1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: What's up its way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee, 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: and Jasmine from the Jasmine Brand is here. 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 2: Yes, and our. 4 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: Little friend, a sure friend, Dwight Howard is here with us. 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: So thank you so much for coming. I know you 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: have a lot going on and we're going to get 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: into all of it. 8 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 3: Let's do it. 9 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: But first, let's start with the fact that you are 10 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: actually starting your own podcast. 11 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 4: Yes, I am. I started my own podcast. It's been 12 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 4: in the works for about three four years noweesh. So 13 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 4: I just wanted to make sure before I even put 14 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 4: it out there, and I had everything lined up so 15 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 4: I could give everyone that watches and here's my show. 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: I feel like you need to do this because there's 17 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 1: a lot of things I could tell that you want 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: to talk about. I saw you on All the Smoke, 19 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: we saw you on Club Shay Shay, and I can 20 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: and those are long conversations because you can. 21 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: Tell yeah, oh. 22 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: Yes, when the eneviews are good, they go like that 23 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: and it flies by. 24 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 4: I love having, you know, deep conversations, and I love 25 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 4: talking about you know, so many different topics. 26 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: You know. 27 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people when they meet me, 28 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 4: they want to talk about basketball and what happens with sports, 29 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 4: and that's one topic that I really just hate talking about. 30 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 4: I've been playing basketball since I was three. I done 31 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 4: talked about it. I have lived it and did everything 32 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 4: with basketball, So it's like it's much more to me 33 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 4: and in life in basketball. So I like to spend 34 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 4: a lot of time divulging in conversations like that. 35 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: So that's what this podcast is based off of things 36 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: other than it's hard because everything. 37 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 2: Does come back to basketball for you. 38 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 4: Because but that's why we're going to use that because 39 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 4: we know that you know, a lot of people say 40 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 4: basketball is life, and through my life in basketball, I've 41 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 4: experienced so much. So by using basketball, it's opened up 42 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 4: so many doors and avenues that when I do the 43 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 4: podcast and when I start talking about basketball, will be 44 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 4: able to talk about all these other avenues. Is because 45 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 4: of basketball. So it's not like basketball is out the way, it's. 46 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 2: Just right, you want to do more. 47 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 3: I want to do. 48 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: More because you know, we always get put in the 49 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 4: category of oh, he's just a basketball player, he's just 50 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 4: a rapper or entertainer. 51 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 3: It's like we can't be more. 52 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 4: So it's like this is a way to show and 53 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 4: inspire kids and adults. It's never too late. But also 54 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 4: you can be whatever. 55 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: You want to be, and I think it's important. 56 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 1: Sometimes people look at athletes and entertainers not as human. 57 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: They'll judge you based off if you have a great game, 58 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: if you have a bad game, they'll go in on you. 59 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: People who can't do what you do have a lot 60 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: more to say. Now you can respond not you want to, 61 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 2: but not even just that. 62 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: It also can show people that I'm a human being, 63 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: and so yes, I'm gonna have Sometimes things don't work 64 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: out the way that I wanted it to. Because you've 65 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: been through a lot, clearly throughout your career to even 66 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: to get to where you are, and you've had, you know, 67 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: great things happen, You've had disappointments, You've made a lot 68 00:02:58,280 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: of money. 69 00:02:58,560 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure you've made some bad investment. 70 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 4: It's too a lot a lot of bad investments. But 71 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 4: that's the experience of life, you know. So I don't 72 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 4: take anything that has happened to me as something bad. 73 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 4: But I just understand that it's balancement. And you know, 74 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: every level that you want to go up in life, 75 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 4: you're going to get tested and tried in all areas 76 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 4: of your life financially, spiritually, physically, emotionally to see where 77 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 4: you're at so you know you can grow, and so 78 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 4: I take on those challenges. The good times are bad times, 79 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 4: and I understand that they don't last forever. 80 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 3: Right the roll with the punches. 81 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: I saw a lot of people commenting about parenting right, 82 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: and I know that's one thing that you definitely can discuss. 83 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: They were it felt like you were being too hard 84 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: on your kids, like having them work out in the gym. 85 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: And it's interesting because you'll hear that conversation about like 86 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, Joe Jackson. You'll hear that about say Serena 87 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: Williams and Venus Williams. But then you see the superstars 88 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: that they became. 89 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: But it's the only one's fathers. Y'all notice that. 90 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't we don't really see moms. 91 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. The fathers are the ones that. 92 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: Get bashed getting bashed for we don't really I don't 93 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: know if we really don't. I feel like we don't 94 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: really see the moms pushing their kids. 95 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 4: I'm sure they do, seld Look what you just said. 96 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 4: The fathers are the male is pushing them too hard. 97 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 4: And in every case that you know you just mentioned 98 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 4: the Serena William's sister Venus and Serena Michael. Their father 99 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 4: had a vision for his kids. Nobody else but he 100 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 4: had a vision, and they his kids show everybody else 101 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 4: that got something to say, they don't see what he see. 102 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: And if he didn't push his kids and tell them, hey, 103 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 4: I'm gonna guide you in this area and I need 104 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 4: you to do this, they wouldn't have been Michael Jackson, 105 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 4: Janet Jackson, Tito, they wouldn't have been the Jackson five. 106 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 4: They would have been something else. So for me, I'm like, listen, 107 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 4: I know what it takes to get to the I 108 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 4: haven't been to the top of the mountain. I done 109 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 4: seen all the pit pitfalls. I done seen the good things, 110 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 4: the bad things, anything that can happen. If in life 111 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 4: has been as successful man, I have experienced it even 112 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 4: at a young age, because I came in at eighteen. 113 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 4: So why wouldn't I give my kids the game from 114 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 4: a young age. Why wouldn't I trained up my kids 115 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: in a way that they should go so when they 116 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 4: get older they won't fall from it? Who else supposed 117 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: to teach they kids to be great somebody else, No, 118 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 4: the father. 119 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 3: No. 120 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: We saw Steph Curry's documentary and his dad had him 121 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: out there patching his shot for you know, and that's 122 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: why Steph Curry is. But they also asked him, is 123 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: this really what you want to do? His mom said, 124 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: if that's what you really want to do? Because I 125 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: think there's a lot of things as a kid that 126 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: I didn't want to do, and I also regret the 127 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: fact that my parents didn't push me harder on certain 128 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: things too. 129 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 2: Do you what your parents pushed you harder or you 130 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: had just enough? 131 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: I was. I pushed myself. Okay. 132 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 4: I was one of those kids that I told my 133 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 4: dad at ten, I was going to the NBA and 134 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 4: I was going to be the first pick in the draft. 135 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 4: So I wrote down my goals. I put him on 136 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 4: top of my bed, and every day I looked at it, 137 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 4: you know. So I was a little bit different at ten, 138 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 4: I was thinking about going to the NBA and being 139 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 4: the first pick, and from then at ten when I 140 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 4: told my dad that every step that I wanted to 141 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 4: take was basically ordered, So it was a plan. I said, 142 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 4: I wanted to be the number one pick. I wanted 143 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 4: to be the number one player. I wanted to be 144 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 4: this everything I wanted to do, I manifested it in 145 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 4: my life by actually planning it out. So it's the 146 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 4: same thing with my kids. I see who my son 147 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 4: is going to be in the future, So why would 148 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 4: I allow him to quit or say he can't when 149 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 4: he's only nine. How a man do one thing is 150 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 4: how we do all things. So if he quits now, 151 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 4: he'll quit later. He'll always quit. And the thing I'm 152 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 4: teaching them all my kids is the world don't care about. 153 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 3: You, right, they'll eat you up. They don't care. 154 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 4: So you have to learn all this stuff at a 155 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 4: young age, and you have to be mentally and physically strong. 156 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: And I'm going to be here to love you in 157 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: the whole process. 158 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: How did your father as a father influence you as 159 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: far as how you are with your kids, Because a 160 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: lot of things we learned. 161 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 4: He was always working. That's what I learned from him. 162 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 4: He never stopped working. No matter what. 163 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: He made sure we was, he provided for us. I'm 164 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 3: sorry to cut you. 165 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: No, No, that's what I was asking you. So in 166 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: your relation to your kids, because I will say, right 167 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: for you as a dad, we've seen a lot of 168 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: things on social media and stories, and you know, obviously 169 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: you have some children's mothers that people will see commenting 170 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: on things. 171 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 2: How does that make you feel? 172 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, well, he's only a part time dad, 173 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: or he's not doing what he's supposed to do well. 174 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: I mean, again, it's just an opinion. 175 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 4: I don't too much divulge and go back and forth 176 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 4: with you know, accusations or anything that I may see 177 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 4: off the internet, even if it's something that my child's 178 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 4: mom has said. You know, none of my other children 179 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 4: have said anything, you know, about any situation. So I 180 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 4: know a lot of times when we see stuff on 181 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 4: the internet, even I see it, you know, I get 182 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 4: a little hurt that my son will see the stuff 183 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 4: that's going to be on the internet, and I'm like, 184 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 4: this is not something that he needs to see. But again, 185 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 4: it would never anything negative would never come out of 186 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 4: my mouth now any of my kids' moms any situation 187 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 4: now since I've been in the league, and not never 188 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 4: will I say something negative about my kids' moms no 189 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 4: matter how I feel, I will keep that off the 190 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 4: air because I don't think that's something that nobody should know. 191 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 4: And that's my burden to deal with because at the 192 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 4: end of the day, I chose these women to have 193 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: kids with. So I can't be mad at nobody but 194 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 4: myself for that if I was to be mad, but 195 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 4: you know. 196 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 3: I don't, I don't. 197 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: You's got to handle your business. 198 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 3: Yeah's just when I see it, I just keep going. 199 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 4: I know I'm not a one today, dad or whatever 200 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 4: you want to call it, our internet dad. My kids 201 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 4: love me. We spent every day that we can together. 202 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 4: And what a lot of people may not understand is 203 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 4: when you have a job like the NBA, you're gone 204 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: most of the time. And so also this is for 205 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 4: you know, those people out there looking to have children, 206 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 4: you got to watch it you have kids with and 207 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 4: you got to really study them first and know that, hey, 208 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 4: you can't just be looking for come up or trying 209 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 4: to be with the finest girl, because that could get 210 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 4: you in a lot of trouble. 211 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't know though, what somebody's like. Because a 212 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: lot of people tell me relationships chains once you do 213 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: have a kid, they can really do because relationships have 214 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: to change now there's a child involved, another person involved. 215 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: That's true. 216 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 4: That's why before you really get into it, you have 217 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 4: to sit down and know your partner. Everything else is 218 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 4: a distraction. You gotta know your partner. You'll know of 219 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 4: this the person that you really and truly want to 220 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 4: have kids with, if just the person that you really 221 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 4: and truly want to be with for the rest of 222 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 4: your life. All that stuff takes time. But we want 223 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 4: everything to happen right away, and it never worked like that. 224 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 4: And when we try that, you know, it always end 225 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,719 Speaker 4: up in you know, mess, because it's our flesh. Our 226 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 4: flesh is thinking instead of thinking with our. 227 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: You know, our head. 228 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 2: Do you believe in love at first sight? 229 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 230 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 4: I think you can fall in love with someone's appearance 231 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 4: and the energy at first sight. But I don't think 232 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 4: you will know that person at first site. It will 233 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 4: take some time, and you could be in love with 234 00:10:58,920 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 4: how somebody looked. 235 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 2: But have you experienced that before you know he has? 236 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely have that believe in it. 237 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,719 Speaker 4: I have seen, you know, women like man, this this 238 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 4: girl is amazing. But what I've experienced over time is 239 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 4: that you can't have that mindset because at some point 240 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 4: that honeymoon phase is going to end. 241 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 3: That googly eyes and this is what a real relationship. 242 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: That's more like lust. 243 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that happened to a lot of us. 244 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, So have you ever at 245 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: a point so let's talk about like you went to 246 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: Taiwan and played ball there. What's the difference between women 247 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: in Taiwan and then the United States? 248 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 4: Uh? 249 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: Or what's the biggest difference on that? Hit it out? 250 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 2: He wants to say, come on, spit it out for 251 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 2: your podcast. 252 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 3: I don't. 253 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 4: I think all women are different, and it's just depend 254 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 4: on the culture and how you were rais yah culturally. 255 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 3: It has to be culturally. 256 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 4: The women from Taiwan are raised a lot different than 257 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 4: the women here. And the one thing I noticed over 258 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 4: there is they are willing to to do what is 259 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 4: needed for you, cook, clean, whatever, that stuff is, no complaints. 260 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 4: And sometimes, you know, as a male dealing with so 261 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 4: much stress, you might not want to talk to someone, 262 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 4: You might not want to have to deal with all 263 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 4: the extra stuff. But just having someone that that is 264 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 4: there for you, who can just do for you, make 265 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 4: sure all your stuff straighten out so you can just 266 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 4: lay your head. I feel like being over there and 267 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 4: witnessing that, not saying that women over here don't do that. 268 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 4: I just feel like, you know, it's a little difference, 269 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 4: but I don't want to. 270 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 2: Works for you. Is that what attracted. 271 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 3: To what kind of women? Women? Uh uh? 272 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 4: My my style has changed over the years with understanding. 273 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 4: When I was super young, I wanted the finest, the 274 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 4: best looking, the girl with the biggest but all that stuff, 275 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 4: but at the end of the day, it. 276 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 3: Just cost me. 277 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 2: That was pre BBL, Right, pre BBL. 278 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 3: I don't know if I. 279 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 2: Had no women because back in the day that wasn't 280 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 2: a thing. 281 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 3: When I wasn't so, yeah, there. 282 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 2: Was a life before else. 283 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 4: He wasn't Like, I've never been a person that they 284 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 4: cared about the bbls and somebody got their body did 285 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 4: is your body. 286 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 2: Can do what you can do what you want. 287 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 4: But I'm more so interested in who you are, you 288 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 4: know now as a as a person, your intellect, what 289 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 4: kind of value you could bring to me and my life, 290 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 4: especially at this point outside of set right, So that 291 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 4: takes it takes time to get to that stage because 292 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 4: you come in at eighteen you get everything. 293 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: That's tough. 294 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you also don't know if people really 295 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: want to be with you. Yeah, and that's a really 296 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: hard thing to be because you look at somebody like 297 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: Lebron's been with Savannah since before he had everything he has. 298 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: Steph Curry ayshould Curry was super early on. It's not 299 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: easy to find somebody after you've already achieved the success 300 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: and made the hundreds of millions of dollars that you 301 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: made that you could feel like take out your back. 302 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 3: Yeah you really, Yeah that is hard. 303 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 4: But again, I think it's easy to shut down and say, 304 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 4: you know what, I can't trust nobody and I can't 305 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 4: do this and do that because I've had so many 306 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 4: bad experiences. But then that would be bad to the 307 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 4: next person that I would date. I wouldn't want that 308 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 4: woman to feel like, man, he ain't gonna get me 309 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 4: one hundred percent to him because he afraid that. 310 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 3: So it's like a thin line. It's like a thin line, 311 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 3: and it takes time. 312 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: And I'm sure, like you said, you've had some negative experience. 313 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure some women would say he dogged me out too. 314 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure they would. But I've never in my 315 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 4: life mistreated a woman. 316 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 2: Okay, have you ever cheated? 317 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: Have ever cheated on a woman? I have? 318 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that might fall under the category of mistreating. 319 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 5: Cheaters when I say mistreat Like I, if we're in 320 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 5: a relationship, then we have understanding of what will happen 321 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 5: in the relationship. 322 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 4: Personally. Well, I don't even want to get into too 323 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 4: much about the relationship. 324 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 2: Is it an open relationships that is that where you're going, 325 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 2: where you can have you can be inmate with other people. Yeah, okay, gotcha. 326 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 2: So there's no cheating really as long as they know. 327 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I have been in situations, you know, at 328 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 4: a young age where I didn't clarify or wasn't as 329 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 4: honest as I should have been. But looking back on it, 330 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 4: a lot of times when you are honest with people, 331 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 4: it mess you up. 332 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 3: So it's kind of hard. 333 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I want you to be honest, but then 334 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be upset if you tell me anything. 335 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: But see for what I witness, a woman might say, 336 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 4: why don't you be honest with me? 337 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 3: Tell me the truth? 338 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 4: And you're tell them the truth and then it mess 339 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 4: up the whole relationshipeah. So it's like, do you really 340 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 4: want honesty or are you just trying to find out 341 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 4: information to see what your next move is going to be. 342 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: You just don't know, though, because sometimes you could be 343 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: honest with the woman and be surprised that she's okay 344 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: with it too. 345 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 4: Yes, but women might not be honest with you and 346 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 4: you would never know, and they just want you to 347 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: spill all the beings about what you got going on 348 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 4: and what you're doing because they don't want to say 349 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 4: what they really got going on, and they trying to, 350 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 4: they trying to. 351 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna size them up. What are you doing? 352 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: So you'll be okay with the woman in an open relationship, 353 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 2: she could see other people too. 354 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 3: I'd just rather be single right now. 355 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna take that as a I. 356 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 3: Mean, well, I. 357 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 4: See, I'm not if if somebody wants to go out 358 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 4: and sleep with somebody else, I'm not gonna get insecure 359 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 4: about that. I'm not gonna feel a certain type of 360 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 4: way about that because that's what they choose to do. 361 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,880 Speaker 4: I will never stop some money from doing what they 362 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 4: choose to do in a relationship because it's on them. 363 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 4: That's fine. If you would choose to go out and 364 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: do that, that's on you. I just know where to 365 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 4: place you. I know what box to put you. 366 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 2: In, Okay, So and then they'll know what box to 367 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 2: put you in because you too, like be honest. 368 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'm gonna always be honest. Let them know 369 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 3: what's going on. 370 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: I think that works the best. Yeah, what about NDAs? 371 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: Do people have to sign an NDA? Do people have 372 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: to like, if you're dating somebody, like, I need to 373 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 1: sign this NDA because the truth is, you know, being 374 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 1: who you are, you do have to be cautious about 375 00:17:58,400 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: That's true. 376 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 4: I don't be one to do that because I feel 377 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 4: like it as soon as you start doing that with 378 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 4: the person that you're trying to have a relationship with, 379 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,239 Speaker 4: then it kind of already puts a stain on it 380 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 4: because it's like, why are you having me sign this? 381 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: You don't you don't want to trust me, you don't 382 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 4: want to give me an opportunity. Then you got to 383 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: go through that whole process. You don't trust me? What 384 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 4: did I do? I'm not like everybody else? 385 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: Well, then you should have no private signing this NDA 386 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 1: exactly Like, Yeah, I think if you do it from 387 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: the very beginning, before we even get to that point, 388 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: because I don't know, you know, NDA is. 389 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 4: Not something that you would have somebody in your personal space, Sidne, 390 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 4: That's something that would be said in the media of 391 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 4: people who wouldn't really know. There's another piece of paper 392 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 4: that you would have personal people in your space sign 393 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 4: and it's called a docierer. So that would be for 394 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 4: more so private you know, intimate settings. NDA n DA's 395 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 4: is kind of like business. 396 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,959 Speaker 1: And stuff like that, right, because people releasing all kind 397 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: of voicemails and you know, conversations. I've been seeing this 398 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: happen way too much lately and putting it out there. 399 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 4: I mean, well, I feel like those people who want 400 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 4: to try to expose or hurt somebody else, really what 401 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 4: they're doing is exposing their character. Anytime you feel like 402 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 4: you got to get on any type of social media, 403 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 4: any type of platform to try to expose someone, I 404 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 4: feel like that's the wrong way to go about it. 405 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 4: That shows your type of character and the people who 406 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 4: are watching and reading that. I would for myself, I 407 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 4: would say, why would I want to be a part 408 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 4: of somebody like this who's willing to say or put 409 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 4: out there someone's intimate conversations. 410 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 3: You know, I've seen stuff. 411 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 4: Out online about a lot of entertainers in their relationships. 412 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 4: I've even had you know, my my son's mom, she 413 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 4: has you know, said things and you know, trying to 414 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 4: put you know, messages out there, and you know, I would, 415 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 4: like I said, I wouldn't talk about her character, but 416 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 4: overall the character I think of people who do that, 417 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 4: I feel like it's wrong. 418 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: It's more of a reflection I say that too, of 419 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: what you're going through. 420 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: Then yeah, And if you. 421 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 4: Still have all that hate and bitterness in your heart, 422 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 4: you got to let it go because you're not hurting 423 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 4: that person, You're only really hurting yourself. 424 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: And I think sometimes it's too entertaining for people who 425 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: are watching to have nothing to do with it. You know, 426 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: why are you Because it's not going to really help anything. 427 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 4: Situation is really just keeping up the noise. And and 428 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 4: I feel like that has been the issue in our 429 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 4: community for the longest. We have always been caught up 430 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:55,719 Speaker 4: in the noise everything that's going on, which celebrities are, 431 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 4: entertainers or whoever it may be, and we missing with 432 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 4: us to be the focus, you know, even like when 433 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 4: we was earlier talking about the thing with my son. 434 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 3: You know, I got a lot of. 435 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 4: Bad media press about, you know, working with him and 436 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 4: training my son. 437 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 3: But what if I was doing something different? 438 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 2: But if you weren't around at all if I wasn't around. 439 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: You know, why, why is it that the negative thing 440 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 4: is being brought up about me pushing my son to 441 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 4: be great? 442 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 2: Isn't that what coaches do too? Like if you're as 443 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 2: a coach, a lot of coaches will be very like. 444 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 3: That's their job, that's the job. 445 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 2: It'll be the ultimate coach. 446 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 3: Because I've experienced it. 447 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 4: But it's the parents' job first to teach their kids 448 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 4: because the kids are them. They're essentially little, them, little 449 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,400 Speaker 4: little those little parents. So I think it's important for 450 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 4: the parents as the first teacher to pull that greatness 451 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 4: side of their kids. It shouldn't be on another coach 452 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 4: or another person to do that because. 453 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 3: The parents should know their kids. 454 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 4: They should know what makes them tick if they're really 455 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 4: spending time with them. And I know what my son 456 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 4: was doing in that video was acting. 457 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 2: When I listened. When I'm a mom, but I have 458 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 2: a little one. When I saw it, I was like, 459 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: oh my god, he's crying, but you know your and 460 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 2: I know when my daughter is faking. Obviously's much, but 461 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 2: I know i'd be like girl like yeah, but I 462 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 2: was I was like, oh my gosh, I'm also I'm 463 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 2: not an athlete, so I don't you know, and I'm 464 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 2: sure any athlete feels like that at some point. 465 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 4: It's the reason why I even posted this the video 466 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 4: and I put it the way it did, was because 467 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 4: I wanted the people. I wanted people to see the 468 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 4: progress of my son. When I got back from Taiwan 469 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 4: this summer is the first time I seen my kids 470 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 4: in the seven months that I was in Taiwan. And 471 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 4: when I was over there, I was really watching everything 472 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 4: that was happening in the States, paying attention to how 473 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 4: I could really. 474 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 3: Make a greater packed with my kids. 475 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 4: When I returned home and the day I was training 476 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 4: my son, we've been in this for four weeks already, 477 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 4: four or five weeks. We've been already into these workouts. 478 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 4: He's on the bike. This was his eighth set, by 479 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 4: the way, that he had already completed before we filmed 480 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 4: him crying and carrying on. So, Mija, when we first started, 481 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,919 Speaker 4: he had to do six reps twenty seconds on, forty 482 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 4: seconds off. 483 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: That's not that hard. 484 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: Okay, sounds a little challenging. 485 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 3: It's not challenging. Twenty seconds on and forty seconds on. 486 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 2: We haven't been working out. I might cry, you won't cry. 487 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 4: He had done this for four or five weeks. He's 488 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 4: perfectly fine. This week was the mental test that I 489 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 4: was putting all my kids through. 490 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: So this was this wasn't just one exercise. 491 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 4: The thing I was teaching my kids that week was 492 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 4: can't is not in y'all vocabulary. You can and you 493 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 4: will accomplish everything that you put your mind to, but 494 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 4: you have to believe it. When I got my son 495 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 4: on that bike, he had already did eight sets. He 496 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 4: was fine. He said that how many I got left? 497 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 4: I looked around. I said, you got. 498 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 3: Twenty left too, Yeah, and he only had two more left. 499 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 2: So you was just bothering. 500 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 4: So what I did was I wanted to see what 501 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 4: his reaction was gonna be, because I know when you're 502 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 4: trying to get to the mission, when you're trying to 503 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 4: get to the top of that mountain, you're gonna have 504 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 4: distractions all around you. You're gonna have people trying to 505 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 4: pull you down. You're gonna have people telling you that 506 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 4: you can't. That mountain is gonna get harder once you 507 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,399 Speaker 4: get to the top. What will you do when you quit? 508 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 4: Or will you keep going? Once I said you had 509 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 4: twenty more. You saw the video. He says what and 510 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 4: he says, I can't. And now he's arts to go 511 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 4: crazy like he can't do it. But I say, come on, 512 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 4: I know you can do it. I know you can 513 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 4: do it. And guess what he finished the two sets off. 514 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: It was like he did Yeah, because they only had 515 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: two left, right, he could have. 516 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:17,120 Speaker 4: The mindset was I wanted him to keep going, despite 517 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 4: what I was telling him, despite what everybody else around 518 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,479 Speaker 4: him could say to him. You can't stop. You're the 519 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,199 Speaker 4: only one on this journey. This is your journey, and 520 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 4: your journey alone. You gotta keep looking forward. Don't look back, 521 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 4: don't look to the side, don't worry about the problem 522 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 4: that you face with right now, keep going. And now 523 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 4: my son is it's a little machine. He's doing two 524 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 4: hundred and thirty push ups a day. He started with fifteen. Yeah, 525 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 4: fifteen push ups. He's running. 526 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 2: He's he's making my life together, doing me in every way. 527 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, saying when I work out with my trainer, I 528 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 1: would always like have conversations. And then I started talking 529 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 1: about music and then he gets distracted and the next thing, 530 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not doing what I was supposed to 531 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: be doing because we're having a whole and I stopped 532 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: and I'll be like, yeah, you know, I touch to 533 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: put on and never he could. 534 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 2: You could never be her trainer. But listen, what about 535 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 2: the mom what she was she upset when she saw that, 536 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 2: or like when first started training. 537 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 3: Y'all, my son's mom passed away three years ago. 538 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 2: That's right before you were in the bubble. 539 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 3: Before I was in the bubble. Uh. And he was 540 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 3: six at the time. 541 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 4: So I understand that even though I have to push 542 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 4: him and I have to give him that strength as 543 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 4: a father, he still has to be nurtured. He still 544 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 4: has to get the love and support. And I understand 545 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 4: that there's a balance. And I give them that he 546 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:55,120 Speaker 4: still has his grandmam on both sides. They give him 547 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 4: that he still has his sisters. We make sure that 548 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 4: he's covered in love. Yeah, but he also has to 549 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 4: understand that with him still being covered. 550 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 3: In love, the world that we live in don't care. 551 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 4: They don't care, and they will eat him up and 552 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 4: spit him out and don't care what happened to him. 553 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 4: So with me knowing that I gotta be able to 554 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 4: give him honesty and truth and love and support, all 555 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 4: mixed in one, and a lot of people can't see 556 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 4: that because they not me, and this is not their child, and. 557 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 2: We haven't had your experience, your journey either. 558 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 3: Yes, and I understand people going to make opinions and 559 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,479 Speaker 3: people right to me. I'm not mad about that. 560 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 4: I don't look at the comments and go, dang, I'm 561 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 4: messed up with it. I don't know that I know 562 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 4: what I wanted to show in that video. 563 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, if I was your son, I'd have been like, see, Dad, 564 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: you was a little too rough on me. 565 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 4: Nah. 566 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 3: He not saying that my dad, my son. 567 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 4: After that workout that y'all saw, after every workout that 568 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 4: we finished, no matter if it's self defense, if we're running, 569 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 4: doing drills, whatever, he come get me a hug, and 570 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 4: he say, thank you. 571 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 3: Teach all my kids do. So why I'll tell you why. 572 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 2: But we know two reasons. 573 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 3: Two reasons. 574 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 4: My son's best friend, his name is Noah. He was 575 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 4: actually attacked by a grown man, an adult twenty six 576 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 4: years old at a basketball game because they was upset 577 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 4: at him, this little kid from being good at basketball. 578 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 4: And I have witnessed because i've you know, like I said, 579 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 4: I've been out in the different countries, and I've seen 580 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 4: what happens to these young kids and how they could 581 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 4: get snatched up and taken and abused and beat up 582 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 4: and all that stuff, and I'm like, no, this is 583 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 4: not happening with my children. We got to be prepared 584 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 4: for whatever happens. We need to be in shape. So 585 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 4: we got to run away from a situation. We can 586 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 4: all run and we're not tired. We need to learn 587 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 4: how to defend ourselves. So if we all got get 588 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 4: into it, if I'm not there, y'all need to learn 589 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 4: how to take care of y'allself. And you know you 590 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 4: don't want to wait till they get twenty five and thirty. 591 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 4: You know you want to start them now. You want 592 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 4: to build this foundation, you know, to where they understand 593 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 4: that all these things are needed so they can be 594 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 4: successful in life. All this stuff is not so they 595 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 4: can be fighters and basketball players and stuff like that. 596 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 4: I don't care what sport my kids do. I want 597 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 4: them to be. 598 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 3: Prepared for life, the life skills. This is all about life. 599 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 3: We do more than just sports. 600 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 4: I don't show all the stuff we do right now 601 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 4: because we're filming and we're putting that out there in 602 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 4: the podcast and everything that we got coming. 603 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 2: So the kids are on the podcast too. 604 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 4: The kids are on everything that I'm doing. Okay, but 605 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,479 Speaker 4: we don't put that out there because the enemy is 606 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 4: still watching. And we know that who's the enemy, the devil. 607 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 4: Oh Devil's watching everything I put out there that's been positive, 608 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 4: and I've been posting nothing but positivity my whole life 609 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 4: since I've had Instagram. 610 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 3: I know that negativity. 611 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 1: Comes with that, but look, let's read this post that 612 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: you did just right, because I thought this was great. 613 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 1: Since the higher you go up, the more they will 614 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: try to bring you down every time you are in 615 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: the process of elevating. Even will come from all angles. 616 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: But just keep moving forward because that's how you overcome. 617 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: Even will come, weapons will form, and hate will always 618 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: be present, but it will never prosper if you keep 619 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 1: going a man. 620 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 3: I agree. 621 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 4: This is something that I you know, I preach and 622 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 4: I teach every day to anybody that I come across. 623 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 4: A lot of kids, a lot of adults reach out 624 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 4: talk to me even when I'm just walking around and 625 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 4: my friends. Everyone's asking, like, you know, how do you 626 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 4: manage and handle all the hate and negativity that comes 627 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 4: with all the positive the things that you do, and 628 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 4: I always tell them, you just gotta stay balanced. It's 629 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 4: going to come. The Bible says that no weapon formed 630 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 4: against you shall prosper. But that doesn't mean that it's 631 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 4: not going to form, right, that doesn't mean that it's 632 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 4: not going to come against you. 633 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that. 634 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 4: It's not going to cost pain and heartache and hurt 635 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 4: and all that stuff is going to happen. But you 636 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 4: still gotta stay locked in. And the same messages I've 637 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 4: been telling my kids is what I've been preaching to 638 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 4: myself every day. Yeah. So I know that there's weapons 639 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 4: that's formed against me. I know that there's people and 640 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 4: things that are trying to pull me down. But I 641 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 4: know my why, I know my purpose and where I'm 642 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 4: trying to get to it. If I allow all this 643 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 4: stuff to knock me off my pivot, I'll never make it. 644 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 4: So it's the same message i'll give to my kids, 645 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 4: the same message i'll get to anybody. 646 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: Well, you know that can't be easy for you because 647 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 1: most recently we saw the posts and the blogs, right, 648 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: and a couple of years years ago, there's a guy 649 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: who claims that you know you hit him up in 650 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: the DMS and now there's a lawsuit and I believe 651 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: it's from twenty twenty one if I'm not mistaken, right, 652 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: And so, how did you react to something like that? 653 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 2: Because, like you said, you're over here. 654 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: Preaching positivity, living positivity, but then something like this happens. 655 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 3: I didn't react assault and battery. Y'all have been around me. 656 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 4: For how long forty minutes maybe forty minutes. I've never 657 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 4: in my life assaulted or hurt anyone. I don't even 658 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 4: I'm not even that type of person. So when I 659 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 4: see allegations and accusations online about whatever people have said 660 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 4: I've done, I don't pay attention to him. 661 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 2: Are you ever hurt when you see things? Or you 662 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 2: always like it doesn't bother you? It does anything ever seen? 663 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 3: Or just stuff that it doesn't hurt. But it just 664 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 3: makes me feel. 665 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 2: For my children because they have to see it, because 666 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 2: and it's. 667 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 4: Not about all the crap, the stuff like with my 668 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 4: kids and my mom and their moms. That stuff right 669 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 4: there is just like my son don't need to see that. 670 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 4: He's he's getting too old for one, and he's about 671 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 4: to start getting to that level of understanding and stuff 672 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 4: like that, he don't need to see he doesn't need 673 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 4: to see that. 674 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 2: How do you protect your children from on social media 675 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 2: or watch TV or. 676 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 3: Stuff or what well, so you can't protect them from that. 677 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 4: What you have to do is, like what I have 678 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,239 Speaker 4: tried to do for my kids is have conversations with 679 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 4: them and see what's going on. Because I know that 680 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 4: at the schools that they go to, the stuff that 681 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 4: they have on their phones, they have access. 682 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 3: To all this stuff. 683 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 2: That's the other kids too. 684 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't just it's not like I can't stop 685 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 4: them from doing this stuff. But what I can do 686 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 4: is is let them know and let them be aware 687 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 4: that all these things are around them. And some of 688 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 4: this stuff is to desensitize you and to get you 689 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 4: from not being locked in and focused. And it's tough 690 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 4: because they have friends, they have social media. 691 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,839 Speaker 2: And the parents parents probably be like, oh, you go to. 692 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 3: School with. 693 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 4: So that my son has to deal with you know 694 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 4: a lot of his information being put out there at 695 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:34,800 Speaker 4: such a young age. 696 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 2: But you know, how do you work on how do 697 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 2: you work on co parenting? 698 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 3: Man, it's been tough. It's been tough I think. 699 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,720 Speaker 4: Because of the child support laws and how that stuff 700 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 4: has came about, it's really made it tough to be 701 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 4: co parents and that's something that I've struggled with U 702 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 4: for some time. And I think a lot of fathers 703 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 4: who have to deal with the child support and having 704 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 4: to get lawyers and go back and forth. I think 705 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 4: a lot of that stuff really affects the relationships between 706 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 4: the mothers and that's the one thing that I wish 707 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 4: that could just kind of change, because I feel like 708 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 4: it's all a plan to mess up the families. I 709 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 4: think it's a plan to make the mom and the 710 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 4: dad upset at each other to where they're fighting about, 711 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 4: you know, time with a child. They're fighting about who 712 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 4: gets the money when I personally feel like it shouldn't 713 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 4: be child support because child support is enabling. In my experience, 714 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 4: it getting enable and what I've seen, it can enable 715 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:53,720 Speaker 4: the moms, and sometimes it is not for the child. 716 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,479 Speaker 1: Well, everybody's experience is different, because I also know dads 717 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: who don't pay any money. Yes, and I know, and 718 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: so sometimes it is necessary. So it's it's a case 719 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: by case scenarios. 720 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 3: They don't have child support. 721 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 2: But here's here and that's cool. But I know I've 722 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 2: had experiences. I have friends, I've had experiences whose dad 723 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 2: didn't really weren't involved in their life and didn't pay. 724 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: Kids be waiting for their dad to come get them, 725 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,839 Speaker 1: their dad never shows up. 726 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,919 Speaker 4: Yes, that happens in a situation, not all of them. 727 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 4: But why should you have to pay? Why should it 728 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 4: be you have to pay when both parents have had 729 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 4: the child. Why should it just be the father or 730 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 4: the person who has the most income pay for everything. 731 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 4: It should be if it's both parents, it's co parents. 732 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 2: Are right, Yeah, it was. 733 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: It's supposed to be support, so another way, right, And 734 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: I think it, But I think sometimes the father doesn't 735 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 1: even pay enough like some in some cases child support. 736 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: In some cases child support is thirty five dollars a month. 737 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,360 Speaker 1: Like if he's getting paid off the bus. 738 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 3: Party should go and get a job. 739 00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, but I agree with that. 740 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,360 Speaker 1: But I do think that if the mom has a 741 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 1: child the majority of the time, and that's like housing, food, clothes, schooling, 742 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you might need to have to get 743 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 1: in the any good job. And if a woman has 744 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 1: a job, she's paying for somebody to take care of 745 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 1: her kid while she's at work. But all of those 746 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 1: things do cost money, right, and so I do believe 747 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: both parties participate in that. But I think it's a 748 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 1: case by case scenario because there is definitely some dads 749 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 1: that are like, I'm not letting them know how much 750 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: I make. 751 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 2: I'm getting thing. 752 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, they can go both ways. 753 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 6: So what I'm saying is they need to redo the 754 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 6: whole thing because anytime somebody who has money gets involved 755 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 6: with somebody who might not have the same amount of money, 756 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 6: the person who doesn't have the same amount of money, 757 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 6: they reap all the benefits. 758 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,399 Speaker 2: That feels like that's okay. 759 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 6: So how many entertainers, how many celebrities, and how many 760 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,440 Speaker 6: basketball players have to go through this? They pay crazy 761 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,760 Speaker 6: bookoo amounts. 762 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 2: Of child Yeah, see, that's not the thing is that's 763 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 2: not our world, Like we have friends that But what 764 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 2: do y'all do? 765 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 4: Y'all y'all make posts and y'all coming. And then it's 766 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 4: about the father didn't do this or the father. But 767 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 4: the father is the one. So you want the father 768 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 4: to go out make all the money now, and then 769 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:17,359 Speaker 4: you want to hold up there. 770 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,759 Speaker 6: You want the father to be present, and you want 771 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 6: the father to go do all the things that the 772 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 6: mother is doing like it gotta be it gotta be 773 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 6: something that energy. They gotta be balanced. So if we're 774 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 6: not in a relationship, it can't just you can't say, well, 775 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 6: he ain't been with his kid in two weeks, Okay, 776 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 6: so what if I had to go out the country 777 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 6: for two weeks. This happens to polish. It's not just 778 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,479 Speaker 6: basketball players and entertainers. This polished this, Uh. 779 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,240 Speaker 3: What do you call those people? Doctors? These people spend 780 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 3: a lot of time at their jobs. So is it 781 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 3: fair to I. 782 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 1: Agree, But I do think it's a case because I 783 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 1: also know women who sacrifice their careers right because they 784 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 1: have to stay home with their kids. So they're not 785 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: able to be like, I'm gonna go away for two 786 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: weeks to work because I have to be home, you know, 787 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 1: to take care. 788 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 6: It goes back to what you gotta choose the person 789 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,319 Speaker 6: that you have your child with, correct, and you can't 790 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 6: just trying to do it because you looking for a 791 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 6: come up. And I'm not saying that's my situation. I 792 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 6: don't want nobody to take it that way. In general, 793 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 6: a lot of times when women see somebody who has 794 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,760 Speaker 6: money and they try to get with them, they're looking 795 00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:26,879 Speaker 6: for a way to do. 796 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 1: What And a lot of times guys also are making 797 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 1: the smartest decisions. It's a you know, if you see 798 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: a woman and you're not doing what you need to do, 799 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: you're not protecting yourself and. 800 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 6: Yes, so, but who also who at the end of 801 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,720 Speaker 6: the day, who gets to decide about the child? 802 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 2: Of course, you know, the woman get all the support 803 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 2: and everything the woman so and then while all this 804 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 2: is happening, on the flip side of it, what is 805 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 2: the father getting The father gets booted out everything? 806 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,359 Speaker 6: Now that we've seen in social media and in our 807 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,799 Speaker 6: world today, is they trying to make the home all 808 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,720 Speaker 6: the homes fatherless? Are there trying to change how people 809 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,520 Speaker 6: view fathers here in America? 810 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, look, I know some great fathers, but 811 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 1: I also do know women. And statistically, especially when it 812 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: comes to women being the head of the household, there's 813 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: a lot of women, a lot of women, a lot 814 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 1: of Black women who have to be the head of 815 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 1: the household. And it's unfortunate for whatever the reason might be. 816 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 1: You know, it turns out that way, and we hate 817 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: to have to see that. 818 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 2: But a lot of. 819 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: Times women have to worry about working about raising their kids, 820 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 1: about taking care of the finance, it's about coming home 821 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: to cook after that, and also trying to maybe have 822 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 1: a little bit of a life. And I know it's 823 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: not an easy balance. And so again I don't think 824 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,439 Speaker 1: anything is across the board. I don't think that because 825 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 1: I know situations where the dad would love to see 826 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,840 Speaker 1: their kid and being their kid's life, but then that 827 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 1: child is being used as a pawn against the father 828 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 1: or situation. 829 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 2: You know. 830 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,360 Speaker 1: So, but I think in that case men need to 831 00:40:58,400 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 1: go and step up and go to kirkco. 832 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,320 Speaker 3: They do it, but then we still are in the. 833 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 2: L because sometimes because. 834 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:13,320 Speaker 6: The courts are going to say, well, this is the mom. 835 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 3: And that's it. That's all they got to say. 836 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: And that's why, you know, at some point, maybe it's 837 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,920 Speaker 1: a mediation where you don't get the course involved and 838 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: you try to get a third party, because I think 839 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: that's important too, and it doesn't always work, and it's 840 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,759 Speaker 1: hard because it's a lot of emotions involved. A lot 841 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: of times there's bitterness on both ends of people involved. 842 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 1: So it's not easy child, Yeah, it doesn't so and 843 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: that sucks. 844 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,239 Speaker 6: So then the child is the one that end up 845 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 6: hurting but the courts and all and the lawyers and 846 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 6: all the they're the ones that's making all these rules, right, 847 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 6: so then it doesn't benefit the. 848 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 3: Child at all. 849 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: No, you're not saying across the board child support doesn't 850 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 2: benefit the child at all. Or you're saying in situations 851 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 2: you're familiar with, he's saying going to court and doing 852 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 2: all those things, and then on the court. 853 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 3: Period, getting lawyers involved doing all that crest. 854 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 2: They make the money, all the money they need to 855 00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,240 Speaker 2: share a little same lawyer. 856 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 3: The lawyers off to each other. 857 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 6: They make the cases go longer, they make they make 858 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 6: the emotions and everything between the two people, because it's like, 859 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,800 Speaker 6: first of all, hold up, why do we need lawyers? 860 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 3: It was me and you who laid in the. 861 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 2: Bed because you can't figure it out your no, no. 862 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 3: No, no. 863 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 6: Why we can't figure it out? Because we rushed to 864 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 6: have a child. Somebody out of both parties was looking 865 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 6: for a way to have some type of security and. 866 00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:28,280 Speaker 2: You know very specific right now, No, I'm not very specific. 867 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,800 Speaker 2: I'm talking about. 868 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 6: Okay, So if a guy is looking for a quick nut, 869 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 6: and you know this as a female, why would you 870 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,600 Speaker 6: have a kid with him? 871 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:38,439 Speaker 2: You know, we have to ask that lady. 872 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,359 Speaker 3: That's what that's okay? So the man want a quick 873 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 3: nut and the girl want a baby? 874 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 6: Which one had ulterior motives? 875 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,240 Speaker 3: The worst multiple? 876 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,239 Speaker 2: If you want a quick nut, why don't you use 877 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 2: a condom? 878 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,360 Speaker 3: You can still use a card or still some people 879 00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 3: have got here. 880 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,240 Speaker 2: I don't know anybody got pregnant condom. I know people 881 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,480 Speaker 2: say that it's not one hundred percent effect. I know that, 882 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 2: but I don't know anybody. 883 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 6: If you day with somebody for over three years, yes, 884 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 6: we're not using condoms, okay. So so if you get 885 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 6: pregnant and the other person's like, I don't want a kid, 886 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 6: you're gonna go and have the kid regardless. 887 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 2: Well, after three years, I think we probably have talked 888 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 2: about whether or not we're gonna have children to get especially. 889 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,359 Speaker 1: If you know it's at risk of that happening because 890 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: we've been having unprotected Yeah, yes, but having sex for 891 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: four years. 892 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 6: Let's say y'all have sex for four years whatever the 893 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 6: number is, huh three two, three, four years, you never 894 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:30,320 Speaker 6: got pregnant. 895 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 2: That's happened that you get pregnant. Jess like, hello, yeah, yeah. 896 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,600 Speaker 6: How do you like what if the father like how 897 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 6: can you be mad at the mail if you say, listen, 898 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 6: I didn't want a child, right, You're forcing me to 899 00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,919 Speaker 6: have something that I don't want, Like, is that fair? 900 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 2: I mean, if you it kind of is if you 901 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 2: are having unprotected sex with you guys, if you guys 902 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 2: are having unprotected sex together, because if you if you want, 903 00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 2: you know that can happen. 904 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,320 Speaker 6: Okay, So if you have the baby, then you can't 905 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 6: you can't say, well, if I have this baby, you 906 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 6: gotta take care of it. 907 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 1: Well, I mean you're financially a financial later on in life, 908 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: because you know, I think for dads it's accountability. 909 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 3: Right. 910 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 1: There's a lot of things in life that we do 911 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 1: that there's consequences for that we have to pay for 912 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 1: those consequences. And so you know, if you're having unprotected sex, 913 00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,920 Speaker 1: the consequences could be that you have a kid that 914 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,360 Speaker 1: you could have to you know. 915 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 3: What I say, both sides though. The man is not 916 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,240 Speaker 3: the only person that's not pretending. 917 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: Nobody's saying that though, But you what do you know? 918 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,720 Speaker 3: Did you just hear what you just said? 919 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 2: I mean, it's accountability And you. 920 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 6: Said this accountability on the male's part because he has 921 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 6: what you're. 922 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 2: Saying if he doesn't what you're saying, if he doesn't 923 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 2: want to have it. 924 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,799 Speaker 6: But y'all have had sex for three four years and 925 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 6: you never got pregnant. Now all of a sudden, you 926 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,839 Speaker 6: done got off birth control and you're trying to. 927 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 3: Get pregnant and you ain't tell him, and now you're pregnant. 928 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 2: Well that's like a speaky person. Yeah that maybe how 929 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,400 Speaker 2: many times? You know, come on now, no, I'm not 930 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 2: pregnant to be Dwight Howard later in life. 931 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,320 Speaker 3: And now, so that's what you're thinking. 932 00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 4: So now you're saying what the girls in station, I 933 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 4: feel like, let me have a kid with this man, 934 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 4: because one day he might end up being I feel like. 935 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 2: You have such a unique experience because you know, you're 936 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,719 Speaker 2: an athlete and all this money. It's it's like a 937 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,799 Speaker 2: small guy. He has a smaller population, whereas I can 938 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 2: see women wanting to be in a relationship or have 939 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:30,160 Speaker 2: a baby. 940 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, but a lot of a lot of women get 941 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,960 Speaker 1: pregnant by guys they got less than them too. 942 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 2: Let's be clear, that does happen that Listen, that's not 943 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:38,320 Speaker 2: your world. 944 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 3: Where that's not your world. 945 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 2: So you're not how many how many We don't have 946 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 2: a study on that. 947 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,760 Speaker 3: Because it's not girls is not going to go find 948 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 3: the now. 949 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,359 Speaker 6: Girls will have sex with a man that don't have 950 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 6: no money, but nine times out of ten they're not 951 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 6: finna make sure that they. 952 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,040 Speaker 2: Don't make them fake statistic. Yeah he did. 953 00:45:55,160 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 6: Also, Yeah, that know that y'all will sleep with somebody 954 00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 6: who might not have no money. 955 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,120 Speaker 2: H huh okay right, yeah, okay. 956 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 6: But if that person who didn't have money got y'all pregnant, 957 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 6: y'all not keeping that kid. 958 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be having like listen, I would make sure 959 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 2: no listen, no, no, no. 960 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,440 Speaker 3: I'm y'all man that is giving y'all. 961 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 1: There's a lot of women that more than men. Yeah, 962 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 1: there's a lot of women nowadays that make more than men. 963 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: Just it is, and they end up in relationships like. 964 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 3: That got to pay more child support. 965 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 6: Make it make sense if the women make and you 966 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 6: know it too, the women can make more money than 967 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 6: the man, and the man still got to pay child 968 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 6: support and more. 969 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 2: I don't know this to be true, but I'm sure. 970 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 3: And I know you don't see it. You are Jazze. 971 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:52,360 Speaker 2: Brand, Lady Lady. 972 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 3: Of Things about. 973 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,280 Speaker 2: What's she right about? 974 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:57,840 Speaker 3: You. 975 00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:00,440 Speaker 2: He always has a story about you. Do have a 976 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,080 Speaker 2: lot of stories. You had a lot of stories. 977 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 3: It's one person in one story that you always have. 978 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 2: She's you know, she's on TV. She's a Brownie star. 979 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 2: What do you. 980 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 3: Happen? I didn't say. 981 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,439 Speaker 6: I didn't say that what was going on was bad. 982 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,600 Speaker 6: I said you know that y'all have you have posted 983 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 6: a lot of stuff? 984 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,400 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, all right, Well let's move on from that 985 00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: and let's talk more about this. 986 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:28,920 Speaker 2: Right. 987 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: So, so is it so there's a lawsuit right now? 988 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,200 Speaker 1: Or is that dismissed and thrown away against you? 989 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 3: The lawsuit? 990 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, from these. 991 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 3: Allegians that was it wasn't real. 992 00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so that was fake. There was no lawsuit ever that. 993 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,359 Speaker 3: There was a lawsuit, but they threw the case out. 994 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So it happened. So why is it coming back 995 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: up now? And why are all the blocks picking it up? 996 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 3: Why is it coming back out now? Have you seen 997 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 3: the stuff I've been posting? 998 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 2: Mm hmm, so you I think it's a behind the 999 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:05,279 Speaker 2: scenes trying to get you to have more negativity again. 1000 00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:09,359 Speaker 3: Of course, why at this time if something you read 1001 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 3: the article right two years ago? Right? 1002 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:15,360 Speaker 6: Yea, why would all of a sudden, now some stuff 1003 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 6: like an article about my character and supposedly allegedly what 1004 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 6: I did with this person, and not battering assault. I 1005 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 6: just posted a video of me and my son working 1006 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:31,799 Speaker 6: out that got some bad press. So now it's like, 1007 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:32,879 Speaker 6: we gotta keep with. 1008 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 3: This negative train. Yeah, and I just stay positive with 1009 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 3: all this stuff. 1010 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 6: There's nothing on my page that nobody could say as 1011 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 6: any negativity on So when I see those things, I 1012 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 6: know that it's an attack on my character and where 1013 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:50,440 Speaker 6: I'm at in life. So I feel like there's about 1014 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 6: to be an elevation process. And the things from my past, 1015 00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,399 Speaker 6: the things that people have said I've done, they're trying 1016 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 6: to come up now to stop this. 1017 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 2: Okay, so what do you think is the biggest misconception 1018 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 2: about you? 1019 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 3: The fathership? I said, shit, But not like people saying like. 1020 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 4: I don't spend time with my kids, or you know, 1021 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 4: I'm a deadbeat dad, or that I would ever do 1022 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 4: anything to hurt my kids. All the other noise that 1023 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 4: people say about whatever they think my personal life is, 1024 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 4: that's my personal life. And I would never make public 1025 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 4: statements about anything private in mind when it comes to 1026 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,399 Speaker 4: who's in my bed or anything like that. 1027 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,239 Speaker 1: But I did see an interview where you said the 1028 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 1: gay rumors aren't your because those were things that people 1029 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 1: kept bringing up. 1030 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 4: Of course they're going to say stuff like that to 1031 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 4: keep this whole negative train going. We gotta find a 1032 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:51,800 Speaker 4: way to assassinate this man character. 1033 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:57,240 Speaker 1: So you think that all stems from these situations as 1034 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 1: and somebody is out there. There's people out there that 1035 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 1: are firing in the media. 1036 00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,280 Speaker 4: I feel like there could be, But again, my focus 1037 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 4: is not on those people that's conspiring it against me. 1038 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 4: My focus is on this podcasting I'm trying. 1039 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 2: To get out, which would be great because then you'll 1040 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 2: be able to yours all on the podcast. But is 1041 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 2: it just you. 1042 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 4: I'm going to have a lot of guests. I do 1043 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:26,120 Speaker 4: have a section called talking shit on there. Uh, and 1044 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,240 Speaker 4: then it's going to be my cousin. His name is Bode, 1045 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 4: and he's kind of like a comedian. He's from the country, 1046 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,239 Speaker 4: so he's from Swainsboro, where I'm from. And it's kind 1047 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 4: of like I'm going to be going back and forth 1048 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:41,799 Speaker 4: talking about world topics, whatever's going on in life, the 1049 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:46,160 Speaker 4: situations that excuse me that you brought up, and just 1050 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 4: to like, you know, clear hourways you want to be 1051 00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 4: to talk about any and everything on the show. And 1052 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 4: we want to give artists, guests, even people who are 1053 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 4: not celebrities or anything like that, they'll be allowed to 1054 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,280 Speaker 4: come on the show and talk as questions. 1055 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,080 Speaker 3: And we want to keep this open to everybody. 1056 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 2: What about politics? 1057 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:04,719 Speaker 1: Are you do? 1058 00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 3: Are you? I do have views on politics. A lot 1059 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:09,640 Speaker 3: of people ain't gonna like my views. 1060 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 1: I tell you what, because we see everything that's going 1061 00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,400 Speaker 1: on right now, obviously we're getting ready for another presidential election. 1062 00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. 1063 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 3: So y'all like Sleepy Joe. 1064 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,520 Speaker 1: I believe that I like him better than alternatives that 1065 00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 1: we had, and I do believe some things got done 1066 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: under his presidency. What well, First of all, we had 1067 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 1: the most diverse cabinet ever, which was important. When it 1068 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,400 Speaker 1: came to the infrastructure bill that he did pass, a 1069 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,760 Speaker 1: lot of improvements were made when it came to student loans. 1070 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:44,799 Speaker 1: He was the only president that's managed to get some 1071 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,200 Speaker 1: of a lot of debt thrown out for people. 1072 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:48,120 Speaker 2: That was necessary. 1073 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 1: And so I will say that I won't act like 1074 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: things didn't get done. And I also look at not 1075 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: just the president, but also a lot of obstacles that 1076 00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,840 Speaker 1: he has from people that no matter what, even if 1077 00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: it's something that benefits everybody. Right, when we talk about 1078 00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 1: certain things like healthcare, when we did talk about student loans, 1079 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,520 Speaker 1: when we talk about things that we need, a lot 1080 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,839 Speaker 1: of times it'll get blocked because people don't want him 1081 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 1: to get credit for things that he's proposing to try 1082 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:13,760 Speaker 1: to make happen. 1083 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 3: So sleepy Joe, you're saying, sleepy Joe good, I'm. 1084 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 2: Saying he did some positive things. What's your opinion? 1085 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:21,760 Speaker 3: And Trump did some bad things? 1086 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 2: Did you vote for Trump? No, you didn't. 1087 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:29,920 Speaker 4: Don't vote for nobody voted. I have a personal belief 1088 00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:33,319 Speaker 4: on voting. I know a lot of people might not 1089 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 4: agree with it, and that's okay. I feel like, and 1090 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 4: there's no offense to Trump or Biden, you're Biden, but 1091 00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:52,719 Speaker 4: I feel like they don't represent who I am, so 1092 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:53,799 Speaker 4: I couldn't vote for them. 1093 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 1: Okay, But what about locally, because sometimes we just think 1094 00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 1: of the presidential election, But what about thinking about like 1095 00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 1: the mayor or a city council, like our other people 1096 00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:07,360 Speaker 1: that you can vote for that locally can make a 1097 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 1: difference where you live in your district. 1098 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, even with that The reason 1099 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,840 Speaker 4: why I never got into that side of it is 1100 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 4: because I feel like we should be doing things with 1101 00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,239 Speaker 4: our family first. Get our family right. I feel like, 1102 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:29,280 Speaker 4: for me, this is just my own opinion. I would 1103 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,040 Speaker 4: rather focus more on my family than focus on the 1104 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,359 Speaker 4: programing and the things that they have tried to give 1105 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,360 Speaker 4: to our kids and stuff like that, and teach my 1106 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,840 Speaker 4: kids things that they wouldn't be able to learn in 1107 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 4: school and stuff like that. And I feel like all 1108 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 4: that has been a part of politics. I feel like 1109 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 4: we wanted these politicians and other people to try to 1110 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,560 Speaker 4: change our communities, but I feel like it starts at 1111 00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,759 Speaker 4: home with us and our children first, and after we 1112 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:59,720 Speaker 4: were able to fix our homes, then we can venture 1113 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,000 Speaker 4: out to the community and start doing more and more 1114 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:03,400 Speaker 4: and more. 1115 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,760 Speaker 3: But I haven't. 1116 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,080 Speaker 4: From playing basketball and living in so many different cities, 1117 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 4: it's been very hard to get involved with that part 1118 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:12,760 Speaker 4: of politics. 1119 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 2: Okay, I can understand locally, But you've never voted before? 1120 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,560 Speaker 1: Okay, are you considering doing it or you feel like 1121 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:19,319 Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to? 1122 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 2: Are you open? 1123 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 3: Not the way that we have our stuff set up? 1124 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:29,480 Speaker 4: Like, I don't believe in the Republican whole Democrat stuff. 1125 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: Okay, which is fine because I also feel like you 1126 00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 1: can vote for people right if they're a Republican or 1127 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 1: a Democrat, that's beside the point polarity. 1128 00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 4: And then if you vote for someone, you gotta be 1129 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,839 Speaker 4: able to agree with everything that's. 1130 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: Not true, not at all, because I because I definitely know, 1131 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: because you're never going to agree with everything, but you 1132 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 1: also can have some type of because I actually will 1133 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: go to like town halls and see who's running for 1134 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: office and see who our senators are. I know my 1135 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,400 Speaker 1: local counsel person who actually happens to be my friend's 1136 00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 1: son who I grew up with, so her son is 1137 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 1: now like my counselmen in my district. And I do 1138 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 1: feel like even when it comes to small things like 1139 00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,080 Speaker 1: you know, fixing potholes on the street, like those things 1140 00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:08,799 Speaker 1: are still we want to make sure our neighborhoods are nice, 1141 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:10,840 Speaker 1: picking up the garbage, getting rid of we have a 1142 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,879 Speaker 1: rat problem here for sure, you know, and making sure 1143 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 1: that when you're voting, you're able to also express the 1144 00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 1: things that you need in your community to make everyday 1145 00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: life better. And then when you think about the education system, 1146 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 1: the police department, you know, who's your police chief. 1147 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:25,800 Speaker 2: All those things do matter. 1148 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: Like if you pay attention and support certain people, then 1149 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 1: you're able to go I can go straight to our mayor, 1150 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, Eric Adams and be like, look, we need 1151 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 1: to talk about X, Y and Z happen. Can you 1152 00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:38,160 Speaker 1: come up here and he'll listen, you know, And changes 1153 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,839 Speaker 1: can be made, and sometimes change is slow, and so 1154 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 1: we can be really impatient on trying to make things happen, 1155 00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,560 Speaker 1: especially when it comes to politics, because of the process 1156 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:47,840 Speaker 1: that has to happen. 1157 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 2: But if you're not involved, then it'll be maybe sometimes 1158 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,040 Speaker 2: nothing happening. 1159 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,800 Speaker 4: I feel like no matter, you know, all the stuff 1160 00:55:55,840 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 4: that we have tried to do, I feel like they're 1161 00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,320 Speaker 4: countering it, the government and all those people. 1162 00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:06,400 Speaker 3: So I feel like I just have a weird feeling. 1163 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,760 Speaker 4: Not not a weird but people might say conspiracy theories 1164 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 4: and all this stuff. 1165 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 3: But I feel like this program. 1166 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 4: That we're in in the States, that they have for us, 1167 00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 4: I feel like it's not allowing us to elevate as people. 1168 00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:25,280 Speaker 4: I think that they've kept us in this box mentally, 1169 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:30,440 Speaker 4: physically and spiritually, with how we have to vote, how 1170 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:34,920 Speaker 4: we have all the infrastructure. I know that the structure 1171 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 4: is needed I'm not saying that it's not, but I 1172 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:41,719 Speaker 4: just feel like I just I feel like it's a 1173 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 4: different way. I feel like us is, especially the black community, it's. 1174 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 3: A different way. 1175 00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,800 Speaker 1: And maybe have you met any politicians that you like ever? 1176 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 4: Or I have I met Bill Clinton, I've been around Obama, 1177 00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 4: I've been around a lot of the politicians. 1178 00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I just feel like what has happened. 1179 00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 4: With us in America for so long, I feel like 1180 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,719 Speaker 4: we've been hitting from the truth has been hidden from 1181 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,560 Speaker 4: us in a lot of areas, even when dealing with 1182 00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:12,759 Speaker 4: politics and stuff like that. 1183 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,760 Speaker 3: So I feel like it just got to be some change. 1184 00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,680 Speaker 1: Well good, I think on the podcast, Oh yeah we should. Yeah, 1185 00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:20,760 Speaker 1: you got to get some people. 1186 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk too much about. 1187 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,440 Speaker 2: It to launch. 1188 00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 3: Hopefully the end of August. Hopefully. 1189 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:30,560 Speaker 2: Who are some people you would love to have one? 1190 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:31,880 Speaker 4: Uh? 1191 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 2: Maryland Monroe, Well that's not going to happen. 1192 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:42,040 Speaker 3: What's the later name? What's was talking about? 1193 00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 4: Madonna's usual Madonna Madonna? Because like I want to say, 1194 00:57:55,840 --> 00:58:00,160 Speaker 4: I have like this painting in my house, uh with 1195 00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:01,439 Speaker 4: her with my jersey. 1196 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 3: On Oh okay, I just want to. 1197 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:09,000 Speaker 4: Have that cool to interview her talk about the stuff 1198 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 4: that she's been through. 1199 00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 2: Make that happen. Yeah, I'm sure. 1200 00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:17,240 Speaker 4: Man like Floyd Mayweather, just a lot of the entertainments, 1201 00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 4: even regular people, Doctor Dree. I did a Special Forces 1202 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,080 Speaker 4: so I don't know if you guys saw I did 1203 00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:27,520 Speaker 4: a Special Forces show last year with Yeah Montel Jordans, 1204 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:33,560 Speaker 4: mel b Kenye. More so just bringing those people in 1205 00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:36,120 Speaker 4: the talk uh Me and doctor Drew while we were 1206 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 4: on the show. Uh we sat and talked for about 1207 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 4: an hour one night, and it was the only night 1208 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 4: he was there, and we made such a connection from 1209 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 4: our talks. He was like, man, you get a show, 1210 00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:48,760 Speaker 4: and then I got it. I want to talk to 1211 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:52,320 Speaker 4: you more. He enjoyed having the conversations we had, and 1212 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 4: I was like, man, that's why I kind of have 1213 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,760 Speaker 4: this podcast. It's so many people I would love to 1214 00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 4: talk to and get people's opinions on and. 1215 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,000 Speaker 3: Stuff like that. Because I have a lot of stuff 1216 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 3: in my head. 1217 00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 2: People be like, clearly yeah, crazy, Yeah. 1218 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:09,000 Speaker 3: I don't mind expressing. 1219 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,320 Speaker 4: I think that's the thing we got to the biggest 1220 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,760 Speaker 4: part of this show is we gotta be able to 1221 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 4: have these conversations, the tough conversations. I feel like we 1222 00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,480 Speaker 4: run from these conversations and everybody is so sensitive. 1223 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,920 Speaker 3: You said this and it's hurt. It's okay. 1224 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,160 Speaker 1: We got to build an understand I like to have conversations. 1225 00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:28,520 Speaker 1: I don't never attack people for what they believe. I 1226 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,960 Speaker 1: can say what my opinion on it is. I do 1227 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,720 Speaker 1: feel like it's important for people to be able to 1228 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 1: express themselves without somebody, you know, going hard at them 1229 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: because you might think this, and I'm not feeling like 1230 00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,320 Speaker 1: I could change your mind, but you might look at 1231 00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,680 Speaker 1: it differently, you know, from a different perspective, and that's fine. 1232 00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:46,240 Speaker 6: We all have different sets of eyes. So yeah, the 1233 00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 6: way you see the world is going to be different 1234 00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,680 Speaker 6: from me, and that's okay. I feel like a lot 1235 00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:51,480 Speaker 6: of times. 1236 00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:56,000 Speaker 4: We want people to understand us so much, and like, 1237 00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,200 Speaker 4: first of all, you're a woman, you might not be 1238 00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,560 Speaker 4: able to understand me as a male. Because you're not 1239 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 4: a male. You don't understand what I am, what I 1240 01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,960 Speaker 4: go through, and what I see, and I won't be 1241 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 4: able to understand you. So now we could take away 1242 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 4: using all that energy right there trying to understand this 1243 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:13,560 Speaker 4: and accept it. 1244 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, your life is so different than the average person anyways, 1245 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,120 Speaker 1: And like to be clear because I also think people 1246 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 1: think when you have money you don't have, they don't 1247 01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 1: have sympathy for you. 1248 01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 2: Right, They'll be like, he's. 1249 01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,640 Speaker 4: Rich, he can, he could do this, and that doesn't matter. 1250 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 4: But I promise you the devil that I deal with. 1251 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 4: You know, have you ever heard of this statement? New level, 1252 01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 4: new devil. 1253 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,200 Speaker 2: Yes Instagram caption we call it here. But the more money, 1254 01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 2: more problems. 1255 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:43,440 Speaker 3: Yes, there's so many problems, the more, the more you 1256 01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:44,160 Speaker 3: level up. 1257 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 2: So yes, it's just. 1258 01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 3: You have to be very strong to deal with it. 1259 01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:51,440 Speaker 4: You know. 1260 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you earlier. 1261 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:55,480 Speaker 1: You said you've made good investments and bad investments, right, 1262 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 1: I would love for you to talk about a couple 1263 01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,520 Speaker 1: of them, like the good ones and the bad ones. 1264 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 4: Oh man, the worst one I made, I lost seven 1265 01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:05,480 Speaker 4: million dollars. 1266 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, what. 1267 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,200 Speaker 4: I was going to try to purchase a w NBA 1268 01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:20,080 Speaker 4: team because I I love w NBA. It's all about 1269 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,560 Speaker 4: the Atlanta Dreamy killing it. 1270 01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 3: They are. 1271 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,760 Speaker 4: But my mom is a season ticket holder with the 1272 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 4: dream She's been for years. Every summer I would come 1273 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 4: back and take my kids to all the games, and 1274 01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:37,280 Speaker 4: I saw that they was up and they wanted new management. 1275 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:42,479 Speaker 4: I was like, man, that's a great opportunity, and got 1276 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:45,920 Speaker 4: with some people connected with some people, and. 1277 01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,520 Speaker 3: We put together this group for. 1278 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:53,440 Speaker 4: Me to own the team. After I invested my money, 1279 01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:54,720 Speaker 4: never heard from the. 1280 01:01:54,640 --> 01:02:01,120 Speaker 2: People this group, and they just disappeared, disappeared. 1281 01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:05,560 Speaker 3: Took the money. I can't really say too too much about. 1282 01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 2: The case because it's still going on. 1283 01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 3: It's been in the news. 1284 01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,400 Speaker 4: They made a rest to some of the people, but 1285 01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 4: it's still going Wow, but that's probably like one of 1286 01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 4: the worst investments. And then it's kind of made me 1287 01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 4: be like, yo, I don't really want to put my 1288 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 4: money into nothing. 1289 01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, scared. It definitely is like the trauma from something 1290 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 2: like that. 1291 01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,280 Speaker 1: But then it's so hard, right because I feel like 1292 01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 1: in our community we get nervous to do things because 1293 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,040 Speaker 1: something could go wrong. But there's a lot of people 1294 01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 1: we don't have money like that to just make an investment. 1295 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,240 Speaker 1: Like I feel like people who come from money, they 1296 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: could do that and then oh, my dad will help 1297 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 1: me out, or we have a family friend, I just 1298 01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:45,920 Speaker 1: do this, or I could get money from here and 1299 01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: raise money. 1300 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:48,160 Speaker 2: But for us, it's like our own money. 1301 01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 4: And so that's why like I'm like, man, even I 1302 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,400 Speaker 4: know y'all gonna hate this, but talking about child. 1303 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:59,080 Speaker 2: So here we go. Okay, okay, not just saying we're 1304 01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,760 Speaker 2: gonna have a call your podcast, the child support podcast. 1305 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 4: No, No, I don't have I have I don't have 1306 01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 4: a problem, don't have it. 1307 01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 3: I just feel like. 1308 01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 4: I have that work so hard, right, you know, all 1309 01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,920 Speaker 4: the athletes, anybody who's worked so hard. You just don't 1310 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:20,919 Speaker 4: want to get that money away. Yeah, And you don't 1311 01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:25,280 Speaker 4: know because it's the same thing. It's an investment. You 1312 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,600 Speaker 4: investing your time and your energy and the plan and 1313 01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:31,800 Speaker 4: doing whatever it may be. And you're sacrificing spending those 1314 01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:35,000 Speaker 4: precious moments with your child and stuff like that because 1315 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 4: you gotta work. And you know, I was just saying 1316 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 4: about the money. That money is so precious. That's seven 1317 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 4: million dollars. That's me working on the court, me getting 1318 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 4: up at five in the morning, going in the gym 1319 01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:50,120 Speaker 4: training for somebody to take it. You know what I'm saying. 1320 01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,720 Speaker 4: So you know that investment really really hurt? 1321 01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1322 01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 2: That does that hurt me? Yeah, it's nothing to do 1323 01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:58,520 Speaker 2: with me. What about your best You have the best 1324 01:03:58,600 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 2: investment that you ever made. 1325 01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 3: The best investment I would just say, is. 1326 01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:04,920 Speaker 2: My house okay, yeah, real estate. 1327 01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 4: Real estate, best investment. Also have a farm in North Georgia. 1328 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 4: My parents should stand on it, but I do doing 1329 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:17,440 Speaker 4: more stuff with my farm, feeding kids, feeding family. That's dope, 1330 01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:19,680 Speaker 4: So I want to continue to do that. 1331 01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,280 Speaker 1: That's how you combat anything negative. You just do some 1332 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 1: positive things that makes you feel good. 1333 01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 2: You know. 1334 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,440 Speaker 1: For me, because people say negative things, the best thing 1335 01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,600 Speaker 1: I do is all right, whatever, Let me just do 1336 01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 1: some things that I know that make me feel good 1337 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:33,400 Speaker 1: about helping other kid. 1338 01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:35,560 Speaker 3: You ever cried from things? 1339 01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:39,240 Speaker 2: No, never never know about you. I have ever cried 1340 01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,920 Speaker 2: about what things that you read about you've read. But 1341 01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:43,760 Speaker 2: I'm not in that. I'm not in that space where 1342 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:45,520 Speaker 2: people really I never cried. 1343 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,040 Speaker 1: I've been irritated and I've been started write man, and 1344 01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,640 Speaker 1: then I just then I don't do it. 1345 01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,800 Speaker 2: But you know what I do. I just log off 1346 01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:52,919 Speaker 2: and live my real life. 1347 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 1: That's why I'm not even on social media a lot 1348 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:56,240 Speaker 1: unless it's for work purposes. 1349 01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:57,600 Speaker 2: That's really what you're off. 1350 01:04:58,320 --> 01:04:59,520 Speaker 3: You're off the social meda well. 1351 01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 2: I just I also really use it for work. 1352 01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm not on there, you know, going 1353 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 1: back and forth with people or if I leave a 1354 01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:08,400 Speaker 1: comment or something that's always positive. 1355 01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:10,439 Speaker 2: It's not me like trying. 1356 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't engage in that type of energy, so I 1357 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:14,960 Speaker 1: don't expect to get it back, and then people say 1358 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:15,680 Speaker 1: negative things. 1359 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:16,959 Speaker 2: I just keep it moving. 1360 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's the best way. 1361 01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 4: Like even even if I do see positive message or 1362 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,600 Speaker 4: negative messages, I just keep scrolling right. 1363 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,200 Speaker 1: But sometimes positive stuff you got to respond to that 1364 01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,480 Speaker 1: because people did take the time out to show some support, 1365 01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:30,680 Speaker 1: and that's a that's true. 1366 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,040 Speaker 3: But I just look at it and you don't want 1367 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:33,520 Speaker 3: to get too high or get too low. 1368 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 4: A lot of times I do comment, or when I 1369 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:40,160 Speaker 4: see positive messages around, pin it so that everybody can 1370 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 4: see the message. 1371 01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,160 Speaker 2: That's nice. People appreciate that too. 1372 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 3: As far as. 1373 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,040 Speaker 4: Going and comment and back and forth, like I just 1374 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 4: don't have the energy, Especially if I see somebody say something. 1375 01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, shut up. You don't know what you talk like? What? Why? Like? 1376 01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,560 Speaker 3: Why would I engage in that kind. 1377 01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 2: Of You never want to do that. You never want 1378 01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,080 Speaker 2: to say shut up, you don't know what you're talking about. 1379 01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:01,400 Speaker 3: I mean sometimes I have, but I end up looking 1380 01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:02,480 Speaker 3: stupid doing. 1381 01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:05,680 Speaker 1: It because it's like, but now you're about to have 1382 01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 1: this podcast, so what's it about to be turned up 1383 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:08,240 Speaker 1: about all again? 1384 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,520 Speaker 4: Is because we also having live sessions where we're gonna 1385 01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:13,960 Speaker 4: be live and people can ask live questions and fans 1386 01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,920 Speaker 4: and get in and we're gonna turn on like the Snapchat, 1387 01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:20,800 Speaker 4: Instagram live and all that stuff and people get interact 1388 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,600 Speaker 4: and ask questions, and we we we want that because 1389 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:27,280 Speaker 4: we want people to start having conversations with each other. 1390 01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,160 Speaker 3: Like we don't even talk to each other week. 1391 01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:34,280 Speaker 4: We just sit and we just focus on like the 1392 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:38,320 Speaker 4: person's negative attributes. A lot of times we don't focus 1393 01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 4: on like how could we empower a lot of times, 1394 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,880 Speaker 4: especially when you look on the internet, the positive messages 1395 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:49,080 Speaker 4: they're there, but the noise that you hear is always 1396 01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:49,919 Speaker 4: the negative crap. 1397 01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:51,400 Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, I. 1398 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 4: Know, it's hard to change that because we live in 1399 01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 4: the negative driven world. 1400 01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,640 Speaker 3: We're not gonna be able to change that. But what 1401 01:06:57,680 --> 01:06:58,920 Speaker 3: we can change is is. 1402 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 4: Only our thoughts and yeah, you're right, our emotions and 1403 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:04,000 Speaker 4: what we give our energy to. 1404 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:09,440 Speaker 2: So I'm always that's a problem for everybody because I'm 1405 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,600 Speaker 2: happy the spirits. 1406 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 3: Why he's so happy? 1407 01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 4: He never mad? Eve when I'm playing basketball? Why is 1408 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 4: he smiling so much? 1409 01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:19,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, First of all, why are you so happy? 1410 01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:22,320 Speaker 4: Why am I so happy? Because I'm alive? My mama 1411 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 4: lost seven kids. I was supposed to be number eight. 1412 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 4: I was too much premature. My grandma tell you I 1413 01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,880 Speaker 4: was a little bit longer than this battle shit in 1414 01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 4: her hand like this. 1415 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:36,440 Speaker 3: Why would not be happy? I made it from death. 1416 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:41,040 Speaker 4: I made it from the pits of death to the 1417 01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 4: top in basketball and success. 1418 01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:45,720 Speaker 3: Like, why would I be sad? 1419 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 4: And why would I myself for doing exactly what I 1420 01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:52,040 Speaker 4: wanted to do? 1421 01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:52,600 Speaker 2: Exactly? 1422 01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:57,640 Speaker 4: Yes, it's just everything that I wanted to do is there. 1423 01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:00,560 Speaker 4: I did it because I always made a plan and 1424 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,840 Speaker 4: God has always made away no matter what. So why 1425 01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,160 Speaker 4: would I be upset? Why would I not be happy? 1426 01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:09,920 Speaker 4: Why would I not smile? Like it's somebody out there 1427 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:11,960 Speaker 4: that's been through way worse stuff than me? 1428 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:14,120 Speaker 3: For sure, all of us, you know, we don't. 1429 01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:16,920 Speaker 4: I've travel so much around the world and I've seen 1430 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 4: people no have nothing, but they still smiling, They're still grateful. 1431 01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:27,360 Speaker 4: And when you live a life with gratitude, the most 1432 01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:30,720 Speaker 4: hot bless you is so much and not money. You 1433 01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:34,160 Speaker 4: get blessed with favor. So like the favor that God 1434 01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:38,320 Speaker 4: has given me. No matter what is being said about me, good, bad, 1435 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:41,000 Speaker 4: or and different. I got God on my side. 1436 01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 2: So let me ask you one thing about basketball. I 1437 01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:44,760 Speaker 2: got to right. 1438 01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:47,360 Speaker 1: So, if you had a choice right now to either 1439 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:50,640 Speaker 1: play for the Lakers but not get much time, or 1440 01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:54,479 Speaker 1: go back to Taiwan and be like the superstar that 1441 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,479 Speaker 1: you were over there, same amount of money, what would 1442 01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:57,760 Speaker 1: you do. 1443 01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:00,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to go be with my kid. 1444 01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's the very chace you don't want to do. 1445 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,639 Speaker 1: So so you don't even want to play anymore. 1446 01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,760 Speaker 4: You asked me a question. I said, no, Lakers, no 1447 01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,839 Speaker 4: talk on. I would rather be with my children. 1448 01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:15,080 Speaker 3: Okay, one of the dad. 1449 01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:22,200 Speaker 2: Mean that is your name? Did y'all get to hang 1450 01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,320 Speaker 2: out with each other? Yes? 1451 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 3: You have five? I heard people say I got eight. 1452 01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:32,519 Speaker 2: Like three I got No, it was five different women, 1453 01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:33,599 Speaker 2: five different women. 1454 01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:38,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. One of them passed away resting, so rest in peace, Melissa. 1455 01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:40,760 Speaker 3: So it's four? 1456 01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,120 Speaker 2: Any more kids you play? Don't have any more kids? 1457 01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:46,200 Speaker 3: No, I'm good with with thes. 1458 01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,120 Speaker 2: I got I got five. 1459 01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 3: That's that is a lot. It is a lot. My 1460 01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,639 Speaker 3: oldest will be sixteen in November. 1461 01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:57,639 Speaker 1: We don't know if you're going to have any more yet, Yeah, 1462 01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,639 Speaker 1: because you know we don't know that know that he's gonna. 1463 01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:04,599 Speaker 2: Go through this. You better not have as strong as 1464 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 2: you are about this anti child the fourth then you 1465 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,160 Speaker 2: bet I have no more kids. 1466 01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:10,600 Speaker 3: I'm definitely not having. 1467 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 2: You never know, but what if you get. 1468 01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:17,479 Speaker 3: Married, I'm not having no work. 1469 01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:20,200 Speaker 2: Did you get fixed that? 1470 01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:20,479 Speaker 5: Like? 1471 01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 2: Did you get you know you don't know what that means? 1472 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 3: Like when the ladies get the tubes? Yeah, I ain't 1473 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 3: putting none of that information. 1474 01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:32,559 Speaker 2: All right, he's like that way. 1475 01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:34,439 Speaker 3: If you try me, I know you're. 1476 01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 4: Lying, and I know you're cheating around and you're sleeping 1477 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 4: with somebody else. 1478 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:43,519 Speaker 3: If we have had you pregnant, you're a cheater. Yep. 1479 01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 3: I know. 1480 01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,000 Speaker 2: It's not one hundred percent effective, just like condoms exactly. 1481 01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,280 Speaker 2: That's what you saw. 1482 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:50,200 Speaker 3: He you know. 1483 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 1: All right, Well, let me tell you have to say 1484 01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:57,479 Speaker 1: this conversation. I am very much looking forward to your podcast. 1485 01:10:57,479 --> 01:10:59,680 Speaker 1: Whether I agree with things you say or disagree, I 1486 01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:05,439 Speaker 1: do find it very compelling. 1487 01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,040 Speaker 2: I mean, but that's fine. I respect it. 1488 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:10,080 Speaker 3: You agree, you will disagree with a lot of stuff 1489 01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:10,479 Speaker 3: I said. 1490 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:12,639 Speaker 1: I said, whether or not I agree or disagree, because 1491 01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:14,639 Speaker 1: nobody's gonna agree with anybody one hundred percent. 1492 01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:16,760 Speaker 2: You know the world is. 1493 01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,439 Speaker 6: I don't feel like there's a right or wrong, or 1494 01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:23,520 Speaker 6: good or evil. I feel like it's agreement or disagreement. 1495 01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,240 Speaker 2: Nothing wrong with that. What do you think I agree? 1496 01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 2: It's not right or wrong. 1497 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:31,080 Speaker 1: We agree or disagree on certain things. Some and some 1498 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 1: things are fact though for real? Yeah, some things are fact. 1499 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:40,680 Speaker 2: Why you say that character he is? You're not that 1500 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:46,000 Speaker 2: tall either, that's why she got them hogh, step of all, 1501 01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:46,519 Speaker 2: that's tall. 1502 01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,799 Speaker 3: That's all You expect me to be seven feet so yeah. 1503 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,960 Speaker 2: I think he's gonna be tall, taller. 1504 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 3: I just got a big body. 1505 01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:57,000 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much again for joining us. And 1506 01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:00,439 Speaker 2: we'll make sure when this podcast come that we're going 1507 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:03,040 Speaker 2: to talk about it and make sure people were in there. 1508 01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:04,280 Speaker 2: I'm ready to go. 1509 01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 3: Fire up, I know, jazz. We want some old tea? 1510 01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need some more. Coming on. 1511 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:10,320 Speaker 3: I got some tea for you. 1512 01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 2: Oh tell us, here we go. You gotta come through later, 1513 01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:16,200 Speaker 2: all right, I'm coming on. Can we are we gonna drink? 1514 01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:17,280 Speaker 2: Can we drink on your podcast? 1515 01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:18,719 Speaker 3: You can drink? Smoke? 1516 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:22,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just know we could do that in here. 1517 01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:25,320 Speaker 6: But I did have a gas for y'all. Next time 1518 01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:26,840 Speaker 6: it's the Way Up show, I was. 1519 01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:28,519 Speaker 2: Gonna take take up the Way Up. 1520 01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 3: I want to see God. I was. 1521 01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:36,920 Speaker 1: Thank you so much again for coming through and be 1522 01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:39,720 Speaker 1: really open and honest about everything and letting us ask 1523 01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:41,400 Speaker 1: you whatever we wanted to ask. That was in the 1524 01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:43,479 Speaker 1: news because I felt like that was I was like, 1525 01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: is it gonna be okay? Because I also sometimes don't 1526 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:47,680 Speaker 1: like to have to ask her any questions, but I 1527 01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:49,600 Speaker 1: know it's part of the responsibility. 1528 01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 4: There's no words I don't I have no issue with talking. 1529 01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:58,599 Speaker 4: I don't get embarrassed about nothing. I don't allow nothing 1530 01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:02,800 Speaker 4: to change my mood. I'm always calm. I love to 1531 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,760 Speaker 4: have fun, but I'm always be the same person regardless. 1532 01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so next time we see you will be able 1533 01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 2: to do at least fifteen. 1534 01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:11,840 Speaker 3: I doubt it. I know you're not gonna be able 1535 01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:14,439 Speaker 3: to do it. That's not I'm gonna give you five 1536 01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,360 Speaker 3: because you don't want to come to my workout. 1537 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:18,759 Speaker 1: And then put it on a video of me crying 1538 01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:20,680 Speaker 1: and we can talk about how terrible you are, and 1539 01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:21,559 Speaker 1: we're gonna. 1540 01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:25,360 Speaker 2: Run it as an explosive crying and tears. 1541 01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:33,720 Speaker 3: Let's go, Yes, weeping may endure for what night. But joy, joy, 1542 01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:34,240 Speaker 3: it's coming. 1543 01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 2: In the morning, it's way, Angela Dwight Howard, thank you 1544 01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:38,760 Speaker 2: so much.