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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices. That shit,

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Speaker 1: we're good Mom's bad choices too, single mom who said

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Speaker 1: fuck the patriarchy, shared all their bad choices and found

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Speaker 1: out they were so bad after all, we're expert Overshares

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Speaker 1: and your new bestie. Sit back and you're the ride.

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Speaker 1: I can do a bad mom. Welcome back to good

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Speaker 1: Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Mila, and it's Wednesday. Bitches,

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Speaker 1: what it is? We're bad so much? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I feel I'm nervous. I know, I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: been a long time, too long.

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Speaker 2: We have been really off since March, you guys, and

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Speaker 2: it has been a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of shit has happened. Years are going by so fast,

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Speaker 1: it's like one year is like three.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, I know, I'm just I'm so excited

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Speaker 2: to sit back on this couch with you, my sister,

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Speaker 2: my bestie. I know we have created such a beautiful

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Speaker 2: universe here.

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Speaker 1: If you're watching on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: We have a new set, So if you haven't checked

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Speaker 2: out our YouTube, make sure you go subscribe to our

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Speaker 2: YouTube channel and look at our beautiful new girl cave

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Speaker 2: designed by us.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like everything else. Shout out to Etsy and Amazon,

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Speaker 1: even though we're gonna stop supporting them after these purchases.

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Speaker 1: After if we're done, we're done with Amazon. Now, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm good, I'm good. I'm ready to come back.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit nervous. It feels like we haven't

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Speaker 3: I you know what.

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Speaker 1: I Every time you stop doing this, even though we

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Speaker 1: never have, because it's always ongoing for four hundred years,

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Speaker 1: I always feel like I miss it, like there's something

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Speaker 1: really excited to be back and to announce our new partnership. Yes,

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Speaker 1: are you ready? For six and a half years, almost seven,

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Speaker 1: Erica and I have been independent podcasters doing this shit

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Speaker 1: on our own, grassroots, i'd say, and we have really

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Speaker 1: grinded and grinded to get this far. And this year

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Speaker 1: we have come upon a very special partnership and we

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Speaker 1: are so excited to announce that Good Moms is officially

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Speaker 1: partners with iHeart Radio slash Black Effect Network WOO. And

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Speaker 1: because it's a special day and we want to celebrate

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Speaker 1: every win, my dear I brought us some bubbly pop

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Speaker 1: that bottle. Shout out to Charlemagne the God, shout out

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Speaker 1: to Dolly, and shout out to us. Maybe this should happen.

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Speaker 2: You know, three years ago we went to Nashville to

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Speaker 2: go we at podcast movement and one of me and

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Speaker 2: Mila's goals was to meet the president, the new newly

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Speaker 1: No, let me keep it real with you. We went

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Speaker 1: We were on two panels and one of the panels

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Speaker 1: So right now, I guess we could say our turnaround town,

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Speaker 1: our time on big manifestations are one to three years,

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Speaker 1: minutes later. Facts, But ultimately, whatever you believe in is

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Speaker 1: always on its way, So don't stop believing and maintain relationships.

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Speaker 1: Relationships are everything. Relationships are everything in this business. And

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Speaker 1: also to the fellow women, to the fellow black people.

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Speaker 1: When you're in spaces in industries where there's not many

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Speaker 1: of us, which that's many of them, always link up, like,

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Speaker 1: never feel like a hater, don't be a hater, don't

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Speaker 1: be in competition. Know that we're stronger together and there's

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Speaker 1: now be partnered with the Black Effect Network, Okay, with

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne and the God and just expect us to keep

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Speaker 1: glowing up and growing up because now we got a

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Speaker 1: we've been off season. Okay, would like to say a toast,

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Speaker 1: an incredible twenty twenty five, to a beautiful season of

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Speaker 1: Goodbye Retreat, just pouring into all of our dreams, all

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Speaker 1: of our creative endeavors, keeping ourselves healthy. I want to

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Speaker 1: pray over our friendship, as we always have and we'll

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Speaker 1: continue to do. I want to pray over your relationship.

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Speaker 1: I want to pray over your kids, our kid reat

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Speaker 2: Our kids as in the two together not plural. Oh

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Speaker 2: shut up, breaking news, but let's not pregnant. I know

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Speaker 2: And just our overall health and happiness and to not

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Speaker 1: No, not ever giving a fun about anything else about

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Speaker 1: about getting this motherfucking check and kicking down doors when

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Speaker 1: people tell you fuck now and saying fuck you. Pay me, Amen, amenhay, cheers, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: I love you. Yeah. Okay, that looks good on you,

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Speaker 1: and it tastes good too. I feel rich, Do I

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Speaker 1: look rich? We are rich. My hair got bigger this season.

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Speaker 1: Definitely gonna be rich because I'm rich now, hair happy.

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Speaker 1: Your hair starts to grow long, except mine, It's been

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Speaker 1: It's true. I do trim my hair basically every day.

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Speaker 2: For those of you who are new to the Good

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Speaker 2: Mom's verse, I just wanted to break down a few rules.

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Speaker 2: You know, me and Mila are not rule followers really

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Speaker 1: We're actually you could just call us the we're the

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Speaker 1: ogs of uncensored motherhood. Let's start there, but period, period.

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Speaker 1: is being the rebels of podcasting. We don't follow rules, No,

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Speaker 1: we don't we break them. We do, and but sometimes

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Speaker 1: so they're rules that you should embrace. Okay, Well number one,

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Speaker 2: I never heard anybody say judgment free zone, judgment freeze.

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Speaker 1: It's like church. You've never heard no one say this

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Speaker 1: is a judge that was I thought that was us.

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Speaker 1: So then we coined it. This is a judgment free zone, y'all.

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Speaker 2: So rule number one, don't be a hating ass bitch

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Speaker 1: we don't. Number two. Number two, no woman hating. This

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Speaker 1: Number three, my favorite one. Hold these niggas accountable, Amen,

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Speaker 1: hold them accountable. Yes, yes, pray over these men that

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Speaker 1: queens to guide them with our intuition, with our nurturing qualities,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this only works if you hold yourself accountable. If

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Speaker 2: You can't hold niggas acountable if you don't hold yourself accountable,

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Speaker 2: which means.

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Speaker 1: Don't disrespect yourself, don't disrespect your brand, don't disrespect Most importantly,

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Speaker 1: you're pussy. I know everybody wants that thing between their legs,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes you got to say no, yeah, not everybody

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Speaker 2: So you know, we're revving up. He's about to bust

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Speaker 1: not in your face? And I'm like no, like really,

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Speaker 1: I was like no, Like that's my one note and

431
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm also have contacts. There's a lot going. Yeah, I

432
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 1: was shocked and like, no, oh god, imagine getting nut

433
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 1: in your eyes. It might be easier. You could just

434
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 1: take the contact out, which it was all over.

435
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Speaker 2: It was like a seal across my fucking eyeball. Well,

436
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 2: it's kids, true, true, yeah, that was my son. It

437
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,400
Speaker 2: was it was your son's, My sons, rest in peace

438
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 2: for your son's. But yeah, even if you get on

439
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: your body.

440
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 1: There's been times I've taken a shower, I get on

441
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 1: my body and like later I'll get out the shower

442
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: and Orlando's like, you have the film on you, and

443
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not no, That's what happened to me too,

444
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: because you know, like I have the you know, the

445
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 1: towels that leave like when you new towels. I had

446
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 1: that all he met it all over my back and

447
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: then I had a new towel and then I wiped it,

448
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 1: and then I had just like random like lint stuck

449
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 1: all over my body. And I was like, what the

450
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: fuck is this super ass sperm? So baby? And then

451
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: I was like, nigga, you will get me pregnant with

452
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 1: this super sperm. It's you know, I don't get pregnant easy.

453
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 1: I know bit to say that, but I don't. God

454
00:21:52,520 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 1: has protected me. God has not protected me. That's why

455
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: I have the copper iug. Anyway, moving on, you know,

456
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: before we move on, if you've caught in this segment,

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Speaker 1: I just want to remind you all leave a review.

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Speaker 1: everyone telling their business and then, like you know, every

478
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Speaker 1: hode is telling everybody's business.

479
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Speaker 2: Specifically the men. There's no men allowed in the Facebook group.

480
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Speaker 2: This is a women's only Facebook group.

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Speaker 1: Men can join Patreon, however other places. What's next? What's

482
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: been going on? We've been gone for my months are

483
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Speaker 1: off ten months? So mark, what do we at March? Yeah, Augusteptember, October, November,

484
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: December ten. We can't count half months. We've sprinkled in

485
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 1: some things here and there, but it's been fucking almost

486
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: ten months. That we've been gone. There's been so much

487
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: that's happened, and I can't even begin to remember everything.

488
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: But there's like a few things that have stuck out

489
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 1: that I was like, you know, I need to write

490
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 1: this down because when I get back to my bitches,

491
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 1: they need to we need to talk about this. So

492
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: some of the things, let's start. I don't know, I

493
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: wrote some of these things down in my phone because

494
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: it's very important that we don't forget. Oh okay, well,

495
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: let's start with the black mad hatter, Cam Newton and

496
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: his podcast where he wears that stupid hat and looks

497
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 1: smart but apparently it's not. I don't know his educational levels,

498
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: but I do know some of his processes are not

499
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Speaker 1: very intelligent. So fine to me, once upon a time,

500
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: you know what, thias be so fine started talking so much. Literally,

501
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: this is a testament to growth, because there would be

502
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: a time I'd be like, he is fine as hell,

503
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 1: But when a nigga says dumb shit, I automatically I

504
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: don't care how smart, I don't care how fine you are.

505
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,719
Speaker 1: You're ugly now. And I've never ever since he started talking,

506
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: I never thought it was fine again, And that hat

507
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: looks even stupid. He thought the hat and the cigar

508
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: and the ankle, the fucking bare ankles. Niggas always think

509
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: a bare ankle looks a bare ankle meant he is sophisticated. Sophisticated, yes, yes,

510
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: but then he started talking out of it, fucking traphole.

511
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 1: I mean, he just embarrassed. He embarrassed my favorite. I

512
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: fucking love her, but now I'm concerned for her. Is

513
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: she okay? Because she's fucking funny? You know she lost

514
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: me with the with the spoiler. I mean, you know

515
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: it's me. I have to tap into my soft lifeness.

516
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: She lost me when she was on our Girl Shan

517
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 1: show with that she was talking about spoiling her man. Yeah,

518
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 1: toothpaste on the Yeah. And I'm with it. You know,

519
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm a mom a. You know he needs for nothing. Yeah,

520
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm a partnered woman and I probably need to tap

521
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: more into that. But there's a part of me that

522
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: like it was ick and it really raises my alarm

523
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Speaker 1: even more. And now that hearing him talk about her, well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it wasn't dick for me necessarily then, but it

525
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 2: makes some sense now because for me, I I'm I

526
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: can I'm kind of soft in that way in my relationships,

527
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Speaker 2: Like I love to serve my man in that way.

528
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Speaker 1: I've told this story or not story. I've said this

529
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Speaker 1: in the past. I'm a trick.

530
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Speaker 2: I'm a little bit of a trick in relationships. I

531
00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 2: really love to like spoil my boyfriend and make life

532
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: easy for him or whoever I'm with.

533
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Speaker 1: So when she said that shit, I was like, I don't.

534
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Speaker 2: I mean, I know the women were really mad, but

535
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 2: now I understand have more context around what is happening

536
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 2: in that household, which it sounds like he's doing O

537
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 2: where the fuck he wants and she's putting toothpaste on

538
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Speaker 2: his fucking toothbrust should.

539
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Speaker 1: And I think my issue with it is is not

540
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Speaker 1: serving your man because I'm all about like I'm I

541
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Speaker 1: like to spoil too, you know, like I'm very I'm

542
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Speaker 1: a feminine woman most of the time. But I just

543
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Speaker 1: feel like, you know what it is, I think that

544
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: there's been a for so long, there's been such an

545
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: imbalance between the masculine and the feminine, and men have

546
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: really lost their way about like worshiping and being dedicated

547
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Speaker 1: to women. And I think with that error, with the

548
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: fucking Andrew Tates and the ETCeteras. I'm like, fuck these

549
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: niggas unless they show up the right way. And I

550
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Speaker 1: think another issue with me is like I think women

551
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Speaker 1: notoriously historically have served and been this super soft, dedicated

552
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: woman to rich niggas, and rich niggas historically have shitted

553
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Speaker 1: on them. Well so in my mind, and when she

554
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: was telling Shan about, you know, the way she serves him,

555
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: I figured that he was serving her and that's why

556
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: she was able to tap into this level of softness.

557
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I don't know her.

558
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 2: Maybe he is, I have no idea, but from the

559
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 2: looks of it, it doesn't seem as so. So I mean, yes,

560
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 2: from the podcasts that I've seen him speak on or

561
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 2: his own podcast between him with specifically with Doctor Bryant,

562
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 2: that really shed light on just his level of immaturity

563
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 2: and that he doesn't get it. And then also I

564
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: don't know if she does either.

565
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: She doesn't get it. And this goes back to our

566
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Speaker 1: rules about holding niggas accountable.

567
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 2: You know, okay, holding niggs accountable, because then she went

568
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 2: on Instagram to then be like to show like I'm happy, bitch,

569
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 2: like I'm mine in my business, I'm at the spot.

570
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 2: Fuck that and oh she did, Yes she did, and

571
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: historic this is what women do. This is what we

572
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 2: do when we have to defend our choices like this,

573
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 2: we go extra and we have to show them that, no,

574
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 2: we're happy.

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Speaker 1: I'm not battered and abused. I'm not saying she's batter

576
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: and abused. I'm just saying, like, I'm well fed and

577
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: well nourished here, and perhaps she is in the ways

578
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: that she needs to be until she meets a real nigga.

579
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Speaker 1: And there's a level of like secondhand embarrassment that I

580
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: had for her, and especially after giving birth to a

581
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 1: baby and all these other things. It's just like, damn sis,

582
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 1: like you went public on this podcast telling how much

583
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: you serve him and having to be happy and put

584
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: toothpaste on his toothbrush, and this nigga just straight up

585
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: said he wants more kids by God, like fucking immaculate

586
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 1: Mary and you know, for those of you who live

587
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: under a rock. And he also.

588
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 2: Basically said that I don't I mean, I think they

589
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 2: have an open relationship and maybe she.

590
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Speaker 1: Didn't know that. Most bitches don't know that.

591
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 2: Basically said that yes, he had like he'd be fucking bitches.

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Speaker 1: And he doesn't kiss him on the mouth. This is

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00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: another problem. And that and that that's what that makes

594
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: it better? Kiss him on the mouth. He just puts

595
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: his dick in them. Oh, not intimate at all. Nope,

596
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: that's another issue. Is a lot of niggas. A lot

597
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: of niggas are in open relationships, but their bitches not

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Speaker 1: no have no I me I ambitious psa announcement, you guys.

599
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: In order to be in an open relationship, both parties

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00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: must be aware. Okay, rule one, just in case everybody

601
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: was fucking confused. Also new in history, new in this

602
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: year's history is these notes. I have Nick cannon diagnosis,

603
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: not the lupus, but narcissism. I had to write. I

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00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: had to write cliff notes.

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00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 3: So Nick Cannon has been diagnosed with narcissism.

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Speaker 1: Sure, also by I think also with an interview with

607
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: doctor Bryant is killing She needs to get on the show.

608
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: I can't wait because obviously she's you know what I

609
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: like about her. She's soft, and she's direct, and she's intelligent.

610
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: So a lot of these niggas. That's another thing that

611
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: bothered me about the mad hatters and the nick Cannons

612
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: of the world is that like you appear and so intelligent.

613
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: And that's another thing about women. Sometimes, like at first

614
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 1: glance or first conversations, niggas say a lot of big words,

615
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: like they just got out of prison and read the

616
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: whole Webster's Dictionary. But then if you dig a little

617
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: bit further past in the surface, these niggas ain't talking

618
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: about shit. And my biggest pet peeve of all time

619
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: is a niggas saying big words but can't get with

620
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: the common common fact that like balance and equal respect,

621
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: most niggas are always talking about fucking how smart they

622
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: are and remitating and reminiscent of the all types of

623
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: words that nobody knows. But then you just make up

624
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: like a basic basic point of equality with how you

625
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: treat women, and that shit goes right over their head.

626
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: And that's where they lose me. Every time. No shout

627
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: out to doctor Bryan.

628
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 2: I think she's I think her superpower is she is

629
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: such an amazing listener, and then she's able to listen

630
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: and then dissect.

631
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: And rebuttle and and soft mannered without getting irritated, unlike me,

632
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: because I'll just be like nigga's are dumb, and I'll

633
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: be done talking. But those of you who don't know

634
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon basically said that him and Mariah Carey were

635
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: doing great. They had no problems at all except that

636
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: she was wildly successful and he felt like he was

637
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: going to be holding her purse for the rest of

638
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: his life and he couldn't handle it. And so now

639
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: he has ten baby mamas, which you know, shout out

640
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: to him and them and twelve kids or whatever. I

641
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: didn't look at the timeline recently, the family tree, but

642
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: that is a huge red flag. If you were in

643
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: a happy relationship, you were content, everything was right, but

644
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: the one sole thing was that your woman was more

645
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: successful than you and you could not handle that. So

646
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: then you went and went to go and pregnate ten

647
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: other bitches who maybe are not not who need you?

648
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: I mean, who's no one's more cares who needs you?

649
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: But also he was I don't wantn't even go that far.

650
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: Maybe these they probably didn't need him, but maybe they

651
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: felt like they did, or they felt like having a

652
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: piece of the pie was better than the whole thing.

653
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: Nick was successful, That's the crazy part. It's not like

654
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: he wasn't successful, you know, like he didn't.

655
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: Oh right right? Like, where'd you get this notion? Because

656
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: because Mariah Carey is a Christmas queen that she is,

657
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: I mean, she's definitely a more successful artist.

658
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: I mean all Christmas, me and she camrare debating about

659
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: how much Mariah Carey makes every holiday.

660
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: She got it? What did you guys get too? I

661
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: would say ten million?

662
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 2: I said twenty and he was like nah, I was

663
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: like between commercials, between she could probably right private appearances.

664
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Speaker 1: We don't even know she's going to.

665
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 2: She probably went to Japan and probably went to like

666
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: the fucking like Maldi Hussey Blah blah Blah's birthday party

667
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 2: to go sing for Christmas for five million dollars, because

668
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 2: that should happen. So many artists go to these private

669
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: events and get paid like a million dollars just to

670
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 2: perform four songs. We don't know what there, We have

671
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: no idea about it. So I think a cool twenty

672
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: million every year.

673
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: Plus all the times we play that fucking Christmas song. Allo,

674
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: what for Christmas did she write that?

675
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, but Iri with the fucking It's time,

676
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: she fucking wouldn't fucking stop singing that shit.

677
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: Did you hear that? Did you hear? No? Are you

678
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: not doing see that fucking TikTok Instagram? I did? I did?

679
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: And then everything goes Christmas and it all freezes. Yeah.

680
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: I mean, she's the Christmas Queen. She is.

681
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: I love I love me some fucking Mariah Carrey.

682
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: Oh and on more Newer News, it looks like she's

683
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: having some hot cozy time with Anderson Pack in Aspen,

684
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: because why else would he be there? I know?

685
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 3: And he looks like he did not insecure or like

686
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: Nick Cannon.

687
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: He looks like he's he's about the woman life, not

688
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: like he's not from a parent.

689
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: And he's gonna write her some bomb ass songs. Bitch,

690
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: get your songs up. Okay, we all know Mariah Carey

691
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: got that pen, and so does Anderson Pack them together.

692
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 2: Actually sounds like a fucking musical match made in heaven.

693
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: I hope that they figure it out. They're going to

694
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: hope they go public, even though it's obviously already public.

695
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 2: Oh wait, before we go to the next one, I'm

696
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: just gonna let this blunt because.

697
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: Wait, can you say I would love to can you

698
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: sage it first? It's very important let me let me

699
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: sage this blunt. This is very important for the next

700
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: for the next update.

701
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 3: Let me just sage this blunt. You know, we just

702
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 3: were currently in.

703
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: Capricorn's season, and what I love about Capricorns is just

704
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: their directness. I love how gathered they are. We're also

705
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 1: in the is it the new moon of Capricorn as well? Yeah,

706
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: I think we might be out of that. We probably

707
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: in another sign now, but yes, oh that's sage. Let's

708
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: sage at this blunt. Sage, Sage say, doesn't the moon

709
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: travel through the signs? It'sn't stay and Capricorn the whole time.

710
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: But I feel like, I don't know. We're not astrologists yet.

711
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:38,280
Speaker 1: I know, shocker, we're not astrologists. But it's awesome. WICHI

712
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: bechies light that up. So, speaking of Sage and our update,

713
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: there's a certain person on the internet podcaster who recently

714
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 1: made a public announcement that she's not fucking with anybody

715
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: who burns sage or reads horoscopes. And you know this

716
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 1: was immediately crystals has crystals, even though she also stole

717
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: someone's manifestation book and published it. I'm not saying that

718
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: bitches can't change. You can change your mind. I don't

719
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: care where you flippityflop you're asked too. But I just

720
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: want to be clear. I know there's controversy with religion

721
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:27,879
Speaker 1: in US, specifically me. Is there controversy? No God made

722
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: sage shop news flash? God made the stars? Oh my god.

723
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 3: We've been using the stars for centuries, thousands and hundreds

724
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 3: and thousands of years for information.

725
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: It's basically the only information we were given in the beginning.

726
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: It's the map. The God said, here's the stars as

727
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: a map. Figure it out. Fuck that fuck that. I

728
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: just want to say, for the Jesus lovers, I you

729
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: know I love you, I love all people, but stop

730
00:35:55,200 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: with the fucking judgment and the fucking extra nenis. It's

731
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: extra plants and also you, guys. Stones also made by God.

732
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: Heus a announcement. Rose Quarts. You know you want that

733
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: marble shit in your fucking bathroom and your kitchen, bitch,

734
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: you're basically worshiping the esoteric by having that shit in

735
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 1: your kitchen. You want to rose quarts, You want a

736
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: jade countertop, which is like diamonds. They do all right,

737
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 1: they'll take it. They'll take a rock. I bet you

738
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: if that bitch was getting proposed to with the diamonds

739
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: she put that hand and she's not gonna worship that

740
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: ring please. That was very annoying, mostly because I just

741
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: I do feel like Jesus is an influencer and people

742
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: pick them up and put them down when it's convenient

743
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: for their influences and their numbers. I mean, we've seen

744
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: that time and time again. Anyway, fourth on the list,

745
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: she likes to go okay, So I feel like it's me.

746
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: I have a lot of problems, So this one really

747
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: bothers me. This oneone bothers me. You guys, we've got

748
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: to stop making up wards.

749
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,280
Speaker 2: We've got to stop making up titles to describe periods

750
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 2: of our life.

751
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: There's a new one, self partnering, self partnering. I recently

752
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: saw this scrolling through my feed aka single, and it

753
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 1: just means that when you decentered men. That's another one

754
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: I've decentered men, or or my other favorite one, solo Polly,

755
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: which is which is solo POLLI news flash, Let me

756
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: just translate. It just means single single and hoen single

757
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: and dating single and equals solo poly You guys, I

758
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: know the new kids on the block. The millennials are

759
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: just getting so cool and having so many definitions. Oh

760
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: my god, speaking of definitions, I've we've been watching Oh

761
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: my god, shout out to Orna. I fucking love Couple's Therapy.

762
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: If you haven't watched it, fucking blog in especially if

763
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: you have a partner A. Couples Therapy is one of

764
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: my favorite shows since I've been off season. But there

765
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: was a young couple on there, like super young, and

766
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: they're talking about their poly lifestyle and their journey and

767
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: they're using all these like legit like click baity, very

768
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: intelligent words and they know and I'm really proud of

769
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: them for knowing like themselves and being aware. But there

770
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: comes a point where you're just you watch it and

771
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: you're like, you're just young and dumb. It's just it

772
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: doesn't matter how many words you know, this is not

773
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 1: gonna work. It's you're twenty three. You got a lot

774
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: of more digs and pussies to suck. It's just what

775
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: it is. It's called experience. Like being in couples Therapy

776
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: at twenty two and you're not married is dumb. Oh

777
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: my god.

778
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 2: I remember when I when I was with Poetry Bay

779
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: and I went to couple's therapy and my therapist was like,

780
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: why are you here?

781
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: And I tried. I tried with all my might to

782
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: be a good friend and not laugh at you. I

783
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you should totally try.

784
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 3: My therapist literally slid me a note.

785
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: And was like come back next week alone just said

786
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: your note, bitch, yes you see it.

787
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: And then actually know she emailed She texts me, I

788
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: think next week you should come by yourself. And then

789
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 2: when I came to the session, we had to post

790
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 2: it of all the ship she wrote down as red

791
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: flags when we were in our session together and was like,

792
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 2: we have done too much work for you to be

793
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 2: backsliding like this. And I was like, at that point

794
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 2: I knew I had found the therapy and stuff my dreams.

795
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: The therapist that we're talking about is one bad managemo, okay,

796
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: shut out deep. She doesn't fuck around. She's gonna tell

797
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 1: you the truth. And that was one of the truths,

798
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: So you know, like when your friends can't tell you,

799
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: but hopefully the therapist. And when you told me that,

800
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: I was like, oh thank god. Yeah, I was like,

801
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: oh god, thank god. Also, you don't have to do it, Yeah,

802
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: I was like, oh God, thank god, you know what

803
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 1: things come from your friends. Everybody's a little bit more touchy,

804
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: but when the therapist tells you, you're Like when she

805
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: told me, I already knew though, because I was going

806
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: in basically to tell her that I'd broken up with him,

807
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 1: because I had because like, I had broken up with him.

808
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: And he was like on his knees crying in the

809
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: parking lot and just being so dramatic, just being a

810
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: fucking weird cry baby. It was part his He went

811
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: for a walk and I was like, yeah, it's over,

812
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: and he was like, what do you mean we could

813
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:55,919
Speaker 1: have there's we can make it work.

814
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 2: And at first he tried to act like he accepted it,

815
00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: and then when I was getting in my car to leave,

816
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,439
Speaker 2: like the theatrics broke down. And that was the whole

817
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 2: problem too, Like he would cry randomly all the time,

818
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: like and I would laugh and that that was like

819
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 2: a really bad season for me actually because I just

820
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 2: I really didn't give a fuck about men's feelings at

821
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: that point, so anytime his emotions felt manipulative, which is

822
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: why I think my spirit was laughing and I couldn't

823
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 2: control myself. But also I was in a heavy season

824
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: of I don't really give a fuck about any man's feelings,

825
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: even if I care about you.

826
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Speaker 1: And you know what I noticed about like this this

827
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: is a particular season of Erica's life. But well, we've

828
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: all been here, and even maybe you're listening and you've

829
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: been here too, And the season I'm talking about is

830
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of work. I'm super aware and

831
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: I'm smart, but God's gonna throw me one curveball to

832
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: see if I'm gonna go with the fuck shit that

833
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: I've been doing, or if I'm gonna listen to my

834
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: gut and my feeling and just keep it moving. I

835
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: feel like God will always throw you a curveball and

836
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 1: test you to see if you're gonna go with what's

837
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: low hanging fruit and what's convenient, or if you're gonna

838
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: be patient and waited out for your real niggat. And

839
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: that was one of those times for you.

840
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 2: Oh no, especially especially when you're doing the work. That's

841
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: when the tests are even more severe.

842
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: And you have to remember that's when the tests are

843
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: even more like, come on, well you know why. It's

844
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: almost like God saying, do you know you did the work?

845
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: Do you trust that you did the work. Are you

846
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: aware you did the work? And a lot of us

847
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 1: will be like I love him and me together, they're

848
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: gonna go to therapy. Okay, so that.

849
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I know we're not done with the list of things,

850
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 2: but that guides me to the like needing to know

851
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 2: yourself and me and me. Lib were talking earlier about

852
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: this clip with Summer Walker.

853
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: She has like a new podcast.

854
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,479
Speaker 2: And she had Sera on, and you know, everyone loves

855
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 2: fucking Sierra's love story.

856
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 3: It's beautiful, it's amazing. It's when all women dream.

857
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: She's like the mom, like the second chance mom of

858
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: our dream. Like she's beautiful, she has her career, she's

859
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 1: she's a good mom. He's fine as hell. They're godly.

860
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 1: Like they're like a little bit sexy, kind of corny,

861
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: just like right in the right, right right, say more

862
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: in the corny, but like we love it. We love it.

863
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: It's like the Black Loves. You know, we would die

864
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: for a sex tape. We're probably never going to get one.

865
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,479
Speaker 1: I don't think I would die for a sex tape.

866
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: I think I would. I would like to see that,

867
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: not die, but I would see I would watch it.

868
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: I would like to see you wrestle. I think we

869
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: might be surprised. I think we might be surprised. Here's

870
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: a scorpio, bitch. I wonder what Russell is? Should we

871
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: look at? Yeah we should, that's very important. What do

872
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: you think he might be a cancer or like a

873
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: pisces or a virgo. I don't know this man at all.

874
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: A pisces may oh, I could see a pisces like

875
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: very okay. Relatives Russell well, I had to look up

876
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: his last night. I can't remember see Russell Wilson sad.

877
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're fucking they're fucking okay. Oh yeah, they

878
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 2: get it in.

879
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: That's why she got them kids. He's she's gonna give

880
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: him his I take it back. I would like to see. Yeah.

881
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: I hope it's not leaked. I hope she's just my

882
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 1: friend one day.

883
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 2: Even all those dance moves, like she can move her body.

884
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: I see it, Yarah. I know that.

885
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: I know you'd be fucking one two steps.

886
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 1: And finally, of our updates, because I know you guys

887
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: really care all our opinions, and as the West Coasters,

888
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: we have to mention it. The Drake and Kendrick saga

889
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: that has our I mean, never mind, I'm going to

890
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: say that. That's what I'm gonna say. R Drake, You're

891
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: gonna say something I don't know. I mean, that's pretty dark.

892
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: Actually no, I was just like dark beef. Let's kill

893
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 1: the nigg first of all. First of all, I love Drake.

894
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna front I will.

895
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 2: Brake has got me through sometimes and been the soundtrack

896
00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: to some beautiful, fun, sexy, unforgettable experience.

897
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: There are times where I'll hear certain Drake songs because

898
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: he's been only rocking number one hits for a decade,

899
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, oh my god, I was in college,

900
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was here, this is who I loved,

901
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Luna was born.

902
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: Literally they are a little a Drake soundtrack to my life.

903
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: So I'm not taking away his you know, his music

904
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: making abilities, however, Kendrick killing him.

905
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 2: He's a lyricist, he's a poet, he has a community.

906
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: That's really what it is comes from something Drake is.

907
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. Canada is a large place where I

908
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: don't know, Like l A, you can't know. You just

909
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: can't compare the thing about Drake is though, like even

910
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 1: though he has some hardcore songs. He's never really he's

911
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: not him.

912
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: He's been storytelling all along, and we had him.

913
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: He's never been saiding like sometimes he tries to put

914
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: you lying in our face, crying and ship all the time.

915
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: He's Emao. We know that he was. He also acts

916
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: like he's a drug dealer and a gang member. He

917
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: showed me the song every song. What are you talking? Yes,

918
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Never, I can't. I want to believe it. Yeah,

919
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 1: he's moving packs. Okay, we've gotten on a tangent. All right.

920
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: I think we need to cleanse our palate. I love. Okay,

921
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: let's do some Let's do some sound bowling and some

922
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: Meala's moans. Never talking shit about everyone and their tactics

923
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: in there, their love stories. It's just a Meala moon.

924
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: Just take a deep breath, then, don't reserve moaning just

925
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,399
Speaker 1: for sex. Do it in your car, Do it when

926
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: you sip some delicious champagne. Do it when you're smoking

927
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: a good blunt with your friend. You're talking too much

928
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: shit and you need to clear that negative energy out.

929
00:45:53,239 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: Take a deep inhale and release the sound. This is

930
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: getting high and drunk with Melanierica speaking of the esoterics

931
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: and taking breaks. Let's see a little terrible pole. Oh yes,

932
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 1: it's time, I'll pull one, but you can continue. Oh

933
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: you know what we forgot to do? Forget to do?

934
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: We forgot to introduce the theme of the month.

935
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you couldn't tell by now.

936
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 2: The theme of the month, as you can probably tell,

937
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: is no fucks given. It's no fucks given January because

938
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 2: not of focks to give. If anything that I've learned

939
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty.

940
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 1: Four is that I have very little fucks to give,

941
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: and neither should you unless it pertains to you, your

942
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: well being, what you're trying to accomplish, what you're trying

943
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 1: to embody, pleasure, rest, sex, love, loved ones, loved ones, family, community, Like,

944
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: that's the only thing that I really give a fuck

945
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: at this point. We're living in a really, really crazy world,

946
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: and I know because every day I get anxiety over it.

947
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: But there's so many possibilities. Why not rely and consider

948
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: the ones that matter your own? You know, your immediately,

949
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: your immediate friendships and family. You're a better man, all

950
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: the things that you can actually control. I have to

951
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: tell myself that a lot. What can I control? Give

952
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: fucks about the things that I can control and the

953
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: things that I actually have power over, and that starts

954
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: with your personal pleasure. You have power over that, and

955
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: that energy really does benefit the collective. We underestimate the energetic,

956
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 1: the energetic weight of just pleasurable, happy, joyous energy that

957
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: contributes to this crazy, weird place that we're existing in.

958
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 1: It's only created by hate and by the lack of love.

959
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: And so the more we move forward and want to

960
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: be stronger, we have to remember that we have to

961
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: combat that with love. Yeah, and you gotta love yourself.

962
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: So no fucks given, no five who I think no

963
00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: folks given too is like not not holding back what

964
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: you what you want to say. I think that like

965
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: we've gotten so used to just holding back and being

966
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: comfortable for people in this society.

967
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: We're so afraid to hurt each other's feelings. Like we

968
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: can't even joke anymore. Really, like it takes the joy

969
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:17,760
Speaker 2: out of everything.

970
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 1: We can't even you know, some of the stuff that

971
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: we talked about early on in the podcast, like it

972
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 1: was questionable, you know, And so I don't know, I

973
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 1: just feel like no fuck's given, Like I'm liable to

974
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: say anything because I really don't give a fuck. But

975
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: also when you when you operate on that channel, when

976
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: you operate in the channel of always wondering if you're

977
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: offending someone, you start to lose who you actually are.

978
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: You will start to lose who you actually are because

979
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: you're trying to be so politically correct and you're supposed

980
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: to trying to consider everything except the truth, and you

981
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 1: can change the truth, you could change your feelings, and

982
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 1: you will say the wrong thing. We've probably said a

983
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:54,879
Speaker 1: lot of wrong things, and we've said things that we've

984
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: changed and we've lived through, and we did some other shit.

985
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 1: We were open polly bitches early on, we were hoeing

986
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: it out and now we're all in relationships and you know,

987
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: committed things change and that's okay, and you're going to

988
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: say the wrong thing. But the only way we grow

989
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: from that is like literally having the conversation and saying

990
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: the thing. In friendships and family ships, like we will

991
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: fuck ourselves every time being overly concerned about offending someone.

992
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: Obviously be kind, have finessed, and you know, all those things,

993
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: but in respect. But yeah, I think that's what it is,

994
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: is carried the no fucks given, doesn't lack respect. There's

995
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: still respect involved in even the notion of the no

996
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: fucks given, and it's not an irresponsible no fucks given,

997
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: and actually is the most responsible, the most intentional, the

998
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: most healing, the most bold, the most outrageous, but still

999
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: with intention and like sometimes like there's so much heal.

1000
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: Like the reason why we have been able to heal

1001
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: certain parts of us has been because of sitting right

1002
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: here on this couch and using our throat chakra and

1003
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: saying the things, whether it was perfect, imperfect, a lie

1004
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: and insecure, already trigger a trauma, whatever it is, was

1005
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 1: said and it will continue to be said. And because

1006
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: I know the power in it, I know the healing

1007
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: in it, and you know, I just I hope and

1008
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: wish for more people to feel confident in sharing and

1009
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 1: saying the truth because it does you nothing to hold

1010
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: it in because you don't have the perfect thing to say.

1011
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: And I think in no folks giving witch like just

1012
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 1: the same thing. And sometimes no folks given is saying nothing. Yeah,

1013
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: that's not too when you just know you know about that,

1014
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: say nothing, say nothing, say nothing.

1015
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 2: If you've said a lot of the thing, it's time

1016
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 2: to give no focks and just say no fos quietly

1017
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 2: exit left with.

1018
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: No words, you know, And it's having the discernment to

1019
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 1: understand both. Yeah, it's the boundaries.

1020
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 2: No folks given is also like very much about boundaries

1021
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: and respecting what those boundaries mean to you and yourself

1022
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:00,080
Speaker 2: in this next.

1023
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: Chapter, you know, twenty twenty five.

1024
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 2: People are always putting so much pressure on the New Year,

1025
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 2: And I was thinking about this the other day because

1026
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 2: I didn't like on New Year's I didn't see my man,

1027
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: and like I wanted to be like annoyed, but then

1028
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I don't have to see you.

1029
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 2: I saw you yesterday and I had a really beautiful

1030
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,720
Speaker 2: date night with you, and now I'm with my family,

1031
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 2: and it's like I could just go to sleep and like, no,

1032
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to see you the next day. But like,

1033
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 2: something about this feels weird. And then I was like, no,

1034
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 2: it doesn't anymore. It's literally just another day. And I

1035
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 2: was reflecting on what this season means versus like last

1036
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 2: year around this time and last year going into the

1037
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 2: New Year, I felt very like that day on the beach,

1038
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: like I felt very relaxed and easeful.

1039
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: Like it felt different. This one felt like, oh, it's

1040
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: go time. I'm working like like I don't know, it

1041
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 1: just felt not working, but like it felt like a

1042
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: different like I was being propelled in a different way.

1043
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: I am being propelled in a different way at this

1044
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 1: time in my life three hundred and six, five days apart.

1045
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: And I think that's really what it is, is taking

1046
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: the mental note and about the time, where were you

1047
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: at this time instead of letting life just continue to

1048
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: just play out what you're gonna do inevitably. So I

1049
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: look at New Year's as like an opportunity to check

1050
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: in with that, you know, and like what does that mean?

1051
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 1: Like there's both are great, actually both. I came last

1052
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: year New Year's I came in feeling like, wow, I'm

1053
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 1: coming off of like a season of hard work. I

1054
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 1: need rest. Fuck please, I don't want to talk no more.

1055
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: I need a break. And now I'm coming into a

1056
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: season of like, oh, come on, let's get it and

1057
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: like latt lets me know how important the rest is,

1058
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 1: how important it is honoring you know what what everything

1059
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: is telling you.

1060
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 2: And there was a no fucks given mentality in that too,

1061
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 2: because I feel like we had been we've been so

1062
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,839
Speaker 2: programmed almost to like continue all the time, go go go, go, go,

1063
00:53:57,840 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 2: go go. That it was hard for us to just say,

1064
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 2: like we're going to are we really going to do this?

1065
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 2: And like there was a lot of there's been a

1066
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: lot of important things that are happening even now still

1067
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,800
Speaker 2: playing out between us and just in our lives. Because

1068
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: we decided to say, no, I need, I need to

1069
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 2: take a second.

1070
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: And do you remember even the second it was at

1071
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: forced some of it. We had decided that we were

1072
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: going to do take like a couple months off in between,

1073
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: but we had not. The agreement was not that we

1074
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: were not going to record as long as we did it.

1075
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: We wanted to still be up in this bitch every

1076
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: other month or some crazy shit like that. But what

1077
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: happened was our team. Some things started happening within our team.

1078
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: People got you know, people weeded themselves out, and it

1079
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: was necessary because bitch, how are you taking a break

1080
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: but you still have full time employees? That didn't make

1081
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: no goddamn sense, did it. But we were just we

1082
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: were so used to being on this hamster wheel that

1083
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: we continued. But then it's crazy how we committed to

1084
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: something unknowingly, Like we said something, but we weren't really

1085
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: committed to it, and then the universe literally one one

1086
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,439
Speaker 1: person left. The next day, we made a prayer. We're

1087
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 1: like looking at a list of people we had to pay.

1088
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: We're like, how are we going to you know, reduce

1089
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: our our spending? How are we going to reduce like

1090
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: all this money? And I and I looked at the

1091
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: list and I said, there's no way. The next day

1092
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: someone said, you know, I'm putting in my two weeks

1093
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: notice and it was just like okay, God, and then

1094
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: we're kind of we're trying to keep going, and then

1095
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: there was like okay, and it showed us like that

1096
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: sometimes in the.

1097
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 2: Rest surrender we had to we actually had to like

1098
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 2: be submitted almost like you had to be sat, sit

1099
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 2: the fuck down.

1100
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 1: God was like yeah, and you're dead. Uh, And that's true.

1101
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 1: That's so true. Yeah, I'm grateful for the rest and

1102
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: I'm ready to come back and I'm ready to do it.

1103
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 1: And I was having anxiety this, you know, about coming

1104
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 1: back and like getting back into it because we were

1105
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 1: going for so long and like, but you know, I

1106
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 1: taking what we learned this year about like sometimes there

1107
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: is there is abundance in the rest so much not

1108
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: sometimes often always abundance in the rest. Yeah, I mean

1109
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 1: even to the point of like not even worrying about

1110
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 1: it when niggas coming over, like okay, you know, or

1111
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 1: like if a nigga's Maddy you or like just okay.

1112
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: It's like how you feel when you smoke a blunt light. Yeah, okay,

1113
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: all right, you're right. Yeah, because that's how it fell.

1114
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 2: Then I like submitted to it, and I was like,

1115
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 2: this is great, this is fine, you know. And so

1116
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 2: I think that there's an uncomfortableness that comes with even

1117
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 2: the no fucks given for people that's not so easy

1118
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 2: for them to give no fucks.

1119
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: Well, because you've been programmed to give so many fucks,

1120
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: you know, and especially when you're in a job for

1121
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: a long time or whatever, you're doing something, you're in

1122
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: a routine, there are so many fucks given, but take them.

1123
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: I really encourage you to just take a moment and

1124
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: go inside yourself. Just take twenty one breaths and just

1125
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: go inside yourself. Give you the closure eyes to hear

1126
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 1: them like whatever is inside, and just sit there and surrender. Yeah, yeah,

1127
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: are ready for the next segment? What time is it? Okay?

1128
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 1: So okay, Yes, I'm thinking that it's our first episode back,

1129
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 1: so let's not pay attention to time. Okay, let's not

1130
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: take it too long. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

1131
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: Let's give them what they need. It's been ten months,

1132
00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: you're right, let's go. Okay. So, speaking of giving no

1133
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: fucks and surrendering, I think we need to take a

1134
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 1: moment to kind of just shout out the women who

1135
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: have given no fucks and it's worked for them.

1136
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, they deserve all the praise, all the glory,

1137
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 2: the trailblazers.

1138
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: The trail blazers of women that give no fucks because

1139
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: it's women who always give fucks and women who are

1140
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 1: persecuted when they don't. Men, they give no fucks and

1141
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: they are celebrated no matter what their boss. They're hardcore,

1142
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,439
Speaker 1: they're no fucks and this actually add to their success. Yeah,

1143
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: and women are just heartless bitches. Or speaking of that,

1144
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: did you guys watch Martha Stewart bitch, a bitch.

1145
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 2: Who didn't give any ship If you haven't watched, if

1146
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 2: you haven't watched it.

1147
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: That fucking docu Menna Ree. I love her. She's a psychopath.

1148
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: I love her.

1149
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 3: She's a psychopaths.

1150
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: I don't think she's a psychopath. I think she's just cold.

1151
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: She needs some tntra. We need to sit with her.

1152
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 1: We gotta look, I don't want to be touched. I don't.

1153
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: I think she might be too far gone marriage. We

1154
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: very more touched her and she said she wasn't with

1155
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: this iteration of this life. And she was this is

1156
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 1: all she can do, and it's great. She should like

1157
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: she's Yeah, but I think prison. I think prison was

1158
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: her tntra. Yeah, perhaps you have to, you have to

1159
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: sit down with other people. I can't believe they put

1160
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: that white woman in jail. I can. I mean, that's

1161
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: how that's how deep it is me she's making that money, honey,

1162
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: But that's how deep it is for men that when

1163
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: I watched that, there are a couple examples speaking speaking

1164
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: of mom shit and just praising the women who have

1165
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: historically done it different and set the bar and just

1166
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: given no fucks. I didn't mean to say this, but

1167
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: Martha Stewart and just thinking about her, Like for me

1168
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: as a black woman, when I see white men come

1169
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: after white women, I think, oh, they really fucked up.

1170
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: You really fucked up. And like Martha Stewart when she

1171
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: got that bread and she was, you know, cut throat

1172
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,959
Speaker 1: like that. They came for her ass and they put

1173
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 1: that sixty plus year old woman in prison. I even

1174
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: when I was a kid and that happened, I did

1175
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: not expect that to happen. I would say, I can't

1176
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: believe it. Her Britney spears. They pade Britney spears. She

1177
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: was enslaved as a successful wife. Okay. I was like,

1178
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 1: was she in prison, prison or she was in her

1179
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: home with her dad? Yeah? That was that is prison. No,

1180
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: that is person. That's probably worse in prison. That's probably

1181
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: They put on her documentary where they gave finally gave

1182
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: her the keys and let it drive in a circle

1183
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: and she was happy. That's a hamster, poor baby. So

1184
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: when you see them do the white women like that,

1185
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,959
Speaker 1: just know it's it's the hate for women is real.

1186
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: That's why even with Kamala, they're like, Kamala didn't win.

1187
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, you guys, they didn't let a Hillary's white

1188
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: ass win. They hate women, not Yeah, it's it's it's deep.

1189
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: It's deeper than just what we think it is. It's

1190
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: deeper than race. It's really about that you know, and

1191
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: that's why it's important that we that we give no fucks.

1192
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: You have to give zero fucks, guys. It's not time

1193
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: to give a fuck. It really isn't time. It's the revolution.

1194
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: We must rise up. Amen. Let's walk in it, run, run,

1195
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: bust down the wall, bitch, you have to This is

1196
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: a break. The ceiling doesn't exist. This is a wall.

1197
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 2: This is a war. It's no walking break the ceiling.

1198
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 2: It doesn't exist. It's not time to doubt yourself any longer.

1199
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 2: What do you lose from just believing in yourself?

1200
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: Nothing? Just fucking do it and fuck everybody else. Fiercely

1201
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: fangs out, spears out. I've been watching way too many

1202
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: war movies. God, I've been watching Lioness and I'm like, God,

1203
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 1: this is I wish I could. I watched Lines. I

1204
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: watched the fucking snow Piercer. What's that one? I gotta

1205
01:00:56,240 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: watch that. It's ridiculous. A snow piercer that goes around

1206
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: the world. I remember Landa telling us about this. When

1207
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: the world freezes over because we fucked because we fucked

1208
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: up the environment, which is actually probably gonna happen, and

1209
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 1: they try to correct it. The world freezes over. Everybody

1210
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: tries to get on this train that never stops. But

1211
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: then they put some poor people in the back. They

1212
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: try to get to the front. The color are the

1213
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: poor people all colors? They just they're just people just

1214
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: jumping on the train. But apparently the main character is

1215
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: David Deegs, who is a black man. Honestly, I got

1216
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: really into it, but it's just a microcosm of the world.

1217
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: We so, how many people are on this train? They

1218
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: never say six hundred, Yeah, six hundred. It's a thousand

1219
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: little colony. It's a thousand and one cars and the

1220
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: cars are ten miles long like.

1221
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 2: Its own colony. Oh, this is a great storyline. They

1222
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 2: can just travel from cart car to car.

1223
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they take over. They like they are feeding

1224
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: them like shit in the back because they go, yeah,

1225
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: there's a hierarchy. There's a hierarchy because people paid for tickets.

1226
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: There's like, oh, I already know how this who show

1227
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: there's a night car and it's based on an animated series. Okay,

1228
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: say this went ray off that this is very This.

1229
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 2: Is not an ad, by the way, this is m's

1230
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 2: real life recommendations.

1231
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: When I'm telling you to pull out your shields and

1232
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: your and your swords. I just want you to know

1233
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: why where it's coming shields and swords. Wow, it's giving

1234
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 1: walking Dead and I love it. I love these four

1235
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: seasons long so it just makes you walk. It got

1236
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: weird and I stopped watching. It needs too many seasons.

1237
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: I need a new one, a thriller horror like long

1238
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: running from the show from from Yep. Because I'm still

1239
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: in it. How many seasons is it? Okay? I like

1240
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 1: that so that I really like get into it. I

1241
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: feel like shows should only really be three seasons. So

1242
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 1: what kind of horror is it? Because that's specific? It's

1243
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: is it like, is it like psychlesch like it's all

1244
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:44,959
Speaker 1: of it thriller? It's it's it's like it's a little

1245
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: bit gory. It's a little bit it's a psychological thriller.

1246
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: It's like it's mystery, it's spiritual, like what's going it's portal?

1247
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, sorry, obviously this is what we've been

1248
01:02:56,320 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: doing in our time off me. I don't watch The

1249
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 1: other day, was like, I don't watch TV. What the fuck?

1250
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, you do, you watched? No, I

1251
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 2: barely watch television. I'm like that is a fucking lie

1252
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 2: because you're always telling me about all the shows. You

1253
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 2: know why I always have a show. Do you know

1254
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: why I don't watch television?

1255
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: Because once I start, my nosey as gets invested and

1256
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: I have to see it through. So you do watch television,

1257
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: So I avoid because I don't want to get involved.

1258
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: I think you're doing a bad job. I know you're avoiding.

1259
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 1: Isn't working? Speaking of women going their own way, there's

1260
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: been a I just found out there's a group of

1261
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: men called Men going their Own Way. I had to

1262
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: google it. Apparently this wasn't going on since the twenty seventeens,

1263
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: because I also googled it and there were Reddit accounts

1264
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: talking about this shit then. So the short is MGTOW.

1265
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: Nobody ever heard of it, but it's called an anti feminist, misogynistic,

1266
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 1: mostly online community that espouses male separatism for what they

1267
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: see as a guynocentric society that has been corrupted by feminism.

1268
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: Specifically advocate for men to avoid marriage and committed romantic

1269
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 1: relationships with women, which to me just sounds like gay.

1270
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: The community is part of a Man's Sphere, a collection

1271
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: of anti feminist websites and online communities that also include

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Speaker 1: the men's rights movement. The men's rights movement, that's crazyest

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01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: saying that's a crazy statement. It's like crazy. Actually, my

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01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: insides are yes. The ideology emerged in the early two thousands.

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01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: It's straight men being homosexual. It's very confusing. Anyway, we're

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01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: gonna start our own it's called women going their own way.

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01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if we started it, but whatever. So

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01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: Number one on women going their own way Cardi B.

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01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 1: Good old Cardi B. I fucking love Cardi B. I

1280
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: have loved Cardi B since love and hip hop. Hold on,

1281
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 1: let's just take a moment. Let's take a moment for

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01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: legendary hose mmm, legendary hoes and mothers, for those that

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01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 1: have shamed and prosecuted, been prosecuted, and have risen from

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01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 1: the dust of social norms, transmuting judgment and jealousy into

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01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: triumph and transition. Gratitude and thanks to those before us

1286
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: standing in the cause despite the ridicule and the resistance.

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01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: Eric and I good moms stand with you, with you.

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01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: Shout out to Cardi.

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01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 2: BAT are you and you are we for cheating back?

1290
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: You cheated back. I'm a cheater. Well, I was.

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01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 3: I've been a cheaterbacker. I'm a cheaterbacker. Yeah, oh yeah,

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01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 3: oh yeah, don't you fucking test her.

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01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm spiteful, i am. I'm not proud of it, but

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01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm a cheaterbacker. Yep. Yeah. There's never been a time

1295
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: I've been cheated on where I didn't cheat back. Really

1296
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: never really? Oh don't she like you can't cheat on me?

1297
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 1: I feel like there's ways I could if I got

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01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: to be best friend. What would you do?

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01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 3: You cheat her back for me? Are you gonnacheater back

1300
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 3: for me?

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01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 1: Cheater backery? O? What I got? People cheat her back

1302
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 1: your friends? That's what's That's like a really I think

1303
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 1: under talked thing. I think people don't realize how much

1304
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: people and cheater talk there. I'm not a Monoga cheater

1305
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: back with their friends. I mean, I wasn't saying I'm

1306
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 1: not a Monoga's best friender, but maybe I would, baby,

1307
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 1: maybe like who the fuck is that bitch? Especially if

1308
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: I don't like her. I'm don't gonna ask questions. Do

1309
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 1: you where'd you meet? When Erica listens to me all

1310
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 1: the time, Oh, you've been hanging out interesting, like Erica,

1311
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: you've been in your house for three weeks. Yep, why

1312
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 1: are you.

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01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 3: Going out and come over?

1314
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: You can party right here in my living room. Then

1315
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: she's lying, come over and she's like, what time are

1316
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: you leaving? You got here late. I'm so tired. I

1317
01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: don't really want company, but I did. Why did you

1318
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 1: over to o'clock? You're here at nine? I plan to

1319
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: be jealous and being in the house up on the hill,

1320
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: I can't you got you gotta pick one. You know,

1321
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 1: you know what it is. I need a personal driver.

1322
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 1: I realized that that's the problem is I need a

1323
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:16,760
Speaker 1: personal driver. And everything would be fine because I could

1324
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: sleep on the way there. I could like drink my

1325
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: coffee when I right when I get out, I know

1326
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: that he's there if I need to leave and like

1327
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:36,959
Speaker 1: charge my social battery, like everything, that would be ideal. Yeah,

1328
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:44,960
Speaker 1: that's one. We'll get him. Is there fire station right here?

1329
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: I am perhaps? Yeah? I think? Actually, yeah, what was

1330
01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: I saying? You need a personal driver? I need a

1331
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 1: But also we got so off topic because we're supposed

1332
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 1: to be giving taking moments time. Sorry, okay, here, champagne case,

1333
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: we're not tipsy and high enough. Okay, Anyway, we said

1334
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 1: CARDI b because I know you guys have followed this,

1335
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 1: Cardi B and Offset Saga and she there was the tweet,

1336
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: the infamous tweet this year. I don't know exactly what

1337
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: it said. Basically, Offset said she was freaking down, babe,

1338
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: break pregnant, let them know, and she retweeted and did.

1339
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:43,520
Speaker 1: And when I saw that tweet, I said, she did.

1340
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 1: CARDI don't give a fuck. Cartie, just be happy. She's

1341
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 1: she's such a libra. She's like loves like girly things, aesthetics.

1342
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 1: She'd be just out here living her best life. She's

1343
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I love her. I do.

1344
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: And I wasn't mad at that tweet. I saw lots

1345
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:01,240
Speaker 1: of controversy about why wait, wait, she fuct she was pregnant,

1346
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: it's her pussy, what the hell? And this nigga probably

1347
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: been fucking while she was pregnant. I know, I don't

1348
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 1: really think that's the ultimate sin. I'm sorry, No, it

1349
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: can't be. It can't be like just because I'm pregnant,

1350
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:14,759
Speaker 1: supposed to die while you're out here fucking fucking bitches

1351
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: in my face. Guess what bitches get?

1352
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 3: Guess what I still need pleasure?

1353
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:26,599
Speaker 1: Guess what pregnant pussies highly. I couldn't help it. I'm

1354
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: pregnant pussy. Do you want me to say all? You

1355
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: have this in one text? You know I'm sexier when

1356
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. What the fuck you want me to do?

1357
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: You know? I you know my my numbers go up

1358
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: when I'm pregnant. You see the low is extra. I'm

1359
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: pretty sure pregnant pussy is like five on porn searches.

1360
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I don't know the math on it,

1361
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 1: but it's top ten.

1362
01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:46,759
Speaker 2: I would imagine that pregnant pussy is top tier period

1363
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 2: like that would be my assumption, just because it is

1364
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,639
Speaker 2: life bearing, it is preparing for life.

1365
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 3: It is juicy, it is moist, it's naughty.

1366
01:09:55,479 --> 01:10:00,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's preparing. That's all I'm gonna say, Brandon, when

1367
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: I read and did honestly, I'm want to be judged

1368
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 1: by for that, but I don't care. No, I'm for

1369
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: the bitches said I cheat back. I think Cardi did

1370
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 1: the right thing. I think she does whatever, she could do,

1371
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 1: whatever the fuck she wanted. She's richer than him, She's fine.

1372
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:18,599
Speaker 1: That was the thing too.

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01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, you got people forget because they just

1374
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 2: look at her as a woman that she's actually the prize.

1375
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 2: I mean period, but I also mean just like financially

1376
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 2: yes too, like she can. She's good child Latin America.

1377
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 1: Check. I wonder if she's I wonder if any she

1378
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: lost any sponsors by tweeting and did no. No, I'm

1379
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: actually if I was a brand, I would I would

1380
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:49,240
Speaker 1: get her on. Yeah. Yeah, shout out to Cardi B.

1381
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 1: We love you, we do. We love you at Good Moms. Yeah,

1382
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:55,080
Speaker 1: we remember when we were in Cabo. We're trying to

1383
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: meet Cardi B. Oh yeah, why didn't we That's the

1384
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 1: one time our manifestation didn't work. We weren't yet. I

1385
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:03,760
Speaker 1: was I kind of knew it wasn't gonna work. Well,

1386
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 1: they were performing, right, yeah, we're like, we're gonna meet her.

1387
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 1: That would have been the time, though, because she wasn't

1388
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 1: super rich yet. I don't think she was there. I

1389
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 1: think it was like a one off, like they just

1390
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: flew there. Yeah no, I'm I think we were looking

1391
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: at her stories and she was there. I don't know,

1392
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 1: but hey, Carti, we're looking for you, Cardi. We saw

1393
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: your tweet. Okay. Number two on women going their own way,

1394
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: we have doctor Joy Bryant we talked about her earlier,

1395
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 1: but shout out to her, Yeah, she's fine, she's smart, and.

1396
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 2: They're always men are always, and women too, are so

1397
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 2: quick to shame and judge a woman who is not

1398
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 2: married or does not have a child.

1399
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 1: Well they because I think cam Newton named the episode

1400
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: something really kind of disrespectful like single, forty and single

1401
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 1: or something like that. Ah, and that's why she kind

1402
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: of like after that, like kind of was like fuck them,

1403
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: which you know, we've had that experience in niggas, you know,

1404
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 1: making the title of a show that we've come on

1405
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 1: very click baity and shit like that. I'm probably guilty

1406
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 1: of it too, But shout out to her for maintaining

1407
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: her composure and her patients and her real niggadness by

1408
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: saying like, yeah, I am and I'm waiting because you're

1409
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,480
Speaker 1: not going to get this for no bullshit and obviously

1410
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 1: niggas want that right. Her dms are probably flooded. Do

1411
01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: you think she's a lesbian? H I hope so, me too.

1412
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,599
Speaker 1: Also call us lesbians don't want fake lesbians, they want

1413
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 1: real lesbians. She may be a fake lesbian like lesbians

1414
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: or I'm a real lesbian from the years of twenty.

1415
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 3: I just like, I feel like lesbians don't like to

1416
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 3: be fucked around with.

1417
01:12:41,320 --> 01:12:44,600
Speaker 1: They're like lesbians actually hate bidy. Yeah, they don't like

1418
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,759
Speaker 1: bisexual people. I know. I've been shamed also by lesbian

1419
01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: community as a former lesbian, as a former bisexual.

1420
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 2: But so then you that's why you commit fully to

1421
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 2: the lesbian side.

1422
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 1: Do you identify as bisexual or I just want to

1423
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 1: if you've eaten pussy consecutively over a couple of years, time,

1424
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: you'd like pussy. I can't say I tried it, I

1425
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 1: did it for a long.

1426
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 3: Do you dream of pussy? I honestly I don't.

1427
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have like lesbian urge in this.

1428
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 1: I like dick a lot, a whole lot. So maybe

1429
01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 1: if I'm like, I'm probably less by fun than you.

1430
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:24,599
Speaker 1: I also feel like my lesbian stage was a safety thing.

1431
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:28,320
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It felt safer for me. That makes sense.

1432
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 1: That's why I've been really healed out of being a lesbian.

1433
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 1: Got it perfect? If you want to say the next one, oh, yes,

1434
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 1: my favorite. Oh this is the Queen and the Queen,

1435
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 1: Goddess Mother, the equalizer Eric, I'll praise the Queen Erica.

1436
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,599
Speaker 1: One day you will be on my show, Erica. It's

1437
01:13:55,640 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 1: true too, Erica is sitting here with Erica. I went

1438
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 1: to her show once and she was like doing a

1439
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 1: free cell rap and she was like talking about her

1440
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 1: rapper baby daddies and I was like, yes, and they're

1441
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 1: all cool. Yeah, she has somehow been able to well.

1442
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 2: I think she's had her I think she's definitely been

1443
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 2: shamed and disrespected.

1444
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: But I think I wonder I want to know her

1445
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:20,599
Speaker 1: stories on that because I could never imagine anyone disrespect

1446
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:22,920
Speaker 1: a woman. I know, I know she's a woman. Of

1447
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: course she has period period. Couldn't wait to disrespect eric

1448
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: about but even still, she has always risen to the

1449
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:38,639
Speaker 1: occasion and been a light of wisdom and just the energy,

1450
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 1: the frequency is just it just feels divine. So it

1451
01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 1: is divine. It's divine goddess. Yeah, she's the last one

1452
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: because she's the most important. Yeah, I agree.

1453
01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 3: Is it time to read the Kataro of the day.

1454
01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:59,600
Speaker 1: I think it is is ter time. So I was

1455
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 1: shoved and I was trying to get you to I

1456
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: was trying to get you to cool, but this one

1457
01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 1: fell out. So here we are. Are you ready? The

1458
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 1: first card of the year, the first card of Our

1459
01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 1: Good Mom's season two. And it looks like it's gonna

1460
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: be on fucking point because it's the Queen of Swords.

1461
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: And if you can see, she's sitting on her throne

1462
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:23,679
Speaker 1: on a beautiful day on it's gold. There's a man

1463
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:28,320
Speaker 1: in the chair. It's gold. There's a man in the chair.

1464
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:31,719
Speaker 1: She has her sword raised up because she also watched

1465
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: snow Piercer. Just doesn't look like she's sucking around. Let

1466
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: me see. Shout out to Mahogany Taro, the black cards

1467
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 1: that would be always pull from little black baby chair

1468
01:15:54,280 --> 01:16:06,759
Speaker 1: up in the seat. Hmm okay. The Queen's Swords combines

1469
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:10,360
Speaker 1: the mental clarity and intellectual power of the Suit of

1470
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 1: the Swords and the maturity and receptiveness receptiveness of the Queen.

1471
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: You have the gift of being able to use your

1472
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: intellect and unbiased judgment while also remaining flexible and open

1473
01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 1: to receive input from other sources. As you lead from

1474
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 1: the head and not the heart, you are better able

1475
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:27,600
Speaker 1: to discern situations without the influence of emotion or sentimentality.

1476
01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:30,800
Speaker 1: You may believe that empathy or compassion towards others will

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01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: distract you from the task at hand. Instead, you prefer

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01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,639
Speaker 1: to know the how, why, where, and when of who

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01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 1: or everything to help you make sense of your environment

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01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,320
Speaker 1: and better understand others. It is not that you do

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01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,719
Speaker 1: not care about others, but you connect with other people

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01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 1: through an intellectual understanding rather than the emotional one. You

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01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 1: are a truth seeker. You're open to hearing the thoughts

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01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:56,120
Speaker 1: and opinions of others, but ultimately you filter that information

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01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 1: to decipher what is true and what is not. It

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01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:02,759
Speaker 1: is no fluximent and I'm gonna tell the truth sounds

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01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 1: like zero fucks were given. When interacting with others, you

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01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 1: will not tolerate mistruths or excessive fluff. You prefer to

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01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 1: get to the heart of the matter without engaging in

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01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 1: too much chit chat or gossip. It's crazy when this

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01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 1: should be so appointed. Hello God, the Queen of Sword

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01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 1: suggests that you have an innate ability to tell it

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01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:29,599
Speaker 1: like it is. Congratulations you telling it like it is

1494
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 1: like the Queen of Swords has gotten you this far.

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01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,320
Speaker 1: There is no beating around the bush or softening of

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01:17:36,360 --> 01:17:39,719
Speaker 1: your comments, opinions, and thoughts. You are upfront and honest

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01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:41,719
Speaker 1: in your views. And you expect the same from others.

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01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 1: For this reason, many people respect your opinion and come

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01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: to you for advice when they need healthy clarity. Thank

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01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: you for coming. Click the link in our bio if

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01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,680
Speaker 1: you need advice. The card said it, not us, you

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01:17:55,720 --> 01:18:00,559
Speaker 1: saw it fall out rewind Wow, my love. Well that

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01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: is magic again in motion. Wow Queen of Swords. Hmm.

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01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: I love when the universe confirms you're exactly where you're

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01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 1: supposed to be, getting the messages and listening to the truths.

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01:18:22,400 --> 01:18:27,519
Speaker 1: So what's the affirmation of the day. I know I

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01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:29,839
Speaker 1: wrote one down, but we can really improvise it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what did you say? Move in love and with no

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01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:36,639
Speaker 1: fucks given? Yeah, move in love with no fucks given,

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01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 1: because you can do both. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's not asking you to be a cold hearted rich

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01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,200
Speaker 2: although you might have to be a lot.

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01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 1: But you know what I do feel though, you have

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01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 1: to learn to move with love with yourself. I feel

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01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 1: like it's so important. We offer so much kindness and

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01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 1: gentleness and compassion and flexibility with other people, and sometimes

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01:18:57,120 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: like we're so hard on ourselves, and I realize the

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01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:01,600
Speaker 1: pay patience I have with that, Like, maybe it's the

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01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: patience I have with other people is the patience I

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01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 1: have with myself. And so if you're not you know,

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01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: like giving it inwardly, it's it doesn't come out outwardly.

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01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 1: So remember that mother yourself. Be kind and gentle and

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01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 1: compassionate with yourself. But yeah, sometimes you are going to

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01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:19,719
Speaker 1: be cut throat. Yeah, I mean, I think it's important

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01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 1: to find the balance. So I think that's I think

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01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 1: that's the best way to be. I think that love

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01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 1: you can never go along with the love. But I

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01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 1: think the no fucks given people have the most time

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01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: hard time with. When you really know yourself and you

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01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:36,640
Speaker 1: know you're a good person and you're still and you're

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01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 1: saying I'm not gonna allow this to be any longer

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01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 1: or that part of me is dead, then you know,

1533
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: like that's a hard boundary for people, and people will say,

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01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 1: you don't really give a fuck about me. But when

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01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 1: you really know yourself, know your.

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01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 2: Heart, know that you do give a fuck about this person,

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01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 2: then there really is I don't know that there's so

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01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,599
Speaker 2: much freedom in that. So really knowing yourself, like you said,

1539
01:19:56,680 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 2: is so important, knowing your heart and if you feel

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01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:02,040
Speaker 2: like you can be a better person and a better

1541
01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 2: version of that, then improve those things, you know, don't

1542
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 2: avoid those parts of yourself. You can change, you can

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01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 2: be better, you can be kinder. So yeah, that's mush Bille.

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Speaker 1: We love it. Ha. We got we didn't get deep

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01:20:18,200 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 1: and high and you did well anyway, you guys. I

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Speaker 1: think that that concludes our first episode back. It does. Well.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I'm really excited because y'all it is January, which

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Speaker 2: means we take our golden annual Gem of a fucking

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Speaker 2: retreat trip every February first, and we still have a

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Speaker 1: We do. And I'm a girl. I don't know about you,

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 2: It's really our home and it's been such a blessing

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Speaker 2: to our friendship, to our lives, and we're so excited

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Speaker 1: Right group of people.

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