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Speaker 1: Come come on your baby, ah, I show will good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yoh man. God is in the blessing business all day

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Speaker 1: every day. God got hundreds of millions of blessings that

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Speaker 1: he passes out every day. All I want to do

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Speaker 1: He has for me. That's all I want. I just

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Speaker 1: want God's favor, and I go. I want God's blessings.

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Speaker 1: You know, of course I need his mercy and his grace,

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Speaker 1: but I just want his blessings and his favor. I want.

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Speaker 1: I want that in my life because it does things

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Speaker 1: for me that I'm absolutely incapable of doing for myself.

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Speaker 1: And I've been a recipient of many of those. And

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Speaker 1: you can be the recipient of them too. You already are, really, really,

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Speaker 1: you already are. If you're getting up every morning, that's

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Speaker 1: a blessing. If you're getting one day closer to anything

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Speaker 1: you're trying to accomplish, that's a blessing. But now let

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Speaker 1: me talk to you about this part right here, folks,

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Speaker 1: because this is the part that messages people up a

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Speaker 1: great deal. What happens when you get off track? What

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Speaker 1: is that? What does that mean? When you get off track? See,

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Speaker 1: I've been off track. I can't tell you how many times,

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Speaker 1: and it happens in so many aspects of your life.

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Speaker 1: But what is it that makes getting off track so

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Speaker 1: debilitating to some people? You know, there are some people

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Speaker 1: who want to stay off track. They off course, they

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Speaker 1: cannot allow the fact that you've gotten off track to stop.

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Speaker 1: You can't tell you something. Everybody gets off track. There

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Speaker 1: are people who are living their life's dreams in spite

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Speaker 1: that's But that's easier said than done. Ain't it, Steve. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because see, people, when you get off track, here's some

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Speaker 1: of the things that happened. See you get the here

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Speaker 1: come to nay sayers, some of them from the outside,

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Speaker 1: some of them internally. Here's what gets said when you

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Speaker 1: this is all just because you got off track. It's

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Speaker 1: I guess it's just not meant to be. But let

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Speaker 1: Who made that rule? Where has that written that once

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Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, it's quite the opposite. See,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't, No, it wasn't. It was the fact that

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Speaker 1: Stop stopping yourself from getting it right. So what you

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Speaker 1: if you never give up and say it's over, it

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Speaker 1: you you're listening show, Ladies and gentlemen. It is beyond me.

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Speaker 1: When I wake up in the morning and I realized

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Speaker 1: all I could say is thank you man, twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: If you'd have told me in nineteen seventy four anything

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Speaker 1: So pay close attention, young people. Stop even jest for

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Speaker 1: the moment, because later on could soon become Right now,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Kill what's going on? Man? All right? Let me ask

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Speaker 1: you something. I'm thinking about it, man, because I don't

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Speaker 1: know how to act. I ain't got your kind of money.

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Speaker 1: But what can I expect if I ever got a

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Speaker 1: hold of six hundred men, how am I supposed to

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Speaker 1: I get my hand on six million at one time,

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Speaker 1: six hundred million. First of all, know this, if you've

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Speaker 1: You know, you gotta look into things. You gotta look

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Speaker 1: into stuff like restraining orders, things like that. Yeah, that's first. Secondly,

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Speaker 1: I don't want y'all to feel, you know, surprised. So

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Speaker 1: just if you hear that I have the six hundred millions,

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't start without you? Yeah, should we

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Speaker 1: And that's what started. We continue this later on, but

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Speaker 1: and run that prank back to start your morning off today?

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Speaker 1: What you got for us? Now? Your wife is cheating

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Speaker 1: on both of us. Let's don't care. Dog. Hello, I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to reach Terrence. Please, who's calling? Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 1: My name is Mark. My name is Mark. How you doing, bro?

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Speaker 1: I work with um with your wife, Veronica. We're on

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Speaker 1: There or what's going on? No, no, no, everything is

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Speaker 1: I just you know, I actually, like I said, my

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to talk to you. Like I say, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, I got some things on that that's been

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Speaker 1: you know, uh, you know, we can get things in

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Speaker 1: how did you get my Veronica? Give you my number?

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Speaker 1: Or how did you get my number? That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: I had, I've had your number. I just I just

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Speaker 1: This one is from Jonas in Chicago. Jonas writes, I'm

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Speaker 1: Ers in Jacksonville says, I'm a twenty eight year old

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Speaker 1: church say a man? Amen, Amen again, let's move on,

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Speaker 1: how you mean, how do you fix the bed that

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Speaker 1: you made? The one you have to lay in? Now

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Speaker 1: dinner wasn't good. What what made you say that? It's over?

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Speaker 1: cooking skills, But what made you say it? How do

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Speaker 1: to the man, tell him you didn't mean it. You

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Speaker 1: so you know this portion of clo. We can't help you.

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Speaker 1: You're saying a love problem. You right over there with

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Speaker 1: Antonio Brown. Oh all right, listen, we gotta go. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, We'll have some

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Speaker 1: entertainment and trending news stories for you. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. So,

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Speaker 1: CNN is setting the record straight about the rumors that

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Speaker 1: Andy Cohen won't return as co anchor of the network's

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Speaker 1: New Year's Eve coverage because of disparaging remarks he made

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Speaker 1: on air last week. Um I can confirm that Andy

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Speaker 1: Cohen will be back as co host on CNN next year.

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Speaker 1: While co hosting um CNN's New Year's Eve Live special

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Speaker 1: along with his friend Anderson Cooper, Andy went in on

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Speaker 1: competitor ABC's programming and referred to the New Year's. New

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Speaker 1: Year's Rock and Eve lineup is Ryan Seacrest group of

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Speaker 1: losers that are performing behind us. He was drunk, he

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Speaker 1: was a little lit. Andy Khan apologized on his radio

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Speaker 1: show and said, I just kept talking and I shouldn't have.

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't think. I didn't think he should

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Speaker 1: but it's seeing in a damn news station who's trying

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Speaker 1: We ain't gotta read and tele prompting. You are hiring

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Speaker 1: entertainers and you're an entertainment business. You know, Don Lemon

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Speaker 1: said negroes that night. How many negroes gonna be at

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Speaker 1: your house? You know they they tried to give Don

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Speaker 1: Lemon to blue. That's how black we talked when we

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Speaker 1: Year's Why we can't say that word. We can say, Yeah, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: have you seen this comedian named Brian Simpson. No, Man,

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Speaker 1: I just watched this Netflix thing the other night that

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Speaker 1: just about six different comedians. Oh, this dude was funny

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Speaker 1: to me. Man, Oh this Brian, he says some funny

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Speaker 1: stuff to me. Man, I want to find that brother. Man.

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Speaker 1: That brother was funny to me. Man, cool man. He

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Speaker 1: was doing some race humor. I was holling and but here,

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Speaker 1: Look at him, man, fool right here came out the gate.

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Speaker 1: The funniest thing he said to me was he said, oh,

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Speaker 1: white folks, true white folks, treat black people like pennies.

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Speaker 1: He said, we accepted everywhere. But if you show up

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Speaker 1: be going. Man. Who was Dan Blakeney Blakes going on?

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Speaker 1: I was screaming. I was screaming that I'm looking at

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Speaker 1: Brian Simpson. Mad that dude, that dude special on Netflix. Man, Man,

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Speaker 1: I wish I could talk with him because I saw

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Speaker 1: I saw a couple of things. Man, if he did

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Speaker 1: a couple of things, and I ain't you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying if he if he did a couple of

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Speaker 1: moves on this dude right here, man, this dude right

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Speaker 1: here adjustments. He did a bit about his grandmother was

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Speaker 1: the first person to call him an Ian words. He

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Speaker 1: said he was seven years old and he was downstairs

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Speaker 1: playing PlayStation and he said, when old people call you,

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Speaker 1: they don't care what you're doing. You know, I'll right up.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to give me extra duncan. He was

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Speaker 1: playing Donkey Cone because he said, Brian, come up here now.

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Speaker 1: So he said. He went up stairs and she's sitting

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Speaker 1: for me. So he said, under his breath, lazy blankety blank.

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Speaker 1: She heard you, He said, Man, my grandmama swole up.

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Speaker 1: She said, all of a sudden, she didn't have all

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Speaker 1: rights no more. That's what got me. She crabbed me

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Speaker 1: upside down on my neck. She walked over me and

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Speaker 1: said it word, what the blank? Let's dog? The dude

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Speaker 1: had me? Gran Man, somebody knows where he at man,

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Speaker 1: tell him. Steve Hart want to talk to him. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's dude right here. Man, I gotta I gotta introduce

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Speaker 1: him to black people because black right very not not no,

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Speaker 1: but I'm talking about black people have to be introduced

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Speaker 1: to what his style of comedy is because he'd do

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Speaker 1: a real dry, dead pan and normally blacks don't. This

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Speaker 1: dude is really really funny, man, really really funny. That's

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Speaker 1: good because you don't say that a lot about you know,

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Speaker 1: no never, And then I watched some specials I always

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Speaker 1: end up cutting I couldn't cut the dude off, all right.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve hard former President Donald Trump, remember him, while he's

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Speaker 1: pulled the plug on a plan to hold a news

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Speaker 1: conference marking the first anniversary of the storming of the

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Speaker 1: US capital, which is today January six, That was a

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Speaker 1: year ago, and he's blaming Democrats in DC for the cancelation.

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Speaker 1: Trump really just never stopped, just never stops with this guy.

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Speaker 1: Trump had invited reporters from across the country to his

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Speaker 1: Mara Lago resort in Florida for his speech and press conference,

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Speaker 1: at which he was expected to go hard at Democrats,

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Speaker 1: but on Tuesday evening he backed out, saying, in light

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Speaker 1: Unselect Committee of Democrats, two failed Republicans, and the fake

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Speaker 1: news media, I am canceling the January sixth press conference

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Speaker 1: at Mara Lago. On Thursday, Trump went on for a

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Speaker 1: long while, attacking his usual targets, including lamestream media and

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Speaker 1: crazy Nancy Pelosi. His supporters still plan a candle light

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Speaker 1: visul near Marlago today, Well, yeah, do that. But see,

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Speaker 1: somebody finally got to his stupid ass and said, don't

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Speaker 1: you think this will further align you and tie you

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Speaker 1: to the events from January six Do you really think

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Speaker 1: you want to be tied in a line with so

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Speaker 1: much still hanging out there about this event, that you

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Speaker 1: will cool commemorate this event by giving a speech on

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Speaker 1: this day like this is some great moment in our history.

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Speaker 1: Somebody said that to his stupid ass, and that you excited. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're being investigated for right now, right, And somebody told him, look,

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Speaker 1: take your narcissist behavior, let's pull it in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You know, you're responsible for the six you want people

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Speaker 1: to know that you were and you want to commemorate

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Speaker 1: it by giving a speech on this day. You're going

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Speaker 1: too far and they and that's why I stopped it.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't causing nothing else. He wanted to do it on

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Speaker 1: that day because he knows what that day meant to him. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: today he that day, everybody need a no to hell,

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Speaker 1: you not person, you come on, come on dog. But

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Speaker 1: he doesn't listen. He doesn't listen. That's what Antonio Brown

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Speaker 1: needed the other day. No to here, you're not. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, Tommy, you know Mike Evans tried did

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Speaker 1: He actually tried to hold his jersey down. Don't do that,

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Speaker 1: don't take it. And then when he saw him doing it,

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Speaker 1: he said, man, let me walk out of the picture frame.

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Speaker 1: I think he find to do this. I think he

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Speaker 1: finn take it. He take it? All right? Oh well,

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Speaker 1: I do want to say this guys before we run

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Speaker 1: year's mid term elections. All right, coming up at thirty

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Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, we're gonna check Steve's voicemail

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Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: It is time. It is time Steve to check your

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Speaker 1: more than just one night. All right again, Happy New Year,

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Speaker 1: in congratulations George Steve Hawes. All right, blah blah, and

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Speaker 1: I'm not better than know I'm funnier than all of it. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and Judge Judy the Queen of j But I'm just

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Speaker 1: end of the show, I really appreciate you all. Have

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Speaker 1: a great one. Bye bye. Wow. Sounds like it's a hit, Steve, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: show day right, Yeah. Well, you know, it's really interesting

630
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Speaker 1: because I've never heard reactions to my show after a

631
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Speaker 1: premiere the day after. I've never never done that before.

632
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Speaker 1: That's really really because the last time my premiere the

633
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: new show was a celebrity family few and I was

634
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Speaker 1: out of the country when it add And then the

635
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: next time I did a new show was a little

636
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Speaker 1: big Shots and it was a hit, and I never

637
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 1: I didn't watch it. I was gonna ask you, did

638
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: you watch your Judge show. I peeped in for a minute,

639
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: but I couldn't. I couldn't do it. If you didn't

640
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: watch yourself, couldn't I can't. I can't watch myself, all right,

641
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: So check it out Judge Steve Tuesday nights, eight pm,

642
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Speaker 1: seven Central on ABC and Hulu and listen. If you

643
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Speaker 1: want to leave a shout out for Steve, call eight

644
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Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine s prank phone call with the

645
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Speaker 1: nephew up next. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

646
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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

647
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today. The

648
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:31,800
Speaker 1: subject is smother lover, smother Lover. We'll get into that, yeah,

649
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: and just a bit, but right now the nephew is

650
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: here with today's prank phone call. What you got for

651
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 1: his nept? Butcher at the weed? Who is Butcher at

652
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 1: the weed? Okay? All right, cat dog? If you would

653
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: bring butchee in? Hello, I love trying to I'm trying

654
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:59,879
Speaker 1: to reach Alan. How you doing this? Butcher man? Butchie? Yeah?

655
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: You was? You was at the cookout the other day

656
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Speaker 1: with the family. I'm I'm Christian's cousin. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

657
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: y'all was that you was at the cookout the other day.

658
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to y'all. Know the wedding

659
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: is in the next two weeks, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah?

660
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Speaker 1: You you ready for that? Oh yeah? Okay, Well, hey man,

661
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: I got a little bit of a problem that you know,

662
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: we kind of wanted to call you about, you know,

663
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: because the family got together and had a little meeting,

664
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Speaker 1: like and what the deal is is this here? I know,

665
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Speaker 1: I know you're excited to want to marry my cousin,

666
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Speaker 1: and she kind of excited too about the old thing.

667
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: But you know, like the family members we got together

668
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: and decided that uh for right nine, I mean right now,

669
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Speaker 1: we've been to like we've been to call the wedding

670
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Speaker 1: off for right now what you talk what you're talking

671
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: about calling the wind off? We'll see you know everybody

672
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: thank you cool and I'll and uh, you know we're

673
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: real real passionate man about you know, people marrying into

674
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: our family or whatever, like you know the gathering of

675
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: the day, you know that was the potluck thing. Everybody

676
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 1: brains something right old on christ Ain't never told me

677
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 1: noing like that about what about something about not getting

678
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: no married? Okay, we'll see right here, Like I say,

679
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: this is what the family doesn't decided on. What the

680
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: family decided on. Okay, see, this is what I'm trying

681
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 1: to tell you. See, we're a real close knit family

682
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: and it's like this here see further, all let me

683
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: get you to understand this. Here you're talking to Butcher

684
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: right now. All right, here's a deal. You know, we

685
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 1: didn't decide that the weird name in the album in

686
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: two weeks until like when we had we had the

687
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Speaker 1: potluck barbecue. Everybody brains something. Why you ain't brained no,

688
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: what you're talking about I'm paying for Oh oh that's

689
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: what you've been to throw up in our face, that

690
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: you're paying for the wed Hell yeah, because I supposed

691
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: to bring Hey man, everybody brains someone we have a potluck,

692
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: you know, everybody brains something contribute to to to the

693
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Speaker 1: function or the event that's going on, you know. And

694
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: for you to walk up in there and I have none,

695
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: then let us know what kind of person you're gonna

696
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: be in the family. We can't hand it. Who is

697
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 1: this again? This butcher? Right? Hill? I don't know no butcher. Look.

698
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: I came to the family gathering picnic. I came there

699
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: and showed up, loving on all y'all, telling y'all right

700
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Speaker 1: this was gonna be. And now you're telling me I

701
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 1: can't marry Christian? Is that what telling me? Amen? The

702
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: family that already voted to win the family vote, Dog,

703
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: that's it. I ain't marrying the family, you man. You're

704
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 1: married my cousin, Christian. That's what you're trying to do.

705
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: And then you ain't been a man. Huh. Look let

706
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: me calling up to my job talking like this. I'm

707
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: already on hot from the day with some books my

708
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: supervisor them pulls. Do not come calling me with no book.

709
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: Hey man, let me tell you this here until we

710
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: can decide that you good for Christian, until we can

711
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: decide that you know you can handle being married to

712
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: Hud and you come correct as a family member, and

713
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Speaker 1: if you're gonna come to pot lucks, then you bring

714
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: a pot. You ain't bring nothing. I ain't gotta fear,

715
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I'm paying for this way, and I don't

716
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: get what'tch you up there? All that money out didn't

717
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: drop for this? How about two bottles of wine to

718
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: it you when you I ain't seen no wine. I

719
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: don't care if you got that wine or not. I

720
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: saw her mamma drinking it. Okay, well, I ain't getting

721
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: no wine. I don't remember nobody bringing no wine. See,

722
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 1: butching only see anything that go on. I got class.

723
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's talking about, butchee whatever. I

724
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: bought some wine. Her mama was drinking it. And I

725
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: ain't playing that this wedding going down. I don't spend

726
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: over twenty three thousand dollars on that. Hey man, I

727
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: haven't already told you that the family didn't voted on

728
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: that the wind name. I don't give up what the

729
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: family voted on. I don't paid for this. I ain't

730
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: heard none from Christian about this. Christian might not know

731
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: what we didn't voted on. We've made the seasons sometimes

732
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: for everybody you understand that don't include me. We let

733
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: Christian know that we've been to stop the wed Well,

734
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm just calling to let you know before I didn't

735
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 1: tell her what's up you're trying to tell me Christen

736
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: don't even know nas. We ain't told hood and we

737
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: don't agree with you yet. And then we're gonna stop

738
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: the wind. We ain't told of it. Man, get out

739
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: of here. I'm paid on less money for this man.

740
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: You ain't stopping. Hey, man, I haven't already told you

741
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: what we're doing. All right, I'm nothing to continue to

742
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: go back and forth with you. You better go off

743
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: my call, reading your voice at me. I don't know

744
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: hell you. I'll tell you what. Let me say this

745
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: to you. I don't care if I got to bust

746
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: up in that church and stop this wedding because you

747
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: didn't win against what we're just saying. Whatever I got

748
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: to do, I don't know who you with. I wash

749
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 1: your walls, try to stop this wedding. Look, we can

750
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: handle it right now. I can get off of work.

751
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm already going through some books and I'm already on fire.

752
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 1: I will come there and bust yo right now, I

753
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: don't know you know what see see see what she

754
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: was going with Nigel See Nigel Ain act like this,

755
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: Oh what what? I don't know? You didn't bring that

756
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 1: up me and that then already had don't even bring

757
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: that came up in me? Amen, Amen, I'm just keeping

758
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,919
Speaker 1: it real with you. Nigel Ain act like this hill

759
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 1: that we don't have words and if that don't want

760
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: to come and bust up in that too, he get

761
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 1: there with just like that. Man. All I'm just trying

762
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: to say is a home family, hunting people all that

763
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear nothing about that. No, tell

764
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: me where to beat and we can deal with this

765
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: right now. I'm just letting you know the family then't voted,

766
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: the family that already voting. Now what we will do,

767
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 1: We'll push the wind back and then give us time

768
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: to reevaluate you. We evaluate me, I don't even know

769
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: evaluate you from y'all. And then Christy getting married? How

770
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: do I put some money on it? All? I know

771
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: if the wedding ain't happening, that the wedding is happening

772
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: now I thought I'm painfall it. He's got some books

773
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: you the family we're gonna get married in two and

774
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: a half weeks and shot, if y'all don't come in,

775
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: If y'all come up in that, y'all gonna get dealt with.

776
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: Man straight on, I'm drinking that. I'm trying to say, hello,

777
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: a man, I'm trying to tell you, man right now,

778
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: the family don't want you in the family right now.

779
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: I don't give about y'all. Ain't in love with y'all.

780
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm here and Christen I can give a if I

781
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: see y'all ever again. Oh, I'm gonna tell you this here.

782
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: The family voted on one more thing you need to

783
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: go on. Don't know that while we at it. This

784
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: ain't no damn democracy. We're getting married that between H

785
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:58,919
Speaker 1: and I and if y'all don't want to be there,

786
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: jump off and a this. Yeah, it's one more thing.

787
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: We didn't vote it on. What you don't vote it on.

788
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 1: We voted on this. This is nephew Tommy from the

789
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:12,799
Speaker 1: Steve Harby Morning Show. Christians and Todd family got me

790
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: the prank phone call you Joss, still come to the wedding, Tommy.

791
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: I don't put all that money out like that. I

792
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 1: was like, no, Sid, I got one more thing. I

793
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: got to ask you, dog, what is what is the

794
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the

795
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: lane Steve Harry Morning Show. Baby, Tommy, I'm being real

796
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: with you, man. Somebody gonna you up. That's the truth, Tommy, coming,

797
00:51:55,760 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: tom I'm being real with you man. Somebody. Yeah. See,

798
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: I already know that. I've been saying that from day one. Ye,

799
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 1: I'm already going through something with my supervisor. This ain't

800
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: a good day. I'm telling you now, this ain't it.

801
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: Butlank you and the family. That's all y'all. Oh, y'all,

802
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: I don't know no about no left but you either.

803
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: I ain't coach. What happened? Was he? You know? Since

804
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: y'all worked this out, I ain't gonna do this with

805
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 1: y'all man at all. Right, right, y'all, King of Franks

806
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: is going to Jackson, Mississippi, January fourteenth through the sixteenth.

807
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: That's right, that's Friday, Saturday and Sunday, Jackson, Mississippi, at

808
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: the comedy club called Chuckles Thickets. Don't see all right now, Jackson, Mississippi.

809
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: I ain't never been there and grabbed the microphone, but

810
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm on my way. All right, get your tickets. They

811
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: don't see all right now chuckles. Comedy Club MLK Weekend

812
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: Laying in the cut ain't been now, says I was

813
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: twinty something years old. Beaumont, Texas, Julie Rogers Theater, Saturday,

814
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,959
Speaker 1: March nineteen to eight pm. It's gonna jump off because

815
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: it's down the street from my house, Houston, Texas, Baumont.

816
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 1: Here I come all Ticketmaster outlets, or you can go

817
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: to the box office that's to Julie Rogers Theater, Beaumont, Texas,

818
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: uh March nineteen, eight pm. And nephew, nephewtime in friends.

819
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: We're coming to town, so get to take us. Ignorance

820
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: is on the way. Sorry, thank you, nephew. Coming up

821
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Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters, subject smother Lover, smother Lover. We'll get

822
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

823
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

824
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: dot com. We need those juicy letters. Come on now

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Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry letter and we could be reading your

828
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Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read

829
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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. It could be yours.

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00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,919
Speaker 1: You never know, you never know. Buckle up and hold

831
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is

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Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject smother lover.

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00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty nine year old woman

834
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: dating a forty five year old man. We met a

835
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: year ago and things started off fantastic and moved quickly.

836
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: He is a very sensitive and emotional man who has

837
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: no difficulty expressing his every emotion to me. After dating

838
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: men that play games and aren't serious about settling down

839
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: with one woman, my boyfriend's openness was refreshing, but now

840
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: it's proving to be way too much. He has started

841
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 1: to complain about me being too busy for him since

842
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm back at work full time. Now. I got home

843
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 1: and need a few minutes to chill and relax, but

844
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: he's in my driveway every day this week when I

845
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: get home. He wants to be right up under me

846
00:54:56,160 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 1: every week, right every week night, and keeps telling me

847
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: that he's afraid we're growing apart. He told me that

848
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: he loved me he loved when we were quarantined together

849
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: because we were inseparable. I liked it too, because we

850
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: were getting to know each other. Then he started bringing

851
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: his work clothes to my house and says it's too

852
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: cold to go home every night and he'd rather cuddle

853
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: with me. This man loves to cuddle, wine and make

854
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: love to me whenever we're together. I told him he's

855
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: smothering me with his actions and smothering me in the

856
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: bed nightly. I have to roll him off of me.

857
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: He says he can't sleep unless he's touching some part

858
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: of my body. Recently, I had a conversation about taking

859
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: a break or dialing it back a little bit because

860
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: he couldn't process. But he couldn't process a conversation without

861
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 1: crying and telling me that he can't live without me.

862
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: I love this type of attention and all of the affection,

863
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: but I'm afraid of falling too deeply for him because

864
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,399
Speaker 1: he may have emotional issues. How do I handle this

865
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: relationship emotional issues? I don't know. Something might be a

866
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: little off here. I mean, I'm sure get off of

867
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: me has probably crossed your mind, and you've said it

868
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: a few times, because you know while you're with him,

869
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 1: because all the stuff here says you say he's doing

870
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 1: it is a little smothering and suffocating if he's in

871
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: the driveway when you get home and all of that.

872
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 1: But you also say that you moved quickly. Now, these

873
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: are the type of red flags that slip by when

874
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: you move too quickly. And I think there's definitely something

875
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: going on with him because he is too much and

876
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: he has too much time on his hands. Why is

877
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: he sitting in your driveway before you can even get

878
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: home from work? Where does he work? I mean? And

879
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: why is he crying and whining when you tell him

880
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: that you need to dial it back and take a break.

881
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 1: These are the things that attracted you to him before

882
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: you've been dating for a year, which is a good

883
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: amount of time. But I think there is something a

884
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:06,359
Speaker 1: little off saying he can't live without you. He's not

885
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: being able to sleep without touching any part of your

886
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,439
Speaker 1: body and making your body go numb. And this we're

887
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 1: not talking numb in a good way from your perspective.

888
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: And I will say this, Yes women do like to cuddle. Yes,

889
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: we do love the affections and attention of a man,

890
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: and all of that we like to bask in all

891
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: of that glow. But it does sound like he's being

892
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: a bit too needy and overbearing. So I just say

893
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: it's time to reassess your relationship and maybe set some

894
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: new boundaries. Steve, I'm about to do the letter now.

895
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: I want to forewarn all sensitive or caring people. My

896
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: response is not for you. I would like to put

897
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: a disclaimer on my response. Again, if you are a

898
00:57:54,920 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: sensitive or caring person, my response, you're not ain't to like.

899
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: Let's go okay then, Stephen Sherley, I'm a thirty nine

900
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: year old woman. I'm dating a forty five year old man.

901
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: We met a year ago and things started off fantastic

902
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 1: and moved quickly. He is a very sensitive and emotional man.

903
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: Now let's stop right here. He is a very sensitive

904
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 1: and emotional man. Ladies, listen to me. That in a

905
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: man is a dangerous combination. The combination is dangerous. Now,

906
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: you can be one or the other, but you can't

907
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: be both. You can be a sensitive man or you

908
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: can be an emotional man, but you can't be both

909
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: because now you are invading on a woman's right to

910
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: be either. Because if you both of them, all the

911
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: damn time, When does she get to be either one

912
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: of those? If you have a man that's emotional and sensitive,

913
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 1: that's a dangerous combination. And the letter will start telling

914
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: it immediately. Who has no difficulty expressing every emotion to me?

915
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 1: Who do that? And after dating me in the play games?

916
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: It ain't serious about settling down with one woman. My

917
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend's openness was refreshing, ya. I bet it was at first,

918
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: but soon as she say that in the letter, but

919
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: now it's proving to be way too much. Why because

920
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: surely it's a dangerous combination. You can't have a man

921
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: that's sensitive and emotional. It's too much, because even a

922
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 1: woman don't want that in a man. Oh he's so sensitive.

923
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: Oh he's emotional. Vote he about to drive my ass crazy.

924
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: You'll see we come back. I got it from all right.

925
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have part two of Steve's response to

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01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Strawberry Letters. Subject for

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01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: today's smother lover will get back into it right after this.

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01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's

929
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter the subject's mother lover. All right,

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01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: this thirty nine year old woman is dating a man

931
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: who's forty five. He's very sensitive and emotional. Now, I

932
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: said on the break before, that's a dangerous combination. Ladies,

933
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: a man can be one or the other, but he

934
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: cannot be both. Surely asked me why. I said, because

935
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 1: it invades on a woman's space to be either. Because

936
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: a woman, Kate, when does she get to be emotional

937
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: or sensitive if your man is already that all the time.

938
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: She said that her openness, He said, her openness was

939
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: refreshing at first, but now it's gotten to beat the

940
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: way too much. See, So now let's get into the letter.

941
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: He started tould complain about being meat, being too busy

942
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: for him out back work full time. I get home

943
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 1: and I need a few minutes to chill and relax.

944
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: But he's been in my driveway every day this week

945
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: when I get home. Oh lord, he in the driveway.

946
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm talking, as soon as you get home. You can't chill,

947
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 1: you can't have your own thoughts, you want to decompress.

948
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: You've been at work. So now he's stalking, and he sprung.

949
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: He wants to be right up under me every night

950
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: and keeps telling me he's afraid we're growing apart. That's

951
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 1: another word. When your man tells you he's afraid, what

952
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: woman wants a scary ass man. I'm afraid he told

953
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: me he loved me when we were quarantine together because

954
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: we were inseparable. Well, everybody was quarantine. Quarantine was very

955
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: revealing though. You either found out you hated a person

956
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: or you really enjoyed the person. But then there's also

957
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: a middle ground. A lot of people said, well, be

958
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 1: nice to get back to work, so we can just

959
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: separate from each other at least grow to miss each other.

960
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: But I still love him and like him. I just

961
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: don't like him as much all the time. You don't

962
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 1: got tired of his ass. He didn't started bringing work

963
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: clothes in your house because he says too cold to

964
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: go home every night. And he rather cuddled with me.

965
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 1: This is another dangerous statement. You got a man that

966
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: loves to cuddle. Now, ladies, I know you think cuddling

967
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: is cute, but not all the time. And watch why

968
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: watch this man loves to cuddle, whine and make love

969
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: to me whenever we together. This is another scary ass combination.

970
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: He liked to cuddle, wine and make love. What kind

971
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: that's making this this okay, so let me try to

972
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 1: work through this here, because I ain't never done that,

973
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: so it's gonna take me a minute. He likes to cuddle,

974
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: wine and make love. All right, here we go, all right,

975
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: now we we now we love it. We're in the

976
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: actual act of loving and in that act you hear

977
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: it this? Now you you want him to handle his business.

978
01:03:56,520 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: But what is your ass crying fault? What is the wine? Now?

979
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: We through making love and we through wineing. Now he coloring,

980
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: But now you gotta come down off that crime. Right

981
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: so now you're coloring, then you hit this head. Okay,

982
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: what is happening week? Okay, well I'm coming down off

983
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: the whineing. I'm breathing home because I was We was

984
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: loving because I'm sensitive and emotional. Do y'all see what

985
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm going with this? Hire love? Yes? And then he

986
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: literally lays on half your body until your limbs fall

987
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: asleep and you got to roll him off of you.

988
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 1: He say he can't sleep unless he touches some part

989
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 1: of my body. Oh so now we talk about this.

990
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: Where therapist come in that? Now? Seeing it ain't no therapist.

991
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: But I'm a judge now, so let me just tell

992
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 1: you what iut and figured out this here letter. See,

993
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: he used to either suck his he had a blanket

994
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: or a teddy bell. He had all this and that

995
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: got burned up in his mama's house fire back in

996
01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: ninety four. All that got burned up, the blanket, the

997
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: teddy bell, and the pacified all they got burned up

998
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,920
Speaker 1: in the house fire. So now he didn't met you.

999
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 1: Now you it you the teddy bell, the blanket, and

1000
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 1: the Pacify. See, and now you told him y'all had

1001
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: a conversation about dialing it back a little bit, and

1002
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: he couldn't process the conversation. So get what he did

1003
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 1: while you started telling, he started crying because he emotional insensitive.

1004
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: And then he told you he can't live without you. Well,

1005
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 1: let's see see once you tell me what you can't do,

1006
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 1: prove it, because you're finding live without me. Now. I

1007
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: love this thing now here where the woman gets conflict.

1008
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: I love this type of attention and all the affection.

1009
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: But I'm afraid of falling too deeply for him because

1010
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 1: he may have emotional issue, may have girl may have

1011
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:24,439
Speaker 1: emotional issues. Your ass is Dayton and Tony o'brown got

1012
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 1: the wonder his ass have emotional issues. You're dating and

1013
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: Tony o'brown without the ball pads. Un Today's Strawberry Letter

1014
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey f Emily Famin Facebook. You're welcome check

1015
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: out Strawberry Letter podcast on demand as well. Coming up

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01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: with forty six minutes after the hour of Sports Talk

1017
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 1: with Junior right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1018
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time now for Junior and

1019
01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got Junior, Charlotte, listen. Um, I'm

1020
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:03,040
Speaker 1: gonna dress this because I'm tired of people coming in

1021
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 1: my dms talking about this Antonio Brown situation and mental illness.

1022
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, Tommy, mental illness is real. We're

1023
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 1: not saying it ain't. It's real. I got it, but

1024
01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: this is straight crazy. So now, Antonio Brown didn't release

1025
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: the song yesterday, Okay. Let me let me tell yeah.

1026
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: Let me tell you it called a pitt, not the Palace.

1027
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 1: Let let me tell you something. He didn't release the song.

1028
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: Let me I understand mental illness. Let me just give

1029
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 1: you some examples of people who got mental illness. The

1030
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:33,439
Speaker 1: lady on the movie Misery gat mental illness. Okay, that's

1031
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: straight crazy. That's mental illness. Norman Bates set up there

1032
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: talking to his mama in that chat, that was just bones.

1033
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: That's mental illness. Hannibal Lecter was wrapped up a whole

1034
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: movie because he eats people. That's mental illness. Taking your

1035
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: shirt off going to a Brooklyn Nets game and releasing

1036
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: the song's straight crazy. That's all that is. You can

1037
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: stop telling me that this is metal. How do you

1038
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: do this? Do you understand you are privileged? This is

1039
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: not this is straight crazy. Dropped the song. He dropped

1040
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: the song, and I'm gonna be honest with you. I

1041
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: heard it. It ain't that damn good. You know why,

1042
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: because you play football. That's why the song. You're not

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01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 1: a rapper. Your ass catch passes. You are saw all

1044
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 1: you got to do, run routes, catch pass This don't

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01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: make it sounds like it to me. They said he

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01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 1: recorded the song at Christmas time, and I don't give

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01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: a damn to wires out two days after you didn't

1048
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:38,879
Speaker 1: take your shirt off in it in New York. Why

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01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 1: you don't think this is playing stupid? I'm just saying,

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01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:46,719
Speaker 1: we know this boy crazy. Hey man, let's play something

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01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: to you. Listen to me, and before I get in

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01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: any trouble with this, let me preface this statement. I

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01:08:55,479 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: don't know enough about mental health to be an expert

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01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 1: on it. I am talking to you as your damn uncle.

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01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: Some of this stuff right here is just stupid. We've

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01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: had people in sports, dude stupid stuff before. Wasn't able

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01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 1: to put mental illness on Dennis Rodman putting on all

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01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: on a wedding dress, Ricky Williams posing on the cover

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01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 1: with a red and dress and quit playing football so

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01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: he could go smoke weed. Metal world Piece changed his

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01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 1: name to Metal world Piece. Dennis Rodman was in the league.

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01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 1: Kyrie Irving, what is that mental illness too? No, No,

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01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:47,679
Speaker 1: Jim McMahon, the stuff he used to do. No, it's

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01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 1: called stupidity, y'all, and quit giving him a free out

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01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: with his mental illness. Though, this boy stupid. That's Arthur

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01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: Steve saying dead. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Tristan Thompson, you are the father of Moraley nichols Son. Okay.

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01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 1: Tristan confirmed the news on his ig stories yesterday with today,

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01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 1: paternity test results reveal that I fathered a child with

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01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:29,040
Speaker 1: Marley Nichols. I take full responsibility for my actions. Tristan

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01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:33,759
Speaker 1: Thompson issued a special apology to Chloe Kardashian. For the record,

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01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: they were still together when he conceived his new baby,

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01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: so he cheated on Chloe, in other words, his second

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01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:44,559
Speaker 1: child again, right, Carla. And then he said, Chloe, you

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01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:48,520
Speaker 1: don't deserve this. You don't deserve the heartache and humiliation

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01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 1: I've caused you. Oh really trying to you know, apologize yo, yo, man, man,

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01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 1: what's wanting to do? He can get it back the

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01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 1: baby hill. No, he has to take publicly. And he's

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01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: publicly apologizing to Chloe, which I think is a decent

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01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 1: thing to do. For the second So what's your loves

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01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: stain't comment about Chilly for the second time. He cheated

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01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 1: on her before and she took him back. What he

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01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: do pattern? Okay, see now that, okay, okay, let's stop

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01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 1: right here. He have a mental illness? No, is he stupid?

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01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 1: He did? Hold up? Hold up, I'm let's make it personal.

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01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 1: Twoy fifteen, when I said the wrong name at Miss Universe,

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01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: did I have a mental illness or what's that's stupid mistake?

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01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: Stupid to ask a mistake. Ain't nobody letting me off

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01:11:57,320 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: the hook with no mental illness? That what happened to

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01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: that bo's sitting my ass up in divorce court twice.

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01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody giving me no pass on mental illness? No,

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01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 1: they were just taking property from my stupid ass. I

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01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: think you're Kanye with the hell is wrong with Kanye

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01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 1: Roved comments? We gotta let that marinate for a second. Yeah,

1097
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 1: got in his No, y'all ain't listening, got in his car,

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01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 1: drove down to t m Z, went on TMZ and said,

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01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:50,919
Speaker 1: that made that comment by slavery. That ain't mental illness,

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01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: as is stupid. I think he both. I think he both.

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01:12:57,000 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 1: I see. But y'all, y'all using this mental illness everybody.

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01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,599
Speaker 1: That's the trump card now and then that's the political

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01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 1: correct thing to do. And now everybody get a pass

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01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 1: now because everybody's every time somebody do something wrong, now

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01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: it's mental illness. That's the new out and new label.

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01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 1: Once again, we're passing out these labels too freely. Let's

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01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 1: get back to calling people stupid when they do stupid stuff. Yeah,

1108
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: sitting up in here with all these ignorant people. That

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01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: damn Terrell Owens what TV crying talking about? That's my

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01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:42,640
Speaker 1: quarterback illness. That's my quarterback man in the cry for

1111
01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 1: you took all your clothes off here in the front

1112
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 1: of your yard doing the workout your as supposed to

1113
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: being practiced. Was that of mental illness? Was we talking about?

1114
01:13:54,120 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 1: This is stupid we got with passing out this illness title, Like,

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01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 1: that's everybody out now this boy didn't had this girl,

1116
01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:12,440
Speaker 1: this got another baby on Chloe. That's a mental illness.

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01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: This stupid. Yeah, sometime this hill. Everybody ain't getting the

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01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 1: mental illness with me? Steve calling it like it is? What? No,

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01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 1: you can't be crazy stupid. You can't be a stupid

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01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 1: person and then say something wrong you mental illness? No,

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01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:38,719
Speaker 1: you're stupid. Seen at the basketball game the day after? What?

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01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,200
Speaker 1: What mental illness? What mental illness? You had to go

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01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 1: buy them tickets? All right? Look, you're stupids of the

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01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twelve minutes after

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01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 1: right after you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 1: see what are you telling with your random nine? Can

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01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: I get tired. Mental illness is real. It's real. I

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01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: understand it. But we can't keep letting everybody use that

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01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: because we're talking about really stupidity now, and stupidity cannot

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01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 1: be confused with mental illness. True, I've a turning up.

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01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 1: Brody got no mental illness. He's stupid. Like I said

1132
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,880
Speaker 1: before we went out, what mental illness caused him to

1133
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: go buy them tickets to the brooklyn Ness basketball game

1134
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: the next day? Now, that was smote damn stupidity, Black people.

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01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:45,440
Speaker 1: We've been known about mental illness our whole life. We

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01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: we have family members. Yes, that is flat out we

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01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:55,360
Speaker 1: we ain't send him nowhere, but we don't let him

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01:15:55,439 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 1: go nowhere because we know don't let him. We ain't

1139
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:06,599
Speaker 1: got to have this food analyzed. I'm telling you right, Nah.

1140
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 1: I had an uncle every day would go out in

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01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 1: his garage and bob for two hours and come home

1142
01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:21,679
Speaker 1: back in the house and watch TV like, what nothing

1143
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:32,840
Speaker 1: going on? Now? We knew some wrong? Two I was

1144
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 1: a barket't walk in the round like, ain't nothing wrong?

1145
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 1: Three minutes after right after this, you're listening, all right, guys,

1146
01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 1: it is time for yet another round of would you

1147
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:53,679
Speaker 1: rather here? We Would you rather is that the thing

1148
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: I guess would if you had to change jobs? Would

1149
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: you rather be an airline pilot or captain of a ship? God,

1150
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 1: that's a hard one. In the air or in the water.

1151
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm scared of the old because I don't want to

1152
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 1: be jobs the water rough man when he get out

1153
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:25,600
Speaker 1: of hand out there and all that, go down with

1154
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: your ship, the captain go down with this ship. No,

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01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:32,840
Speaker 1: I don't, but I don't, Okay, Junior, I'm gonna go

1156
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 1: capting the ship because if I'm in there adding them,

1157
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 1: the passing start the pilot coming out the cockpit start

1158
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 1: acting up a pim. I'm coming out the cockpit. I'm fighting.

1159
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:42,559
Speaker 1: I'm not necessary to let you take over the plan.

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01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 1: I'm pilot. Yeah, I'll be right back. Hold on, I'll

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01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 1: be right back. With what the airlines is? It is

1162
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 1: the spirit mean what I'm doing? Yeah, I gotta know

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01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 1: who I'm flying with it. Let's just say, well, you

1164
01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: know what, I'll probably going and have to take the

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01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 1: captain piet job because at least I know we're gonna land. Yeah,

1166
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 1: flying he is safe, It's just scary. Yeah, okay, all right,

1167
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 1: you'd rather be an airline pilot than captain of a ship.

1168
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, I've been on the boats. You got

1169
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:20,360
Speaker 1: to know a lot, dude, You got to know a

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01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:27,719
Speaker 1: lot though. Yeah, okay, okay, all right, So everybody, junior

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01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 1: airline pilot. Yeah, I'm on the pilot. I'm on them yea.

1172
01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:34,640
Speaker 1: And they're catching COVID on them boats. I wanted I'm

1173
01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 1: gonna be on that, on that plane. Okay, all right,

1174
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Stephen, Tommy pilot's junior ship captain. Okay, all right,

1175
01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: Moving on with his little sick an, would you rather

1176
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 1: like like he need to be somewhere c sick and

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01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 1: don't want him to play? Would you rather be flying

1178
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 1: where you can get to these hospitals every day? About

1179
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 1: bad this week? I ain't letting him slide at all.

1180
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 1: Me and time to set up here and got on

1181
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:13,920
Speaker 1: the plane. You're gonna take your little sick ass on

1182
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 1: the boat now you're in the middle of nowhere. You can't.

1183
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:20,559
Speaker 1: All right, we got time for one more. Would you

1184
01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 1: rather be reincarnated as a singer Luther Vandrus or Marvin Gay?

1185
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:34,320
Speaker 1: Would you rather be reincarnated as Van Dress or Marvin Gay? Luke,

1186
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 1: I'm Luke come back at Marven No doubt you've seen Janice.

1187
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm coming back as Marvin Head, a soul trent dancer too.

1188
01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 1: You know I'm coming back as Marvin Gate. All right,

1189
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: that's what you're rather for today. Coming up our last

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01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 1: break of the day at forty nine minutes after the hour,

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01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 1: We're good. Some inspiring closing remarks from the one and only,

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01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 1: our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening

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01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:11,680
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here

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01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 1: we are our last break of the day. It's been

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01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,559
Speaker 1: a good day, a crazy day, a fun day, man,

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01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 1: girl off the chain. We've had fun today. Yeah, it's

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01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 1: is Thursday. The year doesn't go quite as fast. Yeah

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01:20:29,760 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 1: fast week. Today's Thursday to day Thursday. Yes it is, sir, Yes, sir.

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01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:39,799
Speaker 1: It just means we just work tomorrow on the weekend

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01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,800
Speaker 1: weekend to see it the birthday. Boy, you getting ready

1201
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 1: getting man? That's at this god willing man. I just

1202
01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 1: want to stay here, amen, man making sixty five sixty

1203
01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: five Man, that's I I didn't see it, man, I

1204
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 1: just really really didn't. I was I felt like I

1205
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:11,320
Speaker 1: was so far from it. And it's still not here,

1206
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna need some grace to get there because

1207
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm really really shooting for one hundred and four soul.

1208
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 1: I should have a few more after this forty forty

1209
01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 1: m I don't know. God told me. Okay, I don't know.

1210
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: God put that on my heart. Man, I just said

1211
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:43,040
Speaker 1: one hundred and four all it claim it, yeah about

1212
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:45,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do everything in my power now if he

1213
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,760
Speaker 1: makes another decision along the way. Didn't not not can

1214
01:21:48,840 --> 01:21:53,640
Speaker 1: do about it. But I'm gonna do food wise and

1215
01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,880
Speaker 1: health wise, you know which, which kind of leads to

1216
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:59,200
Speaker 1: my closing remarks because I want to share this through

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01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:03,559
Speaker 1: you all. We didn't do it yesterday. I learned a

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01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 1: new way to pray, and I haven't all I've been

1219
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:10,839
Speaker 1: I've been doing it, but I actually attached a number

1220
01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 1: to it, which really helped me. Like I was always

1221
01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 1: learned that you should be thankful first before you ask

1222
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 1: God for something. But I was watching something and a

1223
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: guy put a number to it. He said, when you pray,

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01:22:25,960 --> 01:22:28,720
Speaker 1: you should pray eighty twenty. And that's kind of like

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01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: how I eat. I eat eighty twenty. That's to to

1226
01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: preserve my life, to give me a healthier lifestyle. Well,

1227
01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 1: if you had a healthier faith life, if you had

1228
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:46,120
Speaker 1: a healthier prayer life, that would be more beneficial than anything.

1229
01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:48,880
Speaker 1: So he put a number eighty twenty to it. And

1230
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 1: what he said was, when you pray, you should spend

1231
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 1: eighty percent of your prayer showing gratitude, being grateful, you know,

1232
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:02,400
Speaker 1: thank you and Him for things. And then the other

1233
01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:08,000
Speaker 1: twenty percent you present of the things that you want

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01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 1: and desire and would like to have and need. And

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01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 1: I found that to be interesting, and I said, Wow,

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01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:18,559
Speaker 1: I normally say thank you before I pray, but I

1237
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 1: really don't put enough time and emphasis on the thank

1238
01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 1: you part. And I started praying different after the holidays,

1239
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 1: right after Christmas, and I started doing it eighty twenty.

1240
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:34,680
Speaker 1: And what I did to help me show more gratitude

1241
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: and to be thankful, I actually pulled out a piece

1242
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 1: of blank piece of paper, printing paper, and I just

1243
01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 1: wrote down everything that I should be grateful for. And

1244
01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:48,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of broad sweeping, but then I

1245
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Speaker 1: try to be a little specific to you know, like

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Speaker 1: I thanked him for my health and waking me up

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Speaker 1: in the mornings, and I didn't thank him for each

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Speaker 1: and every breath I take in, every second of the day.

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Speaker 1: But I went down to people in my life that

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Speaker 1: I was grateful for. I was thanking him for the

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Speaker 1: things he's done for me over the past year, deals

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Speaker 1: and contracts and relationships and health and all of this stuff.

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Speaker 1: And I went down list end up coming up with

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Speaker 1: about probably fifty sixty fifty things that I was thankful for.

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Speaker 1: I really have so much more, but I was just

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Speaker 1: doing broad strokes, maybe forty something like that. And when

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Speaker 1: I pray at my desk in the morning, when I'm

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Speaker 1: doing my morning meditation, I actually pull the paper out

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Speaker 1: so I don't forget anything. And every day that I

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Speaker 1: pull it out, I end up going, oh, wow, this too,

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Speaker 1: and I write a little something else. And then after that,

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Speaker 1: I asked God for the things that I want. But

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Speaker 1: I've learned in asking God for the things I want

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Speaker 1: to also make sure that I'm in line with God's

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Speaker 1: will and his timing, because that really helps me. Man,

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Speaker 1: Because if I'm asking for something, but I'm also saying

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Speaker 1: I also wanted to be in your will and in

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Speaker 1: your timing, it relaxes me and causes me to be

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Speaker 1: less anxious, and it helps me man in waiting and

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Speaker 1: being patient on the things that I'm asking for. But

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Speaker 1: it also fills me with such gratitude because of all

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Speaker 1: the stuff I think him for. The focus is no

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Speaker 1: longer on what I need, but the focus becomes a

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Speaker 1: man of all the goodness he's presented to me. So

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Speaker 1: somebody surely sent me this and it said that thankfulness

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Speaker 1: keeps you linked to me. He's talking about God. Now,

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Speaker 1: thankfulness keeps you linked to me and anchored in the present. Wary,

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Speaker 1: on the other hand, pulls you into the feud where

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Speaker 1: you wonder, into buring places of uncertainty because you don't

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Speaker 1: know what the future holds. So now you're worrying about

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Speaker 1: something you don't even know what can be. However, you

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Speaker 1: can always return to me by whispering, Lord help me man.

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Speaker 1: That's powerful. Y'all listen to me. Worrying about tomorrow does

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Speaker 1: nothing because when he gets he is usually not what

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Speaker 1: you thought it was gonna be anyway, and nor could

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Speaker 1: you do anything about it. And in your mind is

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Speaker 1: not geared to worry about the future. It's the present.

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Speaker 1: Get thankful and get grateful for what you have, and

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Speaker 1: it'll cause you to realize that you are so blessed

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Speaker 1: in so many ways, and whatever else he gives you,

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Speaker 1: it's just icing on the cake. Those are my closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: Hope that helps you this year. It's a new way

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Speaker 1: to pray in twenty twenty two. See y'all tomorrow. God

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