Test this season, and I would

652
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: always be like, I would marry this.

653
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 3: Guy, Like I'm honestly, you know, this guy is amazing.

654
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 4: Now that would make for an interesting batchelor, would I.

655
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 3: Think that would be on a different, different network and

656
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: more than likely.

657
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, But I mean, I just loved having you on, buddy,

658
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: and I think that, you know, from the standpoint of

659
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: what you've been able to do, I think it's been great.

660
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: So congratulations and thanks for being a part.

661
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 4: Of it with us.

662
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 5: And it's it's it's not very often that that I

663
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 5: get to to talk about it, so it's nice to

664
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 5: bring back those memories.

665
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: Does anyone there know, like, do you ever get recognized?

666
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Speaker 5: I think occasionally in London by American tourists, but occasionally

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Speaker 5: three Blue Moon. Yeah, but it's I still, I still,

668
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 5: I still, you know, for all I can.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to do it.

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Speaker 4: Guys, thank you so much for having me on.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you for coming on. We're so excited that

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00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 2: because I feel like you. I was looking you up

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00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: on Instagram to see if I could just see you know,

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00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: do my like pre research and just to see what

675
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: was going on in your life lately, and I couldn't

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00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 2: find you. And I'm like, oh, I'm sure he's just

677
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 2: like I don't need Instagram, like I'm living my life.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to private. Yeah, so thank you for coming.

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Speaker 3: You did.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if the radar's okay, next time we have more time,

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00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 5: then we'll go into all that that that stuff. So

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Speaker 5: you have to invite me back.

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Speaker 2: Would love that love that. Maybe maybe you can bring

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Speaker 2: your your lovely wife backs on with you. Maybe we'll

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Speaker 2: do maybe we'll do a couples if she, if she

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Speaker 2: would be open.

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Speaker 5: To it, I can well, I can ask, but I

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Speaker 5: think I know the answer.

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Speaker 3: Probably the same as my wife. My wife's always like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm good, No, thank you, right.

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Speaker 2: I'm like you're talking awesome, well, thank.

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Speaker 3: You, continued success.

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Speaker 1: Cheers to you by such a nice guy, right, I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I love him and it's not just I mean, I'm

695
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Speaker 1: sure there's a certain element of his English charm that

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Speaker 1: you know is just kind of there, but you can

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Speaker 1: genuinely tell that he is just a good person, just

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00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: a nice person, and came see that experience, you know,

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Speaker 1: I think you with taking the right lessons from it.

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Speaker 1: You know, he said it was a lesson in humility

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Speaker 1: as well, and I think that's people that come off

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Speaker 1: the show realizing that, you know, there were some moments

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Speaker 1: that they would have done differently, or however it might go.

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Speaker 3: I think probably get the most out of it than

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Speaker 3: anybody else. You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to know. I would love to

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Speaker 2: have him back because I would love to know what

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Speaker 2: Why did he become so private? I feel like there's

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Speaker 2: a story.

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Speaker 3: There, you know, I think there is too.

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Speaker 2: There's a reason that he's private. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: it's because of his wife or or before, but I

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00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: so when I was looking on Instagram, there there was

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Speaker 2: an article I think from people magazine and or an

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Speaker 2: Instagram post or something and they they tagged him, or

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00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: they tagged an Instagram handle and I clicked on it,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, that is not him. So I

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Speaker 2: wonder if back then, if he had this Instagram handle

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Speaker 2: and then he got rid of it and someone else

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Speaker 2: took it up. Yea, So maybe he wasn't so private

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Speaker 2: back then when he was still living in the States.

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Speaker 1: Uh sure, son, you know who knows. I mean, at

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Speaker 1: the end of the day, I think, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: probably one of those things. He just wanted to go

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Speaker 1: back to his old life because he had a daughter

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Speaker 1: and you know, and or now he has a daughter.

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Speaker 1: I shaidn't, but maybe that was what Droe. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I would love to have him back on too.

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Speaker 1: He's really, to hear, a really great guest.

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Speaker 2: He is such I love the accent. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: kind of wish you would have broke you.

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Speaker 1: Know well when he did his when he did his

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Speaker 1: American accent, that was almost my inn.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't want to be like hell then, so

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Speaker 3: I held off.

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Speaker 2: I know, I was like, okame on, do it. Do it?

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Speaker 3: Care for team mate is what I would have said,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 2: I can't even try mine. I would just be butchering

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Speaker 2: a period. End of story. Thanks for listening to everybody,

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Speaker 2: Thanks everybody,