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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya red An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing.

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Speaker 2: It, scrubbing it, and we have so much to cover.

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Speaker 1: I know, we had a it was there was a

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Speaker 1: lot happening that we have to talk about. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we had the Red re released All Too Well ten

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Speaker 1: minute version. Yeah, yeah, yeah, all the Vault songs. We

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Speaker 1: went to Nashville for Ben and Jess's wedding. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm still coming off four days of just like drinking heavily.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I know, it's like weird because I didn't. It's

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Speaker 1: so it's such a weird contrast of going through COVID.

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Speaker 1: I never drink, but I'm only a social drinker. So

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Speaker 1: of course I wasn't me in social during that time.

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Speaker 1: And now I feel like every weekend I've been drinking

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Speaker 1: so much, and I'm like.

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Speaker 3: Why, I know, And Red Star said, like the cutest

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Speaker 3: thing after the wedding about you though, I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 3: you about later.

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Speaker 2: It was just like the cutest thing.

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Speaker 3: There's so much to cover, so we're just going to

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Speaker 3: have this podcast is going to be solely dedicated to

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Speaker 3: wedding catchup, Nashville Talk tailor.

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Speaker 2: Talk and just girl chat, girl time, girl time. Yah. Oh.

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Speaker 3: Before we get into all that, there is a question

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Speaker 3: that I wanted to ask you.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I sent to Hanad last week. I was like, don't

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Speaker 3: let me forget. I want to ask backa something because it.

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Speaker 2: Came up the other day.

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Speaker 3: Did you say the Jonahs brothers have a roast on

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Speaker 3: They're doing a roast that's going to be aired.

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Speaker 1: Were they like people make fun of them?

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Speaker 3: And so yeah, yeah, so they're posting promos and I

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Speaker 3: was talking about it to some of the people on

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Speaker 3: the morning show and I said, I actually got invited

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Speaker 3: to go to the roast. Kevin Jonas invited me to

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Speaker 3: go to the roast. Guess when it was.

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Speaker 1: When it was, Yeah, it was I don't know when.

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Speaker 3: It was the same day as the birthday party that

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Speaker 3: we were throwing for you. Wow, And so I said

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Speaker 3: it was like the exact same time. It was literally

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Speaker 3: then at like seven pm. So I said, I wish

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Speaker 3: I could. I would literally give my left arm, but

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Speaker 3: it's my best friend's birthday and I'm helping throwing the party,

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Speaker 3: so you can't miss it. And then Mark was like,

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Speaker 3: I bet Becca would have under if she's a best friend.

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Speaker 3: She would have understood if you had to come late

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Speaker 3: for Jonas Brothers roast, and so I wanted to even

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Speaker 3: though it's in the past and I did choose to

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Speaker 3: decline the invitation. If I would have proposed the idea

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Speaker 3: to you, what would you have said?

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Speaker 1: I would have been like, that's totally fine. No, yeah, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Out of all your friends, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'd be the one who would be like,

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Speaker 1: that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Could you imagine I, like set up this whole thing.

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Speaker 1: I would have been more weird about like you plan

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Speaker 1: the whole party and personally been like I would have

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Speaker 1: been just been like, Okay, this is a weird, a

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Speaker 1: weird thing that you're planning this party and you're not

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Speaker 1: here for it. But I wouldn't have been like upset

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Speaker 1: or anything. Oh sorry about that now you know for

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Speaker 1: the future. But honestly, I feel like you and Red

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Speaker 1: Star making the interest this Cravis was very important.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like I made the right decision.

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Speaker 3: I feel as though you're more important to me than

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Speaker 3: the Jonas Brothers.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. It's always it always feels like a battle

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Speaker 1: between me and the Joe bro. So I'm happy to

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Speaker 1: know where I stand.

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Speaker 3: Those things are a battle between it's either like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Jonahs brothers or not.

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Speaker 2: I know, yeah, but you won that.

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Speaker 1: Battle, thank you so much. But a lot of for

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Speaker 1: future reference. Like I mean, if it was someone that,

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Speaker 1: like I thought, she does she really care that much

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Speaker 1: about them, I might be like, but like I feel

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Speaker 1: like the Jonas Brothers, Taylor Swift, Harry's. If it's Harry Styles,

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Speaker 1: I better be invited to that. But you know, like

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Speaker 1: there are a few where i'd be I totally get

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be mad about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, good to know, Yeah, good to know.

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Speaker 2: I do still feel like I made the right decision.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I appreciate that. I mean, like, if it

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Speaker 1: were the roles reverse, I would never even ask.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't be like no, it'd be a no.

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Speaker 1: But I do feel like I would be okay with

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Speaker 1: that as long as you showed up at some point.

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Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, so we want to start with the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I want to start the wedding, So why don't you start?

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Speaker 1: You out there before I did?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is the funniest story because we're on our

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Speaker 3: way to Nashville. And of all the people on this plane, right,

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Speaker 3: Red Star and I sit literally across the aisle from

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Speaker 3: a guy that I used to date, who is like

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Speaker 3: from the Bachelor, who.

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Speaker 1: Was going to the wedding.

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Speaker 2: No, I thought about it.

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Speaker 3: No, I think I just called him New York guy.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know, Okay, but I did think about that.

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Speaker 3: So I get up and I see him, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, it's so good to see you too.

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Speaker 3: And I said, oh, here, this is my boyfriend, Robbie.

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Speaker 3: And so they met cut two an hour into the

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Speaker 3: flight and they are just chumming it up. They are

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Speaker 3: just getting along thick as thieves. We realized that we're

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Speaker 3: staying at the same hotel, so we uber together. We

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Speaker 3: realized we're on the same flight back home to LA.

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Speaker 3: We would decide we're going to ride back together. He's

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Speaker 3: texting us the whole week like he literally was just

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Speaker 3: a part of our as much a part of our

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Speaker 3: weekend as you were. And I was thinking about it

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Speaker 3: the other night because when we flew back to LA

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Speaker 3: he was like saying goodbye, and he said, you know,

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Speaker 3: we should all hang out. They're wearing the exact same

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Speaker 3: tennis shoes.

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Speaker 1: That's the best part.

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Speaker 2: It was just so funny.

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Speaker 3: But in my head I was thinking, like if this

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Speaker 3: would have been one of Red Star's exes on the flight,

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Speaker 3: I would have been nice and I would have you know,

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Speaker 3: engaged in conversation, but.

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Speaker 2: Not to the degree do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like guys just don't do different.

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Speaker 3: They just throw out and like we were taking shots

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Speaker 3: with him at the bar or like the first night,

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Speaker 3: and it was just in the whole weekend. They were like, hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: they just became such bros. And I just thought it

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Speaker 1: I was like, of course, well I do I have

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Speaker 1: to compliment Red Star because he is the most unbothered

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Speaker 1: even talking of course stuff like that where it's like

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Speaker 1: guys you've talked to, he is not threatened in the

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Speaker 1: least by anyone, but also just in general life, like

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Speaker 1: if something isn't ideal, he totally spends the perspective and

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Speaker 1: he's like it's okay, Like no big deal, we'll figure

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Speaker 1: it out. Like he's so unbothered.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like just positive even if you're in like

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Speaker 3: to be in that. I thought I was in that headspace,

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Speaker 3: like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: I think I was that person until I met him

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Speaker 2: and I was like, wow.

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Speaker 1: But it's you have a positive perspective on life, but

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Speaker 2: Ever, No, no, no, He's like, we'll figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll make a stronger I'm like what, But that

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Speaker 2: Instances where I just was so funny to me.

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Speaker 1: Do you know I think maybe would you mind if

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Speaker 1: Red Star and I ever did amazing race together? I

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Speaker 1: think we could do well and win the million, you

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Speaker 1: And that's just the facts. I've had to lay out

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Speaker 1: who I would choose arden my sister's girlfriend is one

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Speaker 1: because I don't think we'd yell at each other.

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Speaker 2: But he's competitive.

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Speaker 1: He's competitive, but he wanted. He'd be like, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. Yeah, well I because I'd probably

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Speaker 1: freak out. Yeah, we'll talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Well no, so my answer to that is no,

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Speaker 2: i'd be happy.

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Speaker 1: Oh you'd be happy with that? Yeah, okay, great. So

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Speaker 1: yeah we So y'all flew in on Thursday night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and when raged apparently just right. So then uh, Haley

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Speaker 2: What hes don't even matter like honestly, because we were

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Speaker 1: Later and y'all were like hungover all day on Friday,

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Speaker 1: and so we were like we had planned a dinner

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Speaker 2: We really did the whole weekend.

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Speaker 1: Y'all really did.

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Speaker 1: Also, so Haley and I are checking in at the hotel.

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Speaker 1: We stay at the same hotel, and Becca Kuprian and

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Speaker 1: Thomas walk out, and god, Thomas is handsome, Like you

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Speaker 1: when you watch him on TV, You're like, wow, he's

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Speaker 3: And really I literally found myself going like this, you

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Speaker 3: was almost as if I was looking at the Statue

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Speaker 1: He's so tall, and he's like really muscular.

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Speaker 2: But handsome, so handsome.

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Speaker 1: They are so cute together, and like, yeah, it is

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Speaker 1: just it's really cute to watch, like a blossom, like

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Speaker 2: I really enjoyed them too.

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Speaker 3: We spent a lot of I feel like we spent

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Speaker 3: a lot of time with them over the weekend because

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Speaker 3: they were also at the same hotel and Red Star,

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Speaker 3: and I kept saying, like, just how cool and down

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Speaker 3: to earth and fun and just nice.

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Speaker 1: They were totally that's how we felt the same way.

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Speaker 1: So then Saturday was the oh.

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Speaker 2: We have to tell you the funniest thing.

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Speaker 3: So, you know, so Red Stars not in the entertainment world, right,

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Speaker 3: Like he doesn't really know much. Yeah, he knows like

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Speaker 3: the basics and stuff, like he reads Twitter, but he's not.

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Speaker 2: Like in it.

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Speaker 3: And so on one of the days, our friend Candace

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Speaker 3: formerly a Cola now Candace King, just moved to Nashville,

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Speaker 1: time we hang out with y'all on like Tanya she

442
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:06,520
Speaker 1: found her match, literally because he Tanya is I don't

443
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: even know how to word this, but.

444
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 4: She does things that most people would be so embarrassed

445
00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,360
Speaker 4: in public or like even to us, like the thing

446
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 4: she talks about sometimes he's like Tanya, but he's just

447
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 4: goes along with it.

448
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,360
Speaker 1: He's not even phazed. He like he's just he's really good.

449
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he gets up with me and dances with

450
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 3: me everywhere. We dance at every bar that we were at,

451
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 3: like it was almost like we were the only people

452
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 3: in the room.

453
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 2: It was just like, yeah, so we it was such

454
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 2: a wonderful weekend.

455
00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 1: And in my mind, I'm like, yeah, there, you know,

456
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,360
Speaker 1: I was thinking like, well, it's in the first year

457
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 1: of them dating, and the I'm like, no, it's not.

458
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 1: It's a literally year two, and y'all still are up

459
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Speaker 1: dancing in the room.

460
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Speaker 3: We're gonna be up dance in the room till we're

461
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Speaker 3: I know, till we can't get up no more.

462
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Speaker 1: I know. Also, so Chris Souls was there, so I

463
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 1: haven't seen him in forever. So it was just like

464
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Speaker 1: time with my the guys that I've.

465
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Speaker 2: Dated, Yeah dated, but yes, dated, I dated him.

466
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: I dated him, but like in such a strain, like

467
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 1: you know, in the context of like I knew him

468
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: for like forty eight hours total, like literally spent probably

469
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 1: a total forty eight hours with him. But my dad,

470
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 1: he and my dad love each other, and so he

471
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 1: was asking about my dad and my brother and everything,

472
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 1: and so I fit, you know. So I got drunk,

473
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 1: but I still remember things.

474
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the best drunk.

475
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Speaker 1: See I don't I disagree, because I had like some

476
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Speaker 1: anxiety thinking just of some of the conversations I had,

477
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 1: and like some I felt like I said dumb things

478
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Speaker 1: just to keep the conversation going, like you know, when

479
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:40,880
Speaker 1: he talked too much, and then you're like, why did

480
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 1: I not?

481
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 5: Just like.

482
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,680
Speaker 3: When you don't not, when you don't remember the night,

483
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 3: that's when you get even more anxious, but then you're.

484
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 1: Just you're like, damn, like, hope, I didn't do anything bad.

485
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: But then when you remember, it's almost like I don't know.

486
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm torn between if I'd rather be like black out

487
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: drunk or drunk enough to remember stupid.

488
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 2: Though drunk enough remember is good.

489
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 1: Anyways, that wasn't a part of the so Crystal. I

490
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: facedtime my dad and Crystal because I remember when I

491
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: was dating Robert, we were at this event and chrys

492
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: Soles was there and this is my first my the

493
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 1: first time my parents had met Robert, and I was like,

494
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 1: this is my boyfriend. Robert and Dad just like sitting

495
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: like schmoozing with Crystals, and I'm like, this is my

496
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 1: boy my current.

497
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: Boyfriend, Please get to know him.

498
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: So that was funny. But yeah, I had a great time.

499
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: I had a seven forty five flight the next morning,

500
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: which did not feel good.

501
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 3: You know, there's two types of people after a wedding.

502
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 3: There are the people who get the first flight out

503
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Speaker 3: in the morning so that you can spend the next

504
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 3: your day at home and like in your bed, which

505
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 3: I appreciate, and we did that for Jared and Ashley's wedding.

506
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 3: We took like the first flight out and just slept

507
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Speaker 3: the whole next day.

508
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: God, that was that was one of the most painful

509
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: because we didn't sleep, and I had to drive and

510
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 1: he had to be in the hydroflowers.

511
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 2: And I had a pe pedro flask. Never forget that.

512
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: But so you guys took the early flight and we

513
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 3: took the later flight. It's hard to say which one's worse, honestly.

514
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: So the thing actually that saved me was that because

515
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: we got back to the hotel wasn't soon. I mean

516
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: it was like midnight or something, It wasn't insanely late

517
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: or anything. And we went to sleep and so we

518
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: had to wake up at six, so we were gonna

519
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: get six hours. But I slept horrible. So when my

520
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: alarm went off, I didn't even feel like I had

521
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: gone to sleep, so I wasn't like dying. Yeah, and

522
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: I actually slept on the plane, which I could never

523
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 1: sleep on a plane.

524
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: So nice.

525
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: Once we got home, got in and out, just laid

526
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 1: on the couch all day, I was like, I'm so

527
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: happy we did that.

528
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 2: Well, I have to tell you, so you know, my

529
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 2: my drink of choice is tequila.

530
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: Like I always drink tequila the rocks.

531
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 2: That's how I roll.

532
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: So our first night there, we went out to dinner

533
00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 3: and Red Stars drink is a Hendrix Martini with olives

534
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 3: and onions. And I've never had a Hendrix Martini. I

535
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 3: think there's gin in there. I don't know what alcohol

536
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:10,360
Speaker 3: is in there.

537
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: But I was like, you know.

538
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: What, I'm in Nashville. I'm with my boyfriend. I've never

539
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 3: tried this drink. This drink he drinks.

540
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 2: This is his drink, you know. So I was like,

541
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get one.

542
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 3: Your girl was flying so high after two teenis because

543
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 3: people told me that a martini is like boobs.

544
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: One is not enough, but.

545
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 3: More than two is too many. Oh, I think that's

546
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 3: what the saying is.

547
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: It feels right.

548
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I had two at dinner and we were

549
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 3: making friends with the people to the right of us.

550
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,199
Speaker 3: We were made we made a bet. We were like,

551
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: or have they been to? How many dates have they

552
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 3: been on? So then we our made our bet and

553
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 3: then we got the whole story. We became like best

554
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: friends with them. Then we like became friends with people

555
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 3: to the left of us. I love Hendrix Martini. I

556
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 3: think that might be my New Choice because I wasn't

557
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 3: hung over from it, and tequila makes me very hung over.

558
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, funny you say that because I drink vodka. I

559
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: didn't drink tequila, which you know I've always been more

560
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 1: tequila based. And I wasn't hungover at all. See, so

561
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 1: maybe there's something to it. Isn't it fun? Though? When

562
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: you get to that point of like you're not drunk,

563
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: but you're like just like so feel like so social

564
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: and like you just want to talk to be friends

565
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: with everybody, and like you're not scared at all. No,

566
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: I need to be like at that level if I

567
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: ever run into Jennifer Andison again, just like a little

568
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: just comfortable enough, confident enough.

569
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 2: You're never gonna get to that level. What do you

570
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 2: mean because we were drunk at the People's Choice Awards. No,

571
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 2: it wasn't, Oh you weren't.

572
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: Was that just me seems that way speaking up People's

573
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: Choice Awards. Go vote for Chicks in the Office. I

574
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: keep on podcast, keep voting for Chicks in the Office.

575
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: I think we need to take a break. Mark has

576
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: joined us. But before Mark even says hello, we're gonna

577
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: take a break and we'll be back to talk about

578
00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: Red Taylor's version. Okay, we're back. Mark has joined us

579
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Speaker 1: from the studio.

580
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Speaker 3: Mark, you really missed them entertaining stories from the weekend.

581
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Speaker 6: I'm sorry that happened. I'm sorry. I was on important

582
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 6: phone calls. I'm a very busy, important person, and so

583
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 6: I'm sorry I missed that.

584
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: What did you miss? Which stories?

585
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 2: Do you feel like he missed just all of them?

586
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: Oh? He felt like that he would have been entertained.

587
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 2: I think it would have entertained by something we mostly

588
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 2: just talked about.

589
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: We went to the wedding and we were I was

590
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Speaker 1: in a room with you know, two of the people

591
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: that I mean, I went on there seasons of the

592
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: Bachelor sexes exes. But that feels like if.

593
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 2: You've dated somebody that's your ex, no like it.

594
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: Do you cool every single guy you went on a

595
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 1: date with your ex? No? Okay?

596
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 6: There also if you dated them on television? Is that

597
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 6: a whole difference?

598
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: Really, girl like in front of cameras, Like, I don't know,

599
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,199
Speaker 1: I don't even miss my exes. I just you know,

600
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: they're guys that I knew. In a bizarre experience, one

601
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: of them got a little closer to a serious commitment

602
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: than the other.

603
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 2: But right, like you were almost engaged to one of them,

604
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: But I call that was my whole storyline that I know.

605
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 2: But you were close.

606
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 3: So and then my boyfriend is like wanting to be

607
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 3: best friends with the guy that I dated in my past.

608
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the guys that she actually you liked

609
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: him more than a lot, and it just never.

610
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: We were like cross country.

611
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 3: So it's just so funny because guys just don't care

612
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 3: and they're so like chill about it.

613
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: I was like, what my tongue has been in his mouth?

614
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that didn't seem to face him at all

615
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 6: at all.

616
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 2: They were so chummy.

617
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 6: And if it was reversed, if you were sitting next

618
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 6: to one of his ex girlfriends, that would have bothered

619
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 6: you that his tongue has been in her mouth.

620
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:56,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't have been mean.

621
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 3: I would have been so nice and you know, friendly,

622
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 3: but I would not have been I mean, they were

623
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 3: thick as thieves.

624
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 6: You'd have talked to her the entire flight, which is

625
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 6: kind of your own revenge in some ways.

626
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

627
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would definitely be the one who talked to

628
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: talk to my ex's ex girlfriend. Yeah. Yeah, like just

629
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: the whole time. Yeah, hard to.

630
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 3: Say, honestly, if you put me in that position, hard

631
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 3: to say what I would have done. But I was

632
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 3: laughing the entire time. I was just like, this is

633
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 3: so funny. Of course he's like in our hotel on

634
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 3: both of our same flights. We're sharing ubers the whole weekend,

635
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 3: taking shops together, like.

636
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 6: And we never had a nickname for this guy.

637
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 2: No, I think I just called him like New York guy.

638
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 6: I don't remember that. But he's the guy we called

639
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 6: with Ryan to say, are you were You're really sick

640
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 6: when you blew off Tanya?

641
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah remember yes? Yeah, oh my gosh, yeah yeah

642
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 2: yeah yeah.

643
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 3: But I really like him, And now we're trying to

644
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 3: set him up with someone.

645
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 2: So here we are.

646
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, who do we know? We know so many people

647
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: I know.

648
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,719
Speaker 3: But you know what's interesting as you get older setting

649
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 3: people up, it's a lot of pressure. You want to

650
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: make sure that both parties are excited and interested.

651
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 6: You know.

652
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: Yes, so it's kind of like intimidating.

653
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: No, it's not because they go one day and then

654
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: they go, hey, I really liked her, I like to

655
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 1: see her get her. I really liked him, like.

656
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 3: They're like, oh, that's Tanya's friend, I need to at

657
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 3: least take her out twice or you know what I mean.

658
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I.

659
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: Don't think so. I don't think that's yours the take on.

660
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: So now what I've what I've taken on is throwing

661
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 3: a party for all of our single friends to mingle.

662
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love that.

663
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Speaker 2: Who sticks?

664
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Speaker 1: Hey, I think I want to do a friends giving

665
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Speaker 1: at my place.

666
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 6: Cute.

667
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you got to hurry up because it's like

668
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: in a week and a half.

669
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Speaker 1: Yeah so this week.

670
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe, Oh, Mark.

671
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: I found a loophole to having liquids in my in

672
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: on the desk because I brought Tanya. I asked her

673
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: if she wanted to drink, and.

674
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 6: So it's smart.

675
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a thinker.

676
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 6: The problem is that coffee is gonna be a much

677
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 6: bigger stain to deal with than water would be.

678
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,719
Speaker 1: Well, normally it's a celsius.

679
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 3: So it's not the stain, it's the water. I mean,

680
00:29:58,400 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: it's the wetness.

681
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: It's the at miss.

682
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: So I'll just staying Oh. Also, I asked Tanya if

683
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: because we were talking about red stars, like very unbothered

684
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: by everything. It's quite inspirational, inspirational, truly, And I was saying,

685
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 1: I always like think about when I meet people, I

686
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: think or like, when I'm thinking about people that I

687
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: could do the amazing race with, I put him in

688
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: my list of people I think I could do it

689
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: with Antania so that it would be okay. And also

690
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: my sister's girlfriend, I want she would be a good

691
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: partner for me too, So I have two people that

692
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: I think I could do well.

693
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 3: I used to think I was miss positivity and always

694
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: looked at the bright side, and then I started dating

695
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 3: this guy, and he is ten times that, like, you know,

696
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 3: like things give me anxiety, and things make me stressed out,

697
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: things bother me, and he's always just like, it's okay,

698
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 3: this is a challenge. We're gonna we're gonna be a team.

699
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: We're gonna face it together and we're gonna learn and

700
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 3: we're gonna get through it.

701
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't think it takes away that

702
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: you're a positive person though. I just think that he

703
00:30:54,800 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: has a he's ship the perspective in the moment, whereas

704
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 1: you can shift the perspective maybe after some time. We're

705
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: thinking about it.

706
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 3: A lot of processing, a lot of processing, a lot

707
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 3: of therapy process correct.

708
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: So the other big thing that happened this week. Last

709
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: week Taylor Swift re released Red Taylor's version and do

710
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: you know how.

711
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 6: How are we so far into this podcast we ever

712
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 6: talked about.

713
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 3: We wanted to do in tears so like people who

714
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: aren't Taylor fans, because you know, sometimes in the Facebook

715
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 3: group we get a little scuttle that we talk too

716
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 3: much Taylor. So we wanted to do, you know, wedding

717
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 3: recap Life Nashville then Taylor.

718
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: Yes, I am just amazed that someone can take an

719
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: album that has already been out, not I mean changed up,

720
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: but I mean not in a significant way of the

721
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: original songs and be number one streaming on every platform

722
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: the Billboard charts. And it's just like it's like guaranteed,

723
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: it's the It like blows my mind. I can't even

724
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: process that she has that much power.

725
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 3: I also just want to say that I feel personally

726
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 3: attacked that we didn't get this ten minute version of

727
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: All Too Well originally, like the lyrics in the new

728
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 3: All too Well?

729
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: Oh where does one of true?

730
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 6: For nine years? Just sat on that It just on

731
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 6: that's lyrics she edited out of the original verse like

732
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 6: that is some serious stuff that does not feel like

733
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 6: ten minutes.

734
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 3: No, no, it feels like two seconds, flies by, flies by,

735
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 3: I don't have to edit it. But the patriarchy, Oh I'm.

736
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: A more modern woman line like ever are you kidding me?

737
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: Apparently I was reading some theories that basically she's saying

738
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: that he dropped his keychain that said the patriarchy, and

739
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: she was kind of saying like that it was he

740
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: was like a performative feminist that he was basically like

741
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: he treated her like that, but had a key chain

742
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: that said the patriarchy, which is even more just.

743
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 3: Like the lyric, all get older, but your lovers stay

744
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 3: my age or or.

745
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: Kept you like a You kept me like a secret,

746
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: but I kept feel like an oath.

747
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 5: Good?

748
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? It's it's a masterpiece.

749
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: Uh you know what is so interesting?

750
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 3: So I think the reason why this album in particular

751
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: by Taylor just it just hits people differently is because

752
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 3: she even said it in that little like monologu or

753
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: what do you call it, that outrou that this is

754
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 3: a you know, an album that reflects you know, a

755
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 3: broken this was a broken person or something basically talking

756
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: about how this is an.

757
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 2: Album about heartbreak?

758
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 3: Right, I'm sitting here and I'm like listening to this

759
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 3: version of All Too Well and these songs that just

760
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 3: are so sad, and these are songs that I'd like

761
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: listened to while I've been broken up with this man,

762
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: you know, and yet I'm so happy in this relationship.

763
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 3: And it was the weirdest what's the word, just the

764
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 3: position because I was going to dichotomy, yeah, thank you

765
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: where you know, I'm listening to these words that used

766
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 3: to make me cry and I can still go get

767
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 3: to that place.

768
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 2: But I'm being held by this man that I like love.

769
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 3: So much, and he's listening to this music that he

770
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 3: doesn't want to listen to or care about or really

771
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 3: listening to the lyrics and you know whatever. And I

772
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 3: was just like, this is the weirdest state of mind

773
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: to be in right now.

774
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 2: It was very bizarre.

775
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: Because you read came out during your breakup, right? No?

776
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 2: No, no, I came out in twenty twelve.

777
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, when was your breakup?

778
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 6: No?

779
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 2: Oh no?

780
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 3: I mean like even when we were broken up this

781
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 3: with when I was broken up with Red Star, remember

782
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 3: when we were like coming back driving home and I

783
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 3: was listening to All Too Well on repeat.

784
00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, but we were also listening to State

785
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: of Grace.

786
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 3: A State of Grace read the lyrics are like loving

787
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 3: you was red, no, losing.

788
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 2: You was blue.

789
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 1: I know.

790
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 3: And you know what's interesting is that I never saw

791
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 3: you coming and I'll never be the same.

792
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 2: I love that lyrics.

793
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: I when I was in twenty twelve had never even

794
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: experienced love, So those lyrics now, like, I get them

795
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 1: so much more, even though I haven't experienced like heartbreak

796
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: to that degree. I understand that the level of love

797
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 1: typically equals the level of heartbreak. And like knowing those

798
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: those lyrics of like loving you was read like it's

799
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: so like you can't contain. It means so much more

800
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 1: than it did in twenty twelve.

801
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 3: The lyric so casually cruel in the name of being honest.

802
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 6: That's the one that struck me, even though I know

803
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 6: that's in the original, but yeah, that one.

804
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 3: Did, because it's like, sometimes when you break up with somebody,

805
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 3: it's not bad, you know what I mean, There's not

806
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 3: nobody did anything. It's just I'm an a bad place

807
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: or I'm in this you know whatever. So they're they're

808
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: being honest but it's just so so casually cool just

809
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 3: being honest. But it's so casually cool.

810
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: I'll never forget when I heard, like actually heard that

811
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: lyric for the first time, and like, all of a sudden,

812
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: I had listened to the song so many times, and

813
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I was like, so casually cruel,

814
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: Like even when someone gives you an opinion that you

815
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: didn't ask for and they're like, I'm just being honest,

816
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: and you're like, that was that was cruel?

817
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:30,959
Speaker 2: Yeah?

818
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 6: Also that he called her and you call me up

819
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 6: again just to break me like a promise, so casually

820
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 6: cruel in the name of being honest, Like he initiates

821
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 6: the conversation to try to justify his own guilt for

822
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 6: what happened, and then the process just destroys her all

823
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 6: over again.

824
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: The short film great, great, their chemistry. I almost even

825
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: them kissing in the middle of the road. I felt

826
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: like I need to look away, Like their chemistry was

827
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: so good.

828
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 6: I think Sadie Sink, which by the way, is a

829
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 6: fantastic name.

830
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, is that her real name?

831
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 6: Do we know this?

832
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: Last week?

833
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 6: But she was done stranger things and I think she's

834
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 6: going to be around for a long long time. She's fantastic.

835
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, honestly, it's just.

836
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:21,760
Speaker 6: Her name is Sadie Elizabeth Sink.

837
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: It's just so good, I think, babe. I know.

838
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 3: So it's interesting because a lot of the songs that

839
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 3: were from the Vault were songs that she's written but

840
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 3: have been sung by other artists.

841
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was your favorite from the vault? Babe? But

842
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: it's true, what about your promise?

843
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 2: This promises?

844
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: I felt the same way. Also better Man like.

845
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 3: Right, but like Little Big Death, like that song's been out,

846
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 3: I know, but it's it hits different when she sings it, no,

847
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 3: I know.

848
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: And also nothing new with Phoebe Bridgers.

849
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so there's also a theory I guess in I

850
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 3: don't know what video ed Sheeron is like wearing a

851
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift patch.

852
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 2: Do you remember Mark what video she's in?

853
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 6: Are he?

854
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: No?

855
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 3: It somewhere he's wearing a Taylor Swift patch. But did

856
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 3: you see the teasers that Taylor was posting with the

857
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 3: cake and the equals sign?

858
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh there's like album.

859
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, people are saying there's like theories going around that

860
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 3: they did a recorded a whole album together. I just

861
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 3: I don't know how you put those two and two together,

862
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 3: but I have chills.

863
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love Ed Sheeran and people I don't think

864
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: he gets enough credit. Like people are so mean to him,

865
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: but I.

866
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 2: Mean to him, I feel like he's universally no.

867
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: He like literally got off the internet for a minute

868
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: because he he was the big People were so cruel

869
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: and he was like, I just couldn't handle it.

870
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 6: Like I think gen Z is not a fan. That's

871
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 6: the vibe I'm getting is gen Z does not like

872
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 6: Ed and they let him know.

873
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah really mean, Yeah I didn't know that.

874
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 3: Well, you know, gen Z also doesn't like his Jake Gillenhall,

875
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 3: and they're letting him know that as well.

876
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 6: Well. Sure, but like my kids are very anti Ed Shearon,

877
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 6: which I don't like because I was great and also

878
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 6: I think he's a great guy.

879
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 2: Wait, why don't they like him?

880
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 6: Why don't they just don't like him? Because they'll even

881
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 6: begrudgingly admit my oldest, my fifteen year old, to be like,

882
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, okay, bad Habits is a good song,

883
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 6: but ugh, because they're very influenced by TikTok and they're

884
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 6: seeing nothing but negativity on TikTok as if this is

885
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 6: a person they're not supposed to like.

886
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: But yeah, but what is it about him that they

887
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 2: don't like?

888
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 6: I don't know that there is anything, but I think

889
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 6: it might be that he's not as attractive as some

890
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 6: of the other pop stars of the day.

891
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: I know. I'm telling you, it's like it is. It's unfair.

892
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: I love it. Shearon, I'm an edge. I'm an edge,

893
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: Sharon stan and I will be forever and gen Z

894
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: has a lot TikTok. In general, people who have literally

895
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: basically said out loud that they are not Taylor Swift

896
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 1: fans and don't understand her hype are turning into Swifties

897
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: because of TikTok. And so the influence of TikTok is

898
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: incredible or deteriorating, you know what I'm saying. Like, you

899
00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 1: either can gain more momentum like Taylor Swift. The momentum

900
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: she gained from TikTok is insane to me, Like my

901
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: whole for You page is just Taylor Swift. But also,

902
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: if someone decides that they don't like you downhill, yikes.

903
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: So be careful in your new TikTok venture.

904
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, just posted a new one. Boxing. Actually uh oh, so.

905
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Jake Dyllon Hall is just casually living his life.

906
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 6: For I mean, I would love to know more about

907
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 6: his weekend.

908
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 1: Man, I know, you know what he wouldn't wouldn't would

909
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 1: it be funny or would it be like a bad

910
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: move if he did an interview in Moore a red scarf,

911
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: Like would that be funny?

912
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 6: I thought he should just put on that scarf. I

913
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 6: just walk a block in Manhattan and then just go

914
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 6: away again, and I just watch the reactions.

915
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: I know.

916
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 2: So you know what's interesting.

917
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 3: I think about this because, like you know, Sophie Turner

918
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: posted about the new album. It's like, obviously she and

919
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: Joejonas have like a good sense of humor about it,

920
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: you know, but I wonder. I always wonder, obviously the

921
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 3: feelings have it's been so long that they're all in

922
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 3: better places, they're all in great relationships, they've moved on.

923
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 3: But to be in such a public relationship and to

924
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 3: to like I try to put myself in his shoes,

925
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 3: like what I play along with it or what I

926
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 3: just want to hibernate, I just play along with it.

927
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: This one was different though, because yeah, Joe and Sophie

928
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: and Taylor. I mean she even said, like send presence

929
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: when to your baby? What was the line?

930
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 3: And lover it was from Invisible Strength.

931
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, now I send presents to your baby. What

932
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:47,760
Speaker 1: is the line?

933
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like the lyric is, uh, now I send

934
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 3: Now I send baby gifts to my I don't know.

935
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: Something along the lines is basically implying she sent a

936
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: gift for Joe and Sophie's.

937
00:41:58,680 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: Baby had their baby.

938
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,760
Speaker 1: And this one just feels so different because it feels

939
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: like the hurt that was there almost like it was

940
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: a genuine like she liked Joe and like had like

941
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: a big crush on him and like maybe thought she

942
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: was in love, But this one feels like this was

943
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: her first love, like her first like genuine heartbreak that

944
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 1: like crushed her.

945
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 6: I think the smart move is the Hybern eight because

946
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 6: it could be seen as mocking the pain that she's

947
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 6: expressing in this album. It could be seen as him

948
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 6: looking fun at the whole thing.

949
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 3: And Yeah, but also you know what really annoys me

950
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 3: is that, like I think she did an interview this

951
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 3: weekend and she said something about or.

952
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: She was asked like, oh, have you heard from or?

953
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 3: I can't remember exactly what it was, but basically like

954
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 3: the people who are the subjects of your songs.

955
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 2: And I'm just so over it because she has just

956
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 2: been like.

957
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: Ridiculed and painted to be this villain for writing about

958
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 3: her heartbreak when men have been doing it for like

959
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 3: thousands and millions of years and nobody whatever hell ever

960
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 3: long men have been doing it, but they never get

961
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 3: asked that question. And yet it's always such a thing

962
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 3: when Taylor does it, and I'm just so down.

963
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 6: Where the nar it is one of men. Give me

964
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 6: an example of men who have written so specifically about

965
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 6: their exes.

966
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 2: How about Beatles?

967
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 6: Hey, Jude, Jude was actually John Lennon's son.

968
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: She was ready for that one, he on.

969
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 2: Let me just do a little perusing, Let me do

970
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 2: a little perusing.

971
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 6: No, I'm not, I'm not saying you wrong. I'm just

972
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 6: saying hers are so hyper specific to specific people in relationships,

973
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 6: where I feel like most people men and women write

974
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 6: more broadly about love and.

975
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 2: Relationship, but who cares, that's their prerogative.

976
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: I think that no one has ever had this much

977
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: focus on who the songs are about, like you think

978
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: about like people don't like everyone She's never even confirmed

979
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 1: who things are about.

980
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 2: Claudine. The Rolling Stones have a song called Claudine when.

981
00:43:53,640 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: He's really bringing out some what do you think classic Claudine?

982
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 2: Okay, nobody's asking the Rolling Stones about that.

983
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: We definitely want to know if they have Yeah, okay,

984
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: but I will say Lady Jane.

985
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 2: They also had another song Lady Jane, as anybody.

986
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 6: I think also, Taylors are with celebrities. She dated celebrities

987
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 6: and then she writes songs about it. That's interesting.

988
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: Do you know what our queen said when they asked her.

989
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: She goes, I haven't really thought about their experience, to

990
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: be honest, She's just like, I'm just writing my music.

991
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: I'm writing my perspective, my story. You can't take that

992
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 3: away from me.

993
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 6: Because the only other person I can think of who

994
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 6: does this is Olivia Rodrigo. You know, we know who

995
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 6: that guy was, and it was hyper specific details about

996
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 6: the relationship, and it was the same response from people.

997
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 1: It's true, it's true. I have to say it is true.

998
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 6: I don't know that it's anyway. I don't know that

999
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 6: it's a gender thing. I just think that maybe she's

1000
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 6: gotten some flack about it. And that's unfortunate, but it's

1001
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 6: specific to her and it's awesome.

1002
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: Well, no, she's always gotten flat for dating people, and

1003
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: she's like, especially during that time where she was getting

1004
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: that she was at a very normal age where she

1005
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: was had every right to be dating people just like

1006
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: everyone her age, but because she was in the public

1007
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: eye dating celebrities, there was way more like uh criticism

1008
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: around it that she had to answer to. And that's not.

1009
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 6: Fair that women catch hack for having a whole bunch

1010
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 6: of relationships. Yeah, men jump from bed to.

1011
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: Bed, which is what her whole song The Man is about.

1012
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: It's basically if I was Leo on a yacht no One.

1013
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 2: Because exactly exactly.

1014
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: Anyways, I feel very lucky to have grown up with

1015
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift and be in the generation of Taylor Swift

1016
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: and like her music and lyrics will be spoken about forever.

1017
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 6: Z seems fine with Taylor Swift.

1018
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: By the way, gen Z is, it's like a new

1019
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: like generation of Taylor Swift fans and they are is

1020
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 1: a powerful group.

1021
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 6: Oh. Billy Joel last week said that Taylor Swift is

1022
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 6: this generation's Beatles. I thought that was actually a really

1023
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 6: interesting point and accurate and too.

1024
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: I thought I was very accurate.

1025
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 6: I think that my generation was Michael Jackson. That was

1026
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 6: my generation's Beatles. No, I think this generation is Taylor Swift.

1027
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 6: I think that's right.

1028
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: I agree.

1029
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 2: I can't find more songs.

1030
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: Well, Brittany, Brittany is Free. Friday was a huge day.

1031
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 1: Brittany is Free. Taylor released Red, Paris Hilton got married

1032
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: this weekend. Nicole Ritchie was in attendance. There was something

1033
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: else significant that happened. I saw a rundown from someone

1034
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: I think Kirby. Shout out to Kirby. But anyways, it

1035
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: was a big weekend for the women of like two

1036
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: thousand and seven, you know, like the stars of like

1037
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 1: our time all had a big weekend.

1038
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and.

1039
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just.

1040
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 6: Found a teaser. Yeah, there we go.

1041
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: There we go.

1042
00:46:54,200 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: What if Kim Kardashian and Taylor Swift reconcile? That would

1043
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: be big?

1044
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 2: But wait, what's next? Now? So we got the Red?

1045
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 2: What's next? Which album's next?

1046
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: There's hints that it could be nineteen eighty nine, and

1047
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: there's hints that could be speak Now because nineteen eighty

1048
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: nine the She's so if this is Sometimes I think

1049
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 1: the Swifties are like ten steps of ahead of the

1050
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: rest of us, and I think Taylor may get her

1051
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: ideas from them sometimes because they're so in depth and

1052
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,720
Speaker 1: smart that I'm like, where did this come from her?

1053
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: The car that she used in the short film is

1054
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,439
Speaker 1: at eight?

1055
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 3: Oh?

1056
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 2: Was it the one from Style the music video?

1057
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: Oh? I don't Oh, I don't know, but it's a

1058
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: nineteen eighty nine Mercedes or whatever it is. So a

1059
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: lot of people have calculated that could be it. And

1060
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: then she's been wearing like purple and stuff, so people

1061
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: are saying that could be speak now oh.

1062
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I don't know, but I'm already excited for more.

1063
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: But I don't want to get greedy. I'm like trying

1064
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,760
Speaker 1: to just enjoy the re release of bread.

1065
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 2: But you know greedy is is greedy? I don't know.

1066
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: I don't even how get there.

1067
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't even make something up for us.

1068
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: I couldn't.

1069
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 3: I couldn't even like get anything up like it was like, yeah,

1070
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 3: where it happens. I'm telling you, guys, Nashville food is

1071
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I eat bread like like.

1072
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 2: Bread was water.

1073
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 6: You know we have bread here, you just don't eat

1074
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 6: it correctly.

1075
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 2: There's something No, No, it was something about the bread.

1076
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 3: It was like smothered and covered as some may say,

1077
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 3: it was beyond I don't think I ate one fruit

1078
00:48:58,440 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: or vegetable all weekend.

1079
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: Of you your body was probably like, well, treat.

1080
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 2: My body is hating me right now.

1081
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: Well we got back and got in and out and

1082
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: I got extra lettuce, like pretty much on the health train.

1083
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: At any time we see anything like really gross, like

1084
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 3: in terms of you were watching the TVs and there's

1085
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,399
Speaker 3: an Applebe's commercial and it was hot wings that were

1086
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 3: like dipped in cheetos.

1087
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 2: He goes back up, would probably like that.

1088
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm weird about wings because like chicken can freak

1089
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: me out sometimes.

1090
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 3: I don't understand wings. I don't have bones in them, Like,

1091
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 3: don't wings have bones in them? How do they make

1092
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: boneless wings?

1093
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: It's like a chicken tender.

1094
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:41,919
Speaker 2: Oh, just mushed up parts.

1095
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: Okay, please, I can't handle mushed up parts because that

1096
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: might might never eat chicken again. You know what I

1097
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: had for breakfast this morning that I got Chinese last

1098
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: night and I had fried rice for breakfast because I've

1099
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: been it was so good. I was craving it, so

1100
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: I know I'm back. And it was vegetable fried rice too. Okay,

1101
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: So pop Tart sent me. Pop Tart came out with

1102
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 1: these specific butters that this butter company created to go

1103
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: with a specific flavor of pop Tart, and they sent

1104
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Speaker 1: it to me. You're gonna have to come try out.

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Speaker 2: That's a new level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, did I get a Tailor Swift box

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Speaker 1: with like her stuff in it?

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00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: No? No, but did get that shirt and.

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00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: Pop Tart did send me their butter and pop Tart combo.

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Speaker 6: So like the brown sugar Pop Tart Classic, they send

1111
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 6: you a specific butter. It's flavored a certain way to

1112
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Speaker 6: compliment the brown sugar of the.

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Speaker 1: They sent me, and it was a chocolate. They sent

1114
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Speaker 1: me the frosted strawberry chocolate fudge and the brown sugar centamon.

1115
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Speaker 1: And one of the butters to go with the chocolate

1116
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Speaker 1: fudge is like a hob and narrow butter or something.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 1: So that's gonna be probably what I have today. Is

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Speaker 1: it tastes? Yeah? Hailey goes. Hailey got the Tailor Swift

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Speaker 1: package with like the scarf and the shirt. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you can wear my shirt and I'm like it's not

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00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: even mine.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: We're driving to the wedding and we're in the uber

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Speaker 3: and literally all Beck and I were doing is like

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00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 3: rattling off Taylor swift lyrics, like literally just finishing each

1127
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 3: other's sentences with a different Taylor swift lyric.

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Speaker 2: Poor Red Star and Haley were like, where I.

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Speaker 1: Said we could do, we should have done a segment

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Speaker 1: of the podcast where.

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00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 2: This on your podcast. I'm like, yeah, but we're not

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00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: even making sense.

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00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were just spinning them out as they came. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, could you imagine, just imagine somebody just

1135
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 3: being so casually cruel in the name of being honest?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I know for sure I would remember it

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00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 1: all too well.

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Speaker 3: Could you imagine being kept like a secret when you

1139
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 3: kept them like an oath?

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Speaker 6: No, did this in the car the whole time, the

1141
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 6: way the area.

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Speaker 1: Haley and uh Red Star were very confused.

1143
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 2: But also amused, confused and amused.

1144
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, confused and amused. I think we have an email,

1145
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 1: and then I think we have to wrap it up here.

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00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 6: You go, do you want anonymous or Jesse will do

1147
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 6: one today and then one later.

1148
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 5: Well, which everyone's first, Yeah, well Jesse's quicker and we're

1149
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 5: kind of going along here all right, Becca says, Jesse,

1150
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 5: you have mentioned in the past how you were not

1151
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 5: scared of the thought of dying.

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Speaker 6: Oh, this might be a bigger question. This might not

1153
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 6: be a quickie. My question is how can you elaborate?

1154
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 6: Is this faith? Is it something you think about often?

1155
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 6: I'm always thinking about what will happen when I'm gone,

1156
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 6: and the thought of there maybe being nothing is terrifying.

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00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if it's a long answer, I Jesse,

1158
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: I I get I think there. I have a lot

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00:52:56,120 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 1: of I'm able to reconcile what I can't control a

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00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: lot of times. And I have faith that there is

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00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: a place that's better than earth, and so that is

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00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: what I believe in. And like what my faith is in,

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00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 1: which is God and having a relationship with God, and

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Speaker 1: so I have a lot of peace in that. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know the answers, Like no one knows the answers.

1166
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 1: We're all just in the same boat of not knowing.

1167
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: But if you watch things or shows or interviews with

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Speaker 1: people who have died and the men brought back to life,

1169
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: they all say the same thing where they experience peace

1170
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Speaker 1: and light and like not wanting to come back from that.

1171
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Speaker 1: So I think I think there is something. I definitely

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00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: believe there is something. I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 1: But I also know that we are not in control

1174
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: or supposed to know. If we were supposed to know,

1175
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: then we would all know. I think that's how I

1176
00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: reconcile that. But I don't think about it a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's just when we were talking about that one time,

1178
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I don't really have that fear

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Speaker 1: of dying.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting because I have the same I

1182
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 3: do believe in heaven and I have a strong faith,

1183
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 3: but you know, I don't like to think about that often.

1184
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: So no, I don't like to think about it often.

1185
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't. I literally don't think about dying often. But

1186
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Speaker 1: when I do, when people talk about like, oh I'm

1187
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: so scared of it, I don't relate. I don't have

1188
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: that same fear. That's what I was saying. But I

1189
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 1: don't like to think about death in general. I don't.

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Speaker 2: It's a morbid topic, right.

1191
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: But I have seen I really I wish I could

1192
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 1: think of the show on Netflix. There's a show on

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00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 1: Netflix and they interview so many people who had different

1194
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: like they have different faith backgrounds, some of them don't

1195
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: believe in anything, and they all kind of said the

1196
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Speaker 1: same thing, which is they saw a light, they saw

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Speaker 1: faces as they remembered, they didn't want to come back.

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Speaker 1: And I think that can offer a lot of peace

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Speaker 1: into like that fear of death. So I don't I

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Speaker 1: think it's something you should think about or worry about.

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00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: I think it's something that you should. I mean, when

1202
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 1: I have fear about anything, I pray about it. So

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00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: whatever your faith is or whatever, you have a foundation,

1204
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: and I think you should seek that when you start

1205
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: to feel that fear creep in. So so stream Red

1206
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: Taylor's version. I want them to take off all the

1207
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: old verse. I want the old version gone.

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Speaker 3: I saw somebody post the Facebook group like so should

1209
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 3: we not listen to the old versions?

1210
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,959
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, no.

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Speaker 1: Also, I love the re the reinvention of Girl at

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00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: Home on the Taylor's version.

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00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 2: And the acoustic State of Grace.

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Speaker 1: Oh that one was always good. But yeah, my god,

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Speaker 1: So on that note, oh, do you want to share

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00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 1: what you uh that you got to? Oh? Shout out

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00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:01,919
Speaker 1: to Jess at the Virgin Hotel because she.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well she's amazable.

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00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 3: She was at the front desk at the hotel that

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Speaker 3: we say, at the Virgin in Nashville, and it was

1221
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 3: so cute.

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00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 2: We walk up to check in. She has red starbursts

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00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 2: on her desk, so I was like, this feels significant.

1224
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 3: I'm looking at those, and then she had a doctor

1225
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 3: Pepper next to her phone, so I.

1226
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: Felt very But she didn't tell me she was a

1227
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Speaker 2: podcast listener until the next day.

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Speaker 3: Oh, but then she also said she has ADHD and

1229
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 3: doesn't make it all the way through, so I don't

1230
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 3: even know she'll hear this.

1231
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: Oh, she doesn't like I listen to the first time.

1232
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 3: She's like, I listened when I like walk the dog,

1233
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 3: and I will stop and then I look, we'll forget.

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00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 2: And then I'll watch, you know, when I'm driving to work,

1235
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 2: and then I'll forget.

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Speaker 1: You know. I should have given her the shout out

1237
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: at the beginning. Yeah, all right, Well, shout out to Jess.

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00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: If you made it through this and if you are

1239
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,919
Speaker 1: not Jess and you stay at the Virgin Hotel, Jess

1240
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 1: is the best. Yeah, and that's all. That's all.

1241
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 2: She wrote.

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00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:03,320
Speaker 1: Congrats to you been in Jess, Yep, we love it.

1243
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 1: That's to Taylor Swift. Congrats to Britney Spears.

1244
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 2: Do you just not want to leave me today? I

1245
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 2: feel like what's happening here? Do you want me to

1246
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: wrap it up? All right?

1247
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 3: Hope you all have a gra I mean I've enjoying

1248
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 3: being on this side of it. To wrap it up, no,

1249
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 3: because normally I'm the one that's trying to get you.

1250
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 2: To stay dayesdayday. I've been loving you for quiet sometime

1251
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 2: time time.

1252
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: Okay, hope everyone has a great week and we love you,

1253
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: and we actually have a bonus episode coming out Thursday,

1254
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: so be looking for that. Bye.