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Speaker 1: didn't want to know she had people here. I'm getting

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Speaker 1: and run the game. Race? What's that race? Show? Right? Race? Amazing? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so much. Sis is exhausted from her own life. She's

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00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: at a job where they're not promoting her to be

422
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 1: her best. They want to see her fail. So like, yeah,

423
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying she's trying personally. I'm not saying she's trying

424
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: with Lisa, but right now she exhausted. She don't have

425
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: a patience. But but why are you in a relationship

426
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: where you bending over backwards? And because she wanted to

427
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: know her she is not bending over, She's not, that's

428
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: not that's been over forward for him. But I'm saying,

429
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 1: like she didn't want to go hang out with him

430
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: and his brother. She like she's not Molly is hard

431
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: headed and she you know she being real? You Knoweria

432
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: on the show? Yes, yes, yes, I will say I

433
00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: squinted a little bit. I'm like, is that mean? Mean?

434
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: Which is? Which is? Which is fine? But I think

435
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: the bigger conversation is, you know, losing a friend, letting

436
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: go of things that yeah, just doesn't suit you anymore,

437
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 1: that doesn't replenish you, that doesn't challenge you to make

438
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: you a better person. Those things are hard and even

439
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: if people tell you, oh, you should want to fix it,

440
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: but if you don't, then like you don't have to.

441
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: On Period, Sydney, how many how many group chats were

442
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: we in that dissolved because the people in the group

443
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 1: chat are not cool with each other no more? Sometimes yeah,

444
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: so many roll your friends, so many? But like, I

445
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 1: don't know, Isa and Molly have energy of like people

446
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: who've been friends since college or like they seem like,

447
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: you know, they've been friends for like ten plus years,

448
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: so for you. So they're at Molly's house and Molly

449
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: Issa thinks she's having a good night there last they're

450
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: drinking alcohol together. It's cute. Molly sends a text message

451
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: it says, see, I'm trying with her but she accidentally

452
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: sent it toa so Lisa got up and left. Yeah, like,

453
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 1: oh this has work for you. I thought we were

454
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: having a good time. She gets up to leave and

455
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: then Molly hits her with the maybe who I am

456
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: and who you are is not Maybe we not cool

457
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: whatever the hell she's saying. But it's like then it's like, bitch,

458
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: why you didn't say that at brunch, Like I don't

459
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: why you got me out of me here looking stupid

460
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: and trying and like feel like I'm kissing your ass

461
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: when it's not a mutual thing. Well, that hangout wasn't planned.

462
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: It was Molly really just like, okay, let me try, right, Okay,

463
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: but it's land. But we needed Molly to try at

464
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: the diner, not at your not at your boyfriend's house,

465
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: try when it is just the two of us. And also,

466
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 1: if you know you a bad actress and you can't

467
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: act like you want to be there, then you need

468
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: to say no yes, So stop saying stop signing up

469
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: for shit if you're not gonna go all in, because

470
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: once you say yes, then I expect you to show

471
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: the fuck up. But Andrew is just making her feel

472
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: bad for not doing the same thing with his brother.

473
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: So SIS was just on some all right, let me

474
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: let me just see what I can do. Yeah, but

475
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to see what you can do. Yes,

476
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: not now. But also Issa thought that the diner thing

477
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: went well. That I think is what the issue is.

478
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: Lisa's like, we might not be hundred percent, but we

479
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: talked and we laughed, and I thought, well, it's a

480
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: little delusional. Let's talk about how she thinks her life

481
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: is good right now, and so like, we can't really

482
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: trust her judgment at this point. But but the thing is,

483
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: we watched them. But the thing is is that Issa

484
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: just wants to be happy. And that's where I kind

485
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: of relate with her with that, because I've been in

486
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 1: that place where it's just like, well, let me just

487
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: look at the things that are good. Why do I

488
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: have to break down every little thing, because then that's

489
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: going to take me into a hole and make me

490
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: be like, well, what is it? What's the point? Why

491
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: Why did should I even put myself out there? So

492
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: she's rekindling thing with her ex Lawrence shout out to

493
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: every everybody who got back with an ext during the quarantine.

494
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,199
Speaker 1: You were like, I can't get no new no nw

495
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: PUS or or whatever. I have to get to know one. Yes,

496
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: I need to know. Okay, this is this is familiar. Yes.

497
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: So you know how you throw something in the recycling

498
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: and you don't throw the recycling out and then you

499
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: go back into the recycling. Well, I think I could

500
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: still use this bottle for something. That's how it was

501
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: quarantine that did that analogy make sense? I was told

502
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: that you were not recycling. That's what I was told. Okay,

503
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: but I recycle now. I recycle New Year, New Years, don't.

504
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: I don't recycle during the quarantine. But I'm just saying

505
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: I recycle now. Okay. I love this for you, Yes,

506
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: ma'am Brick. Maybe I mean this is good for you

507
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: because the way did you talk right now? I'm like, wow,

508
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: well I've been talking all fucking night. I stayed up

509
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: all night with another friend and then came here and

510
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: just talking on the phone with all night friend. Not

511
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: on the phone, but just stayed up all night just

512
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: talking to a friend, just you know, yeah, not on

513
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: the phone. So something Lord says, Now, I was just

514
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: talking to Carolina all night because you know, friends having

515
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: problems with friends, so yeah, it don't let friends go

516
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: to bed. Yeah. So it's just like you want to

517
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: look at the positives and you don't want to break

518
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: down everything to until it's not till it's broken. So

519
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: she's she's in the clouds and she's just trying to

520
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: she's trying to do the best that she can. Molly,

521
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: he said, He said, I don't know, is immature. He's immature, insecure,

522
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: Bally is. I don't know if I would call her immature,

523
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: but like she found out that her dad shed on

524
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: her mom twenty years ago and was upset about that,

525
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: but no one else in the family is affected. Like

526
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: but it's also like, girl, you was with a man

527
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: who was all the way full blown married. Girl, sit

528
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: have a seat. Not only were you would have been

529
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: that was full blown married, you were hooking up with

530
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: him in a bathroom at an event that his wife

531
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: was also at. So now you want to be self righteous,

532
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: but now you're like, you cheated on mom? How could

533
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: you do that? It's like how could you? Says? How

534
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: could you be pussy popping on a sink? And a

535
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: baffas are like a bathazar no, a red lobster sink. Systen, Yeah, yeah,

536
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I will

537
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: say that they should have put this episode, like all

538
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: the things that are happening in quarantine vibes. And if

539
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: it was a quarantine, they would not have lasted the

540
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: first week. They would have stopped being friends because this

541
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: quarant Yes, this quarantine has tested the funk out of

542
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: all of us. We have no patience, we are exhausted.

543
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: We've talked all the way we can talk. We have

544
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: no pal but we have so much more time. We

545
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: have more time trying to reflect and like stew in

546
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: the fact that something somebody wronged you in some way.

547
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: And then it also gives you tell me to be like,

548
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: all right, maybe I'm doing too much. You don't you

549
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: find out you're doing too much, way too late. But whatever,

550
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's fine, it's just it's yeah. But at

551
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you're like, I only want

552
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: the people who are gonna make a bad situations better

553
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: and I only need a good circle around me. So

554
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: the third month we are chopping people. There is no

555
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: new no new friends. Legit, we don't have the capacity.

556
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: I don't know now if the friend, now, if the

557
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: front has a rooftop in a backyard, that we get

558
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: social distance, and then you know, you would put it

559
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: back and then we put them in a circle and

560
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: a boat and a boat. We'll put them on a boat,

561
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: and yet's put a boat on the fishing board. I

562
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: don't know. I think you could also look at it

563
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: this way. Three months into the quarantine, maybe you're tired

564
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: of talking to the people you've been talking to every

565
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: day from months one and two, and you're like, let

566
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: me see, let me see what this girl from us

567
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: reality doing. So you married the kids is all ugly,

568
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: but no, do you like you know what I mean,

569
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: like tell us how you really feel marine titles every day? No,

570
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: but I'm saying that it could be that, like you

571
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: could be somebody who is you're you keep the circle

572
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: small and you don't want to add anybody new to it,

573
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: or you could be somebody who after a while you're like, Okay,

574
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: well I need to Yeah, yeah, that's true. You're that's valid.

575
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: But you know, man, friendships at this point is kind

576
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: of like yay, but also like ugh. And then it's

577
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to maintain my own like mental stability,

578
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: but then I got to take on everybody else's emotions

579
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: and I gotta listen to other people's problems, and then

580
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: I got to avoid my own problems, and then I

581
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: gotta go get a therapist to work out my fucking

582
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: problems and then I'm back that ship. Yeah, but like

583
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: people are gonna fucking make mistakes. You're gonna look back at,

584
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: but you're gonna look back, Go ahead, go ahead ahead.

585
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like she's gonna look back and it's

586
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: gonna be worth it. A lot of this stuff is

587
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: hard now, but it's not always gonna be hard. Who's

588
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: gonna who's gonna look back? I'll took it back to

589
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: City City. Yes somebody? Yes, sure, yeah, sure, Okay, that

590
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: was your tip, says like, I'm just saying. I mean

591
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,719
Speaker 1: I I definitely was like yo, I Like it definitely

592
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: has made me closer to you girls, because it's like, yeah,

593
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: we were talking about bullshit a lot of days, but

594
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: there was also so many moments where we're like, Okay,

595
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: this is what we need to do to do better

596
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: and be better and focus on the bigger picture. When

597
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 1: you know there was daysa it's so dark, we're so angry,

598
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: we're pissed off, or like do we have careers? And

599
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: if you have the right people. That's like uplifting you

600
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: to make sure that you hit your goals. Then boom.

601
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: It's not that bad. But I think that's part of

602
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: being a good friend to somebody is you should be

603
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: uplifting them when they need it, but you should also

604
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: be telling them when they mess up. Not like not

605
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: in a like a mother way, but like if you

606
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: care about your friend and you and you feel like

607
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: they could be better or they messed up in some way,

608
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: then I think that you should You should be able

609
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: to talk to them, and if they take offense or

610
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: they're upset, then you maybe give them some time. But

611
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's a reason to stop talking

612
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: to somebody if they're not coming at you disrespectfully, you know.

613
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: And it looked like Molly ain't got a lot of

614
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: friends anyway, so it's just like you just gonna cut

615
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: easter out your legs so she has no friends that

616
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: she calls. Being tired of your friends is a real thing. Sure,

617
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 1: sometimes you're just tired, like it ain't even know, beef,

618
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: it's just tired taking sick and tired of being sick

619
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: and tired be a what m A M. That's a

620
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 1: very inside joke that you shouted into the microphone. Oh sorry,

621
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: that's a Nana's favorite song. Yeah by Fantasia AnyWho, Yeah,

622
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 1: it was. It was. It's cool to watch this season

623
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: play out because you know, we were just like where

624
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: is the inture going? So I guess they have to

625
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: have this like little riff where it was drawn out

626
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: the whole season, like oh, they're not gonna be friends anymore.

627
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 1: But like it's sad when things don't work out, but

628
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,479
Speaker 1: we have to understand that things into and we can't

629
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: be holding onto shit. And I'm the queen of I'm

630
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: a hoarder. I'm a hoarder of things and people in

631
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: emotion and you know it's you gotta Marie condo, everything, everything,

632
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: everything gotta go, hurry up and buy. I am not

633
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 1: a hoarder, No, you're not. I I guess maybe I

634
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 1: hold on to emotions or I don't have them, but

635
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: if something is not bringing me joy or something feels

636
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: like it's too much work, then I'm not doing that.

637
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: And I feel like Amina is team this, but like

638
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: it's team if let that friend go. Sometimes you gotta

639
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: let if somebody don't want to be there, you have

640
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: to let them go, and maybe after you get some

641
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: time to think about it, you'll be like, ah, maybe

642
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: I'll reach out, Or after they get a chance to

643
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: talk to all their people, their people will be like, well,

644
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: you messed up, and they'll come back. But I'm not.

645
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: I'm too old to care, and I'm over it. I

646
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: don't I'm not asking. I'm not begging anybody to stay

647
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: in my life. Not a man, not a friend, not

648
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: a doctor, not not an insurance provider. If you don't

649
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: want to be here, you can go. If you don't

650
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: want to be here, I mean, the insurance provider can stay, butts.

651
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 1: And so you're gonna take everybody up, everybody up. If

652
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,439
Speaker 1: it's not bringing me joy, it's not making me come,

653
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: it's not making me money, it can go. That's I've

654
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: said that, and I will continue to say that. That's it.

655
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: And but and but also what I was telling missing

656
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: money over here. You have standards for yourself, but you

657
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,879
Speaker 1: cannot place your standards on your friends and say those

658
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: are the end all, be all standards for their life

659
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: as well. So you have sometimes you have to just

660
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: accept people for who they are and you have to understand, like, well,

661
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: they do have a place in my life. They don't

662
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: do everything that I wouldn't necessarily do, but they're still

663
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: special and they do they still deserve friendship. Now, if

664
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: you're in a bad place, if you you were in

665
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: a bad place and you're like, I can't have this

666
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 1: in my life right now, it's okay to take breaks too.

667
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 1: Oh I love a break. I love a break. Let

668
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: them go. If they come back, then they're yours. Yeah.

669
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: If they don't come back, then that was never really

670
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: your friend, or it was, and that was not like

671
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: that's it. You know, if somebody wants to be there,

672
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: they'll be there. If they don't want to be there,

673
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: they're gonna leave. Yeah. I love that, not begging somebody

674
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: to be in your life. But you know, it's it's

675
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: it's tough. I think, Wait, Marie, you've never had anybody

676
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: that left that you're like sad or disappointed, like you

677
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: just like go to the loup. I mean, sitting here

678
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: talking to you right now, I can't even think of

679
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: a single person that I don't talk to you anymore.

680
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: But also my memory is trash. But maybe you know,

681
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: I'll think about it and get back to you. But

682
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: for the most part, the people that are here are

683
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: the people that I but you know what it is,

684
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: it's in my blood. My mom is like this. My

685
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: mom is one of these people that like, if you

686
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: if you disrespect her in any way, she's like, you're

687
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: dead to me, you're dead to my family. Don't talk

688
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: to me. And my homegirls don't look at like. That's

689
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: how my mom is. And my mother is one of

690
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: these people that like, she's not sticking her head out

691
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: to like to make anybody like her more than she

692
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: is already liked. And that's my mother too. My mother

693
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: is also tours and so she has cut she has

694
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 1: cut people off and you ask her why and she

695
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 1: really can't find the reason. She'll just cut, like on

696
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 1: on God, she's done. Oh did she had She's had

697
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: like friends that she's had for twenty years, Like, oh yeah,

698
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: I don't speak to Alice no more? What happened? Why

699
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: is this? Alice? Alice is gone? But isn't Alice my godmother? Yeah,

700
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: she's she's out. So for that reason, she's out, And

701
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: it's just like wait, hold on. And so I am

702
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: the opposite of my mother. I'm always trying a salvage thing.

703
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: I'm always trying to be like, well I want this

704
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: person in my life, or what can I do to

705
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: fix things? I want to fix this. I want to

706
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,479
Speaker 1: make sure that like we're still in a good place.

707
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 1: And it's like, bitch, get some self respect. It's some work.

708
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: Like you are fucking dope. You're amazing, like you are

709
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: there for your friends and you are shining beacon of

710
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: light for most of the people. If somebody is like

711
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: I gotta go, then it's like, okay, bye. Sometimes what

712
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: you can say is bye. I mean, for us on

713
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: the outside looking in, We're watching this episode play out

714
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: and Lisa's like, Okay, well I guess I'm gonna go,

715
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: and Molly was like okay, and we're like you're not

716
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 1: gonna fight for your friend? And then it was like, eh, yeah,

717
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 1: sometimes you just it's not Sometimes you're just not gonna fight.

718
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: So I don't feel like fighting anymore. I'm tired. Uh.

719
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: And you know you don't owe me no money no more,

720
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: so you could leave. What am I going to say?

721
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: You don't own need no money no more? So, by right,

722
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: if you still owe me money, I guess we're still friends.

723
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: If somebody owes you money and then you stop being

724
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: their friend. The debt is done. Do you hear me?

725
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: The debt is clear, That debt is immediately. The debt

726
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: is double. No, I double owes your money and we're

727
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: not friends. You better bet is past due. No, you

728
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: better try and get that money the best way you can, babe.

729
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: Because if I'm blocked on all like social media platforms, babe,

730
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: then that's it. We'll see. That's something. You're gonna have

731
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: to pull up to my job, friend. But I'm not

732
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: coming out of my way. I'm not coming out of

733
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: my way to Venmo. You anything, you can send me

734
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: all this you want? Decline, decline, decline. I don't have

735
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 1: to go to your job. This is what what words

736
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: are you saying? Friends? I know where you work, I

737
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: know where you live. I'm sending the Venmo request request

738
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: or I'm showing up. I need my money now want. No,

739
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: it's over this much money. It's a it's a misdemeanor.

740
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I felony. I'm like from my mother's standpoint,

741
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: you know, don't give out any money that you can't

742
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: afford to give. So, sorry, boo, I would punch you

743
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: in the face. Well, I can't. I can't afford to

744
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: give you this money back so I can. Yeah, that's

745
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: you got a lot of it. We're just gonna pretend

746
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: to I'm gonna pretend to be your friend until I

747
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: get my money back and then it do. That's I

748
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: think that's the smartest thing you doing. I mean, I

749
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: guess it depends on how much money we're talking about here,

750
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 1: is fifty dollars, because that's different than you know, a

751
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: thousand dollars, a couple of thousands. That's different than seven

752
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks. But fifty bucks, I still want it.

753
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: I still want my fifty dollars. Yeah. I don't believe

754
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: in letting people borrow money anymore. I don't believe in

755
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: letting people borrow money on more? Do y'all? Would y'all

756
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: have somebody borrow well? Fruit obviously see me obviously would,

757
00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: but Marie would. The only person that I would lend

758
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: money to is people related to me. Like if my

759
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: sister needed to borrow money, I would, without hesitation let

760
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: her borrow it. And I don't know if you hear

761
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: that move, well she already knows. I mean, we does

762
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: this friend, this is what we do, baby. But I'm

763
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 1: also not let me borrow any money. Sidney. I've seen

764
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: how you spend money, and I don't know if I'm

765
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: gonna get it back, So that's a no for me. Dog,

766
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: that's crazy. We're partners, you, we we're not friends. No more.

767
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: Deb's done. Okay, But Marie, the Patreon is in your name,

768
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: it's in your account, so you have to send me money.

769
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 1: So anytime I owe you money, you'd be like, I'm

770
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: taking it out of your Patreon. Yeah, but I don't

771
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: want to do that, Sidney. I can just send you

772
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: your money and you can send me money. That's it, right, Yeah,

773
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send you the Patreon and then you're gonna

774
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: send me money money. That's it. Well, luckily, I don't,

775
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: you know, owe you any money. So we good in

776
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: a good place. We're in a good place. Okay, So

777
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 1: speaking of good places, then, did the country is starting

778
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: to open back up? Phase one is here? Yeah? Y'all

779
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: excited to be back outside? Nobody nobody's excited. Okay, all right,

780
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: don't care. You're scared and like, what does this really mean?

781
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: What are the repercussions of us really going back out

782
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: into some type of normalcy. It's just you. It's trepidaciousness.

783
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: I think O treppardacious word of the way, trepidaciously if

784
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: you want to describe how you doing it? Okay, trepardentiously

785
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: Is that the title of the because people a gonna

786
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: read it and be like, do hook is this? Yeah? No,

787
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: but they'll probably they'll tune in to be like, what

788
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: does that mean? Nah? That's the people they like eprey hoe.

789
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: They don't like trepidaciously sis uh, trepidatiously something else? Well,

790
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. Andrew write that word down. Yeah,

791
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: Andrew said he's excited about going back outside. I think

792
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,439
Speaker 1: people just want to get their social lives back, that's all. Yeah,

793
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: that's that's all that we want. We're tired of being

794
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: in the house and we want to go transparency. If

795
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: the title of the episodes, and he said that earlier, No, yeah, transparency,

796
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: who might we might have to think of something else.

797
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I think your natural deorderant is season up.

798
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: I oh, well, I can tell, but I'm sweating. He

799
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 1: was trying to turn an a c off. Yeah, oh

800
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: my god, she's she's doing your hair right now. You

801
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: better step trepidaciously since under arms on her hair. No,

802
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: it's I think the biggest things that I'm hearing that

803
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 1: people are excited about is getting their social life back

804
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 1: or rolling out and having sex, because a lot of

805
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: people have not been doing that. So you know, you

806
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: can wait a little bit. But yeah, we're gonna be outside. Friend,

807
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: I gotta get back out there or something. I don't know.

808
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: I don't know. I uh, yeah, this is a Oh

809
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: you want some tips? What do you want some tips

810
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: on how to get back out there? Sure, Amina and

811
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: I will will give you. And Andrew because he's sending

812
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: messages in the messenger, well, the three of us will

813
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: give you five tips on how to successfully get back

814
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: out there and not get kidnapped. Actually, maybe when you

815
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 1: said it's slow, take it slow. Okay, So when you

816
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,280
Speaker 1: say go back out there, you mean like date casually

817
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: or date seriously. No, I need to I need to

818
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: be casual. Mm hmm. For that, you could be as

819
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,320
Speaker 1: fast as you want, friend, I mean, you don't have

820
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: to be slow to be casual. No, you don't. But

821
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: I think I think that really what City needs to

822
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:59,280
Speaker 1: do is date herself. Oh a word, oh oh, Dame Muslim. Okay,

823
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: that's the title of the episode. Sidney needs to date herself.

824
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: So what does that mean? I mean, what does it

825
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: look like to date yourself? You're taking yourself on walks,

826
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: you taking yourself on dates? Yep, Start giving yourself things

827
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,359
Speaker 1: that you deserve. I think Sidney has spent enough time.

828
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: I think I'm doing. I'm everything I can possibly do

829
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: for my motherfucking self during these three goddamn months. Write

830
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: that from the record. We not she's not dating herself.

831
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: We need to date everybody were everybody who is not her,

832
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: people who this is what I want. I want you

833
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 1: to date people who are nothing like you, like I

834
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: want you to be like Well, you know she she

835
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: missing an arm, but her energy was cool at the date,

836
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: So okay, you know she paid listening to it. Somebody

837
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: with one arm? Yeah, okay, cute. Yeah, I'm gonna look

838
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: look for that. Look for that. Get on a date

839
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 1: and apps, get on all level all the dating apps

840
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: we we Bumble, Tender Hinge, lesbian Mingle dot com, all that,

841
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: plenty of gay as fish whatever wherever they are is

842
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: where you need be. Face time before you go out.

843
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: I mean, as the queen of face timing before she

844
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: goes and before she meets anybody. Well, I mean I

845
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: guess there's something to it to like FaceTime the person,

846
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 1: because sometimes people instilled photos look better than they do

847
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: in motion. And then you have to hear how they talk,

848
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: and sometimes most importantly, you need to see what the

849
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: teeth are doing in their mouths. Say, day, I went

850
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: on and the teeth, what did the teeth look like?

851
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: This one was black, black teeth. Black teeth matter. Okay,

852
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: black tooth matters, black tooth matters. Damn Yeah, I think

853
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be chilling, you know. I just I do

854
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: want to focus on myself. I want to get some

855
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: career stuff in order so that I can. I need

856
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: to be on a fucking billboard or something, you know,

857
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: I just need Andrew, I said, Sydney needs to get

858
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: referred to dates from someone she really trusts their judgment,

859
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 1: none of these randoms. Like, but the thing about Sydney

860
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: Andrew is Sydney be you know, Sidney's verified, and she's

861
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: out there. She wants to be on billboards and stuff.

862
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: So she's like, you know, they know me in these streets,

863
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want to be with nobody that she

864
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: necessarily no factual, But sometimes Sydney does. That's what you need. Yeah,

865
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,760
Speaker 1: it's a little familiarity. All right, Well I'll start with you, Marie.

866
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: Let's let's go. Baby. You are not my time. You

867
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: don't have an air conditioner at your house. I'm only

868
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: dating people with the central air. This she hurt me

869
00:49:56,239 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: so bad? Who you cut me deep? We have lesbian

870
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: friends the hook you up with? Should we have? You bitches?

871
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 1: Don't do ship for me but be straight and tell lines.

872
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: That's all you fucking hoes do. That. That was real

873
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: quick the way Sydney just sounds like she's been pinning

874
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 1: up some energy her mind. Sidney, you speak to us

875
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: every day and you've never said this. She said, you

876
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: bitches don't do nothing for me except be straight and tailless.

877
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: That's a t shirt, be straight and taill lies. That's

878
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: that's a shirt that Black China's mom would wear. That's

879
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: a Tokyo Tony outfit of the day. Oh my god,

880
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: that is beautiful. That's a beautiful clip. Marie. We got

881
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: to cut this up and we gotta put that in

882
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: the story because that's good. That was fun. It's really funny,

883
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: but it's totally the truth. It's literally what you girls do.

884
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,479
Speaker 1: So what would you how can we be your straight allies? Sis?

885
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: What do you need from us? Because I feel like,

886
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: you know, we encourage you to send well, I mean,

887
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like we encourage you positively,

888
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: so I'm not really sure what yet. We would do

889
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: stuff that works on niggas. I need stuff that works

890
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: on women, ladies, like give me. You're a female and

891
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: a woman. You're a woman and one that likes women

892
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 1: as well. So if anybody should be queen of the coach,

893
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: it's you. Friend. How are you asking me and a

894
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: mina to help you get women? You know? All we

895
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: know is this so really you messed up? But I

896
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: think you guys need to work better and go out

897
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: there and meet other people around. Stop stop having all

898
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 1: these heteros around. They don't do nothing for you anyway. Sis.

899
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: Soon as a Phase three starts in New York City,

900
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm out there, I'm hitting the ground, I'm knocking on doors,

901
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 1: I'm handing out sitting bums on jackets. Everything that you need,

902
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: like black girls with nice bodies that don't want couch. Yes,

903
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: my colleagues, flyer, Yeah, Oh my god, I don't even

904
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: want to tell Wait, no, I did tell you. I

905
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: just I should save this for the Patreon. I actually

906
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:32,240
Speaker 1: have something. No, no, no, I have something very juicy, juicy,

907
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 1: something cute that I'll say it on the Patreon, but like,

908
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: you know whatever. Also shout out to everybody who's like

909
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: the brand new Patreon members. Good gosh, all that white

910
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: guilt huh, y'all were like, we do have to. We

911
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 1: need to give something. We don't want to, we don't

912
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: want to Venmo, but we want to, like give money.

913
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: Even even bigger shout out to the people who have

914
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: like posted us in their stories and yes, be like

915
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: follow the these black queens. There's they they matter, and

916
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: they're funny and even when they're not being funny, they

917
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: make you laugh. So bigger shout out to them than

918
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 1: the new patrons. But we see y'all. We'll see you

919
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: in a couple of days. Yeah, I had to, you know,

920
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: I got off on Instagram for a little bit, but

921
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: I might come back, might be a little you know,

922
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta wean myself into it. But yeah,

923
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: social media is fucking drag sometimes, so it's okay to

924
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: step away, and you know, sometimes you gotta step back

925
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: in because they need you to do an ad for something,

926
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: but whatever, you know, it's it's true. You know you

927
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: gotta step back in because they need you to do

928
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:44,720
Speaker 1: an ad, not a goal hashtag Macy's or Jay Cruise.

929
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no hashtag sponsored. I know we need

930
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 1: to hit Macy's up and be like, Yo, you can't, Sydney.

931
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 1: You can't for three weeks and then come back with

932
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: a branded post. You gotta hit us with a black

933
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 1: square or a Black Lives Matter, So you can't. So

934
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:09,879
Speaker 1: sometimes she just dropped a video all to day, frien,

935
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: where you been? Oh, I haven't. I've been at the

936
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: house since. I haven't even been on Instagram. You posted

937
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 1: on the ground that many videos make mine away. Yeah,

938
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:30,320
Speaker 1: what were you talking about, friend? You know a word transparency,

939
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: I mean before treppredaciously what was tdatiously? Yeah. So if

940
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: you guys go on my Instagram, you know, check it out,

941
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,320
Speaker 1: like it, leave a comment. I would. I would truly

942
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: love the engagement, considering you know, I've been I've been out,

943
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: been gone for a minute. Now I'm back with a

944
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: jump off wounds in the club something jump off? Yes,

945
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 1: love it, listen it, need it, want it? Okay?

946
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 2: So I went on Instagram and immediately ended up somewhere

947
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 2: else search something, and then they got that little explore

948
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 2: page and you're like, oh, holy Hallie and Chloe look

949
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 2: good here, you know what I mean, like, oh, we

950
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 2: need to.

951
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: Do that dance, remember, well, just do it for ourselves.

952
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 2: Well people doing for ourselves, and I'm gonna go ahead

953
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 2: and opt after that. Okay, listening, you did it while

954
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 2: you were prepping to go to Amena's house.

955
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: Is that why you were late? To your hair? Important

956
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: to right? Probably? Yeah? Yeah, no, actually no I did

957
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 1: it before, like I was on time. I just was late.

958
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: That's you sound like Marie Foster right now. Well, I

959
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 1: learned from the best. I was on time.

960
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 3: I was just late.

961
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: White people in the Kent Kent Claw. My eyes are bleeding.

962
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:55,720
Speaker 1: I don't I can't see no more of this fully

963
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: ranged situation. It's just too much. We've had it now,

964
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: we've had enough, and you know, I'm excited that, you know,

965
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: hopefully we'll be able to be back out there. But

966
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: I believe that twenty twenty has more bullshit up his

967
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: sleeves and or their sleeve, their non binary, this twenty

968
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 1: twenty situation, and so I just got to be prepared

969
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: for the worst. That's it, you know.

970
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 2: Uh, the alien invasion is scheduled for the third Friday

971
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 2: of July.

972
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and.

973
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 2: The pandemic second wave we have penciled in tentatively for October.

974
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: Right. Oh, I'm gonna say Labor Day weekend. But oh, Halloween.

975
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:47,240
Speaker 1: I think I think October is come back fow pandemic

976
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: part two.

977
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then for Christmas it's gonna be earthquakes and

978
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 2: whatever happened in the day after tomorrow.

979
00:56:56,239 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 1: But that's what Christmas is. Literally every natural disaster that

980
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: you can think of, plus an asteroid. It's armageddon. So,

981
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: you know, get your affairs in older friend. I just

982
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 1: want to shout out Amana for letting me be in

983
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: her place. Thank you for you know, not social distancing

984
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: anymore and doing my hair once again. You know, no problem, friend,

985
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: Just you know, don't call me out for being musty

986
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: on your podcast. Okay, So you sound you smell natural

987
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 1: like curry chickpeas. Sydney said the vegan meal was struggly.

988
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: She said, natural deodorant is struggly. I mean, and did

989
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: you not have fun on this? She'll figure it out

990
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: next time, she'll figure it out, she said, you. Who's next?

991
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: You look like Alan. That's okay, I'm here, Okay, any

992
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: final words before we get out of here. I actually

993
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,959
Speaker 1: don't even know how long we've been talking. An hour again,

994
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: and I think, man, a difference a week has made.

995
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: Even though there's still things going, people are still protesting,

996
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: we're still seeing negative images all over social media. I

997
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: I just have to stress that it's so beautiful to

998
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: have you gals in my life and really, really, you know,

999
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: ending a high note, mhm, yes, Oh, I didn't know

1000
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 1: that was the end of the sentence. And it felt

1001
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: like there was. It felt like it was a common

1002
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: right now. No, no, I said, I think I think

1003
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: that's it. I think that's all I have. I mean,

1004
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: love you boo. I mean it's done. She's ready for

1005
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: you to get out of her house. How much longer

1006
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: do you think you need for these breeds to be finished? Well,

1007
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: Sydney keeps stressing me about them being full and small,

1008
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: and so we're going to be here for a few

1009
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: more hours because I have to take my time so

1010
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: I can make sure I won't hear her mouth for

1011
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:59,479
Speaker 1: a while. You still gonna hear it. She's still gonna

1012
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: be like this, She's still gonna be touching her hand.

1013
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, still gonna be rubbing her head to

1014
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 1: be like, is that a bond spot? I mean three

1015
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: hour year, probably three more hours, three hours. But we

1016
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: gotta stop because I got a podcast a mina. You

1017
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: got to do a podcast. Podcast you have Who's Next?

1018
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 1: It's an il G live podcast or whatever? The hold? No, no, no,

1019
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: they just do interviews. So you're gonna be in there

1020
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: for like five minutes. Girl. We just sat on this

1021
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: call for an hour too much, So don't go with

1022
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: my stuff. Okay. On that note time, I'm go ahead

1023
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: and the head out. You don't have a final words, Marie,

1024
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shut my laptop. Final words for me? Uh

1025
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: we'll say, oh yeah, you know we're about to No,

1026
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 1: that's not what I'm gonna say. If if you're a

1027
00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: friends with somebody and they don't and they're not considerate

1028
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,959
Speaker 1: or they don't want to listen to you, then maybe

1029
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: that person is actually not friends with you, because you

1030
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: could be friends with somebody who's not actually your friend,

1031
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 1: right yeah, okay, And that is where I'm gonna leave it.

1032
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: Right there. I want to say, leave space, though, leave

1033
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: space the human error in your friendships. Nope, X yes,

1034
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: I mean a short I heard what you're saying. Can't

1035
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 1: wait to see you guys and not social distance again.

1036
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: And oh, yeah, we're gonna hike. We're gonna hike. We're

1037
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 1: gonna hike on Monday. Monday, We're going Monday. Anything else? Yeah, yeah,

1038
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: we're hiking on Monday. Monday's the fifteenth already. Yeah, Monday

1039
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: is going to be the fifteenth. Wow, time's flying. Yeah, no,

1040
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: I have anything to do on Monday. I'm there for you. Friend.

1041
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: We're going hiking, and we're gonna have uncomfortable shoes, yes,

1042
01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: and packs. Pack snacks before you leave. We're gonna stretch.

1043
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna pee before we leave as well. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: snacks we're doing like trail mix. I feel like that's yeah, yeah,

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01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: cah sun flatter seeds that we can spit off. This

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01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: sounds awful. I think I'm gonna be at the end

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Speaker 1: of the hike and wait for y'all there. That sounds

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01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: like the beginning. I'm gonna be in the car. I mean,

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01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: it's the starting point the same as the ending point. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have to get back to the car frame but no, yeah,

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01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: but essentially yes, okay, I urge you to the car

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01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: so I'm Sydney. Great. Make sure you charge your phone

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01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: and uh you bring a bottom of waterfront okay, And

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01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: we're layers. Why wi layers? Because sometimes it's breezy, sometimes

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01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 1: it's hot. You know what one temperature. Let me see

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01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: what the weather app is saying for the weather on well,

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01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: the day that I went, it was hot. It was

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01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 1: like seventy five degrees, but I still needed a jacket

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01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: because it was in some areas. I'm seeing Monday seventy

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01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: six and showers. Oh schedule. We might have to be

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01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: like a strong no to that song. It seems like

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01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: the yeah, I mean, we're not really married to the plans.

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01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 1: We could do another day. I see Fridays is eighty

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01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: eight or Tuesday seventy five and cloudy, So go to

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01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 1: the beach. No, I'm not waiting for that. No, you

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01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: gotta take baby beach? Which is wrong with you? Rockaway? No, girl, No,

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01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: we will not thank you. It's gon't be too many

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01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: people at the beach, and half of them are gonna

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01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: have corona and the other hats don't have dead bods.

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01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, actually, you know, nobody worked out, and the

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01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: people who did work out, they're still staying in the

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Speaker 1: house because they want to protect their bodies. So now

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Speaker 1: the people who worked out, what people to see their bodies?

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01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: They they might and that's what Instagram Live is for.

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Speaker 1: Oh and that is the ind of the episode. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Yes see you Bye Forever.

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