Speaker 1: Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
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Speaker 1: your Girl, a j A and it's Tam Bam. I
Speaker 1: love y'all for the last time this year. I might
Speaker 1: not love y'all last at all. Next year, we're gonna see,
Speaker 1: I know, and look, we need to do a new
Speaker 1: intro for next year. We think, Yeah, I'm sick of
Speaker 1: you saying hey, we'll figure it out. We're gonna come
Speaker 1: back with some new ship for y'all next year and
Speaker 1: promise new year. Knew us, bitch. How was your weekend?
Speaker 1: A j Your Christmas Girl? Christmas was another day like
Speaker 1: Christmas is canceled this year basically, so my niece came
Speaker 1: down with COVID and nobody came home. It was just yeah,
Speaker 1: Christmas was the most uneventful Christmas of my life this
Speaker 1: year and still hair. It was just like everybody was separated.
Speaker 1: My sister was home by herself, my nieces they were
Speaker 1: with their dad. Um my sister had to work, my
Speaker 1: other sister had to work, and then me and my
Speaker 1: mom was in the house and her ass slept the
Speaker 1: whole damn day. She only woke up to eat, so
Speaker 1: it was just born and lonely. That's all I've been
Speaker 1: doing this weekend. It's fucking eating dog. I probably ate
Speaker 1: a whole sweep potato pie by my fucking self. I mean,
Speaker 1: I made a pound cake that I suked around and
Speaker 1: fell asleep on. So that ship was like a brick
Speaker 1: and I'm still I'm still eating it the metal stoft.
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, it was really weird this weekend. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's where did you get anything? Nothing? Oh?
Speaker 1: My dad did give me a gift card for for
Speaker 1: sucking dierds. I probably by that nigged something out of there.
Speaker 1: What's that? Dealers, y'all, don't work out clothes. Just don't
Speaker 1: work out gear because we're about that, y'all. New Year.
Speaker 1: We're gonna unfat this year, all of us for real
Speaker 1: this time, for this year, we're doing it for real.
Speaker 1: I don't want to make that mad resolution, no, because
Speaker 1: that'd be my resolution every fucking year. I just I
Speaker 1: just want to affirm a lot of things that I
Speaker 1: believe to be true for my that's it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't have any resolutions, because anytime I do a resolution,
Speaker 1: they always I sunk them up by the second, So
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Hey, y'allus who don't go to
Speaker 1: the gym on a regular don't bring your glass in
Speaker 1: that fucking gym. Having a gym extra pack and sweat.
Speaker 1: They don't need to come. Look, no matter if I'm
Speaker 1: losing weight or not, I go to the fucking gym religious,
Speaker 1: religiously right, and I cannot fucking stand the New Year's
Speaker 1: gym people. Come on, girl, well I'm gonna be in
Speaker 1: there and fuck you if you don't like me there. Listen,
Speaker 1: I work out, but I fall off. I don't go
Speaker 1: like a should. But it's not your workout, it's your
Speaker 1: eating habits. That's the thing. Losing weight, diet absolutely, especially
Speaker 1: some abs they said they're made in the kitchen. M hmmm.
Speaker 1: And I've been eating terribly man, me too. Everybody's terribly
Speaker 1: around this time of year, though. Don't feel bad about it, guys.
Speaker 1: Enjoy your last couple of days of gluttony, and then
Speaker 1: in the new year, just you know, try your best
Speaker 1: to choose clean eating and healthy choices. That's all we
Speaker 1: can do. Don't beat yourself up about it and do
Speaker 1: all those dumbass fat diets where you fast still end
Speaker 1: fat by the summertime. Drink water. Yeah, you don't do
Speaker 1: nothing but eat kaya and pepper and water and ship
Speaker 1: like that. Don't do that. But I do suggest that though,
Speaker 1: because when I do my fast, I do do the
Speaker 1: cayenne pepper and I lose weight that doesn't come back.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that now. My last fast was Yes,
Speaker 1: I haven't gained any weight. I have not gained any weight.
Speaker 1: I just have lost anyway. Yeah, I have lost weight
Speaker 1: this year, but I haven't. I haven't gained any weight either.
Speaker 1: So I've lost. I lost like fifteen pounds, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like stopped though, Like you know, it's I lost
Speaker 1: like eleven pounds in the summer, but they're not getting
Speaker 1: all of it bad. I haven't. Right before the summer,
Speaker 1: I was like eleven pounds. I feel like I'm always
Speaker 1: smaller in the summertime, and then the wintertime I pack
Speaker 1: on the weight like a bear. So the hibernation. I
Speaker 1: usually work out hard in the winter and then stop
Speaker 1: and end up so fat for the stuff. I don't
Speaker 1: know what the fun So maybe I'll try something different
Speaker 1: this year. Man, it just needs to be a lifelong commitment,
Speaker 1: your health right and consistent. We can see what's going
Speaker 1: on in a stupid internet news. Okay, well before, let
Speaker 1: me just say this Insecure, All my girls who watch
Speaker 1: and guys who watched Insecure, the finale was so good.
Speaker 1: I was so happy with it. I know I hear
Speaker 1: people saying it wasn't all that, but to me, it
Speaker 1: was so good. I love a happy ending. Uh. This
Speaker 1: might be a spoiler alert, so if you haven't seen it,
Speaker 1: go ahead and fast forward past this part because I'm
Speaker 1: about to talk about it. Everybody even talking about this,
Speaker 1: go ahead. Lawrence and Issa ended up together with the
Speaker 1: side baby. Yeah know about that down as well. And
Speaker 1: technically the baby wasn't a side baby because they were
Speaker 1: broken up, you know, and they were doing their own
Speaker 1: different things. But I mean, him and that girl would
Speaker 1: never Condola, were never a couple, and they created another
Speaker 1: human life, and that happens, you know. And EASA's perfect
Speaker 1: ending in her mind this season two, she had it
Speaker 1: was her pregnant for him and they were happy together.
Speaker 1: But you know, our stories don't always go that way.
Speaker 1: And I just like that, you know, when you love
Speaker 1: someone It doesn't have to be perfect as long as
Speaker 1: you choose to choose each other. You know, now, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that you should go back to your nigga
Speaker 1: who wasn't tweating you right, because it wasn't perfect. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that, but I just I loved how it ended.
Speaker 1: And the real love story was Issa and Molly. You
Speaker 1: know that was a true love story because Molly end
Speaker 1: up losing her mother and you know, Issa was there
Speaker 1: every step of the way when her mother had a stroke,
Speaker 1: and you know, they just have the love. That's the
Speaker 1: true love story of the show. And Molly ends up
Speaker 1: getting married, y'all that And that gave me hope because
Speaker 1: it showed me that, yeah, even if you are home forever,
Speaker 1: you still can't get your fairy tale ended. So don't
Speaker 1: feel bad. Holes if you're listening, it's okay. Happen for
Speaker 1: you too, and holds. You know, for many men, you
Speaker 1: could just have sex with two people in life. You're
Speaker 1: so a fucking hole, So it's just a subjective, right,
Speaker 1: So that was good. And then Nathan he went on
Speaker 1: about his marrio uh business, and he didn't seem like
Speaker 1: it didn't feel like a loss you know, before this episode,
Speaker 1: it seemed like it might be a loss for Eesa,
Speaker 1: and she did cry about it or whatever, and she
Speaker 1: did reach out to him and he ignore her. But
Speaker 1: you know what, sometimes when ship feels like you're being dismissed,
Speaker 1: is only God setting you up for what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to have, Amen, somebody exactly. Yeah, I don't ever think
Speaker 1: I'm somebody you can easily discard no matter how So
Speaker 1: that was good, you know, And I'm gonna miss the
Speaker 1: show because I mean, what other Black Girls story? Oh,
Speaker 1: we do have that new show Harlem, and that's another
Speaker 1: Black girl, you know, adventure. So I'm glad we have that.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should make a show a j I know, right,
Speaker 1: what do you think that's why Megan Good getting divorced now?
Speaker 1: Because of Harlem? Perhaps? I'm sure, amongst other things, she
Speaker 1: might not want to be a mother and he might
Speaker 1: want kids. It's all kind of different reasons why that
Speaker 1: relationship might be dissolving, but we'll never know, all right. Um,
Speaker 1: Kanye West bought a four point five million dollar home
Speaker 1: across the street from Kim's current home. Nigga do that.
Speaker 1: I don't care what y'all say. Listen, Kanye West says
Speaker 1: he needs to be as close as possible because in
Speaker 1: his mind, like his family is home. He don't have
Speaker 1: no other home. So this nigga walks around with his
Speaker 1: book bag and that's you know, he got a Duffel bag.
Speaker 1: So he says, like the book bag is his I
Speaker 1: don't know his apartment, and then the Duffel bag is
Speaker 1: his home. But he said his family is his home.
Speaker 1: So he's trying to be as close as possible to
Speaker 1: Kim and to Kimmy and the kids. Yes, yes, that
Speaker 1: nigga is crazy. I don't know if I could deal
Speaker 1: with some ship like that, Like she gonna have to move,
Speaker 1: He's just gonna follow. He's just gonna put on that
Speaker 1: white face mask again and be living next door as
Speaker 1: a white man like they said. They said he paid
Speaker 1: over four hundred thousand dollars over the asking price at
Speaker 1: his home just to be across the street from them.
Speaker 1: In the weird stalkery kind of way. Sometimes you gotta
Speaker 1: learned to let go, you know, not let go your family,
Speaker 1: but let go of that woman. That woman has had enough. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think Kim is definitely gone, or maybe they're doing
Speaker 1: it for tax purposes. Who knows. Maybe they't want to
Speaker 1: pretend like they're divorcing so they can split assets. Who knows.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because they can look better on paper.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Because they said that she doesn't go
Speaker 1: on dates with old boy without a group, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So like, yeah, she can't Why I'm
Speaker 1: confused if they're not divorced at how can you be dating?
Speaker 1: How can you? Because you can be, you can you
Speaker 1: can date separate it right, you can date once you're
Speaker 1: legally separated. But she was just asking for that. She
Speaker 1: wanted to be legally single, which I don't know what that.
Speaker 1: Maybe California has different laws and rules and stuff, but
Speaker 1: she wanted to be legally single. I guess, so she
Speaker 1: can date. But if you started a new relationship before
Speaker 1: you dissolve the other one, isn't that adultery? No, if
Speaker 1: you're separated interesting mm hmm. You have to look at
Speaker 1: the laws in Cali. I'm sure she ain't. She a
Speaker 1: fucking honorary attorney. I'm sure she, you know, saw what
Speaker 1: was legal for her to do. How she could suck
Speaker 1: dick on the side, will not be any trouble, shame
Speaker 1: so on Instagram, uh Ari Fletcher, If there was, did
Speaker 1: you see that? It was something about her wanting money
Speaker 1: Bag to like threaten her with a gun, like it
Speaker 1: was like a fantasy of some sort for her. Girl,
Speaker 1: I'm trying ghetto and she's young. So is money Bag.
Speaker 1: Well I think he might have just turned thirty. Maybe
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I know she's in her twenties.
Speaker 1: So she's a young girl. Girl that is toxic. Is fucked,
Speaker 1: he's man. I saw another clip that she was saying
Speaker 1: like maybe she's a toxic on her and the host
Speaker 1: of that show. I'm not sure exactly who the show
Speaker 1: that is, but um, it ain't nothing cute about that.
Speaker 1: What happens if the gun funks around in discharge? Now,
Speaker 1: now you're a man is an accidental murderer? Well all right,
Speaker 1: I do have ohoy fantasy to me too. I talked
Speaker 1: about it with people. I do like they don't want nobody,
Speaker 1: like a stranger to come up and beat the ship
Speaker 1: out of me and take my pussy. That's not what
Speaker 1: I want. But I do want my guy to bust
Speaker 1: it here and rape me and just choke fun you
Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, I'm taking this pussy kind of way,
Speaker 1: you know, but not really like punching me in the
Speaker 1: face and all that kind of stuff. I like, I
Speaker 1: like vampires to bite me on my neck. You our
Speaker 1: last week AJ put garlic in her pussy. She's trying
Speaker 1: to kill the vampires. That is what she's trying to do.
Speaker 1: As soon as the vampire here out he's dead. I dude,
Speaker 1: that's like a fantasy, like come busting here and bite
Speaker 1: me on my fucking neck. Nick can come through the
Speaker 1: window and bite me on my neck, a J. The
Speaker 1: vampire slayers we want to planned rape. Thank you listen.
Speaker 1: That's not funny though, And is it funny? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean I think it's the same things. You know what.
Speaker 1: We're not the only women who feel that way, so
Speaker 1: I'm okay with it. But it's just somebody dominating you,
Speaker 1: that's all it is, right. I think her rape, I
Speaker 1: mean her you know, wanting a gun pulled on her
Speaker 1: and all that. Ship it's just the same thing, just
Speaker 1: in a way elevated ghetto assway, right, because like being
Speaker 1: her ass and taking it is might be regular, but
Speaker 1: pulling a gun it's like, okay, now you're doing something, Daddy, hell,
Speaker 1: no take any to get too much into character. Pistol,
Speaker 1: whoop your ass? They're what are eyebrows? I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 1: I don't like your fucking eyebrows. They're too far up.
Speaker 1: They up here. That's why they'd be calling her, um
Speaker 1: that thing from um what's the movie? Um it? No,
Speaker 1: not like you. They put your like, look is it Jigsaw?
Speaker 1: What is it? The thing the man saw? Right? Oh,
Speaker 1: that's not nice that. I do like it too, but
Speaker 1: it's not a natural arch that eyebrows. Man, it's pretty,
Speaker 1: but that I I have to go check it out.
Speaker 1: I've never paid that much attention to her eyebrows. I
Speaker 1: can't help but see it when I look at her. Um.
Speaker 1: So what about the Japanese listen Japan and all different
Speaker 1: person of Asia, they are just so advianent when it
Speaker 1: comes to technology they are. I just felt like when
Speaker 1: I went to Korea, they were everything that we were doing.
Speaker 1: We were still using the little tiny rim of tiny
Speaker 1: phones was like popping, and they had these big gas
Speaker 1: phones and I was like, why they phone so big?
Speaker 1: It's it's so cool to have a tiny phone. And
Speaker 1: then like months later we started getting bigger phones and
Speaker 1: I just feel like every time I go to Asia,
Speaker 1: they're doing the ahead of us when it comes to technology.
Speaker 1: I'm okay with technology being slow over here, because the
Speaker 1: more we get into that ship, we turned into the robots.
Speaker 1: So who's controlling who? Because we already know they'd be
Speaker 1: over there like ants girl, like what one does the
Speaker 1: other does, like right in a straight line behind the
Speaker 1: other one. I never want to be a I the
Speaker 1: fuck And that's just how I don't know what you mean.
Speaker 1: We're standing in lines in America. What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Not okay? So when I went to China, I was
Speaker 1: trying to get a ticket from guang Jia back into
Speaker 1: Hong Kong right like a train ticket, and they had
Speaker 1: so many kiosk in there. We can get your ticket right.
Speaker 1: So we first walked up, it was like, I don't
Speaker 1: know how many people in front of these just these
Speaker 1: five six machines. If you would have walked right around
Speaker 1: to the other side, there was no body there. And
Speaker 1: they literally had to scream at the people over a
Speaker 1: microphone to tell him to keep walking, like your brain's
Speaker 1: not telling y'all a walk. They do that ship in
Speaker 1: America too, because sometimes I'll be in the it'll be
Speaker 1: like two lanes going to the left, and everybody will
Speaker 1: be in there one lane because they don't realize there's
Speaker 1: a second Laneess turning to we do the same ship.
Speaker 1: I guess I don't. I guess I don't. I guess
Speaker 1: I'm not somebody who is programmable, because I'd be trying
Speaker 1: to figure out, like, why are we doing this? Why
Speaker 1: we can't just do that? Yeah, but it's not. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's a Asian thing. I just think it's
Speaker 1: a human thing to be. If you've got I don't
Speaker 1: say five people, if you've got a hundred people in
Speaker 1: front of five or six kiosks, and if you literally
Speaker 1: walk around one ft and the other side and nobody's there,
Speaker 1: that's a problem. That's weird to me. I was like,
Speaker 1: what the funk? And look, I was with this African
Speaker 1: dude who was my interpreter, going around two different vendors
Speaker 1: with me, right, and he spoke like fluid Mandarin. He
Speaker 1: was like, they're just like ants. I was like, come on,
Speaker 1: just walk around here. We walked around and nobody was there,
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck? I think we're all ants and
Speaker 1: in the rat race? Baby? But all right, what I
Speaker 1: was about to say, is the Japanese have created a
Speaker 1: prototype TV screen that allows viewers to not just see
Speaker 1: and hear what's on the screen, but they can taste
Speaker 1: it too. That's so weird. I don't understand how that's
Speaker 1: gonna work. So according to routers, it's called taste. The
Speaker 1: TV viewers can now enjoy a new sensory addition thanks
Speaker 1: to a tin flavor carousel that, when combined, can imitate
Speaker 1: specific flavors from chocolate to pizza. Once mixed, the flavors
Speaker 1: combinations roll over the TV screen via a hygienic film
Speaker 1: for consumers licking pleasure. Are they gonna have a pussy
Speaker 1: a pussy? Uh flavorl because what somebody watching right? I
Speaker 1: don't understand that. So you know what I was thinking
Speaker 1: when I first read that, Like it's going to be
Speaker 1: different commercials come up and then they'll have different flavors
Speaker 1: for what's on the commercial. Like that's another way of
Speaker 1: marketing the people. Or is it just that your TV
Speaker 1: just do ten flavors and that's it. It's ten flavors,
Speaker 1: but they're gonna mix and combine so for different things.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you want to lick your TV, Like,
Speaker 1: what what the fun is that some weird ship? I
Speaker 1: don't understand. You can't just watch it? Just eat, bring
Speaker 1: some food home with you and eat and watch the
Speaker 1: TV at the same time. I don't see why you
Speaker 1: gotta eat the TV that I'm popping in the back
Speaker 1: of your damn head. If I see you look in
Speaker 1: the TV, like, why are you doing this? Right? Please
Speaker 1: hit me something? It ain't me. It's it's a clone
Speaker 1: like Gucci pop up. That's definitely some robot clone ship.
Speaker 1: And that's what I was talking about. AI, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: ain't looking on TV. That's where I draw the line.
Speaker 1: That's where and look they say. The goal is to
Speaker 1: make it possible for people to have the experience of
Speaker 1: something like eating at a restaurant on the other side
Speaker 1: of the world, even while staying at home. So this
Speaker 1: is more of the metaverse type ship. Mm hmm. If
Speaker 1: you can appeal to somebody's senses without them having to
Speaker 1: actually physically human life like experience some ship. You're a robot,
Speaker 1: why don't you just order eat opious from the Opius
Speaker 1: around the corner. I just don't get it, because then
Speaker 1: that would acquire you to use like leave the house.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can do it a door dash, but that
Speaker 1: would require human interaction. I just feel like they're trying
Speaker 1: to get rid of human interaction, like you having real
Speaker 1: because we already know that what social media, especially in
Speaker 1: our generation, Like, that's what it that's what it started.
Speaker 1: It started people not being able to have regular conversations,
Speaker 1: to communicate with each other, like people be glued to
Speaker 1: their cell phone head down all day long. Like oh,
Speaker 1: when they started that Pokemon ship, remember Pokemon, Yes, when
Speaker 1: people was using their cell phone like to find the
Speaker 1: pokemons and it was getting hit by cars and stuff.
Speaker 1: I remember I was in Columbia, bitch at the by
Speaker 1: the state House, and it was nighttime. Everybody had their
Speaker 1: head down. All you could see was the lights off
Speaker 1: their cell phone and it was the weirdest thing I
Speaker 1: had ever seen. And I think that was the beginning
Speaker 1: of it all, to see how much they can get
Speaker 1: people controlled. Look. I read a review on Apple podcast
Speaker 1: that somebody said one of them, uh, one of them,
Speaker 1: and I don't know which one of us. I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure they probably was talking about me, but it said
Speaker 1: one of them speaks with since the other one be
Speaker 1: living on the outside of the universe. Definitely, that's definitely
Speaker 1: you first of all. Fuck you, hey, like I want
Speaker 1: to go over some of them reviews one day. It's okay.
Speaker 1: It makes it interesting that you live. You know, wherever
Speaker 1: it is you live, love it. I love it. I
Speaker 1: live in reality. You get to the points of where
Speaker 1: you can't even see ship that's right in front of
Speaker 1: your face. That's where the problem begins. I live in reality.
Speaker 1: I'm about to move to the metaverse and be a
Speaker 1: white man. I can't wait for all y'all to move
Speaker 1: to the metaverse. I can have a world by myself, yourself,
Speaker 1: me and all my people, Me and all my like
Speaker 1: minded people, me and all the flat earthers. We're gonna
Speaker 1: be out here chilling while y'all ask in the house
Speaker 1: fucking they're hitting switches and killing y'all ask a bunch
Speaker 1: of crazy from the back office computer. No, bitch, we're
Speaker 1: gonna be far man. We're gonna be living off our
Speaker 1: solar panels and all types of ship. It's gonna be nice.
Speaker 1: Let's pay a bill, bitch on that note. So look,
Speaker 1: dam I wonder what this new year has for us, man,
Speaker 1: because started all funked up, Like we know we've been
Speaker 1: living in a goddamn twilight zone for the last year
Speaker 1: and a half, two years now, basically. You know, in
Speaker 1: January we started off with the takeover of the capital
Speaker 1: m hmm, got a lot of it was all down
Speaker 1: here from there. I knew ship was gonna be a
Speaker 1: wild year. Once I've seen that white man with their
Speaker 1: ship on his head with the horns, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this year about to be craziest. A lot of those
Speaker 1: people got minimal time. I know, I saw one person
Speaker 1: got like five years for um, spraying or attacking police officers,
Speaker 1: would the fire extinguisher. Um. I've read that a lot
Speaker 1: of the police officers that were involved that day, at
Speaker 1: least five or six of them have been found dead,
Speaker 1: like committed suicide or died somehow, which is interesting. I
Speaker 1: don't know if anybody else saw that. Um, it's just
Speaker 1: really wicked, really weird, a weird ass way to start
Speaker 1: this year off. And was there anything like extremely interesting
Speaker 1: other than that, Like this year this is really sucky
Speaker 1: when you look at it overall. Because in February blew
Speaker 1: her hair down to the head. That was that was funny.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm glad she was okay. But that was
Speaker 1: definitely something to bring like a lot of humor to
Speaker 1: my life. My help don't move when I see bitches
Speaker 1: with stiff weaves. I started singing this song, but then
Speaker 1: she recently um dye her hair and cause it to
Speaker 1: fall out. To yeah, I think she was. I think
Speaker 1: she might have just been trying to cloud chase again.
Speaker 1: That all the money, the donations down ran out. Now
Speaker 1: you're onto some new dumb ship. Girl, buy we got
Speaker 1: We had you the first time, but this time you're
Speaker 1: on your own, sister. Then what about Derek Jackson? That
Speaker 1: was fun? Right? Uh, I'm still sending healing energy to
Speaker 1: his wife. I wanted they stole together because man, one thing,
Speaker 1: I know one thing, especially with that situation. Black women
Speaker 1: in particular, we gotta be real careful with religion, man,
Speaker 1: because I feel like it'd be putting us in bondage
Speaker 1: more than anything, and it makes you stay in a
Speaker 1: situation where you know you need to get the funk
Speaker 1: on through. And I feel like that's what was going
Speaker 1: on with her, Like you're supposed to stay with your husband,
Speaker 1: stick it out through thicking in and all of STU.
Speaker 1: But man, stress can kill you, and she can get
Speaker 1: on the internet and act like she was all good
Speaker 1: and they've reconcile and you know, she's working it out
Speaker 1: in her house. This in the third but man, that guy,
Speaker 1: that guy is very dangerous. But it may be true.
Speaker 1: Maybe they did work it out and you know she's okay.
Speaker 1: I hope she's okay. Man, niggas like that at that age.
Speaker 1: It ain't no changing. They could probably mask it, but
Speaker 1: it's not sustainable. That's what I think. It's just not sustainable.
Speaker 1: He might could be good, like the same the same
Speaker 1: thing with Amber rose Um. Baby daddy told her, you know,
Speaker 1: like he probably can do good for about three months
Speaker 1: and then he just falls off the rails. I feel
Speaker 1: like that's what a lot of people into. They do
Speaker 1: like some real life internal healing. When people get on
Speaker 1: social media and have like a lot of followers and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, it does something to the eagle. You know,
Speaker 1: you almost feel like a god yourself, especially when you
Speaker 1: got a voice. A lot of motherfuckers shouldn't even have
Speaker 1: a voice to talk, but they do. A lot of
Speaker 1: people listen, and there's our constitutional right right and it
Speaker 1: gives you, like this big gas fucking ego. You're gonna
Speaker 1: continuously feed so um, I don't know more prower to
Speaker 1: them though, and what else we had going on this
Speaker 1: year April was the I mean, you know, it goes
Speaker 1: back to abortion and pro life people. The girl on
Speaker 1: Jocelyn's Cabaret, she talked about, you know, being pregnant with
Speaker 1: twins and how she didn't have a supportive mate and
Speaker 1: she was afraid to be a mother basically and not yeah,
Speaker 1: and not be able to take care of the twins.
Speaker 1: And the girl Lexei from South Carolina was like, damn
Speaker 1: double homicide. I would add a fight that is righting
Speaker 1: in there if she would have said that, that's so
Speaker 1: hurtful time. Yeah, that's the thing man, It's it was
Speaker 1: insensitive as fun, but man, that's it was. That's like that.
Speaker 1: Comedian Corey Hokem shout out to Corey Hokem. He said
Speaker 1: the comedy show, his his comedy is on the edge
Speaker 1: a lot. He's my favorite man. He said. He took
Speaker 1: his girl to abortion clinic and he was picking her
Speaker 1: up after after her procedure was done, and she was
Speaker 1: like he had some fifty cent playing and it was like,
Speaker 1: uh something you know, dark, and she's like, turn all
Speaker 1: that killing music off. I don't want to hear that
Speaker 1: right now. He's like, it's just only one killer in
Speaker 1: the car with us right now. That's not funny. That's
Speaker 1: so fun up. People be heiting on Corey hokem man.
Speaker 1: But he do be having some real edgy ship man.
Speaker 1: But I love him, I love his comedy. I could
Speaker 1: laugh at it. But that ship is kind of like
Speaker 1: alright and portion portion stold somebody husband where we later
Speaker 1: found out later on this year that that wasn't actually
Speaker 1: the thing. Fallon that got married has a whole baby
Speaker 1: now jow not the child. We didn't. We weren't believing. Um,
Speaker 1: what's ther husband name? Um? God, damn, what's porste husband name? Um? Oh?
Speaker 1: Which the old husband or the new one? Oh? I
Speaker 1: don't know, you know, uh, Simon. Sorry, we weren't believing
Speaker 1: Simon when he was saying that Fallon was pregnant. But
Speaker 1: we now see that she's pregnant. I mean she's had
Speaker 1: a new baby, got a new man who was I
Speaker 1: don't know, was he the pool guys, some ship? I
Speaker 1: don't know. He looked young. She miss matting the funk
Speaker 1: out of her pussy boy. Have you been watching Porsche's
Speaker 1: family matters. No, I heard it was funny. I heard
Speaker 1: it was really good. You know, people stay trying to
Speaker 1: get me to watch TV. My homegirl was sending me
Speaker 1: clips of it while as she was watching it. Um,
Speaker 1: she said it just started getting good. It was kind
Speaker 1: of slowing and begin But how Dinnis is on there
Speaker 1: like the whole family Stole. Like Dinnis, her relationship with
Speaker 1: Simon doesn't seem genuine. Um, they don't live together like
Speaker 1: portions Stole live in her house. Basically, they never showed
Speaker 1: Sean Simon's house. Maybe he didn't want his house on
Speaker 1: national television anyway. But on one episode they were outlooking
Speaker 1: for a house. They just kept showing them pulling up
Speaker 1: in the Bentley looking at houses and ship like that.
Speaker 1: But I don't know they might be good. So do
Speaker 1: you feel like I mean they say? I mean this
Speaker 1: white Leady told me first time you're married for love,
Speaker 1: second time married for money. That's what his portion. Dude,
Speaker 1: you don't think Dennis got somebody. I like Dennis Dinner's
Speaker 1: got money, but he ain't got Simon money. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: like Dennis. I Dinnie too, He's funny. I haul that
Speaker 1: Dennis denn you're a real nigga man, and Portion on
Speaker 1: that at your fake and sound. He like you know
Speaker 1: how when you get like your mate like know you
Speaker 1: like you, that person that really knows you knows you
Speaker 1: like you can see. He'd be like, girl, Porsche, please like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I know your dirty drawers. Cut it out like you
Speaker 1: really acting. That's how he'd be looking at her on
Speaker 1: that show. Yeah, I love me some Porsche. I ain't
Speaker 1: mad at Portion. You know, if you ain't happy to
Speaker 1: do it, make you happy, bitch? Life is short? So
Speaker 1: is that on that? What else happened? The girl Kari
Speaker 1: Richardson was talking all that ship didn't start getting smoked.
Speaker 1: She's a young girl, man, she needs some grace. She
Speaker 1: still has a whole long ass career ahead of her
Speaker 1: if she wants to continue um running. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I hate the Olympics really because we black
Speaker 1: Americans all fucking year around until we get to not
Speaker 1: all year, but you know, however long in between Olympics,
Speaker 1: it's Olympics every year. No right, no, it's four years, okay,
Speaker 1: so every four years I don't ever watch it because
Speaker 1: all this the other time we black Americans, black Americans
Speaker 1: Black Americans, African Americans. And then when we get to
Speaker 1: the Olympics, you American because you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because they need us because they wouldn't be able to
Speaker 1: compete without black people, right, Yeah, I don't funk with
Speaker 1: that ship. Um I went to the Olympics in two
Speaker 1: thousand twelve in London. Was that experience? Oh man? It
Speaker 1: was great. It was all kind of people from all
Speaker 1: over the world. I was I was big and pregnant honestly,
Speaker 1: so I didn't get to get drunk and hot like
Speaker 1: I would have wanted to. But I did have fun.
Speaker 1: I did have a good time out there. What else happened, Uh, look,
Speaker 1: let's skip to like September. September Squid Games came out.
Speaker 1: Was crazy, gave us a nice little, uh look at
Speaker 1: the future since we always following what the fun the
Speaker 1: Asians doing, and we got to appreciate Korean cinema. You know,
Speaker 1: that wasn't an American movie. And normally I wouldn't watch
Speaker 1: anything that I had to read. Um, I hate voiceovers. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I didn't have to read it, right, it was voiceover,
Speaker 1: but you know Netflix has the captions and stuff like
Speaker 1: that now, so you can kind of do both. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was voiceover, and typically I wouldn't enjoy a movie
Speaker 1: that has voiceovers because I hate when the mouth is
Speaker 1: moving and the words don't match. But A Squid Gags
Speaker 1: was good. It was a phenomenon. And it was a
Speaker 1: low budget film, Like they did not spend a lot
Speaker 1: of money to make that movie, and it made so
Speaker 1: much money from it. It was like one of the
Speaker 1: highest gross films in Asia. Basically. Mm hmmm. So that
Speaker 1: was that was dope. What happened in October not much
Speaker 1: And we had the big tragedy with the astral World
Speaker 1: Festival in November just last month. Yeah, that was pretty
Speaker 1: fucking sad man. Yeah, so it looks like Travis Scott
Speaker 1: tried to pay a lot of people not paid, but
Speaker 1: he tried to, um, you know, take care of some
Speaker 1: of the victims um funeral funeral expenses and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and they decline because they want the big payout, right,
Speaker 1: they want the big They're looking for the big payout
Speaker 1: um from him. It's just really weird because I saw
Speaker 1: some headlines that said, like some of the victims died
Speaker 1: from cardiac arrest, some of them died from being um smushed.
Speaker 1: I could see the kids dying that way, the two
Speaker 1: kids that died, but um cardiac arrest, like what happened
Speaker 1: because remember earlier on he was saying that somebody was
Speaker 1: out there sticking people with sticking people with syringes. It's
Speaker 1: so misinformation that goes along with that. Nobody really knows
Speaker 1: exactly what happened to those four boom Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: also feel sad for Travis Scott because he's a performer
Speaker 1: and you know, he's on stage. What can he do
Speaker 1: about what's going on in the crowd. Honestly, you know,
Speaker 1: I know it's his responsibility, well it is his team's
Speaker 1: responsibility to make sure that the crowd is saved. So
Speaker 1: ultimately falls on him because it is that he is
Speaker 1: not the CEO of that situation. He's not the CEO
Speaker 1: of Astro World. I'm sure. I'm sure it's the whole committee.
Speaker 1: You know, you got the security, you got security for
Speaker 1: the venue wherever it was at, Like all these different
Speaker 1: people are in place, you know, to make sure it's
Speaker 1: safe it should be. And we did see a video
Speaker 1: of him stopping the show because he saw, you know,
Speaker 1: he saw something happening in the crowd. And you know,
Speaker 1: he offered to be and oh what is it rolling
Speaker 1: out for free? Because they told him they didn't want
Speaker 1: him there, and then he offered to do it for free,
Speaker 1: and they still didn't want him there because right now
Speaker 1: his name is synonymous with certain death, you know, like
Speaker 1: and that sucks for him. So you know, we love you,
Speaker 1: Travis Scott and hopefully this blows over for you soon.
Speaker 1: And uh herd goes out to the families of those lost.
Speaker 1: I never looked at any other festivals, but you remember
Speaker 1: how big, like when you were a kid, how big
Speaker 1: those Michael Jackson shows used to be. Like I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure people died at those shows. There's no way, there's
Speaker 1: no way people didn't die at those shows, right, um,
Speaker 1: but did they? Sue Michael? Probably? Probably? We just might
Speaker 1: to hear about it. Yeah right, mm hmmm, So what
Speaker 1: about December? Now, I could just tell you this fucking
Speaker 1: COVID the Delta VI Marion marionicn like you know what
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this morning, Like people need to
Speaker 1: stop calling that ship a Marion because it's probably sending
Speaker 1: some negative energy to a Marion if everybody's like singing
Speaker 1: that verbally, like oh, they Marion, like you know, anybody
Speaker 1: else in this world named a Marian, no like for him,
Speaker 1: Like I I wouldn't be okay with people associating this
Speaker 1: this sickness you know, with me. Now, he's just gonna
Speaker 1: have to deal with it because that's fucked up. Black
Speaker 1: don't make me sick now that we don't understand our magic.
Speaker 1: If you understand black people magic, do you wouldn't be
Speaker 1: calling that ship to Marion. Listen, Becky's, all the Becky's,
Speaker 1: all the carriers in the world, all the all the
Speaker 1: people who got names that are talking about with there's
Speaker 1: Becky's and black Becky's and Karens who I know, some
Speaker 1: Carrols I don't know, No Becky's now all right, maybe
Speaker 1: not backies, but I can't. And there's some black Krents,
Speaker 1: you know, and we and we've been just running their
Speaker 1: name through the mud. So he's just gonna have to go.
Speaker 1: He's just gonna have Once the new berriant come out,
Speaker 1: we won't be worried about the old Marian variant no more.
Speaker 1: Please God, please let there be no new variants. Please
Speaker 1: let this be the end of COVID, so that we
Speaker 1: just let it disappear. I don't know powers that the
Speaker 1: powers that be are not gonna let COVID disappear like
Speaker 1: this is don't say that that's this just this is
Speaker 1: just it. You know, when people think about the world ending,
Speaker 1: we just think it's gonna be like a big boom
Speaker 1: like I was watching that movie don't look up over
Speaker 1: the weekend with the comment like hitting hitting the earth
Speaker 1: and you know, ship just changing, but I mean ship
Speaker 1: blowing up. People associate that that type of ship with
Speaker 1: the end of the world. The end of the world
Speaker 1: is like it's just gonna change as we know it.
Speaker 1: That's that's how I perceive it. And we see that
Speaker 1: ship has been rapidly changing in the last two years,
Speaker 1: like this ship is unprecedented. Um our parents never seen
Speaker 1: no ship like what's going on right now. We've never
Speaker 1: seen no ship like this. And but I mean, I mean,
Speaker 1: if you look at anytime there's a pandemic, you can
Speaker 1: look at in history and see people walking around with
Speaker 1: masks for five years when influenza first came out and
Speaker 1: spending you know, like so I feel like this is
Speaker 1: just par for the course of what happens when the
Speaker 1: pandemic happens. You know. And now I do feel like
Speaker 1: the world will come to an end, and the Bible
Speaker 1: does speak of a fiery end, but who knows what
Speaker 1: it will be. I think it will be technology that
Speaker 1: take over and we'll be like puppies to a robot.
Speaker 1: You'll you'll be like a puppy. No, I mean the earth,
Speaker 1: the earth. I'm trying to save y'all. Don't say you.
Speaker 1: You say you, soldier boy, bitch bus be and this
Speaker 1: motherfucker don't say me. So we don't know what. Like
Speaker 1: we got how many more days and from the end
Speaker 1: of it this year? Uh, just a couple. We got
Speaker 1: a couple more days before the end of this year, man,
Speaker 1: and this past weekend, I know about I think we
Speaker 1: talked about this on the last show because uh, I
Speaker 1: told I said that on Monday, I was saying, like
Speaker 1: it's gonna be another shutdown and ship like that. I
Speaker 1: know a good like. I know like at least fifteen
Speaker 1: people with COVID right now. Yeah, a lot of people
Speaker 1: have COVID. This um this veryan. It seems to be
Speaker 1: highly transmissible, but not as I you know it, I
Speaker 1: don't hear about it. I do know one person who
Speaker 1: passed away on Thursday. He had asthma from COVID. He
Speaker 1: did have asthma. He refused to be put on a ventilator,
Speaker 1: which I don't blame him. Um he was not vaccinated. Um,
Speaker 1: which we know now that that that doesn't that doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: But what my conspiracy theorist mind is telling me that
Speaker 1: we gotta have some unvaccinated people die in hospital. If not,
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be able to perpetuate the bullshit that is
Speaker 1: unvaccinated people dying in hospital. So I just feel like
Speaker 1: some people they may just be sacrificing for the narrative.
Speaker 1: Or he was going one day and he was going
Speaker 1: to next, but why he didn't want to do the
Speaker 1: ventilator Because people don't come off the ventilators. If you've
Speaker 1: been following like the ship with people, do I know
Speaker 1: somebody who has personally, I don't. And then and then
Speaker 1: even like just you know, watching, um, you know, I
Speaker 1: I listened to a lot of things, so I hear
Speaker 1: a lot of people telling telling firsthand, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: situations that they've experienced in their family and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and I don't nobody would be coming off those ventils
Speaker 1: even before COVID, like I have family members who once
Speaker 1: youre going to hospital some serious ship, it's like you
Speaker 1: don't come out. Yeah. I know a guy who was
Speaker 1: on a ventil later and he's home. He was in
Speaker 1: the club this past weekend, so I mean was in
Speaker 1: there COVID. Yeah, he was in there for COVID and
Speaker 1: he was saying like he just thought he was going
Speaker 1: to die in his greatest ally while he was because
Speaker 1: he didn't have any family or friends obviously that could
Speaker 1: visit him, and he felt like he was near death.
Speaker 1: And his greatest ally was a gay guy that he
Speaker 1: knew from his community, who he treated poorly in life
Speaker 1: because he was gay. He was in the hospital, he
Speaker 1: was working in the hospital, and he was encouraging him
Speaker 1: to fight for his life, and it was him who
Speaker 1: helped him to stay alive. Ain't that crazy? That is?
Speaker 1: It would be the people who you disrespect and treat
Speaker 1: the words and mean too because of who they choose
Speaker 1: to be, and those be the ones that will help
Speaker 1: you in your time and need ye. So God isn't everybody,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And if we were made
Speaker 1: in his image, who's to say that that's not one
Speaker 1: of his images? Right? For you to be treating people
Speaker 1: like ship. You gotta be careful, man, because you just
Speaker 1: don't know who is of God's You got to be
Speaker 1: careful what the funk you say to people and how
Speaker 1: you treat people period. Just treat people nice, just be good.
Speaker 1: You never know what someone's going through, right, So, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never been on the religionship. I'm more so about relationships, relationships, relationships,
Speaker 1: relationships over religion, relationships, love, love, love and music is
Speaker 1: my damn religion. Love, love, love, relationships, relationships, relationships, facility,
Speaker 1: as far as concern got to, I say, a handsome guy, y'all,
Speaker 1: please just a little bit man, whatever you believe in,
Speaker 1: you know, whatever you believe in, whatever keeps you bringing
Speaker 1: goodness and hope and light to the earth, you know,
Speaker 1: just more of that love love, love, love, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: repeat it. No, seriously, I agree. Do we have all
Speaker 1: this positive ship, We're gonna go straight into a dumb
Speaker 1: bitch story. Hey, let's let's face some bills right quick.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back dumb bitch stories, because we've all
Speaker 1: been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. Alright,
Speaker 1: So our dumb bitch story for the Day comes from
Speaker 1: one of our Instagram listeners, and we really, really really
Speaker 1: do appreciate the guys that participate with this segment. Um
Speaker 1: let's see it says, Hey, y'all, I'm not too sure
Speaker 1: if I'm being a dumb bitch, but since let me
Speaker 1: know what the fuck to do? L O L. So
Speaker 1: I met this guy online about a month ago and
Speaker 1: we literally have been talking almost every day, and the
Speaker 1: first two weeks conversations were really good. He took me
Speaker 1: on a date and y'all, the sexual attention was too intense.
Speaker 1: We couldn't even finish the food. We had never talked
Speaker 1: about sex, but that night was ridiculous. I told myself, girl,
Speaker 1: don't sleep with this man. But my pussy was like, girl,
Speaker 1: you know you need some attention. On the first night,
Speaker 1: my dumbass let him eat the pussy and it was
Speaker 1: probably the best head I've ever had. I let him
Speaker 1: fuck with a condom and look, she probably listened to
Speaker 1: us talk about condoms all the time. Let him know. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it says, and the dick was like she has
Speaker 1: like the the drooling emoji. The dick was like getting
Speaker 1: to Thanksgiving place and getting the itis mind you before,
Speaker 1: and one of our conversations, he told me that he
Speaker 1: has recently divorced and just moved to Cali for work.
Speaker 1: He told me that he got a divorce due to
Speaker 1: his wife telling him that she a lesbian and is
Speaker 1: now remarried. However, the other weekend, I spent Saturday night
Speaker 1: and all of Sunday with him and we had sex. Afterwards,
Speaker 1: he started texting someone like pretty much all day. He
Speaker 1: kept saying that he was happy that I'm with him
Speaker 1: and wanted me to stay. But at some point it
Speaker 1: felt like he wanted me to leave. Mind you, he
Speaker 1: was texting someone all day, went to the bathroom like
Speaker 1: ten thousand times, and was literally trying to hide that
Speaker 1: he was on the phone. This past weekend, I saw
Speaker 1: on his Alexa TV screensaver recent pictures taken with him
Speaker 1: and his ex wife. I don't know if I'm tripping
Speaker 1: or am I just believing a lie. I'm afraid that
Speaker 1: he's lying, and my intuition is telling me that this
Speaker 1: nigga is lying. Am I being a dumb bitch or tripping?
Speaker 1: L O L. Look. I did respond to her, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Um, you already know what it is.
Speaker 1: You're going to keep getting that good Da. No, at
Speaker 1: this point she was still getting the d And that's
Speaker 1: what it boils down to, like just knowing what you
Speaker 1: want on the situation. You know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: people be on some bullshit. We already know that men
Speaker 1: just women to m we'll be on some bullshit. So um,
Speaker 1: just don't take that into the new year. You're just
Speaker 1: about to be a new year. Just get all new dicks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it should never You should never feel confused when
Speaker 1: something is for you. You You should never like have to question,
Speaker 1: even though sometimes I think women especially we take situations
Speaker 1: from previous relationships and bring him in. So the minute
Speaker 1: you see something that looks sort of like that, you're
Speaker 1: antanna stopped going off. And maybe sometimes it's not that,
Speaker 1: So ask questions. First of all, don't assume ship because
Speaker 1: you're asking us to solve it. Ask him like, are
Speaker 1: you all so married? Because I saw some recent pictures
Speaker 1: on your Alexi. It's not like he was going through
Speaker 1: his ship. The universe revealed that to you. So listen
Speaker 1: signs and symbols for the conscious mind, pay attention to
Speaker 1: what the funk you saw, and ask him a question.
Speaker 1: Don't speculate and see what he comes up with. And
Speaker 1: I mean if he fumbles when trying to give you
Speaker 1: that response, you already know what it is. So you're
Speaker 1: gonna keep with the condom and all what were we doing? Right?
Speaker 1: What A J said? You already know the time of
Speaker 1: this girl. Stop acting stupid. Either you what it are
Speaker 1: you ain't. That's that's what we're doing for either you
Speaker 1: what it are you ain't. And that's in every aspect
Speaker 1: of your life. No when to walk away, no when
Speaker 1: to fold him, no when to hold him? Period. I
Speaker 1: have nothing to offer to that you're leaving anything in
Speaker 1: tim I'm just trying to leave all. Listen, people have
Speaker 1: been dropping like flies out of my life. Not dead,
Speaker 1: but just out of my life. And I just want
Speaker 1: to leave anything that doesn't serve me or isn't for me.
Speaker 1: That's all. Or transform transform those things. Those people that
Speaker 1: you do want to stay, but it's like I gotta
Speaker 1: leave you. Universe, please help them transform until better them
Speaker 1: to fit into my life. Because I mean, if you
Speaker 1: you you're working on yourself daily, um any healing you
Speaker 1: need to do, you're walking into the new year with
Speaker 1: a lot of gratitude like those are the people you
Speaker 1: want to keep in your life, the people that UM
Speaker 1: that help contribute to that healing, contribute to UM the
Speaker 1: love that you have and the love that you need. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just find that, like I get to like I'm
Speaker 1: a strong friend a lot of the times and people
Speaker 1: and I don't get to be the not strong friend.
Speaker 1: So sometimes people don't support me when I need it.
Speaker 1: And I had to let go of some relationships where
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm always pouring into them and
Speaker 1: then when I need that too, it's not reciprocated. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you have to have Sometimes people don't know, Like I
Speaker 1: always say, you know, I could be a better friend.
Speaker 1: I'm not as sentimental as some of my friends, Like, UM,
Speaker 1: I leave people alone a lot. And what I mean
Speaker 1: by that like when I'm going through ship, I just
Speaker 1: you know, be to myself. So I just assume that's
Speaker 1: how other people need, you know, that's that's what other
Speaker 1: another person would need when they're going through it. But oftentimes,
Speaker 1: like people do need you to reach out to them.
Speaker 1: People need you to know that they're thinking about you.
Speaker 1: I had got a random text message on Christmas from
Speaker 1: somebody I had just met when I was up in
Speaker 1: New Jersey. I appreciate. Uh, I just told you know,
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, I'm not that sentimental. I
Speaker 1: need to learn how to, you know, just send people
Speaker 1: like nice little notes when I'm thinking about them. But
Speaker 1: I just don't. I just don't. So that might be
Speaker 1: a transformation for you. I just don't. I just be
Speaker 1: letting people. I feel like, whenever you're available, whenever you free,
Speaker 1: you hit me up. I'm not like the friend I
Speaker 1: get mad when I don't talk to you. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, I just assume everybody going through
Speaker 1: the ship, and most of us are going through the ship.
Speaker 1: But I'm a friend who I'm abhoring to you, and
Speaker 1: I'm abhorring to you, but then I'm gonna need it back.
Speaker 1: But you have to then communicate that to your friend
Speaker 1: and like, and it shouldn't be in a in a
Speaker 1: way like it's kind of attack ish, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, Hey, I, um, you remember when you
Speaker 1: was going through such as this? How you can start off?
Speaker 1: You remember when he was going through such as such?
Speaker 1: And I hit you up that you know sometimes I
Speaker 1: need that too, m You know that would be nice
Speaker 1: And you just have to learn how to talk to
Speaker 1: people in a way that they understand, not in a
Speaker 1: way that you want to talk to them like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna deal with it. You have to communicate with
Speaker 1: people in a way that they can receive it, in
Speaker 1: the way that they comprehend, which is hard and it's
Speaker 1: a real life skill set to learn how to how
Speaker 1: other people want to be treated, because it's not like,
Speaker 1: treat people how you want to be treated. It's treat
Speaker 1: people how they want to be treated. It's talked to
Speaker 1: people how they want to be talked to. It's talk
Speaker 1: to people how you know they can perceive and comprehend.
Speaker 1: What the fun you're trying to say, because we live
Speaker 1: in a world where oh this is your truth that
Speaker 1: should like no, like there's the truth. And then it's
Speaker 1: with something you might have in your fucking head that
Speaker 1: just maybe so far left. And then you're coming at
Speaker 1: something Autien is like I didn't even know you felt
Speaker 1: like that or I didn't even see what was that
Speaker 1: big of a problem. Yeah, I agree there, but it'll
Speaker 1: be so meant like for me, I come at you like, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: let's do this, Hey, you know a million times in
Speaker 1: the sweet way, and then after that, I'm gonna be blunt.
Speaker 1: You know. It's only so many times that I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be nice. Yeah, and then it won't even be mean.
Speaker 1: They'll just be direct, you know. It won't be like
Speaker 1: bitch funck you. It won't be that, and it's just
Speaker 1: be like, hey, you're fake and this is how you've
Speaker 1: been fake. And sometimes you gotta do that because then
Speaker 1: you've got some people who only respect disrespect, So sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta be like, listen and point it out. M M.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Just try to be nice to people, man,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna try to do my next time, next,
Speaker 1: my next relationship. I want to be really nice. I
Speaker 1: want to receive nice. Do I want a relationship? In two?
Speaker 1: Is in a relationship you're not? Just be like I'm
Speaker 1: so hurt. I can't ever. I don't even like men
Speaker 1: right like i'd be ready to fall in love again,
Speaker 1: the fuck I'd be ready like to have another relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm not about to be down for two fucking long
Speaker 1: because it's just whack. I like men. Yeah, Tannahoy and March,
Speaker 1: you told me that I was gonna have me a
Speaker 1: basketball player in twelve or fourteen, months, y'all were coming
Speaker 1: up on that. So if he lied, we're gonna send
Speaker 1: him some d ms. Everybody who loved me, y'all d
Speaker 1: him his ass too, and tell me he needs to
Speaker 1: come back and re prophesies for a bit, because we
Speaker 1: might need to have him on like our first episode
Speaker 1: for the New Year Man, because we need like a
Speaker 1: nice little outlook. Why the fund did I do wrong?
Speaker 1: Because I was supposed to have a kid, not have
Speaker 1: a kid. But I guess why did he tell me?
Speaker 1: I would have said you would have two sons when
Speaker 1: he be with the guy that you're with. He actually
Speaker 1: saw that I had two kids, which my ex does
Speaker 1: have two boys and those are my kids though, but
Speaker 1: you know when you with somebody who has children like
Speaker 1: those kids, right, But he told me I would have
Speaker 1: my own kids that ain't happy yet and me and
Speaker 1: this nick ain't together. Like what happened. Well, he didn't
Speaker 1: say it when y'all would stay together and he y'all
Speaker 1: might get back together. You never know. You never know.
Speaker 1: With the University Herald, bye, are we're gonna do? We
Speaker 1: did get to ask the Black friend question, do you
Speaker 1: want to do one of those that in the Year
Speaker 1: Out yeah, man, we haven't had one in a while,
Speaker 1: all right, So we gotta ask a black friend question
Speaker 1: in our d M s and it goes as this, Um, hey,
Speaker 1: guys love this show. This question maybe silly, but do
Speaker 1: black people wear turtlenecks. I've never seen a black person
Speaker 1: in a turtleneck. Girl, you clearly don't know who the
Speaker 1: baby is because that nigga wear a turtle neck every day,
Speaker 1: so definitely be having on turtlenecks all the time. We
Speaker 1: changed that's you know who used to wear turtle Next
Speaker 1: we change Nino Brown in New jack City, and the
Speaker 1: baby brought that a little back because I'm gonna wear
Speaker 1: a turtleneck and a chain tonight. I like turtlenecks. They
Speaker 1: just make it like, like I don't know, they make
Speaker 1: your face look cuter or something. I think. I like
Speaker 1: a turtle neck because it kind of go up to
Speaker 1: my double chin and make it look like one sentuate
Speaker 1: or not a situated, but brings in like a nice
Speaker 1: black turtleneck. Yes, that's what I'm wearing a night. Yes,
Speaker 1: I like turtlenecks. And yeah, thank you for the question,
Speaker 1: I mean thank you. That's it. Oh, no, before we
Speaker 1: go I all right. So I drive back and forth
Speaker 1: to Columbia stuff Carolina at work every week. And this
Speaker 1: past week a friend of mine sent me an audio
Speaker 1: book to listen to and there was an excerpt from
Speaker 1: it that I want to share with you guys, and
Speaker 1: I want you to really listen to this excerpt and
Speaker 1: then repeat it out loud for the universe to hear you,
Speaker 1: so you can manifest these awesome things for your life
Speaker 1: and the lives of the people around you. For so please,
Speaker 1: y'all say it out loud when you hear it. Okay,
Speaker 1: speak these words aloud with power and conviction. I now
Speaker 1: smash and demolish by my spoken word every untrue record
Speaker 1: in my subconscious mind. They shall return to the dust
Speaker 1: heap of their native nothingness, for they came from my
Speaker 1: own vain imaginings. I now make my perfect records through
Speaker 1: the Christ, within the records of health, wealth, love, and
Speaker 1: perfect self expression. This is the square of life, the
Speaker 1: game Come pleaded. I love y'all man. Happy New Year,
Speaker 1: Happy New Year. Listen. If you guys enjoyed this episode,
Speaker 1: we want you all to continue tune in. And we
Speaker 1: really really appreciate y'all man. We have almost one million downloads.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if y'all knowing not, but we
Speaker 1: were not a thing prior to one. Like our lunch
Speaker 1: date was January one, UM this year and for a
Speaker 1: new podcast, that's fucking excellent. So we appreciate y'all. We
Speaker 1: only attribute that to our um our listeners, man, our
Speaker 1: loyal listeners. We really really, really really really appreciate you'll.
Speaker 1: I try to message back as many people as possible
Speaker 1: on Instagram. UM, let y'all know how much we love
Speaker 1: and appreciate y'all, because yeah, we're with y'all for real, man,
Speaker 1: super heavy, and we're gonna have We got a lot
Speaker 1: of good things coming in UM so we can keep that.
Speaker 1: We're poor, growing and going with our listeners. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: about to be more visual for y'all. It's all been
Speaker 1: just audio, but we're about to bring some some visual
Speaker 1: to y'all. We're about to go outside a little bit
Speaker 1: and talk to the folks. I want to do that.
Speaker 1: I want to do some different ship Like I might
Speaker 1: even like do one day where I'm a stripper and
Speaker 1: record it and be a life of a stripper for
Speaker 1: one day. Like I just want to do different ships.
Speaker 1: For everybody to see a witness man. So it's gonna
Speaker 1: be fun. Two gonna be different, y'all what I can. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do some different ship man. I'm about to
Speaker 1: be very visual for motherfucker's But why a stripper to guy?
Speaker 1: Damn all right? Because I want to see what they
Speaker 1: life like? Bitch, you already know what that life like.
Speaker 1: You just ain't never been no stripper, borderline. I know
Speaker 1: you're not worked in a bit. Been a bartender before? No.
Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, I was a bartender and strip club
Speaker 1: before a long time ago, but that ain't the same.
Speaker 1: I hadn't close, right, So we'll see right, all right,
Speaker 1: y'all listen. If you enjoy this episode, please tune in
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you, alright, y'all. It's tam Bam official Tambam
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Y'all follow me. I love y'all so much
Speaker 1: and I'll see y'all next year is