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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey ladies, Hi on this episode of We Sound Like a.

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Speaker 3: Man, I think we sound sexy. I'm going to reframe

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Speaker 3: it for us.

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Speaker 2: And do you want to join the chat.

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Speaker 3: And we can get you on this bandwagon so I

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Speaker 3: can lick your straw.

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Get gat you down for a virus or too?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm good. I'll stay over here, y'all stay on

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Speaker 1: the couch, I'll stand chat. Oh what a sweet mess?

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Speaker 4: You too weet?

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Speaker 1: You know what it is? Excuse me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 3: What it is is that I think I jinxed myself

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Speaker 3: by saying out loud that I had made it through

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Speaker 3: two rounds of my family getting everything and yeah and

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Speaker 3: not getting it and I had and then I I

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Speaker 3: got it and they didn't.

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Speaker 2: Kind of it's all weird. Have you stayed healthy this

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Speaker 2: entire time?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, I came.

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Speaker 4: It's got to be.

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Speaker 2: The next table we get in here to make sure

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Speaker 2: it's actual real.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, actually can't get Yeah, No, I really have. And

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Speaker 4: I came back Emmy, and I came back from the

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Speaker 4: cheer comp So you came.

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Speaker 2: To Cleveland with me?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And I was on the heels of my sinus ear

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Speaker 2: infection that whatever that was, and then you left me

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Speaker 2: and you went to back home.

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Speaker 1: I came home for a couple of days.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you're just missing it every time.

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Speaker 1: I know, I came in and I was like, I'm

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Speaker 1: out of here. No, I had no idea. Obviously Mandy

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Speaker 1: Roman had the flu.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, so we go to the cheer comp in

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Speaker 4: Houston and come back and Cayden, Ramsey and Nick all

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Speaker 4: sound like this, but they don't have the flu. It's

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Speaker 4: just it's just like started allergies and then like sinus whatever,

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Speaker 4: no fever, you know whatever. But yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 4: can tell my allergies are a little you know, kicking

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Speaker 4: up out there because I say, the pollen's.

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Speaker 1: Like really high right now.

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Speaker 4: Well, it went from like like it has like a

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Speaker 4: twenty degrees pollen like cloud or something, today's eighty.

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Speaker 1: But these are big swings in temperature and that usually

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Speaker 1: gets me. So okay, I'll know.

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Speaker 4: But I tell Nick to go the doctor today because

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Speaker 4: I just feel like once it's stuck up in there,

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Speaker 4: you know, it's like just go get some medicine.

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Speaker 1: We're leaving for the beach, and like I mean that's

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Speaker 1: what we just don't wait till Jana.

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Speaker 4: Don't I mean, don't be a Jana.

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Speaker 1: I waited two weeks and you don't have to get medicine. Well,

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Speaker 1: think she had the flu.

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Speaker 3: We think I have something stacked, is what my doctor said,

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Speaker 3: because I had flu something or covid or something, right,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's all my.

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Speaker 2: Congestion is chilling longer than what a flu, like what

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Speaker 2: my flu congestion did.

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Speaker 1: Like I had the chills, I had the fever.

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Speaker 3: I had the body aches, body aches like I haven't

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Speaker 3: had in like twenty years.

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Speaker 1: While that was definitely flu.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it's just this that has hung around.

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Speaker 3: And it took me two weeks and my family was

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Speaker 3: like uncle, dear Nate dog, may I please have an antibiotic.

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Speaker 4: That's when you need the Yeah. Yeah, it was about

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Speaker 4: to have Caden go, but he finally got his down.

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Speaker 4: And then Ramsey's just sneezing a lot like hers is

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Speaker 4: definitely allergies and the Nicks.

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Speaker 4: So yeah wild, So here we are, here we are

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Speaker 4: like avoiding everyone like the Blake.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, the it's just it's it's wild because I've

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Speaker 2: never I mean, I had never gotten the flu while

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Speaker 2: filming a movie. Yeah, so I've had I mean Romain

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Speaker 1: The wrong organ.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, essentially I had that experience, and then I had

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Speaker 2: And then like the next week, like Brian Herzlinger, the

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Speaker 2: Like it was just a mess. So that's like that

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Speaker 2: was six years since I've actually been sick filming. And

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Speaker 2: Alan comes Saturday, so Cat leaves Saturday. But there was

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, well, I don't want my only day

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Speaker 2: Avery flew in on Saturday night, so I have, you know,

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Speaker 2: But Alan gets there Saturday and it's like and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh no, no, like we're distancing right. And Sunday it

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Speaker 2: had like full blown fever. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, I

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Speaker 2: mean he was out, like, I mean all day in bed, buddy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I we had him quarantine into a guest room.

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Speaker 2: One was like an arcade and then a toy store.

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Speaker 2: called Kid's Empire. And so Wednesday I wake up and

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Speaker 2: mind you were also filming outside, like in the cold, cold, cold, cold, cold, right.

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Speaker 2: So but I had just gotten over that ear sinus

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Speaker 2: Thursday and I'm like, all right, like this is this?

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Speaker 3: Day of denial, I blamed the yoga I did. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm like Thursday, Friday, Saturday off. So I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I've got a kidney infection, but my pee looks good,

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Speaker 2: that's when I was like, maybe it is a kidney infection,

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Speaker 2: right because I have fever. Now.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 3: I love the very prolonged denial that we all live in.

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Speaker 1: Like it is everyone around these had flu.

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Speaker 3: It's like, why didn't get it from Roman? Though?

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Speaker 1: That's the thing, like why did I Why wouldn't I.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like he was he's only had a face, you know

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the second, the first time I got ever, the

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Speaker 2: So this poor lady, and mind you, I'm like, I've

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Speaker 2: been sick for all of February. So she flu swabs

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Speaker 3: This is the same thing that happened to the doctor

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not contagious anymore. After the twenty four

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and maybe it's that first reason they're not resting

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Speaker 2: Okay, my wine is and I have to be really

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Speaker 3: So we're trying to put in a pool next door.

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Speaker 3: To well, that's not true. Because it's a big ass.

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Speaker 2: And I'm the psycho that's like that tree that we

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Speaker 4: Again I don't want, right, it's also just not that's

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Speaker 4: take all, we'll take all responsibility if things get broken,

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Speaker 1: Right, And then also they don't I'm not.

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Speaker 2: The paying customer, so like they don't care about my

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Speaker 1: What I was going to say, y'all are paying, you

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Speaker 3: Legally have that iron out beforehand or else it just

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't either.

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Speaker 2: I would never ask unless there was another solution, like

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Speaker 1: They want to know for summer.

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Speaker 2: I get it, and I'm like, Alan, what do we do?

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Speaker 1: What do we do? What would you do? Again?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I have to say yes because if not,

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Speaker 2: I'm the shitty neighbor.

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Speaker 3: Is does HOA prevent this?

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Speaker 2: HOA won't let them go through the back because of drainage,

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Speaker 2: but when the bonds are released they're able to. Can

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Speaker 1: I have no idea.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so I just can't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think why.

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Speaker 3: I'm just wondering if H protects actually protects you more

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Speaker 4: H doesn't really protect anybody from any I wouldn't sure.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't trust any of that.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just wondering, Like it says they put up

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

441
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 3: No, I'm just I'm wondering if there is something in there,

442
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 3: like we have like our ha has, like the arc

443
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 3: board or whatever, and so like everything has to be

444
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 3: submitted and then the board decides if we can put

445
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 3: anything up and what that would look like in the process,

446
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 3: and how that affects the neighbors, which neighbors even if

447
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 3: the neighbors said it's okay, our board would probably say

448
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 3: it's not okay, Like so there might be more protection.

449
00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 4: Wondering anything part of their getting approved to even have it, Yeah,

450
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 4: Like the only way they can do it is if I'm.

451
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 3: Sure yeah, and they are allowed to ask you that

452
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 3: they I'm sure they're being asked. Yeah.

453
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,199
Speaker 2: The builder warned me. They're like, hey, your neighbors are

454
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 2: going to ask you this, And he even said if

455
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 2: I was you, I wouldn't do it because if you know,

456
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 2: there could be further damage.

457
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 1: And maybe that's just what you say. Like, guys, I

458
00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 1: wish we could, but.

459
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 3: We've also spend a lot of money and those of you.

460
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 1: Look at them.

461
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be running in my garage and like closing

462
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 2: it real fast, like I I feel, if you know me,

463
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like okay, and then it's going to

464
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 2: be a headache.

465
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 3: That's gonna be about it for the next three months.

466
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have asked, Yeah, I sure didn't.

467
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 1: It would just get.

468
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: Stressed on somebody else if there was another solution.

469
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: I think also because.

470
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 3: We're talking about like a leisure like an elected item,

471
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: that's what's hard for.

472
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,159
Speaker 2: Me too, Like this isn't of course they had the

473
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 2: opportunity to put it in beforehand. Oh see it chose

474
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 2: not to, but they were also told that they could

475
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 2: do it, so you know what I mean.

476
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,640
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, I mean I think it's lovely. I'm

477
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 4: sure they're lovely people. And that's not saying anything, but

478
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 4: I get it. I wouldn't ask. I am definitely the

479
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 4: person that would never ask or anything like that. I

480
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 4: don't want to worry about someone else and what they're

481
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 4: worried about, and is are they upset with me?

482
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 2: Is this?

483
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 4: If that stress alone of being them would stress me out. However,

484
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 4: I am not one that would stress if it were mine,

485
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 4: so I would probably say yes. But again I'm not

486
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 4: y'all know me. There's no I wouldn't notice if my

487
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 4: tree was a completely different tree, and half y'all are different.

488
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: I don't care.

489
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 2: It is like I love right, I love a put

490
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 2: together yard, and it's like, I finally we're almost out

491
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: of a construction zone here.

492
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,959
Speaker 1: I think you can just I think you can just

493
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: explain that to them.

494
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 4: And I think it as much as we would we

495
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 4: would all love to avoid that. It's like I sit down, like,

496
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 4: y'all are so great and you can use our pool, yeah,

497
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 4: all the things we've been in a construction zone for

498
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 4: this long. I just as much as I would love

499
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 4: to help you out, it's just not something that.

500
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 3: Maybe you even say like you've already replaced it. By

501
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 3: the way, at the end of this podcast, once this airs,

502
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 3: you won't say anything is already now boop again.

503
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,719
Speaker 2: I don't think I can say no because I just

504
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 2: feel bad.

505
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but aren't you gonna feel worse if you're like.

506
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 4: Oh, it's gonna drive me nuts. Everybody, You're gonna a

507
00:22:58,560 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 4: lot of money but let me let me say this.

508
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 4: It's and take this the way I mean it. It's

509
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 4: going to be way worse when you're mad at them

510
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 4: and getting upset with them when things go wrong, like

511
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 4: with yeah people. In my opinion, you are less of

512
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 4: a bee if you just say no on the front

513
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,400
Speaker 4: end than having to be like over at their house

514
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 4: every day like, hey, this is.

515
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: Wrong, we got to take care of this, you know

516
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 1: what I mean.

517
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 4: I would think it would be better to just say

518
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 4: no from the front end and avoid all of that.

519
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 4: It's going to get ugly and then y'all are going

520
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 4: to be neighbors that are fighting because things went wrong.

521
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: Say no.

522
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely think it's a no. I just I'm

523
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 3: wondering if there's other ways that you could do it

524
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,479
Speaker 3: that doesn't feel like it doesn't have to feel so,

525
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 3: so this.

526
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 2: Is what this is the last thing. So she texted

527
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: me when I was filming the movie while having the flu.

528
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 2: So I just straight up was just like again, like,

529
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 2: you're going to get a straight no if I respond

530
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: right now. So I just respond to being like, hey,

531
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: so sorry, I've been filming. I said, listen, this is

532
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 2: a really big, you know, headache. And ask, and she's like,

533
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: we totally understand. I said, there seems to be a

534
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: little mis understanding about the line of the property because

535
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 2: in the video from the thing, they're like, oh, well,

536
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 2: this tree is their is I'm like.

537
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 1: No, that is my tree, Like you know what I mean?

538
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah with this my tree, right, so what you know?

539
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 2: And They're like, it's not that much of the yard

540
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, it is. It's enough to like

541
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 2: cause headache. So what I said was, let let my

542
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 2: husband and I speak to the builder and let's walk

543
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 2: it out. I want to walk this line that you're

544
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 2: using and how much is actually gonna be your place.

545
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 2: I want them to measure my tree like and I

546
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: want things in writing lawyer, and I would like someone

547
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 2: to like, I'm not paying for this too. This is

548
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: not coming out of my pocket. So all these things

549
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 2: are going to have to fall into place for us

550
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: to say yes.

551
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 3: Especially I'm just saying this again because this is not

552
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: like a necessity in order for us to get our

553
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,719
Speaker 3: back bedroom heated. We have to use your wrap like

554
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 3: it's a pool, it's an elect like it's just an

555
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 3: ad on it wonderful, leisurely.

556
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 2: Great at I'm not trying to be of course about it.

557
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: I just also like I don't want the added stress,

558
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 2: like I'm already like I got enough.

559
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 3: But I also have a house without a pool, so I'm.

560
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: Like, it's okay, right to not have a pool. Yeah,

561
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: like hashtag blessed. Yeah right.

562
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: Anyways, so what would you say?

563
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 3: No?

564
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: I think you should say no, Okay.

565
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 3: I think if you want to be sweet and walk

566
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: it with the builder and that way, it feels like

567
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 3: I'm more informed to.

568
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: Know I agree with that.

569
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,719
Speaker 4: And then it can be like, hey, this is going

570
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 4: to be too much, or you may walk it and

571
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 4: go okay, you know what, maybe it is a little

572
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 4: bit you don't I mean, until you walk it, you

573
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 4: don't know for sure, and then you at least entertained

574
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 4: it you released like wanted to say, and then just

575
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 4: be really sweet about it if you say no, just

576
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 4: like you know again, maybe not throwing that I would

577
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: have never asked.

578
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I'm getting ahead tak hear it here,

579
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: So I'm just kidding.

580
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 4: But I mean I think that it's not a I

581
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 4: think I think ninety percent of people would probably say no.

582
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: I think guarantee yes, no. People love their yards people.

583
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,719
Speaker 3: Mister John across the street, I would never ask him

584
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: to do it. I mean, he's there's no way to

585
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 3: ask any.

586
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: O the neighbors.

587
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 2: To feel like I'm going to be called out for

588
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: being a brat about my yarn.

589
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 4: No, no, see, I think people love their yards and

590
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 4: I'm in the minority.

591
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: That's like whatever.

592
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I care about my yards deeply. My yard doesn't

593
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 3: look like I care, but I do care about it.

594
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 3: Definitely doesn't look like I care because I don't know.

595
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 4: But I mean I think most people you would find

596
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 4: would say no nicely, but like they just don't want

597
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 4: to deal with it. Yeah, yeah, because they want their

598
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 4: yard the way they have their yard.

599
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 3: Another tough conversation you've got to have off air. Wo

600
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: we have really covered a lot of ground along if everybody.

601
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: Could just listen, So we just don't have to have

602
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: these conversations. Aggressively get our stuff out there.

603
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: Headline Chase Stokes slams Morgan Evans Vilinity over his remarks

604
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: about Kelsey Ballerini divorce. So Morgan was on a podcast

605
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 2: with Bobby Bones and you know, Morgan, let me okay,

606
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: let we'll olliver.

607
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: We do the things first.

608
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: So Basically, they were talking about things, and Chase has

609
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: since deleted it, but he said, this is about the

610
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 2: most pathetic excuse of masculinity I've ever seen. Get an

611
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: fing life The Outer Banks actor thirty three posted in

612
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: a comment under evans interview from Bobby Bones, so but what. Basically,

613
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 2: Evans argued that he was characterized unfairly in the narrative

614
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 2: surrounding his divorce from Ballerini, So basically, this is his

615
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 2: first kind of sit down with someone talking about as divorce.

616
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 2: I literally cannot even I don't even know where to

617
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 2: start because I love Kelsey, don't get me wrong, but

618
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 2: she had a full ep about her divorce when on

619
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: caller Daddy Yep talked about how she's paid half and listen,

620
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: I bitch about it all the time too, I do

621
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: I talk about I'm not saying she bitched about it.

622
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying, she's gone on, She's set her piece.

623
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: He goes on one podcast.

624
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 3: And he gets years later, years later, he's been so sweet,

625
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 3: so sweet, and listen, I also am a huge KB

626
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 3: fan and she knows it and the world knows it.

627
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 3: But I feel like he has been so kind and.

628
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 2: Quiet behind the doors don't care whatever, Sure you know,

629
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 2: and we don't know, and we don't know, so yeah, exactly.

630
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 3: But when when it happened in like there was exchanges

631
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 3: with friends, Like even in the text exchanges I've seen,

632
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 3: he has not said anything. Yeah, even when I was unkind.

633
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: I ran into him at the airport when I was

634
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: flying to go see Alan and it was soon ash after?

635
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: Was it soon as after? It was around there and

636
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: you know, he was sad and we were just chatting.

637
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: He was so lovely. Didn't say one bad thing about her,

638
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: not one. So I just am like, I the fact

639
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: that he has a right to say that he thinks

640
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: that he was unfairly characterized in the narrative.

641
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: Mine, where does the masculinity part come in?

642
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 2: Not a clue.

643
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm very confused. Clause when did he spoke.

644
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: About the divorce? I don't know.

645
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 3: In the interview, he does talk about how it felt quick.

646
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: It felt like a blur. The whole time is such

647
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: a blur. It almost feels like somebody else just from

648
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: where I was sitting. He wasn't expecting it as what

649
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: he didn't know it wasn't you know? And she's like,

650
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: how could he not know?

651
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, so what does I don't I'm not understanding.

652
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm not to Chase out that it's just because he's

653
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: speaking about it.

654
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 4: That's the part that I'm just like, why are we

655
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 4: making this about him? Why are we bullying other people

656
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 4: in comments?

657
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: Hello? Yeah? Yeah, get an effing life? Are you serious?

658
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: That's it.

659
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 3: That was a really immature comment. That's what made me.

660
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 3: I was like, uh oh, Chase, I want to like you.

661
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 2: And I loved what Bobby said in his story. He goes,

662
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: he kind of turned it around and goes where I

663
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 2: look at it is that someone must be struggling with

664
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: their own masculinity to say something like that, because anytime

665
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 2: anyone ever says anything bad about us or whatever, they're

666
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 2: in their own personal struggle. So, you know, And I'm

667
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 2: not trying to come on here and be like, Chase,

668
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: you're a bully, but to leave a comment like that,

669
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 2: you must be going through something. And I hope that

670
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 2: you know you can look inward on why you did

671
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: that and what you're going through to leave that kind

672
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 2: of comment.

673
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 3: Kindly, Chase, their marriage has nothing to do with you.

674
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 3: That was kind of well, She's he's probably.

675
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: Heard things, of course, he had stay out of it.

676
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: A broken up. They weren't.

677
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 3: He wasn't in I sho't keep track of that. I

678
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 3: thought they were broken up, but like Chase wasn't in

679
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 3: the marriage, Like my husband doesn't have an opinion of

680
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 3: my old marriage because he wasn't in it. He knows

681
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 3: my side. He of course is going to side with me,

682
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 3: but he's not going to publicly say it anything about

683
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 3: a person like that.

684
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 4: I mean, I can understand where men may want to

685
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 4: stand up for their women, and I get that.

686
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 2: Sure, But the last we know, they just broke up

687
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 2: again for the fifteen exactly.

688
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: But he didn't say he didn't say thing.

689
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 4: Mean, it wasn't like he was bullying her and she

690
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 4: needed to come protect her, you know what I mean?

691
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: Like this just this was odd.

692
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 2: She said she has said more things than he has

693
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: said in songs and solivis so for him to then.

694
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: But they both have the right if they want to.

695
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 2: But everybody has a right to say right, you know,

696
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 2: and not get bullied for it.

697
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 3: I just also just wish he just wouldn't have said

698
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 3: and she just doesn't need to say anything.

699
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: It's you can feel that way.

700
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: Example about eving On people's comments. But again, that's where

701
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:44,479
Speaker 2: I just think, what is he going through? Because I'm

702
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 2: sure he's gotten probably a bunch of comments as of

703
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: late because of things that it's his own anger coming

704
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 2: out or is it.

705
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 3: Some like does he feel like commenting? He's going like

706
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm proving something publicly to her, you never know.

707
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: Like China, Yeah, like a hero, a hero, And.

708
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: She's like, can you, hey, hey, Chase, can you delete that?

709
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: Because actually would give me. Well he did delete the comment.

710
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 3: He did, which is good. Yeah, but it's already been said.

711
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 3: But I'm wondering was there a backside to that where

712
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: she was like, hey, I've totally he just got attacked.

713
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 3: I'm sure yeah, because you're like you kicked a puppy.

714
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,959
Speaker 3: Like Morgan Evans is a sweet person. He's a sweet person,

715
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 3: Like he really is a kind human, and he can

716
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 3: be horrible in marriage. I'm not I wasn't married to him,

717
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 3: and I firmly believe like people can just not be

718
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 3: great together.

719
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: I know what that feels like personally.

720
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 3: I was with somebody who is a kind, wonderful human

721
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: just wasn't for me.

722
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I can understand Kelsey's disdain for having to

723
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: pay him money that wasn't maybe his earned. You know,

724
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: I get that, and I've said it in interviews. It

725
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: still makes me angry, you know. So I get that piece,

726
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: and he also has a right to say things too.

727
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: He does.

728
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 3: Unfortunately he does too.

729
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: Britney Spears rap calls d UI completely inexcusable, these loved

730
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: ones coming up with overdue plan for her well being.

731
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: You know, I'm going to follow this with Justin Timberlake

732
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: moves to block release of d w I arrest footage.

733
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 2: First of all, why are we driving drunk?

734
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 3: So just to catch everyone up, Britney Spears was arrested

735
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: over the weekend.

736
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and then his is old, but his old.

737
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: But he wants to foot which he says he wasn't drinking. Well,

738
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: so right, I.

739
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: Love that face page.

740
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: That face is the reason people want these entire episodes

741
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: and all their footage.

742
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: So yeah, so let's let's work that way, because here's

743
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: let's let's talk with start with Justin first. If he

744
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: if he doesn't it wasn't drinking, then why not get

745
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: the I worry so much about the footage.

746
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 4: If I'm not drinking and everyone's saying I'm drinking show

747
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 4: it everywhere, like I mean, you're not an active now.

748
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: Maybe he was just an asshole.

749
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 4: Maybe he wasn't drinking and he was just absolutely disrespectful

750
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 4: or something.

751
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: Flames when really and I also think to this time,

752
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 2: remember when Reese Witherspoon was pulled over a vaguely.

753
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 1: She forgot about don't you remember, don't you know?

754
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: Yea?

755
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 3: And I say not in the way that she was

756
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 3: pulled over and she shouldn't have been, just like I forgot.

757
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: But I'll never forget that moment because that was one

758
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: of those moments. And I love Reese. I still still

759
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 2: love her even after that, you know, seeing that it

760
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 2: humanized her too, because you know, she was just.

761
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: Well, they pulled over al woods. That's what I expected

762
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 3: to see an.

763
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 2: Argument, look, but wait for it anything. I still don't think,

764
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 2: I know, I don't think that is the you know,

765
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 2: Zach Bryan, same thing, like the things that he says

766
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 2: to the officer. You shouldn't be saying those things now ever, right,

767
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 2: so so.

768
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: Much so passionate about that.

769
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 2: This is so wildly different. But I remember I told

770
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 2: you guys when I got pulled over, and that guy

771
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 2: was like, oh, the old man suite officer was like,

772
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 2: you know, do you know why I pulled you over?

773
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I could list ten, you know, like

774
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 2: why why you pulled me over?

775
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: Can we get that body cam footage?

776
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: Actually?

777
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: Literally, I was on my phone.

778
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: I'm speeding to go pick up my side.

779
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: Oh I didn't say it's here. I don't remember. Okay,

780
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: well I.

781
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 2: Did, so I'm like, and I I mean it was bad,

782
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 2: Like that's when I was like, but I said it

783
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 2: because I'm like, I know I deserved least ten.

784
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 3: You know.

785
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 2: He's like, what did you think the speed limb was?

786
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: I was like forty. He's like that's what you were going.

787
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well that tracks. So I'm like, you know,

788
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: cracking up with them, right, I'm not trying to get

789
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: out of the ticket, but I'm literally, you know, just

790
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: having Chicago with them. But I also know the body

791
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: cams too, are on from those like moments from Reese whatever,

792
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: and like, my brother's a cop, always respectful, and I'm

793
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: always just like, thank you for what you do, you know,

794
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: all those things. And he comes back, he's like, but

795
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 2: he asked, he goes, so, whatever happened? Did you get

796
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: the ranch? And I said, I get the ranch. To

797
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: get the ranch, He's like, oh, me and my wife

798
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: watched her Netflix Christmas movie.

799
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: And I was like oh. I was like yeah, you know.

800
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 2: So he was like super sweet and he's like, well, darling,

801
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 2: He's like, I'm not going to give you a ticket,

802
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, please give me a ticket,

803
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 2: like because I'm like, I'm not trying to be an

804
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 2: exception to anything.

805
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 3: And I'll never learn.

806
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: That is so different though.

807
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 2: No, but but I'm just saying but like for me

808
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: where it's like in those moments where I'm like how

809
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: am I saying this? Or I you know the footage

810
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 2: is on there too, but I'm like I don't want

811
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 2: it to ever be like, oh do you know who

812
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: I am? Like you didn't get a ticket?

813
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 4: But that's not literally though, never one million years, no

814
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 4: matter where we are, no matter what we're doing, say

815
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 4: do you.

816
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: Know who I am?

817
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 3: Because if you were, we wouldn't be your friend.

818
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: No.

819
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 2: But I was literally like, please give me a ticket,

820
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: Like you know what I mean because I always think

821
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: back to like these like video cam but but also

822
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 2: I'm like I do deserve it, like regardless if you

823
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: watch me Netflix or not. I deserve a ticket.

824
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: Amazing, amazing all the tickets served.

825
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 3: I ran a Lord, I'm amazing actress, but a horrible citizen,

826
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 3: like terrible.

827
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: But I just think they want to these things and

828
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 2: it's like they think they're these Yeah, Reese, Witherspoons, Zach

829
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: Brian's justin Timberlakes, Britney Spears. You know, it's like above

830
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: it that they're above the law. Don't drive drunk just

831
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: because you're Britney Spears, are dressed and Timberlake. You have

832
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 2: enough money to go, Yes, get in, have a you

833
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 2: have a personal chefs, this, that and the other.

834
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 1: You can have a personal driver.

835
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm not so sure Britney Spears is enough there

836
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 4: to even it is?

837
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: It is know what she's doing though, and that's too.

838
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 2: And then to go to that side of things, I

839
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: hope there is. I hope people can see there needs

840
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: to be some sort of intervention something something our brit.

841
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 3: She doesn't seem coherent, that's the word I should use.

842
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 4: And it's the stuff that she's putting out there that

843
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 4: just and stuff that make her seem not I just

844
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 4: really love her.

845
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 3: And care about her so much, and I want her

846
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 3: to just be so well, and I just wish.

847
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 2: See it is. And I know a lot of the

848
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 2: reasons she's posting those videos a very half naked or

849
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 2: is because she said she never was able to have

850
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 2: her own sexuality with growing up in the business. She

851
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 2: said it, but I don't know exact quote. But so

852
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 2: that's why she gets to own her body now, and

853
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 2: I love that. I think that's great.

854
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: She also did own it a little bit though, there

855
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 3: was like a snake I remember very vividly.

856
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was it was because she was the

857
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 2: sex symbol. You know, she's like able to have it

858
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: on her terms. Yeah, as opposed to people commenting about

859
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 2: her dress and her body.

860
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 4: Well, I'm sure she now wants everything on her terms

861
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 4: because she's probably never had anything on her back life.

862
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I so much grace and that in that regard.

863
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 4: But yes, the other stuff, bodycam be nice to police

864
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:02,720
Speaker 4: officers if you're drinking, you're.

865
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm sure he was, but either drinking or.

866
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 2: An ass I do kind of want to see, like,

867
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 2: I don't.

868
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: Think you can really get them blocked, can you.

869
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, gosh, I hope I wish

870
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 2: we could have gotten gotten I wish we could have

871
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: gotten some blocked, you know. But I think this is

872
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: something where now he's exactly now people really are probably

873
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 2: gonna want it. But I do think it does ruin

874
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 2: reputation when you see people in that light. Like when

875
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 2: I saw Zach Brian's body cam, I was like, who

876
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: do you think you are?

877
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 3: Oh? He actually asked the question do you know?

878
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: I know?

879
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: And this, and then again the racing, but also I

880
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: love race. I'm like, do you know who she is?

881
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 3: I know? But yeah, here's who say that also just

882
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, you're just doing They're out doing jobs

883
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 3: that these people getting pulled over would never do, so

884
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 3: be respectful and they just say give me the ticket.

885
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 3: And my thing, even with the Bryan thing, was like,

886
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 3: if you're going to say you can't have my address,

887
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 3: I'm famous, Well then you actually to me you don't

888
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: get to call nine one one because we don't get

889
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: to get heavier dress then either, oh interesting, Yeah, like

890
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: I'm pretty, I'm pretty. I am so like pro the

891
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 3: sacrificial hometown heroes that I'm like, you don't want to

892
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 3: give your dress here, then we don't give your address

893
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 3: at nine one one, and we don't get to come.

894
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 2: Up with theres it with his address, the body. You

895
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

896
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 3: But that's not even why he's.

897
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not even he's acting like you don't get

898
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 4: to have my address.

899
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 3: You know.

900
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: It's like because he's fatal. No.

901
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 3: No, I do love his music, though I don't. That

902
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 3: ruined a lot for me. I liked his I know, yeah,

903
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 3: I just can't. I'm like not going to buy his

904
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 3: merch but I do like the Casey musk Graves one,

905
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 3: so I'm with him. Listen, you can still like this. See,

906
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:50,959
Speaker 3: he's like, that's fine.

907
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 2: And the whole chicken fry oh thing.

908
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 4: At the end of the day, there's a lot of

909
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,240
Speaker 4: artists who have done things that we do not agree

910
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 4: with that we still might like their music, and some

911
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 4: people decided.

912
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: To listen, and some people decide to still listen. Oh

913
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: I still love them, and I still think he's a

914
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: great musician.

915
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: I have an almost ten year old girl, and we

916
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 2: need to have the body changing talk soon. Any tips

917
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: from you, ladies and how you talk to your daughters

918
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 2: about body changes and periods. I'm an anxious mom, so

919
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 2: I need to become comfortable with this before I talk

920
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: to her, so any tips would be great.

921
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 4: Oh I have something to share on this line. Can

922
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 4: I say it real fast? Oh my gosh, y'all. So

923
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 4: you know, we had the talk with the kids like early.

924
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 4: Both of them are like nine whatever, But I had

925
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 4: not sex talk yet. I still haven't had it with

926
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:51,879
Speaker 4: We haven't, thank god.

927
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 3: And Kristen's taking me out Jolie.

928
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 4: No with Cayden and Emmy. But Ramsey someone had told

929
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 4: her about it. This was months ago, because they say

930
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 4: eight is too late.

931
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

932
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 4: So she comes home, she says it, but she's like, mom,

933
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about it.

934
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,760
Speaker 1: Oh gosh. And so I'm like, guns like us, okay,

935
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: it's the same, right. I didn't push and I didn't

936
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: know if that was the right thing to do. I

937
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: was like kept. It was nagging on me, like I

938
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 1: need to go back.

939
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 3: Well, none of us want to sit and talk about it, right.

940
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 4: I was like, I need to go back to this

941
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 4: because I don't know what she even told her. I

942
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: don't know what this girl told her. Accuracy Like, I

943
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 4: don't know, right, So long story short. The other night

944
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 4: at dinner, it's all of us for Cayden's birthday. His

945
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 4: girlfriend Emmy brings up something about someone getting raped, and yes,

946
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 4: Emmy does not really, she just thinks we're all adults

947
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 4: when we're talking, like she's just an open book, right, Okay,

948
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 4: not thinking about it.

949
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 2: Of course, right. It's just like that is it's just

950
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: like a BIG's it's a big thing. She knows that

951
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 2: got raped.

952
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:48,760
Speaker 1: Yes, so.

953
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 4: I don't know the accuracy of all of this, but

954
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 4: a story she had been told. So we get in

955
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 4: the car and it's just us three, and so Ramsey's like, hey, Mom,

956
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 4: I have questions about the words that Emmy used at dinner.

957
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 4: So it lent itself. So we go back and me

958
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 4: Emmy and Ramsey. Emmy has the entire body changing sex

959
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 4: We've already talked about body changing, but sex talk with me.

960
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 4: She helped me have the sex talk with Ramsey. It

961
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 4: was the sweetest ever crazy.

962
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: It was helpful in that so that I can then

963
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 2: have that same because I was thinking of doing it

964
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: very scientifically.

965
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 4: Well most people do go very scientific. Have y'all talked

966
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 4: about vagina? Have you talked about periods yet?

967
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

968
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 2: She knows I have a period because she's been in

969
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 2: the bathroom when I've like changed the tampon, and I'm like,

970
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 2: we talked about periods a lot.

971
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 4: But so take the period conversation. This is what I

972
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 4: did with Emmy. Let's just because that was the first conversation.

973
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 4: Go with the period, talk about the tampons, and then

974
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 4: go into why you have.

975
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,760
Speaker 1: A period to have it make a baby.

976
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 4: So then you go into the baby talk, and then

977
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 4: you talk about the penis and the vagina, and you

978
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 4: go into yeah, I.

979
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: Would rather die. I just feel it. Pray for questions.

980
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: It makes it so much easier.

981
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 4: The conversation with him was the easiest thing in the world,

982
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 4: and then ended up being easy with Ramsey because she

983
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 4: was ready and asking questions. She felt comfortable enough to

984
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 4: keep asking questions.

985
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 3: So they say that if a kid asks you a question,

986
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 3: they're already either know the answer or they're prepared for the.

987
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: Answer, which I do love.

988
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 2: Well, she remember that I lied about Roman.

989
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: Would you say, Oh, it's fine, they'll understand. Who blest

990
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 1: us early?

991
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: No. I used to always say, Mommy, you're not married,

992
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 2: how can you have a bit, Because I say, when

993
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: you get married, you have a baby.

994
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: Well, God blessed, bless you with it. That's yeah, that's

995
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 1: still the same. Okay, yeah, okay.

996
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 4: Well, because when we're talking about that, Emmy says, and

997
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 4: you need to not have sex till you're married, And

998
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 4: I said, well, I was like, if you carry the one, yeah,

999
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 4: I was like, I would like for you too.

1000
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,959
Speaker 1: But the reality is is that.

1001
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 4: People are having sex before marriage. Again, I would like

1002
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 4: for you all to wait till you're married, until you're ready.

1003
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 4: I was like, but if you're not, that is when

1004
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 4: you need to come to me because you need and

1005
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 4: we go into protection, condoms, all the things, like we

1006
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 4: just we just go for it. It's easier to get

1007
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 4: it all out.

1008
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I want to get sick, like the period,

1009
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 2: the baby on one hour of sleep.

1010
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: So but we've talked about all of that cannd itself.

1011
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 4: And if they're interested in not pushing away and still

1012
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 4: asking questions, my advice is to just keep going and

1013
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 4: just let it get it all out and see if.

1014
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: They have no more questions.

1015
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 2: I have a question, Okay, how are babies made? Do

1016
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 2: I bring this up or do I wait for her

1017
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 2: to come to me.

1018
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: I would bring it up the reality.

1019
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: Of when whenever, I mean, she's going to be in

1020
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 2: fifth grade this fall, that do I wait till fifth

1021
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: I have another.

1022
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: I mean summer all of mine was.

1023
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 4: Before fifth You're going to have people starting periods if

1024
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 4: you haven't. So to get back to the question for

1025
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 4: the listener, Yes, that's.

1026
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 2: Right, that's all we got because she's starting to get buds.

1027
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 4: Soif is definitely too not I'm not going to say

1028
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 4: too late, let me let me but if they're going

1029
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 4: into fifth grade, I absolutely think the period, the buds,

1030
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 4: like all the body changing, has got to happen because

1031
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 4: so many of them at this point have are already changing.

1032
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 4: Fifth grade is when it really starts for a lot

1033
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 4: of people. So that conversation needs to be had, and

1034
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 4: you never know, they could start their period, and you

1035
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 4: don't want them to start their period and freak out

1036
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 4: and not know, so that conversation and to me, it

1037
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 4: just you can kind of go in.

1038
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 3: Now.

1039
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 4: Ramsey knew about periods way before sex, but Emmy's was

1040
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 4: all together.

1041
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 2: And because we've talked about hormones, because Jolie needs to

1042
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 2: start wearing deodorant and showering every day and you know,

1043
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 2: so you know, I say, when you get older, your

1044
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,439
Speaker 2: hormones change, and then eventually you have a period. Because

1045
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 2: we know another friend that just started their period in

1046
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 2: fifth grade, so.

1047
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, yeah, I mean I remember kids in

1048
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 3: our age.

1049
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 2: Groups, our kids age groups, havy, I mean they started as.

1050
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: That.

1051
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Love is like asking me a lot of We've

1052
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 3: talked about periods. We've talked about the baby. We talk

1053
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 3: about why you have a period. It's the nest blah

1054
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 3: blah blah and baby.

1055
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, she knows, like.

1056
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: So then she knows about sex.

1057
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 3: She knows that if you are pregnant, you like it's

1058
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 3: she knows higher level if you're pregnant, and none of

1059
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,720
Speaker 3: it is it's all very like like even the baby,

1060
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,919
Speaker 3: even lying is saying vagina right now, like we very

1061
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 3: just yeah, we talk, so it's not it's never like

1062
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 3: and then you're too too and you're you know, but

1063
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 3: I and I have in those conversations, and she's been

1064
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 3: asking a lot.

1065
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: More about puberty lately.

1066
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 3: I'll ask give any other questions about any of that,

1067
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 3: and she's like no, and I was like nothing, She's

1068
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 3: like I don't think so, and I'm like, okay, well

1069
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: right here, like just kind of seeing she also lives

1070
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 3: a pretty bubbled existence. Yeah, and I was such a

1071
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 3: late bloomer that I'm like, okay, like I have a

1072
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 3: period till I was sixteen.

1073
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: But they're going to start talking about sex.

1074
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 3: I know, and I want her to hear it from

1075
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 3: me before I want her to come.

1076
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: In and fame. And that's what I and that's what

1077
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 1: I told Ramsey.

1078
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 4: I was like, you know, unfortunately your friend told you

1079
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 4: about it soon early or than I was expecting, and

1080
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 4: I need to know what she's like. I honestly don't

1081
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 4: even remember what all she told me. And I was like, okay, Well,

1082
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 4: if you have questions or if someone tells you something,

1083
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 4: I want you to come to me and ask if

1084
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 4: this is true.

1085
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: But the other thing is you or not.

1086
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 4: To go talk to people about this because some parents

1087
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 4: have not talked to their kids about this yet. And

1088
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 4: it does not need to come from you. Even though

1089
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 4: I'm giving you factual information, it still does not need

1090
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 4: to come from you. So I think that that's a

1091
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 4: big part of it too. And also y'all probably already

1092
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 4: talked about this, but in that conversation, make sure you

1093
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 4: go towards unwanted touch, unwatered looking at which we've already

1094
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 4: talked about that. But yeah, once you talk about sex,

1095
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 4: because again.

1096
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 2: It's more of like a yes, it's touching you in

1097
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 2: private parts.

1098
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: So we took that further.

1099
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 4: So that is you know when we talk about not

1100
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 4: being touched or people seeing your private parts or you

1101
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 4: know whatever that is, Well that's where the rape situation

1102
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 4: does come in, where you don't you know, with sex,

1103
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,439
Speaker 4: like you don't want it, and if someone says no,

1104
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 4: I mean I just kind of just got to go

1105
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 4: for it.

1106
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 3: I think we just have a night where anti Catherine,

1107
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 3: I'll bring Emmy.

1108
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: She was great, Yeah, you know, hi, Emmy, babysit, Emmy,

1109
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: did you wrap the book?

1110
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 3: I the line We'll be back.

1111
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 4: She knows, so, I mean so much didn't even come

1112
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 4: from me at this point. She's fourteen and knows a lot.

1113
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 4: But she had a question. She's like, actually, I have

1114
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 4: a question, and so then she asked a question.

1115
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 1: You know, so six'. Nine oh it was.

1116
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 3: Close it's thirty four to thirty. Five, Hey Ariana grande

1117
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 3: as a little.

1118
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 4: Thing, yea the key is not freaking Out and y'all know, me,

1119
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 4: Like i'm so, awkward but for some, REASON i just

1120
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 4: anytime something, Happened i'm just, like, okay you just got

1121
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 4: to stick around.

1122
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: It and like it's, yeah AND i think that's.

1123
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 3: It like If i'm giving any advice to that listener

1124
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 3: that we haven't taken. Ourselves, really it's just the more

1125
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 3: confident you are and the more just non, jittery LIKE

1126
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 3: i there is a weird CALLM i get When love

1127
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 3: asked the questions And i'm just, like, well this is

1128
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 3: it and you're gonna know and that's. Okay AND i

1129
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 3: get really relieved that she's hearing it from, me, yeah

1130
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 3: and not hearing.

1131
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 4: It and just remembering how important that, is you, know

1132
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 4: BECAUSE i MEAN i didn't have a sex. Talk my

1133
00:49:59,040 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 4: mom didn't talk to.

1134
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: Me my mom had twenty two and she was, like

1135
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 3: What's corey your FIRST i was, like.

1136
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 2: You, know like REMEMBER i slid my note underneath the

1137
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,959
Speaker 2: door to, yeah BECAUSE i got caught red. Handed oh.

1138
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 1: We don't want.

1139
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 3: That, No, God i'm Gonna preston is going to so

1140
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 3: you got cannot hand message me if you have.

1141
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: Any, Questions, yes Message, Cat she's.

1142
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: There i'm actually really good at. This, SURPRISINGLY i don't

1143
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: think that's.

1144
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 3: Surprising, No you're such an quick human to.

1145
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: Me but Then i'm, like what Did nick Tell?

1146
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 2: Cayden BECAUSE i can you get factual and like he

1147
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 2: got he had, drinks is what he.

1148
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,240
Speaker 1: Did he had some, bourbons right, right.

1149
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 2: Buddy, okay so this is what it.

1150
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 3: Is.

1151
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 4: Yeah and then the same night a friend sent Him

1152
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 4: venmo and jokes and like put in the note condoms

1153
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 4: and SO i took a screenshot and the thing AND

1154
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 4: i put it to send it to.

1155
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: HIM i, GO i hope this is a, joke and he's,

1156
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: like of course it's. Joke i'm, Like i'm just.

1157
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 4: Making sure didn't know if he needed to buy condoms from,

1158
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 4: you and reminding you that these are public.

1159
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 3: Comments, oki, OKIE i, know eggplant?

1160
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: Eggplant, yeah, okay.

1161
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 3: If we could outlaw one word the, hour all the,

1162
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 3: time all, right, guys, later Birds, BEES i love, you