1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's 2 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 2: Well, we had a couple of technical difficulties, but we 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 2: made it through. Marv. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 3: We're here. How you doing. 6 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 4: I'm doing great good. 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 2: We are in the day and I have no idea 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 2: if this is what I mean. There's a lot of 9 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: energy is going on, so maybe you can talk to 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 2: what's going on over here. Maybe it has nothing to 11 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: do with that. I asked you if it was mercury 12 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: RETROGRADEY said no, So I don't actually know, but I 13 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: know we do have an Aquarius full moon happening today, 14 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 2: which will be the day before this podcast comes out, 15 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 2: so we have a lot to get into today. Did 16 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 2: you want to start with the new moon stuff? I 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 2: know we kind of touched on this a little bit 18 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: last time, but we had a new. 19 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 4: No, I want to start with the full moon. 20 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: Okay. 21 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 4: I want you to understand the cycle and and so 22 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 4: the full moon is the right place to start because 23 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 4: everything kicks off. In other words, at the new moon 24 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 4: is the beginning of everything. It's the beginning of the month, 25 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 4: the beginning of starting projects, it's the beginning of everything. 26 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: The full moon is fourteen days later. When you've taken 27 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 4: that project, you've put it out into the public for 28 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 4: evaluation and see how what reactions that you get. So 29 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 4: I wanted to start off with understanding the cancer new Moon. 30 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 4: This full moon is working off the cancer new Moon 31 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 4: and the cancer new Moon. Just to go back over, 32 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 4: it's passion for your calling. It's a sense of your 33 00:01:54,120 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 4: own destiny, creating that competence in pursuit of your own goals, 34 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 4: maximizing your strong points and playing down your weak points, 35 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 4: and playing the hand you're given, tough minded confidence. These 36 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 4: are all things of the new Moon and cancer that 37 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 4: we started fourteen days ago. And of course some of 38 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 4: the chart patterns were, you know, conflict with our personal 39 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 4: needs versus the obligations of others, manifest an avoidance of 40 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 4: commitment or suffering under the burden of too much responsibility. 41 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 4: Balanced approach to fulfilling one's responsibilities in the world, so 42 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 4: that personal enjoyment and fulfillment can also be experienced. And 43 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: then we had another we had another Saturn Mars opposition 44 00:02:54,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 4: going on, which we still do, which is a it's 45 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 4: a it's a sympathetic passive or emotional behavior that can 46 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 4: become aggressive and ruthless if it's not direct and honest. 47 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 4: And it's in Pisces. So we're learning how to let 48 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 4: go of all of our skeletons in the closet and 49 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 4: all our baggage so that we can operate Mars directly 50 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 4: and assertively and what we want and who we are, Okay, 51 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: And so that was that was all from the Cancer 52 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 4: new moon. Now that we are coming into the Aquarius 53 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 4: full moon, we've got to look at that and say, Okay, well, 54 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 4: how did I do over the last fourteen days? Did 55 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 4: I really was I really strong in my sense of 56 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 4: what I wanted to accomplish and how I wanted to 57 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 4: get put myself out there and get things done? And 58 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: am I conflicted by what I want versus what other 59 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 4: people want from me or what other people are I'm 60 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 4: trying to passively operate with other people so I can 61 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 4: get along. 62 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: This is exactly we were having a little session before 63 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: this podcast. 64 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: And I mean, I won't get into the. 65 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: Details of the story I was telling you, but that's 66 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 2: exactly what I was saying happened to me. And it's 67 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: probably no mistake that I had my big AHA moment 68 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: today the day of the full moon, when it's kind 69 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 2: of this culmination of like you said, over the past 70 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 2: two weeks, if we look back at our behavior, like 71 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: for me, what I did the last two weeks was 72 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 2: trying to operate in a way that served an other 73 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: situation I was in, but was not true to me, 74 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 2: Like I was leaving who I am, what I need, 75 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 2: how I operate in this world to try to accommodate 76 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: other people. And I realized I was feeling really disconnected 77 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: at the end of that, and then I was upset 78 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 2: and I was trying to like talk to them about it. 79 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 2: But then today I had this thing and I was like, 80 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: oh my god, I feel disconnected because I'm not being me, 81 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: Like it has nothing to do with the relationship or 82 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 2: the other person or the situation. It's all about me 83 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 2: leaving me. And so I'm hearing today like that whole 84 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: like evaluating the whole thing, and I'm like, oh, that 85 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: didn't work, So now let me get back to how 86 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 2: I operate in the world, and that'll either work in 87 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: the relationship or not. 88 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 3: But I can't leave me. 89 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 4: Well, and see, that's that's the value. And then understanding 90 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 4: the entire cycle and as is where are we falling 91 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 4: short and accomplishing what to do was? Yeah, you see, 92 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 4: and the way we overcome things. You know, so many 93 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 4: people don't understand that when you read a chart, you're 94 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 4: reading the blueprint of who your soul is coming into 95 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 4: this world. Well, if you don't hold the integrity of 96 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 4: who you are, well, then that's the conflict. This is 97 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: where the fears and the anxieties and all the troubles 98 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 4: start in our life. And this is what you know, 99 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 4: a lot of times when I do readings, people don't 100 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 4: completely understand some of that soul souls, what the soul 101 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 4: wants to accomplish in this lifetime because they're not willing 102 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 4: or ready to confront some of the negative issues or 103 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 4: old perceptions and opinions that they've had coming into this life. 104 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 4: But our job is to stay in integrity with our 105 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 4: basic blueprint of who we are and then go through 106 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 4: experience to now grow from grow in a new perspective 107 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 4: and opinion and perception, Yeah, of who we better can 108 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: be more balanced and a higher consciousness. 109 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: That is why I say doing these readings with you 110 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 2: or understanding your chart in astrology is so important or 111 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: has been so important for me and what I would 112 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: call a healing journey, But in reality, it's more of 113 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: this journey to get to myself because as much as 114 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: I think I thought I knew myself, there was a 115 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 2: lot that even if I knew it, like I'm a 116 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: very emotional creature that because of the way our culture 117 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 2: looks at certain things like that, like I view those 118 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 2: as negative characteristics of my personality. But the more I 119 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: started understanding my chart and the way I chose to 120 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:10,239 Speaker 2: come into this world, I came with very specific personality type, 121 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 2: skill sets, uniquetness and all of those things, just like 122 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: every other human on this planet. And the more I 123 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 2: accept those parts of my personality, the more I'm seeing 124 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: all of those pieces of me as gifts and not like, oh, 125 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: you're too much because you feel that much Like I'm 126 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: a very sensitive person, but I can use it for 127 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: a lot of good when I lean into it, and 128 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 2: you know the purpose of why I'm here, And just 129 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: like your blueprint is totally different. And we were talking 130 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: a little bit about that before too, but yeah, but 131 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: I do think that's so important. It took me a 132 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 2: long time, Like I didn't want to be a double 133 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 2: water sign. I was like, oh, you can't do anything 134 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 2: about it, so you may as well fucking accept it 135 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 2: and try to work with it. 136 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 4: Well, you see, this is what people don't understand, because 137 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 4: we got sun signs and we got planets and then 138 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 4: we got where it all plays out right, and you 139 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 4: have to understand that. You know, your basic blueprint is 140 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 4: who you are. The energy is showing you how you 141 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 4: used energy in the past that is in a conflict 142 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:22,719 Speaker 4: with a pure neutral use of the energy. So when 143 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 4: you've got to when you've got to tryne you use 144 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 4: energies fantastically. You don't even have to try. It's just 145 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 4: a natural way to use energy. When you have an 146 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 4: energy that's squared or in conflict with another energy, that's 147 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 4: because you have a perception, perspective or judgment opinion from 148 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 4: the past that does not use the energy right, which 149 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 4: causes you to bump up against situations and have confrontation 150 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 4: with it because you haven't used the energy right. And 151 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 4: you've got to learn how to use the energy correctly 152 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 4: so that it doesn't create disharmony. So that helps you 153 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: raise in the level of consciousness by you by correction 154 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 4: of the energy. 155 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So in each person's chart. Do they have trines 156 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 2: and squares or is that more? 157 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 3: Okay? 158 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 4: I see now if you want to come to me 159 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 4: and all you want me to tell you is all 160 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 4: your sex, stiles and trimes, well I'm the wrong man. 161 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 4: Why Because I'm a soul reader Soul what does the 162 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 4: soul want you to know? Does? What energies are you 163 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 4: conflicted with? Because when you come to me, you're going 164 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 4: to come to me with conflict about your experience, right, 165 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 4: and I'm going to give you what that conflict is 166 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,599 Speaker 4: in accordance with how the energy is being read in 167 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 4: multitudes of lifetimes. I mean, you don't just come into 168 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: from what the last life is when you got all 169 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 4: this energy fouled up. It's been several lifetimes. So you know, 170 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 4: my way of understanding astrology is pap astrology will read 171 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 4: you know, really good and really bad, and I read neutral. 172 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 4: What is the better way to read? What is the 173 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 4: better way to use the energy that you can moving 174 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 4: with the energy in a correct fashion versus moving against it. 175 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 4: So let's say when you discovered, you know, you were 176 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 4: acquiescing to what the needs were from the other person 177 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 4: and trying to tiptoe around as the word you use. Well, 178 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 4: that ain't that's not Mars. Mars says, I'm going to 179 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 4: be me. I'm going to go independently. I'm going for 180 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 4: what I want and you that's not getting my way. 181 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 2: Wait, why do you say that's not Mars. Is that 182 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 2: an energy happening in this world right now or in 183 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 2: much heart? 184 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, Mark, Saturn Mars opposition. 185 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 3: That's the thing you were just talking about. 186 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 4: Okay, right, So when you've got a Saturn Mars, Saturn 187 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 4: is your reality, Mars is your independence that don't want 188 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 4: to be hindered in any way. So, in other words, 189 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 4: the reality you've constructed that we all consciously construct is 190 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:33,599 Speaker 4: bumping up against that need to be individualistic, independent and assertive. 191 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: So we're trying to balance the two energies that really 192 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 4: don't work well together. That's one's discipline and responsibility and 193 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 4: perfectionism and one's just saying get out of my way 194 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 4: here I come. I'm a warrior. I'm going to fight 195 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 4: to get through the the whatever's blocking me. 196 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 197 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 4: Okay, So that's how two energies bump up against each other. 198 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 4: So when you get a reading, when I give readings 199 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 4: to people, I've got to ascertain if they really want 200 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 4: to move beyond how they've used the energy in the past. 201 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 4: I mean, I've just come off of working with some clients. 202 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 4: One had believe she has a spell cast on her 203 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 4: from another lifetime, and then when I tried to work 204 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 4: through that and get through that, she doesn't want to 205 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 4: get rid of it. She wants to stay in she 206 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 4: doesn't want to get into forgiveness. Yeah, okay. Another one 207 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 4: had fear. When I got into bringing up the fear 208 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 4: out of her the energy field, she started crying, she 209 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 4: started getting I mean, she started reacting, and I had 210 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 4: to stop it because I can only get her to 211 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 4: ten years old, which was not the beginning. But I 212 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 4: mean she just as we call it ab reaction, So 213 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 4: I couldn't get her past that. So she's not ready 214 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 4: to deal with the conflict. She's not ready to deal 215 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 4: with the uh with the fear. See this and this 216 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 4: takes a higher level of consciousness. So we've got to 217 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 4: use energies. And that's what I worked to do, is 218 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 4: build that bridge to a higher level of consciousness so 219 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 4: that you you don't have to have the conflict with 220 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 4: the energy anymore. You can start seeing it and how 221 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 4: to work with it harmoniously. Okay, that's what a reading is. 222 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 3: That makes sense to me. 223 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 4: And of course when I you know, I use the 224 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 4: word consciousness a lot, and universal consciousness and the universal 225 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 4: and I just this week got the best definition of 226 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 4: consciousness okay, and it's it really does bring to bear 227 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 4: a greater understanding. So what is the definition of consciousness? 228 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 4: That is a bridge between the all that is or 229 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 4: God or spirit or wherever you want to name it, 230 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 4: but it's the all that is and personal experience. So 231 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 4: it's a bridge between our ego personality, self and all 232 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 4: our experiences and the highest, highest evolution of the universe. 233 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: So we're trying to find the bridge between those things 234 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: in a lifetime. 235 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 4: Right, Well, you raise a level of consciousness in each 236 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 4: lifetime yea. Hopefully, yeah, that Casey said, everybody doesn't quite 237 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 4: get there, yeah, but at any rate, hopefully everybody's trying 238 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 4: to overcome a lot of the energies that that's been 239 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 4: disharmonious in their life. And then from the soul perspective, yeah, okay, 240 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 4: So when we get to the full moon, in other words, 241 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 4: now we're looking at how we've operated with the new 242 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 4: moon and what the new moon's destiny was and what 243 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 4: the new moon's project was. So for fourteen days we 244 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 4: went through that project. And then when we get to 245 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 4: the full moon, we call this the full phase. And 246 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 4: the full phase is where we start to polarize things. 247 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 4: We start to see the black and white us them. 248 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 4: We need to start seeing things from good and bad 249 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 4: and all of that, and we've got to heal that 250 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 4: whole projection and concept because that's not going to work 251 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 4: for our project. We want our project to succeed. So 252 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 4: this is the last place, and this three and a 253 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 4: half days that we can make final adjustments in our project. 254 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,679 Speaker 3: Why do you say three and a half days. 255 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 4: Because that's how long the full moon lasts. Got it, 256 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 4: So you have three and a half days to make 257 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 4: adjustments to the project started at the new moon, okay, 258 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 4: and after that it starts going forward out into the 259 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 4: world until you finally goes around to the three days 260 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 4: before the new moon, which is balsamic, which is time 261 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 4: for now let everything go and turn it all back 262 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 4: over to spirit. 263 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 2: These next three days we're going to be making the 264 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 2: adjustments for the next two weeks, like how we want 265 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 2: them to go. So if you felt anything over this 266 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: full moon, or you're feeling anything that you're like, yeah, 267 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: that wasn't working. This would be the time to like 268 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 2: make some adjustments. 269 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 3: Perfect, got it? Well, that makes you feel really good 270 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 3: about this. 271 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: And like I really was in a fog the last 272 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 2: three days and just feeling like just irritable. That's like 273 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 2: the only word I can think of. And then all 274 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 2: of a sudden poof today, it just like came to 275 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 2: me and I was like, oh my god. I mean, 276 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 2: obviously that was from somewhere else if it just popped. 277 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: In that way. 278 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 2: But but yeah, it's like we're leaving and now I 279 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: can make the adjustments and get back to being myself. 280 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 3: And well you. 281 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 4: Can stay in balance and in harmony with the energy 282 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 4: that you know, we all bump up against people and 283 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 4: we're always trying to be ourselves right, and of course 284 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 4: this is part of what this Venus retrograde is all about. 285 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 4: Is you know, you have to understand that we're confronting 286 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 4: sole issues right now. It's a Venus retrograde, and those 287 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 4: sole issues because we got a Pluto square. 288 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 2: The why are you laughing at that? 289 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 3: It is a little like, boy, are we about to 290 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 3: get it? 291 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 4: Well? I mean you know you're you're you're confronting at 292 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 4: a sole level the things that aren't allowing you to 293 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 4: be your self worth, authentically you, what makes you happy 294 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 4: and harmony, And so. 295 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 3: You're confronting story right now, how. 296 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 4: You're confronting the air reside in the libra side, which 297 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 4: the ares is mars, it's go get it, assertive, independent, 298 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 4: get out of my way, Lee Bruh is about leaning 299 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 4: and depending on others and and letting others dictate our 300 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 4: responses and life. So there's a there's a there's an 301 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 4: emotional psychological response there. And so right now we're all 302 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 4: trying to find our find our venus issues, joy, happiness, 303 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 4: peace and love by being precisely who we are, exactly 304 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 4: who we are, bringing in more the masculine of who 305 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 4: we are, not depending on anybody to prop us up, 306 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 4: not depending on codependencies. So we we we don't make 307 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 4: codependence out of people and society. We take responsibility for 308 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 4: who we are, what we are, what we want, how 309 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 4: we want it, and we assert that that is the 310 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 4: all is the soul's transformation is going to now bumping 311 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 4: up against this dynamic. So it's how we've all been 312 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 4: codependent it's how we've all been too aggressive, too assertive 313 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 4: to where we've been out of balance. So we've got 314 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 4: to find balance moving into this new moon. And so 315 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 4: we we're all in a in this confrontation together right now. 316 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 4: And so when we when we when we look at 317 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:44,679 Speaker 4: what has been going on, it's the spiritual values versus 318 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 4: ego values is kind of a bottom line, Uh, it's 319 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 4: alternate feelings of love and loneliness, a longing to find 320 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 4: a sense of self worth. It's this This full moon 321 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 4: is squared by squared by Jupiter, and it squares the sun. 322 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 4: So there's a lot of false pride going on, a 323 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 4: lot of judgment over this full moon that's getting started 324 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 4: over the next fourteen days. There are people are doing 325 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 4: a lot of opinions versus facts, a lot of oversensitivity 326 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 4: about our opinions, and so we're vacillating also on our 327 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 4: commitments and gain at any price. So there is a lot, 328 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 4: a lot of struggling energy right now. And of course 329 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 4: we've got a the feminine aspect is in direct struggle 330 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 4: with Mars, the masculine, and of course, so there's restrictions 331 00:22:55,160 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 4: and expression of our masculine energy sometimes o course, there's 332 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 4: blocks and acting and following through on commitments and before 333 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 4: we're becoming overly aggressive because we can feel the insecurity 334 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 4: of the masculine inadequacy. Yeah, so that's what this full 335 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 4: moon is bringing up. And what would how do you 336 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 4: resolve that you learn how to align your energy, your drive, 337 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 4: and will with clearly conceived focus, direction and purpose. 338 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 3: Well that feels very masculine though. 339 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 4: Well not really, because you're it is very well, it 340 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 4: is very masculine, you're right, and so there's a lot 341 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 4: of over masculinity going on with this full moon. 342 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: So with the full moon, it's that and what we're 343 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,719 Speaker 2: trying to get back to is the balance again the 344 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 2: union that okay. 345 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 4: Right, In other words, the weaknesses that we're looking at 346 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 4: for three and a half days is how we're out 347 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 4: of balance and the venus, you can throw its definition 348 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 4: in there. Out of balance, not in harmony. The self 349 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 4: worth is low self esteem, it's low self worth, and 350 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 4: we're not having the joy and feeling the love of ourselves. Yeah, 351 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 4: so that's what's going on. 352 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 3: That's the full moon total sense. 353 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 2: To me, it's how my life has been going. 354 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 4: And so when we look at the new moon in Leo. 355 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:43,719 Speaker 2: Yay, that's in what two weeks from now, mid August? 356 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 4: Okay, so that would be let's see what date is that. 357 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 4: That's going to be on the sixteenth of August. 358 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 3: Sixteenth of August, okay. 359 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 4: And so this new moon in Leo, you got to understand, 360 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 4: Leo is the fully developed personality ego in the will okay, 361 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 4: and this is a very strong, willful ego, bigger than 362 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 4: life personality. 363 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 3: Okay. 364 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 4: So we're all going to move into this bigger than 365 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 4: life personality. And the ultimate decision for every Leo is 366 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 4: is it my will or thy will? Because at Leo 367 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 4: now we have to be sculpted into becoming and moving 368 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 4: towards being a spiritual being, not a human being. 369 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 3: That's a big one in the past couple of years, 370 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 3: I feel. 371 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 4: So we're going to be on the bright side, is 372 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 4: we're going to go after what we really want from life, 373 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 4: no matter what other people think. We're going to be 374 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 4: living by our own rules, but with a strict personal 375 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 4: code of honor. And then we're going to focus our 376 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 4: creative work and we're going to keep a lid on 377 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 4: negative emotions. So we're going to be much more self 378 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 4: directed versus feeling constantly cramped from social pressures. So you 379 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 4: see how this full moon is kind of leading into 380 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 4: this self recognition and this self creativity. And so the 381 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 4: struggles that's going to be in the energy patterns is 382 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 4: certainly going to be Now is no longer Jupiter squaring 383 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 4: the moon and Sun. It's uranus, and uranus is break up, breakout, 384 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 4: break away, break free, it's rebellion, and it challenges challenges 385 00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 4: to our authenticity. So the conflicts and confrontations we have 386 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 4: are going to challenge our real truth. It's going to 387 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 4: be a constant identity crisis because uranus is separation, Uranus 388 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 4: is breaking out, breaking away, and so it's going to 389 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 4: be kind of a little bit of an emotional war 390 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 4: within ourselves. So we've got to watch out for the 391 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 4: constant identity crisis and stay authentically who we are. Jupiter 392 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 4: is going to square that Venus retrograde, so where everybody's 393 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 4: going to have an opinion without facts. A lot of 394 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 4: the increased conceitedness. I love reading that because I haven't 395 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 4: used that word since high school in sedd Yeah, I mean, 396 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 4: I just don't think of things being conceited. I just 397 00:27:55,400 --> 00:28:00,199 Speaker 4: think of it, well, yeah, adult, you're thinking, well, just 398 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 4: full of themselves. But I mean, you know, there is 399 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 4: going to be a lot of a lot of assumptions 400 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 4: exposing greediness and materialistic attitudes, self serving because that's what 401 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 4: Jupiter wants. I want everything for me, okay, And so 402 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 4: we're also the struggle with it is going to be 403 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 4: that Neptune is going to be opposing mercury, So our 404 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 4: thinking is going to be a little bit confused, and 405 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 4: so we're going to be trying to second guess that 406 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 4: somebody is using us, so they being authentical with us? 407 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 4: Are are we being too quick to abandon our own 408 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 4: values and principles? And and then are we being too 409 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 4: critical about you know, the illusion of how we think 410 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 4: others should be instead of just accepting them for who 411 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 4: they are. 412 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 2: I mean, in my life is so lined up with 413 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 2: everything you have just talked about. 414 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:11,959 Speaker 3: It's so wild. 415 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: This is why I just when people say astrology is 416 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: so like woo woo, or yeah you believe that crap, 417 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, I believe it if you know anything 418 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 2: about it. 419 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 3: It is so in line. 420 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 2: It's ect everything you said is exactly what I've been 421 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: bumping up against. So it makes sense. 422 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 4: Well, and I mean we've all been bumping up against 423 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 4: it in one way or another. I mean, I'm using 424 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 4: it described by my language, and I mean, you know, 425 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 4: in a session, I would try to find the language 426 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 4: that matches with the person. Right, So it's all it's 427 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 4: all different. I mean, I'm looking at it from from 428 00:29:55,000 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 4: astrological energy perspective. How it operates in your life is 429 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 4: totally up to how you use the energy. 430 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 3: In your own personal chart. Yeah. 431 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 4: Right, And so we've got to make sure because we're 432 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:16,959 Speaker 4: going to be confronted with the feminine and the communication difficulties. 433 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 4: For sure, there might be too much self in prospection people. 434 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 4: You know, I get people that's in their head and 435 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 4: not in their heart or in their masculine and the 436 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 4: feminine is nowhere to be found. So we've got to 437 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 4: make sure that we get a clear communications on exactly 438 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 4: what's going on for us, our feelings, our emotions, our values, 439 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 4: what's important to us. And so it's important that we 440 00:30:53,440 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 4: clarify our personal objectives and thoughts and eliminating unessential mental baggage. 441 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 4: And when you go in to over analyzing, that's mental baggage. 442 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 4: You've left the moment ruminating. Yeah, all you're doing now 443 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 4: is operating with a bunch of words that describe your 444 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 4: experience from the past. You've lost authenticity and so we've 445 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 4: got to clarify who we truly are. And then, of 446 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 4: course there's another conflict with the feminine of how we're 447 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 4: participating in the world, and that's the conflict between our 448 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 4: creative needs and relationship needs. You know, how do we 449 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 4: want to create it versus how is our relationship impacting us? 450 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 4: And we're making too many adjustments or not making enough adjustments. 451 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 4: Because relationships are our mirror of what's going on in 452 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 4: side of us. So when we really want to understand 453 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 4: our creative side, well, then a relationship is actually showing 454 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 4: us where we're in default or we're not in balance. 455 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 4: And so the answer to this one is imbalances in 456 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 4: one's own masculine feminine polarity may cause difficulties in the 457 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 4: relating to others. 458 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 2: So if you're operating from one extreme versus like two 459 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 2: masculine or too feminine, like, you want to really find 460 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 2: the balance between those two energies within yourself. 461 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, basically, when when you have 462 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 4: too much masculine energy, then the feminine will always remain 463 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 4: in the realm of imagination without actually taking action or 464 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 4: create concrete results, which leads to complacency and stagnation for 465 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 4: the mass. 466 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 467 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 4: And when we're in too much feminine energy, the masculine 468 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,959 Speaker 4: will function with no order, no restraint, no reason, and 469 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 4: it results in other chaos. 470 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 2: To put it lightly, and it results in utter chaos. Yes, 471 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 2: So just so you know that's how that's going to look. 472 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, you know, look at it. So what 473 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 4: the feminine is the archetype of the dream. That's the 474 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 4: feminine is the sacred you've got. The feminine has the 475 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 4: sacred gift that's given us the vision of how to 476 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 4: move forward. Then turns it over to the masculine, which 477 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 4: goes and now takes control of how to create that dream. 478 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 3: Right, puts it into practice. 479 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 4: Right. And so when you're out of out of I mean, 480 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 4: when you're in and then balance such relation, well, then 481 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 4: one of the other is going to be dominant and 482 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 4: is not going to be fulfilling in whatever you're trying 483 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 4: to accomplish. It's not going to be fulfilling in our lives. Yeah, 484 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 4: I mean you say, think about it. I mean, you 485 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,720 Speaker 4: know who loves the. 486 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 3: Masculine, the feminine. 487 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 4: Try to love in your head, right, ask people that 488 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 4: all the time. You where do you think love? You 489 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 4: can think you love somebody all you want, but you 490 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:39,360 Speaker 4: if you don't feel it, well, then there is no love. Yeah, 491 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 4: And so the whole full moon new moon cycle is 492 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 4: teaching us about our masculine feminine balance, and that's getting 493 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,320 Speaker 4: into a little greater depth. But that's what I studied 494 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 4: for over ten years. 495 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,840 Speaker 2: Well, also, like what I keep reading about the interesting 496 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 2: thing between this new moon and this full moon, And 497 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 2: we kind of touched on this before we started recording. 498 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,959 Speaker 2: But like the new moon's energy is cancer, the full 499 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,839 Speaker 2: Moon's energy is Aquarius. And there could not be more 500 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 2: polar opposite energies, right, like right. 501 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 3: Those two things. 502 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 2: So that seems also like a place of finding a 503 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 2: middle ground, like a balance of the between those two things. 504 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 4: Well, so but you're talking signs and signs are the 505 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,760 Speaker 4: basic personality. 506 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 3: Expression, right But so okay, so how that. 507 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,800 Speaker 4: Is to me? Each energy is in a specific sign, 508 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 4: so you would have to actually integrate the energy with 509 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 4: a sign and then where is it operating in your 510 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 4: life to get a complete and total perspective. 511 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 3: Okay, that makes sense to me. 512 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 4: Jos, like the last what we were just talking about here, 513 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 4: The answer to that is is always acknowledging the value 514 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 4: of others' creative process and finding a way to incorporate 515 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 4: their contribution while still being true to oneself. Okay, how 516 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 4: beautiful is that? 517 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 3: It's great? 518 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 2: It really is, and it actually feels really good because 519 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 2: it's sort of reminding me, like the way it's playing 520 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 2: out in my life is in relationship right now, and 521 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 2: so like it feels like though that thing where you 522 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,799 Speaker 2: always say, be in love of a person, not with 523 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 2: a person, like that whole energy of letting everyone in 524 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: our lives and the situations in our lives be what 525 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 2: they are, but also allowing ourselves to do that. So 526 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 2: not like abandoning either side or trying to like control 527 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 2: what someone else or some other suitchuation does, but being 528 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 2: like in our own authentic energy showing up allowing others 529 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,840 Speaker 2: to be the same way too. I don't know that 530 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 2: feels like freedom to me? 531 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 4: Well it is freedom, yeah, it's total freedom. 532 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 533 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, if you get somebody that comes 534 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 4: in very strongly masculine towards you, your career, I mean, 535 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 4: you know, is showing you about how the over masculine 536 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 4: is operating. So how do you find balance? You choose love. 537 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 4: You choose to love them and accept them and forgive 538 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 4: them for whatever the way they're using the energy. You 539 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 4: just don't have to participate with it, right, But you 540 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:50,320 Speaker 4: choose love, right, so you always acquiesce to love, to love. 541 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 4: It's always giving back to the feminine nurture, grow love 542 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 4: and so forth. 543 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 2: Okay, I heard someone who's some psychology person the other 544 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,360 Speaker 2: day say that in a lot of ways, if you 545 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 2: really look at it, there's only two core emotions fear 546 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 2: and love, So like, which one are you operating from 547 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 2: at all times? That has that simplifying it, Like that 548 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 2: has really helped me to get back to leading from 549 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 2: a place of love, because if I'm not, like, if 550 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:26,240 Speaker 2: I'm angry, if I'm insecure, if any it's all fear based. 551 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 2: All of those other feelings are fear based. So like, 552 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 2: sometimes I've just been asking myself like is this the 553 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 2: loving kind thing to do? Or is this reaction love 554 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 2: coming from love? And when it's not, I'm like, oh 555 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,800 Speaker 2: what am I scared of? Like it's a really interesting 556 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 2: practice to do with yourself in those situations when you 557 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 2: look at it that way. 558 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 4: Well, and it's not even just if you can just 559 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 4: truose love, if you can just choose allowance for the 560 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:57,439 Speaker 4: other person to work through whatever conflict they have. Yeah, 561 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 4: I mean a lot of times I tell people when 562 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 4: they when you know, you get relationships that can be 563 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 4: verbally abusive. Uh, you just I mean it's hard to 564 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 4: feel the love. But then you say to yourself is 565 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 4: there something wrong? Or say to them, is there something 566 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 4: what's wrong? What's I mean? You know you have no 567 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,960 Speaker 4: reason to be abusive? I mean, what is your fear? 568 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 4: What is your pain? And so that helps to neutralize 569 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,760 Speaker 4: and take it out of just you know that old 570 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 4: you know, just saying love because love is a verb, right, 571 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 4: So that means if you if you if you love, 572 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:51,839 Speaker 4: then you're what you're actually doing is you're accepting, forgiving 573 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,240 Speaker 4: and understanding another person's conflict. 574 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 2: Makes sense to me, Well, Marvi, people want to do 575 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 2: a session with you and try to break down their 576 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 2: own chart and find their own energy. 577 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 3: Where can they find you? 578 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 4: They can find me at My website is Marvin or 579 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:17,879 Speaker 4: my women website is astromarv dot com. My email is 580 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 4: Marvin at astromarv dot com amazing. 581 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 2: I will obviously put both of those into the description 582 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,919 Speaker 2: of this podcast as per usual, Marv, thanks for being 583 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 2: here with us on the full Moonday. 584 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:35,800 Speaker 4: Well it was it was my gift to receive. 585 00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,280 Speaker 3: Wow, that's sweet. 586 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 2: We will be back with Marv next month to start 587 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 2: the month with the new energy there. I hope you 588 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 2: guys lean into this full moon energy and enjoy the 589 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 2: rest of August. 590 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 3: Thanks Marv. 591 00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,320 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to The Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson, 592 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 1: where we believe everyone has a little velvet in a 593 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 1: little edge. Subscribe for more conversations on life, style, beauty 594 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,920 Speaker 1: and relationship. Search Velvet's Edge wherever you get your podcasts.