1 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Today's episode is interesting. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 2: I have been thinking about how I do my job 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: as a journalist in these times that I believe are 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 2: very dangerous and also very uncomfortable, And I think what 5 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: makes me uncomfortable the most is the apathy, the apathy 6 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 2: that this isn't really a dangerous time that we're living in. 7 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: I am not an alarmist. I am very optimistic. I 8 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: always like to think about the future. 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: And here's a kicker. 10 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: I don't believe that what I'm afraid of really truly 11 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: will affect me in ways that it will affect the masses, 12 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 2: if that makes sense. Meaning I'm not worried about being deported. 13 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: I'm not worried about certain housing insecure, or things that 14 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 2: really are everyday issues, or how simple things that we 15 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: should be aware of. These things aren't necessarily at the 16 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: forefront of my mind. What I am worried about again 17 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 2: is the apathy, the idea that we are not living 18 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: in dangerous times. We are twenty some odd days, maybe 19 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: more than a month by the time you hear this 20 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 2: into this new year, and so much has happened. I 21 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: don't know how y'all can keep track, because I know 22 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: I can't keep track and that is my job as 23 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: a journalist to keep track. And the other day I 24 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: got a text from David Johnson. It said, guard your joy, sibling, 25 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: guard your joy, And I thought to myself, that's really powerful. 26 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: So instead of. 27 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 2: Complaining, I said, let me find some joy today, let 28 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: me do something that I love to do. 29 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: And that was just laugh of my friends. 30 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: It was just that simple, go hang out with my folks, laugh, 31 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: be silly, and enjoy myself because those days, to me, 32 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: are going to be the most important to keep the 33 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 2: balance of where we are. President Trump signed an executive 34 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: order that essentially said, if you are a federal employee 35 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: under any type of d E and I, we're going 36 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: to put paid leave and we eventually will then lay 37 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 2: you off. DEI is not a thing. Diversity, equity and 38 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: inclusion is not a thing anymore. If you are the 39 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 2: head of that department, if you work under that guise, 40 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 2: if somehow you are employed that way, especially if it's 41 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: by the federal government, you quite frankly will not have 42 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 2: a job unless you switch departments. 43 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: Who knows what happens. 44 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: The insurrectionists have been freed from January sixth. People are 45 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 2: truly worried about being deported as they should be. There 46 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: are simple liberties that you and I have taken for 47 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: granted that will no longer be there. 48 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: And I'm worried. 49 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 2: And I need to understand what I should do because 50 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: I don't feel really educated about how to fight a 51 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: battle I've never been a part of before. So on 52 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 2: today's episode, Brittany Pacnett Cunningham Activists, mother friend's sister, smart lady, 53 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 2: you know all of the adjectives, joins us. 54 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: On the podcast, and I gave. 55 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 2: Her some examples of things that I've been able to 56 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 2: see in these first few weeks of the new year, 57 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: And how do people who are frustrated or want to 58 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 2: be involved, or people who want to see a difference, 59 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: how do they respond? And I simply took on a 60 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 2: couple of key phrases. If I see something, say something. 61 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm very intentional about what I see because they will 62 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: tell you you didn't see it. But I'm also intentional 63 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 2: about not being emotional in these times, because you can't 64 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: do anything if you only move with emotion. It doesn't 65 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: help you think straight, it doesn't help you strategize, it 66 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: doesn't help you play a different type of game. And 67 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: right now, a different type of game is being played, 68 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 2: and I don't quite frankly know what it is. But 69 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 2: what I do know is that I want to help. 70 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 2: I want to live in. 71 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: A world where I raise. 72 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: Children in there and they have the same rights in liberties, 73 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: and right now it feels as if they're being taken away. 74 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: It really does. 75 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: And for those who are like I don't care, I 76 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: don't want to hear about this. It's exhausting. Let's just 77 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: wait this out for four years. Brittany has a really 78 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: good message today. 79 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: Do your work. Do your work, your work. 80 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: Whether that's raising your children, whether that's paying and providing 81 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: for your family, whether that's being a journalist, whether that 82 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 2: is being an activist, whether that is being someone who 83 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: works in the customer service department. Do your work, whatever 84 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: that looks like. And little do we know, we're helping 85 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 2: out society at large. I am my brother's keeper. We 86 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: truly are. And I know most people don't want to 87 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 2: hear that, but we all want to live in a 88 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: safe space. We all want to live in that world 89 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: where we feel as if we have rights. Call me crazy, 90 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 2: and so I hope you enjoy this edition of Naked 91 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 2: Sports Brittany's heavy because she's so smart. Her brain's so big, right, 92 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: so she breaks it down and have a break it down, 93 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 2: and break it down, break it down. It's just like 94 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: you know, PhD level, and I need you to give 95 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: it to me at a bachelor's level. Maybe even give 96 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: it to me at a high school level, break it 97 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 2: down to elementary. Matter of fact, is there any books 98 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: and pictures that come with what you're telling me? What 99 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: is the instruction? I only want pictures that tell me 100 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 2: what to do, kid, I joke. I hope you enjoy 101 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: this edition of Naked Sports. Welcome to Naked Sports, the 102 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 2: podcast where we live at the intersection of sports, politics, 103 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: and culture. Our purpose reveal the common threads that bind 104 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: them all. 105 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 3: So what's happening in women's basketball right now is what 106 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 3: we've been trying. 107 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 4: To get to for almost thirty years. 108 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: From the stadiums where athletes break barriers and set records. 109 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: Kayden Clark broke the all time single game assist record. 110 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: This is crazy for rookies to be doing. To the 111 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: polls where history is written. 112 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 5: And now we have Kamala Harrison. It feels more like 113 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 5: women are sort of taken what they've always deserved, as 114 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 5: opposed to waiting on somebody to give them what they deserve. 115 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 2: Our discussions will uncover the vital connections between these realms 116 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: and the community we create. In each episode, we'll sit 117 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: down with athletes, political analysts, and culture critics because at 118 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 2: the core of it all, how we see one issue 119 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: shines the light on all others. Welcome to Naked Sports. 120 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: I'm your host, Gary Champion. 121 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 4: I'm Brittany Paknak Cunningham. 122 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 3: I am an activist, a writer, an educator of strategist. 123 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 4: I'm basically a battie for Jeffrey. 124 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: A batty for Justice. Y'all did y'all know they existed? Yes? 125 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: You did, because I'm sure you're familiar with her. In 126 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: the spirit of transparency, we have a very intimate girl 127 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 2: group that we all are baddies for Justice, if you will, 128 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: and Brittany is one of ten total collective and I 129 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: think when I describe Brittany and you should always give 130 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 2: your friends their flowers. When I think of her, I 131 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: was a fan before I even knew her, but I 132 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: loved how eloquent she was and she always met at 133 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: the intersection of elegance rationality. Believe it or not, and 134 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 2: righteous anger. 135 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: It's hard to give. 136 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: It's hard to give all of those things without sounding 137 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: too emotional. And if you are emotional, it's righteous. It 138 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: feels fair, it feels balanced, it feels very on scale 139 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 2: with what we should be talking about. And here we 140 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 2: are twenty three days, twenty two days correction into the 141 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 2: new year, and it feels like it's been ten years 142 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: into this new year. 143 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: It does. 144 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 4: This has been a long year. 145 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: Talk to me about how you felt when Kamala Harris 146 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 2: lost the election. 147 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 4: Oh, chow, Well, first of all, let me give you 148 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 4: your flowers. 149 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: Because we were mutual fans before we knew each other, 150 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: and then immediately fell in like we had. 151 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 4: Always been sisters. And that is a. 152 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 3: Rarity, right, because you can meet people and have an 153 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 3: instant connection and it not be a lasting one. 154 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 4: And I'm so glad that this one is a lasting one. 155 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 3: You have always been so clear eyed about your purpose work, 156 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: and to watch how deftly you intertwine for culture, woman 157 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 3: is done justice and you do it while you're like 158 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: a full gra amazon h st tall. But actually don't 159 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 3: you You physically looked down on us, but you never 160 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: actually looked down on any women I just think that 161 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,599 Speaker 3: that's a beautiful thing because you're You're beautiful enough to 162 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 3: be a jerk if you. 163 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 4: Wanted to. 164 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: Thank you. 165 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: And when I'm a jerk, it's only because I'm really 166 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: wanting to be a jerk because something is wrong. 167 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 3: Yes, but that's that's my kind of battie, right, Those 168 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 3: are my kind of keey balls. 169 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 4: Amen? Amen? 170 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 3: Anyway, Okay, so so so our dear sister, Madame Vice 171 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 3: President Kamala Debbie Harris. It's interesting because I know that 172 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 3: you know, I very quietly served as a senior advisor 173 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 3: for her campaign and had known her for a number 174 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 3: of years since she was in the Senate, and had 175 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: developed a relationship with her that was both personal, because 176 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 3: I think you know that as people get to know 177 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 3: that the aunty thing really does bring true right, like 178 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 3: when there was stuff going on with me or when 179 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 3: our first son was born, like he would call, she 180 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 3: would check it, she would encourage, she would offer help, 181 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: and all of that was very genuine. But she'd also 182 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 3: call and be like, Okay, this is what we're planning. 183 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,679 Speaker 3: Tell me what's wrong with it? Like poke holds in it? 184 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 3: Where should we be going? What should I be saying? 185 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 4: About it. You know, where are the flaws in the plan? 186 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: And it is rare to meet a public servant like 187 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: that who displays that level of consistency an. 188 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 4: Interest in being responsive to the people. 189 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 3: And so that is the kind of person I was 190 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: looking forward to inhabiting that office. It meant something, certainly 191 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 3: for her to be a black and South Asian woman. 192 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 3: It meant something for her to be a woman, It 193 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: meant something for her to be a history maker in 194 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 3: so many regards. But it also meant something to have 195 00:10:55,520 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: someone who was interested in the constituency she serves as 196 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: her and the constituency being her leaders instead of the 197 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 3: other way around. 198 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 4: And so my reaction had everything to do with the 199 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 4: pain of knowing that not only were we not going 200 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 4: to get somebody like that, but we were going to 201 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 4: get the exact opposite, somebody who seeks to. 202 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 3: Disempower the people through overwhelmed, through destruction, through being power hungry, 203 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 3: money hungry, and through ego, right like through pure ego. 204 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 4: That night was. 205 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 3: You know, we got to Howard's canvas and we were 206 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 3: like ready to slag surf to victory, and we swag, sir, 207 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 3: but not to victory. 208 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 4: The next day going back for our concession speech. It 209 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 4: felt like it felt like a. 210 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 3: Funeral march until she hit the stage and reminded us 211 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 3: that we have work to do. And I think in 212 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 3: this day since I, like many other black women, have 213 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 3: been resting up and trying to prepare for what this 214 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 3: new season is going to look like. I've been trying 215 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 3: to make sure that my house is in order, because 216 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 3: you know, I'm very close to popping out baby number two, 217 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 3: and I want these two black boys that I'm raising 218 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 3: alongside this black husband of mine, in this very black 219 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 3: household of ours, to be safe and secure always. And 220 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 3: you know, I'm trying desperately to raise a different kind 221 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 3: of man and our voice. And I'm thinking a lot 222 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 3: about that. In the days past past the selection result. 223 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: You wrote an article I mean prolific with your words. 224 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 2: You really are, and you describe a universal feeling or 225 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 2: at least represent the ninety two and that is inclusive 226 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: of myself and the article that you wrote for the Cut, 227 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: the plight of Black women in America is seeing Kamala 228 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 2: Harris Loose confirmed that the solid dare we work so 229 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: hard to create may still abandon us. He wrote, and 230 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: these are some of the highlights. I wish I wasn't pregnant, 231 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: and that's the most crushing thing to feel right now. 232 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 2: Usually I leaned into my black girl tendency to lie 233 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: and say I'm fine, but in truth, I wasn't. In 234 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 2: my raw's place, I'm still left feeling like I can't 235 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 2: trust any damn body. 236 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: Friend. 237 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 2: That makes my eyes water. Considering where we are right now, 238 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 2: and you have been in this game, this political activism game, 239 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: for some time. 240 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: Where's our hope? What do we do now? If anything 241 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: at all? 242 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 4: I mean. 243 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:03,479 Speaker 3: For me, besides my fate background, my hope is ancestral. 244 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 4: Right, there's a. 245 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 3: Calling I think so many of us have been feeling 246 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 3: back to the blueprint. You know, it is not lost 247 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 3: on me that Reverend doctor Bernice King was very clear 248 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 3: in saying that she felt like it was divine that 249 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 3: the juxtaposition of Trump was cast so clearly against the 250 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 3: life and legacy of her father and mother, as Inauguration 251 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 3: Day was also on MLK Day, And I'm glad that 252 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 3: she called us to recognizing the stark gap between where 253 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: our reality is and where the dream is. And so 254 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 3: the good news though, about us bridging that gap, right, 255 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 3: us making it across that chasm is that, Carrie, we 256 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 3: come from people who have done far more, was far less. 257 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 4: Right. 258 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 3: We come from people who literally wrote their own freedom 259 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 3: into existence when it was not accessible, when they were 260 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 3: not allowed to read it write right, when connecting with 261 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 3: one another was illegal and punishable by death, when daring 262 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 3: to say I love you, let's build through the build 263 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 3: a family through the institution of marriage is actually not allowed. 264 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 4: Right, We're talking about people who. 265 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: Put themselves in the posture of emancipation before it actually 266 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: came to be. That's where our ancestors are like, let's 267 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: be very very clear. So there's a precedent for freedom 268 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 3: and a blueprint that they said that we get to 269 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: follow their descendants, right in the era of the Civil 270 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 3: rights movement, in the era of Black Power, in the 271 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: era of black arts, recognizing that from a Philip Randolph 272 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 3: and the Brotherhood of Pume Importers forcing black people into 273 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 3: the labor rights conversation in the nineteen forties, all the 274 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 3: way through Gil Scott Heron in the sixties and seventies 275 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 3: telling you that the revolution won't be televised because dot 276 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 3: dot dot it needs to be communal, it needs. 277 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 4: To be grounded. It needs to be real and that 278 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 4: revolution will be live. 279 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 3: As he said, like, that is another era of blueprints 280 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 3: for us, Right, Ida d Wells gives a blueprint for 281 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 3: the journalists to be compelled to tell the truth and 282 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 3: to devise a way to do so independently. 283 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 4: Right. 284 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 3: So what her newsletter was is what our podcasts are there, 285 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 3: what our subsets are there, what you know our speeches are? 286 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 4: Right? The educators, like said to Maclark, gave us a blueprint. 287 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 3: She built the school herself and said literacy is critical 288 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 3: to our freedom and if they won't teach you, we. 289 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 4: Will, right. And there are literal. 290 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 3: There are literally entire communities, generations of black people who 291 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 3: owe their ability to read and write to the fact 292 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 3: that she built the Highlander Center in Tennessee and shuffled 293 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 3: as many children through that place as possible, made sure 294 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 3: that they all came out knowing how to read and 295 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 3: write and knowing that the power of life and death 296 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 3: was in their tongue. 297 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 4: Right, So, like, that's that's a blueprint, Manny. 298 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 3: Helen Burrows built a school in DC for black women 299 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 3: and girls to say, you should have access to every 300 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 3: option that if you want to be a domestic will 301 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 3: teach you how to do that. 302 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 4: But if you want to be an. 303 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 3: Administrator or a secretary or a teacher, will teach you 304 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 3: how to do that. Right, if you want to be 305 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 3: an entrepreneur, will teach you how to do that because 306 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 3: you are owed every single option and you can write 307 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 3: generational wealth into your family's future through the schooling that 308 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 3: we give you here. Right, those are the you know, 309 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 3: the the midwives gave us the blueprint. They said, you 310 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 3: can't go to the hospital and expect to be treated fairly, 311 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 3: So we're going to make sure that we can help 312 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 3: you bear your children at home. Right, And you know, 313 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,400 Speaker 3: I look at organizations like Mama Glow and Jama Birth 314 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 3: Center and my Home Saint Louis, and they are carrying 315 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 3: on that blueprint. So I give those examples to say 316 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 3: we're not in this alone. Our ancestors have reached out 317 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 3: guiding hands to pull us along the way. 318 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 4: We just have to be smart enough to grab holds. 319 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 3: We have to be smart enough to read the books 320 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 3: and watch the documentaries and talk to the elders, many 321 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 3: of whom aren't still with us, and understand how. 322 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 4: To move deafly. How in a lot of ways to 323 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 4: move secretly. 324 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 3: And how to be organized, disciplined and loving enough with 325 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 3: one another that we look back over these four years 326 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 3: and realize not only have we survived, but we found 327 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 3: creative ways to thrive, and we set new blueprints for 328 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:44,360 Speaker 3: the future. 329 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: And we've done, as you said, far more with far less. 330 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 2: This season will require sacrifice if we want to see 331 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 2: true justice. This season will require us to not be 332 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: as comfortable, and I don't know if everyone knows what 333 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 2: that looks like or feels like there will be I 334 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 2: think that this also is a beautiful time for us 335 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 2: to remember those blueprints to empower ourselves if we feel 336 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 2: because everyone may not feel the way we feel. People 337 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 2: may feel like there is the saying I'm taking my 338 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 2: cape off and I'm gonna put on a blanket. People 339 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 2: may feel like they want to check out. I don't 340 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: feel that way. I felt that way after Kamala lost, 341 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: but I knew I just needed a minute to understand 342 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 2: the loss and then I'm going to get back in 343 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 2: the fight. 344 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: I just needed a minute to mourn. 345 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: And I don't think that many of us, as black 346 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 2: women were allowed that space that saves space to mourn 347 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: because we needed to It was a visceral reaction to 348 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 2: watching what we needed, which was the hope we needed 349 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 2: to believe she could even though it didn't happen. 350 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: We needed to believe she could. You know what I'm saying. 351 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 4: Absolutely, I know exactly what you're saying. 352 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 3: And to be clear, I think that lots of black 353 00:19:55,720 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 3: women in particular are shifting how we shut up. We 354 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 3: might be taking off the cap and need to realize 355 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 3: if that's okay because we taken off the cape, but 356 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 3: we're putting on a rope because actually, what this time 357 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 3: is calling us too is intentional self care such that 358 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 3: we can teach. 359 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 4: Future generations how to care for themselves. 360 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 3: Right, Like, maybe you are taking off the cap, but 361 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 3: you're putting on the apron and you're saying the thing 362 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 3: that actually makes me happy is feeding the people that 363 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 3: I love. 364 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 4: And there is a role for that. 365 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 3: Right in freedom work, I often talk about a woman 366 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 3: named Mama Cat who back during the Ferguson uprising was 367 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 3: literally feeding us right when people were out on the 368 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 3: front lines in front of the Ferguson Police Department on 369 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 3: West Forest and Avenue right by Canfield. 370 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 4: Where Michael Brown was murdered. 371 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 3: Like she's literally passing out plates of food, and often 372 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 3: the hands that are accepting that food. 373 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 4: Are people who've lost their jobs. 374 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 3: For participating in this uprising, right, people who were housing 375 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 3: insecure and didn't know where their next meal was coming from. 376 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,160 Speaker 4: And then as that time marched on, Mama Cat. 377 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 3: Got with formally incarcerated people, she got with protesters, she 378 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: got with organizers, and she said, if you want to 379 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 3: write your future, let me teach you how to cook. 380 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 4: Let me teach you how to be a chef. 381 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 3: Let me help you find a career and a passion 382 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 3: that not only can feed your community, but help you 383 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 3: feed yourself. 384 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 4: And so that kind of work is what she was 385 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 4: born to do. 386 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 3: Part of the reason why we're so exhausted is because 387 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 3: we keep accepting other people's responsibilities. And Mama Cat said, no, no, 388 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 3: no, no no, I'm going to do my job. I'm going 389 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 3: to stay in my lane. I'm going to make my 390 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 3: contribution of consequence. 391 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 4: So it's not like she gave up. It's not like 392 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 4: she wasn't doing the work. 393 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 3: It was that she was not being somebody else's mule 394 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 3: because they wanted. 395 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 4: Her to perform in some other kind of way. 396 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 3: And I think that's what a lot of us are 397 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 3: doing right, So it doesn't It doesn't mean that we're 398 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 3: giving up. 399 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 4: It means that we're shifting how we contribute. 400 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 3: So that we can do so in a way is sustainable, healthy, 401 00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 3: and respectful of who we are. 402 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 2: Beautiful, do you hear that we can shift the way 403 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: we show up and still do the work. We can 404 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: shift the way we show up and still do the work. 405 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be loud and proud. If you 406 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: think that's what work looks like, it could be cooking 407 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 2: for someone. 408 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 1: Wow. 409 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 2: Powerful because we now, all of us, I think, are 410 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 2: looking for ways to do this, but do it with intention, 411 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 2: real intention, And the conversations that I'm hearing in our 412 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 2: world and this group of people who want to do 413 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 2: the work is let's organize silently, let's do it, Let's 414 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 2: do it privately and then take it to the streets. 415 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 2: But we have to be organized. And by we I 416 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 2: mean the people who want to see the world that 417 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 2: doctor King wanted us to live in, the people who 418 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 2: believe that we all who believe what America promised. In short, 419 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 2: these first few days with forty seven in office have 420 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 2: been chaotic in terms of the executive orders the people 421 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 2: who were immediately affected, and they have been very punitive, 422 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 2: as he has promised back in a moment, Welcome back 423 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,719 Speaker 2: to naked sports survival tips. 424 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 1: What do you say? 425 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 2: Do you have any Yeah? 426 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 4: A couple of things. 427 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 3: One one is to find no and remain connected to 428 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:30,959 Speaker 3: your people. 429 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 4: This is a time when community. 430 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 3: Let me be clear, community always matters, whether you've built 431 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 3: digitally in person and whether it's your blood family, whether 432 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,400 Speaker 3: it's your chosen family, whether it's a combination of all 433 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,199 Speaker 3: of the above, and then some You need to know 434 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 3: who you can call when times get rough, and you 435 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 3: need to be the kind of person that can be 436 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 3: called when times get rough. 437 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 4: Right. 438 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 3: People talk about mutual aid as if it is just fundraising, Right, 439 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 3: if it's just somebody making it GoFundMe and. 440 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,360 Speaker 4: That matters, right. 441 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 3: I think the response to the LA fires, for example, 442 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 3: has shown us very recently how much community matters, how 443 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 3: much mutual aid matters. But what is also true is 444 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 3: that mutual aid is about emotional connectivity, solidarity and respect 445 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 3: such that I won't disappear when either things get tough 446 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 3: or when the thing you're going through is out of 447 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 3: the headlines, right, And that kind of mutual aid that 448 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 3: is consistent and thoughtful and intentional. 449 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 4: That's how we need to be showing up for one another. 450 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 3: And so like, know who your people are and make 451 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 3: sure that they know who you are through consistency of action, 452 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 3: I would. 453 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 4: Say, is the first thing. The second thing I would 454 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 4: say really is to mind mind. 455 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 3: Your locus of control. There's I wrote about this online, 456 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 3: maybe yesterday, maybe the day before, I don't know. We 457 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 3: all have work to do, and remaining focused on that 458 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 3: work is part of. 459 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 4: What survival in this time looks like. 460 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 3: Because we know that a fascist playbook is shock and awe, 461 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 3: overwhelmed and distract So hundreds of eos in one day, 462 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 3: dozens of incindiarra remarks in one day, wild tweets and 463 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 3: posts in two days, completely and totally offensive remarks from 464 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 3: podcasts to television to you know, discord or whatever, all 465 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 3: in a matter of a day or two. 466 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 4: All of that is supposed to keep. 467 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 3: Us so distraught and so reactive that we can't focus 468 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 3: on what's important, right, Because what's actually important is making 469 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 3: sure that all of us, for example. 470 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: Know what to do with ice knock on the door? Right? 471 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 3: Did you know that you don't have to tell them anything. Nope, 472 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 3: I don't know anything about it. Nope, I haven't seen them, nope. 473 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 4: Right, Like, you know how to be a. 474 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 3: Disruptor and an interrupter of that injustice instead of even 475 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 3: unwittingly participating and someone's removal from this country, right, Like, 476 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 3: that's actually timely, and those resources have been going around 477 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 3: the internet, right for like, instead of just likeing it, 478 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 3: take the time to save the post, read through it, 479 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,719 Speaker 3: share it over touch with your friends and say hey, 480 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 3: let's make sure that we all do this. Share it 481 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,199 Speaker 3: with your neighbors, and say, hey, let's make sure we're 482 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 3: all on the same page about this. 483 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 4: Right. 484 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 3: But if you're so busy being outraged at his tweets, 485 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 3: then you'll miss the instruction of the moment this somebody's 486 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 3: gonna end up screwed. And I think that is really 487 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 3: important that we mind the business that matters, right, that 488 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,719 Speaker 3: we stay in our lane, and then we give ourselves 489 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 3: an opportunity to keep our nervous systems in check long 490 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 3: enough to be effective instead of just constantly be overwhelmed. 491 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 4: Because that's so precisely they're texting. 492 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: Right, you're so right, You're so right. 493 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 2: I don't know how people who are an emotional group 494 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 2: of people know how to recalibrate. Yeah, we and when 495 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 2: we say we for everyone listening, I'm talking about the culture. 496 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking about black folks. I need to speak. 497 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 2: Really plainly because we are we are not be real 498 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 2: clear because they're not politicizing their words. They're being very clear. 499 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 2: If you see something, say something, Stop telling me. I 500 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 2: post this the other day about Elon Musk, Stop telling 501 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 2: me I didn't see what I saw. It's not fair 502 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: to do that. It's not fair to let them win 503 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: the campaign of social media, which is so clear and 504 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 2: what they're trying to do. 505 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: So, how do you. 506 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 2: Tell a culture not to be emotional when that is 507 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 2: all we have ever known in so many ways is 508 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,239 Speaker 2: the emotion. I'm gonna talk back to the TV. I'm 509 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 2: gonna yell at the scream when I'm gonna do it. 510 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 1: You know we do this. 511 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't think to focus each other not to 512 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 4: be emotional. 513 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 3: I think we tell each other go ahead and be 514 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 3: emotional and then challenge the channel the emotions. 515 00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 4: Right, since you're. 516 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 3: Feeling the rate, feel it, feel it deliberately, right, feel 517 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 3: it at your local school board meeting? Right, like, take 518 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 3: take the rage over to your mayor's office. 519 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 4: Right. 520 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 3: I live in a state that has joined a number 521 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 3: of other states, for example, in suing the administration over 522 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 3: these ice rays. Right, So, like, you know, there are 523 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 3: petitions going around to support that. There's letter writing that 524 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 3: happens with that. Let me go channel my rage into 525 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 3: this email, right, because my you know, maybe you live 526 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 3: in a state that hasn't joined up and you need 527 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 3: to say, hey, it's time to do so, or you 528 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 3: live in a state that has joined up. 529 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 4: And you're sharing that post to say I'm triud to 530 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 4: live here. Right. 531 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 3: I don't think we discourage people from our natural human tendencies. 532 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 3: I think that we give people the opportunity to be 533 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 3: disciplined with them. I also think, and this is both 534 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 3: to the question of survival and the question of emotion. 535 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,719 Speaker 4: Part of what we have to become disciplined in, and 536 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 4: this is hard for all of us, is. 537 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 3: To quell our addiction to views and likes. We not 538 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 3: gonna be secretive. We're not gonna move smartly and deathly 539 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 3: if we feel like we got to broadcast the plan 540 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 3: before we enact the plan. Because as long as I'm 541 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 3: the first to broadcast the plan, then I'll go viral. 542 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree. 543 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 3: And the tech oligarchs are removing the incentive, to be 544 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 3: very clear, from plenty of us who are doing this work, 545 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 3: to broadcast the work, because they're demonetizing those creators, they're 546 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 3: demonetizing those platforms, they're shadow banding us, et cetera. So 547 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 3: like they're helping you break the addiction because you're not 548 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 3: gonna make the kind of money off of it that 549 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 3: you might once path right, so like, go ahead, let 550 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 3: it go, baby. We have to be more addicted to freedom, 551 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 3: the idea of it, the taste of it, the smell 552 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 3: of it, the feel of it. We have to be 553 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 3: more addicted to freedom than we are. Applause, Brittany. 554 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to name a few things that where people 555 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 2: were outraged about, and you just gave examples of what 556 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 2: to do with this outrage channel it in other places. 557 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 2: So I'm going to give you an example of where 558 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 2: everyone was so outraged, and by everyone, I mean what 559 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 2: you saw on social media and talked about in the culture, 560 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 2: and then you tell me what to do with that outrage. 561 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 2: Snoop Dogg performing at the Crypto Ball, Nelly performing at 562 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: the inauguration and Soldier Boy being there and and Ross 563 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 2: helping Snoop DJ. What do we do without outrage? And 564 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 2: I'm saying we collectively, I didn't participate. I felt it, 565 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 2: not surprise, but what does someone do if they're so angry, 566 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: as opposed to just passing that post around? 567 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 3: I felt it too because Nelly performed, and then I'm 568 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 3: very glad that she apologized to Doctor Bernie King, but 569 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 3: Sexy Red put up a post with her and. 570 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 4: Doctor King dancing with the club child. 571 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 3: My own city, Saint Louis was down back a thousand, Okay, 572 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 3: So like, I understand the frustration, but shout out to 573 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 3: Sexy Red for taking responsibility, shout out to doctor King 574 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 3: for being so gracious in her response and giving teachable moment. 575 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 3: But I actually think that's the thing, right, We channel 576 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 3: that rage and we educate. 577 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 4: Here's how we educate. 578 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 3: Here's a book that a friend of mine is reading 579 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 3: and has been encouraging us to read to prepare for 580 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 3: this time, called Hitler's First one hundred. 581 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 4: Days, Because we bet their aki. 582 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 3: One of the things that the book talks about is 583 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 3: that it's not just the coercion and the brute force 584 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 3: of Hitler's government that got Germany in line with their agenda. 585 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 3: Some of it was consent, some of it was capitulation. 586 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 4: Some of it was people looking. 587 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 3: At the awe and the pomp and the circumstance and 588 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 3: the pageantry of it all and being so overwhelmed with 589 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 3: a sense of patriotism or unity or whatever that they 590 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 3: readily accepted a Nazi authoritarian regime. 591 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 4: And the Nazis did not have to. 592 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 3: Beat them into submission, because they awed them into submission. 593 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 4: Right. So like, if you are more impressed. 594 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 3: With who's performing at the ball, with how much money 595 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 3: you can make by going ahead and taking that little 596 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 3: trump check, right, Like, if you're more and always that, 597 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 3: then you are your own freedom. 598 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 4: Then you are at risk. 599 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 3: Of being seduced into compliance and capitulation with that which 600 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 3: means to kill you. 601 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 4: Right. 602 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 3: This is and I wrote about this in the cut 603 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 3: just recently, right, because yeah, I'm mad at Smooth, but 604 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 3: this is a teachable moment to say everybody who's sitting 605 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 3: there responding and saying, well, I mean at least he 606 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: got a check. 607 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 4: What profit of a man to gain the whole world 608 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 4: and lose your soul? Right? What's that check worth? 609 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 3: To you, baby, let's actually talk about the people that 610 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 3: accepted those checks in Nazi Germany and then ended up 611 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 3: in somebody's concentrations. 612 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 4: Again. Woof. It's a teachable moment. 613 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 2: Because everyone, not everyone, but you can feel the disengagement 614 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 2: of what. I'm just gonna chill out. I feel like 615 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 2: disengagement at this time is so so deadly there. It 616 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 2: is so dangerous to not be activated and or educated 617 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 2: at this moment. 618 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: You can choose one. 619 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 2: You don't need both, but it is so dangerous to 620 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,719 Speaker 2: be I'm gonna just gonna mind my business in this moment. 621 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: It's scary to me. 622 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,040 Speaker 3: When we help people have the information though, and we 623 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 3: were just talking about this on Undistracted, when we help 624 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 3: people have the information, we have to actually help people 625 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 3: translate it into knowledge. 626 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 4: Okay, So where our friend. 627 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 3: Doctor Brittany Cooper, who was on the episode, was talking 628 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 3: about the fact that we are a very information rich 629 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 3: society that you at the click of a button or 630 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 3: at the sound of your voice, at the click of AI. 631 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 4: You can have an answer to any question in the world. 632 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 3: Right, But if you don't synthesize that information into knowledge 633 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 3: and actually connect the dots onto. 634 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 4: What it means, then all you have is like a 635 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 4: bunch of stuff rattling around your head mean anything. So 636 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 4: part of the overwhelm of. 637 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 3: Just having so much information is what leads people to 638 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 3: be desensitized and to check out. But if we can 639 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 3: help people crystallize this is the information. Here's how information 640 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 3: like this was used against people like. 641 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 4: You and I in the past. 642 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 3: So here's how to protect yourself, here's what to watch 643 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 3: out for. Here's how to protect your neighbor. If we 644 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 3: can help people synthesize that and connect those dots, then 645 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 3: we give them a sense of purpose. Right, then we 646 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 3: give them a sense of control. I can do something 647 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 3: about this versus the helplessness that makes you just say 648 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 3: I'm almost said it on the couch and just wait 649 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 3: it out and hope that I don't. 650 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 4: Get taken out. 651 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 3: If people don't get that synthesis and that knowledge and 652 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 3: that understanding, we're we're not doing a good job of 653 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 3: helping powers. 654 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 2: Right right, right, And And that's actually just gave me 655 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 2: a starting point. I'm like, where do we begin? How 656 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 2: many calls have you received? Or you're like, what we're 657 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 2: gonna do? We're we're moving to how are we gonna get. 658 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: Our money out. 659 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 2: And if we don't have information, simple information that pertains 660 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 2: to your specific infor situation, then we can't. That's what 661 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 2: we have to have that information available to help everybody. 662 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,879 Speaker 2: I feel like we're getting ready to enter a time. 663 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 2: We're journalists, people who who who want to speak truth 664 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,839 Speaker 2: to power. We're really gonna have to make some really 665 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 2: significant choices. Candidly, I thought, dang, we're not going to 666 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 2: see ann What am I going to say? 667 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: What's going on? 668 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 4: Like? 669 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 1: How do I approach this? 670 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 2: I don't want to be on TV arguing with a 671 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 2: white man and then I'm somewhere on somebody trying to 672 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,319 Speaker 2: fight me, you. 673 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Like, I want more for I 674 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:30,879 Speaker 1: want more for my. 675 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 2: Life than this, because the boldness of their behavior is 676 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 2: out of control. 677 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: You can feel it. 678 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,280 Speaker 2: This president has emboldened people who have very little knowledge 679 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 2: but are on emotion and bravado, and it is scary 680 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 2: to move that way. So I always think what to do, 681 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 2: and I want to get your take on this. I 682 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 2: think that we should handle everyone accordingly until we see 683 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 2: a clear and we're all leaders until we see a 684 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 2: very clear leader step up from whatever side. I'm not 685 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 2: talking about parties. But yeah, we can talk about the 686 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 2: Democratic Party. But I'm looking for clear leadership. These times 687 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 2: create that, though, These times create that where people want 688 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 2: to really change the world and they speak truth to power. 689 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 2: We give so many of our leader's passes and we 690 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: have to hold them accountable. When Michelle stands on business, 691 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 2: we got to talk about everybody else who didn't stand 692 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,720 Speaker 2: on business, including her husband. 693 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 4: And why you leave her out there like that? 694 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: Why you got her out here saying I'm not gonna. 695 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 3: Go to the people should have been saying, oh, I'm 696 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 3: not coming either. I'm gonna be a Michelle's house, playing state. 697 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,879 Speaker 1: We will be or dominoes or whatever. 698 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 3: We're dominoes or passing out food to the people, or 699 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:41,439 Speaker 3: passing out banned books to the kids. 700 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 4: Something. 701 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: Nah, I'm not goingsten and no is a complete sentence. 702 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 1: See Michelle's face. And so I think. 703 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 2: We culturally need to be okay with calling out those 704 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 2: who are not doing us right, even if we love them, 705 00:36:58,400 --> 00:36:59,959 Speaker 2: even if we do because we're doing it loving. 706 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that that's wrong. I think that 707 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 3: we just often forget the second half of that equation. 708 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 3: So of the call out of the wrongness plus the 709 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 3: opportunity to be better equals all of us getting more free, right, 710 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 3: which is part of the reason why I love this 711 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 3: exchange between Bernie's King and Sexy Red. Bernie's King sees 712 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 3: this picture and it's an AI picture of Sexy Red 713 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 3: and Doctor King in the club dancing, and Doctor. 714 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 4: King is looking at her like seductively crizy, right, like 715 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 4: what is wrong with the paople? 716 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 3: And like, to be clear, had this been anybody else, 717 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 3: they just would have gone outside her head, right, okay, 718 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 3: baby girl, Like, let's if you really want to go there, 719 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,359 Speaker 3: let's go there. Doctor King says, you know, please delete this, 720 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 3: and here's why. The why is that you have to 721 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 3: understand that it's disrespectful to my father's legacy. It helps 722 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 3: other people who have ilentations for our community undermine what 723 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 3: his example was. And I'm that man's daughter. Do you 724 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 3: know what it feels like for our family to keep 725 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 3: looking up and see him be mischaracterized and being made 726 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,479 Speaker 3: a caricature of and demeaned in ways when like, that's 727 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 3: my father who was assascinated right fixy read comes back 728 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:24,359 Speaker 3: and she's like. 729 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 4: You are absolutely right. I am so sorry. I just 730 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 4: I thought it was innocent. 731 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 3: I retreated it and I shouldn't have deleted it. Then 732 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,879 Speaker 3: doctor King comes back and she. 733 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 4: Says, I appreciate that. 734 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 3: And I also want to speak to everybody in the 735 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 3: comment who are taking this as an opportunity to disparage you. 736 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 3: They said, don't nobody, She was like, don't nobody need 737 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,840 Speaker 3: to be in here calling you a hood, ghetto, trash, tasteless, 738 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 3: blah blah blah. She said, I want the best for you. 739 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 3: The freedom that he fought for and the freedom that 740 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 3: I'm fighting for is for all of us, including you, 741 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 3: baby girl. So thank you for listening. Let's go do 742 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 3: better together. She got everybody together in that one, right, 743 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 3: Like I got chills reading it, and so like she 744 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 3: gave the opportunity to do better, to show up better. 745 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 3: And I think that we just often don't give people that. 746 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that there doesn't need to be reconciliation, 747 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that there doesn't need to be truth. 748 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 4: I'm not saying that there doesn't need to be accountability. 749 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 4: There was, there does. 750 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 3: And if you give somebody the opportunity improve and they 751 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,319 Speaker 3: ain't trying to do it, then you gonna have to 752 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 3: catch the train another time, I can't wait. 753 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 4: For you and rate. 754 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 2: Other part is to give them grace so they can 755 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,239 Speaker 2: have room to grow and be better, so we. 756 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: Can call them out. But there's still that other part. 757 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 3: I think what's fair is that our grace can extend 758 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,360 Speaker 3: to where somebody's responsibility begins. 759 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 4: Sexy Red took responsibility. 760 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 1: That's right. 761 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 3: Doctor King offered her grades and in doing so gave 762 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 3: all of us and Sexy read. 763 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 4: To teachable moment right, and. 764 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 3: It went much better and can be uplifted as a 765 00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 3: beautiful example and teachable moment for everybody versus some that 766 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 3: ends up on the shape. 767 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:02,760 Speaker 1: Room back in a moment. 768 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,800 Speaker 3: The other thing that I think big is often missing 769 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 3: is that while we call out the people who ain't 770 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 3: doing it, we need to amplify and pump up the 771 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 3: people who are doing it right, who are operating with integrity, 772 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,839 Speaker 3: who are operating with consistency, who are teachable, who are 773 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 3: correctable right. And I think that like the truth of 774 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 3: the matter is, there are lots of leaders in lots 775 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 3: of places where we need them. There are people who 776 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,439 Speaker 3: are operating at the national level, but there are folks 777 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 3: who are doing that in the narrative space, and we 778 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 3: need them. There are people who are doing that in 779 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,240 Speaker 3: sports and culture and we need them. There are people 780 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 3: who are doing that in politics, and we need them. 781 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 3: But we also need like local people who are making 782 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 3: sure that the one abortion clinic in town stay open. 783 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 4: Right, We also need local folks who are. 784 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 3: Willing to say, I'm going to run for school board 785 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 3: because Miles for Liberty took over my school board and 786 00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 3: somebody's gonna have I yelled at them for eight meetings 787 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 3: straight last school year, and now I'm just gonna have 788 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,320 Speaker 3: to go up there and sit next. 789 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 4: To them and try to prevent them from doing all 790 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:06,800 Speaker 4: this damage. 791 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 3: Right, Like, I think it's so important for us to 792 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 3: realize that whatever space in which we're leading, we all 793 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 3: have a position of impact. 794 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,320 Speaker 4: It may just be over your children, but how. 795 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 3: You raise them, the books that you have in your house, 796 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 3: the films that you take them to, who they have 797 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 3: a play date with, where you decide to raise them, 798 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 3: what zip code they're being raised, and what school they 799 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 3: go to. All of that is helping either perpetuate supremacy culture. 800 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,760 Speaker 4: Or dismantle supremacy culture. 801 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,879 Speaker 3: So you made a choice about how you lead, right, 802 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 3: But it is all of our job to lead in 803 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 3: some kind of way, and we have to make sure 804 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 3: that we don't keep leaving that work to somebody else 805 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,440 Speaker 3: because we're looking for a savior. 806 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:51,600 Speaker 2: It's all of our responsibilities. That was the charge, folks. 807 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 2: Did you hear what we gotta do? And it's real simple. 808 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 3: You don't cook. 809 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,919 Speaker 1: You gotta do or you're gonna cook. Cook. You're gonna 810 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,959 Speaker 1: raise the kids right, raise the kids right, You're gonna 811 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: raise good citizens. Dude, if you want to be in 812 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 1: the front lines. 813 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,759 Speaker 3: If I have to hi, if I had to cut 814 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 3: your kid out because they ain't class of mine and 815 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,760 Speaker 3: they start tripping, then we got a whole problem. 816 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,520 Speaker 1: Then you add then you mad at me. 817 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:15,800 Speaker 2: Brittany, You, as I have said before, always always, always 818 00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 2: make it so crystal clear. And I so appreciate you 819 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 2: for being a leader in this space and reminding us 820 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,680 Speaker 2: to give grace because I'm tired of us kicking each 821 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 2: other's back sand when we're mad, like we can give 822 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 2: grace and our grace, our grace can turn into a 823 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,160 Speaker 2: teachable moment no matter what. 824 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:34,840 Speaker 1: And for doctor King. 825 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 2: To say, with accountability, they can live with accountability. This 826 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 2: is for all y'all, and y'all stop calling her hood 827 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,399 Speaker 2: and y'all stop calling her names. 828 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,800 Speaker 1: That's not the response. The response is to educate. 829 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 2: I love that more than anything, and so as we 830 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 2: buckle down forever long. 831 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 1: If some say four years, I would you know that 832 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 1: would be. 833 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,360 Speaker 4: Only four years. That's that's our job to make sure. 834 00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,200 Speaker 1: That's that's the job. 835 00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:58,760 Speaker 4: But I don't. 836 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 1: Hear like good. 837 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 2: Nothing surprises me anymore. And I don't think it's just 838 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 2: four years if I was honest. But that's because I'm 839 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 2: mentally getting myself ready. Always keep God first, Always remember 840 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 2: to pray. I don't know who your God is, but 841 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,360 Speaker 2: my God says pray, and my God says give grace. 842 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 2: But my God says, this time we got to be revolutionary. 843 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 2: This is a time for us to be revolutionary with 844 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 2: our love and our bodies and our spirits and and you, 845 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,719 Speaker 2: to me, that means we are still fighting. Whatever that 846 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:27,680 Speaker 2: looks like. I'm not saying, go and cuss everybody out 847 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,720 Speaker 2: of work. Don't go and cuss out John at work tomorrow. 848 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 2: But I'm saying, you still need to be revolutionary. We 849 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 2: need to be revolutionary before I let you go, Doctor, Preacher, 850 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 2: Bishop all the things healer, mother, wife, sister, all the things. 851 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 2: Mama John's said this, guard your joy, siblings, guard your joy. 852 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 2: I don't care how you feel about him, not you, 853 00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 2: per se. But the proverbial you guard your joy to 854 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 2: me was just made sense. It was like, I'm about 855 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:03,919 Speaker 2: to go out here and do this, but I'm gonna 856 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,360 Speaker 2: guard my joy to at the same time. 857 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 1: What would you like to tell the people? Prittany Oh? 858 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,360 Speaker 3: First of all, David Johnson's the one who told me 859 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:13,919 Speaker 3: to read Hiller's first one hundred days. 860 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 4: Hey, what would I like to tell the people? Do 861 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 4: your work? Do your work, do your work, do your work, 862 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 4: do your. 863 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 1: Work, Harry's work, do my black job, my black Jessee. 864 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. 865 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I love you, Sis, thank you for being here. 866 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 2: On Naked Sports. Naked Sports written and executive produced by 867 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 2: me Harry Champion, produced by Jock pys Thomas, Sound designed 868 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 2: and mastered by Dwayne Crawford. 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