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Speaker 3: Did you drink you need coffee?

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Speaker 3: I don't drink coffee. That's a lie. Don't do me good.

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Speaker 3: birthing ideas?

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Speaker 2: Erica? I would say that, what would I say now?

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Speaker 1: I would say that, you know, for me, I've always

438
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: had a lot of ideas. I've always been very creative.

439
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: I've always you know, had ambition and big dreams for

440
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Speaker 1: my creations.

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Speaker 2: But I think my biggest hang up was perfection.

442
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Speaker 1: And so I got in the way of my ideas

443
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: and the creative process to completion because I felt like

444
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: things were not perfect or I saw someone else release

445
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 1: something or do something similar and I was like, oh,

446
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: it's they did it, so I can't do it anymore.

447
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people get in their way

448
00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 1: in that way of like needing things to be exactly

449
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 1: how they've envisioned in order to put something out. And

450
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: I think even more so I realize that and me

451
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: now in the space that we're in because we know

452
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: we have our studio in LA and we're podcasters and

453
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: we help other podcasters create podcasts, and I see the

454
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: overthinking that happens in just in even these spaces and

455
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 1: just like the perfection and like, I want to start

456
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 1: my podcast, but I recorded five episodes and I hate

457
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: them all and I deleted them and I'm like WHOA,

458
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: Like why And I think that there's so much really

459
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 1: like that's where the gift is is kind of in

460
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 1: like the imperfection and the mess, and I think people

461
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Speaker 1: just my I guess my word of advice is to

462
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: just kind of fuck perfection and just put it out,

463
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: put the project out. I think two people sometimes are

464
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: embarrassed to share their ideas, and it's really important for

465
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: you to have a space too. And that's why I

466
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: think we've been able to do what we do, is

467
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 1: because we've been able to bounce ideas off of each

468
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: other and no matter.

469
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Speaker 3: How silly stupid, like ridiculous they are.

470
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Speaker 1: And you can't you can't ide eight by yourself, absolutely,

471
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: but I think there's a lot of a lot of

472
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Speaker 1: support in just putting it out, trying it out with

473
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Speaker 1: other people, whatever it is, you know, whether that's like

474
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: you have a jewelry line, gifting your friends some jewelry pieces,

475
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: asking them how they feel about it.

476
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 3: Like I think people are afraid of feedback. Yeah, if

477
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 3: you're write sending a couple like I wrote this, what

478
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Speaker 3: do you think you know? I was. We were in

479
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 3: our discord recently and somebody was talking about like I'm

480
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 3: gonna start like reading, like writing poetry again, and I

481
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 3: was like, it's so crazy. I used to write poetry

482
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 3: so much in like high school, like girl, I got

483
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 3: so much emo poetry in every journal, and then like

484
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 3: as an adult, it's like embarrassing even when you had

485
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Speaker 3: like I know, I'm not supposed to speak this name,

486
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 3: but Poe Tree Bay. It's just like there's certain things

487
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 3: that in adulthood we become insecure and self conscious about that,

488
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: Like we didn't have any like we didn't give a

489
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 3: fuck when we were younger. But it's like it's in

490
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,239
Speaker 3: the words of Erica Bad, I'm an artist and I'm

491
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 3: sensitive about my shit. Yeah, and it's true. But like

492
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 3: if no one sees it, it's not art. No one

493
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 3: I mean that it's not art, but it's not. It's

494
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 3: just your oh, your art for no one else to see,

495
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 3: for no one else to consume and listen. I mean,

496
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Speaker 3: I never thought that anyone.

497
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Speaker 1: I never thought that just me sharing a story could

498
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Speaker 1: transform someone's life or perception of themselves. You know, I'm

499
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 1: just talking Sharon, Sharon, my shit, bad choices, right, you

500
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: know what? The other day was my grandmother's birthday, and

501
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: we took her to dinner and my my great aunt's husband,

502
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: so my great uncle, he came, and I always loved

503
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: talking to them because they're just like they've been married

504
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: for fifty five years, they never had any kids.

505
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Speaker 3: They travel all over the world.

506
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Speaker 1: Like they just got back from Morocco and that's actually

507
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Speaker 1: where he was born and spent like I think from

508
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: birth till he was around nine years old there and

509
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Speaker 1: for what I know of his career, like he worked

510
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: in car sales and he was like a salesman. And then,

511
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: like I remember, like a few Christmases ago, my aunt

512
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: was like, uncle Art wrote a book, and I was

513
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: like he did, and she was like, yeah, he wrote

514
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Speaker 1: a book, like and she like was you know, she's

515
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: such a proud wife, like passing it around and stuff,

516
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's so cool. I never got

517
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: around to reading it, but it was about his life

518
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: story because he was like, I've had like a really

519
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: crazy life.

520
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Speaker 3: So then we're at my.

521
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Speaker 1: Grandma's dinner and we're sitting there and they're like, man,

522
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: we just got back from Morocco. I haven't been there

523
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 1: since like the late eighties, and before that, I hadn't

524
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: been there since I was a young boy, and it

525
00:25:58,359 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 1: was just an amazing trip.

526
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Speaker 2: And then my aunt was like, he wrote a story

527
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Speaker 2: about it.

528
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: Do you want to read it, and she literally pulled

529
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: out printed paper, like eight pages of this story that

530
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: her husband wrote and was like, are you a quick reader?

531
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Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, and I could tell he

532
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, you don't have to read it. I

533
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: was like, I'm definitely gonna read it because it's printed

534
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: like this was printed fresh and stapled in the corner,

535
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: and b I wanted him to know that, I like,

536
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 1: you know, I want I didn't want him to feel

537
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 1: like embarrassed. And so I'm sitting there reading it, and

538
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: you know, he's talking about his experience and like when

539
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: he pulled up and how he was kind of disappointed

540
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: because he's from Tangier and things have changed. And I

541
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: guess like the booking agent that helped book their transportation

542
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: got them like a free through in like a free

543
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: four hour car drive where he could go anywhere he

544
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: wanted for four hours. And so in those four hours,

545
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: he wanted to go visit like all his old places

546
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: that he used to go as a kid. And as

547
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: he was going, like things had changed and some of

548
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: the places hadn't changed at all, and the driver they

549
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: were talking to the driver and the driver was like, yeah,

550
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, where are you guys from and they're like,

551
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: we're from La California. He's like, oh, I have a

552
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: I have a fiance in California, And so they're in

553
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: his riding. He was like, yeah, we didn't ask any

554
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: more questions because you know, you think about ninety day fiance,

555
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: like you're like, you got a fiance in California, you're

556
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: a driver in Tangier.

557
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 3: What's happening.

558
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: So he was like, we didn't ask many questions. But

559
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: at the end of the story, you'll find out why.

560
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: That was like a profound moment. So they go, they explore,

561
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: and then they get back into the car and just backstory.

562
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 3: My my aunt she's Mexican and obviously he's.

563
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 2: Moroccan.

564
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: And so at the end of the story, she they

565
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,360
Speaker 1: he says like, you know we got out of the car.

566
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, right before we got out of the car,

567
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 1: he tells us more about his fiance and says, oh,

568
00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: you know, my fiance's she's Mexican and you know she

569
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: lives in La And they leave the car and they're

570
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: like reflecting on their day and my aunt says to him, huh,

571
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: what do you think, Like, do you think like a.

572
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 2: Guy from Morocco?

573
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: And a Mexican girl from California could or a Mexican

574
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: girl could have like a you know, a good relationship.

575
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: And then they looked at each other and then they

576
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: realized that's them. Yeah, And then I was like crying

577
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like, this is so beautiful.

578
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 1: But all that's to say was that he just went

579
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: for it and he just wrote this beautiful story.

580
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 3: He's eighty three.

581
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: Years old or something, and you know, I just appreciated

582
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: that he was He's still creating, and he's still writing

583
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: these ideas and he knows that he has a gift too,

584
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: you know. And now I know that he has a

585
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: gift and why he wrote a book and all these

586
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: things and why his wife is so proud of him.

587
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: But I think a lot of times our ideas were

588
00:28:55,720 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: always ideating with the with the expectation for them to

589
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: be like to monetize that or something to be perfect,

590
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: but also to monetize them to have a level of

591
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: success or reverement from our peers or something. But sometimes

592
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: you just create just to create, and that's enough, and

593
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: that's where the joy comes. And eventually, if that's if

594
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: you know, if you want to move forward and do

595
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: something with that, then you can do that, but it

596
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: really has to it's the ideas that come from the

597
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: purest places are usually the most successful.

598
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 3: I agree, And like, what an inspiring story even though

599
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 3: it's like rather simple, but it's true, like we forget

600
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: to just create for the sake of creation and like

601
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: to share because I made it and you're my friend

602
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 3: and I want you to like experience what I experienced

603
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: through my perspective. And I think also like social media right,

604
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: like we're comparing each other. We're comparing our like our

605
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 3: lanes and our creations. And the truth is like my

606
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 3: creation is my creation and your creation is yours, and

607
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 3: that's just that it's not gonna they're not comparable, even

608
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 3: if they're in the same realm. And yeah, I think

609
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 3: I think I'm going to create more just to create

610
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 3: and even just like for us and our business SiZ

611
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 3: because there's many it's like we did start this place

612
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 3: from such like a pure fuck it like let's just

613
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 3: talk ass play in the dining room ass thing, and

614
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 3: like it did it built something so beautiful And sometimes

615
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 3: I get overwhelmed in this stage of our businesses because

616
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 3: there's there's so much at stake and it requires so

617
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 3: much of us, and I'm like, we're going, and we're going,

618
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 3: and now it's now it's about business. It's about money,

619
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: and I mean it's about our joy and it's about

620
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: our people, but also about those things because bitches need

621
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: to live. But it's just like I forget that we

622
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: need to just draw all the way back and like

623
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 3: just be two bitches chilling in the dine, spilling our

624
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 3: guts out, because like those are the places where we've

625
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 3: birth our most pure aspirations in our dreams, just from

626
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: pure like playfulness, the playfulness of imagination, you know, like

627
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: let's do this, you know. And then as you and

628
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 3: it's it's unfortunate that there's like this as you gain

629
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 3: success and visibility and not I mean not for all things,

630
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 3: but I just feel like there's more on the line

631
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,479
Speaker 3: and there's there's more people looking at you. And then

632
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 3: then you feel like, you know, like a a need

633
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: to maintain this level of perfectionism. And of course, like

634
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 3: we're creative ast bitches, and we put out high level shit,

635
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: but I like, I never want the creative, fun, playful

636
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: part of our business to die because we're so busy,

637
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 3: like going going going, Oh, you're busy thinking about how

638
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 3: is this going to make me money? Right, because like

639
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 3: that's that's not how we got here, thinking about it's

640
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 3: gonna make us money? Is it going to make us money?

641
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: Is this on is this on brand? Is this on trend?

642
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 3: And you know, like as an algorithm against us, why

643
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 3: can this bitch show her side? Titty? And we can't?

644
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: It's true And I think too, like being able to.

645
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: I guess get feedback has been really important. And obviously

646
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: having a podcast is a little bit different because you

647
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: have listeners that can give you feedback and stuff. And

648
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: but either way, like it's been encouraging for us to

649
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: keep moving forward. Is the feedback is even the even

650
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: the negative feedback because it allows it has allowed us

651
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: to really like really think about like, is this is this?

652
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 2: Is this the do I stand on this message? Is

653
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: this what I believe?

654
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 3: Yes? It is?

655
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: And I think that we can't be afraid of the feedback.

656
00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:01,959
Speaker 1: And there's so much growth when you kind of move uh,

657
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: like what's the word I'm looking for? Like, I guess

658
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: kind of don't take everything so personal because I know that, yes,

659
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm an artist and I'm sensitive about my shit. But

660
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: there's when you take everything so personal, you'd limit yourself.

661
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: You limit the possibility of growth, and you also limit

662
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: just being able to say, yeah, no, you may not like.

663
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 3: It, but I do. Whatever you create is not going

664
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 3: to be for everybody ever, you know, like only certain

665
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 3: people are going to get it, and like sometimes it's

666
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 3: just you, you know, and like who cares keep going?

667
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: And sometimes it takes people like it's your vision, so no,

668
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 3: it may not be someone else's vision. They're not going

669
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 3: to understand it. And even just like sometimes me and

670
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 3: Erica need a third or fourth or fifth opinion, Like

671
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, we need more ideas. Shout out to the

672
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: drub chat, shout out to the tribe chat, Hey, what

673
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: do you like this? Do you like that? But it's

674
00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 3: just like a part of humanity is connection and a

675
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 3: part of us all each being individuals and having our

676
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 3: own ideas and having to have like having the ability

677
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 3: to have conversation. Literally our conversations spark ideas that potentially

678
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 3: can change and shift entire nations, you know what I mean,

679
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 3: Like we have to have conversations with each other in

680
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 3: order to create, you know, create, All creation is in

681
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 3: like is usually co created you were created with someone.

682
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,439
Speaker 3: You were born with your mom, she was you were made.

683
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: They were made with your dad. And like, ideas come

684
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 3: to fruition when we can bounce ideas off of each

685
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 3: other and say, oh, that's what you believe, that's what

686
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 3: I believe. Oh that's what you made. What can I make?

687
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 3: I'm inspired now. Inspiration comes from simply talking it out,

688
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 3: you know, like I do. I feel so grateful for

689
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 3: this birth thing, all of this because we were crazy

690
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 3: enough to like just have playful, wild, imaginative ideas and

691
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 3: then you know, execute them and see how they like

692
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,919
Speaker 3: really looked in real life. And I think sometimes people

693
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 3: are afraid even to have discussions with their closest friends.

694
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 3: But like when I was in my twenties, we had

695
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 3: a we had like a meeting once a week, me

696
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 3: and my friends. It was like I forgot what the

697
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 3: fuck it's called, Like I don't know. It was like

698
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 3: a work meeting, but nobody was in work together, but

699
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,919
Speaker 3: it was like our dream meeting. And it was like, Okay,

700
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 3: so this is what I want to manifest and I

701
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 3: want to be a writer, and this is what I'm

702
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 3: doing the steps, like it was a way for us

703
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 3: all to kind of hold each other accountable and like

704
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: a safe space to kind of share our dreams. Even

705
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 3: though then I was waitressing a lot of us, you know,

706
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: we're just in the interim, and I realized that a

707
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 3: lot of those seeds that I planted then, you know,

708
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: really you know, manifested now. But also that I was

709
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: in a space where even in your twenties, like no

710
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 3: one really knows what they're doing. So it feels a

711
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: little you feel safer to express these like wild, big ideas.

712
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 3: But as we get older, we have this idea that

713
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 3: we're supposed to have it all figured out, so we're

714
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 3: less and less likely to share our ideas, and it's

715
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 3: so limiting. We'll all if we continue on that you

716
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 3: know that path, no one will share their ideas. You'll

717
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 3: go to the grave with them and they may very

718
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: much not even grow because you didn't even get the

719
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 3: in like the insight from a friend that may have

720
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 3: had like could have taken it to the next level. Right.

721
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 3: So it's just like as we get older, I even

722
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 3: for myself, like I encourage us to continue to create

723
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 3: because it's kind of like the fountain of youth. Right

724
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 3: then we don't have to like this and all the

725
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 3: pictures because we're creating. Look at Ericaba do fucking fine,

726
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 3: and she's creating all the time. I know she's over

727
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 3: there creating.

728
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: She is, She's a birth of a thousand things, fucking pussy, perfume, incense,

729
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: clothing lines.

730
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 3: Weed, jewelry, weed, music.

731
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: Like just she's she there's no limit into the ideas

732
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: that she births. She's free in that way.

733
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,240
Speaker 3: It's like take the money out of it and create

734
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 3: for the sake of your humanity, you know, create for

735
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 3: the sake of the art, Create for the sake of

736
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 3: Like it's an outlet to exercise that part of you,

737
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 3: you know that needs to come out. It's like sexual energy.

738
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 3: You know, a lot of like tantras understanding that sexual

739
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 3: energy is more than just intercourse. You know, like there's

740
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 3: there's it's life force energy. It literally creates things, and

741
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: so it's tied to your creative energy. And so it's

742
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 3: just like kind of like masturbation and being in tune

743
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 3: with your sexuality is a part of that creation. So

744
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 3: just you know, get masturbate and have more ideas. Yeah,

745
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 3: is that the trip? Is that the life hack? That's

746
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 3: the life hack. Masturbate have more ideas, be more creative

747
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 3: with masturbation. I think also as a creator, I've realized

748
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 3: that I.

749
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 1: There's there are certain conditions in which I create better

750
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: in you know, and that like I feel like there's

751
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: this there's a space and a scene and a vibe

752
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: that I'm always able to create in a more free.

753
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: Way than other than other spaces in places I.

754
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: Also have not I also am very aware where I

755
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: get some of my best ideas, like what I'm doing

756
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: when I get them, and it's it's corny because it's

757
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: sounds you've heard it before.

758
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 3: But I do.

759
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: I get my ideas either like when I'm exercising or

760
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: I'm in the shower.

761
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that makes sense, or I'm driving. Yeah.

762
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: It's like when my mind is like distract I don't know,

763
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: Like when my mind is not distracted on like necessarily myself,

764
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know, there's like a weird freedom

765
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: like I have to I'm distracting myself sort of, but

766
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm it's allowing my mind to like kind of just wander.

767
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 3: Like you're in motion, so your mind can kind of

768
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 3: like focus on something, whereas if you're not in motion,

769
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 3: it's you're focused on whatever else you're thinking about.

770
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: I don't know that makes sense because even like writing

771
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: our book, I really had to figure that out.

772
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: I don't like, why the fuck can I not right?

773
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: Like why is it so hard? Like what see?

774
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: What scenario do I need in order to set the

775
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: fuck down? We had a lot of center shit, but

776
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 1: like staycations.

777
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 3: Like do I need to try the pool? I need

778
00:38:58,880 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 3: to be by the pool.

779
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 2: I need to be in silence in my house. I

780
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 2: need to light a candle.

781
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 3: Is it amus?

782
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 2: Is it nighttime that I need?

783
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 3: Like like do I have sex and then go try

784
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 3: to write? Or no sex? I need folks a little bit?

785
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 3: No weed? No weed?

786
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, need weed? Oh I that specific weed, not

787
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 2: that weed.

788
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 3: We're not that we. I fall asleep one puff, not three.

789
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: But you know, I think as as creators, we that's

790
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: also our duty is kind of understanding where we create

791
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: the best, what what circumstances, what scenes we need in

792
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: order to to create and like for me personally, aside

793
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: from being in motion, and that's one of my ideas

794
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: come through a I know I need to be not hungry.

795
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: I need to be fed but.

796
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 3: Not too fed, not too fed, and I fall asleep.

797
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I prefer working early in the morning. Like that's

798
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: when I got a lot of my done. Is like

799
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: I woke up early. It was like first thoughts. It's

800
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: like those morning pages. Working at night, no, my brain

801
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: is tired. I'm exhausted by then. Although I will get

802
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: ideas sometimes at night, but should I be executing.

803
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: Them at night?

804
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: Probably not, so I think for the creators and the

805
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: people that are out there, Like, I think that's something

806
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: to really consider, is really thinking about where where do

807
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: your best ideas come from? What are you doing when

808
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: that's happening? Is it where's your mindset when that's happening?

809
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: And then also like physically, where do you need to be?

810
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 3: And those are really like real ass components because if

811
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: your if your mind is not settled, if you're not

812
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 3: at ease, Like sometimes I feel like I get my

813
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 3: best I get my ideas at night, but also when

814
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 3: I'm like maybe I've been stressed, then I'd like take

815
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 3: a week, and I'm like take a week. Then I'm

816
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 3: just like, oh, you know what, life is really good?

817
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 3: You know, I'm like ah, versus like on this, like

818
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 3: I need to make this idea to me, this money

819
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 3: to do this like, what's this idea, what's gotta make

820
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 3: me rich? It's like, bitch, nothing with that. With that,

821
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 3: you know, get it out of me, tell me God.

822
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 3: But if I'm just chilling and I'm relaxed and I'm

823
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 3: not pressed, you know, and it's not dire, I'm not

824
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 3: putting all this pressure on myself, then I'm like, huh,

825
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 3: you know, I can flow. And I think that's like,

826
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 3: you know, when there's music and there's vibes and I'm not, like,

827
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 3: there's not a stress around whatever it is that I'm creating.

828
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 3: And sometimes I think we're so stressed about it because

829
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 3: we have We're putting so much pressure on this idea

830
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 3: that it's hard for us. It's just like literally birthing

831
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 3: a baby. If you are not in complete peace, you

832
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 3: can't really fully get it out, like if you're worried

833
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 3: about like if you're in like a setting that's not great,

834
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 3: you can't like your body will shut down, you will

835
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 3: not dilate, and you will not birth the idea if

836
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 3: you are not in the right environment or in the

837
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 3: right state of mind.

838
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: I also, too, I noticed that I noticed that there's

839
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: certain people that I hang out with and I leave

840
00:41:59,680 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: and I.

841
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: Have lot of ideas.

842
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that's a thing too. And I started to

843
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 3: notice that like in my twenties, and I was like,

844
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: I hung out with like this hippie lesbian couple and

845
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 3: they were so like interesting to me, and we just

846
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: talked about ideas. And she showed me this, like yeah,

847
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 3: like a book she created, like for no reason, like

848
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 3: a ten page book. And I just remember this, and

849
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 3: after I left them, I felt high. I was like

850
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: I like them like because also she shared her she

851
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: shared her creation with me, and just like your uncle,

852
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 3: it was like just for because and it inspired me

853
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 3: to like just do more because and I done hung

854
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 3: out with them one time. I never forgot them though ever.

855
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 3: And it's just like you have to be real about

856
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 3: vibrations and what vibrations you get from certain people, because

857
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 3: there are certain people that will make you feel like creating.

858
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 3: And that was the vibe of Erica and I even

859
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 3: we didn't even know what that was. And when we

860
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 3: started it started to like propel. But there are people

861
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 3: that does make you feel like indifferent when you leave

862
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 3: them or just like drained, and you can love them,

863
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: but like they're energy is somewhere else. Those are not

864
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 3: your creative people and so and sometimes those people are

865
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 3: not people you're super close with yet maybe because you

866
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 3: feel safe to share big ideas where somebody you know

867
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,720
Speaker 3: same with like a relationship, there's water under the bridge

868
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 3: and they like you feel like they're judging you, or

869
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 3: like they only know you as an accountant and now

870
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 3: you want to be a painter, and so you know

871
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 3: what I mean, They're like, what do you mean You're

872
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 3: gonna paint, bitch? You know. So it's like even having

873
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: friendships and circles with people that you feel comfortable creating

874
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 3: with is super important.

875
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: Do we need to creative creative retreat?

876
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 3: I think we do?

877
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: This kind of sounds like the like what we talk

878
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: about when we do are retreats, which is you know,

879
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: of those all coming alone so that you don't feel

880
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: judged and you can really take off your mask and

881
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: rebrand yourself in ways and.

882
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: Be in an environment that it's kind of like catering

883
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 3: to you and you can really just be, like, you

884
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 3: create the best when you can just be when you're

885
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: not like, you don't have to be anywhere to do shit.

886
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 3: So I think I think we might need to create

887
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: a creative retreat for I'm for like wealth and wellness,

888
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: you know, like Brounce ideas off other people, chill the

889
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 3: fuck out, don't have to go anywhere. Food is taken

890
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 3: care of your fed check. That's a major one, you know,

891
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:24,439
Speaker 3: and like and it's really it's so useful to share

892
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 3: your resources. And I heard Lisa Ray say this like

893
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 3: years ago, and I find this stuck with me. And

894
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 3: she was just like, people are so busy trying to

895
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 3: network up, they don't network lateral. I heard that. I

896
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 3: heard her say that, and it's like you never know

897
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 3: who the creative people in your circle are and who, well,

898
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: where they're going next, and how they can pull you up.

899
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 3: And we've absolutely had friends and guests come on that

900
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 3: have like told us so many secrets about podcasting helped

901
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 3: us so much. Literally almost every person that we work

902
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 3: with has been just by lateral networking. And people underestimate

903
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 3: that because you think you're supposed to be.

904
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 1: Like, oh, you don't know, let me ask someone who's

905
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: I think is I think is more successful than you?

906
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 3: Or like let's do a project together, you know what

907
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 3: I mean? Like, yeah, so I do think that's a

908
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 3: very good idea. My love maybe twenty twenty four. You guys,

909
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: go to our newsletter on our beautiful website at Good

910
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 3: Momsbad Choices dot com and join the Subscribe the newsletter

911
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 3: list so you can be the first to hear when

912
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 3: we birth our new creative wellness retreat wellness retreat for creatives.

913
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 3: We haven't got the name yet, we're working on.

914
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: We usually release stuff to our newsletter and our Discord

915
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: community first, which is why we just sold out our

916
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: Costa Rica retreat and we recently just launched new dates

917
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: and I don't know, they might be sold out already,

918
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: who knows, because people were really really ready to come,

919
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: I think, really ready to come and.

920
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 3: Rebrand themselves.

921
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 1: So you know, if you have been thinking about coming

922
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: on our retreat, you don't have the creative one set

923
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: in stone yet because we just thought about it right

924
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: this very moment.

925
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 3: But give it four to sixth week and it'll come

926
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:16,320
Speaker 3: to fruition. But as usually our gestation period, once you

927
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 3: birth together, the birth thing gets quicker like after like

928
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 3: third and fourth birth.

929
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 2: It's true.

930
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: But if you do want to come to our Costa

931
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: Rica retreat, we just announced new dates and those are

932
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: July thirty first through the fifth and then July eighth

933
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 1: through the six thirty thirteenth, thirteenth, Yeah, we know things.

934
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: We do know things, and so click the link in

935
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: this description. It's affordable, you can do it. You have

936
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: over like less little under a year to pay for

937
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: it and investing yourself and these kind of spaces are

938
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: really important and there there are a huge reason why

939
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: Mila and I have been able to create the things

940
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,959
Speaker 1: that we've created. We've kind of created our own little

941
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: version of a retreat just in our friendship and the

942
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: way that we work together and ID eight and there's

943
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: a level of vulnerability that we're able to share with

944
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: one another, which inevitably reflects into how we are able

945
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: to share ideas and not really have any fear when

946
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: it comes to our ideas. In fact, sometimes we're like,

947
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: stop sharing ideas, please shut the fuck up. We haven't

948
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: even finished the last idea.

949
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 3: It could be overwhelming. So I've tried not to allow

950
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 3: that to that overwhelmingness to come. But there do have

951
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 3: to be scenarios in place, and I am like, we

952
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 3: have kind of really figured it out. Just thinking about

953
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 3: that trip we went to Palm Springs or we took

954
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 3: mushrooms and there was no TV, and we just I

955
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 3: don't know what the fuck we did there, but we

956
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 3: had some ideas. But you know, like we've steadily gone

957
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 3: on solo trips together, locked ourselves into property that has

958
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 3: some backyard and maybe a jacuzi and we and that's it.

959
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 3: We smoke weed and we talk because talking is what

960
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 3: birth's the ideas, And yeah, I would really love to

961
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 3: share that with our tribe and our people, because I

962
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 3: do think it's like definitely a balance, a level of

963
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 3: self care that comes with birthing ideas.

964
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: For sure, I feel like it's necessary and it's kind

965
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: of away. It's usually the afterthought. It's like, I'll do

966
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: I'll self care myself after I've created the idea. After

967
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: I feel like I've I deserve it. And it's like,

968
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: why can't we do it all at once so that

969
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: we can support and nurture ourselves so that we feel

970
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,720
Speaker 1: ready to birth these ideas.

971
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 3: It's like what it's like. It's like choosing a healthy

972
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 3: relationship and a healthy baby, Daddy, make the foundations strong

973
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 3: before you birth the idea. I like that, you know,

974
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 3: I like that?

975
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 2: Man, what's today's taro?

976
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 3: Is it Taro time? Is that the three of Wands,

977
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 3: the three of wall I really wanted you to tell

978
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 3: that you're a horry on Patreon. I don't know if

979
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 3: you're ready to tell this one about the dentistry.

980
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 2: The dentistry, how would you.

981
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 3: Obay and the dentist that's not a horry, Yes it is.

982
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 3: That was a nightmare. Okay, Well I can tell the

983
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 3: horri it's not it's not sexual though. I mean, it's

984
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 3: just a nightmare.

985
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: So once upon a time, while Mila looks up to

986
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: tarot Card.

987
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 3: I need everyone to right into the show and tell us, like,

988
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,720
Speaker 3: at least at least every woman has dated one scammer.

989
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 3: It's like you can't avoid it in your life. There's

990
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 3: too many and they'll scam you and then you get better,

991
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 3: but like you got like, please tell us we're not

992
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 3: the only ones who dated scammers. Send your scamming stories.

993
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 3: Send your best scammers story.

994
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 1: Send your best scammer stories to Princess Parental Advisor. Oh yeah,

995
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: or you can just call the hotline and confess your

996
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: scammer story.

997
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 3: Two one three zero seven four nine. It's very important

998
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 3: that we come together on this. It's highly likely that

999
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 3: they've scammed another woman because we discovered shortly at the

1000
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 3: retreat that he had also been scamming all over California. Apparently,

1001
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, that's my favorite horror story that you have.

1002
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 3: Anyway back to Tarot, time you would do it reversed. Sure.

1003
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 3: The three of wands reversed suggests that growth and expansion

1004
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 3: are available to you, but you are choosing to play

1005
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 3: it safe and stay within your comfort zone. As a result,

1006
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 3: you are becoming clos You're closing yourself off from new

1007
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 3: opportunity and limiting your potential. What's holding you back? M

1008
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 3: is time. It's time to spread your wings and fly.

1009
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,240
Speaker 3: The three of wands reversed indicates that you have attempted

1010
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 3: to embark on your journey of personal development but did

1011
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 3: not accomplish your goals. Unexpected delays and creative blockages might

1012
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 3: have popped up on your path. What the fuck? There

1013
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 3: is disappointment, frustration, and a general feeling that you may

1014
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 3: have just wasted your time by even starting on this path.

1015
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,280
Speaker 3: But you have not. But you might not realize, however,

1016
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 3: it is that these setbacks are an essential part of

1017
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 3: your life's journey and contribute to your personal evolution. Similarly, Similarly,

1018
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 3: the reverse three of Wand's can indicate that your plans

1019
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 3: might come to a grinding halt with unexpected delays and

1020
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 3: are other frustrating obstacles. You may need to wait on

1021
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 3: others to complete a task, or you have underestimated how

1022
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 3: much time the work involves when planning, and add buffer

1023
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 3: time so external problems don't adversely affect you. So you

1024
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 3: have to book our retreat.

1025
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: So basically, comebook r Creative Creative Retreat first and foremost,

1026
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: go on our website, Good Mom's Bad Choices, and join

1027
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: our newsletter. There's there's a little drop down tab and

1028
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: it asks why are you here? Click retreats so we

1029
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: can make sure that you guys get those retreat emails. Yeah,

1030
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 1: it sounds like this is this is what we need,

1031
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: It's what the people need. Yeah, yeah, I'm including me,

1032
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: including us because I mean, because even as I think,

1033
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: you know, we're not perfect creators. I think one of

1034
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: the things that we struggle with sometimes a strategy and

1035
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: so like even like at our own retreats, we gained

1036
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 1: so much from these things. And the whole reason we

1037
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 1: started the retreat was because it was something that we needed.

1038
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: And we'll be right there with you at the creative retreat,

1039
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: bitch learning. Okay, we won't find a strategist.

1040
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 3: Well, the thing is, it's like creation takes wellness, but

1041
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 3: also once you create, it takes business stuff that we've

1042
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 3: just we're figuring the shit out. Not easy, but like

1043
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 3: and you know, like I really find joy in thinking that,

1044
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 3: Like we have the opportunity to exchange information that like

1045
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 3: bitches may not know. And you know, right now we're

1046
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: in like a business course from a friend that was

1047
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 3: mentored by this woman, and like this is and so

1048
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 3: many of our friends like shout out to Mandy, shout

1049
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 3: out to Jessica, shout out to all the friends we've

1050
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 3: ever had. That's like really shared things that have helped us,

1051
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 3: you know, fucking mindful fee Like so many people have

1052
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 3: put us on resources, people, apps, whatever it is. And

1053
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 3: you know, we all can pour into each other's cups

1054
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 3: so that we can all come up, you know, and

1055
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 3: mostly have fun and not laugh at each other when

1056
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 3: we write poetry and stuff.

1057
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start printing my poetryes and keep them in

1058
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:15,919
Speaker 2: myth purse.

1059
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 3: Me too, I'm just gonna like, maybe, oh, I know,

1060
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 3: we can like make make little fonts and just pass

1061
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 3: into people in public. Okay, you know, like just like

1062
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 3: it's gonna be a social movement.

1063
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: So when I say when I when I show up

1064
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: to dinner one day and I say, hey, guys, I

1065
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: have the poem that I want you to.

1066
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 2: Read, I need you not laugh at me. I'm not

1067
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 2: no laughing, no laughing.

1068
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 3: I kind of work on not laughing when things are serious.

1069
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 3: I have a problem no laughing because and you better

1070
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 3: not laugh at my poetry.

1071
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna laugh. Okay, I'm going to cheer you one.

1072
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 3: This is a reminder to not laugh at your friends creations.

1073
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: Don't even though it's just a nervous laugh, but don't

1074
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: do that shit because you never know what that can like,

1075
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: that can shut somebody down.

1076
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 3: But also, like I realize I do that because I

1077
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 3: don't give myself the freedom to just write poetry and

1078
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 3: just I just automatically have that visceral response like oh

1079
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: you're writing poetry at thirty six, Okay you printed it out,

1080
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 3: Like what's wrong with me? Bicus? Some will love poetry,

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Speaker 3: this Taro. It was well, you guys, thank you for

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Speaker 3: joining us for this. Another Wednesday with the Good Moms.

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Speaker 3: We so appreciate you and we can't wait to see

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Speaker 3: you in Los Angeles, California and August twenty first. August

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Speaker 3: October twenty first, We're not ready yet, it must be

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Speaker 2: Choose yourself today.

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Speaker 2: MHM