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Speaker 1: none of you have ever done this, But do you

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Speaker 1: know anybody who has ever said something about someone that

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Speaker 1: and you realize that what they said was something that

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Speaker 1: a guy, good buddy of mine. He the first couple

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Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, she's okay looking, but she's so rich.

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Speaker 1: I stood up in their wedding, by the way, and obviously,

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Speaker 1: like things change, you know, you you, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: know that in time, obviously you you develop an affection

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 1: I mean you have to have heard of people who

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Speaker 1: romantic interest and then the romantic interest grew, yeah or whatever,

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Speaker 1: but I always thought.

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Speaker 3: They were hot though. I feel like I always think

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Speaker 3: my friend was attractive.

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Speaker 2: You know, is that true?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like sometimes where there's not attraction, there's affection,

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Speaker 1: and then the attraction grows once you get like, have

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Speaker 1: you met you've never dated anybody who when you first

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Speaker 1: other way. I know, you can meet a hot person

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Speaker 1: You know. But I think it can go the other way,

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Speaker 1: right where you meet someone and at first you don't,

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Speaker 1: you don't think about it romantically because you're not necessarily

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Speaker 4: I think that happens a lot, doesn't it. Oh, go ahead, geeking, No,

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Speaker 4: just it happens a lot, especially when you get rich. Well,

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Speaker 4: when from being broke to rich, like you real I

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Speaker 5: I think I can.

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Speaker 3: Always tell if someone's like attractive or not.

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Speaker 6: Like I think that the want to hook up with

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Speaker 6: them park comes later, obviously, but I can always tell

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Speaker 6: you look good.

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Speaker 3: Your face is symmetrical. I like what you got going.

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Speaker 5: You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: I love it when you talk about me like that.

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Speaker 3: You guys are all hot.

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Speaker 5: I know that.

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Speaker 2: And old Hollywood you know.

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Speaker 3: That's what the hottest morning show.

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Speaker 2: That is what I heard. Well, that's the fact, that's

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Speaker 1: She also says, yeah, girl friend, Jess told me that

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Speaker 7: Talking and you and you're married for seven years on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: Well I can see why she would have said that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, that's not.

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Speaker 1: The first time we actually and you threw up all

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Speaker 5: But what change that made her change her mind?

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Speaker 2: So look at me?

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Speaker 1: Come on now, I am looking.

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Speaker 2: Everything is like a challenge to me. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. I pursued and pursuit grind it up.

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Speaker 3: On it from behind.

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you, yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, came up from behind, little grinding action.

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Speaker 1: Did you grind before or after? What did you get?

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Speaker 1: Kissing on the neck with puke breast?

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Speaker 2: That's great?

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Speaker 7: Before? Like, I need a water. I went to the bar,

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Speaker 2: Okay. But here's the thing, ruf, I think you're a

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Speaker 1: I do. And I'm not just saying that because you're

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Speaker 1: I see you differently now. And I bring this up

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Speaker 1: devastated to find old messages on her husband's phone from

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god, Oh my god, Hey man.

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Speaker 1: So much. But hey, is this only a male thing?

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's only a male thing. You guys

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Speaker 6: But I always say we're all a little ugly to

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Speaker 3: Hooking up with someone you think is ugly? I'll never

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Speaker 1: Well, he goes on. It gets worse. I mean, you

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Now I have a bigger problem with the way he's

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're really close with somebody, sometimes you

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Speaker 2: So what do you do? I'm curious from you guys.

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Speaker 1: Of course you can text your call eight five five

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Speaker 1: There was no investment, there was no emotional attachment. Obviously

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Speaker 1: I can't believe that's how we started.

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Speaker 2: I'm out. I hate you.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, that would be real hard for me to

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Speaker 6: Really, yes, but you want, like I want the ugly part,

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Speaker 6: Like it wouldn't matter if he's like, oh she's all

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Speaker 6: like that's all fine, whatever, but like the ugly part would.

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Speaker 3: Just crush me.

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Speaker 4: Oh, it wouldn't bother me. Really, I'd like I won.

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Speaker 4: Maybe you locked in?

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Speaker 2: Did you? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Wo the guy that talks like that about women, he

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Speaker 4: that's why I'm like, you know me, I want so

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Speaker 2: Get you right now.

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Speaker 3: She's like these ugly co hosts.

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Speaker 5: I don't mean it. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, radio car no access to die on radio.

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Speaker 8: I love a joking joke, you know, so ugly Dad

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Speaker 4: Look, my family makes fun of me all the time

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Speaker 5: Ugly, he a little slow. He only want me, he

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Speaker 4: No other girls want him, and so they they bring

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Speaker 4: literally prayed for you. She said you were going to

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Speaker 4: he can't take that personal.

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Speaker 3: I was just not a humble, tad jokey joke him specifically.

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Speaker 1: All right, at least you guys have seen. No one's

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Speaker 4: I mean, no, no, Fred, you will meet him at

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Speaker 1: Why do you hold out on me of all people.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sure he's an amazing human being. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying he's ugly. I'm only just repeating what you just said.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think he's ugly. Now I'm a little

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Speaker 1: joking joke. It gets, it gets worse. What he said,

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Speaker 4: She works.

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Speaker 2: Lean and yeah, it's kind of funny to say it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when it's not yeah right right.

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Speaker 2: When you're not involved, it's kind of stam I met

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Speaker 1: And then I met this ugly chick at the grocery store,

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Speaker 1: and she would do that thing, literally anything for me.

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Speaker 4: See, that's what I have a problem with, Like where

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Speaker 4: are you the hot stuff over here?

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Speaker 5: Like I'm throwing my body at you all.

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Speaker 6: Day, Like I don't counter, Like I don't understand why.

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Speaker 1: She was doing that at the grocery store. She gave

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Speaker 1: So she finds it. She says something to him, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can move on by it.

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Speaker 1: He calls me beautiful. Now I don't believe him. My

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Speaker 1: confidence is not. I have ugly duckley ugly duckling syndrome.

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Speaker 1: She says she would have left him in the beginning,

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Speaker 1: time and whatever. But he apparently was like, look this,

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Speaker 1: thought of her, not to I'm not saying it's right

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Speaker 1: to say that you could.

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Speaker 2: You could.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, seven years ago he could be like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm not getting better that that was my prime? So

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm uglier.

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Speaker 5: Ray never let it go, you know, Okay, all right, well.

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Speaker 1: Then you're you get stressed out when people bring up

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Speaker 8: I know, it actually happened this morning, like everyone was

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Speaker 8: I was having this week where I got into one

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Speaker 2: Who's in that movie? Like you know, and I'm just

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Speaker 8: I don't know whether to live or be like I

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Speaker 2: I don't want to.

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Speaker 5: Race disappointment that they put you through. What you say,

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Speaker 3: It is easier to just watch the movies.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he doesn't see anything your life's work at

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Speaker 3: There's even a start that you can start with.

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Speaker 2: You're too far gone at this.

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Speaker 1: you know Rufeus human IMDb. You know this guy's over here.

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Speaker 1: He can tell you who the key grip was you know,

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Speaker 3: God, mustache, yes, mustache and uh.

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Speaker 2: And in Gutenberg, what happened to Steve Guttenberg.

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Speaker 3: My mom's front dated him and they had a wild time.

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Speaker 7: I saw he was on He showed up on my

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Speaker 3: He's like, please remember me.

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Speaker 1: I really don't know if Steve Gooden Steve Gutenberg walked

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Speaker 8: And he's in the executive uniform, the jeans, the button,

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Speaker 2: He looks like he works here.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you know, you know the iHeart boss.

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Speaker 7: We have the.

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Speaker 1: Like you've got that. You've got a few guys in

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Speaker 1: some kind of blazer. And it's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: And it's funny because you know when the suit like

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Speaker 2: I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call Daddy Bob and I'm gonna ask him,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I want you to come in a

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Speaker 1: have such such like I don't know, everyone's trying to

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Speaker 1: mimic everybody. But nonetheless, I've googled Jason, back on, back

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Speaker 1: on track. I have googled the most common movie quotes. Yes,

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Speaker 2: No, no, you you don't.

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Speaker 1: We don't need you. We know you know them already. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're clear on the fact that you know all these.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I believe that most Americans should know all these,

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Speaker 1: I want you to try, Like. I don't want you

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Speaker 8: I know that's one of the Star Wars. Okay, there's them, right,

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Speaker 1: This one probably could be a few things, but there's

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Speaker 8: Oh the oh my gosh, not the say a Little Mermaid,

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Speaker 2: With the house, Oh my god. The Okay, well, you're

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Speaker 2: closer than I would have the Rainbow. What is the

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Speaker 2: name of the movie, Yes, I've seen.

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Speaker 8: It, Well, the Mumpkins And what is the name of

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Speaker 8: the movie The Wizard of.

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Speaker 5: Good Job.

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Speaker 1: Here's one that I know you'll know, and Caitlin will

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Speaker 1: know this too, and that probably just gave it away.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the King of the world.

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Speaker 8: Oh Titanic, all right, you're actually I've seen that movie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see. Some of these are a little bit.

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Speaker 1: It's alive. It's alive.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what about this one. And I'm not

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Speaker 1: give it. I know, I'll be back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Oh that's Arnold Schwarzenegger. Oh God, Terminatory. Oh, my dad

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Speaker 2: He'd love that.

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Speaker 8: My dad has been watching it, so I think I've

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Speaker 1: This is an easy one. My mama always said life

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Speaker 2: Tom Hanks. Yes, he was running. Honestly, I thought Forst.

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Speaker 1: Gump. Okay, okay, here here's some harder ones. In my opinion,

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Speaker 8: Yes, oh gosh, I have no idea. Was it that

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Speaker 2: Like, I'll give you a hint. Robin Williams yep. Oh gosh,

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Speaker 2: only when I know of him is Jumanji, right, society, society,

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Speaker 1: Oh, I've never heard of that about this one elementary,

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Speaker 1: my dear Watson.

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Speaker 2: Oh Sherlock Holmes.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that because watch that movie came out in nineteen

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Speaker 5: Whoa.

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Speaker 2: And since we're the same age.

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Speaker 1: Then we weren't born from Yeah, well no, neither one

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Speaker 1: of us were born ten years later. I'll give you

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Speaker 1: one more. Well, man, i'll give you two more. You're

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Speaker 8: Yes, Oh, oh gosh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, Okay, Jason, you've got like eight out

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Speaker 2: Of ten of these loves. Shout out James Brown. Okay.

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Speaker 2: And then there's here's looking at you kid.

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Speaker 8: Oh, it's like black and white and she's at the

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Speaker 2: I don't know the name of the movie.

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Speaker 1: Door in the.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know the name of the movie, but

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Speaker 8: it's like really old right Blanca.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I thought you were gonna quoe like stepbrothers

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Speaker 2: I know come best friends. This man, you just put

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Speaker 2: me in one of those situations where I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know what you're talking. It is uncomfortable, it is. It's definitely.

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Speaker 1: That's a different movie that that that repertoire. He's step

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki's Court. We need that. Yeah, how's it go? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That's way better? I ye, how do you spell that?

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Speaker 5: Jason?

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Speaker 8: Don't even think that's part of the real song. I've

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Speaker 8: that years you doing it. I don't hear anyone in

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Speaker 5: It's a real thing.

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Speaker 2: close enough for me to get it. I got it.

446
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Speaker 2: Honor in the court. What do we have today?

447
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Speaker 5: Honor in the court. There were going, all right, hit

448
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Speaker 5: the gabble.

449
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Speaker 4: Well, this one says, hey, Ki Ki, I hate to

450
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,359
Speaker 4: say it, but I relate to you now on the

451
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 4: sadness of losing both parents. Sadly, a year ago, my

452
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 4: mom lost her rattle with cancer, leaving behind my younger

453
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 4: brother and I. Since her passing, my brother and I

454
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 4: are finally selling the house, and over the holiday weekend,

455
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,639
Speaker 4: we came together to clean out the rest of our

456
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 4: mom's belongings while my brother cleaned out the garage. My

457
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 4: sister in law agreed to help me sort through my

458
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 4: mom's closet, but I was quickly triggered because she kept

459
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 4: claiming items and saying what she would like to take

460
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Speaker 4: for herself.

461
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Speaker 5: Yeah, the audacity.

462
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 4: I finally exploded when she grabbed my mom's wedding ring

463
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 4: and said out loud to me, I'm sure your mom

464
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Speaker 4: would want your brother to pass his ring onto me

465
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Speaker 4: since we're since you're still single.

466
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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, wow.

467
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Speaker 1: I thought it was crazy when Calen came in there

468
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Speaker 1: with their metal detectors. Yeah, I'll take your mind.

469
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 4: Put that lady ring down, yes, she says. At that moment,

470
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 4: I lost it. We got into a screaming match, and sadly,

471
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Speaker 4: my brother agreed with his wife and to be fair,

472
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Speaker 4: key key, my sister in law. It was very close

473
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Speaker 4: to my mom, but she is not her daughter, and

474
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Speaker 4: I can't believe I even have to fight with them

475
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Speaker 4: about this.

476
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Speaker 5: Am I wrong? Chat?

477
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Speaker 1: So yeah, that's a conversation that needs to take place

478
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Speaker 1: between the brother and sister without the in law, right,

479
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: I mean, they gotta have that she doesn't get a vote.

480
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Speaker 4: I mean this is crazy, first of all, to pick

481
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 4: up my mom's wedding ring and say she.

482
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Speaker 5: Wouldn't want me to.

483
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're still single, and as a single sibling in

484
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 4: my family, that's crazy to me. Like I wish one

485
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 4: of my brothers would pull this on me. This would

486
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 4: be a big problem. So, actually, Fred, we need to

487
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 4: discuss it right now. If something ever happens to you,

488
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 4: Who's getting what pair of vans? Because I'm not fighting nobody.

489
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 4: How about what's rightfully mine? Okay, there.

490
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: Are plenty of the same pair of vans for everybody

491
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: at the house set. You worry, I got lots of

492
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 1: Everybody gets a black T shirt, everybody gets a par

493
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 1: of jeans, everybody gets some vans. Uh, don't get me

494
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: sidetracked about the sesame street vans I ordered. But anyway,

495
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: and you can thank someone one of the Fred Show

496
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 1: family for telling me that they exist, because I'm forty

497
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: two years old with Oscar the Grouch vans now.

498
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: But anyway, don't sound dope.

499
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 5: Actually, I mean away, try Rufio playing.

500
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 2: I want. I want the Duffel bag. That's what I want.

501
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 3: I'm play.

502
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 6: Get already, get in line, buddy.

503
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 2: You guys are already tagging my crop. I'm so live.

504
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 3: Had a sticky note on that bag and I'll take

505
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Speaker 3: the play.

506
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 4: Wow, Oh my gosh, horrible. Like Fred, you're the single,

507
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 4: you know, wanting your family. If your brother in law

508
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 4: just was like, yeah, your dad would want me to

509
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 4: have this because I have Polly, what like happy shit.

510
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 2: I've thought about this before.

511
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: I've thought about this because Okay, so I obviously have

512
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: a mom and a dad, and I have a sister,

513
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,239
Speaker 1: and so god forbid in a hundred years when they

514
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: go to heaven, like when my dad goes to heaven,

515
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: he obviously has a bunch of men's stuff. He has

516
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: I don't know, watches and rings and stuff that was

517
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: his and I don't know, guns and knives, and he

518
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: hangs out with that Bubba dude from feels good.

519
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

520
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: And so in fairness, and I know this makes me

521
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: sound super selfish, which I can be sometimes. This is

522
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: a single dude, but that's my stuff, right like it

523
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 1: goes to me now You could argue, well, my it's

524
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 1: you know, he's my sister's dad too, so does she

525
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 1: get some of his stuff? And you would argue, well,

526
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 1: she probably should, but what's she gonna do with it?

527
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 1: She's gonna give it to my brother in law or

528
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,239
Speaker 1: if she has a son, that's fine. But like my

529
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: I love my brother in law, but he don't need

530
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: to be wearing my dad's watch. That's my dad, you

531
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, I don't think. I don't

532
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: necessarily think it's the same way that I don't think

533
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: it would be for me to take stuff from my

534
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: mom and just automatically give it to my wife if

535
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: I had one without consulting my sister first. I mean,

536
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 1: I can't say she won't wind up with something if

537
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: I had a wife, But I think it's kind of

538
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: up to I don't know. It's a complicated thing. But

539
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: what I can tell you one hundred percent is my

540
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 1: brother in law and my future wife if that, which

541
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: is just a weird sentence, even say they don't get

542
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: a vote in this at all. It's between my sister

543
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: and me the in law to you know, my wife

544
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: doesn't go get to grab something out of my mom's

545
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: jewelry box and go, this will look great on me. No,

546
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: my sister gets to decide somewhat, you know. But then

547
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's complicated, but no one thing I

548
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 1: can say is the is the sister in law is

549
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 1: not the first vote.

550
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Speaker 5: That's what I say too.

551
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 4: And I understand that in laws they build relationships with

552
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 4: parents all the time, so she probably had a really

553
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 4: close relationship with her mother in law.

554
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 5: However, the blood is the blood, and.

555
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 4: I am the blood daughter, and I get first DIBs

556
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 4: on whatever I want. And I don't care that I'm single.

557
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 4: That was jewelry.

558
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 5: Yes, it's like, what are you going to do with it?

559
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 5: You know, you ain't got no man, nobody love you?

560
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: Like by the way, you could. You're part of the jury.

561
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: Eight five five five three five is the number to call.

562
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: You can text the same number. Yeah, what do you

563
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: guys think? I mean, I I think it's up to see.

564
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: Because here's this is where it gets complicated. Is like, okay,

565
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: so then let's let's just say that we do divide

566
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: stuff up, not based on gender, because I want some

567
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: of my mom's stuff too. In fairness, you know, I

568
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: want there's stuff that meant a lot to her that

569
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: I want. I don't know what I would do with

570
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: it necessarily, but I think I want it because it

571
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: would be a reminder of her, And I guess if

572
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: I had a wife, I would let her wear it.

573
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: But as far as giving stuff away, again, you got

574
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: to consult the actual family members, right, Like they're the

575
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: ones who get to decide.

576
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, and if.

577
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 4: So, the tough thing is though, the brother has an

578
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 4: equal right as a sister, and if he's agreed that

579
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 4: his wife should get it now yeah, now it's like

580
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 4: you know that that could get really sticky because if

581
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 4: mom didn't specify who we should go to, then they

582
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 4: really have equal say. But to me, just morally right,

583
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 4: if it was my you know, if I was the guy,

584
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 4: the brother, I would absolutely let my sister pick where

585
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 4: my mom's drillry goes to, you know, like that's just

586
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 4: what's right.

587
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, the in law doesn't get an equal vote at all,

588
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: and she certainly can't be grabbing stuff and going that's mine, no,

589
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: because then you could argue, all right, well then I'll

590
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: go over to your mom's house.

591
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 2: She shouldn't, you know, Like what am I getting from

592
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 2: my brother?

593
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: In law's dad when he, you know, regrettably vanquishes someday,

594
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: many many years from now, one hundred years from now.

595
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: I mean, what am I getting? Am I getting like his?

596
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know his nose ring or something.

597
00:27:59,320 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 2: I don't know.

598
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 1: He doesn't have a nose ring, but if he did,

599
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. I'm not entitled to anything. And

600
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: I like the guy, but I'm not entitled to anything

601
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: of his because I have nothing to do with it.

602
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: You know. Let me see you, Natalie, good morning, welcome

603
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:15,959
Speaker 2: to the Frend Show. How are you?

604
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 4: I'm good?

605
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 5: How are you guys?

606
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,479
Speaker 1: It's amazing, great, thank you for asking. By the way,

607
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 1: it's amazing how messy stuff can get. And even in

608
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: well intentioned families. It's crazy what happens to people when

609
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: people die and there's money and there's stuff involved. I mean,

610
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: I've seen it happen in well functioning families where all

611
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden, it's like, no, that face is mine

612
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: and she wanted me to have this, and that's this,

613
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: and what's my share in all of this? I mean,

614
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: it's hard enough as it is with the family, but

615
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: now you're involving a third party who doesn't. I don't

616
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: think should get a vote. What do you think Fred's

617
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: show is on? You guys want a bonus fun fact? Yes,

618
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: so to the Today Show. They just tweeted Big Mama,

619
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: a beloved fifteen foot long pet python has gone.

620
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: Missing from her la home.

621
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: Hell no, and the families posted a reward for her

622
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: safe return.

623
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 5: A reward.

624
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: Well okay, well yeah, it's somebody's pat fifteen foot long pen.

625
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: They want it back.

626
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 5: Don't come bay me.

627
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: But here is my thing, my immediate thought. So I

628
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: think it's here.

629
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 5: Probably need to get the strata.

630
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: It's been missing. I think it made his way. I

631
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: think it made Then Jamie Fox, I can say it.

632
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 5: What do you you saw?

633
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 4: It's the fifteen foot python just slid on through the door.

634
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,959
Speaker 4: What I'm supposed to pick it up and get their reward?

635
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 4: Hell yeah, okay.

636
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: I'm just pick it up. You say, hi.

637
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 5: First of all, missus Big Mama shows up.

638
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: Oh, fifteen foot long. But my first thought was how

639
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: does the snake go missing? I mean, how fast can

640
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: this it's fifteen feet long? How fast is possibly moving?

641
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: So I googled that and it turns out that a

642
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: python moves about a mile an hour on open ground. Well,

643
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: but that's my thing though, It's like how long was

644
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: this thing missing? Because how far could it have possibly gone?

645
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: It's probably just burrowed up in your house somewhere with

646
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: thank Maybe it's maybe he's playing hide and seek, like

647
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: when your little kid plays hide and seek, but you

648
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: can see him still, like their arms.

649
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: Sticking out foot or something like the feet. I can't

650
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 2: see you. The curtains moving the whole time. Why is

651
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: the curtain laughing over there?

652
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: You ever played that game if you have a cat

653
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: like my mom is a cat, and then will hide,

654
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: you know, go into a blanket like what happened to Miles?

655
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 2: Where is Miles? And then Miles will pop out of it?

656
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: There he is. We were so worried about you. You

657
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: never play that game?

658
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 8: No?

659
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 3: I played that with little kids.

660
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well we played with the cat.

661
00:30:59,080 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 5: That's adorable.

662
00:30:59,800 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 7: Though.

663
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: I swear someday our family were gonna wherever we go.

664
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Speaker 1: I hope it's I hope I can at least swing

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Speaker 1: by Heaven briefly, like hang on the lobby maybe, because

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Speaker 1: my thought is that all the animals you've ever owned

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Speaker 1: will be able to speak at that point, and they're

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Speaker 1: all going to get together and have the same consensus,

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Speaker 1: which is, you guys were morons like you talk to

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Speaker 1: us like idiots. Yep, you had your dumb voices as

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Speaker 1: if we didn't know what you were saying. Yeah, yeah, Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's the best I was gonna say to you.

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Speaker 2: You you literally vacuumed me.